By Tweety

February 1, 2008 8:19 AM | Link to this

TGIF-Off Topic sorry….My guy of 6 months states that he wants a baby…he’s 45 & already has a 18 year old…I dont have any..he wants a son(I would only want a son)….I do sometimes & I dont other times & I really dont know how to express this too him….just curious why a 45 year old would want to start over after being almost set free(from child support that is)…he still has to support her since she’s in college….

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 8:28 AM | Link to this

Wisey great topic! btw, how are you doing this morning after going thru what you did yesterday? you were on my mind last evening. how scary that might have been.

i was thinkin’ about going to a Superbowl party, but i don’t know where one is. any suggestions? I would prefer a sports bar. the atmosphere there is really nice to me. the .02 given above is helpful, but all that was was common sense.

By QC

February 1, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers, have a great weekend….HOLLA

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this

hi Tweety! i’m tryin’ to stay away from giving advice. sometimes i feel bad when my advice is taken the wrong way. everyones life is so different. but it’s hard to not respond. anyways, having a man’s baby is permanent. meaning he’ll be in your life forever. do you love him? if yes, marry him if you are even considering having his child. start off this thing right. having a child is serious business. the child deserves happy healthy parents in the home. good luck to you guys! and happy planning.

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 8:41 AM | Link to this

Morning y’all….

yeah, Sunday is Menfolk’s Unofficial Holiday……

By Demi

February 1, 2008 8:41 AM | Link to this

Said while rising Pimp hand in the air

Wise you are now Queen D…here is your ski mask, leather cat suit, 6’ whip and a microphone…sing for me bay!

Wise finally tired of Demi and his Ish…Is now choking the Ish outta Demi with her new 6’ whip, while beating him to the white meat with the microphone

By Rell

February 1, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

Whats up folks….the super bowl is a great time to meet someone….remember v-day is right around the corner…plus this is usually the breakup weekend for the “somthing like a player” type..so there will be plenty of women to choose from….lol..plus there will be alot of FREE parties..

How you be Diva???

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

This is one of the best weekends to meet someone if you are into football. I have a few options this Sunday…either a small gathering with friends where I know everyone. Or a big frat gathering where men are going to be everywhere.

Since I actually like the Patriots, I am going to be focused on the game. The bad thing is that most folks are anti-Patriots, so it’s harder to bond when you’re rooting for opposite teams! I went to one huge party a couple years ago and it was just me and one other guy rooting for the Pats, out of like 500 people. But at least he and I got to know each other better!

By pisces08

February 1, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

Morning All. This will be a good weekend to break away from brazilgirls.com and watch the game in N.O. during Mardi Gras…

By Rell

February 1, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

@pisces…that brazilgirls is the candy your eyes need….lol…i have that same addiction dawg….lol…

By Christina

February 1, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

My husband and I met at a Superbowl party 7 years ago. Superbowl parties are one of the BEST places to meet singles guys. You girls are missing out on a great opportunity if you hole up with a chick flick this wekend!

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this

sometimes I have random thoughts; but since y’all poured ya hearts out yesterday and brought a human factor to cyberland, I will too….

Real life issues by 2 Can….that we prolly don’t speak about….

ever had to scrape up enough change to get your gas tank back on E!…be like, shoot, all I gotta do is make it home after work, then, ain’t gotta go nowhere…cause that direct deposit gon’ hit at midnight, then I’m straight!!!

By Rell

February 1, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

@ladies…..superbowl weekend is the only time we have that chemical that kicks off in the brain that allows us to really relax and have a good time…so if he is talking to you on sunday then you are not getting the GAME!!!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

Mornin Football fans

Also, don�t be alarmed if the seemingly quiet, laid back person you are chatting up suddenly starts screaming at the top of their lungs. Football fans can be pretty intense. - This sums me up perfectly. Wont do this much on Sunday but when my team is on I get instense. Fellas the key to a successful football party is not gettin a stain on your shirt. Ladies if you are gettin ignored by your man during the game make sure you know who he is rooting for, then wait until they score a big touchdown then grab him a give him a kiss in celebration. Trust he’ll remember this and now you’re apart of the game!

By Tuesday's Gone

February 1, 2008 9:10 AM | Link to this

I met my wife 10 years ago at a superbowl party. 1998 Denver vs. Greenbay. Two kids, and a couple of uprgrades later, we’re still together. Don’t stay home, u never know what might happen if u put yourself out there!

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this

pisces08, Rell your post just showed me how i have changed over the past 4 years. i encourage guys to look and fantasize. it’s healthy and plus i reap the benefits. :)

By Katie

February 1, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this

oh my god, super bowl is one day out of the year. I think the dating scene will get over it.

By Katie

February 1, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this

oh my god, super bowl is one day out of the year. I think the dating scene will get over it.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 9:19 AM | Link to this

@beautiful….AND YOU KNOW IT….LOL…nothing wrong with fanasty..hell that why we go to the strip club for the fanasty…the stiffy we have at home will not do it….buts why the buyers go to the strip club….now the sub section of sellers that go..well they going to check on there product and get the money…lol…

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

Wise Did you at least sleep okay or did you keep re-playing the incident over and over in your head? I hate when that happens.

By melo

February 1, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

cause that direct deposit gon’ hit at midnight, then I’m straight!!! I guess 3CPTG coz that happened to me last nite on my way home.I had 3$s in my pcket and stopped to put 1 litre.I got enough assurance to get me home safely and then filled up that sucker this mrning.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

I’m excited. It’s the perfect weekend cuz my Pats are playing. Whoo hoo. I even went and got my hurr (hair) did last night.

pisces08 - Brazilgirls.com? LOL!!!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Morning blog…

The Super Bowl, and most sporting events are good occasions to meet other singles. Seems that everyone is more at ease and receptive. Not as much gaming IMO.

2 ever had to scrape up enough change to get your gas tank back on E!…be like, shoot, all I gotta do is make it home after work, then, ain’t gotta go nowhere…cause that direct deposit gon’ hit at midnight, then I’m straight!!!

Let me one-up you there champ… make it to Wednesday, call in sick on Thursday, then checking wachovia.com first thing Friday morning, just to make sure that your direct-deposit hit like it was supposed to.

Katie I take it you don’t like football ha?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this

Hey Everbody!! TGIF!

Melo & 2CPTG let me co-sign on the gas thing and the direct deposit! LOL

I actually love football so I am excited about the Super Bowl and everything. I plan to have a great weekend!

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

Real life issues by 2 Can….that we prolly don’t speak about….

the broke co-worker…..”hey, can I hold bout $2, I ain’t got nuttin on me ‘cept my debit card”….

By DasV

February 1, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

lovin’ the human element… . good morning good ppl

superbowl parties are great for meeting new ppl in a relaxed atmosphere - if they winning - and the ‘hunch punch’ helps

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

This not the time for amatuers. If she says something like “the thrashers are gonna win the world series sunday” tell her you’ll call her next week.

January 31 should from this moment forward be called 2C day (kinda like MLK day) for bringing peace to blogsville. (**2C now standing on a rock wearing a robe addressing the residents of blogsville with a big azz walking stick in his hand. Folks are tripping because his robe is c thru and he’s not wearing draws)

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

2CPTG I got another one for you. Buying groceries on Wednesday and writing a check b/c you know it wont go thru til Thursday after your direct deposit has gone thru!!

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this

2CPTG© Let me one-up on the borrowing $2. What happens when you realize you left your debit card in the pants you had on the previous day, you don’t have any cash, you then ask to borrow $2 from a co-worker, get to the vending machine only to realize the prices have went up and all you can afford is a 5-pack of Wrigleys’ Chewing Gum.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this

Truth - Good point. Some amateurs began to emerge on the blog once the playoff started. I think someone asked if the Patriots and the Jaguars would be facing off in the Super Bowl, which is impossible because 1) The Jags had already been knocked out (by the Pats) and 2) they both play in the AFC so they would never face each other in the Super Bowl! LOL

By Page1908

February 1, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

Good Morning! I am Super Bowl bound and it’s gonna be so bananas! I am not even sure who I want to win..lol. I leave tonight after work!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

I can tell that this is going to be one funny Friday.

…check this convo I heard this morning

…ring ring Nursing Asst Student: Didn’t I tell you don’t ring my phone no mo! eff you mannn. I don’t want to hear ish you gotta say. Nicca I don’t want you.

Now I’m thinking to myself, “Why is this dude still calling this broad?”

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. I MUST FIND A SUPERBOWL PARTY! I wasn’t even thinking about going to a superbowl party until Tuesdays’s Gone and Christina posted. I’m hearing you loud and clearly (LOL).

By For Real

February 1, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!

QDT/Cemmelli peacock 1st and then bostic (it was new then)

Wise I hope you are doing better today. Also, go pass that blessing you received yesterday along to someone else today.

Well Blog Fam I thought I would play a little song today since i have done it in a while. This song is for those who never could get the lyrics right. Enjoy!!

Who’s the leader of the club That’s made for you and me? M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E!

Hey, there! Hi, there! Ho, there! You’re as welcome as can be! M—I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

Mickey Mouse! Donald Duck! Mickey Mouse! Donald Duck! Forever let us hold our banners high! High! High! High!

Come along and sing a song And join the jamboree M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E

And, the ending…

(Softly) Now’s the time to say goodbye To all our company

Through the years we’ll all be friends Wherever we may be

M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E Mickey Mouse, Mickey Mouse

Forever let us hold our banner high M-I-C - See ya real soon! K-E-Y - Why? Because we like you! M-O-U-S-E!!

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

I’ll up you guys. Looking at the gas can in the corner of the garage thinking that it will at least get me to work only to run out of gas at LaVista. Couldn’t find your number Dan, so I had to call the Hero Unit (LOL)

By DasV

February 1, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

TRUTH u crazee… . bringing in emerald and sapphire crown, and a basket of sunglasses for those that cant handle the view

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

What?! SexyLeggs are you back in the game, sister?

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Donitall)

February 1, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

I think that I am heading out to a few parties myself. I am an avid football fan and guys really dig it when you actually know what you are talking about. I love the Patriots too Amazon Red.

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

‘preshate that Truth…..yeah mayne, sometimes we just gotta really look at stuff around us, and reflect….

but remember life before boxers became popular……I usta think boxers were for grandaddies…..

Mo….I gotta slew of ‘em coming…it’s Friday we gon have a good time today….Diva, since we get Bella all the time, it’s only fair we get you, we’re equal opportunity hijackers…

By Str8

February 1, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

not to mention that by just attending a sporting gathering, a chick get major points for being sports inclined…

word of caution, if you meet someone there, be ready to be accommodating on the subject of sports, don’t expect a guy to miss a bunch on games next season just because u wanted him to do something else like go ride the bike at the park… by meeting him at a SB party, ur saying that u understand sports fanaticism and ur gonna be accommodating to that end :)

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

tomorrow’s groundhog day…i’m celebrating…lol..

By melo

February 1, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

I am not even sure who I want to win..lol Page dont worry, u just like me. I dont care for footbll or basktball,only soccer.But when its playoff time,im backing somebdy like i been there all along!But i hate bellichick and brady(see no caps on their names) with a passion so im gonna have a headache when its over with Sunday.Go Giants!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

Mo Buying groceries on Wednesday and writing a check b/c you know it wont go thru til Thursday after your direct deposit has gone thru!!

Tip: Don’t try that with Georgia Power. I’ve mailed a check on Wednesday, and the bread was out of my account on Thursday. I was like, “Now I know this mailman didn’t hand-carry that joint down to the office?!”

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this

ARed, yes, I’m getting in the game. It’s time!

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

Tweety don’t do it girl. Men can always say they want a baby..then when they get tired they bounce and then you are stuck with a kid! A kid is the biggest repsonsibility on earth!

Demi how are you giving away my 6ft whip?

900 sorry boo I can’t wear that Bills jersey and stillettos for you this weekend! LOL Cause I will be rocking my Giants jersey!

Besides Velvet Room…what other Superbowl parties are going on Sunday?

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone!! TGIF!

Demi, thanks for making me giggle first thing. Picking my new whip

Beautiful, I feel great today, thank you for asking! I had a private moment of being a waterhead, watching Oprah. sigh

Slim, it took me a while to fall asleep, but I felt rested when I woke up today, thank you!

Thanks For Real..I’m feeling quite happy today :)

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

ForReal just skipped to the rest room singing M I C K E Y M O U S E. Thanks. Brought the kid right out of me!

