By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

January 3, 2007 08:18 AM | Link to this

Wise Diva…Interesting Topic

As I mentioned yesterday, I have a pretty scripted plan for the first three or four dates. By date three or four a day trip is always planned. It might be to Dahlonega, or Calloway Gardens or Hiawasee, or anywhere that is entertaining, low key, and comfortable. I go for exactly the reasons that you have indicated. Almost anyone, myself included, can make a good impression when limited to two or three hours in a controlled environment like a restaurant or whatever, but on a road trip one can really see how quickly you run out of things to talk about, or how ‘bychy’ either of you are, or get a history lesson of what path brought each to here and now, or make the mistake of declaring just how really stupid those other MFing drivers are (road rage is not a good trait to exhibit…hold that tongue).

A road trip is an opportunity to really take someone out into the daylight and see who they really are, and let them see you also…

and when you do, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose (because you are being evaluated tooooo), and sometimes you get rained out.

By UT96

January 3, 2007 08:54 AM | Link to this

My most recent ex-girlfriend flunked the travel test on several occasions. The last straw came on a weekend visit to Savannah (I live in Nashville). she acted like a total spoiled brat. So, on the way home, I told her she would not be going on anymore trips with me.

By Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax

January 3, 2007 09:06 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Ladies, how long do you try to keep up the “always cute, flaw-free” facade? After date one..all bets are off.

Now dont get me wrong I will look nice when we meet but I am not wearing a full length gown, high-heels etc.. In order to put on a show. I am comfort, casual you meet me Date one hair down, Date two hair may be pulled back in a ponytail…unless we are going to a function that requires dressing up. I am a human being now granted I wont pick my nose or scratch my butt around a guy. But burp, heck yeah!! We all do that. Too cute to poot? Please!! Granted I may leave the table and go to the restroom, but if we are home(at my home) relaxing-then my house, my rules.

Advice for Kyra…Lets see Vegas, with your boyfriend and his friends. Wisey didnt mention the other guys bring girlfriends, so with all due respect. You should have stayed your tail at home. Vegas, men, legalize gambling, drinking, and half-naked show girls. An you wanted him to be a man with sensitive. Unless you are going to Vegas to get married..it is like taking sand to the beach.

By Raqi

January 3, 2007 09:15 AM | Link to this

Good Morning and Happy New Year to All.

Good Topic WiseDiva.

(On Jay) I am not surprised this happened only after a few weeks. It as bound to show up.

(On Kyra) It is amazing that they were together a whole year and she never saw him behave like that. That leads me to believe that he wore his pretense around his friends and not her. Think about it. If I am reading correctly, the whole time they were together this is the first time this set of friends were present and this is the first time he behaved badly. Yeah, he was acting out for his friends. Evidently he had reputation to protect; he wasn’t that person that he led his friends to believe he was or he had changed and didn’t want them to know that he had gone “soft”. I don’t think, IMO, that she has anything to worry about unless he starts spending more time with that set of friends and feel the need to continue to act out. She needs to give him a dose of his own medicine now. Make him feel the error of his ways. One day when she is with him in the company of her friends it needs to be all about her and her girls and leave his behind floating solo in the background. In a case like this I would even go out of my way to comment on how cute some other guy is to my friends in front of him. When he wants to know what’s up with her actions because “she has never acted like this before”, then tell him you remember our trip to Vegas, well the way you feel right now is how I felt.

Believe me, I am married to moody man and it took giving him back what he was giving me to make him realize what he was doing. We went to Hilton Head one year and because he was in one of his moods he barely said 10 words to me the entire drive. When we got there I had only 10 words for him. “NOT SO, BUDDY. TAKE YOUR %#&@$!? HANDS OFF OF ME”. After doing that a couple times he soon got the message. He is still moody, but it’s not as bad as it was.

By Mo

January 3, 2007 09:20 AM | Link to this

Morning All My Ex-So failed the road test soooo many times its a wonder we got married. He thought I was joking when I said “we dont travel well together”. We would argue from the time we started packing til the time we took the last pair of shoes out of the suitcase, DISASTER!!! As far as the always cute facade, I think you have to feel out the relationship and decide when to relax. Just depends on when you get comfortable. And RandyT you are right about the road rage!! Keep that under wraps as long as you can! LOL!

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 09:22 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

I went to Mardi Gra with this guy a few years ago. We met in Nov - Dec, and made plans to attend Mardi Gras shortly after we met. A short time later we kinda fell off and stopped talking as much, blah, blah, blah… long story short, when it was time for the trip we had barely spoken in a few weeks, but I wanted to be fair since he had paid for the hotel, I didn’t want to be scandalous and take someone else, so I left him a nice message and asked him if he was still planning on going (the Resv was in my name). We went and the ride down was the most fun we together had the whole trip. When we got to NO, we strolled the markets the first day and saw 1 or 2 parades, the 2nd day it rained so we took in a few small parades near our hotel, the 3rd day was Superbowl Sunday, he somehow met the waitress at Denny’s and we ended up watching the SB with her and her husband and friends (I was leary to say the least), Monday we went back to the French Quarter but he declared he was thru drinking for the trip(floored me - WTF), Fat Tuesday, we got separated a parade and I managed not to find him. I went back to the hotel a few hours later, took a nap and shower, when he finally called looking for me, I told him I was on my way back to the FQ with or without him. I went alone. When we left Wednesday, we were barely speaking. I haven’t spoken to him since we got back to Atlanta. I did see him once when I was crossing crossing Peachtree Street, he was driving a MARTA Bus. He flunked the whole trip, and maybe I did too - LOL

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 09:31 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

The road trip is a good way to get the true inner person to come forward…But it works both ways…We always want to see how other people react without taking notice of ourselves. When you only have to spend 4-5 hours together anyone can be polite and disregard things they dont really care for in the other person. But spend 14-24 hours together and anyone will eventually say “Why don’t you put the dang lid down on the toilet, nasty’azz”….LOLOL…But it’s all about how the two of you can handle each others moods and quirks…If you can’t deal, then you aren’t the people for each other.

This is as deep as I’m getting today

By NCgirlfromATL

January 3, 2007 09:32 AM | Link to this

ROTFLMAO @ Kym and the cute little poot! It’s my house, and I’ll fart here!

lololol!!!!

By Foots

January 3, 2007 09:33 AM | Link to this

How “real” are you when you are initially exploring a relationship with someone? Ladies, how long do you try to keep up the “always cute, flaw-free” facade?

