By Jazzyone

January 18, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this

Is it possible for a woman to get out of the friend zone?? yeah long enough for them to TOS each other up and when they come down they go back to normal..friends…cause if he just isn’t that into you that won’t change but NSA sex a man will be open to and allot of women…Loose booty = Jump off..

Im in the friends zone with my ex fiance and he is my best friend..but lately the lines between friend/maybe more are getting blury…he knows it I know it..so things should get interesting and believe it or not I want to go there….

By O Lee Reed

January 18, 2008 8:32 AM | Link to this

Don’t be in the dark. 99% of straight men who claim they have true good friends who are girls are only in it for for the remote possibility of @ss in the future. No real dude wants to hang out with his “friend” Suzy on a friday night when he can be with his buds doing useless things. He is investing time for a return in the future.

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 8:42 AM | Link to this

good morning.:)

not currently in the friend zone w/anyone. i have been though and it nearly drove me nuts…lol. i had a big time crush on a guy friend of mine in college. eventually, i grew to be o.k. w/the situation. we settled into a good friendship. i must admit though, it was hard being on the other side of the fence (since it’s usually guys who get put in the “zone” lol).

By Jazzyone

January 18, 2008 8:50 AM | Link to this

If we are strictly friends and I am making daddy out the corner of my eye?? Oh Imma let him know bout it..I tend to let another know how its going down in respect to dating, feelings and heart stuff like that…

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

Happy 3-day weekend all! Quick off-topic question… I need to help my friend find a male strip club/revue here in Atlanta. She’s trying to plan a last minute bachelorette party. Any suggestions would be helpful.

By the way, good job on topics this week WiseDiva. I think you made the AJC homepage all week. :-)

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

GOOD Morning ALL

Happy Friday as well

Passing out Starbucks & Red Bulls (shots of Patron will be later)

This is interesting…….I wish I can only get in a FRIEND zone with a guy. I need new guy friends. I like being in the friend zone. I honest want it to stay that way….Because I need to know how a man thinks and have him to keep me up on game as well.

Looking for guy friends I want HIM to treat me like a homie….we swap relationship stories and give each other advice.

By Kno Doubt

January 18, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

I’ve had several woman friends whom I sensed had a crush on me. However, it’s way too awkward bringing your “hunch” to the surface when there is a chance that you “read” into something that is not there. And if that is the case, where does the platonic relationship go from there? Therefore, I believe woman who are attracted to their male friends should let there feelings be known. The guy will oblige 99% of the time.

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday everyone. I think it’s possible to move from a friend zone to a having a relationship. A lot have done it. It’s best to start as friends; however, it can only work if both parties feel the same. That one-sided cushy feelings can only lead to booty call!

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

morning……I agree with both Jazzy, and O Lee, somewhat….I mean, dudes don’t go out of their way to meet a lady (for those that hate the impersonal, female, term) just to be their friend….it ends up happening that way…

Cemmeelie, we paintin’ this weekend? hehehe….

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

Ared Chit Chat does it….on Friday or Sunday nights….try Atlanta Hot boys site…Google it….Don’t even ask me how I know….lmao!!

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

AmazonRed well…i don’t know how good this sounds as an option but…i do know that they have a male revue every friday night at the ritz on old nat’l. it’s definitely a good hood spot, not sure how your girl is. she may or may not like it. after a few drinks, i think she would be o.k..lol.

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 9:10 AM | Link to this

Very few women find themselves stuck in the friend zone.

In my experience the funny thing was I did not realize when I formed a crush on this particular man. All I recall is one day we were exchanging flirtatious comments but I really didn’t take it seriously. We were long time friends. You know friends can exchange pleasantries and have nothing come from it. I would not have imaged in a 1000 years that something could or would develop.

However, I have to admit that I ignored the threat of the maybe when he started to pop in my head while showering or relaxing in a nice warm bath. I just laughed it off as being nothing or scolded myself having such a thought.

To this day he says that that first time we were together was my doing, which I deny. Not one time did I ever lead him on or make the slightest suggestion that there was anything developing between us. I guess that’s the problem there was nothing between us. No shirts. No pants. Just hot clinging bare moist skin.

Sorry WiseDiva. I promise to be good. It’s just that your topic brought back a flashback of a day to be cherished. LOL

I will now type a comment of the actual topic.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this

AmazonRed there is a spot called Richard’s off Howards Mills…Mostly gay guys and straight women hung out spot…My ex enjoy the spot time to time.

By cool breeze

January 18, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

Nahhh, it’s easy for a woman to move from the friend zone. She’s never really there or put in a box to start with. All ya’ll females are possible relationships. We aren’t hanging out with ugly chicks cause we want “friends”. We are putting ourselves in a position to succeed by surrounding ourselves with attractive females/possibilities. Women are the only ones who put folk in boxes and they stay there. I sure am not hanging around any girl that just wants to be “friends”. I got enough of those. And while we are out doing our friend thing I could be out on my own looking/finding a female that wants to be more than friends which is my goal. Not looking for any female I need to waste months convincing I’m a good guy. It doesn’t take a whole day to recognize sunshine ya know? I DISAGREE SO MUCH YOU NEED TO BE FRIENDS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. That’s a bunch of CRAP.

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

kinderbabe What you know about OLD nat…RITZ…Yes that is definitely a hood spot. But they do have male revue…there..But trust it gets pretty hood around that part. lmao! But I am not going to lie..I know me and my homie WOW use to kill FROZEN PALACE Back in 02-05 that was our spot! You could always catch me in there…lol. Back in my younger days!

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

Interesting subject…I am currently dealing with this…Men are interesting creatures…The chase is fierce…

By SittingPretty

January 18, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

I’m in the friend zone with several good men….but I like it that way. As Blow said, it gives you insight into how/what they think. I’ve always had a lot of male friends, even to this day. I’m in a male dominated profession, so I can’t help but make male friends. I did have a “semi-platonic” friend that I was interested in. He was actually the one to call me out on it. He felt like I was giving certain signs that made me seem interested in him on another level. We tried to make something out of these feelings, but it eventually fizzled out. We remained friends, but lost contact. I think he’s involved with someone now. Once the line is crossed, it’s difficult to go back and be “just friends”.

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

Go for it Jazzyone. Don’t fight it. Ride it out to the end.

Okay I promise to be good. For real.

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

Thanks for the suggestions thus far everyone! Keep em coming

Blow Me - You are a riot.

kinderbabe - The bride is from Oakland, so she may be good with a hood spot. LOL

Richard - Did you mean Howards Mills or Howell Mill? Still getting my ATL hoods down.

By T-Mango

January 18, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this

I’ve been friends with someone for almost 10 years (time flies). Our friendship has been strictly platonic.

However, the last time he came to town and we grabbed a bite to eat…I sensed that he may be looking at me differently. He even cut me a few “interesting”(maybe those are his sexy looks) looks from across the table. I think feelings could be changing on his part, but not on mine.

My best friend swears that he is going to make a move on me with a little verbal penetration because he knows that moves me. LMAO. That’ll be interesting… Honestly, I’m not sure how I would respond if he flipped the script on me. Will I react like Sydney reacted to Dre in Brown Sugar? Or, keep pushin with Shelby? This could be interesting if it occurs.

So, when did you fall in love with hip-hop?…

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this

2CPTG© I have yet to meet a dude who is going out to…‘meet a new female friend’

Far as a lady friend wanting to go to the next level.

Nope, they’re too afraid of losing a ‘Good Friend’, but run their mouth about me to their current man.

Which leads to jealous dudes.

Bishes…

By Jewel

January 18, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

Good morning and Happy King Holiday Weekend Everyone!

Waay off topic, but this comment nearly floored me.

The Andrew Young: “And Bill (as in Clinton) is every bit as black as Barack.”

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Now on-topic. I’ve fallen for 3 of my guy friends before. The first was in HS. I actually told him and he rejected me. I kind of knew the reason why…he was gay and in the closet.

The other two I’m still friends with to this day. One is like a brother now. I was crushing on him at the beginning when I wasn’t sure of what his intentions were. Years later, I think he started liking me, but I was over him. He gave me a bracelet from Tiffany one year with a card professing “all his love.” It scared the ish out of me. We were in a hotel in Phoenix and I just played it off like it was “friendship love.”

The last one, we are just alike and call each other “soul mates,” which has made all his girlfriends really jealous. I don’t block tho. He’s going to marry the current one, I think, so we’ll just always be friends.

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

good morning Cali!

sorry, i don’t do guy friends. i lost a good friend who turned on me. it was never the same after that. :(

By Spice

January 18, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this

QUESTION: I’ve been involved with this guy for about 6 months…he was seperated for about 4 years but divorce didnt become final till like 3 weeks before we met…I wonder could I be a rebound?…He treats me great & he says that he wants me to be his last….but I still have doubts…..any suggestions???

By Spice

January 18, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this

QUESTION: I’ve been involved with this guy for about 6 months…he was seperated for about 4 years but divorce didnt become final till like 3 weeks before we met…I wonder could I be a rebound?…He treats me great & he says that he wants me to be his last….but I still have doubts…..any suggestions???

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

ARED I know lmao!!

Here is the link though..I actually googled it for you… girl don’t get me fired

www.atlantahotboyz.com

By pisces08

January 18, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

Morning All. @ARed, you’ve got mail. On topic, from a male perspective, as friends there is always the possibility of intimacy. The thought is there, maybe not always, but its there. As an unsuspecting male friend, I got hit with the “we’re just friends” routine… one day she answered the door “bucket nekkid”. It was on.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

Men are interesting creatures

Lady J why do I have a mental picture of a dude hanging up in your office, wearing a tight leather outfit/w butt creeks out…and you wearing a doctor mini/w a large paddle in your hand, screaming:

What’s my name!!?? What’s my mutha mutha name!!??

Smack

I can’t hear you!!

By T-Mango

January 18, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

I hope this doesn’t post more than once since I had a problem with the site…sorry if it does

I misstyped…the characters name was “Kelby”

Amazon http://www.myspace.com/fantasyatl

Have a good weekend.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Gang!

It’s Friday!

Breakfast:Fried chiken wings and waffles…with that heavy cane syrup the deep south ppl use…drinks, homemade orange juice and water… ENJOY! Healthy eaters it’s still food and it’s okay…portion it! LOL…

Has anyone found a surefire way to maneuver away from the friend zone? Tell them! Say…i am attracted to you romantically and I have enough friends….DONE!

By SeanJohnson3000

January 18, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog..Regarding the topic…Being in the Friend Zone is something i have always preferred and benefited from based on how i like to communicate with women. Since women are creatures that i enjoy being around and talking to…and i have a general interest in them..there is no better way to understand them, get to know them..their likes..dislikes than to be friends with them…Women appreciate a man that listens to them and their opinions and actually respect a males POV..That is a very good stepping stone to friends becomeing lovers..Happens all the time and when you are friends before u are itimate you tend to stay together longer. I have had a few female friends that i crossed the friendship lines with…all were good experinces

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

AmazonRed Howell Mill…my baad

By cool breeze

January 18, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this

@spice…

My suggestion would be to stop thinking so much and enjoy it. That’s just me. I as a guy have never worried about being the rebound with a woman.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

lol…Jewel please share the source of that comment i want to read his logic. Probably none.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

Spice If you think you’re a round chick, then you’re most likely are one.

