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Touchy Subjects
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Some women love to talk, (and talk, and talk some more) about everything that is going on, while most men are quite happy to embrace the silence is golden motto. Ideally, when you are in a relationship you want to be able to communicate openly and honestly, right?
What happens when you discover that your partner considers something too taboo to discuss? Maybe they clam up about something from their past or perhaps it’s family related. They could even be uneasy with bedroom talk, especially outside the bedroom.
A friend of mine is dating a guy who really really dislikes gratuitous talk about sex. When she insists on bringing it up, he gets slightly agitated and sort of shuts down. He just says that he doesn’t like talk about that - ever. She knows that when he acts all twitchy and uncomfortable, she is wasting her breath. How can she give feedback if he won’t discuss it? How can she let him know what she wants without hurting his ego or appearing too bossy?
How do you approach the sensitive topics with your date or significant other?
Are there times when it is better not to discuss certain topics?
Do you think that couples should be able to tell each other anything?
If there are touchy subjects that they don’t want to share, do you think that is a reflection on your relationship?
Is there anything you would feel uncomfortable discussing with someone you are dating or involved with?
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By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 08:14 AM | Link to this
good morning all!! hmmm…this is a touchy subject.:) i do think there is a fine line when questioning someone about their past. i don’t think it’s absolutely necessary to know every single detail of one’s past. my grandmother told me once that you never tell a man everything. i was a teenager at the time and didn’t quite get what she meant. but as i got older and started giving too much info…lol, i then began to understand what she was talking about. most people can’t take hearing details about past relationships. it has the potential to lead to insecurity and distrust. it’s best to leave irrelevant specifics alone since it has the potential to cause conflict.
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 08:30 AM | Link to this
Morning ALL Happy Friday
In GA.man’s absence, I’ve been appointed by him to carry out his normal duty of the Friday song.
Its Friday, Its Friday. It’s the end of the week it’s the last day. I’m going to get my passion party on, I’m going to get my drink on, I’m going to get my game on…all weekend long…
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 08:31 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday Everybody!!!!!!!
I think communication is HUGE!! I also think that the openness should grow as the relationship grows. In the beginning, no, I don’t think you should be tellin’ all yo business, but if you look up and it’s been years, and certain subjects are still a little touchy, then that could be a red flag. I’ve been there where the opposite happened, and I knew once the communication started to fade, the realtionship was pretty much over. I think timing is key (there’s a time and place for everything), but I would love to be with someone that I can pretty much talk about anything with, and I want him to feel the same way……like best friends.
GO BEARS!!!!!!!!
By G
February 2, 2007 08:44 AM | Link to this
Don’t ask me about……..1)My Money 2)Details on past relationships; and 3)My “cookie meter”. I don’t need to know everything, and you don’t either. There’s a difference between being open, and being stupidly naive.
Also, don’t talk to me about any relationship stuff while I’m into the game. All topics not sports related will be touchy, and eventually ignored.
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
February 2, 2007 08:45 AM | Link to this
I think the only thing I have to say this morning is…Go Colts.
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 08:49 AM | Link to this
G what’s a “cookie meter?”
By Jake
February 2, 2007 08:53 AM | Link to this
What up Blog: Wise There are touchy subjects all over the place, just depends who your talking with. Communication is a wonderful gift and curse.
Off Topic: Has anyone heard the Rich Boy, “throw some D’s remix” w/Andre 3000, Jim Jones. That ish is jammin like a mudderfugger.
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 08:59 AM | Link to this
I agree with Sexione, the communication should be more open as the relationship grows. I couldn’t imagine sharing my life for a long time with someone that constantly refused to be open with me. As partners, we should be able to communicate, as adults, in an open manner. I myself don’t have any problem with talking or being open about things unless it deals with a time when I was violated by a man, when it wasn’t consensual. Other than that talk on baby, talk on
By Mo
February 2, 2007 09:00 AM | Link to this
What’s up errbody!! *SlimOne can a sistah crash that passion party?! LOL! Randyt I’m with you on the Colts baby!! Jake heard the remix and it is jammin!! Got to download that!! *On topic I agree w/you Kinderbabe you cant tell everything, some people cant handle it, but also it just isnt necessary. Have a great friday everyone!!
By Wise Diva
February 2, 2007 09:03 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday everyone! Who is having a Superbowl party? What’s the best place to catch the game?
Randyt, here is a little humor for you today. I read it and thought you could have written this. LOL
By Rated-R(aqi)
February 2, 2007 09:09 AM | Link to this
HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Wheeeew!!!!! I know it’s not funny but it made me laugh.
Sorry but I needed that laugh ‘cause I feel like crap today. I was up at 3am retching like a sick cat and have been awake ever since. I know I will not be doing any real work today, TGIF, so you all will have me for entertainment in hopes that I will start feeling better.
WiseDiva is your friend married to a 37yr old Health Food Store owner? LOL
But anyway on topic, when you are giving your body, yourself to someone you should be able to discuss any matter that is centered around that connection. Especially when you are looking to get the most out of the experiences you are sharing. I understand that something may have happened in your pass that really brought on some emotional pain but what better person to share this with than the one who has your heart. If the lines of communication aren’t open then how can the relationship grow?
In my relationship with my husband I am free to talk about any and everything. I can’t think of one thing right now that I would hesitate to tell him or ask him. I know people flinch at some of the stuff that I occasionally post here but that’s because the husband and I have already laughed about that situation. We can do that. Everything that you have seen me post is something that we both found to be humorous and it had no adverse effect on our relationship. Now there are things I wouldn’t dare reveal because they ARE too personal and intimate. But like I said if we laughed about together I have no problem talking about.
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 09:16 AM | Link to this
Wise That was funny!!!!
Jake Don’t think I’ve heard that yet….I’m looking for it now!!! Hugs and kisses, it’s FRIDAY!!!!!
Raqi That’s what I’m talking about. If I’m gonna spend the rest of my days with you, I want us to be able to say (and hear) anything! You go girl…said in my Martin voice!!
Oh, and GO BEARS!!!!!!!
