By Pepper Sauce

October 6, 2006 08:29 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday This is a real friday topic, and yes i can truly say i do have a type and my type is a BMW - BLACK MAN WORKING I refuse to deal with someone who’s unemployed there are too many jobs out here for people not to have one that actually “want one” BK let me explain what i said to LahLah about her ticket, yes the officer could have easily just asked her to move and given her a “warning” instead of a ticket but y’all know how some of these officers can be. I’ll be in lurkesville today i.e. court half of the day you all have a great friday and i’ll try to pop in before i leave. Aight - PEACE! Hey Musing

By Prince Charming

October 6, 2006 08:55 AM | Link to this

Laney, you have what I call “classic female drama”. The fantasy guy that you think is perfect for you is the wrong guy for you. Not sure how long you have been single, etc. but I always urge my female friends and relatives that it can’t be every guy you go out with, the only thing they have in common is you. Not to put the blame on anyone, but you need to examine why you make the choices you do. There is an old saying that goes something like “if you always do what you’ve always done you’ll always be where you’ve already been”

This used to happen to me but I realized who I was choosing early on and figured out that type does not work for me. Guys don’t usually like a lot of drama, so when it comes around, it is easy for us to step. At this point the type of woman I like and date are pretty much the same, but there was a time when it was two totally different people.

I know I have a “type” and for me it is a classy, elegant, intelligent, mature, beautiful, girly-type woman. I used to date the hoochies and that used to be my attraction. You know video type girls, clothes short and tight when you go to the super market, cheap weave, crazy long nails with a funky design, lots of jewelry, more than likely a tattoo, Speak with a lot of street slang, but still intelligent, etc.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 09:03 AM | Link to this

Is this the guy with the stank apartment???

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 09:06 AM | Link to this

What up Blog

Pepper Thanks for the clarification.

Now opening gate to the Lurkesville Club House. Bar opens at 10…

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 09:12 AM | Link to this

Y’all are crazy. I guess I never really had a ‘type’ per se. I’ve dated light skinned, dark skinned, big football playing guys, medium build, to now…high yellow and slender. I think the most common thread for me has been that mostly all of my boyfriends have been musicians (singing or playing…mostly playing musicians) But that’s because I’m a singer so therefore, that’s the atmosphere I’m always involved in. So of course I’m gonna be attracted to those I’m mostly around anyway. AND they’ve always been ‘church’ guys (with the exception of two), because again, that’s the environment I spent most of my time in. I don’t think I could date someone outside of those two elements because they would never be able to relate and understand my way of thinking and thus, my way of life and I don’t feel there’s anything wrong with that ‘for me’.

Hey, ImAPeach Back to one of yesterday’s topics, when I go to the Dominican place, what is it that I’m asking for specifically (to get the rollerset, blow out roots thingy?) Think I’m gonna make an appt for tomorrow morning.

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 09:21 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

Hey Pepper, Sauces, & T

My type used to be only cutey girls with banging bodies…Now it includes those things with brains attached, and baggage (drama) checked and lost by the airline.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

October 6, 2006 09:24 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

Prince I’m surprised that was your type…..said as if I really know you LOL.

By Laney

October 6, 2006 09:26 AM | Link to this

haha, Peach, no, this is a different guy.

By Raqi

October 6, 2006 09:28 AM | Link to this

I married pretty much within my normal preference of men. Extremely informative, intelligent, fair-skinned (more light beige than yellow), tall, well toned but not overly muscular, well dressed.

By singlemom

October 6, 2006 09:34 AM | Link to this

I’ve always been attracted to the manly muscular GQ kind of guy, until I realized they are very self-centered and usually brain dead. I no longer judge a book by its cover…… Prince Charming love the 8:55 post.

By Cee

October 6, 2006 09:36 AM | Link to this

My window of opportunity is getting smaller, right now every type excluding criminals, liars, or anything negative is my type.

Hi Prince

By Blatino Brutha

October 6, 2006 09:37 AM | Link to this

DON’T CALL IT A COMEBACK!!!

Morning all; been in Orlando all week on biznesss, and lurking, but couldn’t resist comenting on this one.

I’ve ALWAYS had a type: short, thick, spanish girls. Growing up, if you didn’t fit that profile, you needed not apply. I even straight up married my dead on type…… and we know how that worked out. So now, I still have the type, but really any female has the potential to strike my fancy. I still have a weakness for my Latinas, though, so we’ll have to see about this new “open mindedness”.

Have a beautiful day, all.

@NCGirl, Blue_Kolla, Infamous, ImAPeach, Page, and my other peeps, PEACE n LOVE.

By bamainmyheart

October 6, 2006 09:37 AM | Link to this

I’ve been single and dateless for so long, my type is single, straight and sane.
I hear assertive is the new black for girls in the dating world, however I haven’t quite grapsed the concept.

4thLonghaul, no appointment needed at the Dominican salon. However, be stratetic in the times you go, i.e. don’t go on a Saturday morning. Also, you’ll ask for a blowout. Beware, you’ll be hooked.

Great topic.

By abc

October 6, 2006 09:38 AM | Link to this

Laney, perhaps you’re attracted and stimulated by creativity, but simply have more fun and enjoy yourself more with a guy who has a couple bucks. Typically, young artists are broke.

By NCgirlfromATL

October 6, 2006 09:41 AM | Link to this

Prince I have to agree with you. My girlfriends (the single ones) and I are always asking, what is it about me that attracts THAT? The problem is, I haven’t figured out what the it is. My friends think that they know my “type” but they all think it’s pretty and lightskinned. Yet, I have never dated a pretty man, and the only lightskinned guy I ever dated was a guy my mom set me up with…he’s married now…to someone else! lolol!! I rarely even notice pretty men. I loooooove a chocolate man, (like Pepper, a BMW), but knows how to do some stuff! Mow the lawn, wash a car, knows which end of the screwdriver or hammer to use. Has some grease under a fingernail or two…crusty feet! For some reason, my friends all think I like the Metro type, and I must say loudly and clearly, I am NOT INTO METRO MEN! (No offense to you Metro bloggers.)

But, I will concede that perhaps a Metro man is exactly what I need. B/c what I’ve been doing, ain’t been working! (pout) Somebody help a sista out!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 09:41 AM | Link to this

Now digging in archives to find Billy Dee Colt 45 commercial for Raqi

By Bella

October 6, 2006 09:43 AM | Link to this

Yes, I do. I like men that are intellectuals with a terrific sense of humor. What they look like is irrelevant. If you are smart and funny I WILL find you attractive—-period.

Brainy and funny comes in a lot of different packages—and it’s ALL good!

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 09:52 AM | Link to this

Slam!!!

That was a depressing @ZZ trip!!

pookie’n’dem found info before the cops…MDP has 24hrs to act on that information given to them

Now pouring myself 151 poof whatever to ease my mind.

Oh yeah, thanks for your prayers

Morning Peep

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 09:54 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog…

By danielle

October 6, 2006 09:56 AM | Link to this

The two that I’ve had long-term commitments with (1 white and the other black) have both been over 6’, athletically built, good stable jobs (engineer and attorney) and a sense of humor (very important).

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this

Hey 4th… what it do?! I think you should ask for Wendy, but you may have to wait. If you don’t want to wait, just put your name on the list and they will give you whoever is available. Just tell her you want to be set w/ rollers & blow out your roots. You’ll see pretty much everybody gets the same thing. I like to let them do that then wrap it and I leave with it wrapped…. are you going to Jimmy Carter or Windy Hill?

On topic: I have a prefernce, but I don’t really stick to it. If a guy is attractive to me, thats good enough. If i don’t talk to a guy, its more about what was not attractive about him. Like, im really not into jacked up teeth… ewww!!! However, i think gaps are soooo cute

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 10:02 AM | Link to this

NCgirlfromATL I am hurt!! said while removing $300 dollar tie…I got dress up for nothing

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:03 AM | Link to this

Good Morning ALL

I have a “type”, I about 6’3 so I always used to go for tall dark women who were somewhere btween the 6-10 size, but I was younger and more superficial then. Now I go for girl whose personality is beautiful too. No particular shade or ethnicity, more like somebody who has got their shyt together. Independent, and strong, but knows how to balance herself at home and work. What I mean is, LEAVE THAT INDEPENDENT CRAP AT WORK, YOU DON’T HAVE TO PROVE ANYTHING AT HOME, I ALREADY KNOW YOU’RE A STRONG WOMAN, SO AT HOME JUST BE MY WOMAN, I RESPECT YOU…Now what time will dinner be ready

LADIES, I guess the Best of Both Worlds is a lot to ask for? Or is it?

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday All!!!!!

Sex Appeal!!! Sexy (which we all know is not something you do, just something you have), nice body, good sense of humor, thoughtful, fun, and definitely EMPLOYED!!!! And did I say SEXY!!!!!lol

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:13 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404

Like, im really not into jacked up teeth… ewww!!! However, i think gaps are soooo cute

Smilin at ya…

By Raqi

October 6, 2006 10:14 AM | Link to this

LOL Blue Billy Dee is so not my type. eeww

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 10:17 AM | Link to this

Morning folk.

The man is trying to make me work today but I said naw!!

Laney I have to co-sign Prince’s post on this topic. We’ve already talked about how a lot of women live in a fantasy world, want to be swept off their feet by a knight in shining armor, some like the bad boys, dope boys, the ballas, want to be on the scene, want the extravagant man who has all the extras, etc. But fantasy and reality are completely different. Most of the time the fantasy can make a woman feel good temporarily but that’s why they are fantasies, because they don’t last. The reality of it is you can fall in love with a fantasy, but it’s not tangible, you’re not falling in love with that person, just that idea. But you can fall in love with a good man and have a family with him and grow old together, and that is probably why you end up with the other type of guy.

Here’s the kicker, deep down we all know what we want. We might not want to admit it or be ready to accept it just yet but we all know. Sometimes we fight it and chase the fantasies and it’s cool for a while but reality always sets in and your heart knows that is not what is gonna keep you happy for the long hall. So you might chase a certain type while you go through the fantasy stage but you will usually end up with what your heart wants deep down and what will truly keep you happy.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:19 AM | Link to this

NC im with you 100% on the guy who knows how to do stuff. It’s something so attractive about a man how is handy. I just love it! I also have this thing with guys who drive trucks… like FedEx, Pepsi, or any other type of delivery truck. Weird…

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 10:23 AM | Link to this

A redbone/bronze tone, a size 6 or 8, 5’4” cutie with that Halle Berry hair cut has been my type for years. Apparently, I’m not their type b/c I can never keep them around. Hoochie’s have always been around too, but we seem to part ways due to intellectual differences. Generally, if she has curves, and not just one round curve, I can work with it.

I remember dating someone outside of my norm…….a big girl. She was 5’9” and about 225lbs. She was a very pretty girl, redbone, intelligent, she had everything going on except her weight. We went on a couple of dates, but I had no inclination to…..how can I put this…..have that special moment to lay her head down on my pillow. I tried to look past the “issue”, but how can you look past 230lbs? Guaranteed, if she was around 140-150lbs., I could work with it. However, so could a lot of other dudes and her selection of dates would be greater. But that’s a topic for another day.

By Laney

October 6, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this

so, runnin and Prince, do I get points for realizing that my fantasy world is only a fantasy and dating guys who don’t fit that fantasy in the “real world”?

By singlemom

October 6, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this

Something about a man in a uniform, service man, cop, fireman, etc. just gets me…….and a man who knows his way around a kitchen, and takes care of responsibilities.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:31 AM | Link to this

Runnin

Man, snap out of it….Sensitive side in full view..LOL

By Jake

October 6, 2006 10:36 AM | Link to this

@Ghost

I tried to look past the “issue”, but how can you look past 230lbs?…LOL

Where do I put my signature?

Before they start bashing you about the weight deal…I feel ya homie…I’m the same way!!

