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Valentine’s day strategies

With only one weekend left before Valentine’s Day, you only have five more days to round up a date. That is, if you want one.

There are a couple routes to approaching the holiday of love if you’re single. (Well, three if you include ignoring Feb. 14th altogether).

The first is to grab your most available friend-loveinterest-acquaintance and plan to have a good time! Make plans at a fun restaurant, knock back a few beverages of your choice and be glad you don’t have to spend the holiday completely alone. And besides, who knows what could happen!

The second is to get out there and do some damage! Find the best singles environment possible and go market yourself. Everyone else there will be single, too, so don’t worry about being embarrassed. Make a promise to yourself to have the best time possible, even if you don’t meet anyone interesting.

Here are some options:

Good Catch

Valensteins party

Heartbeat bash

What’s your strategy for next Thursday? Go stag? Grab a date? Or ignore it altogether? What’s the most fun Valentine’s Day you’ve ever had as a single?

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By Rell

February 8, 2008 8:35 AM | Link to this

What’s the most fun Valentine’s Day you’ve ever had as a single?

my first threesome….year 1995!!!..viddy memorable..

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 8:40 AM | Link to this

sup Rell? y do i want to give you a spankin’? lol.

my plan is for 2009. will attend the biggest singles party in my area and do whateva!

who’s smarter than a 5th grader?

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 8:48 AM | Link to this

testing…

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 8:50 AM | Link to this

testing…

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 8:52 AM | Link to this

testing…

By Rell

February 8, 2008 8:52 AM | Link to this

@beautiful……i do the spanking around these parts….lol

btw, you join the biggest singles event daily — this blog….again, i am amazed that folks are not hooking up…specially with some being single come this stoopid arse day of valentine….feel me

By Alvin

February 8, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

What’s your strategy for next Thursday?

To be alive

Go stag?

Like you stag a deer??

Grab a date?

Pull some caveman Ish?!

Or ignore it altogether?

Well…I am thinking of buying myself a Wii or PS3 if there is a sale going on.

What’s the most fun Valentine’s Day you’ve ever had as a single?

Too personal to answer.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 8, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

Wassup Everyone

I don’t give V-day much attention. Anything I can do on V-day, I can do on any other day of the year. As far as I’m concerned, V-day this year is just the day before Friday. lol

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Most memorable Vday,

Working/Living in San Fran spending time with a one of the finest, most charming guy I ever had the pleasure of knowing. We had dinner on the pier at Scoma’s, then went thru Lombard street right before sunset enjoying the view, the conversation and the vibe..will never forget that day or him for that matter..sigh dayum life is good.. ;-))

By DasV

February 8, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

*DreamsMaterialize im with you… its the day before payday.

Alvin funny, right??! still chuckling at that. proves a very basic truth… men are simple creatures. and most aint ready for all this… ive said it before, i wl make you forget your first, demote your best and wish i was your last…. now imma have to add: but you aint ready for what that means! LOL

forREAL im lookin for you today for real :)pickin on me like that yesterday

ladyJ do you hit the refresh button before you get the network error msg (am i the only one that gets that) cause that might cause the triple-speak

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

ive said it before, i wl make you forget your first, demote your best and wish i was your last loving this comment.

By aggressively witty

February 8, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this

best singles v day was when i was truly single and didnt have a broad expecting anything. Frankly, if you are a dude and single valentine’s day is really just february 14th.

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

DasV, I press post once and leave the site and I did the samething yesterday @ home and it was one post posting…It makes me kind of leary bc @ work these last two weeks I get triple post but @ home it is one post…I don’t hit refresh but who knows…could be a sign to step away from the keyboard! LOL

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this

DasV, I press post once and leave the site and I did the samething yesterday @ home and it was one post posting…It makes me kind of leary bc @ work these last two weeks I get triple post but @ home it is one post…I don’t hit refresh but who knows…could be a sign to step away from the keyboard! LOL

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

Rell - Too bad you ignored me on Tuesday. You missed my news, which was an opportunity to see AmazonRed. Oh well!

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

DasV, I press post once and leave the site and I did the samething yesterday @ home and it was one post posting…It makes me kind of leary bc @ work these last two weeks I get triple post but @ home it is one post…I don’t hit refresh but who knows…could be a sign to step away from the keyboard! LOL

By DasV

February 8, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

ladyJ yep! it could be a sign. LOL

beautiful me too. :)

aggWIT same goes for us females. let ‘em run those jared commercials all they want… even when i was in something i appreciated more the ‘not cause you have to’ gifts, vs the ‘society says i hv to’ gifts.

By Rell

February 8, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

@ared…..more like your chance to finally meet me….again you know how to reach me.

By Rell

February 8, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

A MAN HAS ONLY ONE ESCAPE FROM HIS OLD SELF: TO SEE A DIFFERENT SELF IN THE MIRROR OF SOME WOMAN’S EYES.

— CLARE BOOTHE LUCE The Women

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this

Rell - You still don’t get it. I’m not trying to meet you. I was on TV on Wednesday, so I’d thought I’d at least give you the channel. Like I said, oh well!

By SexyLeggs

February 8, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

DasV, glad you laughed at ForReal’s commentary yesterday because that was funny.

Valentine’s Day, as most holidays, is so overrated and the price of roses is absolutely ridiculous. JMHO!

By Rell

February 8, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

@ared….TV, congrats..welcome to your fifteen minutes…and if you wanted me to see why not just post it or just email the time…btw, i dont want to meet you either…ya just a screen name babe…get ova yaself

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

DasV girlie, let’s not start with the commercials. i love/hate them so much. lol. ^5 getting a gift that is not on Vday and unexpected.

agg witty it would irritate me to shyt if i was a man and my SO expected the whole shabang on Vday. i would think, woulda bout me? where’s my ring, necklace, flowers, etc. that would be a big turnoff.

By abc

February 8, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

I’d say that for most men, Valentine’s Days are most memorable for how much they cost us, how effective the expenditure was, or both. I’ll have flowers delivered for $100 and dinner for 2 for about the same. She deserves the attention. If anyone has any really interesting alternative ideas appropriate for V-Day in a LTR, let’s hear them.

By Alvin

February 8, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

DasV Don’t you want Demi to fly you off that mountain before you fall? LOL

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

Lighten up dude. It wasn’t that serious. Email you? What for? I don’t have your email, even though you post it 6 trillion times. If you were on the board, I was gonna let you know, since you weren’t I didn’t.

Glad YOU’RE over me tho. Took long enough. :-)

By DasV

February 8, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this

RELL im feelin that quote… who am i’?? i am the escape from your old self. *but there AGAIN yall aint ready LOL

sexyLeggs yea i laughed.. out loud! i can always trust my blog bruthas to put things into perspective for me. i luv dem on friday roses will be half even a third of what they were and so you know my momma and ‘em gettin theirs.

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

In my experience showing the man you are in like/love with some extra special appreciation on V-day will remain in his memory bank for a a few days. Its nice to show a guy that you digging him on that day amongst others. Takes the edge off a lil bit ;-))

Commercials?? I dig em, shows me the specials and sales for stuff that I purchase for the women in my life and myself!

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

I usually take the time to remind those of where Valentine’s day originated..the St. Valentine’s Day Massacre! LOL I wear all black and say bah humbug!

Actually back in 2006, my mom came to visit me and we went out to dinner for V-Day. That was nice. But my dad kept calling me and saying I stole his Valentine (he was still in NY) and hanging up on me all night! (What a nut…this is the same man who mailed me a pair of big girl draws as a gag V-Day gift! I put them on and they came up to my hooters! They were shiny and white and had ther nerve to have lace on the side…WTF! Meanwhile Mami got roses delivered to the house. Ain’t that a b!tch???)

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 8, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

Morn V-day is a made up holiday; created by the MAN to keep us down!!! I dont have any memorable V-days… with or without anyone. Its just a day of hassle for me when I’m involved with a lady. The key for Men is if you’re single Jan-Feb 1st: STAY SINGLE. That way you dont have to put up w/ the B.S. I’ve actually broken up w/ a chick on V-day… man I was a jerk!

ARed - That was you on the Playboy channel wed? Dam girl, I aint know it was like That??!!!

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

What up Blog…

Personally I’m glad that V-Day is on a Thursday, and not Friday.

Agg/DasV B-Days, Christmas, & Mother’s Day are enough mandatory-gift days. Let me work the rest, because I want to.

By BINFORD2K8

February 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Thursday is good day to catch up on sleep.

Friday you can go out and find the lonely girls who are ticked at having to listen to their dating/married friends about what they got for V-day. They could be more receptive for conversation!

By Behind The Curtains

February 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Amazon Red, you’re a pompous bytch! You should be lucky anyone even pays attention to you! Get over yourself, already!

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

900k - Yeah man, I was showing off my new exotic dancing skills! Did you enjoy? LOL

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

abc good morning sweetie. i have an idea. instead of flowers that will die and a expensive dinner that we can have anytime of the year, why not clean the house, walk the dog, wash my car, clean and fold the clothes, clean the garage, clean the window seals (i dont know if i spelled seal right), wash the dishes, clean out the frig and oven, do a little yard work (leaves), play wii and playstation2 with the boys, and vacuum the stairs. i’ll get back witcha with Part 2. thanks babe! love ya.

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

900 you had a bytchassness moment? LOL Broke up with a chick on V-Day! You suck man! What do you look like so if I start to date again and I see you on the street, I know to run like a runaway slave! LOL

By The Truth

February 8, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

If your not doing enough throughout the year valentines day should be a big day. Your making up for things you didn’t do during the year. If your living the right way, meaning getting the most outta every day, you should take off all holidays to regroup.

If you have a mate that you really care for and you wait to v day to let them know it, your pathetic.

They have software programs that will send you a reminder to do things, if your one that tends to forget, that could be done to keep things alive and moving. Frequent outtings with spouse and/or your family is necessary. Theirs a whole world out there, go see it. And no I’m not talking about Lenox mall.

By DasV

February 8, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

Alvin come’on mayne, you know im still smartin from yesterday… cut me some slack. LOL iffin i wanna hang out on top a mountain, i should be able to in peace. LOL Demi can come wit a bottle of red spumante, a bouquet of flowers and a bowl of mini-snickers (godiva is for bedroom).

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Guys Roses are 8.99 at Fresh Market, they have a wide array of colors and frangrances, names, beautiful long stem..I purchase fresh floweres every other Friday for the house and the roses are for the Formal Dining..those roses are some of the most fragrant and long lasting, my last bunch of white? lasted a month! benn purchasing their flowers for a year now..Wonderful!!!

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Thanks Curtains! I am very lucky. Have a good one.

By BIG D

February 8, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

I don’t understand all the fuss on this one day. The concept is ridiculous. People should show and/or tell there loved ones how they feel everyday, not just once a year.

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ 900 ARed - That was you on the Playboy channel wed?

Staceye …this is the same man who mailed me a pair of big girl draws as a gag V-Day gift!

Your pops sounds like a wild azz dude. LOL

Rell Mayne, broads like that ain’t worth 2 dead flies. Let that ride.