By SeanJohnson
February 2, 2007 09:22 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog… TGIF…Good communication is key to any type of relationship….its part of getting to know each other..Since we proved earlier this week men and women often think differently.. it at times causes miscommunication..I like to know EVERYTHING..about females i date..but i already know women keep the deep dark secrets and take them to their grave. I have often been told..you know all this about me but you dont tell me nearly as much…Reason for that is simple..One..Women cant handle the truth…if we tell yall want we really thinking and answer all the crazy questions women ask at crazy times u wont understand and will be p**..Two…its in a womans nature to “know” her man..so she knows just how to act in certain situations…and after u are spill all your beans ala Sampson..you are usually in a prime position to get played…
By MusingLee
February 2, 2007 09:25 AM | Link to this
Morn’in All,
The only thing I don’t like discussing with my girl are Ex’s and ex-nookie….It’s old news, I don’t wanna know all about yours and you don’t need to know all about mine.
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
February 2, 2007 09:26 AM | Link to this
WD
That was great, thanks. There is a lot of wisdom for surviving in the 21st century there. Jack is the man.
By T-Mango
February 2, 2007 09:27 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday All,
I’m in Lurksville today…had a rough night.
Have a great weekend!
By Mo
February 2, 2007 09:35 AM | Link to this
I think ideally we would all want to be able to share everything w/our SO’s but truth of the matter is “everything aint for everybody”. Just cause I can handle hearing about your ex’s doesnt mean that you can handle hearing about mine. You have to decide based on you and your SO.
By Raqi
February 2, 2007 09:35 AM | Link to this
Bears..Colts who cares? LOL I hate football. Somebody went and accepted an invite for US to attend a superbowl party knowing that I don’t care for the game. But it’s allllll about COMPROMISE. (rolling my eyes)
By Alvin
February 2, 2007 09:39 AM | Link to this
Communication is one of God’s greatest gifts to man kind…Too bad most of you “Hearing” take it for granted
Good Morning To all My beauiful Peeps
By Raqi
February 2, 2007 09:41 AM | Link to this
The touchiest subject ever talked about during my present relationship started like this:
“Mason, I think your mother is purposely trying to pyss me off. Will you please talk to her?” LOL
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 09:41 AM | Link to this
Musing ex-nookie Now that is TMI, it starts the comparison thing, and that’s not cool!! But other than that, talk….I’m still surprised that grown folks would do that!!
Off topic for a moment..
I didn’t know that Whitney and Ray J (Brandy’s younger brother) were supposed to be an item. Not that I really care but when I heard it on the radio this morning I was like WTF????
Okay, now back to topic…hehehehe
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 09:42 AM | Link to this
Just cause I can handle hearing about your ex’s doesnt mean that you can handle hearing about mine.
Smooooooth MO…
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 09:45 AM | Link to this
Raqi Just have a few drinks, eat a few wings, and watch the fine azzes as they run across the field…..an extra bonus for me!!! Oh, and check out the cool commercials……lol
By diamondsyd
February 2, 2007 09:46 AM | Link to this
Communication is a huge part of a relationship. Things build up too much if there isn’t any commmunication, then things explode when it all comes out, which it usually does in the end. Maybe there wouldn’t be an end if people talked about those things when they are relevant instead of bottling it up and waiting to bring everything out at at a single moment when the walls are crumbling around the relationship.
As for the guy that gets twitchy talking about sex, he should be ashamed. If he isn’t willing to find out what it takes to get the job done, then he doesn’t seem to interested in her needs. How can she give feedback if he doesn’t discuss it? “Don’t fake it”. If it hurts his ego to talk about what she needs, then that should do the trick if she shows that what he is doing doesn’t do the trick. Or maybe she should communicate about it during sex, then maybe he will feel compelled to listen, otherwise he probably want get his either.
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 09:46 AM | Link to this
Mo ‘ve never heard of anyone crashing a passion party but you’ll go down in history if you do…LOL
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 09:46 AM | Link to this
* Good morning Kinder, slim, sexione, Randy, Foots, Justme, Demi, Musing, QC, Sean J and crew*
I haven’t had a chance to read the topic yet…I will respond after my 10:00 meeting……TGIF I have been waiting for this day since Monday!
Until later…..
@Demi don’t for egt your Mocha this morning!! LOL
By Rated-R(aqi)
February 2, 2007 09:49 AM | Link to this
Question to those who do this:
Why do you feel that your performance (Yeah I am talking to you Nature BOY wherever you are) is being scrutinized or judged when your partner offers some constructive input?
I mean come on, are you not interested in what it takes to please them?
You are not being compared to someone else it’s just that why should I take/accept what you are so poorly doing when I know there is a way to make it better.
By Mo
February 2, 2007 09:50 AM | Link to this
Sexione I laughed myself at the Whitney/RayJ thing, but hey, if they are happy….(I had to laugh even typing that!)
By Musing Bauer
February 2, 2007 09:51 AM | Link to this
Musing gets a call at 2am….rolling over to answer the phone, Musing listens very intently and springs into action
MusingBauer: Yes, Mr. President I understand…….Thats one jelly filled donut!
Musing dives through his bedroom window into a waiting van, just as his house explodes…..Van screeching away
By Rated-R(aqi)
February 2, 2007 09:56 AM | Link to this
WiseD What was the first sentence in your entry? Some women love to talk, (and talk, and talk some more)…. LOL
When I was with Whitebread that is when I learned about the freedom of sex and a whole lot of other stuff and was made very comfortable with my body and expressing my desires. Mind you he is 13 years older than I am so he had no reservations about talking about intimacy and by the time I was out of that relationship neither did I. Neither did I. We would be talking about something and would then say “Here let me show you.” LOL Looking back now I appreciate that little window of schooling because it taught me a lot about life in itself.
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
February 2, 2007 09:58 AM | Link to this
Musing/Bauer gets a call at 2am
On his cell phone. You have to clarify that of course.
By Raqi
February 2, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this
Yeah Sexi I know. My friend Marissa is going to be there also. Even though she loves the game she and I will be able to talk about something other than Football. I wish Design was going to be there but her Mr. Goodyear has invited her to be somewhere else.
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this
Okay, I have just one more off topic….
What’s the best place for tires without getting ripped off? It’s been a while and all I can remember is Good Year…and their website sucks!!! HELP…and thanks!!
Okay, back to topic….
