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Sell Yourself (Legally!)
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
So we covered some of the challenges we face in the wonderful world of dating. To wrap up the week’s list of challenges, let’s address the challenge in selling yourself to people. Everyone likes to think that their stock on the singles market is high, but you may find that you have to play up your good sides from time to time.
If you haven’t noticed before, Atlanta singles are hot, successful, and picky! This can be both a blessing and a curse. Blessing: plenty of eye candy, lots of options. Curse: plenty of eye candy and lots of options. It’s all about spin, ya’ll!
The challenge in selling yourself is that you don’t want to make it seem that you are polar opposite to what you actually are. A reader, “Sully” commented yesterday that often times people are only sending their “dating reps” when you first start dating. That happens because we don’t want to show the real, true, raw being - I mean, why would we? That would be social suicide!
Do you find it hard to sell yourself on the dating market? Are you careful about the way you present yourself to potential dates? Have you ever had someone misread what you “advertised” on a date?
How do you manage to turn heads with the opposite sex? Maybe we can learn a few pointers from the best of Atlanta’s singles! Think of it as a single person’s guide to advertising your dating goods, so to speak.
As a fun Friday exercise, imagine that you are an ad exec or a celebrity PR team. What creative and fun ad campaign, slogan, or commercial would you use to “sell yourself” uhh, legally of course!
I’ll start: I’m like Gillette, baby. The BEST a man can get. Yes, I know that’s not original but it’s the best one I could come up with! Your turn!
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By Wise Diva (remote location)
August 31, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
Yeah uhhh, see what had happened was, um I am on my way to LA this morning, but I DID manage to get the entry up, so that counts for something right!?
I am sorry, guys COME BAAAAACK!!
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this
WD you are messing up my friday!!!! Come on now!!!
I will comeback after I have counted to 10! LOL WD is trying to get my pressure up!! :0)
By ALVIN
August 31, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
Blog Moms What would you want your 18 month old child to call your baby’s father’s new wife?
Sup, B-ish!! Or something to the effect…
LDD Don’t sweat it sis, you will alway be his mother and his heart…Every woman who is non-related, are just a F/Kable mommy, period.
Y’all stay bless!!!
By Wise Diva (remote location)
August 31, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
LOL @ MO! Aww, I’m really sorry :(, go ahead and “walk it out” LOL.. Diva cues up DJ Unk’s Walk it out remix
By Single in LA now Single in ATL
August 31, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Ok, did everyone go on vacation today? Wise I just got back from home (LA) and the weather was great. Have fun!
By Dan
August 31, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this
Dan is watching….
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this
FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By Dan
August 31, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this
No one wants to be the first to post… that’s cute, like a party with girls on one side and boys on the other.
Shout out to Mo for being the first
By Island Girl
August 31, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this
Ok…the one time I’m here early….the blog is not working…go figure Just kidding Wise!
On Topic
As far as selling one’s self….I think confidence wins it. There is confidence in the way I present myself (period). I don’t wear clothes that don’t fit my appropriately. I walk with confidence and I exude a positive vibe. When I’m in a funky mood I stay away from others and just chill. These things have worked well for me.
By Brooklyn
August 31, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this
How do you manage to turn heads with the opposite sex? I dont know, but most men say I have a pretty confident walk and very sensual eyes that I play up with eye makeup. Overrall, I think its in my attitude, you know? I put out this self assured image of myself—even when I am feeling anything but- and most men are drawn to that.
As far as PR slogan…the only one I can think of is the Allstate commercial. I will change that to: “”You’re in good hands with Brooklyn.” LOL. Cheesy, I know.
By Ladylike
August 31, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this
It’s FRIDAY, do that dance, do that dance, ye, ye, do that dance, do that dance.
hahahahaha, WD I have got met you someday, you are a mess! It’s all good, have a ball in LA.
By Dan
August 31, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this
Selling yourself is lot easier when the impediments to the process are low.
For the record let me state, that flaugging on the cell phone has seriously limited interactions between potential mates.
If it isn’t the man, it’s the woman more concerned with a conversation, than with the people around them. Even with a inviting smile, if you’re on the phone when I see you, I’m done. And on the occasions that the call is interuppted, it’s still not enough.
On this holiday weekend let’s all agree to try to be more accessible to the world.
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this
I think we all manage to turn heads of the opposite sex is either they find us attractive, we’re smelling really nice, or we’re wearing something that caught their attention; they smile at us to keep from laughing; but they’re probably talking about us in their mind!