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 10:37 AM | Link to this

Ghost, Page is gonna skin you A-live, LOL

I feel you, I work out 3-4 days a week, sooooooo plus sizes just ain’t gonna do! Thick wit, Yes! Plus wit it, nah to the…nonononononononoooooo

By QC

October 6, 2006 10:37 AM | Link to this

Morning, love a man with a sense of humor, great personality, and the love of God…i pretty much get along with everyone, i’m back to the grind i’ll check back later on today. Have a fantastic friday…

Hello Gyrl Power Hey Musing

Hi BK ;)

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 10:38 AM | Link to this

Hey bamainmyheart & ImAPeach GAL!!!! I have an appt right after work today! Woo hoo! So excited! Going to the on Windy Hill. For my Cobbites, I’ll let y’all know how it goes down. They’re located (if coming from the Cobb Pkwy end of Windy Hill, RIGHT before getting to S. Cobb Dr.) So we’ll see how it goes and ImA, Elsee is doing it. So I’ll give y’all my First Hand Account on Monday. Please Lord Jesus….anoint their hands Lord so they don’t jack my hair up, or else, I’ll wind up in jail and not able to blog my girls on Monday to let them know how it do!..in Jesus Name, Amen…. wink, wink!

By QC

October 6, 2006 10:41 AM | Link to this

What’s up Alvin is Demi joining us today? I hope he’s doing better :)

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:45 AM | Link to this

Jake… do you have the straight pearly whites, or a gap??? :)

stop lying runnin you know we only do real work one day a week at Bell…… and, to discredit your “fantasy” theory, after 25, most women loose that fantasy idea and become more realistic about our options.

waving at Blatino…

By Cee

October 6, 2006 10:45 AM | Link to this

@ Ghost if you was that into her, could you have encouraged her to lose some weight?

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 10:47 AM | Link to this

Hey y’all. Apologizing for the length of this post but somebody just emailed me this and I thought it was HILARIOUS and had to share with my blog family!!!! Didn’t know how else to send it to y’all. So here goes!!! [disclaimer======>Men, I didn’t write this. Just thought it was funny as hayo!]

SUMMER CLASSES FOR MEN AT THE “LEARNING CENTER FOR ADULTS” REGISTRATION MUST BE COMPLETED BY Monday, August 31, 2006**

NOTE: DUE TO THE COMPLEXITY AND DIFFICULTY LEVEL OF THEIR CONTENTS, CLASS SIZES WILL BE LIMITED TO 8 PARTICIPANTS MAXIMUM.

Class 1 How To Fill Up The Ice Cube Trays —- Step by Step, with Slide Presentation. Meets 4 weeks, Monday and Wednesday for 2 hours beginning at 7:00 PM.

Class 2 The Toilet Paper Roll —- Does It Change Itself? Round Table Discussion. Meets 2 weeks, Saturday 12:00for 2 hours.

Class 3 Is It Possible To Urinate Using The Technique Of Lifting The Seat and Avoiding The Floor, Walls and Nearby Bathtub? Group Practice. Meets 4 weeks, Saturday 10:00 PMfor 2 hours.

Class 4 Fundamental Differences Between The Laundry Hamper and The Floor Pictures and Explanatory Graphics. Meets Saturdays at 2:00 PMfor 3 weeks.

Class 5 After Dinner Dishes —- Can They Levitate and Fly Into The Kitchen Sink? Examples on Video. Meets 4 weeks, Tuesday and Thursday for 2 hours beginning at 7:00 PM

Class 6 Loss Of Identity —- Losing The Remote To Your Significant Other. Help Line Support and Support Groups. Meets 4 Weeks, Friday and Sunday 7:00 PM

Class 7 Learning How To Find Things —- Starting With Looking In The Right Places And Not Turning The House Upside Down While Screaming. Open Forum. Monday at 8:00 PM, 2 hours.

Class 8 Health Watch —- Bringing Her Flowers Is Not Harmful To Your Health. Graphics and Audio Tapes. Three nights; Monday, Wednesday, Friday at 7:00 PMfor 2 hours.

Class 9 Real Men Ask For Directions When Lost Real Life Testimonials. Tuesdays at 6:00 PM Location to be determined.

Class 10 Is It Genetically Impossible To Sit Quietly While She Parallel Parks? Driving Simulations. 4 weeks, Saturday’s noon, 2 hours.

Class 11 Learning to Live —- Basic Differences Between Mother and Wife. Online Classes and role-playing. Tuesdays at 7:00 PM, location to be determined

Class 12 How to be the Ideal Shopping Companion Relaxation Exercises, Meditation and Breathing Techniques. Meets 4 weeks, Tuesday and Thursday for 2 hours beginning at 7:00 PM.

Class 13 How to Fight Cerebral Atrophy —- Remembering Birthdays, Anniversaries and Other Important Dates and Calling When You’re Going To Be Late. Cerebral Shock Therapy Sessions and Full Lobotomies Offered. Three nights; Monday, Wednesday, Friday at 7:00 PMfor 2 hours.

Class 14 The Stove/Oven —- What It Is and How It Is Used. Live Demonstration. Tuesdays at 6:00 PM, location to be determined.

Upon completion of any of the above courses, diplomas will be issued to the survivors.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:53 AM | Link to this

if she was around 140-150lbs., I could work with it. However, so could a lot of other dudes and her selection of dates would be greater. But that’s a topic for another day

Ghost soooo, are you trying to say that just because she was big, she didn’t get a lot of dates? There are a lot of men who like plus size women… don’t think for a min you were doing her a favor or that she was sitting home every night lonely. There is somebody for everybody… even you.

By abc

October 6, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this

Yo mama so fat, she just got it goin on and on and on and on and on.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 10:56 AM | Link to this

Laney Nah boo because you still chasing the fantasy dudes, those are the ones that still do it for you. You are young though, you might grow out of it…lol.

Dayumn Jake why you gotta put me on blast like that bruh??….LOL. Now I gotta go down to the gym and drink some tea with no sugar and do some push ups. I’ll be back and man-up…LOL.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 10:58 AM | Link to this

Cool 4th… I really hope you like it! I haven’t been to that one, but my co-workes hair looks nice :) Im excited for you gurllll!!!! Joining you in prayer…Amen

By Kelli

October 6, 2006 10:59 AM | Link to this

some of the size kings need to ask themselves if they are hot enough to even be picky

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this

Heeeyyy QC, no sweetie. Demi is in MIa with Pookie’n’dem.

To the Sexy Sauces, how soon can we get a hold of the 911 tape, my Uncle’s death wasn’t right…Thanks in advance!!!

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this

good morning all

I guess that I can say that I have a type.. but it isn’t based on physical appearance… I’ve dated black men of different hues.. heights and builds (though I’ve never dated an overweight man)..

Men who are driven..have good relationships with their immediate family.. passionate.. understanding.. honest.. overall gentlemen that know how to appreciate their women and have no problems showing their care are typically what I go for… I’ve never been interested in the bad boy image of a man because to me that shows that he has yrs before he’ll actually become a man in the true sense of the word…

I think that the deal Laney is that you’re putting men in boxes.. categorizing them by their styles.. artsy preppy… a man (or woman for that manner) can be both with ease.. it’s important to look more for their personality traits than what you see on the external. .or the venue that you’re attending.. I say that because I’ve been placed in boxes before.. however I wear many hats… and the bottom line is how well does this person treat you and how will you treat him?

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:08 AM | Link to this

I’m back with crunk juice in the Ipod, white t and the jeans saggin, pullin cards!

Diva somebody brought up the size issue again, so where are you and abc at?…lol.

Ghost I know you caught this on the sly…”There is somebody for everybody… even you.” Now I know you not gonna let ImAPeach404 get at you like that, right….lol.

ImAPeach404 I work with a bunch of women and we have deadlines so was helping out everyone else but then I said naw! So I’m chillaxin for the rest of the day, like you.

Now playing “Superwoman” by Fabulous & Lil Mo

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 11:10 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Yes Peach the idea is that big, fat, overweight, healthy, or whateva label is the favor this week, are incapable of getting dates because of their size, and that all of these, I am so attractive, fine, low body fat, low to the ground men..are being hounded by them, begging for a minute of their insignficant time or that fat,(insert any other description you have) women are only good for a quick screw(chubby cut buddy), but heaven forbid they be seen in their company.

By NCgirlfromATL

October 6, 2006 11:13 AM | Link to this

Alvin Baby, don’t sweat it! I didn’t say I didn’t want you to be able to dress well. It’s just that you also need to be able to get your hands dirty when necessary!

Blatino Missed you, baby! (pensamiento en las otras vezes cuando fue equivocado para una Cubana!) My Spanish is rusty, so forgive me if my grammar was bad!

A sense of humor, an ability to dance, and smell good, but not be too-much-cologne-wearin’-man are all a must.

Ghost I work out 4-5 days a week, but I’m a plus-sized girl. You guys don’t want us to judge you solely based on looks, so don’t do it to us. With tons of cardio, and weights for at least 1 1/2 hrs each time, I’m in better shape than half the skinny bi*$^es in my gym. Don’t let the thickness fool you!

By Just plain tired

October 6, 2006 11:14 AM | Link to this

@4TheLongHaul Now that is funny. I will cut and paste and share with the office.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:17 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Oh, I’m not done with you yet….lol. “and, to discredit your “fantasy” theory, after 25, most women loose that fantasy idea and become more realistic about our options.“….nah, I’m calling bull on that one. Now I know a few single mom’s around 25 who are ready but that’s because they are single moms. Otherwise, a lot of women are living in fantasy land until about 30…lol.

Now playing, “Money, Cash, Hoes” by Jay Z & DMX

By Thick

October 6, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Bloggers I have dated guys who look totally different from each other from all walks of like. I don’t have a particular “type”. Laney I think it’s about your personality, some things you will attract to yourself and keep and some things you will attract for the moment. I do have to say that what we think we like tends to be just about what we think. On the other hand that special someone is who we compliment and enhance and they in-turn compliment and enhance us, the pair make each separate person better.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 11:20 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404

I got both.. straight pearlies with a G in the middle… Man, I be showing out with them “Earmuffs” on…

Runnin My bad dog, I just wanted to catch you before it went too far…LOL

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 11:25 AM | Link to this

In need or serious entertainment and food…Musing sits infront of the blog sportsbar waiting for its opening…Lemonade in hand and reading a GQ magazine

By Cupcake

October 6, 2006 11:28 AM | Link to this

Ghost sounds like all you wanted to “hit it” even though she was’nt “physically” your type how do you know she was that into U buddy?

By abc

October 6, 2006 11:28 AM | Link to this

Yo mama so fat, she went to the movies and sat next to everyone.

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 11:31 AM | Link to this

Helloooooo everyone! Friday’s always bring drama in the court room; i did’nt realize how many females are stalking Men out here anywho…Hello SJ where’s Musing? I’mma try to catch up on the commets.

By abc

October 6, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this

Yo mama is 36-24-36 and that’s just her leg!

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this

Musing, can always come out here for any type of food & a whole lot of entertainment, i told you we’ll come pick you up in an un-marked car so what’s up?

By Jake

October 6, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this

@Ghost You committed blog suicide, but I’m on the look out today.

Kym/Peach The man just stated an opinion. You can’t force yourself to have an attraction to someone when it is not there. Physical attraction is as important as any other quality of a relationship, people want to downplay it because they don’t want to appear shallow. If you think looks, weight, and height are not important….STOP BULLSKITTEN YOURSELF…Ya’ll actin as if you have never felt somebody was Fine..before you spoke to them.

Reality will be here when ya’ll get back..lol

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this

@Cee….You said a mouthfull. But how many big women are willing to accept that kind of a statement from a guy? I don’t have any problems working out with her or any big girl. However, they have to want to get in shape for themselves, not for me or any guy.

@Peach…Yeah, there are guys around town who dig big girls. I have a buddy who is one of them. That’s his only “type”.