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
Morning Bloggers
GO BEARS, GO BEARS, GOOOOOOO BEARS
By Foots
February 2, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
Wise Diva You know what? My SO only gets peeved when I talk about sex with other people. We talk about anything and everything together, but if I mention that I said anything to my friends about sex (especially my best guy friend), he has to ask how much I told them. And I don’t ever give details about that type of thing, so that’s not his worry. I guess it’s just a touchy subject for him if I discuss it with other people.
By SeanJohnson
February 2, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
@ Sexione…Sams Wholesale normally are cheaper than everyone…Tires Plus is okay..but at times they are shady…but u may find a dude that is trying to get his hustle on and hook you up…either way…where ever u go…get there early
By Raqi
February 2, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
I am still feeling sick and this is just not the right weekend to be under the weather. My son turned 12 today and his father is having a party for him at his house tonight with some of his relatives and I have to (for my son) be there. Then I am allowing him to do something at our house tomorrow that some of his friends can come to. Then tomorrow evening I am going out with my friends to see a movie. And then I have to go to this SB party on Sunday. I think I feel another retching session coming on right about now. LOL
By Mo
February 2, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
Sexione have you tried Tires Plus or NTB? I personally like Tires Plus out of these two but I prefer both over Goodyear. Also be sure to check the paper Sunday b/c some places may have sales on tires.
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
February 2, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday!!
Go Colts…Long live Peyton!!
This is an interesting topic and I would have to say that if you are dating then everything is not open season. It’s a hard pill to swallow because I think most females want to be under the illusion that there’s nothing we can’t talk about and share since we truly love and respect each other.
But I would like to believe that once you’re engaged/married that all is free game.
But if something makes the person uncomfortable…and it’s just not a matter of them thinking that you’re being nosy then I think you should respect that individual and not force it. It then boils down to compatibility…and if it’s not a good match based on communication mismatch…then there you have it!
By G
February 2, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this
“Cookie meter” is the number partners you’ve been with.
BTW…..Andre 3000 is off the chain on that remix. What is he up to? I’m hoping he will return to rapping full-time. That so called singing he was doing is played.
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
Thanks SJ & Mo I’ll give Tires Plus a try.
Miss QC yes ma’am, GO BEARS!!
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
Sexione the last time I went to Big 10 Tires, they were very nice and helpful.
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this
thanks for the clarification G. now that i understand, that’s a definite no, no. hey foots, sj, randy, slimone, mo, demi how the heck are ya?? lol
By Wise Diva
February 2, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this
@Foots - I can understand that, and you know how some women delve too much info to the wrong people and it backfires on them. My friend used to purposely “diss” her guy to this one girl who was notorious for sampling men that dated people she knew. LOL..she didn’t care about his rep!
By Jake
February 2, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this
Mo heard on the drive in, and blasted my ish, messed around and got crunk before I got to work…LOL
Sexione, hugs, kisses, and a smack on dat azz, it is Friday
On the tires, I say go to NTB, price is usually cool, and service is on point.
Rated-R A lot of cats attach there self-esteem to their performance in the bedroom, and will be real sensitive about any criticism. It takes some sexperience to realize that letting her share some control might make the experience even better, I say some because you still must provide her with some “face in the pillow time” (sorry Wise) I probably would be a lil defensive myself, but I’ve never left a customer unsatisfied. Its the male ego!!
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this
Hey Mocha
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
@ Sexione…Were you listening to Steve Harvey this morning?
By Foots
February 2, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this
Hey Mocha, kinderbabe, Dark Dimples, SeanJ, SlimOne, RandyT, Mo, Demi, Sexione, Musing, Raqi and the whole gang. It is Friday!! Yay!!
WD Now if your girl had to diss her man to keep that other chick away from him, why the heck was she still talking to the girl in the first place? Was that one of those “keep your enemy closer” deals??
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this
off topic
Is anyone else crazy about that new song called &Buddy by Musiq oh i love that song!!!!
By Raqi
February 2, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
Alright good people I am out. I was hoping I could think myself into feeling better but I truly feel like crap. I have had three different people come in here and tell me I look really sick and flushed. Now I am having cold chills while it feels like I have a temp. That can’t be good.
Hope you all have a good evening and great weekend. And who ever you are rooting for to win the superbowl I hope your team wins. See I am a good sport. LOL
Until next time. I am headed home. Good Day.
(Very good week WiseDiva.)
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
Well hi yourself there kinder. I’m just waiting for time to leave this place. TGIF!
By Foots
February 2, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this
Sexione I have gotten tires from Goodyear and Wal-Mart with good results both times. They both offer good deals on tire protection plans and usually offer free rotations with the tires they sell.
By SeanJohnson
February 2, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this
@Foots…i dont think you know how funny you really are…i got a feeling you are going to be on youtube or dailymotion one of these days with your steel plated friend.
By Wise Diva
February 2, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
Foots, believe it or not, ole girl was her line sister, LOL. some sisterhood, right? No offense to the sorority women!
By Jay
February 2, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
Happy friday everyone. Hello kinderb. Touchy subject. A woman plans to get married. She orders a dress she has to work herself into. Ask her why, she bites your head off…LOL NTB is good for tires. Women can get good deals. The guys think they have major game, so a smile can save you dollars.
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
@ Raqi I hope you feel better!
By Mo
February 2, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this
Hey Kinderbabe! Miss QC I have Buddy as my ringtone! I love that song! Jake I too, was blasting that remix, I know the people in cars next to me thought I was crazy!! What’s up Foots!
By Wise Diva
February 2, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
@Raqi, thanks sweetie. Get some rest, I hope you feel better too.
By Pharress_Beuller
February 2, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
Morning BLOG Fam,
Just saying what up to everyone…not too much input on this one that already hadn’t been said. I’ll be lurking from the Lurksville Sports Bar in anticipation for the Soul Bowl.
Jake - Yeah, 3000 blessed that track, I’m with G too, Dre definitely needs to get back to emceeing. That Idlewild cd was a let down and that’s hard for me to say about them.
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
Jake Thanks, sweetie. I see you know what I likes :-)
Mocha Yes, that Steve is a fool!!!
Thanks so much guys for the tire advice. I have compared them all, and the guy at Big 10 knocked everybody out the box!!! He has given me a quote that undercut them all by several $$$. So Big 10 it is…….I am pumped (saving money gets me all excited!!!!) hmmmmm…
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
hey jay by the way, what remix are you all buzzin about??
