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Let me pencil you in…

One of my friends who serves on a leadership committee with me forgot his responsibilities this week due to his new girlfriend. My friend’s amnesia is forgivable, and I’ll get over having to rearrange my week to finish committee work with him.

What struck me was that he scheduled a date with his girlfriend on a Tuesday night, the night we were originally supposed to meet. Tuesday? Is Tuesday night a great date night for someone you’ve been seeing for a couple of weeks? Don’t you usually work up to Tuesdays?

Alternatively, one of my girlfriends insists that Saturday night is the night men reserve for the women they’re really interested in. Otherwise, someone could be seeing you on the side on weeknights for months, but whoever they’re really into is whoever they’re out with on Saturday night. Do you think this is true? Do you hold out for Saturday nights or reserve Saturdays for the dates you’re most excited about?

How do you allocate your time when you start regularly seeing someone? You had a life before you met that person, so how do you shuffle things around to see him or her without alienating your friends and responsibilities? Are you a date-only-on-the-weekend kind of person at first, or do you throw in some weeknights as well?

Does it depend on the intensity of the relationship? Perhaps you start with weekends and build up to watching TV in your pajamas on Tuesday nights?

How many times a week is it healthy to spend with someone you’ve just started dating? Someone you’re seeing exclusively? Do you have friends who’ve gotten sucked into the seeing-him-or-her-every-night syndrome, only to alienate themselves from their friends?

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By Cemeeli

November 15, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

Hello…hello…hello…

Breakfast is over!

The plan has taken off!

Sexyleggs has feel asleep in the conference room…

Bella what happened?

By Lady J

November 15, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

Finally my playtime is up and running!!! LOL Morning folks!

By Bella

November 15, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

I don’t know, but I called the Web people and they seemed to have fixed it! Good morning!

By SexyLeggs

November 15, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

Good morning. I was wondering what happened as well. Thanks for waking me up.

ARed, must recant what I stated at the end of the day yesterday. My statement didn’t sit well with me. I do not dress sexy at work. I am sexy (LOL) and dress tastefully. Sorry, but had to say that.

By Beautiful

November 15, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

Bella hope ya’ll are ok. i forgot what i was goin’ 2 say now. lol.

By Staceye

November 15, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

I am an avid TV watcher..so nobody sees me after I workout and shower Mon.-Thurs. That is my “Me” time. So Any dates are to be scheduled Friday after 9 or 10 and Saturdays. I was seeing someone earlier this year and because we liked each other…we would take turns during the week going over to one another’s cribs and watching the shows together. But that was because I really liked him. So I guess it depends on the feelings.

By Rell

November 15, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

How many times a week is it healthy to spend with someone you’ve just started dating? - once a week

By Cemeeli

November 15, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Hey Ladyj.

Sexyleggs, lady wake up, dis is not the Royal Peacock. Can’t be just wondering off into the c-room by yourself.

By melo

November 15, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

Sophia on V said this morning that Neeyo is family.Was that code? Morning yaa’ll.

On topic, yeah if ur dates are being scheduled weekdays and the bro is busy weekends, unless he works, then u know the drill. U spare change/tyre. A hood/street smart gal would know this!U need those if u are to survive the sharks that men are.Been there, done that.

By SexyLeggs

November 15, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

I think Saturday nights generally are reserved for that special someone, and week days can be used to see whoever on the side. Bet the MLBs can better answer this!

By Cemeeli

November 15, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

On topic: I dont necessarily designate a weekday or weekend for dating…but an interesting concept nonetheless.

I will see what the men have to add to this topic.

By 2CPTG©

November 15, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this

Morning All

Melo, yes!!!! Family means he’s one of them……..learned that from E. Lynn Harris.

By me 2(formally purple lace)

November 15, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone. Forgive me but I must be in a funk this morning, whatever happened to meeting someone and going from there? Why do some of us make dating so hard. There are so many rules that should be booted out the window like a stale doughnut Slimeone brought in LOL. I have heard about so many “how to” “rules to follow” “he/she’s not into you if..” books that I just wanna scream. It’s like I’ve lost myself somewhere between 285 S and 285 W. No two relationships will be the same. If guy wants to date me on Tuesday night that doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s not really into me, Tuesdays may be the only day for him where his head is not clouded with whatever he has going on. Weekend dating is too ordinary. Weekday dating works better for me no complaints here.

By Lady J

November 15, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli!

By Rell

November 15, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

Monday - Sports(seasonal) or drinks with the boys/stripclub or all three

Tuesday - Chill/workout/TV

Wednesday - read tuesday..with the rule that if you can call over a lil cut you do that

Thursday - Sports Bar try to pick up some strange…or…see tuesday

Friday - call up someone from the bench..now depending on her status you go from there..if she is a jumpoff- then you know dizzle to jaw program..you like something about her..sports bar or drinks then the D to J program….lol

Saturday - Main squeeze night or current interest

Sunday - Sports(Seasonal)…lol…

By 2CPTG©

November 15, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

oh, the topic…..folks, if you diggin somebody and its mutually acceptable on both ends, you see each other whenever you want!!! Every waking minute belongs to YOU, and YOU choose what to do with that time, whether its go to work, extracurricular activities, or whatever, you make the most of it….I’ve never seen the memo that said the weekends are reserved for dating…..

By M.

November 15, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

I think Saturday in Atlanta is a date night. I think guys reserve Friday’s for their friends. If you can make it to Saturday status, you are definitely the starter. Sometimes people can get caught up in the ditch my friends for my new mate mode but I think the key is to have balance. Its great when you meet a SO and they already have a vibrant life. That’s good because everyone can get their space and not be overburdened. I can let you ladies in on a tip though; a lot of guys like to squeeze in women like for activities rather than a date. For example, if there is like a fest or something going on, some guys will squeeze you in earlier, maybe just so they can do their own thing later with someone else. Just a thought…

@ SexyLeggs

What does MLB stand for again? I’ve been away from the blog for a while.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 15, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

Morning, everyone. :-)

My week is pretty regimented, so it would take a really special someone to get me to break that routine. I’m not dating anyone right now, but if I were, I’m most comfortable with doing things toward the latter part of the week, because that’s the time of the week when the workload on my job is somewhat lighter. Not always, but often times.

I’m a “morning person” by nature, so I don’t normally stay up late during the week. As such, I prefer going out on a Thursday, Friday or Saturday evening. Sundays are cool, too, during the NFL season (GO FALCONS!), though I would hesistate to use my other season ticket on a woman who’s more concerned with how she looks than enjoying our time together. I take on a whole different personality during the NFL season and she would have to be comfortable with that and not be all self-conscious about it.

By M.

November 15, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

I think Saturday in Atlanta is a date night. I think guys reserve Friday’s for their friends. If you can make it to Saturday status, you are definitely the starter. Sometimes people can get caught up in the ditch my friends for my new mate mode but I think the key is to have balance. Its great when you meet a SO and they already have a vibrant life. That’s good because everyone can get their space and not be overburdened. I can let you ladies in on a tip though; a lot of guys like to squeeze in women like for activities rather than a date. For example, if there is like a fest or something going on, some guys will squeeze you in earlier, maybe just so they can do their own thing later with someone else. Just a thought…

@ Sexy Leggs

What does MLB stand for again? I’ve been away from the blog for a while.

By Jazzyone

November 15, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

What up ya!..how many times is it healthy to see someone you just started dating..ummm…let me just call you.

