By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 8:20 AM | Link to this

Hmmm my biggest weakness when it comes to men…I really have to think on that. I mean right now with my current “relationship”(I absolutely refuse to label it) It is how he interacts with his children..the attentiveness he gives his daughters(dropping everything to focus on them) that is sexxxy to me.

By SlimOne

June 9, 2008 8:24 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

I can’t say really what my biggest weakness is. Just off the top of my head I can say I love when a man smell’s good…when he’s figured out what fragrance meshes with his own natural chemistry well. I may not remember your name, I may not really remember your face but I will recall how you smell. And it is definitely a turn on to still be able to smell him after he’s left me. Mmmm

I recall being given a dude’s number by a friend. We had great conversation but when we finally met in person, he was wearing some old man musty azz cologne. I couldn’t even concentrate on anything else other than how much i wanted to throw up in my mouth at the smell.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 8:29 AM | Link to this

Morning, all. :-)

A definite weakness for me is a woman with a sense of humility and modesty about herself. Meaning, she has her life’s priorities in order and refreshing her lip gloss every five minutes isn’t one of ‘em.

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this

First and foremost an informative man.

Second, I love a man that is neat and organized. On our first lunch date I immediately noticed how Whitebread rearranged the items on the table. He was borderline OCD. Mason is borderline OCD. The Nature Guy was full blown OCD.

Lastly, a man that can appreciate a woman’s fine footwear. I love shoes and to have a man notice a nice pair and offer a compliment…

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

A woman that has functional intelligence and a soft soul. I mean really bright. It is so sexy to meet a woman that can talk about anything, or nothing, and be comfortable. Also, some women can talk to you and they make you feel like you’re in a warm blanket. Their soul is soft and inviting.

Also, a nice set of…LOL

Slimgina that was me you met. I didn’t know my Brut by Faberge was so offensive to you. I’m upgrading to Old Spice this morning.

By PornStar* in da Building (**6'1**)

June 9, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

HOLA CHICO’S AND CHICA’S

By heavygaines

June 9, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

as I gotten a little older I’ve come to realize that the list of things that excite about a guy is getting longer and more complex. But I guess my main concern would be that he had all his teeth, (or somebody elses!). There is nothing worse than a rotten mouthed man! I’m not saying they have to be all pearly white, but just have them all. Gaps are not atractive!

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this

great topic Bella!, a man who owns books that I own, or has books that I can’t wait to read. I love bookworms!

a man who has an extensive vocabulary, and if he has a foreign accent, bonus points - hot!

oh and men who are into science and technology like me. I really dig the technosexuals :)

By AmazonRed

June 9, 2008 8:42 AM | Link to this

Howdy y’all from the Lone Star State!

Let’s see, my weakness is a tall man. Like 6’5” and above tall. I know we’re supposed answer beyond the physical, but that’s what gets me the most.

To answer the question though, I guess I have a weekness for guys who have a passion for something. Like a real passion even if it’s something like movies. I like learning new things and it’s always better to view it from his eyes breaking it down to the nitty gritty.

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this

you’re so sexist, Darrell. LOL, nothing wrong with a woman refreshing her lip gloss, geesh

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this

Raqi “…a man that is neat and organized.”

I was glad to see you say that because that definitely describes me, but I’m not so sure how many women really view that attribute as a positive simply because they themselves aren’t that way.

I’m very neat and organized, but not to the extent, for example, of Kathy Bates in the movie ‘Misery’. Wow! LOL! Nevertheless, I’m definitely the type who believes that everything has it’s place and my surroundings reflect that. Oh, and please don’t walk over my freshly vaccuumed carpet if you don’t have to, okay? LOL!

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 8:44 AM | Link to this

Truth I’m pretty sure that was you. FYI: Please stop mixing your Tussy with that Old man funk, its not becoming of you at all.

I’m also a sucker for a guy with a great sense of humor, who’s open-minded, intelligent, and definitely has clean & neat fingernails. lol Seeing guys with long nails is just creepy to me.

By AmazonRed

June 9, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

Oh no WiseDiva, why’d you bait Darrell with that. Now here comes the 10 page explaination about excessive vanity. LOL

By 2CPTG©

June 9, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

morning…..I like ‘em smart and sexy….with a little spice to ‘em!

And like Diva, one who loves to read! Dang, maybe we could do a lil sum’n…..she’d just have to loosen that choke hold!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

Diva

Come on, now. Lighten up! LOL! I never said there was anything wrong with a woman refreshing her lip gloss, but when she feels she has to do it so frequently that you can count in one sitting (i.e. one date) the number of times she did it, then I got a problem with that. What’s so “sexist” about that?

By Realitybites

June 9, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

The Achilles Heel for romance? Oh…that one is easy. Wedding Cake. Men feel like that the race is over and they don’t have to do the thinks that won her over. Women feel like “I GOT him.” and stop doing the things that won him over. Dating is when both party’s are at their best behavior and highest libido. Marraige removes the neccesity of BEING on your best behavior or you might lose them. “Love” is a chemical reaction in the brain that is duplicated by consuming large quantities of chocolate. No matter what…once married and then you break up, she gets the gold mine and he gets the shaft.

By QC

June 9, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Morning all…have a great day, i’m too sleepy to think right now…LOL @ ARED now here comes a 10 page explanation about excessive vanity, lol i’ll check back when i wake up!

D, how’s your ankle Bro?

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Good morning…I too love a man that can dance. Seeing a man wear his slacks well is a turn on to me. Not all men know how to wear pants. Take PDiddy, all his pants look horrible on him. Don’t like pants that bunch up at top of the shoe..uughh! I love a man with a good set of teeth, one that smells very good, and a good kisser. Oh, also love one with a great vocabulary and one that never, never ever uses the word “conversate.”

Since I’m new to dating (not really a date more like an outing), I have another MIA for later today!

By anonymousella

June 9, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

cosigning wise diva: men who read = teh sexeh. men who are good writers and spellers make me drool.

and if he’s a technosexual man who not only reads, but writes and spells well? OMFG, i might just reconsider my aversion to marriage and actually have one of his babies.

i also love a man who can cook and is good to dogs. sounds funny, but i vibe with dog people in a way that i don’t vibe with cat people. the ex was a cat person. that was my first clue… LOL.

By pisces 08

June 9, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this

Good morning all… I have a weakness for intelligent women, and women who are comfortable with themselves.

By AmazonRed

June 9, 2008 9:03 AM | Link to this

Hey QC, I have to give your brother his props becaus his answer was good and succinct. LOL I think we all knew what he meant. *WiseDiva was getting it started today! LOL

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

Just because a woman is concerned that her makeup, pantyhose, hair, etc are in place does NOT make her an airhead, overly vain, or a woman without her priorities straight. A woman can be smart, responsible AND care about her appearance, LOL. Ok? My only point is that A woman has a goddess given right to have many sides, so you just go below the surface stuff.

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 9, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

Morning All!! Hope everyone had a great weekend!

A man that is into music, he smells good and is great with conversation! All those get me!

Truth Not the Brut!!! LMAO!

By AmazonRed

June 9, 2008 9:11 AM | Link to this

Uh…Diva? LOL

I also like a well read man. I was told early that “guys don’t read.” So not true!

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 9, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

Morning Blogsville I’m gravely attracted to the artsy type guy. One who has a great appreaction for music, literature and theatre especially. When me and a guy can have a intellectual debate about a book that we’ve both read, that is an intense turn on.

Have a great personality, sense of humor and read something other than black authors, wow….that’s a jones.

By abc

June 9, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

Bella, perhaps a man who can really dance projects for you an aura of fun. Someone who knows how to have fun is nice to know, whether or not they’re of romantic interest.

I can’t think of something similar in women that appeals to me, off the top of my head. I like long, dark hair, but that’s a different kind of thing. I appreciate intelligence, creativity, resourcefulness, gentleness, caring and charm, but I’ve tolerated lacks of those things.

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

Anon you know you just described me? Are you trying to tell blogsville how you feel about the Truth? LOL

Ared thanks for the assist.

Is it just me or is it way to early and hot to be having a standoff with the police? Save that for when the sun goes down.

Have any of you ladies ever wore cashmere? I walked by a chick wearing that one time and I felt like a hook grabbed the back of my shirt. I asked her what it was and she said Cashmere. Walking sexy. SMH

By Simply Me

June 9, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

My big turn on is a guy that knows how make a statement with clothes. I love a well dressed man. Not “Pimp Style”, but classy, chic. Plus well manicured hands. Does it for me everytime.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

Diva

You’re really taking this waaaay too far, don’t you think? LOL! I mean, come on now. I never implied that a woman was an “airhead” simply for checking her make up. I know ya’ll like (or need) to step away and do you every now and then. I was sure I made it clear that I was speaking of “in excess”. Geez! LOL!

I know it’s Monday and all, but dag! Or are you upset over the fact that Sex and the City dropped to #4 at the box office this weekend? LOL!

By AmazonRed

June 9, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

Truth - Anytime. Let me know what the final decision is!

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning All!

My weakness is a man with an extra GAS card. They way he pull up, pump and pay for that oil give a sista the shaky legs syndrome. He gets extra points if he can supply milk, eggs and chicken until grocers regain brain cells.

That is the business!

By MsU

June 9, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

A man that:
(#1)honor God (#2)Smells good

Will get my attention quickly

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this

I have to say that I’m pleasantly surprised at all the blog females who have a soft spot for a well-read, intelligent guy. Really good to see that. :-)

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this

Hey Ms. U you have been missin’.

By MsU

June 9, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this

LOL Cemeeli! I know that’s right.

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

you are so funny, Darrell, my world does not revolve around that movie, LOL. I took it about as far as you did, I didn’t wig out or anything. I guess you prefer women to be quiet and docile, LOL.

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

correction: I guess you prefer women to be quiet and docile with ashy lips. LOL!!

By Pink Sherbert

June 9, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

My weakness…is a man who can say no to me. I like a strong minded man. Nothing makes me lose respect faster than a man who always gives in to me.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Diva

Thanks for that amended comment at 9:36. I was just about to tell you that you’d forgotten one thing. LOL!

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 9, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

Darrell that’s only b/c we were instructed not to comment on the physical…LOL

By the champ (http://verysmartbrothas.com)

June 9, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

a witty woman with a quick sense of humor. basically, if she has the ability to make me laugh aloud with a simple one sentence morning text message. i get all verklempt just thinking about that

By anonymousella

June 9, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this

@the truth: um shawty, that’s a h3ll naw. one of us would be dead and the other in jail. i’m too cute for either of those … LOL.