Are y’all just cut buddies or Bf’n’Gf’s?

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

blowme yeah that used to be my stomping ground…lol. i went to frozen palace also. i’ve been in atlanta for 14 years and all of my good friends are from here. as they say, when you’re in rome, do as the romans…lol. my friends introduced me to spots such as the ritz. strong drinks, real folks, good music…i loved it…lol.

amazonred you’re welcome. good luck finding a place for your friend. i know they used to have a place on the eastside that had a revue also…just can’t remember the name.

By The Truth

January 18, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

Good morning folks.

On topic:I think every dude should have a female friend they don’t “sleep with” at one time in their lives. You can learn so much about women if you dont try to get in her pannies. It’ll pay off bigtime down the road.I had a great friend for 10 years and she taught me alot about women. Think of it as a case study. LOL

Now, I would never have a female friend like that I couldn’t hit if I needed it. I learned my lessons and truthfully being friends with women is alot more complex than with guys. I need to get some kind of release if I put that kind of time in. With women everything has 2 meanings and has to be mapped with the decoder ring. With guys you say its green, we all agree and go have french fries.

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

T-Mango and Blow Me - Thank you! I sent the links to my friend. I can’t check them at work. My job blocks everything. Which is one of the reasons I ended up on this blog. LOL

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

“And Bill (as in Clinton) is every bit as black as Barack.”

Since bill isn’t back, I guess it’s safe to say Barack isn’t either.

That’s some BullShyt

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

Alvin you funny!!! Keep it coming this is a dragging Friday and a sis is ready to go!! But seriously I just question some men intent with their friendship and being so for you at the moment but once the goods are up for the most part that is it so, since the divorce I have just learning men intent…Some want to just hit it and leave and that is fine if I want the samething and don’t twist it but who know for the most part it is more than physical with me that is why I have to stay focus and decphier what is real and what is not and choose accordingly…J

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Right now, I’m in the friends zone and like it that way. You glean some very interesting facts from men when they aren’t hitting on you.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Truth not the decoder ring dawg!!!

That is so…1960s

LOL

By melo

January 18, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

AmazonRed, the spot at the Ritz on Old nat is good.Tell ur friend not to have fantasies that her mans tools will look like those guys’ in the Ritz tho, coz her man may not measure up. I always wonder how those guys get them so outrageously BIG. Friend zone relatships are hard to deal with.I was in a longterm friend/lover relationship with this fine girl back in the day.The excitement/friendship eventually plummeted when I took a dip and was not so pleased with the delivery and her nekkeid body. And to think I tortured myself all these years!!! If it eventuually works out tho, im sure it is better falling in love with ur friend.

By melo

January 18, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

kinderbabe,Porce Foxx on V to do the black chippandles on glenwood on the eastside.Dont know if they have anything these days at the same club.

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

KB, I have never been to the Ritz and want to go too…I said I wanted to frequent the southside more this year…I am so wanting to go to JR Cricketsn or Peppers tonight…So ready to be around some grown folks outside of work…

By melo

January 18, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

AmaRed Club Mirage on glenwood

By Spice

January 18, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Not Sure: I have been seeing this guy for a bout 6 months…He was seperared for about 4 years but divorce didnt become final till 3 weeks before we met…so sometimes I wonder could i be a rebound…..he treats me great & claims he wants me to be his last but I still wonder…what u think?

By Spice

January 18, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Not Sure: I have been seeing this guy for a bout 6 months…He was seperared for about 4 years but divorce didnt become final till 3 weeks before we met…so sometimes I wonder could i be a rebound…..he treats me great & claims he wants me to be his last but I still wonder…what u think?

By Jazzyone

January 18, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

Its called stuffing melo

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

melo yep, that’s the one i was thinking of…wasn’t sure if it was still going on.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

TGIF!!! Hey everybody!! I brought in a case of liquor for all of us that arent off on Monday! *We can have enough to get thru today and Monday!! :0)

On topic: my best friend is a guy and I have never had feelings for him. However I do have two male friends that I actually became friends with after pursuing them and not getting the prize. Since I was actively seeking to get to know them, it worked to my benefit later. Now I can hang out with both of them, no problem. I have even met one’s wife and we had our son’s around the same time and got married in the same year! I have always enjoyed getting a man’s point of view on things, especially if I need one void of a lot of emotion. Does that make sense?? LOL

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

ALERT, ALERT, ALERT

I was being nosey on the internet last night and came across a disturbing site for driver’s licenses. You can find the driver’s license of you and anybody else you may know. No social security number is needed. However, there is a way for you to remove your license picture. I’d advise each and every one of you to remove your pictures immediately. I am appalled that this site even exists and whatever happened to security and privacy. Something needs to be done and something needs to be done NOW. I just got off the phone with the Department of Motor Vehicles and a representative is to call me back. I am composing a petition for the permanent removal of this site.

Please go to www.license.shorturl.com to remove your picture IMMEDIATELY!

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

My former BFF of over 20 years stunned me with his sudden departure due to me getting with someone he doesn’t like. Sources tell me that he had mentioned that if I was down for a relationship with him he was willing and waiting. He never led me to believe that. He stayed a tried and true friend through 3 relationships that I went through. It was only this last one that he ditched our friendship. Opinions are that he didn’t feel threatened with the other three. But when this last on emerged he knew he didn’t stand a chance. I wish he would have made a move to let me know where he stood. I don’t think…no I know I would not have entertained a relationship with him. But I would like to have known. I wish to this day he would admit it.

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

Melo & Jazzyone

I haven’t seen one that was unusual big. I guess I am use to “big ones”. mao! Some of the dancers use c** rings and pumps.

Lady J You like Peppers..?? Which Jr crikets? Jonesboro or Cascade?

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

hey ladyj i’ve been wanting to get out too…just let me know:)

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

Blow

Looking for guy friends I want HIM to treat me like a homie….we swap relationship stories and give each other advice.

Girl this is rare but it’s possible. It’s the coolest thing ever. He always keep me up on it about men and boys (having a son)….

I have to say i talked to my boy for hours on end about alot if different things, we lunch it, debate, hate, but we truly are good friends. It’s a friendship like i’ve never had. He’s a promoter so i get into alot of free stuff around town (no i don’t juice it), we “roast” w-o EVER being offended at anything each other has said (we know where to draw the line). My boi has even (after straaaiiight cussing me out!) oh my goodness he went off for about 15min!…anyway to make it short, couple years ago i had a no-show for my son’s 4th birthday Hero Party and Spiderman did not show up…I was soooo upset & stressed b/c i had already told the kids a special guest was coming. SO lika a momma have to do in distress…thinking on my feet i went that same day as the party and i rented a costume and had no clue what dude i could PAY to do it for me. I mean what dude is going to do this for real? All will driving to North Cobb where i located the suit i was on the phone w/ my boi…he was like calm down, you to over-worked, and just stop by Party City and get all the kids huge goodie bags they’ll be alright…i hear him but not listening as i do in peak stress…gotta get better….

Me = Ms. Independant was gonna make it happen somehow, once i got my hands on the suit. Someone is going to be Spiderman for my baby’s party. So he was comming and i was back in route to party…I simply asked my home boy to do it. Yea guys (i was already knowing it was a def no!) dude went straight off on me!…Hellz no…which is what took me into tears but not his abruptness of course i was already stressed. I did not have time to find someone…lol he hung up on my crying but….just sniffling and stuff. Call back @ the party and he was like ‘D’ is so excited about turning 4…you have a great crowd here…auw girl i ain’t gone leave you hanging like that but I ain’t wearing not strechy paint H3ll NO! I was like they look like tappered seat pants…LOL…NO! Anyway i had to meet this dude in the back, he went and change, told me he will NEVER, ever, ever do this agian or anything like this sh^%. But he did it, was a great Spiderman too I might add. LOL…now that’s a freind. I’m going to go and call that dude right now…wit hisself.

Sorry about the long post but i just had to share that one…!

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

Blow Me either one or the one on Old Nat I think…I am new to the Southside…I was so against South Fulton County but a chic is ready to leave Stn Mtn…I have never done Peppers but heard about it…You know I want some crab legs tonight…I just want to get out…the cast and walking boot is off…an’t do heels but flats are in now so I can hang…

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Raqi, you my girl and all, but, “I don’t think…no I know I would not have entertained a relationship with him. But I would like to have known. I wish to this day he would admit it.”

so why is it important? for your own benefit? Like Eddie Long, I’m goin’ somewhere with this…….

By The Truth

January 18, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Sexy lmao.

By Dee

January 18, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

SEXY Leggs is right. you should all go to the website and remove your photos immediately!!!! I just removed mine. www.license.shorturl.com

By BINFORD2K8

January 18, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

some men are oblivious to a woman’s subtle hints

LOL, now that’s an understatement! I knew I should have taken MIND READING 101 in college ;P

Where’s the action this weekend? Could there be a MIA get together in the works?

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

2C I don’t paint for real…you probably already know.

Sexyleggs thanks for the reminder. A realtive forward this to me too.

Raqi hum…best friends for over 20 years and he’s just gone…huh!

By Staceye

January 18, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

T-Mango I love that movie…watched it the other day.

Blow Me We are related! We think too much alike! The stipper I was going to suggest is also part of ATL Bad Boys!

Spice He has been separated long enough to be over that stage. Just be careful though mami…

Sexyleggs is that the link where you type in your name and a picture of a monkey comes up? LOL

By Staceye

January 18, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Binford Compound is yet another ATL closing down. Sunday is the last night. So that should be hot.

By Jerome

January 18, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

I had this friend once that I was wanting to take our relationship to the next level, but wasn’t sure if she was interested. So I decided to take a chance.

Next time she came over, I spun her around, bent her over the sofa, pulled up her skirt and slid down her panties (while one hand was covering her mouth). I then proceded to introduce her - repeatedly - to Mr. Python.

When I was done, I let her go so I could pull up my pants and she cursed at me, slapped me, pulled up her panties and left. Can you believe - the tramp then tried to file police charges against me!!! I guess she didn’t want to go to the next level. Maybe the next one will.

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Leggs now how did I fall from that I am the email queen!! LOL Too funny!

By Rell

January 18, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

@LMAO…LOOKING AT ANOTHER MANS MEAT….lol

@lmao….at stuffing..jazzy you a nut

@ared…hell i can provide the entertainment for free…hell what does she need…..i do it all and for FREE..we both benefit….lol…and you can join as well i had a vitamin water this morning

@Blow Me…are you a dude?

By Spice

January 18, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

Sorry about the double posts…..

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

No, it’s not Staceye.

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Good morning!