By SexyLeggs

November 15, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli, not the Royal Peacock…LOL. Man, the memories of that place!

Melo, I thought the same thing. Every picture I see of Ne-Yo says TO ME he’s hiding the fact that he’s a DL Brother.

By Beautiful

November 15, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

friday and saturday nites are reserved for that special person. i don’t see anyone monday thru thursday unless we’re exclusive. i have things to do. if he wouldn’t see me friday or saturday, i would let him go (wasted time).

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 15, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Rell Wednesday - read tuesday..with the rule that if you can call over a lil cut you do that ROFL!!! Man, you crazee! LOL!

By Cemeeli

November 15, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

me2 sorry but i’m lol @… It’s like I’ve lost myself somewhere between 285 S and 285 W. which is just a circle around the city…. But okay!

Mr.2C, yes sir. We are all grown folks, right?

Morning D.

By Staceye

November 15, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

I don’t care if Ne-Yo is a DL brother…the boy is talented! I love his music and would love to work with him.

By Lady J

November 15, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

rell you are a trip…

By Rell

November 15, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

yea i think neyo is a “pole smoker” as well…

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 15, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

All Is there like a blog glossary somewhere so an unedumacated brutha like me can decipher all these code words and such? I’m kinda lost with all this “MLB”, “WLB” and “TOS” talk. :-)

By China Doll

November 15, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

I’ll co-sign 2C.

By Jazzyone

November 15, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Don’t really concern myslef with the day of the week or what ever..I guess I don’t live my life with so many restrictions being single and all…that doesn’t mean I don’t have values etc. In my world if we talk no matter what day of the week and we happen to make plans then thats what it is…gee wiz..

Thats why so many people can’t get a date thinking way too hard about it…just let it flow or ya will be single for the rest of your life waiting for Tuesday to come so the last man on earth can take you out..LMAOFF…

By Bella

November 15, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Staceye: I love the “me time.” That’s pretty important to me, too! But sometimes I get so busy that I forget to give myself some!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 15, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Good morning to ya! ;-)

Off topic Any REAL Falcons fans going to the game against Tampa Bay on Sunday? Okay, I know we’re only 3-6, but if we win we’re only 1 game out of first place. Amazin’, ain’t it?! LOL!

By Rell

November 15, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

I am not trying to be funny, just giving you a peek behind the current…thats all…and that use to be my routine a couple of years ago and it worked for me…i had fun…notice i did not date…i would include the female in whatever event/activity i attended…i did movies and dinner dates..but only with the ones that have been down for a minute..feel me..but it is no secret everyone has a life..no one is waiting around to hear from or spend time with a new love interest everyday.

By M.

November 15, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

@Bella

I emailed you a quick question.

By me 2(formally purple lace)

November 15, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Cee LOL 285 is a circle and dating within the rules is like going in circles round and round - east west north south

By Rell

November 15, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

I found this on another blog i go to daily..rules for dating/sexing by Tom Leykis

Some of the Leykis 101 Rules:

  • Spend no more than 40 dollars on a date.
  • You worked hard for it and you should keep it. Spending more won’t get you laid anyway. Optimally you should set up an after dinner date for cocktails.

  • Never date single mothers.

  • You already know her stance on abortion, she won’t have one. Don’t risk paying vaginamoney. Plus her kids will always be #1 in her life and you will always be in the back burner. Why would you want to be in second place to some spoiled brat. They already made a mistake once, twice or more. Note: Child support if for 18 years boys!

  • 3 dates and no poon….?….you are outta there.

  • If you haven’t got laid by the 3rd date you are travling down the “friends” road and she is just sponging off you.

  • Leave if a chick if she answers her cell phone during a date.

  • Most likely she has set up the bogus emergency call to get out of the date early because she’s not going to bang or, she just talked to the bad boy that will bang her after you just bought the meal. If she answers the phone and you get that vibe, excuse yourself to the restroom and leave her there.

  • Thursday-Saturday is offlimits for a girl unless its definite poon. This time is spent hanging out with your friends and having a good time.

  • Do not leave voicemails. *Your number will show up on her caller ID and that will be enough to get her interest in many cases.

  • Do not have a serious relationship until you have realized your personal dreams.

  • The general rule is, don’t have a serious long-term relationship until you’re 25. Women are dream killers and will suck the life out of what you always wanted to do.

  • Never answer your phone during the weekend.

  • You want women to believe you are too busy out doing stuff, unless it is guaranteed poon.

  • USE A CONDOM DURING EVERY ENCOUNTER. NO EXCEPTIONS!

  • You don’t want the crap she brought home and you don’t want to pay child support for 18 years right? NOTE: When your done get rid of the condom good….some chicks are just crazy enough to remove the contents.

  • Show any way possible that you don’t need her. Make her feel like she matters, but she is easily replaceable.

  • Don’t ask a woman what she wants. Women never know what they want.

  • You’re driving this ship.

  • No Spooning, No cuddling, No staying over. Get in and get out!

  • By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

    @ Darrell

    MLB Mens Law Book WLB Women’s Law Book TOS The Other Side - See Jazzy

    …correct me if i am wrong friends.

    By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

    November 15, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

    oh, the topic…..folks, if you diggin somebody and its mutually acceptable on both ends, you see each other whenever you want!!! Every waking minute belongs to YOU, and YOU choose what to do with that time, whether its go to work, extracurricular activities, or whatever, you make the most of it….I’ve never seen the memo that said the weekends are reserved for dating…..

    Good Morning All,

    I agree with 2C on this one..sorry but I am too old for this mess. If we are adults and wish to spend time together then if I can arrange during the week I will if not I wont..and vice versa. All these rules and issues. Sounds like a bunch of foolishness.

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

    Bella being an only child I have always loved to be alone. I do not get to have that on the weekends because I am busy. So those few hours after my workout I have declared that to be that tine for me. I can’t stand to when someone talks when you are trying to watch the shows. I have kicked someone out for that! LOL As a child I would go hide in the closet from my friends to get away from people. I loved being by myself. That obviously has never changed. If I were to marry, I’d want my own room! Heck…do we even have to live together? LOL

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

    Thanks for clarifying that up for me Cemeeli.

    I just hope when I decide to date or someone asks me out on a real date, all these dang rules don’t come flooding in my head and I can just relax and enjooy my date…LOL

    By China Doll

    November 15, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

    Rell

    Your “List” is full of Poo-Poo!! I hope that it’s for entertainment purposes only and not some lame list of rules you adhere too.

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

    Me 2 uh. you mean: east south west north, or east north west south, or west north east south or… you get the (circle) pic. LOL

    By itsmorenamorena

    November 15, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

    Go out when you want to go out! All this planning for particular days of the week is madness. There’s stuff to do every day of the week. Enjoy yourself and the company of someone when you feel like it — not when the calendar tells you to!

    And what is the difference between “activities” and a “date?”

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    November 15, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

    Cemeeli Thanks much! ‘preciate it. :-)

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

    Staceye - Dang! @ If I were to marry, I’d want my own room! Heck…do we even have to live together?

    me2 okay make if i ever have to follow you i’ll get off somewhere on that 285…LOL.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

    Staceye, you’re a fool…LOL. Did any of your friends ever find you hiding in the closet? That’s funny.

