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Dream on
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I recently had an incredibly intense dream about my first serious boyfriend, the guy who I dated years ago, through high school and college. In the dream, which was very detailed and realistic, we were getting married, I was talking to his parents and friends about the engagement, we were picking out a ring, etc.
My friend Malia says she has dreamed about exes for night after night after a breakup, so I guess I am not alone, although I felt like it was unusual that it happened so long after the fact — I rarely think of him anymore. After the dream, feeling shaken, I went to look online at some dream interpretation sites to see what it all meant.
While I found a lot of interesting ideas, this was one that I found especially resonant: “Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not necessarily predict future involvement. It may be wish fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues … We learn about ourselves through others, and probably our most valuable possessions are our relationships.”
I also found an interesting article about dream interpretation from Shape magazine that said this: “Learning how to interpret dreams may be a key to understanding your partner and, thus, a better romantic partnership, according to research that compared 40 unmarried couples’ satisfaction with their relationships. Half the couples were asked to interpret their own and their partners’ dreams and how they related to their relationship. At the end of the study, women who’d done this said they felt more empathy for their partner and were happier with their relationship than women who didn’t do dream interpretation were. (Unfortunately, there seemed to be no such effect on men.)”
I have also had the experience of having a sexual or romantic dream about someone I know, usually casually, and then feeling totally weird when I see them in person the next time — it’s almost like they know! Malia confirmed this is something she goes through too. How about y’all?
Have you ever had a dream about an ex that left you particularly rattled? A dream about a current partner that made you worried, or gave you provocative thoughts about some aspect of the relationship? A dream about someone who you didn’t think you were interested in, but which gave you second thoughts?
How much stock do you put in dreams as a predictor of your emotions and feelings about your love life?
Do you think of your dreams as a tool for understanding your needs and wants better? How can this be applied to your relationships? Even if you don’t usually think of this, have you had a dream lately that you think might be saying something about your romantic life, desires or interests?
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By GA.man
May 31, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this
Test….Test are we on……Welcome all to the craziest blog around Atl…
We have so many viewers…we had to add another server…
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
Hair flip to the sisters of the WLB and an “I’m a flirt” wink to the MLB
I see the AJC is having technical difficulties once again…
Anyhoo, I’m on my way to the back woods of Lurksville, Georgia. Y’all have a nice day now ya hear!
By Cassie
May 31, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this
Oh Laney if I put any stock in my dreams I’d be rattling around the desert in a pick up truck with a beautiful cowboy I met about seven years ago.
I’m of two minds: dreams are junk food for the subconcious OR dreams in some way represent your hidden desires.
I know that the dream I had the other night where I was in ancient Egypt and in a temple of some sort was of the junk food variety.
And I know the dreams I have of the ocean represent my desire for peace and inner harmony….
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this
Now that the blog door has been kicked down…
Morning Everybody!!
By MusingLee
May 31, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this
Morn’in All,
I’m off today and tomorrow…So MLB’s hold it down.
Heyyy QC…sorry I didn’t get to speak yes’diddy…Er’body have a great blog.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
Good morning Sexione,Cassie,T-Mango,Slim
Winks to the WLB
Head nod the all POwerful MLB
Hey Sexione so how are things with your new friend
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
May 31, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this
I was MIA for two days (basically) and someone tried to shut down the Blog!! WTH is going on?!?!
Morning ALL!! Hair flip to the ladies of the WLB and kisses blown to all the men of the MLB
Will comment on topic later, wanted to get the greetings out of the way first!
By Biff
May 31, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this
I think many of the chicks who read this blog have had dreams of hooking up with ol Biff. Cassie for sure.
I think when chicks run into a real man it excites them in ways that really hit them after spending their time with metrosexual pansies like so many chicks on this blog seem to do.
As a side note, you chicks shouldn’t be worried about having strange dreams, etc., due to the way your brains function. It would seem perfectly normal for you to have them seeing how it works when you are awake.
