By Krystal

February 26, 2007 8:29 AM | Link to this

Bald guys get a bad wrap, hair is not that important for guys. I would rather have a sweet bald guy then a jerk with a head full of hair!

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 8:45 AM | Link to this

Good Morning good people…..well, in my lil humble opinion, it all depends on maturity and what you’re seeking….if you’re in your roaring 20’s, then methinks you’re not even too sure as to what you waqnt, because you’re still figuring yourself out, but once you reach, say 30’s, as Jay-Z said, you mature and grow up…so in my grown up years, yeah, the small stuff can get a gal disqualified….like….I’m a guy, why do my nails look better than yours? ….ummm, if you’re over 30 you should have a greater command of the english language, not just the common slang…umm, you don’t have to be fastidiously neat and clean, but if you invite me over, please clean up…but yes, we do look and pay attention to the small stuff, I do, at least.

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

Good Mornig All

I am always intrigued by people, male and female, who have a giant laundry list of things they ‘want/don’t want’ in a potential SO. People have the right to seek whatever they want (by the way, that is the right to SEEK whatever they want, not necessarily GET it…there is a major difference). I think half of the fun is unveiling the other person (literally and figuratively), a layer at a time, with no goals, just curiosity.

In a negative way, I used to notice the giant laundry list that new divorcees have…of everything they REFUSE to have in a new person, when they could be much better served changing themselves. People should spend more time inventorying themselves rather than others, but I guess no one asked my opinion on that.

So, do I check women out, absolutely, but not for ‘redflags’, but for neat little quirks or things I find interesting or intriguing.

By "Longtime Lurker"

February 26, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

@Wise Lurker and others

I have always sat back and people watched, but I really watch women, esp. ones I am interested in for about 15-30 minutes, before I make a move!

I do this, because I always felt that it is important to see a person in their natural state, before you see their presentation state.

Reason is, it is important to see the little things they do,when they don’t feel that they are being watched, such as how they treat other men that might be trying to holla, how they carry them selves, their body language,etc.

The small details mean a lot with alot of men, esp. men with any type of class!

I would guess in a typical evening, more than 30 percent of people fail to meet a great mate, because of the little things that they “don’t do” or their body language.

I have passed on many females, because of observation.

By QC

February 26, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers

Have a great day all

hey 2CPTG how ya been? good 2 read u

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

LL

Great post and very true.

At parties, I do the same thing, watch and observe a lot. It is fascinating how you can watch a lady who seems so confident, so secure, but when she thinks no one is looking, she lowers her guard and you see the insecurity in her eyes and face…then she puts the ‘mask’ back on when other walk up. By the way, this is not necessarily a good or bad thing to me, just an observation. What I tend to look for is attractiveness, coupled with honesty, not a “presentation” as LL has so aptly framed it. As I have said before, to me vulnerability and transparency are turnons…someone else can deal with the “Superwomen”, I don’t have the patience.

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning Everybody!!

I, too, am an observer. I’m not usually looking for a list of don’ts, but moreso the things I find attractive (like a certain confidence-not to the point of arrogance, chivalry, respect for others-young and old, use of language-or the lack thereof). And yes, men do pay attention (to more than just T & A, more than some women think).

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

Good Morning.

Things that matter:

By Confused

February 26, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

@Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts) Wel said…Great Points….Morning All, QC HOLLA @ me via email…

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

Ladies, what seemingly small things do you think could actually matter a lot later on?

I think that once you get past the initial attraction stage, you have to start looking for things that matter most to you. I’m with RandyT, when I hear the laundry list of things, it cracks me up. Every one of us has some kind of disqualifying trait if someone were to look hard enough, maybe four or five of them. But real compatibility TO ME lies in shared values and similar goals.

If you’re looking for someone who gets their nails done every week, that’s very specific, but you can find that. If you’re looking for someone who takes generally good care of themselves, that’s more vague, but widens your pool greatly.

Now that I’m older, I guess that what I try to do is find out what really matters to me—-big, global things, like does he know God, does he have gainful employment, what does he value, what does he want from life, how is his character, what is his relationship like with him family, does he drink excessively, etc. Even if he doesn’t like my favorite type of music or has different taste in food, if he is a good person in the ways that matter to me, then he gets a shot. He might teach me something or introduce me to something I never would have thought of before. The differences are what make things exciting anyway.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

Oh and Good morning everybody!! Hope everyone had a great weekend!

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Good Morning all

I guess i do watch but i don’t have a list of things i llok for..i just want to see how she reacts and goes about doing her thang…

you do see the real person when they don’t know you are watching

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

Yeah what Sexione said. :-)

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers,

Interesting topic…. I’m w/Randy. I use to try & dig & unfold all the likes & dislikes but right now I’m in a realtionship where I dont care to find these things out. I’m just unfolding these things as we go & I must say it’s much more pleasing!!!

In my recent days, my main thing W/men were your kids. If you had any & if so what siginificant roles do you play in their life. # 1……..

Then, the cleaness, bad habits like gambling, smoking or drinking, your speech & how well you behave in public.

@LL..I like that “PRESENTATION STATE”

It’s funny cause a guy I dated months back noticed in all of 2 months that I was “DEMANDING” He said he picked that up by the way I kept my house. & I will say I keep it VERY, VERY oragnize. But it amazed me that he noticed cause I never did.

By MochaTreat

February 26, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

Good morning QC, Randy, Raqi, Sexione, Justme, Kinder, Musing, Demi, Slim, GAman and crew

^5 Raqi @ Sexione I too am an observer!

By MochaTreat

February 26, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning Foots Glad you could join us today! I hope you are feeling better. Yes, I had a great weekend. Thanks for asking!

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

February 26, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

I agree with 2CPTG with age comes change and with change comes more or less intolerance on the small things depending on the person. I know that as I age I have less tolerance for certain behaviors and more tolerance for others than I did say 5 or 6 years ago. I am a big observer of people in general, I don’t judge on what a guy does, we all have habits and quirks, so if he sucks his teeth or bites his nails I am not likely to rule him out, but I always listening to what a guy has to say. If he is 30-45 and still has yet to grasp the English language..problem.

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

(Blurry Eyed) Foots Morning Girl! Mail call

By MochaTreat

February 26, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

I have a meeting…I’ll check in later!

By chullato

February 26, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this

Good Morning,

In general, I prefered to see the trees for the forest (or forest for the trees), the overall picture. Everyone potential woman/man is going to have at least one trait, behavior, mannerism, etc. that does not agree with their suitor. When I was in the process of getting to know someone, I expected for them to do things that I would not necessarily care for. As I do things they would not care for. Those small things make us individuals, who have had different experiences. At the end of the day, you have to ask yourself, if you can live with those things.

However, I do have a few things that I cannot overlook. One is hygeine. There is no reason, ever, that hygeine should be with an issue with an adult, ever. The second is tolerance of others. If you cannnot accept people not like you, where would I possibley stand? The final thing is (a bit superficial), have to have a decent pair of shoes. I blame this one on my grandmother. I remember being five years old scrubbing my shoelaces, because I could not go outside to play if I had dirty shoelaces!

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this

hey QC…..only way you’re truly going to see someone in their natural state, is to see them at home! LL, I agree, you gotta people watch to catch ‘em off guard, so to speak…..but even with that, you gotta have a keen eye….some folks been practicing their act for so long, they’ve even convinced themselves of their mess……..this chic was proclaiming how religious and spiritual she was and all that….chic didn’t even know what denomination her church was, nor what it meant!

By binford

February 26, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

Very good topic today Diva

I’ve mentioned before that, in a manner of speaking, I have tested women on a date. While that has a negative connotation, it has a very practical application.

For example: If I am looking for someone who can be a co-pilot in our relationship who goes with the flow, it isn’t a bad idea to see how they react (or what plans pop up) when there is nothing on the itinerary for the evening. To see how they react is priceless. Because ultimately I know if they can’t make plans, or have to have every single thing planned, I know they aren’t for me.

That is just one example; there are many other examples like that that determine compatibility (shout out to the e-harmony guy for compatibility!).

I myself don’t want a clone though I am clear on a lot of my wants/needs, and for sure, what I don’t want. The list is not iron clad, but etched in my mind after years of dating experience.

So women -take note- us men are more observant than you think. Sometimes we play possum just to see what you’ll do (as I’m sure the ladies do to us guys). Men these days pay a lot more attention to detail!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

2CPTG this chic was proclaiming how religious and spiritual she was and all that….chic didn’t even know what denomination her church was, nor what it meant! Now that is funny!