@darrell: why surprised? the only women who like thugs are thuggettes and hood rats. plus we’re all pretty smart chicks IMO. why wouldn’t we want smart dudes?

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Beautiful PPL

Wow…I love men in general.. There are so many things that turn me on. But these are the things initially that I notice.

4.) The smile. I love a man with a beautiful white pearly teeth..Oh don’t have dimples…I am definitely melting.

5.) Sweat pants….If you only knew. They look sexy and you can see you package in this sweats..So if you wondering why she is staring when you are in your sweats..this is why. She can see that chunked out hilshire! Lol!

Basically men period are gorgeous specimens to look at. They are my weakness. I am not ashamed to admit it! I will be back later to speak on it some more….

By MsU

June 9, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli! I mostly lurk these days. How is your son?

* Musing* If you are lurking; will you be attending the summerhill reunion this year?

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Darrell for me a man that is physically organized is usually unwavering in his thoughts and actions. He actually possesses a stable thought process. Steady. Controlled.

By Rickluvsem

June 9, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

I have an insatiable attraction to the mature woman (35-45) who takes care of herself. She is confident, well read, can talk about many topics and has a side to her that can be very naughty. She doesn’t ACY overly amorous, but she has the confidence to be absolutely smoking with a glance.

It all comes down to personality (stuck ups and prudes ae eliminated), intelligence and physical appearance…in that order. No fatties, skin and boneys, fans of themselves or “shop til you drop” ladies. I’m 6’4”, work out, keep myself abreast of world topics and will always treat my date like a queen. Open doors for you, consider it my job to make you WANT to go out with me. Treat the ladoes like a queen or like you would want to be treated. Jack asses and dolts (men) and women who think they are doing YOU a favor by going out with you are quickly and enthusiastically kicked to the curb. And it SHOULD be that way.

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

Anon ok, I’ll take jail. But we’ll miss you.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

Anon

It’s just that, prior to now, anyway, I haven’t seen it verbalized so overtly on this blog, that’s all. And it’s refreshing to see.

Bit-O

Good one. LOL!

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

Ms. U that short person is well and costing me more $$$ with driving/paying to camps. But hey i am the Momma Bank…FDIC of $TooMuch.00 hundreds.

Hope to find that you and yours r well. Is the Summerhill Reunion @ Grant this yr?

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

Funny. I like men that can make or take a good joke. A sense of humor and quick wit..gets me everytime.

By Simp

June 9, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

Simply Me Are you attracted to the metro-sexual male? Cemeeli WHere is breakfast?

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

I love a dude that isn’t always stressing me about sex….one who is not constantly trying to negotiate some sort of ‘session’ whether it be, well just let me do you and you don’t have to do anything…(Setup #1)…or just give me a hand job (Setup #2)

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Raqi

“…a stable thought process. Steady. Controlled.”

Thanks for expounding on that. :-) That definitely describes me.

By 2CPTG©

June 9, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

Anon…..don’t knock the Boomquisha’s (hoodrats) of the world; I wouldn’t marry one, but they’re cool as hell to hang with.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

Darrell don’t be surprised that the blog females has a soft spot for a well-read, intelligent guy.??? Who do you think we are? That was funny! You shouldn’t have thought less of us!

By SeanJohnson3000

June 9, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog..I have a weakness for intelligent loyal women that believe in me…team me up with a smart chick that has my back through thick and thin that will follow my lead..and we can accomplish anything….on the flip side…a dumb chick that THINKS she knows everything that questions me…can get deez nutz

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

Morning, *QC. :-) The ankle is better, thanks, but I’m gonna hold off on going back to the gym until Wednesday or Thursday.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

Simp is your birthday this week? Do you have a Gas card?

Breakfast let’s see…

By SlimOne

June 9, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

For Real If you’re here, please send SJ3k a $2 gas card for his birthday from me. Make sure you write on there, No Need to thank me. lol

By MsU

June 9, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Girl I know what you mean, my boys are draining me too. Im not sure of the location,I will have to check back with my cousin. I’ll be sure to let you know as soon as I double check with her.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Cracking up at your new moniker SlimOne, but I ^5 that post!

By Binford2K8

June 9, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

I’m a sucker for a tall, flirty girl who digs being around me and doesn’t want it to end.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

slimone That’s the old…eat and slip in. lmao! It’s amazing how women go through or expericence some of the same foolish ness! smh! well just let me do you and you don’t have to do anything…(Setup #1)…or just give me a hand job (Setup #2)

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs “You shouldn’t have thought less of us!”

It’s not that I “thought less” of anyone, so please don’t misinterpret. What I meant by “surprised” is that I found it interesting that the attributes of “intelligent” and “well-read” took priority over other, more physical attributes, that’s all. I was speaking only in that context, and not in the sense that I’d developed any preconceived notions about anyone.

It would be hypocritical of me to say I’m turned on by a woman’s humility, only to turn right around and act condescending toward someone else.

By 2CPTG©

June 9, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

“I have a weakness for intelligent loyal women that believe in me…team me up with a smart chick that has my back through thick and thin that will follow my lead..and we can accomplish anything….on the flip side…a dumb chick that THINKS she knows everything that questions me…”

I heard that! ain’t nuttin sexier than hearin a lil mama say, “it’s on you papi….whatever you say!”

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

Sexy is a man that will watch and can find humor in cartoons. I don’t mean animated movies. I am talking about Tom and Jerry, The Flintstones, The Jetsons.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

“…is that I found it interesting that the attributes of “intelligent” and “well-read” took priority over other, more physical attributes…. Ok, I got what you’re saying. The outcome may have been different if Bella hadn’t instructed us to leave the physical out (LOL) JMO!

By Bosseswife

June 9, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

On the material side;I love when my man wears cufflinks and monogramed shirts…..total turn on! On the spirtual side; I love when he understands my mood and “get’s me” without having to explain myself.

By QC

June 9, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

I love a Man with a great sense of humor…it does’nt take much to make me laugh, or make me happy..just be YOU and everything will be just fine..honestly, someone like BK, 2cptg, ForReal, Truth…they’re all cool guys, that’s a “real turn on to Me”

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Blow The ole eat-n-slip LMAO, i never knew that’s what it was called. But you’d think dudes would outgrow that type of bargaining.

Darrell We might need you to sit out the next few minutes, cause you fouling (or p** folks off already) too much in the first half like Kobe. lol

SexyL Yeah i see Truth won’t let Slimgina go so i figured I’d put a twist on it. lol Is there a female version term of the male form of Blueballz?? Things that make you go Mmmm

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs “The outcome may have been different if Bella hadn’t instructed us to leave the physical out”

Exactly. :-)

By MsU

June 9, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Okay i can’t stop daydreaming about all the wonderful things I love about a man. What a way to start Monady off

By Simp

June 9, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Ceme, My birthday was on wed. I have a gas card, would you like to use it?

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Good day all!

Raqi I can identify with borderline OCD bcause I am. Ihave to hav everything in order..I clean up the table before leaving a restuarant. I will not leave dirty dishes in the sink. I have to have a fresh vaccumed carpet. When I move I have to leave the place spotless and reclean the place I am moving into and all boxes must be unpacked and everything in it’s place before going to bed…oh and I have to make my bed when I first awaken. And I bath 3 times a day for the most part. I know…nuts right?

ARED & Slim I have a combo of your weaknesses…a tall good smelling man will give a sista whiplash if he walks by because he definetely a neck snapper!

Also I love nerds! LOL I am an undercover Geek myself. A great sense of humor ( love to crack joikes and he had better be able to take them and dish them back at me) , a great sense of adventure, goofy like me, willing to watch a chick flick with me, takes pride in his appearance and hygiene, loves cartoons and cereal (I’m a big kid..I still rock to pig tails from while wearing tinkerbell panties and ruffle socks in the crib time to time.

anonymousella New word alert you guys… Technosexual LOL Girl where did you come up with tht one? LMAO…sorry I am gonna have to swagga-jack you on that one!

Wise Darrell wants a chick with chapped lips! I guess he does not know how uncomfortable that could be in a “certain situation”! LOL

B.O.T girl me too…if he can debate with me on certain subjects and be into the arts like me…oh my…it’s a panty dropper! Not to mention a sci-fi junky like me…oooh…

Truth I was introduced to cashmere at a very young age by my mami…so I own a lotof it..would not wear it in this hot azz weather though…

MsU where ya been girl?

Blow I like the list you have as well…except the Bowlegged-ness. Not my thing..looks like something is wrong with him. LOL

Cemeeli girl I am cracking up about the gas card…but I feel ya! now picturing a man in a cape flying to the gas pump and Cemeeli fainting as his pays and pumps her gas! LOL Wow..who knew buying gas fro somebody couls turn into a panty dropper? Hmmmm go figure.

Rickluvsem did you say 6’4…oh my! How ya doing? I am not the age range you desire..but heyyyy! Just kidding! LOL

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

2CPTG The trouble is women have come to think that it makes her less self sufficient to say or think such a thing.

To be woman enough to “let him” does not make you less of woman just a good one. However that honor is not bestowed on a man just because he has a sack of balls. He must walk the walk and talk the talk.

By 2CPTG©

June 9, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

shiiid, there’s a coupla y’all blog gals that I know we could make a mint together….just follow my lead:

Slim - me and you could have that flea market poppin! Whoever heard of an upscale flea market?

Auntie - me and you could could open up a chain of Cougar Lounges.

A Red - with your travels and connects, me and you could do some’n like ol boy, Kirk Wright, and set up some Investment Firms catering to athletes and other big shots.

QC - me and you could establish some Greeting cards.

6’1 - me and you could open up some adult novelty shops.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Slim

You crackin’ me up. LOL!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

Slim One Yes there is a name…the ole slip a roo!! lmao! What I can’t believe is that guys are still playin those games…Oh wait..yes I can.

Staceye Not the extreme bowlegged ness…Just a slight…Its sexy…not to mention the MAN package that comes along with it. lmao!

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

Wise Darrell wants a chick with chapped lips! I guess he does not know how uncomfortable that could be in a “certain situation”! LOL …..he hasnt dated in 8 years and when he does,chapped lips will be good to scrub some of that dirt off….

