By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this

Haha I’ve been out with Girls where I’m not sure how it will turn out. Getting to know someone stage. I just tell my boyz to text me and if I respond with a n/good then they’ll call with this emergency. Haha … a seeing my friends and actually not wasting my time emergency!

I’ve never actually had to do this…try to make the most of each date and I think if each person goes into it open for good times…can’t go THAT bad really. All varies on what kind of expectations…I’m just chill about it

By Truth B Known

June 20, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this

I have been on dates that were definately not worth it. Especially when my wife found out.

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 8:31 AM | Link to this

Am I first? I’m fuggin first. Woofrigginhoo I’m first.

No wastes of time. Either I haven’t had or can’t remember a date that was that terrible. Maybe I’ve deleted that file. I’m a selective dater.

Good morning e1. I’ve prepared a fruit bowl including watermelon, canalope, grapes, pineapple, and tangerines. Enjoy, and this is not a finger dish.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

I can confess to having been a bad date. The one time that stands out the most was due to me being totally preoccupied.

Now abc your lying theory definitely applies here. Wasting someone’s time when you know you are not interested is surely an act of lying.

By tiny

June 20, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

GUYS HELP. Sorry this is off topic. I am sooo inexperience when it comes to pleasing my guy & need to know what can I do. Should I watch those “naughty” movies to get tips. I been reading the posts this week & I know how important sex is in a relationship. Im willing to do anything so guys what should I do.

By AmazonRed

June 20, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday everyone! I won’t be here long (yeah right) I gave myself the day off!

Have you ever been on a date where you KNOW you could qualify for worst date ever? Did you act disinterested? Were you late, a no show, or distracted?

Actually, no! Just like some people need to get their head straight before dealing with people, I’m more about “don’t take my frustrations out on innocent people.” I am really against keeping stuff bottled up inside, so if I’m annoyed or upset, I’d rather speak my mind and resolve it so that I can move on from it!

Besides, I enjoy dating so it’s something that would probably lift me from my funk instead of contributing to it!

By Celisha

June 20, 2008 8:37 AM | Link to this

Yes, going out on a date with a black guy is a complete waste of time. How do those morons even tie their own shoes?

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this

I hang out with people that are really outgoing and are at least intersting. With that being said, allows for good dates. Even if you aren’t hitting it off…still have a great time regardless. Just avoiding the social pressures of how it SHOULD be.

Now if I went out with someone realllly shy or bland…yeah, that would be terrible. Hasn’t happened yet!

TheTruth- I’m first baby! Feliz Viernes! [getting spanish down before heading to Barcelona]

By GeoffDawg

June 20, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this

Wise Diva - just curious on what your reaction would be if a guy canceled on you saying that he just wasn’t into it that night?

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Well I see the trolls have started early this morning..

Hmmm I have already shared my worst dating experience before..and I am pretty sure I have been the worse date for someone else. Because well we all have our walk. Think I will lurk around see what other trolls come out of the woodwork.

By GeoffDawg

June 20, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

Tiny - it’s really not that complicated. Just make sure that you seem like you’re really into it and having fun. Enthusiasm can go a long way.

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

Atl Guy daaammit man. You rained on my parade. I’m taking my fruitbowl back and you all can eat those styropfoam patties they sell at the store. Bah humbug.

Tiny I offer a free sex refresher course. We can go over the many ways you can please me, I mean him and use me as a practice dummy. I think this method is much better than those perverted porno tapes. I have an opening around 6pm. Let me know.

Celisha love been pretty hard on ya ha. Before I made a statement like that I’d look at myself and ask “self, why am I attracting morons”? Am I a moron magnet or could it be that I myself am a moron? HMMMMM

By AmazonRed

June 20, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

Yeah Kym, I see today’s topic made the AJC homepage so welcome to all of the trolls today!

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

Kym who’s trollin? We’re all on topic this morning

By Earl

June 20, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

Tiny -

Baby, I’d be willing to help you “practice.’

I’ll make a WOMAN out of you, for sure!

Just let me know.

By Willie Dynamite

June 20, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

Morning All, Whats up Raqi,Truth,Ared,Contessa Who’s turn is it to bring the Troll repellant?

On-Topic: I can’t say that I’ve been on any colossal waste of time dates. Sure I’ve had a few that didnt go so well. I always just looked at it as practice. The ones that were going badly I was just honest and told them I wasnt feeling it and that we should just call it a wrap. When done politely (not always the case wit me) it is usually appreciated and no hard feelings.

Tiny practice,practice, practice and first things first ask your man. He’ll be more than happy to tell and teach you.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 9:03 AM | Link to this

Have you ever been on a date where you KNOW you could qualify for worst date ever?

I don’t know what the guys actually thought, but I’ve never been told that I was a bad date or that a good time wasn’t had by all. I have certainly cancelled dates when I have known that I wouldn’t be good company.

My second date with my sweetie could be considered me being a bad date, but at least he was cool about it. We were to watch a movie at his place, but I was still watching my calories. I had a feeling that he’d order pizza, so me being health-conscious, I ate something low-cal before I left home to fill me up so I wouldn’t eat the whole pizza.

When I got there, I felt a little ill. By the time I’d been there for 20 minutes, I was downright sick. Needless to say, after throwing up twice and blowing up his bathroom, my stomach settled enough for us to watch the movie. He was so sweet through the whole episode though, I was way too sick to even be horrified. He called me to ask me out again for the next night, so it ended up all good.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

The thing about being a bad date, it sometimes depends on who you are with and how long you have been with said individual.

I can recall at least two times when I had planned dates with my pre-husband over and ended up leaving him alone in the den watching television. One of those times was because I was an emotional wreck but instead of canceling I let him come over anyway. I just kinda went off to myself and he made himself at home. The other time we went out but it was obvious that I wasn’t there in mind nor spirit. I remembering him asking me, ‘where are you tonight?’.