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this
good morning all! hey GAman, t-mango, sexione
By SlimOne
May 31, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this
Morning All Just peeped in for a HOTlanta minute since i’m enjoying my day off.
A before-hair done hair flip to the WLB and a slap on my @ss on the way out to the MLB. I’ll try to chime in later.
Holla holla
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this
hey Kinder
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this
Sexi hair flip to the WLB, air kisses to the MLB.
GAman Everythings cool so far. He’s been very upfront about his interest and intentions, so I’m just listening and observing. Of course now that I’ve met him, I’m sure I’ll meet at least one or two more…….all looking for a wife. lol
By SmileyC
May 31, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this
Good Morning ALL
I have had a few dreams in the past when I was in a relationship about me and my mate. Depending on what’s going on in the relationship at the time I have my dreams and what is depicted in my dream I look to my dreams as a sign…then some dreams are just fun dreams, where I feel I shouldn’t ponder the things that happened in my dream.
Just a few weeks ago, this guy I had met last year sometime…wasn’t really feeling him so I stopped talking to him. Anyhow, he called me cause he had a dream of us engaging into some sexual activities…I was like okay buddy, wasn’t really sure what to say cause I had never thought of doing anything sexually with him ever. He really liked me but like I said I wasn’t feeling him, so I was kind of surprise of him dreaming of us engaging in such activities and then the fact that he called to tell me about his dream…
By Cassie
May 31, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this
SmileyC my ex calls me all the time with that “I had a booty dream about you” bs…I just ignore it. It’s SUCH a blatant ploy.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
I feel you I just met a Wonderful woman and she seems pretty cool…I am doing the same..just chillin and enjoying the Peace of it all….
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…regarding the topic…most dreams you dont remember…prolly only the ones u have right before u wake up or if someone wakes u up in the middle of one…But we all have had “wet” dreams..Which one of yall females started that hair flip thing?
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
May 31, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
Hey Kinderbabe! Enjoying your vacation?
To all the Geminis of the Blog: lil mo is turning 2yrs old today and wanted to with his fellow Geminis a happy birthday!!
On topic: How much stock do you put in dreams as a predictor of your emotions and feelings about your love life? Not a lot!! LOL I just look at my dreams as just that, dreams. Most are great but I dont read too much into it. I have had this one dream though every year for as long as I can remember. Its about my wedding day and I can see everything clearly except the groom’s face. I have wondered why that dream keeps coming up, and it always happes exactly the same way.
By For Real
May 31, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
What up Blog Fam!!
Head nod to the all mighty MLB
Hugs and kisses to the ladies of the WLB said while flicking the dandruff off my shirt from hair flips j/k
On topic: I don’t place much stock into dreams.
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
Let’s see: Dreams about ex’s from 1992, goes to dream interpretation sites, now we have dream interpretation magazines
Yep, the spirit of youth in full effect.
Have you ever had a dream about an ex that left you particularly rattled?
I thought I kill her a$$ in last weeks dream, but nooooooooo!!! But the B-ish just keeps coming back, like our boy Jason’n’Freddy.
A dream about a current partner that made you worried, or gave you provocative thoughts about some aspect of the relationship?
Nope, I am not gay.
A dream about someone who you didn’t think you were interested in, but which gave you second thoughts?
Yes I have, but Nia Long hasn’t showed up as of yet.
How much stock do you put in dreams as a predictor of your emotions and feelings about your love life?
Zero, it’ll happen when it happens.
As for the rest of the questions, I am already over quota…Now Pimpaslappin Offica Mus-jello…igga please!!! Do you know who I is (not who I am)??!! I am Alvin, dayum-it!!!
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this
ARRRGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!
By NCGirlfromATL
May 31, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
Which one of yall females started that hair flip thing?
Me! You gotta problem wit dat?!? I pity da fool…LOL!