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

    That list is for the younger set I would guess…and the game driven set….LOL cause i don’t know of anyone part of my set that runs like that or even plays those types of games..let alone has the time o mental space to play them….but hey it takes all kinds…

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

    on topice if im interested, lets hang out… doesnt have to be plan and formal. lets grab a drink before heading to our respective homes after work, while im cooking we can watch judge mathis ‘together’ and laugh at the ppl… or call me up cause something interesting is on pbs or bbc and you wanna watch and talk about it. dating doesnt have to be just in person, it can be on the phone, on the net, text msg-ing, meeting for lunch during the week. i am all for thinking outside the box….cause i have discovered that the inside-box contents are of low-quality…..

    a mature person wont see this as monopolizing his time or intrusive. i am not talking about 2/3 hours worth of convo… just a touch-base-i-was-thinkin-about-you-and-wanted-to-let-you-know-lemmee-share-a-moment-wit-ya deal.

    By melo

    November 15, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

    I don’t care if Ne-Yo is a DL brother,Staceye, he may be churning out good music, but not being responsible on the dating front. U know, banging dudes and gals. Now u know! In the A,thats a minefield!I see him wooing u coz u luv his music.Next thing u know, the dizznick will be inside a brother or vice versa! And i noticed becoz he did not even flinch or say a word when Sophia said it.ugh, ugh,ugh!!!

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

    Now Darrell if you are looking to join the board and be an honorary member please see one of the respected MLB men b/c from my understanding you have to get grandfathered in by someone on the board.

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

    I found this on another blog i go to daily..rules for dating/sexing by Tom Leykis

    @china doll ^^ where in that statement did i say i followed or adhered to them…smfh…R.I.F. COTDAYUMIT!!!!!

    @Jazzy…you know me….i just posted it to illustrate that the line of thinking is out there…that is all…

    what is it with you ladies..do you wake up daily looking to cut the denutz off a man given the chance

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

    *Sexyleggs nah…they had no clue I was hiding in my mom’s closet. I knew they would never go in there. Yes..i was a very smart kid. My mom actually kept her closet clean an opened in the floor area because she knew I would go hide in there. I also would go hide in the bath tub with the curtain closed. Until someone came in one day and blew it up without knowing I was there and I had to hold my nose and be quiet so they would not know….I learned to keep to the closet only after that! LOL

    By Foots

    November 15, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

    oh, the topic…..folks, if you diggin somebody and its mutually acceptable on both ends, you see each other whenever you want!!! Every waking minute belongs to YOU, and YOU choose what to do with that time, whether its go to work, extracurricular activities, or whatever, you make the most of it….I’ve never seen the memo that said the weekends are reserved for dating

    2C I couldn’t agree more. All these “rules” are tiresome and not everybody has a different person for every day of the week.

    Morena It’s funny that even the word date requires such thoughts of commitment from men that the word “activities” is used instead! LOL!! I think that what “activities” refers to (when concerned with the opposite sex) are things you were going to do anyway, but decided to ask someone to tag along. A “date” would be where there is no activity unless you go with that person, where being with that person was the whole reason for the activity. Rell Is that correct?

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

    Hey everyone! just came back in the building about 20 minutes ago we had a fire drill @ 9:35am; i hope you all have a great day!

    GO, FALCONS…GOOOOOO FALCONS

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

    The thing is NEYO isn’t talking about his sexuality everyone else is thats why he didn’t respond hes keeping it about the music and the tons of music that he has and is writing for years for super stars…I don’t really care whos bending him like Beckham..seriously…

    Now that dayum R’ah kelly thats different….

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

    Melo I do agree with you on that end. I am speaking on the artistry end. I love his work. Elton John is gay but I love his music….hello, I loved Boy George and George Michael..but for the music only! LOL

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

    @DasV* why u always up in here correcting folks on their posts…do you teach for a living im just curious…this is where we lay back and chill….

    By Poppa Grande

    November 15, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

    Good Morning all…

    I agree with Melo…he isn’t being responsible. Its kinds like him that has STDs all over the place.

    My wife and I were having a burger at the Vortex on Peachtree one time and we saw him (with somemore guys) going into a club across the street call Bulldogs. At that point, I lost all respect for him. I refuse to buy his product. He may have talent, but

    That DL stuff is just plain wrong. If you are gonna play for both teams at least let the partner know.

    By me 2(formally purple lace)

    November 15, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

    @CwwGirl you know the blind can’t lead the blind..

    By binford

    November 15, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

    @Rell

    I have seen the single mom theory in action! My buddy did that and yes, he is far from #1 in her book. While China Doll may think it is mean, there are some true-isms in there.

    On topic: I’m a slow and steady wins the race kind of guy so I’m not in a rush getting up in someone’s grill. Besides with my nocturnal activities - I’m out working a few nights a week - so I may only have a Wednesday (or a Saturday) …just depends.

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

    @FEETS….that is correct…

    By Need your opinion

    November 15, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

    I MEET GUYS ONLINE. IN THE PAST, I WOULD MEET THEM AND GO ON A DATE WITHIN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. NO REGRETS SO FAR, AND HAVE HAD LOTS OF FUN. RECENTLY I MET JAMES ON MYSPACE. INSTEAD OF MEETING HIM IN A PUBLIC PLACE AND GETTING IT OVER WITH (SEEING HIS FACE), I DECIDED TO TALK WITH HIM OVER THE PHONE FOR ABOUT TWO MONTHS. I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT HE IS ALL ABOUT. SEEING HIM NOW, ALL I WOULD THINK ABOUT IS KISSING HIM, ETC.

    LET ME KNOW WHAT’S UP … . . PLEEEEZE. ANYBODY ELSE DATING ONLINE? WHAT ARE YOUR ONLINE DATING RULES?

    By itsmorenamorena

    November 15, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

    @ Foots, I’m sayin’ LOL

    I do the things I like to do, regardless of who is with me, and I believe people make time to do the things they WANT to do, no matter what day of the week it is. Date, activities, hanging out…it’s all semantics at the end of the day.

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    November 15, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

    QC Cemeeli says I gotta be “grandfathered” into this blog if I wanna become an honorary member. Can you help a brutha (your REAL brutha) out? I ain’t got time for all this red tape! LOL! :-)

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

    Jazz my bad. and yea i do teach. got that critical eyecritical mind thing… im workin on it tho, that and my small booty. LOL so can i get a warning this time, with the understanding that next time its gonna be a citation’n fine?? i agree everyone should be allowed to express themselves without any flack and i know Rell would agree

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

    What up blog…

    QC Was that one of those “pre-announced” fire drills? Those never made any sense to me.

    On Topic: 2 said it real nice-like… *I think I’ll lurk for a while. zzzz…

    By me 2(formally purple lace)

    November 15, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

    DasV I told you I was having a bad day. kinda like getting lost on 285 which is impossible but that’s just how I’m feeling, feel me?

    Rell the Leykis 101 Rules is just a spiced up booty call, nothihng more.

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

    okay…YELLING early in the morning just bothers me for some reason.

    Someone please answer DATING ONLINE..before they post agian.

    Hey Foots alright you can only post and smack in my ear one more time…u only gots one mo time, chica.

    By DuShawn

    November 15, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

    If I were to marry, I’d want my own room! Heck…do we even have to live together? Staceye I agree with you. I have to have my own room. I enjoy my solitude. Wifey and I still sleep in the master suite, but if I feel like being alone, I go to my room, and she respects that. We recently bought a home in Miami. Honestly, she could live there and I could stay here and we would still be cool.