He probably won’t say I was a bad date on those times. He came back again and again and again.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

ATLGuy Trolls are folks who come in and make crazy comments for the purpose of getting bloggers riled up. We try not to feed them, or they will grow.

By Kevmoor

June 20, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

Celisha must be a moron in order to make a moronic statement like that.

By Rell

June 20, 2008 9:09 AM | Link to this

WHAT DA FLUCK IT DEW BLOGSVILLE….

@tiny are you serious…you dont know how to please your mayne…how did you get him in the first place…go away TROLL…your not needed her

@players you know who you are….chello…the weather is nice so i hope you players are out there spreading that good game and gettin that money…

wasting time…bad dates…again folks need to qualify a lil bit more before agreeing to go out with just anyone….take yourself out from time to time

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 9:09 AM | Link to this

Honestly… Go on a Date Somewhere where both of you can do something Active. Being interactive is a great way to break the ice and find out about eachother. Movies are just a lame idea (you never talk).

Thing is, both people need to be Open for just having a good time. Then can’t really go wrong

By Foots

June 20, 2008 9:11 AM | Link to this

What is your worst date experience? How did you handle it?

There are three that I can think of offhand. One with Non-Chivalrous Dude, one with This Phone Is Attached to My Ear Dude, and one with Cheap Bowling Alley Dude. If I feel like it later, I’ll give details. Needless to say, the first guy didn’t make it past Date 1, and the second and third guys I dumped. That’s pretty much how I handled it.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

Yes Foots I agree. (Look below your post). A bad date only depends on the nature of the relationship.

Now I have cancelled dates at the last minute with a guy or two because I changed my mind about wanting to get to know them. I went on a date once where both of us ended up talking to other people that we met while out. Mutual bad dates.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this

Rell We needed you on here for that nonsense yesterday. I don’t know what happened, but for some reason, we got some “interesting” questions in the afternoon…

By Willie Dynamite

June 20, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this

Whats up Lester Hayes

Truth Mayne, Was that you arrested for jogging in your thong. Say it aint so bruh. lol!!

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this

There are no bad dates! You learn something from each one and move on.

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

alright, it’s Friday, do NOT make me put on my smack down outfit, I don’t want to!

Keep it fun, light,and CLEAN on the blog today. Thanks for your cooperation.

By QC

June 20, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this

Morning all…i hope you all have a great day/weekend…HOLLA

By pisces 08

June 20, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

@Truth lol @ “Moron Magnet”, it’s clear she’s the idiot.

Morning All. Never been on a date considered “worst”, I just ended it, quickly.

What’s up ARed….

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

I am seriously considering asking for a new feature where your very first comment MUST be approved before your comment can appear LOL.

By aggressively witty

June 20, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this

Celisha, word on the street is that they dont. They get silly broads to do it for them whilst giving dome, you down there anyway, tie my shoe.

Now, worst date. I had one in college that just would not end. It was a combo of me being a moron and being caught up in a super thick (in clothes) broad and her being a crazy woman. It was a chic I had been out with before who seemed like she was sane, but this date - a dorm date - was just odd. We were finally about to get down to bizness and she was rather unpleasant out of the clothes - the fat and cottage cheese kind of unfurled and caught me off guard, me being honest and mean at the time I told her I couldnt be involved cause out of clothes she turned me off. I get up to roll out and this broad puts me in a choke hold in the middle of the dorms court - think dorm with suites that lead out to a middle court - so while I am mean I am no physical abuser and this chic just KEPT coming at me with this crazy behind the head back leap and choke hold. I finally got out of there, but yeah that was a pretty bad ‘date’

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 9:19 AM | Link to this

I really try when taking a girl out for the first time to make it Interesting. Something spontaneous and always try to do something more outside the box. I’m creative and I think putting that extra effort to allow someone else to have a great time pays off. Think my dates really appreciate it & its always fun

By AmazonRed

June 20, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

Good morning Willie!

By AmazonRed

June 20, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

smooches Hey pisces08!

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

yeah yeah Beautiful, you want to be all positive and stuff? Can’t we have a gripe day just once! LOL. Out of all your dates in life, one of them surely qualifies as the worst of the bunch! Even if you DID learn something, like, never take your date, the Reverend to the Clairemont lounge, or something.

By aggressively witty

June 20, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this

every date except ole girl who still got her out of town boyfriend.

I keed i keed

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

WiseDiva - Clairemont Lounge I’ve ended a night there and I danced with this girl by the DJ the whole night. It was the BEST time because it was so ridiculous!

So much better than feeling all uptight at Chops Restaurant or something! I’m Mid 20’s btw

By Tiny

June 20, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

You guys are funny but Im serious…I can do the basic of course but I want to do more. Do those movies help or books just looking for suggestions.

By anonymousella

June 20, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this

yep. i’ve done it. if it’s plans with the FuBu, i’ll just tell him i’m in a cranky mood and that he’s welcome to come over and cuddle, but no Fu-ing will occur… lol.

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

Tiny, this is not the forum for that kind of discussion, (unfortunately?). I mean, there is not a whole lot someone can do to help you here, it would be rather strange. We don’t know your size, flexibility, etc. LOL. Maybe you should talk to your man about what he is into and make it a joint effort, instead of doing all this research, only to find out that he may not like it.