Happy New Year everyone!! I think that with my current relationship, there were no facades at all. Since he lives out of town and visits on the weekends, our dates have all been extended into two or three days from the beginning. So we’ve both seen each other at our best and worst. He has definitely seen the bad hair days and the head scarf. Now I have to convince him to close the door when he’s sitting on the toilet, and when I finally close it, he wants me to stand at the door so we can continue our conversation. No mystery there at all! LOL!!

The trips I have taken with ex-boyfriends just highlighted the fact that we were not right for each other. One trip with an ex was terrible. We fought continuously on the cruise and stopped speaking to each other for the last day of the trip, not on the plane either. When we got back to his house, I got my car and got the hellz on.

I can’t wait to see what traveling with the Little Joker is like… :-)

By runninatl

January 3, 2007 09:35 AM | Link to this

Morning folk.

Sup Randyt.

Kym I know you got some haterade for the recently departed Jim Mora this week but remember that Bill Cowher might retire this off season as well. Nick Saban is out in Miami so we’re all looking for new coaches this off season…:-(

As far the topic goes, the road trip test goes hand and hand with the shacking up before marriage test. I don’t think you can ever truly know someone until you live with them and see how they live and take care of themselves and their place day after day. I believe you can get a good glimpse of that when you travel with someone.

Plus, road trips don’t always turn out as great as planned so it could be a good indication of how that person handles some minor adversity. Can they still have a good time if there are issues with the hotel room or the venue you are going to check out or will they buckle under the pressure and come off as a spoiled brat and annoy the heck out of you. You also get to see the little things about someone that could drive you insane such as how long it take them to get ready, how much time they spend in the mirror, how much they complain about every little thing, how much patience they have, their ability to just relax, and things like that.

As far as acting different around friends, that’s some immature mess. Now if you joke and clown with your boys then you should be able to joke and clown around your boys and your girl as well. But if you come off like a completely different person then that should be a red flag.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 09:36 AM | Link to this

JustMe That was messed up…Yes, you flucked that trip. Perhaps the Man didn’t want to drink cause he knew he was gonna have to drive your drunk, sleepy’azz back to the A. Hahahahahaha

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 09:55 AM | Link to this

Morning Everyone!!

Kym….burping and pooting, girl I am laughing at that!!! But I feel you, esp. on the burping, hehehehehe!!

I don’t do the facades thing. What you see is what you get. So basically, you get the real Sexi (all the not so cutes, but with style and class as much as possible)…..and the good qualitites most certainly outweigh the bad.

As for road trips, I don’t have any horror stories there. But you best to believe, if you act a fool, I will let you know (and may even give it back to you as Raqi said), so that you’ll know exactly how it feels.

By SeanJohnson

January 3, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog….I dont know about the rest of yall but to me..the Road Trip thing is not a good test to see how a person really is…Reason being..every road trip i had went good…extremely good..because of the romantic atmoshpere and no distractions..Its only you and them so its all about yall the whole trip..Plus u know how frky folks get when the are in foreign beds. So normally people are mostly on their best behvavior…Like they say..u never know a person until you lived with them…so trust me..thats the best indicator…

As far as Kyra and her situation…Some dudes are like that..thats one of the reasons why i think your main shouldnt be around you and your boys…too much ..or at all…I know me..and me and some of my boyz dont put any cut on it and the average female would be shocked of how we talk and think. In her case though dude was dead wrong..when you are with your girl is all about her and dude shoulda told the fellas he couldnt hang..or agree to set aside a time he could chill with them.

By reality check

January 3, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this

Be yourself at all times. If things work out, fine. If something emerges you don’t like early on, bail. If things aren’t working in courtship mode they certainly won’t later. People have very limited ability to change and there are too many fish in the sea.

By Chocolate Peach

January 3, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year All!!! Very interesting cause I myself was on a getaway w/a new prospect this holiday season.

I am one of those chic who dosen’t really want a guy to see me in my comfort zone early in the relationship & that is with my hair all wraped, tied up & layin around in a wife beater & thongs all day. However this one dude I felt completely comfortable enough to do such things around him. I mean a lot of things were let out the bag this holiday season that usually wouldnt happen.

So for me I felt comfortable to let a few guards down b/c that was one thing that drew me closer & closer to him when we first met. I felt that comfort zone & a sense of security immediately. I knew he was in to me totally so whatever I did it came natural like we had been together for years!! I’ve dated a guy before for 4 yrs & still at some pointe wasnt completely comfortable enought to let all guards down like I did with this guy.

For me personally that’s my ultimate test for a guy. It’s not to meet moms, sisters or etc. but to see how he treats me in front of his homeboi’s. That ladies will say a lot about a man. In my opinion anyway. If he truly likes you, loves you or whatever he will make it known that friend comes last. He will kiss you, cont to open the door, hold your hand & make sure U R A ok!! He wants his homies to know how he feel about the woman in his life. Actually that’s vice versa as well ladies will cont to shower they’re man w/love no matter whom they’re around if they’re truly into you.

My B day 12/20 was our 1st trip (cabins)together & he aced it & that led up to me spending Xmas & New Years w/this guy.

Basically the real person is revealed & U have to decide rather or not if U want to cont. on with someone who true colors have shined all over the globe. B/c believe it or not that the real them.

By Tiff

January 3, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Mornin’

I can relate to Kyra’s situation as I had an ex-SO that acted the same way when I was with him and his friends for the first time. He acted totally different from the person I had known him to be the 6 months prior to hanging out with all of his friends. I wasn’t sure if he had been fooling me for months and that was really how he was or if he was acting for his friends. Either way it didn’t work for me so I broke it off and didn’t speak to him for about 5 months after that.

I took a trip to Barbados with an ex-SO a few years ago and I was ready to leave the second day!!

Foots He told me he went by himself!! wink LOL

By Bre'

January 3, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year….to all. I’m celebrating Chinese New Year in 2007 its the year of the Pig….I decided this year I’m going to eat meat..maybe.

On Topic I traveled to Vegas last week with someone I recently started dating. Its a long distance relationship, so we had done the weekend quick visits. The trip went smooth, he is very laid back to my in your face too much energy personality. But I have to say it was a smooth trip, no bumps or anything. However I think we are both in a good place to just chill, no drama. Just enjoying each other’s company. The facade phase I don’t think I went thru. I’m too tired with the dating scene to put up any fronts.

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

What up folks??

I saw this post and had to give you a few war stories of folks I met,talked with, thought I got to know,then went to visit them and I definitely found out what they were working with.

Story 1 - Short version…Met a chick, who was a captain in the military, we talk for 3 mos, we agree I would come see her, due to her schedule. I fly out to San Diego, she picks me up and drops me off at her crib and goes back to work.