If the MLB can have a nod, why can’t we have a flip? Dang! LOL
Sup, er’rybody! Back later…
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
SeanJohnson dude!! I am still waiting for their hair piece to fall off…A blog of this size, I am sure a few of you are sporting a mohawk or super loooooow cut (look like a boy), LOL
By abc
May 31, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
Dreams are windows into your subconcious. Think of your subconcious compared to your concious mind in terms of it being a lot larger. Consider that everything you ever saw, heard, experienced or felt is remembered, in your subconcious if not your concious mind. Seek to tap into your subconcious as much as you can.
Laney, dreaming about marrying your ex is symbolic of similarities between that relationship and one you’re in now, or one you’re contemplating, and a feeling that issues with the past relationship are ones that you’ve resolved.
By Laney
May 31, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this
I just want the blog to work…is that so much to ask? sniffle
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
NC cause head nodding is gangsta, hair flipping is a little over top…I find myself think of “The Shop”, each time y’all ladies hit a flip…thinking of flip, have you been “flipped” lately?
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
Whats wrong Sexione?
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this
What is this? Is there an issue with the beloved WLB hair flip? Say it ain’t so!! lol
GAman Oh really?!!! Do tell….
Laney so do we!! lol
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
GAman this blog is f’ed up!! Okay I feel better now! lol
lol @ Alvin
By For Real
May 31, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
What’s wrong Sexi did you hit your baby toe?
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
ForReal no, but I’d like to slap the blog into oblivion! How hard can it be to make this &%$#@!! thing work?
Okay, I’m getting cranky, it must be time to eat!
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
Laney you should have just ask abc from the jump, LOL
By Laney
May 31, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this
I quit. abc, you’re in charge for the rest of the day at Alvin’s request. if it works, you can take over. =)
By b.o.o.h.o.o.
May 31, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this
I had a dream about a famous rock star many years ago. I was a fan of the band but didn’t think about him “that way”. But after the dream, I checked him out at their next concert; I have continued to have dreams of him over the years - not sexual, but bumping into him here or there, at a party, etc. Saw him in concert several times over the years; finally met him a few months ago. Don’t know why we have certain dreams, and I’m not religious, but the bible puts a lot of import on dreams and visions, and I think it is important to pay attention to them. I have a couple of “dream guides,” which I take with a grain of salt. We’ll see what happens with the rock star…
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
T-Mango pulling on the side of the road on drive to Lurksville
Aww C’mon…So, now some of y’all got a problem with the WLB greeting, huh?
Can’t we have a little peace?…Geez… if it ain’t broke don’t fix it…why y’all sweatin’ the small stuff?…just enjoy the ride…Why you always gotta try to change us?…
Double hair flip to the WLB…Anybody with a problem with it can meet me in front of the West End Marta Station for an old school fist fight at 3PM…Holla.
T-Mango now puts her Range in drive and speeds off doing 90 in a 55MPH zone (lol)
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this
@ Tango…i didnt have a problem with it…just asked who started it..i think its cute..provided that yall actually have something to flip…lol just playing…stop being so defensive.
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this
SeanJohnson…Nobody is being defensive SJ. Didn’t you see the (lol) at the end of my post?
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
@ Tango..i know u were not being defensive..i was just messing with you..
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this
SJ…Umm hmm. So who’s “Tango”? It’s T-Mango, baby…you betta rec-og-nize.
Hair flip to you-
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this
Okay, back from lunch and I see that we’re still slow rolling!
SJ Aha, so basically you’re admiring the hair flip, good for you!
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this
hey mo vacation hasn’t quite officially started for us yet. this is our last post-planning day, so my vacation starts tomorrow!:) it’s been a pretty low key work week though. did you get my e-mail?
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this
Sexione I can tell you this..her name really describes her…plus she reads the blog
She listens and i listen to her…her tone is so amazing
By The Truth
May 31, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this
Whats going on bloggers? The Truth does a Transporter door kick (he backs up and runs at the door full speed and kicks it with 2 feet) and busts in blogsville with his keyboard smokin’.
On topic. Sometime if I’m waffling on a decision regarding a so I’ll have a dream that will kind of make the decision for me. I don’t so much attribute it to the dream as much as I probably went to bed thinking of the decision and had that on my mind. More often than not my dreams involve me, my so, and another female doing some notty notty.
