Misadventures in Atlanta

By Pepper Sauce

October 6, 2006 08:29 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday This is a real friday topic, and yes i can truly say i do have a type and my type is a BMW - BLACK MAN WORKING I refuse to deal with someone who’s unemployed there are too many jobs out here for people not to have one that actually “want one” BK let me explain what i said to LahLah about her ticket, yes the officer could have easily just asked her to move and given her a “warning” instead of a ticket but y’all know how some of these officers can be. I’ll be in lurkesville today i.e. court half of the day you all have a great friday and i’ll try to pop in before i leave. Aight - PEACE! Hey Musing

By Prince Charming

October 6, 2006 08:55 AM | Link to this

Laney, you have what I call “classic female drama”. The fantasy guy that you think is perfect for you is the wrong guy for you. Not sure how long you have been single, etc. but I always urge my female friends and relatives that it can’t be every guy you go out with, the only thing they have in common is you. Not to put the blame on anyone, but you need to examine why you make the choices you do. There is an old saying that goes something like “if you always do what you’ve always done you’ll always be where you’ve already been”

This used to happen to me but I realized who I was choosing early on and figured out that type does not work for me. Guys don’t usually like a lot of drama, so when it comes around, it is easy for us to step. At this point the type of woman I like and date are pretty much the same, but there was a time when it was two totally different people.

I know I have a “type” and for me it is a classy, elegant, intelligent, mature, beautiful, girly-type woman. I used to date the hoochies and that used to be my attraction. You know video type girls, clothes short and tight when you go to the super market, cheap weave, crazy long nails with a funky design, lots of jewelry, more than likely a tattoo, Speak with a lot of street slang, but still intelligent, etc.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 09:03 AM | Link to this

Is this the guy with the stank apartment???

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 09:06 AM | Link to this

What up Blog

Pepper Thanks for the clarification.

Now opening gate to the Lurkesville Club House. Bar opens at 10…

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 09:12 AM | Link to this

Y’all are crazy. I guess I never really had a ‘type’ per se. I’ve dated light skinned, dark skinned, big football playing guys, medium build, to now…high yellow and slender. I think the most common thread for me has been that mostly all of my boyfriends have been musicians (singing or playing…mostly playing musicians) But that’s because I’m a singer so therefore, that’s the atmosphere I’m always involved in. So of course I’m gonna be attracted to those I’m mostly around anyway. AND they’ve always been ‘church’ guys (with the exception of two), because again, that’s the environment I spent most of my time in. I don’t think I could date someone outside of those two elements because they would never be able to relate and understand my way of thinking and thus, my way of life and I don’t feel there’s anything wrong with that ‘for me’.

Hey, ImAPeach Back to one of yesterday’s topics, when I go to the Dominican place, what is it that I’m asking for specifically (to get the rollerset, blow out roots thingy?) Think I’m gonna make an appt for tomorrow morning.

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 09:21 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

Hey Pepper, Sauces, & T

My type used to be only cutey girls with banging bodies…Now it includes those things with brains attached, and baggage (drama) checked and lost by the airline.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

October 6, 2006 09:24 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

Prince I’m surprised that was your type…..said as if I really know you LOL.

By Laney

October 6, 2006 09:26 AM | Link to this

haha, Peach, no, this is a different guy.

By Raqi

October 6, 2006 09:28 AM | Link to this

I married pretty much within my normal preference of men. Extremely informative, intelligent, fair-skinned (more light beige than yellow), tall, well toned but not overly muscular, well dressed.

By singlemom

October 6, 2006 09:34 AM | Link to this

I’ve always been attracted to the manly muscular GQ kind of guy, until I realized they are very self-centered and usually brain dead. I no longer judge a book by its cover…… Prince Charming love the 8:55 post.

By Cee

October 6, 2006 09:36 AM | Link to this

My window of opportunity is getting smaller, right now every type excluding criminals, liars, or anything negative is my type.

Hi Prince

By Blatino Brutha

October 6, 2006 09:37 AM | Link to this

DON’T CALL IT A COMEBACK!!!

Morning all; been in Orlando all week on biznesss, and lurking, but couldn’t resist comenting on this one.

I’ve ALWAYS had a type: short, thick, spanish girls. Growing up, if you didn’t fit that profile, you needed not apply. I even straight up married my dead on type…… and we know how that worked out. So now, I still have the type, but really any female has the potential to strike my fancy. I still have a weakness for my Latinas, though, so we’ll have to see about this new “open mindedness”.

Have a beautiful day, all.

@NCGirl, Blue_Kolla, Infamous, ImAPeach, Page, and my other peeps, PEACE n LOVE.

By bamainmyheart

October 6, 2006 09:37 AM | Link to this

I’ve been single and dateless for so long, my type is single, straight and sane.
I hear assertive is the new black for girls in the dating world, however I haven’t quite grapsed the concept.

4thLonghaul, no appointment needed at the Dominican salon. However, be stratetic in the times you go, i.e. don’t go on a Saturday morning. Also, you’ll ask for a blowout. Beware, you’ll be hooked.

Great topic.

By abc

October 6, 2006 09:38 AM | Link to this

Laney, perhaps you’re attracted and stimulated by creativity, but simply have more fun and enjoy yourself more with a guy who has a couple bucks. Typically, young artists are broke.