By Rell

February 8, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

@ared..care to give a recap of what you did and where i can catch the re-broadcast or youtube channell…or are you going to continue the lame azz attempt of trying to talk down to me….listen ladie…one of things i LOVE to do is flirt….i dont take you seriously or wish to actually meet you…we would not get along…PERIOD..that i know….so when i come at you it is ONLY because i like to flirt…thats all when i logg off i am off….and why not email me and say hey i am doing this..not like i am going to keep emailing you….again get overself…ya dont know me..so to keep assuming that i am a loner heart or out for side poo see..then you are playing yourself..and since you have done some pre scouting about me via my myspace then you should know how i get down..one thing i dont deal with is SQUARE WOMEN

By Tazzee

February 8, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

morning folks!

This will be my first V-day in a relationship in over 10 years. As I look back over the years, we’d either broken up right before V-day or I got with someone right after.

I sent my sweetie some chocolate covered strawberries for V-day. I know he won’t be expecting those because I just sent him a ‘just because’ card this week and I’ll be visiting him next weekend.

I can’t think of a memorable V-day because I’m always working. February has been the busiest month for me since I started my career, last year we had a big blow-up at work on V-day. They refer to it as the V-day massacre around here, LOL. The year before V-day fell on my second day at the new job. I got two Happy V-day calls - and the next day, the fiance’ of one of those callers called me, LOL.

I have to say V-day 2003 was the most memorable. That was the day I found out this guy I’d been dating was married. We broke up around Christmas, he was trying to get back in and his wife called me on V-day. Yeah, that was memorable.

By DasV

February 8, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

staceyE check your premisehttps://americancatholic.org/Features/ValentinesDay/default.asp

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 8, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Morning All! Happy Friday!

I would love to have a Valentine for Valentine’s day but I wont be upset without one! It will be just another day for me this year but for all those that can and will celebrate I say ‘enjoy’!

Hey Lady J & DreamsMaterialize!!

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

TruthBaby co-sign your post.

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

* Behind* That was way over the top my gosh..WOW….

By mytwocents

February 8, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday & Happy Birthday to Me :) I’m usually still on a BDay high so VDay is a minor annoyance as it’s a reminder that I must let it go till next year.

Das I’ma use this, mama, wl make you forget your first, demote your best and wish i was your last…. but I promise to credit the author!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 8, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

ARed -Yeah, you got me open Ma! I just gotta say tho, the Whole banana?!!? Dam girl you got talent!

Staceye - What do you look like so if I start to date again and I see you on the street, I know to run like a runaway slave! - I look like what your man should be baygirl… now come to me and greet me with open arms and take off them granny panties! like I said I was a jerk, never would I do that to a lady again. young and dumb…

Guys Roses are 8.99 at Fresh Market yeah but by Feb 13-14 they jump to $20.

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo!!! Happy Friday!:)

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

I’m a daily lurker and from reading can see there are some pretty skilled well rounded men that post here. So, I have a question for the men (women you can answer to but I’m wanting to know from a man’s perspective). If someone broke it off with you and was over the top harsh and cut all ties. If she came back to say, I’m not renigging (sp) on cutting ties but I apologize and don’t want it to end on a bad note. Is that a chump move? I’m asking because one friend said no and the other was like hey, so it ended on a bad note, so be it.

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this

Jazzy i agree, that was harsh.

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo!!! Happy Friday!:)

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

Um Rell, what the heck are you talking about? Where did I ever say you are a loner at heart or looking for side poo see? Huh? You lost me there kiddo. You are so easily insulted at things that are not insulting, it’s a little embarrassing. Do you bro. But lighten up, for realz.

So bottom line, I’ll never have to hear from you that you want to see what I look like? Works for me! :-)

Oh and if what you’ve done on here is flirting, it needs a little work.

By SexyCool

February 8, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

coach and i are not big on VDay…we celebrate the love all year long…just tuesday night when i got home…he had drawn a candlelit bath for me…and last week, he bought me a new pair of cleats for the upcoming softball season, just because…yes, cleats are romantic - lol

on VDay…we’ll probably just hang out all day together…maybe catch a movie..but really nothing any different than what we’d do any other other thursday…it is on thursday, isn’t it?

oh…wait…last week, i was in target and i bought him a card…now i just gotta find where i put it…

By DasV

February 8, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

.02 not sure i can take full credit… i put that together based on something i read. but thanks

LOL@ nine huuuuuundred takin that TV pole dance by ARED aaaallll the way.

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

I’m a daily lurker and from reading can see there are some pretty skilled well rounded men that post here. So, I have a question for the men (women you can answer to but I’m wanting to know from a man’s perspective). If someone broke it off with you and was over the top harsh and cut all ties. If she came back to say, I’m not renigging (sp) on cutting ties but I apologize and don’t want it to end on a bad note. Is that a chump move? I’m asking because one friend said no and the other was like hey, so it ended on a bad note, so be it.

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo!!! Happy Friday!:)

By SlimOne

February 8, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

One Valentine’s A past SO, rented a helium tank, blew up lawd knows how many red balloons the covered the whole ceiling. He also, had a whole bunch of those small tea candles lit up everywhere…some of those silk rose petals all over the floor…the table was setup for dinner, two candles a card in the middle of the table…he even put some Valentines day confetti on the table too. (little hearts, cupids, shyt like that on it) And played some old R & B music. We sat down to eat a dinner he prepared and had some drinks. If memory serves me correctly, I attempted a seductive strip tease. lol

fwd to later on that night Slim singing Jamie Fox “I had one Too Many Drinks” lol

It was the greatest V-Day to date. Dang that was a while ago

By SexyLeggs

February 8, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

ARed, you got mail.

By pisces08

February 8, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

Morning All. No special V-Day plans.

Off topic: I need to take a Yoga class, any suggestions?

By Cemeeli

February 8, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

Good and Beautiful Day Everyone!

Mo & Dreams ….hey…you can go aheas and start now…LOL…i’m good, got me a spritzer and some chips today.

*imma get a seat before sister Page get in here. *

900K what’s up?…hey, we have 2 games tomorrow.

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 8, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

If someone broke it off with you and was over the top harsh and cut all ties. If she came back to say, I’m not renigging (sp) on cutting ties but I apologize and don’t want it to end on a bad note. Is that a chump move? -I say yes. Ok it has to end however being harsh is not neccessary so thats why I say yes. Even in my young and dumb days I never had a Bad breakup, I just leave… get ghost. But all that: you aint ish, yo mamma; I am tired of being wit yo Stankin azz! -is completely uneccassary and makes you look like a chump.

Oh and if what you’ve done on here is flirting, it needs a little work. - OOuchH! Do you work at being mean ARed, or is it just natural. Im a glutton for punishment cause I kind of like your style.

By aggressively witty

February 8, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

tazzee got a dude? now i see why we aint hook up during the holiday season. She was too busy hooking up during the holiday season!

hahahha, congrats young taz, glad to hear yourself a decent dude.

mayhaps we can get a decent taboo game going now.

By Rell

February 8, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

@ared..we are done here….i am not insulted at all, but you try and get in your slick azz comments then backpedal….but we are done…

By Jay

February 8, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

Just in case someone needs this. Kum-Ba-Ya Kum-ba-ya my Lord, Kum-ba-ya. Kum-ba-ya my Lord, Kum-ba-ya Kum-ba-ya my Lord, Kum-ba-ya. In the words of Rodney King. Can we just get along?

By BINFORD2K8

February 8, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

ARed and Rell the best couple that never was :(

By SexyLeggs

February 8, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

I’m with you Mo (10:22)!

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

900k - I guess it’s natural. I mean, I don’t know why simple ish has to get so escalated with certain folks on here. I guess I have to remind myself that some people are sensitive. My bad.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 8, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Topic Change We (guys) have made it pretty clear early on that v-day doesn’t have any real meaning to us. So, not sure how much more there is to say about this topic. lol What’s everyone getting into this weekend? Be sure to live it up so we can have good stories for ARed’s MMR (Monday Morning Recap).

Mo wassup. too early for that drink? lol

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

900 Avtually they don’t jump in price they are the ones that are that price on the regular but the array of colors aren’t as great and not as fragrant…well this was last year and I just came from there yesterday and the clerk advised me no the prices would be the same….

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Rell - Like I said, works for me. Have a good weekend.

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

Cuttin’ Ties If you played me off like the flu and then came running back with that “Oh I’m so sorry” line, I’d laugh and tell you don’t even sweat it ‘cause I’m already off to the next. Forgive yourself because I have, and already knew that you’d be back. But believe it, your light, in my eyes, would never be as bright as it once was.

By Jay

February 8, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

LadyJ Beautiful Good morning how are you doing?

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

@ 900K

Thanks

By Cemeeli

February 8, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Mo are you going in the stock room already!?! you might have too…

…imma just sing along with Jay today.

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

@ 900K

Thanks

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

@ 900K

Thanks

By Rell

February 8, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

@ared….and my flirting is fine love….alot of non verbal stuff gets lost over this medium….i am still waiting on your recap of what you did….

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Hello to ya Jay!:)

By demi

February 8, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

DasV Godiva should be banned from the bedroom…

How about me and this one cutie decided to pour melted godiva chocolate on each other on a boring winter day a few years back.

Now imagine the clean up!!!

Mayne, pwussy never tasted so good

BUT THE CLEAN UP!!!

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

Blue that he is! He has gag gifted me so many times. He nick named me Troll when I died my hair really red and pierced my navel. He actually have told guys on the first time meeting them, Its nice to meet you dude, but I know I’ll never see you again! UGH!

DasV I like my massacre story better! LOL

900 I will wear the granny panties with that jersey and stillettos for ya! LOL

What would “the men” do leave it be…you cant’t take the words or the actions back. So just go on with life!

Binford are you calling them the modern Ike and Tina? LOL

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Jay all is well with me!

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Hello to ya Jay!:)

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

@BK Thanks.

Are you for real? Would the light be less bright if you knew the insults hurled was mean but justified?

By melo

February 8, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

OBSERVATIONS

this is the same man who mailed me a pair of big girl draws as a gag V-Day gift red flag,what a dad!!! Rell Mayne, broads like that ain’t worth 2 dead flies. Let that ride WOW smh! This will be my first V-day in a relationship in over 10 years good luck sis! but I apologize and don’t want it to end on a bad note she is a lady,accept and move on.

Ared c’mon, do sme little flirting with yo boy.Mature wmen can alwyz tech a bro 1 or 2 tings wthout scking them too deep..it wl wrk his cofdence going frward. On topic, havnt figred out yet what to do 4 sweetie.Thing is my birthdy is 3 days later,so im watching the budget too,coz thats 2 big events in 1 mtnh.Got kep it real all the time.

By kinderbabe

February 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

pisces08 try atlanta hot yoga on peachtree in the plaza where houston’s is. they have great hot yoga classes. the website for atlanta hot yoga is www.getreadytosweat.com. it is an excellent experience. the room is about 104 degrees. it’s hot!

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Jay all is well with me!

By 900K aka Mr 2008

February 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

CEE -What it is? 2 games huh? Good luck on both, make sure he gets his flinstone vitamins today and in the morn with a big breakfast. We have off this week (needed the break last week!) so I’ll enjoy the day off.

What up DasV! dont worry girl she aint got it like you in them leather boots & blue steal!

ARed what were you on TV for? Did you say anything?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I dont knock those that can celebrate and I dont knock those that chose not to or cant. To each his/her own

DreamsMaterialize On a friday, there is no such thing as too early for a drink!! LOL

Cemeeli You are too funny!! Glad DreamsMaterialize & myself could provide some entertainment for you! :0)

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Hello to ya Jay!:)

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Demi, next time you have to use the Honey Pour cover up on the ara you flip floppin on….LOL…don’t ask me how I know….

