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Double your pleasure?

My friend Cookie recently met a nice guy. They exchanged numbers, and pretty soon, he called her up to ask her to the movies. Sounds great, right?

Well, there was a little caveat. He said that he’d like to bring along his brother, and suggested that she might like to bring a friend as well, so they could all go together.

Cookie’s other friends and I reassured her that he’s just shy, and that maybe this was his way of testing the waters without too much pressure. Hopefully, we said, if she says OK and it goes well, a one-on-one date will follow. She agreed, but after the movie outing, she wasn’t sure how much she could tell about whether it would work or not. Was he too shy? And how much can you really tell about a relationship’s potential dynamics in a group, anyway?

So now I’ll turn it over to you guys in hopes of getting a definitive answer for Cookie as to whether this is weird or not. Have you ever been in this situation — either initiating a group date, or being asked on one? What would you do if you were asked to go on one, like Cookie?

Do you find group dates or double dates less intimidating? Is it something you would suggest out of shyness or to “test the waters”?

What can you learn about the other person on a group date that you might not learn one-on-one? What can’t you learn in such a situation?

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By Biff

May 18, 2007 8:22 AM | Link to this

Swingers!

Does Cookie look and act like a swinger? Nose rings? Sounds like the dude is into the kinky stiff.

Either that or the dude’s brother is one of those Texas Chainsaw type mutants and they were planning on drugging her and taking her to their pit.

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 8:26 AM | Link to this

Morning Good People!!! Happy Friday!!! Have a great weekend!:)

By Sexione

May 18, 2007 8:31 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday!!!!!!

A double date on the first date? Sounds like some high school ish to me. I’m not sure if I would go for that. She should ask him why he feels it necessary to bring others along. And how old are they?

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 8:32 AM | Link to this

It’s Finally Friday!!!!

I don’t find this weird at all. Many times I’ve engaged in outings where it turned out to be a group thing. It does make for a more relaxed setting plus it gives all an oppurtunity to meet other folks. In my case I’m with my cousins often and they want to meet guys. So if you meet someone that seems cool why not see if they have a friend or brother that’s just the same? I would only be alarmed if every date had to be a group date. Then i would think he just liked hanging out with us but not necessarily interested in dating one-on-one. I’ve come to find out that some guys just want to hangout in the company of women having fun without the pressures of the whole dating/mating dance.

By kinderbabe

May 18, 2007 8:36 AM | Link to this

this situation sounds a little weird. i would be thrown off by a grown man, who’s wanting to take me on a date, asking his brother to go also. doesn’t sound very mature…it would be different if we were an established couple and invited another couple (who are good friends) to join us for dinner, drinks, etc. but in the beginning…not.

By Cinderella

May 18, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this

To me a group date as a first date would mean A)this relationship is going to automatically start in the friend zone (and will probably stay that way). B)he’s not really that into me. C)dude is lame.

Group dates can be fun AFTER we’ve been dating a while ALONE and already an established couple.

By abc

May 18, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Perhaps there are religious reasons that he felt the need for accompaniment, such as a chaperone. Not my cup of tea, but different strokes.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

Ok Sexi I have to co-sign on that one! Good Morning Blog Had to add that in there. The double dating thing hasn’t been done since I was a high school Freshman!!! Who still thinks of that kind of stuff??

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

Off Topic

What is the world coming to when you can’t even pray in church without being attacked.

Sad

By The Truth

May 18, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Is that lame or what?

Sexi1 HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY

By QueDogTeaching

May 18, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

What up Blog

O.K. lets look at this from a different angle. What if the guy was already going to be out, and then asked “cookie” to come and hang out and to bring a girlfriend, since his brother would be there. Would that seem strange? I don’t think so. I think what he did was perfectly natural, it was just that his approach was way off. People do it all the time, just under different circumstances. Realistically, how many times have you talked to a friend of yours and they have said “This (Girl/Guy) I met last week, will be at (Ex. Dugans) watching the playoffs on Thursday do you want to roll. So it is done all the time. Just my thoughts.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

Hey Kinder Girl, I chickened out! Mochalatte putting on blog vest for protection His friend got into town earlier than I expected and when I went to go talk about and retrieve a few items I let him borrow, I got sucked into the introduction of “This is my boy, my boy this is Mochalatte”. I then was asked to have a drink and have a seat and mingle with him and his boy for the next two hours. I was also asked to join them on an outing to the new local watering hole. I didn’t want to diss him infront of his friend so I didn’t bring it up. Now I have to wait until I can get him alone without his friend because I don’t like embarassing anyone. Plus, he was two-sheets to the wind and would not have remembered anything I said to him last night. HELP!!!

By Sexione..ready to get the party started!

May 18, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this

abc Give us some examples. I’m over here trying to think of a religious reason for needing a chaperone on a date as an adult. Hmmmmmm…

Mochalatte gurl, that was the first thing I thought about!! lol

Laney how old is Cookie and this dude (and his brother if you know)?

By T-Mango

May 18, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

Good morning all.TGIF and TGIOT(thank God I’m off today)-

Co-signing with kinderbabe on this one.

Have a great weekend all. I’m in Lurksville, GA today.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

Ok, I don’t know if I agree with the whole “he may have just been out anyway and asked Ms. Cookie if she wanted to hang”. If I’m reading Laney right, she said he called and asked her out to the movies directly but said that he would like to bring his brother along and for the sake of his brother not being a third wheel, could you bring a friend along. Now I can dig that maybe his brother was intown visiting and that he didn’t want to leave fam while he was out scooping out a new talent, but if that was the case, he should have waited until his brother left town to see her. If that is not the case, then again, it was just a lame thought!

By Sexione..ready to get the party started!