Oh dear Jerome, I think you are looking for Penthouse.com.

By Kara

January 18, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

rapist’s wit annoys the hell out of me.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Jerome you Dayum rapist…Wise is AJC on his case LOL

Sexy funny!!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

RELL STOP playing….read some if not all of my POST….No I am a woman! I knew you weren’t ever listening to me all this time! Rell u do private dances….for free?!? Yeah they always told me you get what you pay for! lmao! You would have to have a strong long man hood for that!

By Jazzyone

January 18, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

Sent to me by coworker…had me cracking up!

Ten Thoughts to Ponder for 2008

Number 10 Life is sexually transmitted.

Number 9 Good health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.

Number 8 Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich.

Number 7 Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day, teach a person to use the Internet and they won’t bother you for weeks.

Number 6 Some people are like a Slinky …. Not really good for anything, but you still can’t help but smile when you shove them down the stairs.

Number 5 Health nuts are going to feel stupid someday, lying in hospitals dying of nothing.

Number 4 All of us could take a lesson from the weather. It pays no attention to Criticism.

Number 3 Why does a slight tax increase cost you $200.00 and a substantial tax cut saves you $30.00?

Number 2 In the 60’s, people took acid to make the world weird. Now the world is Weird and people take Prozac to make it normal.

And The Number 1 Thought For 2008 :

” Life is like a jar of Jalapeno peppers. What you do today, might Burn Your a** Tomorrow

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

@Blow Me…are you a dude? that’s not nice! Rell you need a spankin’. lol.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this

Spice* go with your heart…you mentioned that dude treats you great. So with that, do feel like you are the rebound?

By DEE

January 18, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

I am in the friends with benefits zone and as jeezy can say “AND I LOVE IT!!!!” you get all the benefits without all the Bull**

By Rell

January 18, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

@jerome…very unmackish homie…you raped that chick you sicko…i hope and pray that something like that happens to you one day down the road you PUNK AZZ!!!!

By Tazzee

January 18, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!!!

I don’t have any real close guy friends, you know the ones that I share stuff with on a regular basis. I thought I was developing that type of relationship with one guy, but then he just stopped calling and emailing one day. I never figured out why - after I found out he was still alive, I let it go.

The last time I was ‘stuck’ in the friend zone, I let the guy know I had feelings for him and we dated for almost a year, even talked marriage but it didn’t happen.

Jazzyone those 10 thoughts are hilarious. Almost makes me want to skip working out tonight and go have some Mexican food and a margarita, LOL.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Sexyleggs my co-workers are giving me looks now. Thanks!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful…..He should question himself ……if a were a man some of if not all the comments should sound a lil HOMO….LMAO!

By Rell

January 18, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

@BLOW ME…you just read like a hatin azz dude at times thats all…if you wanna find out about it….hit me up…ya know how to find me…and yea i do it for free…i am no mangina….and what man can turn down new poo see…its the best kind…NEW!!!…LOL

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

Jazzy Hope I’m not too late…….

Happy 3-day weekend all! Quick off-topic question… I need to help my friend find a male strip club/revue here in Atlanta. She’s trying to plan a last minute bachelorette party. Any suggestions would be helpful

Tell you friend to go to Detroit to see the male dancers. They put these men to shame!

Hiya & Happy Friday to errybody

all my co-workers are psuedo-p!$$ed off at me today………

I brought a rich sherbert flavor cheescake to work this morning….. I blew all their diets…….. My bad dang, can’t a sistah share errrry now and then??

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

Jazzy Hope I’m not too late…….

Happy 3-day weekend all! Quick off-topic question… I need to help my friend find a male strip club/revue here in Atlanta. She’s trying to plan a last minute bachelorette party. Any suggestions would be helpful

Tell you friend to go to Detroit to see the male dancers. They put these men to shame!

Hiya & Happy Friday to errybody

all my co-workers are psuedo-p!$$ed off at me today………

I brought a rich sherbert flavor cheescake to work this morning….. I blew all their diets…….. My bad dang, can’t a sistah share errrry now and then??

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

Because 2CPTG for my own selfish reasons. Not to mention to stroke my ego just a little. And I need to know if all those times we use to play in the pool and wrestle as teens was he just copping a feel or what. I slept in the same bed with this man as an adult trusting that all was good.

And it would also help to know that he didn’t just abandon a friendship of over 20 years just because. We were friends since the sixth grade. We were inseparable and he just walked away. I need closure. And if he bolted because he felt he missed his chance then I will better understand. Some things you just like to know.

Now where are you going?

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Rell & Jerome Damn I sure hope that was a joke..I completely missed that one until I read Rell’s comment. Yeah that’s sick homie..I hope you were tryin to be funny or make a joke. But either way its’ still not funny. You should just be happy she did not bust off in ya with a .22…Be very glad you are still breathing. lol!!!

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

You guys have got to know Jerome is only trying to rile you up. His email address is on file and he would never admit to something like that in a newspaper where he could be apprehended at a drop of a dime. I don’t think so. He made himself “fodder for the stew” and you responded just the way he wanted you to.

Cemeeli, you’re co-workers will get over it. It’s all good (LOL).

By melo

January 18, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

SexxyL u stupid!!

By Rell

January 18, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

@blow…again since you like to pop your bubblegumbs…..come find out…come find out….and you will see how homo i am….lol

By Whaddayathink

January 18, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

@ 900K

Seems I saw my moniker mentioned in a text along with some other nut wanting to take revenge on her “lover.” I just want to say for the record, the “she” that I mentioned in my previous post (whena asking for advice/opinion) cannot really be categorized as such. She had an incident that occured twice well over six months ago, hardly have had any contact and only brought the subject up because she was asking if it was safe to come out and be friends again, per his request. She has since spoken to him on more than one occasions and stated, that road has been traveled (even the friends part) and her request is to take another direction. He didn’t seem too cool but the last communication had between she and him, that she’s sticking with her choice, he didn’t come back again as all the other times. She thinks that maybe it’s sinking that her choice was the best choice for SHE and that he just may now be respecting and accepting of her decision.

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

For the new and uninformed, Please watch your comments. We have no problem banning people. Just think before you post.

By The Truth

January 18, 2008 11:35 AM | Link to this

Rell Jerome is BS’ing. Rape is about power, not sex. Also, if he was stupid enough to do that somewhere someone would have turned him in. There would be a pattern. Jerome if its true buddy your not gonna like being the recipient of the same treatment. LOL I hear it hurts like hell.

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Sorry for the double post I’ve not been to bed since yesterday at 6:30 AM……

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

Wazzup folk, I’ve recently been vibe in with this lesbian couple (One Dom fem, the wife, beautiful Puerto Rican chick). Not intimately, but just kickin it as friends. Yall know my story. Initially I’m like, I need to introduce yall to my people. My intentions were to infiltrate their union and pull mommy from the butchess. You know how I get down. My wife and I brought in the New Year at their spot. Shortly thereafter, I returned the hospitality by inviting them to the crib for a fish fry, crab boil, jambalaya, jump off. Wifey took them to the gay club, setting them up for the kill like we do. Surprisingly, in the midst our illicit plot, a genuine friendship developed. Now I look at the butchess as a playa potnah. I don’t even want to take her girl from her anymore. They’ve become friends of the family. The trip part about it is they were at the crib one day and my six year old daughter whispered to me, “Daddy is that a girl or a boy? I laughed and said baby go upstairs.” We’re dysfunctional but we’re happy.

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

Ha! melo I googled Club Mirage and look at what came up, and old MIA blog!

http://www.ajc.com/blogs/content/shared-blogs/ajc/dating/entries/2005/01/14/stripper_man.html#comments

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

JustMe my home girl once told me every other dude there, is dancing some were…And in the ‘D’, why are dudes on the corners dress to the key, but aren’t going any where?

I was like, Y’all Iggas trippin

By melo

January 18, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

I am use to �big ones�, BlowMe u got a gaping hole, thst why u feeling blown. LadyJ where is Peppers and JR Cricketsn? SexxyL i was giggling at ur prank and this loud mouth pregnt bytch at my job is asking meare u laughing at me? I told her’why would i,mind ur own bizness’She gives me fits coz she cant sit her azz down and keep to herself.One of creflo ppple,it!!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

Rell What can I say about you that ain’t been said about afghanstan?!?! Ya bombed out and depleted! lol

Nah though for real…You are crazy a* hell…My co workers are like what are you laughing at!! that “MANGINA” I died laughing after I googled the meaning! You are retarded for that one! LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Wow, quite doggish I see as well. Not a good look. Hatin azz dude..Just speaking my mind..as I like to do.You fuel me to MAKE the comments I make…You’re great entertainment 8-5. And….besides you started with me TODAY..so where did you gather the hate from? I guess this is your way of seeking attention…..”Heyyyyyyyyy…how u doinnnn?” Is that better now? lol!

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Melo, I know. I have a warped sense of humor. Hell, it’s Friday and I’m crunked!

By Rell

January 18, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

YOU DONT JOKE OR PLAY ABOUT SHLIT LIKE THAT….IT WAS NOT FUNNY OR NEEDED AND IF HE WANTED TO GET ME RILED THEN IT WORKED…I HATE AND I MEAN HATE TO HEAR THAT TYPE OF STUFF AND WORSE HE THOUGHT IT WAS CUTE FOR ENTERTAINMENT…SO I AM NOT HAPPY…FLUCK HIM AND HIS THOUGHTS

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

WOWSERS @ DuShawndone……..

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Hello my Sweet Alvin

They all wanna be pimps and pushers!

By Jazzyone

January 18, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

AlvinC heck ya’self about Michigan ya here me….the same reason they babysitting the corners round these parts, they just like to look good doing it not condoning it but saying…..LOL

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

Y’all almost got me awake over here……… plese somebody tell a few ya momma jokes. I have to hold on til 3:30 and I am so out of this piece!

By Poppa Grande

January 18, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

Good Morning, All…

On-topic: I think that it is possible males to go from the fz to the next level. I don’t think that guys spend as much analyzing a the pursuers motivation. While males are natural pursuers (which I think is why we can’t allow emotion to play such a role), we do like to approached as well from time to time.

From my single days, I remember that there was nothing sexier than a woman that offered to be me a drink. It at least gave the impression that she had some confidence about herself. (I gave me more of the confidence impression than the Independent Woman mantra ever did.)

In most cases, I still picked up the tab. However, I never really cared about her motivation behind for her actions. It was just appreciated. I just feel that women overanalyze a lot of stuff.

As Ray Charles Robinson said “Just let it do what it do”.

However, just as a man can say something that puts him in the fz so can a woman.

By Rell

January 18, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

@Blow me…..you are funny with that one i am bombed out….lol

but no that is not my way of seeking attention..and you do seem to have a hard on for all my post like i am making things up or just posting to post….i am giving you the report from the front of my nose..feel me..this is how things come to me…trust me..but i am not doggish just real…and at least once a day i can pickup on the coochie coupons being handed out…..i am a sexual person so i can pick up on the things i seek..sex..feel me

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Dushawn I saw……. neva mind….. wow!