She later returns and we kick it. It get’s late, so I say I will take the couch (being a gentleman). She insists that I come up stairs with her, so I do just that.

Chick insists I take a shower, before going to bed, but she does not take one,so I say cool, I will do it, only trick is that she want’s the door to stay open, so I take the shower thinking some freaky ish is bout to pop off…wrong!

I get out the shower, dry off, go hop in bed with said chick and she want’s to cuddle, so I am like cool, then next thing chick says good night and I am like WTF???

I lay there like I can’t sleep after that ish, home girl is out snoring!

I go back down stairs and get on the couch sayin…I flew 3000 miles for this????

Chick get’s up the next morning and can’t find me, due to me on the couch. The rest was a disaster and when she left to go to a sorority meeting, I was outty! Never heard from her again.

Second story - Met a chick at a party, she was from out of town. We clicked, I invited her to come see me, after a month of talking with her. She comes and pulls out all these sex toys she brought with her and I am like dayum, what I do with all this???

Because I gotta keep it PG, let’s just say chick had more fun with the toys and forgot about your boy!

I am up there trying to get in like a pick up game and chick keeps pushing me back like I am good…WTF???

Ya boy is like he never had a chance to show and improve, so I sit back and let her do her thing, not wanting to catch a case!

Next morning, that chick was on Airtran fast..”Fly there is nothing stoppin ya from leaving my azz”

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

SJ…….Plus u know how frky folks get when the are in foreign beds.
Is that why I can never get completely comfortable in hotel beds? It’s weird, I don’t care how nice and expensive the hotel (but of course that helps IF that carries over into cleanliness), I am never at ease like I am at home (that’s when I’m most adventurous!!).

…Some dudes are like that..thats one of the reasons why i think your main shouldnt be around you and your boys…too much ..or at all See, I have to disagree with you there. I think no matter how “stupid” you act with your friends, that should be a side of you that your SO sees too (from time to time). That’s when you get to see the whole person, and not just selected parts. It’s also a good indicator of whether or not you are hiding anything. Just saying……

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

January 3, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

Hey Runnin How are you?

Re: Road/Day Trip

I usually do not propose an ‘overnighter’ for awhile in a relationship. I will always do the day trip by the third or fourth date, but reserve the overnighters until I already know I like the lady. With a day trip, if she gets in a crappy mood, I can turn the car around pretty dayum quick…it is a little harder to turn one of Airtran’s planes around, or drive back from the beach right after I got there. Personally I want to wait a month or two before I get tooooo far away from ATL.

Life is too short to spend the whole weekend with a bychy woman (or man)…especially on my dime. If I wanted that, I’d still be married ;-)

By Raqi

January 3, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

LL, Maybe she was a morning person and wanted to make sure you were nice and clean for her morning mounting. Or maybe she was into having wood chips for breakfast. Maybe you cheated yourself. You just never know.

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

LL….your first story….what were you thinking? This is exactly why women don’t get too cozy with dudes up front. Your expectations turned to disappointment because they were too high. I’m not sure about the door staying open issue, but what about her made you think she would be serving up the puddy? Did she tell you that? Was it ever discussed? Maybe she was testing your resolve. Every time we want to lay next to a man doesn’t mean we’re ready to open the buffet. Who knows, maybe the next night would have gone that way….patience grasshopper, patience. lol

By Chocolate Peach

January 3, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

“Longtime Lurker”, WOW!! dude, that’s KRAZY!!!

I’m guessing no more trips 4 U? But what I am wondering is Y she didnt shower?

And the last chic was she lesbo & U didnt know it? I dont see how she would entertain you to such levels & not have you join. That’s the craziest crap I’d ever heard.

By Wise Diva

January 3, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Hey everyone, interesting comments so far!

Do you think that disharmony on a road trip is like a red flag?

Randyt, great points you made about day trips, length of time you are dating, and distance you are going, should probably be considered, LOL @ turn the car around!

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

January 3, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

LMAOROF @LL

Those were funny stories. I’ve had ‘threesomes’ with ladies and ‘toys’, but never told to go sit in the corner and just be a spectator. Those experiences of yours were really wild.

By Foots

January 3, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Tiff No, girl, I didn’t make it to Barbados. I had already cut the crazy loose by that time. I saw pictures of he and his ex’s trip there together though. :-)

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

**Musing while I do drink, I rarely over indulge - LOL

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

good morning all!!! sexione you’re funny…folks get freaky in foreign beds, huh…lol. that is true.

i don’t know about the road trip test. i’ve had some disastrous experiences going out of town w/folks. i surely didn’t expect for things to go the way they did. maybe trips do bring out the ugly side of folks. needless to say, i haven’t taken any trips w/someone i’m dating lately. lol

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

At all… nah, I only reserve road trips for chicks I know now. Them two trips cost me a pretty penny and I did not benefit from either one!

On both trips, both chicks expressed a desire to let it “go down” many times prior, so that is why I scrambled for my credit card.

I have 4001 other stories with chicks that I have stopped trying to figure out. Ya’ll are some interesting cases, even with the ones I am currently involved with. Y’all are the queens of giving off mixed signals!

By Seth

January 3, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

I like to take my ladies somewhere really far away so I can leave them there if things don’t go right.

By SeanJohnson

January 3, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

@ LL…your second story…was that Foots/Toya..by any chance…lol..just joking Foots..happy new year..

By Been Here Since Day 1 in 2004

January 3, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year……

the road trip is the best way to determine if he/she is worthy….

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

Oh I got one more, but this one is not a trip story..

I went to a party New Years Eve and saw my boys wife making out with another chick, but she did not see me.

We knew of no prior lesbo tendencies in said chick for over 10 years of knowing her. Trick is that her husband was down stairs getting his party on with me and the rest of the bruh’s.

I saw it go down, because I left to go to the bathroom and the master bedroom was upstairs by the bathroom and I heard some ish and peeked in.

Later that night, she saw me downstairs and did not know I saw her in the room banging another chick.

Should I tell my boy or let it ride??

By Chocolate Peach

January 3, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

Yes, disharmony on a road trip is like a red flag TOTALLY!!!!

Think about it the avg road trip is 2/3 days maybe longer if U cant deal with one another’s true character or a situation that arises & neither can fix it or come to some type of agreement or understanding for 2/3 days how in the hell can U expect to be with them longterm or even expect another trip?