However, I want to propose a big girl challenge. Log how many dates you currently have on average/monthly. Dedicate 5 days out of the week to dieting, 3 days to cardio. At the end of 8 weeks, see if your dating options increase or not. I’ll bet they will. But more importantly, note how much healthier you will feel, and how much healthier you will look (see Celebrity Fit Club).

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this

LOL….so Ghost can’t have a preference? Ya’ll done run ol boy off before I got a chance to even instigate, dang!!…lol. Gotta give him a shout out song then…

Now playing, “No Problem”, by Lil Scrappy….but you don’t want no problem, problem…..lol.

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 11:38 AM | Link to this

abc there you go! lol :)

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this

Off Topic: Is it only me…Do any of the other blog guys wonder what certain co-workers boobs look like?!?!?! LOL…hahahahaha…Or am I just being a “perv”, as my SO puts it…There are some nice sized one around today….Hmmmmmmm (Obviously I’m bored to tears)

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 11:43 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 hey hey young lady…at bell we work 4 days a week, by the fifth day (friday) we are mentally gone!!

that fat,(insert any other description you have) women are only good for a quick screw(chubby cut buddy), but heaven forbid they be seen in their company

True that, true that…

And

some of the size kings need to ask themselves if they are hot enough to even be picky

Nope! *But I’m still fleeing from the PLUSES

NCgirlfromATL Just know that I perform my own car maintances

On the PLUS SIZE thingy…I love doing tricks in bed, after 170lbs…*I ain’t flipping shyt!!! Beside, Imma short dude, that is just too much work…

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I have a physical type that will make me do a double take, but honestly I’ve never dated anyone that is around 6’2”, 215 lbs of muscle, black as night, bald, with a beautiful smile. I did get involved with someone 6’2”, 215 lbs of muscle but he was brown skinned and had a gap in his teeth - until he got braces :) I even had a married friend tell me that she met a single guy but didn’t think to hook me up with him because he wasn’t dark skinned with a bald head! That’s when I had to break it down to her - because while that’s what I enjoy looking at physically I date all types of men.

What attracts me to a man is his ‘swagger’ - does he have some confidence about him. Then he must be able to stimulate my mind. I would date a man that was 5’2” if he was confident and intelligent. Does he cause me to think? Does he make me laugh? Does he find my carefree attitude refreshing? Is he living life to the fullest? Those are some things that attract me to a man.

The physical is great and I couldn’t date a man I couldn’t bare looking at - but if he and I can’t sit in a room with no TV, no music, no outside forces and just enjoy one another’s company simply then I don’t consider him to be a long-term prospect.

As it relates to the weight - personally I don’t blame a man for desiring a woman that is fit. If that is your preference then go for it. But with that - don’t lament that you can’t find a good woman if you are limiting yourself based on the physical. Be evolved enough to admit that you have yet to find a woman that meets your physical qualifications, with a good personality AND that a lot of the crap you’ve put up with women is due to the fact that you’ve limited yourself to those that fit your qualifications. Don’t put that mess on all women.

But if a woman doesn’t spark a ‘rise’ in you, then there is no reason for you to force yourself to be in relationship with her. Just be honest with yourselves and look at the entire picture.

By Reality Check

October 6, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

Laney, you are probably ending up with the business types because in the deepest crevices of your mind, you want the type of security that you know those artsy-fartsy types most likely won’t be able to provide.

If you could find yourself a well-fed (as opposed to a starving) artist, you’d have the cherry on your icecream sundae!

By Prince Charming

October 6, 2006 11:47 AM | Link to this

@ 4tlh, good point, most people who are not in your circles have a difficult time adjusting to it.

@ Deep Dimples, yeah, I had a lot of growing up to do!

@ Singlemom, thanks!

@ NCgirl, wow your friends missed the mark big time. Try the pretty-boy type and see how it goes, remember everyone is an individual so one guy does not classify all that type, it’s got to be something deeper than that. Check out the background also, there has to be more of a common thread.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 11:49 AM | Link to this

@Jake I am well aware of the opinion of some guys about dating and choice but apparently size is used as a jumping board for the funny stuff so tell you what, since we want to spring board off the fat women and talk down about them and call them desperate and actually show offense that they would dare want to date or be seen in the first place I say lets spring board off of all. We can go from the really dark to the really higher yeller still doing paper bag test folks, you know the drill. Or if that doesnt suit you we can do nationality. Lets just take off the political correct gloves and slam everyone. Let see, you mentioned height, that’s one of my favorite as I always get approached by the low to the ground fellows, you know the type ones who are too short to touch the light switch or who have to jump to get stuff out of the cabinets. I always think now what can he possible do for me but sweep under the bed better with the dust mop considering he has a eye level view.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 11:50 AM | Link to this

abc you are killing me, over there playing psychological warfare with your themed yo mama jokes….lol. For you and Ghost…

Now playing, “Wanna be startin something”, by Micheal Jackson

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this

I wasn’t being sly runnin… smile

Lol @ Kym …low to the ground men… lmao!!! Ole boy said he couldn’t even get to the ‘quick screw’ part because of this “issue” - his issue obviously…

Tell’em NC!!! They kill me, but its whatever. I don’t want anybody who doesn’t want me. Yes, im a full figured girl, and I find that not every guy is attracted to me, but there are dudes that try and talk to me. Frequently really. But thats because 1. I have a nice personality 2. Im not ugly 3. I keep my appearance up and im not sloppy 4. Im funny. And once a dude gets to know me, if I wasn’t his type, physically, usually my other attributes tend to stand out and the attraction is more than body type. I know im not for everybody, but the ones I am for don’t have a problem with my body :)

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 11:53 AM | Link to this

abc…..you r going to get me in trouble. Ok, maybe not, but you are definitely making me LOL!!!!

By Redd

October 6, 2006 11:54 AM | Link to this

Alvin you’re probably just saying that cause you’re a small fry guy but it’s all good

Musing, yes you are bored to tears :-0

By Raqi

October 6, 2006 11:55 AM | Link to this

@Tazzee but if he and I can’t sit in a room with no TV, no music, no outside forces and just enjoy one another’s company

That statement sums it up right there.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

well runnin… I guess I can’t speak for all women. when I say stuff, just apply it to Peach instead of women, I can truely only speak for myself. Thats around the time I grew up and realized that there are more important things than looks. Im 29 now, and I still have a “fantasy” that the perfect guy for ME does exist. The situation im in now is has me feeling like that guy that i’ve been looking for has finally come into my life. But im super cautious, so I’m REAAAAAALY taking this one slow

By Redd

October 6, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

Tazzee You would make a great talk show host you always say the right things at the right time kudos 2 YOU

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

Class 1 How To Fill Up The Ice Cube Trays —- What do you need ice for, you ain’t out cutting no grass.

Class 2 The Toilet Paper Roll —- Does It Change Itself? No we change it too ‘cause ain’t nobody trying to have to walk to the closet with doodoo on their butt to get another roll.

Class 3 Is It Possible To Urinate Using The Technique Of Lifting The Seat and Avoiding The Floor, Walls and Nearby Bathtub? — If you’re finding pee on the seat you must be messing around ‘cause moms taught me to put it up. Where is my dayum phone? What’s that number to “Cheaters” again…?

Class 4 Fundamental Differences Between The Laundry Hamper and The Floor. — Is this a class on trickery?

Class 5 After Dinner Dishes —- Can They Levitate and Fly Into The Kitchen Sink? Got a dishwasher for all that.

Class 6 Loss Of Identity —- Losing The Remote To Your Significant Other. That’s no problem for the secure man. — No problem there, just make sure you’re gone when the game is on.

Class 7 Learning How To Find Things —- Starting With Looking In The Right Places And Not Turning The House Upside Down While Screaming. — The last place that I put my keys IS the right place.

Class 8 Health Watch —- Bringing Her Flowers Is Not Harmful To Your Health. — I just don’t feel like stopping at the store on my way home.

Class 9 Real Men Ask For Directions When Lost Real Life Testimonials. — When are we really lost?!

Class 10 Is It Genetically Impossible To Sit Quietly While She Parallel Parks? — We just don’t like our rimzos scratched up. whoa… whooooa.

Class 11 Learning to Live —- Basic Differences Between Mother and Wife. — No comment - Men know the difference.

Class 12 How to be the Ideal Shopping Companion Relaxation Exercises, Meditation and Breathing Techniques. — May I suggest a small “Man’s Corner” of the store with TV and recliners?

Class 13 How to Fight Cerebral Atrophy —- Remembering Birthdays, Anniversaries and Other Important Dates and Calling When You’re Going To Be Late. — I keep 3 or 4 “Lady gifts” on standby in the back of the closet - just in case…

Class 14 The Stove/Oven —- What It Is and How It Is Used. Live Demonstration. — Sorry slim, we eats too, so most of us can burn in the kitchen. Moms taught us that…

So is that proof of Mastery of Chick Gripes?

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 11:58 AM | Link to this

Give me a man with a British or Australian accent who knows how to iron or use a dry cleaner and I am there!!!!

By Cee

October 6, 2006 11:59 AM | Link to this

@Ghost you sound very familar.

Not knocking you but, seems to me she was doing you a favor by accepting a date from you. And from your own words you can’t keep anyone around.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this

Musing Off Topic: Is it only me…Do any of the other blog guys wonder what certain co-workers boobs look like?!?!?! LOL

You are not alone my brother, and yes you are a perv…I find myself wondering about the size of the areola. Is a quarter, or a half-dollar? Dark brown or matching tone?…LOL

I should be ashamed of myself, but…I’M NOT!!

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

I would date a man that was 5’2” if he was confident and intelligent.

That doesn’t sounds like the Tazzee I know…now putting out a APB on Tazzee…young blogging lady please come back…I think we miss you!!!

And why are the ladies trying to Blog Assassinate this Ghost character? He is just a Ghost in the Machine

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

We got action!

Musing No need to be bored son, we got the ultimate fighting championship right here…lol. I’m firing up the grill now and I got the lawn chairs. I’m sending Demi & Blue to the store for wings(lemon pepper) and red kool-aid. Jake & abc are gonna mix the hunch punch and I’m gonna throw some ribeyes and Nathans on the fire. Kym just took the gloves off and she got back up, it’s on!!….LOL.

Now playing, “Dayumn”, by Youngbloodz and Lil Jon……”don’t start no ish, won’t be no ish“….lol.

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

Musing…….down boy!!!! (said while pulling my top sweater closed)

Alvin….I feel you on the tricks-gotta be able to smack it up, flip it, rub it down!!! But certainly the men who like big women are prepared physically (and mentally) for the extra work.

To the women……..do you ever wonder what the peni$e$ around the office look like? (Ok, I’m letting Musing draw me in, lol)

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 12:08 PM | Link to this

BTW that 6’2” man that was 215 lbs of muscle loved my plus sized body - so there are men out there that do and its not the fugly ones. However I did date a guy that wasn’t really into my type physically but loved me as a person. In the end it didn’t work out and he ended up marrying a Halle Berry type. He tried and it didn’t work. And that is the reason I don’t try to convince any man that isn’t totally into me physically to be with me because of my personality. And if I suspect that a man isn’t satisfied with my physical appearance but he’s trying because of my personality I will definitely get out of that relationship quick, fast and in a hurry.

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this

@running I’m still here bro. I was expecting for “hit dawgs” to holla! LOL! No women have a problem with type/preference when it comes to passing over……hhmmm……short guys. It’s all fair to judge and have a right of preference. Okay, let a guy have a preference of women under a size 12, and he’s being judged as unfair, unsensitive, or anything but positive.

With the big girl I dated in the past, I never said anything about either of us being into one another. I’m sure she was probably dating taller guys and she was giving me a shot too. We both gave each other a shot outside of our “normal type”, and it didn’t work. Who’s to say it won’t work for others? Not me.