By abc

February 8, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Beautiful, those are all great ideas, but the sort of things that I do all the time. Frankly, I’d just hire a maid anyway, if she’d allow it. No, V-Day needs something special — it’s not about bringing home flowers, I do that all the time. It’s about having an enormous bouquet delivered, getting dressed and going to a special place for dinner, something that makes it be a special occasion, rather than doing something because the day seems to demand it.

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Rell - If you like it, I love it. Do what works for you, bro. And good luck with it.

We’re done right? So no recap needed. Moment’s past and we’re moving on.

By Cemeeli

February 8, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Dreams other than a couple basketball games…i’ll be at the crib mostly this weekend. You should send Mo a Valentine. Ye, i said it and wont take it back.

Blue/DasV/LadyJ hey now!

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Willie D if you are lurking or anyone who knows the answer….What is the date of the last episode of The Wire…I tried searching it and came up with nothing…I am going to invest in the entire set but need to know the date so I can shut down HBO…LOL

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Jay all is well with me!

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I think I may have a drink and watch the cat fight or is it c** fight?….LMAO

By SexyLeggs

February 8, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

DEMI, TMI (lol).

By DasV

February 8, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

melo its obvious you do a lot of texting! LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

February 8, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

ARed looks like Curtains has been wanting to get that off his chest for a while…strange thing is that he stayed behind the curtains when he said it. lol

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

Willie D if you are lurking or anyone who knows the answer….What is the date of the last episode of The Wire…I tried searching it and came up with nothing…I am going to invest in the entire set but need to know the date so I can shut down HBO…LOL

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

What would just leave it alone. my .02. going back to a person, after you said horrible things to them with a little touch of kiss my azz mixed in, and apologizing yes you look like a chump.

Jay hi hun! what’s your plans for Vday?

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:05 AM | Link to this

Willie D if you are lurking or anyone who knows the answer….What is the date of the last episode of The Wire…I tried searching it and came up with nothing…I am going to invest in the entire set but need to know the date so I can shut down HBO…LOL

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

Thankyou thankyou thankyou. I know I’m making the right decision.

By The Truth

February 8, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this

DAs I’m cutting the back pockets outta my fav blue jeans so you can see the a* shot while I clean your house. For real, thats some fun stuff. Knock out a chicks garage or help her with something she may not be able to or want to do. Clean out her car real good or something of that nature. Smooches.

What would you do you already know the answer. No self respecting person would go back. If you didn’t think enough of me to at least part on good terms than “dam your soul to hell”. LOL

Binford I’m liking the new you dude.

Its official, the nuptials between Rell and Red are cancelled. Red at least tell blogsville how you wound up on tv.

By w

February 8, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Morning All,

V-Day is overrated. I usually plan something low-key for the wifey so we can spend some QT together (hard to do sometimes during the week). Last few years we’ve been kinda ballin (trips outta town, etc). She knows not to expect that this year, no big deal.

Best v-day ever was when I was 22. Single went to just hang out getting out the house. Happy to be single and not in the V-day madness. I ended up chatting up a dime that was a lil lonely and depressed. I felt good for myself because I didn’t take advantage of her even though it was laid out for me.

Days like that gotta help me get through the gate when its all said and done.lol!!

Rell I see ya playa, keep it movin mayne.

LJ don’t have the date for you but if I find out I’ll let you know.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 8, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I am officially off vaseline duty! It calmed down for a moment but I guess with the change in weather, valentine’s day on the horizon and the fact that its friday, folks decided it was too calm. I am chillin this time. I will be off in the cut watching…..and drinking…..

By melo

February 8, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

He actually have told guys on the first time meeting them,Its nice to meet you dude,but I know I’ll never see you again! UGH! now this aint good!Hw does ur daddy knw that ur pudsy sucks that bad?

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

abc from what i’m getting from your post, you enjoy dining out also. that’s good because i wouldn’t want you to think that we’re dining out just for me. and hiring a maid is excellent!!! add a babysitter to your to-do list while you’re at it. what i’m sayin’ is, i want you to want to do it for me (flowers, dinner, maid, etc.). if you’re ever feeling like it’s a chore and i know you’re feeling this, i won’t enjoy the gift.

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Cuttin’ Ties Would the light be less bright if you knew the insults hurled was mean but justified?

Justified? Now that changes things a little bit, but still took you out of the smooth zone. Now you’re feeling guilty. Go’ead apologize, state your position, and get ghost. When you cut somebody off like ice-water because of something they know they did, they get the pic. Believe that.

But what’s really gon’ go down is you’re going to call dude up and apologize for cursing him out for bonin’ ya best friend. He’s gon’ pick up on your guilty conscious, flip it, and you’re gon’ end up gettin’ him that 50” flat screen (that he’s been wanting) for Valentine’s Day. LOL

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

melo - Why flirt with someone who you aren’t feeling in that manner? No need to cause confusion. Clearly there is enough of that on here as is.

900k - I was courtside at the Syracuse vs. UConn game Wednesday. The game was on ESPN during it’s rivalry week broadcast.

Dreams - Folks like Curtains tickle me! They tell you to get over yourself yet have been paying SO MUCH attention to what you’ve been doing or saying on the board. Can you say “irony?” LOL

I won’t have much to contribute for my Monday recap, I have the flu and will not be able to run the streets this weekend like I want to. I had to cancel plans last night too. Boo!

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

LadyJ I got it already….LOL Sexyleggs How have you been? Have you been back on the dance floor?

By pisces08

February 8, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

@kinderbabe. Thanks. Hope this is for beginners, bro’ is a little slow. I just want to work an old injury.

By Cemeeli

February 8, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

Jay let’s just keep a good look out so we wont miss a thing! & pass me some of those Hot Tamales…LOL!

Mo you two are cute. I just like the banter…and i can’t wait to see what Dreams has for you next. Told you imma live through you vicariously.

By abc

February 8, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

Well yeah but… what to do outside the ordinary floral delivery and fancy restaurant, that’s what I’m wondering. I don’t mind those things, it just seems a little automatic after awhile. Shoot, the girl tells me to stop giving her presents and stuff; I just need some new ideas, I guess.

By What would "the men" do...or think for this matter

February 8, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

@Truth

Like I stated, I asked because I got two different answers from two good friends. I needed a third person/wheel to be certain, so I asked. If I concretely knew, then I wouldn’t have asked. So, to your point, NO I DIDN’T KNOW THE ANSWER! Why are you a chump about everything. Off your meds today? Gheesh!

By DasV

February 8, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

theTRUTH that was bootiful that posted the clean the house gifts… but im game! you know i love me some prince and thats right up his alley.. LOL but trust. you wont be cleaning the ‘house’… the pipes dem need some attention tho. feel meh

man of 9 dont be ackkin like you know… some say im cute, most say im sexy, only the select know for sure what it is (i swear i can keep this up ….im havin me a rell moment and flirtin aaalll day)LOLROTF

By SexyLeggs

February 8, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Melo, why you had to go there. You know that’s not right! You know dang well, he was talking about her personality. See you got jokes this morning.

By melo

February 8, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

melo its obvious you do a lot of texting! LOL Das, is that a good thing..i can teach u 1 or 2 tings,if dnt mind…hw old are u?

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Dreams looks like Curtains has been wanting to get that off his chest for a while…

I thought she was a chick myself.

LMAO @ melo now this aint good!Hw does ur daddy knw that ur pudsy sucks that bad?

Dude I almost fell out of my chair on that one.

abc So are you officially wearing the ring?

Cee What’s up ;)

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Melo that is where you are wrong…he said that because he knows I dated a guy and then as soon as he p** me off I’d kick him to he curb! I did not give a guy a chance to p** me off more than once! LOL DON’T get it twisted…the puddy is on point! As I have always been told! LOL

By Cemeeli

February 8, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

Mo Don’t you dare dip and leave Dreams standing here with these flowers!

By kinderbabe

February 8, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

pisces08 the last time i went, there were various levels from beginners to very advanced in the class. just work at your own pace and you’ll be fine. the instructors are helpful. also, check out the website to see if there is an “official” beginners class. i haven’t been since last summer so the format could’ve changed.

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

ain’t nothing wrong with flirting! Staceye see what you started. lol. you know you my hero when it comes to battin’ the eyes and not letting them get close to the cookies.

By melo

February 8, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

SexxyL,my bad..Staceye is a hrd knock nyker,she knw i do sexl jokes….i got dertey mind.Luv u Stac!

By SlimOne

February 8, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

abc I bet you and the misses haven’t purified..oops I meant rekindled your love in the Lake of Menatunka. Have you tried to come up with a scavenger hunt that will have her running around for the next clue which then will lead her to you laying bucket nekked in the back yard with a mitten on your wang & a carnation in your mouth. (yes it’s a run-on lol)

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli We will do a play by play. Ared is fiesty. The tamales are gone. Have some texas margarita?

By abc

February 8, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

Truth, nope.

By QC

February 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

My strategy for next thursday is when the good Lord wakes me up, i’m coming to work…do my 7 hours, take my 1 hour lunch & go home

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

*Awwww thanks Beautiful! * LOL

Sexyleggs I know Melo’s mind is always in the gutter! I do not pay him any attention! LOL

By QC

February 8, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

This is LEAP YEAR

I’m getting all the Men in my department something for V-Day

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Thanks W…Ok Jay! lol Hey CeeCee, is it a pot luck Firday today??? LOL

By DasV

February 8, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

wassup CEEcee??

melo is that a good thing?? i dont know, you tell me. if you like it, i love it! im 35. why that question???

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

Thanks W…Ok Jay! lol Hey CeeCee, is it a pot luck Firday today??? LOL

By New to Cobb County

February 8, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Question, When registering your car in Cobb county or anywhere, do they check for outstanding warrants?

By abc

February 8, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Uuuuh, BK, that is, oops.

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Thanks W…Ok Jay! lol Hey CeeCee, is it a pot luck Firday today??? LOL

By melo

February 8, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

I just need some new ideas,I guess. im with u on this coz i have the same dilemna.i been with my heifer 13 yrs..we hve gone to resorts f* non stop 4 3 dys,send flowers, have had expensive dinners and walks after that,done the beach thing..and cried togter too after arguing and made up .Keeping it fresh is alwyz a chllenge.Thats why i need the novelty of sme new,juicy,brown plum azz smtimes(joke NOT hehehe)Hit me.

By Rell

February 8, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

@W, i am moving mayne….lol…

@DasV…sup, lady dont have to many rell moments…ya might get someone panties tight…lol…this is my mood right now….i am ready to party

Ya see me I eat sleep s** and talk rap Ya seen that 98 mercedes on t.v. I bought that I had some felony charges I fought that Been sent to no return but still was bought back N**** threw some slangs at me woodie I caught that I punished them lil b*** before they can car jack Now I’m lookin for they family and pile up the war bat If I aint a hotboy then what do you call that N**** disrespect me I’ma be in all black Companied by some n**** bout killin’ and all that Me Cory and mercy gettin’ dunked on Ride top down so we let the trucks pause In the jepp ridin’ four deep I booted up at these n**** claimin’ they know me

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

QC, I am with you hun!:) Nothing more or less!

By SexyLeggs

February 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Jay, haven’t danced since Bell Bottoms but will put a show on for myself from time to time (just to keep the dance numbers I learned fresh) (LOL).

