By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 8:13 AM | Link to this

Hey WLB/MLB’ers

Wise Diva How long had your friend been dating this guy and when is the baby due?

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 8:19 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning!!

Wise Sounds like this “new guy” was not her guy after all. Had they ever had the talk? Were they supposed to be exclusive? Never make assumptions, always communicate, communicate, communicate! And if they were supposedly “exclusive” and this happened, then what was the question? Shyt, I’d already be gone!

“When people show you who they are, believe them!” Maya Angelou

By MochaTreat

July 17, 2007 8:19 AM | Link to this

Good morning Wise, Slim, GAman, SJ300, Foots, Raqi, Kinder, QC, MO, LadyJ, Sexione, Musing, Jake, Demi,and crew

So now her dilemma is, should she stick with him and watch him have a child with another woman? No, the relationship is fairly new…cut your ties and move on.

How would you handle it? I would move on…if he was still sleeping witht the pervious girlfriend, then he wasn’t that into her in the begining. If he was so understanding about her wanting to wait..then he would have waited, not find someone else to slepp with. Kick that B@%*# to the curb!!

When you are dating someone new, is it really that hard to “wrap up” (no pun intended) the other options you have? No, not if you are really into that person.

Have you ever dated someone that dropped a bomb on you in the early stages? How did you handle it - did you stay or go? No.

By Jay

July 17, 2007 8:20 AM | Link to this

Wow. Anna has a sticky situation, but this has happened to me before. I was dating this guy T. He already had one little boy and said he was done with his mom. Next thing I know she’s 3 months pregnant and he admits that he’s the father. Mind you we dated for about 6 months at this point. So obviously he was never really done with her like he said. I let him go because I felt like he wasn’t honest with himself about his feelings towards her. I believed there would always be some sort of sexual tension and they’d just keep going back and forth. It was too much drama for this diva here. I was comforted in the fact that we never consummated the relationship so I didn’t have to worry about STDs, pregancy or becoming too emotionally involved. It was much easier to separate myself from the situation and move on with my life. I don’t believe it should be hard to wrap up things. Just tell folks the truth.

By Princess

July 17, 2007 8:29 AM | Link to this

Please tell your friend to let this relationship go!! Believe me, she does not want the drama that’s about to begin in this man’s life. If he is any kind of man at all, he’s going to want to be very active in his child’s life. (And if he doesn’t, he’s not the kind of man she’d want to be with anyway!) While this is a good thing, it’s most likely going to have a negative impact on their relationship and take his time and energy away from her. She does not have enough time invested into this relationship to have to put up with this man’s drama!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 8:34 AM | Link to this

Either way it goes, I personally would not want to stick around for the festivities. With having a new baby, his attention is going to be needed frequently and that may also have a bearing on him and the child’s mother. Obviously since they were still sleeping together, there is a very high chance they may want to give it another try. It just seems like a situation that has too many risk factors and possible dead ends. Minus well dip before any more hurt or ‘unexpected’ twists come up leaving you feeling stupid in the end.

if he was still sleeping witht the pervious girlfriend, then he wasn’t that into her in the begining. If he was so understanding about her wanting to wait..then he would have waited, not find someone else to sleep with

Well haven’t the guys basically told us that’s the way it goes when YOU want to wait? I think it was Blat that dated a chick that didn’t want to have sex so he chose to get his fix elsewhere in the meantime. According to the MLB, just because the women wants to wait doesn’t mean He wants to wait, right?

By Twindivamomma

July 17, 2007 8:35 AM | Link to this

GIRL PLEASE HOW FAST CAN SHE DIAL UP TO DUMP HIM.

SlimOne…I can confirm this ain’t about Wise Diva. Trust me on that one.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this

Good Morning SlimOne,Sexione, Wise& MochaTreat.. Hmmm… I would leave him in the wind. If she stays i beleive she will cause herself more emotional stress then she would if she just left and not look back. I can only imagine how she feel, I have had it to happen to me. After the anger sat in i was then turned off which made it easy for me to leave. @Musing i left blogville early yesterday but i did got back and read. Yep i remember crazy Jame from the cafeteria. I stayed on Little st. right behind the school rock-n-roll. There were two candy ladies on the corner. I used to love to go the grocery store called the neighbor, i can’t even remeber how may time i hit that store up. We could watch the football game at China Stadium from my grandmother porch. My mom and dad family grew up in Summerhill so there is no doubt we have cross path. Sadly when my grandmother passed in 89 right after that her house burned down and that when the spilt of the family occured. Grad.96 SouthAtlanta High a.k.a George High..

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 8:41 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone! Good topic Wise Diva. Since I’ve been practicing celibacy (it doesn’t hurt Truth) I have to keep my head in the real world also knowing that said guy could be intimate with someone else while we are dating. In that factor I have to remind myself that we are dating and until it becomes a relationship I have no control on who he gives his body to, If he reveals to me he is having sx with someone then I have a decision to make, whether to end it or proceed with extreme caution. Just because you are dating doesn’t mean you have to give up your goodies b/c most of the time that’s all men are in it for anyway. Just b/c you’re having sx does not constitute a relationship/dating.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 8:42 AM | Link to this

Slim yes, that is what they have said. Personally, if I chose to wait, it would have to be with a man that was waiting also (I know, like finding a needle in a haystack! lol). Otherwise, don’t fool yourself, you’d be better off single.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Dr. Suess

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this

Guys, what if you met a great new woman and began dating her; a few weeks later, she reveals that she is expecting another man’s baby - what would you do?

Wise That’s when dudes pull the escape hatch and get the hellz on!

Musing and Chick taking a ride downtown

Chick: Musing I need to tell you something.

Musing: What baby?

Chick: I’m pregnant with another Man’s child.

Musing presses eject button, chick flys through the T-top like on NightRider.

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 8:49 AM | Link to this

Good morning! Slimone - Anna has known the guy for a year, they started dating 4 months ago, he told her the woman was about 2 months pregnant, but she just informed him about recently.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 8:53 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…Regarding the topic… on the flip side..i know two dudes that actually dated and eventually married females that were pregnant at the time or had a brand new.. new born..so it does happen. One friend i grew up with so i was able to ask him about it being that thats not something most men would do…He broke it down how she was always there for him and was his ride or die chic…during a split she got pregnant…and they got back together during her pregnancy……But when u look at it…its not a big difference than if u are dating a female with kid under 2 or 3..

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 8:53 AM | Link to this

MsU It is a small world…I grew up in the other direction. Reed St, that’s the street behind Azar’s Package Store…LOLOLOLOL…And No Slim I was not drinking at that age.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

Twindiva I didn’t think it was about Wise. I was only asking her for the details regarding the timing of the chicks dating relationship with him and how far along the mother was.

Wise So with the timing, yep buddy was sleeping with old girl when her and the guy recently started dating. I would still advise her to dip out on the situation even though they had just started dating when he got ex-girl pregnant. I can’t really expect him to have stopped having sx with whomever that early in a dating situation unless they discuss exclusivity. Your friend just have to be thankful that she hadn’t given up her goodies to him.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 9:01 AM | Link to this

@ WD…they known each other for 365 days…dated for 120 days and she STILL havent given dude any?? i am sorry but that is crazy…has she been celibate for that whole year? what does she expect dude to do during that time…work out and do yoga?

By G

July 17, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this

First of all, I hate it when a buddy totally abandons the group for a new piece of tail. That is so high school. All they have to do is graciously incorporate the new with the existing.

Second, women need to have a clear understanding of the possible repercussion/reality that exists when you ask a man to abstain in a relationship. For a person that is used to routine “activity” in a relationship, you can’t just expect for them to convert and understand abstinence overnight. If they do, it’s a blatant lie. You are naive for believing it. All you can do is have open communication with that person when those desires arise, and try to work it out. Abstinence is a definite relationship “stickler” that both partners have to share……….not just one.

Last, if that person has knocked someone up during your relationship, its out in the open that person has cheated on you. Once a cheat, always a cheat. They just try to do a better job at not getting caught. Your relationship can never be the same. There is nothing convoluted about this situation.

If my girl (so called) comes up pregnant, that’s automatic kick rocks. There’s no reason in the world of why I should try to make it work. Yeah I would be hurt, but the sooner I drop her butt, the sooner I’ll recover.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this

Genuine Church hugs for Musing,Demi,SJ3000, Gaman,For Real,Sexione,Mocha,Mo,Foots,Truth,MisU,Lacey,Mochalatte, and all

Musing And No Slim I was not drinking at that age. Hey you ain’t gotta lie to kick it.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this

@ Musing On your way from school you would stop at that church’s on the corner get some chicken and head on to Azar.LOL Boy them folk know they stayed drunk up there…LOL

@SJ Put your bi-focals on baby and read the text clearly.LOL there is a big different. Your boy and his girl was not together when she got pregant right. okay. acording to Wise her girlfriend and ole boy were together when ole girl got pregant by him. Now a child 2 or 3 year old child is a different scenario we are talking about a baby who is not even develop…

By Jay

July 17, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this

Yes, I would say at 4 months a couple should still be in the “honeymoon” phase and not tackling issues like this. When in a new relationship, you MUST pay attention to the signs.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this

Kind of on topic but not really On Q100 this morning, they asked folks to call in to see how many folks could’ve been the father of their child at any given moment. This guy called in and said a chick he messed with called saying he could very well be the father but he was #11 on her list! Not sure she ever found out who it was. WOW! Are women really allowing that many guys in their rotation to raw dawg her guts like that?

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this

MsU I would stop at the Churchs for the limited edition chicken sandwich…hahahahahaha….There was also this little restaurant in the back of a convience store next to the Churchs, that place had the best hotlinks….Do you remember TastyDog and Stadium Burgers?

By T-Mango

July 17, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this

Good morning to the WLB and the MLB

On topic: One thing I can’t deal with is baby’s mama drama. Relationships are hard enough as it is. I already have a “1 child cap” with the men that I’ll date. Sure.. some brothers have gotten a little warm because I’ve said this, but it is what it is.

In this situation, it’s the man that she’s dating that is in the pickle. This is a new baby. So, if he’s going to step up to his responsibilities then his life and focus is going to change. He may even get back with the other woman.

Your friend doesn’t appear to be involved too deeply. She’s given her time, but not her body. It’s easier to break ties that way…So, her best bet may be to keep it movin’.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

For breakfast this morning…..assorted fruits, juices, Mimosas, bagels, muffins, turkey sausage and bacon. Enjoy!

Air kisses to the WLB, non-church hugs to the MLB!

SJ I agree with MsU, a child that is already conceived or 2-3 yrs. old is a big difference than one that is conceived while dating. However, that’s a serious “choice” too!

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

Sup blog.

they known each other for 365 days…dated for 120 days and she STILL havent given dude any?? i am sorry but that is crazy

I have to agree w/ SJ on this one. And I admit to being slow in this area. But dang! I also realize that if I’m not giving him any, he’s getting it somewhere. But, he was reckless. He should have been using protection, and got caught out there. That’s the main reason I would leave, quick, fast and in a hurry from this relationship. This guy was dating more than 1 woman, got 1 of them preggers (that we know of!), and I’m sure was hoping/planning to get up with your friend too? This is not the mark of a mature and responsible man. Now, if she doesn’t care about his maturity, etc., then she can stay w/ him. If he’s just “a date for all seasons”…in other words, he’s the guy you take to the office Christmas party, and home for family events, but not someone you’re going to get serious with, then no harm, no foul. But, if she’s looking for a lasting relationship with this guy, I just don’t see it happening. He’s got a little too much got my cake and I’m gonna eat it, dammit! in him.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

@ MLB How long will a guy wait to decide that he has had eough of waiting to have sex with a women and decide it time to get some..1 week 2 week What??

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

You know Anna didn’t seem all that shocked that he was sleeping with someone else, but she was hurt he didn’t tell her, disappointed he wasn’t using protection, and she REALLY didn’t want to date someone with children. She says she really likes this guy.

By melo

July 17, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

Where has all the common sense gone young adults? This aint complicated at all, i’m sorry! She is not married to him, no attachement except emotional(but can be overcome).Goodness. If she wants to lay the foundation for a disastrous,drama-filled life, she can sure have a go at him.Good luck.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

@ Musing Whatcha talkin bout! Do I. That was where my cousin dad Nookie Baby get drunk clic would be. I think it was a little wash-house right there also.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

@ MsU…i have 20/20 missy…all i am saying is ..its not a big difference..and lot of pregnancies happen at the very end of relationships…

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

Merning Blog

I had a girlfriend to through the same thing, needless to say they are no longer together. When we make a decision to wait often times our male counterparts are not waiting with us, mostly never. Some would call this cheating but logically he was doing what he thought worked, he just got caught. hehehe, LOL It’s a tough lesson but at least she’s not the one having a baby. The ogligations of being a father are demanding so I would probably not date him exclusively anymore. When the baby arrives he will need to devote much of his time to his child, and consequently communicating with the mother regularly. So, it would definitely be good for her to keep her options open and let him know, hey this is what’s up.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

@Slim Are women really allowing that many guys in their rotation to raw dawg her guts like that? that’s why preternity tests on court shows and the Maury Povich show are so popular. Even Judge Mathis does preternity test on his show now.

Hey Mushing, Sex1, Truth, For Real, Lady J, T-Mango, Mo, SJ3000, G & Everyone else

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this

WIse Even though you say your friend wasn’t surprised about the situation you say that she Likes the guy. Is she thinking about the road ahead? Let’s just say she does suck it up to stay with him,

what will she do when he decides he wants to make his family work and try it again with the baby momma?

What does she plan to do if he still sleeps with her when he goes to visit his child?

What does she plan to do when she realizes she can’t trust he’s just visiting the child and not working on baby #2?

Then don’t let her end up sleeping with him, that’ll only give her false hope that things will be alright. In the words of Ludacris….ROLL OUT!

She shouldn’t have a hard time merely liking someone else. She these are the red flags that we often discuss on this blog but choose to ignore. Times like this make women look bad. Sad to say but it’s true.