By Alabama
February 2, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
Yes, we all know communication is key in a relationship and the inability or unwillingness for a partner to not share or discuss what is going in the relationship leads me to believe that he is not that into the relationship or he was raised not to discuss certain issues of a relationship or they would rather not spark a heated debate or arguement.
By For Real
February 2, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
What’s Blog fam!!!! Just checking in before I go to lunch.
On topic: We can talk about anything you want to but when I say that doesn’t concern you let go and find another topic.
Off topic: Congratz kender on starting your quest for a MBA.
Yes Dre needs to give up the singing. It worked the first time but not anymore.
Right now my favorite artist is Julie Dexter…
RandyT I wonder how much is Jack’s cell phone bill and who is his provider?
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this
Hey Mo
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
Sexione like I said, the guys were really helpful & friendly when I went there a couple of months ago. I hope you get that same great service I did.
About OUTKAST
What do you all think is happening with them? It seems they are separated but still have a baby between them (music) and only get together for the sake of the child. your opinions, just curious
By Musing Bauer
February 2, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this
The van comes to a stop at the traffic light…suddenly four silver colored Chrysler 300’s box in the black van….bullets are sprayed into the van….The van explodes and Musing Bauer is presumed dead…the cars speed away leaving the van burning
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
thanks forreal:) i’m actually getting my master’s in elementary education. the program is four semesters, i’m sure it’ll go by fast. funny you say that you like julie dexter. i saw her at this spot over on crescent called gracie’s alley (??) last summer. she was great! i like her music too. my favorite right now is raheem devaughn. it’s something about a taurus…lol.
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this
Musing Bauer, can you switch into my favorite “Prison Break” please?
By Musing Bauer
February 2, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this
2 Minutes before
Musing Bauer gets a call on his cell phone
Musing: What? They’re how far away
Musing tells the driver to stop at the stop light….Musing jumps out and lefts the nearby manhole cover and quickly crawls inside….a split second later Musing hears tires squealing, gunshots and an explosion
Musing: Those m/f’s really don’t want me to get that donut….It’s time to get serious…..
Musing Bauer now realizing how serious this has become, knows he can’t trust anyone but himself
By Tazzee
February 2, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
Morning folks!
Communication is important. I am an open book, but I realize everyone is not. However before I get real serious with someone, I need to know that he’s comfortable talking to me.
By Foots
February 2, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
SeanJ Um, thanks, I think. :-)
By Tazzee
February 2, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this
Oh and I always get my tires from Sears. I like the fact that they have locations everywhere and I get their hazard warranty - which was a blessing when I got a flat here in Houston.
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
February 2, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this
Grdeat posts. I’m gone. Have a good weekend and GOOOOO COLTS!!!
By Wise Diva
February 2, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this
Slimone, sometimes I wonder if they outgrew each other or something. If you think about when they met and started working together, they were younger, had different goals, experiences, now even though they can produce good stuff together, they have varying/opposing views about a lot of things, and aren’t on the same page all the time.
By Jake
February 2, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this
Kinder the rich boy remix.
Slimone As a proud Atlien, I will always defend Kast, they broke the South to the World. As for them, Artistic differences, I think Andre 3000 went through the change, wanted to try new stuff, Big Boi just maintained the groups true fanbase until the adventure was over. If you noticed, Dre’s back DJ Unk remix, Rich boy remix, Lloyd remix. Common denominator-Atlanta artists. The next Kast album will be that ish.
That’s all we have here from yours truly Jake “I tell you what’s hot” Koppel with your ATL music news, now sending it back to the studio with Musing.
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this
Wise/Jake Yeah that’s the assumption I was making with the artistic differences. Dre is more into trying crazy out of this world things…it shows in his style of dress. Either way I’ll be true to them both. I love BB and D3000.
Thank you Jake for that insightful entertainment news. Would you happen to have any word on the alledged new couple Whitney and Ray J?
By binford
February 2, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this
Years ago I dated a girl who was a virgin, who insisted on knowing the number of girls I had slept with previous to her. Like an idiot, I told her and she became fixated on that and wondered how I could care about her more than any of the other girls. Big mistake!
I realized I’m not telling and I’m not asking - because it doesn’t matter when it comes to the person you are currently with. I don’t want to know and it doesn’t affect my feelings for someone I’m with - I would care for them as an individual.
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this
@ Kinder I am feeling Raheem too…as a matter of fact I am listening to him reight now…I missed him last year when he came here…that won’t happen again!lol
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
thanks jake i was out of the loop…lol. did anyone go to alvin ailey last night or planning to go this weekend? just curious…
By aggressively aging
February 2, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
A virgin? Good lord, they still make those? I thought they had gone the way of the dodo bird and the T rex.
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this
Ok, it’s Friday, do they think I actually came here to work? j/k, lol, but dang!!!
Yes Jake “I tell you what’s hot” Koppel, any more entertainment news today?
Wise sometimes I wonder if they outgrew each other or something Unfortunately, this seems to happen a lot in relationships. Staying in the same book is sometimes hard, let alone staying on the same page!!!
By Producer
February 2, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this
I feel for you Binford. You didn’t have the heart to actually tell her she really didn’t mean any more to you than the previous 20. LOLOLOL
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
Wise & Sexione with that said about outgrowing someone…its a wonder that anyone stays together. Afterall, we are all individuals. So maybe that’s what the hard part is, we each have our own agendas and goals. I don’t know, just a thought.
By Jake Koppel
February 2, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
In other entertainment news, the Ray J, formerly known as Brandy’s lil brother is attempted to increase his street cred by dating world reknown singer/crackstress Whitney Houston. My sources on the inside say its all a plot return Bobby “the king of R&B” Brown to superstar status. Sources say Ray J will be shot by Bobby, Bobby will go jail where he’ll write his new album to be released in Summer 2008. During the recovery/prison sentence Whitney will release her new album slated for Fall 2007, during the interim, Ray J will resume his role as Brandy’s lil brother while she is on trial for Vechicular Homicide. Death, Gunfights, Hospital Stays= Platinum Success
Now back to the news desk…
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this
aggressively aging Yes, there are some still out there. Did you happen to hear Mike Baisdens’ show yesterday? There was one 45 yr old lady that is still waiting until her wedding night!! All I can say is, if it ain’t right, somebody gone be hella disappointed!!! lol
SlimOne Yes, when you think of it that way, it is kinda discouraging. The key is, IMO, to grow together as much as possible while maintaining a certain amount of individuality….along with lots of compromise! Sounds kinda like chinese arithmetic…..lol
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this
singer/crackstress Whitney Houston Okay, I almost spit soup all over my monitor on that one………LMSAO!!!
