By Lost w/o Love

July 17, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

I’ll have to pass on this one because I seem to know all the places NOT to go to find love…

By Saved 'n Single

July 17, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

Where are all the comments…a girl needs some help…best places to find love in the atl?!?!?…any suggestions..any?

By Johnny Wad

July 17, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

There are many!!! BUT I wouldn’t tell of any to go too because I would not want to be Co#blocked by all the guys that would go then.

By Saved 'n Single

July 17, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

Well that’s selfish!

By smackdown

July 17, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Johnny Wad is referring to his favorite hangout- Blake’s on the park and Wetbar!

By Joe

July 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

I remember finding plenty of love at American Pie. Those were the days.

By thegreat1

July 17, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

M Bar on Peters Street…. all beautiful women all the time…

By Jiga

July 17, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

@Saved ‘n Single , where do u live coz i can help u out.And where is Peters street?

By BlueMoon

July 17, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Almost anyplace is good, you just have to be open to it. Being open to a new person is a much safer bet than looking for one. By the time a person goes through your laundry lists of “must haves”, who’s left?

That being said, bookstores, grocery stores and different types of social clubs has always worked well for me. And by social clubs (hiking, biking, baseball,etc) That way you’re meeting people with the same interests as you.

By VLS

July 17, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

Crazy…but after my divorce I started dating and just wasn’t interested in what was out there…friend of mine thought it would be funny to set me up an account with a Singles Online site…and BINGO! Her joke became a dream come true for me…I met a wonderful man online through that little joke of hers and we have been together for over a year…if I had to do it all over again…I would probably go the same route!

By Notthirdwheel

July 17, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

I say Waffle House, Big Lots, Any thrift Store and Eharnmony.com

By No Peters

July 17, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

Oh please… Peters street has devolved into a hell hole. It’s full of thugs and wannabes and the women border on the sleazy.

By Shirley

July 17, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

Atlantic Station on a fri. or sat. night. or maybe not!!

By No Luck W Love

July 17, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

I agree Lost w/o Love & Saved and Single. Do these places honestly exsist?

By David

July 17, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

You can’t find love. Love has to find you. Clubs, bars and eateries are the worst places to find a good date. Try places that you would normally like so that communication won’t be hampered. Nothing like finding someone who’s attractive and talks about nothing but Gucci, Prada and nails… ohh and how she only dates wealthy guys.

Last but not least, get an idea of what you are not willing to tolerate, and stay away from it. So best place to meet a woman for me would probably be Church, work or through friends.

By Bebe

July 17, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

Hi, I’ve never heard of Peters St. The club scenes here all have cocky men trying to add more women to their harem, I’m looking for someone to hang out with and go from there.

By David

July 17, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

Bebe I’ll call you. Just make sure you have a cute BMW and I’m there lol.

By Nikki

July 17, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

Saved ‘n Single. You might want to try a Christian singles web site. I did and I dont regret it at all. I dont go to clubs or bars. Atlanta scares m as far as dating men, way too many undercover men out here.

By joe

July 17, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

The bars are full of shallow women and dudes who chase them. Everyone’s conditioned to the Game now — it will never be like the Summer of Love as long as people aren’t genuine. Cut the cr@p and look online.

By Bebe

July 17, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

@Joe, there are posers online too you know.

By Engaged

July 17, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this

Online. I met the man I am marrying through Myspace. It’s really a great way to get a broad idea of a person’s interests and values before actually meeting. A filter of sorts. Yeah there are some loonies out there but there’s a lot of us normal folks just looking to find other normal folks somewhere other than at a bar.

By Bebe

July 17, 2007 5:04 PM | Link to this

@David, I have an American car! My number is 678. … ….! LOL

By killer t

July 17, 2007 5:07 PM | Link to this

Well with all the Fat Overweight women in Atlanta, I’d say Baskin Robbins is a pretty good bet if you want to go Hoggn!!!!!!!!!

By Bebe

July 17, 2007 5:11 PM | Link to this

There are a lot of Big & Huskies too, who want this purrfect woman, and they look like trash!

By Prootwadl

July 17, 2007 5:40 PM | Link to this

I don’t normally post here, but this is an interesting topic for me. I met my wife on Yahoo personals several years ago, and we’ll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary this fall. :-)

She and I wrote back and forth for a month (and also called each other on the phone), and when we decided to meet for the first time we just clicked. It was nice to already know a lot about her before we actually met — that gave us a lot to talk about!

