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On the cheap

My friend Erik was recently lamenting on how expensive it’s getting to date. Appetizer, dinner, dessert, two movie tickets. (Don’t think Erik is the norm. He’s a little over the top sometimes.) But it all starts to add up, even after just one date! Not to mention taking someone out every weekend.

But it can be expensive for women, as well, I informed him. If I like I guy enough to go out with him, I’m probably getting my hair and nails done, not to mention a new dress and sometimes new shoes if I can afford it. Not only can women spend a lot of money on the front end of a date, but lots of us will chip in on things throughout the date—like parking or the tip at a restaurant—if the man is picking up the main tab.

We all know that a home-cooked meal can be one of the most romantic dates out there. But what other routes do you take to save your wallet and have a great time?

Is the zoo only for kids? Is Six Flags (if you have a serious coupon or season passes) only for teens? When was the last time you went on a picnic? Fed the ducks at a park?

What cheap (but fun!) dates have you planned for someone? What was an entertaining but inexpensive date you’ve recently been on?

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By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

January 25, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

This is really annoying….

Good Morning all!

But TGIF anyway GUYS!

Drinks of X-RATED for the ladies!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

Morning, all. :-)

I’ve never been one to distinguish between what is a “cheap” date and what isn’t. As long as we agree on how we want to spend that time together, I don’t mind paying. Having said that, I do think it is a very special woman who is sensitive to how expensive things are these days and is considerate enough that she at least offers (every now and then) to pitch in to cover some, if not all, of the costs of whatever it is we decide to do. The thing I would be cautious of is her developing an “expectant” attitude, meaning that she began to assume that I would pay for everything, regardless of cost or frequency. Even if I don’t mind paying, I think it says a lot that she wouldn’t take such willingness on my part for granted.

By Beautiful

January 25, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

off topic i just got back from my annual appointment. ladies, this is a new year, make that appointment today! i also got a HIV test done. have you? will share the results with y’all soon.

on topic bowling or shootin’ some pool is fun. and if you don’t know how to play, even better. and to eat, the cheapest i would go is Red Lobster. window shopping is always great at the mall because it helps in the conversation department.

By 900K aka Mr 2008

January 25, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

Morning Suka’s

But it can be expensive for women, as well, I informed him. If I like I guy enough to go out with him, I’m probably getting my hair and nails done, not to mention a new dress and sometimes new shoes if I can afford it. Not only can women spend a lot of money on the front end of a date, but lots of us will chip in on things throughout the date—like parking or the tip at a restaurant -

This has to be the Most full of shyt comment that I’ve read since High School! What, men dont buy new clothes? We dont go to the barber shop? Chip in on the parking, leave a tip?!?!!!Please stop the bullsh*t!!! Women have no right to complain about this, In the words of Tiger Woods: “This is a serious non-issue” when it comes to women.

By Beautiful

January 25, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

Darrell hey u!

if i were a guy and a female never ever pitched in, offered to pay for the tab 50% of the time, and always ordered the most expensive items on the menu would get the boot, FAST!!!

By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

January 25, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this

Wow….TMI Beautiful Don’t you think. But YES….you are a good month late….Since you asked..I am nonreactant.

By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

January 25, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Wow….TMI Beautiful Don’t you think. But YES….you are a good month late….Since you asked..I am nonreactant.

But here have some X-RATED

By DreamsMaterialize

January 25, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

Hey Everyone TGIF for real.

I can go donw the list of fun and inexpensive dates. In the summertime, cultural festivals are always a winner. In Cali, picnics were always a winner too because there’s so much beautiful scenery. Picture a picnic on a cliff overlooking the pacific in santa barbara, or sitting in natural hot springs overlooking the valley, or watching a pink desert sunrise. When I interned at NASA, I took a date to watch a night time shuttle takeoff. The only real cost of a fun, creative date is your time.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 9:48 AM | Link to this

Morning, Beautiful. How’s everything? Wait. You already answered that one, didn’t you? :-)

By Beautiful

January 25, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Blow what’s up chica? anytime you can spread the word to females about their annuals, do it. you will be surprised at how many females don’t go. and how many females don’t get tested. every person, married or single, should be tested for Aids at least once a year.

By melo

January 25, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

Morning all! Beautiful i trust u sure will share the results..if u can scan the results page and copy it here, i’ll preciate that. Trust but verify,u knw.I will do the same.That way we dont have to worry about these plastics next time we dip.Skin to skin babeey.

ON TOPIC: U dont have to buy new clothes etc, the old ones u have will do.Set the correct tone when u date, dont give appearances that u wont be able to achieve ones we are settled on each other.The most important thing is to be tru to urself.Once a guy sees that u are genuine,ficaly responsible,clean and smart and make good conversation, they will like u enough.And like my girl Beautiful said, when u chose what to eat, choose like u re the one paying and all will be good. TGIF everyone.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 25, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

Morning Everybody!! TGIF!!

I will be lurking and taking notes on this one. I have done the picnic thing, pitched in on dates or split the cost, done the zoo even. But I would love to get some new ideas since I am now part of the dating world again.

Mo getting her notepad ready, with trusty pen

Cemeeli I will share my notes in case you miss something! :0)

By So what?

January 25, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful

I mean really….get a life. You don’t have to share everything. It’s a blog daggonit. We’re all women with coochies and we know annually to go and let the doctor have a peek. Please! It ain’t that deep. TMI!!!! Okay, mine is due in March. “Are you happy now Beautiful?!” said in Martin’s tone when proposing to Gina…as quoted by 900K yesterday

By The Truth

January 25, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Blow I’ll take 2 egg McMuffins and some oj. Oh yeah, throw some strawberry jam in there. LOL

For a chick that likes you a trip to the park, musuem, a ride to the outlet malls up 400, Discovery Mill, a play, lunch at golden corral, a double movie with snacks you sneak in, a card night with friends, pool, darts. For a chick that doesn’t it doesn’t matter because she’s not going to care anyway.

I’m not buying shyt to impress some chick. I wear what I have and if that doesn’t do it damn her.

By 2CPTG©

January 25, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Blow Me, didn’t you say you’re into the sticky icky? how bout this for a date……ridin around smoggin out…blowin on some guhd, with the windows up; When you open the door, a big mushroom cloud like the atomic bomb blows out……

By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

January 25, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

Beautiful I ain’t going to lie. That is a scary a$$ test. But yeah you are right you do need to find out about your healthy. I am just glad I passed the test! lol!

By Staceye

January 25, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

Blow Me Drinking X-Rated so early? Oh well…as my mom always says, “it’s noon somewhere in the world, so drink up”! LOL

Beautiful I always get all my stuff done in Decemeber so I am clear for the New year! Good luck with yours.

900 After I go out with a guy a couple of times. I offer to pick up the tab sometimes. But I am really a nature girl. I love Spring/Summer and early Fall. I like outdoor cafes, walking Stone Mountain, sitting in the park and admiring the sun and the sights while we play a game of, “Guess Their Story” (you know you look at people and try to guess what is going on with them). It’s silly but it’s funny. I like to star gaze, park pinics. Winter is when dates can become really expensive because it’s too cold to just be outside. But you can go to the museum or just plan dinner/Blockbuster night. But that is only after I get to know you. I will NOT be inyour crib and eating your food until I know you won’t GHB me! LOL

Darrell where ya been buddy?