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this

@ Ghost are you putting that challenge out to the big men too? because I swear I see more big guys that believe they’re velvet teddybears than a little bit..

but there’s no need to judge someone solely because of their weight..if you aren’t attracted to them than so be it..but to objectify someone just because they’re full figured and say they’re only good to hit is a problem… this is exactly why you have so many women with low self esteem..all of this negativity really has some women believing that’s all they’re good for..

so what happens if you have a daughter and she’s plus sized?

what will you teach her about herself and about her body image??

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this

Runnin Ya boi Ghost got his foot caught in the Blog trap. LMAO

Ghost you’re fighting a nice clean fight champ. Keep up the good work! LOL

Jake The CutMan You’re doing a helluva job, ‘cause Kym cut his azz with the hook.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:14 PM | Link to this

… Man, I be showing out with them “Earmuffs” on… ……trying to interpret Jakes message.

Jake he stated his opinion, thats cool. I can dig it. I was just stating mine too. Everything isn’t for everybody…

Ghost I can appreciate your challenge, but in all honesty, I dont want the guy that wants me when im all skinny, I want the guy who likes me right now. And right now, im not a size 8.

Alvin where are you at Bell?

Tazzee & ladies… speaking of “swagger”… we all know Jay Z is NOT cute, but there is something really sexy about him. Does anyone else agree? Can you think of anyone else who is not cute, but is very sexy or has a swagger about them???

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:14 PM | Link to this

Alvin you’re probably just saying that cause you’re a small fry guy but it’s all good

@*Redd *Yep had I’d been 5’8 or 5’9 some of dem thick wit its and sista big’n’fines would be getting slice’n’dice like ain’t nothing nice.

I have no shame in what I like….No I do not have low self-esteem

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 12:16 PM | Link to this

Jake & Runnin Man, I’m just bringing up a topic that people don’t want to touch, but is very real…It’s not about having sex with anyone in the office…I’m just curious about the office boobs…I’m always taking a peak at the “Rumps & Bumps”…Who’s got it and who doesn’t….

Now looking in SexieOne’s direction

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 12:17 PM | Link to this

Thanks Redd

BlueK - I had to LOL @ this:

No we change it too ‘cause ain’t nobody trying to have to walk to the closet with doodoo on their butt to get another roll.

By Redd

October 6, 2006 12:18 PM | Link to this

Why do men always say they want a women like Halle Berry if she did’nt exist who would they say their Mother get yo head out da tv son and face reality. Use the head on your shoulders to get your “own woman” and not one who would’nt give you the time of day.

I want a lady like Janet Jackson, Halle Berry, Buffy the Body, Beyonce, J-Low> what the hell for???? And do you think she would want yo azz?? hellz to the naw!

have a nice weekend bloggers

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:19 PM | Link to this

Thought of the day

*80% of the ladies on this blog will not get with a “Big Poppa” so, why should they even care about us not getting with a large woman?

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:21 PM | Link to this

Musing & Jake Just step away from the fine co-worker in the tight blouse and stilettos, just step away. Trust me, sensitivity training and those sexual harassment classes are not as fun as I pictured them to be…lol.

LOL @ Blue holding it down as always.

ImAPeach404 Don’t pay me too much attention, on Fridays especially, I’m usually clownin. But I feel you on taking it slow, nothing wrong with that at all. Just make sure you are seeing clearly and can distinguish between fantasy and reality.

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this

unh unh Alvin you got me confused, I’ve never said anything about not dating short men. As a matter of fact I was in a meeting one day and this guy walked in - couldn’t have been more than 5’2” but he was sexy as all get out.

To Ghost’s defense, I don’t think he said his plus sized friend was only good for hitting it. He admitted that he couldn’t imagine hitting it. And I don’t think that’s any worse than me saying I couldn’t imagine kissing a man with a jacked up grill.

By Wonder Woman

October 6, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this

Hello everyone!

I’ve been reading this Blog for several weeks now and I just had to respond…You guys are crazy! I mean really, truly crazy!

;o)

Keep up the good work and have a wonderful weekend!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this

@Ghost I couldnt careless about other preferences..I have a problem when guys talk about dating a big girl(prefered term for today)like he is doing her a favor. It is about attitude, and the idea that because she is big she is desperate. As for Demi and his tricks.. anyone needing to perform that many tricks in bed and feels that a larger woman is too much work might want to look into getting a stunt double because obviously you are over compensating for something.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this

Crim but to objectify someone just because they’re full figured and say they’re only good to hit is a problem… this is exactly why you have so many women with low self esteem..all of this negativity really has some women believing that’s all they’re good for..

Naah slim… you ain’t pinning that blame on anyone except the parents and apparent victim. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Peach404 we all know Jay Z is NOT cute, but there is something really sexy about him.

Now I’m no judge of dudes but I can tell you this, yoll think that dude is all that cuz he’s got some majorly deep azz pockitz. Money definately helps a brother’s swagger. When my pockets are on phat, I’m walking around like I’m 7 feet tall and bulletproof too.

By Foots

October 6, 2006 12:25 PM | Link to this

Do you think you have a “type”?

I don’t really have a “type” that I stick to. There has to be something about a man that draws me in, something I can make a real connection with. It’s a total package type thing, with everything I like in the right proportions in that package. I’ve dated all physical types, all backgrounds, income levels, but the tie that binds is that they all had something unique about the way everything that made them who they are fit together.

runnin I love your 10:17 post. You spoke some truth right there. I think that a lot of folks don’t go after what they really desire because they might not feel worthy of it themselves for whatever reason or may not feel that they can really handle it.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:26 PM | Link to this

To the women……..do you ever wonder what the peni$e$ around the office look like?

HELL NO! EWWW

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:27 PM | Link to this

@Kym

I’m all strapped in and prepared for the “Lethal Injection”, kill me!!

Dayummm baby.. takin it a little out of context aren’t you. I went back to read this series of post and “quick screw” was not introduced by me or GHOST (The real target of this misplaced anger, and his post wasn’t that bad.. lighten up..) I just being real, people like what they like, call it what you want, but I don’t see anybody waitin in line to date Joe the Crackhead..nothing wrong with him, but he has an addiction.. don’t look past him because of that small factor.. Take a breath, cool down, and rejoin the party!…PARTYPOOPER..LOL*

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 12:34 PM | Link to this

i like my females…pretty skin…thick wit it..with azz…c or d cups are nice but are optional…knowing that maintaining a shape like that is hard…i go into knowing its a chance she may gain weight with time..thats why you have to work together to stay attracted to each other. everybody has a preference…and is entitled to it..

By Foots

October 6, 2006 12:34 PM | Link to this

You know what Blue, there was a guy at my school that all of the ladies had a thing for and he was so NOT cute. It was in the way he carried himself, his confidence and his presence in the room, straight sexy alpha male. (and he was an Alpha too) Nobody knew why we liked him, but it was just something about him and we knew nothing about his pockets. Some dudes just have it together. Maybe folks feel like that about Jay-Z. Well….I think he’s ugly, money hasn’t changed that for him, but that’s just me. He does clean up nice in a suit though.

By aggressively witty

October 6, 2006 12:37 PM | Link to this

Lets face it we need to take celebrities outta the equation cause money and constant media attention make EVERYONE look better.

In terms of type I have one type of broad I seem to be attracted to more than anything else and that is a smart broad. I have dated various types in terms of physical appearance but I can say with confidence that I have never dated a damn dolt. Smashed one or 5 but never dated one. That is really my only Type. Cause physically I have dated some odd looking broads and some super fine ones. But they all were smart…oh and in shape. Not skinny mind you, but in shape.

By danielle

October 6, 2006 12:37 PM | Link to this

Crim I swear I see more big guys that believe they’re velvet teddybears than a little bit.. *

^5 - That is HILARIOUS!!!!

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this

Has anyone ever taken a co-workers cold soda from the fridge, but replaced it with a warmer soda of equal value?!?!?!

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:39 PM | Link to this

“As for Demi and his tricks.. anyone needing to perform that many tricks in bed and feels that a larger woman is too much work might want to look into getting a stunt double because obviously you are over compensating for something.“…….LMAO.

Flag, violation, red card, penalty!!! We have a personal foul on #69 Kym for unnecessary roughness, cut block below the belt. 30 minute penalty and Kym cannot post again until after lunch….LOL.

Ghost I see you playboi, do your thing.

Now playing “Touch it(remix), by Busta Rhymes and every-damn-body.

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

@Peach

The Gap is a funtional tool when wearing “muffs”

“Earmuffs”=Thighs occassionally keep my ears warm.

By Alvin

October 6, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

As for Demi and his tricks.. anyone needing to perform that many tricks in bed and feels that a larger woman is too much work might want to look into getting a stunt double because obviously you are over compensating for something.

Kym nope, I am just a super freak…I love women and I love being creative. From food to unethical thingy I’ve tried them

KYM I am glad you are happy with yourself, but you best to believe. If I was 5’11 - 6’0, I’ll be knocking on your f/k’n door!!

Said in my Sexy Shaft voice F/k wit sexy lady!!!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

Tazzee you on good behavior this week ha? Haven’t seen you tryin’ to throw on a headlock.

Kym stunt double LOL You know I’m gon’ have to use that right?!

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this

Aiight runnin, you just gave me the OK to igg you the rest of the day! I’m going to run with that :) My fren-fren is real cool and understanding. He gets that it might take me a minute to truely believe he is the “real mccoy”. He’s a nice a guy.

Nah BK, it doesn’t have anything to do with his pockets b/c money doesn’t move me. If i would have said ‘Tyrone’ yall (not yoll) wouldn’t have know who I was talking about… so I had to use a celebrity. Most ppl with money will most likely have a better upkeep than someone who is broke.

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this

@ BK One is responsible for their own happiness—as an adult.. I agree.. however… I’ll take it back to high school for a sec.. especially a majority black high school.. (keep in mind I’m not saying this applies to everyone plus sized but it definitely applies to some).. if a girl was full figured in middle/high school I’d argue that she was either getting teased… treated differently.. or immediately placed in friendzone only because of her physical appearance…you know what you guys went for back then.. and that experience transfers into adulthood.. even here on this blog you see guys acting all childish and inappropriate about women..

So what happens? a plus sized woman that was full figured in middle/high school has to reconstruct their esteem level …

And back to my former comment BK whether women want to admit it or not…the way that they’re viewed by men affects their psyche.. if I’m constantly being rejected or not being pursued then it will affect my esteem level regardless of how strong I may think I am.. a person can only take so much…

Unfortunately a person’s physical appearance plays such an important role in how they’re viewed by others… why do you think so many women have their swagger back after getting their hair done. .or wearing a new outfit.. it isn’t only because it feels good to self… I just hope the day comes where the majority of us can reach that level of enlightenment where we will not let anyone take that joy away from us…

& btw.. I wasn’t saying that ghost was referring to “only hitting”… but that is the view of some men..

And as for jayz nothing will make that man attractive physically… remove the clothes..take away the cash and tell me you’re still attracted to him…

By Foots

October 6, 2006 12:43 PM | Link to this

Touch it(remix), by Busta Rhymes and every-dayum-body

You ain’t neva lied!!!

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this

I am also a sucker for a man who plays rugby or soccer. He doesn’t have to look like David Beckham though. Just enjoy the game.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this

@Jake I dont have a problem with any party as long as we are going to treat all the guest with respect,if the intention is to go down the you are too fat to date road then I think it is only fair that we make the playing field level as possible and call out all the “issues” people have. I mean lets not leave anyone out.

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 12:46 PM | Link to this

@ Alvin…regarding your thought of the day the point is that most of us women will use more tact than blatantly pointing out that you aren’t going to go for someone simply because they’re plus sized/full figured or whatever you want to call it..

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:47 PM | Link to this

Runnin WTF is going on?! Kym just hit Demi with a 3-piece to the chin… and he ain’t even in the ring. LMAO

By Andrea

October 6, 2006 12:50 PM | Link to this

I thought this was where we posted comments, not a community chat room. If I wanted that, I’d go to some lame a$$ AOL chatroom. After reading a number of your comments, I fully understand why you’re all single. Come on, people…Grow up!