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

I’ve said it two or three times before on the blog, and I’m saying it again….A Woman with a junky’azz car will get the “walk on by” from me.

Musing walks new chick to her car

Girl: Musing when you gonna call me?

Musing glances into the back seat, the passenger seat, and the back window, and the front window

Musing: Look, I’ll call you….But don’t you eva..Eva, neva, eva, eva,eva, neva, eva, come around here anymore….Now if you come by here, I ain’t calling you.

Girl: K!

By Jake

February 26, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

What up Blog:

I can’t say i have a list or anything set in stone, but we need to have some common interests. Usaully discovered early on in the “ritual”. I am truly attracted to women who are unaware of themselves. The ones who are attractive well beyond the surface.

As for ruling them out. If I can hear so over the music, conversation, or whatever, your off the list. I can’t stand a woman who has a big mouth, anybody with a look at me personality is a turn off.

Hey Sexione, how are you today?

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this

Hey Mocha and SlimOne. Checking mail now…

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Jake

I am truly attracted to women who are unaware of themselves.

Interesting comment and observation. I like that a lot.

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Whitebread told me that he watched me for a long time as I went in and out of the bank every week. Even made a point to go every Wednesday because he knew I would be there. He says he noticed my walk first and he paid attention to my stance while waiting in line. Then he watched how I folded my arms, how I used my middle finger to push my hair back behind my ears. He noticed how I always spoke to the person that was already standing in line when I walked up and how I was always very pleasant with the tellers. He even figured out what my favorite color is from what I wore.

He claims that I smiled at him one day and that’s when he decided to make his move. But I don’t remember ever smiling at HIM…I am just generally a courteous person. Looking back now his people (“Raqi”) watching makes it feel like he was stalking me. LOL

By Teddy

February 26, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

I too and very obsrvant of a woman before I say a word to her. I love it when a woman is sexy when she really aint trying to be.

By chullato

February 26, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

Raqi, no question about it. That was stalking. (Now enduring flashbacks from a previously repressed memory)

By QC

February 26, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Hey Mocha

Sexie1 i’ll get that info to you before the end of the day……..

By Tater

February 26, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Morning Everyone! RandyT you are right on when you said: I used to notice the giant laundry list that new divorcees have…of everything they REFUSE to have in a new person, when they could be much better served changing themselves.
The mirror is always your truth teller. It’s recognizing the faults that you have so you can accept faults in others that makes relationships and life a lot easier. Nobody is perfect, we just have to learn acceptance. For those women out there who demand a,b,c,d,e,f,g, in a relationship, I wish you the best of luck but it won’t be me…

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Raqi Yep, that’s stalking alright. LOLOLOLOL

Now going to the Smoothie King only on Tuesdays between 10 and 10:08am to see the chick at the bank walk by the teller glass at 10:05am on the dot.

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

Y’all, I got a lil time to kill today, so I’mma break bread today….

Raqi….not sure how many of the new bloggers recall your situation, but I do….as it pertains to WhiteBread, sometimes “people watching” is another name for stalking ones prey….’cause if I recall correctly, buddy did just that to you!!! stalked you til he figured out your ways and demeanor, then pounced in for the kill…and left evidence to boot….if a guy/girl tells you he/she has been watching you for awhile, ask that fool for how long….

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this

Anyone that has a list of things or rules will find themselves looking from the outside….i mean i know we all have a short list of normal stuff..most guys and gals can look at this and be OK with it

but some have this mountain of a list and you have to be a prof. athlete to climb them…

i have a female friend with such a list and she wonders why she can’t find someone…we all tell her takes some things off of her list…hellz she is moving toward the almost 40 age group and wants a man without kids..lolol I don’t know

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this

Jake I’m fine, sweetie, thanks for asking. How are you today?

This one simple question (How are you?) is a good example of how something so small and simple really does mean a lot. You would be surprised at how many people never think to ask this question, esp. waayyyyy down the road into a relationship.

2CPTG That is funny….ironically, if ole girl was truly religious and spiritual, she wouldn’t have to say it, it would be obvious by her actions and deeds. people are a trip!!

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

QC thanks gurl!!!

Yes, there is a thin line between watching and stalking lol

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All, I’m with Dr. Kym about the low tolerance for certain behavior. I know this is petty, but i can’t deal with a man shorter than i am. If you are less than 6 ft. you get nothing from me. I met this wonderful guy, but i have a problem with is height, my best girlfriends tell me i have short complex….we’ll they are right. i do. I can’t seem to get pass his height, other than this there’s no problem with him.

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

The little things may be the big things but Im turned off by men who don’t have good credit or credit that can be fixed with little effort, one who’s material possesions are in his mothers name, a man that can’t keep a job and not be responsible one who complains abotu Ssssshhhhyt everytime you talk to him, and has drama….yep turned off….

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

bold Now you know you’re gonna need a blog vest for that one. lol But seriously, how tall are you? And just for the record, how tall (or short, hehehe) is he?

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

No doubt Musing and chullato. LOL But I tell you after he got my attention I couldn’t help but notice how scrumptious that man looked…even though I was playing hard to get. He could hang a suit like nobody’s business. And the way he peered over the top of his shades when I caught a glance at him…oh man OH MAN…LOL. (I wonder what my husband’s doing?)

That azz hole was a lion on the prowl.

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

Im with you sexione, when I start dating a man and everytime I speak to him or encounter him he has issues, drama,or something bad is always happening to him..im turned off, either he has bad karma, ain’t living his life right or his comeback is round…he doesn’t have time to ask me how I’m doing cause hes so stuck in his SHHHYYYTT…ughh..can you say TURNED OFF!!!!

2CPTG baybeh…whats up!!!…muah

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Jazzy….is that you, Boo? what’s up Ma? what you know ‘bout that 750 FICO!!!!

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

Uhh Ohhh, did bold just pull out the measuring tape? hahahahahaha

Where’s demi?

By Tazzee

February 26, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I am also an observer. I watch how a man treats other people, from the waitstaff to his co-workers, etc. I also look at how a man drives - if he’s riding folks bumpers, changing lanes and stuff like that. Then again, I know this one guy that immediately gets in the fast lane and then drives the speed limit or 2-3 miles below.

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Baybeh its me yep…looks like we both came out to play t’day ya!..I know lots about that score luv..trust it ;-))

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

B & B

Height is an issue, spoken or unspoken for almost all ‘taller’ woman. I don’t even approach a woman who is taller than me anymore, and not for my sake, but for theirs. I dated a female attorney for awhile that was 5’ 11” (I’m 5’ 9”), nice lady, but I finally voluntarily moved into the FZ. Height was never an issue with me (got dumped by a midget once, now that was an embarassment I have to admit), but height is almost always an issue with women.

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

2CPTG you are correct. Find out how long. After we finally got together and he told how he had been spying me out, at the time I thought it to be cute and amorous but that fool was a hunter.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Tazzee I’ve seen you drive….I believe I was behind you in traffic. Were you the lady driving 40mph while putting on makeup, using the Bluetooth, and eating hot wings last Friday? LOLOLOLOL

I am not kidding I saw a lady eating hot wings and doing all that other ishh last week….She was swerving like a m/f…Licking her fingers and ishh too. Hahahahahaha…dayummm

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

hey Tazz….yeah Jazzy, I know you know….

By bold&beautiful

February 26, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

@Sexione - Hey girl, you are so right about that vest. I am 5’6” but i only wear 3 to 4 inch heels and he’s about 5’7”, now you do the math. I invited him to a party that a girlfriend of mine had. One of the guys at the party started teasing me about him. Saying….why is that short dude all up on you? My girlfriend wanted me to take a picture with him, she says go stand by him, i told her i will sit and he can stand. I was so embarrassed…i know that’s bad, but that’s the way i feel.

By Teddy

February 26, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

@ Tazzee “I know this one guy that immediately gets in the fast lane and then drives the speed limit or 2-3 miles below.”

Hilarious! How have you been?

By For Real

February 26, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!! Sexione, Slim, Kinder, Raqi, GA.Man, RandyT, QC

I to notice the small things about women. The eyes, head, shoulders, arms, hands and stance gives me the insight into her true self. Those things never lie and if they are able to control them it will not be for an extended period of time.

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

@Musing, Yes i did. @Randyt, thanks i really needed to hear that. I was beginning too believe i was a bad person for feeling that away. I asked my bestfriend if she would date a guy shorter than she? She told me yes, if he treated her right. Mind you, her current boyfriend is atleast 6 ft.

By QC

February 26, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

I just me Brian Jordan of the Atlanta Braves, he’s dressed soooo nice :)

hey Musing, Demi, Raqi, erry’body

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Hey Tazzee!!!!!!!!!!!