By 6'1 & luvinit

January 25, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

I am a man’s type of girl! With that being said, a cheap fun date can be a car show, watching any type of sports. Of course window shopping is a good one if you and your date are connosieurs of clothing. Picnics are fun, I recently had one in the middle of my empty den of my new house in front of the fireplace when the lights went out in my subdivision. We talked about everything, cars and sports included, ate cheese and crackers and finished off the Ben & Jerry’s before it melted. Great conversation, cuddling to stay warm, chunky monkey in front of the fireplace….. Can anyone say cheap yet Priceless!!!!!!!!!!

By LorDemi

January 25, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

BLOW How about a name change…The Woman known as Blow

Cemee I start texting in short hand, I realize it allows you to say more with less.

Tazz me calling someone bottom of the barrel was a very poor choice of word. My Baad

Ms.Eyes/JustMe/DasV/Sexy I am in a BDSM mood today…900k do you have any chains, whips, handcuffs, or paddles I can borrow?

By 900K aka Mr 2008

January 25, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

Blow what up with you @ the drive through window…Lol a brotha can’t get a sip of the X?

Beautiful - you’re right on with that. Lots of people tend to get queezy when you mention “the test” but we all need to get one like you said. How about I go to the Dr a few weeks back when I thought I was dying from that dam cold (hadn’t been to the Dr in a few yr’s… I know, its a man thing). So when I get there and fill out the lil form I check “The Test” box figured I might as well knock it on out too. This chic comes in the room like “breathe” ok take this to the pharmacy, I said “I think you need to take some blood, or stick me with some needles now” Man this blonde chic acted like she aint want to do her dam job! So I bounced I’ll find a real Dr for my phys.

By pisces08

January 25, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

Morning All. How about a Blog meet and greet at the Jill Scott concert. That would be a cool first date. Front row, of course!

By SexyLeggs

January 25, 2008 10:08 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone!

Don’t know why the f…. i’m here. Can’t cope.

I believe in paying on the date sometimes. Don’t feel the man has to foot the bill all the time. He’s dating me and I’m dating him. Let’s share expenses.

By Jazzyone

January 25, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Its really no that serious for me…its more about the interaction between us and creating a certain amount of depth past the superficial for me..don’t have the time or energy for anything else..so jazzy doesn’t get caught up in that madness…My most memorable dates have been off the beaten path dates or low key lets vibe, laugh, talk, smile, get to know each other…if we continue to date i sometimes pick up the tab or chose the spot and vise versa..i don’t expect anyone to spend a fortune while dating me…I think its abit of give and take most men in my world appreciate that and feel like the preasure of who pays how much isn’t important…it takes two to make it happen in my opinion…

By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

January 25, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Truth Dont’ even start with me! Please. I do NOT work at Micky D’s on MLK!!LMAO! I couldn’t help but to laugh!! That was funny! I can’t even lie a card night with friends….oh yeah I love that! I love to play spades and you guessed it……TALK $HIT! OH baby, I love to play SPADES! That’s my joint right there! 12 pack of Corona’s with lime & lemon…with a black n mild mild! Yeah boy!! It’s goes down when it’s time to play spades! But this is later on down the line when something is established…Not OF the front end!

2CPTG Nah I don’t do w33d..SORRY..DOn’t smoke w33d.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

What’s up, Staceye. :-) Been busy with my Web site and job-related projects. Things have been really crazy at work, especially since we announced the acquiisition of Countrywide Financial. Just thought I’d peep in on ya’ll today and the topic of “who pays for what” caught my attention. :-)

By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

January 25, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

Lor I just gave myself a name change… BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED AND THROWED….That’s new! lmao!

900kI see you are in on the drive through jokes too…I see!! I thought we were homies!

Staceye Girl, I wish I can start gettin D-ed this earlier.. I have to at least wait til 5….sigh….But believe I will be DRINKIN & Ridin tonight…lol!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

Sexy “He’s dating me and I’m dating him.” Well said. :-) I don’t mean to generalize, but I think some women lose sight of the latter half of your comment. Good post.

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

What up Blog…

Bella, Bella, Bella… See 900’s 9:42 post.

Fellas, in the beginning always chose dates that allow you to enjoy activities that you like. If you like to skate, bowl, shoot pool, etc., then that’s your date spot. That way you’ll know if the female enjoys some of the same activities that you do, it’s informal and puts y’all into an easy get-to-know-you mode; and if it doesn’t work out, you still had a good time.

Trips to the Sun Dial are reserved for proven starters.

By Cemeeli

January 25, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Gang

I just had a hot fiery conversation with someone. I did get out-o-pocket for a bout 2.3 seconds but I stood strong on not allow the negativ enery into my day. With that being said…

Wooooooo-ssaaaaaahhhh!

What’s the topic today?

By 2CPTG©

January 25, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Blow, no biggie…..that’s more for me……shiiid, some of my most poignant stuff comes about after an encounter with some of that guhd!!!

Matta fact,next political rally I’mma throw that question out….“with the economy tanking the way it is, would your administration ever consider legalizing marijuana”?

By Jazzyone

January 25, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

900 that comment was posted on this blog before…that is a bunch of crap well let me just say for me anyway so having a date isn’t going to make me do it any extra..i don’t have to up my game to go on a date…nuts at best…

you post about getting an aids test annually and then sharing the info..but want to stop the chatter on the board about having protected sex to cirumvent the problem?? priceless and clueless…WoW certifiable i now see that wow…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla “Trips to the Sun Dial are reserved for proven starters.” ROFL!

By JustMe

January 25, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

TGIF!! TGIF!! TGIF!!

Beautiful I went on 1/10…… always get the New YEar off to a great start. But thanks for being a friend and giving us a reminder. I expect that other reminder in October :-)

Not to be a drag, but how long has it been since we beat this dead horse (topic)?

By The Truth

January 25, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

Situation dictates. If you meet a chick at home depot buying paint and you vibe volunteer to help her paint a room or something of that nature. It doesn’t have to be a “date”. Just you 2 getting together.

Beautiful when I took my first test I called in to get the results. They said I had to come in because they couldn’t give them over the phone. I’m like “HOLY SHYT”, I got the package. I sweat all the way to the docs. When I got there he said I’m negative but that scared me something terrible. They need a 5 minute test, spare my nerves.

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

Pisces How about a Blog meet and greet at the Jill Scott concert. That would be a cool first date. Front row, of course!

Once again, this ^ is for proven starters… or I’m rollin’ in stag, looking for the next.

By Jazzyone

January 25, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

oh and folks carry aids for months at a time and don’t test positive on a test result so skin to skin still aint in..FYI~..some ya need an education on sexual contact and desease control i tell ya’s…but i digress ..

Same dames and foolish behavior and chatter I’ll be lurking…smh..and laughing atcha at the same time…

By This is a rerun

January 25, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Sigh…

By AmazonRed

January 25, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Welcome “6’1 & lovinit”, a fellow Amazon sister!