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 12:51 PM | Link to this

Yea Jake thats what I thought you meant, but I was like “nah, that ish would hurt!*

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 12:51 PM | Link to this

@Taz Thanks for clearing that up. I’m not the one to hit it just because. If I’m not even aroused by her mere femininity, how could I hit it? There are too many single women in Atlanta to settle for someone you’re really not into.

My whole purpose for dating her in the first place, was to go outside of my norm, make adjustments to my choice of women, and see if I could make it work. I tried, and found out that big women are not for me. I am at peace with my preference and all of those who have a problem with my preference.

@Cee……huh?

Out of shape women may be sexy to some, but not to me. Even Oprah got fit.

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 12:52 PM | Link to this

LOL @ BK & Runnin at the fights!

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

October 6, 2006 12:52 PM | Link to this

Peach P Diddy comes to mind first….let me think of some others….

Oh, what was that dudes name in Love and Basketball…

By Jake

October 6, 2006 12:53 PM | Link to this

BK

Jake The CutMan You’re doing a helluva job, ‘cause Kym cut his azz with the hook.

Good thing *Ghost came back out fightin. I had the towel ready!!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:54 PM | Link to this

Crim I disagree with the taking so much but at the same time I agree. Reminds me of Earl last night. So I’m gon’ give you partial credit. :)

remove the clothes..take away the cash and tell me you’re still attracted to him…

They want to say it ain’t about the loot but they can’t tell me that regula azz Biggie and JD look-alikes gon’ get that same type of play.

By Pepper Sauce

October 6, 2006 12:54 PM | Link to this

Blue_k

There’s an APB out on you for giving props to said “male blogger” when he don’t deserve them, we’re sending a car over and one for Musing also for switching “cold soda” with “luke warm soda from his lunch bag

By the Great Lord Demi

October 6, 2006 12:54 PM | Link to this

crimson esq. That is like me walking around with low self-esteem because I am short…We all have issues, but it is YOUR job to workout YOUR issues with YOURSELF by the age of 21 - 22. NOT some said man

Y’oll ladies ain’t keep it real today AT ALL. If a brother came up in here talking that low self-esteem mess, y’all would cut his d/k off and shove it down his thoat!!!

LIL Demi is calling B.S. on the play!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:55 PM | Link to this

Liz You must’ve grown up in Europe?

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 12:55 PM | Link to this

“My fren-fren is real cool and understanding. He gets that it might take me a minute to truely believe he is the “real mccoy”. He’s a nice a guy.”

ImAPeach404 Believe it or not you just confirmed my theory just now. You are 29 so after years of wanting to be on the scene, dating bad boys, flossin kats, fake ballas, wanna be rappers, or whatever your vice was, now you’ve grown out of that and you’re ready to give the understanding, nice guy a shot. But I bet ol boy would have never even had an opportunity to get a glimpse of your eye color 3-4 years ago…LOL. And now you’re a little jaded so you’re being real cautious with ol boy when back in the day you were probably giving your all from jump to those other kats. Not mad at you though, just a guess….lol.

By kinderbabe

October 6, 2006 12:56 PM | Link to this

the latest serious of comments have been too hilarious for words..lol. apparently, it’s been an interesting day on the blog. stunt doubles, boxing rings??? my, oh, my!!! lol

By Redd

October 6, 2006 12:57 PM | Link to this

You are soooooo right ain’t no help for big lip jayz he must really be puttin that thang thang on Beyonce geesh

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 12:58 PM | Link to this

Ummm… it’s friday, so… would somebody reach over and slap the shyt out of Andrea.

By Redd

October 6, 2006 01:00 PM | Link to this

@Ghost so what you’re saying is if every out of shape woman had Oprah’s money you would date them can’t you just face the fact they you yourself may not be attractive to women you date?

Where is abc with a joke when you need a good laugh!!!!

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 01:01 PM | Link to this

Now growing up further and becoming an 81 year old Man

“Dayummm, I missed all the fun”

Now collasping in the blog hallway…but so old no one wants to give me mouth to mouth….and fading away without seeing a single blog boob

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this

Deep yea, Diddy too. Are you talking about Omar Epps? He is fly girl! He does it for me!!!! I’ve been feelin him since ‘Juice’. He can get it.

BK, Biggie was a huge disgusting mess. He could NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER get it. And neither could Flavaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Flaaaave

By alvin

October 6, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this

crimson esq. all Im saying sweetie is this…most women will not find me attactive because of my height and will choose NOT to have anything to do with me. That’s their rights to do so…may I have mine?

Peace I am taking this 5’10 red-bone-thick-wit-it-sista out for lunch…Kym here is your cup of Kool Aid…childhood is special…drink this to restore your happyness

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this

Hey y’all:

Musing you better leave people’s soda’s alone, that sound just like something you would do, lol

I’m trying to catch up but it ain’t working so i’ll start at the bottom and work my way up to the top.

Now that sounds like something i’d like to do anyway, hmmmmm

BK who is Andrea???

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 01:07 PM | Link to this

Demi don’t twist my words.. it is a woman’s job to work out her issues (just as it’s a man’s job to work on his).. I agree with you 100% .. it isn’t up to anyone to fix those issues but the person that has them.. and I already said that..

but my point is that people need to accept the fact that they play a role is developing those issues in the first place.. it would be different if we were just born grown… with the tools and the keys that we have now…

By Jake

October 6, 2006 01:08 PM | Link to this

@Kym Its all cool, I just don’t think anyone was on “to big to date, disrespectful tip-just stating there “type” as original topic stated.”

“Pass the Couvoiser” Blog Party is jumping like a mofoe

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 01:09 PM | Link to this

Jake Good thing *Ghost came back out fightin. I had the towel ready!!

I know that’s right. I had already threw my bet down.

Ghost You show the heart of a lion there champ. Just watch the left.

Pepper and who would this fantasy island said-dude be?

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 01:10 PM | Link to this

Sorry I can’t resist…..

Andrea Guess what, no one really gives a f* what you think. So why don’t you stop frontin and go back to that lame azz aol chatroom where you live out your pathetic existence 23-hours a day instead of coming on here trying to throw salt on our Friday entertainment, because that’s all it is boo. It’s not that serious. So post your topic comments or keep it moving. I digress…

LOL @ Pepper Sauce putting the apb out on Blue.

By 3rdwheelcleanflunkie

October 6, 2006 01:11 PM | Link to this

Happy Friday people!!! This blog is off the chain today… I see we are talking about my favorite subject….. being a fat woman….. It’s guys like ghost that causes me not to date. I know being fat is bad but sometimes we can’t help it. A lot of us have medical issues… Don’t judge someone because they are fat. You never know what is going on with them. That is part of the reason why the divcorce rate is so high. People go for more pyshical these days…… Also I am willing to give anyone a chance but if you don’t have a job, smell like raw booty, or just plan rude then your chance is OVER!!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 01:12 PM | Link to this

Demi I seriously doubt that short men have the market on freaky. The market on elevator shoes but not on freaky.

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 01:12 PM | Link to this

@ Running…who made that comment?? ATL is full of females like that..i give females like that hell.

By UT96

October 6, 2006 01:15 PM | Link to this

Long time “lurker”, first time poster. So here goes: Laney’s situation isn’t any different from most any other male or female situation regarding types. There are types we will date-hang out with, have fun with, etc. Women will generally go for the bad boy types or in Laney’s case “the artsy types” and men will generally go for the women with the “morally casual attitudes”, to borrow a line from Animal House. Either way, these aren’t the type of people, when it comes down to brass tacks, that are marriage material. Laney, and most other women and men, we will almost always resort to being practical in the end.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 01:15 PM | Link to this

Dr. Phil Imposter Runnin LMAO Mann, you probably got Peach404 all messed up over that breakdown. Just to buck you though, she’ll probably let nice guy hit that tonight in the parking lot. LOLOLOL

Redd You heard it hear first. Beyonce is a tricksta in disquise and will pull off that wolf mask in short season.

Demi Mayne we the only one with They Live glasses. Agg might have a pair too… hmmm…

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this

@ alvin how tall are you?

By Page1908

October 6, 2006 01:19 PM | Link to this

LOL OMG good golly Ms. Molly wtf is going on in here today! LOL

Runnin pullin cards, Ghost going off about plus sizes, lol…dang!

On topic: What I will say to the men is that in terms of women’s bodies, things are not always as they appear to be. Some of you see some of the female celebrities on television and you assume that they are perfect, so, unfortunately all too often to you tend to compare regular women to them, which is unrealistic. May I suggest that you go to website like uglyplasticsurgery.com and other sites that show them as they really are in real life.

There is nothing wrong with preferences, however, they should at least be realistic.

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 01:21 PM | Link to this

Musing i’ll give you “mouth to mouth” with an oxygen machine wake yo azz up & get back right like you were earlier

i bet if i came thru shooting you’ll wake up, lol

By Jake

October 6, 2006 01:25 PM | Link to this

Peach

Never received one complaint…Only requests for extended play.

By Tiff

October 6, 2006 01:31 PM | Link to this

Hello everyone

On topic..I don’t think I have a “type” since I have dated all types tall, short, thin, fat (well he was thin and became fat but I still liked him so I’m not sure if that counts). The type I found out that I don’t like are liars and cheaters but unfortunately those characteristics aren’t as clearly seen as physical traits.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 01:31 PM | Link to this

“Just to buck you though, she’ll probably let nice guy hit that tonight in the parking lot. LOLOLOL”

LMMFAO!!! Awwww dayumn Blue, you made me spill my sweet tea all over my desk!

SJ that was your girl Peach404. Go easy on her though, I was just clownin.

“we will almost always resort to being practical in the end.“…..

UT96 I’m co-signing you there. It just takes some longer than others.

I see Kym still has demi on the ropes and is swinging away. You need to leave him alone because he already put it out there that if he was an inch taller he’d put that thang thang on you!…LOL.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 01:34 PM | Link to this

3rd See? There you go. Somebody said it earlier, there are a gang of dudes that don’t want nothing to do with a chick that ain’t at least a 16. And like that dude said, I’ve got a cousin like that too. So ladies, regardless of your build, smile and be nice. You’d be suprised who might try to holla.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 01:40 PM | Link to this

I bet if i came thru shooting you’ll wake up, lol

You know I’m looking at you sideways right?

wondering to self, “If I got with a cop-chick and it didn’t work out, would she have all her co-workers pulling me over just to fugg with me.”

By Ghost

October 6, 2006 01:40 PM | Link to this

Someone mentioned earlier that it’s unfortunate that we put too much on the physical (paraphrasing; someone help me on this). I’m not sure on how much or less important the physical attraction is, but you cannot minimize it’s importance. Just like a job interview, that’s all you have to show before you even say a word. So, what you wear, swagger, fitness, is very significant before your are approached. Sorry, that’s probably next weeks topic. I’m not in the blog often, so I have to get it all in when I can.

@runnin Preach it! I go back to the hometown from time to time and see girls that used to be the hotness back in the day. They dated all the “high profile” brothers, whether on the field, the court, or in the street. Now 3 kids later, 50lbs later, her eyes are suddenly open to the fellas she put in the saddows years ago. Why is it women have to put on 50lbs to open their eyes?

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 01:41 PM | Link to this

@Runnin if he was a inch taller he wouldnt be able to reach it must less do anything with it.. talking about someone big is too much work That comment was insulting.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 01:44 PM | Link to this

Tiff The type I found out that I don’t like are liars and cheaters but unfortunately those characteristics aren’t as clearly seen as physical traits.

We see eye-to-eye on that. Some of yoll got some lying-azz genes. You need to stop reproducing and spreading them.

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 01:52 PM | Link to this

Heyyyyyyy!!!! You guys are some fools!!!! Straight CLOWNING up in here!!! I leave for lunch around 11:45 (Man, have y’all had the homespun milkshakes from Chick-Fil-A?? THE SHIZNIT!!! WOOO!!)

