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Slow to launch
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
I’ve had some relationships that were, well, slow to start. One man I dated a few years ago had taken me out on one of the best first dates I’ve ever had, only to wait until five months later to ask me out a second time! Later during our relationship I asked him what took so long between date one and date two! He said he wasn’t really sure, just that he was “figuring things out” during that time.
Currently, I’m dating a guy that I see potential with and love getting to know, but this holiday season is proving a difficult time to do it! We’re both so incredibly busy and involved that we’re finding it hard to carve out time for each other this month! We’re both legitimately swamped with holiday parties, traveling home to see families and other activities we’re involved with this season. It seems as though we won’t really be able to start anything until the new year!
Have you ever had relationships that were slow getting out of the starting blocks? Is it because you’re someone who takes your time or because of other circumstances? Did it give you more time to reflect on how things were going early on in the relationship?
Are there seasons of your life (holidays, work-related, other) that make it hard to begin a relationship? Have you ever had a relationship not work out simply because it was too difficult to get a hold of the other person?
Happy Monday, everyone!
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By Another chic topic
December 10, 2007 8:17 AM | Link to this
Second verse same as the first!
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 8:23 AM | Link to this
Yes unfortunately it is…..Guys are too unsure. And on the same token it’s takes me a while to launch as well. I am done dealing with these “unstable” creatures…MEN
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 8:36 AM | Link to this
good morning all
By SeanJohnson3000
December 10, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog..funny topic because men are always blamed for dragging their feet and not making up their mind…yet females always say in the beginning they want to take things “slow”..especially when it involves things getting physical. Being hella busy..i have been accused of this a few times and have been told..”you make time” for people you want to see..But its not that simple…since u have so many factors involved..careers..kids…personal goals..Then you have situations where you are getting baggage out of your life so that u dont bring that into a new frienship..so taking thing slow isnt always bad…With the average female going for their “masters”…they should understand how busy adults can juggling our lives and trying to date.
By binford
December 10, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this
There’s a fine line between being busy and putting things ahead of a potential SO. At first, one wouldn’t want to show they were too anxious because they’re not sure - and that makes sense. And the “I’m not too available” thing is important at first and then wanes in time.
But perhaps if one is “too busy” all the time, they need to do without or re-prioritize.
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this
off topic i’m expecting those who went to bellbottoms to report in today on the gathering. lol. who gave up their screen name? who got drunk? lol. who is sexy as hell? we want to know all the good stuff. lol.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this
dayum i missed a chance to meet folks….yea how was bellbottoms..who did the most simpin..who was a sucker for love type dude on first meet..yea give it up
By Dan
December 10, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this
I can honestly say this has been one of the hardest time to try to start something.
With the traveling I do I meet a lot of good looking women that are easy to talk to, fun spirited, and intelligent. The only thing is, like ‘Pac, I only got a couple nights in town. And while I can’t ask you to stop your world for me as mine keeps spinning with the number of things I have to do, it just strikes me as ironic.
Here when I have the least time to pursue anything is when I meet the one’s I would spend my time pursuing.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 10, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this
Go Pats…GO PATS
hahahahaha….lololol
yup we rule…..
oh yeah, good morning
By another moron comment
December 10, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this
@another chic topic. I think you meant chick - unless you consider the topic stylish. Please feel free to read the other manly blogs on AJC.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 9:00 AM | Link to this
3000 Yeah because you guys normally are draggin your feet. You guys are the ones “unstable”. Not only that you do make TIME for things you want to do. I am quite sure when you homies call to go get BEER on sunday to watch football..at the bar. I bet your bottom dollar you make time for that. So yeah, you are not too busy for things you want to do.
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this
Rell missed u.
my .02 on the topic is that it’s all bs. you make time to see the person if you’re feelin’ them. my friend Mo who met the myspace guy is a busy person also. but she fits him in almost err’day. if you don’t have the time, make the time.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this
Good Morning ALL!
Much Respect to Mayweather!!- that fight was huge. I can’t believe they BOOed the nat’l anthem!!?? would never happen in NYC MSG
GO BILLS!!!
Not much on this topic, I cosign SJ3 I’ve been asked to take things slow by women since I was 14yrs old…? If you guys both have holiday parties to attend then why not pick at least 1-2 that you can go together?
By Bronco
December 10, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this
God really has a sense of humor..he made man and woman entirely different and then told them to live together.
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this
Ummmm, I thnk that a lot of it depends on the pre-existing circumstances that are present in each person’s life at the time when they meet each other. There are so many tangible and intangible circumstanes that may or may not be known to the other. And I have found that as we grow older these situations become more prevalent and intransient.
So sometimes, the slow start may be a better thing if it means the person has taken all other things into consideration and then proceeds forward in pursuing the relationship; which is a far better process than just immediately jumping in and finding that things just are not going to pan-out well. But I would be doubtful as to whether or not there was in real interest if there was very little contact and some sort of validation as to why things were moving slowly.
By ImAPeach404
December 10, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this
Mornin’ all
Speaking of being too busy… I can’t remember who had the birthday last week and they were supposed to have a dinner date that night but the guy said it would be after 9….
What ever happened with that???
By m"karyl
December 10, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this
@Dan
It is funny how things seem to always happen that way-it is as if the rhythym by which ourlives are moving is not in sync with the desire of our hearts. Sometimes I feel as if I am in the Dr. Hook song “…I was in the right place, but it must have been the wrong time…”
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this
Is it just me or is anyone else thinking that Blow Me and Staceye might be one and the same?
(things that me ya go “Hmmmm….?”)
By Rell
December 10, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this
@bootifull…you missed me..lady you know how to find me…feel me..get at me..
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this
Well, now I know why I don’t tend to meet folks over the holidays, it really is an impossible time to get everyone’s schedules worked out if you are a busy person.
I think the key is communication. Dating during the holidays is a committment onto itsself. The cool thing is that if you are really feeling someone, you are going to let them know that you are committed to getting to know them better.
I’m making the hard push for after New Years, since I’m pretty much gone the 2nd half of December. However, I’ve made this fact known to dates and they are cool with it. It’s also known that it does take time to free up the schedule, so that’s what the focus is going into 2008. The attention I give to my work and social life should find room for my dating life. It’s just as important.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SEXY LEGGS!. I’ll post again in a minute for the group because I did go to Bell Bottoms!
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone.
Happy B-day NY2GA.
I had an absolute BLAST at Bell Bottoms. I only met one person from the blog = Alvin. He’s a very nice man, too damn young for me, but very nice. DasV, he said some very lovely things about you. He said you were gorgeous.
Don’t know if anyone was lurking, but I danced my little booty off. I even danced in cage. Alvin joined me there and we rocked that cage off Salt-N-Pepa’s Push It.
If there were any lurkers, let me know.
Sorry you weren’t able to make it ARed.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this
900k Yeah we are telling you to take it SLOW when you are tryin to get PHYSICAL too soon. There needs to be something established before we lay down. Think with the bigger head. You are moving too fast on the wrong things! Physical is fun…but not without the bond.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
December 10, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this
Morning All!! thank goodness I have a short week!
I have no comment on this topic so I’ll lurk for a while. For me I am taking things slow for many reasons, the main one being my child. I have got to be more than comfortable before someone sees lil mo.
Happy Monday All! Oh and I would like to hear from all those that went to *SexyLeggs party at BellBottoms!
By Shamrock
December 10, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this
If a man wants to make time for you, he will. Plain and simple. If not…NEXT!!
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this
Darrell Sorry we are not…But they do say great minds think alike! lmao!!
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this
But I would be doubtful as to whether or not there was in real interest if there was very little contact and some sort of validation as to why things were moving slowly.
my point exactly! i feel they are definitly waitin’ on something better to come along. if a guy gives you an excuse about how he can’t see you, red flag.
By BLAT
December 10, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this
Morning Blog!!!
It’s a Cowboy’s World…. Go Romo!!
On Topic: It really isn’t that complicated folks. It doesn’t matter how busy a person is; I have two jobs and a very active calendar myself, but I firmly believe you “make” time for those who matter.
My last attempt at starting something serious has fizzled in large part due to this. Old Girl is just about everything dee Blatino wants in a package, but simply isn’t making time. So the bottom line is she just isn’t that interested, is how I’m seeing it.
If a person truly is and still doesn’t make the time, that’s a mistake in my opinion. I was taught by an OG to “pay attention to who’s paying attention to you”. In other words, the hailzz if I’m gonna sit around and wait for you to start making me a Priority(Yes, I’m pimpin for GA. Man’s book!!).
If I meet you and I like you and you’re all that, I’m gonna take steps to make room for you in my life. If I don’t see the same coming from you, then I’m wasting my time and must move on. Point Blank.
The WLB’s may want to think about this the next time they ask themselves why bruthas like me spend our time with Jump Off’s. Could it be they make time for a man when YOU don’t???
By děm'ē-gŏd'
December 10, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
Beautiful I was the only one that showed…sexy as hell is Ms.Leggs…I enjoyed watching her walk’n’drop it like it hot 3 or 4 times and then get up and dance around my a$$…She is one of the few ladies that can out dance me…all in her now famous red pumps.
404 the was A.red.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs, were you drunk? I was there and I introduced myself to you. HA HA HA! I was that tall chick in the black! You met SEVERAL folks from the blog as I introduced you to another!
Too funny!
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this
Rell, you asked who fell in love at first sight…dem-e-god loves me…LOL. No really, we had a great time.
Doubt if Blow Me and Staceye are the same. Their writing styles are very different.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this
Peach, I’m the one with the birthday last week and the one with the late date. We didn’t end up going out that night. I wasn’t up to it after I talked to him again. We just rescheduled the date for Friday and it was nice.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 10, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this
Good morning blog.
On topic: Did the Pats spank that azz or what?????? The Raiders in a move that could only be termed a stroke of genius, threw this weeks game looking for the #1 draft pick. Go Raiders.
Wait, that wasn’t the topic. If your feeling someone you’ll make time, period. SJ, cmon man, you know she isn’t the one.
Blow Me you going lawn munching now? LOL
Peach I think that was Ared.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this
@Blow Me
Yeah, that is what they say, isn’t it? The thing is though, the term “great minds” is open to interpretation. LOL!
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
Well, sorry I wasn’t able to meet more of you. I asked SexyLeggs if there were more folks from the blog there and she said “no.” I guess she was too busy partying to pay attention! Nothing wrong with that!