By Lulu

January 25, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this

Since honey and I are into collecting we often drive off to antique marts. The drive is always nice and we get some exercising while we’re walking. And sometimes we go to a dollar theatre. He said he’s always appreciated that about me. He said the women of the past would always complain about going to a dollar theatre instead of paying the ridiculous prices. ME PERSONALLY, is always about saving a dollar. :)

By Staceye

January 25, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

I am picturing Blow Me and 2C rolling down the street in car with so smokey that you can’t even see inside!

LorDemi I gotcha’…ket me go into my closet…be right baaaaaack! Handcuffs, furry or non? Whip, 6ft leather or 2 ft feather? LOL

Blow Me you are crazy girl! LOL Rollin’ donw the street, smokin’ endo sippin’ on gin and juice!!!

By BINFORD2K8

January 25, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

So taking a date to Mickey D’s and letting her get the happy meal (with the girl toy) is not a good date?

Bella I disagree slightly with you, women get new outfits and they’re nails done because they want to. And they can keep wearing that dress on other dates. Nails last for a few weeks so if a lady had 4 dates with 4 different fellas in that time, it’s pretty reasonable. If I go and pay for four dates - it’s just darn expensive. And whose to say I don’t get a new outfit or have beauty expenses.

How DARE you assume ;p

By So what

January 25, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Too Beautiful, posting stuff from left field is what makes the blog venture from topic

By 900K aka Mr 2008

January 25, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

Staceye all of your suggestions are on point, and I do feel you on the wintertime dates having to $pend more. When its warm all you gotta do is grab a bite then go and walk it off. But trust me like I said 2wks ago when we had this same topic I never complain about spendin cake on a date within the first 3 anyway cuz I expect to pay. But I’ll be damned if I listen to some chic complain about adding to her wardrobe like thats part of dating woes.

Blue Kolla - Yeah, the activity dates are the best. Except when you got a meathead chic thats like “BOOoo, I dont do that shyt!*, Man I’m gettin tired of kickin fly azz chix to the curb for that!

You my girl BLOW! - we good but you aint got no drinks for yo homie tho! dbl shoot of Henney and a kiss on the check on Fri is all I ask for.

Demi -sorry I cant help you bro, I keep Pain& violence completely seperate from sex and I dont use props. Thats what I got hands for…

By Cemeeli

January 25, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

900K what’s up with callin’ us sucka’s? Sucka!

Demi shrt hnd txt’n. Yea my flks try n hv fl blwn cvnstn w/it. C, hw i instly wnt 2 txt mde?

2C Can i share one 2day?

By JustMe

January 25, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

JustMe is a little slow today so y’all please splain y’alls acronyms……..

Staceye inyour crib and eating your food until I know you won’t GHB me!

Demi BDSM

By 2CPTG©

January 25, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

sure, cemeelie…….do yo thang gal……

and yep, Staceye, that’s about how I roll……

By Lady J

January 25, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Morning good people!:)

Got that? hit me @ missj8@gmail.com…Thanks!:)

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

900 Man I’m gettin tired of kickin fly azz chix to the curb for that!

Be happy that you have the sense and security of self to recognize, which will undoubtedly safe you a bunch of hassle down the line. If you can’t have fun with your girl, what do you need her for… other than a workout?

By Lady J

January 25, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Morning good people!:)

Got that? hit me @ missj8@gmail.com…Thanks!:)

By 900K aka Mr 2008

January 25, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Morn to ya! We are all playin the Suka for waiting till this thing opens just to post on a 1.5wk old topic. but I aint complainin

Staceye - what the h3ll is GHB? man I gotta step my text slang up…

Jazzy - you post about getting an aids test annually and then sharing the info..but want to stop the chatter on the board about having protected sex to cirumvent the problem?? priceless and clueless…WoW certifiable i now see that wow… What the h3ll??? I dont even get into that protect/ unprotect discussion that y’all get into from time to time. Are you sure you talkin to the right person?

then you say: some ya need an education on sexual contact and desease control i tell ya’s… -cuz i commend Beautiful on bringin up somethin so serious as “Gettin checked out!” Think about it wouldn’t it be a step in the right direction if the most STD ignorant person went and got checked out at LEAST once a year or more? No matter how much you know or THINK you know, you still need to get your stankin azz checked!

By Lady J

January 25, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Morning good people!:)

Got that? hit me @ missj8@gmail.com…Thanks!:)

By SexyLeggs

January 25, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Well said Truth

*Situation dictates. If you meet a chick at home depot buying paint and you vibe volunteer to help her paint a room or something of that nature. It doesn’t have to be a “date”. Just you 2 getting together. ^5

By JustMe

January 25, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

ARed, 6’1”, and JustMe WE are a special kind :-) ^5 my long legged sistah’s!!

By Jazzyone

January 25, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

that first comment wasn’t directed at you 900..and not another soul on this earth has to tell me or remind me to get a check up health test or AIDS test..self preservation is key…doing these things as a responisble person is what determines the children from the adults..if u need a reminder from another person then you have issues….

By Cemeeli

January 25, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

2C here’s one for you.

Cme & XperENs a nyt out w/2C n me!

By SlimOne (bloggin from da cockpit)

January 25, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

Heyyyyyyyyyyy

To me the best cheapest date would include, sitting in the middle of the floor sippin some DRANK rolling up pennies, nickles, dimes, & quarters. Afterwards, we can ride together to the post office so i can drop this Comcast bill off. THEN we can take the ride to one of dem #3 car washes, let his azz dry the ride off and armor-all dem fiya tires. And to top it all off, we can even stop by Krystals for a sackfull and a large cup of water to share.

By JustMe

January 25, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Jazzy Dayum you ripe this morning….. It is a well known fact that October is breast Cnacer Awareness month and errry year bout that time women all over the world remind, encourage and insist that their women relatives and friends be proactive and get a breast Mamogram and/or ultra sound. Heck, if more folks were open to discussing their sexual health, clamydia and the other silent std’s could be wiped out. But because so many men and women alike choose to ignore, not be reminded and take the unknown route, there are many people walking around with germs that they have no clue they are toting like loaded glocks. But if you want to feel like we all have issues cause a reminder is welcomed then hell call me JustMe w/Issues cause my Doctors offices sends me a REMINDER card every 10 months, not that I need it, but I do appreciate it!

B E Z Lady, it’s all good

By SlimOne (bloggin from da cockpit)

January 25, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Heyyyyyyyyyyy

To me the best cheapest date would include, sitting in the middle of the floor sippin some DRANK rolling up pennies, nickles, dimes, & quarters. Afterwards, we can ride together to the post office so i can drop this Comcast bill off. THEN we can take the ride to one of dem #3 car washes, let his azz dry the ride off and armor-all dem fiya tires. And to top it all off, we can even stop by Krystals for a sackfull and a large cup of water to share.