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

B & B, so….riddle me this, why even put yourself in that situation…you knew dude was short prior to even going to the party, right? did you expect him to grow a few on the way there? That was a self inflicted wound…but that is your preference, when dealing with dudes….

Can I put a twist on the topic question, if you know you have a hang-up about something, why do it?

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

bold Okaaayyy, I am cracking up at that!! why is that short dude all up on you? LMAO!!!!! I’ve had a similar problem in the past with trying to date someone younger than me. Although I look young, he looked much younger. One day we went to the store, and some dude actually asked me why I was with that baby boi…..I laughed like hell on the inside….didn’t help that his immaturity eventually showed that he was too young for me.

Musing WTF??? Talk about multitasking….in a bad way!!!!

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Hey QC.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Sexione The whole time I’m thinking, “those must be some dayumm good wings to risk injure and death over”…LOLOLOLOL

And I know she had to have wing sauce all over the steering wheel…Ewwwwww

By abc

February 26, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

I’m pretty open minded… I found last summer that I can’t get along with really country girls, and I’m not attracted to women that aren’t in shape; TV addiction would bug me, lack of cultural and arts awareness is probably a problem.

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

2Can I think people do it hoping the person will grow on them is some way or the other. Or it could be an attempt to overcome those hang ups via time spent. Maybe?

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Hey QC.

By bold&beautiful

February 26, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

@2CPTG - You are absolutely right. I agree with you about the hangups. But, not making up any excuses, i couldn’t remember how tall or short he was. We met once and talked on the phone all the other times. One reason i invited him to the party was too shed light on the matter. I honestly thought i could handle it….but, i can’t. The sad thing about it he really likes me, and he can’t understand why i’m not returning the feelings. I tell him, i like you, i just have some hangups. Now, that’s the truth!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

Howdy For Real

By kinderbabe

February 26, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

good morning.:) hey forreal, mochatreat, GAman, sexione, slimone, musing, abc, everybody on the blog

little things i notice right away in conversation is how the guy speaks about family and family relations. if the ex-wife or momma is brought up in the first convo, there are definitely issues..lol. lack of eye contact is also a biggie. if you can’t look me in the eye, i can’t talk to you.

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Musing That is stupidly hilarious!!! I hate to see people doing ish in the car and swerving all over the place! I’ve had several people swerving all in my lane these past few days, only to look up and see their dumb azzes on the phone - and I’m not talking about handsfree, I mean with the phone to their ear!! I need a special sign that says, “Hang up the dayum phone!!” lol

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

B & B, well, now you have to take your honesty a step further, and let buddy know…just don’t string him along…. unless, y’all got some other grown folks thangs going on, and he’s a viable asset…

Raqi, you said, “I think people do it hoping the person will grow on them is some way or the other. Or it could be an attempt to overcome those hang ups via time spent. Maybe?”…..nah boo, you can’t change grown folks…..I’ve always said, compatibility= how much, for how long….how much can you deal with, and how long? some of those non-compromising things….like height, for some folks…you simply can’t change…keep it honest, and keep it movin’….

By Dreamer 3K

February 26, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

I certainly don’t want a clone, for my faults are too numerous to name. However, compatibility is crucial in a relationship and very often “little things,” are much more than little things. They are symbolic of much larger things.

I want a woman with a degree of intelligence, ambition, civic responsibility, wit and to a lesser extent, a nice azz. Okay, I’m lying, a nice azz is really important.

If at any point in a conversation, she uses the words, or non-words, “irregardless,” or “conversate,” she’s got to go. A woman who uses those non-words probably doesn’t possess the major qualities I want.

However, irregardless of her word usage, if she has a really really nice azz, we can conversate all day or preferably all night. A brother may have standards, but he’s no fool.

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

@BB I feel ya!!! I PREFER 6ft plus but hey, I’ve been known to take a 5-7 or even a 5-8 but nothing shorter.

I’d rather date a short dude more so than a wheelchair dude.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

LOLOL @ Sexi getting mad.

By QC

February 26, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

Hey For Real

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

While we are on the subject of who we approach, I tend to avoid athlete types, marathon runners, etc., for exactly the same reason I do not typically approach really tall women (by the way, none of these are hard and fast rules, just general guidelines). Why waste my time and someone els’s if I am not what they need or want? As Clint Eastwood said in one of the “Dirty Harry” movies…”a man’s got to recognize his limitations”. It still leaves plenty to choose from.

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

So if it’s not to “give it a chance”, what else could it be? True you can’t change grown people. So for what other reason is there? Could it be just to have some one to go out with at that time? Hell I don’t know. You would think people would be honest with themselves and the other person, but as we continue to read….

By Jake

February 26, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

RandyT

Just to elaborate on the “Unaware” statement. Let’s say evrything is cool for her, a regular day.

On a regular day she smiles because she’s a nice woman, she speaks to everyone and brightens their day, confident in herself, always says what needs to be said, but does it respectfully. When you ask about her, men say, she’s cool as hell and down to earth, other women compliment her too…you know how they knock each other, so this makes her really special..LOL She take compliments at face value and don’t perceive them as a dude running a game; and with all this going on, she was just being herself.

B&B If its the height thing, don’t tell’em, he’ll really upset if he knows the only reason you can’t do it is the height, probably got a complex already.

Now that everybody’s here: hey Mocha Choco, Kinder,Slim,QC,Foots, Raqi, Tazzee, all the lovlie.

Head Nods MLB

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Of course we all have hangups, we’re human. Sometimes we try to challenge ourselves to see if the hangups are valid….or just superficial. I know now that a man who is shorter than me will not work for me….mostly because of the Napolean Complex that comes with it. Also, a man who’s younger than me probably won’t have much in common with me - unless he’s very mature for his age. I will not tolerate a man who has no discretion for children (meaning you can’t say and do anything in a childs’ presence). And a big hellz no for me is a man with several cut buddies (if he’s hitting all of his so called friends, I’m turned off)!

By abc

February 26, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Dreamer 3K… ‘irregardless’ is not a word… hahahaha

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

@2CPTG - Again, you are right. I need to tell him why i’m not interested. But, how do you tell someone they are too short(especially a man), without hurting their male ego? And no, there’s nothing else going on. I don’t think i can do that either. @Chocolate Peach - How did you do it? How were you able to overlook their height? I have tried, and it’s not working for me.

By Tazzee

February 26, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this

Musing wasn’t me, LOL.

Hey Teddy - all is well, was looking at some pictures of my last ATL party this weekend and started missing folks. Its true about that guy with the driving though - and his driving has proven to be a good representation of how he is in life. Very straight and narrow, unwilling to try new things, etc.

Wassup 2CPTG and Jazzy!

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

Sexi….your girl, B & B did just that; she challenged herself to go out with buddy knowing her hang-ups..and as she stated, her hang-up was validated that evening….I never said there was a problem with preferences….hell, I have my own….Raqi, you mentioned “give it a chance,” or, trying it out for size…same thing….that’s what I meant when I said we do that in our younger days…when you get older, you would think you know precisely what you want, because you’ve kissed enough toads and tried on enough stuff to know that don’t look right on you!

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

Off to a meeting, be back soon!!

By Demi

February 26, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

bold & beautiful but you are only 5’6 or 5’5…

Good Afternoon All

By Mo

February 26, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Hey ALL!! Kinderbabe, Sexione, SlimOne, Jake, Randyt, ChocoPeach, Musing, and everyone else! Interesting topic!

@Dreamer 3K I’m with abc, irregardless is not a word!! LOL

Dont have a list of things that I want/dont want but like others, there are some things I prefer, i.e. a man taller than me. At 5’0 I am not trying to date anybody shorter!! LOL!

By Demi

February 26, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Heeeeeeeeey jazzyone!!!

By kinderbabe

February 26, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

hey jake

By Demi

February 26, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

Sexione I thought I told you, only date men 26 - 31 and not 25 on down…LOL

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

@Dem…..yea, but i wear 3 to 4 inch heels all the time. When i take my heels off we are maybe the same height. The only time i do not wear heels, is when i’m working out. It’s a complex of mine, i know. It really bothers me. And just as 2CPTG said, i owe it too him to let him know, i just don’t know how to go by doing it without hurting his feelings. I really want to be honest with him.

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

@BoldIf his height bothers you now it will bother you later..just tell him in a nice way…yes he will take a hit from hearing the truth..but he can recover the longer you keep him on the hook the worst it will be for him..just tell him

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

bold & beautiful I follow this rule about telling somebody why I can’t date them: If it’s something they could change or improve upon for the next woman, I’ll be more likely to tell him the truth. If it’s something he can’t do a thing about, like his height, I don’t say anything or devise an alternate explanation.