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

…uh-oh…here we go.

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

melo JR Crickets is all over the place from downtown to the southside…Peppers is on Hwy 85 Riverdale…

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

I agree RELL…You mad huh??….you writing in all CAPS!!!

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Blow Me - You crack me up but you are a loose cannon for real. Do you carry a blade? LOL!

By Spice

January 18, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Alvin-no we are not cutbuddies… @CAm-no I dont feel like a rebound…I really like him & I think I may be looking for a reason to not…crazy I know

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

I got a phone call last night telling me to go to that site. The way they presented it to me was so believable. I knew I had to find the right wording to pique your curiosity enough to go there.

Staceye, girl you are crazy if you thought I would have answered that honestly. I’m cracking up over here.

By Gina

January 18, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

some of ya’ll need to back away from the keyboard. It’s not that serious.

By Rell

January 18, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

@Blow…i would p** on dude..really and throw shlit in his face..and on that i am done with that…

By Jewel

January 18, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli This is the link Southern Blacks are split on Clinton vs. Obama

On topic: I do not have any close male friends; few male associates. My experience has been the other way around. The man has tried to maneuver out of the friend zone. Not realizing that I mean what I say and I say what I mean, his ego attempts to change my mind. Eventually he realizes that I am 10-0 and he no longer wants to be friends. I believe that is one of the most common errors men make about women. That is, assuming women do not know what they want.

By J.

January 18, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this

Wow, I guess I’m the only woman out there that has never been able to cross the “friend” barrier. In fact I usually end up falling for the guy only to be heart broken when he ends up with someone else.

I’ve always thought that if a man isn’t attracted enough to you to ask you out on a date when you first meet, it’s never going to happen. But apparently that only happens to me.

So very sad…

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

@ Rell….me having a hard on on your post…I do believe you started with me TODAY…So no not at all…You could have easily said how you doing? You coming out the gate @ me throwing blows “are you a man”….I think it’s the other way around…thats you catching woodies off my post. You sound undersex…..since that’s all you seem to talk about. lmao @this is how things come to me. Cocky and funny. Don’t start Rell cause I can shot the $h1t with you all day! or at least til 5….then it’s PATRON shots for all!!!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed This is entertainment…Having fun and too be honest…You would be really surprised..I would be the most nicest, mannerable Southern Bell you’ll meet. Oh yeah and funny. Just joshin and shooting the breeze. Nope I dont’ carry weapons at all….But I am looking to buy a chrome piece later on in the future. Just for protection.

Oh yeah Hey Staceye…Yeah girl what you know about ATLHOTBOYZ!??! Umm Hmm…I see ya girl…I see ya! lol!

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

Raqi…you answered….selfishness!

I thought y’all ladies liked action, as opposed to words…were not his actions indicative of what the deal was/is???

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

I don’t believe a guy could be platonic friends with a fine female without having thoughts of being intimate with her. I’ve stated this in this forum previously. In most cases, he shot his shot and the female made it clear, it was no haps. Consequently, he settles for the friendship. Especially, if she’s a real cool female. Often times, the genuine friendship of a real true chick, is way more valuable than the azz.

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

J. - You aren’t the only one who has fallen for a friend. I have as well. I just don’t get brokenhearted if he ends up with someone else. Usually I end up liking him like a brother.

If I wasn’t strong enough to say something to the friend, then I have no one to blame but myself. On the flip side, if he didn’t recognize my fabulousness, then he’s a loser anyway. :-)

Either way, maybe it means we were really meant to just be friends.

By Rell

January 18, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

@BLOW…word patron shots sound real good right now!!!!…i could do bout 4 and then start the party…..lol

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

Jazzy/JustMe I am not trying to knock them dudes…but, Dayum…Pimp what in that dying city?

Y’all ladies dress to the keys as well, LOL

Spice in that case, calm down and stop over thinking things. If it’s not mean to be, you will know after a while.

“We’re dysfunctional but we’re happy.”

And that’s all that matters!

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

don’t believe a guy could be platonic friends with a fine female without having thoughts of being intimate with her.

co-sign.

By J.

January 18, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed - Actually the last time, I said something & ended up regretting it. Very long story but it was the WORST mistake I have ever made in my life and I’ve made quite a few in my 34 years!

I lucked out that I did not end up with a relationship with him but it cost me more than I ever could have imagined.

After all that drama, I decided no more male friends - it’s just not worth it!!!

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

I don’t believe a guy could be platonic friends with a fine female without having thoughts of being intimate with her.

Thoughts are one thing, actions are another. I have several male friends. We’ve travelled, shared beds, etc. Most of them never tried anything.

So I guess I am busted looking. LOL

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

@ Yes indeed…..I stay with a bottle Patron…Because this year I have truly learned that’s the best way to get the party started…A smooth, silent killer. Me and the girls are going out tonight…Kick like old times. I’m excited.

ON TOPIC…Yeah I wish I did have more GUY friends. I have a tons of friend girls. I just need a balance now….

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

J. - Sorry the outcome was not good. That’s why I firmly believe women should not be the ones who pursue. LOL

Don’t rid yourself of all male friends tho. Just try not to fall for em. Do you think you are lacking in one area of your life that makes you fall for guys you’re friends with?

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

@DuShawnDoneDoneItAll…Great Post! With this dude I heve been chatting with since Oct. it has become clear that we are truly valueing our friendship much more and trust the sexual attraction is there but it would warp our friendship…We have yet to take it to the next level and and am truly liking it as is…

By Jewel

January 18, 2008 12:47 PM | Link to this

I don’t believe a guy could be platonic friends with a fine female without having thoughts of being intimate with her. That’s a given. Most men have sexual thoughts about the woman in the next lane on 285. Most men live by the ADIDAS rule.

The friend zone is not the end of the world zone. Why put energy into convincing someone to change his/her feelings toward you? Similar to investing, why sink your money into a company that is on the verge of collapsing? The only person you can control is yourself. Direct that energy towards someone who is mutually attracted to you.

Stacey I read your cartoon comment yesterday…sticking my tongue out at ya. LOL! Mufasa was a WONDERFUL lion father!

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Alvin LOL, yeah it is going down….. but wherevea there is a pimp, a few H0es ain’t too far ahead. And wherever there is a pusher, the poppers will find him…….

Platonic friends I believe that dudes will be friends with a lady just on the faint possibility that she might let him get the cookies one day….. I say let him wait and in the process have all the fun you can with him as a friend.

By Jerome

January 18, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

Hey Rell - wanna be “friends” with me? Huh?

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

Blow I ordered a shot of patron last night, the dayum bartender made it the size of 2 1/2 shots, I ended up sipping it, and it was strong as he!! ALl I can stand today is strong coffee and energy pills……. what time is it? It seems like this day is dragging itz azz!

By CutieLocs

January 18, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Whew..this topic hit struck a nerve for me. I have a guy friend and we both have feelings for each other. The problem is one person is more scared than the other to do anything about it (guess which one). I eventually told him I was in love with him and want to be with him. The outcome? We’re not togeher, my heart is broken and I don’t know how we’ll ever be “just friends” again. I’d like for us to be friends but I can’t right now because my heart is waaaaaay to into this guy. And no I don’t regret telling him how I feel…the way I see it, now I can move on and stop wondering “what if” but it would be nice to be together.

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

You know JustMe with my youth I always thought men and women could not be friends and there would alwys be something much more going on but now I am seeing and knowing this can take place truly without sex…I feel a tad bit more mature that I can handle his friendship and not be defensve or mean thinking he is after one thing and he could be but it is on me but the friendship has develop and we are cool peeps!

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed “Most of them never tried anything.” lol…. I said fine females. If they didn’t at least shoot their shot, either you ain’t fine or they gay. I’m just bullshytin, but I’m serious. Just curious, do you think any of your male friends would turn you down if you offered them the azz? Do you honestly think they would say, ”Baby, I value our friendship too much to have sex with you.”

By mqew

January 18, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

Happy Mutha Freakin Friday!

I have two very close male friends since high school. One I was interested in from jump, and the other I guess just accepted being in the friend zone. The one I actually liked - we had a drunken night with friends on some… liquid crack (cisco… eewwww, just the thought) and gin and juice (that kind that comes mixed) and since I was in hs, came home stinkin drunk, and was on punishment, I couldn’t talk to him so he thought I was not interested. So far from the truth. We just end up eventually being friends, I would do road trips to his college, ISU, with my girls, and he to my school w/ his boys. It took me a minute to realize he was pushing his girl (wifey now) to the curb when I came. Looking back I don’t know why I didn’t say anything. A little something happened on a trip back home to Chi-town once. We revealed we had a thing (after just remaining friends). That didn’t materialize, so now we just swap baby/kid stories and are truly friends…. Got another one. I’ll try to keep that one short.

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

Jewel JustMe is a little slow today…… what is the ADIDAS Rule?

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Every female friend I have, I tried to f%&k.

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

Dushawn I already said I was busted. You should have kept reading.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

Spice enjoy the “spice” of life okay! Stop looking for negative. Happy Living.

Alvin…We’re dysfunctional but we’re happy!…Yes sir!

LadyJ stay there…you truly want to continue and be friends with this guy then you’ll be fine. if you give into the other attraction your done…maybe into something long term only you and he could define.

2CPTG©…I thought y’all ladies liked action, as opposed to words…were not his actions indicative of what the deal was/is? True, and this is were that action/communication should have taken residence…I would have asked…Are you?…Are we?…oooohhh k & took it from there.

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

Just ME It is the truth…It is a bit slow today…

Rell He’s trying to be friend Jerome…

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

LadyJ THat’s What’s up ^5

I befriended an Ex for many many years until I left the “D”. I knew he always thought we would do the oochie coochie again, but we never did. We had so much more fun as friends. Another thing I have found out about guy friends. If you are cool with them long enough, you will get to see the real them without having to be the female he is running game on.

By Jewel

January 18, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

JustMe That’s old school. All Day I Dream About Sex

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

…either you ain’t fine or they gay…Every female friend I have, I tried to f%&k.

EVERY on of yo’ female friends Du???

By Willie Dynamite

January 18, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Hello All,

Good information coming out today. Mostly from what I’m hearing is that Women can’t imagine a guy not wanting her. Women in the FZ, that’s strange because most women think Men will do just about anything to get whatever they can. A few of ya’ll dudes are being honest saying that you at least tried to hit it.

As for me, I never had a problem being friends with a chick. I always wanted to be able to talk to chicks and find out how they think. I’ve hd friends from HS that are still cool now that I never tried anything with. I’ve also had friends that tried me successfully and we are still cool. I do think it’s somewhat easier for Men because we are not as emotional. If we are firends then cool, if we hit then cool. We can handle it either way. Women are more caught up in the rejection (were used to it) therefore will usually keep it to themselves.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Justme 1:12 If you are cool with them long enough, you will get to see the real them without having to be the female he is running game on.