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

MsU How long a dude will wait depends on when he last had some….If he’s had some p-diddy recently then he MAY be able to hold out for 2weeks…However if a chick gives the dude a little boob action, he may last longer…Also you must take into account how often he gets it…If he’s accustomed to getting it every other day, you might need to do something sooner to keep up his standard of living.

Hey Lacey.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

@ MsU…to add to my last post..look at Kim Porter and P Combs…things couldve have been peaches and cream..yet she has newborn twins…u think she is gonna stay on the market that long if she doenst want to?

By melo

July 17, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

@MissUwill a guy wait to decide that he has had eough of waiting to have sex with a women and decide it time to get some For a good,marriage-type, girl(in my judgement), no time limit.But for the average girl(who may turn out to be super good anyway), maybe a month or two!The reason is there are plenty waiting in the wings to give u some anyway, so why torture urself.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

Good Morning….hugs and Kisses to all the ladies of the WLB

Head nod to the MLB

GaMan walks in shocked to hear this going on so early…slips and trips over Musing’s shoe…..

Wow is the only words i can say about this…not that i admire a guy that keeps some on the side, but come on i have to agree with SJ3000…(GaMan Puts on Blog Vest) If she had been giving him some, he would not have to go outside to get it…if he is your man do have him with Blueballs

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

Lacey I know that Maury only has one show now…You are NOT the father show. But I guess I just don’t want to believe that chicks are still being that careless. Okay true enough I can see a chick letting a long time ex or something hit it raw but to even let the bench warmers feel the sticky icky too is asinine. One minus well walk around with crotchless panties on and a ‘Free Sample’ sign on her stomach. Then dudes to skeet up in errythang with no second thought is equally as careless.

By kinderbabe

July 17, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

good morning all!! haven’t read everyone’s comments but i have to say…WiseDiva that i was in a similar scenario in my twenties. i began dating a guy that i had been friends with for a year or so. well, six months into the relationship, he told me his ex was pregnant. ironically, we had just started being physically intimate about a month before that. he claimed that she got pregnant before we got together then finally confessed that it happened before we had sex (since he knew the dates weren’t adding up). we are stil friends to this day but we did break up over that. i left him to live w/his decision b/c i couldn’t.

By QC

July 17, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Morning everybody

Musing, you are crazy…i use to watch Night Rider “faithfully”

Have a great day all!

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

@ Wise Okay she knew him 8 months before they started to date. Did she not see any red flags then? We know men can’t front that long LOL. One other things what took so long for them to decide they wanted to date and who initiated the relationship?

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

MsU it really depends..just like Musing said…what else can be done…instead….i mean doing the JOAN from Girlfriends is crazy…haveing a time limit might work out in your favor..but it might backfire

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

Slim Apparently, there are plenty of women out there doing just that….now I didn’t say quality women, just women. And yes, they are making us look reaaallll bad! All I can say is I’m not one of them.

So basically, Ladies, if you are celibate, it’s best to be single and celibate, or you’ll more than likely end up dating some dude who’s putting his unwrapped hot dog in other buns. But we must make the choice! BUT, if you look hard enough, you may luck up and find a dude who’s actually celibate too……..they do exist….just not many! lol

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

That’s real talk kinderbabe, bringing a baby into the equation changes the situation. Being a father has it’s challenges especially when there are two women making demands. My sister can relate.

By Demi

July 17, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

Since I can’t have kids nor want any kids of my own, I will continue dating her…if she’s the woman for me.

But I’ll take things real sloooooooooooooooooow like.

Good Morning All!!!

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

she was dating someone else when they first met, Miss U. They had mutual friends and would see each other from time to time.

So how long does it usually take to shut down the rotation you have when you decide to focus on that special someone, exclusively.

After you have “the talk”, what do you normally do to let people know you are off the market, so to speak?

By Foots

July 17, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone!! What’s up Slim and Mocha? Air kisses to kinderbabe, QC, LDD, Lady J, Sexione, T-Mango, Lacey and other esteemed members of the WLB. Sexy winks to the handsome men of the MLB.

This is a hot topic, Wise. I’ve been in this situation before when I was around 18, sort of the one that SJ3G describes, where I was dating a guy for about two months, then he had to tell me that his ex-girl/baby mama was three months pregnant. I broke it off because I didn’t want the drama, then I got back with him because I wanted him and from the information I had, he didn’t do anything wrong to me. But by the time that the baby was born, his loyalties were so split that I couldn’t deal with it. He obviously still had feelings for her in addition to his feelings for me. So I left them to be together.

We definitely went back and forth for a few more years, but ended it for good because of their ties to each other. Fast forward 10 years and another kid and they are still together. I know that I did the right thing in getting out of their way.

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Sexi & MsU Ok you don’t have to give dude the snacks until you wanna but at least “jangle the bells” er’now and then to let dude know “I know what you wanna do, but here you go”…jangle, jangle, jangle

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

@MLB Thanks for that insight! SJ i must confess i cheated on you two weeks ago with The Truth I think I am pregant by him.. Do you and I still have a chance.LOL

By Foots

July 17, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

Wise Would she be having the same questions if she found out that he was still sleeping with his ex two months into their relationship, but there was no pregnancy?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Morning All!! Hey Kinderbabe, SJ3000, Sexione, T-Mango, MsU, Lady J, Jake, MochaTreat, Truth, QCF and errbody else!!

On topic: your girl should dip out WD. Dating a dude with a child on the way is a hassle she sure doesnt want. You would have to be stronger than most to deal with all that is to come in the pregnancy as well as the 1st yr after the child gets here. I saw where SJ said this is similar to dating someone with a 2-3yr old. I disagree. I have a 2 yr old and even though I am not dating now, there is no way I would have even considered dating someone when I was pregnant or withing my child’s first year of life. JMHO…

Also I am not sure how I would really take someone I have been dating, telling me they are expecting a child (not have one but awaiting the arrival of one). >:0(

By C tha 1

July 17, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

SJ3000 usually you make sense, but I’m having trouble with your 9:37 post. Help me out bruh, I’m kinda slow this morning.

By Foots

July 17, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

Wait a minute!! Is this going to turn into a “she shouldn’t have made him wait, that’s why he did what he did” topic, instead of focusing on his personal irresponsibility? A few posts touched on it, but the question is, what is she going to do now because of the decisions that he has made?

Oh, and just for the record, she probably gave him some already. She’s just not going to say it because she regrets it in light of this new information.

By abc

July 17, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

How much of a no-brainer can you get? Yes, she should dump the guy. What a loser, knocks up one chick and dates others? Total loser. Run like your hair is on fire.

Likewise, if I was dating a woman and she got pregnant by another man, I’d dump her, but quick. That’s just crazy.

By Bre

July 17, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

Wise Diva I did not realize I had shut down the rotation until I woke up one day and realized my phone had stopped ringing not even a voicemail. One evening at home the subject came up about ex’s and dating; and we were just like lets just keep this between us. WE were comfortable in being in “the relationship” before either of us was aware of it. It was not planned that way but its what happened in my life.

On topic I really don’t play when it comes to children even if he wanted to keep it going I would cut him off. I feel he needs to put as much positive energy and time into preparing for that child than a relationship. If he was really into Anna on a very serious tip with/out the physical he would have at least talked to her about being physical with other people.

Communication is key

Melo I totally agree with your 9:20am post She can keep it moving at this point.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

On Topic: Wise your friend can’t be mad at him for having sex but she should dump him bc he was having unprotected sex.

MSU How long will a guy wait to decide that he has had eough of waiting to have sex with a women and decide it time to get some..1 week 2 week What?? I don’t stop having sex just bc I just met a new lady. Why would I stop? I have no idea where this new friendship will go. Beside “A bird in hand is better than one in the bush”.

Slim Slim Are women really allowing that many guys in their rotation to raw dawg her guts like that? Must be true if 75% of all new HIV cases are women.

Sexi So we are classmates huh… Can you drop me some hints to help me figure out who you are?

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

lmsao @ MsU

Musing jangle, jangle that is funny!! But seriously, would jangling that thang make it worse (make him want it more) or better? That sounds like borderline teasing to me…….jangle, jangle lmsao

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

@ C-murda…point i was trying to make was that during the very end of relationships..its common for a pregnancy to occur..maybe one party thinking thats going to make it work..but it normally doesnt work…is dude wrong..no..neither is the female..shyt happens..neither persons life is going to stop… the dude will holla at something else…the chick may or may not even want to see another man..but she may need someone to hold her down…emotionally..its not uncommon for her to find friend..some dudes have a strong attraction to pregnant women and they say pregnant pssy is the best..believe or not the so called glow and beauty of pregnant women attracts men that and they stay in heat..

By For Real

July 17, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

Guys, what if you met a great new woman and began dating her; a few weeks later, she reveals that she is expecting another man’s baby - what would you do? Stay friends with her until her baby situation is settled and then re-evaluate her at a later date.

By kinderbabe

July 17, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

hey QC, foots, demi:) how goes it??

ladylike yeah, that situation taught me a lot about myself. i was 21 at the time and the guy was 14 years older. i thought then, why would he wait so long to do something so stupid? lol don’t you know that after we broke up and he moved the pregnant ex in, she mysteriously had a miscarriage…hmmmm ain’t that something.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

OMG! That why i kinda cling to being single cause she never know what will come your way in the dating game. But it so funny because when i get in my forget a man mode,

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

OMG! That why i kinda cling to being single cause you never know what will come your way in the dating game. But it so funny because when i get in my forget a man mode, i always meet one that catches my attention.lol

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

ForReal Wait a minute, you’re an Astro too? 87? Okay, then, lets see……any hints for me?

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

GOOD MORNING ROOM It is my personal opinion that a woman will not stay with a man that is expecting a baby from another woman!! REASON: most women are selfish and think the world is centered around them. It is so hard to get a woman to date a man with kids let alone date a man with one on the way!!! On the other side of the hand WOMEN expect you to take them and their FIVE kids but if a man has one “they got baby mama drama” Me personally i would date a woman thats expecting a child from another man but if i list my main reason it will stir up this blog like no other “MEN KNOW MY MAIN REASON” At the end of the day women want the opposite of what they dont have!!! LET ME THINK LIKE A WOMAN FOR A SECOND…..I want a man with his own house because I STAY WITH MY MOM….I want a man with his own car because IM STILL ON THE BUS AND MAYBE HE CAN PICK ME UP….I want a man with no kids because I NEED HELP WITH MY TWO….I want a man with a JOB/CAREER because WENDYS JUST ISNT PAYING ENOUGH….let me sum this up women have problems with a man’s baggage/negatives but expect us to deal with theirs!!! I have on my hater,bullet,female vest on so go ahead and shoot your shots!!!!

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Sexi A ten minute jangle session should ease any tension he may have…It may require you to wash up afterwards though.

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Good morning all. Prison azz stare to the WLB and military drill team type salute to the MLB.

On topic: WTF???? Its amazing that she would even call it a relationship if they weren’t boning. In relationships you take care of your partners needs. All of these situations fall under the predetermined exit clause. If she’s not fuggin me she shouldn’t worry about who is. On the baby tip, if she accepts that deal ol boy has no reason to stop tapping the ex, your girl already accepted it so keep it going. On that celibate thing, any dude that goes with that oki doke is setting himself up for a sexless life. From my view the reason a woman does that is because she either doesn’t like sex or has some type of mental/emotional/physical problem (Sorry PP). Neither of those are acceptable. If you do opt in to that situation at any time she can reinstate that policy and your left high and dry. don’t accept anything less than all that chick has to offer because she expects that from you. If someone breaks in the house do I have the option of not shooting the dude? Hell naw. Take care of your responsibilities or don’t be mad when someone else does.

I don’t want to date a woman with kids or care for another mans seed let alone help nurture an undeveloped one. That is some low self esteem shyt but its out there.

Also, for the record, even after marriage or whatever if I don’t get some azz this things heads to a grinding halt. There’s nothing more disgusting than a chick that won’t bone you, but still expects everything from you. Usually by the time you get to this point the thing is over anyway.

For the ladies, anytime theres a prolonged break in the puddy your setting yourself up for some old time action. You want to provide a continous flow of azz or put on your vest and be prepared to be the topic of this blog. Really, sex shouldn’t be a topic because its always there.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

Wise Diva

Now you know good & well, shutting down rotation does not really take very long. “Like Andre: said send a text message & cc: everybody that you cc’d round town.” hahahahaha,LOL, I couldn’t resist that one. None of this happens until you are serious, “after the talk”, some honest instropect of one self. So really you can like someone but to come to the conclusion of exclusitivity is a individual decision. Just like deciding to wait before having sex in a relationship, you both have to be on the same page.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

GaMan hands Travis extra ammo…etra clips…and a blog cup to protect you know what

Musing we got any more smoke bombs…we need an evak…..quick

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ TRAVIS…LOLOLOL…Man he doesn’t pull any punches with you Ladies.

Now handing TRAVIS a rubberband and some paper clips to defend himself

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

Foots Oh, and just for the record, she probably gave him some already. She’s just not going to say it because she regrets it in light of this new information You know the same thought crossed my mind too. I mean why else would she still be contemplating on staying or leaving unless she gave him a little taste of her sweet potato pie?

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

Dannnnnnnng Truth…….did you have to step on all of theri toes….lolololololololol boyyyyyyyy stoppppp

hahahahaahah heheheheeh

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

Foots i saw yesterday you said you were from South Ga..I spilt time between here and albany..was born in albany though…i went to Therrel high here in atlanta and Dougherty high in albany

By QC

July 17, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Hey kinderB

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Morning All!

Interesting topic - this happened to me recently (sort of). Anyway I have to co-sign what Lacey said in that I fully expect a guy to get some elsewhere while we are just dating. Unless the guy was already practicing abstinence, I’m not going to expect him to do it for me. But once we get to the point of exclusivity, he is saying that I am worth the wait and I expect him to be faithful to me. So like For Real said, Anna should be mad that dude was stupid enough to have unprotected sex, not that he had sex.

Musing LOL, you have me dying over here with your jangle jangle comments.

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

Ga.Man all I can say is Travis bet-Not show up at the blog party cause the Ladies are gonna whoop his tail.

Chick: Hey are you Travis

T: Yea?! And???