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 01:05 PM | Link to this
Thanks again Jake Koppel. I’m sure all of our viewers will be looking forward to your next entertainment news story. Now we’ll break for messages from our sponsors so we can laugh our azzes off here at the station…oops can we say that? When we return we’ll check in with that breaking story on MUSING BAUER
Todays show is brought to you by Preparation-H “Seems like a nice place for a stick-up”
By Greg
February 2, 2007 01:07 PM | Link to this
Beyonce was voted most desirable woman in the world?
By For Real
February 2, 2007 01:13 PM | Link to this
kinder that’s cool are you planning on becoming a principal? Yeah there is something about you taurus alright!!! Raheem is cool. I hate that I haven’t been able to get on the underground scene as much lately. I feel out of touch…
I too am a proud Atlien but BB and 3000 are ok by themselves but they are the best when they are together.
Whitney and Ray J. - Just plain nasty
My favorite Rap song is “Talk to Em” by Geezy. Love the music and the hook..
By Rose
February 2, 2007 01:18 PM | Link to this
What’s so nasty about Whitney & RayJ? she’s older than him and what??? they’re 2 grown, consenting adults doing what they want to do, so please tell me why is that so nasty?
By Jake Koppel
February 2, 2007 01:19 PM | Link to this
Breaking News
Sources say there will be a third album released after the trial, Brandy & Ray J’s “To Kill or Be Killed” Featuring the I’ve Been Shot Allstars, 50 cent, Game, and F.A.B.U.L.O.U.S….Bonus tracks from Biggie and Tupac..mixed and mastered by JamMasterJ….LOL
Okay, now my reservations for the Firepit are reserved!!
By Dr. Kym aka Southern Girl
February 2, 2007 01:21 PM | Link to this
Musing Playing at Jack Bauer is against the rules. Only one Jack Bauer. Any man that will choke his own brother with a plastic bag…should be president.
By aggressively aging
February 2, 2007 01:23 PM | Link to this
FORTY FIVE YEARS OLD and still a virgin. Was she an Ex nun?
By Becca
February 2, 2007 01:27 PM | Link to this
Depends on the length and extent of the relationship. Like me, I am married and my man gets closed up about his family. Okay well he admits his family is WRONG AS HELL about just about everything but when something comes up with them, (which is like weekly) He won’t discuss it. It’s very aggravating. Especially since I’m a call it as I see it type. I am polite out of respect but these people are jacked!
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 01:29 PM | Link to this
Daayyyuuuummm, isn’t Whitney old enough to be RayJs’ mama?
Jake Koppel Run, Jake, Run…..stay away from the elevator with the red doors!!!
ForReal Proud native Atlien here too. Wow, three in one room, that’s unusual!!
Greg Who knew? Yeah, right…….lol
By For Real
February 2, 2007 01:31 PM | Link to this
Rose Its nasty because Whitney is nasty and Ray J. will do anything to make sure he doesn’t have to get a job..
45 year old virgin I ain’t gonna be the one that has to break that in. Trust me virgin aren’t what they are crack up to be.. ouch
*Jake Koppel Bonus tracks from Biggie and Tupac..mixed and mastered by JamMasterJ this cannot happen because JamMasterJ is dead…
Slim I got my gloves. What do you want me to apply your PH treatment???
By For Real
February 2, 2007 01:35 PM | Link to this
Greg I don’t know about the world. Have you been to South America and Thialand?
Sexi1 I hear you on that.. I am the only person from Georgia in my office and have you notice there seems to be an increase in Ohio tags here lately.. Like I say Whitney and Ray J. just nasty
By AnchorMan MusingLee
February 2, 2007 01:40 PM | Link to this
Hello I’m MusingLee….
I’m standing out front of the Toys R Us where customers say Whitney Houston just bought RayJay a Red Huffy bike…I’ll have more on this at 6.
Back to the news desk!
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 01:41 PM | Link to this
aggressively aging LOL, nope. She was a regular woman…
Mike asked this question yesterday, and it was quite funny/interesting, so I have to ask the blog fellas…. Would you all want to marry a virgin?
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 01:43 PM | Link to this
But wait, let’s not limit that to the guys…
Women, would you all want to marry a virgin?
By binford
February 2, 2007 01:46 PM | Link to this
Producer, Reminds me of the SNL skit where they made fun Wilt Chamberlin and his 20,000+ women he was with. called “Remembrances of Love”
I found this blurb about it:
“One of my favorite “Saturday Night Live” skits had MC Hammer portraying Chamberlain as host of “Remembrances of Love, with Wilt Chamberlain,” a show on which each episode was devoted to one of the nearly 20,000 “special” women in his life.
The funniest part was listening to the hypothetical language of a man trying to come across as sincere as he courts one of the approximately 20,000 women with whom he supposedly had sex.
As “Saturday Night Live” chose to play it, Chamberlain sweet-talked each individual woman as if she was the only true love of his life.”
wish I could have found the video
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
February 2, 2007 01:46 PM | Link to this
Whitney and Ray J…just stupid, but wouldn’t be the first bad choice she’s made Now, Brandy…I hope she beats her vehicular homicide rap…I think we might have reached our quota on black celebrities getting off the hook!!
Sexi hmmm,nope…but don’t tell God that I said that!
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 01:48 PM | Link to this
For Real Actually I’d rather administer yours first. So go ahead get undressed and hop up on this nice table. It even has a heated surface. Just relax, you won’t feel a thing.
And about RayJ…has he even had a job his sister didn’t put him onto? He’s going to be lost when/if Big Sis gets locked up. Matter of fact, ForReal go ahead and let RayJ have them gloves since Bobby won’t be around to help Whitney get her shyt out.