By 2CPTG©

June 9, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

“However that honor is not bestowed on a man just because he has a sack of balls. He must walk the walk and talk the talk.”

Neva had that prollem, lil mama……like them 5%’s, I “show and prove”!

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

My Achilles heel is a lil bit of **Truth/a lot of Darrell/2C/ForReal, a lot of Binford. Where’s my Easy Baked oven…time to concoct my own man!

By jraw

June 9, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

I had a weakness for women that kept a clean house and women that could function well in all types of social environments and didn’t mind going to a variety of them. I also loved women that read books, (it seems to keep them spontaneous. I definitely like to see my wife with a zane book in her hand. It normally leads to some good times.)

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

QC sweetie…so what are you really saying? that 10:27 was hmmmm. I think when you added the one who you…first was…uh-oh. ok

What the mess have you been waiting on Simp? Let’s go…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

Staceye “…Wise Darrell wants a chick with chapped lips! I guess he does not know how uncomfortable that could be in a “certain situation”! LOL”

Good one. LMAO!!!!

By MsU

June 9, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

Hey Stacey How are you?

Bosseswife Are we related? On the spirtual side; I love when he understands my mood and “get’s me” without having to explain myself. oh and I have thang for the cufflinks too.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

Stac didn’t picture me droppin’ em @ the gas pump…but i guess you right. LOL!

I was introduced to cashmere at a very young age by my mami…so I own a lotof it..would not wear it in this hot azz weather though.

I’m hot with just the thought of any extra clothing right now.

You are on some sillies this morning gurl!

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

Staceye, I think he was talking about the fragrance not the article of clothing????

By lovelyliz

June 9, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Accents. British accents: English, Irish, Scottish, Welsh, Australian.

Just something about those Brits

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Melo “he hasnt dated in 8 years and when he does,chapped lips will be good to scrub some of that dirt off….”

Man, ya’ll on a roll this morning. Too funny. LOL!!!

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

Sorry, but that was funny Melo!

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

Lol @ Ms. U not sleeping on the cuff links!

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Kym Enchantess Divine? Cee tryin to figure out if you gonna break the record for The Blogger With The Most Interesting Monikers

By Binford2K8

June 9, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

SIGH! Only if we could “Frankenstein” the perfect person.

By lovelyliz

June 9, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Accents. British accents: English, Irish, Scottish, Welsh, Australian.

Just something about those Brits

By Simp

June 9, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

I have a weakness for Cemeeli. I know I always will have a meal. I have a weakness for slimdryvagina, You will always keep me laughing and the thought of getting it wet. I also have a weakness for sexyleggs, to see them leggs glide across the dance floor is like a visual viagra. WHEW!!!! Cemeeli I’ll meet you at QT on sidney marcus at 5:01 for gas.

By Binford2K8

June 9, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

SIGH! Only if we could “Frankenstein” the perfect person.

By QC

June 9, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Cee-me-me girl…you know me, i just like what i like…

Hey Staceye

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

luv a woman who understands the value of money,is clean in the home and eats well.I look at the physical(sorry Bella) and if ur legs are as thick as that oak tree, ur belly as pouchy as mother kangaroo with baby and ur face a puffy as ur butt….hmmmmmmmmm.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 11:05 AM | Link to this

SJ what do you mean by questions you? Wouldn’t you rather have a chick that asks questions instead of assuming? I used to be the person who assume dthe worst of something/somebody. Now I ask questions and trust that you will give me the truth. Why is that a bad thing?

2C “it’s on you papi….whatever you say!” Um…where you find that? LOL If I say whatever you say…trust I am being sarcastic as hell! LOL

Melo LMAO…you are wrong for that one!

Sexyleggs oops..I had a blond Chrissy moment! LOL yes I took it to Three’s Company..I love the reruns on TV Land.

*Lovelyliz Loves me some Brits too! They can Austin Powers me right out of my clothes! LOL After speaking to my family over there I find myself with the accent for a few minutes afterwards! By accident…because I use many accents when I act they just slip out on their own from time to time.Slippery lil’ suckers….

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

I have a weakness for cocoa brown skin, with big arms, and a big stick, LOVES oral sex and HE IS MENTALLY STIMULATING…mmmmm magically delicious!

By Anna

June 9, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

I’m with Wise I love a man who’s into reading—and not just magazines either. And if they love reading the same type of books I do—I’m a goner. I also love a man who is into stimulating conversations—politics, economy,philopshical(sp)issues…I guess I’m into well rounded individuals…always have been.

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

2E’s There’s this guy that visits my co-worker on the other side of my 6 ft cube wall. I have never seen this dude but I look forward to what scent will permeate my wall everyday around lunch time. I asked her to ask him what he wears but he’s a mixer and never reveals what he wears. Have me thinking Denzel or LL Cool J on the otherside of my wall but in reality might be more like Craig Mack. LOL!

2CPTG Whoever heard of an upscale flea market? We can start by accepting credit/debit cards & serving instant coffee, and 2 day old Krispy Kreme doughnuts lol

I love a dude in boxer briefs & a clean lineup w/a helluva sexy goatee.

Darrell With my drygina and your crusty lips, we could never get together. Just thinking about it makes me wanna pull out the WD40. Oouch!

Simp I’ll be at QT off Sidney Marcus at 5:00 for gas before Cee Gets there.

On the real I filled up Friday and it cost me a whopping $70!!! That’s like having another bill.

Truth Can I get a piggy back ride to work for the rest of the week?

By Brooklyn

June 9, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

I’m with Wise I love a man who’s into reading—and not just magazines either. And if they love reading the same type of books I do—I’m a goner. I also love a man who is into stimulating conversations—politics, economy,philopshical(sp)issues…I guess I’m into well rounded individuals…always have been.

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

A sexy man is a man that can appreciate and enjoy a plate of simple scrambled eggs. With cheese if you prefer.

Yeah I can get all fancy and make a great Greek omelette, delightful eggs benedict and tasty eggs Florentine.

But if you can get with my simply scrambled I can get with you.

(LOL, my brother says I am the only person that he knows that can 10 different egg dishes in my sleep.)

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 9, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Lovelyliz you reminded me of my other important bit-o-attraction, northern accents, specifically NY, that is Brooklyn….OMG!! I keep attracting these dudes from Brooklyn and I love their ste.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

Cee making sure the leftover Mahi-Mahi, roasted potatoes, greek salad and corn-on-the-cobb is warmed and some nice cool drinks r in the soft coolers for today.

Simp Okaaay so we at, Sydney Marcus Blvd. @ 5:01 with a detour to Lenox, (oh- oops forgot to tell you we have to hit this store that has specials on Joan and David shoes buy 2 get a re-up on your Gas card-special). You like cake?

Thanks for the compliment.

QC…“i just like what i like”… I know sweetie…i know.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

Anna “I also love a man who is into stimulating conversations — politics, economy,philopshical(sp)issues…”

Raises hand. I’m definitely into all those things. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who challenges you to use a few brain cells every now and then. ;-)

By anonymousella

June 9, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

@staceye girl, i jacked “technosexual” from wise diva

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

What up Blog…

The female sitting off to the side, maybe in the company of another friend, wearing glasses, conservatively dressed with classy mannerisms, surrounded by positive energy (believe it or not, you can feel that), will definitely get my attention.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Slim I would be on dude like the people in that deoderant commercial…sniffing him like crazy!

**

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Nephew, I have the perfect placement of the chaise lounges that were just delivered. Yes, we can and will make a mint!

Another funny by the remarkable Slimdrygina…Darrell With my drygina and your crusty lips, we could never get together. Just thinking about it makes me wanna pull out the WD40. Oouch!

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

I love a man that’s not afraid to play UNO just as animated as he would play spades. lol

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Slim “Just thinking about it makes me wanna pull out the WD40.”

I’mma leave that one alone. LOL!

By Simp

June 9, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Cemee, I’m done with cake. Thanks for the offer. Lenox will be close today because of a gas shortage. They are expanding the hours and closing on mondays.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

BlueKolla, where did you see me (LOL).

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 11:35 AM | Link to this

with big arms, and a big stick, LOVES oral sex and HE IS MENTALLY STIMULATING Darrell is intellectual,his stick is loaded with crude(oil) sperm,u 2 can get together..just take it slow in the beginning 4 his sake. * love a dude that isn’t always stressing me about sex* why is asking for sex stressful anyway Slim.Is ur sweet spot tiny and slim like the rest of ur body? If we not talking marriage, then lets just phluck.I too love a man that can dance Sexxy, as long as the dance can be duplicated horizontally, thats cool..i hate it when the wman wants me to dance with her close, rubbing my long,thick and forked dyck on her dress etc but when it comes to the real deal,she chickens out….teasers are for teenagers.Adults do the do,wipe each other and leave to live another day.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 11:35 AM | Link to this

…you can feel good & positive energy Blue. It’s like the sexiasness thing eevvver! It’s spiritual, and “buy the spirit” that owns me. Quiet confidence!…and you can’t go wrong.

Oh, whas up btw?

By SeanJohnson3000

June 9, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

@ Stacey that is the reason i am attracted to smart women because there wouldnt be a big need to question me…she would understand and know what she has in a man. ..and will be able to compliment me while we enhance each other. TOO many women question men unrightfully so …and i say that because to get where i am in life i have been through and seen a lot..and with becoming a man .. a certain level of wisdom is achieved…

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

QC I told you, your blog manners are impeccable. See… you gon’ make me walk all the way down to the courthouse in 96 degree heat, with rose in mouth, playing a violin. ;)

Cee What up you?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

Meo “Darrell is intellectual,his stick is loaded with crude(oil) sperm,u 2 can get together..just take it slow in the beginning 4 his sake.”

LMAO!!! I think you missed your calling, dude, cuz you need to be on stage somewhere. LOL!

By QC

June 9, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

Hey BK

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

Simp said with my island gal voice. Can we revamp the Lenox stop and walk or shuttle over to Phipps then?

@Blue

you gon’ make me walk all the way down to the courthouse in 96 degree heat, with rose in mouth, playing a violin. ;)

DO IT!

Make QC serenade your happy self aaall the way back to the water cooler for more reasons than one.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Melo, you are off da chain and it’s not even noon. I’m with you on that. I have’nt slowed danced in about 20 years. Really, I don’t like men I don’t know rubbing up on me so I eliminated slow dancing. Probably don’t know how to do it standing up any more…ooops. Is this much like riding a bike = it comes right back to you?