Ladies of WLB that hair flip is fly. Don’t stop doing what you do but make sure you’ve washed your hair. We’d hate for you to be fippin dandruff all over blogsville.
MLB for life baby
P.S. T-Mango can you drive me around today? I need to run a few errands and the Rover will work just fine. I do require alot of A/C so pump it up before you arrive. Also, if you don’t mind I’ll ride in the back. Ty hun. You know I don’t have a license. Can y’all believe I pumped $80 dollars into a vehicle. WTF is going on?
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this
@ Tango…i called u Tango..since u trying to fight folks in front of the West End marta station…keep it lady like at all times…fighting aint cute..dont defeat the purpose the hair flip..
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
Dang GAman, sounds like you’ve met someone special!!
TheUNTruth hehehehe….you and your freaky dreams! lol On that gas thing, straight ridiculous!!!
And what about all of this stank smoke in the air? I can hardly breathe!!
Where’s the rest of the crew? Jake if you’re lurking, you need to make an appearance……somebody’s trying to steal the cookies out of your cookie jar! lol
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
I do require alot of A/C so pump it up before you arrive.
Truth…Nah honey, can’t do it. You’re high maintenance. LOL.
SJ…since you’re just messing’ with me. I’ll let that one slide…
By Laney
May 31, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this
Sexione, amen about the smoke…I am planning to go to Screen on the Green tonight and am not excited about coming home smelling like a campfire after the film! That’s if I can breathe during it…
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this
The Truth it’s funny you’ve mention that. Two years ago I want to purchase the then new F-150, but after watching the owner sink $65 into the truck…I was like nope, that can’t be me.
That’s a new pair of shoes or pants.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this
Sexione yeah she is ….she is as cool as the other side of the pillow
By The Truth
May 31, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this
Sexi you don’t seem to be to excited about the new guy. Are you just enjoying his attention before you let him down ez?
Fellas, a friend I’m kocking off just hooked me up with another friend to knock off. Ain’t atlanta beautiful? You gotta love the ladies.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this
Sexione but i will have lock up the MLB book of rules…cant let that slip into enemy hands…..she might be cool..but i have a duty to the MLB as Keeper of the Book
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this
Go ahead Sexi answer TRUTH’s ?? we are waiting for this answer…lololol
So tell us alittle more about this guy
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this
Fellas, a friend I’m kocking off just hooked me up with another friend to knock off. Ain’t atlanta beautiful? You gotta love the ladies.
And let the church say Amen!!!
By abc
May 31, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this
Did Laney put me in charge for the day, really?! Henceforth, let the blog be known as misTERadventures!
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this
Truth why would you say that? I stated earlier that I’m just listening and observing. So what am I supposed to do? Get all ga-ga like a school girl? Start writing his name all over my notebook? Trust, if there was zero interest, I would not even be talking about him.
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this
@ Truth…happens a lot in Atlanta…directly or indirectly…thanks to some females with loose lips….talking about the ones above the shoulders
By NCGirlfromATL
May 31, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this
Flip of both sides of my very clean, dandruff-free, long, flowing natural hair to the WLB
Wassup party people? I’s back!
I have a recurring dream about a tornado that I see heading toward where I am, and no one in the room is paying attention to me when I’m screaming that we need to take cover. They continue to watch tv, eat, whatever. I’ve looked it up, and it has something to do w/ feeling out of control.
I’ve had dreams about exs or guys I was interested in, but I agree the most bizarre ones are about the ones I never really thought I was interested in. And yes Laney it is weird when you have a special dream about someone and then you see them the next day…like dang, I didn’t know you could put it down like that! LOLOL!
Congrats GA Man!
Heeeeey SJ!