By Rell

February 1, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

superbowl parties so far

one at the 12 at atlantic station - Free

velvet room - Free

one i can make up on the fly - free

sexycool joint she throwing - free

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

SexyCool tomorrow’s groundhog day…i’m celebrating Why did I just get a visual of some dude trying to play groundhog’s day with his weenie?

Dude:all early as h3ll GOOD MORRRRNING BABE!

Chick:rolling over all slow, eyes barely open Why da h3ll you talking so loud? It’s freaking 5:30 in the morning?!

Dude: Babes, don’t you know what today is?…It’s Groundhog’s day!

Chick: you woke me up for dat?!!

Dude: well, you’re going to miss it. Just look in this hole. I have a feeling he’s about to make an appearance.

Chick gets knocked the f/k out when she put her eye too close to the hole

Dude: Yippeee! Winter is going to be over! Honey?….baby?….Aw, hellz. I guess not.

By Alvin

February 1, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

How about having 2 dollars in the bank and using your debt card to just fill up the tank…be like: F/K-it, I’ll be straight tomorrow…the things you do in school.

When I was 17 and chilling in Overtown, heading back to Richmond Heights, broke and looked broke while sitting at the bus stop…and a friend (not recognizing it’s me) was trying to rob me for bus fare:

Dumb Dumb: Stick up Igga, empty yo pockets now.

ME: Mike? Mike is that you?? Mayne, does it look like I have any cash on me??!!!

Dumb Dumb: My baad Alvin, I just needed cash to get home.

This lazy Mutha Mutha was only 1 1/2 miles from his house and I was 20 miles from mines

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla I dont try the day before check writing with utilites, especially ones within the state or whose address is within the metro area. They have a special arrangement with the post office. Plus I work for one of the major utility companies so I know how it works! LOL But I do it all the time for groceries if I am in a crunch before pay-day. I am successful in that realm.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

The Pats all the way. What they did this year is nothing short of amazing and if there’s one thing you can bank on its Brady (That cat is another Montana)

I was at a SB party the year Oakland lost to Tampa Bay. I was running my mouth big time talking bout those Raiders and we all know what happened. I hate SB parties. LOL

Melo your down with soccer? Where are you from?

Off topic: My 7 month old puppy is in heat and it lasts for 2 weeks. If this is what you ladies go thru every month DAyuuum. Thank goodness for hardwood floors.

By melo

February 1, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

I don’t want to hear ish you gotta say. Nicca I don’t want you Blue, i hpe that dude takes that calmly and goes about his biz coz these are same mafggas that gonna be on channel 2 when u get hme and a tragedy has happned.

By For Real

February 1, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

BK He is still calling her because she has his work boots locked up in her car.

Slim I got one that will top yours:

Don’t put $2 of gas in your tank if you plan on getting into a car chase. Yep, I ran out of gas and had to push the car to gas station.

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

Slim I am coughing up a lung over here laughing at you and the Groundhog weenie! LMAO

**My two favorite teams are playing so it’s hard to choose one..but I guess since I am a NY’er..I have to root for the Giants the most huh? The both have same colors so I can still be dressesd neutrally! I cna just yell, Go North East and still be Swiss about it! LOL

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

Rell have you been to atlantic station 12 before? i know, dumb ?. want to go somewhere, and i’ll probably be solo.

By Katie

February 1, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

no, I like football. But I hardly doubt the dating scene will be effected by it. If some woman gets upset because her date/boyfriend/husband wants to watch the game—she needs to get over it. It’s one night a year.

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

Staceye -The fact that you keep on deck in enough for me. Besides there is always After the game…

I got a big house party my homie’s is throwing, wit da DJ during the commercials and all. If I was into that sididdy thing I would check out the joint @ the 12 Atlantic Station it does sound cool. Rell I think the cover will be $10-15 but that aint bad, you may get some freebies out of ‘em.

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Superbowl Sunday BAH HUMBUG.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

@melo…what is your sqaud in soccer

By melo

February 1, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

cant u tell my british accent on the blog Truth

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

February 1, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Beautiful, I have been to the twelve at Atlantic station for a party that one of my pastors had. It was extremely nice.

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this

Real life issues by 2 Can…that we prolly don’t speak about….

what y’all know bout going to your apartment comlex’ fitness center late at night…not to work out, but to steal a coupla rolls of toilet paper….

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

My posts are being thrown in the garbage can because they’re not landing in blogsville.

Raqi, that’s my word BAH HUMBUG and Phooey.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

Happy Up Gang!

2C real life thoughts…yea, yea and yea…and u know me with some mo stuff. Look my car has not been FULL since New Years. i’m playing tank mind games…1/2 is full 1/4 is don’t even think about getting no more til pay day.

For Real Now you know back in the day it was Hill then Wright Hall. Before historical Hill burned down.

900K …game on with the lil dudes in the morning, are you ready?

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

6’1 what’s up chica? im defintly going. i hope to have a good time. not looking for a SO though. just want to laugh and mingle. gonna approach and strike up some conversations which is not my norm. if anyone else is going, maybe we can meet and say hey!

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

900 so I’m good enough to wear your jersey but not enough to be invited to your homie’s crib for the party???YOU SUCK! LOL I’m just messing with ya!

By melo

February 1, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

not to work out, but to steal a coupla rolls of toilet paper…. now thats funny!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ For Real He is still calling her because she has his work boots locked up in her car.

Katie I like your attitude. Keep up the good work. :-)

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

what y’all know bout going to your apartment comlex’ fitness center late at night… Nothin 2CP, but what you know about leasing a townhouse in residential hood and throwing your trash away @ the apartment complex around the corner for 2yrs cause you too cheap to pay for waste mngt??? Or what you know about unhooking your stolen cable so you can hook up your stolen Direct TV??? man I miss 2001-2002…

By Tazzee

February 1, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

Morning Folks!

My co-worker is throwing a SB party and I’m going. She’s not a football fan and usually I don’t go to non-fan SB parties, but since I don’t really care about this game - I’ll be there socializing. I can catch the abbreviated version of the game Tuesday night on NFLN.

Remember Affect Verb, Effect Noun - don’t mean to be grammar police but the incorrect use of affect and effect is one of my pet peeves. So next time, think of RAVEN…

that and the improper use of ‘myself’ which has become acceptable for all public speakers

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

900 Or what you know about unhooking your stolen cable so you can hook up your stolen Direct TV??? man I miss 2001-2002…

OHH Dayummm! LMAO I thought I was bad, out at 12 at night with the dremel tool and the maglite, cutting off the comcast lock ‘cause I ain’t trust my neighbors not to snitch.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Hey Blue good to read ya!

900K/StaceyeI got this SB fellowhipin’ down. But can’t see a SB party with a DJ in the background…I likes to hear the commentary???

By melo

February 1, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Rell,growing up liverpool but now chelsea.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

@Beautiful…i have been to the 12 before…i might go…..i am still trying to nail it down..but if you trying to say HI….then ya know how to reach me….lol…but yeah we should just meet up somewhere to say HI….should be cool…

By Demi

February 1, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Beautiful, I have been to the twelve at Atlantic station for a party that one of my pastors had. It was extremely nice.

I am thinking…was that payed for out of the church budget?

Ms.Eye you straight…I am thinking of a trick I would like for you to try with your feather whip.

Ms.Wise you’re welcome…feel free to use it on Alvin.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Tazzee I am with you on the grammar police thing! LOL I have mentioned before my pet peeve with irregardless. I can let other stuff go on the Blog since this is all in fun. But I give my managers h3ll bc I expect them to be grammtically correct at all times. I know they all hate me for correcting them all the time :0)

By For Real

February 1, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

what y’all know bout going to your apartment comlex’ fitness center late at night

Okay, how about sneaking into a party that cost $2 or;

buying a four pack of two-ply tissue paper and end up with 8 rolls of tissue paper.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli How be you this fine day?

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Another one….

I’ve been so broke that I had to go to church’s food pantry for food, help with the bills, etc. Then sat down rolled up some change to come up with gas money to put in the tank of the car that I had to hide from the repo man. Also, took trash bags, hand soap etc from work and washed clothes at the job using the detergent that just said Detergent…talking about some harsh stuff.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

@melo

yea chelsea is stocked even with the AC going on now….and i think dogbra is forcing the blues to trade him..first he to hurt to play for the club..but he running around like a spry chicken for Ivory coast..he wants to play for barca…pair up with E’to and Henry…for me i am still learning an new to the barclays…i like everton…howard, cahill, johnson…

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I had plans for this Sunday just to find out that somebody invited people to our house to watch the game. Now I have to put on my June Cleaver facade and play humble host. BAH HUMBUG!!!!

One way to keep people from wanting to be entertained at your house is provide bad food. But all my friends know that I am a pretty good cook so that’s out of the question.

2CPTG I know about those just getting by days. I’ve had plenty experience.

By Demi

February 1, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

Sexycool, check your email when you get a chance..

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

Demi how’s text’n for ya?

LOL@ …was that payed for out of the church budget?

Hey Mo i spoke in text (not intentionally i was rushing my reply) in an email to my director. She was impressed and started using some abbreviations herself. Huh??? I immediately used correct grammar i’m already upset that i did it. I keep abv. for blog and text msg.

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful

12 is very nice. I have a friend that owns a condo there.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

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the whole line

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By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

ok the BROKE DIARIES are cracking me UP. After my dad cut me off from his credit cards eyeroll, he used to always tell me that being broke would build my character…or something equally annoying. I am like, yeah yeah, yeah, just send me some cashola, LOL

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful

12 is very nice. I have a friend that owns a condo there.

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful

12 is very nice. I have a friend that owns a condo there.

By For Real

February 1, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

HEY BLOG FAM, RAQI JUST INVITED EVERYONE TO HER HOUSE FOR THE SUPERBOWL

For Real now heading to Costco pickup a box of red kool aid 86lbs of sugga.

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful and anybody that’s not been to 12. It is very nice. My friend owns a condo there.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

Slim/2/900 I’ve been so broke that I had to go to church’s food pantry for food, help with the bills, etc. Then sat down rolled up some change to come up with gas money to put in the tank of the car that I had to hide from the repo man. Also, took trash bags, hand soap etc from work and washed clothes at the job using the detergent that just said Detergent…talking about some harsh stuff.

Hard times build character.

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful and anybody that’s not been to 12. It is very nice. My friend owns a condo there.

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful and anybody that’s not been to 12. It is very nice. My friend owns a condo there.

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

I was just gonna lurk today, but everyone has such a good sense of humor I just had to comment. I’m in need of a good laugh and someone to talk to be it male or female.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Blue I’ll be sitting in the hotel room in the bldg playing on a PSP in a min. get my mind off these numbers that wont add up. …What’s up?

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful and anybody that’s not been to 12. It is very nice. My friend owns a condo there.

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful and anybody that’s not been to 12. It is very nice. My friend owns a condo there.

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

Ceemeli - Hey, game is on tmrw 1pm and I hope they get focused by then. They were sleep walkin all wk in practice. Oh and the DJ @ the superbowl party only plays music during commercial breaks and halftime. Well unless Jordan got a new ad out or Prince is performing @ half… ya dig?

Staceye you’re more than welcome to join us. We always have a good time and make all newcomers feel welcome, just keep the phycotic outburst to a minimum. However you must be from CT; how you gon say you not gon root for NYG’s??? I dont care if all you got is a Otis Anderson jersey you better put it on! yeah I dont like that team, but you gotta be a real fan of 1 team to talk trash w/ me!!

Yeah Blue that was a life achievement for me…Lol I know about breaking off them locks from the gas company too. Plus a lil tip for all the best time to get over on your utilities is when you first move in, just grab a screw driver or wrench too turn on the elec. Man I was good for the 1st 3mo’s in the crib.

I hate the Pat’s!!! But Randy Moss IS the BOSS!!!

By melo

February 1, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

using the detergent that just said Detergent…talking about some harsh stuff. our office administrator emptied sme of that stuff from a new detergent bottle to another one and left just about a 1/4 bttle by the sink in the break room.Locked up the rest.When i saw that i said’what u doing?’She told me if she leaves the whole bttle there, it will walk by end of day. And to think such would happen when in this office with all these nicely dressed women and men folk in ma office.Lyfe is a biacth!

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

Sorry about all the posts. This thing is broken

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

LOL @ForReal, that must have taken quite some time.

Raqi, don’t put on June Cleaver, put on Florence from The Jeffersons (attitude that is).

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

brownsugar i’m in a humorous mood as well. don’t get me crunk …i have a meeting.