    By SexyCool

    November 15, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

    on topic…just let it flow…if it feels good, do it…at the same time, maintain your individuality and your relationships with family and friends…and respect your Me time…

    soemtimes, we think TOO FREAKIN’ HARD about what dating is…and then of course, there are some who do not think enough if at all…my belief is moderation in all things…too much of anything is not good for a person…

    By binford

    November 15, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

    Need your opinion

    From my experience trying the online thing (and my friends), we all say: Meet the person AS SOON AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE! Everyone online wants to espouse how great they are and how hot they are (sounds like AmazonRed don’t it? ;p ), but when it comes down to it, it is the spark that you feel when you are in the same physical location. If that’s not there, you could have every single friggin thing in common and it will not matter.

    And, to stay on topic, date them ONLY ON TUESDAYS :^)

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

    Hello all…

    hope everyone’s week is going well

    By China Doll

    November 15, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

    Rell Not tryin to pick a fight wit you. I would neva think a decent/humble/sensible/upstanding guy like you would even entertain/adhere to such nonsense.

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

    Me2 i feel ya! that was me just yesterday… i missed reading that you’re having a bad day… lemme know if i can throw some music on for ya, or fix you a drink, a strong drink…..

    best thing is just to ride it out….

    CEE i gotcha.

    Dating Online first and only rule:

    meet in person in a public place for an afternoon lunch no more than two weeks after initial contact (normal dating rules apply after that) otherwise you proly operating wit a person who has exaggerated, over-inflated and down-right fudged some things about what they really look like their age and their weight

    By That Devil On Ya Shoulda

    November 15, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

    DasV You ain’t gotta take that sh!t from Jazzy! Tell her to mind her own damm biz’niss and STFU !!!

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

    DasV nah just messing with ya gal..do you be you, its what I appreciate about you…I was just wondering if you wee a teacher cause if not I was going to say you would make a good one thats all…its all luv…

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

    Hey Blue wake up dude…how come you so sleepy?

    QC can u help your brutha? first meet me in the conf room. NO, wait actually Darrell meet me in the conference room…

    By SexyCool

    November 15, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

    need your opinion…your post reads like you’re 15 years old…

    if you are both in the same citym there is no reason that you should spend two months of your life talking to a person on the phone…

    sounds like one of you has something to hide…bad face, bad body, bad breath, a wife, some kids, ankle monitoring bracelet and so on…

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

    @china…thanks for the backhand rub..lol, people are funny to me…but whatever makes your teeth whiteier in the morning…lol

    @bin..cosign….yea meet within 72hrs and go from there..anything longer and you know what you are getting…a big back!

    By melo

    November 15, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

    * agree with Melo…he isn’t being responsible,PoppeG*, i did not say he is being irresponsible though, only IF.I was preaching knowledge, coz its power….feel me.

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

    Need your opinion You…like me..like to hang on to the fantasy of the perfect guy. If the convo is great and he looks great in pictures…you are afraid something may ruin that. He may either look nothing like his picture (it’s 10 years ago and now he’s fat & balding) or the chemistry may not be there…so you prefer to hang on to that imagination.

    By That Angel On Ya Shoulda

    November 15, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

    DasV Awww… Look at Jazzy. Isn’t she just the nicest? I told you that she didn’t mean a thing.

    …now sticking the Devil in his azz. LMAO

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

    I thought Darrell had to grandfathered in, not grandmothered in…LOL

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

    Dushawn I think the reason divorce is so high is because people get married an no longer has the pace to breathe. It’s like you have to see this person everyday and do dang near everything with them. That can get boring. I think you should still be able to take trips with the girls/guys. Give each other time to miss the other.

    By kinderbabe

    November 15, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

    interesting blog today. i guess the ole adage “kill ‘em w/kindness” works. congrats dasv lol. i’m a teacher too…can’t wait til next week.:)

    hey ladyj and fellow ladies of the blog

    have a good day today.

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

    See Sexycool lol…i’m over here like; Did she say bad breath and ankle bracelet?

    By 2CPTG©

    November 15, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

    “ankle monitoring bracelet“….hahahahahahaha…sJea, yousa fool gal!!!!!

    umm, webcams ain’t but like $15 nowadays…..an essential tool if you’re going to consider online dating….

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    November 15, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

    Cemeeli Um, the conference room? I don’t think I like the sound of that. LOL!

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

    Leggs I thought Darrell had to grandfathered in, not grandmothered in…LOL

    You know, I started to tell dude just that - a female has no influence on the MAN’S Law Board.

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    November 15, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

    Sexy ROFL!!! Good one! Guess I walked right into that one, huh? LOL! :-)

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

    Sexyleggs You feeling better t’day??

    By binford

    November 15, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

    SexyCool

    sounds like one of you has something to hide…bad face, bad body, bad breath, a wife, some kids, ankle monitoring bracelet and so on…

    LOL!

    So not only do we have to worry about halitosis, but a host of other dating maladies - such as home incarceration!!

    The ten year old pic online is an old trick. But luckily, us men age better ;p

    If you want to go meet people, do a US Club sport or something. Plenty of people do that (and I keep saying I will).

    By Beautiful

    November 15, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

    SexyCool that’s funny. lol. but didn’t the person say they’re tryin’ something new? i date online and from what i remember, ppl’s myspace has pics 2 look at. i thing meeting someone when both are comfortable is a start. there really isn’t any rules, just be careful and smart. i have dated some fine, smart, educated men online. i love the new dating avenues. i would have never met them if it weren’t for the www.

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

    sexyL i was thinking the same thing! looks like it will be before 2pm, and Cee gonna have her panties off and wavin in the air hollering D-A-R-R-E-L-to-the-L

    devil now you know back in the day i was down for ya… did all your bidding. but i am not that person anymore, come up off me.

    angel wouldnt go that far… but thanks for the perspective. let us pray…..

    LOLROTF

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

    sexycool you got me crackin up!!

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

    Staceye I think you should still be able to take trips with the girls/guys.

    My response to that is, “Yeah Babydoll, that’s cool; go’ead and take your trips. But don’t even think that you goin’ to Jamaica for Hedonism, Rio for Carnival, Vegas for Wile Din Out, blah blah… WIT’OUT ME!

    By Lady J

    November 15, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

    Hey KB…Why is it turkey day today here and it is good! LOLLOL

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

    Ok…so is anyone vouching for Darrell…please let me know ok

    By China Doll

    November 15, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

    Rell

    I was JUST joking…Ok, I’m in a playful mood today. But on the real, I think you are a pretty straight guy, according to your post. :p

    By DuShawn

    November 15, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

    Staceye One has to be secure in their position to feel comfortable giving so much space. It’s mandatory for me. I can’t deal with a needy chick that has to be up under me all the time.

    Rell lol @Big Back . I used that term a lot. That has always been one of my dating criteria. If the female’s back is wider than mine, No haps. To take it a step further, If her shoulders are wider than her hips, we can’t do business.

    By AmazonRed

    November 15, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

    Hey everyone. I’m booked all day so I’m just popping in and looking for my name in lights.

    SexyLeggs - Do you ma. But at the end of the day, it will still come down to opinions. Stick with whatever makes you happy.

    binford, I’m gonna get you. LOL

    As for on topic, this was a big point of contention for the recent ex. We spent 4-5 days out the week together, but never on Saturday nights. He was always super accessible on Saturdays until one day he wasn’t. Turns out he’d taken some other chick out. That was just another nail in the coffin.

