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Stripping away misconceptions?
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Prior to the BET awards, The AJC ran an article in its Living section asking Atlanta celebs where to eat, shop, and live it up as hip-hop’s best flooded the city.
Jermaine Dupri was not the only advocate of strip clubs in the story, but the content of his quote jumped out at me:
“If you’re a male and you’re single — [adult entertainment club] Magic City. You’ve got to go there. Experience that. Even if you’re a woman, I think you should experience the strip-club life. I think there’s a misconception on the woman’s part of what happens in a strip club. Women believe we’re in there with the girls in our laps or something. Our strip clubs are more like nightclubs. [Girlfriend] Janet [Jackson] has been there with me. Plenty of times.”
Women, do you date men who go to strip clubs? If so, do you attend as well? Is there a difference between someone who’s not dating anyone at all, someone who’s in a committed relationship, and someone who’s married going out for adult entertainment?
Men, if you go to strip clubs, do you take your women with you? Have you found women to be accepting of these types of activities? Have you ever dated a woman who was not OK with this?
Does seeking out adult entertainment reflect on the quality of your dating life, or is it simply an activity one participates in, such as soccer or cooking? Do you think going out on such outings is becoming less and less taboo as our dating culture evolves?
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By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 8:45 AM | Link to this
Bella how are you this cool morning?
I can’t wait to go to the strip club for the first time! Georgia is so famous for them. One of our favorite bloggers has volunteered to take me. lol. You know who you are!
By binford
October 30, 2007 8:45 AM | Link to this
passing around the Dunkin Donuts coffee and donuts around the room
Morning all!
Hey, why don’t we all go to Ruth’s Chris Steak House and buy the best steak and get the best wine - and just look at it and throw dollar bills at it - but not touch it!
Sounds great, doesn’t it?
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this
Mornin….
strip clubs are the shyt! and just as JD stated, ATL strip clubs are like clubs;
for ladies with dudes that like to partake…..”who cares where he builds his apetite, as long as he comes home for dinner!”
By Dan
October 30, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this
As someone that has hit every male oriented strip club in the A (even the defunct Gold Club) the first time I went to a club was for fun and to be able to say I went.
As time went on and I wasn’t spending refund checks, but my own money. The “D” realized that having my own woman dance for me was hotter.
I have been to strip clubs with women, and they generally enjoy it more than they think they will on arrival.
But a woman that minds my bachelor party attendance at a strip club (even when there isn’t one), tells me more about her insecurities than anything else.
By SexyCool
October 30, 2007 8:49 AM | Link to this
strip clubs hold no real interest for me…i am neither for nor against them…
coach has no special affection for strip clubs so its not an issue at my house…
if he wants to go…then i’m not going to object…to me, it’s not much different than hanging out at a sports bar…there are just naked women there dancing…besides, with the way a LOT of hoochies, er, um i meant, upstanding young women, dress in the clubs these days…they might was well be naked…
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this
I guess all the freaks & undercovers are lurking until the coast is clear
Yes, i’ve dated men that go to strip clubs. Yes I’ve tagged along as well. I personally have never had a problem with a SO going to these places as long as it is not interferring with the naturl flow of things…such as spending excessively while in there, or engaging in “No Sex in the Champagne Room” activities. As far as these sort of things being less taboo, I have no clue. I guess we’ll see as the blog progresses throughout the day. Either way it goes, it will totally depend on each individual as with anything else in life. Some women get offended when their guy watches porn or gets upset to find them jerking the chicken in the middle of the night. Go figure!
By AmazonRed - Straight Arrow
October 30, 2007 9:00 AM | Link to this
LOL @ binfords comment.
Well surprise, surprise, AmazonRed has never been to a strip club. I would have no problems going once, to see how it is, or going with my man if he asked me. But most of the men I’ve seemed to date weren’t really into that type of thing.
I’d rather my fella want me to dance for him then have to go somewhere where his needs are unfulfilled. Many men say women shouldn’t be threatened by their man going to the strip club because there is less likely to be a “happy ending” there than in real life. I believe that.
By JM
October 30, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
Personally I am not big on strippers. I do however want to do the pole dancing classes. My husband has gone to strip clubs and it doesn’t bother me. My only rule is wash completely before touching me. I think that is fair enough. I wouldn’t feel comfortable going with him. As far as him serviccing himself, if we aren’t around each other for awhile or its my sucky time then thats fine. But if there is nothing going on with me and we are together in the same house then it hurts my feelings. And dont let it happen right before I want to have fun because then I am p**.
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this
JM From what i’ve heard from dudes, its nothing to be taken personally when they self-induce pleasure regardless if you’re there or not. However, I can see how that would make you feel a little betrayed if you were under the same roof, ready and willing. I look at it as I’d rather him hit up Misses Palmer every now and then than mess with Chaqueeta down the street. Also, Foots goes to poletaze, a pole dancing class. Maybe she can give you the info so you can check it out. The gym I go to has a Desperate HOTwives class every Friday. So even though i’m currently single, it doesn’t hurt to perfect some moves for my next SO-to-be. muuah ha ha ha
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this
Lived in strips, dated strips, treated most of my lady friends to strips, F/K them and the strips and watch them F/K one another…Old news for me.
Morning All!!!
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this
I personally wouldn’t mind if my boyfriend or husband went to the strip club. I have changed alot regarding trust issues with a guy. Whateva keeps him happy.
By JM
October 30, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this
SlimOne thanks for the info I will have to look into it. A friend of mine found a class near her for us to go to, but we have not started yet.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone. Yes, I’ve been to a few strip clubs. They’re fun. The women actually like seeing other women in attendance. I have no problem giving someone their “props.” If you have skills, you have skills! I do not mind if my SO went to a strip club within reason.
By SexyCool
October 30, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this
notice how i just jumped right in with my comment like we have not discussed this on several occasions…
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
I’m thinkin’ a class can also make you feel more comfortable with your body and boost confidence. I can use some of that. Sounds like fun. Thanks for the idea!
By Sybil
October 30, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this
I admit to being bicurious. H#ll, I will even admit to that one bisexual encounter that I had a few years back.
I enjoy going to strip clubs because I can openly enjoy the naked female form. And the feminine form is a beautiful creation.
By Michael
October 30, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this
GHETTO TRASH!!!!!!!!!
WAKE UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!
By mqew
October 30, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this
Morning all,
I’ve been to all of them here with my husband. We used to make it like a date night with another couple we would go out with. Just to do something different. They’re like 41/42 yrs old with their kids out the house, so they were def game for something different. It’s usually fun to go with a group. I mean we’ve gone to one with his boss and his wife (white and she’s Filipino)a couple of times. We haven’t went in a year or two. I think we just got tired of going. The ones in New Orleans are better IMO. More “stunts”. The thing I don’t like is I get hit on like no other by women. I guess they think if you’re there, you may be “open”.
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
October 30, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
I have outgrown the club scene I started going to clubs as a teen. Shout out to everyone who went to Sharon’s and Sharon’s Showcase.