Chick: Get’em girls

Travis waking up in the year 2150 after the azz whooping he took can finally be cured by science.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

Sexi Yep.. that’s why I asked if you went to the softball game. Have you bought your ticket yet? I am going to JR Crickets on Friday to pay for mines. Hints??? You first…

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

I think Travis’ comments says alot about the type of women he deals with. Of course his sweeping generalizations are entertaining (I guess?) but, really.. with so many classy, attractive, self-sufficient women in Atlanta, I can’t imagine that these issues are commonplace for the equally attractive, classy, self-sufficient man. So, Travis, I encourage you to broaden your dating options and realize all single women are not like you describe.

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

@ GA MAN and MUSINGLEE preshate all the ammo im going to need it!!!! PLUS I HAVE ALREADY CALLED BOR BACK UP!!!!

By Demi

July 17, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

TRAVIS SMITH LOL you are funny!!!

KB/QC a wild night…little demi kick me off the bed into the floor and some how off the floor back into the bed, LOL*

Bre hey you!!

and where’s JustMe??!!

By C tha 1

July 17, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this

O.K. thanks for enlightening me SJ. I can understand that logic even if I don’t practice it. You kind of through me for a loop with the Kim Porter and P. Diddy deal. I think ole girl got played like an old Play Station. I mean it took her 10 years … 10 YEARS and 3 or 4 kids to finally figure out she was being played. Damn shame.

By DivaMae

July 17, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

I have dated a wonderful guy, thought I was in 7th heaven….I mean he was an absolute dream come true and then he drops the bomb that he’s MARRIED and he lives with his wife and is only there for the children. I tell you, it was a good thing we were in public when he told me………..Needless to say I was crushed and hurt and felt deceived.

By Raqi

July 17, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

The way I see it is if there was not agreement up front of him waiting for her he was free to do what he pleased. Just because one party chooses to hold off doesn’t automatically put the burden on the other party to do the same, unless they both agree to it.

I say if she likes him then stick with it. Just be prepared to share his time with his new arrival.

By aa

July 17, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

she needs to leave him alone, dont be desperate.. its not cute.. let him be the father besides it will not work out anyways.. baby momma drama

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

@ Travis Smith HAHAH You are too funny! I can’t do nothing but laugh at you cause i don’t fit in that description at all. But it was hella funny though! I have kids, i will date a dude with or without kids. I don’t buy into that everybody with kids has baby momma/ baby daddy drama. I am friends with my kids dad other child mom. I hate drama true but handle your business and you won’t have to worry. If anybody wondering why we are friends, well for one when i meet him yaeh i said meet him i know that she will become part of their caretaker because they live together so hey i need to have a casual freindship with her.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

lmsao @ Musing

Travis sounds like you gots some issues!! Me personally i would date a woman thats expecting a child from another man but if i list my main reason it will stir up this blog like no other “MEN KNOW MY MAIN REASON” So why don’t you share that with the ladies? We ain’t scared!

And this is no news break…..let me sum this up women have problems with a man’s baggage/negatives but expect us to deal with theirs!!! We can say the same about you guys! Right?!

Now what about celibacy for religious reasons? I know there is a man somewhere on this earth that can relate to that! even if they are scared to admit it to other dudes

By MochaTreat

July 17, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

@Wise Diva ^5 on your 10:44 post. I couldn’t have said it better myself!

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

Wise well said!! ^5

ForReal Nope, I haven’t yet. I was thinking about going by on Friday as well. Who was the best dressed female in the class? Your turn……

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

The Truth trust me, I’ve been wearing my vest for quite some time regarding my choice to practice abstinence. I LOVE SEX and I have no mental, physical, emotional or spiritual problems. What amazes me is that you can be so narrow minded to think that because someone has chosen to abstain from sex until marriage something must be wrong with them. Just because sexing freely is the norm, doesn’t make it necessarily right. I have no problem with you or anyone else that view sex as a necessary part of just dating - and I would never attempt to date anyone with that viewpoint.

So fire away buddy - I’ve been taking the shots for years, you won’t say anything that I haven’t heard before.

By Deeva4Life

July 17, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Travis Smith I actually agree with you. I’ve said it to my girlfriends many times, some women in the ATL are a trip…they want a guy to come to the table with everything while they bring little or nothing. I do think when an man is ready to marry a woman he should be in a position to take care of her, but I think it’s unfair for some women to think that men shouldn’t expect them to bring something to the table as well. So no bullets from this female…I agree with your views on that point.

Truth so what if I woman is choosing to abstain because of religious reasons…does that constitute as a mental/emotional/physical problem?

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

@ WISE DIVA I really have to disagree with you. That says nothing about who I deal with. Why dont you be real with yourself and ask…Do me and my girlfriends look for all the above mention things that TRAVIS talked about? Check out any personal ads and you will see that 99.9 percent of women on there are looking for what i mention!!!! It was not directed at any og the women blogging because we all know the women blogging are PERFECT and yall have a man and KNOW HOW TO KEEP ONE!!! (yea right)

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Oh and Anna should leave this guy alone - if for no other reason than the fact that his grown azz is out here having unprotected sex.

After a certain age - I don’t believe in folks getting pregnant ‘by mistake’. By stupidity, yes - not by mistake.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

MsU cosigning with your 10:49 post!! I was laughing at TRAVIS too!! He must have dealt with some crazies in his time. I dont have nor do I create drama with my ex, dont look for a man to take care of me and never have. I feel better being able to take care of me b/c you may not always be around to do it for me!! As for dating a man with a child, dont have a problem with that either. At this point I have contemplated whether I should date a man w/o a kid(s). I know that he wasnt talking about every woman but just had to make it known like MsU that there are some that dont fit the mold TRAVIS described.

Also on Truth’s post, I must agree. Unless you make it known upfront that you are celibate and plan to stay that way (and they agree), there is no need to hold out. Once you have established the relationship everything should be a go…

By For Real

July 17, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

Dayummm Travis gets tagged jumps into the ring and comes in with a flying Wrestler #2 Elbow straight to the throat.

For Real now plotting Travis’s escape but all For Real has is an Canadian nickle, two pennies dated 1702 and some by product from Slim’s Camel Toe invention. Think For Real, Think!!!

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

**GaMan…decides he needs to help Travis out alittle more…..he now goes and twist the wires of half of the blog ladies WLB computer so that cant find out when the beat down of Travis will take place…now it reads like this…..

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By The Truth

July 17, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

Sexi1 if she’s celibate for religous reasons she should be dating the preacher. She might as well anyway, she’s sending him her money.

By Bre

July 17, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Demi

By For Real

July 17, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

I think ole girl got played like an old Play Station. Cthat1 WTF… played???? She probably will be collecting 100k per month in child support. PLAYED??? Hellz naw she should write a how to child support book.

By Aggressively witty

July 17, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Tell her to get the hell on. Babies are drama, baby mammas are even MORE drama. How old is this dude? I would imagine if the broad is a friend of yours they are both in their late 20’s at the youngest. Too old to be just having babies willy nilly.

Plus if you got a baby on the way your a* dont need to be dating. You need to be SAVING. you need to be planning you need to be getting your mind right for how to be the best damn daddy you can. You cant do that if you taking chics to Nan and weekend trips to savannah.

I wouldnt date a broad with a baby on the way, why should a broad be held to a different standard if I got a baby on the way. Stop complaining and go be a damn daddy.

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

@ musing Im not scared to say that the sex from a pregnant woman is the best sex ever and thats why ill date a woman thats expecting!!!! Call me shallow or a dog but all the fellows know what it is!!! I guess im the only real man that will say it!!!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

For the sake of TRAVIS

Please Blog Women how many of these apply to you, BE HONEST:

*I want a man with his own house because I STAY WITH MY MOM….

I want a man with his own car because IM STILL ON THE BUS AND MAYBE HE CAN PICK ME UP….

I want a man with no kids because I NEED HELP WITH MY TWO….

I want a man with a JOB/CAREER because WENDYS JUST ISNT PAYING ENOUGH

I’ll go first, NONE of these apply to me. Next…

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

I didn’t say that the women you describe don’t exist, I am sure they do, but I also realize that there are smart women, who want the same things they offer, and some even relax their standards because they don’t NEED or WANT a man to pay for everything. A lot of women are willing to be a helpmate to the men they date, and don’t mind building with him.

and, personally..I don’t claim to be perfect, I know i have issues, I know why I am single, and I also know that I am quite content with my life, and my reality. Fortunately, I am one of those smart women that figured out how you can be happy with or without a man

By T-Mango

July 17, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

Hey Foots, QC, Slim, MsU, Mo, Lacey, KB and everbody.

Interesting comments. But, I have a bone to pick with Officer Musirello…

Where is Truth’s blog citation for his 10:28PM post??

Back to Lurksville, GA…

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

For Real…back up the URANG and lets get Travis out of there he needs some medical attention then he can go back in…….Musing watch the front….Truth ruun point….Man down…man down…man down

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

It was not directed at any og the women blogging because we all know the women blogging are PERFECT and yall have a man and KNOW HOW TO KEEP ONE!!! (yea right)

Attention all WLB members!! Do not respond to this! It is a trap! Please refer to Section 1.1.1a entitled “Can’t Win for Losing” in the WLB manual. I repeat, this is a trap!

Now back to regularly scheduled programming…watching Travis and Truth try to load the defective rubber bands that Musing passed out. Slim pass the popcorn, girl. LOL!

Tazzee You’re the bomb! Tell me, how do you handle your celibacy when you date? Has any man ever deceived you about his willingness to wait, and then he didn’t? This is an area that men and women will never agree on, b/c sex has a lot more implications for women than it does for men. (And somehow, the fact that we tie it to an emotion is a bad thing…WTF?!?)

By For Real

July 17, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

Mo At this point I have contemplated whether I should date a man w/o a kid(s). I agree with you on that. Women w/o kids don’t understand the boundries between me as man and me as a father. If you are not my wife then you get no intro to my kids

By Gorilla O aka " Tha Code Cracka"

July 17, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

@ Travis

whats up my brotha. i read your comment and you hit the hammer on the nail! women always have high expectations for men and dont have them for themselves. they want the perfect relationship, and in reality it could be the closet thing to perfection if they would get their ish together and contribute more to the relationship than just pleasing lil gorilla O. ive dated many women with kids…hell im almost convinced that all women have at least two. it wasnt a problem for me even before i had my daughter. but i get the screw face a lot when i tell them that i have a child….as if they dont want to deal with my baggage. but im supposed to deal with their lights that happen to keep getting cut off on the 5th, or that 26.9% interest rate they have on their e320 benz, or that pink sheet of paper thats on their door every other month from towers garden apartments on covington hwy saying they need to pay their rent or they have 7 days to get out. ive said it before and ill say it again, women are the most unrealistic creatures on earth!

@ Wise Diva

commenting on your comment to travis i can say that ive dated many different women in atl. classy to trashy, dependent to independent, attractive to not-so-cute…same outcome. you all still have the same superficial mentality. wake up ladies before you’re 60 years old and ALONE. not because you never ran across a good dude in your time, but because your “i need a perfect man and i refuse to lower my standards attitude” you missed out. take heed or look forward to lonely nights of “THE LIFEFIME NETWORK” and “SNAPPED”!

By abc

July 17, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

‘Sexing freely’, ‘rotations’, just appalling. And you wonder why you are repeatedly disappointed in the quality of people you attract. Just look at the behaviors you consider acceptable!

I do not believe that is representative of the population at large. Yall are either kidding, liars, or reprentative of a rather narrow in-town demographic.

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ myself….Why am I already eating lunch…LOLOLOLOLOL…dang I was hungry.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

If we don’t give it up soon something is wrong with us. If we give it up quickly we are w*******. I think the MLB has members with Mental Problems…

By Officer Musirello

July 17, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

T-Mango Thats about enough out of you….

Musing leads T-Mango Back into the dark cubicle

I’ve come to think you like resisting arrest and abstructing justice…Maybe I should change the penalty from “Sweating out the Perm” to something more serious???

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

WISE DIVA can i ask you one question? you seem to be keeping it real!!! You mention the classy women you know and that doesnt need a man to validate them. QUESTION How many women do you know that will take a man an UPGRADE HIM? I really dont know many. QUESTION How many men you know that HAVE UPGRADED A WOMAN?

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

Gaman I ain’t runnin point, its a bunch of mad azz chicks out there with bats and ish. I gotta meeting to attend. C Ya later. LOL (Recommendation to the MLB: Slowly walk away from Travis, chalk him up as a casualty of war.)

T-Mango why you want to bust me out like that? You know I got friends in low places.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

@Aggressively witty Please clarify beacuse…. Babies aren’t drama they are blessing..

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 17, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

oh yea TRAVIS…pregnant sex is the best sex known to man!!!

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

are you kidding me!? some men get twitchy if we try to suggest a new tie color! LOL

Why don’t you ask..How many MEN will LET a woman “upgrade” him without making him feel emasculated?

and let’s not forget “don’t try to change a man, accept him as he is”..you aren’t going to date someone for their potential are you? What happens if they don’t live up to THEIR OWN potential?

and as for upgrading a woman, it seems to me that men don’t feel like a real man unless they are the breadwinner, decisionmaker, power player in the relationship, if/when a woman tells him, no, I don’t want you to do that for me, then we don’t know how to “let a man be a man”, LOL

so really, it’s not even about blame, if you ask me. You just have to find someone with the same belief system, values, and morals that you have..and THAT can be really hard to find. Trust me.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Canadian nickle, two pennies dated 1702 and left over material from Camel toe invention. Think For Real make the connection. Save Travis Smith and save the world.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

For Real the reason you stated is why I have contemplated on whether to deal w/a man w/o kid(s)….boundries between me as man and me as a father….I am not introducing anybody to my child and he has a father, so I’m not looking for a step in.

SlimOne I dont fit any of those described by TRAVIS either. Co-signing with my gold tipped feathered pen

NCGirl you are right, there is no need to keep entertaining Travis any further. As usual he lumps every woman in the same category. Cant be just the women with the problem..