    I’m guilty of shuffling my time to accomodate the person I’m seeing, which is another change I’ve made to the Amazon 2.0. I learned a lot from this past relationship and most lessons were for the better!

    By China Doll

    November 15, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

    Anybody ever tried Eharmony or Match.com? Just curious.

    I’ve never had the nerve to try online dating or dating services.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

    JazzyOne, feeling much better today. Thank you. I walked to my desk w/a smile on my face only to have it replaced w/a frown the this har blog wouldn’t cooperate. All’s good now!

    By SexyCool

    November 15, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

    actually, beautiful…the way i read the post…was that she has been meeting a lot of people online, dating for a short period of time and hooking up with those guys and after the sex, it’s been fizzling out…

    so now, her something different is waiting to meet…but even in waiting to meet all she can think about is hooking up with the dude physically…

    and regardless…in doing something different…you don’t spend two months of your life talking on the phone…maybe the change she needs to make is waiting two months to sleep with the guys that she meets online and has so much fun with…

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    November 15, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

    What’s happenin Party People!! I see ya’ll got it poppin in here already!

    Kisses to the MLB and a couple of bottles of Reisling for the WLB

    Kinderbabe you have a personalized tag? I ask b/c I saw someone yesterday with Kinderbabe on the tag. If not someone is trying to take your name!! LOL

    on topic I would have to say that I am a weekend dater and if things progress well I may move to weekdays. I’ve seen some interesting posts from you guys! I will pop back in later, gotta get some work done first!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

    DasV, that was funny. Everybody watch out for Cemeeli…ROFL.

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

    DuShawn If her shoulders are wider than her hips, we can’t do business.

    Excellent disqualifyer.

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

    @china doll…lady i am still on my square, i am over here giggling…this is all fun for me peace and love to you

    @staceye..yea space is required and needed..i am a free spirit/social type so being a homebody is not for me

    @dushawn..cosign your post homie

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

    @DasV….Cemeeli..as been waving the panties for a couple of days now….all that dayum advertising by darrell has her ready to buy..but i dont think pimpin is interested or maybe he is on a sidebar…but i wish he would just go ahead and tell the lady something..lol..i know her arms are tired

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

    Tall Red I’m guilty of shuffling my time to accomodate the person I’m seeing, which is another change I’ve made to the Amazon 2.0.

    You don’t change up your program because of one clown that didn’t recognize. What you do is keep being the best you that you can be, for the one that’ll appreciate it.

    You ain’t learned that yet?

    By Beautiful

    November 15, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

    China Doll i tried match.com and loved it. e-harmony ask too many questions, don’t have the patience for that.

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

    Blue awwww…you take all the fun out! LOL

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

    kinder plans are to eat, eat, eat and then sleep, sleep, sleep. LOL

    DU-man hips wider than shoulders are OK??

    By kinderbabe

    November 15, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

    ladyj it’s turkey day here too. the parents came to eat w/the kids. it was too cute. they looked like they enjoyed the food also. glad to hear yours was good too.l

    mo hey, how are you? i don’t have a personalized tag so i guess someone did steal my name…lol. if i do get a tag i’ll have to put “the real KB” on mine…lol.

    By me 2(formally purple lace)

    November 15, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

    DasV I’ll have a double shot of what da hellz thanks

    By SexyCool

    November 15, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

    jazzy…you know i like to keep it light…lol…

    By melo

    November 15, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

    If the female’s back is wider than mine, No haps. To take it a step further, If her shoulders are wider than her hips, we can’t do business. Dushawn pliz give me some insights on these stats. As old and mature as i am, i aint familiar with the significance.

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

    DasV* *hips wider than shoulders are OK??

    Interception I got this one bruh… You dayum right !!!

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    November 15, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

    @GAman I’m sure DasV will vouch for me. (Right, DasV?) wink, wink :-)

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

    Staceye awwww…you take all the fun out! LOL

    Whateva. Now if you insist on those types of trip, WID’OUT me… then see Rell’s wednesday night schedule, ‘cause that’s all you’ll ever be to me.

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

    Me2 a tall glass of W.T.H coming right up!

    Rell what??!! you see that too. D aint said nothing… crickets churpin. he’s being civil, but aint said nothing really. whats up with that?! Darrell you fend to lose major blog points….. man up! at least give her something to work, like how 2 done wit me.

    BlueK ok. ok. doing leg lifts (where is my trainer Al-Demi at???

    By SlimOne

    November 15, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

    me 2(formally purple lace) Hey hey hey…what’s up with me being accused of bringing in those nasty chocolate, purple sprinkled, jellyfilled, not enough glaze, doughnuts in here? Me no know what you talkin bout.

    Now hiding a nice-n-hot krispy kreme behind my back

    By DuShawn

    November 15, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

    Melo The significance is obvious. Just do the visual. I’m 220 and have spent a lot of time bench pressing and on the butterfly machine. If a female’s back is wider than mine, She’s not exactly petite. I prefer the coke bottle figure not the triangles or squares. My lady calls them Spongebobs. That’s just my personal preference. There’s somebody for every body.

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

    BK That’s exactly what is was but no one was suppose to know….go figure

    Darrell I’m sure BK will walk you through the “formalities” of becoming an official MLB Member Somebody will help you out…i don’t think there’s a “fee”….where is Ga.Man come out of Lurkesville, Ga and give Darrell the MLB rules, regulations, by laws. etc would ya Sir…thanks!

    By DasV (yea, its me)

    November 15, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

    Darrell what you trynna do??!! get me choked by Cee…. aint i tole er’body. i! dont! fight! no! moh!

    Cee i dont know what that man is talkin about… vouching. i cant vouch for noooo body. and i would only vouch for a female, like Lah or Storm even. but not no dude! slowly backin away from Cee whose eyes are takin on a red hue

    ROTFLOL

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

    Hey KinderB

    By melo

    November 15, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

    Du, i get ur point.But if u wanna hedge against the winter,the bigbacks may be the way to go.

    By SlimOne

    November 15, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

    Sexyleggs & Melo It’s funny but I saw Ne-Yo in Onyx a couple of months ago making it rain, grabbing booties, the whole nine. But for some reason, I just didn’t find it believable.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

    Gotcha ARed.

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

    …LOL…DasV and Sexyleggs ya’ll thupid.

    …. grandmothered into da panties…ROTF!

    Rell dude…i’m cool. thanks for lookin’ out.

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

    QC I like those “fire drills”. It gives you the chance to see all the women in the building that you didn’t know worked in the building.

    DAWG, where did THAT slim come from?! What floor is SHE on?! …now trying to figure out what JK Enterprises does.

    By Dan

    November 15, 2007 1:15 PM | Link to this

    …fresh off the negro spiritual, Dan picks his head up over the mountain of paperwork to say…

    What up, blogsters?

    WD, interesting topic. As I read trying to catch up, I saw a lot of “what I will, what I won’t, what I don’t like” from men and women.

    I’ma say this and end mine (for a while) but I was taught to never say what you won’t do, until presented with options that don’t appeal to you. Likewise don’t say what you don’t like til you’ve tried it.

    One of my many mantra’s is simple: Everybody got a plan, until they get hit. interpret that in whatever fashion you choose

    Now, back to sea of paper (poor trees!)

    What up ARed, Slim, Sexyleggs and my other six footers?

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

    Slim It’s funny but I saw Ne-Yo in Onyx a couple of months ago…

    I just want to know if you were “workin’” or playin’?

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

    I know right! My girls & I were like Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn does he really work down here & where we were outside for 1 hour

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

    It’s funny but I saw Ne-Yo in Onyx a couple of months ago making it rain, grabbing booties, the whole nine

    ^^note to self - slim likes T & A as well..pencil her in for monday night…lol

    @cemelli…i know lady but it is clear there is an interest there…i dont why wordsmith is dragging his knuckles on lockin down the situation…smh

    By me 2(formally purple lace)

    November 15, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

    Hi there Slime0ne wipe off all that caked up glazed from off ya mouth!

    By Bre

    November 15, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

    BK your 12:29 post is so very true. Took me a minute to get back right due to past knuckleheads. Its paying off now. Don’t let one monkey stop your show.

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

    It’s cool DasV you know i know what’s up.

    By kinderbabe

    November 15, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

    hey QC:)

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

    I am here QC…Darrell so you wanna be down with the MLB huh….You can’t handle the truth lolol

    let’s start from here…you need atleast 3 Council members to speak for you…so i hope you have impressed someone..lolol any of the following will do:

    Truth,Dushawn,Blat,Seanj,Melo,Musing, Randyt(If you can find him),Q-dog teaching,For Real,Blue-Kolla

    Get any 3 of these and then we will talk

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

    Rell, you are too funny

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

    LOL @ the brothaz taking note of Slim coming out of Onyx.

    Rell i dont why wordsmith is dragging his knuckles

    LOL Mayne, I’ve got to say that I’ve added about 20 words with variations to my vocab in the last few weeks. LOL

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

    @ Rell yous a fool - why wordsmith is dragging his knuckles …Lol…

    QC Stop that…looking at dude arms n stuff.

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

    Rell/Cemeeli Yoll see… that’s how Black folks get nicknames. Darrell don’t be surprised if peeps start calling you Wordsmith from here on out. LMAO

    By melo

    November 15, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

    GA.Man AKA “Mr. Entertainment, I give Darrell a thumbs down..no vote from me. My reason:kissing up to the WLB and attempting to provide therapy to some WLB members on the blog. Therapy is only acceptable if there is follow thru,outside the blog confines.(if u know what i mean) No real MLB provides free therapy!!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

    Ssssshhh!! Hey WLBs, Darrell is about to be pledged into the MLB. let’s duck behind this curtain to see what really goes on!

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

    …speaking of nicknames…

    Yea, Blue you right! I’ve had some myself…I’ll share if you share…LOL…

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

    @bk, iamjustsayin..my mine will give you a script to get his point across…BUT I AM NOT HATING..the dude has mastered the art of the word fluck….i stated before that communication is sex for women..so he has mastered that…but not FOLLOW THRU….feel me….and yea since day one to me he has been wordsmith….and he spoke on that yesterday about his love for words

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

    Oh no, Melo wouldn’t side w/him. What’s a brutha to do…ok, ok, what’s going on now?

    By SlimOne

    November 15, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

    Blue I’m like bruh man..I work on the 5th flo (said while holding up 4 fingers) Um, lets just say i was doing a lit bit of research while having a drink. So i guess that means i was having fun working. LOL

    Slim sneaks Rells date book, scratching out Onyx and adding Blaze

    me 2 thats not glaze…that’s baby powder. LMAO just kidding hehehehehhe

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

    …now attaching the highly polished platinum Lifetime MLB Badge to the jacket lapel.

    By Lady J

    November 15, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

    come on melo…He will enhance the MLB!!!:)

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

    ..Sexylegg…Gurl you see melo is holdin’ D in the head-lock for giving out therapy?… their rules are soooo darn mean.

    …whatever happened to giving out citations?…oh, oh - here comes *GaMan let’s see what he has to say…

    shhh *QC gurl bruh is fine…i think *Blue is about to vouch…but i’on know….

    By 2CPTG©

    November 15, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

    looks like he gon’ have to do some more kissin’ up to get down, Melo don’ gave him a no-vote of confidence!

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

    LOL @ Rell

    Cemeeli before we go any further, how do you pronounce that?

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

    I’m cracking up over here. Hell, what did “I” miss. BKolla is already attaching the highly polished platinum Lifetime MLB Badge to the jacket lapel. What happened to the 3 votes. This is fuzzy a$$ math in my opinion, one says no and the badge is affixed to his lapel..

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

    Ok Melo…got it…

    the vote count is now

    Yes 0

    No 1

    anyone else…..

    Like i said Darrell you need 3 yes’s before i can go any further….you have a two day period…but it is over Friday at 430 pm est. if you dont get your votes..you have to wait 1 month before reapplying….you need to do something

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

    I am calling the other members to find out thier votes….hold on Darrell

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

    @slim..research, is that what they call it now of days..well i am going to an advance research party this weekend..lol..hit me on the sidebar..dwilliams2022@hotmail….lol

    i dont think wordsmith is ready for MLB, he still has some baby powder in his game…MLB is a lil to raw for that….feel me

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

    …Can’t help but notice all the other stone-faced MLB’s standing around, not even slightly moved by the womanly support for Wordsmith… I mean Darrell.

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs Blue was putting his own pin on..not one on Darrell….he still needs 3 votes and right now he dont have them

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

    Oh, ok, I’m back on track…Cemeeli you see Truth/PoppaGrande over there in the corner maxing and relaxing. Dem some deep a$$ bruthas. Ok, who’s going to vouch for Darrell?

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

    WLB Not so fast there yoll… I was attaching MY “highly polished platinum Lifetime MLB Badge” to MY jacket lapel. Your boi is still under the gun.

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this

    So thats two no’s….aint looking good

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

    Glad we Send our invitations and converse about a potential member in private..LOL..j/k LOL…

    By 2CPTG©

    November 15, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

    Blue, that is funny ain’t it, ain’t nobody vouching BUT the ladies…..damn Darrell, see what all that pitchin’ woo will get ya!

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    November 15, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

    @QC I know you’re my sis ‘n all, but you just blew yo’ Christmas gif. (Yeah, I meant “gif”.) LOL!

    @Melo Therapy is only acceptable if there is follow thru, outside the blog confines Dude, where you think I been all this time? LOL!

    @BlueKolla Bruh, ‘Wordsmith’ will work just fine for me. Matta’ fack, let’s go ‘hed and make that ‘ficial right now. Besides, I was so anal about this blog that I’m the only one on here to use his real name. LOL!

    @GAman Is there an official MLB pledge or sum’n I need to say for admission to the MLB? Sorry for disappearin’ for a while there, but I had to go pay some bills. I doubt very seriously that Cemeeli would give a bruh the time o’ day who doesn’t have his own ride. ‘specially after I just showed her a pic of it. LOL!

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

    @ Blue, that would be Ce-mee-li…

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

    GA Man?! Did you see that? I KNOW she ain’t think that ol’ boy was comin’ in the doh’ with that Platinum Lifetime joint did she? hahahahaha OH Hayo No!

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    November 15, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs & Cemeeli Did I walk in on something?!? Why are the members of the MLB standing there looking like the are about to handle some business? what is going on?

    Hey GAMan!! Mo waving Longtime no see bruh!!

    By BLAT

    November 15, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

    ….walking in holding the Grand Poobah sceptor…..

    This is official MLB Blog stationery….

    Darrell, unfortunately, you currently do not fit the MLB profile. You must show a willingness to put yourself in the line of fire on behalf of all the MLB stands for. If you have no WLB administered bullet holes, you are NOT MLB, plain and simple. Quite frankly, I don’t think you have it in you at this point.

    Official Vote(counts as two due to GP status): NO

    …taps the sceptor and exits through trap door to his quarters….

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

    Said in a wispher…hey WLBs, why you think no one’s vouching for Darrell? The others got in so easily. No problem anywhere. Now this newbie comes up here increasing folks vocab and getting no love….OH NO…….(drum rolll)…..

    By Wordsmith

    November 15, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

    QC I’mma kill you! :-) You’ain tell me it was like this. Three votes to get in? What the…?! LOL!!!

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

    This dayum youngin’..lawd help me jesus…text messsages are a wonderful thang..gee wiz…

    By Honorary MLB member

    November 15, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

    …Cemeeli seen coming out of the conference room after sneaking Darrell a bootleg Lifetime MLB Badge… while Slim distract the MLB with her pictures from ONYX.

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

    NO NO NO NO you need to get your 3 votes first then and only then will i give you your riot gear and ball protector…then your manual and the secret handshake and decoder ring..until then you gets nothing

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

    Ok, Darrell i will try to help you…the others didnt get in easy Sexyleggs…they all came in and made points and stuck to their guns about it…he needs to do just that….

    Darrell, you need to get some holes in your Jacket…start some snitzzz and defend it..and i mean well….then and only then….will you get in

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

    OBSERVATIONS:

    I know you’re my sis ‘n all, but you just blew yo’ Christmas gif. - Knows how to cut a female off when she acts up (check)

    Matta’ fack, let’s go ‘hed and make that ‘ficial right now. - Can switch up his lingo when needed. (check)

    Therapy is only acceptable if there is follow thru, outside the blog confines Dude, where you think I been all this time? ‘specially after I just showed her a pic of it. - Puttin’ in his work behind the scenes (check)

    ‘Wordsmith’ will work just fine for me. - Takes his streetname with pride (check)

    CONCLUSION: You ain’t in there yet, but that’s a start.

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

    And it cant be your sister…at ALL…so pick one WLB and start it..then maybe the guys will vote for you

    By Wordsmith

    November 15, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

    Rell Can’t you vouch for a brutha? After all, you and me got the same last 4 letters of our name in common, man (pre-Wordsmith, that is.) :-)

    sigh I’m usually more adroit than this at persuasion, but dag, ya’ll a tough bunch!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

    BKolla/GA.Man, my bad!!!

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

    Just like members who have had their membership pulled..the requirements are harder now….think about it ladies and gents…

    Gorilla “O”-code cracker gone…and several others…get down or lay down

    By Wordsmith

    November 15, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

    biting lower lip as if in deep thought Hmmm….start some snitz…start some snitz…ummm…

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

    Well…Sexyleggs to answer that we gonna have to have a meeting in the conference room. Dang lady you be bringing up stuff all willy-nilly and no darn well we can b dicussin it all out in da open…

    Darrell no matter what the people say…uchem…you can be join the CLB officially…but it wont be easy…

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

    MLB/Wordsmith* And it cant be your sister…at ALL…so pick one WLB and start it..then maybe the guys will vote for you

    And not today - it’s too late; and not friday - because fridays just aren’t good.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

    You’re right GA.Man, I forgot that each of you did start some crap before induction.

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

    I iiii got a feeeelling….iiiiiii goooot a ffeeeellingg brrootheressss

    iiiiiiii gott a feeeellling some boddddyyy trying to sneak in our frat…and it aint gonaa be nooooo snziiizzit like that

    By Wordsmith

    November 15, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli I’ve already given you a peek into my world, so I KNOW you gotta be feelin’ me a little bit, right? :-)

    Sexy After yesterday I KNOW you’ll vouch for me, right? I mean, did I have your back or not? :-)

    THREE VOTES, ya’ll! Kayn’t a brutha get THREE VOTES?! LOL!!!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

    Sorry, Cemeeli, meant to say that as a sidebar item…Whew, it’s tense up in here!!!!!

    By Wordsmith

    November 15, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

    @BlueKolla And not today - it’s too late; and not friday - because fridays just aren’t good.

    “Too late?” What do ya’ll do, clock in and out?

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

    Darrell, honey, you know I have your back for life and I am pulling for you, but you can’t receive any votes from the WLBs.

    By BLAT

    November 15, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

    Look, to all my WLB’s questioning the MLB’s beatdown of Darrell - Sexyleggs, that’s U! - it’s like this.

    Every MLB member has at some point shown his softer side, but ya’ll know good n well we’ll turn Solja on ya in a heartbeat, MID-POST if necessary…

    If we can’t trust you to have our back, Cosign EVEN when you KNOW we wrong, you ain’t gettin in. Period. not now, not ever.

    By Dan

    November 15, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

    @Darrell

    No offense to the MLB

    Sometimes being the lone sniper is better than rolling in a group. No one to snitch you out, no way to really be identified, and the solo goes dolo so no regrets as no one knows. Feel me?

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

    I feel like I’m in West Side Story, with the Jets and the Sharks about to rumble.

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

    Darrell a.k.a Wordsmith my vouch for you will have to come at a latter date…sorry.

    Sexyleggs i had to fight Truth OMG that dude.

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

    A’ight Blue we can roll to Hedo together! LOL

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

    Wait a minute….Lifetime Platinum MLB Badge you just blew my Christmas gift!!!! what gift, wait let me scroll back up and read…i’m working to hard i need to catch up Cemeeli girl u betta get in where u fit in…i told you my brudah was “da man” BK that should be Sir Wordsmith LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!

    what Christmas gift Darrell

    By Dan

    November 15, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

    Shout out to “GA Man”

    Do I smell a fellow nupe?

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

    BLUE hit me up…manswellp@yahoo.com

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

    Sexyleggs Your name is now Maria! LOL

    By Wordsmith

    November 15, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

    Dan Excellent point, bruh. ;-)

    GAman says I need to start some ish, but whoever heard of a ish-starter who goes by the name ‘Wordsmith’? Does a brutha need to betray his true self to gain admittance to the MLB? I gotta stay real to me!

    Raises fist in the air a la the final scene from ‘The Breakfast Club.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

    BKolla’s saying it’s too late because he’s expecting a good fight and the blog will be closing in less than 2 hours.

    By The Commission

    November 15, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

    Jazzy, you’ve been subpoened (sp) to appear before the council!

    By Lady J

    November 15, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

    Peace folk unidetified member of the WLB hehehehehe…good point Dan!!!

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

    Dan Sometimes being the lone sniper is better than rolling in a group.

    No offense taken. We are all solo snipers with affiliations.

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

    Dan you are right…sometimes standing by yourself shows everything about you…and how you handle things as they come and go…

    We have watching you Dan….and your time will come in the future….we will invite you soon

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

    @Words…my dude if i was in there group i would give you a vote yes….but i am not..sorry bout that brah….now if we speaking on TOS then it would have been done behind the scenes and you would have recieved a package thru back channels to come on in….

    i say start your own thing..somthing like the wordsmith language love group..the WLLG…kinda of fly, that is two things i have given you today

    your platform can be the greater love of communication when it comes to dealing with the ladies..you can teach brothers the power of words and the side effects it has on womens..like inserting a nice long hard quote in there mind….letting it linger inside of there mental hitting the walls of there brain…feel me..lol

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

    Hi Dan you having a good day so far?