By Rell

June 20, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

@FOOTS…..what is this nonsense you speak of….

worst date….part 1 and 2..my then girlfriend was talking about me never do this and that anymore..you know the typical beyotch..so i knew she loved mexican..so i said let hit el azteca on ponce…another of her favorites….so we there we drink like 2 pitchers of texas have food..so after the food i still wanted to drank so i said lets get another..she said sure….so we both faded by now and decide to take the show home..so while driving she is like i have to pee…i say ok can you hold it till we get off of 78..she is like no it is coming now….this nut p** in my seat….i was HEATED….PART 2….fast forward a couple of months later..again at el azteca on a double date with her girl and her mayne..again we all leaned on that texas margarita and decide to hit magic to watch a movie….at this time i was off the green but she was not…so she had the green and rita in her system…why did this nut get to magic and decide to start the pass out show in the female bathroom…so her friend comes and gets me all frantic like she dieing….yes she was high as well..i get to the bathroom she half clothed crying about dying and call her mom…in comes the sheriff security EMS….and everyone is like sir have you been drinking tonight….and i have more..but you know i give you the least embarrasing stuff…lol

By Binford2K8

June 20, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

I Feel Stabby That’s rich *Diva!

When it comes to a pointless date that you know is going to suck or I know I’m in to it like a root canal at the dentist, I find a classy way out. Being the firm believer in Karma that I am, I think being as polite about things as you can is the road to travel. Unless I am feeling stabby and the woman pushes it, then I’ll slap her around verbally like Ike to Tina. I’m kidding on the last part …a little.

My career involves emergencies 24 x 7, so I just arrange a situation to come up - it gets me out clean and respectably.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Aggressively Witty yeah I’m cautious with ole girl with out of town b/f. Haha. If I took her to Clairemont Lounge (WiseDiva’s fav place) where the strippers go to die…she’ll definitely be my girl! Haha!!!

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

That’s hilarious aggressively witty.

By Willie Dynamite

June 20, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

Ared any plans for your self imposed day off? Just lounging around huh.

Ella Wouldnt that be in direct violation of the FuBu contract Sec2 paragraph 1 (cuddling but no fu-ing). Isn’t that what the Friend Boy is for?

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this

Okay Wisey, I will keep it lite today..A friend of mine posted this website called Some ECards.com and I have found these card to be the funniest things ever. The cards are just like Hallmark only with well less of the mushy stuff and more reality based.

abc I think you would really appreciate the honesty of these cards. For example..

Breakup Cards

Please join me in celebrating the end of my marriage

Lets take a break until I’ve slept with as many people as you have

This isn’t about you being too short for me.

I know we haven’t met but I think we should stop seeing each other

Let’s take things to the previous level

You’re not mentally or emotionally damaged enough for me

I am concern your hotness may eventually make me insecure

Flirting Cards

I’d cut back on some of my recreational drug use for you.

Let’s date until our self-esteem returns to manageable levels

I need to find out if my friends think you are hot

If you showed up on a free porn site I would definitely click through

You’re cantankours, inappropriate, self destructive and hopefully single.

By For Real

June 20, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Wise I feel stabby Well that explain the ashy heels. Oh and please don’t install that feature. I wouldn’t be able to call you irrational, stabby and ashy heel.

On topic: My backpack never lets me have a bad date.

Tiny All jokes aside, do you have your tonsils?

anon Why don’t save him some time and just kick him in the nutts?

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

wise ok, ok, dang! let’s see … i won’t say it was a bad date, but bad for me. last march, i believe, i met this gentlemen for a first date. i would have married the guy on paper and on the phone, but not the guy in person.

there! is that what you wanted?!? lol.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Agg Witt’s date!!

Rell You just have to go back and read the transcript. We were very entertained.

And I can’t believe that after ol girl did #1 in your car, there WAS a part 2…

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

sorry not sure if I linked it right

ECards

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

June 20, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Good morning bloggers.

FYI - Don’t take a reverend to the clairmont lounge!

By Rell

June 20, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

@FOOTS…yea and there is a part 3 with that one…i have mention it before..but that was toward the tail end of that one…ummmmm you said nonsense so what is it that you are speaking of

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this

Yes, going out on a date with a black guy is a complete waste of time,sluts and morons have a mutual attraction…..

By abc

June 20, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

I thought we did the worst date topic a couple of week ago. My worst one is still the same as that one!

The eCards site will serve a double hit, as the email addresses provided will go directly to spammers to be sold and resold, filling up the recipient’s mailbox with more and more junk. Make sure you don’t provide your own real email address.

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

KP FYI Some of them are already there. I know a Reverend with a membership at Inserections(sp)and Rude.com.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

June 20, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

Kym, LOL…then you need to check his credentials. Some profess to be reverends, but don’t actually practice life as reverends.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

OMG ATL Guy I have done that same thing. I used to tell my girls to call at a certain time and if I gave the code word they knew something was bad. I only had to excuse myself 3 times before! LOL Hence the reason I do not like blind dates!

Truth Always good for a morning laugh! LOL Now you are a practice dummy? Hmmm..I need to brush up on my bondage..care to be my practice dummy? LMAO

My idea of fun dates are: hiking Stone Mountain,Play date, Laser Tag, a good old fashion supersoaker fight, ice cream and sit and chat outside, chilling poolside (since we have no beach),rollerblading, taking a ballroom dance class (although I already know how…I can play it off to the dude so he doesn’t feel weird, anything outside of the norm. Now of course in the winter you are limited. Not many dudes ice skate…so that kills one of my activities. We used to have snowball fights in NY. I remember hitting my date smack dabin the face with a big one…ah, the memories!

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

oh wow, abc, you are right, on 5/16. Oops. I usually am very good about not recycling Bella’s topics, not sure how I missed that. Ah well.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

Rell Nevermind. I don’t want to detail the day’s happenings. If you happen to read through yesterday and catch a few funny questions, I’m sure you will be entertained.

By Bit-O-Hunny

June 20, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

Hey bloggers, tis Friday!!! lurking in the lounge today.

By Rell

June 20, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

@KP…IS A REVERAND NOT A MAN….he too will sin and sin daily..is that not the point of repentance….a man reverand or now will still have struggles even when leading…..are not most folks in the bible some of the worst of there time…come on mayne you not a super hero for adhereing to a moral code NOW…..what were you doing before…..and folks wonder why they run from the holier than thou crowd…gees….lets check your creditials…what makes you so qualified..all you have is a website and come on here with the pander to the female angle….