By Prootwadl

July 17, 2007 5:42 PM | Link to this

I don’t normally post here, but this is an interesting topic for me. I met my wife on Yahoo personals several years ago, and we’ll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary this fall. :-)

She and I wrote back and forth for a month (and also called each other on the phone), and when we decided to meet for the first time we just clicked. It was nice to already know a lot about her before we actually met — that gave us a lot to talk about!

By Prootwadl

July 17, 2007 5:45 PM | Link to this

Oops! Oops! :-) :-)

By Lost w/o Love

July 17, 2007 6:47 PM | Link to this

I have always hated the bar scene. And I don’t frequent Baskin Robbins. (There are some single not fat women out there!)

I have had no luck with gyms (had dates but no one worthwhile), coffeehouses (get asked out frequently when I’m doing some work remotely), volunteering (I thought I’d meet some interesting men at the Aquarium - only drunk out-of-towners looking for hook-ups). I’ve been asked out while pumping gas (he actually pumped it for me). And at a lot of professional events - however the interesting ones always seem to be married or taken (that’s hands-off to me). I’m not the church type either.

So other suggestions?

By Pointing out the obvious

July 17, 2007 7:11 PM | Link to this

Clermont Lounge!

By dnice

July 17, 2007 7:16 PM | Link to this

wanna find some skanks? there’s this place called skelly’s in buford. hit it up.

By Northeasterner

July 17, 2007 7:18 PM | Link to this

When I was in Atlanta the best that I’d found was a “dating service” called Great Expectations. I don’t know if it’s still around. To me the best thing about it was you could learn a little bit about the person, see what they looked like, and no one was married. Or in a relationship. The only drawback was that you could get literally overwhelmed by the numbers of people registered. Too many suprises in the bar scene, or in most other places. I’d found many times you meet someone interesting only to find out “she has a boyfriend”. I’ve seen way too much of that where someone “has” someone, but they’re still “looking around” and you’re it.

By AttentiveOne

July 17, 2007 9:02 PM | Link to this

eHarmony is a joke. $250.00 for their service. Based on whose diagraphics theirs or yours. Why pay for online when there are free one available now. Plentyoffish is a good one, and if you want one that has alot of features, with compatibility test and test in general try Okcupid.

By iriegandja

July 17, 2007 9:45 PM | Link to this

hiya “bebe” send me mail sweeti!i’ve been waiting 4 u hun!

By iriegandja

July 17, 2007 9:45 PM | Link to this

hiya “bebe” send me mail at iriegandja@lycos.com sweeti!i’ve been waiting 4 u hun!

By Yeahright

July 17, 2007 11:15 PM | Link to this

Northeastner are you serious? Great Expectations is a rip off. If you want to pay 3 grand for nothing then go to this place. Do you work for them? You can get what they provide online for cheap or even free. I went there a couple of years ago. All I got was minus 3 grand in my account and a digusting feeling. I was 25 at teh time hoping to meet a man around my age. What I got was a series of grandfathers trying to meet me. What a waste! Eharmony works too! My friends just got married this year and they are very happy from meeting on Eharmony! Don’t knock it until you try it!Dating just stinks in Atlanta. I would rather be single than date half of them losers….

By al

July 18, 2007 12:29 AM | Link to this

Being in my early 40’s and straight in Atlanta is great. So many beautiful and fun women. Unfortunately, I work in the ME so by the time I find a quality woman I’m on a plane and gone for 5 months. Guess I should look at the airport.

By tony

July 18, 2007 6:21 AM | Link to this

magic city

By The One.

July 18, 2007 7:19 AM | Link to this

Stoncecrest Mall Food Court.

By Roy

July 18, 2007 7:37 AM | Link to this

Hey Lost w/o Love, I am one of the good men out there. Why don’t we exchange pictures and see if we like each other. Any other single women out there, let’s see if we are compatible.

twelversk@yahoo.com

By Hotlanta

July 18, 2007 7:59 AM | Link to this

It doesn’t matter where you meet a man physically if his heart isn’t set on being with you it doesn’t mean a thing. I meet men all of the time. As I started earlier I meet a lot of men while I am out running. Ladies you will be surprised of the phune brothers I have met in South Dekalb. UMP, UMP, UMP. When I was looking for a home I was also researching the kind of men that live in the community. When I saw my male neighbors I said SOLD.I don’t mind rolling hills and trees but I gotta also gotta see a phune neighbor walk his dog from time to time. I feel ya BeBe. I hate running or in the gym and homeboy looks as if he is 5 months pregnant and all up in my face. They want us to look like Halle Barry while they look like Forrest Whitaker. (sorry Forrest)

By Wheelie

July 18, 2007 8:01 AM | Link to this

Hey Joe I think I partied with a friend of yours..