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

@MsU…no mental problems….if u dont give the goodies up witin 30 days.and or.or 4 or 5 dates…u are put on low on the small eye one the back left side of th stove…

@ Moeisha…i rather date a female with a kid…more realistic, some times more responsible..and understand how valuable time is…and i KNOW she is having sx..lol

By C tha 1

July 17, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

For Real yeah K.P. is still gettin paid from a hefty child support check, and will continue to receive even more money. Plus she has a career of her own, but it was obvious she wanted more. If she had three of his kids for just the money that really says alot about her. I think she wanted the entire marriage thing to happen, that’s why I said she got played. From the outside looking in, she seemed as if she was an option while she made him a priority. But the money says she is having the last laugh. That whole situation is too twisted.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

Auuuyyyuuumm dang Truth….we cant leave him on the field all beat up and ishhhh….he is a card carrying member(Isnt’ he)..ok i need someone else to run point…..”Truth ….truth..dang he left..”*

By For Real

July 17, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

Sexi Dang you expect me to remember who was the best dressed female???? Ok, I am going to guess here does she have a twin?

Mrs. Faning homeroom.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 17, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Travis, my brotha, ive UPGRADINGmy share!!!

By Foots

July 17, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Slim *Please Blog Women how many of these apply to you, BE HONEST:

LOL @ your question from Travis. Cause I have two of everything on that list EXCEPT for kids! LMAO!!

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

**Never a right time to say good-bye..i know its hard but i goota do it…..listen to your heart…you know we should be apart…i just can’t do it…sometimes it makes me wanna crryyyy..oooooohh there’s never a right time to say good-bye..but i gootta make the first move…girl it’s not you it’s me…..you know it’s hard but its never a right time to say goooood-bye

By Charles

July 17, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

Your friend is really on a path to experience some deep doo-doo in this relationship. She should run as fast as she can. Thank God this happened before the relationship was consummated and she had not married the man.

On the other hand, if she has been secretly doing the horizontal tango with an old lover, and decided not to consummate her new relationship until she had gotten enough of her old fling, then she should seriously ponder her decision.

It’s been my experience and the understanding of countless others, if we are able to make decisions with regard to equal weights and measurements pertaining to ourselves and others, we open spiritual and ethereal doors of our lives to experience real joy, happiness, protection, and love for a lifetime.

If the lady severs the present relationship under the guise of visible betrayal and deception, it is indeed an egregious and regretful error, hypocrisy. Severing the relationship for fallacious reasons effectively closes doors in her life which no person will be able to open.

Don’t be deceived during your lifetime. God is not mocked; we will reap what we sow, literally.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

Travis When chicks upgrade men, You all start smelling yourselves and end up getting this cocky air about yourself and move on for another chick to benefit from all the work we’ve put in. It happens all the time. Do I sense that this has happened to one too many times…chicks leaving after you’ve put forth much investment? Hmm?

By Aggressively witty

July 17, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

LOL @ all these dudes dealing with swamp monster narrow minded shallow broads and not taking the time to figure out why they keep attracting the same broad.

Hint: Its your dumbazz

Aint no way in hell you get the same broad in the different packaging and not realize that you the only constant in the screwed up relationship equation.

Same way broads keep ending up with the “oops upside the head brotha” dudes end up with the “cant get her ish together sister”

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

*Gorilla O aka ” Tha Code Cracka” * I apologize for the woman who wound your heart. Dang bro.LOL How to get over a broken heart counseling in room 1125

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Gorilla O gotta disagree bruh. Unhappy married azz is the best. There’s nothing an unhappily married chick won’t do. Plus you don’t have to worry about the chick havinh an emotional swing right before a nut.

MSU its simple. Your the gatekeeper to your puddy. If YOU cherish it it has value. If you give it out all willy nilly then its just a place to go for relaxation. You determine its value.

ABC have you been taking drugs bruh? You’ve been buggin for the last few days. Atlanta aint shyt yesterday, sex is bad today. WTF is good? Come on man, the MLB is here for ya, minus TRavis whose fighting off a hoard of angry chicks. That long distance relationship starting to tug on your nuts?

Officer Musirello I think I heard T-Mango mention that she really enjoys the strip search.

By QC

July 17, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

Hey T-Mango

^5 NCGirl

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

SJ you’se a fool for “and i KNOW she is having sx..lol”!! rather date a female with a kid…more realistic, some times more responsible..and understand how valuable time is… From a woman with a kid, thank you.

By WestSider

July 17, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

If this isn’t the ultimate loser, low-class Jerry Springer situation. How can anyone take a blog seriously which poses this type of question???

He the baby-daddy…but I still luuuuhhh him!

By Aggressively witty

July 17, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this

Miss U, its cute to say babies are a blessing but going from a life of leisurely dating to having to deal with

Midnight feedings, doctors visits cause someone has a fever, worry about the welfare of someone other than yourself, new bills that is drama. No other way to state it. ESPECIALLY if you just dating someone and you aint even the person thats having the kid. If that aint drama and strain then I dunno what is.

Babies are a blessing, for they damned parents, not for the unlucky SOB who happens to be dating a parent.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

Aggwit well said!!! all except for the babies are drama crap!

MsU yep, nail on the head!!!

Slim puuhhleeeaazzee, I can’t believe we’re even entertaining that bullish from him. I will not respond to foolishness!!

SJ and i KNOW she is having sx. WTF??????? That was stupid!! She has a child so she’s screwing That doesn’t mean a dayum thang! Except that she has had sex somewhere in her past.

ForReal Nope, no twin! And where are my clues???????? I see you’re not gonna play fair! lol

And let me just say, there are some fake azz folks on this blog!! Okay…….

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

@EVERYONE Since pretty much everyone thinks im this CRAZY man with “issues” I am in a relationship where we are not having sex and its just find with me because i know how to hold it down because i love her!!! And someone was right when they said i have dealt with them type of women before!! EVERY MAN HAS!!! Its more sorry, no good, out for them self women then there Good, do for self, educated, child less women out there. Im lucky because i have a women that is down for me in every way you can imagine!!!! * I WISH EVERY MAN CAN FIND A WOMAN LIKE MINE OR “”ONE OF THESE GREAT WOMEN THAT ARE SO PERFECT IN THERE BLOG’S LIKE YALL”*(lmaorotf)(yea right)

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

Wise Your 11:30 is on point. I was just about to speak on the same thing. Sounds to me like the Men are the one’s that appear to be more selfish acting like a spoiled only child. You give it up too soon we’re ho’s. We don’t give it up to fulfill their ‘normal level of activity’ and we have emotional problems. We try to upgrade them, then we’re trying to change them. We allow them to take the leadership role in the relationship and then we aren’t holding our own weight. Like NC said Do not respond to this! It is a trap! Please refer to Section 1.1.1a entitled “Can’t Win for Losing” in the WLB manual. I repeat, this is a trap

Foots LOL…you have your own little Noah’s Art over there. hehehehe But let him tell it, you’re probably a lesbian or something.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

Cthat1 No KP wanted the money and the fame. She couldn’t get that on her own so she made a business decision that is paying off. Don’t try to color it another way. She wanted the money and the fame and got it.

Mo we need to setup a play date.

By lovelyliz

July 17, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

If fidelity and honest are that important to her and her knew it, she shouldn’t just dump this guy, she should run away from him and his situation as quickly as she can.

By Brooklyn

July 17, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

A guy I used to date dropped the bomb on me on our first date by telling me he was once married and have three kids between his ex wife and first baby mother. Now, I have never dated a man with kids, period, let alone a man with three kids! It took some getting used to but it was tough. He was a really nice guy so that helped…

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

hey Charles! Excellent comment, and I also enjoyed your comment on yesterday.

@ Agg Witt..wow, thank you, you just broke it down!

@abc & Slimone, check yesterday’s entry, Dave posted another follow up comment to you guys.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

Okay, I step out for a minute and come back to some serious outrage.

First off, I am also abstinent and I have the choice, throwing blows on this blog has not changed my mind in the past two years, get it, your punches are weak. This is not a pot luck I won’t be rotating the dudes in and out of the Honey Hive! Secondly, I don’t mind at all upgrading a man, as long as it is worth my time. Many of these men have not reached any significant potential in their own lives on their own; they don’t even know how to be men, and I can’t teach them. So all that upgrading won’t do a bit of good. Thridly, I love being a self sufficient woman, I am not saying there is not something that a man can’t do for me, but I don’t rely on a man to define who am and what I am to become. Geesh, let me keep reading!

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Westsider..it does have a little Jerry Springer angle doesn’t it!? But, it happens so, it is a sad reality for some single people.

By MochaTreat

July 17, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

@Slim I don’t fit into any of theose categories either! Yes, I want a man to have his own house…because his AZZ ain’t moving in my Dam house and yes, I want a man to have his own car…because I ain’t no dam yellow taxi cab I ain’t picking you up to take you to work or over yo baby mama house! and it doesn’t matter if he has kids or not as long as he is taking care of his kids and not their mama! and yes, I want a man with a job/ career…because I ain’t care of no grown azz man! I got 2 kids that I am responsible for I don’t need a third, and if I did I would have a third child…but I choose to have only 2!

By Demi

July 17, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

QUESTION How many women do you know that will take a man an UPGRADE HIM? I really dont know many.

QUESTION How many men you know that HAVE UPGRADED A WOMAN?

It just goes to show, that we men are some stupid creature. So in other words, we men are happy with dating or dealing with women below our levels?

I am GLAD I no longer F/K anything that’s pretty with a p-dussy…we men are a trip

LOL

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Aggressively witty 11:38 ^5 If a person’s dating experience is constantly coming out negatively, then it might be a good place to start with the man in the mirror.

Slim now putting on her MJ sparkling glove, reapplying activator to her bang, and trying to drink a Pepsi all at the same time

By Foots

July 17, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Truth On the contrary. What I took abc to mean is that if you have low morals and you won’t date a woman UNLESS she has the same low moral standard that you do, you shouldn’t be surprised at your outcome.

I agree with him; I also don’t think that everyone is like this. Even as wild as SJ3G can be sometimes and as crazy as Travis sounds, I have never heard anyone as far out there as you Truth. Just sayin.

Charles You have a very insightful point of view. At this stage in my life, I’m learning how difficult it is to regard myself with “equal weights and measures” as I do others. It is a struggle to be fair when I find that others are in messy situations that I realize that I could have been in just as easily. That’s the area where I need the most personal growth.

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

I guess Im the only one that has dated in ATLANTA better yet in reality!!! Yall shooting yall shots at me like im crazy,dumb and stupid!! Lets take a poll….how many are yall single by choice? and how many of yall are single because THE REALITY IS YOU CANT KEEP A MAN!!! BE REAL WITH YOURSELF BEFORE YOU TRY TO BE REAL WITH ME!!! and since the truth hurts let me speak it **”THIS BLOG IS THE MOST ACTION SOME OF YALL SEE ALL DAY,WEEK,MONTH and YEAR”

By Aggressively witty

July 17, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

Travis how can your girl be down for you in everyway imaginable but aint giving you no sweet loving at home? That is one way I could imagine and she isnt down for you there.

But I guess if its, find, with you then thats all that matters.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

For Real we can do the playdate thing. give me and email addy and we’ll get it together.

AggWit I understand your point. Everything aint for everybody

By abc

July 17, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

I thought my perspective on Atlanta was somewhat complimentary, actually. It has its redeeming qualities. Somewhat.

I didn’t say sex was bad. Sex with pretty much anyone who’ll do you is what it sounds like yall are after. Who’s the one who said a couple weeks ago that they’d had 300-400 partners?

How about dating just one person at a time rather than having a rotation? How about being enough of a man to tell a chick that it’s not going to work out and walk away, rather than (deperately) holding out hope that she’ll spread ‘em for you someday, bedding as many as you can in the meantime? Talk about low standards. And, what chick would have any interest in a person like that? Difficult to imagine.

Yall make it sound like you’re slaves to sex, without which you’ll surely shrivel, dry up and blow away. Puh-leeeze.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

Travis Well if you’re in such a great relationship then why does it seem you’re so bitter about chicks that might not be as well off? Seems like you might need to re-visit Misses Palmer or either call a plumber because honey, sounds like you’re clogged up.

Hey anybody got a plunger and some drano Travis can borrow? lol

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 17, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

MsU i think we might have dated in high school….

By QC

July 17, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

Hey Demi, Musing, 4 Real, GA.man, Sir Truth, SJ3000 & WLB’s

By Aggressively witty

July 17, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

And mo the reality is I aint just speaking out the side of my kneck, I have a stepkid.

By TRAVIS SMITH

July 17, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

@ Aggressively witty If i said we dont have sex it had to be a DARN good reason!!!! She is a virgin!! if she wasnt we will be having sex!!! And when i said she is down for me that means she acepts me for the good and the bad!!! because unlike the people on here blogging IM NOT PERFECT but again IM NOT SINGLE LIKE THEM EITHER!!!

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

How about dating just one person at a time rather than having a rotation? How about being enough of a man to tell a chick that it’s not going to work out and walk away, rather than (deperately) holding out hope that she’ll spread ‘em for you someday, bedding as many as you can in the meantime? Talk about low standards. And, what chick would have any interest in a person like that? Well said!!

Slim I have one BIG AZZ plunger from the Acme Company (like on cartoons). It’ll suck his head straight outta his azz. I’ll send it over………..lol

By b-in-it

July 17, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

For Real Help me understand…if KP wanted the money and the fame that she couldn’t get that on her own and made a business decision that is paying off, as a woman I say why change it. She stuck it out thru the previous infidelities and as his woman was rubbin elbows with the rich and famous, and surely getting more than 100k worth of fame and good living by his girl. The only thing I can think of is she wanted marriage or he was getting ready to dip on her again and she got him first to ease the embarassment.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Musing Quick… do the typewriter and distract the women folk and I will drag Travis away…*

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Oh Yea. Demi, men ARE a trip (but women are too) I do love men though, LOL.

By DuShawn

July 17, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

In the scenario above, dude had no intentions of maintaining a relationship with WD’s friend. He was merely trying to wait the azz out, knowing full well after he hit it a few times he would eventually have to come clean about his pending fatherhood situation. She was smart, she held out. The dude ran out of patience. Additionally, the time constraints caused by the pregnancy forced him to play his hand. Inevitably he was going to have to let her go and concentrate more on the mother of the child. Telling WD’s friend about his situation provides a thin cloak of honor for his deceitful actions. Now he comes across as preparing for his new role as a father and giving her the opportunity to stay by his side or leave. It’s a win win situation for him. If she leaves, cool, he can take care of baby mama with out the distractions of an outside relationship. If she stays, that’s cool too, he’s got some azz on the side when those hormone swings kick in.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

^5 Ladylike i believe you are some kin to me and Sexione

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

Hey QC

Musing now wonders where he can get a good chili-slaw dog.(no beans)

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Agg Witt, I caught that,find reference, and you are so wrong, LOL

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

Fight for your opinions, but do not believe that they contain the whole truth, or the only truth. Charles A. Dana

By SmileyC

July 17, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

WOW @ the comments as I add my 2 cents. Personally I wouldn’t stay with this guy. When a child is on the way, the father needs to be there for his child’s mother during the pregnancy process and after- he has to be there for her financially, emotionally, and physically (going with her to her to her dr. appts., etc.). Who knows he is probably still feeling her, and thoughts are going to surface about perhaps of them being together to raise their child together in stuff.

My ex-fiance got back together with me when I was pregnant with another man’s child. He accept it for what it was, I got pregnant on accident with a guy I was seeing for about 4months (We were using protection. However, on the occasion I got pregnant he unwrapped himself without informing me! He told me of this later, his reason was b/c he wanted me to have his child and he thought that I would want to stay with him 4ever if I had his kid.) So, now I have his kid and he does absolutely nothing and we are not together and I don’t ever plan on getting back together with him!! My thing is people can date or have relations with people whom are pregnant/expecting a kid or just had a baby, without worry about the baby’s other parent. If they are upfront about it and know that they don’t want a relationship with the other parent except for a parental relationship to take care of their child/children. Everyone in the situation have to be mature about the whole ordeal as well, for they’re not to be any confusions/problems!!

@Travis Smith - you need to go outside the box and try talking to different types of females in a different location! Not all of is like that buddy!!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

QCF & MOF Hey are you all still giving your famous massages? Travis needs the superduper bustanut woosah treatment. Just put it on Truths tab.

By b.o.o.h.o.o.

July 17, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

@SlimOne…none of those apply to me either… Guys - all this bs about “if she’s not giving it to me, I gotta right to go somewhere else; can’t go more that 2 wks, why should I”…don’t any of you have hands? A mature man, like a mature woman, knows how to take care of himself. Thanks for the Maya Angelou and Dr. Seuss quotes…I keep a collection. On topic: no way, no how, next… and yes, there ARE men who are willing to take on another man’s baby…my sister met her husband of 25 yrs. when she was in the hospital after having her first child (by a complete azz…). He IS the child’s father, and they have another son too.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

This is the same b.s. men are selling everyday, and on the blog. My advice to the ladies is to reach your potential, become self sufficient yourself first. If you start having sex before the talk and individual decisions to be monogamous to each other he’ll still have five other chicks on the line. Sadly enough, men seem to feel that we want give them what they need after just dating them for a month or two, STOP. I don’t want to give you all your personal needs and it does not mean I don’t love a man, it means I love myself, yeah right, I’m selffish. If you upgrade him from jeans to suit before he knows how to be his own man, he’ll leave you wearing that very same suite and still don’t know how to be a man, especially not your man. If you move out of your parent’s house and get your own place, then allow him to move in with all his drama and bad karma, bumsville is closer than you think. Guard what you have it’s worth something. Somebody use to tell me “don’t take no wooden nickels”. So while many men get on the blog and throw light punches realize that if some of these ladies aren’t classy they will learn after reading these entries. Shooot, I’m hungry, these dog’on men, they a trip, always tryin to give women a hard time. Want somebody to submit to your B.S. LOL, that mess ain’t funny.

By MochaTreat

July 17, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

@MO mail call

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

Sexione I have one BIG AZZ plunger from the Acme Company (like on cartoons). It’ll suck his head straight outta his azz. I’ll send it over OMG! LMAO!!!!! Funny thing is i can picture it with the sound effects and everything. LOL!

Wise I checked out Dave’s response. Thanks for the heads up.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

hey QC….hhhmmm Musing For Real i have tried to save Travis..but he refuses to leave the battlefield….

Dang all i can do is keep giving him ammo and clips…per the MLB rule 128.5

Any member of the MLB that is engaged in a full frontal assault is allowed full access to the armory

Happy hunting Travis…here is a Med-pack too….i think you will need it

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

Musing you’re eating an awful lot……….wouldn’t be knocked up, would you? lmsao

MsU Yep, she must be! lol

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

I’m gone to the gym..i will be back….Musing here are the keys to the ammo shed if Travis needs any more

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 17, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

Truth im witcha my brotha on the unhappy married azz. its just something about pregnant azz though. make you just wanna curl up in the fettle position.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

@ Gorilla O aka ” Tha Code Cracka How in the world did you come to that conclusion. Plus I was a virgin until i got out of high school.. I couldn’t keep a boyfriend because i was afriad to have sex. well as they would say get my cherry pop I hung out with the guys who crack jokes on everybody. Do you still think we dated in high school??

By QCF

July 17, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

Slim I don’t know about that Travis seems like he may be a little “uptight” we might have to call MingLee for him…..i better check with Musing to see what he says….

By AlwaysLurking

July 17, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Question for the blog men……

If you are/were celibate (for whatever reason), would you be man enough to tell your boys and any interested woman (and the blog)? Or would you just play along like you were doing the do too?

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

Sexi I only had a bowl of cereal today…And I really like chili-slaw dogs…LOLOLOLOL…You wouldn’t have one by chance???

Musing now daydreaming about the grilled bun with lightly brushed butter….Boss Lady walking by and telling Musing to wake the fk up

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

Thanks MsU, Sexione it’s so good to have family. All this debating has made me hungry, I’m going to eat. I’ll be back!

By Foots

July 17, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

Hey DuShawn. How you been?

In the scenario above, dude had no intentions of maintaining a relationship with WD’s friend.

I can see the merit in a lot of what you said. Okay, so… In light of what’s been said by the MLB earlier, hypothetically speaking, what would the situation have looked like if he DID have intentions of maintaining a relationship with her? The guys have said that he still would have been within his rights to hit other women until she gave him some. So what would this dude actually wanting a relationship look like? What would he have done differently?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

@AW do you not like being a stepdaddy??

@MO hey 2kids do your thang girl… ^5 ABC on the latter part of your post… Truth I’m dragging you to church tonight.. SexioneLOL the plunger. What’s going on this weekend.. Kinderbabe Have you tried Wholefood cafe. I loved the tofu potpie.. me a vegetarian too.. Deshuan Hey! Where you been? It so many people blogging today Hey Everybody!!

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this

Hi folks… Wise Diva you have been reading some books girl. This blog is all the way live!!!

Thanks to all that have commented on the fact that this chick should walk. And if she does stay PLEASE just be friend. B/C if she thinks that giving him sex now will change their realtionship. She is in for even more hurt…bless her heart.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this

MsU I only have one kid. If I marry again, maybe I’ll have another! LOL And I have been tempted to try the WholeFoods Cafe but I’m not a vegetarian! :0)

Hey DuShawn

By Misty

July 17, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

I frequent this blog alot….I enjoy the topics as well as the responses although I never join the discussion. Just reading the blog is entertaining. I have one request…to better help me understand…Can someone tell me what is MLB and WLB

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

@ Foots…clarify your statment..* Even as wild as SJ3G can be sometimes* i keep it realer than most…

@ GC..how are u today?

@Sxeone..stop getting bent out of shape all the time..

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this

Musing Nope, don’t eat hotdogs too much. I’m thinking about going home and frying some flounder and steaming some fresh broccoli, though. Hmmm….

MsU Yeah girl, the blog needs a plunger ‘cause it’s full of shyt right now!! lmsao I’m not sure whats happening this weekend, but you know I’ll find out! Dang, I’m debating about paying for this reunion……..

I’m curious to hear the answers to Always Lurking’s question.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

SJ last time I checked, I was straight. lol To what are you referring dear?

By QC

July 17, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

QC’s in the “blog cafe” fixing her buddy “Musing” 2 chili/slaws dogs on toasted buns w/light butter…enjoy! oh by the give this batch of brownies to your Boss Lady for her to eat…by the way “they’re laced with Ex-Laxx” that’ll teach her to tell you to “wake the f/k up”…

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Musing I heard Zesto’s had good slaw dogs but never had one myself. Is there one in your area?

By For Real

July 17, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Bee surely getting more than 100k worth of fame and good living by his girl. I just know you aren’t implying sex with a woman is worth 100K are you? Come on now $100k??? Oh my bad you said getting more than 100k!!!! HAHAHAHAHAA that’s funny ain’t no Jerry Springer worth 100k. Not one!!!

KP didn’t decided to stop seeing Puffy. Puffy left her a long time ago. Remember Puffy’s line in Ballin? Pick a model or actress… KP just trying to save face and yall falling for it. KP got her money now she can get her tubes tied and hope she can remain on the “D-List”

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

@ Sexione… I am traveling that same journey… Referencing your 10:50 post. And i have an understanding male friend that i’m not sure why or where he came from.

By Demi

July 17, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

AlwaysLurking I keep it real…IF I AINT GETTING NONE, I JUST AINT GETTING NONE…I am not going to lie to my homies or to new chick I am dating.

On raising a child that is not your’s…IT IS THE MOST STUPIDEST THING I’VE EVER DONE IN MY LIFE…

But even if I had known of all the negative things I would have to endure…mostly from black men & women…I wouldn’t turn from the past I walk now.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

@ MOOops maybe it was MochaTreat. They serve meat also.LOL Yes but it so good. Some of their prices may be a little steep but it good.

I heard somebody mention dodon’t accept a wooded nickle from a stranger hold up my mom would say that.hmm.. let me find out my mom is blogging also!!LOL

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

Sean J So…would you like to be celibate with me?

QC You happen to have any magic brownies while you at it? Not the ex-lax ones but the ones that…how should I say…get you f/ked up. LOL

By Lady J

July 17, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

Hey Good Peolpe!!! Great blog day as usual!!!:) Take Care! Peace

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

* Always Lurking* if I was celibate I would tell everyone. Why not be honest? Plus you’d actually get more azz because the women would want to test me. HMMMMMMMMM, that may be a new strategy.

MSU The Truth ain’t steppin foot in a church. Thats not my thang baby.

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

With full mouth

QC These hotdogs are off the chain…Mmmmmm

Always Lurking I have gone through my own celibacy period…I had gotten out of a long term relationship and I really wanted to focus on the things I wanted to do…Honestly I wanted to be completely selfish and not worry about any chicks feelings or hurting anyone’s feelings..I was completely celibate for about 10 months.

By QC

July 17, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

Welcome to the blog Misty

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 1:15 PM | Link to this

Slim Zestos does have good hotdogs…Maybe I’ll stop at the one on Moreland on my way home.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

cemeeli Just thank Him and enjoy!!

MsU My mom used to say that too!!

By AlwaysLurking

July 17, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

Demi there’s a slight difference in just not getting any and purposely being celibate. I’m speaking of the latter.

Musing So were you man enough to tell the women you met (that may have wanted more) and your boys? That’s the ???

By DuShawn

July 17, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

Wuzzup ladies. Thanks for the luv. Foots I must admit, I’ve done the same thing. If I was dating a female that I really started to dig, but we had not become intimate, I would keep someone on deck to come thru late night and give me an occasional treatment. But I dayum sure wouldn’t hit it raw! However, that was then. These days, if I truly liked her, I would wait…..honestly. As I’ve gotten older the value of intercourse has diminished while the value of intimacy has increased. I’m cool with a nice bottle of wine and just holding one another and talking about life. Don’t get me wrong, it’s important that I’m reassured from time to time that I’m going to that azz eventually. Regarding Always Lurking’s question If you are/were celibate (for whatever reason), would you be man enough to tell your boys and any interested woman (and the blog)? If someome asked, I would tell them. But I can’t imagine a scenario where that topic of conversation would come up between me and my potnahs. We don’t discuss shyt like that.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

Always Lurking I never lie on my Pocket Rocket.

Sexi I agree with 3Stacks you get bent kinda quick. I am going to check Mr. Hill detention log to see if I can get a clue from there. lol.. Oh and buy the dang ticket girl. We had a good time at the park. I hadn’t seen alot of the people since we walked off the stage at the Civic Center.

By QC

July 17, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

lol @ Musing

pssst Slim, go to the blog cafe…use the “red phone” in the storage room press 6# and Shakwann will answer…just tell her how many “brownies” you need aight…i’m taking my 2 coworkers out to lunch for their birthday, i’ll check back in later…remember 6#

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

Musing There is actually one not too far from my job off Forest Pkwy. I might have to make a trip over there one day but it’s always so busy during lunch time hours.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…yes i will go celibate with you…we can hold hands…talk on the phone till we fall asleep at nite…i will even walk you to your car in the parking deck while carrying your briefcase…and all i want to do his kiss..feel on your lil booooooty…and rub on that monster truck camel toe..lol

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

SJ and ForReal Oh trust, I’m not bent, I just don’t mince words (hey, I’m a Taurus), and I can’t stand fake folks……….I shoots skraight from da hip. And I’m still smiling and chillaxin…….no bent here! lol And you won’t find my name on any detention log, I was waaayyy too smooth for that!!! plus I knew how to avoid that, but if I tell you I’ll have to kill you!* lmsao

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Always Lurking My dudes would never ask anything like that…Men really try to shy away from those kinds of talks with our buds…As far as Women are concerned, I didn’t have to tell them cause I avoided dating for an entire 10 months…I was deathly serious about not getting romantically involved with Women that entire time…I’m a bit compulsive, so if I set my mind out to do something I follow through with it until the wheels fall off…LOLOLOL

By For Real

July 17, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Chick: So you telling me that you are celibate?

For Real: Yep. I am celibate.

Chick: So if I did this and kiss your neck

For Real: (in my Prince voice) Nooo, stopppp

Chick: Ok but put your hand right here first.

For Real: Right here

Chick: Yessss

For Real: (still in my Prince) Nooo I can’t do that stopppp. No means no. I’m going into the bedroom to think about what just happened.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

ForReal I’ve only seen a few folks here and there. And I haven’t looked thru a yearbook since before mine burned up (when my apt. burned down) in 89, so I’m going strictly off of memory………..yea, right! lol Bring me your yearbook so I can catch up. lmsao

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

ForReal Oh, and where’s my clue? Thank ya slick, huh?

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this

Welcome Misty

Wazzup DuShawn, like that post, you always bring such balance to the subject.

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

As I’ve gotten older the value of intercourse has diminished while the value of intimacy has increased.

Daaaaaaaayum DuShawn!! You got any similarly minded friends? MLB: If you wanna know what makes a girl jump outta her draws…say something like that…and mean it!

By For Real

July 17, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Slim How in the Hellz any dude gonna be celibate with you when your camel toe want shut up?

Slim: I really enjoy the quiet time we spend together just doing nothing.

Dude: Yeah me too. I reall..

Camel Toe: I really would like to feel the warmth of your breath.

Slim: Huh.. go ahead and finish what you were saying trutle-monkey

Dude: Ummmm I ummm whew!!! Did you hear that?

Slim: nope but go ahead

Dude: Well ummm I was just saying you are not like the other wom…

Camel Toe: Dayummm boy you got a fat juicy tongue…

By Misty

July 17, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

I guess everyone is going to ignore my post….I underdstand….typical bloggers. Blog with only certain people…if you are not in the click then everyone totally ignores you. That’s fine….that won’t stop me from reading.

I expected an answer from Wise Diva at least.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

Slim now in stealth-mode creeping into the blogcafe looking for the ‘red phone’. When she picks it up she notices the phone only has 2 numbers on it and neither was a 6. Slim hears a faint snicker from behind the trash can only to notice For Real standing there with brown crumbs all over his mouth and a pair of Mickey Mouse ears on his crotch. Dayyummit he got to them first!

Sean J I was actually hoping for something a little different. I had planned on us taking a little trip once the weather got cold. You know get a cabin and whenever you got cold let me earmuff you.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

MLB Wooooweee Dushawn got his off speed stuff working today. Hey Du was that a circle change?

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

NC yep, I thought the same thing! Way to go DuShawn!!!

lol @ ForReal so silly!!

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

Nice strategy Dushawn. I may use that one too. Chicks are so predictable. NC he’s saying that because he’s with someone. Calm down.

Anyone notice how a battle weary Travis snuck outta here without as much as a goodbye? You get your battle ribbons now Travis. Wear them proudly. LMAO

Slim you work up the street from me. I’m furter south but in the general vicinity.

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Dayum Misty…hon, it’s not that deep.

MLB - Men Law Board WLB - Woman Law Board

Now, shake it off and join in the fun!

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Okay, NCAtl he got game, be careful ladies. ha, LOL

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

@ Misty…what u wanna know???

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Misty Sit you sensitive self down and blog more…Dang! LOLOLOL

MLB: Man Law Board WLB Woman Law Board

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this

Misty WLB= woman Law Book

MLB=Man Law Book

we just use these as rules on different things in our lives thats all

Sorry i normally catch that ok….

By Demi

July 17, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

AlwaysLurking same thing, I will still be honest if was I asked, but I am not broadcasting that shyt on B.E.T. news.

*On BET news, LorDemi has just announced: He has gone celibate…when asked why LorDemi replied, “I am the Lord, and I don’t need any p-dussy to keep me going!!”

LorDemi pass da F/K out 8 months later due to lack of pok-she

In between worlds elsewhere…God hands Demi ‘Life Time in Hellz’ tour passes

By SexyLeggs

July 17, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

Good afternoon everyone. Man it doesn’t pay to come on board late in the afternoon. Too much to read through. However, I will say this. Anna needs to BOUNCE!

By For Real

July 17, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

Sexi Straight from the hip huh??? Even when you wearing a white tennis skirt? lol.. Yeah yall taurus can be a handful when yall want to be but I have found a good Pow on the butt and yall respond.

I’m going off of memory as well but considering I don’t remember ever looking at the yearbook I’m not going to remember who was best dressed. Hellz I tried to get the money for the yearbook instead. I should have graduated in the 11th grade but Dr. Butts wasn’t hearing that. He kept making classes up for me to attend.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

Good for you Musing on your period of celibacy. I am practicing it now and with trying to date it isn’t easy. Most men don’t see the “need” to be celibate. Some have tried to persuade me to give it up because I just don’t know what I’m missing, as if I’m a virgin and never have had s_x before. LOL

By lovelyliz

July 17, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

If fidelity and honest are that important to her and he knew it, she shouldn’t just dump this guy, she should run away from him and his situation as quickly as she can.

By melo

July 17, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

@Misty, everyone is on lunch, i guess.Dont be misty eyed. Have u paid ur subscription yet anyway coz thst a priviledge accorded to paid up members?

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

For Real LMAO!!! Camel Toe: I really would like to feel the warmth of your breath Thanks to you I’ll have to go the rest of my work day w/o wearing any undies.

Misty Ooops, merely an oversight.

MLB= Men’s Little Brains aka Man Law ook/Brotherhood WLB= Women Living Better or Women Law Book

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

I was at lunch Misty, I’m SORRY! I have been saying that I should start adding WLB/MLB explanations at the bottom of my entries, LOL. It’s like this mars and venus thing that got started. The men have their man laws and the women decided to follow suit.

Welcome Misty! and cemeeli, and Charles and everyone new!

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

We sorry Misty, don’t leave, we’re having fun!

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

Lacey I tried to go an entire year but by the 10th month I was like “Who do I need to impress”…..and I really wanted some “Bumper Pool” by then, so WTH…LOLOLOLOL…But, I really needed the period of no dating just to enjoy some me time again. I did alot of self reflecting during that time…I recommend it for er’one, maybe just not for 10 months…what about 3 months? hahahahaha

By G

July 17, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

The situation gets a bit sticky if you and an ex break up for about 4 months and get back together. During that 4 month period, a pregnancy occurs. Either the BF got someone pregnant or the GF got pregnant. Whichever SO gets in that predicament, its unfortunate and complicates things IMO. It’s almost like getting prepared to have your favorite meal; then someone sticks their finger in it. They reply “my finger is clean”, but it’s just not the same.

How does a mother explain to her child he/she was conceived through a deceitful act, accident, knocked up/wedlock, or anything outside the institution of marriage? Do you lie or say nothing at all?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

I’m out everybody!! Dushawn I think I’m in luv wit ya.LOL

WLB & MLB Good night

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

@Lacey Just keep it real and enjoy life. Men are going to say that..of course. I don’t expect any less.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

Question If a Celibant had s_x in the woods and no one was there does the Celibant make a sound?

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

Truth You have been forewarned. The GPS Tracking Stalking has begun. Tracking area within a 30 mile radius of Zesto’s off Forest Pkwy. Muuuah ha ha ha j/k lol

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…lol..slim i have no problem with that.i am a pleaser..but WIFM?

By Hotlanta

July 17, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

The waiting game is all about control and is to SEE if he loves me he will wait. So if you are making someone wait on you and they cheat as you say, don’t get mad because it the game you started and be prepared to finish it. If he loves me he will be good to me and respect whether we had sex or not. They say that it is not about sex but they make it all about sex. If you haven’t had sex in a coupla of months you are celibate. But if it has been a coupla of years when you see yourself getting horny watching the squirrels honey you just ain’t getting ANY.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

GaMan now hands Misty a graham cracker and a glass of milk…now sit right here and watch how we do

j/k come on girl….you rolling with the big dogs now….you can be acting like that….oh yeah welcome

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

@ Wise Diva Hey lady…I just know this last 3 blog from u have been …how u say…’LIVE.

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

ForReal yes, esp. when I’m wearing the white tennis skirt! lol Okay, so what…band, football, basketball, what? You suck at giving clues…j/k

Slim good one! lmsao

By Demi

July 17, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

NC don’t leave this part out:

…it’s important that I’m reassured from time to time that I’m going to that azz eventually.

Most women skip out on that part…The lady I am with knew how to make a brother wait, without feeling like I will never get there.

She was well worth the 3 and a half months wait.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

Misty I am here in the official compacity representing the WLB. It is mandatory that all members of the WLB be picturetakened and cleansed in the healing soothing waters of Lake Mennatonga. I will send you your schedule dates for the above. Now if you would stand straight with your shoulder back, your head up, and your back arched with your hands together behind your back. I will take your picture for your ID badge.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

July 17, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

Okay I’m leaving this time but i had to come back and comment on Forreal celibant joke. Boy you are a mess.LOL

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

Musing So after you were let out on parole after you 10 month stint, how was the very first time out of the gate again….or did you not even make it out the gate? lol

For Real To answer you question: If a Celibant had sx in the woods and no one was there does the Celibant make a sound? Well if a celibant was having sex in the woods and no one is around then the celibant isnt having sx, they’re merely getting to know themselves better…if you know what i mean.

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

@GA man aka Big Dog Show love…That’s love, grahams and milk are always a good start. U good Misty! Welcome

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

NC he’s saying that because he’s with someone. Calm down.

Duuuuuuuh! Truthish I recognize game when I see it. Just like I recognize your BS on a daily basis! Smooches! LOLOL!!

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

Ok, I am gonna really go to Zestos..LOLOLOL…brb

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

Hahahahahaha you crazy For Real, that’s good one.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this

For Real now following Sexi around in her white tennis skirt with a fan and a long azz extention cord..

Ok you are right I do suck at giving clues but I good at wrestling. Come to Crickets on Friday and I will leave a drink order for you. Then you can ask the bartender to point me out. How is that for a clue?

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Slim you dam near told me exactly where you work. Are you trying to get me to drop in on you? LOL I’m not familiar with a zesto’s at that location. Plus I have installed anti GPS Tracking Stalking software so I could walk right up to you while your trying to find out where I am. If you keep this up I’m gonna tell the blog your wearing a Dora the Explorer panty and bra set.

G there are going to be alot of those conversations with mothers trying to explain why she doesn’t know who the father is. This shyt is off the chain. LOL

By Demi

July 17, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

For Real that sounds like a porn shoot…

Misty hey babe!!! You should have came up in here like a long lost cousin and jump right in the Kool Aid LOL!!

By For Real

July 17, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

For Real now attaching mirrors on both his shoes before entering Slim’s office..

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

NCgirl Sorry I didn’t respond earlier, but right after my last post my computer decided it didn’t like this url anymore, LOL.

Celibacy in dating - actually in the past 18 months, none of my relationships have gotten to the point where it mattered. But the last guy I dated for a decent amount of time abstained with me. Well as far as I know. It just so happens that we had broken up for a few months and when we were considering getting back together - he told me that he had gotten an old flame pregnant while we were on a break (every time I see that Friends episode, I have to laugh). Based on the date the baby was born, he had sex the day after we broke up, LOL.

But honestly, I think abstaining helps me to date with a clearer mind. I know that I am the type of woman that cannot separate the physical from the emotional. More importantly my abstaining is due to my relationship with Christ. I have considered letting go of the celibate lifestyle, but then when I think of how blessed I am in EVERY area of my life - I decide the sex isn’t worth. Satisfying my flesh is not worth letting down the God that has taken care of me all this time.

Many times during the past year I have reflected on how truly happy I am. Not the surface ‘happy’ - but I am truly content and live life to the fullest. I walk in joy daily. And this is without a man in my life. I say that because a lot of folks like to say ‘yeah you’re celibate, but you’re single’ Well single is fine with me because I have to believe that if I am to find joy with a man - I will find it in due time.

sorry for the book…

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

sean J WIFY? well you’ll be one warm broha. LOL! I might even throw in a 3 minute onenutrub. Afterall, I’m a pleaser too. Also, you know you don’t have to take the whole 3 minutes all at once. You can split that up over time.

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Ncgirl, did you just add a smooches! ha ha! Hilarious.

LOL @ ya’ll TYPICAL BLOGGERS, Misty called us out, though. haha! I saw some welcomes to her as I was catching up. so, thanks guys.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

@G How does a mother explain to her child he/she was conceived through a deceitful act, accident, knocked up/wedlock, or anything outside the institution of marriage? How we got here is irrelavent since many of us may have been concieved outside of the relm of marriage. You’ve heard the saying “next thing I know I’m pregnant” Do you lie or say nothing at all? I would say nothing at all, if my child asked me if he was born out of wedlock I would be honest and tell him the truth. JMO

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

Musing I know you aren’t trying to dip out on my question…LOL!

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

ForReal That might work, how will I know what to ask for?

Alright, I’m headed out…….check in a lil later..peace!

By Foots

July 17, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

DuShawn As I’ve gotten older the value of intercourse has diminished while the value of intimacy has increased.

Thanks for your answer, I think that what you said above is very important. It does take age and wisdom to realize that. At my age, they are running neck and neck with intimacy beating out intercourse by just a nose hair, but I’m still growing.

SJ3G I mean that you are more direct about your POV than many I meet and though you may have some views that are different than mine, I can still respect them because I know that you are capable of trying to see more than one side of a situation. I may still be a little sheltered and because of that, to me, some of your ideas may seem out there. But you come real enough with yours that sometimes I find that I agree with you a lot more than I thought I would. That being said, “boy you wild”, as my old friend would say.

P.S. Do you still like me? Check Yes or No. LOL!

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

NC did you ever tell ol boy that wanted to jump his bones or what. Blogsville wants to know. If not grab your nuts and do it.

Demi dam bruh. I have never waited 3.5 months for a chick. Either you want The Truth and put up or you don’t. Actually my game is way to tight for waiting periods. If that chick isn’t getting moist over my general convo then the spell didn’t work and I move on.

To all you lurkers, COME OUT OF THE CLOSET. Welcome to the fold Misty. The WLB will now issue you all necessary riot gear. LOL Oh yeah, that sensitivity shyt is outta place in here. Only guys use that when we want to trick the WLB outta some booty. LOL

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

Demi You are absolutely right! That’s what makes the whole thing so cool! Yes, you are going to get some. And like Miz Jackson said, “I promise, I’m worth the wait!” LOL! But seriously, women want the intimacy. If you give that sooner, you’ll probably get some sooner.

Misty Don’t fall for For Real Doh’s okey doke. There is no ritual cleansing or required uniform, or naked picture ID card. This is merely one of the many MLB background checks that they try to do on our members. Come on in girl. Slim will hook you up with a Biscuitville biscuit of your choice, QC will lay out the ground rules, especially those pertaining to Bloggerrhea* (Diarrhea of the blog) and the possible citations from Officer Musirello, and Mo will update you on the latest WLB security threats, such as Truthish’s requests to ride in the WLB whips. Once we’ve completed your background check, you will receive your handbook, learn the secret handshake, and we’ll have dinner on the MLB Classic Visa…but it will have to be cheap b/c For Real’s momma said we couldn’t spend more than $30.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee AMEN AMEN AMEN can I hear you say Amen!!

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

@ Slim aka Peaches…that suppose to be “whats in it for me”…but i see u are giving me me 3 minutes…180 seconds..what am i suppose to do what that??? i need more time..so u need to put more quarters in the peter beater meter..

By For Real

July 17, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

Demi No, no it’s an ID badge.

LaceyP if my child asked me if he was born out of wedlock I would be honest and tell him the truth. Yo daddy was married. j/k

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

Hey Misty and welcome to the Blog. Once NCGirl has given the okay I will let you in on the possible security th….hold on, got an emergency I need to handle. Mo now scoping out For Real as he tries to enter Slim’s office with mirrors on the shoes

SlimOne For Real is at it again…

By Blatino aka BMW aka BLT

July 17, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

…. and, NCGirl, you forrgot to mention stay the hellz away from the Blatino… He’s got his ho-wings back…

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

Truth Please be advised that I have ANTI-anti GPS Tracking Stalking software. LOL! And if you told everyone about me wearing Dora Undies you’d be lying because For Real caused me to soil myself earlier and I’m not wearing anything but earrings and a Birth Control Patch.

Slim now being escorted out again by security exposing her Kibbles n’ Bits and ashy ankles to the whole office

By For Real

July 17, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

NC and dude after 2nd date…

Dude: Hey Summer Bunny here you go. I heard you loud and clear.

NC: Oleeee chile what is this?

Dude: It’s a box of intimacy. Now come on up stairs and get Nasty like Miz Jackson.

By Demi

July 17, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

Tazzee I thought so, you are one bad…chick, LOL

You right, when sex is out of the picture, you date with a much clearer mind…

*QUESTION: * Now that I am in a relationship, WHY some of my ladies friends are are trying to get with me??!! AND how in the hellz do they know I am in a relationship…I haven’t spoke to them in months.

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

@ Tazzee Thanks for saying all of that. It is the spiritual relationship that actually KEEPS the celibancy. I know with me that is what’s keeping me. I am always contiplating whether i should go ahead. But the the ‘KEEP’ in me says … OKAY you have been content (abstaining) all this time now WHO is WORTHY of this …Your blessing. I even had friend (girlfriend) to say WHY am i abstaining? It makes a less emotional me actually.

There is nothing better than being a virtuous woman.

By Foots

July 17, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

Demi Most women skip out on that part…The lady I am with knew how to make a brother wait, without feeling like I will never get there.

Now, I did read that part, and I agree. Of course we’ll get there, it’s not like men are the only ones to get something out of the deal, or to be missing something while it’s not happening. So yeah, it’s not like there won’t be any contact while we’re deciding whether we want to deal with each other like that.

So…are you saying that you waited three and a half months to have sex together and you both had things on the side? Or did you abstain the whole time?

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

G long time no see. where ya been? I’ve been lurking for you for a while, you did a flip mo squad on me.

By QC

July 17, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Good looking out NCGirl dang For Real’s Mom still got control of the Visa card?

Don’t Misty only MLB members get the bloggerrhea food when they’re acting up….trust, they never turn down “free cyber food”

Slim so For Real got to the brownies before you eh? We’ll fix him…

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

GaMan now has to tagle up phone cords and wires…so the WLB wont give Misty all the right information on us…..now when they call..they will reach “Uncle Joe’s BBQ Shack”

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this

Slim I’ll just say ol’girl was trying to invite me over to her place er’other night…LOLOLOLOL…Have you ever awaken at about 5am on a weekday and realize you’ve got nothing to wear and you need to be at work in 3 hours, caught on the complete opposite side of town??? LOLOLOLOL

By Foots

July 17, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

I’m all caught in my reading and I must say Y’ALL ARE STRAIGHT CRAZY!!

Just had to get that off my chest. Now back to your regularly scheduled blogging…

By NCGirlfromATL

July 17, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Thanks Tazzee! That was a great response! I guess a lot of women approach relationships from the “making a mental connection” perspective, while men tend to lead w/ little Magic and then worry about mental connection if she later sparks his interest. Now, if I could meet a single guy who was just as interested (if not more) in intimacy than intercourse, the intercourse would be so much more enticing. Wow…that would be sooooooo coooooool! LOL!!!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

Newcomers Please be aware of Truth da Trickster He’s like an image you’d see in a Fun House…It’s not real…It’s not real.

NC we’ll have dinner on the MLB Classic Visa…but it will have to be cheap b/c For Real’s momma said we couldn’t spend more than $30. LOLOLOLOL…I’m about to cry over here gurl! We must be going out for Krystal burgers or for fondu. lol

SeanJ I know what WIFM is….I came back with WIFY…what’s in it for you..lol You must didn’t read my post carefully. I’ve given you a free 3-minute OneNutRub…so no need to put money in the Peter Beater Meter. We’ll do that in our 127th month of celibacy.

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

Do men ever think that their sex game is the only thing keeping them in the game? Like maybe your personality needs some work so that you are enticing in more than one way? Same question to the ladies.

If you take physical contact out of the picture, do you think you could keep a man/woman interested?

By G

July 17, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

What it is Ms Purple? WD finally had a topic to real me back in here. Been hang’n at that PlayDate lately. I will have to arrive a bit earlier to get a good game spot.

On Topic Women: If a man’s MO does not / has never included waiting more than a week or two prior to meeting you, what makes you think that’s going to change? Maybe I’m missing something.

Men: I don’t understand how some of us have the time, energy, and selfishness to lie about waiting. You are holding her up from the next man that may be sincere about waiting. There are enough women in ATL to tailor your needs. Quit tinkling in the pool.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

@ Foots…. i dont think u are that sheltered..i think u had a good foundation and it has helped u to make good decisions as an adult..u have your head on straight and u are strong minded and strong willed..cant help but respect that…as far as still liking you…i checked yes..

By Foots

July 17, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

AND how in the hellz do they know I am in a relationship…I haven’t spoke to them in months.

I have never been able to figure that one out. It’s like they install GPS tracking devices on the wang, ain’t it? During my last relationship, I had one cold drop-by-the-house, one guy friend I dated in college to call me to tell me that he was getting a divorce, an ex who decided that he’d be Chatty Cathy after we didn’t speak for years… It’s like they can smell it on you. Calling Slim/For Real/NC/Musing… You got a skit for this?

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

NCgirl I need clearance too. I dont want to be up in here bootleg. I have been pre-approved by Wise Diva’s shout out!

Holla Back!!

By Demi

July 17, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

I abstain the whole time. Soooooooo, it was 5 1/2 months of no sex for me…I think it was a little longer for her. While I am not ready for marriage, I was looking for a positive and worth while relationship…which I have now.

By MissJ4ya

July 17, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

Can we all say……….. “RUN” !!!!!!!

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

After reading you ladies post I have must agree with you. Sex is so overrated while intimacy is so much better. Those warm feelings you get when your sharing your innermost feelings are the best. Wow, today has been such a great blog day.

Tazz I’m so happy your spiritual and physical being are acting as one. I can feel the joy in your posts.

Fellas, am I wrong or did some sissy come in here yesterday telling us what he likes in a man? Wrong blog dude, or chick. WTFever.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

Demi There’s something about a ‘kept man’ that tends to attract the opposite sex. As far as how they know when you haven’t talked to them is beyond me. Sounds like you may need to get some of that Anti-stalking software Truth has.

Musing You know what….I’m guilty as charged. Either you barely get any sleep to go all the way home to change, call in, or make it a Wal-mart dressed day. Ish, wally world is open 24/7. lol

By whatever

July 17, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

Dump this loser… they are not compatible… she is the type that wants to be sure, and he is the type that can’t keep it in his pants long enough to see if this is right girl.

By Foots

July 17, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this

Demi You did good. I agree that it’s a good way to clear your head and I totally respect Tazzee’s POV. It’s so much easier to practice it when you have a clear vision of why you are doing it and have enough conviction about it to not let others sway you about your decision.

That being said…

That peter beater meter thing was hella funny! LMAO!!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this

Wise Well how bout we all particpate in a little study and get real live experience to answer your question. We can all stop doing the do and see how it changes our dating lives.

All in favor of a blogville-wide celibacy trial period say AYE!

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Demi it’s the debil!!! Just kidding, but I have had many instances when an ex will call RIGHT AFTER I hang up the phone arguing with a guy I’m currently dating. I’ve had guys come out of the woodwork just as soon as I get settled in a relationship, I guess I have that ‘glow’ that folks talk about.

The Truth thanks man that is you, isn’t it, LOL

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

The Truth, I like to welcome all readers, you don’t have to read their posts, if we can listen to you talk about your swinging parties, and threesomes, then seriously…you shouldn’t say jack about anybody else chiming in! LOL

By MochaTreat

July 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

@The Truth Fellas, am I wrong or did some sissy come in here yesterday telling us what he likes in a man? Wrong blog dude, or chick. WTFever. NO, you were not wrong…that is what HE said.

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ Foots…Maybe the have special powers?

3pm Meeting at the Justice League

Batman: Today we want to welcome the new recruits…Er’one stand and tell us your super power…How about you, what’s your name and power.

Dude stands up

Hello, I am “WhippedMan”…I have the power to sense when any of my Ex’s are getting banged out…I have the ability to cry like a lil’itch and I have begging powers of Keith Sweat.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

@ G I have to check out play date, I’ve gotten alot of good reviews about it.

Not every man is out there smashing every women he’s in a relationship with. Some men do wait and know how to wait. It’s by his own timing.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

Foots AND how in the hellz do they know I am in a relationship…I haven’t spoke to them in months. This is me now that I am divorced. Its seems like everybody wants to profess how thwy have always loved me now and they are calling my mother’s house trying to get in touch with me. I even had one ex that saw my sister and dayum near followed her to her car trying to get my info. Its like a public service announcement went out…”Attention Please! Please be advised that Mo is now single after 8yrs, again Mo is now single after 8yrs! Feel free to contact her at 404 555-6378!”

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

Ladies My BS meter is going off and I it seems to get louder when I point it in Truth da Tricksters direction. His 3:12 is off the meter! Don’t fall for his tricky trap.

Truth I noticed that post too but I didn’t even know what to say so I act like i never read it. LOL!

By For Real

July 17, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

Off Topic: I was at lunch today at this rib shack and this is what this women ordered:

WHY??????????????

By Foots

July 17, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

SJ3G Thanks man. I luvs you too. Now I’ll ask Truth…

Truth Do you like me? Here are your choices:

• Yes
• No
• I Don’t Know, We Haven’t Had Sex Yet

LOL! I was just reading the sarcastic first paragraph of your 3:12 post and I had to laugh. I was with my man the other night and after we greeted each other (ahem, for about two hours), we listened to some music, with me being the DJ on iTunes, playing stuff I know that he hasn’t heard in a while and talking about good times in high school. Like II D Extreme “Cry No More”, Raab “Foreplay”, Teddy P/Stephanie’s version of “Feel the Fire”. Anyway, I said “You know what? This is the best part.” He gave me the gas face. But then he admitted that it ran a close second to the greeting we had. LOL!!

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

July 17, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

Ok all it’s that time…time for GaMan to fly outta here…but as always

But if you got problems…put GOD in them..he can fix anything….you can take that to the bank….

One Love….MLB for Life

By QC

July 17, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

@ SlimOne “aye”

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

Truth are you still in here talking that craziness.

Great 2:29 Post Tazzee.

“Like maybe your personality needs some work so that you are enticing in more than one way?” Wise Diva that is something that I realize after I started practicing celibacy. I needed to step my whole receptive and aggresive approach.

By Jeff

July 17, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

How stupid would you have to be to even ask if you should stay???? GEEZ!

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

WD actually I shouldn’t have said anything because nobody responded to his azz. LOL

Slim I am sincere. Why is it when I try to enjoy everyones feelings I get called bs. Thats not right. Lets hug and make up. You should apologize. I’m all for a period of celibacy if its going to make me a better person. Who’s joining in? This is going to be fun.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

Foots now receiving a certified letter summoning her to greet all members of the MLB every morning for two hours

By Staceye

July 17, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Travis Smith I have my own crib, car and no kids. I feel why should I have to deal with a man with his baby mama drama? I am not bringing that to the table so why should date a man with a young child? If i had a kid then of course I would be a hypocrite to feel that way. When I tell a guy that I just meet that I have no kids he says I am a hot commodity and a peral because I do not bring that to him. So I expect the same.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

For Real she needed the Diet Coke to rinse all that out of her system. ha, LOL that does sound like alot of food though!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

How long should our Celibacy Trial Period last? Any suggestions

By MusingLee

July 17, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

For Real LOLOL…I guess some one is watching their figure? Hellz, she ordered the diet coke she should have just gotten the whole rack of ribs.

By Demi

July 17, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

Truth I realize that good ‘P’ is just as available as good ‘D’, but it’s not easy finding a good man or woman to go along with the good Ps & Ds. So I simply decided to chill out, date, narrow down my choices, and then pick the one woman who interest me the most…yes I was praying that sex was good as our convos…And it worked out for me. LOL

Wise Yes your li’bro is a freak, but I understand better now why ladies throw me into the FZ after getting to know me, LOL

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

that is a great idea Slimone! I say “AYE”!

By LEWL

July 17, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

sounds like they are black….i’m not surprised. Please stop posting stereotypical BS.

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

Truth Thanks for supporting the benifit. I agree intamacy is soooo much better. And intercourse is so overrated.

Oh I remeber dude from yesturday…i just when :-000))). And erased it! WOW.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Hey Slimone, “Aye” Let’s do it maybe we all learn something new about ourselves. LOL yeah I know what the ladies will learn, sometimes it’s hard looking at a fine man and controlling your thoughts.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Hey Slimone, “Aye” Let’s do it maybe we all learn something new about ourselves. LOL yeah I know what the ladies will learn, sometimes it’s hard looking at a fine man and controlling your thoughts.

By SexyLeggs

July 17, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

SlimOne your 2:47 post had me spitting out my tea….too funny! You guys are da chain today. Wished I hadn’t chimed in so late. Catching up is a biatch!!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

July 17, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

SlimOne “aye”, what’s the time frame and when do we start?

By Jiga

July 17, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

Tazzee,girl gees i didnt know u spiritual like that!But its funny though how a lot of the playmates and playboys who have since passed are in heaven!LOL Get ur sin on once in a while girl!! Celibating is like hell on earth, why endure the pain?

By Jay

July 17, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

@For Real-We were just talking about that at lunch today. You might as well get the real thing baby. What’s a few thousand more calories gonna hurt? LOL-sounds like she’s eating Thanksgiving dinner.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Hey, SlimOne it should last at least 3 to 6 months, you don’t start to sweat until around this time. You have to begin the cleansing process. By the time you reach you sixth month your mind starts to wonder, everyone will need serious support at this point.

By Staceye

July 17, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Aggressively witty* I have to agree with everything you just said about the drama. I got a friend and his ex just has a bay 2 months ago and she is nothing but nuts and full of drama. They are not even together but she knows he and I used to date and she is trippin’ and thinking I want her child. I am like honey I have none of my own…why the hell would I want yours?

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

Foots I don’t know, we haven’t had sex yet. Just sayin. Of course I love you. Come here and give me a big azz hug. Dam my arms are tired.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 17, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

MsU…have you gotten over your issue. i hope so because we really could’ve had something. lol

@Staceye commenting on your comment to travis the thing is, if you had a child you would expect for a man to deal with him/her. having a child is not a death sentence. you should respect a man with a child and handling his business. but i guess you couldnt deal with it because he’s not the “perfect” man. like i said in my statement earlier, enjoy lonely nights watching “The Lifetime Network” and “Snapped”!

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

If you take physical contact out of the picture, do you think you could keep a man/woman interested? Both parties have to agree to remove the “physical contact”…….then, yes. But I wouldn’t want to remove all physical contact.

By SexyLeggs

July 17, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

Welcome Misty.

By For Real

July 17, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

For Real swings by Slim’s house to drop off a Molotov Cocktail for trying to start a Celibant Club

For Real now running barefeet over to Phoots house with his celibate condums to be properly greeted.

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Truth * I’m all for a period of celibacy if its going to make me a better person. Who’s joining in? This is going to be fun* I must admit you make me want to look the meaning of celibacy again. Sounds like another word for orgy let you tell it. lol

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

I say we try for 90 days. 3 months should be enough to begin cleansing the soul, right? Can I still beat off?

By Jay

July 17, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

@Slim-you’re a trip girl. Aye-ll do my best!

By For Real

July 17, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

Sexi What is your favorite drink?

Question:

How can you have inti-macy without physical contact?

By QC

July 17, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

lol @ Foots….*

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

not that it matters LEWL but my friend is not African American, and neither is the guy who is about to become a father.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

NO Truth you can not beat nothin. You have just leave it alone, no blowing, beating, no moisture other than water and soap. Got that!!!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

Men Are you all vouching out of the CTP (Celibacy Trial Period) You scerrrd say you scerrrd!

So do you all want to start off slow with 3 months or what?

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…how long would u make me wait?

By For Real

July 17, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Day 3 of For Real’s celibacy at about 3am….

For Real’s Pocket Rocket: Ay, ay man wake yo azz up.

For Real: Huh what who the fu…

Pocket Rocket: It me you stupid mittyficky.

For Real: What you want. Go back to sleep we celibants now.

Pocket Rocket: No we ain’t I didn’t agree to ish

For Real: Look I’m in charge and I say we are celibants. Now go to sleep.

Pocket Rocket: We will see. I’m hold my breath until I get some Jerry Springer

By For Real

July 17, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Truth now running to Costco to buy 123 bars of soap.

By Foots

July 17, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

Slim Girl, I can only do one 2 hour greeting per day. Don’t want my mouth to go all dry and such.

4Real, you are up first for tomorrow’s greeting… LOL!!

LOL @ Musing! You silly!!

On the serious tip:

If you take physical contact out of the picture, do you think you could keep a man/woman interested?

Of course, I’d like to think so. I feel like I have much value outside of that. It’s only one part of who I am and I’d like for a man to be interested in ALL of me. I try to keep myself (and my mind) busy and active so that there’s more to my conversation and thought pattern than setting up the next “greeting”.

That being said….

Slim/Ladylike 3 to 6 months!!! I do that between relationships all the time, that’s nothing! That’s just enough time for me to run through an 8-pack of AA’s. LOL!!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

Ladylike You know Tricky Truth will find a loop hole in anything. He’ll chuck it up as he was just cleaning Reeaaalll Hard and it happened by mistake.

Truth’s girl now wearing shower shoes with Clorox wipe soles whenever she takes a shower at his house

By Demi

July 17, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

Ladylike no rubbing manhood on the bed while yelling JANET huh? LOL

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

ok, I keep thinking about that episode of Seinfeld, LOL. Master of my Domain. I miss that show

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

Wait a dam minute. I didn’t know I couldn’t get off myself. This is going to be tough. Lets start with 3 days and we’ll go from there. Tazz is playing with the buttons, why can’t I? also, if my ex gf comes over can I get a waiver to tap that azz?

By QC

July 17, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

Slim, i’ve been on the “celibacy” trip for a while now

By cemeeli

July 17, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

Hey i have given dudes invitaions to walk and go find a new girl, go back to ex and or do both. Because as mention I am practicing celibancy and he stills

By Staceye

July 17, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

SeanJohnson3000 & Musin Lee go easy on Misty…she’s a Blog virgin. Ease her in….wait, not dry! Oh the pain! You’ve just touched her in the No No Spot! Lube her…I mean Love her! LOL Just messing with you Misty!

By QC

July 17, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

lmoa @ ForReal “it’s me mittyficky

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

Foots that’s rare for others, many people just don’t know how to go without. I go without for this period and longer, but I remember when I first started. hahaha, LOL it gets hot sometimes, and I would be all by myself. while I’m dreaming I thinking, I know I got the air conditioner on here! LOL

By DuShawn

July 17, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

“Do men ever think that their sex game is the only thing keeping them in the game?” Wise (at the risk of sounding arrogant.) In my case, the pipe game is just the icing on the cake. The charm, wit and intellect are what always got them. I never take myself to seriously and I’m a fun and exciting dude to hang out with. When I look back over my dating career, I never really had to try hard to attract women. If I could just get them to listen to me for a moment, it was a wrap. Although I have evolved to recognize the value of intimacy and the importance of waiting (for females) to evaluate ones character and true intentions, I rarely had to. I was blessed with a gift of gab to get girls. Although special, I’m not unique. There are plenty of fellas out there (some prolly in this forum) with that same confident swagger. I think that’s why until a man reaches a certain level of maturity, the concept of self imposed celibacy for the sake of some new azz is not only foreign but a ridiculous thought. Until you meet that one worth waiting for. That’s when the process of getting to know the lady is so fulfilling it supersedes the man’s desire to get in her panties.

By Demi

July 17, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

Slim I text my girl: I AM THINKING OF HOLDING OFF ON SEX…her reply: COOL, CAN I KICK YOU IN THE SACK EACH TIME YOUR SEEDS ARE LATE…BOY DON’T PLAY WITH ME!!

I will pass on the Celibacy Trial.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this

It’s amazing as to the desperate thoughts that come when you decide to restrain, Demi…you crazy, LOL, leave Janet alone, she saving it till marriage.

By The Truth

July 17, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

“If you take physical contact out of the picture, do you think you could keep a man/woman interested?”

Because I’m a worldy fella that has done and seen alot I know I could keep a womans interest. Actually thats what I capture first anyway, her mind, thats why I never have to wait for the puddy. Grab the head and the body will follow.

Foots I would like a 2 hr greeting tomorrow morning. If not then I’m next in line.

By SexyLeggs

July 17, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

Truth, you are too funny. Let’s start w/3 days…too funny!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

Sean J3 It depends…If you took me to Ci Ci’s Pizza I’d make you wait 69 minutes. If we just hung out and you offered me a glass of tap water, you’d have to wait 1,568,897 hours.

4Real Day 3 dawg? LOL!

Hour 2 of Slim’s celibacy

Slim: uh-oh. I think i’m getting that feeling down there.

Mr. Bullet: Oh Yeah, I’ve been thinking bout you all day. When are you going to take me out for a spin?

Slim: Oh No! I can’t anymore. I took a vow of Celibacy with some other bloggers.

MB: You did what! Have you lost..look here baby. We got off on the wrong foot. Celibacy is abstaining from sx right?

Slim: yeah, and?

MB: well technically what we do isn’t sx right?

Slim: shrugs shoulders slowly I guess it’s not.

MB: well baby, it’s all good then. buzz buzz See you know I know how you like it. Come on and take daddy for a spin.

Slim breaks out in a cold sweat and starts shaking like Pookie in New Jack City

Slim: It just be callin me….c-c-calling me

MB: BUZZ BUZZ..buzz buzz oh yeah I knew you couldn’t resist me babebzzz bzzzz

Slim now wondering how in the hellz she is going to explain this to the CPTG

By Jiga

July 17, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

lewlPlease stop posting stereotypical BS. Get ur own blog,mafacher.

By QC

July 17, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

Good looking out Staceye

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

lmsao @ ForReal you are a mess!! I have a few….Long Beach Tea (bartender has to know the difference, or I’ll skool ‘em)…..

lol @ Foots

Truth you are hopeless!! lol

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

Sorry DuShawn many men are still working up to this point. “The charm, wit and intellect are what always got them. I never take myself to seriously and I’m a fun and exciting dude to hang out with.”

And Truth if get a waiver we all should get one, and none of us should be using AA or AAA batteries for flirty electronic devices. make a sister cry tears, it’s hard I tell ya!

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

July 17, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

It’s been good as usual. Good nite and be save

Peace!

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Demi You don’t think it’ll be fun to find other ways other than sx to please your lady? That could be exciting depending on how creative you are.

Foots ohh you naughty naughty girl. How long did you say you can hold your breath again? lol

By MELO

July 17, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Whats the point in taking that celibacy vow when u ladies are going to use the bullet? I’m sure even Tazzee is prophesing celibacy but shoving somelifeless instru down there!!

By Staceye

July 17, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva I can go without sex. I am doing it right now. I was with someone for a while and we were like jack rabbits…but after him I took a vow of celibacy. I said I would hold out for my next relationship and even then I would take it slow before letting him through the Goldn Gates. The first two months were ok…but now I am like Pookie on new Jack City….I’m fiending! It’s gotten so bad evenTruth & SeanJohnson3000 are starting to sound good! Oh my gosh Slim…Sexione save a sista’ from herself!

By SexyLeggs

July 17, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

I’m hollering over here. Not like Pookie in New Jack City.

By blanston

July 17, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this

you have to be kidding. these questions are for real. wise dive, you are stupid and so is your loser girlfriend. i hope i never get involved with women as weak as yourselves.

By QC

July 17, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

have a great evening Bloggers….

Demi, are you “sure” you would pass the CTB? j/k :)

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

lmsao @ Slim gurl, you’ve been hanging around Musing wwaaaayyy too long!!!! LOL good thing I’m at home

Have a great evening all.

By Staceye

July 17, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

*Gorilla O aka “Tha Code Cracka” * If I had a child then I would date a guy with a child so we would be on equalplaying fields….just like I prefer a man without one now so we are equal.

By Ladylike

July 17, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

hahahaha, yeah Staceye pookie got the shaks and everything.

Have a great evening you guys, it’s all good…one day at a time.

Peace

By Foots

July 17, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

Truth No greeting for you! Ain’t no mo!! Cause you on piddy restriddy for 3 months!! LOL!

mittyficky Okay, now THAT has ish is stoopid!! I’m gone have to use that!! LOLOLOL!!

Slim Now you KNOW you are crazy!! Sounds like a conversation I’m going to have tonight though…

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

WOW, blanston, are you ALWAYS this charming!?

ha ha!

and Thanks for chiming in smooches

By SlimOne

July 17, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

Ladies Quick quick!, someone go grab the relase kit and the water hose for just an ocassion like this. (shoots out 13 degree water temperature) Staceye is having a Pookie Episode.

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Actually MELO I don’t do toys. That’s like me with diet colas - if I can’t have the real thing, I’ll just drink water.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 17, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this

@ Staceye…dont fight the feeling…just come on in…this wont hurt a bit…well maybe a little..but it hurt so good…

By Sexione

July 17, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Slim Activate the WLB (MLB sponsored…although they can’t figure out how…muahh haha ha) protective cup…..Staceye is in trouble…

Sexi now heads off to gear up

By SexyLeggs

July 17, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Blanston Although WiseDiva welcomes new bloggers, this blog family doesn’t. How dare you call someone stupid. Your lame brain a$$ is the stupid one…now GET!!!!

By Tazzee

July 17, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

blanston - don’t worry, I doubt Wise Diva would give someone like you a second look.

By Demi

July 17, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

SlimOne my girl is 40 and peaking…I don’t think it wise to remove sex from the picture just yet…we are going skydiving this weekend…so you know we’re wild, LOL

By Wise Diva

July 17, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

Have a great evening everyone

By MELO

July 17, 2007 5:07 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee, i commend u, u pure then. I will recommend u when i see some guy worthy.

Never ever follow Slim and Mocha’s in this celibacy thing, they will hoodwink u and get it on the side..lol

By Freddy K.

July 18, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

Got a question here. Are these guys going to take care of these babies and be a prt of their lives or are they just going say I got children and that’s it?