By NCgirlfromATL

October 6, 2006 09:41 AM | Link to this

Prince I have to agree with you. My girlfriends (the single ones) and I are always asking, what is it about me that attracts THAT? The problem is, I haven’t figured out what the it is. My friends think that they know my “type” but they all think it’s pretty and lightskinned. Yet, I have never dated a pretty man, and the only lightskinned guy I ever dated was a guy my mom set me up with…he’s married now…to someone else! lolol!! I rarely even notice pretty men. I loooooove a chocolate man, (like Pepper, a BMW), but knows how to do some stuff! Mow the lawn, wash a car, knows which end of the screwdriver or hammer to use. Has some grease under a fingernail or two…crusty feet! For some reason, my friends all think I like the Metro type, and I must say loudly and clearly, I am NOT INTO METRO MEN! (No offense to you Metro bloggers.)

But, I will concede that perhaps a Metro man is exactly what I need. B/c what I’ve been doing, ain’t been working! (pout) Somebody help a sista out!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 09:41 AM | Link to this

Now digging in archives to find Billy Dee Colt 45 commercial for Raqi

By Bella

October 6, 2006 09:43 AM | Link to this

Yes, I do. I like men that are intellectuals with a terrific sense of humor. What they look like is irrelevant. If you are smart and funny I WILL find you attractive—-period.

Brainy and funny comes in a lot of different packages—and it’s ALL good!

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 09:52 AM | Link to this

Slam!!!

That was a depressing @ZZ trip!!

pookie’n’dem found info before the cops…MDP has 24hrs to act on that information given to them

Now pouring myself 151 poof whatever to ease my mind.

Oh yeah, thanks for your prayers

Morning Peep

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 09:54 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog…

By danielle

October 6, 2006 09:56 AM | Link to this

The two that I’ve had long-term commitments with (1 white and the other black) have both been over 6’, athletically built, good stable jobs (engineer and attorney) and a sense of humor (very important).

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this

Hey 4th… what it do?! I think you should ask for Wendy, but you may have to wait. If you don’t want to wait, just put your name on the list and they will give you whoever is available. Just tell her you want to be set w/ rollers & blow out your roots. You’ll see pretty much everybody gets the same thing. I like to let them do that then wrap it and I leave with it wrapped…. are you going to Jimmy Carter or Windy Hill?

On topic: I have a prefernce, but I don’t really stick to it. If a guy is attractive to me, thats good enough. If i don’t talk to a guy, its more about what was not attractive about him. Like, im really not into jacked up teeth… ewww!!! However, i think gaps are soooo cute

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 10:02 AM | Link to this

NCgirlfromATL I am hurt!! said while removing $300 dollar tie…I got dress up for nothing

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:03 AM | Link to this

Good Morning ALL

I have a “type”, I about 6’3 so I always used to go for tall dark women who were somewhere btween the 6-10 size, but I was younger and more superficial then. Now I go for girl whose personality is beautiful too. No particular shade or ethnicity, more like somebody who has got their shyt together. Independent, and strong, but knows how to balance herself at home and work. What I mean is, LEAVE THAT INDEPENDENT CRAP AT WORK, YOU DON’T HAVE TO PROVE ANYTHING AT HOME, I ALREADY KNOW YOU’RE A STRONG WOMAN, SO AT HOME JUST BE MY WOMAN, I RESPECT YOU…Now what time will dinner be ready

LADIES, I guess the Best of Both Worlds is a lot to ask for? Or is it?

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday All!!!!!

Sex Appeal!!! Sexy (which we all know is not something you do, just something you have), nice body, good sense of humor, thoughtful, fun, and definitely EMPLOYED!!!! And did I say SEXY!!!!!lol

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:13 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404

Like, im really not into jacked up teeth… ewww!!! However, i think gaps are soooo cute

Smilin at ya…

By Raqi

October 6, 2006 10:14 AM | Link to this

LOL Blue Billy Dee is so not my type. eeww

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 10:17 AM | Link to this

Morning folk.

The man is trying to make me work today but I said naw!!

Laney I have to co-sign Prince’s post on this topic. We’ve already talked about how a lot of women live in a fantasy world, want to be swept off their feet by a knight in shining armor, some like the bad boys, dope boys, the ballas, want to be on the scene, want the extravagant man who has all the extras, etc. But fantasy and reality are completely different. Most of the time the fantasy can make a woman feel good temporarily but that’s why they are fantasies, because they don’t last. The reality of it is you can fall in love with a fantasy, but it’s not tangible, you’re not falling in love with that person, just that idea. But you can fall in love with a good man and have a family with him and grow old together, and that is probably why you end up with the other type of guy.

Here’s the kicker, deep down we all know what we want. We might not want to admit it or be ready to accept it just yet but we all know. Sometimes we fight it and chase the fantasies and it’s cool for a while but reality always sets in and your heart knows that is not what is gonna keep you happy for the long hall. So you might chase a certain type while you go through the fantasy stage but you will usually end up with what your heart wants deep down and what will truly keep you happy.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:19 AM | Link to this

NC im with you 100% on the guy who knows how to do stuff. It’s something so attractive about a man how is handy. I just love it! I also have this thing with guys who drive trucks… like FedEx, Pepsi, or any other type of delivery truck. Weird…

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 10:23 AM | Link to this

A redbone/bronze tone, a size 6 or 8, 5’4” cutie with that Halle Berry hair cut has been my type for years. Apparently, I’m not their type b/c I can never keep them around. Hoochie’s have always been around too, but we seem to part ways due to intellectual differences. Generally, if she has curves, and not just one round curve, I can work with it.

I remember dating someone outside of my norm…….a big girl. She was 5’9” and about 225lbs. She was a very pretty girl, redbone, intelligent, she had everything going on except her weight. We went on a couple of dates, but I had no inclination to…..how can I put this…..have that special moment to lay her head down on my pillow. I tried to look past the “issue”, but how can you look past 230lbs? Guaranteed, if she was around 140-150lbs., I could work with it. However, so could a lot of other dudes and her selection of dates would be greater. But that’s a topic for another day.