I have attended the strip clubs in the past mostly the Black Chippendales at Mirage. That was a monthly outing with some of my coworkers and friends. My girlfriends and I went to Guys and Dolls(many moons ago)and I remember hanging in the parking lot at 20 infront of Jazzy T’s because we couldnt get in. So for me it is kind of a been there-done that sort of thing. Not sure I would go to a strip club now. Not keen on the idea of looking at some ladies boob..I have my own. But I wouldnt knock my SO for going to the strip club or looking at porn.
By SexyCool
October 30, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this
one of my softball teammates just took the class at Cheetah’s with some of her girlfriends…she says it costs $40 a person…i haven’t seen her to find out how they liked it…
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HELLL YEAH…YES I DO!!!1
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
Back home in NY my girls and I went to Sue’s Rendevous. Now it is not as popular for ladies to go in NY as it is here. But the fun was watching men trying to figure out whether we were straight or not. They bought bottles for us and everything as they tried to wriggle the preference out of us. They were relieved to know that we were strictly d*ckly!
Now when my girls come here to visit I take them because that is were most of the straight men are in ATL. I don’t think a gay man will pay money to go to a female strip club unless is he is really on the DL and trying to hide it. But I have taken my SO’s to the strip clubs here for b-days, gave him the money to tip the girls, bought drinks and then took him home, cuffed him to the chair, donned a wig and some stilettos and gave him a real lap dance/strip tease. But I guess you can’t really call it a tease if he gets the puddy afterwards huh?
I like the strip clubs…I can learn some tricks! (lol) Foots I promise you one of theses days I am going to class with you girl! I willgive a dancer her props if she is doing her thang on the pole and make me say, “how she do that”?
By marcus
October 30, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this
I don’t think you should be going to strip clubs to spend my tax dollars with your welfare check.
I don’t think you should be going to strip clubs if you have children you should be supporting and sending to college.
I don’t think you should be going to strip clubs if you don’t know how to speak and read English properly.
I don’t think you should be going to a strip club if you haven’t spent equal time in a church or a library.
And PS- Janet needs to dump that monkey man and reclaim her dignity!
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this
Hell i want to do amatuer porn…i am looking for ladies now..apply within….lol
this is a fun topic..folks have fun…we all have been there done that…but lets share in the xperience of days gone by….dayum…smh
By NoThanks
October 30, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this
Strip clubs are for losers!!! If you’re beyond a certain age (late 20s), and attached/married, you have no business up in some other womans “goodies”. That’s some mess for the single and immature. So, NO, I wouldn’t date (let alone marry) some dude who’s caught up in all of that………it’s actually quite a turn off for me!! And HELLZ NO, I wouldn’t be up in there trying to see some other womans “goodies”, that’s for the bi-curious/already bi woman. No straight woman wants to see t** and azz, she can look in the mirror for that. And lastly, HELL NO to the third power on spending my hard earned money on some woman, what the fvck is that about?!!!! That’s money that should be spent on family/household/kids/kids future!!!!! And any man who spends money on some naked/partially naked azz is a fool!!! But what is hilarious, is the dudes who do this, and then complain when his woman (notice I said HIS woman)needs help with a bill!!!! LOSERS!!!!! And just for the record, I’ve been in one or two in my younger days, so I know what I’m talking about. And no, I’m not bi or bi-curious, I was actually considering dancing for a while to get out of serious debt, but once I saw it for myself, I was turned completely away from that scene. Thank God!!!!
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this
@marcus…BENCH WE DONT GIVE A FLUCK WHAT YOU THINK!!!!
By 2 Fast 2 Furious
October 30, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
Going to a strip club is like getting a bicep tattoo or street racing: It says, “Yeah, I’m a man, but not in any substantive or responsible way, just in the trite way Hollywood defines it at the moment.”
By Peeps
October 30, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
Marcus - it’s obvious that you have not spent enough time in church for you to come in here making those kinds of statements and passing that kind of judgement.
Judge not, lest ye be judged.
By DasV (yea, its me)
October 30, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
thank you marcus for sharing. thank you for having an opinion and for coming today. can everyone clap for marcus? thanks everybody. now will a brutha show him and his bashin friend michael the blog door!!
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this
@No thanks…let us know how you really feel….lol…can i get my dance now….i want two songs….lol..dj
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this
Damn Marcus, what’s wrong baby? Why are you so uptight?
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this
Rell you are a true mess! LOL Where are your MLB Bruhs…Truth, Musing (if massa will let you sneak away),For Real and the (MIA) Jake? I see Dan, Alvin & the “Binfordnator” checking in!
Oh yeah I was Dominatrix for Saturday’s Halloween Party….I had the whip and cuffs..I waited for ya! But I whipped a few bad boys while I waited…you stood me up! LOL
**Hey WLB…Sexyleggs, Slim, Beautiful, Mo, QC (if she is not handing out tricks instead of treats), ARED & Foots! For those I may have fogetten…I really do apoloigize but I was with Auntie A.K. and she passed me the Colt 45! LOL
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
Michael & Marcus Here’s a complimentary blog straw so the both of you can share this fresh new glass of Haterade. We have a few new flavors if you care to taste:
Judgementcocktail (made with 100% artificial flavoring)
I’m A Virgin Daiquiri (comes w/sidecar of vaseline and wetnapkin)
By Peeps
October 30, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this
Sybil - why only one bisexual experience?
By DasV (yea, its me)
October 30, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this
anywhoo… back in the day what didnt i do?? but now that wouldnt be something that i could condone. i wouldnt appreciate it if i was out with my SO and he started eyeballing some chick, waving his arms to get her attention or offering to carry her bags and pay her carnote, and i wouldnt be trynna give her any props on how well she walked, or was dressed, so why would i go to a stripclub with him?? things are different just cause the clothes are off?? naa, back in the day i wasnt trynna have nothing serious, but ive moved on from that and if imma have something serious, we need to be actin serious all the time.
smilin at KYM’s mention of ole sharon with her ghettofablous self. ‘sup SWD?!
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
Staceye what’s up gurl?
Lovin’ the whole story about bringing him home yada yada yada … … i’m taking notes, trust.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
Sybil……..I never knew! wow!
Sexy Cool, wasn’t one of those chics on the softball team a stripper anyway? the short yella one?
Beautiful…….just laughing at you…cause if I say something, you gon take it the wrong way; but you’re funny!
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
Why are any of you paying Marcus or Michael any attention at all? Way to focus people.
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
@staceye….dom huh, funny a few of my fellow flag footballers could not stop talking about this dom at a party….could that have been you…one dude was like i was trying to talk to her but…..lol
now i may expand my porn business into that arena but for right now it is just hardcore, tug jobs, girl-on-girl…..you can take your pick of where you want to fit in….lol.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this
SlimOne, you are too funny.
Staceye, I know you had the boots, but did you have the bustier (sp?), gloves and chains?
By Dan
October 30, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this
The strip club is not that bad for women as most would make it seem.