May 18, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

Thanks Truth

Que Now that sounds normal. But go back and read what Laney posted. He called her up to go to the movies and said he’d like to bring the brother along. I didn’t get the impression that it was something already planned (like a party, or a happy hour outing). Maybe I’m wrong….

By SeanJohsnon

May 18, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog..TGIF…I am not the type to double date but like QueD said..it happens more than u think..just not as formal as it sounds..Just like his example pointed out…or even when you go bowling with a group thats coupled off..Its so common to be out with your boys..either chilling around the crib drinking playing cards..or out at the local spot and u get a call from a female u are dealing with and her and her girls fall through..next thing u know some of her friends is dealing with your friends….yall dont act…how many times have your friends asked you “who” is that with your friend…or have had to “take one for the team”…it happens.

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

QDT I agree with you that this sort of thing happens a lot but it may not come up in the same way this particular incident did.

Scenario 1

Female Friend: Hey what are you doing this weekend?

Chick: Actually, Dude said he wanted to do something. I’m not sure though, maybe go out for drinks. What about you?

FF: Girl i don’t have any plans. Hey i have an idea. Maybe if he has a friend we all* could go for drinks together.

Chick: okay, I guess i’ll ask him. I think he said his boy was coming in town.

Scenario 2

Chick: hey, what’s up?

Dude: You. I really want to see you this weekend but my boy needs to get out of the house and i told him earlier this week we’d hangout.

Chick: Oh really? I was looking forward to hanging out with you too.

Dude: what is your friend doing that you told me about?

Chick: come to think of it she doesn’t have any plans, why?

Dude: you wanna see if we all could meet up? But first what she look like?

Chick: I’ll ask her. Now you know i dont have no ugly friends.

Dude: under his breath You shyttin me.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

Sexi are you reading my blog-mind?? Gurl, you are right on point today!!! Also Happy Early Birthday Sexi Go on out and Party Like a Rockstar!!!

By The Truth

May 18, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

Slim1 whats going on in the world where you have to have security cameras in a chuch?

By Laney

May 18, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this

Sexione, Cookie is mid-20s, and I think the brothers are late 20s (twins, both live in Atlanta).

By JJ

May 18, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Maybe the brother was visiting from out of town and dude didn’t want to leave him alone…..????

By abc

May 18, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

I was referring to Christian pre-marital counseling books I’ve read that detail sexual abstinence in terms of removing temptation. Issues such as ending dates before 10PM, not being alone together in situations that could lead to sex, stuff like that. I can’t abide by such things, or at least I can say, I haven’t abided them, but lots of people do.

By Katie

May 18, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

If you go out in a group you don’t really get the chance to get to know your date. I wouldn’t consider that a first date. Kind of lame in my humble opinion. Immature.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

OK Laney Now that’s a twist that you didn’t add before… twins!!! I feel like a doublemint gum commercial!!! Has she gone out on the date yet?? I still say that’s still kind of lame though. They are not in high school anymore. Are they siamese? Joined at the hip? Leave your brother at home. Because unless Ms. Cookie has a twin sister, there is no reason they need to double-date.

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

Sexione What’s your favorite adult beverage?

Truth I was thinking the same thing. If i was a Catholic Priest I would have cameras to just to protect myself from allegations of messing with the alter boys. But it’s a good thing there was a camera in there. And if you can’t feel safe in church then we’re all doomed.

Laney Well if the brothers are twins, then that would explain a lot. Often times twins tend to do more group things anyway. So as weird as it maybe to others, twins have a totally different way of living. One of my best friends is a twin. They didn’t really start living their own life until older when one of them sort of wanted to be more individualist.

By SeanJohsnon

May 18, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

@abc…JW’s do that also…even the adults.

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

Sexione have a ball on your special day!:)

On topic, as time progess I would love to meet friends and hang out periodically not all the time…Men grow to depise some chicks who come around all the time…JMO…But at fisrt it is about learning each other and not spending every minute of the day and night together but friends and family should not be an issue early on…

By abc

May 18, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Twins! Now it’s gettin kinky. That makes me a little suspicious.

By Island Girl

May 18, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Morning Everyone..Happy Friday!!

The last time I had a double date was in high school. I think it’s awkward for a first time date to ask his brother to accompany him on his date.

Sure, unplanned things happen….like running into a couple you know at a restaurant and they ask you and your date to join them. Ok, that can occur and change the whole scheme of things for the evening. It just seems odd to me he would not want to have one on one time with someone he’s meeting for the first date.

I would not be surprised if he is a neophyte to dating.

By mickiedee

May 18, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Yeah I am a little suspicious too. The twins might share women.

By The Truth

May 18, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Slimone on second thought, with catholic priests raping boys and other priests taking advantage of women we need to put police precincts in each church.

One word for this whole scenario LAME.

The Truth does the jack move again wearing a ski mask and a loaded question. Sorry Laney

What do you think the success rate of a couple that swings vs. a traditional couple? A friend of mine and his wife are mild swingers looking to get into it more. My one thought is it reduces the major fear of cheating but I don’t know how it could affect the rest of the relationship. Any personal experiences? LOL Do you know any swingers and if so how are they doing? Just wondering, I’d hate to see my partner get into something that would hurt him. Fellas, he was talking to this one guy that threw parties and they were talking about my boys wife getting knocked off by a few guys. I am not down with that but I thought it was hilarious. I couldn’t have that conversation.

By Island Girl

May 18, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

ABC You have a point regarding chaparone/dating. I heard that advice given at singles ministry. I think it helps to go to places where it is not an intimate setting.

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

Truth Pretty soon we’ll have police substations or better yet little kiosks. LOL Can you imagine going to somewhere like…i don’t know…lets say the cleaners or wal-mart. You can get your clothes cleaned, buy groceries and file a police report all in one stop. LOL

From what i’ve heard from other people, the swingers world is more common than i thought. If i were a man, I just couldn’t fathom watching another man bang my wife just for the sake of being able to screw other women. Also, how safe can that be really. I doubt those folks are using dental dam.