Maybe that’s wrong, but I just think about what I’d want someone to tell me. Telling me that I’m disqualified for something I can’t change would probably bother me.

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

B & B!!! gal, you won’t be the first female to tell buddy he’s short!!!! He knows this already…..shhhiiiiidddddd, just be blunt; tell him, “look, I like you and everything, it’s just that when we go out, we don’t see eye to eye on things…it’s like one of us is standing head and shoulders above the other….with the operative word being standing“……by then, he’ll know where you’re going with it, and he’ll be the one to bring it up, which is your segue into your true feelings…..

By Dreamer 3K

February 26, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Of course “irregardless,” and “conversate,” are not words. That’s why whenever I hear them, I cringe and were I in the market for a mate, I’d immediately exclude anyone who uses either of the two.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo. Dang, at 5 feet you are about waist height…You’re gonna make some Man very happy. hehehehehehe

By Demi

February 26, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

bold & beautiful Just be honest with the cat…Nothing worst than a woman straight up David CopperFielding on your a$$!!!

LOL

*Be like, F/K…where she go!!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

(Blurry Eyed) Foots As hurtful as it may be, I’d want someone to tell me the reason why they felt they couldn’t or didn’t want to date me. How else do you know what could use improvement? Sometimes it takes that set of eyes from the outside looking in.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

bold But then again, do you HAVE to tell him anything? It’s your right to choose to date anybody for any reason. And if you choose not to date him because it’s Monday and you don’t like dating folks on Monday, then that’s your right too.

I guess that the question is: Do you really owe someone an explanation, esp if the parting is because of personal preference? Can you just say, “I can’t date you for personal reasons” and leave it at that? Or would that just open up 6 million more questions from the dumped?

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

@GA man & Foots - Thanks, i will take your advice in consideration.

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Hey Demi..okay bold if you have to think and argue with yourself about the size of the guy then hes not for you. He isn’t a science project, his hieght is something he can’t change. Just let him know oyu aren’t interested and that you can be friends you don’t have to break him down by saying its his stature. Let it go and keep moving.

By Dreamer 3K

February 26, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

Of course “irregardless,” and “conversate,” are not words. That’s why whenever I hear them, I cringe and were I in the market for a mate, I’d immediately exclude anyone who uses either of the two.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

To be honest, when a woman says dude has to be 6ft+, I automatically think she 5’6 or shorter…LOL

Hey, you like what you like…So it’s all to the good

By Demi

February 26, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

Jake/BB cutie from last week…I told me straight up over the phone the next day…Sex was the bomb, BUT…You are too short to be my man…Had a Brother sitting’n’feeling like…Awwwwwwwww…Dayum!!!!*

Oh well, life goes on…

By Justin

February 26, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

A guy can observe and find out if a woman is self-absorbed and out for what she can get from a man.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

Foots you are 28 going on 29 right?

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

@2CPTG - You are stoooopid!!!!

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

nah, Foots, you don’t owe anyone anything, but wouldn’t it be courteous to let dude know?

“all things must be done in decency, and in order”

By Jake

February 26, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

Excuse me Foots while I piggy back that comment. That’s why I said earlier that B&B shouldn’t tell him its his height. Find another way out, he will probably know its the height issue, but hearing it loud and clear won’t help, I promise you. B&B, Tell ‘em his breath smell like lil men with shyt on their boots are dancing on his tongue, but not the height thing. That will lead to unecessary conversation about how superficial you are and bunch ish you won’t want to hear. You can’t make yourself be cool with dating a midget.

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

@BB…I overlooked the height b/c the guy was soooooo nice. He was on pointe, other than the height issue we were good!!

I also STOP!! wearing my heels. Errr Body that knows me know I luv my heels would even sleep in em. But I ditched them while dating him.

I did end up w/a entire rack of shoes w/out heels..LOL…so that was a good thing! And again after dealing with that wheel chair dude that played me I’ll take a short a guy anyday.

@abc, in ref to Dreamer 3K. I was wondering the same thing. I kept looking @ the post/Word ‘IRREGARDLESS” I was about to check myself.

Hey Jake & Mo, Hope you all weekend was good

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

SlimOne One of the things I’ve learned that helped me to “keep it moving” was to learn which questions to ask and when to stop asking questions. If I say to dude, “So, why didn’t things work out between us?” and he honestly answers, “cause your azz wasn’t big enough” that’s not helpful to me. Basically, if I can judge from the situation if ANY answer he gives won’t satisfy me, I won’t even ask the question. I just take it that he wasn’t the one and keep it moving. When I was younger, I used to have those “WHY AND CRY” sessions trying to find out all the reasons. Until I thought to myself “Hey!! For whatever reason, he doesn’t want me. What does it matter why? That should be enough info right there.”

But yeah, if dude is volunteering helpful information, like I need to clean out my ears or he doesn’t appreciate my sarcasm or something, then I’ll accept it. Personally, I just don’t like disclosing the real reasons, because you just run the risk of running into folks who will swear that they can change this or that if you give them something concrete to aim at or of giving them a complex if it’s something they can’t change.

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

say it again, Jazzy!!!!! (winkin) mess ‘round some of them lil cats will have you re-thinking your position; tom’bout, how can I be Mrs. Lil Nikka!

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Jake You silly!!

demi I’ll be 30 on Thursday.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Telling me that I’m disqualified for something I can’t change would probably bother me.

But then again, telling me I’m disqualified for something I CAN change, but even if I changed it, you STILL wouldn’t want me would bother me even worse!! That’s why I don’t even ask anymore!!

By QC

February 26, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

What up Jake

By Dave

February 26, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

I like normal girls with a sense of humor and are generally laid back.

• I like geeky women, under 5’4”, educated, non-political.

I do not like a few things: - selfish, princesses, judgemental, gossip, critical. Women who do not have a girlfriend are a big red flag. They must be able to communicate with women. I can tell when a woman is not being genuine so faking who you are is obvious.

Oh and felonies. I have dated a couple women with felonies in the past, and while its not unforgivable, she is unemployable and I need a partnership not a dependent.

By QC

February 26, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

It’s so good to read you again 2

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

@BB As much as I lobby the idea of keeping it real, dont lie & etc.

I’m w/Jake on this one!! Then he’s gonna be bitter & Cupid knows we dont need MORE bitter napolean complex men……..

I am 5-5 but that is NOT the reason I luv tall men. Tall men gimme a sense of security for some reason or another. Krazyyyyyyyyy

By SexyLeggs

February 26, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

Good afternoon everybody

By abc

February 26, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

You know, that bothered me about dating last summer… some of them wanted to know WHY I wasn’t asking them out again. Perhaps it’s my own clumsiness in being too nice to them on first dates, leading them to think I was more into them than I was. I really hated that part, it made me feel awful. Nobody wants to tell someone why they’re not interested.

I didn’t tell any of them why, not even the illegal immigrant that used someone else’s picture and had someone else make the phone calls… talk about a surprise on the first date! Online personals, whew. What a lot of liars!

By Jake

February 26, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this

Choco I am 5-5 but that is NOT the reason I luv tall men. Tall men gimme a sense of security for some reason or another. Krazyyyyyyyyy

You’re not crazy, its the fairy tale stuff of looking up to gaze in our eyes, the pick you up hugs that let your feet dangle, plus you can put that foot stool in closet and say “baby can you reach that for me”…LOL

Now going down court doing the “Harlem Shake”, P. Diddy style after scoring two points for 6 foot and above squad…LOL—-Demi, its on ya’ll…HEHEHE

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this

@abc, OMG!!! Are U serious? Illegal immigrants knowing how to pose as someone else. LOL!!

@Jake, U said it BIG Kisses 2 U……. Now wishing I had a tall man preferably DWade

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

I use the same line that is used on me…”you are a very nice person, but I have decided I can’t continue to see you. In the last few years I have dated a lot and have come to know what I am looking for. I think you will make the right person for you a very lucky someone”. Then run like hellz before you get the follow up questions.

It is dangerous sometimes to use trite expressions and worn out excuseds however, however. This weekend the subject of ‘marrrrrrrriage’ came up with my SO. To defuse (and change the subject) I said “I don’t see a rush, why should I buy the cow if I can get the milk for free?”. She replied “is that the same as why I should not have to buy the whole pig for just a little sausage”.

Ouch ;-) Be careful when throwing trite expressions around!!!