By Decatur Joy

January 25, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Good morning all…..on said topic, I don’t mind asking a guy out and I pay for the meal. If a guy is really interested, I would think he’d return the favor on the next round, if he’s truly interested, he’ll pay, no doubt. I don’t mind paying for parking and or even contributing towards the tip either, it’s about making an investment if both parties are interested in each other. I don’t mind cooking a meal as well, it’s cheaper and I do know how to bake some chicken or fry some fish and then when dude comes over, it’s more comfortable and we can be ourselves without getting all dressed up and fancy and we can watch some of the basketball game, since the NBA season and college B-ball is in full swing!

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

JustMe JustMe is a little slow today so y’all please splain y’alls acronyms……..

Slim… I was thinking the same thing.

Staceye What happens when somebody GHB’s you?

By SlimOne (bloggin from da cockpit)

January 25, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

Heyyyyyyyyyyy

To me the best cheapest date would include, sitting in the middle of the floor sippin some DRANK rolling up pennies, nickles, dimes, & quarters. Afterwards, we can ride together to the post office so i can drop this Comcast bill off. THEN we can take the ride to one of dem #3 car washes, let his azz dry the ride off and armor-all dem fiya tires. And to top it all off, we can even stop by Krystals for a sackfull and a large cup of water to share.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

@Slim Your 11:11 is HILARIOUS! LOL!!!

By Jazzyone

January 25, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Just me No not ripe at all just pointing out the facts thats all…its all good cause I know when to take care of myself and how to do it.

My point was that the posts in regards to protection and sexual activity is squelched but posting about a aids test isn’t one circumvents the other…

You can give that lecture to someone else because I am quite aware of the issues at hand and make an effort to educate children and the like in my personal life…so fall back my Docs office doesn’t need to send me a reminder but thats me and you are you…

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

SlimOne You’re alright with me slim. I at least know that you won’t be out squandering our bread; but’chu gon’ have to hit that passenger side with that towel while I’m on the driver’s side. Otherwise we gon’ be late to the dolla movie. LOL

By Cemeeli

January 25, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Slim you won today chic!!!

…”cheap date” most def.

Here have a Sackfull on me….

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Morning, Cemeeli. How you been? :-)

By brown_sugar_vixen

January 25, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

I don’t mind doing what others call a cheap date. While I do enjoy the finner things in life! I don’t expect neither do I deem it fair for a man to pay each time we hang out. A date is what you make it, I love the outdoors, any sports related activities. or simply kicking it at the crib.

I’m picky bout who food I eat so, if we doing dinner most likely I’m the one cooking, then we can catch a movie…shyt we can google up something playin in da theatre and watch it on the xtra large comp screen equipped with da surround sound speaker & sub woofer! Call me cheap but I’m trying to retire before I’m 30 and that will be here before I know it.

LMAO @ Staceye, you right some folks be on dat sick shyt for real!

By SlimOne (bloggin from da cockpit)

January 25, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

Blue I think i can handle the passenger side. But we might have to swing back by the house so i can pop the popcorn, grab two Chek drinks and my BIG purse.

By brown_sugar_vixen

January 25, 2008 11:35 AM | Link to this

I don’t mind doing what others call a cheap date. While I do enjoy the finner things in life! I don’t expect neither do I deem it fair for a man to pay each time we hang out. A date is what you make it, I love the outdoors, any sports related activities. or simply kicking it at the crib.

I’m picky bout who food I eat so, if we doing dinner most likely I’m the one cooking, then we can catch a movie…shyt we can google up something playin in da theatre and watch it on the xtra large comp screen equipped with da surround sound speaker & sub woofer! Call me cheap but I’m trying to retire before I’m 30 and that will be here before I know it.

LMAO @ Staceye, you right some folks be on dat sick shyt for real!

By cool breeze

January 25, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

Artwalks in Castleberry Hill (free) and some galleries have free wine and cheese and desserts then dinner afterwards, Martini’s at Imax ($5), Wine tasting at Chateau Elan ($5), Go to some yard sales or thrift stores. Moes, One-star ranch in buckhead is cheap but get a lot of food. Window shop and walk around a few different malls. BBQ at a park. Good times.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

January 25, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

Slim while you’re picking up the Cheks, don’t forget the Lemonheads. :-)

By SlimOne (bloggin from da cockpit)

January 25, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Blue I think i can handle the passenger side. But we might have to swing back by the house so i can pop the popcorn, grab two Chek drinks and my BIG purse.

By LorDemi

January 25, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

JustMe bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.

If I could afford it, I would hire myself a tall Russian and African S&M chick to bring it…just a bit of pain…I ain’t white, LOL

Ms.Eyes cuff with spikes, 6 foot leater and 2 foot feather will do.

My short a$$ is happy

Amazons Day Out

LOL

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 11:44 AM | Link to this

Slim …that’s cool, ‘cuz I left dem twizlers on the stand by the door. Grab them on your way out.

By ImAPeach404

January 25, 2008 11:44 AM | Link to this

BELLA / WISE I’m trying to submit an idea I have for a topic but your AJC email address doesn’t work (imagine that!)… where can I send it???

By SexyLeggs

January 25, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Awww lemonheads!

By 6'1 & luvinit

January 25, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

What’s up 2 evey 1? Yes I did mean to say evey 1. I am of haitan and dominican descent and come from a couple of island people who really phuck up the englis language. I am one who can make every night a date night because when it comes down to it, to me personally, I enjoyed the restaurants and plays. But I think I enjoyed playing uno, connect four or him teaching me to play spades while listening to some music at the crib.

By Dr. Kym aka Relationship Expert

January 25, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

recycled

A cheap date doesnt have to be a bad date. Personally on first dates I suggest going dutch, that way no one feels the pressure to showboat and blow their budget. If the gentleman pays then I will suggest coffee or dessert and I will gladly pay. Most men are shocked. If I ask the man out I will pay and I make sure to plan a outing that is within my budget.

off-topic and for Darrell and others interested Do you know about this event? I am thinking of taking my son and figured I would share the info. text to be linked

By Cemeeli

January 25, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Hi Darrell…I am better than most. And you?

By Beautiful

January 25, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

6’1 & luvinit a great place for you and your date is PlayDate, playdateatl.com. it’s alot of fun!

By Blue_Kolla

January 25, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

Demi If I could afford it, I would hire myself a tall Russian and African S&M chick to bring it…just a bit of pain…I ain’t white, LOL

You(‘re) my boi dog, but umm… WTF?

By Blow not For Real

January 25, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam! I didn’t know MickieD sold X-Rated….

Idea cheap date:

  • 37 seconds of sex

  • 2 hour nap

  • A fried boloney sandwich w/scramble eggs

  • 39 second of sex (I’m catching my wind now)

  • 3 hour nap

  • egg salad sandwich with toasted bread

  • Private bathroom time (check tissue level first)and then 120 seconds of sex

  • Fart under the covers to see how long she can hold her breath.

  • bogger thumping contest

  • 25 seconds of sex

  • 2 hours of pretenting that I am listening

  • 2 hour nap

  • Sardines and crackers

  • Make up an excuse for her to leave because the game is about to come on.