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

LL….I see. Maybe you should narrow down the numbers so that you can better understand what is happening and why. Y’all funny trying to have a rotation, but can’t really figure out (or satisfy) one. hehehehe

kinder….that’s what SJ said, and I’m sure it is true…..hence my discomfort. I need one of those ultraviolet lights to inspect before I lay down in a hotel bed. Plus, I never lay on the comforters, they seem to never change them unless you ask. Ick!!!!

By Raqi

January 3, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

LL, we do not give off mixed signals. We come through loud and clear about what we want. The problem is you men only have one code for deciphering signals and that is “Let’s fudge”.

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

LL…..DAAAYYYUUUMMMM!!!! There goes my lunch!!! WTF???? Were they actually “in the act”? Not that it matters, what you said was nasty enough!!!! Think of it this way, would you want to be told if it were you? That’s your answer. ICK, ICK, ICK!!!!!!

By ImAPeach404

January 3, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Hey all! Happy New Year!

Hey foots, im dying to know… did you get the RC car? What happened with that???

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

wow ll that’s a tough one. are you and your friend really close?? if so, i would tell him. but then again, he may know that she’s freaky like that but just didn’t mention it to his friends.

By Chocolate Peach

January 3, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Whoa!!! LL, that’s deep. It depends how long they been together or how cool R U 2. I mean is he really yo boy, yo boi or is he just ya boi. That matters.

Instead of just telling him stage something so she will tell on herself. That’s a UGLY!! one.

He may be Xstatic about it, Ya know most men love the fact “My girl gotta girlfriend” in the words of Young Dro………..

By NCgirlfromATL

January 3, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

LL That is sooooo funny! As far as your boy is concerned, if he’s a good friend, I’d let him know. He might not know his wife has those tendencies and might want to join in! lol!

By reality check

January 3, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

LL, the only thing to do when you find two women in that position is to ease in there with them without disturbing anybody.

By MELO

January 3, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

Chick insists I take a shower, before going to bed, but she does not take one,so I say cool, I will do it, only trick is that she want’s the door to stay open, so I take the shower thinking some freaky ish is bout to pop off…wrong!Longtime Lurker

She did not want any to happen coz she noticed the wang wang was a waste of time! Taking a shower herself would have led you on…wrongly.

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

sexione you’re right. i saw the dateline special about hotel rooms and how nasty they are. i think we were talking about this earlier last year on the blog…spraying stuff down w/lysol and such. i know i take a can w/me everytime i travel. gotta disinfect!:)

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

@Sexione & Kinderbabe I dun seen a lot ish in my day and had to make a corporate decision to discuss or not to discuss, but this one has me the worst!

This dude is my DP and he made me when I pledged and he is my close boy, so I don’t know.

I know in fact that he does not know about her ever having a desire to be with another chick, but I am not sure ole girl has never been with another woman before, based on what I saw. I watched for about 10 min and went back down stairs and threw 3 vodkas and oj’s back real fast and tried to forget it, then when she came back down I saw her and why she comes back down and comes over to the bar and starts a convo.

I am looking at her and she blows my buzz, then I see my 94 and he plants a big kiss on her lips, after home girl licked the bushes. I almost lost it!

This ish has been really gettin at me mayne!

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

@MELO On your 11;28, nah, I am good in that dept. she even commented on the goods. Chick was just on some other ish and I had no time to work with her program, so I was out of there!

I discussed the game plan with both chicks, before I gave the authorization on the credit card, so they knew what was up!

I just charge the exp. to the game and keep it moving! I have had more road trips that were a success vs. failure, so I guess I am battin over 250.

By MELO

January 3, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

LL,u need to call her and ask her direct before u talk to ur boy. Then u can take it with your boy after u hear the response. But u have to hit ur boy soon after, coz if she’s keeping it pvt, she will spin it aginst u and ur boy will think u trying to hit her. Either way, this can spin out of control but u got be a man and clear ur chest.

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

My bad folks, I forgot how men view two women together MUCH differently. Maybe he does already know, LL, and just didn’t want his boys to know as well. Heck, maybe he evens joins in, who knows!!! Maybe you should toss the scenario around to see what he says before just outright telling him.

MELO…good point, and quite funny!!

By Chocolate Peach

January 3, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Great observation MELO!!! Lol….

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

@MELO Nah, I ain’t callin that mans wife for nothin! That is how you f**k up and get thrown in the mix!

If I talk to anyone, it is going to be him! I need to marinate on this one!

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

Sexione I am one step ahead of you, I already gave him the test and he failed badly!

Trust, when I say, dude does not know.

By C tha 1

January 3, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

@ LL

Dawg, you gotta let your boy know what’s up! I mean he may already know himself, but if he’s acting all oblivious to it you can’t call him bruh (in the true sence of the word) and not let him in on what his ole lady is doing. From reading your posts I assume you’re better than that.

The bigger question is HOW ARE YOU GOING TO TELL HIM? Wheeww! Ioinknow to be honest with you, but I do know it requires some finesse. As I said earlier, he may already know. The funny thing is my best friend is trying to convince himself and his wife to start swinging which seems to be a growing trend in ATL. I told him he might wanna fall back on that as it may invite something he does not want, but you gotta let grown folks be grown.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

LL, the only thing to do when you find two women in that position is to ease in there with them without disturbing anybody.

reality check Man you crazy…LOLOL

Two girls making out as LL walks by

Girl 1: Ohhhh, baby you know you got what I like.

Girl 2: Ahhhh yea, I got you right here girl…and your toy feels so real.

Girl 1: What toy!?!?!?

Girl 1 looks down and notices a bucked nekkedd LL under the covers with his taco meat permed and glistening

By Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax

January 3, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

Runnin

Saban took the job man. So Miami is in the hunt.

Wisenhunt is interviewing with the Fakecons..he is a former Fakecon so it is most likely he is the man for the job. An seeing as he has been on that awesome coaching staff that is the Steelers, the fakecons may have a snowball’s prayer in hell of doing something in a year or so. Provided they get some real defense, and maybe get some coaches who will light a fire under those crybaby players as oppose to stroking their egos.

Anyhoo I want Cowher to stay one more year but if he must leave then I want Russ Grimm for the Steelers he is a hometown guy, knows the players, Assistant coach for awhile so he should be in my opinion the best guy for the Steeler Nation.

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

LL…ok, so much for that theory. But, if he’s truly yo boy, just tell him. Do not make contact with her though, at all….you’re right on that one. That could give her ammo to turn it on you. Ask him, “man how would you feel if you found out your wife was licking a bush?” OR “would you want to know if your wife was creeping around in the bushes?”….just to see what his answer is. That’s an ugly situation. Poor baby, let Sexi give you a hug (!*!).