Whats the shock and devastation about?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

So, um, P-cat, tell us how you really feel about the Twelve? LOL!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Nothing much slim… just clock-killin’ and waiting on 4:50.

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

What’s wrong brownsugar. Need my number?

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Pussycat i just asked my so-called friends to go and of course they gave me the gas face. WTH! see what i go through. people ask me all the time, why do you go to the movies alone, why do you go to red lobster alone? this is why i haven’t been to half the clubs in ATL. i told them they SUCKED and left the room. so i will definitely be solo. for about 5 mins. lol.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

How about being so broke you sticking bologna in your spaghetti..or eating roman noodles and PB&J sandwichs(on that Mary)….or being so broke you walk around in cub foods at 2am eating little debbies and doritos..and stealing meat….how you luv that…lol

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

Blue & 2P Not to endorse illegals, but I think the green helped me to keep my head back then. Otherwise I probably would’ve lost my mind feeling to beat up by the world. Mary J let me know it was only temporary. Talk about trying to time it just right on when to show up at a friends house during their ‘already started rotation’ since I obviously couldn’t afford it

By Pussycat

February 1, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Not that I can’t relate to life’s problem but wow, guess I don’t have anything to complain about.

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

900 of course I am going for the Giants more so as a Manhattan girl…but I have a little fetish for the Pats too shhhh. But my liberty belongs to the Giants! You know I loves me some Osi Umenyoria! I gots that hots fo dat Nigerian boy! LOL

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

900 Dude, I had a partner that took his electric meter off his house, rewired the joint, put the meter back up… and then told his old girl that if she saw the meter dude coming around, to make sure that she turned the tv/radio down.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

Blue 4:50 is that the extra 10min you’ll need to log off and walk to the car?

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

How about being so broke you sticking bologna in your spaghetti.. Dam man thats just wrong… Wrong. I just went the no meat route, and add way too many seasonings.

Beautiful - I see you girl, you dont have to be alone @ the movie BTW. I do know what you’re going thru thats why I have like 3 sets of friends some for sports, some for clubs and others for motorcycles and weights…

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

How about being so broke you ate sugar sandwiches…yep yep! Sure did.

By Tweety

February 1, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

hey Beautiful & Staceye..Thanks for the comments….There is no way I would do that & not be married…& its too soon to be thinking about that…..I really like him & would like to continue seeing him,,,,cant speak on the LOVE at this time…& even if we did marry & things didnt work out-the child goes with him…I would only want visitation rights….& YES I am serious about that…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

With that 11:33, I think SexyLeggs just clinched the “I Was So Broke…How Broke Were You” award. LOL! I mean, dag! I used to have to eat ketchup, mustard and mayonnaise sandwiches, but sugar?! LOL!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

900 Dude, I had a partner that took his electric meter off his house, rewired the joint, put the meter back up… and then told his old girl that if she saw the meter dude coming around, to make sure that she turned the tv/radio down.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

@slim…i smoked some much…i smoked myself out….lol….i was smoking beadys, blacks, and blunts one after the other…i wanted to keep my high up…..so i would just smoke all day….i liked being HIGH…like real HIGH….everything was cool and everybody liked me when i was high…and i had some of the craziest thoughts and i would crazy sh it…..like i had had to do the electric slide when i smoke…i had to keep moving….everyone one is chilling..and i am moving around….doing all types of sh it..but my favorite thing…was to have sex when i was high….never had those feeling again..i would smoke, eat, then want to have sex..in that order..all day

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I was just about to ask Blue_Kolla the same thing, but what he probably did was skip his 10-minute union-mandated afternoon break so he could leave work minutes early. You know how we do…skip lunch so we can jet that much earlier. LOL!

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Discovered that my husband was having an affair. Found out that he’s been seeing this other woman for the last 2 years. We were suppossed to celebrate our 3 year anniversary in 17 days. Life as I knew it before no longer exist. I’m in a what to do now state.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

Sexyleggs how about just eating bread. How about all that’s left in the fridge is a turkey neck you BOIL that and try and make it last for lunch and dinner.

In between blessings…..

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 11:44 AM | Link to this

Tweety, you’ve answered your own question. You don’t want to have a baby with him.

BTW, as long as I’m working where I am now, I’m set for tea, detergent, toilet paper and hot chocolate (LOL). Oh and toothpicks.

By For Real

February 1, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

ewwwwww roman noodles. I ate sooo much of that ish, I get gas if I walk by a pack now but the strange thing is I always keep at least one pack in my house.

For Real now realizing why he gets the sudden burst of gas now. poot, poot, squirt, fart… Awwwww dayumm!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli/Darrell 4:50 is that the extra 10min you’ll need to log off and walk to the car?

Nope. I’m starting my “log-off and dash” procedure at 4:40, so that my chair can be spinning at 4:50, so that I can be on that 5:00 train, so that I don’t have to deal with the real madhouse that’s known to arrive at 5:10 and 5:20.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

brownsugar I am sooooo sorry that happen to you sweetie!!! Try and keep your head up. Much love to ya…

By Rell

February 1, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

@BSV…..DAYUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM sorry to hear that lady. You start with expressing your feelings…just go ahead and vent…that is a GOOD start….

By For Real

February 1, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Rell I remember being so drunk and hungry that I was going to cook me some french fries. So I get the fries and the frying pan put the grease in the pot and then dumped the fries in it.

3 minutes later I’m like what is taking those dayumm fries so long to cook? I go check the pan and the ish is boiling. I like WTF!!!

Dayummm I put water in the pan instead grease. I so hungry I finished cooking the fries that way then mashed them up and added butter and ate my azz off.

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

& even if we did marry & things didnt work out-the child goes with him…I would only want visitation rights….& YES I am serious about that if i wasn’t getting $900 a month in child support, i would demand visitation too!!! lol. and i’m serious about that! lol.

900 babe, i have the worst friends. my closest friend has too many issues to leave the house and the others are drunks (i don’t drink, and no i ain’t being the designated driver). i don’t like to go solo, but i don’t have any choice.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

ForReal Funny how habits from back in the day stick with you, right? I’ve been blessed beyond measure, but I still keep a couple packs of beef flavor Ramen noodles in my pantry for “just in case”. Besides, it also serves as a reminder of where the Lord brought me from, so it’s all good. :-)

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

900 Dude, I had a partner that took his electric meter off his house, rewired the joint, put the meter back up… and then told his old girl that if she saw the meter dude coming around, to make sure that she turned the tv/radio down.

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

A sugar sandwich is much beter than a ketchup sandwich…UUGGH!!

I feel you Cemeeli. After losing my first house and moving into my apartment (which felt like a cave to me), I had an apple and a chicken wing in the fridge. That lasted me 2 days. No job, no money. Stayed in that apartment for 8 years until I bought another house.

Brownsugar, so sorry to read your emotional struggle. Did you “pimp slap” him?

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

Wise I told my son that me not sending him money to prevent his power from being disconnected would make him a better man and father one day. I could have sworn I heard him cuss me when he was hanging up. But because I cannot prove it in a court of law I figured I would forego snatching him thru the phone and beating him to a pulp.

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

February 1, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

I like sugar sammiches myself. I would take and butter my bread and but it in the toaster then sprinkle the sugar on it. It use to be delicious.

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Thanks for my award Darrell. If you deem someone else’s plight tops the sugar sandwich, I’ll give the award back.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Blue i’m taking notes. LOL…you got it on lock.

By Demi

February 1, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

I’m in a what to do now state

Awwwwww…Dayum, here comes another crazy chick LOL

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

February 1, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

It was my pastor’s b’day and we are the same age. You had to buy tickets of course. But you got a lot for your money, the food was excellent and it was a beautiful setting.

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

Oh NO! Brownsugarvixen?! That is HORRIBLE I hope you can call a relative, friend, someone you love this weekend for support too!

email me: wise.diva@gmail.com, are you at WORK today!?

By Rell

February 1, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

@for real/darrell…i keep a just in case MRE case…..lol

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli *how about just eating bread. How about all that’s left in the fridge is a turkey neck you BOIL that and try and make it last for lunch and dinner.

In between blessings…..*

One turkey neck? Now that’s livin’ on the edge. I like that about “between blessings” though; which is why I have a freezer and kill Kroger when they have the .99/lb chicken breasts. So if you see a dude with 25 family packs of chicken breast, it might be me.

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Thanks Cee, Rell, & Leggs. I plan on venting for sure this weekend. It’s been really rough for me this week at work but, I’m just glad I’ll be able to get things out in the open this weekend.

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this

brownsuger my .02, dont do anything for about a month (move out, look for the biatch, destroy items, threaten him, etc.). just try to do the regular and pray on it. God has a plan for you and you should allow him to show it to you.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

Rell “i keep a just in case MRE case…” ROFLLMAO!!!

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

wow, Demi..there are some great ideas in there…have you helped a friend through this before? LOL

Can we add, send over your big male cousins to punch him in the throat? Too violent?

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

900 Dude, I had a partner that took his electric meter off his house, rewired the joint, put the meter back up… and then told his old girl that if she saw the meter dude coming around, to make sure that she turned the tv/radio down.

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

SEXYLEGGS HAS NOW TAKEN THE BROKE AZZ DIARIES QUEEN TITTLE lol

NOW THAT YOU’VE WON, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO? I’M GOING TO DISNEYWORLD! LOL NO MORE WISH SAN’MICHES…wish I had some meat ‘tween dis bread!

Brown Sugar GOT MATCHES??? lol Might I interest you in a viewing of Waiting to Exhale! Get her number and call from a unavailable number and tell her that you need her to come to the clinic to be tested because she was listed as a sexual partner of a recently diagnosed person! Granted she will find out later it was a cruel trick..but the time spent shytting bricks will be classic! May I suggest pour itching powder in your hubby’s undies…he will wonder where that itch came from. I would say get him fired… but that would mess up your divorce settlement! LOL I’ve got plenty more revenge plots for ya…

For Real you must hypertension dude. It’s mad sodium in ramen noodles.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Raqi I could have sworn I heard him cuss me when he was hanging up. But because I cannot prove it in a court of law I figured I would forego snatching him thru the phone and beating him to a pulp.

I hope that you called him back and got in his azz just on the premise that you *

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

You understand 6’1.

Darrell that crap I had to eat back in the day (canned food) is the main reason I don’t eat anything out of a can today. Let me back up. I will eat corn out of a can and tunafish. You’re right tho, it’s nice to reflect and thank God for bringing a person from “there” to “here”.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

brownsugar I know you love him…this can not be easy. I’m sure you wish you could rewind some things right now. But don’t dwell keep it movin.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Raqi I could have sworn I heard him cuss me when he was hanging up. But because I cannot prove it in a court of law I figured I would forego snatching him thru the phone and beating him to a pulp.

I hope that you called him back and got in his azz, just on the premise that you THOUGHT that you heard some ish!

By Rell

February 1, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

@BSV….Did he tell you why…2yrs is no longer an affair..that is a relationship……feel me…

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

February 1, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Brown sugar my husband divorced me two years ago. I was walking around like James Evans. It was the best thing that could have ever happen to me. He call everyday. Begging. He was cheating on me with this hood rat that actually looked like a monchi-chi (I am not sure if I am spelling it correctly) It will hurt like hell at first but then you realize that what the higher power has for you he has for you and that he might have moved him out of the way because he was blocking your blessing. When I got over the initial shock, girl I finished getting my masters and got a better job and now I am walking around like I am Kimora slash Kim Kardashian, He can’t tell me nothing and when his family see me they are always talking about how he will never find somebody as good to him as I was. I reply “tell me something that I don’t know”

By Demi

February 1, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs we couldn’t afford bread…so i just drank the suger out of a cup.

I tried that mess a few years back and ended up sick as a dog.

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

@Demi I like that advice, but trust me I won’t become crazy….not my nature really!

@Leggs ..naw girl he didn’t get pimp slapped yet. I better put some baby powder in my purse just in case. LOL

@WD, yes I’m still managing to get up and come to work, I can’t stand being broke. $hit based on all these stories shared that will be my motivation to keep getting up and working M-F. Thanks for the email I will be sure to utilize it. I have quite a few relatives that I can talk with. I will reach out to them. I don’t want to be bitter because of this experience!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

Blue - Yeah he’s dam near a genius. I got an idea… me you, your patna and 2CP. Sit down and write a book! Gettin Over: Hood Almanac

Beautiful- you callin me Babe now huh? Thats a good look! the revolution has begun What Im saying is maybe some girls you know from work, hairshop or this Blog… can be just your going out buddies.