  • By Dr. Kym aka Relationship Expert

    January 25, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

    sorry that should be Let Us Make Man

    By Staceye

    January 25, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

    900 I cold never count my outfit as a dating expense..I shop because I love it and I ama shop-a-holic and I want to look nice for me, first of all. Then if the guy likes it..then he’s know I will always be on point when we go out. But if we work out…he should pay attention to what I like so if he decides to buy my clothes as a gift he knows what I like. That is what I do. I notice a guy’s style and figure out his size for future reference if I see we are hitting it off. I like to buy a guy something if I am out shopping for me and I think it would look good on him or that it might make him smile.

    GHB is the the scientific term for a roofie, or otherwise known as the date rape drug!

    Blue I have never been GHB’d and I want to keep it that way! LOL

    Slim LMAO…I am gonna get you that help you need girl! LOL

    LorDemi I’ve got that for you.

    6’1 welcome my Dominican sista! Blow Me is my blog sister because we are alike..but you and I could be related for real! LOL

    By JustMe

    January 25, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

    Demi yousa a lil freaky thang aintcha wink wink

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

    LMAO @ 6’1 …come from a couple of island people who really phuck up the englis language.

    Blow Everything that you accomplished on your cheap date guarantees you one more type of date - NO date. LOL

    By LorDemi

    January 25, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

    6’1 & luvinit now all your Dayum post will have an accent!! LOL

    My lame pappy is haitian and my mom is black american…so I am half black’n’haitian, LOL WTH

    Jazzy I agree, caring about your health is very important..for guys like myself who hate going to the doctor, get yourself a Female physician (see, I am pro woman rights too!!). They’re much gentle with there hands.

    …well, except with the prostate thingy..I wanted to killah0e

    By Staceye

    January 25, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

    900 I cold never count my outfit as a dating expense..I shop because I love it and I ama shop-a-holic and I want to look nice for me, first of all. Then if the guy likes it..then he’s know I will always be on point when we go out. But if we work out…he should pay attention to what I like so if he decides to buy my clothes as a gift he knows what I like. That is what I do. I notice a guy’s style and figure out his size for future reference if I see we are hitting it off. I like to buy a guy something if I am out shopping for me and I think it would look good on him or that it might make him smile.

    GHB is the the scientific term for a roofie, or otherwise known as the date rape drug!

    Blue I have never been GHB’d and I want to keep it that way! LOL

    Slim LMAO…I am gonna get you that help you need girl! LOL

    LorDemi I’ve got that for you.

    6’1 welcome my Dominican sista! Blow Me is my blog sister because we are alike..but you and I could be related for real! LOL

    By Blow not For Real

    January 25, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

    For Real now spraying Demi with water. Down boy, Down!

    Slim Don’t forget the bendie straws and pickles.

    Go ahead PSA I mean Jazzy

    SixOne Haitan and Dominican… All I can say is GOT DAYUMMMM!!! and do you like blackcake?

    By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

    January 25, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

    DrKym Thanks for the link. The first thing I noticed was Derrick Bozeman’s name. I’ve got some political and idealogical differences with him, but I give him his props for being active within the black community. Not sure if I can sign off on that event just yet. I’ll have to read up more on it later. Thanks again, though. :-)

    Cemeeli I’m good, thanks. Just trying to be patient while I wait on my W-2 to arrive. :-)

    By 2CPTG©

    January 25, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

    Cemeelie…..can you send me that, for real….got the number?

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

    Staceye -GHB, never that Ma!!! -I notice a guy’s style and figure out his size for future reference if I see we are hitting it off. I like to buy a guy something if I am out shopping for me and I think it would look good on him or that it might make him smile. Wow you sound more-n-more like a great girl that everyman would love to be with, by the day… I will not be fooled by your trickery evil woman!

    Blue - Be happy that you have the sense and security of self to recognize, which will undoubtedly safe you a bunch of hassle down the line. If you can’t have fun with your girl, what do you need her for… other than a workout? - Hey I like to workout!LoL I know man, you’re right on this one. But its like dam! “babigirl with that pretty smile and all that azz, we could have been Sumtin!!!” …oh well

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

    Staceye GHB is the the scientific term for a roofie, or otherwise known as the date rape drug!

    See…? I’m falling down on the lingo, ‘cause I didn’t even know what a “roofie” was; probably ‘cause I ain’t into trickin’ broads to give up the draws. LOL

    By 6'1 & luvinit

    January 25, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

    On the accent thing, i know right! So whenever I talk to people I really don’t have an accent I just talk exceptionally fast. So they always say slow down. But other than that yeah i like blackcake. When I am asked where I am from I just say the republic. They say which republic. I say ONE REPUBLIC! They say I am sorry! I say ITS TOO LATE TO APOLOGIZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    By JustMe

    January 25, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

    Jazzy, Jazzy, Jazzy I don’t remember you being this crass from a while ago. I hope erverything is aiight with you. My OB/GYN sends a reminder, My dentist sends a reminder, my PCP sends me a reminder, not because I need it or ask for it, but because sometimes people get distracted by other things in life, and it almost ensures $$ in the physicians pocket when you return for that 6 month cleaning or annual exam.

    Not that you asked, but this is how I got started getting my Annuals in January…. LMAO

    One year while itemizing my deductions, I noticed that I pay good money for my Health, Dental, Vision, Life, LT & ST Disability Insurances, so I figured if I have spent $thousand$ on premiums and I haven’t had a serious illness, JustMe’s gotsta get something for her $thousand$, so I make appointments for a Dr. for every type of premium I pay for me and Lil JustMe(except the Life and ST/LT) but those came in handy too with my slip and fall in 07.

    Lighten up a bit……gurl it’s Friday lika MUTHA!!!!!

    By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

    January 25, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

    Don’t feel bad Blue_Kolla. After all, I don’t think your not knowing what “GHB” was is nearly as bad as my not knowing what “wife beaters” were. LOL!

    By Dr. Kym aka Relationship Expert

    January 25, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

    Darrell Yeah I am not a fan of Mr. Bozeman either..but I like the concept.

    By LorDemi

    January 25, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

    Blue_Kolla just over look me today bruh, there is a new video out on BET with two dimes singing with ski masks and bangin cat suits…so now I am like Dayum, Imma buy the next cutie I am with similar the gear

    LOL

    By Staceye

    January 25, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

    900 LMAO..trickery? Why I gotta be evil huh? LOL

    6’1 So they always say slow down I get the same thing. I speak like the chick from Cosby show back in the day…Vanessa’s friend Cara I think her name was. By the way I love that song by One Republic!

    By Carla

    January 25, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

    ImAPeach404: If you look on the left margin of your page, there is a link to send comments listed under Have A Discussion Idea? (imagine that!)

    By 2CPTG©

    January 25, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

    my folks just told me I shouldn’t advertise/advocate the use of illegal substances, anymore……

    ok, I won’t…..said while sittin in a haze of smoke

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

    Justme Did I not say to u, do you the best you do and I’ll do me? I think I said that to you a few days ago as well..different strokes for different folks…and by the way life is good and Im quite happy…

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

    ..but yeah dayum okay..it is Friday and Im glad as heyal..so okay gotcha JustMe gotacha!

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

    ..but yeah dayum okay..it is Friday and Im glad as heyal..so okay gotcha JustMe gotcha!