By Sexione

May 18, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Thanks Mochalatte, apparently we are on the same wavelength today!! lol

abc Oh, okay, I see what you’re saying. That leads me to a question…..If you were following these principals, would you feel it necessary/appropriate to tell your intended this? Anybody feel free to answer this.

Their fairly young, so that makes it even more questionable. And twins? Uh oh…..not to offend any twins

By Laney

May 18, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Haha, mickiedee and mochalatte…my understanding is they are not identical twins =)

they did go on the date and I guess it went fine, but Cookie is still trying to make up her mind about him.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

I’m sorry for being so naive, but I didn’t know that a “movie” constituted as an “intimate” setting. Don’t people go to jail now for commiting lude acts in public? Laney how long ago did they meet?

By Sexione

May 18, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Slim I’m a margarita kinda girl……..in the BIG glass!!!

Thanks LadyJ!!!

By abc

May 18, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

I’d imagine that anyone choosing to follow Christian singles guidelines and such would have made a mutual decision, and it would come with commitment, not so applicable to first dates; but then, some folks will get pretty freaky pretty quickly.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

LOL Laney So what is the problem? Is he asking her for another date and telling her to bring the same friend or another friend to double-date again? Or is she scared that when he calls that might be what happens? Did he ever tell her right off that he was shy? More importantly, have they talked since the date period?

Sometimes it’s good to discuss a date, especially if you are considering repeating the situtation. Has Ms. Cookie let him know that she was uncomfortable with the situation? And LOL, not identical, aaaawwww dayum!!!

By Raqi

May 18, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

LOL@ ..ending dates before 10PM..

Laney I understand that it can be difficult trying to come up with topics related to relationship on the daily. I myself appreciate your and WiseDiva efforts because it helps my days go by faster.

Now on topic, I would have thought it rather strange if I had been asked out on a date and the guy wanted to bring his brother. I remember when I started dating in high school my mom would ask “Who all are you going out with?” And to say just me and Chuck was not an acceptable answer. (This goes back to what abc was saying being that I was raised under strict rules.) After I became a HS senior I was then allowed to go out on evening dates alone with him.

The only reason I could see a man in his late 20’s wanting his brother to tag along is he has already determined that the girl is not someone he is interesting in as more than a friend. First of all the movies is not the ideal get to know you date. So if he was interested in getting to know her I would think he would have chosen a place where they can talk and interact. You can’t do that at the movies. Or maybe he was afraid that she may turn out to be a lame date and he would have his brother there as a backup to have someone to talk with.

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Waitress comes over to Sexione with huge azz birthday card and the biggest top shelf margarita she has ever seen

Feliz Cumpleaños Señorita Sexione

By Jake.

May 18, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

What up BlogFam:

Happy B-day Sexione, I be there to sing you a song later, I think I’m going to wear just my bowtie and footies…lol

On topic:

The group thing is pretty lame for a first date, and I don’t care if they are twins, but I’m not against group outings. It provides you with an opportunity to see a person interact with others and give you a general sense of their personality because they can’t fake out the whole group, they’ll show themselves in that setting.

By kinderbabe

May 18, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

hey mochalatte it’s o.k…lol. that happens. the timing wasn’t right for you. i’m sure that you’ll get to it when the timing is better. men are just as instinctive as we are. he might have felt like that talk was coming and threw a curve ball w/the friend…lol. good move, it worked.:) but seriously, it’ll come up when the time is right.

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Laney Mochalatte made me think of something. If this was just the first date then I really don’t see the need to start overanalyzing already. Now if they’ve discussed going out again and bringing tag alongs, then I might question his behavior. But i think she just needs to chill out or at least talk to buddy. I have never gone out on a date, whether it was one-on-one or group, and didn’t discuss it the next day. Otherwise, I would assume that he isn’t feeling her too tough. If he suggest another date with his brother as a tag along, have her say something to the effect of, Well i was actually hoping we could get to know one another a little better, then suggest something more interactive to do. I hardly ever go to the movies on a first date because sitting in the dark watching a huge screen, does not constitute getting to know someone, in my eyes.

By Raqi

May 18, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

SexiOne is today your birthday?

By Katie

May 18, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

runs over and snatches margarita from slim one before sexione can get to it.. yum..

By purplepassion

May 18, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Raqi I co sign your 10:39 post. I was thinking the same thing. He was probably looking at her as just another “girl” friend to hang out with. Movies are not my favorite first date. Not much interaction there except for going oh ah or other mutters people do during movies.

Mocha seems like it always happen that way when you’re trying to get your point across. Hang in there girl. How long is his boy in town?

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Jake,QDT,Musing,Gaman,Truth,For Real,abc, and SeanJ all gather around Katie,Slim, and Sexione hoping the cat fight will lead to itties and booties to be exposed

Slim ran behind bar and came back dressed in full catwoman suit, jumps on top of bar licking her paws

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Where is Officer Musirello when we need him??? Katie is a blog Margarita thief!!! Stop her, she’s confiscated the sacred Texas Margarita from Sexi!!!

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

I am ready to party so lets start this early blog birthday party now!!!:)

Sexione what is your favorite party song?

By purplepassion

May 18, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Sexione

By Jake.

May 18, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

Jake,QDT,Musing,Gaman,Truth,For Real,abc, and SeanJ all gather around Katie,Slim, and Sexione hoping the cat fight will lead to itties and booties to be exposed.

Thanks to For Real’s top notch training, all MLB members have Camera phones that record video too.

Now taping and starting over in 15 second intervals so that someone will get the coveted Money Shot for the archives.