Musing, Demi, Blue & Runnin are acting like their regular retarded selves and Kym is kicking tale as usual too! Man I love y’all!!!!! Woo! This is what Friday is all about!

Oh God and Runnin, fool! You made me darn near spit milkshake all over my computer, monitor and desk going off on Andrea!!!! hahahahahahah!!!!!!

By Pharress_Beuller

October 6, 2006 01:53 PM | Link to this

Wooooooooo! It’s packed up in here!

As I come down the isle of the Thunderdome. “We Don’t Need Another Hero” by Tina Turner playing in the background.

Ya’ll off the chain 2day! I like variety, but I usually go for the ex-athlete or thick wit it types. Although, I have been attracted to some big gurl luv too, especially in the “A” (Jill Scott could get it ANYTIME).

I think it all goes back to whatever you like…you like. I’m vertically challenged too (5’9”) and I’ve run into plenty women that prefer 5’10 & above. It is what it is…I can respect that. Ugly feet, though…deal breaker!

By Cee

October 6, 2006 01:56 PM | Link to this

Thank you for the laugh bloggers. Yall are off the chain today.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 01:57 PM | Link to this

now making note to self on the supa-thick-wit-it Kym :)

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 01:57 PM | Link to this

Why is it women have to put on 50lbs to open their eyes?

I dont know why is that men have to be picked clean financial by some gold digging stripper while trying to live out their fantasy playa play life, then forced to move in mama’s basement, and then they have a snap to reality to have their eyes open?

What does weight have to do with it? Fat people, dumb people, bald people..make bad choices.

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 01:58 PM | Link to this

As Sweet T Kicks in blog door firing bullets into the air Musing jumps up and dives through 2inch glass window…Waking up 10 minutes later to realize he has once again been captured and placed in DCP car truck with ballz hanging out!

By Blatino Brutha

October 6, 2006 01:58 PM | Link to this

Yo, BK, I’m cosigning 100% on your 11:57AM Post!!!

Oh, and to all the boys(not men) out there who are afraid of a plus sized woman…. Just send her my way and I’ll finish whatcha start, playah!!!

on a selfish note, wondering if these dudes realize that puttin in that work with the thickies only makes you in better shape for ALL of them…..

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 02:03 PM | Link to this

No, but I did live in Italy for a couple of years.

I’m really an Anglophile at heart.

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 02:04 PM | Link to this

And I’ve never been into the musclebound type.

By abc

October 6, 2006 02:07 PM | Link to this

BK’s old azz Civic rides better than your fat ol’ mama.

By abc

October 6, 2006 02:08 PM | Link to this

Yo daddy so short he don’t have legs, he have feet growin out his azz.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 02:10 PM | Link to this

runnin i’ve dated them all… baby, I just like men, period! Black men on a whole are my vice. I went through the stage where I got my feelings hurt so I was out there playing the field and having a good time. But after a while, that becomes lame and you want something with more substance. I’ve been hurt and I’ve hurt, but im not about either one of those things anymore. Over the last 3-4 years I’ve realized that I want something special and long term. It just comes with age and experiences - good & bad :)

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 02:11 PM | Link to this

Ghost Some people might take this the wrong way but I’m not trying to clown anyone, just keeping it real. Women take pride in their appearance, dark or light, short or tall, thick or slim. Some women really get to feeling themselves when they feel they got it going on physically. So to answer your question: “Why is it women have to put on 50lbs to open their eyes?” Sometimes that is the dose of humility it takes for them to see beyond the physical and material standards they have been judging men on up to that point. All of a sudden, she’s single, getting older and she’s not the hottest thing on the block anymore so now she’s forced to look at self and see what else self has to offer, bring to the table, besides the bangin body she had when she was 21. Now this is for some women, not all. The blog is hot so you gotta throw disclaimers out there….lol.

Kym I didn’t even catch that comment or who wrote it but with all the cuttin up going on today, I’m sure they didn’t mean it as an insult.

Confession Oprah can get it. She’s worth the whole earth so I’d try to put it on her, lock her down, and get her to have my baby and I wouldn’t care what any of ya’ll thought about me. I’d get my Dave Chapelle on…..“I’m rich beeeeaaaattttccccchhhh!”

Ok, back to reality…lol.

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 02:14 PM | Link to this

Yes, Lawd, y’all showin’ out!!!!

As far as the celebrity thing goes… IMO if you have piles of money, yes, it’s much easier to “look” better than the people with the regular stacks. Then, there are some that can’t be helped I don’t care how big their pile is - i.e. Biggie, Russell Simmons. So while its nice to look at, I’ve never been overly impressed with all that. Like someone said earlier, see them without all that, and you’ll see the TRUTH!!

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 02:22 PM | Link to this

sup Blatino

ABC mann, you are killin’ me over here. LOL

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 02:23 PM | Link to this

SJ that was your girl Peach404. Go easy on her though, I was just clownin

What did i say *runnin

Inviting Pharress & Blatino to come sit at the cool table

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 02:25 PM | Link to this

Yo’Mama so old that she knew Russell Simmons!!!

That guy has to be about 87yrs old, still rocking his ball caps covering his pruned’azz head

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 02:29 PM | Link to this

Now this is for some women, not all. The blog is hot so you gotta throw disclaimers out there….lol.

Helllll Naaahhhh… Runnin coverin’ his azz. LMAO But I feel you doh, ain’t tryin’ to have the office linebacker pay you no visits. :D

and… Oprah don’t want it, she’s a dycke. Now I was feeling Oprah back in the day when she had some of that greasy-collard-green meat on her azz. She’s been eating too many salads, fuggin with Gayle, and losing azz-weight for me lately though…

By Page1908

October 6, 2006 02:31 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Oprah can get it! LOL Runnin I hope she takes off her wig and make up first! dang!

By Tazzee

October 6, 2006 02:32 PM | Link to this

Blue I only crack skulls when its needed, LOL. Haven’t seen any comments today that warrant the gangsta in me coming out.

On the whole self esteem trip. I think Kat Williams said it best - if you over 25, you can’t blame that on anyone else. Its the esteem of your self!

But I place the nurturing of a young woman’s self esteem in the hands of her family. If you’ve ever heard Monique you know that her parents instilled a healthy amount of self-confidence in her. Halle Berry on the other hand was lacking in that department because her father wasn’t there for her.

Once you get past a certain age, its time out for blaming your outlook on other people. That’s like that dude Foley tombout he was molested as a child. Ummm yeah, but you are an adult now and you are responsible for your own actions.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 02:33 PM | Link to this

For the Record: I ain’t neva liked Halle Berry or Beyonce… But I loves me some Alfre Woodard and Sanai Lathan. They can dayum sho get it. :P

By alvin

October 6, 2006 02:34 PM | Link to this

Kym most likely you only been with 2 or 3 short men, , soooo it is safe to say all the tall brothers in your life put it down for you? Me I could careless, I like what I like

AND

… talking about someone big is too much work That comment was insulting

Sorry sweetie, it just means, IM TOO SHORT for them!!! Nothing else…

Blatino Brutha Signing your 01:58pm post, well said!!!

Blue_Kolla now making note to self on the supa-thick-wit-it Kym :)

For real, the number one reason she make me say damn!! (no Ive never met her in person)

crimson esq. I am 5’4 and I wasn’t trying to twist your words, but I dont feel sorry for myself or the things I’ve been through. MY problems MY battles…

Runnin I was on no rope, but she tried me good thought!

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 02:39 PM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Oh, we were just dissecting your new friend, nice guy post, that’s all. BTW, who said you could sit at the cool table??….LOL.

LMAO @ Blue, you my dawg cuz you don’t miss a dayumn thing. Yeah, sometimes you gotta CYA up in this spot. People keep their AK-47s on full auto and will take out friend and foe without looking at all…lol.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 02:43 PM | Link to this

Demi I was on no rope, but she tried me good thought!

Sure champ, sure… Com’ere and let me fix your mouthpiece… Cutman… put some more vaseline on that eye… Now look… when you get back in there, keep ya jab up. Stick-n-move stick-n-move!

ding ding… thinking to self, “Glad I ain’t bet on this one. wooooo… LOL

By alvin

October 6, 2006 02:46 PM | Link to this

And I’ve never been into the musclebound type

@loveyliz why is that?

And Heeeeeyyy to ya :)

ImAPeach404 I am co-signing your post with my blog AK rifle

and

Tazzee On the whole self esteem trip. I think Kat Williams said it best - if you over 25, you can’t blame that on anyone else. Its the esteem of your self!

Amen now doing what I done on 404 post

By alvin

October 6, 2006 02:48 PM | Link to this

ding ding… thinking to self, “Glad I ain’t bet on this one. wooooo… LOL

@Blue…yo cheap aZZ LOL

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 02:49 PM | Link to this

Awwww Page I hope she takes off her wig and make up first! dang!

That was cold-blooded. LMAO

Runnin man you stoopid. LOL

I gotta go and put my bid in on the MegaMill. Where’s LahLah to tell that I’m wasting my money. Yoo Hooooo Lahhh Lah.

Dayum… I am str8 trippin today.

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 02:51 PM | Link to this

Page Who says I got a problem with Oprah’s wig and make up? H3ll, I’m gonna get freaky wit it when I try to knock her up so I might enjoy pulling the wig off while hittin it from the back….lol. I need to go ahead and confess my luv to Oprah right now, sending her some blog roses and an ecard with R. Kelly’s “Half on a baby” lyrics in them. She just don’t know that it’s all about the remix once she has my seed….LOL.

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 02:53 PM | Link to this

Is is time to go home yet????

Thank God it’s a 3 day weekend!!!!

Who’s serving drinks this afternoon?

By Page1908

October 6, 2006 02:53 PM | Link to this

LOL Blue Yeah! I would say that most of those females on tv have this new wig that it out and Oprah has it too. Beyonce, Tyra Banks, Halle Berry, Oprah, Ciara, Mary J. Blige, Amerie, Gabrielle Union…they all do. Only I know the secret about the wigs…lol shhhh, don’t tell anyone.

By Thick

October 6, 2006 02:54 PM | Link to this

LOL @Tazzee about Kate Williams, *it’s self esteem.

By Just plain tired

October 6, 2006 02:55 PM | Link to this

okay, okay, I see everyone has put on their gloves.

Anyway, to the fellas - just my thinking (I do not really know, i am not a big girl), but I was always under the impression that men with small penises tend to shy away from big girls or tall women. They always want the short skinny woman. Just a thought I always had.

But a man that got it going on he wants someone that can handle it.

That is just what I am thinking.

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 02:59 PM | Link to this

Afternoon Y’all

Type? yeah I had/have a type preference. Non Homo/Bi/Curious sexuality is #1, SBM Working is ranking #2, No Baby-Mama Drama is #3 and very my loose #4 is over 6’0”.

I have dated 3 guys that used to be taller than me, but are not anymore; I grew until my late 20’s, so I stand corrected if I have ever stated that I have never dated a guy shorter than me.

At this stage of the game, I am looking for a genuine, nice guy, a guy who has had his wild oats sowed more than he can remember and is beyond the games, drama and lies……. This is my new type!

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

October 6, 2006 03:00 PM | Link to this

Sexi don’t rub it in….it ain’t a 3 da w/e for everyone….sad face

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 03:00 PM | Link to this

Page……that’s funny. They definitely have something going on with the “do” in common, and it is obvious. Go ‘head, share that secret gurl!!!!!

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 03:01 PM | Link to this

Blue Now you know Lah ain’t responding to any shout outs if you driving a civic or you riding Marta…lol. (had to get you back at least once before I dipped)

demi Just stick and move in there, Kym is not a 10 round fighter so you can break her down if you keep moving. She won’t know what hit her by the time you ready to lay that pipe…LOL.

Okay, my Friday work curfew has passed so my time is up. Enjoyed the laughs though so all you 9 to 5ers be safe and hold it down the rest of the day…LOL. Ya’ll be easy.