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

    ..but yeah dayum okay..it is Friday and Im glad as heyal..so okay gotcha JustMe gotcha!

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

    2C what? Number?

    By QC

    January 25, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this

    HAPPY FRIDAY BLOGGERS

    Hey BK i sure do miss you Boo…

    have a great weekend everyone, the weather is suppose to get warmer…we’ll see, enjoy the rest of your day….HOLLA!

    www.blackthen.com

    By DasV

    January 25, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

    good afternoon good ppl

    cheap dates? dont deal up with that. and cheap dates for me have nothing to do with how much money is spent…..

    sup? Cee and beautiful although that was TMI, i appreciate knowing that others are handlin they business. back in the day when i was in the mix, it was always comforting to find that out cause there are what? seven degrees of separation, right?? and even tho there is a lil spat ova reminders, good to know its on everyones agenda, should i decide to jump back in the mix.

    ahhh. i wanna send a ‘shout out’ on the blog. can someone from the either the MLB or WLB lemme know the protocol??

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

    DasV Me, oh i’m having one! When i tell you i need Jesus and his 12 disciples to keep me from fallin’ from grace TA-DAY!!!

    By Awwww....dayum

    January 25, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

    How about a cheap date? How about an original topic? For once, just for once……………

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

    LOL @ Darrell and the wife-beaters.

    Hey QC ;)

    Demi …there is a new video out on BET with two dimes singing with ski masks and bangin cat suits…

    I feel you on the cat suit bruh, but I’ma have to slow slim down when she comes out the trick-bag with the cuffs and the whip.

    …now searching you-tube for that video LOL

    Lunchtime Observation: The class of broad on the train greatly diminishes after rush-hour. So sad…

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

    Staceye - you’ve had me fooled B4 with the nice talk then Bam! you hit harder than Kimbo Slice! and start dogg’n out the men of the universe. Although its nice to read you when you play nice. It’s like those episodes of Tom & Jerry when they are friends.

    Cee - Tmrw we go for 3-n-a-row babi!!! I am actually Nervous, I cant believe how easy it is to get So caught up. My kids will hate me at the game!

    Das what up? Must be workin hard today, commin up in here all late.

    By JustMe

    January 25, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

    I have a blog question…….

    What do y’all think of these stories in the news the last few days about work place romances being front page news. A few days ago it was Coach Shockley at N. Clayton HS, today it’s the Mayor of Detroit.

    By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

    January 25, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

    What’s up, DasV. ;-)

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

    And by the way QC, (and if you’re gone already, Darrell, tell her what I said) that’s why we can’t get a thing done at the courts now - our trusted employees skippin’ out early on Friday… and Wednesday, and not even coming on Monday. Dagg… LOL

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this

    JustMe, I was wondering the same damn thing…

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    January 25, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

    Who is BLOW NOT FOR REAL And why are you taking my name?!?!??!

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

    JustMe, I was wondering the same damn thing…

    By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

    January 25, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

    Hey, Blue, that’s your tax dollars at work. LOL!

    (Sorry QC. ;-))

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

    JustMe, I was wondering the same damn thing…

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

    what is wrong with this bolg and the repeat posts??? I know I am not clicking 3 times…

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

    what is wrong with this bolg and the repeat posts??? I know I am not clicking 3 times…

    By Staceye

    January 25, 2008 2:20 PM | Link to this

    900 I LOVE TOM & JERRY!!! LOL

    Lady J your computer got a stuttering problem? LOL

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

    what is wrong with this bolg and the repeat posts??? I know I am not clicking 3 times…

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

    This has been a very trying day for me. Had to do something different! For lunch I took myself to Strokers. Been wanting to go for some time, so that’s what I did. I had a ball w/those ladies.

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

    900K we practice tonight…ITS COLD!!!, I’m having one of them thang days, the game is in the AM tomorrow and all i eaten today is a baked potato. More then likely imma…let’s just say i hope both teams come out on top.

    …Cemeeli now having sidebar presbytery with all Jesus disciples…

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this

    Staceye…something is going wrong but I am glad to see I am not the only one with the same issue…lol

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

    Staceye…something is going wrong but I am glad to see I am not the only one with the same issue…lol

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

    Darrell Hey, Blue, that’s your tax dollars at work. LOL!

    You’re going to get it for that. LOL

    Lady J Repeat posts from only one poster = …naah I’m gon’ take the high road on this one - check your keys. LOL

    DasV Manners on vacation today ha? Hello to you too.

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    January 25, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs That was a h#ll of a lunch I bet! lol! Next time wait for me!!!

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

    Staceye…something is going wrong but I am glad to see I am not the only one with the same issue…lol

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this

    excuse me BK but Jazzyone’s post three times also @ 1:03 and 1:04 but maybe I am seeing things…Continue to take the high road sir!:)

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

    excuse me BK but Jazzyone’s post three times also @ 1:03 and 1:04 but maybe I am seeing things…Continue to take the high road sir!:)

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

    Darrell Hey, Blue, that’s your tax dollars at work. LOL!

    You’re going to get it for that. LOL

    Lady J Repeat posts from only one poster = …naah I’m gon’ take the high road on this one - check your keys. LOL

    DasV Manners on vacation today ha? Hello to you too.

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

    excuse me BK but Jazzyone’s post three times also @ 1:03 and 1:04 but maybe I am seeing things…Continue to take the high road sir!:)

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

    BlowMe…, yes it was quite interesting. Next time, we’ll go together. I told one girl, as a joke, that I might be bi because she put on a helluva performance…LOL

    By DasV

    January 25, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

    CeeCEE sorry bout that sista-gurl. give thanks for waking up tho and handle what needs to handled. jesus looking to see if you worthy gurl… woman up!

    nine huuuuunnnndred yea. i actually been working today.LOL had to go around and remind errrybody of my name…. its been a minute up in th is work-site, since they seent meh work.

    Darrell how you doin bah-bey? long time no see. good to read ya! been missin yo ole wordy self. need to come back around mo often. site lookin good too!

    LOLROTF@sexyLeggs goin to a strip club during work hours. gurl was the valets up there??… used to be a nice-lookin one with dreds that fell in his eyes… had the sweetest smile too

    BlueK manners?? wheres yours?? a woman always follows, its the man that leads and sets the pace. thought you knew that (wink)

    By JustMe

    January 25, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

    Sexy/Blow I ended up at Babes for my sister’s B-day instead of the Trap….. all I could say was Sister I can’t do that either ROFLMAO

    FYI - The blog has been slow all day when you post, it will take a few minutes for it to register. If you click the Please wait button, it will resend your post…..

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

    Heyal naw..you don’t go to Strokers like that all willy nilly and not tell noone else dammit….

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

    Heyal naw..you don’t go to Strokers like that all willy nilly and not tell noone else dammit….

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

    No valets this time. However, the waitress (fully clothed w/big ta ta’s was a true blood Byotch!!!

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

    DAsV I’m good chica, i just need other folk stop and listen…we all get frustrated but please don’t find yourself talkin to me sideways b/c Tom made got you upset.

    anyway…someone said it’s going to warm up…WHEN???