By Atl Lady

May 18, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All Happy B-day Sexi I thought about a slightly different scenario. What if he asked her out with the plan to pass her off onto his brother? He might think she’s a better fit for his brother than himself. I know I know. That’s a low blow. It does sound like he was trying to get his brother out of the house and maybe Cookie bringing along a girlfriend would be a good look.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

PurpleP He’ll be there until Sunday. Then it’s an all out assault mission to go ahead and “git er done”! LOL

Thanks Kinder For the encouragement! And yes, the friend move worked, because his friend was so nice and he was just talking and asking questions and making himself at home, while straight up blocking for his boy, they must be tight. Because I tell you dude was running from room to room trying to avoid me asking him anything! He even started up the music to start DJ’ing at the crib!!! I have to give him his props for the evasive maneuvers!!

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Catwoman SlimOne Leaps from bar top and pounces on top of Katie ripping her clothes to shreds exposing her 3rd ipple. Camera flashes light up the bar as CatwomanSlim uses this oppurtunity to grab the huge cup of margarita handing it to Sexione and exits stage left. In walks SlimOne as if nothing ever happened.

By Raqi

May 18, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Sexione

By Laney

May 18, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

@ SlimOne: I so agree about movies being a terrible way to get to know each other on an early date! The only time you’ll see me on a movie date is if I’m going out with a guy who I’m not really feeling and I’m trying to let him down easy with one last date…LOL.

AtlLady, interesting theory! I do think this is probably accurate: . It does sound like he was trying to get his brother out of the house and maybe Cookie bringing along a girlfriend would be a good look.

Why not kill two birds with one stone, and get both him and his brother on a date, right?

By purplepassion

May 18, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Mocha Handle yours girl. I’ll be waiting to hear all the details, I can get some pointers to handle my situation. I’ve been playing the cat and mouse game with this guy for 2 years now and it’s getting old and I’m tired.

By kinderbabe

May 18, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

mocha you’re welcome, girl.:) my friends call me their personal cheerleader b/c i’m always rooting for them…lol. i guess it’s the teacher in me.

ladyj what’s up??

hey blog fam!

By Sexione

May 18, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

It’s Sunday Raqi

Thanks AtlLAdy, purplepassion, Slim & Mochalatte

Jake I’ll be waiting!!!

I’ll be out in a few, but I will be checking in once I get home.

Let’s start by playing my theme song…………She’s a brickhouse, she’s mighty, mighty, just lettin it all hang out….!!!!

By Atl Lady

May 18, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Laney Anything is possible these days. I’ve been on group dates such as this and sometimes it has fallen in that category.

By SeanJohnson

May 18, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

@ Sxeone..HappyBday…dont know if you said it already …but what do you have planned for your bday?

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Laney Did they do anything afterwards or was that pretty much the end of the ‘date’?

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Hey Kinderbabe…A sis is ready to hit the dance floor and let the stresses of this week go!!!! 5 more days until freedom!!! I am doing summer school though but only a month!!! Can’t wait to see New Edition and Frankie B & Maze!!!! I am just ready to party!!!:)

By Demi

May 18, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Sexi!!!!

*Slim/Truth: * on swinging, it really depends of the maturity of the couple. This is the way I view swinging, it’s a great way to keep the relationship growing and satisfy any sexual desire she and I may have.

Ex and I were swingers to the ‘T’! It was nothing for us to be at different parties, in different states, each weekend. The only thing missing in our relationship was DRAMA, which I didn’t bring to the table.

MLB Last night I invited a home girl to Shooters and I brought her first lap dance (See, aren’t I nice!!)…How about three hours later, we’re at City Cafe with three of the baddish ladies of Shooters…That she pulled!!!

Yep, I have a new team member, LOL!!

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

Go ahead wit your bad self Sexi My theme song is “Cutie Pie” and I’ll be rolling out to that @ 5pm! Holla back!!

Kinder on the sideline rooting on the home team!!! RAH RAH RAH

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

kinder My cousin told me that the 8th graders at her school just turned out the lights in the cafeteria and had a huge food fight! Also, someone pulled the fire alarm twice within the last week. I guess they get jittery close to the end of the year. You know those teachers are mad as h3ll because they have food all over their clothes.

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

Demi, sweetie you ae out of control!!!! You had a ball!!!:)

By The Truth

May 18, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Demis the truth bows down to you dog. You da man. LOL

Do you think the swingng had anything to do with the breakup?

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

demi It was nothing for us to be at different parties, in different states, each weekend okay, clarify. You mean you and her were together going to this different places every weekend OR you two would be at different swinger parties? I thought swinging meant being at the same place but just swapping SO’s. Do you require any potential dater to be open to swinging since you seem to enjoy it so much? why did you and her break up?

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Demi you are a wild one!!! Hot like fire huh? Don’t hurt nobody!

By Laney

May 18, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

SlimOne, the movie was pretty much it for the date.

So, re: swinging, I was thinking: What happens if the wife gets pregnant? Seems like a lot of potential DRAMA there.

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

@Slimone, I saw a fight yesterday like a back in the day fight…I was like wow trying to break it up!!! It was for real punches!!! The end the the thruth @ schools!!!! my prayer is a gun not to surface!

By Island Girl

May 18, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

Mochalatte

I dipped out for a minute. Regarding your 10:24 post, “didn’t know that a “movie” constituted as an “intimate” setting”. Go to some of those midnight movies….a lot goes on in some of the theatres. Generally speaking, intimate settings like going over to his place is ususlly not advised.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

For real Laney I’ve got to second that emotion!! I know they use protection, but still, it has happened and unless she is on some permanent BC, you might end up like Me, Myself and Irene LOL

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

Meant the end of the yearis the thruth meaning rough at schools!!!