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this
Exactly SexyLeggs I am glad you enjoyed yourself this weekend.
By Truth
December 10, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this
little off the subject, but had to put it somewhere:
SHAME ON YOU AJC…….WHY DO YOU CONTINUE TO HAVE BLOGS ABOUT JUANITA BYNUM AND BISHOP WEEKS? THEY CAN’T SNEEZE WITHOUT YOU TALKING ABOUT IT!!
NOW WE HAVE THIS PASTOR FROM ALPHARETTA ACCUSED OF THE SAME THING….WHERE’S THE BLOG ABOUT HIM AJC?????? I WONDER WHY HE’S NOT BLOG WORTHY??????I’M SOOO GLAD YOU UNJUST PEOPLE HAVE TO STAND BEFORE GOD FOR YOUR ACTIONS!
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this
ARed, no, I didn’t get drunk (but I was feeling good). I’m sorry, I remember you now..man o man. When I woke up Sunday and realized I still had the clothes that struck me more than anything. Too funny!
By 900K
December 10, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this
Blow -what a name… you sound like you woke up on the wrong side of the cell this morn-Lol. This topic and your statement sounds like “Hurry up and wait!” to me. I think with my brain; well one side of it anyway. I’m not Trying to do anything too soon, we talked and I listen to many women say they like to take it slow so we may not see each other as say a young lady that Does show my lil-BIG head some attention early on. Especially like when you put a name like yours to good use!
By pisces07
December 10, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this
Good morning
Very nice to meet you ARed, and Sexy Leggs.
By 2CPTG©
December 10, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this
Morning…..hats off to Floyd Mayweather…..For Real, I went back Friday to see if you put your wager on paper, but you didn’t so, oh well……
By TRUTH
December 10, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
little off the subject, but had to put it somewhere:
SHAME ON YOU AJC…….WHY DO YOU CONTINUE TO HAVE BLOGS ABOUT JUANITA BYNUM AND BISHOP WEEKS? THEY CAN’T SNEEZE WITHOUT YOU TALKING ABOUT IT!!
NOW WE HAVE THIS PASTOR FROM ALPHARETTA ACCUSED OF THE SAME THING….WHERE’S THE BLOG ABOUT HIM AJC?????? I WONDER WHY HE’S NOT BLOG WORTHY??????I’M SOOO GLAD YOU UNJUST PEOPLE HAVE TO STAND BEFORE GOD FOR YOUR ACTIONS!
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
Good morning! What’s up everybody!
What’s this i hear…Mayweather…got at it!…I missed it, at the company’s Christmas party Sat. night….but i heard about it after talking to my friend who had a fight party…actually a Fish Bowl Party (never even heard of that one)…
Sexyleggs n Demi…hahaha did you two really pick up where we left of Friday? that’s something else!!!!
… Hi Darrell….
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs - You were wearing a cowboy hat, right?
It was nice meeting you too, pisces07.
Now I can see why this blog is conceited, there are some good looking bloggers on here! ;-)
By pisces07
December 10, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
ARed… I hugged Sexy before I left, and she didn’t remember! lol
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 10, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this
Truth pick another name. LOL
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this
The Truth Nope that’s not for me….strictally….well you know the rest. Lawning munching NEVER! Truth I am gonna to go easy on you…
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this
What is up with this dude ‘bout the Raiders???
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this
Pisces07, sorry to post that I only met Alvin. You see, after I left Bell Bottoms a few friends came back to my house and we partied a little more. So, guess I did in fact suffer a slight “Alzeheimer’s” moment…it’s all coming back to me now!!!
By DasV
December 10, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this
sexyLeggs glad you had a good time… did you really meet a bunch of ppl from the blog and didnt know it?? that is funNY
demiGod had some pretty wonderful things to say about you too!
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this
pisces, it makes sense now. I thought SexyLeggs was a little standoffish, and I couldn’t figure out why! It all makes sense to me now. I guess we aren’t memorable people! ;-)
By DasV
December 10, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
Truth *are we going incognito today?? i tole you, i took care of that letter from the senate requesting our financials. and push come to shove, we can go out like bruthas and refuse until we’re subpoena’ed. (you could always have an affair with one of our parishoners and AJC will pick it up, being that you black and all, and then the senate wont have no reason to come after you)
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
I forgot to add, I was catch off guard by MsLeggs mocha complexion with a mean’n’sassy hair cut…a nice set of dancers legs and slim waist…let me stop before my mind wonders HEHEHEHEHEH
Over all I had a great time dancing with her homegirls as well…some very cool folks.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
Morning, Cemeeli. I don’t even need to ask if you had a nice weekend, do I? ;-)
By ImAPeach404
December 10, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
Lol @ Sexy not remembering anyone else being there.
Thanks deme and Truth
Glad you had a good time ARed.
OT: I’d like to request a moment of blog silence at 10:00am for Michael Vick… po thang. I hope they go easy on him sniff, sniff.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this
SO demi…is sexy leggs and ooo souper coolers(ARED) as advertised…meaning are they fine and sexy as stated so many times b4 on this thing here
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this
Good reading you M’
Sexyleggs gurl you rocked it like that…cowgirl hat and all huh?
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this
ARed, no I didn’t have a cowboy hat on. LOL. You tell me what I had on? Too funny!
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this
@cemeeli
Hey chick!!!
@SexyLeggs
sounds like the party at bellbottoms was rocking. i am glad that you had a good time, nothing like shaking your groove thing…
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this
ARed, sorry if I came across as standoffish, I was having a blast. Did you really think I had a cowboy hat on, perhaps you met the wrong person at first.
Yes, *Cemeeli, I picked up where we left off on the blog Friday. I sure did!
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this
900K Wow….you gonna do it…Just like that?!? …This early..today…wow. So in essence….you can and will make time for jump offs that (excuse me no pun intended)…that blows you earlier on…Interesting.
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this
děm’ē-gŏd’ i hate that i missed meeting u guys. there’s another one coming up this weekend and i’m going to try and make it.
By Bella
December 10, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
Good morning, everyone!
@Dan I had a friend who was in a similar situation as you, except he traveled M-F to Philly, and then was home on the weekends. It made it difficult for him to start dating in either place, because once he got home he was so dang tired from flying!
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
Beloved Darrell NO!!! Please…my weekend did not end until after the birthday dinner last night with friends….yea…i had and eventful one.
ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ(someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek) What?you going Greek (not really)on us now? That moniker…fuuunnnnyyyy!
By DasV
December 10, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this
laughing and rolling in the floor at ARED chattin up some female that WAS NOT sexyLeggs
By Aurora
December 10, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
The holidays are the worst time to begin a new relationship. Just added pressure. Wait till the new year. Enjoy family and friends now, and wait for the relationship for the new year. New Year, New Relationship…..
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs, I wasn’t telling you what you had on, it was a question. It seems like pisces and I met the wrong person. That’s why I thought the evening was so odd.
So do you remember meeting me or not?
By ImAPeach404
December 10, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli Fish Bowl Parties are the best - especially if you have a bunch of people with radically different ideas about everything. Big fun! I’m having an Fish Bowl / After Christmas Christmas Party on December 30th.
Did you have fun?
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this
Peach404 moment of silence i missed that one…as you can see it past 10am…but i hope Vick does not get slammed.
Sexyleggs in your posts at this 10 o’clock hour you still sound like you have more partying in you…is there any truth to this chica?
…don’t start nothing…alright?
By Teresa
December 10, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this
Lets do another meet and greet at Bellbottoms
By Aurora
December 10, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this
The holidays are the worst time to begin a new relationship. Just added pressure. Wait till the new year. Enjoy family and friends now, and wait for the relationship for the new year. New Year, New Relationship…..
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this
Okay, so mystery solved. I met the wrong person and in turn, introduced pisces07 to the wrong person. But at least pisces was able to recognize me due to my description on the blog.
There was some cougar out there in a cowboy hat and a black shimmery top that was getting her grove ON! I know she had a good time. LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this
ARed, no, I know you wasn’t telling me what I had on. I’m asking YOU to tell me what I had on. I think you met the wrong person. I just emailed a friend of mine who remembers the lady with cowboy hat on, but it wasn’t me. Beside’s demigod, for those who ARed introduced me to, what was I wearing…I’m cracking up over here!
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this
Top of the morning to ya! Ummmm Lady J….what happened to your Packers? Oh yeah that’s right, that got a Patriots SMACKDOWN!
SJ I find it funny that guys wanna take it slow to commit but got track shoes and a condom in hand to get teh booty on the first date? HMMM…how azz backwards is that? the worst that can happen in a commitment is it ends..but the worst with getting busy is a disease or a kid with a person you barely know. Lets see…how does that make sense to you guys again???? It make me laugh when a guy says he wants to get to know you…meanwhile he is trying to slip your clothes off. Ummmm hellooooo…how are you getting to know me when the only words being spoken are, “ooh, ahh, how you like it, etc.”? Come on bruh! So when a female says she is waiting to be in a commited relationship to have sex…you are looking at her like she said, “yo mama”! Then you go running off to the next booty that passes you by!
Bronco I totally agree! I think its a cruel joke! LOL
*Darrell sorry bruh….though I love the name Blow Me…cause it’s classic for a chick. But did not come up with such a clever smart azz moniker! I can;t take credit for it! I know I’ve got like 4 personalities…but you only get Staceye on the blog!
Sexyleggs how come I did not know of this Bell bottoms meeting? I heard there’s a cage there to dance in…I would have come…although I am injured, I could have made it work! So you were gettin’ it in huh? I feel ya! Go SAG!!!!
Happy B-DAY SEXYLEGGS!!!!!!
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this
ARed, I remember the tall woman in the black dress, but girl you have me questioning my memory skills. Because you guys said you met me, I thought perhaps my memory skills were completely off due to the drinks. Like I said, I wasn’t drunk, but a lot of people drinking say that.
Cemeeli, what do you mean don’t start nothing. I’m good. I have a lot of partying left in me.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 10, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this
Das I’m feeling alot of heat these days. Stay close and and keep some bail money on hand. ( This is not a good time to be a preacher, lol)
Blow Me thanks for the free pass. Its always funny to hear women say their giving up on men. I never give up on women. The best I can do is exclusively knock-offs. LOL
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this
Peach404 I got and earfull about Fish Bowl Partying from my friends…the conocensus was nay and ya.