Leggs -* I had an apple and a chicken wing in the fridge. That lasted me 2 days. No job, no money.* - wow thats inspiration! Reminds me of this old Black Rob video when he opened his fridge all he had in there was a pack of cigarettes.

I’m in a what to do now state - you wanna really p** him off??? Give Demi some azz!!!

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

February 1, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this

Brown sugar, I go dayuum near everywhere by myself. Its okay though, I always end up seeing someone I know or meeting someone. I ride bikes so in the summer, all of my female friends are like no where to be found. If i am not riding I am walking my dogs through the park. They all are scared of dogs. So I really only deal with them on a basis that don’t include outtings.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Back in the day, my mom used to work in a public school cafeteria and many times, if it weren’t for her bringing home some of that canned food, we would have had nothing to eat. I’m serious. It was rough. But God - and my parents - brought us through. This is one reason why I’m quick to “check” people who see me and think “I got it goin’ on”, because they have no clue that I used to be P-O-O-R. I’ll NEVER forget those days in the Dixie Hills projects of Atlanta. Never.

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

Rell Man! I would smoke, start acting real silly, wrestling or playing mario kart with my ex, next we’d munch out on food, then do our ‘grown thang’ take a nap then start all over again.

For Real/2P You talking bout Ramen Noodles…how bout those $1.00 Frozen Banquet Meals (in the red box) & pot pies. I always got the chicken fingers, fried chicken (crossing my fingers for a drumstick inside), and the Yankee (Mystery Meat) Pot Roast. I ate so many of those things that I almost forgot what real food tasted like.

Brown Sugar So how did you find out? And when you did, what did he said when you called him out on it?

Six 1 I would take and butter my bread and but it in the toaster then sprinkle the sugar on it. It use to be delicious. We call that Ghetto French Toast LOL

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

You nailed it 6’1. Sorry to say this, but for some people divorce is medicine needed to move on in life. I’m somewhat like you absent the Master’s, the $1000 purses and $300 jeans (LOL). My happiness is priceless is what I’m trying to say.

BTW Staceye, yeah girl it feels good to not have to make “wish sammiches” anymore!

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

Yes I have already found out where the other woman lives, and no doubt I’m ready to do the A-Town stomp all over that b*h face. Was so fugged up about things it that, she is engagged to someone else, and her entire family knew he was married to me. So yes I would like to fugg the entire family up, straight Mafia style on some real gangsta tip $h*t.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this

Raqi I could have sworn I heard him cuss me when he was hanging up. But because I cannot prove it in a court of law I figured I would forego snatching him thru the phone and beating him to a pulp.

I hope that you called him back and got in his azz, just on the premise that you THOUGHT that you heard some ish!

Recall some of that old street knowledge and start if off somethin’ like this ===> “Look here son, I don’t know who’ you think you talkin’ to, but you betta know that I’ll come right ova dere! What da hayo did you say?!”

At that point you’ll get something like this ===> “I didn’t say anything.” …followed up by some more I-didn’t-do-its and that-not-what-I-saids.

Then you cut him right off and finish up with ===> “Aight then! You gon’ make me act like a N-word! Dammit!” click.

You won’t be able to see it but the look on shorty’s face will be priceless and the story will be told to his son’s and grandson’s.

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

Real life issues by 2 Can…..that we prolly don’t speak about….

somebody told you, you had on a hot outfit while out…..so you wore again the following weekend…

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

I am with you Rell.

Brown Two years is less than one year short of your marriage. Did you ignore the obvious signs that were there prior to the nups?

By Rell

February 1, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

I still eat devils food ham…i also like apple jelly on saltine crackers<—boot camp habit….hell i just finished some sardines…

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

900 i was tryin’ to make you feel the way i did when you called me out (like the bully on the playground). y’all don’t know it, but y’all are mean some times. i’m not used to that.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Rell i keep a just in case MRE case…

You gon’ eat that “Ham Slice”?

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

Rell he did try to explain the reasons, but to be honest I ran out the door, got in my whip and peeled out. ..so we didn’t finish. Since I’ve had some time to manifest things I’m more prepared to listen come tonight. In the beginning it was overwhelming and I just had to leave.

Slim.. I found out on Sunday, confronted him on Monday morning. He admitted to everything when I asked him, I thought he would deny it or try to play dumb.

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

BlueK I hope that his bed warmer deserting him in a time of urgent need hurts more than anything I can do to him physically.

Sad part is she will be back because he is an idiot.

LOL 2CPTG…and the weekend after that.

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

February 1, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

Brown sugar, Girl the mafia ain’t gangsta, girl (smacking my lips and rolling up my sleeves, putting vaseline on my face, putting braids in a scrunchi, taking off my stillettos, rolling my head,) the westside is gangsta, and look at my alias, I really have done it all. Let me know if you need some help this weekend. I still can get my hands on a black crown vic with tent for us to do some creeping!!!!!!!!

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

900K you’re so silly with your Hood Almanac: Gettin Over… I’m done for the day. WOW!

brownsugar wow! So they are both out-of-pocket. She’s engaged…

Darrell Dixie Hills? I know where that is…or was…

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

brownsugar the funny part about it, after you kick his azz to the curb, watch how he begs and pleads for you to take him back, etc. they all come back! they don’t know what they have until it’s gone.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

@blue…naw..i like the chicken and rice…lol..but if all else fail then i will eat it

@BSV….that is crazy..does her partner know..is he part of the revel..he prolly still wife her up…that chick is scandelous..period i will say this…i know there are levels to this s**…and it could be traced back to why he ask or decided to ask you for your hand in marriage…

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this

Darrell, I will never forget wear I came from as well. We were dirt poor. Many times no food a all. I know Mama did the best she could. I just can’t get with Chef Boyardee anymore! I’ll eat 2 sugar sandwiches before I eat a can of Beef-A-Roni. Triple UUGGHH!

By Demi

February 1, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this

Darrell not Dixi Hills, LOL…I am happy for you’n’your Sis bruh!!

900k dude don’t get me killed over here, and it has been a minute to…Brown sugar, I’ll have you walking around smiling’n’Ish, when you’re supposes to be p!ss, LOL

Wise Yes I have, there is a nice side to me you know

And One of our favorite Bloogers said:

NO DOUBLE DIPPING(??) DOING THE SUPER BOWL PARTIES

Y’all know I am deaf, maybe I heard wrong.

LOL

By mytwocents

February 1, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

Wow! I’m resourceful enough to have done most of those things. Cept it was syrup sandwiches made w/only one slice, of course & neva thought about riggin the meters, but now I know. Brown Rell’s right - that’s more like a relationship. May I suggest cocktails as a coping mechanism ;)

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

6’1 I hope you don’t do any dirt on foot…cause er uhhhh you are a 6’1 girl…there aren’t that many of you around and you would not be hard to pick out of a line up! LOL You’d be the chick taller than everybody in $300 jeans and pulling your 9 from your Marc Jacobs bag! LOL

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

Raqi Being a dude and reading you this long, I can tell you that he did cuss, but not at you. But he still needs that good talk, just to let it be known that the next time, he better wait until that phone is hung up, BEFORE, he parts them lips, just out of respect.

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

Raqi - we’ve been together for almost 7 years, and no I didn’t ignore any signs. There were sometimes when I sensed something was wrong, and made attempts to communicate with him. We’d talk about whateva was wrong and then move on. I only became suspicous over the last couple of weeks, when his strange behavior began.

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Rell I have had sardines as a part of my diet but what you know about the fish steaks in hot sauce? (to me taste better than the plain sardines)

Staceye Funny you mentioned the sodium in Ramen Noodles because I always would sprinkle a little bit of Season salt in them while they cooked for extra flavor…H3ll I’ll be real…I still do it. lol

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs/Demi Talking about how poor we all used to be reminds me of that line from the movie Amistad, where Morgan Freeman’s character is asked the question “What’s your story?”. *(Remember that?) It’s reall cool to find out what you all’s “story” is, because people are so quick to develop this misplaced impression you based on the present, while not having a clue about what you’ve had to overcome to get where you are today.

This is why it’s important to me to meet a woman who is humble, because that’s where I come from. I don’t care how “large” I’m livin’ now, I didn’t have the luxury of being born with a silver spoon in my mouth and I’d appreciate a woman who can relate to that. Not that she has to come from the exact same place, but she needs to understand why it is I’m holding on to those last 3 packs of Ramen. Feel me?

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

B and all assuming I’ don’t think i read where brownsugar say she was kicking him to the curb…

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Beautiful the funny part about it, after you kick his azz to the curb, watch how he begs and pleads for you to take him back, etc. they all come back! they don’t know what they have until it’s gone.

ONLY IF she was *The One. So far, I haven’t wanted any ex’s back, relationship-wise anyway.

By I DON'T GET IT

February 1, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

6’1

What $300 pair of jeans do you wear? For a 6 foot lady the inseam in designer jeans dont’ even come that long?!?! They have to be CAPRIS on you!! AIN’T NO WAY!

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 12:47 PM | Link to this

6’1 you sound like a few of my girls, even my own mother who is terminally ill all ready to serve this chick some southern hospitality.

Cee - he’s already realizing that he fugged up. I packed everything that I had and moved out Monday. He’s been calling all day everyday.

Does her fiance know yeah. I put my prviate eye skills to work and filled him in. He is devasted, he call her up and broke it off. This ish is really deep.

@ LOL @ eye!

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli not wanting her to do that at all, just telling her the facts.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

Slim fish steaks?

I’ve seen the Fish… Steaks. But tell me this… what is the difference in fish steaks and sardines when they both come in the same small azz can containing what 5, 6 max?

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

blue i’m still taking notes…i see that to often with my lil cousins doing that with thier mom. I’m wanting to get up and slap the taste out of their mouth (they’ll be shocked b/c they treat me as if i’m their age). But your advice to Raqi is gonna be good for my cousin w/her 2 teenagers.

Staceye lol@ you fully explaining don’t get in trouble to 6’1’.

By Staceye

February 1, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

I’m out for the weekend!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Looking back at my broke college dayz eating fried chicken w/ raisin bread… dont knock it till you try it.

Beautiful - y’all don’t know it, but y’all are mean some times. i’m not used to that. Noted, I will now watch my tone when addressing you cause for one you’re tough as h3ll and you good w/ me. So when we going to the show to see Roscoe Jenkins?

… with the way you laid Big Shirly out, I need you on my team!

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Real life issues by 2Can….that we prolly don’t speak about…..

you go to a video store ‘cross town, outta town, or wherever, cause you know you ain’t gon’ bring they shyt back…..

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

BSV Your situation reminds me of an ordeal a friend of mine went through. She had been with her SO for 5 yrs, they were engaged & living together. She had never suspected him of anything until one day he mistakenly left his Myspace Inbox open and she saw where he had been communicating with some chick for the last 6-8 months. That morning she went out looking for an apt, rented a UHaul and moved out just that quick. She never told him what she found. All she left was a printout of all the messages. She didn’t tell him where she moved to, buddy was sick, calling her folks & job trying to find out where she dipped to. I think that hurts them most when you just say fugg it and dip w/o notice and they never get that chance to smooth it over. (IF they care about you that is)

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

BSV don’t let these folks get you wound up like that. First, it ain’t the chicks fault. She didn’t force the puddy on him so go to the source, your hubby. It’s a coward move to confront her. 2nd, after you leave him and do all that your gonna run up on the next cat and chances are he’s gonna do the same thing at some point. I know thats harsh but lets keep it real. (I was a cheating hubby too) Women rating dudes on fidelity is like a dude rating a woman on her ability to stop bleeding. Not likely. Believe it or not ol boy probably still loves you but needs some outside every once in awhile. It usually has nothing to do with loving the chick (or he would have asked for a divorce by now) but just the need to splurge. Now here’s the real fugged up part. If you try to get revenge and he’s a solid cat he’s gonna bounce. So, since women always talk about vows and whatnot and its better or worse you got your worse up front. Ride it out because in a few years this will be a faded memory but make sure you know his angle, meaning is this love or just booty.

Don’t use emotions like some other chicks but try to think thru it. Talk with him like he’s a human and not your husband and process the information, don’t react to it. Make the best decision based on the info you’ve gathered with a level head or your gonna regret this for a long time. Your holding a stick of dynamite and you can either diffuse it or allow it to explode in your face. Your choice.

Beautiful I thought about you last night when I turned to some millionaire dating show and this chick was complaining because men in Cali don’t chase women anymore. I remember you saying men here don’t date like back in Cali. Do you still plan on heading back home?

6’1 what kind of dogs do you have? My guess is akitas.

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

Speaking of some funny ish. This happened to me last nite.