By DreamsMaterialize

February 8, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

ARed Watching you from “Behing the Curtains”…sounds like some Blalking (Blog Stalking) going on. Blue_Kolla thought it was a chick, and I thought it was a dude. So, Curtains is either asexual or androgynous, either way not good. lol

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

QC, I am with you hun!:) Nothing more or less!

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

abc why not go and get a cabin in Elijay or the mountains, stop at the store and get all the fixings for a romantic getaway and enjoy Gods natural gifts and the Jacuzzi??..or go to the Museum, or to the Symphony, or to a play or something of that sort…or go down to CaroWinds in the Carolinas??

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

QC, I am with you hun!:) Nothing more or less!

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Beautiful No plans for V-Day. I treat myself often. That wont change. I am open to change. With that said I am available for you to take me to dinner. This is leap year, which means women should treat the men. LadyJ I am on my way to pick up that computer and take it to the dump myself. WHEW!!!!

By AmazonRed

February 8, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

melo you are a nut for saying you’ve been with your heifer for 13 years. LMAO!!!

By melo

February 8, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

I did not give a guy a chance to p me off more than once** smh why that question??? i hve a database of ur ages,so im updating it for my profiling and natural selection process in the event….u knw.Lets just say u at the right,ripe age!(as i suck this lolipop)

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Staceye the puddy is on point! As I have always been told! LOL

LOL You stoopid… but for real doh… do you think a dude would really tell you if he thought it was bad… or “not good”? ‘Cause ain’t but about 3% of all pudusys that are actually “bad”.

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

LOL Jay! It is not me seriously…I tested it yesterday when I was home…lol…sorry but it is Friday and I can’t stay away from the keyboard!:) Bear with me til 3!

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

LadyJ your bouble and tripple posts are sigh…you have to be hitting the refresh or send more than once seriously…

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

LOL Jay! It is not me seriously…I tested it yesterday when I was home…lol…sorry but it is Friday and I can’t stay away from the keyboard!:) Bear with me til 3!

By Lady J

February 8, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

LOL Jay! It is not me seriously…I tested it yesterday when I was home…lol…sorry but it is Friday and I can’t stay away from the keyboard!:) Bear with me til 3!

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Keep them fresh….LOL I want to go dancing this weekend. I’m thinking about going to BellBottoms on Saturday. WHen it came to mind. I thought about you. I can use some dance lessons.

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Keep them fresh….LOL I want to go dancing this weekend. I’m thinking about going to BellBottoms on Saturday. WHen it came to mind. I thought about you. I can use some dance lessons.

By Jay

February 8, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Keep them fresh….LOL I want to go dancing this weekend. I’m thinking about going to BellBottoms on Saturday. WHen it came to mind. I thought about you. I can use some dance lessons.

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

Melo you are a perv! LOL

Blue like crack… they keep coming back after the first hit!!!! Now they can’t even imagine what it looks like! LOL

By melo

February 8, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

When registering your car in Cobb county or anywhere, do they check for outstanding warrants? DUDE,coz u must be…this aint called Assisted Criminology for a reason.Just man up and pay ur warrants coz we dont want u on the road if u have to be constantly checking left and right 4 the cops.U put fellow drivers in danger cause ur concetration is hype!

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

Cobb Question, When registering your car in Cobb county or anywhere, do they check for outstanding warrants?

Probably not, but this is the A. You betta take care of that, especially in Cobb. They’re probably the only county in the metro doing roadblocks at lunchtime.

Matter of fact, you might want to get off of this blog. Somebody in AJC is probably running IP address right now.

By SlimOne

February 8, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

abc Take her to Medievel Knights for dinner and entertainment. Matter of fact when they ask for a volunteer to joust, throw her behind out on the field. LOL Just kidding.

But seriously, I think they have a special program for V-Day. I’m not sure what that consist of so check it out if you’re interested. OR you can try Agatha’s Mystery Dinner Theater….have you already explored these?

By melo

February 8, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Ared hear u,but i aint putting her dwn by saying that..no. she top notch….hme wise,physic and all.I luv her.Just that vday looks/sounds stale and i just need sme real fresh.

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Jay Bellbottoms is closed hon

By DasV

February 8, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

melo you amuse me. LOL and you wrong for that ‘dis aint assisted criminology’…. you stoopid. and i think that ‘blalking’ statement fits for you… did you say you hv a database of our stats… stop that!!

must be anyone with the letter ‘J’ in their moniker that blog-stutters…. LOL

By demi

February 8, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

Jazzyone I will remember that the next time in am in a mood for messy loving.

abc Try doing something foolish or childish…like:

*Have a messy cake eating contess.

*Play a Wii game semi-drank.

*Steal a little girl bike with training wheels and take turns riding.

*Go to a hood Mickey D’s and get all educated on them for laugh.

*Go to a shooting range and let her play with different size guns.

*F/K-it, throw a little get together with other couples and be like:

You must have sex with someone who is not your SO, before leaving!!

abc is beating the s-h-i-t-outta-d-e-m-i

By Blue_Kolla

February 8, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

Staceye like crack… they keep coming back after the first hit!!!! Now they can’t even imagine what it looks like! LOL

You got them monkey hands ha?

QC Yoll gettin’ 59 minutest today? ;)

By Jazzyone

February 8, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

And Agathas moved as well..

By New to Cobb County

February 8, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Thank you but i’m not the one, it’s my coworker who wanted to know. She’s going to pick up a new car out of state and has an existing warrant is LA.

By Jay

February 8, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Jazzy, I had no idea. See I dont get out much. Where is a good place to go dancing?

By QC

February 8, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Hey BK

Demi, you aight today?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 8, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Flowers?!?! I got flowers! How sweet! LOL

You are a mess chica!!! :0)

By Beautiful

February 8, 2008 12:14 PM | Link to this

hey 900, glad you stopped by honey. :)

i just bought myself the orange enV for Vday. it has pacman on it! it’s really nice, and yes i know it’s outdated. didn’t want to spend $300 on the voyager. like it just the same.

By Staceye

February 8, 2008 12:14 PM | Link to this

Blue LMAO..leave me alone!

Demi you are a perv too! You and Melo get a time out! LOL

By mytwocents

February 8, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

Melo *been with my heifer 13 yrs..we hve gone to resorts fcked non stop * (w/ heavy sigh & googly eyes) ur so romantic hahahaaaa

Multis- The Request Timed Out, Please Wait, Error Wrong Page msgs = Comments Posted for me. Just hit back button to see refreshed page…

By SlimOne

February 8, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

  • Dress up like a pimp & ho, go out to eat at a fancy dancy place

  • Go to Wal-Mart and have a buggy race down the isles

  • Go to Toys R’ Us, & shop around with some inline skates on until u get thrown out

  • Get a whole bunch of different foods and have dinner on her..Literally eat it off of her.(be sure foods have cooled off before placing them on her)

  • Buy some Play-doh and reenact the scene from Ghost where they make pottery

  • Get drunk & play Glow-n-the-dark pickup sticks

  • pull out all the sheets in the house and make tents like you use to when you were kids

  • Go roller skating (blind fold)

  • By melo

    February 8, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

    melo you amuse me. LOL Das,database is not in access or any such,just mental..to knw who i can talk on same level and who is 25 below and juvenile.When i cme with convo,i got cme correct knwing who i speak with on mature terms. So,u gnna cme correct with yo boy frm yesrday or u keep it mving? ( i really hate tlking to u in public like this…i knw *demi is laughing)

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

    melo - I never said you were putting her down. Where do folks come up with these conclusions you jump to? Sheesh.

    I laughed and called you a nut because it was FUNNY. All my close friends are heifers too.

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

    Ared we good sweetie!

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

    Ared we good sweetie!

    (w/ heavy sigh & googly eyes) ur so romantic hahahaaaa whats ur own expreince my2cents Is the man shorting u or he aint thr yet? I feel like ladies are getting ther dues frm man,period.

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

    Ared we good sweetie!

    (w/ heavy sigh & googly eyes) ur so romantic hahahaaaa whats ur own expreince my2cents Is the man shorting u or he aint thr yet? I feel like ladies arent getting ther dues frm man,period.

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this

    (w/ heavy sigh & googly eyes) ur so romantic hahahaaaa whats ur own expreince my2cents Is the man shorting u or he aint thr yet? I feel like ladies arent getting ther dues frm man,period.

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this

    Slim Get drunk & play Glow-n-the-dark pickup sticks

    …lookin’ at’chu sideways while tellin’ errybody else: Don’t do this unless you can afford to pay your own CSI detective to say that it was an accident …especially if you have some fat azz life insurance. See Slim?! You tryin’ to get somebody in trouble for real.

    By demi

    February 8, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

    QC I am doing very well, thanks for asking.

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

    melo - Say it don’t spray it! LOL

    That goes for you too Lady J and Jay with all your triple posting. Egads!

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

    abc i don’t have any good Vday ideas for you. the only one that comes to mind is driving out to florida. stay at a beach hotel with a nice view. i’ve been to clearwater. whatever you do, i know she’ll love.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

    Jazzyone…Seriously I am not…With me blogging yesterday it did not occur not one time on my personal home computer..Sorry that my post are trippiling but I know how to post and not hitting refresh at all or post three times…Don’t know what the issue is…If on yesterday it would have occured @ home I would have took the blame that I am doing something wrong…J

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

    Jazzyone…Seriously I am not…With me blogging yesterday it did not occur not one time on my personal home computer..Sorry that my post are trippiling but I know how to post and not hitting refresh at all or post three times…Don’t know what the issue is…If on yesterday it would have occured @ home I would have took the blame that I am doing something wrong…J

    By The Truth

    February 8, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

    ABC try Reynolds Plantation 20 going east about an hour. Rent a pontoon and stay out there all day or head to savannah/hilton head and charter a boat for some sea going fun.

    By demi

    February 8, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

    Melo LOL, dude you have me rollin over here.

    Ms.Eye I am just a baby in all of this, I am innocent!!..Demi is now sporting a fake halo

    Slim yep, we’ll need special SO to roll with us for 30 + years…

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

    Jazzyone…Seriously I am not…With me blogging yesterday it did not occur not one time on my personal home computer..Sorry that my post are trippiling but I know how to post and not hitting refresh at all or post three times…Don’t know what the issue is…If on yesterday it would have occured @ home I would have took the blame that I am doing something wrong…J

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

    Mo okay yea…you might be not ready for what Dreams really got for you…i don’t know why dude is taking so long.

    QC giving a lil sumthin to the men in the office. Gon’ chica. You’re so nice!

    demi i like those (except 1 or 2) ideas…spontaneous impromptus alot like i would break out. LOL @ gettin educated @ McDonalds.

    DasV …i’m tryin to tell Tom to stop complaining so much on a Friday and we can fix his problem on MOnday morning. LOL…

    By SlimOne

    February 8, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

  • Throw some baby oil on a Twister mat and play bukked nekked

  • Dress up in complete combat gear then go play laser tag.

  • Cook dinner together nekked

  • Invite some folks over to watch you and your lover do the nasty

  • Drunk Strip Uno never fails

  • By Jay

    February 8, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

    ARed It’s all LadyJ Fault. You would think her spray can was empty by now. LJ you know I have nothing but luv for ya.

    By mqew

    February 8, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

    Whassup people? Happy Friday!!!!