I thought it was and interesting concept… The different ideas coming out of the “bowl” to this forum was what i thought was cool a such soriee’…hmmm. Yes i had a great time at the High.. some of my coworkers were already “covered” by the time i arrived. LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this
Ok, for those of you at Bell Bottoms with THE WRONG b-day girl, I had on red pumps, beige silk 4-tiered mini skirt and a red top. ARed, girl you had me there. ARed, were you the lady with the money clipped to her chest?
Did any of you see the hoochie in the red dress doing the nasty on the dance floor? I had to pull her on the side and talk to her because she was degrading herself. Crawling on the floor, hiking her legs up, falling a time. Man o man!
By pisces07
December 10, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
….Anyway, a good time was had talking to you ARed. Very nice curves to go with that frame!
By DasV
December 10, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
2!!
By Got that?
December 10, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
Life is what you make of it. If you say relationships are hard to maintain during the holidays, it will occur that way. If you say otherwise, it will occur that way. What you spend the most time thinking about will manifest in reality. So, if you have a lot of bad thoughts, doubts, or concerns relating to dating around the holidays or just in dating period, that’s what is going to show up for you.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
Yeah SexyLeggs, we didn’t meet. I didn’t have on a black dress. I had on a black top, jeans and heels. I was the tallest woman there. It’s all good, maybe next time! Glad you had a blast!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this
@Staceye
Thanks for that clarification. I was just taken a bit off guard by the glaring similarities between your and Blow’s “tone” as it relates to men, that’s all. No biggie. :-) By the way, are you ever gonna e-mail me or are you afraid I might actually “crack the code”. LOL!
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
Yes….I totally agree STACEYE I’m loving your post so on point.. I have been there with the track shoes and condom in hand…lol!! It’s unfortunate it’s all too familiar..Yeah taking it slow to get to know you is out of the question! They like to SPEED DATE THE BOOTY ^5 and a “okay girl”
By binford
December 10, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this
I must have missed that whole meeting up thing. Man, now I feel left out.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this
…Sexyleggs you on it…cause a real Birthday Girl celebrates her blessing the entire quater!…Yes 3 months!
Lol…Dasv - yous a fool…I was rolling at Ared ‘sitting a supping’ with some chick wearing a cowgirl hat that was not Sexyleggs.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this
Blow - Seriously I do not consider women Jump-offs just because we get phys early on. Time will ALWAYS tell when it comes to this. Fellas no that you will hear women say things about not doing this often or got out of a dead relationship, its been a long time… blah. However by taking the time I will find out if these were true statements or not, then she gets the label if she doesn’t live up to her words.
And to you bj question if you don’t know by now, this can be one of your strongest weapons when it comes to getting a man to do WHATEVER you want him to do(within his power of course). When you choose to unleash it is up to you.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this
Truth I never said I will give up….that’s not the case. Quitters never win! What do you mean “free pass”?
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
pisces, are you saying I fit the Texas Amazon description a little bit? I’m I becoming a brickhouse? LOL. Thanks for the compliment. It was great talking to you too. I haven’t forgotten to do what I said I was going to do.
SexyLeggs, no money was clipped to me. Wish it was. Thanks again for the invite. I had a good time, considering! I was gone by about 11:30 tho. Fatburger closes at midnight! LOL
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
AmazonRed yes I did see you there, both you where partying with the other birthday girl…I ask the DJ to find sxy for me.
you look dayum good!!!!…yo tall a$$
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
Staceye thought you knew about the party at Bell Bottoms. I knew your foot was mending so I didn’t think you would make it.
ARed, when you introduced yourself to the other woman, did you say anything about the clothes or were you being politically correct? That should have been your first clue. I would have immediately taken you to the car to get them before leaving the club. More than likely would not have remembered. Do you remember seeing me with the outfit I described I was wearing?
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this
* Darrell* what’s this tone you are speaking of? What maybe the truth? lol…..Cause surely that’s what it is!
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
You were wearing a cowboy hat
No that girl was a di-ke!! LOL, I know who youre talking about, LOL
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Did any of you see the hoochie in the red dress doing the nasty on the dance floor? I had to pull her on the side and talk to her because she was degrading herself. Crawling on the floor, hiking her legs up, falling a time.
Sure you right, sister. That is sad, really sad…and where were the ppl who she may have come with…no one to let her know that she was not being cool? Sexy and slut are not the same thing…
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this
Melo/Dan* of Jay*. One of you said it would be an injustice for me to wear pants and not show one of my great assets, so I wore a skirt and you guys didn’t even show. It was a nice night.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this
@Blow
I don’t know…maybe it’s just me, but I found it interesting how you came off blasting men in your 8:23 post only to follow that up at 8:36 with a pleasant “good morning all”. LOL!
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
900k Again WOW….FUN-KNEE! Answer me this? On the same token Men want to take their sweet time..when it’s time to commit! Take this same process into dating and having relationship. But you want to take your time tryin to see if she is worthy….That’s the same thing I am tryin to do when guys want to “Speed date the booty”! lol!
By Sxzscorpia
December 10, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
I think men in Atlanta have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many options-so many times while u are trying to get to know him, he’s actually got 5 other folks he’s dealing with at the time and truly doesn’t have the TIME for u…..dating here sucks.
By Jay
December 10, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
Vick just got 23 months
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
Demi, did you really see me or are you pulling my leg? I did dance for a bit, but I don’t think pisces danced at all. I asked the lady at the door to find Sexy for me. She said she could be anywhere. So I started going to groups with balloons and such and asking who the birthday girl was. The faux Sexy was like the 3rd chick I approached. LOL
Sexy, I didn’t say anything about the clothes. The woman was having so much fun (even grinding on other chicks) that I didn’t expect her to stop partying to give me charity! LOL. I asked her point blank if she was SexyLeggs and she was like “yeah girl, come on and dance with me!” Maybe she was looking for some carpet! Tee hee!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
OFF TOPIC Michael Vick sentenced to 23 months in prison.
By ImAPeach404
December 10, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
23 months for Vick… d@mn, d@mn, d@mn!
I’m done for the day…
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
Darrell Pretty classic huh….Hey what can I say..I’m southerner..Good mornings are in order. It’s not blasting on ALL men..Just the bad ones!
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
Rell on A.Red, I did not meet her, but there was only only tall girl with low heel dress in black looking for someone…and if I am right, she is fine.
Sexyleggs looks DAYUM GOOD FOR HER AGE…the way she dance and move…not many young girl can keep up…and her spirit seem to draw people to her…and love the way she walks…so smooth’n’sexy, LOL (sorry bay, I enjoy walking behind ya…Thinking to myself: That is a black woman for real fo reel!! LOL
ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ is now being beaten over the head with Ms.Leggs prize RED PUMPs
In all they’re some lookers.
Oh, I left that place steaming…I should have came naked…my sweatly a$$.
By DreamsMaterialize
December 10, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this
Good Morning.
I agree that people make time to for the people they want to spend time with. So, if someone isn’t making time for me in the beginning, I assume that they’re making time for someone else. I know if I have several date options, I have to prioritize and decide who I want to spend my time with. So, the ones who aren’t getting my time would be right to assume that I’m making time for someone else. The game is brutal and lovely all at the same time.
By melo
December 10, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
Happy birthday SexxyL!!! I could’nt come coz my wife bribed me.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
23 months huh? …Bless him…
By Rell
December 10, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
I CALL BULL ISH ON THAT VICK SENTENCE…HE SHOULD HAVE ONLY GOTTEN A YEAR….
By Lady J
December 10, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
GO FALCONS, GO STEELERS!!! Vick will return Damn the Patriots* LOL!!! bye Staceye
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
Vick u did wrong now do your time. you’ll probably only do a year or so. when you get out, do you. you know that there will be opportunities waitin’. there is nothing wrong with living right. take care of your mom, get married and settle down. you’ll find out that that is the way to go and living right isn’t so bad.
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this
Darrell So I am DaVinci now? LOL
Blow Me “Speed date the Booty”…now that’s classic! LOL
Sexyleggs I would have come had I known about it. I woud have been the chick with the ace bandage in her knee boots so no one could see…still getting her dance on!
Sxzscorpia though I can’t pronounce your name…but I agree about the options.
Vick got 23 months….can you say SET UP??? The lady who killed her husband got 7 months and he killed some dogs and he loses his career, money and 2 years of his life. That is some ole BS! Since when do we value human life less than that of animals?
By Jay
December 10, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this
404 He was in court in prison gear. Sad day for the Vicks. Will our young blacks learn anything from this? Its said he lied about killing of dogs and he smoked weed the day before he was tested.
By Poppa Grande
December 10, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Good Morning all
On Topic: People do make time for what is important to them. However, sometimes, there are special circumstances. I work in the legal field and did when I met my wife. In the beginning it was slow and tough to make time for each other. It helped that she also works in the legal field. So she understood. I guess if its meant to be things will work out. Forcing things might lead to problems down the road.
Off topic..I posted last week that I thought that Mr. Vick would get 18-24 months. I’ve worked with Judge Hudson before and he is tough. I told 404 Peach that he would not play again at least to 2010. He was the money behind the operation and if no money, then it would have been tough to have the operation. As a result, he is get the worst sentence. Two years is what he got. He has basically taken one month off already which leads to 23 months.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Blow
I don’t know if I’d call it “classic”. If anything, I’m wondering if a guy would ever be able to know what to expect from you one from one moment to the next. LOL!
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this
Whoops Rell, I said Demi, when I meant to say you. Dang, you saw me looking for someone and you just watched. :-( We could have met finally.
Sexy, you seem real nice. I’m sorry I met that d**e instead. LOL!
pisces, sorry I led you to the wrong person! Well, at least you got the pleasure of my company! LOL
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Well, now that his sentence has been determined by the justice system, I truly hope that ppl will get back to the real concerns of their own lives.The amount of anger, hostility, etc. that some ppl have expressed was unreal and unnecessary. Granted what he did conveyed not only an inhumane consciousness as well as being illegal; but h3ll he could have done something far more heinous and egregious than dog-fighting. And while all of these hostile critics get on with the everyday lives, Mike’s life has been irrevocably, and possibly irreparably, changed. I hope that his redemption and goodness are restored in God’s faith and within in himself and that he find a higher calling to mainifest.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
@demi, thanks for the info…so a red is not just blowing smoke..or sexy…good look
By pisces07
December 10, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
ARed. No prob. I had fun, actually hit the floor after you made your exit.
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this
Melo, I thoroughly understand**. Yes, I do.
ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek), your check is in the mail. Thank you for all the kind words. I had this husband and wife both buy me a drink just because they wanted to compliment me on my age, my ability to sway, dip and drop it on a continous basis. I had them cracking up.
Cemeeli/Foots, they asked if I took dance classes and I told them yes.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this
Again WOW….FUN-KNEE -What did I say?!? Was I speaking in lies? Truth is the only point I was going after. I don’t see whats wrong with either point that you make. If I need to make sure she’s the “right one” then why would that be an issue. I am not the lets live 2gether for 1-6yrs, but lets slow down on walking the isle type. All I am saying is I don’t think little of a woman for gettin phys w/ me sooner than SHE expected. If she wants to wait then that’s cool also, I just don’t see why she would expect to get a majority of my time. I know you want to find an easy target to Hate Blow but you should hate the game.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
stacye …since him be black.
and you shouldve known before this… there was a whole operation in place for dis-placed animals who survived katrina, but the ppl dem still sufferin
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
@ DaVinci You still haven’t answered my question. You skerred? :-)
By abc
December 10, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
I don’t have any comment on the topic.
I think Vick’s sentence is fair. It’s less than half of what the max could be due to his plea agreement, although he still has charges pending in Virginia, not to mention several lawsuits by banks, and the Falcons seeking to recoup $20 mil.
By kinderbabe
December 10, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this
good morning everyone:)
off topic: poppagrande for federal time, is each year served actually equivalent to 12 months? i thought it was something like 9/10 months were served for each year sentenced. if that were true, vic would serve more like 18 months.
on topic: Have you ever had relationships that were slow getting out of the starting blocks? Usually if it starts off slow for me, it’s b/c I’m unsure if I’m feeling the person or not.
Is it because you’re someone who takes your time or because of other circumstances? I make time for someone if I really like him. I would at least try to get together once a week as well as talk on the phone.
Did it give you more time to reflect on how things were going early on in the relationship? The busier I am, the more time I have to reflect between dates, I suppose.
Are there seasons of your life (holidays, work-related, other) that make it hard to begin a relationship? Being in school now and working full-time have presented challenging circumstances in my dating life.
Have you ever had a relationship not work out simply because it was too difficult to get a hold of the other person? I have stopped dating guys that I didn’t hear from them/see them enough. I figured that when time permitted, they’d call/schedule a date…if not, life goes on.
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this
black top, jeans and heels
A.Red…you where the only tall woman there…I didn’t know if it was you are not…but her good looks and height caught my attention..thats real…They cowgirl was a lesbian though…I dance with her and her girl friend earlier.
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this
Dang, you saw me looking for someone and you just watched. :-( We could have met finally. Too funny, and he knew I was hoping some blog family rolled through. He told he has met Foots/DasV/LL and you *ARed. WOW and he didn’t go grab you before the cowboy hat wearing d**e offered to dip into each other’s honey pot…I’m hollering over here!
By Availableforanooner
December 10, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this
Incredible. Men are a little more direct than trying to play the litle romantic games. His schedule is busy, your schedule is busy… ahhhh…life. Why not call him up and whisper something hott in his ear. He may hae tried this or is afraid to do this to you, because most of you have preconceived notions about men. We should all wear Shinig Armor or ride around in loin cloths with long flowing hair. Or maybe even speak like a soap opera actor with a dramatic flair…. Make time for one another. If he doesn’t have fun until he comes around. k? Happy Hornydays!!
By BLAT
December 10, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
@Dreams, so true. Basically what I said in my post earlier.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this
Prosecutors had recommended a sentence of between 12 and 18 months
-23mo’s? that’s crazy: you guys do realize that you have to do 85% of your time in the Feds, w/ Good behavior. WOW; and the state case in VA has not started yet. BYE BYE Dummie…
By Jay
December 10, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
Kinderbabe. 85% of federal time is done. He make do 20 months and one month in a halfway house.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
Darrell Funny and glad you asked. He can definitely get the truth. How can you take one comment and draw a complete conclusion on my character?!?! I think that’s a bit much. But do what u will. I must have hit a sore spot. A hit dog does holla!!
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 10, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this
Blow Me you said you’d go easy on me for the lawn munching comment. Thanks for the free pass.
NEWSFLASH: Vick has just been lynched.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this
Demi - Thanks. I think it was me, not because of the compliment, but because I was the tallest woman there. Which is common. But I figured I’d be more recognizable, because the difference in height between me and the other women was notable.
Several dudes did approach me, but they were spitting weak game. Too bad you didn’t stop and say hello! I’m glad pisces did or I wouldn’t have met anyone! LOL
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this
Dance on Sexyleggs! Lol…
And Darrell leave sis Stac alone. You know she has a bad ankle (or is it the knee?) right now. You gonna make her cane you.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this
@m’karyl “The amount of anger, hostility, etc. that some ppl have expressed was unreal and unnecessary.”
You haven’t seen anything until you see what’s been said about Vick on the Atlanta Falcons Message Boards. I’m one of five Admins there and the vitriol against him has been absolutely brutal from day one. So much so that we had to set up a special forum dedicated exclusively to talking about Vick.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this
‘hole up demiGod we’ve met??! heehheeehheeeee
By Poppa Grande
December 10, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this
@Kinder…
Generally, you have to serve your full sentence with Federal Cases. I think that he may serve 18 months in prison and 6 in a half-way house. (The feds made Douglass High grad and Cleveland Brown RB Jamal Lewis serve all of his time in a fashion such as this. He spent roughly half in jail and the other half in a halfway house.)
Federal jurisdiction and penalties are different from State cases. Money across state lines for illegal activity could have made this case a federal case.
The worst news for Vick is that Virgina is a commonwealth state and his state trial for the dog fighting is set for April 2008. Sorry MKaryl, it is not over yet. Being a commonwealth state, Virginia can still try him for the dogs.
I met Vick because my firm was local counsel for the Herpes case. He seem like a nice guy. I have no ill feeling towards him. I can’t go into that case because of confidentiality. He seemed like a okay guy.
I think that this confirms DL Hughley’s feeling about the Vick situation: People with crap to lose need to be careful when hanging with those people without crap to lose because those without crap to lose will lose your crap for you. It doesn’t mean that you turn your back but you need to make an understanding between the friend and yourself. If they are really your friends, they will understand and they won’t let you get into situations like this.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this
Amazon i was not at the club..trust me, i am not shy i would have came up grabbed your waist led you to the floor danced…feel me…enjoy a drink with you and chop up game…..there is not a shy bone and my body lady….when is the next time you guys doing this meet and greet thing
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member Since 1994
December 10, 2007 11:49 AM | Link to this
Good Afternoon All,
Have nothing to say on the topic or Vick..just wanted to ring out my love to other Steeler Nation fans….Steeler fans dont ride the Bandwagon…Steeler fans Ride or Die.*
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
AmazonRed by that time I was sweating bullets…hell no!!! There is always next time…I had on a light purple shirt, which looks good on my skin…LOl
DasV yep, LOL
not foot…Bre, sorry
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
Sorry Rell, I keep getting your screen name confused with Demi’s! I’m sad now, there were so many more bloggers to meet.
I know kinderbabe is planning a meet and greet for the ladies this weekend. But I’m going to be in Vegas bringing in 30 properly! LOL
By melo
December 10, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
Speaking of fools(the dummest of the dumb), do they have a nomination process for the Guiness Book of records?I want to submit my own. Vick would surely rank up there(along with Mike Tyson) with Vick up a notch on Mike, coz at least he stepped on some college campus, unlike Tyson. He’s destined to become just a regular Joe, after all he said and done.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
i know i shouldnt but i am laughing at Pasta T’s newsflash….LOL
PG im in no mood to read your edu-ma-cated self today, but it was worth it. LOLROTF at the d.l.hughley comment
By Rell
December 10, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this
The worst news for Vick is that Virgina is a commonwealth state and his state trial for the dog fighting is set for April 2008. Sorry MKaryl, it is not over yet. Being a commonwealth state, Virginia can still try him for the dogs.
and trust having lived there majority of my life they are licking there chops to get this under way..they will also give him jail time with probations…and lets not forget that vick was also given three yr of probation..so the judge gave him the max sentence….FIVE YEARS….TWO IN THE BING..THREE ON THE STREET….on a lease feel me…and we all know what happens if he gets violated
By Page1908
December 10, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this
Ughhhhhh man, someone keep me posted on the next meet up!! Sounds like fun!!
Cemeeli waving
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this
Lady J* wooo…that hater-aide is oozing from your pores! LOL
DaV you are correct about Katrina!
Darrell I ain’t neva scurred!
Cemeeli thank you girl….he is gonna make me hop after him! But you know I sm still rocking my stilletos! Fashion…ugh! LOL
Kym BOOOOOOO! LOL
By Rell
December 10, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this
@ared…happy 30 lady…do it big
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
@ Darrell & Poppa:
I am currently living in his home state and in the Hampton Roads area, so I have listened to a lot from this end as well since he is a homeboy. Also, I know that the VA state charges are yet to be reconciled and yes this is a commonwealth-remember that I posted it is 1-888-lock-u-up, and they mean it. What is interesting is that the state was latent to do anything regarding the charges until after the feds acted on the situation and presented a case (given that the state was in dibs at first). ep, it is justice all right, and when it is skewed it is against “just us”
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
Thanks for the breakdown Rell…ooooo-ta-b-kay! Wow!
By kinderbabe
December 10, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this
poppagrande thanks for the clarity. i appreciate it. that’s sad to hear that he will have to do the majority of the time. fortunately, in every challenge there is an opportunity for growth and blessings. i hope that however the cards play out for Vick that he comes out on top…stronger, smarter, wiser and with a greater level of awareness than ever before.
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this
Steeler fans Ride or Die
They’re dying and dying and dying…GO DOLPHINS!!! lol
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 10, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli
Call me crazy, but I still think Staceye and Blow are the same person (or at least philosophical twins), but I’m just playing along right now. I’m thinking of just combining the two names to make it easier for me to respond to them both. Something like ‘Sta-b-low’. What do you think? LOL!
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
Hey Page …QDT is looking for you! where have you been chica?
…see meet n greet this Sunday @ Strip Atlantic Station 7pm.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
Poppa GrandeI remember that…unfortunately my cousin who is involved with him in that case got longer time….Still in the half way joint. But Jamal did get his time broken up.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
Poppa GrandeI remember that…unfortunately my cousin who is involved with him in that case got longer time….Still in the half way joint. But Jamal did get his time broken up.