By DuShawn
February 2, 2007 01:48 PM | Link to this
Becca I feel your man on the family issue. When my wife talks about my family, I get very touchy. Especially my sister. My wife always prefaces her statements regarding her with “I know that’s your sister but….” I try to end those conversations as quickly as possible. My sister and I have been down for forty years. My wife just came on the scene a decade ago.
By For Real
February 2, 2007 01:49 PM | Link to this
NOPE
This just in *Bobby-Whitney and Ray J. are caught on camera playing dress up…
By DuShawn
February 2, 2007 01:50 PM | Link to this
Sexione I wouldn’t even date a virgin.
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 01:53 PM | Link to this
@Sexione no, I would not want to marry a virgin.
I am also a GA native…there are only 2 of us that work with me…most of the people are from up north (Detroit, New York, or New Jersey)
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 01:59 PM | Link to this
Sexione BEEN THERE DONE DAT, DON’T WANT TO DO IT AGAIN.
So guys, when you all bust a virgin you call it popping her cherry. What do you call the male cherry?
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 02:00 PM | Link to this
forreal i’m not planning to be a principal, i think i’d miss the classroom too much.:) it’s just good to have a master’s since the job market is getting so competitive. it also makes me a good candidate for admin position like reading/math coordinator, etc. oh, and when i said it’s something about a taurus, i meant my attraction to a taurus. raheem is a taurus…lol. i’m a capricorn.
you are so right about that whitney and ray j thing. she is too old to be w/that little boy…lol.
By Jake Koppel
February 2, 2007 02:02 PM | Link to this
Jake Koppel Bonus tracks from Biggie and Tupac..mixed and mastered by JamMasterJ this cannot happen because JamMasterJ is dead…
This just in on the entertainment wire, For Real has no sense of humor, and is peepeeing on my joke about the GoT Shot Allstars…party pooper….Boooooooooooooooooooooooooo…..LOL
By For Real
February 2, 2007 02:02 PM | Link to this
Slim I am from the south and my mamma taught me manners so, ladies first. Now, let me help you with that blouse, oh this is nice is that velvet?
By SeanJohnson
February 2, 2007 02:03 PM | Link to this
@ Slimone…you must be really bored at work…lol
By Sexione
February 2, 2007 02:07 PM | Link to this
I feel all y’all, I wouldn’t either. There’s too many things we need to know about each other before we say “I DO”…..
Mocha Alright now, that makes four of us!!!
I’m out guys, everybody have a safe, fun Superbowl weekend……GO BEARS!!!!
By SeanJohnson
February 2, 2007 02:10 PM | Link to this
@ Kinder…what grade do you teach and what county?
By Musing Bauer
February 2, 2007 02:13 PM | Link to this
After climbing from the sewers Musing continues his journey on foot…..After running for 10 minutes agent Musing notices a little old lady walking her poodle….Musing doesn’t think anything of it at first, but quickly realizes that no real old lady would be awake at 2:30am….Musing ducks behind a post office box…just then the old lady pulls out a 9mm pistol from the poodles azz and starts firing
Musing: Ahhhh,ishhhh…….I’m gonna f/k you up old lady.
Musing then aims his pistol overhead to neon sign just above the lady’s head and fires two shots…..The sign falls on the lady and her dog…..Musing takes a deep breath and runs ahead
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 02:14 PM | Link to this
ForReal Nah, it isn’t velvet, just polyester. But I’m also from the south and I was taught to make a man feel like a man and let him lead. So baby, I’m letting you take the lead on this one. SO Man up! hehehehe
SJ I’m bored azz heyll. I was ready to go home even before I made it to work today.
Anybody up for some humor: Redneck Pickup Lines?
try one on for size
By Wise Diva
February 2, 2007 02:16 PM | Link to this
binford, I am surprised Youtube doesn’t have that, they seem to have all kind of random stuff
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 02:18 PM | Link to this
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 02:22 PM | Link to this
@Kinder do you teach public or private school? What county do you teach in?
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 02:23 PM | Link to this
By Mo
February 2, 2007 02:27 PM | Link to this
SlimOne you are too funny w/the jokes!!
By For Real
February 2, 2007 02:28 PM | Link to this
Kinder Ok, I just thought you wanted to run your own school but I feel on the competitive market that’s smart on your part. You like taurus’s huh… Dayummm what about Gemini’s???? And, what month are capricorn’s born in?
By DuShawn
February 2, 2007 02:28 PM | Link to this
Speaking of virgins, when I was a young boy growing up in our hood, I would often overhear the older dudes discussing their sexual escapades. Mind you, I was about 9 they must’ve been about 14. I remember this one conversation, they were discussing what happened at the high school dance. He said he was slow draggin with this girl and bust a nut. I had no idea what that meant. I envisioned one of your testicles actually being crushed. I thought to myself, dayum that must be painful. I’m never slow dancing. the innocence of youth
By For Real
February 2, 2007 02:32 PM | Link to this
Slim Polyeaster huh.. that’s nice. Ok, since you want me to take the lead. Let me help you wit those pants. Why is your zipper down Slim? For easy access For Real.
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 02:34 PM | Link to this
1.Yer face reminds me of a wrench, everytime I think of it my nuts tighten up.
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 02:38 PM | Link to this
As FORREAL bends to pull Slims pants down, she uses her flexibility to reach over and quickly applies the PH to his hiney LOL
By For Real
February 2, 2007 02:39 PM | Link to this
This just in Jake Koppel didn’t get For Real’s joke… Biggie and 2Pac ain’t dead only JamMaster J is.. lol
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 02:47 PM | Link to this
sj and mochatreat i teach for atlanta, kindergarten. it’s a lot of fun. little kids are a trip!
forreal running a school is a cool thought but i really would miss the everyday interaction w/the kids. who knows, maybe i’ll change my mind in the future. my b-day is new year’s eve. capricorns are from late december to mid january. you’re a gemini…oh, lawd!!! y’all flip the script too much for me…lol.
By For Real
February 2, 2007 02:50 PM | Link to this
Slim LOL… but as For Real bend at his knees while pulling slim pants to her feet he notice slim’s undies says THURSDAY.