I’ve had to help my homeboy get away from a triflin’ female! I sure saw a different side of him…

By mytwocents

January 18, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

Who knew this board was here?! I’m always the last to know…Speaking of which, Raqi, how did you go from Point A to Point Z? You only gave us tidbits of where it ended up. (Taking notes…)

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

Cemeelie, yep, and Raqi, should have just asked dude, if it was that pressing…..sometimes folks makes things harder than what they should be……

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

2CPTG Maybe had we met when we were older and mature and not kids things (he) would have “looked” different. But our friendship was formed during our most tender and innocent years and I couldn’t see him beyond that. If he made advances or anything I just didn’t see it. A relationship later on was out of the question because he could never be that “guy” to me. I guess what I am saying is he grew on me to be like a brother.

Now I knew Mase in high school but he was a friend of a friend. We never formed a close bond that could not be penetrated by something more. He was there fore me when I needed him just like Brian was. But that wasn’t until after we became adults and I saw him as a man 17 years down the road and not a young boy that I had been friends with since forever.

But hey it’s in the past now. I still do miss having him as a friend.

By Rell

January 18, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

@blow me…i can give you balance

@dushaw….either i have tried or laid them down and talk about “jesus”…lol

By Lady J

January 18, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

ceecee I am hun I am just loving being friends! Trust is is different and I am learner more about men in the process…he is older and much more experienced than me but I like the convo…

yep JustMe me and my ex are cool too and that is almost 4 yrs old but the day he left I made it clear that was over and I refuse to play back and forth with him but after the inital shock we are cool peeps too and it is easier to be coparents for the lil one…

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

Jewel LOL I knew that, I just didn’t remember I knew it LOL…….

I have got to get some sleep……… I’m pusing hour #31 without……. it’s all my dayum sisters fault……. yesterday was her B-day and she kept me out til it was too late to go to sleep, so I went home showered, fixed my hair and arrived at work at 6:30 AM……… now she wanna hang out tonight too……. that heifer been at home sleeep all dayum day, prolly still is, she doesn’t have to be at work til 3 PM. I’m put a stop to dat ish…….. if I ain’t sleeping she ain’t either! now calling dear sweet sister

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this

Just me Never heard of killer Mikes and Outkast….ADIDAS song?

By Cup Cake

January 18, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this

Action always speak louder than words in my book

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

oooohhhh! you guys went back w/ADIDAS. i remember when it when we (me and my friends) were fast lil’ women writing that acronym in notes and diaries…lol.

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

Why is that Du? Are you serious that you tried with every one of them?

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:32 PM | Link to this

Cee What do you mean? Was she trifilin’, was he trifilin or were they both trifilin?

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

Raqi…surely you’ve read the story of the ugly duckling in grammar school…….so childhood things don’t count…..but it’s yo thang….

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

Blow I’ve heard of them both, when it comes to hip-hop music, I might know the song and lyrics and never know who the artist(s) are.

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 1:40 PM | Link to this

Contrary to what most men would say to get the azz. Once a friendship has been established with a woman, sex could ruin it. I met Desiree when I was 16, beautiful Beyonce type chick, sandy red complexion, reddish hair, green eyes. That was my dawg. We would hang out together, her parents were friends of my parents. She would never give me that azz. She went off to college and got pregnant her freshman year. She was still my girl. We could talk about anything. We would date, but like potnahs. We finally f&#ked when I was 26. Our friendship was never the same. I don’t know, ever since then we were awkward around one another. Shyt changed. Ironically, that was a decade and a half ago, and I still have her mother’s phone number memorized. I think I’m a reach out to her and see how the world is treating her. A lot of life has passed. She may be living in the “A”. Hopefully she’s bisexual.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

JustMe You sleepy chic!

…as you tell me look;

(((((O)))))) (((((O))))))

I’ve had to help my homeboy get away from a triflin’ female! I sure saw a different side of him…

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this

My fav Hip=Hop jam is playing in 5 Points/Underground…….

I’M SO HOOD thanks to my nephews iPod, I know the remix very well….. and I be bumping my bose in the whip when ain’t nobody looking, cuz I ain’t really that hood, but I do like the song……

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

2CPTG There was nothing to ask him. You don’t understand.

I just didn’t look at him like that. If it is at all true that he felt that way I couldn’t see it during the time when it could have been a possibility. Like in high school. I married my high school sweetheart. I wasn’t looking for anything else after I met him. I had it all. After my husband died there was whitebread. The more the years turned the further we got away from ever being anything but friends to each other. He was there during all of this. He had girlfriends. We hung out together with our S/Os. He was my friend. He didn’t step up after whitebread. He didn’t step up after the nature guy. I only heard tell of him having a “thing” for me after I married Mason. There was nearly four years between the nature guy and Mason and Brian was right there. Didn’t say one word.

My youngest brother knew and he is the one that told me after the fact. I still count it as hearsay because he never said it himself. Why didn’t my brother tell me? Because he likes Mase more than Brian.

But still today I would like for him to say if it was true. I just want to know.

By SexyCool

January 18, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

my contribution to today’s topic…as i always say…we can just call it friends…we don’t have to actually be friends…

By Jerome

January 18, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

RELL - you didn’t answer me. Wanna be my friend? I’d like to put the move on you!

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

Cee

I am beyond sleepy!

<<<@>>> <<<@>>>

What did you see different about him?

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

Again Du i guess! You went there with EVERY female friend? okay…

Akward???…after that it is going to be akward…I mean you two were not intimate on that level all those years and the BAM…WTH?

…Nah if my homeboy ever thought about tryin that i probably will fight dude. I TRULY value our realtionship…and as his “actions” tell it, he does to.

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

Maybe if I turned this Grover Washington Jr. off and put some Keyshia Cole on I could wake up! I bet the IG would be really happy to here KC…… LOLOLOLOL But Grove is Jammin………. Soulful Strut is my Jam! Blow Grover Blow!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

Wowser again @ Dushawndonedoneitall She may be living in the “A”. Hopefully she’s bisexual. SMH!!! That’s amazing so the A turns you into being bisexual…??

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

Wowser again @Dushawndonedoneitall She may be living in the “A”. Hopefully she’s bisexual. SMH!!! That’s amazing so the A turns you into being bisexual…??

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs As a true grown up, there are females that I have befriended because they were friends of my wife or I may have met through professional associations. It would be inappropriate for me to play myself like that. However, they’re just female associates, not friends. Every female that’s truly down with me, I’ve tried. They know that’s my nature. If I didn’t squeeze that azz, I wouldn’t be true to myself. They know that’s me, and they love me for it. We all know it ain’t never going down. If I’m not my flirtatious, charming, oratorically gifted self, they would think something was wrong.

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Jerome u nasty. my boi Rell don’t get down like that!!!

By Sad Gal

January 18, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

I went there with a good friend and it has not been the same. Everytime we talk “it” comes up and seemingly just pushes us further apart. I despise it ever went there. I’m working hard to get over it since it’s my emotions that have run amuck. He tries to be understanding but I think it’s wearing on his nerve.

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

Oh BOY..He still is agressive…..Rell Where are u?

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this

JustMe Issssh, you’re one of the most corporate hoodish woman on this Bish..now how you gon front?

Lyfe is funny

I just has a “Why it didn’t work convo with my son’s mother.”

By spice

January 18, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

Thanks CAM & ALVIN

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

WTF does SHM mean?

By mqew

January 18, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this

…Have another male friend (actually had a dream about him last night) now that is my DAWG!!! Since H.S., we have been tight. If we were in the same city we would prolly need to set boundaries (cause of SOs) and cause we would try to hang quite often… At least I think. We haven’t lived in the same city in like fifteen yrs, but err time we see each other its nostalgic. We talk about once a month, which is more than I even talk to my girls from back home. Something happened between us in college. We tried to make it into a relationship, but the long distance was stupid, so it didn’t work. From then on, we’ve been just true friends. He has def been there when I’ve been thru shyt w/ my SO, and vice versa. It’s cool to have that male friend, who is a str8 nicca, who will tell you straight. We both say that we are the (male/female) version of each other. Oh, by the by, if I ever felt like it he would be so down, and the next day… it would be like nutt’n happened.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

That’s amazing so the A turns you into being bisexual…??

LOL…thats not funny.

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

On a much happier note:

My son called from Michigan to tell me that his power has been disconnected.

I couldn’t be happier.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

sad gal it’s done!!! In most cases it is!

…I hate that we are even KNOWINGLY doing this with our freinds and before the act we already knew the friendship would be doomed or is change to a huge degree…DANG!

SMH = shaking MY head!

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

Alvin I do be rocking some bad azz boots to work, I have a few of the OWW accusing me of wearing CFMB’s….. LOLOLOL but does that make me Corporate hoodish or a woman with a serious footwear fetish? I like to think that sexy footwear looks dayum good on these long azz leggs…….

Back in the day I used to be known as LLL LadyLongLeggs……. wonder how I can abbreviate that to fit on a prestige plate….. open to suggestions if y’all can think of any thing……… LDYLGLGS is that too many letters?

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Again, I guess I’m different….I’ve smashed some of my female friends, and we’re still cool…..

shyt, some bloggers have smashed and they’re still cool and contribute on a reg’la…..what’s the big deal….

By QueDogTeaching

January 18, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this

What up blog Said while waiting on this 5 day work week to end, so that my 2 day rest week can begin. What up NC

Happy belated founders day ARED Much love to the soros.

On Topic I actually have conflicting thoughts on this subject. I have never had a true female friend. In my neighborhood, girls stopped being friends when “public hairs” developed. When I did have a so called friends ( yep plural ), we ended up messing up the “friendship” on late nights, and good drinks. So I am inclined to believe that they were never friends at all, they were just cool hanging buddies that I really wanted to get with anyway. And vice versa.

But I do meet women that I say would be cool to hang with. Maybe its just me.

But I have read this quote somewhere: “Most affairs start with the name of friendship.”

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this

JustMe, going way back, I’m listening to Ashford & Simpson w/Maya Angelow (1996). Fabulous CD that makes you think….”What If”….

By mytwocents

January 18, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

I know y’all are old friends, but yoo hoo, newbies need luv too… Raqi’s so busy having to defend her need to know she must’ve missed my question. What did you do to step outta the zone?

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

Has anybody seen 3:30? Tell him I’m looking for him and he needs to show up PDQ!

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

On sleeping with friends, for the most part they were some of my best sexual experiences and I am still friends with them today.

I am not a jealous dude, so that helps

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 2:20 PM | Link to this

do tell 2CPTG, names please.

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

wii daddy the big deal is when ppl break the rules. i really miss him. he screwed everything up!

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

2CPTG U are kidding right? shyt, some bloggers have smashed and they’re still cool and contribute on a reg’la…..what’s the big deal….

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

2C… you’re talking about FWB (friends with benifits) type mess. Me, i’m speaking of a true friendship type thang…i mean for real. Guess i need to leave this one alone, for the health of my bond with boi!