By chullato

February 26, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

“is that the same as why I should not have to buy the whole pig for just a little sausage”. Funny

By Demi

February 26, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

and Heeeeeey Foots your 1214 post is how most 18 - 31 ladies think, which isn’t cool. Just keep it real with dudes…

Jake because of napoleon, Hitler, and Stalin, short dudes are minus 99,999,999 in points. I ain’t even going to try and play catch up!!!

Chocolate Peach, at that time, did you stop wearing heels to protect his feelings or yours?

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

I’m back in da house!! full on Jim & Nick’s bbq, ready to laugh it off!!

I see we’re still on the short dude! Don’t hurt his feelings bold, take the higher road…..and lie to avoid hurting his feelings lol

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

HILARIOUS..LIL SNOSAGES..AWW.HIM HAD A LITTLE WEE WEE WANKA’..too dayum funny!

By Mrs. Wade

February 26, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

Amen @ Choco Peach

D. Wade can get it. Lol

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

Randyt daaayyyyyuuuummmm I think I even cringed a little(no pun intended) when I read that.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Tall men gimme a sense of security for some reason or another

ChocolatePeach I’m not a short brutha, but to make you feel better…Perhaps a shorter man could sneak into an area where a taller Man may not be able to go…LOLOLOLOLOL

Ex: Under a desk, or even behind a plant.

By Gettin all mine

February 26, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

I work and have worked with these women with the “check lists” of do’s and don’ts for there man…..after there 2nd failed divorce you would think they would forget the list and just find someone they can be themselves with……but thereinlies the rub…..women cannot relax and be themselves…….

By Reality Check

February 26, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Amazingly, short dudes always find a way to hook up with tall women. Just look at who Kimora Lee’s husband was. Watch out, you naysayers!

By Wise Diva

February 26, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

hey everyone!

If a guy can pull off the sexy swagger like Larenz Tate (he’s what 4’11?), I would be SO smitten IRREGARDLESS of his height, (LOL @ Dreamer 3k) Larenz can get all the (fantasy) business.

I know a girl that dumped a guy because she spotted male thongs in his laundry.

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

Demi you are crraazzzzzyyy!!

Jake the pick you up hugs that let your feet dangle, plus you can put that foot stool in closet and say “baby can you reach that for me” Yep, you got it!! I’m only 5’2, but I’m in heels almost every day, so any man shorter than me would practically be a midget!

“is that the same as why I should not have to buy the whole pig for just a little sausage” I like that!!!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Foots I’ve done the WHY and CRY spill too and the guessing was probably worse than the actual reasons. But as I get older I’d just rather a dude be straight up.

Slim: So what’s up with you? You’ve been acting funny or distant.

Dude: Ah well I’ve been meaning to talk to you about something.

Slim: yeah, I’m listening. What’s up?

Dude: Well….I’m not sure how to say this but….

Slim: will you just say it.

Dude: It’s actually not just one thing. It’s a few things. It really bothers me that you always tear a piece of gum in half instead of putting the whole dayum thing in your mouth.

Slim: WTF?

Dude: I hate the fact that you talk to your mom on a daily basis. And what urks me even more is the fact that you feel you have to take a shower every…dayum…day. I mean, that’s such a waste of water!

Slim: You must done lost your mind.

Dude: I guess it is true what they say, the truth will set you free. Whew! I feel so much better.

By For Real

February 26, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Dayummm Choco a dude in a wheelchair played you… Oh please give some details.

RandyT = Green Card

Wise Diva That’s funny but I guess that would be a clue to something..

Sexione You still got a little of that sauce on the corner of your mouth

By Mo

February 26, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

@ Sexione Thanks for reppin for the short ladies!! Gots to love da five footers!! @ MusingLee dont clown da short folks! Just saw your 12:14 post!! I do what I can, knowwhutImean?!

By SeanJohnson

February 26, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this

Sup Blog…kinda late coming in on this..but i still want to put my two cents on…I notice a lot about women…i watch my prey carefully before making a kill..clean house is important..also keeping your hair combed is too….those two things tell alot…also keeping yourself up physically….and being as healthy as possible..

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

4Real…..I wuddn’t gon’ say nuttin, but ain’t no way in west hell, I’d tell somebody I got played by a cat in a wheel chair…..what, you musta saw some other chic pushin him around?

By For Real

February 26, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

@Slim Dude: And you always getting drunk and flashing folks

Slim: I get drunk????

By Justin

February 26, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

Reality Check, most short men who hook up with tall women are rich. When a man has money, a woman will overlook many, many things.

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

To All re: “a little sausage”

One of the hazards of dating a sharp lady is that she can usually give back as good as she gets, LOL.

Now Jazzee, et al she wasn’t talking about me!!!!!!!! (I hope, after she had four…ahhhh never mind, LOL)

By For Real

February 26, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

Illegal Girl: Jew know RandyT Jameka is spanish for Rosa.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

demi your 1214 post is how most 18 - 31 ladies think, which isn’t cool. Just keep it real with dudes…

Nah man. Not many dudes can handle the truth, just like how y’all say with women. And besides, Jake is not a 18-31 year old lady, neither is abc, but even they don’t like to put the truth and whole truth out there.

Technically, the truth is, “I don’t want you”, however you spin that truth is up to you, no age range for that.

SlimOne I had a dude tell me once that he didn’t like the way that I tore my pickle slices in half before I ate them. So you’re not that far off… LOL!!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

What up Blog…

Yes ladies, we are Super-Sleuting yoll wayyy before, during, and after the initial approach.

Pre-Spring Lady Tip: Keep them feet straight!

LL Mann I saw one of your frat brothers rolling in this morning in a little azz Mazda Miata. You might need to straighten your boy… I’d hate for him to get crippled because my little nephew ran into him with his dirtbike.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

2 LMAO!! “West h3ll”?? Where is that?!?!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

For Real Um, nice add there buddy.

Dude: yeah you always getting drunk. And don’t forget that time I drove by and saw you and some dude pulled over in a parking garage.

Slim: but nothing happened. He just pulled over because I had to barf!

Dude: Thanks for reminding me. Thats another thing that turns me off, you’re always throwing up on folks.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

LMAOOOoooo @ BK…ahhhh ishhhh, Man how you gonna show up and blast your boy blindsided like that…hahahahahahaha

Now watching as 260lbs Man tries to escape his Miata….Car is winning so far

LOLOLOL

By Demi

February 26, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

MusingLee LOL!!! Go to Hellz…shyt you’re already there,LOL

By Justin

February 26, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

SeanJohnson also keeping yourself up physically….and being as healthy as possible..

Women in Atlanta get very sensitive when you won’t date them because of their weight. I don’t want someone who is one the verge of being overweight or so-called “big-boned”. Because, once women are in a committed relationship, they pull the string and blow up.

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

Mo and you know this!!!!

Wise Daayyuuummm, Lorenz Tate is actually that short? I never knew!! lol I have to say that sexiness knows no height, age, or color!!

Dude had a male thong? Was he a naked floor technician?

For Real Can you get that for me?

By Beloved

February 26, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

I do have little pet peeves and turn-offs wouldn’t bother me in a normal situation, but I’ve come to notice as well is that when I am into a person even the little things don’t bother me as much.

By Mo

February 26, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

I hope Larenz Tate aint tht short cause I luvs dat man!!!

By For Real

February 26, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

@Slim EWWWWW I almost forgot about that…

Choco we are waiting to hear about the wheelchair pimp…

Yeah why is it a short brutha can get a tall woman? I would like to date one that’s 6’4”

By SeanJohnson

February 26, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

@Justin…u have a lot who are committed to keeping themselves up…but u have a lot who dont care…i like my women curvy…so the type i like have to stay active..being healthy is sxy…keeps me on my toes

By MochaTreat

February 26, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

Hey Jake

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Heeyyyy Blue Kinda sounds like the clown car…..one little car, on big azz dude struggling to free himself!

Foots West h3ll is on the other side of East h3ll……you didn’t know? LMAO

As for the feet…..that goes both ways!!! I know women need to be extra careful because we wear sandals more. But ain’t much worse than having a dude disrobe and his feet look like he’s been paving the streets for the DOT barefoot!!! Awwwwww daaayyyyuuummm, he gone tear up my sheets!!!!! LMAO

By Confused

February 26, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Justin, Justin, Justin…Wow!!!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

BK Aw man, that was a low blow but still funny as h3ll!!