By Rose
February 2, 2007 02:52 PM | Link to this
For Real that does’nt make any sense at, maybe if they were closer in age it would’nt be so nasty?! Any who y’all have a great weekend
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 02:57 PM | Link to this
clearing my throat and raising my hand Kinder I’m a Gemini
By Mo
February 2, 2007 02:59 PM | Link to this
Kinder you sound like my sister, she teaches Kindergarten in Dekalb and loves the kids! Cant imagine leaving the classroom. Is anybody listening to Ryan Cameron right now? Please say you heard romantic dates!
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 03:01 PM | Link to this
Slim Shaking her head at For Real You fell for that trick. I put those on as a destraction to get the job done. I knew I’d be met with resistance and momma didn’t raise no fool. Plus the real pair underneath reads..”Naughty Girl”
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 03:01 PM | Link to this
Slim Shaking her head at For Real You fell for that trick. I put those on as a destraction to get the job done. I knew I’d be met with resistance and momma didn’t raise no fool. Plus the real pair underneath reads..”Naughty Girl”
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 03:02 PM | Link to this
Slim Shaking her head at For Real You fell for that trick. I put those on as a destraction to get the job done. I knew I’d be met with resistance and momma didn’t raise no fool. Plus the real pair underneath reads..”Naughty Girl”
By SeanJohnson
February 2, 2007 03:05 PM | Link to this
@ Kinder…imma need for you not to blog soo much …tend to the kids..u are to blog during nap time..if they have one in kindergarten these days..would let u slide but i am a parent now..gotta be more responsible lol…on another note..i am a gemini and the couple of long term relationships i have been in have been with capricons…we got along good too..like cake and icecream…would still been with both of them..if i didnt like my cake with my icecream…lol
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 03:11 PM | Link to this
Hey Y’all
all casual like it’s 9:00 AM
Are we still on topic?
How do you approach the sensitive topics with your date or significant other? I just say it! If he can’t deal with it, then I need to know sooner rather than later. Y’all already know my life is pretty much an open book. If I were gonna be ashamed to say it or talk about it, I wouldn’t do it to begin with.
Are there times when it is better not to discuss certain topics? Yes, In fron of the kids and my daddy :-)
Do you think that couples should be able to tell each other anything? Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes!
If there are touchy subjects that they don’t want to share, do you think that is a reflection on your relationship? Maybe yes, maybe no, depends on the subject. If my SO does not trust me enough to discuss certain things with me then I would always wonder what else he didn’t trust me enough to share.
Is there anything you would feel uncomfortable discussing with someone you are dating or involved with? Nothing that I can think of off hand. If he is concerned enough to ask, why not tell him
By MusingLee
February 2, 2007 03:15 PM | Link to this
Off Topic Does anyone else remember when Miss America wasn’t a coke head, alchoholic, or a porn star? WTF…Even Ms America is on drugs? So of all the Women on stage they couldn’t find one that wasn’t high.
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 03:19 PM | Link to this
LOL @ DuShawn being touchy bout his sister :-) That’s cute.
I used to date this guy back in the day, and whenever we say a ragedy looking person, we would say it was the other family member. I’ll never forget how we laughed when I told him his grand mother’s wig had a chin strap on it. We capped on each others family big time. None of it was true, but we had fun doing it.
By Foots
February 2, 2007 03:23 PM | Link to this
I’m late on this one, but uh….
Women, would you all want to marry a virgin?
Hellz to the Naw!!
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 03:37 PM | Link to this
Musing It’s a shame what those women must do to be discovered. ;-)Blame it on men!
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 03:37 PM | Link to this
Heeeeeeeey Lady Dark w/Dimples
Now slipping vanilla white chocolate Mocha cappuccino
By DuShawn
February 2, 2007 03:39 PM | Link to this
I’m so ready to get the hell outta this office its ridiculous.
By Mo
February 2, 2007 03:40 PM | Link to this
Hey JustMe I had an ex that I joked around with like that!! Some people you can joke around with and tell anything. But I have dealt with those that cannot deal with knowing all details. You just have to do what works for you! Where are all the bartendars today!!!I needs a drank!!
By Mo
February 2, 2007 03:42 PM | Link to this
DuShawn I second your last post! Been feeling that way since I got to the new AT&T…(sigh)
By Foots
February 2, 2007 03:48 PM | Link to this
I’d venture to guess that a third of the blog now works for the new AT&T…
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 03:48 PM | Link to this
Mo ATT ain’t all that bad…Alvin: iisssssssh!!!
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 03:49 PM | Link to this
Hey Mo In my Della Reese - Harlem Night’s Voice I loved that lil ole boy
I have met a few guys who were some what shy about sexy talk………. my motto is if you can’t ask for it then you don’t really want it! That’s usually lets them know what time it is. Just Keepin’ it R E A L!
By MusingLee
February 2, 2007 03:53 PM | Link to this
JustMe I have no problem asking for it…Some may say I’ve asked for too much. LOLOLOL
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 03:54 PM | Link to this
i guess this gemini land huh slimone, sj and forreal it’s o.k. i don’t hold it against y’all…lol j/k
oh and sj we don’t have hall monitors (as i notice your monitoring skills, lol) thank you very much…lol. trust me mr. dad, i am not taking away anything from the educational day blogging.:) i do have more than one occasion during the day when i get a well-deserved break (thank god!) too bad you don’t like cake w/your ice cream.;)
By For Real
February 2, 2007 03:56 PM | Link to this
As For Real ponders Slim’s thursday undies, For Real notices a L at the end of thursday… ForReal thinks to himself (insert thought bubble here) hummm the old two pair of panties trick For Real dealing with a playa here as he reaches for the KY disguise as PH. For Real always two steps ahead…
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 04:01 PM | Link to this
kinderbabe Congrats on your MB.PHD.BS!!!! forget which one it was
By For Real
February 2, 2007 04:02 PM | Link to this
man all these gemini’s and folk from the “A” the Falcons must gonna win the superbowl next year… That’s all I got to say about that!!!
Kinder It’s the May gemini’s that give us a bad name. Capricorn huh ooh yall fiesty… umm I think I need to have parent teacher conference with kinder.
By Mo
February 2, 2007 04:04 PM | Link to this
No Virgos in the house?!?!