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 03:01 PM | Link to this

BK Now if you got with Me and it did’nt (cause it would be your fault of course) i would’nt have my girls pull you over we would still be cool, cause you’ll still be hooking up with me cause you like it when i wear my little cop costume don’t worry i’ll let you hit it

Musing I know yo ballz are cold going down 20 East, now i’mma take the car thru the car wash with COLD WATER ONLY haha!

By Page1908

October 6, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this

OMG LOL @ Runnin hittin it from the back with Oprah! Haaaaaaaaa, aww dang Stedman gonna get you! LOL @ you hittin it from the back! dang…barfin LOLOL Runnin, dude, I think Oprah might make you take those black socks off while you hittin it and splittin it! LOL bustin up LMAOOO

By runninatl

October 6, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this

Blue Now you know Lah ain’t responding to any shout outs if you driving a civic or you riding Marta…lol. (had to get you back at least once before I dipped)

demi Just stick and move in there, Kym is not a 10 round fighter so you can break her down if you keep moving. She won’t know what hit her by the time you ready to lay that pipe…LOL.

Okay, my Friday work curfew has passed so my time is up. Enjoyed the laughs though so all you 9 to 5ers be safe and hold it down the rest of the day…LOL. Ya’ll be easy.

By alvin

October 6, 2006 03:04 PM | Link to this

Time out, there is noting wrong with ladies wearing wigs…I’ll just remind myself no hair putting…the shyt ain’t real!

By Hot Sauce

October 6, 2006 03:06 PM | Link to this

Musing we’re gonna take your ballz and put them in some HOT AZZ WATER to see if they’ll shrink

By Sidelines

October 6, 2006 03:08 PM | Link to this

Happy Friday, I just wanted to say y’all were off da’ chain today.

Alvin/Demi, your still sexy wit’it! Even at 5’4…wink, wink!

runnin, I need to go ahead and confess my luv to Oprah right now, sending her some blog roses and an ecard with R. Kelly’s “Half on a baby” lyrics in them.….you are stupid (ha, ha, funny), lol!

Everyone, be safe and enjoy your weekend!

By BSandwich

October 6, 2006 03:08 PM | Link to this

i absolutely love women that have that air of confidence about them. i can’t really explain it, but you can tell just by looking in their beautiful eyes. that floors me all the time. i look past the social stereotypes. if we can hold a decent conversation and you are going somewhere in life then we are good to go.

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 03:11 PM | Link to this

Darkbuty……so sorry, didn’t mean to rub it in. (passing Darkbuty a blog margarita)

JustMe…….^At this stage of the game, I am looking for a genuine, nice guy, a guy who has had his wild oats sowed more than he can remember and is beyond the games, drama and lies……. This is my new type! I AM SOOOOO WITH YOU ON THAT!!!

By Deidre

October 6, 2006 03:11 PM | Link to this

It’s no secret really. The lace front wigs are all the rage.

By QC

October 6, 2006 03:12 PM | Link to this

Runnin now that’s funny! you & Oprah!!!

Hey Page LahLah 3rd JustMe

Lawd have mercy, where is Storm it’s friday and she is not here…

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:12 PM | Link to this

Many of my lady friends will change wigs 2-3 times per day depending on where we are going - LOL I have not been able to do that yet though I will rock some long tree braids in a heart beat…. Ladies who wear them What’s the best type, what does a good natural looking one cost and where should I shop for one? >>>>Just in case.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 03:14 PM | Link to this

@Demi I dont really care what you like or dont like, you made the comment about tricks and apparently the people you are with dont mind your “short comings” or the tricks…You are the one that is taking out ad space announcing that you do tricks..so if it takes all that maybe you should change your add to:

WANTED STUNT DOUBLE OF SMALL HEIGHT TO ASSIST IN BEDROOM-MAIN DUDE NEEDS ASSISTANCE AS HE IS TO SHORT TO REACH THE BEDRAILS

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:14 PM | Link to this

^5 to all my 3 day weekend benefactors!

By NCgirlfromATL

October 6, 2006 03:14 PM | Link to this

Prince Actually, I have been trying to give “pretty” a chance. I’ll let you know how it goes.

alvin I’m also trying to give short a chance too. I have always had this thing about only dating tall men, or at least men taller than me. I’m 5’6”, and tend to wear heels a lot, so you had to be THISTALL to ride this ride. But, in the spirit of being open-minded, I am about to go out with a guy who is 5’5”…and not so much pretty, but cute.

ImAPeach/Blatino Scoot over and let a sista grab a seat at the cool table. First round of drinks is on me!

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 03:17 PM | Link to this

@ alvin u’re right..can’t say i’ve dated someone 5’4.. i’m 5’10 with a track build… shortest guy i ever dated was 5’6 and that was in undergrad.. i think i was 5’8 @ the time…

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 03:17 PM | Link to this

Sauces Why are yall trying to cook my ballz…As if they were some kind of Asian delicacy….Well, they are for the right Asian…LOL…Hahahahaha….Ahhhh, Dayum…Now you’ve made me offend any Asian lurkers….Sweet T you’re gonna let the Sauces chow down on my ballz?!?!?!?!

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 03:18 PM | Link to this

Damn Kym!!! I almost choked on my margarita, oops I mean water…..too short to reach the bedrails, OUCH!!! LOL

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 03:19 PM | Link to this

omg @ kym lol

By C tha 1

October 6, 2006 03:19 PM | Link to this

@Just Plain Tired, LoL. Where did that line of reasoning come from!?

By alvin

October 6, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this

Dayum Kym that was uncalled for…AINT MY FAULT DEM TALL MEN YOU WWWWUUUUVVVVV SO MUCH, ARE UNABLE TO PERFORM TRICK WITH YOUR A$$, MAYBE TRICK OFF YOU, lol**

But you are correct I love doing me some tricks in the bedroom and out…

@Demi I dont really care what you like or dont like, you made the comment about tricks and apparently the people you are with dont mind your “short comings” or the tricks…

You are correct…my helicopter move the the shyt!!!

By lovelyliz

October 6, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this

Employed is a must!!!!!!!

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 03:26 PM | Link to this

JustPlain I think you should leave the penile decisions to the people that have them…LOL…hahahahahaha….That read wayyyyy to funny…“But a man that got it going on he wants someone that can handle it.”….Hahahahahahaha

By Just plain tired

October 6, 2006 03:28 PM | Link to this

Observation, although I am not the bedrooms.

You always see these really tall men and short skinny women and I always say to myself, “they must have small penises.”

Hey it is not a “tested” observation, just something I always thought.

And now, when people say they do not want a big girl, I think the same thing - he must have small penis.

People with small penises want large cars and small, skinny women.

By ImAPeach404

October 6, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this

Makes room for NC

By Deidre

October 6, 2006 03:30 PM | Link to this

what does a track build mean exactly? Solid and toned?

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:30 PM | Link to this

Sexione ^5 On the blackhand side (Sorry Dark

Thanks Deidre - Lace Fronts!

Hey QC How ya feeling these days?

Kym Dyaum! That blow was lower than snake belly!

NCATL Babygirl 5’6” is not a real ride……. try being 6’0”. This is a ride and a half fo dat azz!

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:32 PM | Link to this

<<< @ >>> <<< @ >>> looking at Alvin ???? Helicopter move? WOW!

By alvin

October 6, 2006 03:33 PM | Link to this

Ladies chill, like what you like, I love me for me and me only, like **kym said, I love trying new things and going all out…

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 03:33 PM | Link to this

Musing now you know i got yo back!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 03:34 PM | Link to this

Demi/Alvin If you have to advertise it so much then most likely it is a tool of low quality, cheaply made, likely stop working after the first use. An would added to the junk drawer until the next garage sale to be passed on to the next sucker who thinks it is a good idea.

By alvin

October 6, 2006 03:36 PM | Link to this

crimson esq. 5’10 with a track build dem brothers be hunting you down huh?

By Just plain tired

October 6, 2006 03:37 PM | Link to this

@Ctha1 Plus some men think if you are small everything about you is small and if you are big everything about you is big.

So hence with that line of thinking and my observation, I came up with that theory.

By Pharress_Beuller

October 6, 2006 03:38 PM | Link to this

Sittin’ at the Cool Table

“Domino!!! Waitress, can I get a Corona with Grenadine?”

Did someone say 5’10” sista with a track build? “Can I also get a Apple Martini for the lady.”

Balil’s Soul Sista playin’ in the background

“So, crimson esq., what was your time in the 100 meter?”

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 03:40 PM | Link to this

standing up stretching…should be a law against actually having to do work on a friday

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:41 PM | Link to this

JPT I have thought that too, and to add my $0.02 on top of yours…….. Men with large johnsons like thick women short or tall.

Kym Did you lose money on the Steelers? You raw this good afternoon……..

I’m go get you some of the inspirational medicine I took in over the last 2 days…….. Bless Yo Heart girl!

By Just plain tired

October 6, 2006 03:41 PM | Link to this

@Musing You are right, I will leave it to the fellas, not that any fella I know will admit to having a small penis.

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this

In my Michael Baisden voice

“Can any of the blog ladies do a chinese split????”

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this

JustMe….a blog margarita for you.

Just plain…..now this is funny….People with small penises want large cars and small, skinny women.

By alvin

October 6, 2006 03:48 PM | Link to this

Kym aka Southern Girl your 3:34pm doesn’t apply to me sweetie…God has given me a great body to work with…are you ashame of being rejected because of your size? I am not

JustMe it is a fun move, but because of my height and weight restrictions(180lb), it can not be performed on all women…but my 5’10 EX got some knee weaking standing orals LOL

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 03:51 PM | Link to this

Size Does Matter Musing

Are you all “sized up”?

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:51 PM | Link to this

Inspiring quotes/medicine

Kym try a dose of this………

The only person that can stop U from suceeding is U.

MAGIC Formula

**M Mindfast - Eliminate negativity from your mental diet!

A Attitude of appreciation - Shift your focus!

G Get clear on yourself

I Intend success - always

C Communicate with success

Get Connected it’s the opposite of lonliness

If you do not have faith, you will be filled with fear

How the seeds of low self-esteem are planted

Don’t be a victim

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:53 PM | Link to this

Sexione Thanks it’s my Favorite drink and girl it shole is good……. where’s the bar, I’m gonna need a refill soon!

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this

JustPlain LOL…that’s funny!!!

Now watching as all the blog Men drop the skinny minnies…and pick up the plus sized girls to prove JPT wrong….some failing miserably

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 03:55 PM | Link to this

Musing i can do a “chinese split” i was a cheerleader in high school, and i keep myself in very good shape.

Now stretching leg on desk to show Musing i mean what i say, and say what i mean

Blue_k is he gone for day???

By abc

October 6, 2006 03:55 PM | Link to this

Seems like yall’s wigs are a on a little loose today.

So, what about guys who drive compact cars, justplaintired?

Yo mama so stupid, I told her to squeal like a pig, and she said “Moo!”

By EnglishLit

October 6, 2006 03:55 PM | Link to this

Kym Once again, it’s spelled A-N-D

By Apple Bottom

October 6, 2006 03:56 PM | Link to this

Musing why are your “ballz” always the main topic on here before the end of every dayum day! LOLOLOLOLOL :) somebody’s gonna put

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 03:56 PM | Link to this

deidrewhat does a track build mean exactly? Solid and toned?

yeah athletic.. my legs and arms are toned and my stomach is relatively flat…

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 03:59 PM | Link to this

Alvin Please excuse me while i have a moist moment Dayum!

By Sexione

October 6, 2006 04:00 PM | Link to this

JustMe…..down the hall to the right…Margaritas all around!!!

Last Call, Last Call for alcohol!!!!

Have a wonderful and safe weekend all!!!