By Laney

October 6, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this

so, runnin and Prince, do I get points for realizing that my fantasy world is only a fantasy and dating guys who don’t fit that fantasy in the “real world”?

By singlemom

October 6, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this

Something about a man in a uniform, service man, cop, fireman, etc. just gets me…….and a man who knows his way around a kitchen, and takes care of responsibilities.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:31 AM | Link to this

Runnin

Man, snap out of it….Sensitive side in full view..LOL

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:36 AM | Link to this

@Ghost

I tried to look past the “issue”, but how can you look past 230lbs?…LOL

Where do I put my signature?

Before they start bashing you about the weight deal…I feel ya homie…I’m the same way!!

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 10:37 AM | Link to this

Ghost, Page is gonna skin you A-live, LOL

I feel you, I work out 3-4 days a week, sooooooo plus sizes just ain’t gonna do! Thick wit, Yes! Plus wit it, nah to the…nonononononononoooooo

By QC

October 6, 2006 10:37 AM | Link to this

Morning, love a man with a sense of humor, great personality, and the love of God…i pretty much get along with everyone, i’m back to the grind i’ll check back later on today. Have a fantastic friday…

Hello Gyrl Power Hey Musing

Hi BK ;)

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 10:38 AM | Link to this

Hey bamainmyheart & ImAPeach GAL!!!! I have an appt right after work today! Woo hoo! So excited! Going to the on Windy Hill. For my Cobbites, I’ll let y’all know how it goes down. They’re located (if coming from the Cobb Pkwy end of Windy Hill, RIGHT before getting to S. Cobb Dr.) So we’ll see how it goes and ImA, Elsee is doing it. So I’ll give y’all my First Hand Account on Monday. Please Lord Jesus….anoint their hands Lord so they don’t jack my hair up, or else, I’ll wind up in jail and not able to blog my girls on Monday to let them know how it do!..in Jesus Name, Amen…. wink, wink!

By QC

October 6, 2006 10:41 AM | Link to this

What’s up Alvin is Demi joining us today? I hope he’s doing better :)

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:45 AM | Link to this

Jake… do you have the straight pearly whites, or a gap??? :)

stop lying runnin you know we only do real work one day a week at Bell…… and, to discredit your “fantasy” theory, after 25, most women loose that fantasy idea and become more realistic about our options.

waving at Blatino…

By Cee

October 6, 2006 10:45 AM | Link to this

@ Ghost if you was that into her, could you have encouraged her to lose some weight?

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 10:47 AM | Link to this

Hey y’all. Apologizing for the length of this post but somebody just emailed me this and I thought it was HILARIOUS and had to share with my blog family!!!! Didn’t know how else to send it to y’all. So here goes!!! [disclaimer======>Men, I didn’t write this. Just thought it was funny as hayo!]

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By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:53 AM | Link to this

if she was around 140-150lbs., I could work with it. However, so could a lot of other dudes and her selection of dates would be greater. But that’s a topic for another day

Ghost soooo, are you trying to say that just because she was big, she didn’t get a lot of dates? There are a lot of men who like plus size women… don’t think for a min you were doing her a favor or that she was sitting home every night lonely. There is somebody for everybody… even you.

By abc

October 6, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this

Yo mama so fat, she just got it goin on and on and on and on and on.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 10:56 AM | Link to this

Laney Nah boo because you still chasing the fantasy dudes, those are the ones that still do it for you. You are young though, you might grow out of it…lol.

Dayumn Jake why you gotta put me on blast like that bruh??….LOL. Now I gotta go down to the gym and drink some tea with no sugar and do some push ups. I’ll be back and man-up…LOL.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:58 AM | Link to this

Cool 4th… I really hope you like it! I haven’t been to that one, but my co-workes hair looks nice :) Im excited for you gurllll!!!! Joining you in prayer…Amen

By Kelli

October 6, 2006 10:59 AM | Link to this

some of the size kings need to ask themselves if they are hot enough to even be picky

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this

Heeeyyy QC, no sweetie. Demi is in MIa with Pookie’n’dem.

To the Sexy Sauces, how soon can we get a hold of the 911 tape, my Uncle’s death wasn’t right…Thanks in advance!!!

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this

good morning all

I guess that I can say that I have a type.. but it isn’t based on physical appearance… I’ve dated black men of different hues.. heights and builds (though I’ve never dated an overweight man)..

Men who are driven..have good relationships with their immediate family.. passionate.. understanding.. honest.. overall gentlemen that know how to appreciate their women and have no problems showing their care are typically what I go for… I’ve never been interested in the bad boy image of a man because to me that shows that he has yrs before he’ll actually become a man in the true sense of the word…

I think that the deal Laney is that you’re putting men in boxes.. categorizing them by their styles.. artsy preppy… a man (or woman for that manner) can be both with ease.. it’s important to look more for their personality traits than what you see on the external. .or the venue that you’re attending.. I say that because I’ve been placed in boxes before.. however I wear many hats… and the bottom line is how well does this person treat you and how will you treat him?

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:08 AM | Link to this

I’m back with crunk juice in the Ipod, white t and the jeans saggin, pullin cards!

Diva somebody brought up the size issue again, so where are you and abc at?…lol.

Ghost I know you caught this on the sly…”There is somebody for everybody… even you.” Now I know you not gonna let ImAPeach404 get at you like that, right….lol.