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

Good lawd is it 3:20 yet…lol

By The Truth

May 18, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

Oral sex would be out of the question even with the wife if that was the mode. Lets not even talk about children. And I’m an a* slapper so seeing some other dude slapping my girls a*. Ahhh chit, I’m getting sick. LOL For me swinging is me, my girl, and 1 other chick. I’ve done that before and it was cool. That is my limit. Demi, when did all this go down?

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

IG No I’m not a late night movie chick unless it is at the house. Plus most 1st dates are usually not at the house. If they are, then trust me, it’s going down any as planned. I’m telling you, there needs to be a WLB!!!

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

Laney Even if you threw out the brother tagging along, that sounds like a Booorrrrrinnnng date! No dinner, no out for drinks, no nothing….bah humbug! That does sound like what I believe abc said in regards to keepin it as safe as possible. When i was younger and wanted to go to the movies with friends, my mom told me up front that it was the movies and nothing else…don’t pass GO, don’t collect $200, just bring your behind home the same way i left the house…IN TACK lol

Mochalatte OMG! I use to love that movie…that was dead wrong how his wife did him with those kids. I know of a situation right now where this guy has been cheating on his wife with a lady he works with. Everyone there seems to know about it but the wife. The twist no is she is pregnant! He’s been walking around like a zombie for the past few days looking stressed as h3ll. I would never want to be in that situation.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

We gotcha Lady J And it is the truth!! H3llz, that’s how I got into my last official fight! I got suspended for the last 3 days of my freshman year in High school and had to come back on that Monday and take exams!! But I’ll tell you what, I didn’t have anymore problems out of none of those chickenheads the next school year!!

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

Well Truth then technically you are not “swinging” from what I’ve been told the definition of swinging was. It’s supposed to be the trade of partners for sexual gratification of the other partner. What you did is called a “threesome”.

By Raqi

May 18, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

All of this end of school year foolishness that goes on makes me appreciate the school my youngest attends more and more. They work right up to the last day, which for him is June 1st. Since they have to purchase their textbooks the school does not do a book buy back until the last day because they will be using them up until then.

By SlimOne

May 18, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

Slim now appointing Mochalatte the chairman and creator of the WLB

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

Slim That is a Christmas H.A.M. (Hot Azz Mess)!! Dang, I tell you people, that should be like a section in the Playa’s Handbook!!! How Not To Get Your Side Piece Pregnant!! I mean come on now, it can’t be that good that you are up in it raw and uninhibited!!! Take that all important time out to say, “Hmmm should I put a hat on my soldier?” If you don’t want illegitamate kids, then the answer is yes!!!

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Not being funny but we are working up to the last day too!!! These last too weeks have been doing make up work and preparing for final exams…I don’t deal with seniors so I am not as stressed…but anyway the kids who want to act out will and those who want to learn will…I see it everyday!

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Not being funny but we are working up to the last day too!!! These last two weeks have been doing make up work and preparing for final exams…I don’t deal with seniors so I am not as stressed…but anyway the kids who want to act out will and those who want to learn will…I see it everyday!

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

May 18, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Mochalatte takes a bow and starts the all important task of creating the WLB

She also appoints Slim as the Secretary of WLB Defense

By Lady J

May 18, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

This type of behavior starts at home and sills over so you instill in your child to do work and not get in trouble not all parents to that everyday! That is it with that ready for the weekend!

By Raqi

May 18, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

I make a motion that the following rules be implemented into the WLB:

  • Love Thy Self: If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything.

  • Remain Calm: Don’t ever let him see you sweat.

  • By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

    Mochalatte What I can’t seem to figure out is if you’re married and make the decision to cheat or in this case have an all out relationship with someone, why not strap up? You could bring your wife some unwarranted disease/infection and you could have a child on the side. I mean be smart about it! Now i’m waiting to see what he’s going to do. If she decides to keep it, which it looks like she wants to, he’ll have no choice than to tell wifey.

    By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

    May 18, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

    I feel you Lady J, hang in there it’s almost over! Same to you Kinder Just think “One more week!!!”

    By Demi

    May 18, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

    Slim/Truth unless it was lesbian night with the girls I wasn’t invited most of the time. Other than that, we went to the parties together. Outside of the bedroom, we were a trip to be around. We could talk about any and everything, no matter how stupid the topic was.

    But, there was nothing I could do about her painful childhood. A very abusive mother and a weak as hell stepfather…Me being a carefree cat, it takes a lot to anger me. So whether then sit and argue, I often walk away, cool myself down, and then talk about what’s bothering me. Because of past hurts, she kept her emotions bottled up, until she just snap…

    I just couldn’t take that side of her anymore…so I pull my heart away from her…And boy did she make me pay!!

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

    WLB est. 2007

    By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

    May 18, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

    Exactly Slim. I have always believed in the old adage “What you do in the dark will eventually come to the light”! And in this case it is no different. Because just think about the consequences behind every action!!! STD, New baby (not by the wife), and utter humiliation because you just couldn’t leave well enough alone. And hasn’t he ever been told that you do not ish where you work? DO NOT date the chicks at the office!!! Just scandalous!

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

    Demi Do you and her still communicate at all?

    By kinderbabe

    May 18, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

    slim i wish these jokers would turn out the lights up in here…lol. that’s too much for me. that’s why i teach elementary, we have low drama here. mochalatte i saw how you officially appointed me the blog cheerleader, lol. let me get my pom-poms.:) ladyj i feel you on being ready for the weekend. you know what i’m ready for…brian mcknight!!

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

    Thanks Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream….I would never make the WLB cut…lol I am the one who is not in the click @ work, church, or this blog, etc.LOL I only crack myself up!!! Too funny!!!