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:01 PM | Link to this

all better now

NCATL * it can not be performed on all women…* I told ya……. this is a ride fo that azz……. brutha got to be ready to put in some work - ABSA

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 04:02 PM | Link to this

SweetT I’m not walking around with a yard stick…But, I’ve never gotten a complaint or the cold shoulder the day after a session…LOL…No one has ever asked my to put it away! Hahahahaha

By Apple Bottom

October 6, 2006 04:04 PM | Link to this

Bar? did someone say “BAR”?

By alvin

October 6, 2006 04:04 PM | Link to this

Just plain tired on your observation, I mention it last week during the “Grown women size” thingy…you stand 80% correct!

My ideal size is 150lb - 180lb. My opinion only Thick wit sisters take me better…Therefore to me, the sex is better. I’ve only been with 4 112lb - 145lb sisters and I didn’t enjoy having sex with them…Maybe it was me

I aint gonna front, dem big sisters give some mean a$$ heads…

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 04:05 PM | Link to this

Apple I was gonna ask Musing the same thing. Errrrry day, your orbitals become a topic for the blog! hahahaha!

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 04:06 PM | Link to this

@ Pharress_Beuller i ran the 200..triple and long jump in college…

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 04:07 PM | Link to this

@Alvin I am far from ashamed of what I have to work with, but I do find it interesting how you will jump on the bandwagon and cosign when the guys say the women are advertising their wares on the blog…and yet here you are today Mr. Mini-Minus advertising tricks and talking about someone being too much work for you. Trust me at 5’4 it would be work to find you under the covers much less what you are working with. It would seem to me that a person who has to constantly toot their own horn about their looks and what they have maybe tooting it because of their own esteem issues. But it is cool I know Mini-Me-RAMBRO’s(Short Random Brothers) like you have to do that to keep yourself hype up.

JustMe I am doing just fine thank you. But I am sure someone somewhere needed that.

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 04:09 PM | Link to this

Apple I think they have their own fan club…LOL..I don’t know…they seem to have taken a life of their own.

Now staring attentively to SweetT as she bangs out the chinese split wearing upper thigh high shorts….camel peeking slightly out

“Wooooooo, look at that!!!”

By Pharress_Beuller

October 6, 2006 04:09 PM | Link to this

yeah athletic.. my legs and arms are toned and my stomach is relatively flat…

“Waitress, make that two Apple Martinis for the lady”

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:10 PM | Link to this

Now buying 1 Top Shelf Margy from the bar Thanks Sexione Have a great weekend!

By Redd

October 6, 2006 04:10 PM | Link to this

Musing I’m pulling out the almighty #1 GoodHBooth right now cause i wanna c it!

give me 5 minutes

By SeanJohnson

October 6, 2006 04:11 PM | Link to this

@ Alvin….i cosign potna…on the entire post 4:04

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:11 PM | Link to this

Alvin Thank You! Now I know why short men want my tall azz so bad - LOL

By crimson esq.

October 6, 2006 04:14 PM | Link to this

@ PB… thanks for the drink…but i don’t drink alcohol…

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 04:15 PM | Link to this

LOL @ 4tLH and orbitals…hehehehe

By Foots

October 6, 2006 04:16 PM | Link to this

it would be work to find you under the covers much less what you are working with

On that note, I’m out y’all. That was real raw! It’s too mean in here for me today, y’all are cutting da fool!

Have a good weekend!

By alvin

October 6, 2006 04:17 PM | Link to this

JustMe my EX was 5’10 220, so it was work 7 days week and sometimes 4-6 times a day(when we were off)

Oh my, teacher was 6’2 185 with a well toned body. It was suppose to be a once in a life time event for us both, turn in to a 5 months free for all…I was 22 at the time, we’re still fiends today…So becareful sweetie. SMILEs

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:17 PM | Link to this

Kym Ok, but your O Just Fine is raw as he!!!

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:18 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Pharess getting Crim drunk!

By 3rdwheelcleanflunkie

October 6, 2006 04:21 PM | Link to this

Waving at QC What’s up girl?

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 04:23 PM | Link to this

Ooo wee Musing you see my camel?

lol @ 4th

your orbitals become topic for the day

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 04:25 PM | Link to this

Tell you what maybe JustMe has a afirmation for short rambros like you… Bet we can come up with one..

If I think tall, and feel tall, I will be tall

I am a redwood, a maple, a tall oak.

I will grow, I will grow

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:25 PM | Link to this

Alvin Hush yo mouth!

Blog Toast to Crim I’ll drink this 2nd Margy in your honor!

Alvin is driving me to drink wonderin’ what I been missing all these years!

Excuse me waitress…….. bring me another in 15 minutes and there’s a $5 tip in it for you

By Redd

October 6, 2006 04:26 PM | Link to this

Musing i’m waiting!!!!!!

By MusingLee

October 6, 2006 04:28 PM | Link to this

Everyone have a great weekend…Be safe out there!!!

Now tripping over trash can on way out of office still staring in the direction of SweetT, holding the chinese split above ground, as legs are straddled between two chairs

By Pharress_Beuller

October 6, 2006 04:29 PM | Link to this

@crimson esq.

Ok…no alcohol. Well, how bout some milk & cuuuukies (In my Bernie Mac voice)?

“Waitress, exnee on the Martinee…we’ll have the dessert menu, please.”

Soul Sista still playin’ in the backgroud

Dang, must be the remix!!!

By QC

October 6, 2006 04:34 PM | Link to this

Hey 3rd

girl i’m sitting here laughing & waving back at cha! i’m about to tip toe out of here, my sister & i are going shopping…have a blessed weekend y’all we’ll blog on Monday….

HOLLA!!!!!!

By NCgirlfromATL

October 6, 2006 04:34 PM | Link to this

JustMe I agree, my ride is short, but that’s exactly my point! lolol!! If I’m thistall, then I don’t want to be looking down on the top of your head in flats! But, I’m trying not the be so short sighted…pun intended…and give brothas of all heights a chance.

By chink

October 6, 2006 04:34 PM | Link to this

Ya’ll just can’t stop talking about sizes…lol

Don’t worry Alvin I don’t think I want to sleep with you either ….Sak Passe..

Hope everyone is good ….

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 04:35 PM | Link to this

Plain tired I don’t know but I’ve dated all types of women short and tall, slim to thick… and I’ll say this - 5’10” slimmy made me put in the most work… had me coming to bed with a sandwich. I mean that p*ssy was WIDE. It was cool, but I don’t like being under that kind of pressure EVERY time out the gate.

Sweet T You betta be cool with who you Offer Up, ‘cause I might be accepting. It’s friday too…?!

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:36 PM | Link to this

Kym No confirmation on them yet, but……… Lawd only know what the future holds.

crossing my fingers just in case I do go there, the first one don’t mess it up for all the short bruh’s

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:36 PM | Link to this

Kym No confirmation on them yet, but……… Lawd only know what the future holds.

crossing my fingers just in case I do go there, the first one don’t mess it up for all the short bruh’s

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 04:36 PM | Link to this

Musing Fool! Your imagination is just toooo much for me!!! straddled between two chairs STUPID!

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:38 PM | Link to this

NCATL We should form a support group…… I’m in the same boat! LOL

By Lah Lah

October 6, 2006 04:40 PM | Link to this

My, my, my look at this…. ya’ll are off the chain as usual.

Everyone have a great weekend!!!!

By Sweet Tea

October 6, 2006 04:41 PM | Link to this

Allright bloggers, i am leaving for the day it’s been real as usual; you all be safe aight!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 04:41 PM | Link to this

You know my son wants to be an inventor I bet he could come up with a growth formula, for the “vertically challenged”-GRO SOME MO.

You drive a big car, you have a big house, a big bed. Yet, you cant see over the dashboard, you cant reach the bathtub, and you need a running start to get in your bed.—Introducing GRO SOME MO

By alvin

October 6, 2006 04:43 PM | Link to this

Trust me at 5’4 it would be work to find you under the covers much less what you are working with. It would seem to me that a person who has to constantly toot their own horn about their looks and what they have maybe tooting it because of their own esteem issues.

KYM I love myself to death…Now…OH you are talk about D/K? Just ask and I will tell you, for your info I do use magnum…other brands are a little too tight for me*…I’ve only started doing tricks in bed 3years ago…After being shot, my body change into a mini c** diesel and I love it.

And you need a nice size manhood to perform tricks Kym. I enjoy being able to pick the woman up and put her in the postition I want…Which is were my height limits me…Never the size of what I have…which I thanks the GODS for…

KYM if you really want to talk about me, then TALK ABOUT MY DEAFNESS!!!

WHICH IS THE ONLY THING YOU HEARINGS ARE BETTER THAN ME AT AND THE ONLY THING IN LIFE I AM JEALOUS OF!! THAT ALONG MAKE MY 2 YEAR SON AND YOURSELF GREATER THEN ME IN ANYTHING IN THIS LIFE

Try harder and stop riding Marta, KYM

By Staceye

October 6, 2006 04:45 PM | Link to this

I too feel you must be this tall to ride this ride. I am 5’8 and I wear heels so i can be anywhere from 5”10 to 6ft…so what am I going to do with a lil’ man…throw him on my hipp and take him home? NOPE. I like my men tall with muscle. Some kind of size. it just feels more masculine to me. My ex was 6’8/ 255lbs of muscle, size 15 shoe ( and yes girls the story is right about the shoe size and hand size which by the way are very large). I think I marry him (lol) Anyway….my point is, you are not going to walk up and talk to the ugliest guy becasue you think he’s nice. You go for the fine ones and pray to God he is workable. I just say my type is: Tall, handsome, gainfully employed, lives alone, has his own car, no kids, got all of his teeth and they are nice white & straight, D & D free, sane, intelligent, humorous, adventourous and somewhat spirutual. Race is unimportant..i have dated every race on this planet…that ex I spoke of…he was European (Serbia & Montenegro/by Russia for the geographically challenged)!

By alvin

October 6, 2006 04:48 PM | Link to this

chink I am no into your size sweetie thats all

By 4theLongHaul

October 6, 2006 04:49 PM | Link to this

Alright y’all. Going to hang out with Dominicans at the hair salon. Please dear God, remember my prayer from earlier today. ANOINT their hands! Or my hands will be anointed to jap slap somebody if they jack my stuff up!!!!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 04:51 PM | Link to this

Alvin Look here mini me I am not looking to score point with you on who is better, but as long as you feel the need to be trifling and insulting in your comments I will comment on that. If you want to advertise your wares like they do on infomercials go ahead I am sure you will have them line up outside of your gingerbread house-muffin man.

By Blue_Kolla

October 6, 2006 04:52 PM | Link to this

Demi Good fight champ…

Yoll be cool.

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:52 PM | Link to this

Alvin No you did not! U are better than that!

By alvin

October 6, 2006 04:52 PM | Link to this

Kym you are now being childish,

JustME yes Lady Long Legg

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:56 PM | Link to this

4TLH Best of Luck on your new doo!

Staceye I can say this……. all of the tall men Ihave dated have been full of shyt! to some degree. Maybe it’s because 80% of women like tall men…. no matter their own height.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 6, 2006 04:57 PM | Link to this

And you need a nice size manhood to perform tricks Kym

HMMM maybe that should be you need to perform tricks when you are half the size of a man.

By JustMe

October 6, 2006 04:58 PM | Link to this

Alvin I would tell you to call’em like U see’em, but this is the blog - LOL

Kym That was raw, but funny!

Y’all B E Z

By alvin

October 6, 2006 04:59 PM | Link to this

Anyway….my point is, you are not going to walk up and talk to the ugliest guy(girl) becasue you think he’s nice. You go for the fine ones and pray to God he(She) is workable

Well said Staceye said while standing on a crate and pouring water on Kym’s head…you are taller than I, so grow up to your height and become what God want you to be!!!

By alvin

October 6, 2006 05:02 PM | Link to this

If you want to advertise your wares like they do on infomercials go ahead I am sure you will have them line up outside of your gingerbread house-muffin man.

Kym nope that the old me and why I was shot in the first place…people change And I don’t mind you calling me out…

JustMe Night sweetie…