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

    Leggs For lunch I took myself to Strokers.

    Interesting… …now making not in little black book. LOL

    LadyJ Ok… Low Road - No need to apologize since I took the high road on the last one and just advised a key check.

    High Road - I was being facetious with the last one, and now owe you an apology since as fate would have it, I’m a victim of the multiple posts myself. My bad.

    I’m on the high road today. :)

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

    We cool BK…

    By 6'1 & luvinit

    January 25, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

    I use to love strokers. But back in the day, i would love to take my lunches at the gentlemen’s club. They had a some gud azz chicken. The women weren’t bad either, & back then i didn’t know that i was bi. Maybe I did because when they all walked by I would say HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

    We cool BK…

    By Staceye

    January 25, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

    Have a great weekend everyone!

    By 6'1 & luvinit

    January 25, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

    I use to love strokers. But back in the day, i would love to take my lunches at the gentlemen’s club. They had a some gud azz chicken. The women weren’t bad either, & back then i didn’t know that i was bi. Maybe I did because when they all walked by I would say HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

    We cool BK…

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    January 25, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

    Afternoon Errbody!!

    These folks are about to drive me to drink! somedays at my job…….SMH

    By DasV

    January 25, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

    CEEcee LOLROTF. oh gurl. is that your problem…. these workmates will come at you all kinda sideways cause someone else done got they panties in a bunch….puleeze go get some bubblegum and sit in yo cubicle poppin it….with a lil mumbling…. bet they think twice bout wit that out the neck talk. hehehehheeeehhheeee

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

    JazzyOne, that’s exactly what it was….all willy nilly! Next time, I’ll give a few days notice to see would like to join me there.

    BKolla, your crazy (but keep taking notes).

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

    DasV manners?? wheres yours?? a woman always follows, its the man that leads and sets the pace. thought you knew that (wink)

    I’ll tell you what else I know - that you’d break back with a witty comment, wrapped up real nice and neat; to which my response is, “Hello, DasV, how are you today?” LMAO

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

    You slipped that right in 6’1 & luvinit. I hear ya!

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli -dont let them talk to my girl like that! You let them know bay-bay!

    Wait a dam minute!!! -the day is alomst over and aint nobody fighting yet???!

    Staceye; Truth, Kym; Blow - Baddest one hit my hand!!!

    Its too slow for Friday.

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

    I hope you have a great weekend as well *Staceye.

    By Jazzyone

    January 25, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

    Well not bi or gay..strokers is fun tho…

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

    Everyone have a great weekend! J is dragging out the building

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

    Everyone have a great weekend! J is dragging out the building

    By JustMe

    January 25, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

    Bye J!! B E Z on that foot!

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

    Sorry, I do know the difference between your and you’re*!

    By Lady J

    January 25, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

    Everyone have a great weekend! J is dragging out the building

    By 6'1 & Luvinit

    January 25, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

    Jazzyone I told you i go for the dayum chicken! lmao. Not knife or bullet wounds on the girls, you might find that at babes but i have a frequent flyers pass at the Flame.

    By SlimOne (bloggin from da cockpit)

    January 25, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

    900 the day is alomst over and aint nobody fighting yet???!

    What you say about my momma? (Slim so close to 900’s face that a sesame seed from lunch flies and hits him on the cheek)

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

    DasV manners?? wheres yours?? a woman always follows, its the man that leads and sets the pace. thought you knew that (wink)

    I’ll tell you what else I know - that you’d break back with a witty comment, wrapped up real nice and neat; to which my response is, “Hello, DasV, how are you today?” LMAO

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

    I’m hollering SlimOne, thank you so much. Morning full w/tears, the afternoon full of laughter…thanks!

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

    Slim - Oh you jus gon spit seeds on people!!?!!? I dont fight girls, I gotta fat girl cuzin for that Big Shirley get her azz!

    By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

    January 25, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

    Staceye I’m a Tom & Jerry fan, too. My favorite is the one with Uncle Pecos. ROFL!

    By JustMe

    January 25, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

    6”1” I thought Babes was a bit hole in the wallish, but that being my first time in that type of an establishment for sole purpose of being there, I wasn’t sure. I don’t think I’ll be going back in any of them in the near future though, definitely not my cup of tea.

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

    900K been to the gym once today. so you already know…

    Sexyleggs …remember this? ‘honey no bee’.

    Have a good w/e ladyj!

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

    6’1/Leggs You slipped that right in 6’1 & luvinit. I hear ya!

    She damn sho did! ‘Cause I was thinking about that mean azz crab salad that they had at The Gentleman’s Club, when I reread that. Now that’s interesting.

    By DasV

    January 25, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

    BlueKolla LOL. i am doing really good. good to read you. where you been?? you been one of the many out-the-shadow characters fallin in with wicked pov-s under fake monikers??

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

    DasV you been one of the many out-the-shadow characters fallin in with wicked pov-s under fake monikers??

    Nope. If I’m gon’ get funky, I want you to know it’s me.

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

    No, I don’t Cemeeli. What am I missing?

    Ut oh, Big Shirley pulling up pavement as she runs toward SlimOne. Run SlimOne, RUN!!! SPLAT!

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

    Well not bi or gay..strokers is fun tho… -Stop frontin Jazzy you know you like to have t*ty’s all in your face!

    Wit yo stankin Azz!

    By LorDemi

    January 25, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

    900K that cause sexy threw us off with her lunch hour..LOl

    I am happy for ya sis

    Ms.6one have you spent time in Mia, Fl back in the days?

    By 6'1 & Luvinit

    January 25, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

    The Flame could be considered hole in the wallish to some. But to me it is like cheers, “Sometimes you wanna go where everybody knows your name” Who cares if there is bullet holes and knife wounds, what do u expect from the west side? I simply go for the ambience. rrlmao!!!!!!!!!!!

    By Poppa Grande

    January 25, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs Stroker’s!!…lol Good for you!!

    Just Me I happen to have at least met both of these men. One of them was PG’s very first little league football coach. Coach Shock is someone that I’ve known for a while. I may be a little disappointed may his actions (he is/was married), but I still have respect for him b/c he had such a positive effect on my life and the love of football.

    As for Kwame, we are frat bruhs. I don’t know him as personally. So, I am less inclined to give an opinion. I don’t always trust the news. For example, when I last spoke to him, he was a single man. If he was still a single man, I am less likely to judge him. (Although a work place romance isn’t smart especially as the mayor).

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

    Shoot, ladies, going to Strokers is cheaper than taking a dance class. I already walked away with a technique for shaking my butt cheeks. Will practice this weekend. Yep!

    By DasV

    January 25, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

    B..K LOL. yep! thats how you do!! now i know its really you cause apparently some like comin up in here using other ppls monikers and mess. so how is errrrythang?!

    By LorDemi

    January 25, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

    JustMe you didn’t enjoy yourself cause Demi wasn’t there, I would have had you laughtin’n’chatin up in the place, LOL

    DasV I love your mind..i wonder what you will say next

    Cemee ima D ma bst 2 get N dis txt mesg game..pra 4 me.