By popcornular

July 18, 2007 8:03 AM | Link to this

Just drive around checking the street corners out. You can usually haggle the price down a bit.

By C J

July 18, 2007 8:22 AM | Link to this

iT’S HARD ENOUGH TO FINE SOMEONE WITH A GOOD CONVERSATION. MORE LESS A PERSON WITH VALUES.I’M WITH THE OTHER PERSON THAT SAID i WOULD RATHER NOT DATE THEN DATE JUST TO BE DATEING.

By Roy

July 18, 2007 8:31 AM | Link to this

I feel the same, it is a waste of time and money to date just to date. So all the good attractive women here that find it hard to find a good attractive man, where do you go?

By cjen

July 18, 2007 8:40 AM | Link to this

the best place to find a mate is at church

By C J

July 18, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

We don’t know were to go. could you tell us? i’m tired of spending my evening alone.

By jj

July 18, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this

I think all the good women stay at home and you never see them except at maybe the grocery store. Works not a bad place either, unless you work at an engineering firm.

By C J

July 18, 2007 8:54 AM | Link to this

Guess where I work? Engineering firm. Go figure.

By David

July 18, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this

Funny to see the myriad of responses and to see how diverse everyone is here. One person is looking for a “phune” brother and would even buy a house just to see some. Another likes to just date, ergo picking women at “magic city”, others are really interested in making a good match, therefore they invest money in services.

I found my wife online and we spoke for 3 1/2 years. We met while both responding to a topic and just kept speaking. She eventually moved near me because her family was relocacting here. Well, we decided to meet and the rest was history. I can’t say that you can rush love. If you do you’ll be a fraction of the person you could be had you waited. My advice is know yourself and don’t compromise until you get married.

Another thing is, like hotlanta says, take care of yourself physically and you’ll be surprised how many men you’ll meet. Not saying you have to be a size 3, however men don’t have testosteron for nothing. I used to meet women in cars while driving, at gas stations, online (worse place for me because I seldom found honesty), grocery stores, clubs, running, parks, events. Where ever I went I met someone if I felt confident. Funny thing was the place that I probably disliked the most, is where I met my wife. Just keep fishing. The right one will come eventually.

By sharon

July 18, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

I’ve met some very nice men at Blockbuster Video or at the grocery store. I don’t do the club scene and would not want a man I met in the club. Another way to meet the opposite sex is at social functions (weddings, church function, sporting events). Please use caution because as someone stated earlier “dating sucks in Atlanta”. There are some psychos out there. You must protect yourself and children (if you have them).

By Roy

July 18, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this

you wanna exchange pictures C J?

By Miss A

July 18, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this

Frankly, I think Atlanta is the absolute worst place for a single person wanting a relationship or marriage to live! I honestly believe that had I lived in another city I would be happily married to a good, straight man! For example, I met a guy a week ago that promised me that he was not married or in a relationship…imagine my surprise when I get an email from his WIFE!!!!!!!

I have tried the online dating scene, but all I met were horny men thinking they could score because they believed that all women online were desparate!

All the good men are already married or in a relationship, and us single women are left with the crumbs and scrubs….

By Roy

July 18, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

Miss A, I am a good man, attractive, and single. I rarely go out since all my friends are married. I am looking for a good woman and not trying to play anybody.

twelversk@yahoo.com

By PAM

July 18, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

I FOUND LOVE AT THE FOOD COURT IN UNDERGROUND ATL WHILE OUT TO LUNCH JUST MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS AND HIS FIRST WORDS WAS ” A BLESSING JUST WALKED INTO YOUR LIFE”. AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER EVERY SINCE.

By DEE

July 18, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

this is a good topic. I think you can meet someone just about anywhere, but alot of the times women & men have certain “expectations” as far as looks, salary requirements,etc… the list goes on & on. I used to be stuck on a guys looks, but i’ve matured & dated many different guys & i felt really silly having passed up dates because of something so shallow as a person’s looks or assuming that he doesnt have a large bank account.. hell, neither do I!! I dont go “looking for love”, but if it should happen to find me, I’m game. By the way, I dont do the club scene anymore, however i do like the jazz lounges & I like to party to old school every now & then.