I’m staying at my mothers house and I was asleep on the air mattress. Well bout 3 dis morning this sucker starts deflating on me. So I get out up and I’m searching for the leak…finally find a pin size hole, I refused to sleep on the floor or the couch. So I immediately grabbed a stick of winter fresh gum chewed it up an placed it over the hole. Fill the mattress back up and hoped my azz back in the bed.

LMAO now that I’m looking back over this situation!

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli i’m still taking notes…

Keep right on. But I can’t take all of the credit. Ain’t nothing changed out here. I’m just passing on what came to me.

I asked my nephew when he was like 11/12, “You out here cussing man?” (just knowing that he was gon’ lie… which he did.) So I came right back with, “Dude, do I look like an idiot. I know damn well that you and ALL of your potnas are out here cussin’.” So he starts smiling like ‘aight unc, you got me.’ Then we both started laughing, and then I just let him know, I was a kid too, but you better not be out here disrespecting the neighborhood, meaning his elders, b/c if I hear about it, there’s gonna be trouble.

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

Slim now that’s what i’m talkin’ about! i like her. she’s my hero. lol.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

brownsugar good that you got away from him/house for a minute. I know I’ve had to do that myself…wooosaaahh…

….speaking of character & of all the big girl pills that we take and then keep it movin’. There is nothing like that initial shock…THAT right there is when you need Jesus for real! I see you ready to turn on the radio now.

…changing subject…you need to release some good hearty laughter into your spirit.

Demi has changed into his black speedo’s for you gurl!!!

By mytwocents

February 1, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Brown She/they were already in your realm? Or how did you get his #. Also, aren’t you more mad @ him than her cuz she ain’t said vows to you? Maybe you wanna do bodily harm to them both, but I wasn’t gettin that.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

Darrell This is why it’s important to me to meet a woman who is humble, because that’s where I come from.

Move over Rell, I’m gon’ have to put Darrell up here on the board with you for CO-Post Of The Year.

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Real life issues by 2Can…that we prolly don’t speak about…

you got bubble guts at work, and either went to another floor, or held your legs up, so if someone walked in, they couldn’t see your shoes, to determine later, who blew it up….

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

truth…i’ma have to call bullshyt on your last post…i’m surprised that it’s dudes like you out here that will still try to sell a chick that bogus a ss bill of goods cause you can’t control ya’ dyck…and cause you don’t respect what you’ve got at home…

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla LOL, you know I wondered the same thing as far as how they were different. The fish steaks are actually pieces of Herring as apposed to sardines, a slighty different taste. (Beach Cliff Fish Steaks in Louisiana Hot Sauce)

Truth I’ve been watching that too Millionaire Dating Show….what was up with buddy living like he was still in college but had 2 5mil condo’s?? He was a lamo. I wouldn’t be able to tolerate him no matter how much money he has.

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Brownsugar…way to improvise! I think there is a little MacGyver in all of us. Good to see you making jokes :)

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

Truthbaby you were thinkin’ of me? what was i wearin’? lol. some times i feel like i don’t know anything about dating anymore. someone said the other day (i think it was Jazzy) that we take dating too seriously and i believe it. i’m just gonna sit back in the cut and see what happens. on the approach, im building myself up to do all the approaching. i have let so many good ones slip by. no more. yes, in mid-june im leaving. can’t wait to see and kiss my momma.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

BSV, Dr. Truth just handed you the Hope Diamond! Damn Truth… when is your book coming out?

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

Truth & rest of the blog family.

I am level headed person, even under the stress of this siutation.i’m not the kind of woman that’s going to do anything that I’ll live to regret. My confronting her will not change the what happened, neither will it bring me any sort of closure or gradification. I would never confront the other woman, because honestly my beef is not with her it is with my husband. He made a choice to step out, and take things to the next level.

It’s so sad to know that there are people that will always be there to accomdate your mate (married or not) if they ever decide to go that route While I am venting on here. I’m no fighter, but don’t think for one second I can hold my own.

Now on a spritual note they will have to answer for their sins on judgment day. All I can do is take it one day at a time. There is no quick fix to this siuation.

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

Happy Friday everyone

On topic, I may go back to the sports bas where I watched the Playoff games. I have a few other invites to consider as well.

Blog question

Is it wrong for me to hang out with my sister’s ex? I met him when I moved here in ‘98 while they were dating and even back in the day he always asked me to hang out with him and his friends. He’s never tried anything with me, but sometimes he says things that make me ?? myself for hanging out with him. For example….. I called him yesterday to see what he was doing for the SB. He answered his phone Wassup Sexy?

I hung out with him a few weekends ago at a friends house, we played cards, shot pool and watched the fight. He was openly flirting with one of his friends neighbors as well as some female who called him several times and somebody asked me if we were together. My response $h!t No!. Dude is cool as all get out, but I wonder if I am wrong. My sister has put us in touch to hang out too many times to count. Am I setting myself up for a foul play?

The strangest thing I ever ate was a raw hot dog or bologna wrapped in cheese. I used to love it!

JustMe is now remembering……. she lead a sheltered life as a child

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

Just Me Ask your sister.

By 2CPTG�

February 1, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

Just Me….ya settin’ yaself up for failure….cause number 1, nothing can ever develop, cause that’s taboo, and two, you gettin reeled in for the jump off…..

now back to some more Real life issues by 2 Can….that we prolly don’t speak about….

ever * n* too quick with a female and been like….nah, I ain’t come yet…must not be really in the mood…

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

Just Me, does it feel wrong? I mean if it’s awkward for you to think of him in that way, there is a reason for that, no?

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

BK She is cool with it as far as I know. She gave him my cell # this summer while I was incapacitated……..

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

JustMe there’s a movie about your situation. i want you to watch it. i’ll get back to you when i think of the name. damn!

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

Sxycool its not a matter of respecting what you have at home. Always bet on human nature. Its not most mens nature to be faithful and when it does happen its usually a personal choice and still not easy to do. Its not a matter of controlling your dyck either but its the thrill of the hunt. Its as uncontrollable as a womans desire to have children. Its what got us this far.

Beautiful actually you were butt azzed naked LOL Actually there are no dating rules. Modern dating is like the vietnam war. The enemy is everywhere and nowhere.

Slim I could not deal with that chick that runs the company. I saw about 10 times I’d of cussed her azz out for sure. She’s telling a grown man he can’t sleep with the chicks unless he’s gonna marry them. She’s trying to use puddy to hold these dudes hostage. LOL

BSV If I go downtown right this minute naked and bend over “SOMEONE” will fugg me too. Thats human nature hun.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

JustMe My two cents: If you have to ask the question at all, then it probably is.

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

2CPTG Not in my wildest dreams would I ever pick my sister or friends sloppy seconds. That’s not JustMe

Wise I think of him as a brother. No strange or awkward feelings even when he is flirting shamelessly with women in my presence. He is a serial cheater, so I have no interest in hem whatsoeva as a potential anything other than a brother-like-friend.

I asked because I mentioned that I hung out with him to a co worker and she raised an eyebrow like I had committed a sin……..

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this

truth…i don’t want do dayum kids…so…your uncontrollable woman’s desire argument goes out the window…and furthermore…a good number of the chicks that i know didn’t have kids because they wanted kids…they a sses had kids cause they got pregnant and didn’t abort…the only uncontrollable desire that was involved was related to a physical need, not to repopulate the earth…

but, hey…if you wanna gamble the good woman that you’ve got at home for a piece of unknown, suspect p8ssy…just cause it’s new…then by all means…put ya’ dizzle on the the line…

and what’s gotten us this far is the fact that the sun still rises every morning and that somehow we have not yet found a way to destroy life on earth as we know it…

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Truth I think her reasoning for the ‘no sex’ rule is to see if these men are really serious and not to compromise things, so to speak. You have to think, these millionaires are probably really use to just meeting chicks and fugging them before they are a faint memory but noon the next day. So her approach is to gauage how serious they are about finding love. True is may seems childish. Did you see the one with the guy that took the girl to the wine tasting in the jet?? He said since he doesn’t swallow he normally spits, so there will be a lot of swallowing and spitting going on. Ole girl was like, yeah that sounds about right, I like to swallow. WTF!

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Darrell Please explain how is it wrong?

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

Ole girl was like, yeah that sounds about right, I like to swallow. WTF! - That would have been the first day of the rest of our lives 2gether. or at least until summer time

By brown_sugar_vixen (in a state of shock & devastation)

February 1, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

Truth, trust me I get your point and very well aware of human nature. It just sucks that’s all I’m sayin.

Why did my visual of you bending over spread eagle style, with some homeless man creeping up on ya booty bring a smile to my face. LOL! Glad there is still some humor to be shared, cuz I’m usually an upbeat person, all this talk has really helped me lighten up a little. I appreciate everyone’s pov, and gully azz revenge tactics. I will have something to smile about while I’m riding home. I hope that i didn’t crash the party of keepin it light.

Thank you again to all the men and women of the blogsville family.

I’m out for the day. Hope that everyone has a great weekend. Oh yeah, GO PATRIOTS!!

Leggs - I gonna make sure I don’t forget my baby powder for the pimp slap he got coming. LOL

By melo

February 1, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

I’m staying at my mothers house why are u at ur mom’s house?…pretending ur running away from the situation. Consider it as if u have been afflicted with a deadly disease.U can choose to wallow in pain and denial or accept that this has gone down already and but hw devise a way of dealing with the situation.U can never be too mad to listen to ur hubby, just to hear him speak about his embarasing situation.And then u take ur strategy from there going foward.Its time to think strategy,not to cower and seek sympathy.Its ur decision to make,not ur mom,not ur friends nor siblings.Yours alone. And a word of caution;when ur in these situations, avoid the temptation of telling everybody who cares to listen…even those u call blood.They will be laughing at you,long after you have forgotten about what happened.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

Cool calm down baby. Its not that deep. We’re talking about another bloggers situation. Not ours. Have you been in this situation because it seems to have hit a nerve? And yes, most men will gamble that good woman for some suspect puddy. Have you seen the divorce rate lately? LOL

Btw, we are working real hard on ways to destroy life on earth as we know it.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

JustMe I’m not saying it is definitely wrong in practice, but in theory, usually when our instincts or conscience raises the question of whether a certain behavior is “right” or “wrong”, chances are that instinct is there as a “caution” to us to not do that thing as opposed to doing that thing. Again, I’m not saying that’s the case in every situation but, more times than not, I think the fact that you have to ask the question at all of “Is it wrong?” says a lot. Make sense? :-)

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Oh my goodness. There are some broke mickey fickeys on this blog! I guess I’m the only one that pays my bills first when that paycheck comes in. So when it’s lean, the only thing that suffers is my social life. LOL

I never got that not filling up the tank thing. Keeping it half full just means you have to stop that much sooner to get gas. Either way, the same amount is still going in the tank.

Okay, wet blanket moment over! LOL

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

the nerve you hit comes from the fact that the level of flawed logic that some individuals use as justification for bullshyt is often taken as gospel…

and your 155p statement doesn’t support your earlier statement…otherwise…there would be more women just holding on to fcuked up marriages waiting for the next infidelity to become a faded memory…

i also make it a point not to just spout off inflammatory, unsupported rhetoric in this forum just cause i like to see my name in lights…

and with that…i step down off my soapbox…throws the mike down…sexual chocolate, ladies and gentlemen…sexual chocolate…

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

JustMe - I dont have much to say about wrong or right. But cant you find your own friends? You’re forgetting a golden rule: When a family member breaks up with someone then the family breaks up with that person too! unless they were 2gether forever w/ kids Find some one else to kick it with… or give him some azz and be proud of who you are.

By For Real

February 1, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

BSV Truth laid it out for you. If it’s important to you (not your mamma, not your friends) find out the reason why he cheated. If his reasoning is logical and factful, then you evaluate it and make the best decision for you. Remember the peanut gallery is just as selfish as your husband is, so take what they say with a grain of salt.

Yo, I used to spice up Ramen noodle by adding cut up hot dogs in it.

Oh and I use to steal gas when I was in college and for the record Premium taste better than Regular.

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

Ared, oh no gal, we were referring to our broke days when we first started making money..well, I think most were

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

ARed said “Oh my goodness. There are some broke mickey fickeys on this blog!”

LOL! I was a “broke mickey fickey”..

Before

After

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

Oh no WiseDiva - I got the fact that MOST of y’all were talking about the early days. But there are some posters that are talking about RECENT brokeness, like waiting for the direct deposit to come in (like yesterday) or rolling around town with a 1/4th of a tank! LOL

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

While in the shower this morning my marido reminded me that I will be 40 in 61 days. Boy how time flies when you are having fun.