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

    Shoot, ladies, going to Strokers is cheaper than taking a dance class. I already walked away with a technique for shaking my butt cheeks. Will practice this weekend. Yep!

    Ok SexyLeggs this is how its going to go. You will 1st give me your email address, then upon receipt of my email you will then tell me when and where this practice will take place. I will then show on time with 1 bottle of Champagne and 1 bottle of Gray Goose, at this time you will begin to wiggle and shake those cheeks. Upon completion you will then be greatly rewarded with orgazm of a lifetime. Got it?

    By Poppa Grande

    January 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs Stroker’s!!…lol Good for you!!

    Just Me I happen to have at least met both of these men. One of them was PG’s very first little league football coach. Coach Shock is someone that I’ve known for a while. I may be a little disappointed may his actions (he is/was married), but I still have respect for him b/c he had such a positive effect on my life and the love of football.

    As for Kwame, we are frat bruhs. I don’t know him as personally. So, I am less inclined to give an opinion. I don’t always trust the news. For example, when I last spoke to him, he was a single man. If he was still a single man, I am less likely to judge him. (Although a work place romance isn’t smart especially as the mayor).

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

    Sexyleggs isn’t it cold?… and during cold nights what has Cemeeli said to be the best way to spend the wintery nights? honey

    By DasV

    January 25, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

    LOLROTF@ima D ma bst 2 get N dis txt mesg game..pra 4 me. yous a mess! wit yo ebonics textin. LOLSHICBaTRDMF (laughin out loud so hard i cant breathe and tears running down my face)

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

    LOL. I got it 900K!

    Gotcha Cemeeli!

    By 6'1 & Luvinit

    January 25, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

    I am always in the strip club so maybe i will audition for “The way she move” the x-rated version!!!!!!!!!

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this

    Other than my kid actin’ a fool, erry thing is cool. Cold chillin’ and working angles - gotta get a chip in the big game.

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

    I may not be a strip club “regular”, but I plan on frequenting more often.

    You stupid 6’1 & Luvinit (LOL). Perhaps we can put on a show for the MLBs.

    By QC

    January 25, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

    Good looking out BK

    Darrell and your birthday is next month 2/26

    QC now going online looking for 6 pack of “colored wife beaters” to give brother for his birthday

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

    Demi you my boi! I got ur back!

    …Cee looking around the ‘A’ skyline for her text lost bruh Demi…

    DasV sis sometime you be on some mo’ stuff that i want to pull up and hit at times.

    go get some bubblegum and sit in yo cubicle poppin it….with a lil mumbling…. bet they think twice bout wit that out the neck talk.

    …turned up my earphones to the highest nob for the music to echo & travel n sound off…:).

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

    LMAO * 9 Stop frontin Jazzy you know you like to have tty’s all in your face!

    Wit yo stankin Azz!

    By tomkat1

    January 25, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

    A good reason not to pick up women at the laundry mat. If they can’t afford a washer and dryer, chances are they can’t support you.!!!!

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

    I told a friend I went to Strokers for lunch and she said I didn’t know you liked t** w/your beverage! Had to laugh!

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

    Ahhhh QC… I see you’ve slipped back in the side door, right before it’s time to roll out ha? I’ll bet that you also have one of those fake-steam, holographic coffee cups too. ;) But I ain’t snitchin’.

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

    This blog is sexed up. It’s either too much going on, always suggested in someone’s post, not enough getting enough, who/what/when/where and how to get it…geesh! I say EVERYBODY stand back, take a CLEAN break and come back Monday, sticking with the subject at hand. Bout to make me break out! Give it a rest….puleez!

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

    This blog is sexed up. It’s either too much going on, always suggested in someone’s post, not enough getting enough, who/what/when/where and how to get it…geesh! I say EVERYBODY stand back, take a CLEAN break and come back Monday, sticking with the subject at hand. Bout to make me break out! Give it a rest….puleez!

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

    Doubt that will happen, but I’ll put my best foot forward JustSaying!

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

    DasV manners?? wheres yours?? a woman always follows, its the man that leads and sets the pace. thought you knew that (wink)

    I’ll tell you what else I know - that you’d break back with a witty comment, wrapped up real nice and neat; to which my response is, “Hello, DasV, how are you today?” LMAO

    By I agree

    January 25, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

    THANK YOU, Just saying. I mean really, it’s EMBARRASSING!

    You guys should go find a chat room on a different website. If you can’t contribute to a topic, whether you don’t like it, it’s recycled, or WHATEVER..just go find work to do, go get a chat room, just GO. This blog used to be filled with intelligent commentary and debate. What happened?!

    By Cemeeli

    January 25, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

    Hey QC you been lurking? Where you been for real? Are they tryin to thumb print? They j-o-b trying to give me one.

    By Blue_Kolla

    January 25, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

    Just saying That’chu Page?

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

    Just Sayin -been waitin all day for a dumb azz comment like this, and the day has come to a close dam.. but I will say this; perhaps you didn’t read the signs but this is a dating blog! And what is dating w/ out sex? A cold tuna sandwich with no mayo… Dry as * !!!

    Now sit yo stankin azz down!!!

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

    @ Blue Kolla

    Nope…not Page

    By 6'1 & Luvinit

    January 25, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

    You definitely can learn a lot from being a regular. People are always asking do I dance. I guess being 6’1 & 200 pounds with 20 tattoos would make them ask me that.

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

    @ Blue Kolla

    Nope…not Page

    By SexyLeggs

    January 25, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

    Good night everyone!

    By LorDemi

    January 25, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli sis, hit me up demigod33@yahoo.com when you can.

    DasV glad to make you smile, have a great weekend all.

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    January 25, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli - Sorry for the crazy talk today but I needed to escape the workplace myself a lil bit. Good luck tmrw!!!!

    Das, Blue, Demi, - have a good one!

    SexxyLeggs I was dead serious…

    Hasta Luego!

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 5:06 PM | Link to this

    @900K

    You addressed me only? “I Agree” piggybacked and I didn’t see nothing harshed aimed at her. Yes, I’m taking it there. If you’re idiot enough to post such a foul reply then I’m taking it to grade school…down on your level. You cussed at me and not them…wah wah wah! Whateva mayne! And as far as name calling. Yo mama!

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 5:07 PM | Link to this

    @900K

    You addressed me only? “I Agree” piggybacked and I didn’t see nothing harshed aimed at her. Yes, I’m taking it there. If you’re idiot enough to post such a foul reply then I’m taking it to grade school…down on your level. You cussed at me and not them…wah wah wah! Whateva mayne! And as far as name calling. Yo mama!

    By 6'1 & Luvinit

    January 25, 2008 5:07 PM | Link to this

    This is titled misadventures in atlanta. So back to the subject at hand. I wouldn’t consider a date to the strip club a cheap date. lol

    By Just saying

    January 25, 2008 5:07 PM | Link to this

    @900K

    You addressed me only? “I Agree” piggybacked and I didn’t see nothing harshed aimed at her. Yes, I’m taking it there. If you’re idiot enough to post such a foul reply then I’m taking it to grade school…down on your level. You cussed at me and not them…wah wah wah! Whateva mayne! And as far as name calling. Yo mama!

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