By BEWARE OF WOLVES
May 31, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
I was dating a guy who I was never really sure of. We got along great although he was sneaky & secretive. While out on a date he asked me could he give his number to this woman at the next table for business purposes (he is a real estate agent). I know that this woman had been flirting. I could read it all in his face that something was going on while my back was to her. I said HELL 2 THE NAW & cursed his azz out all the way home. I had 3 dreams back to back that night about me finding out about all his dirt. One of the dreams involved him entertaining other women in my house. I found out the very next day that he had did this to a previous woman down in Miami years earlier.
When it come to cheating you have dogs and wolves. A Wolf will cheat with his woman’s relative, neighbor, friend, coworker and even take it to his woman’s house. In my 15yrs of dating, I had never come across a wolf until I met him. To this day I don’t have a police record, not even a moving violation. To keep my record clean I had to cut him loose.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
Get all ga-ga like a school girl? Start writing his name all over my notebook? Sooooo are you all ga-ga about him!!!
You gonna give us alittle or do we have to Break inot the WLB spot to find out about this guy…
By BEWARE OF WOLVES
May 31, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
I was dating a guy who I was never really sure of. We got along great although he was sneaky & secretive. While out on a date he asked me could he give his number to this woman at the next table for business purposes (he is a real estate agent). I know that this woman had been flirting. I could read it all in his face that something was going on while my back was to her. I said HELL 2 THE NAW & cursed his azz out all the way home. I had 3 dreams back to back that night about me finding out about all his dirt. One of the dreams involved him entertaining other women in my house. I found out the very next day that he had did this to a previous woman down in Miami years earlier.
When it come to cheating you have dogs and wolves. A Wolf will cheat with his woman’s relative, neighbor, friend, coworker and even take it to his woman’s house. In my 15yrs of dating, I had never come across a wolf until I met him. To this day I don’t have a police record, not even a moving violation. To keep my record clean I had to cut him loose.
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this
misTERadventures awwww dayum, now all of the posts will read like Truths 1:55.
Boy, y’all sure don’t mind getting slathered in a multitude of bodily fluids! nasty lil azzes!! lol
GAman Okay, I see you’re shooting for the instigator of the day award. Let’s see, he’s tall, dark brown, bald head, considerate, respectful and very much interested in Sexione……oops, that was TMI!!! lmsao
By BEWARE OF WOLVES
May 31, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this
I was dating a guy who I was never really sure of. We got along great although he was sneaky & secretive. While out on a date he asked me could he give his number to this woman at the next table for business purposes (he is a real estate agent). I know that this woman had been flirting. I could read it all in his face that something was going on while my back was to her. I said HELL 2 THE NAW & cursed his azz out all the way home. I had 3 dreams back to back that night about me finding out about all his dirt. One of the dreams involved him entertaining other women in my house. I found out the very next day that he had did this to a previous woman down in Miami years earlier.
When it come to cheating you have dogs and wolves. A Wolf will cheat with his woman’s relative, neighbor, friend, coworker and even take it to his woman’s house. In my 15yrs of dating, I had never come across a wolf until I met him. To this day I don’t have a police record, not even a moving violation. To keep my record clean I had to cut him loose.
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this
Laney I’ve been wanting to go to Screen on the Green, but this smoke is making me not want to be outside. If you don’t already have respiratory problems, you will by the time it’s all gone. How long does it run? All summer?
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
@ NCATLIEN…question about your wet dream…before the dream u didnt really think about that person in that light…but after u had the dream of him beating the breaks off you…are you now curious or attracted to him…just asking
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this
Let’s see, he’s tall, dark brown, bald head, considerate, respectful and very much interested in Sexione……
you didnt say he was employed….does he put a smile on your face….Just all up in your Kool-aid
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
May 31, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this
Mo sliding in from lunch..
Kinderbabe No I didnt get your email, give me you email address again and I will respond. You can forward me whatever you sent before!**
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this
I feel like I’m playing 20 questions! lol Employed? Ain’t no other way, is it? And yes, you are all up in my kool-aid!! Now, tell us about this woman you’ve met GAman. What does she look like, how old is she, any kids, job, ever married, race, size, shape, name, rank, serial #? How’s that for putting the shoe on the other foot? lmsao
Truth you didn’t answer me! What gives you the idea that I’m going to let him down?