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

KP Oh he’s a bona fide Rev alright..divinity school the works. He can preach a sermon with the best of them..still a freak though..still a freak.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

My ultimate colossal waste of time would be with the dude who feigned being okay with me being a single mother but proved otherwise. His obvious mission to shoplift the puddy was abruptly intercepted.

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Rell. Dude, you’re funny. I have to wonder if you are projecting something on KP, what’s your real beef?

and Sorry folks, didn’t mean to get us on a tangent of Reverend bashing. I am a PK, ya’ll, don’t paint all ministers with the same brush.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

People above were saying don’t date with Black Guys etc. Thats a stereo-type come on. But I did see the black guy in Buckhead on a date with this girl all dressed up … he didn’t talk to her ONCE! He just ate and text messaged on his Blackberry! I was like Damn….LoL

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

Morning! Happy Friday…

Bon chicka wow wowo…i was definitley considered a worst date when this guy got up and started singing around this group of friends and he couldn’t hold a note. Everyone was trying to “stay face” but i AM NOT the one that can hold in laughter. I burst into tears first and started laughing a little and had to excuse myself. Everyone knew that i was his date and some where laughing right along but i’m sure he wanted to exit left…i had to get up or i would have embarassed him for real.

Where’ is 2C…dude you gotta repost that classic one.

Now there is one instance when the date was considered a worst date when he was almost arrested…uhm let’s just say he got off.

By M.

June 20, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

I actually almost walked out on a date that was just the worst. She was having real issues i.e. she turned into a man hater. The conversation shifted from social activites to my last bf cheated and all men are cheaters including you! funny….

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Wisey I am not painting all ministers the same..but we sometimes live with the delusions that “persons of the cloth” are exempt from being human. If you are going to preach about God then preach it right..and the truth is none of us.(if we consider ourselves to be God’s children) are greater than each other in the sight of God. With God He/She has no favorite kids..all of us are on equal footing. But like all children in a family we have to say..Mom/Dad likes/loves me better than you..and pretty soon we believe our own hype. In this case the religious hype that has been passed down over and over. I am pretty sure that given air and opportunity even the Pope would ogle a set of boobs.

By For Real

June 20, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

He might have been texting to his date Dayummm why that dude starring at me? He either gay or lonely!

Rell you just went off. calm down bruh here sniff 1st Corinthian.

Kym You know what would be funny as hellz? What if KP is ghostwritining as Tolle?!?!?!?!

2E’s You want to come by on Saturday and play tick tag or hide the African American Dolphin with me?

By M.

June 20, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

I actually almost walked out on a date that was just the worst. She was having real issues i.e. she turned into a man hater. The conversation shifted from social activites to my last bf cheated and all men are cheaters including you! funny….

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

My first husband was a PK. Yall are a hot mess. Had me all up in the back seat of that car. Lawd if his dad only knew.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

M These man-hating females are the worst bro … I feel ya on that one!

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Colossal Waste: My friend Lacy was telling us last night about this guy she got with that boasted his Magnumism. They were at her place and she said things were moving forward quickly and she was waiting for the mandatory cover up pause but it didn’t happen so she initiated. Dude came unprepared. She said she told him no problem I got it. He tells her he is a XL and had previously bragged to being so. Now some lies just cannot be “covered up”. She ended up laughing him to shame. Not because he was regular but because he lied. A shoe that is too big will not stay on your foot while walking.

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

ForReal LMAO..you are nuts!! I have not heard the words tick tag in years..tick tag and hide and go get(first time I was ever felt up)was playing those games.

By Tiny

June 20, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Sorry Wise. I havent had many boyfriends & they didnt do much with me. Darn it I want to be turned out. So I figured it must be me.

By kimmie

June 20, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

Kym - Don’t know if you’ve seen it, but the Victoria Secret thong case you told us about? The chick and her attorney were on the Today show. I didn’t realize the incident actually happened a year ago. Her attorney just kept talking about how the public must be protected from such defective merchandise! He would not answer a straight question.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

LOL Kym (hide and go get). In our neighborhood we had this one boy that nobody wanted to be got by. He was kinda off I think. He would sit in the yard and watch us playing in the streets. But the minute somebody said let’s play hide and seek he would come running out of that yard talking about, let me count. I would take out running like Jackie Joyner.

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Raqi it was Lacy’s fault,she cldn’t excite him enough to get to XL.

By SlimDiva

June 20, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

I attempted to read the all of the comments before responding…but time is clicking, so a diva gotta do what a diva gotta do.

On topic…like Wise, if I’m in a funk I will NOT go out whether it’s a date, with my gyrlz or alone. If I’m NOT into a person I will be honest and I expect the same from a man who’s NOT into me. Don’t fake the funk…we’re ADULTS…HONESTY is extremely important.

To Tiny — ask your man what would please him. Just as women tell (and in some cases show) men how to please us, we need to discover what pleases AND satisfy our men.

To Celisha — Sweetie…maybe you’ve just had some bad experiences. So have I, but I’m NOT going to put ALL Black men in the loser category. NO PUN intended to men of other races/cultures, but I LOVE ME some BLACK MEN…I appreciate and respect them. The man that assisted my mother with conceiving me was a BLACK man, with a lighter skin-tone. I was the poster child for the All-American Daddy’s Little Gyrl. My current Honey is double-dipped in chocolate and so was Mr. Navyman (my ex-husband). However, I don’t compare the two because they are two SEPARATE…DIFFERENT individuals. We must realize that who we attract tells a lot about who we are. And that’s all I’m going to say about that right there!!

Alright people ENJOY your week, but be safe! A national holiday is approaching in a few weeks…MY B’DAY!!! I celebrate the b’day NOT the holiday…I KNOW my history!! Peace & blessings!!!