By Tazzee

June 9, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

The female sitting off to the side, maybe in the company of another friend, wearing glasses, conservatively dressed with classy mannerisms, surrounded by positive energy (believe it or not, you can feel that), will definitely get my attention.

Did someone call me? LOL!

Good Morning Folks!

I love a man that is intelligent and diverse. Someone that when you ask about his hobbies/what he does in his spare time, it’s something that you would never think based on his appearance or profession. When I say intelligent - any time a man can tell me something I don’t already know, it’s turns me on to no end!

By QC

June 9, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

BK if you do that i’ll have a big bottle of Dasani water waitin for you..But what i said is da truth.

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

Melo Were you on here when Truth stated a mistake he made when he was younger was always trying to get the puddy and he later learned if he didn’t stress it, more times than not the chick gave it freely and plentifully?? Well its stressful to me when every time we hang out I gotta here the old negotiation spill on getting the P. Saying No in 80 different languages gets old. And if i here, “well I can’t help that I’m attracted to you and I’m a man” one Mo time, imma scream. If you’re a grown azz man, you should be able to conduct yourself better than acting like a teeanager whose tired of wacking off in his mom’s basement to Vicky Secretions Catalogs. BTW, my CT weighs 5lbs on its own. LOL!

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

Leggs where did you see me (LOL).

In my subconscious. LOL

Cee …you can feel good & positive energy Blue. It’s like the sexiasness thing eevvver! It’s spiritual, and “buy the spirit” that owns me. Quiet confidence!…and you can’t go wrong.

hmmm… silence here is golden

By "Charles," The Original

June 9, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

I am attracted to women who are not completely brainwashed by the world in which we live. They aren’t totally indoctrinated by universities, churches, television, books, talk radio, movies, newspapers, etc.

The ladies who caught my eye were always able to think independently of outside influences. Otherwise, I would immediately lose interest.

By Tazzee

June 9, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Physically - a beautiful smile gets me every time. That and nice hands.

By Tazzee

June 9, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

ARed Are you near Houston?

By QC

June 9, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Cee-Mee Oh now you know i will pull out a little “Anita Baker”

hmmmm….with all my heart i love you baby…sweet looooove don’t you ever go away..

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this

SJ you never know until you ask. I would never want a man to assume about me. If he wants to know something..just ask. I have nothing to hide. To me it seems like dude who hate the questions have something to hide and want the oblivious chick who can turn a blind eye to his acts. HMMM!

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 9, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

“Charles,” The Original are you Nigerian per chance? Just curious. You remind me of someone.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

QC don’t be sharing ONE of the selections you’ll be singing at my ceremony!

and…he’s still trying to cool off from that 10:27. don’t hurt ‘em.

here yall share a ice-cream sandwhich, i’ve got plenty…

By "Charles," The Original

June 9, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Bit-O-Hunny,

I was born and reared in the great State of Georgia. But as they say, everyone has a twin.

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

Slim, cool….i guess i just caught the stress part and ran with that.I waz thinking maybe u got an affliction that makes sex sore or painful….i had a girl once in my 30s..she must have had some….?.i dnt knw 4 sure coz evrytime we did the do,it pained her and made her wince.she wld never get that wet anyway…it waz real torure. I hope she got sme treatment for that.Girlzz like Teresa who lose their minds in the do are a real.Nothing beats a classy and clean woman who is a w******* in bed….

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Tazzee “Someone that when you ask about his hobbies/what he does in his spare time, it’s something that you would never think based on his appearance or profession.”

Not sure if this would pass a a full-fledged topic idea, but it would be cool one day if people would feel comfortable enought to share just one fact about themselvles that the rest of us may not know. Again, not sure if it would fly, but it would be interesting, I think.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Ok, I would like to ask this of the blog. What did I do wrong, if anything:

Here goes…A girlfriend and I went to Dugan’s this past Friday. A male friend of mine met me there about an hour later. 4 drinks were already consumed by the two of us before he arrived. He orders a beer. We all ordered food. The three of us were getting along, cracking many jokes and swapping stories of foolish things we did back in the day. Anyway, when the bill comes I say we should split the food up 3 ways but we can pay for our own drinks. I thought this to be fair. Well, my girlfriend calls me the next day asking what was wrong w/me. Why didn’t I insist the bill be divided 3 ways. Hell, we were already $22.00 into the bill before he arrived. Told her I didn’t think it was his responsibility to pay for our drinks. He didn’t ask us out. I invited him to join ME at Dugan’s. She goes on to say it would have been the manly thing for him to offer to split the bill 3 ways and if not he could at least offered to buy us a drink. I so disagree. She said she understood that I thought I was being fair and honest, but I should have kept my mouth closed. I vehemently disagreed. WLBs and MLBs, did I do something wrong? Should I have sat silently by waiting to see what my male friend would have said or done? I didn’t think any of this was necessary. We drank, shyt we pay! This is her second time meeting my male friend.

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Cee Wha? …lookin’ at’chu sideways.

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

A fresh cut and some cologne neva hurt the man….

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

I want a ice-cream cookie sandwich.

mytwocnts are you van-jacking the ice-cream truck? stock market is down…maybe we can come-up on the novelty manufacturers.

By QC

June 9, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

Gotcha Cee-mee

By QC

June 9, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

SexyL You did the right thing..i went through that same scenario last month and i did “exactly” what did…besides it was fair/the right thing to do…your girlfriend was just trying to get over on him..besides like you said “you invited HIM to join you…next time just leave her a$$ at home and not invited to join you 2…

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

Sexy your friend is a leech and a troll. She is just wack. SMH

Slim and dry gina with a hint of scratch BTW, my CT weighs 5lbs on its own I can give you a ride but that ct has to stay home. Dayumm

Ok ladies, what are you giving your men for pappi day? All cheap azz chicks will get banned from blogsville for 3 days. If you need some ideas I have some.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

Simply put, you did exactly the right thing - split the food, but to each his/her own on the drinks. And, with all due respect, your friend violated rule #1: NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING. I mean, what if that had been me hanging out with ya’ll and I don’t even drink?! Your friend wouldn’t have considered that though, having already assumed that just because I’m the man, I should kick in for a share of the entire bill - drinks and all. smh

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

We drank, shyt we pay! i wld defer to BlackMamba on this one…i wanna hear what her opinion is..but im cool with ur thinking Sexxy.Looks like ur friend wldnt mind the man paying and getting his nutz licked in return(by her)….i think thats where she coming from(ask her) either way, i wld be cool with that….But BlackMamba what u think?

By PornStar* in da Building (**6'1**)

June 9, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

Off topic here but I wanted to ask do any of you know of anyone who went to the middle east to do contract work? Now back to the regular scheduled topic

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Sexxy You did the right thing. It was the fair thing to do and why is the expectation always there because he is the man. He was joining you..not treating you. It was not like he crashed the party.

Some women have twisted ideas

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

Darrell here is some thing about me most would never guess from my appearance. I can layout, frame, drywall, finish and paint an entire room. And I am not afraid of spiders.

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

Leggs She goes on to say it would have been the manly thing for him to offer to split the bill 3 ways and if not he could at least offered to buy us a drink.

Damn. Which Dugan’s was this, and what does this broad look like, so that I can make sure to K.I.M., just in case she fools me with the glasses.

By Tazzee

June 9, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

SexyL I would have done the exact same thing. Now if he would have offered to pay for my drinks I would not have denied him that pleasure, LOL.

By **Bosseswife**

June 9, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

^5 MsU Thinking about what I liked about my man made me call him for some quick text sex! I can’t wait until 2night Good Topic!!!!!!!

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

Truth It is Father’s Day it is to celebrate men who have taken the leap into father hood. Not get some dude a gift because he is a man day. That is what valentine’s is for.

Always trying to get a free handout..any holiday..next he will want a Arbor Day gift.—some people’s children..

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Oh yeah to add to that Darrell I know the difference between a framing nail, drywall nail, roofing nail, finishing nail and a hang nail.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

Raqi

Are you for hire? (To paint, that is.) LOL!

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

6’1 a client of mine went in december. He’ll be gone for 2 years.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs you were right. He should not have to pay for your drinks unless he invited you out. The way your friend feels is golddigger-ish! LOL I would never expect a guy to take care of the bill when I was already eating/drinking. Even if we come together..I make sure I do not eat/drink more than I can pay for. I ain’t nut licking for some dranks…MELO! LOL You are so nasty!

QC I have no man..but I am buying my dad cologne and a gas card…he has a crap load of clothes and shoes. He says NY gas is killer. So I think that would be appreciated. My parents were supposed to come see me this week and was surprising him by taking him to the father daughter dance. But since they are not coming…oh well.I will dance in my crib by myself.

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Kym slow down tonto. I’m talking about for the fathers.

By D'NLITEN1

June 9, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

I think that some of yall are naming things just to fill up space. Since when did humility, intelligence, or being able to engage in a stimulating conversation become weaknesses of yours when falling for the opposite sex? Those sound like strong, essential qualities to have in a mate to me. Don’t ever downplay those as weaknesses. Anyway some of my weaknesses are women with big beautiful eyes and a rotund backside I BET YALL NEVER HEARD ANYBODY SAY DAT B4 LOL JP. I also like women who don’t have any reservations about being a lil goofy every now and then. Sillyness is a turn on with the right package to me and it compliments my serious side well. Anyway my 28th bday is tomorrow and I will be celebrating by endulging in more than a few adult beverages while attempting to cut a rug with some young ladies at a spot where they play games like madden and spades after they move the tables out of the way RUNON SENTENCE OF THE MONTH RIGHT THERE. He shoots… He SCORES WINK WINK!! 2 fingas my people… now let me revert back to my screenwatching!

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

Blue ?…the song and singing…i can’t sing…no need to look at me like a baby calf at a new gate.

Ice-cream cookie sandwhich on me?

Leggs…know that her view of hanging and fellowshiping (eats,drinks) with men/a man is different than yours. Hope your fervent disagreement to how the check was paid did not cause a demise. Your manage of that was fair.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Thanks guys. I swear I thought this entire weekend what have I missed in treating people like people? I knew in my heart I did the right thing, but thought could there be a chance I should see things her way. Thank you, I’m going to continue to be me, because I have a soul! Truth you were in my head the loudest (LOL) meaning I knew you would side w/me and trash her!

You got it KymED, He was joining you..not treating you. I must say I was so surprised that she called me up talking that nonsense.