I like women that like Sybil that are interested in exploring that side of their sexuality.
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this
2CPTG© i’m as square as they come. sorry … … it’s probably why my ex cheated on me. hmmmm
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this
2CPTG© i’m as square as they come. sorry … … it’s probably why my ex cheated on me. hmmmm
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Slim girl you are a nut…*Judgementcocktail (made with 100% artificial flavoring)
I’m A Virgin Daiquiri (comes w/sidecar of vaseline and wetnapkin)* Now that is classic! LMAO
By seldomseen
October 30, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this
Good morning!
As a youngster, I was a regular at the strip clubs in Atlanta. Now, I just can’t see myself giving my money away. I’ve dated women who didn’t care that I went and actually enjoyed going themselves and I’ve dated those who thought it was a sign that they were doing something wrong at home. As long as the communication and trust is good in the relationship, it shouldn’t be a problem.
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
Rell which party were your boys at?
I just whip men for fun…they actually approached me and told me they were being bad..so I cuffed them and whipped them. Ahhhh…how therapeutic for me! LOL
Sexyleggs You know how I do..I had the thigh high boots, corset,cape, whip, cuffs, gloves, etc…
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
Staceye I’m part of the welcoming committee here in blogsville. I just want erryone to be comfy. LOL! I might need to borrow that whip later on because we’re running low on our cans of whoop-azz. Gotta improvise sometimes. :-D
By Foots
October 30, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
Foots busts down the blog door, fresh from Level 5 graduation ceremonies at PoleLaTeaz…
I heard y’all were in here talking about strip clubs!?!?! LOL!
It’s kind of odd, but I haven’t been to a strip club myself. I do plan to go one day soon, so that I can see what they do so I can add to my repertoire. I’m cool with giving another woman props for her hair, clothes, shoes, or her moves; we learn how to affirm each other in class. I like to cheer for my classmates as they do their thang and I’m nowhere near bi. Bodies are beautiful and I love how they move, I guess that’s why I’m drawn to all forms of dance.
No, I wouldn’t date a guy who went to the strip club every weekend, the same way I wouldn’t date a guy who went to the regular club every weekend. Dude would have to find some other way to be entertained weekly.
But I don’t have a problem with him going occasionally, like when a good friend comes to town, somebody’s birthday, bachelor parties, etc. It’s a fantasy for them. And it’s also a great thing for him because when he gets home and tells me all about it, I can provide him with Fantasy Land 2.0.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
I know you did, Staceye.. Corset, that’s the word I was looking for. I know you represented extremely well! I will channel myself into Tina Turner tomorrow (at company function unfortunately).
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
Beautiful i’m as square as they come. sorry … … it’s probably why my ex cheated on me. hmmmm You can’t blame yourself for something someone else did. There are women that compromise themselves all the time hoping it will be enough to keep their man from straying…Cheating is a personal choice. Square or not, if you all really knew each other i’m sure he already knew what your boundaries were. So by being with you, he accepted that. Rock on Sistah!
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
She dancin she dance she dance for them Her body move but her mind was manic’n Thinkin I don’t know where they hands have been Relationships with men have been so damagin She thought back to when she was at Howard and Dreams of doing scenes with Terrence Howard and Broadway plays and dancin with Alv and them The ones that make it always ain’t the talented Some dreams get lost never to be found again At first strippin seemed so empowerin Most every girl wanna do it now and then But bein meat every day is devourin Cats puttin paper where she put powder and Life would break her, now she powderin She was high when she fell down and then Crowd surrounding and, heart was poundin and She fell into a deep sleep the siren sounded and Seen bright lights in the midst of clouds and then Talked to God, feeling like his child again Said Lord let me live so I can make you proud again
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
@staceye…i did not ask them what party..lol, all i keep hearing was dom…fat booty….nice ta tees….lol…you where handcuffing and whipping them…lol…..yea we could do work….are you interested in starting a fan site..with photos…we can start up a membership website(wink)
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this
@SLIMONE…COSIGN…THAT IS REAL SPIT
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
Sexyleggs go ahead girl…just duck when you see Ike coming! LOL
I was thinking of going to a Party tomorrow dressed a female pimp..but I need 2 male ho’s! (Rell, For Real, Dan (ya’ll ready to work)? LOL I got a rhinestoned cup that says PIMP!
By binford
October 30, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
Did anyone see the article in the AJC where a recent GA TECH graduate ran up a $53,000 bill at a strip club in Florida. And I don’t even think they take off their bottoms down there!
Can you imagine?
Dude could have went to everyplace prostitution is legal and got his groove on and spent LESS!
….musta been some champagne!
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this
That didn’t post in the right format, but those are some deep lyrics by Common from the the song Misunderstood on his latest joint. It’s track 11 on the Finding Forever CD. That song is powereful. If you haven’t heard it…..hear it.
By Deeva4Life
October 30, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
DuShawn…very nice!
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
Rell I put some of the pictures on my My Space page in a slideshow. I got one on there choking a new friend with my whip! LOL
By Reality
October 30, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
-At least a third of all homeless men are African-American.
-African-Americans make up 12 percent of the general population, but they account for almost half of the prison population.
-According to the U.S. Justice Department, 28 percent of black men born today will go to prison in their lifetimes.
-Black youth are six times more likely to die of homicide than white youth and seven times more likely to commit a homicide.
-Homicide is the leading cause of death among African-American males ages 15 to 29.
HAVE FUN AT THE STRIP CLUB JD! Way to make a difference! You are a shining star of dignity and hope.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this
Staceye, just duck when you see Ike coming - Priceless…A co-worker is playing the role of Ike for me!
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
@binfold…i read that…too funny, reminds me of my first time at a ta tee bar in california..thought she loved me
@staceye..male ho….lol…naw sweetie..but that was cute
By Sybil
October 30, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
I didn’t quite find the experience totally enjoyable.
A few male friends that I have spoken to about it told me that I was not with the right chick - that the right chick would turn me out.
So far, I have not been tempted enough to go that route again.
By abc
October 30, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this
Tittie bars are for losers! Ya kiddin me… dress it up and call it “men’s entertainment”, but a tittie bar is a tittie bar. Men who pay to watch naked women dance are losers. Those entertained by such activities are, shall we say, a bit too easily stimulated. What a waste of time and money!
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
DONT FEED THE TROLL
By Foots
October 30, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this
Beautiful I’m thinkin’ a class can also make you feel more comfortable with your body and boost confidence.
Yeah, it really does. I thought I was comfortable with myself a year ago, and I was, but the improvement is easy to see. Sometimes, folks catch me walking like I’m on a runway! I think that any dance class will do that though. Any time you are in a situation of your choosing where you make yourself vulnerable as you’re learning (and looking crazy) but you also have that supportive circle around you telling you that you can do it, you’re bound to build confidence.
Not to mention the physical benefits and body shaping. I didn’t lose weight, but I gained about 10 lbs of muscle over the past year. I have “guns” now and thighs that can crack a back! And it doesn’t hurt that in addition to my list of degrees, good credit, community involvement, etc, I can also throw in there “and I can slide down a pole upside down and backwards with no hands and one leg”. Nothing quite like that! LOL!!
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this
2C it’s cool. when i first started bloggin’, i just thought it was ugly of you to jump on a new person like you did. no welcome, no nothing.
i haven’t been exposed to the world like you. because of my age, i know that’s sad, but no regrets. i’m a product of my environment.
but never underestimate me, i may surprise you. ;)
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this
Losers?????
how you gon’ tell somebody how to spend their money? dammit, if I wanna flush it down the toilet, that’s my prerogative!!! some of y’all folks a damn trip…..
and you, reality, your point is?
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
October 30, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
Hey Party People!! How is errbody doing?
I have been to the strip club with my man and with a group of friends, no big deal. I wouldnt want a man that is a regular but I have no problem with it! Let him go and get a lil visual before he comes home to what he can touch and play with! I have also danced for my man a time or two and I think its fun! I enjoy and he enjoy(ed) it so it was a win/win situation.
Anyhoo…. Kisses to the MLB and ^5 to the WLB
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
When asked why go to a strip club? A potnah of mine had a classic response, he said: Why go to regular club and watch women dance with their clothes on and imagine what they look like naked, when you could go to a strip club and don’t have to use your imagination.
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this
Sexyleggs one year when a classmate and I went as Ike and Tina, I was Tina and I put black paper on one tooth to make itlook like I was missing a tooth and I smeared my make up and looked like Ike and I justhad it out!
By abc
October 30, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this
2CPTG, I certainly wouldn’t tell anyone how to blow… er, spend their own money. Just the same, I consider my assessment of what a tittie bar is and those who patronize them to be accurate. It’s not as if I’ve never been in them, how else would I know?
‘Course, you won’t catch me in a nightclub of any kind unless I’m being paid to play, and even then… I don’t do clubs. They’re a waste.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
Beautiful, ain’t no such thing as a “new”person on here…ya may not post, but you ain’t new; sorry I don’t roll out the welcome mat, or the cyber cookies and milk like some others, but once you post, whether it’s your first or last (like some like to say they’re leaving, only to come back a week or so later), you’re fair game!!!! I simply comment on what’s put out there….I’ve said before, I can come off brash at times, but I never intend to offend anyone.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
Excellent suggestion Staceye. I love the black paper. My co-workers are going to trip the f…..out.
Foots, you are absolutely right. I all ready have a very strong walk (done some modeling). People say I walk like I own the street. Taking dance classes improves everything, your walk, your sensuality, your gracefulness, etc. I have patted myself on the back many nights with my dance performance. Yes, I dance for myself since I don’t have anyone to presently dance for. Some nights I say “damn girl, that was tight,” then fall out laughing.
By Reality
October 30, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
“how you gon’ tell somebody how to spend their money? dammit, if I wanna flush it down the toilet, that’s my prerogative!!! some of y’all folks a damn trip…..
and you, reality, your point is?”
THIS MESS MADE MY POINT, being:
Illiterate Selfish Ungrateful Ignorant Stupid
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
abc, and that’s your thing! You can’t say someone else is a loser because of how they do their thing…..
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this
abc did YOU feel like a loser when YOU went to a strip club?
I just go to relax, to look at all types bitty, from no cup to DD..waste my little 50 to 100 dollars and go home, LOL
it’s fun going with my lesbians home girls. A fine fine walk by, we look at each other and say,”Look at the AZZ on that Bi-Bi there!!!”
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
*”THIS MESS MADE MY POINT, being:
Illiterate Selfish Ungrateful Ignorant Stupid”*
still don’t see your point, as it relates to the forum you chose to participate in…..
By Wise Diva
October 30, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this
Please stop baiting people with insults. No personal attacks are necessary to have a discussion.
@Reality, insult wars and trolls have no place on this site. I consider flaming, baiting, personal attacks, and trolling inherently off-topic here. We won’t approve such comments, and you will get banned if you or others insist on being inappropriate.
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this
@2C…DONT FEED THE TROLL..
never mind abc…dude keeps me laughing…but i bet he would not turn down some warm strange…lol
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this
Sexyleggs you dance in front of the mirror and give yourself the hi-5…girl do the thang! I ain’t mad at you. As far as walks…when I had on my dominatrix costume Saturday, a guy was like you even got the woalk to go with the costume…I was like, “that’s my everyday walk”. The costume is just an accent! This is all me!LOL
Oh for the Tina look…mess up your hair and put runs in your pantyhose.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this
Diva, yeen gotta warn that clown…shiiid, I want him to brang it, so I can expose his fraud azz; Idiots don’t know, they give themselves away with their inability to mask their verbiage and vernacular…….
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
@2C…i say tell the truth and shame the devil…who is that LAME!!!
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this
MEN I don’t think any of you have answered the question on how do you feel about taking your lady with you to the ‘shoe show’. Also, do any of you guys dance for your ladies?…don’t act like yall ain’t never done what i like to call the Sock-On-Da-Wang Dance…lol
By Wise Diva
October 30, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
We just prefer that it take place somewhere else, it’s supposed to be a fun blog, about dating, there are plenty of places to have political, socio-economic, cultural, ethnic debates (attacks) on the web. MIA blog just isn’t THAT place.
By For Real
October 30, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this
Striper Chick: Would you like a dance?
For Real: Show do.
Striper Chick: Okay how is that?
For Real: Move to the other side
Striper Chick: How is that?
For Real: @#$%$@#$%
By Foots
October 30, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs Girl, my mom still teases me about the “purposeful walk”. She laughs at me because I’m so serious about walking that sometimes I walk right past where I’m trying to walk to! LOL!! I got it from my mama!
I dance in the mirror too, it’s my way to relieve some tension since I don’t have anybody to dance for either (I’m working on that though…). But I started to use my camera to record some of it to download to my computer so I can watch it later to try to find ways to improve and incorporate more fluidity of movement. Such a doggone perfectionist, that Foots!! LOL!!
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this
Rell, like Jeezus told Judas, “it is, as you have said.”
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this
never mind abc…dude keeps me laughing…but i bet he would not turn down some warm strange…lol
Something tells me he would, he’s still cool with me though.
Wise Diva sexy lady chill, we’ve been acting too Mr.Roger in this Bi-bi for too long…*Dayum your neighbor!!!
Finally tired of Alvin and his mouthy ways, Wise pimpa slap into a body slam Alvin onto the blog floor
Demi: Alvin is out for the day folk!!!
By John
October 30, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this
The wife has gone with me before. No big deal. Its just a form of entertainment, nothing more.
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
2C are you single?