    Thanks for the topic Bella! Just called my SO to be sure he did not waste $$$ on flowers

    Don’t really do VDay. Not really moved by it all. I’ve tried to discourage suprise gifts from him. His idea of suprise needs work. Except last year, he actually wrote a song and went to get it done at a studio. His voice is good so… He’s written songs for me before, but that one was actually good (provided by the studio).

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

    ARed huh?

    By Quintucca not Quincucci!!! lol

    February 8, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

    And if you are alone on Valentine’s Day, you needn’t worry because here’s a fun idea for you too. Decorate your house with flowers, take along bubble bath, have some delicious food and watch your favorite movie. The quality time you spend with yourself will be the perfect Valentine’s Day treat for you, and why not!

    loser! lol.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

    ARed huh?

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

    ARed huh?

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

    My motto is it is Friday!!! Who cares either way??? Lov ya too Jay!:)

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

    demi/Alvin/melo Man, I was wondering if melo was Alvin & Demi’s ova brova. LOL All three of yoll be clownin’, for real. LMAO

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

    melo LOL… wanna chat in private eh… yea. alright. i love to dialogue.. hit me up anytime: bbq_sunflwr@yahoo.

    and as far as my unrequited love mess… yea. imma keep it movin. what other choice do i have?? i decided no more convos initiated by me nor any no more textin or emails, no more ‘odes’, etc. its bittersweet. bitter cause i miss him already and sweet cause im freeing myself of this ‘infatuation’.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

    My motto is it is Friday!!! Who cares either way??? Lov ya too Jay!:)

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this

    My motto is it is Friday!!! Who cares either way??? Lov ya too Jay!:)

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

    Jay - Lady J’s computer should be thrown off the top of the Georgia Pacific building. LOL

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

    cucci is it? happy fri to you to. smh.

    By mqew

    February 8, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

    abc I feel you… and her actually cause thas exactly what I tell him. Please do not get me anything. AND really mean it. This day and uuuhh Sweeties Day.. Don’t get it. Don’t get me wrong, we’ve done alot for Vday (not sweetiest day thas just a Hallmark holiday for real). But I guess I’m just a lil over it.

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

    I…I CAIN’T TAKE NO MO!

    DasV i decided no more convos initiated by me nor any no more textin or emails, no more ‘odes’, etc. its bittersweet. bitter cause i miss him already and sweet cause im freeing myself of this ‘infatuation’.

    Git up off your knees. Dayum!

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

    Heres a Vday idea..

    Arrange a meeting with you and your sig other at a resturaunt where there will be nothing but couples…even if you live together arrive seperate..sit at the bar alone not together, make eyes at each other, flirt act like its a one night stand with someone you don’t know but its her..send drinks pver to her/him..eventually come together at the bar…flirt, touching etc make out lightly, have a wonderful dinner..then go to the hotel where you made reservations and made the room Vday friendly and make love there there is no tomorrow…

    Everyone at the bar will think wow these two hooked up and didn’t know each other and you both know you did a heluva roll play..You will not belive how sexy you both will feel and be the envy of all at a bar full of folks that think you both came up…LOL

    By mytwocents

    February 8, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

    Don’t know where his azz iz Melo, but hope he reveals himself soon! (No victim chronicles here of the dogged out/baby daddy drama kind.) Mostly just encounter those who r lookin so hard for the catch they can’t see ~there is no catch… As for being objectified n stuff, I know it’s a lots of gruff manly men’s version of an endearment so LUV IT!

    By QC

    February 8, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

    Thanks Cemeeli we don’t have that many Men in my office, so i gotta show ‘em so real love :)

    You’re welcome Demi you know you my buddy :)

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

    Slim how do you play drunk strip uno? LOL

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

    Slim how do you play drunk strip uno? LOL

    By mqew

    February 8, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

    Jazzone We’ve done that (twice) and that was fun as he11!!! Are you speaking on experience ;-)

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

    Slim how do you play drunk strip uno? LOL

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

    Play strip poker..if you play drunk it will eventually become Pok-her..but the ending will be the same…LOL

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

    Jazzy You will not belive how sexy you both will feel and be the envy of all at a bar full of folks that think you both came up…LOL

    Appearances are a mutha effa, ain’t they?! LMAO

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this

    Throw some baby oil on a Twister mat and play bukked nekked sounds intersesting..hmmmm.

    Invite some folks over to watch you and your lover do the nasty got story on this….early on in my ynger dyz.went to girl hs..my bytch(more crct term) and sme other hoes were over there.They had heard my name.So we playing around in her 1 room apartmnt.But i wanted to s3x and she waz feeling it too.The ladies went outside,but they kept playfully opening the windows from outside to take a peek.And the lady waz butt nekked,lying on the bed.Melo jnr would not cooperate,and the project waz killed.Learnt from that,thats why swinging is not melo’s option in adulthood. Dasv cool,if u get heteration on the blog,u knw why.Bytches dnt promote their ilk..feel me.Hilary aint getting no luv so stay away from the fire girl.smoches!! Truth,is that plantation reasonable in price..sounds like a great idea.

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this

    bluK LOLROTF.. nikka, you been there before… stop playin! but alright….

    gettin up to don a cream trench trimmed in leather, matching turtleneck, riding pants and boots i swing top a white stallion and with a quick movement adjust MK shades… and after some celebatory shots in the air with my nine, i ride into the sunset in search of my next prey

    hows that Man in Blue?? LOL

    CeeCee its Friday….AND after lunch…. Tom betta go sit down somewheres. LOL

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this

    LOl @ Blue and 5,4,3,2,….

    By mqew

    February 8, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

    BK just curious, but whas the frustration with DasV?

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this

    Jay Ummmmmmmm…LOL…. Blue yeah seems that attracts more flys when you have someone…

    By mytwocents

    February 8, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

    *Of course that’s when they’re said endearingly and in the proper context…

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this

    Dasv cool,if u get heteration on the blog,u knw why. huuhh??

    By WTF???

    February 8, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

    and be glad you don’t have to spend the holiday completely alone

    WTF?????????? Are you kiddin’ me? What’s so different about that day? If you’re alone the rest of the year, or not, what is it with folks getting all depressed over some overly-commercialized day where you’re being told that you’re not supposed to do this or that, or be this or that!? There are too many important things to deal with in life, to get caught up in that senseless mindset. Think of it this way………………I pay the bills by myself all year long, I raise the kid(s) by myself all year long, I enjoy my home that I purchased by myself all year long, I take vacations wherever I want by myself all year long, I go wherever I want by myself all year long, etc., etc. So why would I waste time worrying about being alone this one particular day?! I think not!!! Disclaimer——-I’m never really alone because I have a child (this goes for any other parents too). And any reasonably attractive woman never has to be alone, Mr. Goodbar is always just a phone call away (and being way above the norm, it’s as easy as 1-2-3)!!! So don’t believe the hype folks, there is nothing to be down about!!!!!! Peace and blessings………..

    Get all you can, and can all you get!!!

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

    my2cents fell u girl.Atlanta men so lame, they suck(not me).Just do u..be out there doing what u like doing.U can never put a good wman dwn.AND if u see sme u like,just cme outa shell and grab it(say it),softly.men dont like girlz who try too hard….so tread crefully. Good luck!!!!!!!

    By The Truth

    February 8, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

    Melo a pontoon is 75/hr, 1/2 day (5 hrs)is 275 and full day is 425. Its nice because while your out you can view some layed out homes too. You need to make reservations because the place is gated and you gotta have a pass to get in. Its a nice day and the fam will love it.

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

    DasV …i ride into the sunset in search of my next prey

    Now that’s what I’m talkin’ ‘bout right there. ^^^

    Pull that arrow out’cha heart, snap it ‘cross ya knees, drag yourself on back to the batcave and rest. Then in a few weeks get back on ya horse and ride out. That’s how I do it anyway.

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this

    mqew just curious, but whas the frustration with DasV?

    I’m not qualified to answer that, so ask DasV.

    Jazzy It’s always easier to get one, if you got one - goes true for jobs, speeding tickets, …and chicks.

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

    Ladies - what kind of treatment do you expect on V-day from a guy you met just 2-3wks ago??? And if you get what you want, will you give him what he NEEDS????

    By QueDogTeaching

    February 8, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

    What up blog Said while wondering what would happen if me and my crew when I was in high school were going to school today. These young men are so soft it is ridiculous.

    On topic The best valentine I have ever had was one that fell on I think a Saturday. I went to a house party on the day before and saw a girl I went to college with. We had never hooked up or been romantic at all. We were talking and said that we would both be alone on Valentine. So I asked her to hang out so that we would not both be alone. But the catch was that we had to act like we had been together for years. And that is what we did, we hung out, laughed, road around the city drinking, stopping off to eat and drink some more, and the date ended the next morning laying on the floor under some covers next to a burnt out fireplace. We didn’t do anything fancy, we just hung out, and kicked it. It was the best, and most real V-day I have ever had.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

    900 I met a guy @ a superbowl party and don’t expect any treatment or date as I will be hard to locate bc there is no pressure from my end…We just met!

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

    900 Ladies - what kind of treatment do you expect on V-day from a guy you met just 2-3wks ago??? And if you get what you want, will you give him what he NEEDS????

    A phone call that says Happy V-day thats about it or maybe a frinedly card and he would get something along those lines as well..

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

    900 i wouldn’t expect anything, more fun that way. i would suprise his sexy azz with a gift, and no he ain’t gettin’ or touchin’ the cookies. sorry, but here’s a muah.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

    900 I met a guy @ a superbowl party and don’t expect any treatment or date as I will be hard to locate bc there is no pressure from my end…We just met!

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

    900 Ladies - what kind of treatment do you expect on V-day from a guy you met just 2-3wks ago??? And if you get what you want, will you give him what he NEEDS????

    A phone call that says Happy V-day thats about it or maybe a friendly card and he would get something along those lines as well..

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

    900 I met a guy @ a superbowl party and don’t expect any treatment or date as I will be hard to locate bc there is no pressure from my end…We just met!

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

    I tested hitting the refresh button and got a double post..i don’t know how you keep getting these dble posts without hitting it twice…

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

    I got some…

    • Go to Vicki’s or Fredrick’s, and have him try on what he wants to buy for you (that sh%& ain’t comfortable!)

    • Go to an assisted living home and conduct the dating game with the Alzheimer patients

    • Go to a really nice restaurant and fake choking in the middle of another couples engagement…LOL

    • Go to the mall and race on the escalators going in the opposite direction

    • Purposely get stuck in an elevator, and have a picnic until help arrives…

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

    me either…testing @ home got one post go figure and I post no different…I will be gone @ 3 so it will be normal in a few…J

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

    me either…testing @ home got one post go figure and I post no different…I will be gone @ 3 so it will be normal in a few…J

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

    900K a call! If not it’s cool…or should be.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

    me either…testing @ home got one post go figure and I post no different…I will be gone @ 3 so it will be normal in a few…J

    By Tazzee

    February 8, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

    900K - I wouldn’t expect anything from a guy I wasn’t in a committed relationship with.

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

    Truth thnx homie,I am on the site and liking it.I might try that.She likes stuff like that!

    By Tazzee

    February 8, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

    900K - I wouldn’t expect anything from a guy I wasn’t in a committed relationship with.