By ATLien (of StraightFromTheA.com)
December 10, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this
@ PappaGrande
People with crap to lose need to be careful when hanging with those people without crap to lose because those without crap to lose will lose your crap for you.
No truer words have ever been spoken! This needs to be everyone’s motto for the ‘08…
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this
CONFESSION TIME
Ok you guys….I attend an acting class to keep on top of my skill. Anyway….I never mix business with pleasure. So when this new guy started class…I thought he was cute. Nothing to it. I’m a heterosexual woman so I do notice attractiveness. Well, after doing a scene with him….that attraction has jumped to a new high! The remainder of the class I could not stop mentally eye f#cking him! After feeling his ripped 12 pack stomach…and hard as steal arms….OMG….I almost lost my mind and my train of thought! So yes…though Staceye hates the persona of men…I loves the physical form of them! UGH…but I would NEVER act on those feelings! HMMMMM! OK!
And now back to your regularly scheduled programing…..
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this
Darrell,Poppa & Rell:
I know that there is far more left to be determined with the state charges; but what I mainlyy was referring to were thirsty lynch mob of over vocal hostiles-maybe their need for “justice through a lynching of a black man” has been sated.
By kinderbabe
December 10, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
thanks jay:)
By melo
December 10, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
i hope that however the cards play out for Vick that he comes out on top…stronger, smarter, wiser and with a greater level of awareness Sounds like too much to give, just to get wiser.
By Blow Me
December 10, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this
Staceye Girl why not?!?!?
By Poppa Grande
December 10, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
@melo…
Yeah…142 million is a lot to lose in order to learn a lesson and get wiser.
Sheesh!!!
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this
@ melo
Yes, it is a lot to loose just to gain wisdom; but we are the author of our consequences…
By Lurker
December 10, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
YAWN - yet another boring day on the dating blog…..
This blog should be re-named “IF I EVER have another date/relationship in Atlanta”.
BORE FEST…..same boring people, same boring comments. Ya’ll need to step away from the computer and get a life.
By QC - waiting on 5ive
December 10, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
Hey everyone…too busy to blog…have a great day all
Hey kinderB, Cemeeli, Staceye
Kudos to Floyd Mayweather
HOLLA
By Foots
December 10, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this
Hey y’all…
SexyLeggs Sorry that I couldn’t make it to BellBottoms, but I see that you all had a great time.
on topic If I meet you and I like you and you’re all that, I’m gonna take steps to make room for you in my life. If I don’t see the same coming from you, then I’m wasting my time and must move on. Point Blank.*
I agree with Blat. I am of the belief that people make time for what they want to make time for. Even when I was “going for my masters” (as SJ says) a few years ago, I made time for my man. And that was working full-time, taking 2 dance classes, carrying a part-time load in my grad program, working at my church, and keeping my family and friend relationships stable. And it was funny to know that a man who just came home from work and sat in front of the TV all night couldn’t find time for me.
I still have a very busy life, but it’s mostly during the week. I will ALWAYS make time for a man I’m interested in. Just waiting for one to return the favor.
By Page1908
December 10, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this
LOL Cemeeli He is? QDT show your face! LOL. Girl, you know I am slow keeping up with this blog…lol.
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
Blow Girl I have a 5 mile radius rule…I would not mess with a dude who lives or works within a 5 mile radius of me. That includes classes and things that could get akwards in case it did not work. I will just admire him from a far…and try to get as many scenes with him as possible to get my rocks off! LOL I can get the booty in my dreams! LOL Maybe that’s why I could not sleep last night. HMMMM!
Staceye now pondering and wondering what he is wearing right now!
By Foots
December 10, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
Beautiful How long did they date? And how old are they?
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 10, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
FYI, David Taint is serving 30 YEARS in South Carolaina and another guy is serving 10 years in louisanna. These guys bred the “gamest” pit bulls the country has seen. In that light Vick got off easy, a least from the feds.
By melo
December 10, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this
Well said*m’karyl
By DasV
December 10, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
NEWS ALERT… as a ticker at the bottom of the screen: stacey w/a e is cracking. repeat: staceye’s wall is cracking
LOLROTF
….yes, girl. and when they put their masculine hand on the small of your back and pull you to them… and your faces are so close you can feel his breath on your cheek, and yet he lleans in closer to whisper something and you feel it on your neck like a soft caress, that starts at the base of your head, down your back and abruptly over to your right cheek making your foot jump before the sensation spills forward where everything obscene is happening betw your thighs……
(sorry… i digress. i was just meaning to, you know, … agree witcha on something you said *cant remember just now)
LOL
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
Beautiful being as that he was so trife….I will not ask for GA Man to give that massive citation! LOL
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
@Staceye
Ain’t nothing wrong with that…h3ll, I may not be actively pursuing any relationships, but I did not go blind in the process…h3ll it is nice to have some eyecandy that makes you snap, crackle and pop like a bowl of rice krispies-lol!!!! And it is nice to know that all we need is time to re-evaluate our innerself, and that we will be ready when the time and desire meet at the right moment in our lives to give it another chance…all I can say in an instance like that is thanks for the reminder of why God made a girl…
By Got that?
December 10, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
Beautiful, WTF? Was all that necessary?
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
Beautiful…um this is the girl that you had her back about this man….You said that she and him just met up with this cat in person and was sitting in the car sucking on his tounsils (sp) before she really even got to know him now you mentioned before that they talked since Sept and she never got a hint of him being this way???..meanwhile she takes him out to meet her MOTHER…um she got what she deserved…as if we didn’t knwo the turn out of this one…LOL
By Poppa Grande
December 10, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
m’karyl-
Personally, I feel that it isn’t just a need to Lynch a black man” in this case.
PETA led this charge in this case.
I see it is more of an example that special interest groups have way too much influence in America. PETA is just one of those group that are just fanatical about their cause. Bill Mahr (politically incorrect) is on their board. HBO just a special on PETA’s founder. They are the more vocal.
The animal charges were misdemeanors when the animals were found in April of 2007. However, they were felonies when he was charged. PETA worked on getting that change to a felony. They did it before the dogs were found on his property, but they had a hand ulitmately in deciding his fate with their lobbyist.
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
Lurker whats interesting is that you know whos here everyday and whos posting and what the topics are so ummm where are you everyday and where is your life..HUNH?????????
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
Lurker if we are so boring…why does your azz seem to be on here often? Just a question! I mean really…someone who is on a blog and has nothing better to do than to tell others to get a life….sounds like YOU are the one in need of one buddy! Now go go pull that tree stump out of your azz and chill!
QC are you giving gag gifts for Christmas? LOL
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this
On topic..I make time if I want him…if he wants me he makes time..really very simple….The holidays are exactly that busy, can be hectic etc…but still if you wan thim/her you will make time or at the very least let that special person know that you are busy etc and make contact..
If no?? then He/She is just not that into you…holla ya!
By SeanJohnson3000
December 10, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
@ Melo…its phcked up and sad…another black male put on display to be broken down mentally, emotionally and financially… I really dont see any lesson that can be learned this outcome..
By DasV
December 10, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this
Bootyful there wasnt nothing bootfiful about that long post! LOL but i aint madatcha…. you needed to get that out. thanks for sharing cause i had a good weekend, albeit lonesome… just me and my piano (which didnt want act right wit me either, but that wasnt 1/8 of the mess you had on your hands)
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this
DasV LMAO…you got jokes! Oh you gave the scenario girl. It was so hard to keep composure and stay in character.
m’karyl so you feel where I am coming from?
By melo
December 10, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this
Beautiful, u and Ur boy are a match!!! I don’t have time for the drama but ur text his ex, aint that drama.U trying to put urself in a grade u dont belong. Nine times out of ten, u can tell somebody is a match or not, the moment they open their mouth to speak to u or when they write in a ceratin way. Otherwise ask urself how this guy has managed to get to ur mama’s house or even know where she lives, if ur boy dont have some in common with u. Too funny!
Staceye,i like ur illusion, too bad im taken coz u so ripe to be plucked.
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
m’karyl I feel you…you notice they have nothing bad to say about the falcons current QBs or their sorry OLs…non catching WRs…and their icantstopne’emplay defense. It was always Vick’s fault the team played so poorly..ish, even that whiteboy be on the run. the OLs only block for .05 sec.
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this
i just encouraged her to date. i’m not her mother. lol. she had to meet him in person to find this out. unfortunately, she hit a rock.
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this
Melo you so nasty! LOL
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this
Poppa
Very rarely do I call the race card-but it was the look in the eyes of some ppl that I saw, it was the sam ellok that you see in the lynching pix and from the Civil Rights Movement…the “hate the N**” look that glints like a hostile flame in their eyes…”and the truth is in the eyes and the eyes don’t lie, amen.”
And yes, a lady here (who is white and knew nothing of Vick beofre the news coverage) wrote a very wonderful editorial about Vick and his case that very objectively and equitably viewed him with compassion..
By Foots
December 10, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
melo Beautiful’s post was in regards to what happened to her friend and the guy she was dating. She’s not the one with the drama. It’s her friend.
By melo
December 10, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this
Oh, my bad.Its the same home boy i predicted just wanted some from ur girl, the same girl who was smitten in the car and they were kissing in the parking lot.Probably went down town on the guy too…girls wont say.(been there, done that) And some people, including Beautiful were saying..oh well. Can somebody say desperate women in the A?
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
Beautiful we know how you love your pretty boys type…women can be so dayum patience…with the wrong dudes LOL
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
Staceye*
It is good. It is a better thing to take time to re-evaluate our inner emotional self, so that we can go forward in a more emotionally healthy light. Initially, we most often want to start with what the other did to us that caused our emotional pain; but in reality we need to recognize that, we ourselves, choose the person to be in our lives-so then ultimately we are the reason and responsibility for our own emotional best interest. What I think is vital about the period of emotional/physical distancing is that once we get to the “I/Me” in the problem, then we began to answer the questions necessary to resolve our pain. And a reminder that we are still open to a viable option on the other side is a good thing. It means that the healing is happening and progressing forward-OXOXOOXOXO
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
Staceye*
It is good. It is a better thing to take time to re-evaluate our inner emotional self, so that we can go forward in a more emotionally healthy light. Initially, we most often want to start with what the other did to us that caused our emotional pain; but in reality we need to recognize that, we ourselves, choose the person to be in our lives-so then ultimately we are the reason and responsibility for our own emotional best interest. What I think is vital about the period of emotional/physical distancing is that once we get to the “I/Me” in the problem, then we began to answer the questions necessary to resolve our pain. And a reminder that we are still open to a viable option on the other side is a good thing. It means that the healing is happening and progressing forward-OXOXOOXOXO
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this
melo You rememeber that as well hunh?!