    By Demi

    May 18, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

    Truth we broke up March/April or last year and dated for a year and a half. We met at Club South Beach’s Freaky Friday.

    Laney for the most part, a lot of ladies are on pills, HIV testing and condoms are a must!!!

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

    Mochalatte and to add to the IShing where you work, the side piece had the nerve to try to question another female co-worker whether or not she was talking to him too. If some chick would’ve come to me with that BS, I would’ve made her feel stupid. I probably would’ve come back with something regarding the wife knowing that she’s messing with her husband! BIP BAG BACK! lol

    kinderbabe you know the cafeteria workers are p** right about now having to clean all that crap up. At least they have styrofoam trays. When i was in HS we had a food fight but we had those hard plastic trays back then, and it turned from a food fight to tray throwing to an all out fist show down.

    By Laney

    May 18, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

    Do Wise Diva and I get to be in the WLB?

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

    All in favor of inducting Laney & Wise Diva into the newly established WLB say Aye

    By Demi

    May 18, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

    SlimOne it’s funny, after the dirt she put me through, her life went completely out of control (not with the sex thanks God). I and another mature couple help her to get professional help for her anger and deep hatred for her mom.

    Today we’re good friends without benefit…

    *Note: * Alvin is semi-retired from that lifestyle.

    By kinderbabe

    May 18, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this

    slim i know they are! i’d make their mommas and daddies come up there and clean it up. that just makes no sense…

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

    Slim runs in out of breath Hold the voting, Hold the voting! Do they have to purify themselves in Lake Menatonka first? LOL

    Kidding….Aye!

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

    Kinderbabe have a blast @Chastain…I am doing it in June back to back!!! Wow I can’t wait!!!! It is all I think about!!!! Note: It will be my firts time there so I am too pumped!!!

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

    Kinderbabe have a blast @Chastain…I am doing it in June back to back!!! Wow I can’t wait!!!! It is all I think about!!!! Note: It will be my first time there so I am too pumped!!!

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

    I am so happy that mommy got aquitted…So many kids are out of area in most of the districts…

    By kinderbabe

    May 18, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

    ladyj so you did decide to go to both shows? that’ll be a lot of fun. i have my basket and everything ready for tomorrow. all i need now is the wine and food. i figure i’ll get that tomorrow.

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

    Yes, Kinderbabe….Going to see Frankie B all by myself and happy about it!!! I can’t wait!!! Never seen Frankie B live and I can’t wait to hear and see “Before I Let Go”…

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

    *I’m missing out on all the good convo. We have employee day today. *

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY SEXI

    Demi, WOW….that’s all I have to say.

    I have a friend that goes to Trapeze with his wife all the time. Swinging seems to keep their marriage exciting. The thing that is crazy to me is the lesbian encounters that occur with the wives.

    How can you justify not liking women (or being a lesbian), but can get down with another woman while swinging.

    By QueDogTeaching

    May 18, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

    Ummm….Demi

    I was with you for about 35-45 min. Then I got scared. Do you need to go see a counselor about something? Just asking? You know one of the most frequent forms of abuse now comes from the female towards the male. Said with the most concerned look I can muster also thinking “man shhiid” You better do like DJ in Hustle and Flow, just pack her iisshh and put it on the porch with her and her child. Dresser drawers and all.

    Said in my hardest pimp voice “Don’t put your hands on me if you don’t want me to return the favor.” “Now go keep my paper running.”

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

    Aye

    To the new WLB….go ladies, go ladies…LOLOL

    By kinderbabe

    May 18, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

    ladyj that sounds good, you’ll have a blast!

    By Raqi

    May 18, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

    Since there is much going on I will tell yall about the latest exciting thing that happened in my neck of the woods. We caught a raccoon last night that had been going through our trash for the pass couple of months. Well we didn’t really catch it, it fell into the trash can and couldn’t get out. We called animal control to come and get it. We will find out soon if it was more one because it/they were rummaging around there almost every night.

    By Jay

    May 18, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

    LadyJ Frankie puts on a great show. Its the same show but it’s a good show.

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

    Jay I can’t wait after this first one I am sure I will see it from here on out!!! I am hoping Asford and Simpson doing the opening act!!! Cause I am a Southern Girl!!!!:) LOL I am too corny!!!

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

    So Demi how do you bring up the conversation of seeing if an SO is down for swinging? Do you jokingly throw things out there to see her reaction or something?

    By NCGirlfromATL

    May 18, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

    Wassup party people? Lawd, this has been a looooong week! Glad it’s Friday!

    On topic I was asked out by a guy that intended to bring his boys on the date, but didn’t tell me. We were planning to watch a basketball game at a local restaurant. It would have been fine w/ me if he’d brought his friends, b/c I would have brought a few of my friends too. Sadly for him, he chose to stand me up, and then tried to ask me out again after the game was over. Naaaaah pahtnah! I don’t do stand ups! Other than that situation, I’ve never had a guy ask me out and suggest that he bring a friend. I have been asked out and the guy has suggested that I bring a friend. LOL!

    Dang Demi! I’m glad you’ve moved on from that relationship. Sounds like the costs outweighed the benefits.

    QDT You crack me up! (QDT moon-walks out out of the room in his gold boots to “Atomic Dog” with his pimp hand raised high!)

    By Laney

    May 18, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

    Someone must have been reading my column and decided group dating was a great idea…I just witnessed the following exchange when I went to get my lunch ;)

    Guy approaches counter. Two pretty girls are standing there. Guy: Hey, girl, you looking good. You devoted? Girl: What? Guy: You go to church? Girl: Yeah. Guy: Where? Girl: (tells him) Guy: That’s cool. (Looks at friend). Does she go to church too? Cuz I got a handsome cousin back there.