Justin you were wrong for that: they pull the string and blow up. I got a funny visual on that too. ha ha ha

By Wise Diva

February 26, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

oh no, I was being facetious, I don’t think he is 4’11! His myspace page has 5’7 (ahem, so I’ve heard. LOL)

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

Foots, West Hell is that place where you do stuff but don’t tell nobody…..like….mess around with folks in a wheel chair!….park around the corner from Inserection, cuz you don’t want your car seen in the parking lot…..got a slew of “big gurls” that you call your “coochie in a glass jar”…..for ladies….it’s that place you hide all your toys…or, where you meet your baby daddy for some “old time sake” fun, cuz you wants folks to think you hate him…..y’all know where West Hell is…..

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this

For Real

Be careful about those really tall women…once I saw a six footer on Match.com that turned out to be a ‘transexual’. It was in her/his profile, but can you imagine finding out something like that in the middle of the night??? That would screw someone up permanently if one discovered that the hard way.

Nope, I think I’ll stick to the shorter ones, LOL.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

Reality Check he was rich enough to help her get over his height…no other reason

Foots I thought about that while at lunch. Most men and women really can’t handle the truth all too well.

BK sup!!!

SlimOne what type gum do you chew? Dentyne ice is soooo strong, I must bite it in half…And you should have push wheelie-wheelie man down a few flight of stairs…be like, “My baad dawg!!!”

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

Justin If you meet up with what I call a Thick-wit-it type of sistah and she A) doesn’t seem active and B) has a healthy appetite, then yeah, keep it moving, because she’s probably on her way to being a butterball.

I like mine phat and thick-wit-it but not fat.

By Mark

February 26, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

Why do women notice men’s shoes so much and extrapolate his personality from them?

By Mark

February 26, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

What kinds of clothes do women like to see men in? Brands or better fit? What kids of men’s gym clothes do women notice (and like)?

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

Wise His myspace page has 5’7 (ahem, so I’ve heard. LOL)

So is that with Tims or without.

Slim/Sexi I just thought that joint was crazy. Dude was was in the green/tan joint with the purple plate frame. That’s what caught my eye - the complete mismatch. So then I’m like, “How in the hayo, is some dude gonna smash down into that little azz ride?!” That was a good laugh to an otherwise event-free mess of traffic this morning.

Where is that Queen Carmen at?!

By Jake

February 26, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this

Demi Yea Napolean and Hitler’em, put ya’ll behind the 8ball…

Justin Man you crazy for this on, the funniest line today.

Because, once women are in a committed relationship, they pull the string and blow up.…LMAO,now that was funny!!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

Demi I don’t have a favorite chewing gum but no matter what kind it is, I just can’t chew a whole piece at one time. I’ve had that Dentyne Ice and it’s nothing to mess with. That could be a good Truth or Dare dare…make someone chew about 5 pieces of those at once. lol

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

OMG!! I’m here gotta play catch up. That’s what happen when U take a LONNNGGGGG lunch.

Gimme a minute.

By AnchorMan MusingLee

February 26, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

Looking into camera 1

Hello I am MusingLee…In today’s top story. A local scientist has created an invention that is sure to have short Men everywhere jumping for joy…He has created an item that reportedly attracts beautiful tall Women to short Men…..He is calling this invention “Cash” also known as “Loot” and “the Lovely Green”. During his research he sprinkled the “Loot” over the short Men, and immediately they were approached by a tall Woman.

I’ll have more at 6.

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Mark What kinds of clothes do women like to see men in? Brands or better fit? What kids of men’s gym clothes do women notice (and like)?

Honestly man, why should you care? What are you gonna do, change up your whole closet? You’re on your way to what’s called Trickin’ Off. Just be you and catch something nice that comes your way.

Demi dapps What up mayne?! Oh, be careful on that bike, lost one the other morning.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

I like mine phat and thick-wit-it but not fat.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Mark About the shoes, I think it’s just general upkeep. Like how it looks sloppy when a woman is all done up, but her shoes are raggedy, heel all eaten up and such. They might be great people having a bad shoe day or they just might not care that much about their appearance or they have too much going on to pay attention to such things. You won’t know until you actually meet them.

I like to see men in casual clothing, nice shirt or sweater and pants (slacks), with a belt. My boyfriend has a penchant for golf wear, so he’s usually sweater-vested down, but I like that type of style.

By (Blurry Eyed) Foots

February 26, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

Because, once women are in a committed relationship, they pull the string and blow up.…

Justin Maybe there’s a little truth to the rumor that if people are happy in a relationship, they gain weight. Cause all of my male friends and co-workers in long-term relationships or marriages have pulled that string too.

By demi

February 26, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

That could be a good Truth or Dare dare…make someone chew about 5 pieces of those at once. lol

SlimOne, yeah drunk a$$ hellz with white and blue lights dancing in the rearview mirrors…

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

Mark Truthfully, because the shoes (and watch) shed light into the pocket.

But on a less superficial note, nice shoes show that he cares about himself and his appearance. The same goes for the clothing.

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

now handing Musing an index card from off camera…

Index Card: Cash, Loot, Mula, Green, Dough, etc. has been know to work for ugly, short-dycked, ponk-azz, polar-bear rug azz dudes too!!!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla did you get a good look at the guy? It might have been Quedogteaching. lol Afterall, you said it had a purple plate frame.

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

@Demi, I can’t honestly say…I guess I just didnt want to appear taller than him.

@Musing, That would be a benefit. Lol!! Go….shorties.

@For Real Yes, Wheelchair dude strait played me BIGG TYME.

By abc

February 26, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Check it out, Atlanta ranks behind only NOLA and Jackson, MS in ‘Quality of Life’ in the SE US in Earth Day’s new report. Hmm.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla another beautiful day bruh!!! A friend of mine was killed last weekend, a car hit him head on…The driver (who was sober) tried to take off…But clash into West Palm police cruiser instead. Riders get no love from cars…it is what it is

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this

demi I have a hard enough time chewing those things sober let alone while intoxicated. That will be an immediate stomach-rejection-reflex. Uggghhh!

By AnchorMan MusingLee

February 26, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

In today’s news at 2:55…I have just learned that Suze Orman is a lesbian and will be sharing all of her wealth and p-dussy with her life partner KT…When asked what was the best part about dating Orman, the money or her p-dussy..KT responded “the money that comes out of her p’dussy…It’s spendable and lick’able.”

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Foots

*Maybe there’s a little truth to the rumor that if people are happy in a relationship, they gain weight. *

The quarterback of my high school football team had this really big gal (her nickname was “Moby” so go figure) who had a nice face, and great personality, bus she was huge. She told him she was pregnant and he married her. Turns out that she wasn’t, she just pretended she was and gained some more weight to pretend. No one knew until nine months became ten, then eleven, then twelve. Sometime around thirteen or fourteen months, she really did get pregnant. Ahhh hellz, she did have a nice personality though.

By abc

February 26, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Raqi, that’s pretty shallow… after all, I could afford a Rolex President if I wanted, but I wear a Timex Ironman because it’s a better watch… it’s not jeweled, it’s not mechanical, but it keeps better time, has a stopwatch and timer, and won’t get damaged when I wear it into the steamroom.

By jazzyone

February 26, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

Aww Randy I know she wasn’t talking botu you boo boo…;-))

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

@2CPTG….I’m not ashamed at all!! The games caught up with me. Lol….

Yeah, I guess I can let Larenz slide. I met him/a few yrs ago at the All Star ball game at the AU Center & yes he is one short sexy brutha!!

Will definitely have to pull out the flats though.

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

Slim Naah I didn’t get a look at the dude at all but I’m pretty sure that a chick is not gonna put a Que plate frame on their ride. Besides, this is one small world so I’m sure that somebody on this blog knows who I’m talking about. Forest green Mazda Miata, Tan drop top, Chrome/Purple Que tag frame. I’m not hating on dude, just don’t want to see him kickin’ it down 20 and end up under a pinto. LOL Foreal doh…

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

AnchorMan MusingLee spendable and lick’able talk about dirty money.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

Danggggg, SlimOne Just bust Que in the head with a blog bottle while he wasn’t looking…LOLOLOLOLOL

BK Was he playing Atomic Dog? If he was, then it was Que. hahahahahaha

By Demi

February 26, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

…put ya’ll behind the 8ball…

Nah, when you are behind the 8ball, you at lease have a chance to shoot at an angle or nip shot over it…Them dudes place us in the black hole, with no hyper drive velocity nothing hope of return. LOL

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

BlueK Bull-freakin-crap. You know that a well dressed woman catches you eye before a plain Jane. The sames goes for what catches a woman’s eye.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

…put ya’ll behind the 8ball…

Nah, when you are behind the 8ball, you at lease have a chance to shoot at an angle or nip shot over it…Them dudes place us in the black hole, with no hyper drive velocity nothing hope of return. LOL

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

OOohhhhh!! Where’s QueDog? He’s not even here to defend himself!! lol

Foots Guurrrrlll, get outta my head. The happy men pull that same string and BOOM!!! you got beer belly for days!!! lol Justin don’t feel too bad, it happens to men and women if we let it! That was hella funny, though!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

Blue sounds like you’re putting an Amber alert out on that Miata. LOL That reminds me of a time I was hanging out with one of my homeboys and we seen a dude that was too dayum big for such a small car. As soon as we saw him, be bust out in tears. I would’ve kindly paid him $20 just to see his azz get in and out the car just one time! But seriously, why do such big dudes get these little @ss cars? and you see the tiniest dudes in the huge trucks?