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this
I think we all manage to turn heads of the opposite sex is either they find us attractive, we’re smelling really nice, or we’re wearing something that caught their attention; they smile at us to keep from laughing; but they’re probably talking about us in their mind!
By Ladylike
August 31, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this
My PR Slogan would be:
“Me a Diamond, well maybe not the biggest but my sparkle is irresistible” “I’m in demand so Love me Now and Avoid the Rush”
I do have one that speaks to my resilience in the dating game also: “Timex takes a licking and keeps on ticking.”
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
Mo, now tired from “walkin it out”! thanks WD I can make it now!! LOL
What’s up Dan, somebody had to do it! :0)
Blog Moms What would you want your 18 month old child to call your baby’s father’s new wife? Anything but mommy (ma, mum, hey lady, hey you, etc). “mommy” is mine!
On topic: How do you manage to turn heads with the opposite sex? I have been told I have a nice smile so that seems to get me a lot of attention, genuinely. LOL
My motto: Like Mastercard, I’m PRICELESS!! Corny I know, but all I could think of. Maybe once I really get it together I’ll think of something better! LOL
By Island Girl
August 31, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this
Hey Ladylike and MO…I like both of your selling points…
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this
My Motto: Like Coke “I’m the real thing” lol
By SlimOne
August 31, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this
I just be me when I’m out. As i’ve gotten older I really don’t find any reason to be anyone other than me. Just like on my Myspace page…It says, I can’t be no other, I can only be Me. So i think guys are attracted to my look and the fact that I appear to be down-to-earth and loves to laugh. I think men are turned on or take notice to women who are having fun. Who wants to talk to the chick sitting in the corner of the bar/club/restaurant etc looking like someone farted in her face? Ewwww!
So I can’t say I do too much sales pitches trying to get folks to sign up with Slim. Either we connect or we don’t. But what surprises me is when you tell a dude in the nicest way possible that you don’t find yourself interested in them, why they insist on giving you their number anyway. DELETE DELETE DELETE. lol
By Dan
August 31, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this
I don’t really believe in marketing much, don’t feel like I have to. For me, what you see is what you get.
But if I had to choose a slogan: ” I can’t believe it’s not bul…..”
By These DL Dudes Need To Cool Out aka Gorilla O
August 31, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
Good Afternoon Er’body. Whats up SlimOne, MO, QC, IslandGirl, Ladylike, etc.
Slogan Aint Nobody Like Me Baby, I’m My Competition
How do you manage to turn heads with the opposite sex? well since my mom and pops had a great night the night they conceived me, i normally turn heads from the opposite sex just by my appearance…remember i do sport a mean azz goatee, lol. but i also exude a lot of confidence and the attitude that i dont need you, there’s 100 of you out there, and just one me! like i said, aint nobody like me baby, im my competition! im not cocky, im just feelin myself!
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this
Hey Gorilla-O
By SexyLeggs
August 31, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
Good afternoon everyone. As IslandGirl and Brooklyn stated, it’s all about the “confidence” factor. This is attractive to both genders. Don’t get confidence mixed up with conceit. Confidence exudes a comfortable aura whereas conceit is simply annoying.
By Island Girl
August 31, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this
Hey Gorilla-O…are you having problems with the DL dudes? lol
By Dan
August 31, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this
@Sexyleggs Great name.
While stating that each woman views things differently, what’s your answer on the difference between confidence and conceit.
I’ve been called both, but I feel like it’s not conceit if, by measurable means, what you feel is true.
By SlimOne
August 31, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this
These DL Dudes Need To Cool Out aka Gorilla O im not cocky, im just feelin myself Hey there. Just a little fyi, you have to be careful when you start feelin yourself because strange things happen…noises get made, senses get heighten, and next thing you know, there’s a clean up on aisle 5. lol
By SexyLeggs
August 31, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this
Thanks Dan. To me, conceit is a palpable arrogance. When a compliment is given and a thank-you doesn’t come next. Instead, you might get I know, or “but of course.” Conceit is walking, thinking, voicing and believing “you’re the cat’s meow” when in fact you’re “the dog’s howl” on a daily basis. Confidence is in fact a belief in one’s self, yet a warmth exudes from a person that is genuine, honest and you can put a person before yourself.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this
Gorilla O whassup my fellow eastsider! Like the slogan man, that’s hott!
By Ladylike
August 31, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this
What’s up Island Girl, thanks. Hey Gorilla O, Mo, Eastside Riders, me too. You guys it’s not exactly 5 but I’m finna get heck outta here. Hey SexyLeggs, SlimOne, Dan, QC.