By NCGirlfromATL
May 31, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this
but after u had the dream of him beating the breaks off you…are you now curious or attracted to him…
Depends. If I know him already, and there are reasons that his physical/personality attractive-ness didn’t catch my interest, then probably not. But, I didn’t know him, and just wasn’t paying that much attention to him before the dream, it might pique my interest.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this
Fair is Fair
She is 5’5 she is 38…ahe has a job..she is fine as wine..she is Afri. American…she has 1 child
anything else
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
Hakuna Matata she has me feeling like that Sexione
now singing all the Lion King songs..with the pure joy she can and will give…..
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this
GA Man-Good for you. I can feel you smiling all the way over here in Lurksville:-)Enjoy the new experience.
By For Real
May 31, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
Ga.Man Hakuna Matata?!?!?! Awwww Dayummmm you going to be playing Scrabble soon.
Sexi It does sound like you waiting on him to do that one thing to mess up and then you are going to jump on him like Benita Batrail…
NC Can you please answer SJ’s question with a yes or no response. Dang….
T-Mango Was that you I saw pulled over by the po-po with your breast pressed up against the window?
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this
GAman WOW!!! That’s pretty steep, how long have you known her? Hakuna Matata….no worries that’s a good one!
What happens when you meet someone and things seem to be moving really fast? Do you go with it if you like them? What if you’re not sure? Do you do things to try to slow the pace down? I thought men were more cautious in these situations than women. What do y’all think?
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
ForReal Now, there you go. What gave you this impression? Something I said? Or didn’t say? I think I’m just being cautious ‘cause it’s not a good thing to think you’re vibing with someone, and then one day realize that it’s not what you thought it was. Then you’re left thinking “did I allow things to go too fast?” or “maybe I should have taken more time before jumping in head first”. I know me, I’m very spoiled and very affectionate, and if I allow it, we’ll be all wrapped up in each other in record time. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, it’s just not always a wise move.
By NCGirlfromATL
May 31, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this
NC Can you please answer SJ’s question with a yes or no response. Dang….
Nope.
Howyalikemenow, uuh!
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this
Sexione we have known each other for awhile..i just never came to her like that, but when i did…e’er thang was coooolll….lol
By For Real for this one i might play scrabble, Monopoly, and even Yatzee
GaMan Now going down hall singing…….And i just can’t wait tooooo beeeeee Kinnnnggggg
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
Dont worry For Real..i hid the keys and the book in the secret, secret hiding place…you remember where Musing And Blat. found for us…..she is a member of the WLB so i still have to be very careful
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this
For Real
It may have been. Then again it may not have been (lol)
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
Sexione had to take a step back and look again..but then when it’s right it’s right..now that dont mean to start bring in the wedding magazines yet….just chilling
I didn’t know the true power of the WLB till i ran across this one…lolol
Gotta put all my Jedi mind tricks on full alert
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
Hair flip to the WLB and a Sultry Wink @ the MLB
IG tiptoeing in trying to catch up with everyone…. Ok here’s what I’ve picked up: there’s a conversation about NC’s wet dream, GA dating someone new, SJ calling T-Mango…Tango, Truth is begging a ride as usual, Demi’s flip personality is out today…what’s up Alvin, Sexi and Mo are representing, ABC’s trying to rename the blog….that will never happen on this watch, and Slim is enjoying her day off…..
Ladies hold it down and keep the fellas in check.