Ok, back to regularly scheduled programming….I love seeing men in linen suits!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

6”1 Yeah I know a few ppl went over there to get the 100k…But that is a bit much don’t you think. It’s really risky and then you are away from your family too. But to each their own.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

Kym

Speaking of Father’s Day, it’s really funny how whenever I spend that day with my kids, they always say they’re taking me out to dinner, but what they really mean by that is that I get to pick the restaurant, but dad still pays. LOL!

By lovelyliz

June 9, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

Bit-O-Hunny

Boston men and those Boston accent

By The Truth

June 9, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

On the physical. A chick with c cups or better in a cold store and thin shirt/bra. Hmmm I’m salivating thinking about it.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

D’NLITE “Since when did humility, intelligence, or being able to engage in a stimulating conversation become weaknesses of yours when falling for the opposite sex? Those sound like strong, essential qualities to have in a mate to me.”

I think you might be missing the point. We aren’t talking about “weaknesses” in a negative sense, but those attributes which are so desirous in a mate that we’re even more endearing toward that person. In other words, these are “wants” of ours that the other person possesses that make us “weak” for them. Make sense?

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Darrell Simply put, you did exactly the right thing - split the food, but to each his/her own on the drinks.

I ain’t splittin’ sh!t; been burned too many times on that community bill BS. For that reason, I eat before I get to a spot, and for drinks I’ve got cash on hand or I’m running a personal tab the bar.

I’d usually use the plastic, but even when folks did chip in the cash, sometimes I’d end up paying for more than my fair share. Homies and chicks will try you.

But you’re trying to be cool and not raise up about a few funky dollars…

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Darrell

it’s really funny how whenever I spend that day with my kids, they always say they’re taking me out to dinner, but what they really mean by that is that I get to pick the restaurant, but dad still pays.

Lol…they really want to…but you know. sweet of them to “take YOU out”.

By PornStar* in da Building (**6'1**)

June 9, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

6”1 Yeah I know a few ppl went over there to get the 100k…But that is a bit much don’t you think. It’s really risky and then you are away from your family too. But to each their own. WHAT WERE THEY DOING OVER THERE?

By Poppa Grande

June 9, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

Kym I remember that you were eyeing a mac. I have a friend that works at the Apple store in Lenox. She mentioned that they have a promotion going on in which ipods are free with the purchase of a macbook, imac, and someother computer. Its for people who going to further their education (undergrad, grad school or professional schools-law or med school). I think that details are on the itunes site as well.

Just passing some info along

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli “Lol…they really want to…but you know. sweet of them to “take YOU out”.”

You’re right. LOL! I know what’s in their heart, so it’s all good. :-)

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

Darrell LOL of course..daddy pays.

Okay we are taking my daddy to our tradition spot for such occassions(Golden Corral) we will be inline behind the other nine hundred other familes at the Daddies day brunch. I will be bring the big purse so that I might confiscate cookies for later..LOL.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye, this was the part I couldn’t get with….when I was already eating/drinking

BK she doesn’t wear glasses but if you’re into tatas….hers are HUGE.

Cemeeli, no demise, but had to let her know she was wrong from where I was standing. I’m with Truth, I’ll leave her home because she cramped my style with the eye rolling. She rolled her eyes when he went to tally up the bill (at my request). Hopefully he didn’t see it. I didn’t see it, but she told me about it. AND SHE’S 50!!!!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

Kym

Your 1:20 reminds me of another weakness I have, which is for a woman who doesn’t mind eating at Golden Corral. If she’s down with that, then we’re halfway to the altar already. LOL!

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

Poppa G Thanks for the info I already peeped it out. I have been in research mode for weeks on the laptop. And we can get a educational discount too…like a hundred buck. I think I am going to upgrade my ipod touch and give my son this one..that way he can give my niece his old nano(I will get her a nice pink cover.)

Reuse, Recycle

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this

I just walked to my mailbox and back and lost 5 pounds.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this

QC a team associate is having a babyshower next week and she asked me first thing this morning was i attending/rsvp wasn’t in. So at lunch she bring’s me her last week vacay pictures AND pics of her eldest child’s bday, hmph. Please advise me on diverse and balancing how i KNOW i’ll be the only one that looks like me = brown at shower. Not really feeling high falootin’ Vinings fellowshiping …this is going to be interesting, agian…I’m not married to ivy league, nor own a $300+.

maybe i’d bring gift to work…but then…

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

sexxy forgive her,with gas at $4.25, she needs a break too and if she thoght,wrongly that ur male friend was a sucker, it was a miss.The money uall spend waz not ridiculous.On good happy nite,i can treat 2 ladies with no strings attached.When we part ways i know sme will be stressing and thinking about me…….

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Darrell it was so hot Saturday, I was out sweeping out the garage and down the driveway. Every stitch of clothing I was wearing was drenched. It’s not even summer yet.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Then I better stay put until the sun goes down (ROFL).

By Single in da Atl aka QC

June 9, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this

Staceye that’ll be nice…if my Dad was alive i’d buy him what ever he wanted…

out to lunch

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

Leggs

Rolling eyes and ATTITUDE wit it! Hayo!…shoulda said; Um babyfriend let me give you a lil life lesson*.

Noone owes you anything!

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

I was out sweeping out the garage and down the driveway where was Mason? ima take over if he plays those dumb games,he dont know what he got…..

By Willie Dynamite

June 9, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Leggs I’m guessing that ol girl is single. Cats and Quilts at 50.

On-Topic- My Weakness has to be confidence. A chick that is confident in her own beauty without going over the top with the hair and makeup. In my past I’ve found that this type was usually down to earth and cool to be around.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

…she text me the coordinator’s # to RSVP…is she serious?!!

and who in the hayo has a Baby Shower Coordinator!?!…we* just get together, stop by Church’s get a bucket of chicken, put ghetto game ideas together and throw the shower…Coordinator???

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

Melo

Dude, can’t you just be satisfied with picturing Raqi all drenched is sweat from head to toe? Who the heck cares where Mason was? LOL!

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Cee Some people make a living coordinating parties and planning events. Like showers. I read somewhere that couples are throwing themed kids parties for like 2 year olds that can rank up there with the cost of some weddings.

By Single in da Atl aka QC

June 9, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

*Baby Shower Coordinator aka “Yo Best Friend” i planned 3 of my best friend showers..Cee you can just imagined if was a real Coordinator..i’ve helped out with several Weddings/Receptions..but i did it cause it was fun or i was just helping out someone…Kym..your new blog name is cute…sounds like you should be wearing a “Tiara”

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

The way to a man’s heart…da food or da good ochie wallie….

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this

with picturing Raqi all drenched iam looking at her teets right now as thre about to burst open her top and her tight azz and mini are enameled together.When she bended over to scoop some leaves and dirt,it didnt look like she had nikkers on..all i saw was shiny black on her front ‘twen her thighs..and then my eyes kind caught a shiny spec that blinded me….thats a sight we get only when Mason is out….i want to change professions and be a gardener or window cleaner….

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

Kym gurl. I’m tripping.

themed kids parties for like 2 year olds that can rank up there with the cost of some weddings. Sigh

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

QC Thank you..but I was thinking a long white sleeveless chaftan with a crown of white,red and pink flowers..

By Simply Me

June 9, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Well this Father’s Day will be a semi-sad day for me. My was diagonised with cancer last year (September) and his health has declined rapidly, so it will be very low key this year. Not the grand celebaration we normally have. However, we are just glad he is still around.

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

Darrell LOL. You would have thought some one had doused me with the water hose. It was hot.

melo he had gone to HD to get some replacement filters for the a/c unit and some ant killer. But what difference does it make if he was there or not? I am capable of sweeping out a freakin garage.

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 2:20 PM | Link to this

Lunchtime Observations:

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

Teresa, u must knw how to treat a man..wld u go buy ur man sme weed if he asked?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

Melo

Man, you sick!!!! LMAO!!!!

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

Cee and QC check this out..this was what Boris Kojoe(sp) and Nicole Parker did for their daughter and here is the company who put it on for them.

Posh Kid Party for 3 year old

Posh Tots

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Well hello there WillieD. That was funny, “cats and quilts.” Yes, she’s never been married. I still have some NaVan!

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Raqi tell Mason i can loan u guys my blower..u dnt have to be sweeping the garage and dveway in this 93 degree heat.I knw he will have an attitude and ask where u knw me from but im harmless….

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

Melo, don’t have them shut this blog down again because of your vivid posts…slow your roll!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

Raqi “I am capable of sweeping out a freakin garage.”

Which reminds me yet a another weakness I have: a woman who’s not so afraid of breaking a nail that she avoids getting her hands dirty at all costs. Or is that sexist, too? (Not that I care.) LOL!

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

Raqi/Melo/Darrell But what difference does it make if he was there or not? I am capable of sweeping out a freakin garage.

That’s exactly what I was thinking.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 9, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Good day Everyone, while having the stimulating conversations, intelligence, and lining right with the moon is great, my weakness is a man who’s not afraid of getting his hands dirty. WOW, if you’re good with your hands as in doing yard work, fixing on the car, or any other manual labor you’re sure to make sweat beads form on my head LOL I’ve met too many men who don’t do yard work or know anything about what’s under the hood of a car, can’t even fix a flat tire! What gives?

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

QC yea, this girl is a coordinator she has a webby and all. And if my cwrkr say one more time that she can’t decide if the babygirl’s name will be: Savannah, Emma and Gracie…imma explode!

okay done venting

*um can you help “coordinate” my next event?

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

slow your roll! u guys need to teach me sme ebonic slang so my posts can fly over the massa IT’s manning the blog…..i can only comune in pure english lexican..if the feds were sniffing 4 sme bad stuff and we all in it,i knw i wld be the 1st to go..but i will rat on all of u…

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

Truth I need some tips on what to give my pops for father’s day. He has just about everything he needs or wants. Furthermore, he has a hard time allowing me to do anything for him because I’m his daughter. (He’s the type if I want to take him to dinner for his bday, he won’t allow me to pay the check) Help a sistah out.