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

Raqi Truthfully, because the shoes (and watch) shed light into the pocket.

Thanks for keeping it real.

Mark/Raqi Keeping a nice watch is also a good way to get another nice watch (presented to you, by women).

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

abc Yes, it is extremely shallow but unfortunately true for a lot of women.

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

sorry Chocolate Peach……when I think of the wheel chair dude, I keep hearing ….“Kkenn-nayy”…said like the dude from South Park….

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

Slim frantically searching for a hiding spot just in case she hears Atomic dog blasting outside

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

Quote of the Day: “Phuck You Simon.”

Now I just hope that ole girl doesn’t go get all hollywood and lose all of that Thickniss.

By "Longtime Lurker"

February 26, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

@Blue_Kolla On your 2:03, That dude may wear the same colors, but a Miata is highly suspect and the “real bruhs” don’t purchase no chick cars, so that cat might be one of the few suspects we got in our org chart.

If you see that cat with another dude riding beside him and they look a little to friendly or happy, get that cats name and ask him what chapter he pledged and I will handle the rest.

By QC

February 26, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

BK what’s up baby!!!!! ;)

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

@Foe Real…U R late. I have told that sad but hilarious story once but it’s cool I’ll tell U a quick version.

One day I get this Lonnnnnnggggg Mssg from t his guy on My Space he goes in & in how he thibks I’m pretty, seem cool to hang out with, etc. etc. anyway his mssg was so long but yet detailed & straight to the pointe. after goin back & forth with him I decided to pass my number whicj I NEVER do. I had NEVER used my Space as a dating tool until then. Anyway we talked via phone for weeks almost amonth until I decided to meet him one day.

Mind You we have talked about everything from the sun, also remember he has a My Space page that displays about 5-6 pics of him. Anyway , in all these convo’s I had yet to catch on to why he would always ask “Do U judge a book by his cover”? And my replay was I use to . it’s a bad habit of mine I’m trying to break, Anyway I decided to meet him for drinks & etc. We meet at a local walmart & I park next to hi s car he was on the phone when I drove up. We discusse dwhere we was goin * who was driving then I got out & jumpe d in his car.

So on the way he says after tonight you’re going to have a 100 questions & I say Why? U think I ask a lot of questions….he say’s No but U will tonight. We arrive at the bar & I get out lookin all FLYY…Checkin out da scene & myself at the same time wondering whatthe hel is taken him so long. I then walk over to chat w/a old co worker I hadnt seen in a while. Why when I turned around dude was rolling around in a wheel chair…………………………………………………………

There was a immdiate blow to the chest however I remained cool, didnt show out or anything. I was just so stunned that that had happen to me. How in dal hell out of 50 convo’s U failt o tell me you were handicapp.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

SlimOne look woman, I am getting me a F-350 and I won’t give a Dayum how I look getting out of it…I just hope I don’t fall on my a$$ while trying to look all cool’n’shyt!!! LOL

By Wise Diva

February 26, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

that’s interesting, abc. Actually, I lived in Jackson, MS during my childhood. Hmm, who knew?

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

abc there’s a guy here that tries to feign his status by wearing a “Rolex” and some cheap azz men’s wear he probably buys at the WestEnd. Anybody who knows anything about fashion knows that a Rolex does not tick, it glides.

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this

Mannn, yoll are still crazy as ever I see.

That reminds me of when I first got here, how my ex was talking about seeing Dominique riding around up Buckhead in some bad azz sports car with his head sticking out the sunroof. LMAO

Raqi I’m not messing with you today.

By Confused

February 26, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

Off topic…I just did my gmail and into the internet talking thing so holler @ me bubbles0830@gmail.com b s 27 stn mt hazel eyes thick with it but not fat actucally lost mad wieght since the divorce I must say !!! LOL seriously I am learning to meet new peole out side my inner circle so Holler @ a Sis!!! Peace

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

I was horrified but at the same time I was like what he h3ll…..for one b/c I DONT do internet dating & I had NEVER used My Space as a dating tool that was soley for the purposes of arranging my 10 year class reunion.

This 1 time I decide to take a chance this is what happens…Then 2ndly: I was too flyy that night to be out chillin wit a dude in a wheel chair. I could have saved my outfit for a real date. 3rdly; He was sooooooo nice & convos was very interesting, easy to talk to & etc but he should have let me make that decission instead of springing that on me in such a not so cool way.

I swear, had he caught me 2 years prior we would have made the 11:00 news.

By abc

February 26, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

I dunno Raqi, whether business suit, evening gown or jeans and a sweater, it’s what’s in the apparel that catches my eye. The clothing is just a wrapper.

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

Demi you’re a fool boy! You might want to get one of those fall out stair cases so you can keep your cool in tact. I can see you now on a nice sunny clear sky day. We see this fly azz F-350 pull up shining, with tinted windows, rims and the beat booming. The door opens, the fallout stairs come out and a cloud of smoke to follow. Out walks this 4ft wonder….LMAO! Everybody watching leans back and simultaneously says, “DAYYYYUUUMMMMMM!” (like Friday) Just kidding hehehehehe

By Sexione

February 26, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

Have a great evening folks….I’m out!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

B_K I swear they are going to carry me away in a straight jacket laughing at you…..driving around in a sports car with their head sticking out the sunroof..LMAO!

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

QC You’re what’s up slim… ;)

LL get that cats name and ask him what chapter he pledged and I will handle the rest.

Naah dude, it ain’t that crucial, just odd.

Demi I am getting me a F-350 and I won’t give a Dayum how I look getting out of it…

Hayotuhdanaaah. LMAO.

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

Now installing inflatable Emergency airplane ramp on demi’s F-350…allowing him to slide to saftey

By QC

February 26, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

You betta do yo thang Confused you go girlllllllllllll……………..

By SexyCool

February 26, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

what can i say that hasn’t been said?….h ell…what HAS been said? 209 Comments…too many to read…

at any rate…just dropping by…but…i will say this…similarities build bonds…differences add spice…and love seals the deal…

By QC

February 26, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Musing you silly!!!!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

Slim?! H3llll Naaahhhh You might want to get one of those fall out stair cases so you can keep your cool in tact.

No you didn’t just tell my boy to get the fall out stairs! I got a visual of them joints rolling out the door, over the stepbar, and down to the ground. LMAO hahahahahaha. You stoopid.

By Wise Diva

February 26, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

geez, LL what are you going to do report him to HQ to have an investigation launched? You guys will just roll up on his house and make him get a new car?

Maan, the frat men are something else.

By Alvin

February 26, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

CP I understand how that dude feels…I am glad you kept your cool and didn’t end the date there…I’ve had women cuss me out, walked out (in the middle of the date), and stop talking to me altogether (while on the date), when I tell them thatI am deaf…Now I just tell the young lady upfront. LOL

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

InstallerMusingLee Would that happen to be the inflatable airplane ramp? lol

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

LOL abc. I know you are the exception. You are like 50+ plus. Right?

But seriously you don’t have spend a wad of cash to look nice if you know how to shop. It’s a given that finer fabric not only feel better, but also look and hang better. I have noted several men who wouldn’t normally catch my eye in the attraction arena, but they were so well dressed I couldn’t help from noticing.

By QC

February 26, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

Anyone interested in an

Accounting III position just hit me up….MissQC@gmail.com

i’ll send you the information tomorrow…have a great evening all

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

Raqi When it comes to timepieces, is that called a glide or a sweep? Just askin’…

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this

ChocolateP I bet you ask for pictures in action now…LOLOLOL

Dude: So are we gonna hookup or what?

ChocoP: Sure, but first I need a photo of you dunking a basketball, running the 40 yard dash, and doing a pushup.

By Confused

February 26, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

Good looking out QC…Thanks again!!!