ImAPeach404 I work with a bunch of women and we have deadlines so was helping out everyone else but then I said naw! So I’m chillaxin for the rest of the day, like you.

Now playing “Superwoman” by Fabulous & Lil Mo

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 11:10 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Yes Peach the idea is that big, fat, overweight, healthy, or whateva label is the favor this week, are incapable of getting dates because of their size, and that all of these, I am so attractive, fine, low body fat, low to the ground men..are being hounded by them, begging for a minute of their insignficant time or that fat,(insert any other description you have) women are only good for a quick screw(chubby cut buddy), but heaven forbid they be seen in their company.

By NCgirlfromATL

October 6, 2006 11:13 AM | Link to this

Alvin Baby, don’t sweat it! I didn’t say I didn’t want you to be able to dress well. It’s just that you also need to be able to get your hands dirty when necessary!

Blatino Missed you, baby! (pensamiento en las otras vezes cuando fue equivocado para una Cubana!) My Spanish is rusty, so forgive me if my grammar was bad!

A sense of humor, an ability to dance, and smell good, but not be too-much-cologne-wearin’-man are all a must.

Ghost I work out 4-5 days a week, but I’m a plus-sized girl. You guys don’t want us to judge you solely based on looks, so don’t do it to us. With tons of cardio, and weights for at least 1 1/2 hrs each time, I’m in better shape than half the skinny bi*$^es in my gym. Don’t let the thickness fool you!

By Just plain tired

October 6, 2006 11:14 AM | Link to this

@4TheLongHaul Now that is funny. I will cut and paste and share with the office.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:17 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Oh, I’m not done with you yet….lol. “and, to discredit your “fantasy” theory, after 25, most women loose that fantasy idea and become more realistic about our options.“….nah, I’m calling bull on that one. Now I know a few single mom’s around 25 who are ready but that’s because they are single moms. Otherwise, a lot of women are living in fantasy land until about 30…lol.

Now playing, “Money, Cash, Hoes” by Jay Z & DMX

By Thick

October 6, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Bloggers I have dated guys who look totally different from each other from all walks of like. I don’t have a particular “type”. Laney I think it’s about your personality, some things you will attract to yourself and keep and some things you will attract for the moment. I do have to say that what we think we like tends to be just about what we think. On the other hand that special someone is who we compliment and enhance and they in-turn compliment and enhance us, the pair make each separate person better.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 11:20 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404

I got both.. straight pearlies with a G in the middle… Man, I be showing out with them “Earmuffs” on…

Runnin My bad dog, I just wanted to catch you before it went too far…LOL

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 11:25 AM | Link to this

In need or serious entertainment and food…Musing sits infront of the blog sportsbar waiting for its opening…Lemonade in hand and reading a GQ magazine

By Cupcake

October 6, 2006 11:28 AM | Link to this

Ghost sounds like all you wanted to “hit it” even though she was’nt “physically” your type how do you know she was that into U buddy?

By abc

October 6, 2006 11:28 AM | Link to this

Yo mama so fat, she went to the movies and sat next to everyone.

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 11:31 AM | Link to this

Helloooooo everyone! Friday’s always bring drama in the court room; i did’nt realize how many females are stalking Men out here anywho…Hello SJ where’s Musing? I’mma try to catch up on the commets.

By abc

October 6, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this

Yo mama is 36-24-36 and that’s just her leg!

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this

Musing, can always come out here for any type of food & a whole lot of entertainment, i told you we’ll come pick you up in an un-marked car so what’s up?

By Jake

October 6, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this

@Ghost You committed blog suicide, but I’m on the look out today.

Kym/Peach The man just stated an opinion. You can’t force yourself to have an attraction to someone when it is not there. Physical attraction is as important as any other quality of a relationship, people want to downplay it because they don’t want to appear shallow. If you think looks, weight, and height are not important….STOP BULLSKITTEN YOURSELF…Ya’ll actin as if you have never felt somebody was Fine..before you spoke to them.

Reality will be here when ya’ll get back..lol

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this

@Cee….You said a mouthfull. But how many big women are willing to accept that kind of a statement from a guy? I don’t have any problems working out with her or any big girl. However, they have to want to get in shape for themselves, not for me or any guy.

@Peach…Yeah, there are guys around town who dig big girls. I have a buddy who is one of them. That’s his only “type”.

However, I want to propose a big girl challenge. Log how many dates you currently have on average/monthly. Dedicate 5 days out of the week to dieting, 3 days to cardio. At the end of 8 weeks, see if your dating options increase or not. I’ll bet they will. But more importantly, note how much healthier you will feel, and how much healthier you will look (see Celebrity Fit Club).

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this

LOL….so Ghost can’t have a preference? Ya’ll done run ol boy off before I got a chance to even instigate, dang!!…lol. Gotta give him a shout out song then…

Now playing, “No Problem”, by Lil Scrappy….but you don’t want no problem, problem…..lol.