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

ll i think you should tell him. at least you will know that you said something. what he does w/the info is up to him. since he is a good friend of yours, i definitely couldn’t hold the info in.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

LL Don’t tell dude about his Lady banging another chick. Do it like this

LL: “Man your old lady and that chick were acting funny when I walked by…What’s up with those two…Is that her friend or something?”

Friend: What do you mean.

LL: I’m not sure…Man it was nothing I guess.

Friend: Man what’s up…What did you see?

LL: Man, I think they were f/ken.

By Deljah

January 3, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

LL - Too late now, but you should have dashed back down stairs and brought your boy up quietly so he could see for himself. I mean, you said you watched for abut 10 minutes….

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

musing you and these skits…lol. i’m w/whoever said that you must be a professional comedian. lol

By SexyLeggs

January 3, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

LL I am cracking up over here. I’m sorry you’ve experienced so much and didn’t receive any prizes at the end. Anyway, I do believe that a road trip can make or break a relationship. However, what even more importatnt is how long the two have been dating before going on a road trip. The longer the dating spell the more the “true” person comes out. The shorter the dating spell is when you’re more prone to the superficial side of a person, in a woman = spoiled brat, and in a man = you’re giving me some. I didn’t take this trip for nothing.

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

lol…man some of y’all ain’t right Musing I needed that laugh! I am going to marinate for a while, because I know dude and he get’s real sensitive about ish and he loves this chick.

I was surprised, because normally I can spot a “suspect” chick out of a lineup regardless and she slipped through the cracks with all of my boys that have dealt with chicks that go both ways!

Talk about “DL” I think more chicks are getting down, than dudes. I think it is more natural for them to be interested in another chick, check out how “all” females watch other chicks everyday all day!

You just don’t run up on your boy with ish like this in casual convo! I will figure it out and give you a play-by-play when and if it all goes down!

By runninatl

January 3, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

Randyt All is good, had a good Christmas and New Year, now back on the grind at work. Hope all is well with you.

Kym Nick Saban is a bytch!!! He should have stayed at LSU if he couldn’t handle the pressure. Colleges coaches make all this money and can leave their contracts whenever they please but college athletes are bound or have to sit out a year just for signing a letter of intent. If the Falcons don’t hire Norm Chow then they won’t win in the Mike Vick era. They need serious direction and he’s an offensive genius. Bill Cowher is gonna retire and hunt buffalo for the rest of his life.

Bre Just remember that what goes on in Vegas, stays in Vegas…lol.

LL Man, your stories are a mess…lol. But if that’s your boy then you know he wants to know. Heck, he might get some fun out of it himself. If not, then he needs to know before they take their little show on the road without him and he’s left wondering what happened…lol.

By NCgirlfromATL

January 3, 2007 01:00 PM | Link to this

LL Just keep in mind, the longer it takes you to tell your boy, the more drama there will be. He’ll wonder why it took you so long to say anything, and that could easily lead to more unnecessary drama. I recently had to tell a friend I’d run into her man w/ another woman, and my original plan had been to give him a day or so to clean it up on his own. But, when he didn’t and was still playing like he wasn’t living with another woman!!! I had to just give it to my girl straight, no chaser. She kept asking me why I didn’t call the day I saw it happen. Thankfully, it was only a day or so later when I told her, but she said she really would have preferred if I’d called her when I saw it. Of course, I think it worked out better, b/c she was all prepared to go monkey on him…and I don’t practice criminal law! lol!

Just a little friendly advice!

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 01:00 PM | Link to this

LL…check out how “all” females watch other chicks everyday all day! Again, I must be the exception!! I know you don’t really believe that. I watch the men (but not all day), but definitely NOT the women!!! No thrills there….

Musing…..hella funny!!! Whew!!

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

January 3, 2007 01:13 PM | Link to this

I think LL’s dilema has to be explained further. Now were these chicks ‘hot’ or were they ‘not so hot’ or were they ‘double baggers’ or ‘coyote ugly’??? This would determine the correct action.

If they were ‘hot’ then I might have been tempted to see if I could get an invitation to the ‘party’.

If they were ‘not so hot’…still appealing but might want to consider the boy’s feelings.

If they were ‘double baggers’ then you have to decide to go get some bags, tell the boy, or just go somewhere and throw up.

If they were ‘coyote ugly’, then save your arm and tell the boy.

Not that difficult…and you can thank me later for this professional advice ;-)

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 01:14 PM | Link to this

NCgirlfromATL Thanks for the advise, but men and women handle situations differently! You can’t just come out of nowhere with this one!

Trust that if I tell dude (which I mostly likely will set up a situation to let him know, cause I know the chick she was with, which was another surprise,cause I did not think the other chick got down like that either).

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 01:27 PM | Link to this

@Randyt No matter how you look at it, I cannot get down with my boy/DP/Frat’s wife regardless of the situation!

Now if it was some random broad, I would have prolly been the meat in the samich!

Also to answer your question, yes, his wife is a 10!

By lost and hurt

January 3, 2007 01:29 PM | Link to this

I was talking to a friend about my weekend, they sent me to this blog. My friend and I went out of town this past weekend for new years. she has been down. the whole weekend she told me she was afraid, she wanted me in her life. she was sorry we never became more than friends. she told me she wanted a clean slate. this could be the beginning of something special. she told me she had a tumor removed, didnt know if cancer was there. ok. monday nite we returned. i spent the nite with her. for some reason i was looking at her medicine. i wrote the names down. still not sure whats going on. why all of sudden you want for us to be together. the names are ergonovine, doxycycline and iburprofen. yesterday i looked them up. at home tired and resting. to my surprise. i am still in shock. what do i do??????? the medication tells me something else has happen.

By ImAPeach404

January 3, 2007 01:31 PM | Link to this

LL nobody is that bold to have sex with someone else during THEIR Christmas party in their own, house, in their own bedroom. Thats too obvious. Either he knows already or that’s a false story!

It’s too likely that someone, especially your mate, would walk into the master bedroom and catch you…especially if they were getting down for over 10 minutes!

He knows or you’re lying. One of the two

Actually, now that I go back and read the story… you didn’t say whose house this was, my bad. But still, the master bedroom is too easy to get caught in. I think he already knows. Thats too bold.

Or mabye she doesn’t give a d@mn anymore and didn’t care if she got caught or not.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 01:35 PM | Link to this

LL Man just tell your dude that the chick his girl is hanging out with is gay. He’ll put the two together and realize whats happening.

LL: Hey Man, I saw “chick” here at the new years party.

Dude: Yeah that’s “wifeys” friend.