    By SexyLeggs

    February 8, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

    @DasV, over the years I too didn’t understand why people would get depressed around V-day. I understand the signifance of the day, but not to the point of a mental breakdown because someone doesn’t have anyone to share the day with. I could never be that person. Let’s keep it moving!

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

    QueDogTeaching These young men are so soft it is ridiculous.

    Yeah I think dudes are at one of two extremes, either soft as hell or beating their chicks. No middle ground, no finesse, no versatility.

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    February 8, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

    Good Afternoon All

    QUESTION Do women really need to give gifts to guys on V day? Is this just a woman’s holiday or is this the mens as well? I was always lead to believe that it was just a special day for women.

    By Tazzee

    February 8, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

    Lady J I’m sorry but I am so tickled about your triple post problem. I hit refresh on my last post so you wouldn’t be the only one, LOL.

    By MonkeySpank

    February 8, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

    Spanking the monkey…

    By Hotlanta

    February 8, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

    It just makes me angry how women compete on who has the biggest/best roses in the office. I have seen grown women cry because their husband/boyfriend didn’t send them roses at work so that they can show them off. I said to myself they might get them tonight when they get home. One girl even bought her roses to work the next day to prove that she had gotten some. I don’t get bent outta shape like that. I tell my man just be good to a sistah all year long and everything else is taken care. My baby stood by me when I was sick and broke. That is Valentine enough for this woman.

    By Mocha

    February 8, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

    IM GOING TO TAKE MY DIAMOND RING AND TURN IT INTO A DIAMOND NECKLACE. HE DIDNT ASK FOR IT BACK. HAPPY V DAY TO ME.

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

    Thx Ladies; I know the question seems juvie but I stay meeting a new lady around this time and always get the uneasy convo of “what are WE doing..? or Oh you must have been w/ someone else!” or when I call its “yeah thx for callin but you aint Get me nothin” Goin out w/ someone I just met and not sure if I’m all that into on V-Day is the worst!!! Made that mistake once… Never again.

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

    Blow Its whatever you want that day to be…if you feeling him like that give him something he wants its a nice gesture takes the preasure of men that they are obviously feeling looks like ot me…

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

    Thanks Taz but I am not hitting refresh…maybe I will hit it and see what happens next…lol…

    By SeanJohnson3000

    February 8, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

    I’m going to Body Tap for Vday.

    By mytwocents

    February 8, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

    MonkeySpank That’s one more thing you can do on any day of the year, so why wait lolololol

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

    Taz I truly don’t even blog like that and I have been on here for a sec…I type a post hit post and leave the site and that is always how I did it but oh well…between my work browser and the ajc something is not working…didn’t realize it would ruffle feathers but hey what is new??? LOL

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

    Thanks Taz but I am not hitting refresh…maybe I will hit it and see what happens next…lol…

    By SexyLeggs

    February 8, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

    Jay, the DJ from BellBottoms now works at Olive’s off Powers Ferry. Same setup there as Bell in terms of free parties. No, I haven’t been but did receive an email from them.

    Good for you Mocha. I’m giving my ring to my daughter down the road.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

    Thanks Taz but I am not hitting refresh…maybe I will hit it and see what happens next…lol…

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

    Taz I truly don’t even blog like that and I have been on here for a sec…I type a post hit post and leave the site and that is always how I did it but oh well…between my work browser and the ajc something is not working…didn’t realize it would ruffle feathers but hey what is new??? LOL

    By Staceye

    February 8, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this

    My Sista Blow to answer your question..I think for the woman to be the only one receiving a gift for V-Day is unfair. I believe it’s a day to exchange gift as you do on Christmas. I don’t believe they have to be extravagant..just a little something thats say how you feel about that person. If you love someone you should tell them all year…but this day is a symbol of it. That’s all. JMO

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

    Taz I truly don’t even blog like that and I have been on here for a sec…I type a post hit post and leave the site and that is always how I did it but oh well…between my work browser and the ajc something is not working…didn’t realize it would ruffle feathers but hey what is new??? LOL

    By SexyCool

    February 8, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

    cosign, hotlanta @ 217p…

    By Rell

    February 8, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

    @900…all you have to do is take her somewhere that you like to go…like say a bar for drinks….thats what i would do…and let it go from there…

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

    Moca do you have a jeweler cause if not I have one for you and they will make whatever you want when you want it and have it ready in a matter of a couple of days..LOL…

    By pisces08

    February 8, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

    @Sexy Leggs & Jay. Olives is nice, nice crowd, almost exactly like Bellbottoms.

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    February 8, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

    SJ3000 Are the drinks on you and the dances? If so I am in…..a PLAN B never hurt anyone! lol!

    By SeanJohnson3000

    February 8, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this

    Stac/Blow do yall wanna go requiting?

    By For Real

    February 8, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

    What up Blog Fam!!!

    abc Here is an idea for you. Break into her house and steal all of her ish and then offer to replace everything that was stolen except the ring you gave her. Then report the ring stolen get the insurance money and tell her you will replaced ring.

    If you don’t like that one. I can loan you my backpack and my chromed out huffy with the 20 inch tires.

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

    Dont leave the site just post let it update, when the bars finsih and the page refreshes itself then you should be okay..

    Are oyu saying you are totally backing out the site or rolling back all the way out then coming back in…sorry QA Eng kicking in…seriously tho not jonin you just trying to fig out the problem..

    By Staceye

    February 8, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

    SJ HUH? What you talkin’ ‘bout Willis? LOL

    By SeanJohnson3000

    February 8, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

    Stac/Blow Meant to say, do yall wanna go reCRUITing at the Tap?

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

    900K Question was not juvenile, it’s cool…So what are WE doing??? Lol…you left that one open…sorry.

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

    SeanJohnson3000 I’m going to Body Tap for Vday

    I feel you on that bruh, although Body Tap wasn’t the same as I remember it back in the day. Maybe I just want the old Nikki’s VIP on Stewart to come back. Now if someone could make that happen for V-day, we’d be cool as hell.

    Staceye didn’t you say you were sporting “all black” for v-day? lol now if you just feel the urge to buy something, I’m right here. ;-)

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    February 8, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

    Ole homie STACEYE Okay fair answer. I can respect that. It makes sense. Interesting.

    SeanJohnson3000 What is “requitting”? H3ll is that?

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

    I totallly leave the site and go to another site then come back 5 to 10 min later to see the triple post…I have always done this before this strange activity so I will let it update without leaving…J

    By QueDogTeaching

    February 8, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

    Dreams I think this Zero Tolerance thing has these guys thinking they can’t be touched. Sometimes I think we should let them fight, and give them minimal punishment. That would make those who know they can’t protect themselves one on one stay on the straight and narrow. I am just tired of these 5’5” 110 dudes trying to click up and fight around here.

    On just meeting a young lady with in the last two weeks. I wouldn’t do anything over the top. I would just hang out with her. Since Valentine is on a Thursday, I would meet her after work for a quick drink and take it to the house. Time spent is worth more than money spent.

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this

    I totallly leave the site and go to another site then come back 5 to 10 min later to see the triple post…I have always done this before this strange activity so I will let it update without leaving…J

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

    I totallly leave the site and go to another site then come back 5 to 10 min later to see the triple post…I have always done this before this strange activity so I will let it update without leaving…J

    By For Real

    February 8, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

    For Real now stealing Blow’s left shoe for her post.

    3Stacks I don’t like BT no mo. IT’S TOO DAYUMM BRIGHT.

    Moca at the jewelry store…..

    Jewelry Manager: Hello, can I help you?

    Moca: Yes sir, I would like to take this diamond out of this ring and put into a necklace.

    JM: No problem maam. Can I see the ring?

    Moca: Here you go.

    JM: Thank you. Lets see here… ummm maam, I have some bad news for you

    Moca: What! Don’t tell me it’s CZ!

    JM: No maam it’s crystalized baby powder….

    By Staceye

    February 8, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

    Dreams awww…you want to see what I’m wearing? Or was that a perv way of asking me to wear you? LOL

    SJ recruiting for what? I don’t strip..not in any clubs anyway! LOL I have done it for an ex or two sense I do LOVE to perform! LOL

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

    Oh well Jazzy thanks for your input…Everyone have a great weekend!

    By SeanJohnson3000

    February 8, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

    Blow ….its a leap year baby girl….this year the females are suppose to set it off right…we been waiting 4 years to do this…dont “blow” it now..

    @lady j …you seem to have the studdervirus on your pc

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

    Oh well Jazzy thanks for your input…Everyone have a great weekend!

    By Jazzyone

    February 8, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

    Lady J are you posting on another site also??

    By Lady J

    February 8, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

    Oh well Jazzy thanks for your input…Everyone have a great weekend!

    By mqew

    February 8, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this

    LOL @ Jazzyone trying to fix Lady J computer. Def an eng

    By demi

    February 8, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this

    I think for the woman to be the only one receiving a gift for V-Day is unfair.

    Oh Hellllll NAW!!!!!

    Demi is holding up a missing person sign which reads:

    HAVE YOU SEEN THIS PERSON:

    Ms.Eyes

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

    So what are WE doing??? - Cee - We can do whatever we desire, and wherever you can wear this uniform I got you.

    Beautiful - What up wit cha?? whats your weekend lookin like?

    Anyone Going to see Lebron 2nite??? Club house seats going for $100 from the scalpers!!!

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

    Staceye Yeah show me what you’re wearing (or not wearing). lol Now, Staceye you stay away from my “perv” side, cuz you’re surely not ready him. Now, if you think you are, then… ;-)

    By SlimOne

    February 8, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

    4Real No maam it’s crystalized baby powder… Boy you so cwazy LOL!

    By Staceye

    February 8, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

    Demi you’ve got jokes! LOL

    Dreams ooh you so nasty! LOL

    Well guys..I am off for the weekend. Gotta go get the body wrap and and nails done! Be safe guys!

    By SeanJohnson3000

    February 8, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

    @ staceye…see…i know you like to perform…so since you havent made it to off broadway just yet…lets see how you do on off marietta …perfect your craft..

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

    sexyLeggs i knw, right??…. for those that get depressed because of a day, they the ones that get depressed on *any day… the holidays are just reason to share their pitiful-ness with the world and not be shame…..

    kinda off topic i saw this cute movie ‘Fever Pitch’ yesterday. and after jumping through some hoops, on the first date he arrives and she has food poisoning… and is throwing up all over the place. he comes in and cleans her up and cleans her bathroom and even brushes the dogs teeth…. is that only in the movies blog bruthas??

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

    4real u so funny. i just wanna pinch your cheeks.

    nine huuuuundred putting my home up for sale. anybody looking to buy? i already know im not gettin’ what i paid for it. 1/2 acre included.

    By SexyCool

    February 8, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

    lady j keeps posting triple cause she’s once…twice…three times a lady…

    yeah, i know…LAME!!! lol

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

    Staceye Dreams ooh you so nasty! Seems like you might be curious. ;-)

    QueDogTeaching Yeah most of these cats never been chin-checked.

    By Honey

    February 8, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

    Valentines Day is not a holiday

    Got tix to see LeBron, can’t find a &^%$#@! date

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

    DasV while cleaning it up, he’s thinkin’ yea, i know after all this imma get some real soon, said while looking at his watch. idioca!

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    February 8, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

    sj3000 You are right it is LEAP YEAR. So the guys do get a gift this year. So right.

    QUESTION* So what is everyone plans for Vday? Dates, massage, or some of us hitting the club or shake ya booty joints? Oh be gone off that PATRON?