By brownsugarvixen
December 10, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this
Hey all.
Sounds like everyone had a great time at Bell Bottoms. Will be at the next meet and greet.
I think that all dating relaitonships hit a slow start in the beginning. Each person has to decide if they’re interested in persuing his/her date. No need to over state this topic.
*On another note…..poor Vick. So sad he gotta be locked away, to finally get the big picture. Guess he had it coming to himself. H3ll he could’ve bought me the property in VA, and would’ve never had to worry about some bullish poppin off. Just goes to show you how folks w/out ish goin on in their lifes can create problems that have a bomerang effect. Hopefully he’ll wise up.
Beautiful: Dayum ya girl sounds like she wound up with a real winner. If I can recall, I think I said “PROCEED WITH CAUTION”. Glad he showed his true colors before the situation went any further. Hopes she find the right one!
By Lurker
December 10, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
Yawn - now back for another nap.
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this
well, ima outta here for today-need ot go see some peeps about more contract work and $$$$! Have a great da!!!
By m'karyl
December 10, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this
well, ima outta here for today-need ot go see some peeps about more contract work and $$$$! Have a great da!!!
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this
Beautiful my baad,,,and who is this Mo? not our MO…our MO will bust a cap in dudes a$$ and then tell him to clean the mess up
By DasV
December 10, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this
drama is when you have a friend who fills you in on the mess they into, when you have tried on more than one occasion to warn them NOT to do something they are insistent about doing. thats some mess.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this
LMAO…AT THE MYSPACE ISH…and then you guys jump on me for my anti-simpin comments…..all that cupcakin in the parking lot and this is what she gets….no man will pull lets kiss/neck in the parking lot…at least he will spring for a telly or get this…call it a night and go home…feel me….and he responding to text message from his ex…what kinda of sucker a**e ish is that…all i can say is men need to stand the fluck up and stop with the simpin…take the lead and stop being lead with the cupcakin the phone love…smdh
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
A need for drama is when you continue to warn someone about THEIR business and not let them do their own thang and tell them you don’t wan to hear it when they continue to come back to you with it…thats drama and self inflicted pain….
By melo
December 10, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
I’m out too,good nite all.
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
DasV i don’t feel it’s drama. she told me because i’m a internet dater and she isn’t. i just introduced her to another world of dating. after 3 mos, she cut it off because he’s not her type. she is all about today’s topic, but his charm did it’s work. she admitted that she did move too fast. we discussed how a dating service where you pay is better because the person is there for the same reason, commitment. she has no regrets.
By Foots
December 10, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this
melo You would think that after nearly 3 months of talking that they would have touched on some of those subjects. I wouldn’t have thought that she wouldn’t have asked anything about how he spends his time, if he likes his job, what his goals were in THREE MONTHS. Even fun, but informative conversations about cooking and washing clothes could have shed some light on what she was dealing with. So, I wonder…what DID they talk about for that long?
By For Real
December 10, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this
What up Blog Fam!!
2C I told you ole boy was all hype. They wanted him to win. He should have never been in the ring with Mayweather. The other thing that made me mad was that all those so called Americans cheering for ole boy. That just show you how deep the hate is. Oh and one more thing, Mayweather’s corner had me crying laughing with “that m/f can’t fight. come in here with that wild ish. keep doing what you doing and beat the m/f azz” that was funny as hellz.
On topic: If I have only known you for a short time why would feel that you are on the level of as my family, my friends, my job and my life? Until you earn me making time for you like my family has, like my friends has or pay me like my job does, then you will have to get in where you fit in and I will do the same.
Beauitful I still don’t understand how women keep falling for the same thing. I keep hearing women say this doesn’t work or that doesn’t work but yet in still men keep doing the same things and women keep falling for it. Who’s fault is it? Nevermind I already know it’s not her fault right?
By Rell
December 10, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
MOVING TOO FAST = HORNY…she wanted to see his O FACE…..that is all, folks need to be honest and stop with the boo boo.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this
Hey Miss QC i’m still wating on my schedule for this week…Lol.
Page are you still in the A?
Darrell k.a. Words so you rename too for ‘Sta-b-low’? …Staceye is coming at cha with the cane right about NOW!
By Rell
December 10, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
FOOTS
So, I wonder…what DID they talk about for that long?
WELL it was not jesus….hell they talked about Fun Flucking period….they would heat each other up on the phone….simpin
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this
How come I can’t see Beautiful’s story about her friend? What time did she post it?
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this
For Real there’s no regret. and neither is at fault. it just didn’t work out. he is used to a certain type of female and Mo ain’t it.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this
beautiful uh, yea, its drama cause drama is when you share a messed up and what some believe is a typical dating experience, end it with caps and innuendos of foul lang and exclamation points.
adult conversation is when you start with the lesson that your friend learned and the epiphany she had and then share what led to the enlighten’d moment minus the drama meant to be entertaining.
By brownsugarvixen
December 10, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
Rell…lol at you. So sad but true. I’m sure that there were lots of red flags, but surely like we women do. She suppressed them long enough, until he completely overloaded her w/bullish.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this
Staceye- It sounds like you’re on your way to gettin back in the game. Well done! I hope to see some kind words for us bro’s in the future from you. Man she tiight!-what Mr Golden globes told his homies the nx day; if he only knew.
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this
ARed thank god they deleted it. i’m tired of getting my butt kicked over this.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this
@DASv..you on your “DR PHIL” game daily….you might want to write a list so we can refer to it daily
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this
Beautiful, why did they delete it? Can you give me the cliff notes version? You know i’m interested in this topic as I’m trying the online dating thing!
By kinderbabe
December 10, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this
drama is when you have a friend who fills you in on the mess they into, when you have tried on more than one occasion to warn them NOT to do something they are insistent about doing. thats some mess. DasV you poured the tea on that one…i’m about to cut somebody out of my life over this same exact ish. you get tired of hearing about someone sticking their hand in the same pile of ish all the time. it gets to be soooooooo old. sometimes i think people don’t try to do better b/c their afraid they’ll run out of ish to talk about. that’s crazy….
By DasV
December 10, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this
Rell whatchutalkinbout,willis??!
By Rell
December 10, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
@BSV….iamjustsayin…last week it was all high on the guy…like he was the best thing since pockets….lol…..and we ALL knew that it would end this way…folks need to get off the microwave relationships..and i am sure her azz as baggage too…but we will not see that…typical
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
OFF-OFF TOPIC, someone mentioned last week that his son would be disappointed to learn that Charlie Brown Christmas special came on the week before. Well, there’s another special coming on tonight @8:00p.m., channel 2.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
DasV what you doin’? I only have 2 moniters to scan. I can’t keep notes too. My mental notebook is filled with errands to run for giving, church, gifts, lunch w/friends, mailing Christmas cards n gifts, dinners and just keeping everything at the house going too.
MO where are you?…service is very well needed today.
By Dan
December 10, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
@SexxyLeggs
I am sooo sorry that I missed your party. It was on my agenda of things to do last weekend.
Unfortunately, my plans got derailed by a visit to the Dentist office. I eventually was able to recover, but in no condition to drive anywhere, plus my vanity would not allow to be seen in such a fashion.
But rest assured, the next time I get a chance to meet some of you fine people (and the not so fine) I will be in attendance. Dressed to kill, and as cute as I normally am.
To Slim: I’m still checking, high school was a bit of a blur, but when I find out….you’ll know.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this
Hey kinderbabe.
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this
Darrelltake that…and that…you are being caned for your new moniker! LOL
900K hey just cause a sista gets a lil hot about a guys physical attributes doesn’t mean anything. I am celibate…not blind! But I can’t say that I wouldn’t do him on his mama’s kitchen table if given the chance! LOL
By Rell
December 10, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this
@Dasv…MEANING you always have a wordy comment on something simple….that is all…dont get your panties tight….i am just saying it might be helpful for all if we got the meat of your point without the gravy…feel me
By abc
December 10, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this
Poppa, it became a felony due to interstate transport of dogs and money, and then lying to federal investigators about it, not because of anything PETA did directly.
It’s a tough lesson to learn for Michael Vick. Plenty of people do the same or worse and nothing bad happens to them. Perhaps Vick pays the price because God has better things in store for him. God’s best may require a bit of personal bloodshed.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
FYI Jill Scott fans. She’s coming to the Fox on February 22, 2008. Tickets go on sale this Friday.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this
LOLROTF @kinders ‘ppl keep doing mess so’s they have something to talk about’ AND @Rells “microwave relationships” (imma have to bite that) AND @ Cee running outta room on her mental pad.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this
Rell nope. sorry. i dont feel you.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this
@staceye….you would be a good actress….you stay in character regardless….lol. You celibate but you just came back from one of the worlds biggest sex parties…and then you hit Puerto Rico…like i say you stay in character….lol….but i dont believe you
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this
Sexyleggs - Thank you for the Charlie Brown Christmas special heads up gurl. Unfortunatley he will be at his first basketball practice tonight. And i do not have TIVO. Man!
Wow Staceye that bamboo Puerto Rico original sounds off LOOOUD off Darrell’s head. Wait is that a splinter in his neck…? Lol
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
December 10, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli I am here chica!! Mo waving Just had to finish up some work. I said I would be lurking, just reading some of the posts! Thanks for the Jill Scott heads up to whomever posted (I am now speed-reading)
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
Plenty of people do the same or worse and nothing bad happens to them. Perhaps Vick pays the price because God has better things in store for him.
abc I couldn’t have said it better. Sometime God will allow ‘things’ (even detrimental) to happen in your life to “refine” you for the better. And his purpose.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this
I am celibate..= Staceye is ready to burst. Sounds like a very lucky man to me. Message to Mr. golden globes: Just shut up man and let it happen, trust me homie.
Demi- did you catch any football sun homie? Maybe some snow flurries and 3 td passes in 1st qt perhaps??? MIA is now M.I.A.!
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
December 10, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this
Hey Cemeeli I am here, just lurking! Mo waving What’s up! Thanks to whomever posted about JScott coming in concert!