By Foots

June 20, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Melo she cldn’t excite him enough to get to XL.

LOLOLOLOLOL!!!! Men that don’t truly believe that some men are hung like 12 year olds need to get some female friends (or date dudes themselves).

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

kimmie LOL…a defective thong..ok the jokes on this one will write themselves.

Raqi We had a kid like that too. All the boys in our neighborhood were kind of mannish..but this one boy was just creepy.

Speaking of creepy.. Teen Mom I think this was on the Today show too.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

Kym/Raqi Ahhh, memories of freaky childhood games! I was going down memory lane last night, talking about how I hope that my 8 year old nieces were not privy to the game where the little dude chases you, and when he catches you, he pins you to a tree and humps the living daylights out of you. Or that Play House game, where it was somehow always bedtime. There were some mannish little boys growing up, the little girls couldn’t get any peace during recess.

I think that these are the same boys who grow up and suffer from FOA…

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Foots My only wish for my youngster is it all remains a game until he is of age. The problem now is kids aren’t playing anymore. The are actually living it out. sigh

But yeah those childhood games were fun.

Kym and you know there was always the ultra cutey that every girl slowed down enough to be caught by. LOL

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Foots a balloon can only…

You know what never mind. I am not trying to start a freakfest up in here. He is obviously yet again misinformed. LOL

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

M & ATL Guy Man haters aren’t born they are created by no good men!

Raqi I had a dude who had a baggy condom and got mad at me because I told him he was wack in bed and he was little. At first I tried to be nice and play it off. I did like a lot of women..I faked it. But then when I told him the truth..he called me pyscho and nuts! I told him don’t hate me for your lack of BR skills and equipment! LOL The nerve! You try to spare the ego and get accused for being nuts for it! Hence the reason I am celibate!

Melo it was Lacy’s fault,she cldn’t excite him enough to get to XL that is BS…not every guy is Magnum status…but ego driven men like to believe they are. That would be like me buying a bra sized FFF knowing I am a c/d cup. Peters can grow…but if they will not go from 2 inches to 12…no matter how exited he gets! Wishful thinking is cute though….awwwww! How cute…an etrxa bellybutton! LMAO

Wise that must some serious PMS girl. I don’t suffer from it..thank God!

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

Staceye I thought of something like that. Only my version has me and you tearing some chicks azz out the frame. Lets do it. I still have my studded thong.

The only date for me that would qualify. A chick told me she’d give me some azz if I went to church with her the next morning. So we’re sitting in church and between falling asleep all I could think was this is so not me. LOL

Raqi that reminds me of a freind that would boast to chicks about how large he was. When he got to the deed he would just say ” hey we’re here now, might as well do it”.

WillieD what’s up bruh, good to see you. Mayne, Was that you arrested for jogging in your thong. Say it aint so bruh. lol!! Nah, wasn’t me but not a bad idea. LOL

If you thought you had a bad morning read about the dude that ran over the kid this morning with a dump truck. Not something I’d want on my conscience. If it was like Kara cool, but not some child.

I think y’all ran Pink off from yesterday. Aren’t we supposed to make visitors feel welcome? Dayuum

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

Raqi Yep I remember my guy.his name was Leroy. LMAO. Can’t remember if we played house..but we played hide and go get a few times..Along with this other boy that lived across the street from my Grandma.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Kym I heard a little of that story this morning on the news. I was talking to Mase on the phone so I didn’t get all the details. It is a very sad situation.

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

I had this friend(girl) that i hung with and liked when i was still back in Africa.Our relationship was never defined and i had never hit coz i was in a situation like the one AtlGuy and the girl are in.However, the moment i moved over here and were communicating on the phone, she strted claiming me and stuff.So cme Xmas period ‘98, i planned to go home, meet her and make up on all the lost opportunities.She was fine,exciting and kinda like the popular girl in twn.We booked a hotel near the Serengeti and decided to spend 2 days over there.She met me at the airport and we drove 5 hrs to get there. Those 2 days were a complete waste of my time and money and a complete dissappointment, considering i had built-up anticipation and excitment from a couple of years of knowing her.Talk of pent-up sexual tension,i was literally dripping with semen and testesterone.But here cme the anticlimax!!!! Her body, when naked was so unappealing,so chubby and unattractive.To make matters worse, it appeared she had some scaby(or whatever it was) disease when she was young and the black scars on her stomach,navel area and groin were…yikes.My brains were unimpressed.Those 2 days were torture, to say the least.And my mandingo instruments have a habit of just playing real dead when they are dissappointed that it became difficult even to start a conversation with this lady.I was p** off bad !!! We had to check out of there earlier than originally planned.I spend the rest of my vacation chasing other girlz in twn.

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Staceye I mean really. She said the guy was regular. Average. Not Tiny Tim. The only problem she had was he lied not thinking she would know the difference. Especially when the condom didn’t fit. No woman wants to end up on the gyno’s table because a saggy baggy condom got rammed up into her. Not to mention the reasons for wearing it in the first place. Pregnacy, stds.

By D'NLITEN1

June 20, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

I have had a few bad dates here and there for various reasons. Sometimes it would be the outer element syndrome that would consume the date (i.e. taking that “fun-having” girl to a restaurant and attempting to have an actual conversation). I guess that may have been my mistake on that end lol. Anyway, chemistry issues had something to do with a few of them. To Others I just wasn’t their type (i.e. too deep in my thinking at times). Some of them even switched gears on me and just created unexplainable drama to where going out and engaging in some type of dialogue would be cumbersome. I never prematurely took myself away from a date thinking that I wouldn’t be good company. That process occurs before I even utter the phrase “hey hi u doin my name is…”!

Wise Diva I have a suggestion for mannuaselle (messed up French spelling lol): Could you please write a blog about “swag” or the infatuation of it for far too many women? That damn 6’ samoan director girl @V-103 has my head throbbing with her “high school-ish” explanation of why it’s important on Wednesday and Thursday morning!!