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 11:38 AM | Link to this

abc there you go! lol :)

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this

Off Topic: Is it only me…Do any of the other blog guys wonder what certain co-workers boobs look like?!?!?! LOL…hahahahaha…Or am I just being a “perv”, as my SO puts it…There are some nice sized one around today….Hmmmmmmm (Obviously I’m bored to tears)

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 11:43 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 hey hey young lady…at bell we work 4 days a week, by the fifth day (friday) we are mentally gone!!

that fat,(insert any other description you have) women are only good for a quick screw(chubby cut buddy), but heaven forbid they be seen in their company

True that, true that…

And

some of the size kings need to ask themselves if they are hot enough to even be picky

Nope! *But I’m still fleeing from the PLUSES

NCgirlfromATL Just know that I perform my own car maintances

On the PLUS SIZE thingy…I love doing tricks in bed, after 170lbs…*I ain’t flipping shyt!!! Beside, Imma short dude, that is just too much work…

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I have a physical type that will make me do a double take, but honestly I’ve never dated anyone that is around 6’2”, 215 lbs of muscle, black as night, bald, with a beautiful smile. I did get involved with someone 6’2”, 215 lbs of muscle but he was brown skinned and had a gap in his teeth - until he got braces :) I even had a married friend tell me that she met a single guy but didn’t think to hook me up with him because he wasn’t dark skinned with a bald head! That’s when I had to break it down to her - because while that’s what I enjoy looking at physically I date all types of men.

What attracts me to a man is his ‘swagger’ - does he have some confidence about him. Then he must be able to stimulate my mind. I would date a man that was 5’2” if he was confident and intelligent. Does he cause me to think? Does he make me laugh? Does he find my carefree attitude refreshing? Is he living life to the fullest? Those are some things that attract me to a man.

The physical is great and I couldn’t date a man I couldn’t bare looking at - but if he and I can’t sit in a room with no TV, no music, no outside forces and just enjoy one another’s company simply then I don’t consider him to be a long-term prospect.

As it relates to the weight - personally I don’t blame a man for desiring a woman that is fit. If that is your preference then go for it. But with that - don’t lament that you can’t find a good woman if you are limiting yourself based on the physical. Be evolved enough to admit that you have yet to find a woman that meets your physical qualifications, with a good personality AND that a lot of the crap you’ve put up with women is due to the fact that you’ve limited yourself to those that fit your qualifications. Don’t put that mess on all women.

But if a woman doesn’t spark a ‘rise’ in you, then there is no reason for you to force yourself to be in relationship with her. Just be honest with yourselves and look at the entire picture.

By Reality Check

October 6, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

Laney, you are probably ending up with the business types because in the deepest crevices of your mind, you want the type of security that you know those artsy-fartsy types most likely won’t be able to provide.

If you could find yourself a well-fed (as opposed to a starving) artist, you’d have the cherry on your icecream sundae!

By Prince Charming

October 6, 2006 11:47 AM | Link to this

@ 4tlh, good point, most people who are not in your circles have a difficult time adjusting to it.

@ Deep Dimples, yeah, I had a lot of growing up to do!

@ Singlemom, thanks!

@ NCgirl, wow your friends missed the mark big time. Try the pretty-boy type and see how it goes, remember everyone is an individual so one guy does not classify all that type, it’s got to be something deeper than that. Check out the background also, there has to be more of a common thread.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 11:49 AM | Link to this

@Jake I am well aware of the opinion of some guys about dating and choice but apparently size is used as a jumping board for the funny stuff so tell you what, since we want to spring board off the fat women and talk down about them and call them desperate and actually show offense that they would dare want to date or be seen in the first place I say lets spring board off of all. We can go from the really dark to the really higher yeller still doing paper bag test folks, you know the drill. Or if that doesnt suit you we can do nationality. Lets just take off the political correct gloves and slam everyone. Let see, you mentioned height, that’s one of my favorite as I always get approached by the low to the ground fellows, you know the type ones who are too short to touch the light switch or who have to jump to get stuff out of the cabinets. I always think now what can he possible do for me but sweep under the bed better with the dust mop considering he has a eye level view.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:50 AM | Link to this

abc you are killing me, over there playing psychological warfare with your themed yo mama jokes….lol. For you and Ghost…

Now playing, “Wanna be startin something”, by Micheal Jackson

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this

I wasn’t being sly runnin… smile

Lol @ Kym …low to the ground men… lmao!!! Ole boy said he couldn’t even get to the ‘quick screw’ part because of this “issue” - his issue obviously…

Tell’em NC!!! They kill me, but its whatever. I don’t want anybody who doesn’t want me. Yes, im a full figured girl, and I find that not every guy is attracted to me, but there are dudes that try and talk to me. Frequently really. But thats because 1. I have a nice personality 2. Im not ugly 3. I keep my appearance up and im not sloppy 4. Im funny. And once a dude gets to know me, if I wasn’t his type, physically, usually my other attributes tend to stand out and the attraction is more than body type. I know im not for everybody, but the ones I am for don’t have a problem with my body :)

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 11:53 AM | Link to this

abc…..you r going to get me in trouble. Ok, maybe not, but you are definitely making me LOL!!!!

By Redd

October 6, 2006 11:54 AM | Link to this

Alvin you’re probably just saying that cause you’re a small fry guy but it’s all good

Musing, yes you are bored to tears :-0

By Raqi

October 6, 2006 11:55 AM | Link to this

@Tazzee but if he and I can’t sit in a room with no TV, no music, no outside forces and just enjoy one another’s company

That statement sums it up right there.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

well runnin… I guess I can’t speak for all women. when I say stuff, just apply it to Peach instead of women, I can truely only speak for myself. Thats around the time I grew up and realized that there are more important things than looks. Im 29 now, and I still have a “fantasy” that the perfect guy for ME does exist. The situation im in now is has me feeling like that guy that i’ve been looking for has finally come into my life. But im super cautious, so I’m REAAAAAALY taking this one slow

By Redd

October 6, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

Tazzee You would make a great talk show host you always say the right things at the right time kudos 2 YOU

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

Class 1 How To Fill Up The Ice Cube Trays —- What do you need ice for, you ain’t out cutting no grass.