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this
ARed i can e-mail you the e-mail my friend sent to me. but to make it quick, he’s a momma’s boy. he wants a women to pay his bills, wash his clothes, etc. (all of his ex-girlfriends did). her point was that she wants a real man like what Rell describes: one who takes charge and will protect her, stand over her. be the man of the house.
unfortuately, talkin on the phone didn’t bring this side of him out.
By kinderbabe
December 10, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this
hey cemeeli how goes it?
thanks for the info AR
dasv glad to contribute something funny…lol.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
December 10, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this
Sorry about the double post guys
By pisces07
December 10, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this
ARed. Hit me on the e-mail.
By For Real
December 10, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this
Beautiful unfortuately, talkin on the phone didn’t bring this side of him out. — See these types of statements makes it seems like it’s not her fault or she was duped by ole boy.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
Talking on the phone and textin is a sucker move when you in the “getting to know you phase”….how can you gauge anything..alot of communication is non verbal..so you need that…i say keep the phone calls sweet and simple and set up “dates” to know the person..meaning share your interest..ladies that mean you can set dates to all those chittlin circuit plays and such…and men you can invite her out to amatuer night at plat 21….lol….folks need to get off the movie/dinner/blockbuster…dating cycle..all the things to do in atl and the first date is always eating….i dont get it…
By Dan
December 10, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this
With relation to Beautiful’s friend…
My grandma told me that people come into your life for “a reason, a season, or a lifetime. And regardless of your schedule for them God took them out of reach, with His reasons in mind.”
I’ve lived by that since forever, and it has served me well.
By Page1908
December 10, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli Girl, yes, I am here in the A now, but sometimes I feel like I am still on West Coast time, so I can hardly keep up..lol
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli, aw that’s sweet. Don’t worry there will be plenty of more.
MO, what do you think of Dallas Austin’s DrumRoll SWD? Every Tuesday night @8:00. My daughter saw her next door neighbor last week and nearly stumbled over her ownself all the while sitting Indian style…goodness gracious! It’s a very good show on the marching bands of DeKalb Cty.
ARed whatcha want to do about the clothes? Are you going to the meet and greet Sunday @7:00. You party and hanging w/the wrong b-day girl. Still can’t get over that one.
By QueDogTeaching
December 10, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
What up blog Still mad at almost making it to Bellbottoms. Hey Page
Got caught up trying to make it to a fight party. Then we started towards bellbottoms and stopped at a spot called the Blue Room what was supposed to be a minute, but ended up being for the night.
On-Topic I had this conversation with a lady friend of mine yesterday about dating in Atlanta. And I was saying that it is kind of different in Atlanta. If a person lived out of town that you liked you would break some of your rules to be with that person. Lets say this person lived in Macon, or Athens. You would invite that person up for the day and tell them to bring an overnight bag. To be honest if you live in Douglas County and the person you are dealing with lives in Gwinnett, then you are in a since doing the same thing. I have met ladies and deemed them Geograpically UnDesirable, due to location. I have also dated a woman who lived on the total other side of town and it worked. We both always had a bagged packed.
Ques-Take In the A where there is a lot of distance between two people, if you really like someone you cannot be lazy. To live fifty miles from someone you are interested in is nothing. Number one You have to be patient, two understanding, and three willing to go above and beyond to get the best of the person you want to be with.
The literate of the future will not be those who can simply read, but those who can unlearn, relearn, and use what they have learned.
What up Mo Happy belated Sexy, and ARED
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this
You don’t ask questions you don’t get answers simple as that….
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this
Rell I do not have to convicevince anyone. You can believe what youwant to believe. I know what’s true. its like, just because a person is around drugs does not mean they particpate.
900 he’ll never know. I am keeping those feelings under wraps. I think fantasy is better than reality anyway!
By Dan
December 10, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this
@For Real and Beautiful
Right on for the insight, For Real.
And to Beautiful, wouldn’t that conversation have happened before the grope fest in the car? *Kinda like, “listen I have herpes” if you still wanna kiss me, go for it.”
J/K but not really
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this
For Real what do you want me to say to make it her fault? tell me please. she took a risk and it didn’t work out.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this
kinderbabe i am holiday hectic all month, gurl.
DasV i was just thinking… you are an educator FOR REAL, for real!!! Perfect vocation for ya.
By Jazzyone
December 10, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this
No staceye but they will catch a contact..LOL…
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this
@QDT, so stopping off at The Blue Room was more entertaining than hanging w/your blog sisters. Oh well, maybe next time. Thank you for the b-day wish!
Today is NY2GA’s b-day. Anybody hear from her?
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this
Page spkng of Phoenix. I must say vactioning in Phoenix was one of my best resorts spots. If you know of Boulder Resort (in the outskirts, well rural of Phoenix city limits). When in my condo/private state i would look out the windows all i could see were huge stones/rocks, ‘plentiful’ cactus and DRY!!! LOL oh i was near the golf course. It was beautiful. Except for those dang animals at night.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
December 10, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this
Hey QDT *kisses to you
SexyLeggs I like the show Drumroll and I am glad that SWD has a chance to be showcased. I also appreciate them showing some of the other schools with great band programs in the area. I have been tuned in for each viewing….
By Dan
December 10, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
@Que
I really do think that “distance” is a phenomenon specific to the A. My friends that move here from out of town say that they’ve driven 2 hours (one way) to kick it with a babe and drove back same night. I’m like “Noooo, If I have to cross 285, it wasn’t meant to be.”
But like you I tried it SW to 20 miles past St. Mountain. We both kept bags and it was mostly a weekend thing, which got kinda tiring after a while. Not that we weren’t willing to try but, the effort to make it work was a little too much.
But with the traffic in the A, if I can’t get to you inside of 285, might be a wrap. And that’s from a hometown boy!
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
Dan i had no control over the kissing and stuff. i was here for support. now back to the scheduled topic.
By ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek)
December 10, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs worst, with a les…too funny..I look and asks for 5 or 10 min..and then ask the DJ to find you for me…And I aint dancing with you in that cage no mo, dem girl could have rape me, LOL
For Real I have a home boy like that..he lives off women…trust me, them cats melt even the hardest woman, LOL
900K I am black repub…I do not recall any Dolphins losses this season..we must…STAY THE COURSE!! LOL
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
Thanks beautiful for the run down.
BLOG QUESTION - How much does talking on the phone factor into the “getting to know you time?” Say you date weekly, but talk on the phone everyday. Would you judge folks for giving up the azz after the 3rd or 4th date (which = knowing each other for 3-4 weeks)
SexyLeggs - Well, I’d still like the clothes, but I won’t give my email out on here. I won’t be at the kick it on Saturday either.
pisces - Left your info at home. Will email you tonight.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this
Staceye- the key is when reality meets fantasy! That’ll make you feel like you’ve been around drugs! I don’t think you should make a move 1st at all. But when he speaks up don’t give hime the “Oh here comes the man bull…” eye of yours. I feel that if I don’t say anything stupid(which I never do) and we dig ea/other then lets get get get it! Anyway with the exception of you and Blow ^5ing ea/other you’ve been damn near nice to us bro’s, maybe it could be… Mr best scared black man in a horror movie!
By For Real
December 10, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli Call my name again girl.
Beautiful you said it.. she took a risk. It’s just sometimes women do not take responsibility for the decision that they make. It always comes across as if this mystical power over came them or that some dude put the roots on them and it was nothing they could do. Thus, it’s not her fault that dude woke up a dormant puddy that to her suprise still has some wetness.
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
Now, now ΗΜΙΘΕΟΣ (someoneliedandsaidmyblacka$$speakGreek). I wasn’t going to rape you..LOL but I had to let you know, the way you were dancing trying to show out on ME, that I represent all Cougars who can still drop it like it’s hot!
Again, thanks for coming. Tell your friend I said thanks for coming as well.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this
Whoops got cut off.
I was in heaven with recent cat. He only lived 8 miles away. Now it looks like I might have to do the 25 mile trips again. That still makes me happy, considering.
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this
Jazzyone you so crazy! LOL
Que & Dan I can’t mess with someone who lives in Henry or Clayton county. That is just too far for me. I am North Fulton/Dekalb borderline. So you must be within 5-20 mile radius. Under that breaks my 5 mile barrier and over thhat is just too far to travel weekly..unless we agree to a weekend thing. Not to mention…i live one exit from where I work…I’ll be d@mned if I spend a weeknight at a dudes crib to have to get up at the butt crack of dawn or fight traffic to get to work when I live close by!
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
ARed email me sharmynk@bellsouth.net
By DreamsMaterialize
December 10, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this
When I lived in LA, driving an hour or more to see someone was nothing, since the metro area is SO big. Gotta admit though that since living in The A, I don’t want to make those drives anymore. If you’re too far outside of sandy springs/dunwoody, then it probably won’t happen, or be short-lived at the most.
By 900K
December 10, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this
* Say you date weekly, but talk on the phone everyday.*- When done correctly talkin on the phone will make you feel as if you’ve known each other for years. Then she’s pretty much open…and NO I don’t see anything wrong with her wantin to really Feel me after 3rd date. If someone wants to spend that much time w/ you on the phone then the azz is yours in my book!
By Dan
December 10, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
Uhhh,
Beautiful, don’t get nasty w/ cha boy. I was talking about cha homegirl.
By For Real
December 10, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
2E’s I think fantasy is better than reality anyway! — Come now you can’t live in your head forever… Eventually you will have to deal with reality… everyone has to or you will cease to exist.
Demi Oh trust me I know some too but I’m just amazed at what a woman will believe. That ish they spit is lame as hellz but it works.
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
For Real you still stooopid ‘bout the “binford calls’. Dang!
My son goes to bb prac tonight. And he FINALLY will get the real lingo of bb this year. Before they were allowing the boys to just play a willy nilly and refs don’t call anything during play. This year 8-9yo get called on everything….fouls,traveling,under basket all that…I’ve got to see this in action.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
Okay, so it looks like the first part didn’t post. When I first moved here, I lived in midtown and the guy I was seeing lived in Mabelton. I thought that was torture until we broke up and the next guy lived in Douglasville. Ouch!
I was in heaven with recent cat. He only lived 8 miles away. And we saw each other often. Now it looks like I might have to do the 25 mile trips again. That still makes me happy, considering.
If the person is worth it, they’ll be worth the trip.
By Demi
December 10, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs I didn’t think you drop that low for so long…I was speaking of the ladies pointing up at us
Off Topic getting your prostate check is no joking matter…worst when done by a dime, I feel so small LOL
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this
Dan i really didn’t mean it that way. sorry.