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this
@ NCATLIEN…sounds like you are lying to yourself…according to your dream you subliminally wanted dude..if not u wouldnt had that type of dream..its ok…
By DuShawn
May 31, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this
GA Man that’s how it starts. You’re on top of the world, singing Hakuna Matata, next thing you know you’re holding her purse in the mall while she tries on shoes, thinking to yourself Dayum….how did this shyt happen…
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this
GAman glad to see that spring/summer love is in season for you.:)
sexione go w/the flow girl. if your intuition tells you something ain’t right, then that’s different. but if it’s purely fear or skepticism that has you doubting, go ahead and “X” that out of your mind. think positively. after all, why wouldn’t someone be wild about you? lol that’s what i’ve been telling myself for the past 2 months.
mo i will resend the e-mail now.:)
By purplepassion
May 31, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this
Hey yall, long time since I no post, just lurking Sexione If you like the man go for it. Doubts can cause some of us to miss out on something good. Don’t hold him for what other’s has done in the past. See him for who he is and how he makes you feel. Just giving my .01 if it matters…
By SlimOne
May 31, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
In walks Slim looking all fly-n-ish with a midget behing her holding a fan so her hair can blow like it does in the movies.
Wzuuupppppp!
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
Dushawn bruh..she kinda sneeked in on me..but hey it’s cool..lolol about the holding a purse while she is shopping for shoes…lolol lmho
Kinder thanks..yeah spring all up in the air…hey just take a deep breath of it….Cough..cough.. forgot about the fires going on in south Ga.
By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream
May 31, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
Good Afternoon Blog Hair flip to the WLB and Nod to the MLB
What’s good peeps? I see the WLB is holding it down. Hey Kinder
Well I just stopped by to check in, I’m out for the day in just a minute. Will be off tomorrow, but will try to check in.
Holla!
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
What’s up Kinder, DuShawn and Real
By NCGirlfromATL
May 31, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
sounds like you are lying to yourself…according to your dream you subliminally wanted dude..if not u wouldnt had that type of dream..its ok…
Nope. Not lying to myself. You take dreams too literally, sir. That’s why they call it dreeeeeeeeam interpretatioooooooooon (making the Wayne’s World swirling hand motions) I would take that kind of dream to mean that I have been closed minded about something, and need to open to the possibilities of an alternative way of thinking or feeling.
Now, whatchugottosay, homie? LOL!
By Sexione
May 31, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
Thanks kinder and purplepassion, I will keep that in mind.
I’m out, peace and blessings to all!!
By For Real
May 31, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this
Sexi Ummm What???? Let me see if I got this right
” think I’m just being cautious ‘cause it’s not a good thing to think you’re vibing with someone, and then one day realize that it’s not what you thought it was.” A vibe is a feeling. So either you feel it when the two of you are together or you don’t. I thought vibing is what you wanted while you are dating. So, are the two of you vibing?
Then you’re left thinking “did I allow things to go too fast?” or “maybe I should have taken more time before jumping in head first”. I know me, I’m very spoiled and very affectionate, and if I allow it, we’ll be all wrapped up in each other in record time. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, it’s just not always a wise move.” Ummmm What again???? So, you don’t want to have a good time with this guy because if you do then it doesn’t go where you wanted to go then it is unwise?
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this
GAman lol
hey mochalatte! enjoy your day!
By abc
May 31, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this
Dreams about sex with someone you ordinarily wouldn’t have sex with indicates there’s something about that person that you should incorporate into your own character or personality.
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this
hey IG! how are you?
you’re welcome sexione:)
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this
@ ABC…bruh…what is going to fall on tonites..cash3 and pick4?
By For Real
May 31, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this
Your Honor can the court please compel Counsel NC to answer the question?
GA.Man Thank God!!! I was hoping you wouldn’t sell the MLB out. The WLB is very, very persuasive. You they have already limited Musing Scrabble Lee blog time.
T-Mango Well take a look at this picture and let me know if it is you or not. If it is, then Truth you don’t have worry about T-Mango’s A/C setting as you can see in this picture it’s cool in the Rover.
Hey Kinder Hey Mo Hey Slim Oh, and Slim Can you get your midget to move the fan about 6 degrees? I trying to get this Marilyn Monroe shot.
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this
@Kinder…working hard and looking forward to the weekend.
By For Real
May 31, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this
Hey IG
tapping on Mocha’s bedroom window with my trusty camera phone Hey Mocha
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
@ABC…how’d you figure that..“indicates there’s something about that person that you should incorporate into your own character “?