    By QueDogTeaching

    February 8, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

    Das V Did she not know she was sick before he got there. I don’t think I would want to walk into her being sick. Now if we were out and she drank too much then that would be different. But that is a free Cuda Coupon.

    By abc

    February 8, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

    Huh, interesting ideas!

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

    900K uniform? what is it? Are you checking out LB tonight?

    By SexyLeggs

    February 8, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

    JazzyOne, I would like the name of your jeweler. I had one late 80’s early 90’s Don’t know where he moved to. Need to get something made for my child.

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    February 8, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

    Demi Yeah that kind of throw me too @ 2:54pm…I was shocked she said that!! lol!

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

    Honey - I’ve been here all week waitin on you!!! (you are a lady right?)

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

    DasV I think most guys can look back to their young days and remember a time they did something over-the-top for someone they were feeling. Unfortunately, that action probably wasn’t reciprocated, appreciated, or even acknowledged, and it served as our first lesson that there is no reward for that kind of behavior. So, as we get older, we usually don’t do it anymore, unless we’re married. lol

    By QueDogTeaching

    February 8, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

    Dreams Most of them have never been in a fight outside of a family member. They walk around like girls arguing for most of the day and then start yelling in the middle of the hall right in front of teachers. They have a lot of feminine ways, it is funny. Not all of them but a lot of them.

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

    bootiful LOL he had donned some yellow cleaning gloves and errrrythang. on his knees clean the toilet bowl bottom and all!

    QUE she apparently couldnt call and when he got there she took a minute answering the door and while she was standing there explaining to him that she was sick, she had to throw up again and ran from the door leaving him standing there. so he debated about leaving then decided to go in and check on her… she was mad ill so he starting helping her…. he even helped change her clothes… making lil jokes all the time to keep the situation light and not embarrass her…. it was sweet!

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

    DasV i gotta see that “Fever Pitch” intersting…

    Tom finally got ghost…he best not be gone or i’m certainly gonna let him know that’s not okay.

    By SexyLeggs

    February 8, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

    I’m sitting here eating an Italian Ice, jacket on in front of my space heater. Something’s wrong w/this pic but this dang icee tastes so good!!

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

    P08 waving

    By Honey

    February 8, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

    Yes i’m a lady; 5’3-130-36D-24W-35H

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

    Beautiful- Selling a home nowadays can be a long process. So please be patient and get as close to what its worth as possible. I dont know anyone that is dead serious on buyin now, but if I come across I’ll hit you up.

    Cee- Your uniform consists of 100% cotton… baby tee, boy shorts and socks… in all white. Natural hair, light makeup and a smile. See, nothin crazy

    I just got the call about the game and turned it down. If I’m going to get where I gotta go in ‘08 I cant keep doing that ‘07 shyt and runnin out grabbin a new outfit to sit in my $100 seats. But dam that club house goin be packed!!! Livin responsible suucks balls

    By Rell

    February 8, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

    @dreams…cosign ya 3:29…SO TRUE!!!

    By pisces08

    February 8, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

    I c ya…. :-)

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

    question for the fellas i don’t wear any make-up. my choice, not lazy. if you met me would you talk me into wearing some/tryin’ some out? or would you love the natural look?

    By BLOW ME IS OFFICIALLY BLOWED & THROWED

    February 8, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

    DREAMS Damn that’s f******* up! Well I have no hope for the future! lmao @ 3:29

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

    I put the credit card on that plantation for next friday,Truth.Wl just do a birthday and vday combo.I told queen to make arrngments and ima get in tch with doc,just to make sure my testesterone levels are good! All set for a double dble in greensboro.It bettr be cold that nite.

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

    900K Do you have blogvision? You’re promoted…:-).

    SexyleggsI’m sitting here eating an Italian Ice, jacket on in front of my space heater. Something’s wrong w/this pic but this dang icee tastes so good! Now that’s sort of sounds like me, when i’m having mango sorbet. Haagen Daz is on my agenda tonight.

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

    QueDogTeaching Yeah it’s true. I used to teach 8th grade algebra…saw the same thing all the time. I used to try to tell my students that they wouldn’t get away with all that talking if they went to school when I did. You didn’t talk about what you were going to do. You either did it or you shut ya a*s up. lol

    Rell It’s a sad truth, but the lesson had to be learned.

    By pisces08

    February 8, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

    @beautiful. Be you…

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

    everytime i turn around, someone’s trying to put lip stick on my big lips. then they’ll look bigger! lol. and foundation makes me look dead. venting

    By The Truth

    February 8, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

    Das its possible but highly unlikely unless ol boy has a cleaning fetish. Now if it was you hell to the yes I’m cleaning you up. LOL Send me a pic of you to atlred01@yahoo.com.

    Beautiful my ex wife never wore make-up and her skin was beautiful. Do your thang and fug the rest. If I was attracted to you with natural looks thats what i want.

    By Honey

    February 8, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

    SOLD THEM TO MY BOSS $450 - 2 FLOOR SEATS

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

    Beautiful - absolutely not, natural is good w/ me. I dont go for the caked up faces much. you’re beau-t-ful… its true or however the song goes.

    Honey - 900k.n.up@gmail.com nuff said.

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this

    dreamyONE but arent you doing what you blog bruthas always accusing us sistas of doing… makin others pay for the unappreciative, messed up attitude and the self-absorbed mentality you met up with in your past dealin with a youngsta, not a woman? why your future have to pay for your past??

    i wish i might meet a man that is as ova-the-top as i am! and aint scared to put it out there. an adreline junkie, even if its him thats on the line……cause you know, that man in the movie had nothing vested… he didnt know if they were going to even have a relationship. i just found that cool

    By Willie Dynamite

    February 8, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

    Que These young cats don’t nkow how to handle themselves. Same way with how they handle women nowadays. Same bull ish.

    Beauty Nothing wrong with natural beauty. You’d prolly be surprised how many fellas like it. I’m definitely one of them.

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

    BLOW That lesson is learned real early. There’s still hope for you though. I wouldn’t do you wrong, but cleaning up throw up on the first date better come with some rewards. lol

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

    beautiful - I don’t wear make up either except for lipstick/lip gloss.

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

    question for the fellas depends on hw u look without it….sme look fantastic withiut it,others dont.send pic to takpat78@gmail and i give u unflattering feedback right at cha.

    By Honey

    February 8, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

    900, SO YOU WANT ME TO HIT U UP?

    By mqew

    February 8, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

    Beautiful I don’t wear makeup either. Don’t need to. (Use to in my clubbin days, now I have to dig in my purse to find my lipgloss.) Some women need to wear makeup. If you don’t need to then…

    By The Truth

    February 8, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

    Cool Melo check out some of those homes. If you’ve never driven a boat the big thing is no wake zone. That means slow your azz down so you don’t throw waves around the place. Other than that slow and easy. Oh yeah, if ol girl is the type take a picnic lunch because theres some real nice spots to stop and eat.

    Fellas, one reason these cats seem soft is we’re looking at them with a grown mans constitution which is totally different than from a young cats. True they are softer but its enviromental also. Remember tho, at one time you was a thin azzed 15 yo ready to throw nucks but no azz to back it up. LOL

    By Willie Dynamite

    February 8, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

    Red So you A Natue-al except the soup coolers huh. Interesting

    Fellas For those that live in the Lithonia area, Anybody doing the Father Daughter dance at Marbut tonight?

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

    Cee Go to Vicki’s or Fredrick’s, and have him try on what he wants to buy for you (that sh%& ain’t comfortable!)

    We gon’ have to work on that, ‘cause I loves the high-hip cut and see-thru’s.

    Que This threat of jail is nothing but a free insurance policy. Too many folks walking around disrespecting folks without threat of repercussion.

    Pisces Thanks for the “Olives” tip, ‘cause I was a big-time BellBottoms fan. You didn’t happen to be up in that joint a few years back when Danny Domino was killing this one chick and the floor cleared out so that they could go one-on-one; then her thick-witit friend tried to tag in. She had rhythm but she just couldn’t match his moves. That ish was live!

    Honey Yes i’m a lady; 5’3-130-36D-24W-35H

    You betta watch out! I got a buzz too?!

    Beautiful Stay natural. All’at fake-azz Glamour Shot mess ain’t cute.

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

    DasV I didn’t say we NEVER do it anymore, just that we’re much more discerning about who we do it for. If I’m over-the-top for every woman I meet, then you wouldn’t be special. Special things for the special one. ;-)

    By Beautiful

    February 8, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

    thx y’all! gotta go get my hair done. smooches to the guys!

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

    Cee- blog vision alright, I see alot more I just cant put the biz out there like that.

    Honey - feel free, even tho you done sold my seats! LoL

    ARed, Beautiful -My all natural glamor girls… just make sure you wash your face baybay.

    By demi

    February 8, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

    Que who are rising these young cats?

    Blow we can’t let ‘the woman we love to hate’ get soft on us now!! LOL

    DasV 80% of the time, unless the woman is feeling dude, it doesn’t matter if you’re a good dude to her or not…she will not return the favor….Now straight dawg her out…you will be getting gifts for days LOL

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

    The think than irks me with ladies is the long fake nails and the hollywood made up faces.Which bros are paying for all that.Thats why these bros aint comiting.To think u got spend on dates,nails,make up shyt,gifts once in a while,its gotta be hard on a bro.Hw much du have to make to keep up with that mess. It gotta be hard dating in these times.And the women eat like horses and dnt wanna cook shyt5!A man gotta spend once in a while,but hey this is hard to keep up. Truth preciate bro!

    By DasV

    February 8, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

    Special things for the special one. im feelin that.. no! lemme say i ‘appreciate’ you sayin that oDreamy.

    demi fly ova here and sit yo tail down! :)

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

    Willie - I guess you’re never gonna forget that soup coolers thing? LOL. But yeah, my lip gloss is poppin! LOL

    By pisces08

    February 8, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

    @Blue. Nah.. I missed that.

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

    Que/Willie …continued. And most simply ain’t got no hands, hence the frequent gunplay. Comin’ up at the crib, errybody was either signin’ up at the gym, or havin’ their peeps “show ‘em some’n… just on the strength of “gittin’ sharp”. I got my 6-yr old on the heavy bag right now as a matter of fact. LOL

    By melo

    February 8, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

    then they’ll look bigger! lol mwaaaaa to ur big lips

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

    DasV Thanks for the “appreciation”. Sometimes all a bro wants to know is that his hard work is appreciated…and I works hard. lol

    By For Real

    February 8, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

    For Real now sneezing in DasV’s face. For Real now licking a napping to clean DasV’s face.

    QDT Like Pops said in Friday’s “Yall young boys are scared to take an azz whomping.” That’s why they can’t fight but they show can get 30 dude together and stomp the ish out tho.

    Nature is always better. It will save your dude a ton in dry cleaning and washing pillow cases.

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

    Blue i didn’t say we weren’t gettin it! I said you try it on. LOL

    900K okay…now that was way to close to home. get otta here.

    By Willie Dynamite

    February 8, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

    Red you called them Soup Coolers. I refer to them affectionately as DSL’s.

    Melo I use to make it a point not to pay for what I call upkeep. The hair,nails and all that you can miss me with that. Now if you wanna hang, have a drink, dinner something like that then we cool. But I dayum sho aint SPONSORING no chick.