By Foots
December 10, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this
AmazonRed I love PhoneTime. For me, talking on the phone before I decide to go out with someone helps me get certain things out on the table, as well as helps me to determine if we’d have a good flow of conversation face to face. Most of the REALLY long convos are in the beginning though. That’s when you can pass two hours easily without even knowing it, because everything is so new.
But who knows about the time frame/date stuff? It’s so different for everyone, and talking so much on the phone can have you feeling like you really know the person though you haven’t spent much time with them. Shoot, they could actually be on the phone with you and at their computer sending somebody else IMs at the same time. Plus, you never know about the chemistry until you lay eyes on each other. I’ve had plenty of wonderful convo on the phone only to go out on a date and realize that there’s no chem.
Anyway, my take on it is that if you feel comfortable with your decision and can OWN it, it doesn’t matter whether it’s 3 weeks, 3 months, or 3 days. Whatever you do in that situation, if you own your decision about sharing yourself, you’ll be able to deal with your decision and have no regrets.
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
Thanks SexyLeggs, I’m going to send you an email! Thanks for being so patient with me!
By For Real
December 10, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this
Dude: Wow I cannot believe we have been on this date for 5 hrs. It seems like time is standing still.
Chick: I feel the same way. We get along so well.
Dude: You know I have never said this before but I really believe I am having a love a first sight moment with you.
Chick: Oh my!!! I feel the same way too. I was trying to check myself bc I didn’t want to act like beautiful’s friend.
Dude: Who?
Chick: Nevermind… but I don’t want this night to end. I want you to follow me home.
Dude: Wow!!! Sure, I will be right on your tale. Where do you live?
Chick: Conyers..
Dude: Moments gone
Chick: Whyyyy? What’s wrong?
Dude: $3.35 per gallon broke up a good thang.
By JustMe
December 10, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this
Hello Everyone
I see this was a hot topic today.
By Rell
December 10, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this
if you spending all that time on the phone then you have choosin your course…why worry about when things go down…feel me…that is why i say choose wisely….if the brother is having that effect on you…do what you feel….but make sure when you hand over power it is to someone that can handle it..but you will only know that thru direct contact not 3months of phone boning…feel me
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this
Great post Foots. As for me, I don’t get too caught up in the timeline…ANYMORE. Once I feel comfortable broaching the topic of relationships, STDs, kids, sexual orientation and such and you are comfortable in giving me direct answers, you will have the green light for the puddy. LOL. That’s if the chemistry and conversation and trust factors are there as a pre-requisite.
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this
Demi, it’s all good! The ladies were pointing up at us because when you tried to do that movement w/your legs as though you were doing the butterfly while holding onto the pole, I had to come with all stops….ROFLMAO!
By DasV
December 10, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this
LOLROTF @Dude: $3.35 per gallon broke up a good thang.
By Dan
December 10, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
@ For Real
You did it again, got me laughing out loud at work!
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this
900 who’s to say that he would even notice. I did not make it obvious. So that “when he speaks up” will never come. Besides…who’s to say he thinks of me like that..or if he is single.
For Real I love living in my head…it is then…and only then are things perfect.
Demi feeling a lil’ violated? LOL Women have to get that all the time at the gyn! LOL But I am glad you are keeping a check on your health.
By JustMe
December 10, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this
Rell 3months of phone boning…feel me You are still crazy - ROFLMAO
Hey Demi
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this
I cracked up at 3.35 per gallon broke up a good thang. Everything is relative!
By Rell
December 10, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this
Demi, it’s all good! The ladies were pointing up at us because when you tried to do that movement w/your legs as though you were doing the butterfly while holding onto the pole, I had to come with all stops….ROFLMAO!
DEMI…..say it is not so brother….smh….you have your legs flapping while you holding a pole….that is some moist booty behavior…not mackish at all
By Foots
December 10, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this
For Real That one should go down in the Joke Archives! LMAO!!! You stoopid, but you’re right! I can admit that I’ve been lazy about traveling 50 minutes to go see someone. I’ve been lucky to meet people who actually live in my county over the last couple of months.
Amazon Yeah, it’s impossible to know what the other person is actually thinking, even if they tell you. So that’s why if I’m okay with my decision, regardless of what happens afterwards, I’m cool. Bad case scenario, it doesn’t work out, but I still got a great dose of Vitamin D. Good case scenario, it works out and I got a great dose of Vitamin D, with replenishment every 2 days. :-)
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this
For Real I had cocoa in my cup dude. Stop it!
That $3.35/gal of gas can mess up a relationship. I ain’t seen my sister in 2yrs because of that binford gas. LOL
By Foots
December 10, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs WAIT A MINUTE!! They have a pole??
By Demi
December 10, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this
I remember when gas was $1.17 in 2000…I thought I was a tri-state mack…Now I am to cheap to drive 50miles for some, 80+ dollars a week for gas is no joke
By JustMe
December 10, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this
….that is some moist booty behavior…not mackish at all Ugh……. the visual Rell u foolin”
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this
Rell*, didn’t mean it like that…you crazy. It was most definitely a very manly dance step. The ladies were pointing at us becuase we were DAINCING!!!!!!!!!
By Beautiful
December 10, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this
I ain’t seen my sister in 2yrs because of that binford gas lmao.
By DasV
December 10, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this
demigod was someone messin wit the goodies,…. and not in a good way?? heeeheheeee glad you lived to tell about it… but im wit staceye. us womens get that on the regular at the ob. (whats the verdict? you good?)
LOL@”phone boning”. mayne, you on a roll today aintcha??
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this
Foots, calm down girl, calm down…LOL. No, not a pole, but rather colored bars on the cage. Sorry, should have said cage bar not pole. Whew, what a difference a word can make.
By For Real
December 10, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this
Fone conversation with Foots…..
Foots: Let me call LaDarius Micheal and see what he done with his fine self. Lets see 404-771-9311 Ring, Ring, Ring
LaDarius Micheal(but call me Tony): (Ring Tone Tony gave Foots “You must be use to me spending, all that fine dinner but I’m fu…) Hello!
Foots: LaDarius Micheal..
Tony: Hey come now I told you to call me Tony.
Foots: But how you get Tony out of LaDa.. nevermind okay Tony! How are you?
Tony: I’m good ma. How was your day?
Foots: Well let me see today was so long Latisha got on my last nerve again.
Tony: Whattt?
Foots: Yeap, she just stooopid sometime.
Tony: You don’t say
Foots: You know LaDarius Micheal you are the first dude that actually listen to me.
Tony: What, What take that mitty ficky! First down!
Foots: LaDarius Micheal what are you doing?
Tony: I’m listening to you
Foots: Stop lying you playing Madden
Tony: No I’m and don’t call me LaDarius Micheal. See you always starting trouble. I can’t even sit and have a decent coversation with you without you flying off the handle and calling me out of my name.
Foots: Okay, I’m LaD
Tony: See, see, you still calling me out my name. I’ll call you back after you calm down. Bye, dayummm she made me throw an interception.
Foots: I’m sorry. Click
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this
Demi, I got your back. I was there and I know there was no moist booty behavior going on! Rell, you are a mess…good one, but you’re a mess!
By Foots
December 10, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs Oh, okay, I can work with that too. When I went to Cabo san Lucas this summer, there was a cage at this club called The Zoo. I climbed that and did some tricks up there. Thoroughly entertaining!! LOL!!
By DreamsMaterialize
December 10, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this
Shoot I remember a time in Atlanta when RaceTrac gas was $.79 a gallon. gotta shed a tear on that one cuz we’ll never see those days again.
By Demi
December 10, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this
JustMe Heeeeey babe…how are things?
Rell ish, I thought I was a part time male strippa again…when I chill I chill, but with a shot of gray goose, its time to get loose, LOL
Dayum, now turning in MLB card for not being Mackish
SexyLeggs you where lucky, had you had on pants, I would have put you on my lap and grind you on the pole…in the air..you know I have the body to do it, LOL HEHEHEHEHEH
It was a good work out…well I am back to working out 2 or 3 times a day, so I will be in top form next time…I may stay at 180lbs/w 9 or 7 percent body fat..A BEAST!!
Staceye it took only 2 seconds, but I was thinking to myself…them anal lovers are tripp’n, that ish ain’t cool!!
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this
Sexyleggs you done did it now….FOOTS is over there plotting out her routine and her outfit for Bell Bottoms! LOL now to find it was all a dream! Pole dreams and caged fantasies!
For Real the gas joke had me cracking up. I remember visiting ATL in 2002 and gas was $1.14. My how times have changed! Thanks Bush…you &^%$#@! LOL
**
By AmazonRed
December 10, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Foots and Vitamin D!!!
By 900K
December 10, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this
Staceye- who’s to say? …will never come up?? WHO’s to Say??? GIRL YOU BETTER MAN UP!!! If he looked into your eyes while you were having those thoughts then he knows sum’n goin on w/ you. To be frank, when I 1st started to read your posts you seem a bit crazed, bitter and just damn mean. All of us men know one thing to be true: The Crazy ones are the FINE ones. Plus you only tryin to act cuz you cute. So take some pride in your crazy FINE azz.
By Demi
December 10, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this
DasV all result are negative…
SexyLeggs No defense needed…What Pole??!!!
By Cemeeli
December 10, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this
Beautiful I’m just saying…gas is TOO HIGH!!! I’ve cut back on eating poultry, texting folks…
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this
So take some pride in your crazy FINE azz.* Hey, 900, don’t you know Staceye has a lot of pride in herself. No one on here ever doubted that.
Demi, pants or skirt I still would have danced all around you. Let’s not get it twisted…LOL.
By For Real
December 10, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this
lol at Foots ears perking up after hearing Pole.
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this
Demi LMAO…those 2 minutes we are spread ‘em eagle…are the longest 2 minutes. I am still trying to figure how I was bold enough to ask my old GYN out while he was all up in my goodies a few years ago! LOL I must have been on some shyt!
900 I have been acting since age 4. So it’s in my blood. But I do not think he noticed…I am good at hiding stuff like that! He knows I was in character…so trust me….he is clueless to my dirty lil’ thoughts.
By SexyLeggs
December 10, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening.
By Foots
December 10, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this
For Real You STILL stoopid!!
By Demi
December 10, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs Cool…Rematch then at Vibes LOL
Night All
By Staceye
December 10, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this
Good night all! LOL