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

BlueK Your observations made me think about this weekend. I went to Piedmont park for a Co-Ed softball game. Lemme just say it was hotter than 1000lb chicks thighs…anyhoo….i’m leaving down Courtland, get to a red light and i see vagrant justa waiting on me to stop so he can ask for some $$$. I get to the light and sure enough he’s holding up some change and i told him I didnt have no money. He was like sistah you got a bottled water or something. God was looking out for him cuz i just so happened to have an unopened bottle of Gatorade leftover from the game. You could’ve thought I gave that man a $100 bill. He bowed and said, thank ya sistah! I saw him guzzling it down in my review mirror. Dayum it was a hot azz day.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli

Tell her to call is Savanemmacie and call it a day.

By Poppa Grande

June 9, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

Cee And if my cwrkr say one more time that she can’t decide if the babygirl’s name will be: Savannah, Emma and Gracie…imma explode!

Just tell your coworker that Savannah is a stripper name. She more than likely will cut that one out. It will be one less name to hear. j/k bnr

PG remembering to his Gold Club & Cheetah days. There were more dancers named Savannah & Tiffany than you could shake a stick at

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

8cemmeli* I am all for kids themed parties. I think my god daughter’s theme will be Alice in Wonderland…Yeah..I get to wear a costume! Oh wait..i have to go buy one that is child freindly. I do not think my current one is 2 year old friendly! LOL hey..I have done plenty of princess parties.I just pull out one of my pageant crowns and sashes and put on a poofy gown and instant princess to a groupp of lil’ girls. Heck if gas keep going up I think the Alice theme will be switched..either way I always get to be the character which is fine with me. I have a crap load of costumes. I always buy plenty after the halloween stores begin to close down the day after halloween. *Marie Antoinete anyone

By Single in da Atl aka QC

June 9, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

Kym, now that sounds pretty…i’mma check that sight out now..BK, baby those same beggin folks are right down on this end of peachtree skreet also…

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

MLL I’ve met too many men who don’t do yard work or know anything about what’s under the hood of a car, can’t even fix a flat tire! What gives?

I’ve heard other chicks make statements like that, but I just tell them, that’s what happens when you date Metro, and hang out uptown. LOL

But then again, on deeper thought, how you gon’ be bologna chick trying to date steak dinner daddy?

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

Oh Darrell don’t fool yourself, I wear work gloves. I keep my nails cut short now, so breaking one is not an issue. But calloused hand I can’t get with. I like being soft. LOL

By AmazonRed

June 9, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

Hey Tazzee - I’m in Dallas. If I were near Houston you would have heard from a sista! ;-)

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

Post Tot parties range from $600 to $1,400 for 10 children.

Yea most def a sushi and tea event there. But it just makes you wonder….

Kym I’m reluctant to tell you my kid has been invited/went to something equivalent or maybe even worse. And the parents also had a radio broadcast about his party. There was 4 bounce houses, all kinds of novelty/carnival machines w/attendants, 3 b-day party characters, balloon lift off, a DJ and a Chef for the parents meals.

i shouldn’t post what family this is b/c of so much drama surrounded w/them in the last year…anyway, they/he is a very popular family in the R&B/HipHop and fashion industry here in the A.

That mess is sa shame….

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

melo that post was the coup de grace. No longer amusing. And was only mildly before now. My fault for feeding the beast although done with the intent of humor. I thought.

By SummerJackson

June 9, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

I HAVE A QUESTION. WOULD ANYONE RECOMMEND SOMEONE WITH LARGE BREASTS TO WEAR A STRAPLESS SUNDRESS? I’VE BEEN EYEING THIS DRESS FROM ANTHROPOLOGIE FOR DAYS NOW BUT I’M NOT SURE BECAUSE 1. I’M A 38 DDD.

ANY SUGGESTIONS? TIA.

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

Another meet and greet at Dugans this Saturday?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

Raqi “But calloused hand I can’t get with.”

Calloused hands? No problem. Just take Slim’s advice and throw some WD-40 on it. LOL!

By SlimOne (aka Slimdrygina)

June 9, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

SummerJackson Why don’t you try one of those new bra’s that Jill Scott has been promoting. They might have the strapless bigem bra that you’ll need to wear that dress. I think they are in the Ashley Stewart stores if i’m not mistaken.

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

I likes a man in a Pen Striped Suite and carrying a Big, Black, Thick Bible. And hes got to be able to rightly divide the truth of the Words of our Savior Jesus Christ. Just sends chills up my bacck!!!

Every Sunday Deacon Julis gets up in front the church and leads the devotion, I get a little moist. That man can shonuf moan….Just wishes had a few mo teeth.

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 9, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

SummerJackson, I’ve definitely worn a strapless sundress, with a strapless bra of course. I’m a 38D.

Have I ever mentioned how I love how this blog always turns sexual in tone no matter what the topic? You guys are hilarious. Gotta love the freedom of anonymity right?

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

Cee I am not saying it is a bad thing if you have the money spend it. Do you by all means. I just think 1,200 dollars plus for the birtday party of a one year old..(who is not going to even know its their birthday is a bit out there.) An 1200 plus for the spa party of a 9 or 10 year old girl is also out there. But for some people it works they let someone else do all the planning and clean up no muss no fuss.

The Enchantress is Cheap.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I love coordinating things…showers, bachelorettes, weddings, b-days, divorce parties, etc…

Oh I happen to like the names Savannah and Emma! LOL Ok you can now throw your shoe at me… LOL

Summer Jackson Nooooo don’t do it to yourself. The strapless bras suck azz! No support…they have the clear strap bras but…I wouldn’t recommend them for DDD hooters! You may have a strap pop and hit you in the eye.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

@ PoppaG/Darrell I just told her. laughing So now it’s a new semi-sultry name = Georgia …sigh…

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

Summer As long as you have the right foundation. You can wear that dress. Go to Intimacy in Phipps plaza. They have something that will accommodate you or you can order something online. Take it from a heavy chested sistah.

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

@Melo..in regard to your question…Yes

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

Summer As long as you have the right foundation. You can wear that dress. Go to Intimacy in Phipps plaza. They have something that will accommodate you or you can order something online. Take it from a heavy chested sistah.

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

Summer As long as you have the right foundation. You can wear that dress. Go to Intimacy in Phipps plaza. They have something that will accommodate you or you can order something online. Take it from a heavy chested sistah.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Kym “…I just think 1,200 dollars plus for the birtday party of a one year old..(who is not going to even know its their birthday) is a bit out there.”

Here’s what I think about that idea.

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Last Sunday, I went to get in the prayer line and I thinks when the Pator was praying fo me I was felt up by one of Deacons. I ain’t 100% sure cause the anoiting hit me and I fell out on the flo, But I’m pretty sure it wasn’t Julis this time., I think it was Deacon Scott. He is always making slick comments bout how I look.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?

By Willie Dynamite

June 9, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

Leggs I’d forgotten about that Navan. Bet its bout gone by now huh.

BK 2:45 on point. Thats the same chick that thinks Hamburger Helper is a throwin down.

Kym/Similac My kids been to parties like that. I couldnt believe some of em. I then had to reign in the wifey trying to keep up with the Jones(in this case the Chancellors)lol. For baby girls 2nd we had a regular party and put down a big sheet in the middle of the floor and just let her do whatever she wanted with her cake. She had a ball just running through that cake. She says she remembers that but dont remember the parties where I spent $$$. Imagine that.

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 9, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Church Lady you win for the funniest post of the day. Congratulations….LOL

By Jazzyone11

June 9, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

I love it when my man can express himself in love, in life, in general and not be afraid of it or having feelings..

I love when my man goes out and texts me to check on me and tell me he loves me..

I love it when my man cooks for me and brings me breakfast in bed.. I love it when my man doesn’t make plans until he asks me if we have any ..

I love it when my man extends the offer to go with him to places that he knows Im okay with him doing on his own just to be courteous..

I love when my man stashes cash at my house and calls me to tell me to go play hide and seek….

I love my man and he loves me…God was good when he created man..sigh..

I especially loved it when my man told me we were soulmates this weekend….sigh..yes im in love…LOL

By abc

June 9, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Nobody can work on cars these days. The days of do-it-yourself tuneups and repairs are long gone, unless you’re driving a ‘72 Malibu. Decent enough ride, but c’mon… modern cars aren’t like that.

Yardwork, change a tire, sure. Work on the car? No way, I’ll get a new car first, if that sucker breaks down much. I’ve bought a new car because an alternator went out. Unreliable cars are a money pit.

By SummerJackson

June 9, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

thanks Bit

Slim Jill’s Bra looks like a death trap, lol and I always get weird looks walking in Ash Stewart

Staceye lol, I wouldn’t want that mishap!

Atl Lady, I went to Intimacy and had no luck there :(

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

Kym 1200 for a first birthday???

Birthday cake from Publix - $30

Tube of ice cream - $6

12 toddlers in a closed room with a roll of toilet paper working themselves into a frenzy and an afternoon nap soon to follow - Priceless.

By Jamoca

June 9, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon, ALL!!!

Wassup CEE, TRUTH, MML (girl, you read my mind with your 2:31), alright, nah BLUE!!!…..and how can I forget, where’s “Dem Summm”? LOL!!!

On Topic:

I have been known to fall for the older, “spoady” type of menfolk,…they’re so clean and many of them get that much better with age….or even some of the younger fellows, (but I just love it when they have that “old-man’s soul” about themselves….)

Nicely shaped, bald head….swinty (almost “chingy”) eyes….deep, calming and steady voice ….smells “hella-good” and don’t get me started on the variety of skin tones (golden honey to the velvet mocha)….look at ‘em and you know brutha man is so serious about his business, however he has a great sense of humor that is not so easily revealed…cool, calm, collective, self assured, looks you “dead in your eyes”, whenever he addresses you…good with his hands (not just w/ Jamoca, but esp when it comes to outdoor chores)….love em’ when they know what there doin’ and it shows in how much pride they take in their work …educated with impeccable mannerisms, esp with the ladies…

AND at the same time….he can make himself quite comfortable at “Big Mama’s” , while we share a plate of collard greens, black-eyed peas n’ neckbones with some sweet cornbread and even get down with the chitlins, YES chitlins!!!….heyal, we can even hit up the “hood spots” with the best wings, fried fish, etc…just watchin’ him lick his fingers and all…love it when he can hang with the best of both….(now picturing Ving Rhames….”and she likes it….heyyyy”)

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Stac strapless bras don’t do much…you’re right. personally i just wear the Maidenform tube-top to supress jiggle. But then i’m not as well endowed as Ms. Jackson…sounds like my mommas up-top. She loves a Maidenfrom Store gift card i’ve heard the stories Summer.