By Kara

June 20, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

you obviously want me to give you attention, The Truth. Why do you insist on trying to take jabs at somebody who doesn’t give a flying fig about you?

By Cinderella

June 20, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

AggWitt your 9:18 was pretty hilarious!

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Good morning! aggressively witty loved your post at 9:18.

A shoe that is too big will not stay on your foot while walking. Great spin on words.

I’m pretty I was a date to somebody somewhere. Over the years I’ve been told about my sassiness and my fiestiness which I didn’t even try to tone down back in the day. I have cancelled dates due to not wanting to go at the last minute and making up an excuse to spare feelings to becoming sick and couldn’t go.

Now, wind to present time. If I’m on a date that proves to be going in the wrong direction I will attempt to end the date as early as possible. If the date has turn to be a mean spirited date, I’ll take my blade from under my tongue, c** both barrels and blast you to hell. Then, I’ll get in my car and go home!

By D'NLITEN1

June 20, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

I have had a few bad dates here and there for various reasons. Sometimes it would be the outer element syndrome that would consume the date (i.e. taking that “fun-having” girl to a restaurant and attempting to have an actual conversation). I guess that may have been my mistake on that end lol. Anyway, chemistry issues had something to do with a few of them. To Others I just wasn’t their type (i.e. too deep in my thinking at times). Some of them even switched gears on me and just created unexplainable drama to where going out and engaging in some type of dialogue would be cumbersome. I never prematurely took myself away from a date thinking that I wouldn’t be good company. That process occurs before I even utter the phrase “hey hi u doin my name is…”!

Wise Diva I have a suggestion for mannuaselle (messed up French spelling lol): Could you please write a blog about “swag” or the infatuation of it for far too many women? That damn 6’ samoan director girl @V-103 has my head throbbing with her “high school-ish” explanation of why it’s important on Wednesday and Thursday morning!!

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

not every guy is Magnum status…but ego driven men like to believe they are. it looks a lot of black men think this way based on what i see on friends’ myspace pages….guys projecting their assets etc.I knw iam,but i never talked about it when i was hitting my ladies back then,i let the results speak 4 themslevs and my girlz wld mouth a word or 2 as affirmation at sme point….i still command a lot of respect with them,the same way Beautiful respects her ex…..thats why she moved back to be closer to him…talk of pudsy whipping…….

By 2CPTG©

June 20, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee…..

Who opened up the asylum and let Agg Witt’s crazy azz out? What up dude, you still crazy as ever, I see!

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Staceye, I was working on getting her to guest blog for me. I didn’t catch the show that she was talking about swagger though

By Raqi

June 20, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

LMAO Truth. The crazy thing is most women up in here (if they would) could probably attest that a “regular” does not mean below average performance. Stop lying and do the darn thing like you know how to do it. I really doubt if the Gustav hit its target with every shot. But I digress. Let get off of this subject.

What’s for lunch? My blood sugar is telling on me.

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Melo where are you from? your afirka-girl was very colorful story. WOW…whoa.

Kara where you been?

D’NLITEN I hear that young girl talking about Lil Wayne’s swag and how she just love is mannerisums. All the while Frank n Wanda were pretty much trying to say…sweetheart please just stop embarassing yourself and listen. and the friend in the bkgrd was sooo agreeing with how the new-age don’t care all about chilvary and spending quality time.

By Rell

June 20, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

@DN1…..I AM WITH YOU I HATE THE WORD SWAG….WHEN DID THAT BECOME THE WORD TO USE…but ummm you need to back back shawty on nina….that chick is fine all day long….

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

Staceye - So why do WE need to deal with Bitter women messed up by scrub a$$ guys

Melo - that is crazy man. I would be so P** Off if it played out like that!

By For Real

June 20, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

Chick: Truth I’ll give you some azz but you will have to take of your shoes and socks and kick that tree stump.

Truth: Ouuuuuuuch!!! Ish, Ish

Chick#2: Truth I’ll give you some azz but you will have let me pluck 7 hairs out of your nose.

Truth: Pluck Ouuch! Pluck Ouuch! I hope she don’t lose count

lil Dude#1: What up man?

lil Dude#2: Nothing man. It boring outside today.

lil Dude#1: Yeah it is ain’t it. Well what you want to do?

lil Dude#2: I don’t know, you want to knock on people doors and run?

lil Dude#1: Nawwww it’s too hot for that. You want to terrorize the stankin kid?

lil Dude#2: Ewwwwww heck nawwww. How about we go play hide and go get wtih Kym?

lil Dude#1: Oh heck yeahhh!!!! Maybe her Grandma will not be at home and we can play inside with the fans blowing

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Kara sorry boopsie, I didn’t know you qualified for early release this time. I only used your name because, well, I could. You got any worse girlfriend dates to relay? I hear you carpet munchers are rough on each other.

foots Needless to say, after throwing up twice and blowing up his bathroom, my stomach settled enough for us to watch the movie. So your the kind of chick that goes to a dudes houses blowing up the facilities and then comes out looking all cute. LMAO I missed that the first time.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Truth LOL you are are so crazy man! I thought you put the studded thong away after it tore you up!

Melo ewwww! LOL that is some ole craziness! How did you hide your disgust?

Raqi No woman wants to end up on the gyno’s table because a saggy baggy condom got rammed up into her Ummm…just got a visual….hell to the nah! LOL

Melo what gets me is the winky-do (your winky do not match your body) guys are always buying magnums knowing d*mn wel they can fit a finger condoms! UGH…let’s be real withourselves people. I wiuld never buy a size 2 jeans thinking I could lay down and squeeze into them! I am real with my self knowing I am an 8..for now. Bu I can los weight. If you are a grown man..nothing short of surgery will make your lil’ man grow into big boy status!