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

    Laney the one thing about doing a lot of group dates is running the risk of someone liking the other person’s date. How in the world do you handle that situation? drama

    Howdy NC

    By SeanJohnson

    May 18, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this

    @ Slim…how did your lesbian friend try to get you into the mix?

    By Jay

    May 18, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

    LadyJ I feel your excitment coming out of your text. Would you like for me to carry your basket? How has everyone been?

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

    Sean J She didn’t really try to get me into the mix. She confided in me that she felt she had feelings for me. Other than that it was certain things or comments she would make. I can’t recall any right now because that was so long ago. She became more flirtatious though whenever alcohol was involved.

    By Linguist

    May 18, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

    Hey Blog Fam…. I mean, can a girl get a break at work? My phone has been ringing off the hook, the number of emails are off the charts, my goodness!… anyway, on topic while I have a moment … Double dating? on the first date? …Nope, kinda lame I think ..

    I also agree with instituting the WLB Do we need any bylaws? Oh, I forgot, we… women.. are the smarter of the sexes!.. we don’t need no bylaws!! lololol

    Happy B’day Sexi1

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

    Now Jay who are you talking about how has everyone been? Who do we know? I am too excited about the concert!!!! I will be there rain or shine!

    By Jay

    May 18, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

    LadyJ it will go on rain or shine. I was speaking to the blog family. I didnt know I needed a vest too.

    By QueDogTeaching

    May 18, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

    Laney My point exactly. It is not uncommon at all, its just that Cookies suitor did it the wrong way. He should have met her out in a fast paced place, and said these words on the phone “ me and my brother (My brother and I) will be at __ hanging out, why don’t you and one of your girls meet us there. And every thing would have been O.K. And ladies this weekend when one of your girlfriends call and ask you, what you are doing, because she wants to meet a guy and his friends out. YOU ARE ON A DOUBLE DATE. Stop calling it anything else. Plus you know you are there to hook up with his boy right? Just letting you know.

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

    Oh my bad…No vest brotha…and yeah I know that about the weather…Will you be there? Or have you done the show too many times?

    By Jake.

    May 18, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

    Slim On that 226, what drama. This is one those things that happen on occassion. I’m not sure how women would act, but this occurs between men.

    When a woman is obviously checkin for the next dude in a group scenario, you remove yourself from the battle. Enjoy the night and try to catch one of the buddies, if there are no real ties, first date or so. I have ended up gettin with chicks that my potnahs scooped on first and vice versa. It happens sometimes, but real G’s don’t argue over women they have no connection with. WHY would you!!

    By Jay

    May 18, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

    Is that like an open invitation…. When is it…LOL

    By NCGirlfromATL

    May 18, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

    Lady J & Jay Are you guys going to see Frankie Beverly & Maze? I’m going to see them in June up here. Let me know how the show is!

    Sup Slim!

    Heeeeeeey SJ!!

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

    Jake I personally haven’t been in this situation to the point where anyone even knew. But sadly its not that easy when women are involved. It’s a sticky situation if you’ve been seeing the other person for a while.

    I was in a group setting a little while ago and one of the females ‘cut in line’ to stack her claim on one of the guys. Everyone else was like Dayuummmm shawty is it that serious. But buddy wasn’t even feeling her, he was feeling her cousin. I guess her feelings got hurt when she found out that whole group was still hanging out from time to time but just w/o her. LOL!

    By Jake.

    May 18, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

    QDT

    I’ll cosign that 2:58, hellz yea they know, and she just hoping the friend is good lookin. She knows what kind of taste her partner has, and women know that dudes who kick it for real are different, but the same too. If her girl caught a goodie, she know the friend might have his ish straight too. These ladies know the game, just don’t know that we know it too…lol

    By SeanJohnson

    May 18, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

    Sup NCATLIEN…how is your daying going? any plans for the weekend?

    @Slim…does your lesbian friend have kids? is she one of those lipstick lesbians…or soft studs? did she have bad experiences with men? what made her go to the other side..

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

    Slim

    Regarding your earlier post, ” running the risk of someone liking the other person’s date”. During my first two years in the ATL, I had a roommate. One time, the guy I started to date (it had been about four months) came by with his best friend to meet my room mate.

    I nearly passed out when I opened the door….lawd that man was fine. I tried all evening not to stare at my date’s best friend! I know I was wrong…..but as the evening progressed we were having great conversation because we had similar interests, etc.

    It was just one of those moments where you connect with someone else… that is “”off limits”.

    By MusingLee

    May 18, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

    Even’in All,

    I’m late and don’t know what is going on…I’ll cosign any thing right about now…LOLOLOLOL

    By Jay

    May 18, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

    NC Thats LadyJ and ManJ….LOL I’m not sure. I have seen him before.

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this

    Jake by the way, I normally play it cool and laid back so i may observe the fellas in a group before i go staking a claim on one of them. The first impression flitters may die down all too soon to make such a hasty decision.

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    May 18, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

    Whassup ALL!!! Mo sliding in all late..

    Sexione Happy B-day!!

    Slimone I’ll take a drink please!

    I’m trying to catch up so I’ll respond on topic later!!

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

    Musing Great! Thanks for co-signing on joining the new WLB.LOLOLOL

    By Lady J

    May 18, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

    @Jay you asked could you carry my basket but anyway I will be there…lolol

    Have a great weekend folks!

    Peace

    By SeanJohnson

    May 18, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

    @ IrieGirl…not saying this was the case in your situation…but thats why i believe some females ..on purpose..have less attractive friends they go out with….its always ONE winner in the clique….the rest are just ..chicken dinners..

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

    Musing we might have to put you on suspension for you recent issue with tardiness. Your services were needed earlier around 10:49 or so. I had to summom he help of CatwomanSlim.