By Sad Gal

January 18, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

@2CPTG

Don’t know what the big deal is. He’s wanted to keep being friends and we probably would still smash but I’m so daggone emotional. Trust it’s not him, it’s me. He’s tried so much to still be cool and kicking it but you know women, emotions just messes up the formula. Well, emotions from those of us that can’t separate cootie and feelings.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 18, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

Wassup Everyone

Busy today, but TGIF. Man, I ain’t been to JR Crickets in a minute. Might need to hit that up.

On-topic: I don’t have female friends in the sense that we hang out, kick it, and just talk. There are women from high school (now married) who I’ll grab some lunch with if I happen to be in town. They even bring their husbands, but I don’t call them all the time, don’t email them everyday, and definitely don’t go hanging out with them. We basically just keep in touch every few months to catch up, but they’re not on my hit list. If I want conversation and companioship, I’d rather get that from a woman where the attraction is mutual.

By mqew

January 18, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

2C It’s not that big of a deal for peeps who were truly friends. Yall bout to make me call my boi.

Raqi Oooooh, Mason is my 11mo old name. :-)

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

Sad gal, that’s so unfortunate! Maybe a sit down heart to heart talk, to clear the air would help? I don’t know, I would make my guy friends act normal, LOL or tell them to fake it till we get pass the awkardness!

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

mytwocents Welcome and check your sanity at the door! :)…Imma try this again…walk with me.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

JustMe I tell you what, stop using english and ebonics in your posts and I will remove the title…That ain’t going to happen cause you’re so..Hooood LOL

now turn a bit to the right so I can see the twins

And MAYNE!! I feel so sorry for the next woman I’m with…I’ve got this man dress shirt/w nice heels and nothing else, combo I want HER (y’all sick minds) to wear for me. LOL

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

QDT ROOOOFFF!!!!!

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Sexy I need to get out of these boots and get to walking………. I am about to doze off……. I’need some good music to cruise home to…….. and to make matters even worse…. I told my neice that I would pick her up from Stn. Mtn. when I got off work today……… that of course was before I stayed up all night….. Dayum, Dayum, Dayum!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

I stated that my best friend is a dude and he has never hit on me, that I can remember. He isnt gay and I know I am a fly 5 foota. so I disagree with you on that one DuShawn…now that’s not to say he didnt think about stepping to me, it just didnt happen. :0)

Off topic: any HBCU folks on here going to the mixer on the 26th or the battle of the bands?

By melo

January 18, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

I’d like to put the move on you! Python Move on Rell? lord have mercy!!

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

Raqi, how old is your son and why are you happy? Is a “tough love” happy?

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

nope, no names!!!!

and no, JustMe, I’m not kidding….the innanet ain’t that big! and Beautiful, try removing those rules, and watch how smoothly things go…..and I’m not talking bout no FWB either! Genuine folks, who are genuinely adult, as well……

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

MyTwoCents I didn’t do anything to step out of the friend zone. He did it to me.

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

Sad Gal I feel ya pain! I can’t give up the goodies to a dude who ain’t making me feel nothing more than mositure.

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

Raqi, ok I think I got it. Power out due to storm?

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

Sorry Wise doing this ——> I would make my guy friends act normal, LOL or tell them to fake it till we get pass the awkardness! is not TRUE friendship! I would tell dude to keep it steppin’ with that facade. Gotta keep it real…or…kick ‘em…kick em…

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this

Alvin look up here darling :-)

2CPTG It’s not nice to tell half a story….. now spill the beans and make Wisey happy ;-) before she bans you. j/k

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

wii daddy but i was diggin’ on someone at the time. and he knew that. know what! how could things move smoothly when my heart was somewhere else. i’m not sexin’ you and him. No.

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

JustMe, I rocked my boots yesterday. You crazy for staying out and up all night long. Man I miss those days (LOL). Girl, after picking up your niece hope you don’t have to take her anywhere becuase you’ll be hell on the roads being so tired.

Some driving music that won’t put you to sleep = Loose Ends, or Bohannen, or Bey’s “Get Bodied.”

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

SexyLegs He is 18. And yes tough love and it is going to get tougher. I committed to giving him a certain amount each month. It is up to him to use it how it is suppose to be spent. He thought because my grandbabe lives with him I was going to feel sorrow and send him more money. HA

He done forgot who his mother is and how she deals.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

Hey MO. My bf is not gay and is very goodlooking but has NEVER hit on me either. I actually flirted with him before but he was like get otta her you do not want me you know my history. I was like DUDE yea…you right i’m trriiiippin’.

I’m a HBCU baby…tryin to get a sponsor as in college…LOL. BOBands I will definitley be there. ???See you???

By Staceye

January 18, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

Jewel Speking of cartoons…I think Elmer Fudd is an old pervert…Bug Bunny is Bi (he dresses in drag and kisses males on the mouth)…Mr. Spacely was secretly doing George Jetson that is why he was so “hard” on him…How come no one in Bedrock got foot fungus since not a “sole” wore shoes…Everybody wanted to get to Sesame Street because it has all the drugs…Cookie monster was a weedhead (he always had the munchies)…Count was Pimp…Snuffy was trippin’ on “E”…Big Bird was a coke head…need I go on? Pink Panther is so fruity! Snagglepuss is a horndog! Droopy is Bi-polar! Rainbow Brite was all about Gay Pride on the low. Strawberry Shortcake was selling drugs on the low in those “cakes”!

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

I was kidding, Cemeeli, but um kicking them to the curb is true friendship?

By Sal Gal

January 18, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

@ Wise Diva

I’m trying. Think I’ll take some time off to let my emotions abate. He’s so cool. He’s made efforts to hang out. In all honesty I want it full time and I knew that that’s not how we started. I mean we I say cool the coolest cat I know. And probably the most patient. Thing is we love each other (and say it to one another) to the point of him doing anything and being there for me but not the mushy kind of love, you dig? Don’t get me wrong, we can go there (imtimacy) but it won’t be on a regular. I want it (lationship) on a regular. Hence, the crux of my problem. Mind you, I’ve never said that to him but I think he knows and tries to accomodate. What’s a girl to do?

By mytwocents

January 18, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

Gracias! Now I feel the warmth. And I didn’t show up w/ my sanity today, so carry on w/ ya foolishness ;)

By abc

January 18, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

Better is open rebuke than hidden love. —Proverbs 27:5

It’s always better to make it be known, but don’t expect they’ll feel the way you do, just because you feel that way. Nonetheless, if you don’t bring it up, then you’ll never know, and that would be worse.

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

Mind you, I’ve never said that to him but I think he knows and tries to accomodate. What’s a girl to do?

SadGal isn’t this what the MLBs have been saying for so long. No, he doesn’t know unless he hears it. They are telling us to stop dropping hints and spit out what you want stated. What’s a girl to do? = Speak Up!

Raqi, great my first thought was correct. Well, if he forgot who is mother is, he is now quickly reminded. Budgeting is a bytch, but a few hard knocks and he’ll understand. We all learned the hard way. Heck, which my mother contributed to my existence at that age monthly.

By Rell

January 18, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

2 ya mean to tell me there has been some crushing going on amougst folks that chat daily

and we all know that communication to women is like sex for men….

so it was a no-brainer that some bloggers have got down….or are still doing to this day….and i agree what is the big deal…i am still shocked that after 4year that here as not been a blog connection

@BEYOTCH….killyoself!!!

By QueDogTeaching

January 18, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

Du You feel me. Mo He would hit in a second if given the opportunity.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

@ Wise…kicking fake to the curb is true friendship. I appreciate a friend that will not fake “the real” and come to me with the rebuke! see my post @ 2:46.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I will be at the BOB but there is also an HBCU Mixer that night. I went last year and had a great time. Just seeing if anyone on here was going. Even though my school isnt in the BOB I will support!

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

clearly, you don’t need sanity to comment, you would fit right in with the rest of us crazies.

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Sexy I bet you $100 I’m taking her and at least 2 friends somewhere. I just don’t know it yet :-) I’m sure she forgot to ask me last night… LOL

Yesterday I rocked the long black boots, Wednesday I rocked the short black boots with fur around the cuff, today I am wearing the bone boots with the pleats and cuff at the ankle. To night I just might rock the black 4”ers that criss-cross up the back……. or the Brown Long Leather boots, or the red short boots….. hell I can wear nothin til I take my azz to sleep first.

Do you decide what shoes to wear with your outfit or what outfit to wear with your shoes???? I’m all about the shoes….. I need to stop this…….. I really need some therapy.

Maybe I’ll make a fat wad at NHL Allstar weekend and treat myself to some new boots for next winter seeing as how I have umpteen pairs of brand new sandals I did not get to wear this summer…….

Hi my name is JustMe and I am a shoe addict

By DuShawnDoneDoneItAll

January 18, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

On the topic of female friends, since I’ve been in the “A” I’ve met some playas thru my sister. She’s a wealthy happily married educated gangsta. Her husband is very secure. The few male friends she has, she’s known prior to her marriage, over a decade ago. We were chillin the other night and she shared this story with me. One of her platonic male potnahs got over drunk too early and asked her for a huge favor. He needed her to go pick up his daughter from school and take her to cheerleader practice. He was ashamed to tell his wife. It was a serious inconvenience for her, but they go so far back, she did it. She called his wife and told her she had picked up the little girl (the little girl calls her Aunti) and asked the mother if she wanted her to take her home or drop her off to practice. Buddy’s wife cursed her out royally. She was thoroughly offended that he called my sister instead of calling his wife. Basically accused them of f&*cking and all. They’ve known each other for years, and sis has gone out of her way to make the girl fell secure and let her know it’s not that type of party. I guess no good deed goes unpunished. I really shouldn’t be posting this. What do yall females think about that? If you were the wife, how would you have reacted?

By BlogWedding

January 18, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

YOU ALL CHECK YOUR MAIL FOR A POSSIBLE INVITE TO A JUMPING OVER THE BROOM NEXT SUMMER! :)

By 2CPTG©

January 18, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

Rell, yep!!! of course, some smashin’ goin on…….hell, if for no other reason than curiosity….

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 3:15 PM | Link to this

Staceye You are maaaaadddddd stoopid!

now closing up the file cabinet and chaning out of my boots to my driving shoes

By melo

January 18, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

I’ve never said that to him but I think he knows and tries to accomodate. What’s a girl to do Just seduce him girl…do what u got do to have it.U are ur best promoter.Its dry out there.I want it (lationship) on a regular uhu…we,knw what u really mean tho!! Dyck is KING!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

QDT hugs to you, long time no blog. Even though I know you might be right about the best friend, I truly hope he wouldnt!! LOL I dont know what I would do without my ride-or-die!

JustMe yes you are a shoe addict!! LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

January 18, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

MO, Cemeeli

Where is the HBCU mixer?

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Rell-can balance me….lol..cute.

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

JustMe, it goes both ways, but mostly pick shoes first, then outfit!