    MLB a group?…i always thought of it as a law book. Men’s Law Book and there’s a board too right?

    I pretty much observed the men in here to roll solo…

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

    Omega Psi Phi till the day i die…

    Just love that scene

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

    And that’s why a dude has to stand on his own two and stick to his gunz.

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

    @ga..is that you homie that keeps hitting for the trades…ok i did not know who you were..i will review your trade request

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

    GA Man how dare you not speak to me today! That calls for a spanking….man the position! Oh yeah…that’s Mistress Staceye to you! LOL

    Dan since you’re with him…you get one too!

    Foots & Sexyleggs I saw some latex costumes in Jamaica that made me have to redo my dominatrix costume for next time! I finally got to play with liquid latex! YEAH! It’s kind of hot to wear in 90 degree weather. I think I lost the pound I put on down there with all that unlimited alcohol!

    By Dan

    November 15, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

    @Cemeeli

    Oh yeah, you?

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

    Ok my brother is blogging ebonics he don’t even talk like that so that should justify his 3 votes lol….!

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

    ohhhhh im in trouble ya..lawd help me…

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

    Staceye, girl why didn’t you holla. I would have your back. Although only want to love on Truth, not fight him. But for you girl, I’d have to fight!!!!!

    By For Real

    November 15, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

    A brother with the moniker Wordsmith that can’t start some ish ain’t worth his namesake.

    Oh and IT MUST BE COLD BC I CAN SEE SLIM’S CT

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

    I was waiting on you to post that RELL cause I just got reamed in by the council and I just told them to call your a* for vouching for that squad…LOL…

    By Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

    Rell like inserting a nice long hard quote in there mind….letting it linger inside of there mental hitting the walls of there brain…feel me..lol

    Nicely done…

    Cemeeli I pretty much observed the men in here to roll solo…

    yeap… with affiliations.

    By Jazzyone

    November 15, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

    Um RELL you’ve been called in….ur turn

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

    Dan -

    Good to here…i’m well….glad you have something to add to the topic today…lol.

    By The Commission

    November 15, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

    Rell, you’ve been summoned as well.

    By Dan

    November 15, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

    @ Staceye

    I keep telling you, I like the rough stuff. Hit me with your best shot. Just do it wearing something tight and sexy!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

    Staceye, don’t bring out the freak in me….right now she’s ready to ROAR…LOL. Must stay tamed (for now). Back to Maria listening and watching…

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

    LOL….ahhhhhhh mayne…i called in…lol…i am TOS not MLB…lol…i am waiting for when it start it back up…but yeah i can see how my words could get twisted

    @bk, like i say everyday..i am playing on here…when it is time to talk i prefer face to face communication..i am not one for typing long text or emails..feel me…my spit game is ICE COLD

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

    Sexylegg do you have narcolepsy? Wake up?

    Cemeeli pst @ I had to fight Truth?

    MO, bring Sexyleggs some more chocolate and coffee….

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

    yeah Rell…i need that trade..hit me up on the page, so we can talk about it

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this

    @Commission..where do i report in

    By HR Clerk Working For Blue_Kolla

    November 15, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

    Sharon… Sheila… Sonja… here we go, Staceye w/ 2 E’s… now marking file as Code Red (Supa Freak)

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

    Good Afternoon For Real

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

    @sexyleggs..i offer FREE anti-freak exorism sessions..if you need one hit me on the side….casual2022@yahoo….i help all ladies with that inner freak problem..thru a series of test that i do to help…lets see there is the approach from the back and whisper in your ear test..the smell the base of your neck test..the slow press on your arse test(from behind)…the quick grab of your wiast test..the bend you over and take you test…and get this..all are FREE..how can you beat that…lol

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    November 15, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli I might have to get something stronger than coffee or hot chocolate for SexyLeggs! LOL Let me see what is in the Blogsville Bar if GAMan & the MLB havent taken over everything in there!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

    Damn, damn, damn @Rell…LOL

    Cemeeli, where is this coffee coming from. It’s not keeping me awake, midway I ZZZZZZZZ

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

    Rell what is your team

    By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

    November 15, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

    Staceye hey sexy lady how ya doing?

    GaMan Leans over to whisper in her earHERE IS YOUR TICKET

    By Willie Dynamite

    November 15, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

    Coming outta Lurksville to cast my official ballot.

    Wordsmith You got plenty of potential mayne.

    I’m pretty sure you’ll get in you just approaching it the wrong way. As with everything there are procedures and what not that have to be adhered to. Right now you looking kinda shaky. Ya Sister even snitching on you.

    Before I go back to lurksville, as always dap to the MLB and a tap on the azz to the WLB

    WTH - look like some sprayed on latex or something on my hand. (Thinking to self, that was soft as hellz though).

    By Staceye

    November 15, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

    Awwww…Blue* I am no such thing! LOL

    GA Man I said speak to me..not give me a ticket! Oh it’s on and poppin’!

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

    @sexyleggs…well you did not say no..like i said hit me up…lol..i can provide references as well(wink)

    By TOS Commission

    November 15, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

    In light of recent activites and disclosures, there will be a mandatory council meeting tomorrow, all members are asked to please make a point to attend. If you’ve lost your set of keys, please see a fellow member.

    The agenda is posted on the bulletin board!

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

    @Rell, I’d have to pass right now, but thanks for informing me of the free service.

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

    @sexyleggs..lmao, i am sure you will pass….those lessons are a mofo…just in print i am like whoa to myself..lol…so i understand your choice in this matter….lmao..just remember when you stick it out there…the universe will answer you

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

    The MLB Officers & Board Members have been off da chain today!

    Have a great evening bloggers…

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

    The MLB Officers & Board Members have been off da chain today!

    Have a great evening bloggers…

    By QC

    November 15, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

    The MLB Officers & Board Members have been off da chain today!

    Have a great evening bloggers…

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

    …speaking of melancholy…

    I know folks didn’t scatter because of a couple of points (good or bad) were made at the end of the day.

    Are yall serious!?!

    Hey, this is my slow week and i be darn if…

    ~ Live, Love and Laugh

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

    Too funny Rell, reading it made me catch my breath!!! Oh my! I definitely feel you.

    By Cemeeli

    November 15, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

    Have a good one QC.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli, I sincerely took all the points as being good points w/a lot of dang attitude.

    Don’t know about anybody else, but I had a blast with this induction into the MLB

    By Rell

    November 15, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

    @sexyleggs..its cool lady, i like to flirt..so i can talk ish all day with the best of him…you good black folks be safe..PEACE AND LOVE….until tommorrow…and umm sexyleggs let us see what the fuss is about

    By AmazonRed

    November 15, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

    Blue_Kolla in response to your 12:29, I was turning into one of those girls who was changing up the program just cuz I was seeing someone. That was the real lie. My true friends know that I only do stuff I really want to do and I was rearranging stuff I’d already committed to just cuz “he” said he wanted to hang out.

    There’s a big difference.

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

    {crickets, crickets, crickets}

    By SexyLeggs

    November 15, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

    Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening!

    By Mocha

    November 21, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

    I am thank for being single at this time because their are so many unfaithful people in this world. I wish that you could find someone nice, or it maybe the person under your nose.

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