By Gorilla O

July 18, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

the best place to find love is the WALMART nearest you….trust me!

By joe

July 18, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

I agree that Atlanta is a horrible place to date. Too many posers and shallow people. I also agree that all of the good ones that aren’t taken stay at home. Even in grocery stores the good women don’t even take the time to make eye contact and smile. Too jaded and tired of the game. Guys, we did this to ourselves! Oh, and having a bunch of crazy women out there doesn’t help either.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

@ HOTLANTA you actually based your decision on where you purchased a home on the men that live in the neighborhood…you sound too smart for your own damn good!

By KW

July 18, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this

You can love by the hour or the half hour on Stewart Avenue.

By Roy

July 18, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

I agree with you Joe. I stay at home most of the time other then going to the gym and grocery store. We need some kind of meeting spot for good single folks.

By WhyNot

July 18, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

I go out alot but don’t meet many people. I’ve very social but will not approach a guy to hit on him. BUT, no guys hit on me. I don’t have a huge ego but damn it, I’m cute! I have a lot to offer yet the only guys that approach me are missing teeth or wearing a stained wife beater.

By Jim

July 18, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

Easy—The grocery store or Home Depot or Lowe’s.

By Roy

July 18, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

WhyNot, you may need to start approaching guys then. If you see someone you like, give them a sign. Thats what I look for.

By Mike

July 18, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

For the guys looking for a serious relationship, I’d suggest volunteering. It’s a great thing to do. Usually a good F:M ratio. Whoever you meet will likely have a big heart as that is likely the reason they’re there…. Either that or mandated community service for doing something illegal :-)

By C J

July 18, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Ok, that would be nice

By C J

July 18, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

Has anyone came up with a nice place to meet nice singles yet?

By hot

July 18, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

LAFitness: Only the Hot Survive.

By KW

July 18, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

I found my man in prison. I always know where he is, he is serving life with no parole so he ain’t going to be cheating on me.

By C J

July 18, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Are you still here Roy?

By Dee

July 18, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

ok, here are a few.. Fune Sushi Bar, Vino Libro, LA Fitness in Atlantic Station, practically anywhere in Atlantic Station, Sambuccas, the Blue Room. the scene is hot in Lithonia too, i hit Barnacles up there & the Atlanta Steakhouse, the crowd in Arizona’s was a little too bougie for me

By TRAVIS SMITH aka "Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real"

July 18, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Room @gorilla O you right man WALMART be off the chain!!! You cant even walk through walmart wit ya girl because that will end up being a fight!!!! QUICK TRIP (gas station) aint too bad in the morning either!!

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

@iriegandja, have you now?

By Roy

July 18, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

I am here C J. Email me.

By C J

July 18, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Roy! @ work so I will later.use the twel address?

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

I think I live on the wrong side of town, my Walmart sucks! There isn’t very much “action” as the gas stations in the mornings, and when I do go out I get looks but am never approached. What is that about?

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

@ Roy im not sure if this board is the best place to find a woman. take my advice my brotha, WALMART is where its at!!!

By Roy

July 18, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

C J, yes use that address, Looking forward to it.

By Happily Engaged

July 18, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

STOP!! looking love will find You.

By Happily Engaged

July 18, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

STOP!! looking love will find You.

By Roy

July 18, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Gorilla O aka “Tha Code Cracka”, I hear you, preciate the advice. LOL. I just keep an open mind.

By HappilyDating

July 18, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

A lot of it depends on what you’re looking for. The bar scene is old for many and the numbers of players on the scene both male and female are daunting! But I was looking for a church home and came upon First Baptist Atlanta. The singles ministry has over 200 members and is a great place just to meet friends. I wouldn’t recommend going with the sole purpose of finding a mate, but it’s a great place to find people with similar interests and who knows what can happen next…

By Notthirdwheel

July 18, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Hey Hot which LA Fitness do you go to? The one I go to only has fat and seriously overweight people who look like they are about to pass out! I have given up on ever finding someone. I have just decided to live life as one until I adopt a child and a dog.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

@ BeBe are you that sexy lady i see walking around walmart with the i wish a mothaf*a would approach me look?

By C J

July 18, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

Roy check your email

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

@ BeBe are you that sexy lady i see walking around walmart with the i wish a mothaf*a would approach me look?