    Sean J Nope my friend doesn’t have kids. She takes on the more masculine role but she is more of a soft stud. No she didn’t have bad experiences with men, her parents are still married, went to church often, sang in the choir, very smart, played basketball, rotc, army….She herself said she didn’t see any childhood issues as being the reason for it. She didn’t get that strong pull until college. I guess that side made more sense to her after an experience or something. I think it really shocked her at first like “what the h3ll am i doing?!” Some folks go through a stage of experimentation whether it be drugs or the opposite sex, and i guess in her case, it didn’t turn out to be just a phase.

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

    Island Girl LOLOLOL good one on Musing lololol All in favor of Musing being inducted into the WLB say AYE!

    By GA.man

    May 18, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

    Hey all…sliding in late as hellllz

    By GA.man

    May 18, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

    Hey no…I object..ya’ll aint putting my boy in no WLB

    By QueDogTeaching

    May 18, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

    Jake

    Usually we only have one rule when you enter any place with a room full of females. All blog men should say this with me “Let them choose.” I know this is a lost art, but it is the best way to come up. When a woman chooses you, you don’t even have to talk. As a matter of fact talking is the only thing that will blow the situation. Just stay quiet, don’t be a do boy, and you will receive all the thoughts that she had in her head when she first laid eyes on you. That little bit of info was for free. “It ain’t easy, but it is steady work.”

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

    SJ Too funny!!! LOL. I’m sure that happens a lot. I hang with an attractive group of women, so that’s not much of a problem. However, I do have one girlfriend that does not do well (with being approached by guys) when the group of us is out together.

    I male friend of mine told me she looks butch (sorry if I offend anyone but that’s how he put it). It is because she wears her hair very short and I think some guys are just biased with some women wearing short hair. I think it is ridiculous.

    By MusingLee

    May 18, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

    Island Girl & Slim I’m down for joining the WLB….Soooooo, when do we take the WLB initiation shower and play “WLB Naked Twister”?

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

    Aye. Musing for WLB treasurer

    Hellz no!!! Can we trust him??

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

    Musing

    Musing, Slim and IG playing naked twister

    Musing stretches his left leg forward to box A

    Slim extends her right hand to box C

    IG ducks under Musing to tag box H, then realizes Musing is tea bagging her right at the ……

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

    Musing

    Musing, Slim and IG playing naked twister

    Musing stretches his left leg forward to box red A

    Slim extends her right hand to box yellow C

    IG ducks under Musing to tag box blue H, then realizes Musing is tea bagging her right at the ……

    By WLB Treasurer MusingLee

    May 18, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

    My first expenditure as treasurer is a Blog cookout for the MLB only…This way the WLB will extend the hand of friendship and ribs to the MLB.

    Musing now taking the WLB money and depositing into his offshore account

    By Demi

    May 18, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

    QDT you will get no argument from me bruh!! Took all that I could take and moved on, but some relationships are worth fight for. Today she is getting the help that she needs and is becoming a better person because of it. Had she gotten the help needed before our break up, I would have married her…that girl could cook her a$$ off!!!

    NC you ain’t lying!!

    Slim through normal conversation. While I am not bless with the gift of gab, I pretty good at making ladies feel at ease around me…89.45% of the time (plus I am not ugly, LOL). Also, I am known for saying off the wall things…To get the mood right.

    By The Truth

    May 18, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

    QDT seriously cosigning thatt 339. Let them choose and the work is already over.

    Demi sorry you had to go through that bruh. Truth be told most chicks in that lane have some emotional quirks. I apologize, thats all women. LOL

    I’m starting a motion to disband the newly formed WLB. More than 2 women together ain’t nothin but truble. all in favor say aye.

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

    Sorry about the double post..my computer is the cooperating today

    By MusingLee

    May 18, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

    Hahahahaha..LOLOLOL…IslandGirl..LOLOL

    Musing now serving freshly brewed tea leaves.

    By Jake.

    May 18, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

    QDT thats good piece of info for those who don’t know, i.e. not me…lol

    Come in, find your spot, make small talk and wait for her to touch ya. Most women will let you know with innocent touches, or her own variation of moves.

    By Demi

    May 18, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

    Aye

    By WLB Tresurer MusingLee

    May 18, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

    Nye!

    Now stretching to Red circle….Musing sinks his “battleship”!

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this

    I had to step out….Slim now noticing the twister board covered in lotion on the floor

    WTH have you all been doing in here! Somebody needs to come clean all these tea bags up off the floor too.

    By MusingLee

    May 18, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

    Ok why is it nessesary for a kindergartner to have a graduation?!?! They aren’t going anywhere but across the hall…Dayumm some folks celebrate er’thang…When I have kids I’m only celebrating meaningfull ishh.

    Musing at the graduation ceremony

    kid: Dad you look unhappy what’s wrong.

    Musing: You only graduating from kindergarten…WTH am I suppose to be happy about?!?!? You learning to tie your shoes…I’ve got multiple degrees, I’ll celebrate when you get one.

    kid: Well, fk you too dad!

    Lil’musing now kicking rocks

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

    Slim and Musing LOLOL

    By Sexione..starting the party!

    May 18, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

    WLB count me in!

    Jake I’m ready for my dance now sir.

    By Island Girl

    May 18, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

    Don’t forget the Youth Job Fair tomorrow (from 10am - 2:00pm) @ YMCA-2220 Campbelton Rd

    By Jake.

    May 18, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

    Sexione

    I promised you a song sweetie, but I guess a dance is what you would expect in that outfit…LOL

    By SlimOne

    May 18, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

    Musing first you’re throwing tea bags everywhere now you’re sinking your battleship!!! You are in violation of some WLB code that we haven’t come up with yet. Slim now places left leg on yellow and lets one rriiippppp in Musing’s face…..yeah….he pasted out

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