By For Real

February 1, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Wise “Ared, oh no gal, we were referring to our broke days when we first started making money..well, I think most were”

Wise if got money why did you make me eat that lovely dinner on that two piece dinnett set?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

For Real “Yo, I used to spice up Ramen noodle by adding cut up hot dogs in it.”

ROFL!!!!

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

900K When a family member breaks up with someone then the family breaks up with that person too! Or sometime the family is the one to try and mend the relationship…been there.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

Well Darrell - Since you’ve got cheese now, when are you taking me to dinner? :-)

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

February 1, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

I have been to lunch and boy did I miss a lot. Okay to address some of the questions citizens, sevens, true religion and joe jeans fit me well, Rock and republic are too damn short/ I have a maltese, yorkie and a boxer and trust me when i say it Brown sugar you are already alright, Just claim it and name it.

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

Raqi i’m right behind you girlie! i’ll be 40 on 6/22. the rumor is that our sex drive will be off the chain. hope he’s ready. lol.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

ARed This is Leap Year. When you taking me out? LOL!

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Raqi, in your case, that would be FABULOUS 40!!! (3 exclamations). Life is beautiful, isn’t it!

Ared, ohh, I must have missed the gas tank comment, LOL. Dang

that wasn’t me For Real.. you are getting your divas mixed up again. You’re gonna pay dearly for that later.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this

Cool i was trying to make light of the situation. The fact is forever is a long time. Usually during that ime things happen, cheating, car accidents, children, medical problems, injuries, unfresh breath. The longer you stay together the more your exposed to. So my thing is instead of some pre-planned knee jerk reaction try thinking thru the problem and you can use it to grow. Honestly, she may look at it and say “I haven’t been having sex with him lately” (for example) and hence created an opportunity for this to happen. Who knows. Now, pick up the mike, step back on the box and tell me what you think of that sexaul chocolate. BTW, I have a sweet tooth. LOL

BSV the visual you have is very, very upsetting to me. I’m now looking for a big azz eraser to wipe that out of my mind. LOL Good luck with this one and keep smiling.

Red I’m with you on this one thats why I didn’t have any input. I was going to make up a story but didn’t know where to start. LOL

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

I have rolled around town with 1/4 tank before! Yea…me. I have also rolled around town with a full tank. But like i said according to the budget…i know how to park my car & keep it balanced. mmmm agian what’s the point in the gas tank comment?

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

Cee - Or sometime the family is the one to try and mend the relationship… -True but as far as hangin out with my bro’s ex-girl or even my sisters ex-boy it’ll never happen.

6’1” - Boxers are the best!!!! I had my boy for 10 years now (yeah he’s old but still jumps around like he’s 3). I’ve had many dogs commin up but none like homey.

I see that ARed is back on her high horse… oh well everyone is different I guess. But not being broke in college is a sin. And I worked thru school!!!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

Darrell - I would love to treat you to dinner. Let’s make plans for February 30th.

WiseDiva - Someone said this morning that their tank hasn’t been full since New Years. That’s some recent brokeness. LOL

Truth - My parents went from riches to rags growing up, but times were never hard enough to have a mustard sammich! But it definitely made me extra cautious about money after seeing my parents missteps.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

Darrell - I would love to treat you to dinner. Let’s make plans for February 30th.

WiseDiva - Someone said this morning that their tank hasn’t been full since New Years. That’s some recent brokeness. LOL

Truth - My parents went from riches to rags growing up, but times were never hard enough to have a mustard sammich! But it definitely made me extra cautious about money after seeing my parents missteps.

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

Beautiful You are right, you are behind me because I rock my baby to sleep at least 3 times a week already. So looks like you got some catching up to do.

Wise I am so looking forward to it. Life is beautiful and is getting better by the day.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

Lawd 900k - Just because someone didnt experience something doesn’t mean they are on their “high horse.” Y’all need a shot of self esteem or something for real! For your information I was very broke in school, like most folks.

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

I feel you Darrell on needing to be with someone who understands where you came from, and is humble because of it and not a SNOT!

BSV, that gum in the air mattress was hysterical. I have a lot to read.

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

sticking my tongue out at you, truth…i can support SOME of the points you make…just perhaps don’t quite agree with your delivery…

i mean…chicks can get tired of the same dizzle just like y’all get tired of the same p-dot…

and as to your sweet tooth…boy…(keeping in mind that i’ve gotta man)…you ain’t bad enough to ride this ride…lol…(end of my shyt talking for the day)…

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

ARed Yes I run into situations even now where I have to balance 1/4 tank of gas and I am waiting for direct deposit. We dont exactly have a dollar friendly economy right now!! LOL No seriously, I fall on hard times like anyone else. Am I ashamed, hells no!! No one said divorce is easy but I have never had to ask a soul for help, not even my ex AND I have a kid. I am an adult and I will make do, period. Plus like others here, I learned from the school of hardknocks: college! Broke as hell 90% of the time!!! :0)

By For Real

February 1, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

Wise So that wasn’t you??? Hmmm,

For Real now scanning the blog females to see who had Black Cake for dinner last night

By Rell

February 1, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

Over da edge 483 Edgewood Ave

2 100’ inch screens for the game ladies FREE - FREE FOOD AND DRINK

doors open at 4

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

ARed “Darrell - I would love to treat you to dinner. Let’s make plans for February 30th.”

shaking my head Good one. LOL!!!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

Mo - I really wasn’t trying to make you (or anyone else) feel bad. But naw, I really don’t understand the whole roll around on a 1/4th of a tank. If you don’t have the money, you don’t have it, but when you get it you might as well fill up. Cuz it should last you a little longer.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs “…and not a SNOT!”

BINGO! That’s what I’m talkin’ about. :-)

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

ARed Everybody not balling out of control right now, bills paid or not. Times still get hard.

I mentioned my granny will be 70 this March and I have to do the Welcome speech. So I was thinking about mentioning some little facts about 1938. I came across this website that gives you an idea of wages, cost of cars, houses, rent etc. You can check out any year. In 1938:

8 loaf of bread 9 cents

Have fun checking our your various years of birth Here

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

…If I go downtown right this minute naked and bend over “SOMEONE” will fugg me too. Thats human nature hun. No they won’t Truth, you’ll only be carted off to jail or the 8th floor at Grady.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

900 Presa canarios are the best dogs out there. google em and take a look. Btw, when I was in college I made $600 bux a month after tuition was paid. $300 from army program/$150 from air force national guard/ $150 from work study. I had one bill and that was $44 for insurance on my car. I was living swell dude. LMAO

Red my story has that potential if this market doesn’t turn around. I can hold out and live off of my savings for another year but then I will have to go get a J O B. I thought I would never have to work for someone again. This is the worst. I cut back on my cable, no premium channels sob sob, and have limited my activities to training dogs and blogging with y’all. LMAO

Tazz you should be happy I used affect correctly yesterday. LOL

By Demi

February 1, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

Blu/2/Melo

A.Red I feel you sis, I know for sure Li’Demi will never experience my level of poorness growing up…Can you imagine moving into a new apartment (in Over Town), they’ve just sprayed the apartment and you closed the front door…

There are thousands upon thousands of German cockroaches stack on top of each other on the back of the door.

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

900 You must have missed the post where I said my sister gave him my phone number.

Truth be told…….. I like hanging out with him because, he is of the male persuasion, I never have to buy my drinks, he always knows where a good gathering is going on at, and there is no sexual tension between us, so he is the epitomy of what a guy in the FZ is supposed to be IMO.

I personally don’t think it’s wrong, it’s not like we are sneaking….. When he comes to the house it’s not to see me, it’s to see my sister, but when we all end up playing dominos and cards together it’s all good.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

@900…I am a fellow boxer owner and lover….this is my second one….The first was princess we had to give her away to someone we did not have the time to keep up with her….we paid some loot for her…..well the dude we gave her away to gave us a male from her first litter…so now we have a 11 month old boxer…ROCKY….

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

February 1, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

I love Greek mythology! All my dogs are named after greek gods. My boxer is a girl and I name her bresis she is so prissy. She acts even more prissy than the doggone maltese.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

900K i agree on not dating any of my family/friends ex.

I’m the only one that pays my bills first when that paycheck comes in.

I’m ONE that pays my tithe when THAT paycheck comes in… maybe i’m wierd.

Cee’s the no full tank since New Years lol… but it’s by choice. I have joined a club and had to re-do somethings (yea gas but not giving) to keep investing. Trust anyday i CAN get a full tank……nah darlin’ not broke…

By Page1908

February 1, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

ARed I’m with you because rolling around on 1/4 tank of gas can really mess your car up, plus you don’t know what situation you may be in like traffic or bad weather. Just a couple of weeks ago, there were two girls in a Chevy Tahoe and they were stalled at the light right off on 85 and North Druid Hills right after I got off of work. I pulled up next to them and asked the passenger if they were ok and she was like “we ran out of gas”. If any of you know that intersection, it is a complete nightmare, especially to run out of gas. The passenger girl had to dart in and out of traffic and run down the street to get some gas. To me, I’m thinking how in the world do you let your tank get that low to where your car just stops. I don’t know…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

Slim “the minimun wage amount was 40 cents for a 44hr work week!!”

Sometimes I think that’s 2008 not 1938. LOL!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

ARed you didnt step on my toes, just letting you know that its hard out here for a pimp! LOL I know you werent being facetious.

6’1 & Luvinit (AKA don’ it all) I love Greek Mythology as well, dont have as many books on it as I would love to have though!

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

That’s a really nice spot, RELL.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

I’m gonna have to refer y’all to another board where folks aren’t so sensitive. We were just clowning everyone who had to have “free lunch” growing up. Including me! The point is some one saying “y’alls is broke” shouldn’t result in so many ruffled feathers. Goodness.

SlimOne - Of course not everyone is balling out of control. I suspect no one who blogs all day is. LOL

Truth - You ain’t got no job? You’re a scrub! LOL

Demi - Dang!

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

Raqi i do have some catching up to do, believe me. it’s been since july (i think). saving it. waiting for the one to come along to release. it’s been easier than i thought. my time will come.

By QueDogTeaching

February 1, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while looking at my signed approval to have Monday off. Superbowl party at the IHQ with the bruhs. 5th year in a row. There is a DJ but everyone watches the commercials. Then as soon as the game is over the music starts.

Justme Most affairs start in the name of friendship. Time spent breeds familiarity. And please don’t say if he wanted to do something he would have tried it a long time ago. When you finally come to your senses and realize that buddy is just waiting for you and your sister can be a story to tell his grandkids about you will know what I am talking about. And the moment that you will figure it out is when your knees are next to your ears, and sweat is hitting you in the face.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

Cee - You’re that 1/4th tank gal? It’s so bad for your car! My mama lives by that philosophy tho too. Can’t change her. LOL

Mo - So you think I was being mean on purpose? Dang girl. Naw, I was just playing around. I don’t have a lot left over after the bills clear myself, but I’m not about to deprive myself from my pole dancing classes. Whoo hoo!

By For Real

February 1, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

Dinner time at ARed’s house……

ARed Mama: YALL COME EAT FORE IT GET COLD!!!!!

ARed: Ummmmmm mommmy the food smells good. What are we having for dinner tonight?

Mamma: Thank you baby!!! We are having salmon, Garlic mashed potatoes, English peas, and corn. For desert apple pie.

ARed: Ahhhhhhhh, that sounds lovely

Mamma: JR. GET YO SLOW AZZ DOWN HERE AND EAT BOY AND TELL YO DADDY TO BRANG HIS AZZ ON TOO!

Jr.: (thumps Ared on head) What are we having for dinner?

ARed: Ohhhhh we are salmon, Garlic mashed potatoes, English peas, and corn. For desert apple pie.

Mamma: Here you kids eat up!

Jr.: WTH!!!! I thought we were salmon, Garlic mashed potatoes, English peas, and corn. For desert apple pie. This ish is sardines, boilded french fries, peanuts, and popcorn. And putting apple sauce on bread don’t make it pie.

Mamma bashes Jr. head to the white meat and looks at ARed to see if she got something say.

ARed: Taste like chicken to me mamma.

Meanwhile Ared’s daddy comes in with a sack full from Krystal.

By Cocoa

February 1, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed

Over the past couple of weeks you have NOT been yourself. Very rude and being a smart a$$ all the time.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

Hey QDT! I did that party last year. There were hella people. Have fun!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

LOL @ For Real

Cocoa - I’ve always been a smart azz. Sorry to disappoint you.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

For Real That 3:00 is CLASSIC!!! LMAO!!!!