By Who wants to know

July 18, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

The best place to look for a mate is OUTSIDE of atlanta. My last 3 relationships have been with people who don’t live here and now I am getting married.

By In the Mean Time?

July 18, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Happily Engaged… I’ve stopped looking for love, but while I’m waiting on love to find - what about a little action? Yes, I’m a woman…

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

@Gorilla O aka “Tha Code Cracka, LOL, I’m not even gonna lie, that could be me. Walmart is one of those places that loses it’s appeal fast, and you just wanna get out!

By richard

July 18, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

Has anybody on here ever found love in church?

By Roy

July 18, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

check your email C J

By TRAVIS SMITH aka "Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real"

July 18, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

Your Right “Gorilla O” this board is the wrong place to find love!!! Most of the men on here agree with what the women are saying just so they can try to hook up with them!!! QOUTE by PLIES ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE ME…Thats some B/S….If thats the case WHY YOU TRYNA IMPRESS A FEMALE!!!

By richard

July 18, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

Has anybody on here ever found love in church?

By long gone

July 18, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

Great Expectations may be a rip off, but it worked for me. I had three good dates, married the third one. That was about 15 years ago.

These services may have a bad reputation, but they save you LOTS of time and grief.

I can’t count the number of times I would meet somebody and OOPS, she’s married, or OOPS, she’s got more emotional baggage than Drew Barrymore and the mental state of Glen Close in ‘Fatal Attraction’ (wabbit stew, anyone? :)

These services work just like a job interview… you can quickly figure out if the person has the right personality, intellligence level, and even marital status you’re looking for.

No, I don’t work for them, or any other service.

By Jakki

July 18, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Interesting. Im starting a dating magazine with real people in atlanta called Atlanta Singles because I havent found one good place to find love since my divorce. Keep your eye out for it. I will feature real ads from real people with their interests.

By Mike Vick

July 18, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

I will find love with my cellmate soon.

By TRAVIS SMITH aka "Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real"

July 18, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

STONE MOUNTAIN PARK!!!! be off the chain with the SUPER SEXY OLDER FEMALES!!! I think I have seen all 15 of my **FUTURE EX WIVE’S”

By Hot

July 18, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Notthirdwheel -

Spring Street and Northlake. I’ve been to most of the ones ITP or “at” the Perimeter and haven’t seen the people you describe. LOL. Which one(s) do you visit?

I agree with Travis on QT as well.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

@ BeBe any suggestions on what i should do the next time i see you in there with that look on your face. should i a)should i just look at you and never approach or b)put on my bullet proof vest, approach you, and hope to escape with minor injuries

By jd

July 18, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

i’m not looking but i started reading the comments and couldn’t stop it was very entertaining. all i want to know is if CJ and Roy are getting together. LOL

By Notthirdwheel

July 18, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

Hey Hot! I visit Cobb Parkway, Camp Creek, SouthLake and sometimes Atlantic Station. I see all fat people in those except for Atlantic Station. The people try and hit on you and can’t even catch their breathe. They have to pull out their inhaler to talk to you. But I can give them props on trying to improve their health though. but don’t come talk to me when you have foam coming out your mouth and hair down to your waist…. (men)

By TRAVIS SMITH aka "Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real"

July 18, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

@Notthirdwheel whats up with the fat people bashing? you dont like the big boned brothers?

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

Travis stone mountain park is where its at. those ‘oldies but goldies’ out there will put a lot of younger women to shame!

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Gorilla O aka “Tha Code Cracka, it’s usually not that bad. I’m in my on world, if you’re brave, just say, “sistah is it that bad?” and you’ll get a smile. :)

By TRAVIS SMITH aka "Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real"

July 18, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

@ “gorilla O” PREACH MY BROTHER I bet they be out there wishing a young brother come holla at them because MR PARKER AINT HITTING THAT RIGHT!!!!!!!!!

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

TRAVIS SMITH aka “Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real I like a proportioned man, w/some meat on his bones.

By TRAVIS SMITH aka "Tha Blogger That Keeps It Real"

July 18, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

@BebeThanks for telling me that!!!! You should see if Gorilla O has some I think he tryna get at you when he see you at WALLY WORLD!!!