Wise I am all for Swagger…but somee chicks take disrespect and fakeness and swagger. I think dudes with good jobs, brains and carries himself well has swagger. Not some dude with godl grills and his pants hanging off his azz and calling women b*tches because the word female is not in his limited vocabulary is not swagger it’s ignorance!

ATL GUY a lot of times that “bitter Woman” just needs time to see that you are not like the dudes that messed her over. I am pretty sure those dudes started out nice like you and then went into azzhole mode out of nowhere!

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

A funny:

The secret to a flat tummy has been discovered! A little boy walks into his parents room to see his mom on top of his dad bouncing up and down. The mom sees her son and quickly dismounts, worried about what her son has seen, she dresses quickly and goes to find him.

The son sees his mom and asks’ “What were you and dad doing?”

The mother replies “Well you know your dad has a big tummy and sometimes I have to get on top of it to help flatten it.”

“You’re wasting your time.” says the boy. “Why is that?” asked his mom, puzzled.

“Well when you go shopping the lady next door comes over and gets on her knees and blows it right back up”.

By Kara

June 20, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

calling me a lesbian is not an insult. I happen to be straight though. Get a new trick, trick.

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

What is your worst date experience?

i’ve been someone elses worst date. we met at the mall to catch a flick, and as soon as it was over i jetted. i didn’t mean it, but i know it showed all over my face how disappointed i was.

he and the one above were blind dates. i’ll go on another, which shows you that i will never learn my lesson.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

V-103 is JAMMING…Reggae!

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

Get a new trick, trick.

lmao. that’s my gurl!

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Kara you are on fire today. It must be hard being a bytch everyday. I would love to meet you. I promise I’d take some of that vinegar out of your tongue. And you, more than anyone, should know about tricks.

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Cee i tell u that off blog..takpat78@gmail.com Staceye i never get that when guys wanna brag about hw big their wang is…do girls fall for that really? But then, when i think about it,it prolly works in sme instances…depends with the girlz mentality..

By PornStar* in da Building (**6'1**)

June 20, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

¡Qué hace a personas buenas, su el viernes, su el viernes, su el fin de la semana y el último día! ¿Así que lo que usted gonna hace?

By Kara

June 20, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this

I would rather be coated with syrup and jump in a bed of fire ants before I would let lay eyes on me. This will be the last time I address you today. You’re dismissed. Thanks for playing.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

Melo a bragging guy doesn’t turn me on…it just makes me egg him on to whip it out and show me so I can laugh if it’s Teter Peter. If he is large and in charge I give him his props and move on! LOL

By Here Today Gone Tomorrow

June 20, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

gonna hace? that’s terrible spanish.

By Simply Me

June 20, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

Worst Date In History

Met this guy at a job related seminar and we had immediate chemistry (crackin’ jokes, similar interest, etc). After the seminar,for about two weeks we kept in touch (text, email and phone), since we both are fairly busy.

Finally we decided to go out to dinner and possibly a walk in Centennial Park. So we met at a neutral halfway destination. I had planned to drive, I’m sort of a control freak and I did not want to be riding shotgun with a semi-stranger. But he talked me into riding with him.

Anyway, we go to dinner a Houston’s, conversation was good and the chemistry was popping. We are having a wonderful time. Then we decided to go to Centennial to walk and talk. On the way to the park, he did not make a complete stop at a stop sign and the next thing I know we got the “blue lights.” So he pulls over and hands the license and other credentials. Then the cop comes back and says, “Sir, could you please step out of the car?” I’m like OMG what the F**K is going on. Long and short, ole boy had a outstanding warrant for not reporting for probation, no insurance and a suspended license.

Needless to say, the car was impounded and I had to call one of my girls to pick me up from HardRock Cafe, which I had to walk too.

About a month later, he called talking bout, it was all a mix up and could he have a “re-do”. Of course you know, I introduced him the “dial tone.”

Lesson Learned: I drives my own self on dates and no mo traveling dates. We only go one place, unless he is going to follow me.

By For Real

June 20, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

What’s the difference in Men bragging on their wangs and Women bragging that their puddies are Platinum?

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

I’m gonna get my drink on, and I’m gonna get my party on, all weekend long!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

6’1 I understand you are singing the V-103 end of the week song in Spanish. Since “gonna” isn’t a real word you went Spanglish for a moment.I got ya! LOL

Simply girl that is my reason for drivning to dates! You never know if dude is nuts, a serial killer, a stalker or just plain ole messed up….as you found out! LOL That is tto funny!

By Steve

June 20, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

Thank GOD for the Trolls, otherwise we would have to read the same boring old crap from the same five people all of the time. Don’t you guy’s have somewhere else to post that really gives a damn what you think?

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

for real hi love! i can’t believe i am answering your question, but here it goes. lol. puddies are all the same … wangs come in different sizes obviously. there are wangs that i can’t feel (sad), wangs that are the bomb diggity, and wangs that need to stay the h3ll away from me (that shyt hurt!).

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 12:47 PM | Link to this

ForReal, I grew up w/this stank a$$ girl (my opinion) who swore her puddy was gold. Apparently, a lot of guys thought so to. Fast forward today…she dances like a dried up ho w/o rhythm. All she knows how to do is shake a little of this and wiggle a little of that. Watching her is quite commical (at least for me). She can’t give it away for trying!

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Hey 2C.

What reminded me of that “‘bout to get arrested” scenario was your classic one about co-pilot in the car inadvertent plight to wanna get out.