…and you on my coordinating list anyway! - you don’t have to solicit services…you already in charge of 1) “Don’t say his name _” game at my bachelo…imeant Bridal Shower.

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Darrell LMAO I concur..I would rather spend less and put the rest in a college fund for my son. I mean I can show my kid a good time without going broke. I was just thinking about something I heard Tony Brown say long ago. We will spend all kinds of crazy money on clothes and sneakers for kids but will balk at the idea of investing in their educations.

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

Summer Don’t give up so easily. You might have to call and back order, but try roamoan’s.com and jessicalondon.com. Also try mystique. Mystique is a little pricier, but they have a really good selection.

By Poppa Grande

June 9, 2008 3:15 PM | Link to this

Cee/Kym Piggbacking off your big money party topic….

When did boys start having “Sweet 16” parties?

I ask this because I was flipping the channels this weekend, and I saw Sheryl Lee Ralph giving her son a sweet 16 birthday party on MTV. I never really watch much TV (although I did see Cee-lo’s daughter on the same show), but in my day female’s had Sweet 16 parties. Quincera (15 y.o.) for the latin females that I knew. Not many dudes had them though.

I will admit that the retro Mustang that Sheryl Lee Ralph gave to her son was pretty nice. (It looked like at late ‘60’s or early 70’s mustang).

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Yardwork, change a tire, sure. Work on the car? No way, cosign..4 me its coz i dnt like my hands greazy. raqi which one?

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

are the males allowed to talk about the best sack holders…… without threats of blog closure…hope no sexism here…

By mytwocents

June 9, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Seemingly wholesome chatter turns tawdry. Some of y’all will make a way outta no way… Comical

Cemeeli Mr. Softee safe cuz my own best customer would be… Down w/ the o’er the top event planning hustle. Wanna throw u a doggie shower when u pick one up. Would Twinkles like a tutu for his coming out party?

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Bits of Honey I ain’t tryna be funny, just wanna live right. I need some clarity on these thangs. Is there a church incident blog site cause I knows I aint the only one.

My car was broke a few weeks ago and the church van came to pick me up and I think the driver tried to look up my dress when I was getting on the van. He act like he drop sumthing just as I stepped up on the van. Then on the way home he made me the last stop and asked me to sit in the front seat, I was doing fine on the last row in the van, I studying the sermon scriptures. Didn’t need to sit in da front, but I did cause i’m obeient like that.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

WilleD you have to “detox” your kids after that kinda shing-dig too hunh?

Hey Jamo, what’s Bankhead?

Willie kid parties = i do what my budget allow. I have went out-of-budget couple times. 1)AMC Backlot Cinema Cafe, 3)FireDept/Trucks @ the party 2)Funpark…

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

Summer I HAVE A QUESTION. WOULD ANYONE RECOMMEND SOMEONE WITH LARGE BREASTS TO WEAR A STRAPLESS SUNDRESS?

DO IT! (<===Cee, thanks for that) Big breasts, in a sundress, will get my attention… every time. LOL

By SummerJackson

June 9, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

Thanks, Atl lady…..I will definently try those options. I kinda have a love/hate relationship with my chest, lol!

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Summer Don’t give up so easily. You might have to call and back order, but try roamoan’s.com and jessicalondon.com. Also try mystique. Mystique is a little pricier, but they have a really good selection.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

Which Dugan’s?

SummerJackson, if you’re going to look like Aretha, I would advise against it.

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

Poppa I agree. Boys just don’t do that. My boys have never been hard or expensive to please for their birthday. For my oldest is was always a pool, a few friends and something on the grill and he was set. My youngest was born in Feb so it depends on how the weather is, but still not hard to please on the cheap.

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

Kym come to think of it I have never spent that kind of money for my husband’s birthday. And you best believe he wouldn’t want me to.

By Jamoca

June 9, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

Oh, and to add to my 3:10…a man that is into cigars….it is a hobbie of mine as well, since I don’t really smoke ( I collect them and occasionally “puff” on em’ just for the scent and the mood they put me in,…such a turn on.

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Jamo Nicely shaped, bald head….swinty (almost “chingy”) eyes….deep, calming and steady voice ….smells “hella-good” and don’t get me started on the variety of skin tones (golden honey to the velvet mocha)….look at ‘em and you know brutha man is so serious about his business, however he has a great sense of humor that is not so easily revealed…cool, calm, collective, self assured, looks you “dead in your eyes”, whenever he addresses you…good with his hands (not just w/ Jamoca, but esp when it comes to outdoor chores)….love em’ when they know what there doin’ and it shows in how much pride they take in their work …educated with impeccable mannerisms, esp with the ladies…

I couldn’t’ve written that better in my own autobiography. LOL

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Memorial?

By Dushawn

June 9, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

just found out the funniest ish ever and laughing my azz off right now

David Banner is a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. He pledged the Beta Sigma Chapter at Southern U.

^^^now this is some comical ish.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

Melo, it’s not necessarily the talk about “sex”, but how YOU phrase it.

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Summer The church mother, Mother Johnson told bout this for big breast. Cause she say everythime I shout and do my dance at church my breast look like two large ballons. She told me to get a good sturdy bra and then buy three ace bandages. Put the bra on then wrap them bandages snuggly on top of the bra, but don’t mash them down flat just tight enough so that when you do 8 jumping jacks they don’t jiggle. And it works. I shout every Sunday and they don’t move at all. So probably need to get a strapless bra, then wrap.

By SeanJohnson3000

June 9, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

@ Summer Jackson…first off…we need to get you properly measured to make sure those are really 3D…then we start choosing bras that are comfortable and fit properly…..i have the tape measure on deck…afterwards…we can have milk and cookies…i am bringing the cookies

By Blue_Kolla

June 9, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

ChurchLady ha? You sound like Rickey Smiley to me. LOL

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

Memorial not far from my house…what time you thinking about?

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

Hot Mamma IceCream there you go with it!…uhm just pass me a Good Humor Eclair please…or tea.

PoppaG First, i love antique cars. babaydaddy had 3 that were realnice. (westcoast culture)

Secondly, a “Sweet 16” for a boy, um didn’t know that was. But i guess a cause to throw the party hunh.

By Jamoca

June 9, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

@ Cee:

Bankhead is on the west…love going to my Aunt’s house and hanging out with her…(very much a true Atlantan, she is) whenever I am in town (up there).

By Jamoca

June 9, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

@ Blue:

…so whatchu’ sayin’?

By Kym aka Enchantress Divine

June 9, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

PoppaG I think the older the kid gets the less he gets but it cost more. I mean my son is all about video games,wrestling, etc. But I try to plan activites that suit my budget and some things he may want. I am not trying to raise a brat. Cee I take my son volunteering with me.. to keep him grounded. This weekend he was the bingo caller at a assisted living center. He really enjoyed it just didnt like have to scream the numbers so they could hear. But the most rewarding thing for me was this gentleman said is that your boy..I said yes it is..He said you got a fine one there. That right there does it for me.

Add this to my list…seeing a man assisting the elderly.

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

whatever sexxy….im just gonna start my own blog,its not hard, and at least i knw ill make sme money with it….sex is a very popular commodity,cant understand why pple want to mince words when its obvious dating and sexx go hand in condom(glove)

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

Blue See Rickey Smiley is a man pretending to be a woman, I’m 100% woman. Been in the church all of my 38 years. Just seem like that this stuff just happens to me. I knows I ain’t the only one.

By Poppa Grande

June 9, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

Cee Well, the name of the show was “Sweet 16”. They attached the party to the boys sixteenth birthday. A couple of the project assistants here at the office says that there have been other boys on the show as well.

Also, the car was cool. It was a stick and Sheryl Lee Ralph had to drive it away. My biggest gripe were the wheels. They had modern rims (large chrome one) on a retro car.

I like old cars too. I had an 1973 Oldsmobile Cutlass 442 a few years back. I didn’t want to take it up to the snow in Cincy (I didn’t want salt and crap on it). However, my younger sister wrecked it and totalled it. She couldn’t handle that power.

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

Summer CVS had them Ace bandages on sale last week. You better get there fo they all gone.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

Jamo i’m with Blue & all of your weakness to the Mr. …that was SOMEBODY’S business!!! WTH?…serious manners, cool, self-assured, look in your eyes when addressing you, educated and country…Dang gurl, imma drive off into the sunset tonight off that post alone.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 9, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

@Blue it’s not the metro guys I see it all across the board.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

Melo, sorry but “whatever” isn’t the proper response. I was just schooling you on how I believe the moderators feel. This is a dating blog and although sexual innuendos are par for the course, you talk on here as if this is a blog to vent all of your sexual frustrations. This is not what this blog is for. Yes, we have all gone over the edge with our content at time, but honey you take the grand prize. We were shut down because of you about 2 weeks ago just thought you might want to lighten your dialect or cleverly rephrase your intent. It’s a skill that you care not to master. Just thought you might want to know.

By Pastor Muscle Shirt EL & Pastor Gittin' Mine CD not BK

June 9, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

ChurchLady I knows I ain’t the only one.

Excuse us Sista CL, but may we have a word with you in the back?

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 9, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Hey there Jamo is it hot enuff for ya? I’m bout the melt, leaving drips of chocolate everywhere LOL

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

Kym i understand mom…Trust, he has to be revamped from what his friends are doing or have done when visiting. It is when he gets around my old neighborhood that he realize not everyone in the “cream”. Good you are keeping your son balanced as well. Like the observist am very aware of the appreciative child. Halfway/juvenile homes are a good wake up call too…exp knowing someone that he knew that went there.

By Blue Kolla

June 9, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

Cee regarding your 3:52 - you be cold lunchin’. LMAO

MLL it’s not the metro guys I see it all across the board.

You’re right, my bad. Let met fix that:

…and momma’s boys.

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

It’s a skill that you care not to master lol…skill???. why didnt they send me an email..they have it, instead of going thru my secretary?

By mytwocents

June 9, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

Cee Yeah, White tea pops sound yummy! You push cart, I take care office cuz my chocolate needs no mo sun.

ChurchLady When is friends & family day? Will be your guest…

By SexyCool

June 9, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

my weakness a man who smells good…and i’m not talking about his cologne…i’m talking about him…naturally…

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this

SJ3000 The ole milk and cookies joke. I guess it never goes out of style.