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
Alvin “it’s fun going with my lesbians home girls.” They recently opened this strip club Tootsies in Miami. It was a former Sam’s Club. The place is huge. Saturday night I was in there with five beautiful, Clydesdale legs and thighs, dymepieces. Needless to say, our table got a lot of attention. Playas were sending drinks over just to let it be known that they acknowledged and recognized our flavor. I would inquire with our server who sent them. Make eye contact with the buyer and exchange head nods of mutual respect. We had a good time that night.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
Staceye, no mirror. I act as though there’s a man sitting in the chair. I was taught an entire routine from the wall to the floor, to the frisk move (which I absolutely love) to crawling, to the come hither all while wearing 4” heels and a big man’s shirt. It’s a lot of fun. I want to really perfect the moves before I showcase…LOL
SlimOne, girl you a mess w/Sock-On-Da-Wang Dance…oh the visual…LOL
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
@slimone..YES I WOULD TAKE MY WOMEN WITH ME..NO I DO MIND IF THEY GO WITH ME OR GO ALONE…feel me….i am not built for the jealousy…folks decide daily who they want to be..with or without someone…feel me
By Wise Diva
October 30, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this
oh hush Alvin! LOL. If you don’t like the Mr. Roger’s neighborhood feel on here, you are welcome to play in another one. I welcome debate, but there is a slippery slope when you get into the cyber insults and fighting.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
Beautiful….sometimes…..last night I was.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
Foots, walking past where you were walking too…man that was funny! Girl, ain’t that “purposeful walk” a bytch. Everybody comments on my walk and I tell them the same thing…I GOT IT FROM MAMA! Thanks for the idea on filming myself. I have given myself (and my imaginery friend) some damn good performances…LOL
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this
Staceye, truth be told, I want that dominatrix outfit. Where did you get it from?
By BLAT
October 30, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this
BREAKING NEWS….
Blatino has been known to enjoy some shoe modeling on occasion.
However, I actually don’t go that much cuz the reality is that I quickly get bored. T&A start to blend all in after a while, and quite frankly, I’d rather go to a regular club where I can talk a little ish, plus touch, flirt, and maybe go home n do the rabbit dance for a lot less money.
But there’s no denying it’s a skill n an artform!!!
By Bryce
October 30, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this
For me strip clubs are pointless. They get you all worked up and you can’t do anything about it. I have only been a handful of times and have no real desire to go again. And I would never take a girl I was seriously dating. A female friend that want to go? Sure why not.
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
2C i’m just curious at what type of female you are attracted to? it’s obvious to me what attracts the other guys on here. you’re so hard to read sometimes. i don’t know whether to like you or hate yo azz.
if you got married tomorrow, what qualities/characteristics would she hold?
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
There are some bad mamma jammas on this blog. You go girls.
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this
But there’s no denying it’s a skill n an artform!!!
Word…
Tootsies, I was in Mia this past weekend(a bit home sick), I thought my crew was lying about the place. I will check the club out next month, Du.
I feel you Wise, but now that song is suck in my head…that dude owned more hoodies than Jeezy the Snow Man
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this
SlimOne bay, my girl had some mean D’s (cup)…I alway look for another girl with mean D’s to dance with her..I am cool with taking my girl to the strip and yes I’ve “Holy Ghost” dance out of my church clothes a few times for her.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this
hahahahahaha, Beautiful, gal, to know me is to love me….ya cain’t help it……
but I’mma play “weird science” with ya, and build my perfect gal……if I were to get married tomorrow, she would have Wise Diva’s brain, Sexy Cool’s “ism”, Staceye’s looks, Raqi’s jazzyness, Mo’s stature, Slim’s sense of humor, Amazon’s intuitiveness, your aloofness (so I can get over, occasionally), and age like Sexyleggs!
does that describe her for you?
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this
@2c…ya left out a couple….you have to throw, tazzee, rhys, jazzy1 in there somewhere….those chicks are the ish
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this
2C….LOL….I am so honored.
By Hotlanta
October 30, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this
I used to love to go to the ATL spots back in the day to look at Sweet D/Candy Man and Chaka Zulu (let me pause for a moment of silence). Lawd may his soul and lion cloth rest in peace. If I get a male stripper in front of me I tell himt to go the next one because sistah ain’t got no money.
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this
2C aloofness? lol. not even close.
By melo
October 30, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this
I go to strips once in a while and i have dragged the miss once, she slept in the parking lot, in the car. Her loss. Every time i go, i go back home and Punish her(in my mind), but she says she loves the Bombs!! Women like to gossip on each other’s clothes, shoes, hair etc, it would be nice to hear what they say about the(that) strippers’s big vagina,buttocks,thighs and her abiltiy to c** the azz.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this
That’s funny Rell you telling 2C who to throw in to make HIS woman from HIS tastes…that’s funny to me.
By melo
October 30, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
They get you all worked up and you can’t do anything about it So not true!! U dont have a girl, thats why!!!Find urself some lady and free ur mind. U sound like a young 20 yr old cat.
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this
Hotlanta I went to see Lucious & friends around this time last year. I was amaaazzed* at the…cough cough snakes I saw in that camp and the cwazy things they could do with it. WOW! I’ve seen chicks get a lil off da chain before but what caught me off guard was Granny! Lady didn’t have no shame. You woulda thought she was trying to take a to-go plate with her…OUCH!
By Diogenes
October 30, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
Well, it’s nice to see the ghetto-trash culture on full display. How … “Atlanta.”
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this
melo for some reason I can’t see how a big giny can be a turn on. I’d be scared something would fall out the same way the prize fall into a bowl of cereal unexpectedly.
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this
Alvin I’ve “Holy Ghost” dance out of my church clothes a few times for her. When i read this I immediately thought back to a video clip this crazy dude sent a friend of mine. He was…um…showing off his Miss Palmer skills with his church socks still on. HA HA HA
Do you still talk to Ms Canadian?
By alohavampire
October 30, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
I don’t care where or how someone spends their cash however I have a few opinions.
First, I used to work in one as a DJ. What a crappy gig. Too much booze and dope. Almost all the girls are strung out.
Second, No matter what you’ve heard hooking does go on at every club.
Third, When I was 28 years old I married a Cheetah girl. That was the biggest mistake of my life!!!!!!!
That being said I probably go to a strip club once a year, usually after a concert or sporting event. As long as you realize it’s just entertainment you’ll be fine and have a good time. It’s the wackos that spend every night and every dollar they earn. Those are the people who creep me out.
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this
Very cute, 2CPTG! Thanks. I don’t know how you figured I was intuitive, but I appreciate ya. LOL
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this
aloha what were the cons of marrying a stripper? Just curious.
By Sybil
October 30, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this
Actually, ARed, if you were that intuitive, you would know how he knows. LOL!!!
and don’t snap back at me, I’m just playing.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this
Amazon, I gather alot from y’all’s posts!!!!!
and SexyLeggs, Rell’s right, I left out some good’uns….I’d add Tazz’ fortitude, Rhys’ “ism”, as well, and jazzy’s swagger…..