By SexyCool

February 26, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

chocolate peach…i think i met that same dude about 5 years ago…we didn’t make it to the second date…lol…

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

@confused i tried gmail once and it was ok…hit me up at manswellp@yahoo.com

Update i am still working on the blog party….just waiting for mr. freeze(winter) to leave ok all

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

confused i tried to send you an email ..there was error or i could be sleepy…give it me again lol

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Demi I’ve had women cuss me out, walked out (in the middle of the date), and stop talking to me altogether (while on the date), when I tell them thatI am deaf…

Issue Hey mayne, that’s because you take half of a woman’s inner power of chi, when you tell her that you can’t hear a dayum thing that she’s comlaining about. You’re not living up to your full potential as sounding board at that point.

Fix for that: Quickly tell them that you keep a spare set of batteries for the hearing aid on you at all times so that will never be a problem.

Sidebar: Do you ever turn that joint off on purpose sometimes? (Provide all answers in MLB Code)

By MusingLee

February 26, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

The Q’s arrive to Miata dudes house

Miata Dude: Hey what’s up frat..What pleasure do I owe this visit? Miata dude breaking a sweat and speaking nervously

Q Board: We have strong evidence that you’ve been driving a Miata…And we’re here to rectify the situation

MD: A Miata..Come on frat that’s not true.

Q Board: We need to look in the garage

Upon seeing the Miata in the garage, the board begins to Q Stomp the ishh outta his car….

By abc

February 26, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

I’m 48… but, there are plenty of 40+ chicks that keep themselves up and look great! And frankly, some snug jeans and a sweater can play to their better attributes more than dressier clothes can. I’d rather wear jeans myself, but I can’t, most of the time.

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

Confused Other than hazel eyes and thick-wit-it, what other talents do you have… then again… that, might just be enough. LMAO

LOL @ Musing and the mini olympics needed to get the digits from Chocolate.

By Confused

February 26, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Sounds good GA.man…I am down for the Spring Fling and I will use gmail for fun and meeting people around town!!! Thanks

By Confused

February 26, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

Educated BS working on MS love sports just got Falcons Season tickets off to a soccer game now that will tell you what I do read between the lines…Love to read…Love sports!!! I am learning to listen more…Just growning into me here lately…One child…No drama on that end I frequent Dugans on Flat Shoals a lot…If one really read the blogs I am easy to figure out that is my identity bc I love sports!!!

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

I’ve been outta the loop for a minute….so is that the new blog protocol, just straight up ask for the email addy now-a-days????? no more side-line pimpin’?

By Teddy

February 26, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

Take it to em Confused…lol

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

Confused have you ever checked out Comedy night at that same Dugans you go to? (Saturday’s for only $5)

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

No 2C we are having a blog party…most of us are str8-up so hit me up if you want the location cause just like v103…..only ppl who hit me up will be showing up lolololol

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

@ Alvin, R U serious? C’Mon Man……

@MusingLee, LOL U know U just got wayyy 2 many jokes!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

2Can …just straight up ask for the email addy now-a-days????? no more side-line pimpin’?

What up champ? I was looking at that too. LOL But I guess you’ve got to get out there since they blocked the addy mouse-over.

By kinderbabe

February 26, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

wow, lot of mingling going on up in here…lol. guess it’s a sign that spring is on the horizon.:) play on playaz…lol

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

GA Dude So what is it, a house party?

By GA.man

February 26, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Hellz no not at my house…lol i am renting a space and ghaving some food catered ..then we gonna play some cards…bones….maybe even cut a rug…nothing but fun

oh yeah and the cost is 0.00 i got it covered

By abc

February 26, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

In spite of their deception, I think you’re showing a repugnant lack of compassion for those with disabilities. Their inability to tell you about them up front simply demonstrates that they know others will judge them by those disabilities. The sad part is that that guy thought that showing you some of his better qualities first, without knowledge of his being wheelchair-bound, would make any difference to you.

By C

February 26, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

truth be known, i think both sexes have their own little lists. i get hit on a good bit from men. i have to say grace will win me over. so, i think we watch the body language to see if it is okay. as to a checklist, yea, small one:

able to hold up their end of a conversation

comfortable in their own skin- able to smile and be silly

stable

shared interest…you know what we all fall back on when the intial attraction fades a bit

most of all, a guy that has the right balance of together time and alone time (and not a cheater)

maybe a checklist it is, but it is true.

By Raqi

February 26, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

It’s a freakin beautiful day. I think I am going to put some steaks and potatos on the grill for dinner. Yeah, I will do that.

I’m out. Everyone have a good evening.

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

What up, Blue…..yeah, I was noticing the slickness of how things were being done….but nah, GA Man, I’ve had my fair share of blog hook-ups/meet-ups and the sort, I was just curious….

By "Longtime Lurker"

February 26, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

@MusingLee LOL….I am speechless!

@Wise Lurker I think we just gave you another topic Idea!

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

abc/chocolate Yeah that dude was sadly mistaken. That’s why you have to be you all of the time and if the other person doesn’t dig it… off to the next.

GA Dude oh yeah and the cost is 0.00 i got it covered.

That’s mighty big of you, but at least keep a tip jar, or provide a list of donation items. I don’t like to show up empty-handed.

By Chocolate Peach

February 26, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

@abc, Yeah, I bet. I had much compassion for him cause like I said I could have or should have went off.

Remember U only got piece of the story. We remained cool until he got wayy 2 needy & desparate & fired himself. I went out w/him a few times after the fact he FORGOT….to reveal his status. And I understood that. That’s why I kept my cool b/c he was or still is a nice guy just not 4 me.

Way to impatient & w/me Patience is definitely a virtue.

I’m out!! Great blog ladies & gents.

Peace ^ Chocolate out…….

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

off subject

Just went through the AJC website and noticed that Bobby Brown just got arrested again. Man, his nose and his reproductive organ are in a race to see which is going to cause him more trouble. I don’t blame him, but Whitney had about as much natural born talent as anyone, and what a waste it has become. I guess I am always a little amazed at how talent+success does not equal happiness.

By Blue_Kolla

February 26, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

GA Dude Be sure to have everybody put their nametags on.

2Can I’ve had my fair share of blog hook-ups/meet-ups and the sort,

Mayne, I dayum near fell out of my chair reminiscing. LMAO Hayonaahhh…

By For Real

February 26, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

CP you better than me I would have been like aw naw hell naw you could have told me and I would have proceded to drink until I became Slim

Confused Do you like Alligators too?

Demi you got it good. you acutally can’t hear I’m stuck with huh

By Alvin

February 26, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla I once turned my ear hear off while my mom was talking, soooo she smack my a$$ clear into the next room. Even if I don’t like what is being said, I will not turn them off. Y’all hearings hate being ignored, LOL

CP I’ve been through worst. Life goes on.

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

yeah, Blue….I’ll holla at y’all fools online only!!!! Monday thu Friday…..you tom’bout some academy awards…boi, we gotta slew of actors on here….

By For Real

February 26, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

Obama/*GA.Man 2008. You got my vote!! I agree you should provide a tip jar or list of necessaries…

Also, require all the ladies of the blog to wear white pants or short?

By bold & beautiful

February 26, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

Question to the men of the blog - What does a man mean when he says, if i didn’t know you i would be after you? I have my ideas, just want clarification.

By Demi

February 26, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

That’s why you have to be you all of the time and if the other person doesn’t dig it… off to the next.

True, true…That!!!

Sup 2can/Sexy

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

February 26, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

Dayum B&B

I don’t know what that means, but it does not sound good.

By For Real

February 26, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

Ga.Man I feel you on the house party thing. I had the first party of the summer a couple of years ago and 200 people showed up at my spot. I had to call the popo on myself. Never ever again…

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

For Real keep on talking about my drinking, when yo azz be right alongside me.

Alvin OUCH! I’m sure she didn’t have to tell you twice. lol

By 2CPTG

February 26, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

B & B that’s a punk move, buddy really wants to holla, but trynna guage a reaction from you…….tell him to kick rocks just for comin’ with the lame line!

By SlimOne

February 26, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

For Real whats up with the white pants…sounds like a setup. I can see you now scheming to wet us all up just to see what type of underwear we have on. You naughty naughty boy

By For Real

February 26, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

BB What are your ideas?

By Demi

February 26, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

For Real huh can be such an ugly word at times, LOL

By Alvin

February 26, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

SlimOne LOL, nope once was enough!!

By bold&beautiful

February 26, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

@For Real If there were any attractions other than then friend thing, it would be on.

By Teddy

February 26, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this

Slim I dont think the white pants and shorts is for guys to wet you up. I think its known that there are only certain times yall would dare wear white pants or shorts…lol.

Night folks!

By Wise Diva

February 26, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone!