By Sexione

July 27, 2007 8:20 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Everybody!!!!

Sexi looking around blogville……hello, hello, hello…anybody here? Oh well, may as well fix some drinks…..hehehehe

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 8:25 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Coffee and doughnuts,fresh fruit and juice

Be back later Lil GaMan and I are off to the movies….gonna see a rat that cooks…..lol

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 8:28 AM | Link to this

TGIF!!!!

For Real I saw Little Miss Sunshine last night. That was a very interesting movie to say the least.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 8:31 AM | Link to this

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 8:36 AM | Link to this

good morning, slimone and GAman:) i have to think on this dating rules thing. i’ll get around to it a couple of posts later…lol.

GAman sounds like you’re going to see ratatouille (sp?)…make sure you give us a review on that.:)

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Bella over the last 2 or three relationships i have had cell phone issues. Some women are really caught up over whose calling you on your cell and whose texting you. If you do not pay my cell phone bill, DO NOT ANSWER IT OR TRY TO CHECK MY TEXTS!!! (even if you did pay it you still cant check it!!!) I dont know if the rest of the bloggers have had their BF or GF try to check their messages or calls but i have. **RULE #1 If I dont go in your phone dont go in mine! Privacy is a must!!!

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 8:43 AM | Link to this

Rules….hmmmm

Yep Slim, Don’t try to talk to me if you’re married!

Don’t try to mislead me into thinking you want more than just the one thing I know you want!

Don’t lie to me!

Don’t ask me to do anything for you that you wouldn’t do for me!

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 8:45 AM | Link to this

Good Merting Bloggers

Hey Sexione, GA.man, SlimOne, WLB/MLB, erry’boddy

Bella your topics have really been off da chain this weeks, congrats!

The #1 dating rule i have is just please, please have a job don’t lie about where you work, or something you don’t have…it’s soooo not hard to please QC i’m the nicest, sweetest, caring, loving person you’ll ever meet in your life It’s the little things that impress me the most Just be yourself! You can tell me you love me without a ring, just be sincere about it Sometimes you can’t help it if you’re attracted to your friends ex after 5 years it should be all good, but i would still talk to my girl about it, not to ask “her permission” but to let her know, yes we’re attracted to each other; & in the process of “possibly persuing a relationship”…That’s my $1.15 worth of comments, after dating someone for a year if it’s not going anywhere i would end it…well have a great day all, i’ll check back later!

QC is thirsty….hopefully Sexieone made some “Mimosa’s”

By M.

July 27, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog

My rules would be that until we have “The TALK”, that we are just dating and not together. Don’t get the situation confused and automatically sign yourself up as the #1 contender.

Also if you aren’t interested in someone, don’t waste their time, money, energy, resources, text messages, dinners, movies, emails, etc…

@ Travis

You are telling the truth! This happened to me last weekend. Went out to the Velvet Room, she got drunk started going crazy, took my phone and locked herself in the room and starting going through numbers, text, and pictures. She got her feelings hurt…..

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this

Hey Gaman,Kinder,Sexione,Travis,demi,SJ3K,4Real,Musing,Mo,Mocha,Mochalatte,QC,…EVERYbody

Travis How old are you?

BELLA So you don’t believe a person should make it known that they love you unless they are prepared to propose? I find that a little baffling. Please elaborate if you would

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

Travis I haven’t had that one! And the only persons phone I will go thru is my childs…….and that’s my job!! lol

Heeeyyyy QC You know I have the Mimosas for everybody!! Ladies first……. lol

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this

I feel you sexione dont lie!!! Dont tell me your independent and then turn around and ask 4 help on one of your bills!!! If you so independent you need to go out and get that money up independently!!!!

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this

M Was this person you just met at the Velvet Room or someone you’ve been dating for a while? What was the outcome of that situation?

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

@ M * that cell phone will break a relationship up or start one from happening!!! *@ Slimone Im 25 @sexione I lay my phone down and have it on a certain contact, then i leave the room or go to the restroom just to see if she touches it!!!

By M.

July 27, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this

@ SlimOne

No, it’s someone that I have been talking to for a while. We all were there to celebrate a coworkers birthday so I invited her and the rest was history. I guess the outcome was just her continually being mad, but I would not go through your phone, so I just didnt understand her need to go through mind. I guess she’s not that mad, she keeps calling…

By Mimi

July 27, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this

for me it’s quiet simple. I mean… I have freinds, a job, a family, hobbies… you know. So please if I decide to cut a little bit of my time with my girls…. it might be because… I’m interested. so

But I’m a nice person I just don’t like waisting my time.. and I hate when people play with my feeling, I don’t play any games, I don’t know the rules anyway (and I don’t want to know)so….

that’s it….

everyone have a great day

:)

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Travis I can lock the applications on my phone. So if i leave the room they can open my phone and think they’re about to get the juicy…but “ENTER PASSWORD” will come up on the screen. Can’t see text msgs, call history, pictures, or videos. (Just have to remember to lock it up)

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

Travis huh? Now how did we go from cell phone to help with a bill? And just for the record, independent folks at some point in life can need help too. Just because one is independent doesn’t mean they are inhuman! Maybe that is the “25” in you speaking…………hmmmm

By Biff

July 27, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

Don’t go out with me if you aren’t going to give it up.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha

July 27, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this

Hey guys!! Just checking in on you all from Richmond, VA. Man those folks had the courthouse (and around it) on lock for Vick yesterday

Its good to see the MLB stepping up on the breakfast thing!

on topic I agree with whomever said it earlier: DO NOT tell me you love after 5mins of knowing me, no calling me anything but ‘Mo’, DO NOT try to monopolize every moment of my time like we have been dating forever, DO NOT smother me and DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!!!

QCF Thanks for holding it down

For Real can you give me a song, PLEEEZE!!

MochaTreat I didnt get mail cause I am not at home, give me your email addy and I’ll hit you from here in VA

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

I never understood the purpose of going thru your mates cell phone are you that insecure cause that’s all it is…so what if he/she talks to other people during your relationship? As long as you know you’re the one then don’t trip! Geesh, i honestly can not stand that, just like M said you’ll get your feelings hurt cause you might just see a name/number in there and be shocked! That’s grounds to not even answer my phone when you call…just get over it, act like an adult….

QC needs a re-fill Sexione

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Biff Do you make it known upfront that a chick must give it up to go out with you?

M She is probably mad but thinks since she knows whatever it is she found out, that you won’t keep doing it since its out in the open…hence her still calling. Did she find out you were sxing up some other girl or what?

I’m guilty of doing that in the past and got my feelings hurt all the time. Lesson learned. I don’t go looking for trouble anymore and It’ll come out eventually if i need to know. Got tired of living so guarded every time that person got a text or phone call he wouldn’t answer.

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

SlimOne that’s exactly how my phone is….Biff what are you talking about….give up what dear????

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

Another round of Mimosas……QC where’s your big azz cup, I’m gonna fill it to the rim! lol And you’re exactly right about the insecurity……..going thru someones phone, that’s very juvenile!

Hey Mo, how’s the weather in Richmond?

What’s going on with the NBAF this weekend?

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

@ SLIMONE I shouldnt have to lock my phone just to keep someone from being nosy!!! Its real simple IF ITS NOT YOURS DONT TOUCH!!! @ sexione its not the age speaking its the truth dont talk about what all you have,(material) and have accomplished in life and how your so independent, when you really need help. Not everyone can drive a BENZ someone has to drive the FORD FOCUS. Its all about staying in your lane if your independent!!!! You wouldnt need any help if you stop tryna live like the jones and stay in your lane. The BENZ PAYMENT IS 600 a month but you need a 100 because your short. The Ford Focus payment is 275 a month you just saved 325 buy staying in your lane!!!

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this

i’m not sure how we got on the phone thing but that certainly would be a rule of mine…don’t go through my phone. respect my privacy. that’s a given though. i have never gone through anyone’s phone. that’s just too much.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…sup Slim..sup QC…sup Moeiesha in VA..TGIF

By Mo (now known as Moeisha

July 27, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Sexione Its hot as usual here!! WHEW!! I WANT A MIMOSA TOO! Someone have one for me!!

Hey *Kinderbabe! I agree with you guys about the cell phone too. Even though some people dont like to agree, RESPECT my privacy….RESPECT!!!

By Lola

July 27, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

When I was dating, there were three questions I always asked the guy on a first date. Before asking them, I let my date know that I was about to ask them three very important and potentially controversial things, but that a wrong answer to any of them was a deal breaker.

1) Have you always been a man? 2) Have you ever been with another man? 3) Do you believe in God?

The correct answers to those are “No”, “No”, and “Yes”. Anything beside those three answers was a definite deal-breaker. I would now also add a fourth:

4) Do you have any felony convictions?

I figure the other stuff can be worked out, as long as those four are answered in the right way.

By melo

July 27, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

Good morning all. Mines would be: 1) the fact that we had sex don’t mean we now husband and wife 2) Dont play hard to get but start blowing up my 4ne, all of a sudden once we do the tango 3)Please respect my privacy, if u want to visit my place, let me know..dont sneak on me. 4) Why do we all of a sudden have to talk about where we are? we just had sex, thats all..lets enjoy the ride and see where it takes us!

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

Travis sounds like you’ve been burned. sry! Look at it this way (or at least try to), every woman that may need help from time to time is not spending beyond her means, or trying to keep up (as you say). And all women don’t go around spouting off about what she has or has accomplished. That’s what the insecure, immature ones do.

Question…..(for the men mostly)

If your SO (not just some random chick) was struggling financially (not necessarily all the time, just maybe with a bill here or there), would you offer to help? Or would you just sit by and watch her struggle? What if she never asked for your help, would you offer?

Ladies….

If your SO knew you were having a hard time and never offered to help, would that alter your thinking/views of him? Would that alter your thinking/views of him as a potential “head of household” (if that potential was present)?

By Cemeeli

July 27, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

Hey my fellow WLB and ;-) to my MLB

If married, if seperated or divorce let me know. I NEED TO KNOW or i will definitley SNAP on you! Idiot.

The cell phone i s mine. Yours is yours. Call and text whom you like….cause i am.

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo

Sexione Here’s my cup..thanks girl!

Hey kinderB

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this

Travis You’re right that you shouldn’t have to lock it but it’s just a precautionary measure with me. Person looks in your phone, sees something that pizzez them off, now they want you to explain what they saw in there….Not interested in there. I’m glad I grew out of that.

Ever since the condom in the trash incident, I’m even scared to throw anything away at any dudes house.

Slim: Hey babe can you throw this away for me?

Dude: Why can’t you do it, you’re standing right next to it

Slim: I can’t do it….I’m….scared

Dude: You’re scared of the trashcan?

Slim starts to shake like Pookie and cries like a baby throwing a temper tandrum

DuDe: Alright alright. I’ll throw it away. Give it here

Slim spits wad of gum into Dudes hand and he passes the f/k out because he’s a germophobe

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Morning Folks!

I have to co-sign M with the following:

My rules would be that until we have “The TALK”, that we are just dating and not together. Don’t get the situation confused and automatically sign yourself up as the #1 contender.

Like SlimOne - don’t use terms of endearment with me until we’ve reached the point of being endearing to one another. Oh and Slim - Little Miss Sunshine was hilarious to me - one of those movies where you really don’t know what’s coming next. Every time I hear SuperFreak I laugh.

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Hey SJ how are you?

Sexione Yes that would alter my views, especially a possible head of household and he knows i’m struggling and won’t offer any help, that’s just being selfish to me…cause i would offer to help my Man if i knew he needed it..i’m the type who would go make a honest deposit in your bank account or just leave a little something for you under your pillow, in your car, or by your wallet, etc…cause i’m sweet, caring & generous like that why now help out and be a blessing to someone & God will bless YOU!

By Cemeeli

July 27, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

Sexione Travis has some good point and some not so good IMO. As you know we independent women can handle anything that is thrown our way with God’s help. Actually it’s God that fixes it. But if we are seeing someone exclusively and if i am having a little issue in the finances/car/handy work @ da house. And if dude KNOWS that i am needing help and he does absolutely nothing about it…SEE YA!!!!

By melo

July 27, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

@Slim, i think Biff rule is legitimate for grown folks, unless we met in the Church and have celbate rules established upfront. Why waste my time,money and energy entertaining u when u want to be miserly with the puddy.At some near future u got to know u have to give it up. Otehrwise just tell me to get lost and i will move on.

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

Lola That’s a good start, but I’m not sure that just because those answers are no, no, yes, no, that all other stuff can be worked out. He could believe in God, and still be crazy. He could not have any felony convictions (yet), and still be a stalker/abuser/pedofile……almost anything. He could have never been with a man (again, yet), but be fantasizing about it. See what I mean? Maybe you should update your list. Good start though, lol

By Mo (now known as Moeisha

July 27, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

off topic my sister thinks we are hilarious guys and wanted to tell everyone hello! Mo’s sister waving at everyone in Blogsville

By Ladylike

July 27, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

TGIFriday, All.

By Cemeeli

July 27, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

Slim YOU ARE CRASI!!!!

That is your past girl. You look better in the future. Right???

By Bre

July 27, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

meloI think more woman would get a man where she really wants him, if she would just enjoy the ride. Gosh thats key to alot but so many don’t get that.

Lola You might want to add in there Medical History.

sexionebeen there done many tshirts esp since I’ve always been a ride or die chick. I have no problem helping out, if he handling everything else I don’t look at him as if he can’t be head of household. 10 to 1 I seem to always have more disposable income than men I date. So if I bring it up I pay for it.

on topic 1: Don’t ask to meet any family if we just started dating. 2: No I don’t cook for anyone unless I want to, don’t ask. 3: Please don’t say, “can I just see what it feel likes real quick” That will get you packed up and out the door in about 2.2 seconds. 4: Don’t ask any question that you are not sure you can handle the answer to or the question coming back at you.

By melo

July 27, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

@Sexi, if its my SO,sure i would willingly and gladly help without having her ask me, if i can. Thats what luv is all about.

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

mo hey girl! so you’re in VA, huh? how long will you be there? we’re seeing eye to eye on the privacy thing. i’m not looking through anyone’s stuff. that just haves “insecurity” written all over it. if i’m feeling that shaky, i need to roll out…lol.

QC hey!

sexione if i were having a hard time and my SO didn’t offer to help me out, i wouldn’t feel any kind of way about it. now, if it was super serious (more than a year), i may have a slight eye roll for him…lol. but if we’re just dating, i wouldn’t expect him to take care of his bills and mine. the only exception i could see is if he was very wealthy and obviously had it like that. most of the guys i date though are not in that position, lol. i would be more concerned w/my SO acting funny and distancing himself b/c of my situation. you know? some men can be like that…getting incognegro when times get hard, lol. it doesn’t always have to be a financial hardship. now that would be a dealbreaker.

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo’s Sister! girl feel free to jupm right in…grab a Mimosa!

By Summer

July 27, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Don’t step to me talking about what you got, your car, your 26’s, how much you spend at the strip club and the bars, and the mall and out with yo boys, and then not offer to help me out if I need it. And I won’t ask, so if it’s not offered……………buh bye!

By melo

July 27, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

@Bre, thanks for being so mature about about this. You must be one of the few grown and sexy ladies up in here!!

By Tiff

July 27, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

Morning All

Question (not quite on topic but its related..LOL)

What exactly does “enjoy the ride mean”?

How many “rides” is a woman supposed to take before she’s just considered a hobby horse so to speak?

How many other people is it ok for the person you’re seeing to be sexin’ while you are “enjoying the ride”?

What constitutes enough reason to get off the ride if you’re only supposed to be enjoying it in the first place?

I’m curious because I hear that so often but I don’t quite get it. Sorry, I’m kinda slow sometimes LOL

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Hey TIFF where you been hiding, it’s so good to read ya!!!!

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

Tazzee That movies was filled with surprises. I couldn’t belief half the stuff that was in it especially the SuperFreak talent tidbit. LOL! And about that pet names thing when we just met…It really irritates me if you’re talking to the guy and he has his friends around and every other word is baby this, baby that. It makes me feel like he’s trying to front for the homies like he has it like that. Naw bruh, it ain’t like dat!

Sexione It would raise a red flag if a guy didn’t offer to help. As much as dudes on this blog say how they like to feel needed and be providers and all that jazz, then to turn around and ignore the batsignal for help is preposterous. I would offer if I could.

melo I can understand you wanting to be intimate for all your money spent or time spent. BUT just because a dude takes me out to eat doesn’t mean I owe him some cutty. I’m not a DinnerHo and I’m not going to have chemistry with every guy that wants to take me out. If we go out and I’m feeling the guy, and my camel toe whispers to me under the table saying she wants to meet his Johnson….then and only then will we engage in the horizontal, vertical, diagonal tango…Feel me?

Sexione Good points on your 10:00 post.

Cemeeli That stuff is Most definitely the past. Unlike some folks on this blog, I can admit mine. I’m more comfortable and secure with myself. Only life and experience could’ve taught me that. I don’t have the power to be everywhere all the time or keep someone from doing what they want to do. Impossible Plus there maybe days when my phone blows up at 3 in the morning. lol J/K

Bre Don’t ask any question that you are not sure you can handle the answer to or the question coming back at you. I cosign that post in huge block letters

By T-Mango

July 27, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Morning…these are three of my DB’s.

1.) Do not ask me the questions “Who’s your daddy?” or “What’s my name?” I hate that…

2.)Please do not call and text me every two hours asking me “What are you doing?”. Chances are I am working and you should be doing the same my brotha.

3.) If you have a child and we just started dating please don’t ask me if I want to hang out with y’all at the Chuck E. Cheese. It’s too early to meet and spend time with your child at that point.

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

melo it’s not about being grown and sexy - it’s about knowing what you can handle. There are some women that can separate the physical from the emotional. I don’t know any, but from reading this blog, there are some. But what amazes me is you men KNOW that women get possessive and clingy after sex. YOU KNOW THIS!!! But yet you still expect a different result. My personal opinion is that, in general, women aren’t wired to just have sex and leave it at that. Similarly, men aren’t wired to go without it. So you have men that, because they want it, expect women to change their wiring. Then you have women that want men to do without until the emotional connection is there. It is a disconnect, one of the many that need to be worked through in relationships.

The ability to have sex without wanting to be exclusive does not make a woman grown and sexy - it makes a woman able to have sex without needing that attachment.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Ok..news flash…all kind of folks go to the movies on friday morning…i was like dang gome it…lol

But i bought tickets for the first show tom.soooo ya’ll gonna have to wait until monday for the rat that cooks preview….lol

HHHmmm i guess i would help out my SO…that only makes sense..but we got to be down like 4 flat tires on a yugo with 6 fat folks in it.(Disclaimer: if you are big boned or just hugh…i am sorry…no pun intended..See GaMan aint little either so..don’t be madd)lolololol

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Sexione Hell no!!! (and good morning to you)

melo & Biff I agree with ever you guys just posted!!!

QC, Slim, KB, Cemeeli, and the Tazz Morning!!

Lola No, No, and Yes…holla at your boy when I am single again LOL

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

July 27, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Good Morning QC, Slim GA.Man, Kinder, Bella, Sexi and the rest of the crew and Newbies

Mochalatte takes deep breath and exhales after making sure she covered the formalities

What’s good peeps? It’s FRIDAY!!!

My rules:

• Don’t tell someone you love them if you don’t mean it.

• Say what you mean and mean what you say.

• Don’t Front, Flex or any of the other stupid ish. If you ain’t got, so what, be happy with what you got.

• If you are hitting on my friend, don’t hit on me later. And I do mean at any point because why do I want leftovers?

More to come…

By melo

July 27, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

Slim, we arent talking about just one date, but a couple of dates.

By Single & Luvin It

July 27, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

How about this? Don’t ask me to buy a gun for you because you have “record” and I don’t. Are you freakin kidding me?! Sorry, but my resume does not say that I’m an illegal arms dealer. That’s my deal breaker.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

T-Mango Ugggghhh I hate when dudes ask what’s his name or who’s your daddy! Knowing how I am, I’ll say LL Cool J or something like that. Mood Killer lmao

By Tiff

July 27, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Hey QC

I’m here almost every day lurking. I don’t participate much since I would just be repeating what some of the others are saying. Good to read you’re doing well. Keep posting those jobs for us. I’m about to blow my top in my current position so I may need a lead or two. LOL

By CoCo

July 27, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning Blog fam…on topic 1. Lets be friends and if I like you we can build on that. 2.Respect me 3.Be honest. No one has time for games. If you just wanna kick it say that. Don’t act like you really want to be the one when you really just want to kick it. My time is very limited.
@ Biff WTF??

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

t-mango now those are some funny ones..lmao”

slim we have to put DinnerHo right under the “all cuttin, no courtin…” clause in the WLB handbook..lol

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

@sexione i have been burned once or twice but i also have seen Women ask for help or something no matter how good of a job they have. I guess its a big issue for me because I have been taught to grind for what I want. No one is not going to hand you anything om this world!!! On the question you asked at 9:50, I have no problem helping my SO because i know (or i hope) she will help me. But dont go spend the car insurance money on shoes or other BS because you know Im going to be here to help you out!!(thats a no no YOU WILL BE RIDING DIRTY!!…..If they knew i was messed up and didnt offer to help we have a problem….SEXIONE My main Issue is a person who dosent handle their responsibility man or female…My credit is everything to me if a person cant handle real money they darn sho cant hand their credit. I rather have a 700 Beacon then 700 cash!!!

By M.

July 27, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

@ SlimOne

No I wasnt doing any of that. I just have friends that text, I talk to etc. The funny thing was there really wasnt any responses on my part. So what should I do to fix this in your opinion?

@ Tazzee

Thanks for cosigning. Im from Chicago and in the midwest, its about the TALK. The south, its the LOCKDOWN!!

By Hotlanta

July 27, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

Please don’t show up with your clothes in the trunk of your car after the first phone conversation trying to move in. PLEASE have a clean house. Can’t stand for a man to have a Mercedes and you go inside his house and he as a futon from IKEA or a clothspin in the Jacquar dashboard. Don’t get p** because I didn’t call you after the sex wondering where I am. I am not like a lot of women thinking because we had sex we are a couple. Because sometimes like you I am looking for a easy lay. Last but not least, please don’t be asking me what is your name during the act because I might call out the wrong name. Don’t have a name I can’t pronounce like Cleopustonywaynestevana. It will take all night to pronounce it.

By melo

July 27, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

@Tazzee,The ability to have sex without wanting to be exclusive does not make a woman grown and sexy I think it does.Immature(age and sex wise) women cannot handle sex, for the most part. Grown women can, in most cases because they have been thru relationships and understand the emotional connect or disconnect u speak about. They have a certain level of experience about it. You have had sex, let me see..maybe once or twice in the last couple of years..by ur admission.U do not have enough credits under ur belt. So iam not sure u can handle it without getting burnt emotionally,unlike other women here.

By Bre

July 27, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Tiff I really don’t want to swing the convo in another direction nor am I sure I can keep it clean all the way through if I break it down for you. However I will try it the most basic way and the way some ladies of the night put it to me at a young age. Men are not going to ever really show a woman true emotionout right, so you have to disconnect the goods from the heart. Learn how to enjoy the ride without incorporating the two and never ask a man what he thinks afterward you should already know that. To just enjoy the ride is simply for your benefit not his. There is more power in the silence than all the words in the world many times when dealing with a real man. Now please don’t apply this to young kats, kats new in the game, or a kat thats mental is not that of a true man in every aspect. In order to get that you have to be a woman yourself. That’s as basic as I can get with it.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Ok i just ent back and read all the posts…whewwwwww!!!

Ok so for the record you mean to tell me no one here never,ever,ever took a peep at someone’s private things

Just wondering…I mean i did

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Slim exactly! I’m not a DinnerHo hahahahahaha! ^5^5^5

Tiff good questions!!! I’m waiting for the answers………lol

T-Mango gurl, who’s your daddy? I am busting a gut over here……whew!! And no, I don’t want to meet anybody’s kid too soon, cause you definitely won’t be meeting mine. I once had this older (much older) guy to tell me some crap about how he thinks getting to know the child should be a part of getting to know me. And how he felt that if he didn’t get to build that interest in her initially, that later on down the line he couldn’t develop interest in her. I was like “old azz man please!!, you can feel howeva you want to about that, but you will NOT get to be around my child period!* Not to mention that he was waayy to old for my taste and physically not my type. That was funny and crazy……..and he was very ornary……mind you we only had a few phone convos because i knew it would go nowhere. shaking my head just thinking about it lol

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

Single & Luvin It LMAO! Are you one of those chicks that like to date thugs? lol I just asked because you must have been asked to buy guns on more than one ocassion to make it a rule.

Tazzee Co-sign on your 10:25 post too. Men say they don’t want us to try to change them but you made it clear that they really are doing the same thing with the sex w/o emotions deal. I suggest men that want sex-only relationships to hang around outside of a SexNympho Anonymous Group.

Kinder I second the motion to add DinnerHo to that all cuttin, no courtin clause lol

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

There are things that are in plain view…i had to come back and say this…and ya’ll know we all will read it….so i think everyone has looked and done alittle snooping

i dont go thru phones and ish, but come on

By Ladylike

July 27, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

CoCo I try to live by your first rule, but I’ve been told that it ain’t happening. Just the other day I was talking to this guy and he flat out told me that the men in my age bracket ain’t trying to be friends. He basically stated that if a guy doesn’t have anything else to do, he might hang with me as friends, but for the most part if he’s going to spend time with a female it will be with one with potential nookie in the future. Any other guys that will hang around with me are ‘pretending’ to be friends until they can break me down.

So I reiterated my desire to just have a male friend (I don’t have any) and he said he would be it - but in every communication we’ve had since then, he’s flirted with me at least once - so now I know which category he’s in, LOL.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning Er’body 8 more days til the meet and greet on topic one of my dating guidelines is if you call me and i dont answer, leave me a message and give me a chance to call you back. dont call 100 times back to back to back and leave a damn message everytime you call. and then i cant recieve any other messages because my voicemail is full of you saying beep: *pickup the phone, *beep: answer the phone, beep: will you please answer the phone, etc.

Travis i feel you on the checking of the phone. fortunately ive never had that experience, but if i do, ima checkmate it from the gate.

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Bre said while looking like a pervert “can I just see what it feel likes real quick, B??!!” LOL

Good morning sista!!

TIFF HEY YOU!!

SlimOne All I can say is DAYUM to your 1023 post.

@T-Mango

while dry humping into the air near T-Mango’s desk and working up a sweat

Who’s your daddy?, Who’s your daddy? Who’s your daddy?

T-Mango is now drop kicking Alvin and Demi to Hellz

Demi waking up in Hellz: What I do?!?!

By Single & Luvin It

July 27, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

SlimOneHi - No, I’m not attracted to thug types. I didn’t realize this guy had a “background” until he asked me to buy him a gun, and I responded by asking why in the world he was asking me for it. Talk about a surprise. The fact that somebody had the nerve to ask me something that retarded made me list that as a dealbreaker.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

M Well to give you a better response I would need more details.

How long you and her have been dating…what type of relationship/dating arrangement you two have (like does she think she’s the only one) And what type things were mentioned in the messages.

Slim now considering selecting Bre to conduct Women’s Pimphilosophy 101-104 as a new WLB member

By MusingLee

July 27, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

Musing’s Rule: Don’t wear a sexy low cut dress with your boobs showing if you don’t want me to look.

Musing looking at boobs

Chick: Hello, my eyes are up here m/f.

Musing: Huh, ohhhh I was looking at your boobs.

Chick: don’t you know that is so rude.

Musing: Don’t you know it’s rude to put them in my face and not expect me to look.

Musing now beat’in over head, but still trying to see boobs jiggle

Musing and SO off to waste the day away…later people

By Tiff

July 27, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Bre

Thank you for breaking that down for me. That’s the best explanation and the easiest to understand that I have ever gotten.

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

melo we have to agree to disagree on that one. I don’t think it has anything to do with the number of times you’ve had sex, it has to do with knowing yourself and your limitations. If that is the case then you and Biff are basically saying you only want women that have had many men run through them because those are the only ones that can allow you to do the same.

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

Yep, Slim & Tazzee That’s exactly what it is. We are (for the most part) who we are, same for men. If they don’t want us to try and change them, why would they try to change us? One word……..SELFISH!! And the funy thing is, when you don’t conform to their rules or what they want, then you’re not (fill in the blank). Really mature people understands and appreciates each others differences, you embrace them, you encourage them, you uplift them. Anything outside of that is pure crap!! Just my opinion…

I third the motion……..lol

GAman they were talking about cell phone intrusion, not in general…..cause you know most of us have! lol

Bre so basically you learned that from some hookers? Ok, cool, I’ll just add that when that ride is no longer going your way (in the same direction you’re going), get the hellz out of the car! lmsao another bus will be along shortly! hehehehe

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Gorilla So did you get a chance to check it out or no?

By Hotlanta

July 27, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Please do not use your nickname and you are over 30. By the time you go across the tage and get your high school diploma you should leave your nickname on stage. Please don’t say/brag that you are friends with all of your exgirlfriends. I am not a member of anyone’s exgirlfriend club. I will be checking that little blue pill on the nightstand to see if it is Viagra or Aleve. If it is Viagra I am aleaving.

By Bella

July 27, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday, everyone!

@ SlimOne: All I mean is, if you’re telling me you love me, you better not just be throwing it around. You’d better be saving up for a ring. If you don’t love me, don’t say it. (And I would not enforce this rule to other people, just to myself!) I just know too many women whose SOs tell them they love them for years, only to leave without marrying them. =(

By Mo (now known as Moeisha

July 27, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Kinderbabe I will be here til Monday. Just a nice lil break chillin with the family. I have had someone go through my phone and I have never felt so violated….nor so angry!

QC Mo’s sister says thank you for the mimosa She says she may try to drop into Blogsville from time to time.

Hey SJ

T-Mango who’s you daddy?!?!?! ROTFLMAO!!! HEEEEEELLLLZ NAW!!

I may drop in on you guys later!!! Off to do some shopping…

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

Gorilla just reminded me of another pet peeve of mine - if you call, please leave a message. Don’t expect me to call you back just because I see your missed call on my phone. The only time I do that is if I’m expecting a call - like we’re planning to meet up. Other than that I don’t even look at my missed calls list.

By Bre

July 27, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

Sexione No but cute however they were wise in what they wanted physically. The ones that are still living have been married 35+ years and never to my knowledge had any issues with there husbands. Instead of being taught to shy away from the physical I was taught to embrace it and there was nothing dirty about it. Don’t get me twisted there is a huge difference in being a hooker and a woman who knows what she wants and how she wants it.

Tiff Its cool, I’m not all knowing on things trust but I am comfortable with who I am first and foremost.

Hey Alvin, how are you?

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

IT’s MY BOY GORILLA O I feel ya GORILLA O…all that back to back calling is ignoring!! I also HATE people with METRO PCS they have no phone consideration i have T-mobile i have minutes that arent UNLIMATED!!!!!!

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

im just really getting up to speed on the discussion. but so far i have to say to Travis….PREACH, BROTHA PREACH!!!!!

damn SlimOne, yo momma fine too?

By melo

July 27, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

Coco,to a man..if u say u wanna be friends first, it means u aint feeling him(in his mind). Thats why he wont want to be around. But a man will stick around sometimes, if he thinks u are sexy and beautiful…in the hope that, yes, u might break down and give it up.

A man is like a hunting lion..he will wait hoping for a weak moment on ur part. It may never come, but thats how a man’s mind works.

By Staceye

July 27, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Tazee you hit the nail on the head. You try to hold off on sex because you know it’s hard to give it up with out some emotional attachment.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

i sent you a friend request too SlimOne

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Tiff you know i got you girl! Keep in touch with me: MissQC@gmail.com

Hey Demi, Musing, GA.man

^5 Gorilla don’t keep calling me if i’m not picking up the phone, duh! can you say i don’t wanna talk to yo azz right now!

QC sipping on the last of her 2nd Mimosa….Sexione, do i need to make a “Mimosa Donation”? if so take this $20 and work it out…can i get a refill?

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

SlimOne & T-Mango on that who’s your pappy/mammy Bullshish, if the girl is really enjoy the moment. Yours or some other dudes name is coming out, regardless!!

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

Good breakdown Bre

By T-Mango

July 27, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

Hey Kinder, Slim, Sexione

DB #4.)If we’re going out and I share with you that the attire for the event is “cosmopolitan” or “dressy” please do not arrive dressed in a yankees cap (tilted to the side), a blazer, jeans and sneakers or Tims on your feet. What happened to a pair of nice slacks/shoes or a suit/shoes(especially if you’re a man over age 30)? Sigh

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

Gorilla I’ve dated an older guy before and when my mom came around I heard a grunt under his breath. I guess he was thinking out loud. LOL! I think my mom is attractive. I’ll check my page when I get home…It’s blocked here at work.

By lovelyliz

July 27, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

I can’t stand bigots. Use the N word or other racial epithets and it’s obvious that we’ve gone as far as we will ever go.

By melo

July 27, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

@Tazzeeonly want women that have had many men run through them because those are the only ones that can allow you to do the same. People date for diff reasons,casually, to establish a relationship for marriage..etc. If i were a virgin and want to get married, i would probably look for same. If u aint a virgin, dont pretend to be one, like u have never tasted it,literally! I wont ask how many men have bee thru a woman, i hope u wont ask me same. I am not a virgin, so most likely the ones i wanna date have had other men inside them before. I just wont ask but i believe Biff,myself and other men on the blog are realistic about that.

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

I must admit, I’m guilty of the female buying the gun sin. But I did it a little more creatively. I’d say something like: “Baby, you live alone, Miami is a rough city, Imma buy you a pistol. You need some protection.” ….Once we got to the gun store. *”Sweetheart, this 380 is a nice size gun for a female, Imma get this for you, but while we’re here let’s go ahead and snatch up that 357 snub nose, a 40 cal, and that AK.

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

Dang GORILLA O you getting all the myspace friend requests CAn i borrow some of yours?

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

Alvin If it’s good to me and I feel the need to say something, some things will come outta my mouth before a name does. But either way, I’ll say your name if I want to, not because you ask me to. I’ve been in the heat of the moment and dude asked me that crazy ish…Who’s Puddy is this….and i said MINE lol!!!

By T-Mango

July 27, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

Alivin…you were wrong for that! LOL.

By Cemeeli

July 27, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Tazze Hey ladybug. Mail call.

By Staceye

July 27, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

Lovelyliz who got your knicers in a bunch? Where did this come from? Did I miss something?

By TRAVIS SMITH "aka" The Type Of BLOGGER You Want To Take To Ya Momma House"

July 27, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

Gorilla Her Momma Fine TOO!!!!! I just checked ya page Gorilla, thats a good look!!! Imma put you in my top friends, just you and TOM!!!! myspace.com/atldec107_geezy

By M.

July 27, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

@ SlimOne

Well we have been involved for 5 months, but when I first met her, everything was great then a week later she sprung it on me that she was moving to NYC. After she left, there was just a lot of phone calls, texts, and visits. I guess this goes back to Bella’s topic from this week about long distance relationships. There is a ton of single women in Atlanta, so maybe I should put myself back out. What do you think slim? Do you want to be like my MTV Made Coach?

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

QC sure, you can make a donation if you’d like, but I will only accept it if everyone does. So here’s your refill (one for you and one for me, lol)………just hold on to that $20 for now……lol

I’m with y’all on that back-to-back calling. I once made the mistake of giving this young kat my # (something I never do), and his butt called me constantly until I told him to cut that ish out!!! Man………lol

Bre oh no, my fellow WLBer, I wasn’t saying you were one, ladies of the night just sounded rather wordly. Nothing wrong with knowing those who walk on the dark side…lmsao And you are right, there is a hug difference in the two.

So why it is when a woman knows what she wants and doesn’t want, if what she doesn’t want is what a man thinks she should want, she is labeled as something other than grown and sexy? I think (I know) that we can be mature, sexy, grown, bout-it bout-it, and stand firm for what you want and believe. Just because you’re not open all night without emotional ties or serving you up without commitment, doesn’t mean you’re scared or insecure or not grown and sexy………it actually takes a much more grown and sexy woman to not go with the crowd and stand her ground. Any ole tree will bend with the wind, but it takes a strong, mature tree to stand strong against the storm.

By kimmiemac

July 27, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Things that were dealbreakers for me: —> Life-sized poster of a NASCAR driver on the wall of the apartment. Not judging him, but um…. No. —> Voted for Bush and is not sorry. —> Sat lazy butt on MY sofa while I spent hours on top of a ladder, spackling, sanding & priming, covered in Kilz, and then asked ME to come down and fix him a fresh drink. Dude, if you’re not going to help, then don’t help from somewhere else.

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

melo did you read my entire post? I’m not saying that is what you want (only you truly know what you want) - I am refuting your argument that the amount of sex is what allows a woman to detach the physical from the emotional. Bre even stated that she learned that at an early age. It is something that a woman has to make a conscious effort to do. Guess what? I don’t WANT to make that detachment. That is not a sign of immaturity. It just means that I want something different. With that, I would never entertain dating a man that is looking for sex without detachment.

By QC - TGIF!

July 27, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

LOL@ Slimone Why do men sometimes ask who’s puddy is it? that is hilarious

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

dayum SlimOne, you just put me in a bind. ive dated a few older women in my day. so i dont know if i should go ahead and put the moves on you now, or wait til i meet ma dukes and see what she workin with….please advise. lol

Travis you know you good my a couple my brotha

Tazzee thats so aggravating. its simple, leave me a message and give me a chance to call you back. dont keep calling, calling, calling. thats gonna make me not want to answer or call you back even more. and if you continue to do it your gonna wish i didnt call you back or answer ‘cause ima chomp that azz out!!!

By lovelyliz

July 27, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Staceye

Isn’t this message board supposed to be about rules of the dating game?

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

Voted for Bush and is not sorry Now that is funny as crap!!!!! I can see that! lol

Staceye liz was giving her DBs (deal breakers).

By Staceye

July 27, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

kimmiemac you should have told him to kick rocks from the start…or came down and fixed him a hot drink and threw it in his lazy azz face! Hey well at least it’s not hot grits! He voted for Bush both times and can;t contirubute it to voting machine error or plain ole drunkeness…he should have has azz kicked (a kick for every soilder that has died in the stupid war) Whoo, got off on a tangetnt there….But that is just my opinion.

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

SlimOne same differences sis…Now every woman is different, if she is enjoying herself, she will let you know. My job is to find your zone and keep you in your zone as long as possible. I don’t ask a woman to say my name…unfortunately, my SO keep calling out my name, like that stupid a$$ cartoon of the same name.

I am thinking of choking her a little, do a skit for me

Bre I am good, just working hard to keep some folks happy, LOL

By melo

July 27, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

@Tazzee, and yes, Bre spelled it out in terms of what i meant about grown and sexy, maybe she can help me and u out.And on unever entertain dating a man that is looking for sex without detachment., realize that u will never find a man with the word commitment and emotionally connected written on their forehead! They will have sex with u, not knowing what the future holds. But if from henceforth u guys are still the same, he treats u good and u do the same, he will grow to liking u more and more,luving u and inviting u to his family events etc.The words luv will start coming outa his mouth more and more. Thats when he and u know, its a wrap! Dont bugg a brother just because u decided to have sex with him. It was ur decision. But i guarantee u ladies, if u do that, a man will appreciate u more. I am grown, sexy and experienced so i know. And i have puddy on the regular!!

By Je t'hommes

July 27, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

Afternoon all,

Previous lurker who would like to break the ice by bearing gifts to blog world. Please enjoy the Dom Pérignon Rosé. No need to pitch in. DBs: Don’t act like I’m UNE FOO FOO and start in with the tall tales… just be you. Say what you mean, mean what you say. More to come…

Also, I will go through some ones phone in a heartbeat. Just cause I’m nosey, not nsecure. And would probably ask about a couple of the names…. just to pull a card or two.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

SexiOne So why it is when a woman knows what she wants and doesn’t want, if what she doesn’t want is what a man thinks she should want, she is labeled as something other than grown and sexy? in the words of the caveman in the geico commercial….uh what. ima tell yall’s womens’ lil secret about what yall want and dont want. listen carefully fellas, but its actually easy as hell. whatever a woman says she wants, just give her the total opposite and you’ll be in there like swim wear! and i hate to pigeon hole all women into that category, but ive met so many women who say that theory isnt true, or “not me, i know what i want”, but trust me, ive put in a lot of man hours doing research and case studies and it holds to be true 8 out of 10 times. and fellas, i normally charge for that kind of info, but since its friday yall get a freebie.

By MHamm

July 27, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

I got a few, ladies:

I’ll come back with a few more later after lunch!

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

M It doesn’t sound like she has much grounds to be mad at you. You said 1. You’ve been ‘involved’ (not sure what that means in your dictionary) for total of 5 months.

So it doesn’t sound like you’ve really had time or opportunity to be too serious.

Have you given her the impression that you were only dating her? LDR has to have a strong trust foundation. From her actions, the trust isn’t there. Women know if you’re in a LDR, that they are the out-of-town puddy and he is going to have In-town puddy…but when the out-of-town puddy comes into town, he tells the In-town puddy that he’s going out-of-town to prevent any drive by’s or unnannounced visits. Dayum, did i give away some MLB secrets I got a chance to see from snooping?..sorry fellas

I can’t tell you what to do but if you want to keep her around, just be honest about your intentions. Don’t hurt her heart if you can help it. It’s enough of the broken hearted in this world already.

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

staceye chile, you had me rollin’ w/the hot drink comment…lmao.

By David

July 27, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

This space is funny.

@ slimone You’re my kinda woman Melo Funny and I understand. Some women are looking for commitment and when men don’t know this and dangle the carrot in the face, it makes for a hurtful experience.

On topic: Don’t tell me how much you make or ask me how much I make. (If I make a whoooooole lot more than you, I may think you can’t afford proper health care, and thats a problem. On the other hand if I make a whooooole lot less than you I may wonder if you’re thinking i’m after you for money instead of enjoying a date.)

Eat the food. (So many times you go on dates, and a woman has to be so dainty that she can’t even order a good plate of food. I’m not all greedy, but don’t be vain. I won’t think any less of you if you eat food in public.)

Don’t tease me. (If you act like a ho, thats on you. At the end of the night, keep acting like a ho or that’ll be it.)

Don’t look at me as a dollar bill. (I like having a good time and spending money on women, because I like having a good time. You may think its about you but its really not. Its about me having a good time. However, if you’re looking at me and telling me I want this and that, DEAL BREAKER!!! Where can i drop you?)

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

melo trust me I am not foolish enough to think many men are running around with the same outlook as me. However, I have run across many men that are tired of just having ‘puddy on the regular’ and looking for something more meaningful. Therefore they are willing to wait. Seeing as you have just gotten out of a marriage - I would expect nothing less than your current mindset regarding commitment.

But personally, as it concerns me and my body - your post was totally bassackwards. I believe that sex is another level of intimacy and ain’t no way I’m getting to that level with some dude that doesn’t treat me good, like me ‘more’, love me and hasn’t invited me to family events (just using the order of your post).

So like I said - we have to agree to disagree. That’s the beauty of it all - it takes all kinds of ppl to make the world go round.

By Awwwwwwww...Dayum

July 27, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

Awwwwwwww…Dayum, Je t’hommes!!! SJ do you just invite your cousin to join…LOL

sup young homes

By Cemeeli

July 27, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Yall get on my nerves talking about good stuff when i’m having a busy day. (not that we don’t always be off da chain ;-)) I can’t catch up and read all the post but i would like to add to **melo’s 11:54 post. Copy this one down ladies…he’s speaking exactly how the avg man thinks.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Slimone Why do men sometimes ask who’s puddy is it? that is hilarious…’cause, QC, we like to hear yall lie to us. thats just like yall asking us if we’re dating someone else. it makes yall feel good just to hear us say no, even though yall know its a damn lie.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

Gorilla now you know according to MLB rule 23.562 you can’t charge fellow MLB for updates

By QC

July 27, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

Hey Awwwwwww….Dayum!

By QC

July 27, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

Welcome to the blog David you made some very good points…

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Alvin They are coming out with a movie this winter….I’m going to start charging you for requested skits.

Alvin getting his SO in the zone

ASO: ohhh, weee, right there, you…you…hit-ting…ahh, my spot.

Alvin: Yeah, i know you like that baby. I’mma make you…

ASO: ffgoueeigh!

Alvin: WTF?

ASO: g(^%&^jgoier!

Alvin: WHAT? You can’t talk, huh? Uh-huh it’s about to..

ASO: Allllvvvviiiin, Ssssssiiimmmoonn, Thhhheeeooooddoorre! Do do, do do do Do Do, do do do ALLLLVVVVIIINNNN!

By QC

July 27, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

Excellent points MHamm

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

i just have to say again for the record…you guys have to be the funniest people ever…lol. i’ve been laughing all day.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

QUESTION FOR ALL BLOGGERS this came from MHAMM’s comment. men, do you get offended if a women offers to pay for the first date; furthermore, would you actually let her pay for it? women, would you actually offer to pay for the first date;furthermore, if the guy objected would it offend you? personally, i have no problem with a woman offering to pay for the first date. when she initially offers ill turn her down, but if she’s adamant, then by all means…hell its a turn on for me seeing as a lot of women expect a man to pay for er’thang. i think a woman offering to pay for a date is a nice gesture.

By QC

July 27, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

Off to dept luncheon, will check back later….

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

On the subject of the capability of women to have sexual relationships with detached emotions, I agree most women have to make a conscious effort not to become emotionally involved. However, to some the ability to maintain a strictly sexual relationship comes easily. I have found this ability more common in older women. I have dated some women that were very straightforward about what they wanted. It was always entertaining to see these women behave like I normally would. For example, after we’ve gone a few rounds and bust a few, we would be lying in her bed silent and exhausted. I’m thinking ”It’s getting late, I’m ready to leave…but, I don’t want her to think I just came to hit it and split.” In her mind she’s thinking, “alright, your job here is done for the evening, your presence is no longer required, your dismissed, please leave.” In actuality, we’re both on the same page. I loved dating those types. I was always cool with being used up and sent home. We don’t have to cuddle and talk. I’m good.

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

Gorilla you had half a point til you got to pigeonhole, you’ve not lived long enough to make such a characterization……….but hey, you’re entitled to your opinion. But note this, if I say I want/need one thing and you do the opposite………you’ll be left wondering what happened and why I disappeared so fast! lol

Is it time to go yet?! I am really just killing time here… lol

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

Je t’hommes Preciate the Don…welcome to Blogsville. I see you’re bring some realness to the blog.lol So male/female and age?

David Thanks, I think. What did i say to make you say that…just curious. Don’t tease me. (If you act like a ho, thats on you. At the end of the night, keep acting like a ho or that’ll be it.) LOL! funny

I guess that could go both ways. If you act like a gentleman all day, continue to act like one that night. Don’t turn into an Octopus. lol

By melo

July 27, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

@TazzeeSeeing as you have just gotten out of a marriage I’m still on lockdown..dont believe all the hype u read! My opinions on sex are based on my dating experiences before the nuptials. U wanna vote on the blog on how many women..regular bloggers, on here 25 and up who havent had dyck in 2 years? U may count 2 only.That makes u one of the pure(?) but uptight exceptions. But i applaud u on ur persevearence to get it when the situation is “right” That means there are a lot of people in HELL right now! I shudder.

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

Tazzee and it was well worth the WAIT!! She didn’t toy with me either, after the 3 or 4 date (which she payed for), she let me know where I stand and what she wanted…

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

I can’t say i’ve ever offered to pay for a first date because more often times than not, the guy has asked me out. However, I have paid and/or offered to pay for dates thereafter….especially if it was something that I suggested.

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Okay wait, hell its a turn on for me……..so you don’t mind a woman being pushy/assertive/aggressive when it comes to paying! But she should take a back seat when you want her to? Puuuhhleaaaazzeee…

I will only pay for the date if I ask him out, if he ask me out, then he’d better be ready to pay. And no, I will not offer, because if I intended to pay I would have asked him out.

DuShawn It’s all about what a person wants/needs at a certain point in life. I used to operate like that in my younger days….do your job and go. Now, I could still do that, but I choose not to………it gets old and being a mommie has changed my mindset about a lot of things. So yes, we can flip that thang back and forth depending on our mindset……lol

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

Gorilla I always pull out my wallet on the first date. Not to insult a guy but I never assume that he is going to pay. But I don’t require a lot of convincing to let him pay - if he says ‘I got this’ - I thank him. If I want to see him again, I’ll tell him that I’ll get the next one.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

If I’m coming to your place for a little Midnight Nookie Rumble…best believe Slim is spending the night. Hellz if im finna try to drive home exhausted with shaky legs. I’ll be out when daylight hits…or after breakfast LOL

By M.

July 27, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

@ SlimOne

Thanks for giving away all of our plays LOL!!!

In response, I never gave her the impression that it was only her. I also forgot the key detail. She is 27 and Im 24. I think maybe she jumped the gun a little bit but Ive been up front and honest the whole time. I think we may just have to reevaluate everything and go from there. I think she had a certain satisfaction in trying to kill all my ATL action….

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

melo look man, I’m just basing my comment on your supposed divorce based on what’s been posted. And if you will take your head out of your azz long enough to truly read my posts you will see that I’m not even talking about total celibacy, I’m simply talking about waiting until there is an emotional connection before having sex. And furthermore if you will open your eyes and read what the other female bloggers have commented on this topic you will see that the majority agree. Ultimately, I don’t need to take a poll because I don’t live my life by committee. In each of my responses I have clearly stated what I feel.

Finally - I have never stated, nor will you ever read from me that someone is going to hell because they have sex before marriage. So I think you are dealing with your own demons with that comment.

But I have to wonder - if you are getting puddy on the regular with no attachments from someone other than your wife - why are so busy on here convincing others of your position?

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

@ Slimone..what time do your normally leave.. when the crow strikes 3 times..or until you get a chicken biscuit from chic fila?

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

SexiOne, yes im still kind of young, but ive always been told that i was wise beyond my years. ive always hung around people older than me and ive dated a lot of women that were older than me (the first one i was 16 and she was 32). i dont know everything about women and relationships, but i know just as much, if not more than a man twice my age. and you can talk to a man thats way older than me, and he still couldnt tell you everything about a woman….you all are just complexed as hell. guess thats why we cant get enough you

By David

July 27, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Slimone You seem candid and direct. I like that. A woman who knows what she wants is usually a lot of fun.

QC Thanks for having me. :O)

Board: The sexual topic is hmm one that should be kept private? Whats better the chase or the catch? I like the chase better and usually talk about sex is just a bit tiring and usually probably gets you more stirred up than necessary. Not to mention, that most people here will probably never meet the other person, or may probably meet and be unpleasantly surprised by the other persons physical state.

Additionally this is a public board, albeit our identies aren’t but, it has to be uncomfortable if you’re at work and writing some of this stuff. Not to mention if a manager or supervisor were to walk by and notice some of the comments.

IMO, relationships are formed from things other than s3x. Whether things that we mutually share, opinions on certain matters. If the goal is forming relationships, lets keep it on topic and similar perspectives will be more apparent. If its a booty call that we’re interested in, its probably better to just pay for it. Its probably safer b/c there will be no surprises.

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

slim girl, stop! i’m trying to eat lunch and you almost made me choke…lol. but i know that’s right about the shaky legs…have your car swerving out of control. making improper lane changes and ish. how do you explain that when getting pulled over??lol

By melo

July 27, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

@Dus’,I have found this ability more common in older women. Thank u

By David

July 27, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

*Gorrilla * I don’t mind if a girl pays for the date only if she asks me out. If ask her out I expect to pay.

By Sexione

July 27, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

Gorilla guess thats why we cant get enough you I know sweetie pie, we wub y’all too!!! lmsao

lol @ Slim

I’m calling it a day…….everyone have a safe and fun filled weekend!

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

OOOOOOkkkk it’s friday..whewwwwww

can’t we all just get along(Said n my Rodney King voice)

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

July 27, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

David while i know you are a newbie..the topic normally takes a swing like this everyday….sorry but this will never change

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

“You may think its about you but its really not. Its about me having a good time.” David That’s an excellent point. It was once common for me to dine at fine restaurants alone, attend concerts, plays or visit exhibits by myself. Those are things that I enjoy. My solitude was by choice. If I invite a young lady to hang out with me, it’s not really a date, she’s just joining me while I do things I normally do. Regarding women paying for dates. I am always flattered and impressed when a female offers to pay for anything. I would never let her pay for the first date, but the attempt to contribute means a lot.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

i feel you Tazzee. i guess its an ego thing with both sexes. some men just feel like they’re THE MAN so they should take care of everything. then after a while, they’ll start getting aggravated when you expect them to do something for you. my philosophy is, dont start nothing you cant finish. then the flip side is, you have women that are just too independent and have been that way for as long as they can remember and have always done for themselves, so they dont know how to take it when someone tries to do something for them. i had this one situation where i went to this woman’s house to do some work for her. when i got ready to leave she was gonna leave out behind me. she was a lawyer so she had a whole bunch of files that she had to take with her. so she asked me if i could help her carry the papers to her car. of course i did, but she just had to let me know that she couldve carried everything by herself, and that she only asked me because i was there….im thinking to myself, thanks for that irrelevant azz comment.

By CoCo

July 27, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this

Melo..thanks for the explaining..thats a trip to me tho. I just feel like a friendship has endless possiblities but cuttin…its just that. Bre..appreciate that. Looking forward to puttin faces with names…Yall have a great weekend!

By bxbeauty

July 27, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

Afternoon folk! Mostly a lurker, but this touched a nerve. 1. DON’T talk/holla/pursue me if you’re married. 2. Don’t run out of the room to answer your cell or otherwise act suspect (I will treat you accordingly). 3. DO NOT lie to me. (I’m a big girl, the truth is what I want) 4. Respect me at all times. (or suffer the consquences) 5. Don’t tell me what you think I want to hear, keep it real. 6. Not feeling me? Cool, say so and be out.

By Page1908

July 27, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

LOLOL @ everyone! I am CTFU at Sexi, Slim, and SJ! now literrally busting gutt LOL

By David

July 27, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

Dushawn Nice to see someone has a similar perspective.

Gorrilla LOL that had me laughing. “i did, but she just had to let me know that she couldve carried everything by herself, and that she only asked me because i was there….im thinking to myself, thanks for that irrelevant azz comment.”

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

David ima put the gun away and ill have travis cut the rope from around your ankles and wrists because we dont want you to feel like your being forced to stay on this board. i think they’re having Shop Talk on another board. im sure you can contribute to the blog.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 1:20 PM | Link to this

Sean J To be honest I’ve never been in a situation where my cut buddy or whatever you want to call it, required me to leave after the deed was done. Either I brought my work clothes with me and left from their place for work the next morning, or I leave that night because I have something I needed to do, or I leave at some point when we wake up. I’m not giving up my goodies for you to shoo me away like a gnat. I’d like to think i’m good company anyway But very funny about the rooster and chick-fil-a comment.

David You have a mature tone to your posts. Do you mind telling us your age & status (single,married,etc) I may have missed these details in the past if already given.

kinder LOL! Officer asks you step out of the car and you fall to the ground. lol That is so weird when it happens. I wonder why we get the Shakyleg Syndrome.

By melo

July 27, 2007 1:20 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee,Wow,And if you will take your head out of your azz long enough to truly read my posts * u getting hot under the collar, why?!!! This is just a blog,its not life and death.Are putting all ur emotions on here too?!!! That *dykless syndrome will get u that attitude.Too many impurities in ya body!

I aint getting puddy on the regular from nobody else other than my wife. Thanks for looking out Mother Theresa!

By Foots

July 27, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

Just lurking today… Slim Still LMAO @ your 12:16 skit. You are absolutely silly!!

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this

Gorilla O Funny, depending on the woman’s age, I am afaid of opening the door for her…she may cut me a “kissmya$$Icouldhaveopenthedooronmyown” eye

Slim I wish she would name those two…LOL

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this

DB’s cont’d

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…thats how adults do it…plus..it might be a rematch in the AM…give you a reason to be late for work…

@ Sup Foots..Sup Page..Sup Coco..

By David

July 27, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Slimone I’m 31 and married. I don’t date any more, ofcourse, but I obviously did a lot of dating while single. Usually at least 2-3 times a week.

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

July 27, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

Page I tried sending you an email, but it bounced back. Can you send me your addy again?

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

melo no emotions - I’m just trying to get you to see clearly what I’m posting. And excuse me if I believed your comments in the past - your previous posts have led us to believe that you were divorced, and prior to that you were unhappy. As a matter of fact we had an exchange a while back about you getting out of a marriage first before finding love elsewhere. So unless there’s another melo on here, you have portrayed yourself to be unhappy in marriage, then divorced and now you are getting puddy on the regular - but it’s from your wife.

You’re right this is just a blog, but for some reason I choose to believe what folks post and respond accordingly. But now I know what I’m dealing with concerning you - you are simply blowing off steam.

By Hotlanta

July 27, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

MHann here are rules for the men.

-Say up front you got 9 kids. Don’t have us over to your house with the phone ringing all day and night and you talking about you are tired of the telemarketers calling all day

-Don’t get too close to me on the dance floor trying to get some free sex all sweaty and musty. Back that thang up.

-Please eat breakfast in the morning instead of grabbing a beer and wanna talk all up in somebody face.

-Don’t get mad and call us a man because some of us can play the game as well as you. Like I said earlier some of us just wanna hit it and quit it to.

-Some of us ain’t trying to get in with your family, we got our own bunch of crazies.

-Take the braids and plaits outta your head. Being 99 years old with braids going back ain’t cool.

-Gotta say it. PLEASE take off those socks at the ankle with your sandals and those pants jacked up gathered at the waist.

-To wear a muscle shirt you must have MUSCLES. Wearing a D cup doesn’t count and yes some of yall do sag up there. You look like a goat who had just fed her babies. Disgusting

-Don’t require me to look like Halle Barry and you look like Forrest Whitaker.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

melo Oohhhh…You might want to report to your MLB armory for some protection…and quick fast.

Alvin See men jump to conclusions….She could’ve been referring to your nuts and bolts down below. LOLOLOL! Plus if you got mad, it would be too late. By the time you tried to go off on her, she’d be sleep.

ASO: Allllvvvviiiin, Ssssssiiimmmoonn, Thhhheeeooooddoorre! Do do, do do do Do Do, do do do ALLLLVVVVIIINNNN

A: WTF! Who da hellz is…

ASO: zzzzzzzzz

A: I know you aint jus..

ASO: ZZZZZZZZ

A: hey! you fuggin…

ASO: ZZZZZZZZ

Alvin shakes his girl to wake her up. She stirs a little and rolls over

ASO: poooonnnntttt!

Alvin now past out face down near her azz from the blow of her fart

By Page1908

July 27, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

Hey SJ and QC!

LDD my addy is pageantgirl_1908@yahoo.com*

Tazzee You are a huge football fan, right? Girl, Superbowl is gonna be off-the-chain! We are already gearing up for everything out here now. You should def make the visit, girl!

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

bxbeauty “DON’T talk/holla/pursue me if you’re married.” yall ladies kill me with this one. Every married man that has a conversation with you is not trying to holla. I’ve had several stimulating, intelligent discussions with women in social settings and we genuinely enjoyed each other’s company. I would never conceal that fact that I’m married nor would I allow the topic of conversation to drift to an area that would suggest our interaction was anything more than strangers having an innocent exchange of ideas. Just because a married brotha speaks to you doesn’t mean he wants to f&*k you.

By melo

July 27, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

@Tazze, today is a slow day and a friday at that and this is the most i have posted on a single day. I have hinted in the past, i come up here as a stress reliever. U can believe what ever u want on the net, at ur own risk. I may not be melo, u just reading me backwards!lol I am too busy to take two jobs, believe me.

By Page1908

July 27, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

LOL OMG Hotlanta awwwwwwwww dang, that ish is funny as hayell! I agree 100%. Braids on any dude over the age 25 is sooooooooo not the ish! Get over it dudes!

By Foots

July 27, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

Dang Hotlanta!! You read some of those fools their rights, didn’t you? LOL!!

Hey SJ3G. What’s up, Blog Family?

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Hotlanta Nice, nice, nicccce, LOL

SlimOne LOL, you’re soooooo wrong for that!!!