Class 2 The Toilet Paper Roll —- Does It Change Itself? No we change it too ‘cause ain’t nobody trying to have to walk to the closet with doodoo on their butt to get another roll.

Class 3 Is It Possible To Urinate Using The Technique Of Lifting The Seat and Avoiding The Floor, Walls and Nearby Bathtub? — If you’re finding pee on the seat you must be messing around ‘cause moms taught me to put it up. Where is my dayum phone? What’s that number to “Cheaters” again…?

Class 4 Fundamental Differences Between The Laundry Hamper and The Floor. — Is this a class on trickery?

Class 5 After Dinner Dishes —- Can They Levitate and Fly Into The Kitchen Sink? Got a dishwasher for all that.

Class 6 Loss Of Identity —- Losing The Remote To Your Significant Other. That’s no problem for the secure man. — No problem there, just make sure you’re gone when the game is on.

Class 7 Learning How To Find Things —- Starting With Looking In The Right Places And Not Turning The House Upside Down While Screaming. — The last place that I put my keys IS the right place.

Class 8 Health Watch —- Bringing Her Flowers Is Not Harmful To Your Health. — I just don’t feel like stopping at the store on my way home.

Class 9 Real Men Ask For Directions When Lost Real Life Testimonials. — When are we really lost?!

Class 10 Is It Genetically Impossible To Sit Quietly While She Parallel Parks? — We just don’t like our rimzos scratched up. whoa… whooooa.

Class 11 Learning to Live —- Basic Differences Between Mother and Wife. — No comment - Men know the difference.

Class 12 How to be the Ideal Shopping Companion Relaxation Exercises, Meditation and Breathing Techniques. — May I suggest a small “Man’s Corner” of the store with TV and recliners?

Class 13 How to Fight Cerebral Atrophy —- Remembering Birthdays, Anniversaries and Other Important Dates and Calling When You’re Going To Be Late. — I keep 3 or 4 “Lady gifts” on standby in the back of the closet - just in case…

Class 14 The Stove/Oven —- What It Is and How It Is Used. Live Demonstration. — Sorry slim, we eats too, so most of us can burn in the kitchen. Moms taught us that…

So is that proof of Mastery of Chick Gripes?

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 11:58 AM | Link to this

Give me a man with a British or Australian accent who knows how to iron or use a dry cleaner and I am there!!!!

By Cee

October 6, 2006 11:59 AM | Link to this

@Ghost you sound very familar.

Not knocking you but, seems to me she was doing you a favor by accepting a date from you. And from your own words you can’t keep anyone around.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this

Musing Off Topic: Is it only me…Do any of the other blog guys wonder what certain co-workers boobs look like?!?!?! LOL

You are not alone my brother, and yes you are a perv…I find myself wondering about the size of the areola. Is a quarter, or a half-dollar? Dark brown or matching tone?…LOL

I should be ashamed of myself, but…I’M NOT!!

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

I would date a man that was 5’2” if he was confident and intelligent.

That doesn’t sounds like the Tazzee I know…now putting out a APB on Tazzee…young blogging lady please come back…I think we miss you!!!

And why are the ladies trying to Blog Assassinate this Ghost character? He is just a Ghost in the Machine

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

We got action!

Musing No need to be bored son, we got the ultimate fighting championship right here…lol. I’m firing up the grill now and I got the lawn chairs. I’m sending Demi & Blue to the store for wings(lemon pepper) and red kool-aid. Jake & abc are gonna mix the hunch punch and I’m gonna throw some ribeyes and Nathans on the fire. Kym just took the gloves off and she got back up, it’s on!!….LOL.

Now playing, “Dayumn”, by Youngbloodz and Lil Jon……”don’t start no ish, won’t be no ish“….lol.

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

Musing…….down boy!!!! (said while pulling my top sweater closed)

Alvin….I feel you on the tricks-gotta be able to smack it up, flip it, rub it down!!! But certainly the men who like big women are prepared physically (and mentally) for the extra work.

To the women……..do you ever wonder what the peni$e$ around the office look like? (Ok, I’m letting Musing draw me in, lol)

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 12:08 PM | Link to this

BTW that 6’2” man that was 215 lbs of muscle loved my plus sized body - so there are men out there that do and its not the fugly ones. However I did date a guy that wasn’t really into my type physically but loved me as a person. In the end it didn’t work out and he ended up marrying a Halle Berry type. He tried and it didn’t work. And that is the reason I don’t try to convince any man that isn’t totally into me physically to be with me because of my personality. And if I suspect that a man isn’t satisfied with my physical appearance but he’s trying because of my personality I will definitely get out of that relationship quick, fast and in a hurry.

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this

@running I’m still here bro. I was expecting for “hit dawgs” to holla! LOL! No women have a problem with type/preference when it comes to passing over……hhmmm……short guys. It’s all fair to judge and have a right of preference. Okay, let a guy have a preference of women under a size 12, and he’s being judged as unfair, unsensitive, or anything but positive.

With the big girl I dated in the past, I never said anything about either of us being into one another. I’m sure she was probably dating taller guys and she was giving me a shot too. We both gave each other a shot outside of our “normal type”, and it didn’t work. Who’s to say it won’t work for others? Not me.

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this

@ Ghost are you putting that challenge out to the big men too? because I swear I see more big guys that believe they’re velvet teddybears than a little bit..

but there’s no need to judge someone solely because of their weight..if you aren’t attracted to them than so be it..but to objectify someone just because they’re full figured and say they’re only good to hit is a problem… this is exactly why you have so many women with low self esteem..all of this negativity really has some women believing that’s all they’re good for..

so what happens if you have a daughter and she’s plus sized?

what will you teach her about herself and about her body image??