By Hot

July 18, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Notthirdwheel

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

@ Bebe ill remember that. im sure ill be a little more creative than that, because i may want a little more than just a smile. and by the way…i am well proportioned with some meat on my bones, just an FYI

Travis you crazy as hell. and yea, MR PARKER AINT HITTIN THAT RIGHT

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

LOL @Travis, people are too hung up on what you weigh, if you’re happy/healthy and proportioned, I say go for it. You’ll miss your soulmate cause s/he wasn’t thin enough.

By dr. g

July 18, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

HANDS DOWN THE BEST PLACE TO FIND QUALITY WOMEN IS AT RARE SOUL TAPAS ON PIEDMNT ON A SATURDAY EVE…I HAVE BEEN 3X WITH MY CO WORKERS AND THIS PLACE IS TEEMING WITH WOMEN!!! THEY SEEM TO ALWAYS HAVE BIRTHDAY PARTIES, AND VARIOUS MINI CELEBRATIONS GOING ON..AND NO MEN!!! MY BEST FRIEND MET HIS NOW FINACE THERE ON A FRIDAY NITE….BUT SAT SEEMS TO HAVE A VERY MATURE VIBE. JUST HANGING OUT AT THE BAR PROVES MY CASE. THIS HAS TURNED INTO THE PLACE OF CHOICE FOR DOCTORS, LAWYERS, AND SMALL BUSINESS OWNERS..REAL ONES..NOT WANNNABEES,,, RARE, PUBLIX AND THE GYM ARE MY FAVS.

By Notthirdwheel

July 18, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

Travis I like fat people. I am fat myself. But I don’t come to the gym trying to spit game where I can’t even hold my head up on the treadmill. I don’t come to the gym with makeup and my best weave on just to come and find my baby daddy. I have nothing against over fat people but I am not trying to get it on with someone who weighs 500lbs either. The love making would be impossible!

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Be back after lunch, take care.

By dr. g

July 18, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

HANDS DOWN THE BEST PLACE TO FIND QUALITY WOMEN IS AT RARE SOUL TAPAS ON PIEDMNT ON A SATURDAY EVE…I HAVE BEEN 3X WITH MY CO WORKERS AND THIS PLACE IS TEEMING WITH SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE!!! THEY SEEM TO ALWAYS HAVE BIRTHDAY PARTIES, AND VARIOUS MINI CELEBRATIONS GOING ON..AND NO MEN!!! MY BEST FRIEND MET HIS NOW FINACE THERE ON A FRIDAY NITE….BUT SAT SEEMS TO HAVE A VERY MATURE VIBE. JUST HANGING OUT AT THE BAR PROVES MY CASE. THIS HAS TURNED INTO THE PLACE OF CHOICE FOR DOCTORS, LAWYERS, AND SMALL BUSINESS OWNERS..REAL ONES..NOT WANNNABEES,,, RARE, PUBLIX AND THE GYM ARE MY FAVS.

By Freddy

July 18, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

No need to look anymore for me - I found my love working in the Home Depot Accounting Dept.

By Freddy

July 18, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

No need to look anymore for me - I found my love working in the Home Depot Accounting Dept.

By Freddy

July 18, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

No need to look anymore for me - I found my love working in the Home Depot Accounting Dept.

By Freddy

July 18, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

No need to look anymore for me - I found my love working in the Home Depot Accounting Dept.

By Freddy C

July 18, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

No need to look anymore for me - I found my love working in the HD Accounting Dept.

By Veggie Squeezer

July 18, 2007 1:20 PM | Link to this

The Pick Up Publix in the Vinings, it’s like a mating dance set inside a supermarket.

By Bebe

July 18, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

@Dr. G, I was at Rare Friday night. The crowd was decent, but the service!! Oh, the service was horrible, I’ve had issues with extra charges on my card from Friday night. It’s small and quaint, good vibe but I don’t think I’ll be back.

By Michael

July 18, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

I think the best place to meet a new woman is at the SPCA… Bring your Golden Retriever and I’ll teach it some trix… nowhuti’msayn’

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 18, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

@ Bebe you dont have to worry about extra charges on your card at walmart

By Funky Fingers

July 18, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

I can’t find a decent women anywhere……

By eye roll

July 18, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

Funky Fingers….try church for a decent woman

By Cleavon Little

July 18, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

” Where’s all the white women at?”

By Funky Fingers

July 18, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

yeah but I really don’t feel comfortable trying to meet women in church..lol…but I guess they’re there for a reason. I don’t want to be horny guy in church trying to get with all the women..

By JJones

July 18, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

If you really want to meet a mate, the first you need to do is love yourself. No one is going to want to be with you if you don’t like yourself to begin with.