Y’all have a great Labor Day Weekend, and be safe!
Oh ya, Wise Diva thanks, the blog has been interesting to read and opinionate on this week.
By These DL Dudes Need To Cool Out aka Gorilla O
August 31, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this
IslandGirl, im having a problem with these DL cats indirectly. last night i was asked if i was on the DL. not because i look like i got sugar in my tank or i made a suspicious gesture, but just because there’s so many of them out here, she just wanted to know. ive been asked this question on a couple of occasions. at first i got real offended, then i thought about how many ‘curious’ men their are out here, and i really couldnt blame a woman for asking. well now im back to being offended/p** the fugg off. not at women who want to know, but the clowns that are on the DL. i mean, if you want to putt from the ruff, thats on you. but be consistent. if you like women, date women. if you like men, date men. but dont have your girl, or even worse your wife thinking its all about her, when its really about your homeboy ralph! now your exposing her to diseases and that shyt aint right! hell sleeping with another man aint right. what the hell yall look like talkin bout yea dog, just like that, and that ninja’s size 13 feet in the air. but if thats what yall want to do, then by all means knock yourself out (literally and figuratively). just be up front with your lady and tell her your somewhat gay, and let her decide if she wants to stay with you, dont decide for her because you’re too much of a punk (no pun intended) to keep it real! just had to get some ish off my chest.
SlimOne, i almost fell out my chair when i read that. you off tha chain!
Thanks MO. now i would love to exchange compliments, but yours was kind of whack, lol. just playin, i know your priceless.
Whats up QC
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this
Gorilla O I agree with your post! Do you feel better now that you have vented! WHEW!
By DuShawn
August 31, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this
Where is everybody?
By These DL Dudes Need To Cool Out aka Gorilla O
August 31, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this
MO, i apologize for the long post, lol, but i do feel better now.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this
Dushawn I think everybody is off today, I know quite a few folks posted that yesterday was their Friday. Today we are few in Blogsville….
You know its a holiday b/c GAMan didnt come out and give a citation to Gorilla O for that long post!
By Got that?
August 31, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
WYSIWYG
By Jake aka Sweet Peeda Jeeda the Womb Beater
August 31, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this
I just walk up to her and say the name, then I lean back in case she swings at me…lol
Hey Ladies, Sweet Peeda says hello.
By abc
August 31, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
From my perspective and awareness, I’ve always presented myself simply as myself, without specific marketing. I figure people will come to see who and what I really am sooner or later, better to be sooner. I suppose my sales pitch would be something along the lines of 100% real, genuine, all natural ingredients, something like that.
By SexyLeggs
August 31, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
For those of you who are still here, Chrisette Michelle will hold a free concert this Saturday @ Underground Atlanta (Montreaux Jazz Festival) 1-8:00 p.m.
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this
Where is everybody? What’s up for the weekend….who’s doing what?…who’s doing who???…what’s your favorite color? Is anyone else off tuesday besides me?????…..What’s really going on??
QC’s bored that’s why i’m asking all these questions
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this
Jake You know I got words for you from yesterday about your “Strokin” Clarence Carter Tribute to me! ;0) LOL I didnt get a chance to fire back b4 the blog closed! You were soooo wrong for that Sweet Peeda!!
By Jake aka Sweet Peeda Jeeda the Womb Beater aka TripleL "the Lick'em Low Lover"
August 31, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this
Hey Mo, you could get in some real trouble with me. I do not play games when it comes to the bedroom. you won’t leave me and talk bad, shiid, you won’t wanna leave period.
By QC - Is it 5ive yet?
August 31, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this
Jake>Peeda Peeda P’dussy Eater
Have a great weekend bloggers
I’ll catch up with y’all one day next week
HOLLA..QC has left the building
By Jake aka Sweet Peeda Jeeda the Womb Beater
August 31, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this
Aight ya’ll, I’m about to get this weekend started. Be safe and have a happy holiday, and be on those P’s and Q’s, they will passing them tickets out to en-tbody who wants them.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 31, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
Jake well, well now…..is that a promise or you just giving me your slogan?? >;0) I’ll never te-ell Let me find out I need to be casing out the eastside for you so I can get a tune-up..LOL
By Jake aka Sweet Peeda Jeeda the Womb Beater
August 31, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this
QC That’s a good one…you got me, but I never go XXX on Random Broads…okay now I’m out.
By ALVIN
August 31, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this
Night All…