LL: You know she’s Bi right?!?!

Dude: Who?

LL: “chick”

Hamster starting to turn the wheels in his mind

Dude: Ahhhhhhh, Ishhhhhhh….Those two hang out other night…and she comes home sweaty….She told me they were at the gym.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 01:43 PM | Link to this

lost and hurt Yeah, she had a “tumor” removed alright…ergonovine is supposedly given to Women that have had abortions. Either way I wouldn’t get too caught up in the emotions of it all….Do you really want to be the fall guy for her mistakes now that some dude has dogged her out.

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 01:48 PM | Link to this

LL…that’s what I was thinking….why would you try to join in with yo boys wife? Talk about making a horrible situation fatal!!! Good for you…

lostandhurt….where was the tumor removed from? Doxycycline is an antibiotic that slows down or kills the parasites in blood that cause malaria. Ergonovine is used to narrow blood vessels (in the head).

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 01:48 PM | Link to this

@ImAPeach404 It was an easy situation. The house was a friend’s house, that is at least 10 thousand sq feet. Everyone was in the basement and kitchen area and no one was permitted upstairs, but people the owner knows well.

I saw my boys wife maybe 30 minutes before I went to use the rest room, so she was up there about 45min to an hour I guess. It was perfect, because her husband was dancing with one of her friends the whole time.

I would have used the bathroom down stairs, but someone was in it and I opted to go upstairs.

By Wise Diva

January 3, 2007 01:52 PM | Link to this

welcome lost and hurt, I wonder, how did you feel about her before you found the medicine?

what made you think to take the names of the medicine down, did you suspect she was being untruthful?

By SeanJohnson

January 3, 2007 01:55 PM | Link to this

@LL…i wouldnt tell dude…thats a real sensitive subject…If it was meant to be..dude will find out in due time…one of the golden rules..unless its your brother…never get involved in telling a dude his girl is cheating…be with a male or female…And from the looks of it..he prolly wont take it so well…because if he did…he would been up there doing the menage thing..

By jraw

January 3, 2007 01:56 PM | Link to this

@lost&hurt the first medicine you listed is prescribed normally in the event of an abortion or excessive bleeding. Be upfront w/her and ask her to explain what is going on.

@LL Man, I would definitely tell my DP. Don’t hold that back. By the way, what frat are you in?

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 02:03 PM | Link to this

@lost and hurt Home girl just had an abortion by ex-dude and you are now the fall guy!

It is not too hard to figure this one out, due to the medications.

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 02:04 PM | Link to this

wait a minute lost i just got off of web md and it listed doxycycline as a medication used for pelvic matters such as pid (pelvic inflammatory disease). if your friend did have a cyst, it makes sense that she would have been taking such medication after surgery since it was a pelvic surgery. also the ergonovine, can be used for headaches and other conditions regarding pressure on blood vessels. unless you have extreme distrust for this woman anyway, don’t jump to conclusion. i can’t figure out what she’s done that would cause you to look her medicine to see if she’s lying or not. would you take a liar out of town??? what does that say about you?

By lost and hurt

January 3, 2007 02:04 PM | Link to this

Wise. We have a history. We would call every blue moon o keep in touch. I have always been there as a friend. I didnt understand why she wanted us to be together all of sudden. I would have been there to support her, evem if she didnt want to give all the details. I do feel like a fall guy. I was not good enough before. now you hit a brick wall. dude as left, so i think. and now you turn to me as your savoir. thats not right. I cant talk to her because now i am hurting.

By Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax

January 3, 2007 02:05 PM | Link to this

LL your story sounds like the Sisters of APF(refer to Zane erotic storyteller) to me. Ok Why would you watch for 10mins(despite the obvious reason you are a man with a penis, that is straight) and then come on here with all this self-righteous idignation. If you are all broken up about it why didnt you pull your fellow “Yard Stomper”(reference new movie)aside and say dude your wife is upstairs doing the nasty with some chick. Show his azz now…Show his azz later what diff does it make?

By runninatl

January 3, 2007 02:05 PM | Link to this

lost & hurt Sounds like you have some serious drama headed your way. Diva made two very good points, what made you write down the medicine in the first place, were you already suspicious? And how did you feel about her before the trip. I also have to co-sign Musing, don’t get caught up and be the rebound or the dude she falls back on after her miscarriage/abortion or whatever has really gone down. Plus, if she’s already lying to you about something as serious as a tumor, why would you even want to pursue anything further with her? Look out for self!

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 02:10 PM | Link to this

@jraw Que!

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 02:11 PM | Link to this

maybe there’s something i’m missing. apparently there are a lot of people on here that no more about abortions than i do…as a person who has HAD surgery of this nature, the medication that lost is naming make sense. i don’t see anything suspect. this medicine actually could have been used for the purpose stated. medicines are used for multiple purposes. it’s so interesting how quickly abortion came up…wow

By ImAPeach404

January 3, 2007 02:13 PM | Link to this

I guess LL, but a 10,000 sqf house that only has one bathroom downstairs? Weird. And, if the house was that huge, I know there were other bedrooms besides the master they could have gone in. Anywho, I think you should take Musings advice and tell your friend that his wifes friend is bi/gay… he may put it together for himself.

Lost & Wise Writing down the names of the meds is a great idea. If I found some meds in my boyfriends bathroom, I’d write the names down and hop on WebMD as soon as I got home. If my man had an STD or AIDS, the medicine would tell the whole story.

By lost and hurt

January 3, 2007 02:13 PM | Link to this

kinder I am not jumping to conclusion. I read what the web info I received on the medication. I am here to ask these question not hit her over the head with what I think. Just looking for answers.

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 02:17 PM | Link to this

Musing/Sexi/Lost

Ergonovine = Hemorraging medication (no specific locale in the body) Doxycycline = Antibiotic Ibprofin = Pain medication/anti inflammatory

By jraw

January 3, 2007 02:20 PM | Link to this

on topic: I have never had any issues when my wife and I go out of town together. We have however ran into issues when we go out of town on our own with our friends/family. Why that is I don’t know.

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 02:21 PM | Link to this

i’m sorry lost you’re not looking for answers. you’re looking for a reason not to be w/this lady. obviously, you DON’T trust her so leave her alone just forget about it. if you were looking for answers, you would talk to HER not some strangers on a blog. god knows, if something this serious was going on in my life, this would not be one of my first sources of confirmation or information.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 02:22 PM | Link to this

lost and hurt Pour yourself a glass of Henny…Straight on the rocks. Take your left hand and dust off your right shoulder. Then float on. If she’s not your Woman, close friend, or family…Why should you be racking your brain and feeling terrible because she suddenly has an epiphony that you are a good dude. Once she’s feeling better, she’ll revert back the the same girl who said “You’re a good guy, just not for me.”

By jraw

January 3, 2007 02:27 PM | Link to this

@LL he should be able to handle it then. Tell him. I bet his reaction might not be as bad as you think.

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 02:29 PM | Link to this

kinder You are correct…Medicine can have multiple uses….If she did have a tumor in her uterus, and doctors needed to prevent bleeding…I suppose they could very well use that drug. I did mention abortion, but that doesn’t have to be the case. Just ask her if you must know. But it wouldn’t matter for me.

I am not a docter, but I play one on the blog.

By Wise Diva

January 3, 2007 02:30 PM | Link to this

oh i wasn’t implying he was wrong for taking down the med names, I just think it represents that he had his suspicions, and he didn’t trust her enough to talk to her about it directly, which should really be the answer to his questions, you don’t trust her, but it’s probably not because of this alone.

By 2day

January 3, 2007 02:35 PM | Link to this

Happy New Year All I’m with you Peach on LL’s story. It just doesn’t sound right. A 10 thousand sq foot house should have bathrooms with easy access because of the sq footage alone. And to watch 2 women getting it on for 10 minutes and not say anything is too far fetch. LL you should invest in writing adults fairy tales b/c you have lots of stories. LOL

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

January 3, 2007 02:35 PM | Link to this

Actually LL I was kidding in my earlier post. I agree with SeanJohnson…stay away from it and let the boy find out for himself. That is not something that can be hidden for long anyway. The best thing you can do is stay out of it and be there for your friend when the ‘ish’ hits the fan.

By Twindivamomma

January 3, 2007 02:39 PM | Link to this

NEVER go on a extended road trip with a man or woman until you have been dating at least 3 months. Folks get crazy in a car for an extended period of time.

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 02:45 PM | Link to this

Lost I say sit her down and ask her straight up no chaser the following questions……. 1. What are the medications for

If you can get straight answers to those questions, you will have 97% of your answer 3% BS (she taking the rest to the grave)

By jraw

January 3, 2007 02:47 PM | Link to this

@kinderbabe When i googled the first medicine he mentioned. Abortion was the most common use for this medicine which is why I suggested he said ask.

By Dr. Professor Mr. MusingLee MD., OG, OB-1-Kenobe

January 3, 2007 02:52 PM | Link to this

I am now prescribing Petron to everyone on the blog. Take two shots each morning for eternity.

By Foots

January 3, 2007 02:52 PM | Link to this

Peach I didn’t get the car, I got him a sweater vest (he loves those things) and some golf gloves. He was more impressed with the gloves because he said he really needed them. Thanks for asking! How was your Christmas and New Years?

By Mo

January 3, 2007 02:54 PM | Link to this

jraw I was the complete opposite of you and the missus. Me and Ex-so would argue every trip but it was guranteed if it was to visit amy family/friends. Cant quite figure out why but we just couldnt travel together. LL let ole boi find out on his own, I agree with most of the bloggers that he prolly already knows or has a suspicion.

By Rondo

January 3, 2007 03:05 PM | Link to this

My future wife, Tomie Rae Hynie, is going to be appearing on Larry King Live. I’d travel anywhere with her. I’d even let her live in our house.

By Wise Diva

January 3, 2007 03:07 PM | Link to this

lost and hurt’s experience reminds me of something I saw on a TV show, My Boys, the old girlfriend calls the guy over for “emotional booty call”, which is basically a chick’s version of using a guy only for emotional support, as opposed to a guy using a girl for physical contact.

By ImperfectAmythst

January 3, 2007 03:07 PM | Link to this

Hello all HAPPY NEW YEAR!! May each of you receive all the joy,success and blessings you deserve in the New Year. Much Love

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 03:08 PM | Link to this

<<<@>>> <<<@>>>

Now following Dr. Prof. MusingcrazyazzLee’s advice and having 2 shots of Petron prn for 365 days or until the world stops spinning.

By jraw

January 3, 2007 03:09 PM | Link to this

@mo How long did you guys date? There’s no way, I could go out of town arguing with the person I am going with. I would cancel the trip. You are suppose to have fun :)!

@Kinder oops! had a typo in my previous message.

By Dr. Professor Mr. MusingLee MD., OG, OB-1-Kenobe

January 3, 2007 03:18 PM | Link to this

I am now prescribing a flyby from demi for all the lonely Ladies. Demi be sure to wear your see through spandex.

I am now prescribing a toy exibition show by Foots for all the lonely guys. Foots please be on time and don’t start the exibition until someone shows up.

By NCgirlfromATL

January 3, 2007 03:19 PM | Link to this

digging thru the medicine cabinet for my afternoon prescription from Dr. Musing Lee, MD, OG, Obi-Wan Kenobe…Cuervo…good, but no…Suaza…too strong…aaaaaaaah the Patron! Now how am I supposed to do this? Hmmm…take 2 shots with a lime and salt…shoot, lick, suck and repeat.

Thanks Doc!

By Mo

January 3, 2007 03:21 PM | Link to this

jraw we actually dated and got married with that bad traveling track record! Talk about ignoring red flags!! We were together a total of 8yrs and looking back on it now, its funny b/c I love to travel, have plenty of family out of town, but we couldnt get that, amongst other things, to work! New Year though and time to move on!! Co-signing with justme and having some Petron…

By Foots

January 3, 2007 03:26 PM | Link to this

Dr. Professor Mr. MusingLee Dang, you should have told me earlier not to get started until someone showed up!! Now I have to clean them all over again! LOL!!

kinderbabe How was the birthday celebration?

By Dr. Professor Mr. MusingLee MD., OG, OB-1-Kenobe

January 3, 2007 03:27 PM | Link to this

For all my island peeps.

Said in my Beenie Man voice

I am pree-scribing da KoooKonut Rum-a-bum-bum for ya! Be shure ta take dat Tree times a dey.

By ImperfectAmythst

January 3, 2007 03:33 PM | Link to this

Wow Musing That made me laff. Tanks mon I’m from de i-laans.

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 03:36 PM | Link to this

Mo Cheers and Mo Cheers

Foots U go gurllll!

Musing you sound like the guy I went out with last night. Eeezzz an island mahn!

By Sexione

January 3, 2007 03:36 PM | Link to this

Goodnight All

Going home to take my pescribed Petron right now….peace!!!

By Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax

January 3, 2007 03:38 PM | Link to this

Dr. Musing you failed to prescribe something for the tee-totalers such as myself. I think I can smell a lawsuit coming.