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

and I might be a little testy, but it has nothing to do with a lack of sex - it’s this dern Fat Smash diet that’s got me eating fruits and vegetables only. as I eat my steamed broccoli and carrots for lunch

By Blatino aka BMW aka BLT

July 27, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

@Hotlanta…. Forrest probably has banged Halle, from what I hear, LOLOL.

THIS IS AN OFFICIAL MLB ANOUNCEMENT In conjunction with the only true council of the MLB…. BLAT…. GAMAN….TRUTH(THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE OFFICE OF SEC OF STATE)….SJ3000….. AND MUSING…. THAT’S IT.

the official Misadventures-MLB myspace is under construction!!!!

It will be administrated by Blat with heavy imput from GAMan and the council members…. Hit us up fellas and ladies… Membership is free but it does have its rules, and they will be posted.

* http://www.myspace.com/misadventures_mlb *

By bxbeauty

July 27, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

@Dushawn - true. However, stand by my original post. I am not referring to those that are only interested in conversation, I’m referring to those that act as though they are available to engage in a little more than stimulating conversation.

By melo

July 27, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee, this blog excites me coz it just allows me to fantasize about my long gone youth and dating times. I can be serious,silly or whatever without having to expalin to nobody.Its just plain fun and being silly, in my big body. U see how Slimone is always having fun.Thats the idea..just keep it moving.

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

Page One of my closest friends is from Tuscan and we were planning to be there for the Falcons/Cardinals game before we saw the schedule. Unfortunately my job has me on lock during the Superbowl so the only way I can go is if my Falcons are in it - that’s the only way my boss would understand me taking time off in February.

That’s why I need to change professions because I’ve been wanting to go to the Pro Bowl for a few years now. I hope to be there in 2010 though.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

Sean J Yeah you’re right about the AM nookie. You know how you all are with that morning tree branch..LOL

David Are you enjoying the married life?

Hotlanta I’m all the way with you on the braids deal. Fellas Why in the world do you all try to hold onto those nasty cornrolls when your hair line is all the way at the back of your neck…OR if the only places you have hair is on your sideburns. PUHLEAZE take those braids out!

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

And Hotlanta had you not posted your age, I would have thought you were my girl…I would have been like, “Oh ish, I am sooooooo busted!!” LOL

You both have the same mind set, which makes her, a whole lot easier to deal with.

By Page1908

July 27, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

LOL *Tazzee Girl,you need to 86 that diet and get with the Vinegar! You should also try the Master Cleanse.

By Hotlanta

July 27, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

I am sick of men/society telling us how to act all of the time while the men are running around here doing what they wanna do as if we WOMEN are supposed to accept that. This is a new day and age. Somebody please tell me why do men wear their shades in a room and it is 2:0clock on the morning. Shame,shame, shame. That is a big date buster for me.

By Foots

July 27, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

DuShawn Maybe this is based on her experiences. In my own experiences, only with my married friends (who have been my friends for a long time, before marriage) can I expect that it will only be a friendly conversation. Every married man who has approached because he was attracted to me wanted something other than friendly conversation. And stated as much. This must be what she is experiencing also.

By Page1908

July 27, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Girl, when will you be out here? Tucson is kinda boring, though…lol. I just went to a party last month at some dude’s house who plays for the Cardinals…girl, i can’t remember his name…Kenny King, I think? Lawd, I am so bad with football players…lol….but Basketball?! Girlllllll, huh huh…..lol. Well,maybe your Falcons will make it to the SuperBowl this year…lol SIKE!

By Blatino aka BMW aka BLT

July 27, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

CORRECTION….

the correct url is http://www.myspace.com/misadventuresblog_mlb

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

what I don’t understand is dudes that get the weaved in cornrows. For some reason I think weave is only acceptable for females.

By David

July 27, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Slimone Married life is great and a big adjustment from being single. There are some disadvantages, and there are a lot of advantages.

By Hotlanta

July 27, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Slimone I hear ya. I can’t even stand the one’s who walk around with their neice’s barrettes and pony tail holders in their hair like Snooop Dog. I am like UGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH. What about the one’s who have hair on their ears and I haven’t been to zoo in years nor seen Michael J. Fox movie Werewolf in Paris.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

Foots That has pretty much been my experience too with married men. Even if they don’t say something off base, sometimes that “I want to gobble you up look” is just as bad. Slim now putting on earmuffs, gloves, and scarf to hide any possible sexually alluring body part

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

Page I’m doing this with some friends so it’s a group effort. But that Master Cleanse is not for me and its even worse - on this one its only 9 days like this but at least I get to eat something. I’m not much of a ‘diet’ person - I just watch what I eat and exercise. But the competitive nature in me agreed to do this with my friends. Its more of ‘let me see if I will follow through’ ignoring your comment about my Falcons but I’m not going to be out there now. The Falcons/Cardinals game is too close to Christmas.

By Staceye

July 27, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

Thanks Sexione My bad Liz…I did not know that was what you were doing…you did not mention these were DB’s. You just went for it! LOL I feel you girl!

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

Blatino sup bruh, I with check it out later.

Okay…Since when is it sexy for a light skin sister to walk around with hairy legs??

And no she isn’t pregnant.

By lovelyliz

July 27, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

Picking me up in a messy car is another turn off.

By Staceye

July 27, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Kinderbabe you are so rigth on Slim! LOL I feel her too on the shaky legs thing. Now if the sex was wack…I am going home soon there after. Not to mention I am going to call all my girls and talk ish about you! I might be driving the same way as great sex….cause a sista’ would be p** that she just wasted a sin! I mean…if I have to answer to the Lord for it I better at least be able to say I enjoyed it! LOL

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Alvin LOL! Believe it or not some dudes like women with hairy legs. I had a co-worker who’s SO told her not to shave her legs. And what does being pregnant have to do with it?

By bxbeauty

July 27, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

Foots, SlimOne - thanks for the support. I didn’t think it was just me. I KNOW I’m not putting out that vibe.

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

Hairy legs are the ultimate deal breaker for me. That shyt makes my skin crawl. That’s something I cannot accept. I don’t want no hairy legs rubbing against my hairy legs under the sheets. If I see a fine sista, but her legs are hairy, I can’t even look at her anymore. She ruined it for me.

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

is there a pass for pregnant women on shaving their legs? Cool!

By QC

July 27, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

Hello Page aka Cup-Cake i’m trying to catch up but it’s not working…

QC reaches for her cup & once again it’s…empty…Sexione, help me

By NICK

July 27, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Staceye You’re right. I might dip out too if the gettin wasn’t good. I’ve experienced that before just laying there starring at the ceiling wide awake while Mr. Oh I think I tore it UP, is over there snoring his azz off. Dayum, I could’ve just had a V-8

Slim now looking for BabyJuice Donor so she won’t have to shave again until next May (2008)

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

I agree Du!!

SlimOne that’s the only excuse a woman should have…now before HOT A$$ come reading me my right…I don’t care if a women is BUTT ugly, legs and under arm should be trimmed.

And Tazz if I you were my wife and I got you pregnant, I would either: A) shave them myself or B) take your little cute pregnant a$$ to the shop and PAY to have them shaven.

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

a few of my DB’s are

if there is any chance of a crazy ex kicking in your door..and killing you ..me and then his self..we cant even be friends

if you snoop or go in ANY of my ish at my spot ..its a wrap

if your cooch smells like anything other than what cooch is suppose to smell like….i will let u smell my finger and delte you out of the black berry

if you have a kid()s..and they dont show me the same respect i show you and them….i woudnt say its a DB…but your stock drops and jump off status

If your feet looks like you walked to work in the HOV lane barefooted…or use them as a to slow down at stop signs..we cant kick it no more..u dont wash your feet its a 100 percent chance u dont wash ya azz

By NICK

July 27, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

Hairy legs is NASTY, but ladies don’t forget to shave the “coochie”……….

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

LOL Alvin I’m glad you wouldn’t let me walk around with hairy legs.

By Foots

July 27, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

SJ3G I just had a Flintstones flashback! LOL!

By newbe

July 27, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

Bela with rules like yours you will be single for a long long time..no saying I love U till a ring is on the way..how old are you anyway??

By For Real

July 27, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!

Somebody tell me what’s going on bc I ain’t reading all that ish.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Sean J OMG!!!! I almost got in trouble laughing at the last one about the feet. We call those Flintstone Feet. Yabba Dabba Dooo By the way, what does Cooch supposed to smell like. hehehehe

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

staceye gurl…you funny!!lmao “if i have to answer to the lord…” that was classic…lol.

By Sexione...in the Urban Hang Suite

July 27, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

I am laughing my butt off at y’all. The 99 yr old in braids is hilarious!!!!

QC Refill on Mimosa coming up…..lol

If your feet looks like you walked to work in the HOV lane barefooted…or use them as a to slow down at stop signs. Daaayyyuuuummmm SJ you stoopid!! But I feel ya…men that goes for you too> Don’t be scurrrred to get that pedicure! whew!!

By Shadowdancer

July 27, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

Rules for Women:

If you have slept with more guys than I can count on my hands go away.

Taking out past failed relationships on me is a no no

If your seeing me and you want to be serious, NO seeing other Men Period. I have been cheated on before and I will have Zero Tolerance.

Don’t Lie

If you can’t have fun on the simple things in life from time to time your wasting my time.

If you think the relationship is only about you (the Woman) you will not last long.

A big one here, willing to make compromises, lots of folks have trouble with this one not just women. If its something within reason Hint: Swallow your pride for minute you will be happy you did.

If we were to marry your butt will be working, most families can’t survive off one income, plus I am not a fan of house sitters or free loaders.

* Know that I like to have solitude time. Doesn’t mean that I want to go out by myself, it means I like to be left alone from time to time ether watching TV, work on a hobby, or meditate without having to have company.*

I don’t think I’m asking too much.

By melo

July 27, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

1)I offered to buy u a drink, dont invite all ur THIRSTY friends to the bar to get a round. I aint an ATM. 2)Dont order the most expensive dish on the menu and yet hardly eat it. 3)If u okay rolling with me to my crib, why do u seem to be hesitating and glancing back to ur girls, as if u need their approval! 4)Why u say u cant get down on me on a 1st date, but u here in my bed on a 1st date!!