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

wow Cocoa, so you know Amazon Red personally, or did you mean she is not being regular “blog” self?

From what I read of her, she is kind of a wise azz, not unlike me, LOL, sometimes people don’t catch the acerbic wit/sarcasm..or they don’t like it, if they do catch it

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Red if thangs dont change thats exactly what I’ll be doing “Scrubbing” dishes at Ihop. LOL

Page just that you pulled up and asked them if everything was ok tells me all I need to know about. Smooches.

Short story: 2 years ago a drunk unlicensed driver hit me on 75 in front of the Ford motor plant in a storm. A chick saw what happened, followed the guy to east point and called the popo who arrested him. She then pulled up behind me and told me what happened. I sent that chick $50.00 in a card and told her to have lunch on me. Even tho I’m a mean selfish b******* I love nice people. LOL

Alright Cool we’re gonna put and end to it because lord knows I don’t want you calling me from under the sheets at 2am while ol boy is snoring talking bout “tell me what you gonna do again”? LOL

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

ARed - my self esteem is fully in tact girly. I did make a point of saying everyone is different, so its cool if you didn’t eat a syrup sandwich B4. Be Easy , You on the High Horse for callin out folks: Broke miki fiki’s not because you didn’t experience it.

But I must say that Auto Gas is a silent killer of today’s budget. Man I drive around checking pump prices like to stock market; if I see $2.94 89oct then I get the full tank. But if I get caught downtown and see $3.29 I’ll take $14 on pump 4! I know plenty of people who can balance a mean budget that are not doing as well due to $100 per barrel.

JustMe - if you got all the answers then why did you ask the dam question? So what she gave you his number, if he callin you sexy now and it makes you uneasey then why keep it up? we cool but Im sayin…

Rell- See I knew you were a good dude!

Truth -Take that fake azz half Pitbull/ Raccoon back out in the woods where you found ‘em. Boxers are where its at!

By QueDogTeaching

February 1, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

Ared Lets be real Soro. Most of us are about 3 paychecks from a drastic lifestyle change, selling everything off, and moving back in with our parents. And to keep it even more real most of our parents retired and working are 3 paychecks from moving in with us.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

WiseDiva - You’ve got me pegged. I think one chick described me as “abrasive.” Whoops!

900k - I’ll be easy if you are. Just jokes on my end, you broke mickey ficky!

QDT - I’ll see your 3 paychecks and reduce it to one. LOL

It’s Friday people. No need for sour faces.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

Hey QDT!! I hung out at the IHQ last year for the Bowl game. Had a great time, I was able to tell Pops that his Bruhs set if off right! LOL And you are so right in your last post about the 3 paychecks thing!

ARed Please re-read! I said that I know you werent being mean! Its all good! LOL I just stated that I was telling my story, which is similar to others! I never took offense to what you said. Its all goo chica!

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

You still missing the point…

I’m 1/4 tank and PARK’n it (minimum travel) @ balancing until pay… I roll at 1/2 if i’m going anywhere. It works out…actually i surprise my self.

Now that’s my last comment on that binford gas…this is making me miss my PSP break LOL

By Page1908

February 1, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Thanks Truth. I had to ask them because they seemed around my age and it was a bad situation because it was Friday and everyone was getting off of work and blowing their horns, etc. I’d like to think if I was in that same situation, someone would ask me if I was ok. Once I was at the hair salon and a lady needed a jump and didn’t know who to call. It was one of the nights a few weeks ago when it was really cold, like in the 20’s. I offered to call AAA for her to have them come out and they did. She didn’t have AAA, but I do, so all I did was call and let her speak to them to give them her info and they came. Later, she left a thank you card with my stylist.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

@coca…

Over the past couple of weeks you have NOT been yourself. Very rude and being a smart a$$ all the time.

then you dont know a sag…..lol nothing to even get tender about…it is par for the course…lol

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

I’ll just come out and say it…I’m Broke but I’m maintaining.

Off-topic - Came home last night to my gas being out, but the bill’s been paid. Realized that I have hot water and heat so it wasn’t cut off. Can somebody please instruct me on how to turn the freaking pilot light back on. I was so afraid of blowing myself up last night that I stopped trying.

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

i could have you running around in the daytime butt naked with a flashlight…which way did she go? which way did she go?

By Cocoa

February 1, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva

It’s ok to defend yourself and come off as a smart a$$ while doing it, but just to be a smart a$$ for no reason is very unattractive, even to me. Who wants to read negativity all the time all day long on this blog? It would be nice for her to just lighten it up a little. Life is hard right now for families. And there’s nothing wrong with a child getting free lunch at school. so mean to say that.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

900 you got me lmao over here. you have an email address thats actually registered to you? I’ll send you a pic of a real dog instead of one that can onlyy fight with gloves. LOL

Sexy yes, they’d cart me off to jail with some cat “attached to tmy backside”. LOL

I see this truce is fragile as the bloods and crips.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Whoops Mo. I guess I did read it wrong. But I did like your story. You’re like Super Woman. LOL

I don’t think I could ask anyone for help either. Mainly because everyone I know is playing the survival game too. Dang, I should have made friends with folks with trust funds. LOL

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs From my days of bein’ po’, as I remember, the only way to re-light the pilot is to actually turn the knob to the ‘ON’ position and hold a match near enough to it so that it ignites. Don’t worry; you’re not gonna blow yourself up. (But just in case, can I have your TV?)

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

900k I worked at Briggs & Stratton on an assembly line putting lawn mowers together, out in Statesboro, when I was going to Ga Southern. Oh yeah, I did a stint at Mickey D’s too. My fridge in the dorm stayed packed with apple pies, burgers, and those cookies. LOL!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Cocoa - Maybe you should lighten up. I got free lunch at school. The point is I can laugh about it. Maybe you should ask yourself why you can’t.

But you know what. I’ll always post as AmazonRed, so when you see the name, just ignore my post. There. Problem solved!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

P.S. Rell - Even though you’re right I feel compelled to tell you to shut up. LOL

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

LOL @Darrell. That’s how I remembered doing it back in the day and that’s what I did. Man paper catches fire quickly. I tried 3x to no avail. I was worried about blowing myself up, burining down my kitchen and burning my hands running to the sink with the lit paper!

Going out for frozen margaritas after work so I won’t try to light the pilot until the morning.

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

i just came from McDonald’s. why is their #1 so damn good! lol. omg. if another country wanted to take us out, all they would have to do is put something in their food. we’ll be wiped out in a matter of weeks. lol.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

Lunchtime Observations:

Strong Islands taste better at lunchtime.

Sistas and thick thighs - what a combination…

Darrell If Big Red wasn’t ridin’ your jock prior to the photo, play her like a jump-off. Pick up Playa Playa by Big Mike for tips.

Truth You ain’t one of them brothas that picked up the Canary dog after they killed that chick in Cali are you? And for my Pit lovers that actually want a good dog, check out the American Stafforshire Terrier… and make sure it’s AKC registered.

And SexyCool revist Rell’s first post on yesterday (or was that Wednesday?).

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

And to lighten the mood:

We were at some friends’ house a week ago and we were talking about the water drought and just chatting about ways to conserve water. So the man says “that’s why I pee in the shower when Raqi is not in there. Ain’t no need of flushing the toilet when the shower is already running.” I found that funny however disgusting.

What’s the big deal about getting free lunch? I wish my son got free lunch. Heck I pay enough taxes and tuition for him to be at least eating for free. I say bring on the free lunch for every child across the board.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Did you say your birthday was this month (February)? Just curious, because so is mine (2/26).

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 1, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

ARed thanks for the compliment, but I dont consider myself a superwoman per se. I am just a grown woman handling her business, being responsible. My ex is very active in Lil Mo’s life and so I dont have that burden to bear. Plus I have loads of family here, just in case I ever get into a real bind ya know?

Hey Page1908! How’s it going Chica!!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Truth - I’ll check the google picks. Im not sure homie but its probly a man law against guys sharing email info on a blog full of ladies.

Slim - Go head girl you nice wit dem hands huh? Yeah my fridge stayed on swoll in the dorm for while too. Thats cuz me and the fellas would break into the cafe @ night… buts thats a story for another time.

ARed - You know that you cant go round callin black folks Broke!!! We dont play that… Even tho they know they’re broke than a muthfuxa!!!! LOL Reminds me of Goodtimes when the lady who ate dogfood came over with a meatloaf and nobody would eat it... Like how the hell your dogfood eatin azz gon come over here with a dam meatloaf??? You could’ve grabbed some chicken!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - Good luck with that light. I would be scared too. Can you call the gas company and have them light it?

Blue_Kolla - What picture?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla “Sistas and thick thighs - what a combination….”

I’m like Morris Day used to say it, “Yayuhs!” LOL!

By Page1908

February 1, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo! Girl, I am ready to head to Phoenix tonight! I probably won’t sleep all weekend. All Star next year is gonna be off the chain, too! You are gonna love Phoenix!! Who else said they were down with going?

By Raqi

February 1, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

Once I fed my sons buttered rice for breakfast and dinner for two whole weeks.

I had a car that the gas gauge didn’t work and it took me running out of gas three times to figure out how long I could drive before I needed to go get more gas.

That same car didn’t have heat one winter and I would throw my sons’ sweaters in the dryer before leaving the house to keep them warm on the drive to my in-laws house.

One whole chicken wing can feed two kids ages 2 – 7.

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

February 1, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla, u seen me during lunch luv?

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

Big D nope, mine is 6/22. i’m a cancer. any other cancers out there?

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

blue…do you seriously think i’m about to go back and look up a post from another day? seriously?…

all this blog stuff is REALLY just entertainment…SERIOUSLY…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Raqi “One whole chicken wing can feed two kids ages 2 – 7.”

ROFL!!!!

By Rell

February 1, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Reminds me of Goodtimes when the lady who ate dogfood came over with a meatloaf and nobody would eat it… Like how the hell your dogfood eatin azz gon come over here with a dam meatloaf??? You could’ve grabbed some chicken!

one of my favs

along with any sweet daddy epsiode…..when jj was in the gang…with mad dog…..TC..episode..and who can forget EBAY….lol…..or lets not forget black jesus and michael….lol…s** all of them….

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Raqi/2 So the man says “that’s why I pee in the shower when Raqi is not in there. Ain’t no need of flushing the toilet when the shower is already running.” I found that funny however disgusting.

I remember, I think it was 2, saying this same thing a while back. LMAO

Rell Mayne, that reminds me of something I read about that Sag one time; went something like… “…not the one you wanna fugg with, you might end up crying.”

…reminds me of that Chuck Brown joint where he says, “I can be yo nice man, or I can be yo ice man. Please don’t choose the wrong man.”

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

ARed, yes for $65.

By SlimOne

February 1, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

900K I wonder if that’s where I leared the basics for my top notch hand jobs….oops I meant to say massages.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

Blue …Cee joining your financial upgrade committee…

900K we changed broke to “between blessing”…join us.

Mo Your family helps, you’re blessed! My relatives that owe money but dip out at the family funtions…shady… and you know they was suppose to be around to pay up? …count it all joy…

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

yep Beautiful, I am 6/28 and cancer chicks rock :)

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

Beautiful

Interesting. My birthday is 226 and yours is 622…Hmmmm….either you and I are meant to be together or I need to go buy a Cash 3 ticket. LOL!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Truth -Dam homie them dogs get up to 135lbs!!! Im looking at one kennel online that has pups going for $3000 ea! But the father is all muscle…man them dogs look like they can climb trees. Crazy; now you got me wanting to blow some cheese on a dam Persa. Gotta be careful tho I see one eat some lady up in SanFran. My homie got a few Mastif’s Neo & Italian and his boy is 200lbs! But he clumbsy as all hell.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

February 1, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli “900K we changed broke to “between blessing”…join us.”

Okay, now that’s worthy of the ‘Blog Hall of Fame’ right there (“between blessings”) ROFLLMAO!!!!!!

By Demi

February 1, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli hit me up over the weekend demigod33@yahoo.com

Raqi LOL those were the days huh?

By Rell

February 1, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

@raqi…now that is making it do what it do..dayum dryers in the sweater….thats real!!!

@blue…all the sags i have dated started out on some love/hate deal….it was a daily grind of dealing with the melodrama..the sex was off the chain…best thing is…once mad and you resolve it with them…they never bring it up in your face again…..ared i am still waiting to see what you look like….