    Some of these chicks need to have commercials; Todays hair sponsored by Melo Todays nails sponsored by Truth Todays makeup provided courtesy Rell Todays outfit sponsored by 900 (since you like to do that kind shyt) and last but not least accomadations provided by Blue K lol

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

    So I never watch Oprah but I’m watching today. She’s talking about sperm donation. I can now say I’d never go that route. All these kids feeling they’re missing whole halves of themselves. Kids worrying they are hooking up with half siblings…Why inflict that on your kid? No thanks…

    By For Real

    February 8, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

    For Real now putting a quarter on ARed’s top lip.

    Now, that’s impressive!!!!!

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

    Willie - I aware of that. My question is when you’ll be able to let. it. go.

    By Blue_Kolla

    February 8, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

    Cee i didn’t say we weren’t gettin it! I said you try it on. LOL

    Naah babygirl, besides, it ain’t like you gon’ be wearing it all night. ;)

    Yoll good people stay up, *Blue out.

    By Alvin

    February 8, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

    DasV real talk…this one cutie, while we didn’t work out due to poor timing…She always let it be known how she appreciated the thing I’ve done…Too bad it was due to age timing being ways the hell off LOL

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

    Cee -now that was way to close to home. get otta here. what do you mean?

    WillieD what you sponsorin man? Cuz I like that type of sh? Why I gotta be labled the fashion dude? LoL

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 8, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

    ARed As much as I think everyone should be like me, I wouldn’t go the sperm donation route either. lol Have a good weekend, and don’t let the flu get you down. Being sick is the best time to pamper yourself. Hot bath, hot toddy, some movies, me…you’ll be all set. ;-)

    By SexyLeggs

    February 8, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

    This weekend tell your SO your eyes only see him/her!

    Good night everyone! Be safe and stay ALERT!

    By Cemeeli

    February 8, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

    900K What do you mean? = uniform descript…It’s me all day!

    Be easy!

    By AmazonRed

    February 8, 2008 5:05 PM | Link to this

    Thanks Dreams. You’re a sweetie.

    Have a great weekend everyone. Stay away from this dreaded flu bug!

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 8, 2008 5:15 PM | Link to this

    Do it Big this Week end!!!

    By SlimOne

    February 11, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

    WE ARE BOOTLEG BLOGGING!

    By Rell

    February 11, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this

    whats up slim

    By SlimOne

    February 11, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

    Howdy Rell

    By AmazonRed

    February 11, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

    Well…no new topic yet. So time for a weekend roundup! What’s happened this weekend out there in the dating world?

    By teresa

    February 11, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

    Good Morn-ting

    By teresa

    February 11, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

    Good Morn-ting

    By SlimOne

    February 11, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

    Question Okay for those of you who’ve ever been in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation, is there an expiration date to it?

    Let’s say it’been at least 3 months since the last time you and said cutbuddy have talked or really hung out. The last time you all did see each other, one of you weren’t feeling the usual setup and the other sort of silently threw a tantrum. So basically wasn’t a bad ‘break-up, for lack of a better term, but wasn’t left on a great note either

    So, after that 3 month or more period, the other party contacts you recently after hours asking what’s up? Is this request timed-out due to some unspoken expiration since no communication has gone on? Or is it sort of like that package of Ramen Noodles folks always have for that just-in-case time?

    By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

    February 11, 2008 9:48 AM | Link to this

    Morning, all. :-)

    Wow! Never had leftover blog before. Hmmm….tastes like chicken.

    By Rell

    February 11, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

    Really slim he just testing you out again..he prolly thinking, she is not doing anyone at this time because she tried to run the “i need more” game..so let me back up for a minute and re-visit in a couple of months…he thinks that you dont have options or that you dont stick yourself out in the dating world…so that is the reason for the call…but the major RED FLAG here is the call at that time of night…and it is a non-emergency…shows a lack of respect for you..hell he does not respect you…feel me…so to continue..well i am sure you already know that

    By Willie Dynamite

    February 11, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

    Morning All, Bootleg blogging indeed

    Whats up Red,Slim Teresa. Rell whats popping folk?

    Slim Come on you know you cant put restrictions and rules on the cut buddy. Thats the major selling point of that arrangement. If its been 3 mos and you still want the sweat then have at it w/o the strings. If not then keep it moving no need to discuss with the other party. Unless it was more than that?????

    By Teresa

    February 11, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

    Whats up Willie Dynamite

    By 900K aka Mr 2008

    February 11, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

    Mornin Yawnin

    Weekend was uneventful…

    Okay for those of you who’ve ever been in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation, is there an expiration date to it? -It expires the moment she asks you to meet her parents!

    By Teresa

    February 11, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

    Ya know what? I was in friends with benefit situation maybe two years after our 5 year relationship ended. The situation expired, when I realized that he was really benefiting and not me. It expired when I thought more of myself and not just a sexual beneficiary. It expired when my miliage was still going up for someone who I knew would not be available to me, it expired when I realized it was a form of control, it expired when I wanted new d*ck in my life after having the same one for over 5 years…sorry…real rap!

    By Staceye

    February 11, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

    WTF….we have to warm up leftover blog from Friday? UGH!!!! Morning all.

    SJ I read your post to me after I left Friday…who’s to say I never performed in an Off Broadway production? Don’t be too sure about that? LOL

    By Rell

    February 11, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

    @ARED..the weekend roundup…lets see, the quality of females is going down..but i digress…friday night at velvet…spring must be approaching or there was a sale on open toe sandels…lol..ummm velvet music was ok, women drunk and straight ghetto…a fight broke out in front of me between two females..why dont know..lol…i can still drink like i us to..but the recovery is not as fast…my game still works..but i am more of an angler now a days..i let off the hook and stick back into the pool..saturday…players now here this…club blaze is that spot for the five dollar table dance…trust me…cost ten to get in..but once in it is cool..only negative i see is that most of the women in there are tat’d up more than your average dude..but the dances are good..end plug…. verve was cool…about the same as friday..disturbing trend..sloppy drunk women..i mean passing out, p** on themselves…etc etc…i am like when did this happen…good music…danced all night and nearly passed out after the go-go set…overall a good weekend…i am just shaking my head at some of the females that i crossed paths with…i mean even the ones that look like something…lol

    By Teresa

    February 11, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

    Ya know what? I was in friends with benefit situation maybe two years after our 5 year relationship ended. The situation expired, when I realized that he was really benefiting and not me. It expired when I thought more of myself and not just a sexual beneficiary. It expired when my mileage was still going up for someone who I knew would not be available to me, it expired when I realized it was a form of control, it expired when I wanted new d*ck in my life after having the same one for over 5 years…sorry…real rap!

    By SlimOne

    February 11, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

    Rell The only reason the time of night would be an issue here due to the time lapse of communication. I would assume that a ‘warm-up’ call would’ve been placed prior to that call as a courtesy Hey how you doing. In the past the female counterpart have called him after 1am many times.

    I never said it was me, just an FYI

    Willie According to the source, it never really was more than that…however, it wasn’t just that cut and dry with them. There would always be a sleepover, meeting of some friends, met the mother once etc. The last time they saw each other, they went to the movies but she didn’t give him any Nu-nu that night & I guess he did want some.

    By Teresa

    February 11, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

    Ya know what? I was in friends with benefit situation maybe two years after our 5 year relationship ended. The situation expired, when I realized that he was really benefiting and not me. It expired when I thought more of myself and not just a sexual beneficiary. It expired when my mileage was still going up for someone who I knew would not be available to me, it expired when I realized it was a form of control, it expired when I wanted new d*ck in my life after having the same one for over 5 years…sorry…real rap!

    By DreamsMaterialize

    February 11, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

    Hey Everyone

    Guess we have to settle for Blog Moonshine this morning.

    ARed How’s that flu treating you?

    By AmazonRed

    February 11, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

    Rell - Sounds like you had a busy weekend. Good to get a report from someone who is still into the club scene.

    As for me, uneventful weekend. I was in bed all weekend, and not in a good way. Dreaded flu! I was a receipient of a drunken text message Friday night. I felt so bad, there was no way I was getting out of it to act on it. Went to my exotic dance class on Saturday and almost didn’t make it! I had to sit down and take a breather a few times. Terrible!

    By AmazonRed

    February 11, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

    Hey Dreams - Thanks for checking in with me. Very sweet. Well, most of my flu symptoms are gone, but now I have left over “flu fatique” which supposedly lasts another 1-2 weeks! It’s terrible, I’m winded just getting out of bed now. I really want to go home again!

    By SlimOne

    February 11, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

    Rell Dang bruh, sounds like a club-filled weekend. LOL! I haven’t been to a club in so long, I’d be scared of what I see after reading your recap. I’m too old to be up in some place where folks are fighting, escpecially if it’s grown folk. So pretty much there’s a slew of drunk cute females out there? LOL!

    I’ve been actually thinking of sacrificing something just to see what benefit I would receive from it. But I can’t seem to decide to cut out drinking for a while or sex…(that inlcudes mostly of sex w/self being that I’m not really fugging nobody)lmao!

    teresa I don’t really consider an ex of 5yrs a cutbuddy. Seems to me like there would still be emotions involved and harder to maintain that fine line of just sex & emotions w/sex with a loved one. Either way, glad you saw you were getting the short end of the stick.

    By Staceye

    February 11, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

    Ared you went to class spreading your Sars and Ebola Virus to every one? Did they wipe the pole down with alcohol like the do at the strip clubs? In this case…they weren’t wiping snatch juice they were trying NOT to be sick! LOL I’m just messing with you girl. I hope you are feeling better? I know 3 people with the flu and they are jacked. I have been uping my vitamin intake because I catch everything that goes around..I’m anemic!

    *Did anyone want to put their foot in Kanye’s azz last night? I liked his performance and was moved by the tribute to his mom…but why does he think he deserves more speech time than anyone else? SIT YO AZZ DOWN! Granted Amy Crackhouse got like 3 minutes…HMMMM! OK And WTF was Solange wearing? I think Chris Brown is a young cutie..but what was up with his ensemble? Alicia looked beautiful. So did beyonce..except that wooly mammouth on her head? Tina still got it at 68. Rhianna looked cute too. Luda looked dapper in his Tux. That is just my mini rundown of the Grammys!

    By East Point's Own

    February 11, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

    Yay!!!!! the “Real” blog is finally up

    By Rell

    February 11, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

    @ared/slim….i still like to go out dance..be social…its cool, thats what i like..but the scene has changed….slim, i just said drunk women..again the quality is way down now-a-days…period…i mean you have the lets play bi to get attention women…you have the let me copy what i see alicia/beyonce/rihanna wear chick…you have the club crucial bankhead women..she will let you know she in the house with all her colorful assortments…the list could go on…ooo and the fellas dont get a pass either…i seen some cape flying and straight super hero behavior…going on…ok the fight breaks out….so i grab the chick like calm down lady…this crazy lil chick spins around and starts cussing me out like take your hands off me..i am like ok, but ya need to chill…in comes the capt..i mean i have cap burn on my cheek..he likes she is cool dude i can take it from here..great, so i go back to chill…then this cat proceeds to politic with this chick…i am like dude did you not just see ghetto girls gone wild…lol, but the funniest was to see the chick pass out in the middle of the dance floor…hilarious..and i am not even going to touch on the misadventures of crew..they did motions on saturday when i was at verve with wifey….that epsiode is not rated for this blog…

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