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this

Runnin Ya boi Ghost got his foot caught in the Blog trap. LMAO

Ghost you’re fighting a nice clean fight champ. Keep up the good work! LOL

Jake The CutMan You’re doing a helluva job, ‘cause Kym cut his azz with the hook.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:14 PM | Link to this

… Man, I be showing out with them “Earmuffs” on… ……trying to interpret Jakes message.

Jake he stated his opinion, thats cool. I can dig it. I was just stating mine too. Everything isn’t for everybody…

Ghost I can appreciate your challenge, but in all honesty, I dont want the guy that wants me when im all skinny, I want the guy who likes me right now. And right now, im not a size 8.

Alvin where are you at Bell?

Tazzee & ladies… speaking of “swagger”… we all know Jay Z is NOT cute, but there is something really sexy about him. Does anyone else agree? Can you think of anyone else who is not cute, but is very sexy or has a swagger about them???

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:14 PM | Link to this

Alvin you’re probably just saying that cause you’re a small fry guy but it’s all good

@*Redd *Yep had I’d been 5’8 or 5’9 some of dem thick wit its and sista big’n’fines would be getting slice’n’dice like ain’t nothing nice.

I have no shame in what I like….No I do not have low self-esteem

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 12:16 PM | Link to this

Jake & Runnin Man, I’m just bringing up a topic that people don’t want to touch, but is very real…It’s not about having sex with anyone in the office…I’m just curious about the office boobs…I’m always taking a peak at the “Rumps & Bumps”…Who’s got it and who doesn’t….

Now looking in SexieOne’s direction

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 12:17 PM | Link to this

Thanks Redd

BlueK - I had to LOL @ this:

No we change it too ‘cause ain’t nobody trying to have to walk to the closet with doodoo on their butt to get another roll.

By Redd

October 6, 2006 12:18 PM | Link to this

Why do men always say they want a women like Halle Berry if she did’nt exist who would they say their Mother get yo head out da tv son and face reality. Use the head on your shoulders to get your “own woman” and not one who would’nt give you the time of day.

I want a lady like Janet Jackson, Halle Berry, Buffy the Body, Beyonce, J-Low> what the hell for???? And do you think she would want yo azz?? hellz to the naw!

have a nice weekend bloggers

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:19 PM | Link to this

Thought of the day

*80% of the ladies on this blog will not get with a “Big Poppa” so, why should they even care about us not getting with a large woman?

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:21 PM | Link to this

Musing & Jake Just step away from the fine co-worker in the tight blouse and stilettos, just step away. Trust me, sensitivity training and those sexual harassment classes are not as fun as I pictured them to be…lol.

LOL @ Blue holding it down as always.

ImAPeach404 Don’t pay me too much attention, on Fridays especially, I’m usually clownin. But I feel you on taking it slow, nothing wrong with that at all. Just make sure you are seeing clearly and can distinguish between fantasy and reality.

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this

unh unh Alvin you got me confused, I’ve never said anything about not dating short men. As a matter of fact I was in a meeting one day and this guy walked in - couldn’t have been more than 5’2” but he was sexy as all get out.

To Ghost’s defense, I don’t think he said his plus sized friend was only good for hitting it. He admitted that he couldn’t imagine hitting it. And I don’t think that’s any worse than me saying I couldn’t imagine kissing a man with a jacked up grill.

By Wonder Woman

October 6, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this

Hello everyone!

I’ve been reading this Blog for several weeks now and I just had to respond…You guys are crazy! I mean really, truly crazy!

;o)

Keep up the good work and have a wonderful weekend!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this

@Ghost I couldnt careless about other preferences..I have a problem when guys talk about dating a big girl(prefered term for today)like he is doing her a favor. It is about attitude, and the idea that because she is big she is desperate. As for Demi and his tricks.. anyone needing to perform that many tricks in bed and feels that a larger woman is too much work might want to look into getting a stunt double because obviously you are over compensating for something.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this

Crim but to objectify someone just because they’re full figured and say they’re only good to hit is a problem… this is exactly why you have so many women with low self esteem..all of this negativity really has some women believing that’s all they’re good for..

Naah slim… you ain’t pinning that blame on anyone except the parents and apparent victim. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Peach404 we all know Jay Z is NOT cute, but there is something really sexy about him.

Now I’m no judge of dudes but I can tell you this, yoll think that dude is all that cuz he’s got some majorly deep azz pockitz. Money definately helps a brother’s swagger. When my pockets are on phat, I’m walking around like I’m 7 feet tall and bulletproof too.

By Foots

October 6, 2006 12:25 PM | Link to this

Do you think you have a “type”?

I don’t really have a “type” that I stick to. There has to be something about a man that draws me in, something I can make a real connection with. It’s a total package type thing, with everything I like in the right proportions in that package. I’ve dated all physical types, all backgrounds, income levels, but the tie that binds is that they all had something unique about the way everything that made them who they are fit together.

runnin I love your 10:17 post. You spoke some truth right there. I think that a lot of folks don’t go after what they really desire because they might not feel worthy of it themselves for whatever reason or may not feel that they can really handle it.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:26 PM | Link to this

To the women……..do you ever wonder what the peni$e$ around the office look like?

HELL NO! EWWW

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:27 PM | Link to this

@Kym

I’m all strapped in and prepared for the “Lethal Injection”, kill me!!