I’ve read books on dreams and have never heard that theory.
By Laney
May 31, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this
Sexione, sorry for the late response — Screen on the Green is every Thursday through the end of June, and then every Thursday in July is free improv comedy in the park!
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this
IslandGirl Hey babe…I am still in a foul mood, Demi will be back at the end of this month.
KB, Demi says SUP.
Mochalatte: ¿Hermana hermosa, cómo está usted hoy?
I hope the grammar and spelling are correct.
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this
@SJ..if ABC gives you good numbers for cash3 or pick4…would you share the wealth? IG promises she will take you to St. Thomas with her to spend the winnings….
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this
hey forreal have you celebrated your b-day yet? i remember you saying that you’re a gemini…
IG i feel you on being ready for the weekend. i have a long weekend more so than a vacation that started at 3 p.m today…lol. my real vacation starts on july 2nd. i’ll be attending summer semester for grad school.
By NCGirlfromATL
May 31, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this
Your Honor can the court please compel Counsel NC to answer the question?
For Real :-pppppppppppppppppppppppp
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this
hey demi:) how goes it?
By abc
May 31, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
IG, I’ve read about stuff like that in dream dictionaries.
If I could pick lotto numbers I’d be typing this from my estate in the Carribean!
By For Real
May 31, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this
Kinder I got 2 weeks before mines. I haven’t decided what to do yet. It will probably be something last minute.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
May 31, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this
Kinderbabe Still no email. What is your email address?
Hey IG, NCGirl, Mochalatte, GAMan, SJ, For Real, T-Mango, SlimOne, Sexione and Laney!
For Real and our song for the day is…..
By SeanJohnson
May 31, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this
@ IrieGirl..sure will..never been to St Thomas.so i am down….go down there..sip on some exoctic rum with an exotic female..i doubt u need to get your groove back…but we can pretend u do…and oh yeah…u still will be under the 30 day rule…so u better be with the program..
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this
@Kinder….good luck. I don’t miss being in school. I did one year grad program a few years ago (stressful). Where will you be attending school?
By T-Mango
May 31, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this
For Real…LMAO. Is it me?? I plead the 5th.
Have a nice evening all-
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
forreal o.k. so you still have time to think about how you want to celebrate. i feel you on the last minute thing, spontaneous plans are often times have the best outcomes.
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
forreal o.k. so you still have time to think about how you want to celebrate. i feel you on the last minute thing, spontaneous plans are often times have the best outcomes.
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
forreal o.k. so you still have time to think about how you want to celebrate. i feel you on the last minute thing, spontaneous plans are often times have the best outcomes.
By GA.man
May 31, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
I am out everyone…remember that if you put GOD in everything you do…nothing or noone can mess it up and even if they do..he is the best at cleaning up troubles…….Peace drive home safe!!!
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this
mo kinderbabe75@yahoo.com.
IG i’ll be going to georgia state
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this
@SJ….we’ll see about that….you just might get a kiss at the end of the 30 dayz..lol
By For Real
May 31, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this
Hey Mo here you go. I guess you didn’t like the song choice on yesterday huh? But check this out.
I’ve waited oh so long for you to come to me What did I do wrong It’s all a mystery to me
Baby I feel it too What am I supposed to do Maybe I’ve just changed Or could I be wrong for you
You,you’ve got me hangin’ on a string now I’m not your plaything You,you’ve got me hangin’ on a string now Am I your plaything
You never told me you were waiting,contemplating With my heart,my love You never told me you were waiting,contemplating With my heart,my love
By Alvin
May 31, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this
Life is good, KB
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
@Kinder..best of luck to you. GA State is a good school. I had a couple of friends that attended.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
May 31, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this
For Real thanks babe!!
Kinderbabe mail call!
Be good everybody! Off to celebrate lil mo’s birthday!!
By IslandGirl
May 31, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
@Alvin, I mess Demi.(just had to let you know)…but I hope Alvin will get out of the funk soon…
By kinderbabe
May 31, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this
thanks IG:)
nite nite everyone!