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this
Actually, strip joints played out with me a long time ago. I may go every blue moon to get a drink with a potnah or whatever, but often times I’m watching the game or some sporting event on TV more than the girls. If I see one that’s so outstanding I want her to dance, I’ll pull her. But I don’t need her sitting on my lap or dancing with her azz two inches from my face. When I was in my early twenties my potnahs and I would hit that scene hard. We all had lucrative hustles. For us, it was a competition. Most go to watch them dance. Our goal was to get them to go in the back, get dressed, come out with their little suitcase on wheels with the handle (that all dancers come to work with) and leave with us. We would break the house man off and let him know they were leaving and it was a wrap. That was a different time and I was a different man. Now, I make it rain at home.
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
2CPTG Slim getting all up in 2’s face What’s this I hear about you calling me funny? lol now stepping up to the blog podium
First I would like to thank my sperm donor. Without you I wouldn’t have had so much material to laugh at yo azz about. Secondly, I would like to thank my crackhead uncle. Boy you knows yous a fool & mom told me to tell you to bring her shower curtain back. Last but not least, please be on the lookout for my new double disc cd. It’ll be in stores January 14th. Much love!
By motherof4
October 30, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this
I have never been inside of a strip club while the ladies were dancing. I went once to help my friend get a job. As for my man, he has gone, but not with me. I do not get into him looking at another woman naked. So he had to stop going. I on the other hand has attempted to take up some lessons on how to strip. Obviously men are very visual creatures and I do not want to stiple his visual, but he can only be VISUAL with me, if you know what I mean.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
October 30, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this
2CPTG thanks for the compliment (I guess)!! :-)
Wow I see that this topic has bought a lot of haters out today. Didnt know Halloween did that to folks.
Hotlanta Chaka Zulu died right before my bachelorette party and he was supposed to be the entertainment! :-(
By kinderbabe
October 30, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this
dushawn i heard that…lol. nothing like making it rain at home.:)
By Savage One
October 30, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
Those clubs should be considered a hate crime for the violence they perpetuate on women.
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
Sybil - EXACTLY!!! LOL
By Sybil
October 30, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
Dushawn - You at the house playing with that Monopoly money?
By DasV (yea, its me)
October 30, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this
wheres the crime in men and women alike exercising their god-given freewill??
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this
Sybil No, not Monopoly money. I use real bread, but I keep re-using the same 20 one dollar bills. I throw them in the air while wifey dances and yell out BALLINNN!!! Then she picks them up, hands them back to me so I could do it again….lol
By Reality
October 30, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this
I offer apologies for personal insults.
However, this article asks us: “Do you think going out on such outings is becoming less and less taboo as our dating culture evolves?” This begs the much much more important question: Do you think such outings becoming less and less taboo indicates that our culture is evolving?
My answer is a resounding NO and the language and attitudes of the posters above only validate my opinion.
Your publication has to take some responsibility. You’re just promoting this filth.
By abc
October 30, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this
Alvin, did I feel like a loser while being a patron at tittie bars? Well, yeah! I was on the road, I’d tag along with other guys just for something to do. I’d wind up talking to the dancers, imagine that… they are actually thinking, feeling people inside those t** and azz. Demeaning themselves for a buck, because believe it, they’re not doing it because they like it. Now, there might be some dancers on documentaries on HBO that seem to think it’s an art form or something, but it isn’t. It’s not art, it’s not tasteful, it’s not beguiling. It’s a dayum tittie bar.
Rell, yeah, I’d turn down the strange. I’m not casual about things like that. The strange would have to become familiar and prove desireable in ways other than only being some T&A walkin round, for starters.
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this
Reality You’re just promoting this filth. I’m sorry but I don’t recall seeing any of my fellow bloggers handing out Strip Club flyers or telling anyone to throw more dollars on the stage. By the way, have you tried any of our new featured drinks that were offered earlier today?
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this
Reality Filth, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this
Ah…yes! The joys of dating in the Bible Belt! *locks my chastity belt extra tight *
By Jo
October 30, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
As long as my man doesn’t go wasting OUR money at those places, I don’t care because he’d never take those women seriously. Strippers are just trash & only good to be used & thrown away
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
Strippers are just trash & only good to be used & thrown away
umm stripping is a job just like any other..and real people do it..with real problems..how are they trash…smh..we love to look down on folks like our SHIZT DONT STINK!
By sharon
October 30, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this
Many years ago my girlfriends took me to the Lemon Peel for a bachlorette party. I’m here to tell you when those men started sweating and slinging their long blond hair the smell was pretty bad. Not a pleasant experience at all.
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
October 30, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this
Reality..
Yes, we all know that Georgia is in the heart of the Bible Belt of America. Atlanta as the capital sits directly in the center of government here. However nude dancing is not a new concept. There were strippers(Fan dancers) long before Mom and apple pie. But if it helps you feel better. I can assure you that Atlanta is a long way from ever becoming the Vegas of the South. While I think there are somethings that are somethings that are corrupting our moral fiber(under age prostitution, perverts who pray on children.) I absolutely see nothing wrong with a adult woman,(over the age of 21) pole dancing. If this is her only skill set then you have to do what you have to do.
I am sure there is prostitution in the clubs, but as proven by the Sugarloaf madam there is prostituition everywhere. So to suggest that pole dancing and strip clubs are limited to the “ghetto” and are ghetto behavior is idiotic.
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
Sexyleggs truth be told, I had that whole ensemble in closet already! LOL But I can tell you where to get the outfits like, Frederick’s of Hollywood for the corsets and tanga panties (or you can wear boy shorts). Thigh high booots, it depends on what style you want. You might enjoy www.lalalingerie.com
2C awwww.I’m blushing! LOL
Slim I told you that you are a NUT!
Dushawn I feel you boo..with your same 20..why not just get 20 single to give the illusion of more money! Make it rain! My ex use to do that while I danced..but I kept them bills bruh! LOL
By Jo
October 30, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this
Rell-Swangin D, a LADY has self-respect & wouldn’t parade her goodies in front of strangers. But, I guess if you don’t have a brain, you’re limited in ways to earn a living…Strippers are just bodies, NOT real people with feelings etc. They’re completely hardened & just serve a purpose. To please men’s baser instincts
By Deeva4Life
October 30, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this
WOW Jo, I can understand you not condoning STRIPPING but STRIPPERS are people too and nobody deserves to be used and thrown away.
I’ve been to strip clubs with friends and with SO’s…I don’t have a problem with it. I wouldn’t have a problem with my man going without me, however all things in moderation. It couldn’t be an every weekend type situation, but as someone stated earlier, if his friends came into town, birthday, bachelor party, etc. I’m cool with it. It’s all about personal preference…if it’s not your thing cool, but to knock others for their preference isn’t right. I’m so glad my ultimate fate isn’t in the hands of some of you posters…I’d be hellbound for sure.
Rell call me slow, but I just have to know…what does smh or smdh stand for? I’ve seen you post that before…just curious
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this
Jo “Strippers are just trash & only good to be used & thrown away”
That’s a broad generalization. Only an idiot would paint all members of a particular profession with the same brush. I have met some that your statement accurately describes. However, I have met others that were caring mothers, good students and outside of their job, honorable women. They chose that avenue as a means to an end. In a strange way, I equate girls that dance to men that sell dope. They both make fast money, but they have to sacrifice a portion of their morality to do it.