Dayummm baby.. takin it a little out of context aren’t you. I went back to read this series of post and “quick screw” was not introduced by me or GHOST (The real target of this misplaced anger, and his post wasn’t that bad.. lighten up..) I just being real, people like what they like, call it what you want, but I don’t see anybody waitin in line to date Joe the Crackhead..nothing wrong with him, but he has an addiction.. don’t look past him because of that small factor.. Take a breath, cool down, and rejoin the party!…PARTYPOOPER..LOL*

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 12:34 PM | Link to this

i like my females…pretty skin…thick wit it..with azz…c or d cups are nice but are optional…knowing that maintaining a shape like that is hard…i go into knowing its a chance she may gain weight with time..thats why you have to work together to stay attracted to each other. everybody has a preference…and is entitled to it..

By Foots

October 6, 2006 12:34 PM | Link to this

You know what Blue, there was a guy at my school that all of the ladies had a thing for and he was so NOT cute. It was in the way he carried himself, his confidence and his presence in the room, straight sexy alpha male. (and he was an Alpha too) Nobody knew why we liked him, but it was just something about him and we knew nothing about his pockets. Some dudes just have it together. Maybe folks feel like that about Jay-Z. Well….I think he’s ugly, money hasn’t changed that for him, but that’s just me. He does clean up nice in a suit though.

By aggressively witty

October 6, 2006 12:37 PM | Link to this

Lets face it we need to take celebrities outta the equation cause money and constant media attention make EVERYONE look better.

In terms of type I have one type of broad I seem to be attracted to more than anything else and that is a smart broad. I have dated various types in terms of physical appearance but I can say with confidence that I have never dated a damn dolt. Smashed one or 5 but never dated one. That is really my only Type. Cause physically I have dated some odd looking broads and some super fine ones. But they all were smart…oh and in shape. Not skinny mind you, but in shape.

By danielle

October 6, 2006 12:37 PM | Link to this

Crim I swear I see more big guys that believe they’re velvet teddybears than a little bit.. *

^5 - That is HILARIOUS!!!!

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this

Has anyone ever taken a co-workers cold soda from the fridge, but replaced it with a warmer soda of equal value?!?!?!

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:39 PM | Link to this

“As for Demi and his tricks.. anyone needing to perform that many tricks in bed and feels that a larger woman is too much work might want to look into getting a stunt double because obviously you are over compensating for something.“…….LMAO.

Flag, violation, red card, penalty!!! We have a personal foul on #69 Kym for unnecessary roughness, cut block below the belt. 30 minute penalty and Kym cannot post again until after lunch….LOL.

Ghost I see you playboi, do your thing.

Now playing “Touch it(remix), by Busta Rhymes and every-damn-body.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

@Peach

The Gap is a funtional tool when wearing “muffs”

“Earmuffs”=Thighs occassionally keep my ears warm.

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

As for Demi and his tricks.. anyone needing to perform that many tricks in bed and feels that a larger woman is too much work might want to look into getting a stunt double because obviously you are over compensating for something.

Kym nope, I am just a super freak…I love women and I love being creative. From food to unethical thingy I’ve tried them

KYM I am glad you are happy with yourself, but you best to believe. If I was 5’11 - 6’0, I’ll be knocking on your f/k’n door!!

Said in my Sexy Shaft voice F/k wit sexy lady!!!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

Tazzee you on good behavior this week ha? Haven’t seen you tryin’ to throw on a headlock.

Kym stunt double LOL You know I’m gon’ have to use that right?!

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this

Aiight runnin, you just gave me the OK to igg you the rest of the day! I’m going to run with that :) My fren-fren is real cool and understanding. He gets that it might take me a minute to truely believe he is the “real mccoy”. He’s a nice a guy.

Nah BK, it doesn’t have anything to do with his pockets b/c money doesn’t move me. If i would have said ‘Tyrone’ yall (not yoll) wouldn’t have know who I was talking about… so I had to use a celebrity. Most ppl with money will most likely have a better upkeep than someone who is broke.

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this

@ BK One is responsible for their own happiness—as an adult.. I agree.. however… I’ll take it back to high school for a sec.. especially a majority black high school.. (keep in mind I’m not saying this applies to everyone plus sized but it definitely applies to some).. if a girl was full figured in middle/high school I’d argue that she was either getting teased… treated differently.. or immediately placed in friendzone only because of her physical appearance…you know what you guys went for back then.. and that experience transfers into adulthood.. even here on this blog you see guys acting all childish and inappropriate about women..

So what happens? a plus sized woman that was full figured in middle/high school has to reconstruct their esteem level …

And back to my former comment BK whether women want to admit it or not…the way that they’re viewed by men affects their psyche.. if I’m constantly being rejected or not being pursued then it will affect my esteem level regardless of how strong I may think I am.. a person can only take so much…

Unfortunately a person’s physical appearance plays such an important role in how they’re viewed by others… why do you think so many women have their swagger back after getting their hair done. .or wearing a new outfit.. it isn’t only because it feels good to self… I just hope the day comes where the majority of us can reach that level of enlightenment where we will not let anyone take that joy away from us…

& btw.. I wasn’t saying that ghost was referring to “only hitting”… but that is the view of some men..

And as for jayz nothing will make that man attractive physically… remove the clothes..take away the cash and tell me you’re still attracted to him…

By Foots

October 6, 2006 12:43 PM | Link to this

Touch it(remix), by Busta Rhymes and every-dayum-body

You ain’t neva lied!!!

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this

I am also a sucker for a man who plays rugby or soccer. He doesn’t have to look like David Beckham though. Just enjoy the game.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this

@Jake I dont have a problem with any party as long as we are going to treat all the guest with respect,if the intention is to go down the you are too fat to date road then I think it is only fair that we make the playing field level as possible and c