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 03:44 PM | Link to this

G’night SexiOne Remember 2 shots per hour till the world stops spinninninninninninninninninninn

By Dr. Professor Mr. MusingLee MD., OG, OB-1-Kenobe

January 3, 2007 03:47 PM | Link to this

Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax as a fellow blog physician…Just tell me what you want and I’ll prescribe it. May I suggest you start off with a tall glass of Yak, and end the night with a Bailys and Kahlua. Then get nekkedd for no reason at all and walk around the house, but don’t go outside.

By Mo

January 3, 2007 03:48 PM | Link to this

Dr. Professor Mr. MusingLee MD thanks for that prescription, I feel better already! Cheers back atcha JustMe, couldnt let you have all that fun by yo’self!!

By Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax

January 3, 2007 03:50 PM | Link to this

Alright Men folks and Women folks…I would like to know what you guys think of the young guy Johnson from Boise State proposing to his girlfriend after the Fiesta Bowl.

By Miss QC

January 3, 2007 03:55 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon Bloggers I hope you all had a great holiday…just came back to work 2day and i’m struggling just to remember my passwords..any who enjoy the rest of your day bloggers and have a nice evening

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 03:55 PM | Link to this

To all, the number of bathrooms was not the issue, as he has six, I just chose to go the one up stairs by his bedroom and saw what I saw.

I have decided to let my partner know in a round about way and I know how to do it! I am not about to get in the middle of some mess!

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 03:58 PM | Link to this

The MO The merrier I do hate to drink alone.

Musing How long will it take for the world to stop spinlinininlininlininlinin……. I’m gettin dizzy man…..whew, I’m now in a cold sweat!

By Dr. Kym aka Rested and Relax

January 3, 2007 04:04 PM | Link to this

I dont drink there Dr. Musing at all. Wine coolers in summer but that is about it. Although I did have Rum Runners on the cruise, but it was hot in Grand Turks. Okay virgin rum runners for me…until the summer breeze starts blowing

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 04:06 PM | Link to this

JustMe The spinning is permanent. Sorry, I neglected to mention that. However, also taking a shot of red wine will send your head spinning in the opposite direction…Take just enough to balance out the spinning, or you’ll have to drink more Petron.

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 04:07 PM | Link to this

LL I caught bits and peices of that story you’ve been telling today and here is JustMe’s $0.02.

Sounds to JustMe like the kid who didn’t want to tell on him self, so he blamed it on his friend. Maybe it was your girl and another chick that was getting busy in your bed, and rather that let on that you know ya chica is swapping spit with homegurl, you pretend not to know what’s really going on, so you fall into a deep state of DNYO (Denial) and blame it on ya friend’s girl, then you bust up in the blog with this story that few seem to embrace as the truth and seemingly at some point wanted to know if you should tell ya boy. Well heck dude, look in the mirror and tell the man what you want him to know. capeesh?

By JustMe

January 3, 2007 04:19 PM | Link to this

Musing You need to put side effects like that on the lable so folks know before they drink that you hve to drink more to get cured! Dangit Man. *now heading to the acme store to get some champipple - Red to stop the spinninninninninninninninn effects from the petron Dr. Musing Prof. Wan-a-b-a-Obie not-a-kanobi Lee prescribed. You said 4 - 6 ounces of red wine right Doc?

By MochaTreat

January 3, 2007 04:21 PM | Link to this

I have been reading this blog all day and I haven’t been able to focus….because I have been tripping off of the various comments.

I have only been on 1 road trip. It started out okay until the couple we went with complained about each and every thing. I was ready to come back to GA and leave them in SC. I will never go on a road trip with them ever again.

By smoothedizZle

January 3, 2007 04:22 PM | Link to this

I been seeing this chick for about 6 weeks now and I can say that the vacation trip was slammin! She was exactly like (if not hotter) the first time we met. We did the parents thing and man if she can make it through my family then she can make it through anything. (We hit it from the first day we met, but man she just keeps gettin hotter!)

I can honestly say that to LLurker if you had primed the puddy maybe she would have been a little more down with that … or maybe she was down with the morning mounting after all yo!

I think in the end if your just looking to throw down then you had betta do yo research before hand else ya may get burnt!

If you want the real deal then its worth the effort … believe me if you put in the effort it comes back 10 fold!

By Miss QC

January 3, 2007 04:33 PM | Link to this

Page If you’re “lurking” i damn near spit my coffee out when i opened that email….girl is that thang for real??? is it humanily possible to actually have something like that and live with it on a “daily basis” dayum!!! lololololol

By MusingLee

January 3, 2007 04:34 PM | Link to this

LL How did we go from telling your dude about his Woman, to everybody wanting to know how manys bathrooms are in the house.

Hahahahahahaha

LL: Yeah, she was cheating..How do I tell dude

Blog: Well, how many bathrooms does he have?

LL: Ahhhhh, three

Blog: Three bathrooms mean you shouldn’t tell him…If there was only one bathroom I’d say something

WTH….LOLOLOLOLOL

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 04:34 PM | Link to this

@JustMe Nah, that was not the case! I was with someone, but my girl was not involved. If I ever walked in on my girl or someone I was dating and she was gettin busy with another female, I would not hesitate to jump in. I dayum sho would not stand there and watch, I don’t think no man would.

On top of that,I was a bit buzzed, so if it had been any one else besides my boys wife, it would have been a problem up in that piece I promise ya!

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 04:39 PM | Link to this

i feel you musing and jraw on the most common use of the medicine thing…just wanted to offer another point of view.:)

foots my birthday celebration was great! went to pappadeaux on saturday. went to a whack party on my actual b-day (new year’s eve).:( it was o.k. though b/c i was w/my sister. she’s visiting me for a week. hopefully, we’ll get to go out and do something else before she leaves on saturday. what did you do for new year’s?

By ImperfectAmythst

January 3, 2007 04:41 PM | Link to this

Diva please give me a call later. It’s sorta urgent.Email me (authenticislandrose@yahoo.com) and I will send you my digits. Nite nite all, I’m working on a document that must be completed by 7pm.Hopefully I can play tomorrow.

By "Longtime Lurker"

January 3, 2007 04:43 PM | Link to this

@smoothedizZle I think you made some valid points, but chick was just weird on the whole shower thing and a few other things, that I could not pick up over the phone, so I bounced!

I did not want to spend another day with ole girl and she do some even weirder ish.

By kinderbabe

January 3, 2007 04:57 PM | Link to this

nite nite all. til tomorrow.:)