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this
@JO…i disagree!!
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this
There certainly is something wrong with pole dancing, prostitution, etc. I wonder what folks would do if selling their bodies were no longer profitable. While it’s not my place to judge people’s station in life, many strippers and hoochies would do something different and better with their life if they felt they could.
Part of the reason I’ve never been to a strip club is because I don’t believe in spending money to support such activities. While I would at least go once to see what it’s all about, I couldn’t see myself really being serious with any man who frequented such club and perpetuated that type of culture.
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
October 30, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
Forgive all the typos..I was copying and pasting from Word. Anyway you get the point.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
While it may not be your particular cup of tea, you can’t knock those to whom it is!!!
Hell, I don’t prostitution should be illegal…..in addition to money, you damn sure can’t tell nobody what to do with their body…..like Andre 3 Stacks said, marijuanna illegal, but cigarettes cool?????
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
Staceye “but I keep re-using the same 20 one dollar bills” I make it rain with singles. It would be too much work for wifey to keep picking up the same $20 bill. There was a time when my money was homosexual (wouldn’t get straight), so I had to make it rain with dimes and nickels. Daymun near put her eye out.
By Corbin
October 30, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
Let the selfrighteous stand up!!!
By DasV (yea, its me)
October 30, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this
reality do i think that stripclubs are the reason for the demoralizing behavior perpetrated in society in general?? heres my resounding NO. everything, everything has its place… and people have the right to choose. not only what they participate in, but what they talk about as well and what they view as entertainment.
choice is the most basic and primitive human component. it was what adam and eve had, and that wasnt over a stripclub.
everyone on this blog has not denied that the stripclub scene can get out of hand, but isnt that the case with most everything??
come’on bruh, go about saving the world in a different way… but then again its your choice… imma respect that.
did you ever consider that this forum is not the only one out there? that other subjects,topics and concerns are being discussed. that the filth, as you put it, is being ‘promoted’ in far less degrees than what else might suit your fancy. there are at best 20 ppl on this blog regularly. you cannot possibly believe that they represent the moral fiber for all of atlanta or in the nation. be smart. sit back and laugh at the jokes, or keep it movin.
JO think about this baby-girl, it wasnt too far gone that we werent getting paid to do the same thing followed by a malicious prounce. so now you got something to say when we making money and takin care of babies and getting an education?? puleeze.
and i say ‘we’ cause apparently if one woman is doing it all of us must be in on it.
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this
2CPTG marijuanna illegal, but cigarettes cool????? I’ve never met anyone that needed a patch to quit smoking herb. LOL Preach on bruh
By just loooookin
October 30, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
marijuanna messes up your judgemt-cigs doesnt!
By Hotlanta
October 30, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this
All of it is a fantasy. Me and my 747 was talking about porn and I told him that is all a fantasy. Do you really think a woman like getting her head banged up against the headboard every night. He said they be hollering like it feels good. I said they are in pain. I would be saying OHHHHH, AHHHHH, AAHHHH, AHHHHHHH,OHHHHHH if you pay me. He feel out laughing.
By QueDogTeaching
October 30, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
What up Blog Said while trying to download the small business form so that I can open an Amateur dancing / Model walk / Dominatrix consulting firm. With Sexy Leggs, Foots, Beautiful, Amazon Red, and Staceye as my first clients.
At WD Actually Reality spit some real serious news that I am proud of. According to him.
2 out of 3 African American men have homes
Almost 70 percent of All black men born today will NOT go to prison
And out of about 36.4 million African Americans only 360,000 will go to jail.
Of all HBCU’s (118) of them 37% are made up of African American Males.
While only 3% will land in Jail.
Man That Reality has made my day.
On topic yes I go to Strip Clubs. And I have been to them with females.
My first time inviting a Female to the strip club was eventful. I was out with the bruhs and a lady friend of mine called to see what was up. I told her to meet me at the club (Jazzy T’s) She comes in with a girlfriend of hers, we are standing up by the bar, and she and her girl get a seat by the back wall. So I send over some drinks, and we are just chilling and drinking. One dancer came in and I kind of knew from just hanging out. So when she got in to costume, she gave me some extra attention, and started flirting. Finally after some time the girls were able to get a couple of chairs at the bar, next to us. So I am chilling when the dancer cam over with another dancer and stated dancing on me. The “friend” in front bent over and started to work hard for the money. I am all teeth and smiles until I felt a punch in the middle of my chest. I wasted Hennessy all over the dancers back. What was so wild is that it seemed that everyone saw it as my lady friend stormed out of the club. The bartender fixed me another drink on the house the DJ shouted me out. What memories. More true stories to come.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
Rell, this is one of my many favorite sayings like your SHIZT DONT STINK!
Jo, where are you from Neptune? How can you think that Strippers are just bodies, NOT real people with feelings etc. You sound like a complete fool. You have no idea what made a person turn to a strip club for their mere survival. A lot there don’t want to be there. It’s a means to an end for most.
By Jo
October 30, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
Wow…no wonder why so many kids are in jail, on the streets etc. Y’all “think” (?!?) it’s OK for some skank to raise children? And how DARE you call me an idiot?!?! At least I have enough self-respect not to be showing off what the good Lord intended to be private between myself & the man I choose to share my life with. I deeply feel sorry for any kids you may have..And stating “nobdody deserves” is a blanket statement. if you do something immoral & treat yourself like filth, how can you expect better from others/ Simple. You can’t.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this
marijuana can assist with the spelling of minor words, and subject/verb agreement, though! Also helps with your eye sight….while you lookin;!
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this
QueDogTeaching i dont get it! what is suppose to happen in a strip club with half naked women running around. she was wrong for that!
By Hotlanta
October 30, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this
What REALITY failed to mention is that 100% of African-American men will whup his azz. That ain’t no trick either.
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this
Du There was a time when my money was homosexual (wouldn’t get straight), so I had to make it rain with dimes and nickels. Daymun near put her eye out LMAO! now that’s just wrong!
Que you trying to capitalize off of us? LOL
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this
Lady in Red, since we’re in the bible belt, like Saul of Tarsus, before he became Paul the Theologian, gimme permission to blast all these folks whose doctrine I disagree with……just say the word!
By Willie Dynamite
October 30, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
Wow - Not real people. Everyone is entitled to there own opinion but people like that scare me. That is just too vile.
I’d bet that Jo’s husband is a frequent patron of said establishments. I’d also bet that Jo is herself a washed up, can’t get on the pole no more, used up and thrown away Stripper. J/K (not really)
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
October 30, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this
For the Ladies who think the stripclub will steal your man or mess up your marriage..etc
If you are this insecure about him going to a strip club.Then guess what? Hire a lawyer-Ring up Judge Mabelline-because it will not be Tiffany-the-Terrific that takes him away..it will be you that will drive him away. Might as well hand him 20 singles on the way out the door. Why? Because contrary to popular belief your mate does not need to look you in the face 24/7. He does not need to breathe the same breath you breathe 365. Everyone needs a away time with the boys or girls to just relax. You say why? I say why not? Yes you maybe all the woman he needs blah blah.. whateva.