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

And the moment that you will figure it out is when your knees are next to your ears, and sweat is hitting you in the face. That is hillarious!! I’ll keep that in mind so that it does not happen OMG too funny!

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Hell all of us “between blessings” need to play that number.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

6’1 Blue Kolla, u seen me during lunch luv?

Naah babygurl, didn’t see no (“any” for you English majors, not a swipe at you Tazzee (for the record)) 6-footas with thick thighs. Too bad ha?

SexyCool Nope, I sure don’t think that you’ll put in the legwork to find that jewel.

But may I just say that ol’ boy’s post wasn’t BS. He didn’t say that dudes actions were acceptable, but just a fact, and that BSV should be rational about her reactions to the situation. Personally, I don’t fugg around, but I did in the past and the pain that I caused was incredible. Most dudes that do fugg around have no idea of how bad it hurts a woman until they actually see it up close and personal.

By Beautiful

February 1, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

Wisey yea baby! lol. funny how we are nothing alike. i don’t see any similarities in our posts. do you?

Big D just remember where you got those #’s from when you win. lol. btw, i haven’t been to Red Lobster in awhile. lol.

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

900 He’s very flirtacious with women in general, but you guys could be right, he might be waiting for the right moment to pounce on these long sexy legs……. so how do I divert his might be intentions?

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

900 my guy is 135 and will run you down in no time flat. I’ve never seen anything like it. Ol boy is a stud, slim in the waist and pretty in the face. MY mami is 89 lbs at 7 months. She’s gonna be fire. Bk another one killed a chick in florida last year but it got less pib because she was black.

These dogs aren’t for everyone but if you konw how to get down with them their the best thing going. I’ve had mine for a five years now. I lost 2 last year, 1 to a bad hip and the other died while getting fixed. That chick was borderline unsafe. She bit so hard she bruised the guys in the suit. LOL She was the kind of dog that would kill someone, just not me.

900 its cool man, your not gay…..are you? Really, i want you to see my guy. Shoot me an adddie and i promise not to flirt with you.

WD before this day endsI wanted to say thanks to you and 2C for bringing peace to blogsville this week. Even I needed a break from all the fighting I see.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

@900..my nieghbor has a presa(Debo)…scariest dog i have ever seen..the dog sitting down comes to my chest and i am 6’2…..and it only 10months…one morning i woke up to see the boxer across the street charge him and my nieghbor..the presa in one motion grab the boxer by the neck and flip him in the air..the boxer is 9yrs old…and then the boxer got up and tried again..the presa snapped on that A ss and the boxer ran away….i was like dayummmmmmmmmmmm…this was christmas morning 07

By For Real

February 1, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

Raqi Who got the bone or did you use to make chickenless noodle soup?

Page stopping to help…..

Page: Hey are you guys okay?

Chick: No we ran out of gas.

Page: Awwww I’m sorry

Chick: Can you give me a ride to the gas station?

Page: STRANGER DANAGER! STRANGER DANGER!

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

It’s Friday, it’s Friday it’s the end of the week and the last day so blog family it;s on you. Whatcha gonna do? Hell, no need to answer. All weekend is gearing up for football.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

Cee …Cee joining your financial upgrade committee…

So is this committee’s main function to advise me? Because you seem to be on it, and I’m working on my penchant of impulse-buying. I’m doing a lot better since the 4th quarter of ‘07.

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

900K - You know that you cant go round callin black folks Broke!!! We dont play that. Clearly I just learned that lesson the hard way. LOL

SexyLeggs - $65 to start the pilot light. Dang! I guess it’s worth the risk of blowing off your eyebrows to save that cash!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

Sista Cee Cee - I will try to use that one… “Between Blessings” catchy!

Rell - yeah man I dam near know all those shows by heart. But lately I just watch to look at Thelma!! DAM she was fine Can you please tell me why she wasn’t made into a int’l superstar??? It makes me sick how they treated the Sista’s in hollywood and how they still do ‘em dirty today. Nia long would have a movie out every 3 months if I had sumtin to do with it.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

oh yeah 7/20 in the house. cancers so bad the named a disease after us. Wait a minute, is that good?

By Page1908

February 1, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Truth

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

Raqi - One chicken wing once had to feed me and all my line sisters. There were 15 of us at the time and I was the last one. And unfortunatly, those broads didn’t nibble on equal portions, so you know how much I got!

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

blue…if THAT JEWEL is so important that i see…you should post it for me…

oh wait…on second thought…rell and i talk off blog everyday…i’m sure that we have covered the point of whatever the post says in one of our many conversations…

but you could post it for me anyway…since it’s such a jewel…lol…

By For Real

February 1, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Have a good weekend Blog Fam. I am going to leave you with a song:

Ooops my bad Fam! See the correct song below.

here we go, Once upon a time not long ago, When people wore pajamas and lived life slow,

When laws were stern and justice stood, And people were behavin’ like they ought ta good,

There lived a lil’ boy who was misled, By anotha lil’ boy and this is what he said:

“me & you, ty, we gonna make sum cash, Robbin’ old folks and makin’ ah dash”,

They did the job, money came with ease, But one couldn’t stop, it’s like he had a disease,

He robbed another and another and a sista and her Brotha,

Tried to rob a man who was a d.t. undercover,

The cop grabbed his arm, he started acting erratic, He said “keep still, boy, no need for static”,

Punched him in his belly and he gave him a slap, But little did he know the lil’ boy was strapped,

The kid pulled out a gun, he said “why’d ya hit me ?”,

The barrel was set straight for the cop’s kidney,

The cop got scared, the kid, he starts to figure, “i’ll do years if i pull this trigga”,

So he cold dashed and ran around the block, Cop radioes it to another lady cop,

He ran by a tree, there he saw this sista, A shot for the head, he shot back but he missed her,

Looked around good and from expectations, So he decided he’d hit for the subway stations,

But she was coming and he made a left, He was runnin’ top speed till he was outta breath,

Knocked an old man down and swore he killed him, (Sorry!) Then he made his move to an abandoned building,

Ran up the stairs up to the top floor, Opened up the door there, guess who he saw?, Who?

Dave the dope fiend shootin’ dope, Who don’t know the meaning of water nor soap,

He said “i need bullets, hurry up, run!” The dope fiend brought back a spanking shotgun,

He went outside but there was cops all over, Then he dipped into a car, a stolen nova (?),

Raced up the block doing 83, Crashed into a tree near university,

Escaped alive though the car was battered, Rat-a-tat-tatted and all the cops scattered,

Ran out of bullets and still had static, Grabbed a pregnant lady and pulled out the automatic,

Pointed at her head and he said the gun was full o’ Lead, He told the cops “back off or honey here’s dead”,

Deep in his heart he knew he was wrong, So he let the lady go and he starts to run on,

Sirens sounded, he seemed astounded, Before long the lil’ boy got surrounded,

He dropped the gun, so went the glory, And this is the way i must end this story,

He was only seventeen What?, in a madman’s dream, The cops shot the kid, still hear him scream,

This ain’t funny so don’t ya dare laugh,

Just another case ‘bout the wrong path, Straight ‘n narrow or yo’ soul gets cast(?).

Good night.

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Darrell Lol…It’s true…not broke…just “between blessing”. When my ship rolls in everyone gets blessed…! I try…even when i’m being a miser.

Demi gottcha…

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

JustMe he might be waiting for the right moment to pounce on these long sexy legs……. so how do I divert his might be intentions?

This can’t be the real JustMe, asking these simple azz questions. But if it is you, first you need to get in your storage and get your old self out. Second, stop entertaining that ish. But it’s quite obvious that you love the attention and subconsciously have some fantasy of feeling that johnson up in that hot box of yours.

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

Cee …Cee joining your financial upgrade committee…

So is this committee’s main function to advise me? Because you seem to be on it, and I’m working on my penchant of impulse-buying. I’m doing a lot better since the 4th quarter of ‘07.

By The Truth

February 1, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

Rell does Debo have a white stripe down his face?

Like I said these dogs aren’t for everyoone. They do alot of damage real fast. The thing is they love “their” people and will die for you. The ladies love em because first they bring them massive atention from the guys but second its like she has a personal bodyguard with her. That dog isn’t going to let anything happen to his chick. LOL

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

the reason half of the world feels lonely is because the other half is pretending to be perfect…can’t remember where I saw that quote, but it really stuck with me.

By Rell

February 1, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

@900….yeah T H E L M A….she is the protype…lol

By Demi

February 1, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

JustMe try wearing a mini with leggings and timbs…that will kept him off you.

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

For Real bobbin my head to the beat Knock’em ut the Rick, Knock’em Out ^5 still bobbin my head

By Tazzee

February 1, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla I only mention those things I repeatedly see incorrect in resumes and interoffice memos. Can’t have my blogfam going out like that.

I know most stuff is typed that way on purpose. Like your ‘yoll’

By Rell

February 1, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

@truth he is brindle….i live in lithonia round the high school

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

900/Rell True that, you’ve got to know how to handle a dog; and most people don’t.

SexyCool You win slim. Go’ead on.

By QC

February 1, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

Hey BK you know you still my Baby Boo

Have a great weekend Bloggers..

GO PATRIOTS…I GOT 5 ON IT

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

Okay…wet blanket time again. So broke folks aren’t blessed? Why would you say “between blessing” when God has blessed you with so much, just not a whole lot of cash?

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Cee …Cee joining your financial upgrade committee…

So is this committee’s main function to advise me? Because you seem to be on it, and I’m working on my penchant of impulse-buying. I’m doing a lot better since the 4th quarter of ‘07.

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

BK So I guessit’s not possible to have a real platonic friend……. Y’all must be easy. JustMe ain’t that easy and no where near desperate enough to kick it with my sister’s Ex. I have play dominoes with 10 guys and been the only female there. It was all good for me, and once thy guys found out I wasn’t an easy lay, we got along swimingly…….. He was the dude that turned me on to the domino spot….. we have been likd sis/bro for dayum near 10 years. I think if her really wanted to hit it, he would have tried something by now. Otherwise, dude must know I got some bomb azz goodies and he’s willin to wait a lifetime to get them…….

Demi YRD!

By Cemeeli

February 1, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

Blue I’m most times a miser and believe impulse buying is only for those that have dock the ship. feel me?

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Hey QC I would’ve spoken earlier but you were like “Holla,” so I figured that you had one of those holographic smoking coffee cups on your desk… while gone for the day. LOL

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

ARed too funny about risk blowing off the eyebrows. I wasn’t born w/any eye brows so I don’t have to worry about that (ROFL).

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

oh so what are you tryna say Beautiful? LOL just kiddin..my personality probably differs a bit if you met me, in many ways, I have my guard up much more in person.

By SexyCool

February 1, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

sexycool steps up to claim the spoils of her victory and throws up the black power fist…

laughing…

By Blue_Kolla

February 1, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Cee It’s 4:50. Gotta get my chair-spin on. See ya.

JustMe Aight.

Blog Yoll bammas be safe this weekend.

By 2CPTG©

February 1, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Tazz….you know what’s so funny bout reading the blog slang, is that you can actually hear it…thus again, that human element…..cause Blue damn sho be havin me hollin’ ova here!!!

By AmazonRed

February 1, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - Too funny. Mine don’t grow past the arch. I have to draw them in.

By SexyLeggs

February 1, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone! Have a safe and restful weekend (if possible).

It’s the weekend, don’t forget to get your utensils on (spooning).

By JustMe

February 1, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Y’all ahve a great SB Weekend……. I got some great grid # for the game…… NE 7 and NY 1, NE 9 and NY 2, NE 6 NY 0 and NE 1 and NY 1……. I’m gonna win some SB duckets………. Yeah Baby!!!

Go Patriots……… I want to see History Made!!!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 1, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

BlueK oh yeah control over beast is the key. However I like boxers for the simple fact you dont have to worry about them gettin out of the back room and tryin to eat your company sittin on the couch while your upstairs. I’ve seen plenty of well trained dogs show aggression toward company. I would hate it if a dog ate my date while I was out of the room. dam I know that chic was jus sittin on the couch… Spike where you get that stilleto from?

scariest dog i have ever seen..the dog sitting down comes to my chest and i am 6’2 -HA!!! That 200lb mastif I mentioned earlier was playful man, put his paw in my chest and left a mud print that covered the whole front of my shirt!

Truth - 900k.n.up@gmail you got a boy and girl huh? Yeah holla went the litter drops!

Cee good luck tmrw!!!

BE EASY

By Wise Diva

February 1, 2008 5:04 PM | Link to this

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND

Don’t drink and drive!!