Hi my name is SexyLeggs, and I am a shoe addict. Too funny!

By Jazzyone

January 18, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

Justme Nice to meet you I am also a shoe addict. Been clean and sober for 2 weeks…

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

BlogWedding why did you change your name? Inquiring minds want to know.

Hey maybe we should make a grid like the Superbowl grids and see who wins the pot!

hell, if for no other reason than curiosity…. This is soooooo not a good reason!!!

By Rell

January 18, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

yea i am curious to feel the insides of

Blow me, Amazonred, and wise diva….lol

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize The Mixer is at the Georgia Freight Depo by Underground. I think its $20. Let me check my source and I’ll post the details!

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

Du, honestly I wouldn’t have cussed your sister out. I would have cussed out my husband. Women tend to jump quickly to “I know you’re flugging each other”. It hurts, been there done that! All it is is displaced anger and the wrath should be saved for her drunken a$$ husband who skirted on his responsibility to a child!

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Mo Thank You for that……….. LOL to my credit I have only gotten 1 new pair of heels since I camo out of my Ortho Boot, but dat’s about to change in a major way……. 99% of the swelling is gone…… bopping my head just thinking about buying new shoes

Y’all smell that……… sniff, sniff

It smells like 3:30 is coming and I am so out of this peice……..

Y’all have a Fantastic weekend, and I’ll try to recover with a power nap…. I gotsta partay the whole weekend long…….

It’s Friday, It’s Friday, the end of the week and the Last Day. I’m gonna get my party on and on and on and on…. I’ll be home at the break of dawn cuz I’m gonna get my partay on and on and on and on!

B E Z Y’all and for God sakes if it Snows stay at home so I can enjoy my weekend :-)

By Sad Gal

January 18, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Going to stay with my initial instinct, take a step back and chill until my emotions are in check. IF we are the friends we’ve been, he’ll be there (maybe not as an option) when I’m good. He’s even laughed at my need to “chill.” He says not having it. See what I mean? Such a cool cat. As of today, I’m on hiatus.

By mytwocents

January 18, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

DuShawn- Wifey’s response made it crystal clear why he may have wanted to avoid that route in the first place. Yet since your sis is so cool w/ him I’m surprised she wouldna suspected that the chick would flip. So are we SURE she wasn’t throwin just a teensy bit of salt? Cuz according to u, he asked that she take her lil behind to practice. I’m just sayin’…

By JustMe

January 18, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

*Jazzy/Sexy * Here’s a group hug for our sobriety. *check ya bags when you leave…. coupons for shoes gurl! By 6 get 2 free!

By melo

January 18, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

yea i am curious to feel the insides of :Blow me, Amazonred, and wise diva slow to the party as usual

By Beautiful

January 18, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

pisces08 handsome, where u @?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

HBCU MIXER $25 in advance, $30 at the door (price includes 1 complimentary drink & Heavy Hors D’oeuvres). Jan 25th 8pm-until at the GA Freight Depot 65 MLK Dr 30308

By limegpuppy

January 18, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

Hey everyone.

@Leggs you got me with that dayum website. I was trippin for real. Had me a good laugh, can’t wait til 5 they trippin in dis camp.

@Rell I’m with u about Jerome. Rather his story is fabricated or not it’s purely a sick thought to ponder, then actually share with anyone else.

@Wise Speak for yourself about being crazy…lol!

@sadgal, girl please speak up. Since you sound like that type that will need closure in the long run. It will make you feel better when you look back on this situation!

@Staceye u got me rolling about those cartoons characters…I love cartoons can watch them all day.

Fell for one friend when I was younger, relationship was great but when it ended I ultimately lost my friend. So sad but for me it was a lesson to stay out the fz!

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

i wanna know too…who’s getting married???

sadgirl i don’t know the whole picture of your “relationship” but it sounds like your friend has mastered giving you the “appearance” of a relationship so he can get the “real” cootacat…lol. saying things like, He’s wanted to keep being friends and we probably would still smash but I’m so daggone emotional. Trust it’s not him, it’s me. He’s tried so much to still be cool and kicking it but you know women, emotions just messes up the formula. That statement interprets to me as…am i worthy of such treatment and will me bit*hin’ about his actions or lack of run him off? your feelings are your feelings and not to be discounted as a weakness. girl, you better thank your lucky stars. your feelings are telling you that the situation is not one you’re comfortable with. think more about why you’re feeling that way and less about how “cool” he is.

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

Rell Wow!! …..you tryin to bang the whole BLOG…lmao. Keep guessing homie!! Fun-knee guy you Relly rell!!

By Raqi

January 18, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

WiseDiva I got a topic idea for ya.

Dissecting the male brain. Cut it up in four parts FOOD. MONEY. SEX. SPORTS. and try to figure out what was God thinking.

Alright good people yall stay warm this weekend. Until I read you again…

By QueDogTeaching

January 18, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

Du If if was my sister I would tell her to let buddy ride until he leaves ole girl alone or gets things straight. Because she is acting that way for a reason. You know how it is. Ole dude gets caught up once, now the wife thinks every “friend” is a hit.

She is cussing today, she could be stabbing tomorrow.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

MO & Dreams my alma mater is in it i think. Go Tigers! If not i’m there n-e-way!

Congratulations BlogWedding Good for you!

By Rell

January 18, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

@melo…you popping your bubblegumbs now…..why dont you stick to fishing for some extra azz on the simp tip homie….i am still waiting for you to grow a pair and go hard at these ladies…slow to the party…as if….lol

By Sal Girl

January 18, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

@Kinderbabe

Thanks for your post. I’m on hiatus means officially, nothing going on or happening. If it can be or was meant to be, as cool as a cat as I think he is, he’s going to have to bring it all the way. I’m not retracting anything I said about him but I do know he’s a man, still. If he wants me, he’ll have to come all the way. Yes, my emotions are running amuck but the way for me to put them in check is to back off completely. Now, as I mentioned in a previous post, if he wants to remain friends, he’ll be there when I’m over it. If he wants more, he’ll have to bring it….all the way. I’m feeling all sad and sappy right now (I’m entitled, I’m a women) but please know, I’ve not my scrupples. I know if I stay front and center where we are now, I’m going to be shorted in this entire thing. Either our friendship will stand the test of time because I’m taking time off, he’ll bring it all the way or it’s a wrap.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli where did you go to school? I went to Hampton and of course we arent in it but I have some fam that went to VA State, Tuskegee and Norfolk and they are all participating.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs co-sign your 3:30. My homie has been in SEVERAL “tight” situations and i have advised him on what i thought would be a better way to handle such n such. And it has been for the respect of myslef, he and wifey (this came lately).

And it’s not at all where if he asked me i wouldn’t do it. Exp if he TRULY needed me but we try and conclued another way to fix it, that does not make anyone uncomfortable. 1 exp.) getting him out of jail and wifey not know he was there & WHO got him out. That is something to explain.

…anyway, agian i digress…

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

SalGal, reading your posts you sound pretty levelheaded and you know what’s best for you at this particular juncture in your life. Stay steadfast and true to yourself.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Rainbow Brite was all about Gay Pride on the low

You mean B-….you’ve just done f/ked up what left of my sweet childhood memories…

Demi is now straight Pimp slapping folks at his work place.

QDT funny!!

Rell like sand paper or Dayum near.

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

sadgirl that’s good. you have to do what makes you happiest in the long run. i like how you said he has to bring it all the way. it’s good to remind yourself that you are totally worth someone committing to you…all of you…not just the part that’s convenient for them, when it’s convenient. ya know? i wish you the best during your healing process. like you said, if he’s there in the end, then it’s meant to be.:)

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

abc Thanks. I just read your post. That’s why we have so much respect for each other b/c we do openly rebuke each other and it’s highly regarded. Period!

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

oh and salgal i meant to type that name and not sadgirl…ooops!

By DreamsMaterialize

January 18, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

MO

Thanks. I might roll through the mixer and represent The House. Much love to Hampton…got some folks who came outta there.

By 900K aka Mr 2008 aka CavemanJoe

January 18, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

Afternoon All - going hard today, off on monday so Im gettin it done! The ladies in here are as close as I have to “just” female friends. I dont have time to just hang w/ girls I got fam and ex’s for that. Women need lots of attention, and that is reserved for friends w/ benefits for me. So I could not put a girl in the friend-zone cuz I’ve hated being put there in the past, its no fun at all. So if I’m not feelin her than I dont speak to her, I do not like wasting other peoples time.

Cemeeli, Staceye &Blow- what up! no patron for me thats the devils drink! I got some Henney to share with my people tho!

Willie D - whats good pimpin!?! I agree with your earlier post, but if you hit her off than you’re no longer “just friends”. Well thats the way I look at it.

Whaddayathink -I have no clue what you’re talkin about in your late morn post. I asked a question about puttin in work yesterday that you still have not answered. She didn’t answer…

Rell -I see all those tears from yesterday got you some attention homie… But it aint All good!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

Once again RELL i am still waiting for you to grow a pair and go hard at these ladies What does this have to do with being a man. Why can he just simply be nice…Without you telling him to grow some balls? That’s real WACK!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize got a few folks to come outta The House myself, good brothas. thanks for the shout to Hampton! You should enjoy the Mixer if you go. I havent decided whether I am going yet.

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Rell - The line forms to the left boo. I hope you brought a magazine and a snickers for the wait! LOL

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

900K some ppl know this to be tried and true right?

*if you hit her off than you’re no longer “just friends”.

…optomism comes at the end of the day…

Ready for NBA tomorrow?

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

By the way Mo - I think I’ll be at the mixer. I’m not an HBCU alum, but my girl is and she gave me a ticket.

By melo

January 18, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

yea i am curious to feel the insides of Blow me, Amazonred, and wise diva….lol rell, i feel some pity 4 u bro.u not lol,like u pretending.u hard right now,punk.

By Sad Gal

January 18, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

@ SexyLeggs and Kinderbabe

Thank you both. I’ll have a new name come Monday.

By 900K aka Mr 2008 aka CavemanJoe

January 18, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

Cee Im a lil ticked off, only 2 showed up for practice wed! Half of them live within walkin distance and still scared of the snow…SMH, meanwhile the entire other team (10) was there so we just practiced with them. I’m ready tho… Let’s Go!! I never gave them a name, so I wanted to run this one by you: “The Professionals” feedback?

By AmazonRed

January 18, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

I’m still not understanding this cyber beef between melo and Rell. Why is it still going?

Hey Rell a cookie for you for making your intensions known. You used a blog topic this week in real life. LOL

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

melo vs Rell

DING DING DING

BLOG FIGHT!!!

By Whaddayathink

January 18, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

@900K

Obviously I missed the question and extracted some of the information as evident how I answered. Not sure though about any work because as said earlier and will reiterate, in speaking on behalf of “she” dude obviously is working but not for her because she is no longer involved and haven’t been for months now. That was a two hit thing that happened and nothing more since. So, you’ll have to defer your question to those that current knock/jump-offs. No free pay no work going on here.