By jazzyone

July 27, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

I guess I may be one of few because if I want to hit it I will and may not want a relationship or to lock you down. Althought htis isn’t my norm it seems when ever I had done that or let a man know i don’t want you just ‘it’ hes the one with the problem and turns into a stalker….

By QC

July 27, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

Hello ForReal how ya doing babeh?

By melo

July 27, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

@NICKbut ladies don’t forget to shave the “coochie”………. I like the coochie unshaven. I aint fugging a baby!!

By Staceye

July 27, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

SJ3000 you do the smell test like Martin….”Smell dat girl…dats you”! Looks like a good place for a STICK-UP! There I go again quoting Martin in You So Crazy! LOL

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

ITS FRIDAY, ITS FRIDAY, ITS THE END OF THE WEEK ITS THE LAST DAY, YO SlimOne ITS ON YOU, NOW WHATCHA GONNA DO…

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

RECAP FOR 4 REAL

Did i skip anything guys?

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

HOTLANTA are you able to make it to the meet and greet next saturday?

By Foots

July 27, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

jazzyone No need to engage a man’s mind, body and spirit if I’m just in search of a quick O… When I just want “it”, I put new AAs in the bullet. Now if that ish starts stalking me, I’m in real trouble. LOL!

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…i have had some odorless cooch.rare but always a welcome surprise…but for the must part..a nice sweet savory smell…dont act like u know the smell…or taste …lol..

@Staceye..u gotta do the finger smell test…if i didnt you would hate for me to stop mid stroke and put my seanjohnson near your nose for u to get a wiff..

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

I’M GOING TO GET MY HAIR DONE ON, I’M GOING TO GET MY EYEBROW WAXING ON, I’M GOING TO GET MY….????…crickets crickets……GET MY LOOK-GOOD-FOR-MYSELF ON lol

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

all the ladies whats the difference in men over 25 wearing braids and women over 30 dressing like their 16 year old daughter

By MsU

July 27, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Hi everyone, I am off today and very busy don’t have time to comment. Just stop by to say hello. and um where the h3ll is the rest of my pictures—yall know who i am talkin bout…

By For Real

July 27, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Slim Can elaborate more on your thoughts about the movie? Oh and you forgot to mention that Bella likes to dry my feet after 4 hours of playing basketball.

By melo

July 27, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

Do bullets come with a thickish, sluggish liquid in them?!! Sexyleggs, u hitting bellbottoms again this weekend?

By QC

July 27, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

lmao @ Foots “Bullet Stalking

By Hotlanta

July 27, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

-Speaking of shaving.Men please do not use cream deodarant under your arms it makes your armpits looks as if they have rabies.

-Shave the hair off your chest, arms, back and stomach. You don’t need to look like you are wearing a brown sweater with black lint balls.

-Last but not least because this is the weekend. Please don’t call it Big Willy and when I see it the song “It’ A Small, Small World” comes to mind.

Did I miss anything ladies

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

Sean J I do know….As a guy described to me before…Sweet like Carnation Milk….LMAO!!!!! And yep, i’m overlooking your ‘taste’ comment. I think guys get a kick outta seeing if a girl with kiss them after they’ve gone down under

Gorilla There is no difference. I don’t condone that either…Dress your age or at least have yourself looking decent and not like a NightWalker

By For Real

July 27, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

Hey QC. I guess my second post was eaten.

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

WELL GET YOUR HAIR DONT ON, GET YOUR EYEBROW WAYING ON, AND GET YOUR LOOK-GOOD-FOR-MYSELF ON ALL WEEKEND LONG. CAUSE ITS FRIDAY, ITS FRIDAY, ITS THE END OF THE WEEK ITS THE LAST DAY, YO SlimOne ITS ON YOU, NOW WHATCHA GONNA DO…

By Foots

July 27, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

melo Nope. That’s why they don’t give you STDs or get you pregnant.

By MsU

July 27, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

SJ you are sick…lol Gorilla - i don’t know i don’t dress 16 nor am i over 30. I prefer a guy with a very low cut, nice and trim you know.. Forreal you got 5 mintues to give me my joke before i leave..lol

By MsU

July 27, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

SJ you are sick…lol Gorilla - i don’t know i don’t dress 16 nor am i over 30. I prefer a guy with a very low cut, nice and trim you know.. Forreal you got 5 mintues to give me my joke before i leave..lol

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

For Real I thought it was one of those slow, quirky kind of movies but I liked it. I might have to steal some her dance moves though.

By QC

July 27, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

Slimone you are really making my day go by much hic-cup faster than i’m drinking these Mimos’s hic-up

Hey MissU

I have a friend who’s over 40 and still wearing braids…

old azz buzzard, need to get his hair all cut off….hic-cup

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

@ Slim….you have a problem kissing/licking the glaze off..that came from you?

By MsU

July 27, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

hahah @ hotlanta girrrl you are so right.. I got to get ready to leave and yall are cracking me up…

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

WELL GET YOUR HAIR DONT ON, GET YOUR EYEBROW WAYING ON, AND GET YOUR LOOK-GOOD-FOR-MYSELF ON ALL WEEKEND LONG. CAUSE ITS FRIDAY, ITS FRIDAY, ITS THE END OF THE WEEK ITS THE LAST DAY, YO SexiOne ITS ON YOU, NOW WHATCHA GONNA DO…

By QC

July 27, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

Hotlanta you pretty much covered everything…don’t call yourself “Big Daddy” when you should be called “Dr Thumb”

By melo

July 27, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

@Foots, thank the inventer for the good condom.Use it religiously especially with these girls who say’i never do this kinda of thing..dont know why i did it with ya’.

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Hotlanta I can’t co-sign on the hair one - I like some chest and stomach hair. Not gorilla-like, but I enjoy some….

By melo

July 27, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

Happy hunting single folks and good weekend. @Tazzee,one luv I may be up in Haristons today or tomorrw. Grown fox see ya there!

By Gorilla O aka "Tha Code Cracka"

July 27, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

so i guess most of you women are in to the suit and tie dudes

By Page1908

July 27, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Tazzee Ok, girl. Well, I will keep my fingers crossed for your Falcons!

LOL @ Hotlanta!

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

SJ I was thinking the same thing Slim I know you’ve tasted yourself. You never had a man make you clean up your mess?

By MsU

July 27, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

Hey QC!!

By NCGirlfromATL

July 27, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

Afternoon…well…almost evening er’rbody!

-To wear a muscle shirt you must have MUSCLES. Wearing a D cup doesn’t count and yes some of yall do sag up there. You look like a goat who had just fed her babies. Disgusting

Hotlanta LMAO!!!! I’ll add to that: Don’t have a bicep tattoo…if you don’t have any biceps! Nobody wants to see your skull and cross bones on a flabby arm! Pump some iron before you go under the needle!

DuShawn It’s interesting that you talk about hairy legs, b/c I’ve known a lot of Black men who could care less about that. But you’re right. It’s really not a good look when the hair is so think you can still see it through the panty hose…especially white panty hose! UGH!

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

QC You might want to slow down on them mimosa’s hic cup Ooops, I had a few myself.

Sean J why you always trying to call me out on here. Give me your email address and I’ll tell you alllll about it. lol But to answer you question….

Tazzee If a dude has a bird chest, he might need to have a little bit of chest hair. After all, birds like to nest in trees, not bare-@ss branches. lol

QC Dr thumb?????/ OH MY GOOOONES sounding like She-nay nay

By QC

July 27, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

I’m gone get my hair on, and then get my shopping on, i’m gone get my church/singing/praise on, then gone get my sleep on, and get my watching some movies on all weekend long!

I’d just decided to go ahead and answer Gorilla, hellz it would’ve been 5:15 when you got aroung to me, lol

By MsU

July 27, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

@Gorilla It not that. You have to know how to switch it up and what approiate and when it is approiate.. Some things just aren’t acceptable.. Like long hair, pants sagggin off butt that’s not acceptable.. Keep your hair neatly cut, nice trim, smelling good, clothes clean and sow some respect okay now i’m out this time.Have a great weekend.

By NCGirlfromATL

July 27, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

don’t call yourself “Big Daddy” when you should be called “Dr Thumb”

Ok QC…you owe me a laptop screen for that one! (*wiping my iced tea off the screen w/ my sleeve)…and a shirt! ROTFLMAO!!!!

Makes you think of that scene in Waiting to Exhale where Lela Rechon’s (sp?) character was sleeping w/ “Michael” and wondering if he was in there.

By SlimOne

July 27, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

DUshawn Um…clean up after myself???? There isn’t a mess that I created…most of the time it’s me getting up to get the warm wet washcloth for him to clean himself up.

Slim wears a bib & gloves…no mess here. And if so, it’s time for the Quicker Picker Upper

By QC

July 27, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

Slimone you know how when your glass is empty and you hold it over your wide open mouth, and little drops come down every 5 seconds….well that’s what i’m doing with my Mimosa drops….i’m checking out for the day…have a great safe, fun, restful weekend bloggers….QC is out

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

SlimOne LOL @ the birds nesting!

By QC

July 27, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

lol, sorry NC girl i’ll put it on the MLB’s tab HOLLA!!!!

By SeanJohnson3000

July 27, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

@ Slim..i am not calling you out pound cake…i just know after a man goes down and bring females to an orgasm pr two ..yall normally pulls us up and plant a passionate kiss…thus cleaning the glaze from the lips and goatee..seanjohnson3000@yahoo.com

By DuShawn

July 27, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

SlimOne I’ll leave that alone. Friday around this time,I start thinking nasty.

By Sexione..in the Urban Hang Suite

July 27, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

*Weelll I’m gonna get my sip on, then I’m gonna get my rest on, then I’m gonna get my movies on, then I’m gonna get my praise on all weekend long!

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

Real talk, lack of oral skill period is a deal breaker!!!

and YES I love giving to the chosen few ladies

By Melissa

July 27, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

melo Which girls are you using it with? Your wife?

By Foots

July 27, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

I must agree with you Alvin.

By kinderbabe

July 27, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

have a great weekend everybody!

By Tazzee

July 27, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

Have a great weekend folks!

By Foots

July 27, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

Have a good weekend, all!

By Alvin

July 27, 2007 5:05 PM | Link to this

Good Nite to All!!!

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August 21, 2007 5:30 AM | Link to this

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