By Dr. Kym aka Southern Girl
February 2, 2007 04:05 PM | Link to this
On Topic and late
I was looking through the comments I guess I am alone in this but I dont discuss money with dates or SO. I dont tell how much I make, I dont feel a need to report on what I spend, and if anyone asked me that is touchy for me.
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:05 PM | Link to this
Musing Why am I not suprised - LOL
Heeeeeeyyyy Demi**
I got my squares and some of them are really good! GO Bears and c’mon numbers!
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:09 PM | Link to this
I forget who was asking, but the last time I went to Tires Plus, they wanted to charge me $400 for a front brake job. I went to the suto parts store down the street to get an idea of how much they were marking up the parts on me……….. well long story short version, I spent $119 at the dealer for the same brake job Tires Plus can blow it out of their azzzes!
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 04:12 PM | Link to this
thanks demi! it’s a master’s (in education) program.
forreal you had me crackin up over here..lmao. fiesty?? o.k. i guess i can be mildly fiesty…let me stop i am fiesty.:) so it’s the may gemini’s huh? i say the same thing about the january caps. i don’t mind a conference, as long as you’ve earned good grades. if not you may need to stay afterschool for extra credit…
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:12 PM | Link to this
JustMe is an Aries a.k.a. Natural Born Leader
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 04:13 PM | Link to this
hey Just Me
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 04:13 PM | Link to this
Slim lets a big one Riipppppppp! The stinch stuns ForRealenough for Slim to pull up her pants, snatch the KY, and dip out…thinking to herself, dayum he’s bringing the A-game but I think I like it?
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 04:15 PM | Link to this
Thanks for the heads up JustMe I think I heard they were supposed to be closing or something…not sure though. But with prices like that, they’d have to.
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 04:16 PM | Link to this
JustMe how are u sister?…please do not cross my path…’cause I will ask
I may lose a tooth or two LOL
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:17 PM | Link to this
Hey Q C ^5 GO Bears, now spin and Dap, and over head clap, now do the Superbowl Shuffle, git giggy widit!
By Mo
February 2, 2007 04:18 PM | Link to this
SlimOne you are funny!!
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:20 PM | Link to this
It’s Friday, It’s Friday, the end of the week and the last day, I’m gonna get my drink on and I’m gonna get my game on, and I’m gonna get my win on.
Y’all have a stupendous weekend and don’t do anything JustMe wouldn’t do ;-)
B E Z
By MochaTreat
February 2, 2007 04:22 PM | Link to this
Good Night everyone I hope everyone has a safe weekend…talk to you later!!
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 04:22 PM | Link to this
JustMe is an Aries a.k.a. Natural Born Leader
Y’all Aries are never good a following…
Hey Miss QC
By For Real
February 2, 2007 04:23 PM | Link to this
I’m going to hold you to that kinder
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:24 PM | Link to this
Ahhh it was you SlimOne I went to the store on Hwy 85 in Riverdale. Them $@)_#$@) thought they had a live one! SIKE!!
Hey Demi
By Foots
February 2, 2007 04:25 PM | Link to this
Kym In my opinion (<——Disclaimer), there’s not really a reason to discuss money unless you are looking to be really serious, like one of those conversations you have when you are considering marriage and need to know a financial history. Regular Joe’s have no reason to be in your pockets.
By JustMe
February 2, 2007 04:27 PM | Link to this
Demi We require a great leader as opposed to an ok leader that’s all boo. We know how to act sometimes :-)
By Mo
February 2, 2007 04:28 PM | Link to this
*Have a good weekend Slim & Mocha! Me sighing as I look at the clock and realize I STILL have hour and a half to go..
By For Real
February 2, 2007 04:29 PM | Link to this
For Real on the floor still stun by Slim’s unexpected old skool blast reaches into his pocket to ensure he still has the keys to the deadbolt locks on the doors… For Real thinks to himself, oh she good, real good, looks like I am going to have pull out the Purple Crown Royal Bag on her. For Real still two steps ahead…
By Miss QC
February 2, 2007 04:30 PM | Link to this
Have a safe, warm, fun, full, sexy, satisfied SUPER BOWL WEEKEND i will blog with y’all on tuesday!!!
HOLLA………PEACE
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 04:30 PM | Link to this
KB I when to alvin ailey last year in Miami. I would go this year, but I am working this weekend…U will enjoy yourself.
By kinderbabe
February 2, 2007 04:33 PM | Link to this
o.k. forreal ;)
i’m out everybody. have a fantastic weekend!:)
By lil demi
February 2, 2007 04:35 PM | Link to this
JustMe Aries women are pretty head strong’n’bold…too bad they never pan out
By SlimOne
February 2, 2007 04:41 PM | Link to this
Slim frantically reaches the door only to realize she has no way out. As she turns around she is now face to face with For Real. Could be….NO..it can’t be….NOT THE PURPLE CROWN ROYAL BAG!!!! As soon as Slim feels her back is against the wall…she takes off her left Stilleto heel and flings it at For Real jabbing him in his arm. He falls to his knees. Slim uses this time to grab the keys, give him the once over and says…’Not in this lifetime’ Slim turns and limps out the front door into the sunset wiping the sweat off her brow
By Jake Koppel
February 2, 2007 04:53 PM | Link to this
Correction: ForReal does have a sense of humor, head nod.
By two-timed and hopping mad
February 8, 2007 05:06 PM | Link to this
Unfortunately, yes. Many years ago I started suspecting my man, who had been getting home later than usual, of having a relationship with someone else. At first he denied it, but then I came home one Friday night to find a note saying he had gone to spend the weekend with a woman and her two young children, a family he had met recently (in his capacity as their legal aid attorney), to see if there was, indeed, something like the relationship I had suspected. In the note he apologized for leaving me to care for the dogs on my own and said he would return the favor someday. It was probably the worst hurt I had ever experienced in my life. Shortly after that weekend, imagine the the woman’s surprise when she called the house and I answered the phone - he hadn’t even told her he was involved, much like he hadn’t told me he had an estranged wife. She and I had a very interesting conversation via phone, she invited me over to talk more, during which time he called. Just to pull his chain she invited him to come on over and join us; needless to say, he declined. I must admit, we gals had quite a laugh over it. That was the end of my relationship with him; I hear he’s recently been in some trouble with the bar association where he currently resides. Fun times.