By QueDogTeaching
October 30, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this
Hotlanta Chaka was a Member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Inc. and is missed among the bruhs and his bike club. But just thinking, from what I have heard (not seen) who is dating his widow? Every time his name comes up the bruhs trip out on that question.
For the Blog Ladies would you really want that in bed? Not hating, just a question.
At Jo I see that you are a good Christian, you love the lord, but hate people.
By chink
October 30, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this
What is going on with this blog?!!!
Strippers …drugs is this a part of dating?
Somethings are more important than money!!
Weed is a drug I see the corruption of brain cells in my own people!!! Please give me a break. They are practically bipolar.
Lifestyles of the rich and famous some die with a name …some die nameless…….
By Beautiful
October 30, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this
I’M LOVING ME SOME 2C TODAY! LOL.
HAVE A GOOD EVENING SWEETIE, I’M SHUTTING IT DOWN AND GOING HOME TO MY BABIES.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this
HotAtlanta, I had the same conversation w/my ex many times. I too told him I would be saying OHHHHH, AHHHHH, AAHHHH, AHHHHHHH,OHHHHHH if you pay me. The difference being mine knucklehead didn’t laugh. He told me I didn’t know what I was tallking about. Do you men really think the girls in the porn film is truly having a good time. Yes, some are, but let’s not get it twisted…it’s all about the $$.
Jo you say how dare someone call you an idiot. How dare you call someone skank! You’re a hypocrite.
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this
Jo you who was once looked down apon, now look down on others?
You’re better than a stripper, corp crims Bush’n’Dick, and trash man, bay?
You’re single…because you want to be? Are you morals too high to marry?
By SlimOne
October 30, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this
Que Would we really want what in bed..spilled hennessey? lol
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
If you wouldn’t want your kid doing it, then maybe there’s something wrong with it. You don’t need to sit up there judging folks, but you also don’t need to act like it’s the most positive contribution to society either. Let’s strike a happy medium.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
2C, you got my permission to blast Jo right out the blog window bypassing the blog door.
By 2CPTG©
October 30, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this
Beautiful….in the words of Jennifer Holliday, before it’s all said and done, “you, you, you gonna love me!”
g’night!
By Former Porn Industry Rep. (not demi)
October 30, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this
Do you men really think the girls in the porn film is truly having a good time
Yes most men do…Most of the girls are usually drunk or geek up doing fliming…Some like Vanessa Blu and Tiffany are enjoying themshelves…Most of the girls lives are mess up by bible welding moms and Speak’n’tonguing daddies…You would be suprise to know a lot of them come from good families…Too good to talk about basic human needs and know their child is going through problems.
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this
QDT, what is with the Bruhs and their Hennessey? LOL. That and the Crown, of course. LOL
By Rell - Swangin D
October 30, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this
from sandrarose blogspot —
That scene stood out to me because you don’t see that type of female deference to men any more - at least not in the black community. Black women have succeeded in emasculating the image of the black man to the point where the line between the sex roles have blurred. The meaning behind that needs no elaboration.
By Diogenes
October 30, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this
Good Lord, the ghetto-trash element has found a place to blog. Fascinating! No, really! I always wonder why some people never amount to anything more than human garbage, between ho’in and strippin’ and generally acting like pigs in rut, and this is SO illuminating. Thanks to all!
By Diogenes
October 30, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this
And all the while, “expressing” themselves in some unintelligible, grammar-less ghetto-speak. Oh, to be a cultural anthropologist … .
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this
expressing” themselves in some unintelligible, grammar-less ghetto-speak. I know it was meant to be insulting, but I must admit….That’s hilarious…lol
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this
Diogenes, even if you are a culutural anthropologist who seems to look down on this *unintelligible, grammar-less ghetto-speaking blog” why you join in this har conversation, let alone this har blog when there are so many to choose from for a man of your stature (all the while said w/nose in the air).
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
October 30, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this
ARed No I wouldnt want my kid to do it. I have a running theme I tell quite a few young people. “A empty head will get you nowhere but the pole.” However, “there is nothing new under the sun.” As I said before if this is the skill set they have. If they are happy doing it then so be it. If not then, strive for better and change it. Can you go from the pole to the board room? I don’t see why not. No one is a throw away. Someone said earlier it is about freewill and choices. Some people just choose this lifestyle. Every man for himself and God for us all.
By Staceye
October 30, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
Slim spilled Henessey…now that is Alcohol Abuse! LOL
By BozoHater
October 30, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
It looks like Diogenes has a history of inability to communicate; gotta repeat the same thing OVER AND OVER, like we did not get it the first time.
By Diogenes
October 30, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this
It IS hilarious. I’ve enjoyed reading the whole blog immensely. Cultural depravity and base “human” behaviors are ALWAYS entertaining … at least as long as they retain their titillating shock value. Doesn’t look like most of the behaviors described here would even raise an eyebrown on THIS blog, however. Oh well, I guess every society will have it’s derelict fringe … .
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this
Well, I guess we didn’t strip away misconceptions today. LOL. Save travels everyone.
By DuShawn
October 30, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this
What time does Magic City open on Tuesdays?
I’m out!
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this
And that’s why the slaves’ secret messages in their songs went right over the heads of the massas…nothing is unintelligible…you just don’t know how to listen.
By John in Tampa, FLA
October 30, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this
I like to play CARNIVAL with the girls when I go the clubs.
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Kym, good post. I don’t disagree. However, I don’t see the harm in saying that there IS something wrong with being a stripper. You want folks to strive to do better, sometimes it takes a healthy dose of shame. I don’t think being accepting of all morally questionable behaviors is the way to raise youngsters.
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening.
By Diogenes
October 30, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs — thanks for proving my point. :o) Must go now, but my parting wish is simply this — I DO so hope none of you actually breed. Ciao!
By Julia
October 30, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this
If you wouldn’t speak something to someone’s face, or sign your name to an angry rant, then don’t post it online. No more hiding behind the keyboard
By SexyLeggs
October 30, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this
We all should talk like Tongue Tied to really confuse the massess, or at least Diogenes!!!!!!!!
By Alvin
October 30, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this
Oh well, I guess every society will have it’s derelict fringe …
Yeah, See Bush.
By AmazonRed
October 30, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this
“Derelict fringe” - ouch. I may have to use that. And yeah, this blog pretty much is anything goes. It’s always more shocking when a girl states she keeps her legs shut.
By Nina
October 30, 2007 5:05 PM | Link to this
black women don’t emasculate black men. There are just black men who have a distorted perception on what it means to be submitted to, and when they are truly worthy of being held in high regard. It doesn’t stop at DNA. Real men don’t need to wield abuse and anger or control to get respect.