Churchlady What do you recommend for the ladies on the mother’s board whose wigs aren’t on their heads tight enough and the holy ghost hits? lol

By Atl Lady

June 9, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

SJ3000 The ole milk and cookies joke. I guess it never goes out of style.

Churchlady What do you recommend for the ladies on the mother’s board whose wigs aren’t on their heads tight enough and the holy ghost hits? lol

By D'NLITEN1

June 9, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

@Darrell Yeah I get you, but I am sticking to my statement. I know what you and probably everyone took from her stating weakness. I just felt the need to incorporate my spin on it and expound upon it a little bit. We just replied based on our paradigns thats all. Make sense?

By Blue Kolla

June 9, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Leggs It’s a skill that you care not to master.

Melo why didnt they send me an email..they have it, instead of going thru my secretary?

Cee Hurry up, I saved you a seat, the show’s startin’. Did you bring the popcorn?

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

ok, ok…I gotcha “secretary.” Perhaps “art” would be a better word than “skill!” Just thought you would like to know. If not, no problem resting here with me.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

June 9, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

D’NLITE

Yep, makes perfect sense in the context of differing paradigms.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 9, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

FireDept/Trucks @ the party @Cee which one? I have a friend who works for Dekalb fire dept. he told me they don’t do parties of any kind.

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

The Melo is a habitual line stepper on the blog. Dude doesn’t care

Melo I have given you the side eye on several occasions, and I am far from being a prude. You definitely get the overshare award some days. It’s not about being shy to talk about it but I think you get that some things can not be explored in this forum, in the matter that you like, i.e. to excite, arouse, and titillate you, there are some other sites for that. You probably are members of them for a fee.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 9, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

lawdy not the mommas boy the worst kind, good one, how can I forget about them Blue LOL

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

we cool , if ajc got a prblem wit me,they got all my info….lemme handle this….craiglist is waiting…

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

PoppaG You with that “72 Cutlass was cuttin’ curbs. Lol…Sorry sis totaled it.

Cee gonna boast a lil cuase i prolly will never see this time on the subject

Now remember he westcoast.

Our early twenties i drove a sky/powder n silver and refurbished blue white leather interior w/blue trimming ‘66 Impala SS w/switches, AND his midnight blue all original interior bucket seat ‘72 Chevy Nova, but i could NEVER drive that big @ Blazer -too big! now remember i know how men are w/their car so i had to pass a couple tests.:)

Those were the dayz…we were young and spending money and just doing too much.

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

Atl They gots cups of hair pins on the Mother’s row. For true.

Family & Friends Day is always in the spring around Easter.

Deacon Julis asked me to fry him some chicken last week. Cause everyone loves my fried chicken, I cooks it every 3rd Sunday after the first service. So, I asked him how was he gone eat it with them three tooths in the top and two on the bottom. He says, he can work with it. Lord knows if he lose one mo tooth, I won’t able to stand it.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

Also Melo, you don’t want to come at me….me and my slap-a-hoe tribe have been looking for folk just like you. Now, back all the way up…thank you!!!

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

BK, just read your post about the show’s starting. That was funny. I wanted to jump through this blog and show him what a good secretary really looks like while ringing his neck til his last breath. That’s what I wanted to do!

By Blue Kolla

June 9, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

I ain’t here anything in the way of censorship when Blow and Teresa were on here today talkin’ ‘bout big sticks and good d!cks. Now what’s up with that. Check one, check all.

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

MLL Fulton County - Call the Saftey Dept and tell them you want to do a Fire Prevention/Safety session with the kids @ a party and yes the should be out. Dekalb says no? Try that. They brought out a mock trailer for the kids to reinact excaping a real fire. My son was intimidated but all the kids took part…all 30.

Blue i got the Sun Tea and i got the kettlecorn.

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Melo/Sexyleggs, nobody is gangsta typing on a keyboard, stop it. LOL

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

You probably are members of them for a fee. u get an award for the low blow of the day!!!..why are u intimidated by me…just lay ur facts without resorting to such classless verbiage thats unDiva-like. I like to do all those things that u mentioned, maybe more that others.If it becomes too much for u, dnt give me the eye, i wont see it, send me an email.Dont get hypertension for this stuff thats so puerile and mundane to me.Its not important….

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

Attn all

* I wonder where that psycho BEAUTIFUL is? I am sure she got a fake a$$ moniker on here somewhere…We just got to figure out who is?* lmao!

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

me and my slap-a-hoe tribe have been looking for folk just like you i may be able to find u before u find me…

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Does the Dugans on Memorial have Karaoke?

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

Attn all

* I wonder where that psycho BEAUTIFUL is? I am sure she got a fake a$$ moniker on here somewhere…We just got to figure out who is?* lmao!

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

PoppaG correction: that was a skyblue, white leather interior ‘66 Impala SS/switches.

typing and running on, sowwy.

By Sybil

June 9, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

Wise - My momma used to tell me that the one that is ALWAYS talking about it is the one that’s making it up.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

BK, I agree w/check one check all. The point to Melo was he always kicks down the door w/hardcore. Some of us gets hard core every once in a while. He’s a diehard and its daily!!!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

BK Such a hater….come on now! I said packages and hilshire. And I don’t drag me comments into the mud either. Like you guys do!

Teresa T-money do you want everyone to see us make an a* out of ourselves? lmao!

By Jamoca

June 9, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

@ Cee:

“Dang gurl, imma drive off into the sunset tonight off that post alone…”

Gurl….I’m already there myself…smh…umph, umph, umph…

@MML/Cee:

Well…being down here, we’re about to get “the throw down” on some of the gud-gud of that rain….you know that kind of rain I’m speaking of…sounds like ya’ll need me to blow some of this “sweet rain” ya’ll way…lemme add some of the cool breezies along with it as well…(“you know, Jamoca…she stays solid, can’t be meltin’ down, although either way, she’s good”)LOL!!!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 9, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

cemeeli I gotcha girl. LOL

Churchlady I am rolling over here! Can I get a “Whoa Glory” for the road (R.I.P Esther)!

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 9, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

Thanks Cee although my little one is a little to old now, I will pass the info on….

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Melo, wait why was that a jab? It’s ok to rant about your sexual exploits on this blog but the implication that you pay for a site to do the same thing is insulting? LOL

My fault, didn’t realize porn was a touchy topic for you. Who knew!

re: me being intimidated by you. No, it’s not that serious, believe me. I just expressed an opinion, but I guess you and Darrell don’t like when women do that, LOL!! Kidding

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

The operative word is “may!” I’m good at what I do, and tracking you down to give you a much deserved black eye will not be much of a problem! Where’s my spit cup….

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Blow..Tru dat! I see ya point…This weekend gathering should be where we may not see peeps again. We got the shoe shoe lined up, some drinkin and thinkin, some bangin and swangin at the end of the night hopefully…and maybe some N*gga knockin!

By Blue Kolla

June 9, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Leggs The point to Melo was… blah blah.

Aight slim, cool. said as I sip on the sweet Sun Tea Thanks Cee.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

June 9, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

BK& SexyLeggs I never noticed Melo GETTING hardcore…I guess I did not pay attn. However, I do think he is funny though. I mean it does not get too racy or out of control. Not to me. I mean sex has to come into play when you are dealing with dating.

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

Melo Is a demon/Satan. There’s one in every bunch. Wish I knew where he was, I’d slather him down in blessed oil. His forhead would be shining.

By Michelle

June 9, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

Have a great evening all…stay cool!

By Teresa

June 9, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

Blow..Tru dat! I see ya point…This weekend gathering should be where we may not see peeps again. We got the shoe show lined up, some drinkin and thinkin, some bangin and swangin at the end of the night hopefully…and maybe some N*gga knockin!

By Poppa Grande

June 9, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

Cee Yeah, I hated to see that car go the way of the Junkyard.

I bet that ‘66 Impala was sweet.

My dad had Chevellle when I was a child, and I think my love of older rides comes from him. He even had an older ‘65 Chevy pick-up truck. You’d think that that three families lived in our house with all of the cars that we had.

Older cars are my thing.

By Blue Kolla

June 9, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

Such a hater….come on now! Blow, Blowwww, Blow You know better than that.

By The Melo

June 9, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

porn aint touchy to me..i do that with my wife, i dnt pay for it…..that was a fallacy,not a fact..an opinion yeah, but devoid of logical deduction..

sexxy ure my friend, why wld i come at yu, wld rather cme inside u instead…..

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

now, in his defense (Melo), he has gotten a lot better, but there was a time when his comments were outrageous, especially when he first appeared.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Not really hardcore for us, but other bloggers that complain behind the scenes…just warning him not to get us shut down!

By ChurchLady

June 9, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

I got prayer cloth over here at my desk, I willing to send it to Melo.

Melo if I send it to you, put it in yo pocket and keep it close to “Mr. Happy” and the anoiting that is on the cloth will bring him into submission of God’s plan. And at night stuff it in your drawers. Keep doing this until Pentecost. Make sure you do it everyday.

But I ain’t sure if I’m ready to part with cloth yet, this cloth been keeping these demons on my job at bay. I’ pray bout it, first, if the Lord speak to me and tell me to release the prayer cloth to you, I will.

By Raqi

June 9, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Churchlady is this your first day posting and/or viewing this site?

By Wise Diva

June 9, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

Alright Melo, I stand corrected, how silly and illogical of me to ever think such a thing of you. Thanks for clarifying this.

By SexyLeggs

June 9, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Melo cannot be reformed (LOL). Yes, we are friends!

Good night everyone!

People will forget what you say; People will forgrt what you do; but people will never forget how you make them feel.” **(Nelson Mandela)

Peace out!

By Blue Kolla

June 9, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Yoll be cool.

chairspin…

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

PoppaG lol…I got my love of antique from my country dad too. He owns (see OWNS) a Chevy truck 70 something and a 72 Monte Carlo w/8track. And rarely drive the newer cab.

My ex…now out of that Nova, Blazer and The SS i had to get “permission” for the keys to it. But after i bought the switches he always obliged to when i wanted it. Drove it around in a popular Atlanta old school festivity and he gone say…I really love your @.

wth…

By mytwocents

June 9, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

ChurchLady Next Spring it is, then. But I think you may be the worst heathen of them all. Jus’ sayin’.

Melo- knew you’d sneak sumthin like the 4:48 in there. Me & ChurchLady will keep you in the prayer circle, my brother. LOL

By Cemeeli

June 9, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

Yall be eazy.

…drive off into sunset ignore the heatwaves…:)