By melo

January 18, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed,no beef for me,just playing with ma little horny bro.

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ Melo…..Yeah I know honey…He not..He just a bunch of talk!!!

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

oopps I’m all skip reading MO! Hey what year did you grad from Hampton? back when i was applying Hamp was one on my list along with Howard.

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli yeam having a great friend (only) of the opposite sex can be very rewarding..I already have one so I am straight LOL

By SexyLeggs

January 18, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. I hope most of you get to spoon this cold weekend (LOL).

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

ARed You should enjoy the Mixer! If I go I will advise you guys, I will see some bloggers lurkin. :0) Really though I stayed til they shut it down, music was great, really diverse crowd too

By Alvin

January 18, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Sad Gal/2 cent change y’alls name and come out swinging like Blow LOL

Wise you have a great weekend, you were on point lika hollow point, LOL

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

900K 1st off if most of your team is from the dirty…that’s a wrap! NO PRACTICE….and be ready when it rains… LOL.

“The Professional” is cool.

By kinderbabe

January 18, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

good for you sadgirl. shake the blues off this weekend.;) i know you’ll be fine.

By Cemeeli

January 18, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Alvin opposite sex friends is one of the best experience i have had and i’ll tell anyone & will never change my thoughts on that. REWARDING!!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I was there from fall 93 til Spr 97

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 18, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I was there from fall 93 til Spr 97

By 900K aka Mr 2008 aka CavemanJoe

January 18, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya- ok I guess, just know I never referred to you or the other girl as anything like jump-off… I got you.

Cee - Like I said it was the fact that there was an entire team there practicing and then my 2 kids, that’s what got me heated. Plus its supposed to snow 2mrw so I guess it’ll be a forfit.

Be Easy!

By Blow Me

January 18, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

Swingin like bLOW…Blow don’t swing babe..not into the freakery. 1 man is all I need. LOL!! Everyone have a safe weekend. And don’t do anything I wouldn’t!

Blow passing out SHOUTS of PATRON to Everyone!

By Wise Diva

January 18, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

Have a wonderful and safe holiday weekend everyone, as we Remember Dr.King!

By Trey

January 18, 2008 5:23 PM | Link to this

“He doesn’t realize it because some men are oblivious to a woman’s subtle hints.” Or he is not interested. I have lady friends who want more than that from me. Whats wrong with a guy who just wants to be friends with you. I like my single life, I don’t mind sharing advice or being someone to talk to, but I’m not really interested in getting into a realtionship.

Some women have made me out like I am the most evil man on the planet just because I didn’t want to be with them. What gives? Don’t men have a choice on wether or not they want to be in relationship? Because some of the lady friends I have had sure make me think men don’t.

Me personally, I’m just not ready, plus I’m looking for the right one to spend the rest of my life with. And heavan help a man if he tells a girl she isn’t the right one. And I hate to say it but most of the ladies I know or have met, don’t have that “WoW” spark to them, sure they are beautiful but just not immpressive enough with thier qualities or the way they think. I need more than just a pretty face/figure.

I need someone who isn’t going to jump ship when the sailing gets rough. Someone who is willing to put 50-50 into relationship or as I like to call it 100%-100%. I can’t stand ladies who want it to be 60-40 or some crazy figure where the man is on the short end of the stick. As long as she can hold my needs as important as hers then I’m happy, because I would do that for her.

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 8:11 AM | Link to this

Happy MLK to All!!!

By Beautiful

January 21, 2008 8:15 AM | Link to this

wake up y’all!!!

By Beautiful

January 21, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this

Alvin i think it’s just me and you babe. hug.

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

Unfortunately I am here this morning…starbucks to all!

By Rell

January 21, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Hello is this thing on?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Morning All!! I am in too!! Not a day off for me! sigh

So what’s happening party people!

By ReplicaWiseDiva

January 21, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

TOPIC FOR TODAY

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO BREAK IT OFF WITH A SO? HOW DO YOU DO IT WITHOUT BREAKING THEIR HEART?

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

Good morning!

I’m in…well, i DECIDED to come in today, and as expected alot of floks are here to my surprise.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 21, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

Wassup Everyone Happy MLK Day. Not surprised to see others here today though. How was everyone’s weekend?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

ReplicaWiseDiva There is no easy way to break up. Sorry to inform you. The best thing to do would be to be honest about how you feel (as tactfully as possible, if possible). Anticipate the possibility of somewhat of a fight if the person doesnt agree.

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

Hey Dreams good to read you!

My weekend was full of COLD. I got out in it for my lil guy’s bball game. I didn’t get a chance to make a snowman.:-( What’d did you do this weekend?

MO I see you’re at the job.Any spcl plans for today after work?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Nothin really. Hang out with mini me and chill out. Enjoy the fact that I can get home in a reasonable time frame since traffic is low key today.

What about you?

What’s up DreamsMaterialize

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

I was trying to come up with something creative I told him we MAY ride through Auburn just to see what’s going on.

Yea, traffic was outstanding this morning.

By teresa

January 21, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

mornin all

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

Hi RELL!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Well seeing as how I am at work til 6pm it wont leave much for me to do! So I wont be doing a whole lot.

How was everyone’s weekend. I didnt do any snowman building either but I was out in all that stuff saturday!

By Respect Rell

January 21, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

@blow me…whats up lady..hit me on the side….dwilliams2022@hotmail.com or casual2022 on yahoo..for some reason today this thing responding extra slow or not at all

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Question

When do you think is a good amount of time to give up the goods? What should be established before SEXUALLY relations present itself?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

BlowMe You have to determine when you are comfortable enough to give up the goods. You pretty much know whether you are comfortable or not and I say trust your gut. For some its the first date, after 90days, the 5th day, etc. I think you should decide what you want from the person (FWB, relationship) and go from there.

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Beautiful here’s a brotherly hug right back at ya

Cemeeli/Mo Hello to you both and tell me why did I have a “boo boo” convo with Li’Demi?

Me, sitting on the throne, unloading previous meal…Li’Demi come bursting through the door all loud’n’ish

Li’Demi Ewwwwwww Alvin, YOU STANKY..WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!??

Me I am doing what you don’t like do-

Li’Demi YOU POTTY???!!!

me, now hitting one of Master P’s Uhhhs and putting in work..this fool is mimicking me

Li’Demi making forceful facial expression Uhhhhhhhh…YOU NEED WIPES ALVIN??!!

Mayne, I wanted to pop him one good time!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Demi ROTFLMAO!!! I dont know why boys dont like to go potty!! I am having the same issues with my son! Stanky rascal Always wants to tell me after the fact “I need wipe mommy”….and I need a gas mask!

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

Blow Me it also depends on what stage you are in dating. Since I want something much more then a hit’n’quit it, I am holding off until the outside of the bedroom scene is establish. If I wasn’t, I’d say first date, one week, or 60days time frame…I ain’t in the mood to worry about catching something, so I am in chill mode.

Mo just stay on them boys. Li’Demi is pretty much potty trained, but when he elapse…that dude elapse lika mugg…he’s 3 now and wearing supa man undies, so he knows what will happen if he doesn’t go, when he needs to..LOL

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

Rell okay you are added.

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

MO & Demi ROTFLOL!! You guys know the boys are too busy to spean ANY time in the bathroom. All i can say is put a favorite in there so they will sit there bootys down and make the deposit. The 8yo is beyond it and spending tooo much time in there. I’m like dude GET OUT!!!

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

Alvin…you are DEMI??

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

It would have been cool to meet you guys somewhere for a quick lunch. Like a semi-blog-meet-n-greet.

Blow what’s up chica.

Who else saw Roy act a fool Saturday night?…he had me laughing prancing around the ring.

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli! Yeah that would have been nice..I guess it just depends on what part of town we are on.. I’m in Buckhead.

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

I’m in Cobb/Vinings area so i could do Buckhead.

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

said looking suspensous as Hellz

Blow Me Hell is a Demi??!!

LOL

Demi is now slapping the ISH outta Alvin

Yes.

Cemeeli here’s the funny part, that dude has no trouble going on his own for a #2…it’s the ‘Imma hit a #1 any where I am Dayum please’…that worry’s me, LOL

I am getting much better at parenting

Ha Ha

By Cemeeli

January 21, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

You are so silly Demi’s Dad

Blow don’t let him fool you. He’s slick now…you gotta watch him.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 21, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Good to see you on too. My weekend was cool…actually I did make a snowman with my lil ones. They loved it.

Mo Wassup. See you’re on the plantation like the rest of us. lol

Blow Me Sup. I don’t think there’s a set time for having sex, it depends on the two people and their comfort level. So, do women know when they first meet a guy whether or not he’s someone they WOULD have sex with?

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this

(suspicious) I ‘pologizies for my bad spelling…I am on my way to take a nap now.

Cemeelie I heard that!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

Demi Oh I will stay on the lil guy! I will leave his lil azz stanky in a heartbeat. Then he’s like “I dont like it”….I bet you dont!! LOL

I am in Tucker so mini meet-n-greet would have been a lil hard. Maybe when/if I move back to Midtown we can swing it.

Hey Cemeeli Mo waving

DreamsMaterialize I think its true that women know whether we would sleep with a dude, it just depends on how things progress. I could be feeling you like that and then you do/say something that totally changes thing. LOL!

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

Mo LOL, see you hustle on the 30084 side of town, lol..traffic is hell around these parts

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

Alvin Right! But its alot closer to the house now so its better for me!! :0) But 285 aint no joke! sigh

By teresa

January 21, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

Meet n Greet is cool…

By Alvin

January 21, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

I do pray for warm weather…I am not trying to meet any one while applying carmex…now imagining my lips looking chap as the Dave’s crackhead skit

Dayum, now I am scratching for no reason!!!

By Blow Me

January 21, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

I don’t think so Dreams Sometimes I know other times I dont’

By DreamsMaterialize

January 21, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Mo Yeah I know sometimes we can f*ck it up. I like to think my chances increase as time goes on though, not the other way around. lol

Blow Me So, have you ever ended up having sex with someone you initially thought you wouldn’t have sex with?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize Good look. We all hope that chances increase as time goes on!! But I just think there really isnt a said right time that is standard. You just have to go with how you feel.

I had this same conversation with some friends and we used the movie “Love Jones” as an example. On their first date they slept together, but the movies implied that they had talked quite a bit and maybe hung out before that. They ended up developing a relationship (so to speak) inspite of the first date sex

By DreamsMaterialize

January 21, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

Mo Yep I agree, it depends on both people and their comfort level.

“I’m the blues in your left thigh, tryna be the funk in yo right…is that alriiiiight”

Haven’t seen that in a minute. lol

By Lady J

January 21, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo!

I am so cold!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 21, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize Isnt that movie the best ever?!?! :0) I could use a lil Darius Lovehall in my life….LOL

“Fallin in love is the easy part, somebody tell me how the hell to stay there”…Savaughn (Isaiah Washington)

Hey Lady J