Second thing is you need to have an interest, or two, or three, and become involved in things that involve other people.

Once you have that in place the rest will happen, but it’s not an instant thing. There is no majic bullet, no wonder website, no sure fire formulia. Just be yourself, and if you like your self and are confident about it, it will show.

Now that is what’s attractive. It’s often about attraction and not always about promotion, although you’ll need to help out with a bit of that as well.

By Shortcake

July 18, 2007 5:23 PM | Link to this

Without a doubt…The Double Tree on Windy Hill Rd. Wednesday evenings. If you’re looking to meet mature 30 and up women try there. My friends and I are always complaining that there’s nothing but women there but the appetizers are free. We need men to come hang out to make it more interesting.

By Joey Mills

July 18, 2007 5:24 PM | Link to this

I heard that FLEX is a great place to meet guys.

By MKATLNATIVE

July 18, 2007 9:30 PM | Link to this

GROCERY STORES-LADIES WILL ASSIST U ON COOKING ALSO!..MSA..DROP ME A NOTE-I CAN CHANGE YOUR MIND..PHILLIPKEENEY2001@YAHOO.COM~~~E

By MKATLNATIVE

July 18, 2007 9:31 PM | Link to this

GROCERY STORES-LADIES WILL ASSIST U ON COOKING ALSO!..MSA..DROP ME A NOTE-I CAN CHANGE YOUR MIND..PHILLIPKEENEY2001@YAHOO.COM~~~E

By MKATLNATIVE

July 18, 2007 9:35 PM | Link to this

HELLO MSA..DROP ME A NOTE-I CAN PROVE YOU WRONG*GROCERY STORES ARE PRETTY GOOD..PHILLIPKEENEY2001@YAHOO.COM

By MKATLNATIVE

July 18, 2007 9:40 PM | Link to this

MISS A..CHILL A LITTLE DONT LUMP US ALL INTO THAT WITH BROAD BRUSH—LOL..DROP ME A NOTE—PHILLIPKEENEY2001@YAHOO.COM~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

By Lucky

July 19, 2007 8:34 AM | Link to this

women Church, Home Depot or Lowes, hardware stores and the gym are good places to see/meet men.

Men Church, nail salon (get your hands done) gym, cultural functions like Martinis & Imax, High museum, the mall. You have to go where the oppostites interests are.

By PM

July 19, 2007 8:40 AM | Link to this

I moved to Atlanta in May. I’ve never run across so many players out for one thing in my life. That said, I did meet one nice guy on match and have made several friends through myspace.

By PM

July 19, 2007 8:41 AM | Link to this

I moved to Atlanta in May. I’ve never run across so many players out for one thing in my life. That said, I did meet one nice guy on match and have made several friends through myspace.

By Tiki

July 19, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

The only men at church are either married or gay! The online thing is crazy…it takes too much time to filter out the crazies or the ones that are just on there for entertainment. Plus, there is nothing like the look across the room and the butterflys in the stomach. That’s the whole majic of dating! And who says that everyone guy you meet and have a drink with has to be husband material? Loosen up and stop feeling so desperate. We’re outnumbered girls (especially us black women!) so muster up the courage to realize that it just aint gonna happen for some of us, and start working on SELF!

By TIP

July 19, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

YA’LL TRY PLAY DATE?

By MariettaMan

July 19, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

Unfortunately Atlanta is not a good “singles town.” I have lived in Miami, San Fransico & Washington D.C. and these cities have much more to offer the 30+ singles crowd. Atlanta is geared to a much younger clientel. I remember the old “Otto’s” in Buckhead when people dressed up and there was a great mix of age, race and wealth. Since it’s demise, I don’t know a single place to meet attractive women anymore. The gym has a major disadvantage in that if you meet and go out with someone and it doesn’t work out- It can be awkward running into that person again.

Good luck to all and I hope the situation improves!

By Pat Robertson

July 19, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

…wait, excuse me, but “church”?…what kind of loser are you looking for?? Church? Does intelligence matter? Church?? in Atlanta? Church?? What a waste of time…think about it- do you really want to meet someone who lives in a fairy-tale land called….church…..the word even looks ridiculous when spelled…. c-h-u-r-c-h….sorta like b-u-l-l-s-h-*-t….get it?

By starryeyed1

July 19, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Stay away from the church guys…..they have issues and are usually players!!!!!