Worst date: Well he got to caught up with trying to make a quick stop (think it had something to do with them brown cigarettes) and while @ the wrong place/time he was spotted/suspect & asked a few question by police officers. And me looking, quiet as a mouse and being observant of EVERYTHING i nicely got out locked-up the car and acting as if i was just holding the keys standing over to the side for air…yea. Stuck, thinking if he go to jail do i go? Now officer 1 was all in his truck until officer 2 comes over and asked a few questions about the smells/if he had more. This is the first time i ever used the “pinecone” smell reference. Officer 2 was looking like seen it bf let’s see so he walks over to me and ask i said i thought it was an freshener from car. The officer and i kinda looked & laughed he was not as cocky as officer 1. Somehow he asked me if we were from the neightbor hood i said no and told him such. Once i offered the info of where i live we got on conversation about an ex-officer that he knew in same area as was at the time a detective i knew this person as well. While the other officer (#1 cocky) was about to take it to anew level officer #2 searched the truck (lightly) asked me to take my purse out (i thought they were bout to arrest him) ask me a few questions about dude i told them we were on our way to a comedy show and he was a father and we were meeting a group…blah, blah, i got real nervous for him (standing there w/the keys my purse and he was disgusted). i know cop #1 was looking to take him to jail, forreal but i was trying to stand in the gap w/ officer 2. So big guy (cop #1) came over and Officer #2 told him everything i said gave him a warning and let him go but boy he was sick when he got in the car and 20 min of silence later he apologized and thanked me for staying around. I was like not me…maybe it was the small prayer and officer 2 but don’t thank me. I told him we could cancel…we ended up going anyway meeting the group and he was a it more quiet but continued to say thanks and told me whatever i wanted to do that night (even if i didn’t want to go to show)he was game. LOL…i wonder if him was feeling a lil vunerable. i reaassured him it was not a 2nd thought. Glad all was okay.

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

sexy i’m gonna get my bbq on, and i’m gonna get my church on, all weekend long!!!

lol. hey staceye what you gon do?

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

Steve’s back…Don’t you guy’s have somewhere else to post that really gives a damn what you think? DUH, we are posting where they give a damn what we think. Why are you here?

By Troll from Oz

June 20, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

Amen Steve. I usually go 2-3 weeks before pulling up this site but when I do I also notice it’s the same 4 people on here.

By lurker

June 20, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

i once heard a man say that a woman’s “cookie” is only as good as he (or any other man) deems it.

By Simply Me

June 20, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Staceye

As the cops was loading his azz in the car, he said “I’mma need you to call my mama, so accept the collect call when I get there. I’m thinkin’ I bearly know yo criminal azz and he** nawh,I ain’t calling yo mammy.

Girl, I rolled my eyes so hard, I they almost got stuck. And he had the nerve to call later that night. What he** was he thinking? LOL

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

Melo is that code for; i’m from somewhere but nowhere? :)

Steve/Oz….hahaha…i’m sorry if i irritate yall…sometimes i irritate myself. Hear have some of my bench seat in this Blog Cafe/Lounge. want something to drink?

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

um Steve and friends, we won’t force you to stick around, LOL

By Carmen

June 20, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

Beautiful- totally cosigning your 12:46 post….so sad

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

That’s why this site is popular = the regulars. You should try pulling it up when the lurkers come out, and we all have thought provoking dialogue going without crass comments from folk like the 2 of you.

By Voiceofreason

June 20, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Awwwww, Celisha. You must be chunky. Some races turn to black guys because some of them don’t mind a fat girl. If you’re dating them but don’t care for them, this must be you. Sorry girl.

By Voiceofreason

June 20, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

@ Simply Me

Great story!

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this

Simply so you came to sit in the same section with me today? Hey girl, is that not the most NERVOUS thing to have to experience?

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

Are you ladies dating Crackheads or something!? WoW…

Their Track Lines must be sexy huh?

By Foots

June 20, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

Truth So your the kind of chick that goes to a dudes houses blowing up the facilities and then comes out looking all cute.

Yes, and no. Yes, I do blow up the spot from time to time. And no, I come out looking like I just blew up the spot and I need to lay down to regroup for about 20-25 minutes. LOL!

off topic Why do peoople have a problem with THIS blog? When the American Idol blog is up, there are regulars who post ALL DAY AND NIGHT, since I don’t think it closes. The MOMania blog has its regulars. Other blogs are like that also, nature of the beast. So, why do trolls SPECIFICALLY single out this blog?? I just might know the answer to this one…

By flabredtxraised

June 20, 2008 1:40 PM | Link to this

I see why other races still laugh at the black community as many of the people who complained about BLACK PEOPLE LOOK IN THE MIRROR THE PERSON YOU REALLY HATE IS YOU AND YOU TOO SCARED TO ADMIT IT, COWARDS! At least Steve is honest about who he hates! The alarm clock is RINGNG PEOPLE, WAKEUP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

Must have missed something - why you ask that question ATL Guy?

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

foots MIA doesn’t welcome newbies to well. i remember being beaten up bad when i started. and still am. i gave an example of something and was ripped to shreds!

hey cee!

By M.

June 20, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

@Blog

Has anyone ever went on a date that was bad but the other person calls you like everything went great and asking when you 2 will go out again? Why is that? The ultimate mixed signal….

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

Foots fuggem. In order for them to make these statements they must lurk which means they come here alot too. Really this is like an on going phone conversation. They would have you think they talk with a bunch of folks all day but they don’t. They just don’t know how to be social and mingle.

I know ol boy was rolling on the floor with you in there blowing the walls down. I’d of been hollering.

Kara what can I say about you that hasn’t already been said about chickenheads across the country?

By Foots

June 20, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Then you must not have seen the other blogs. They are calling each other idiots by 9:05 AM. At least we wait until after 10 to start fighting.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Beautiful, don’t give the trolls any ammunition.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

sexyleggs with Simply’s stories or how you all are bitter at guys for bad dates etc. Sounds like many in this room are Single Moms or down for dating Bobby Brown Crackheads…just sounds that way!

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 20, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

Well its friday and I see you all are live in here today. I wont attempt to catch up, I’ll just take a step back and watch the fireworks. Oh and I came bearing snacks: now’nlaters, nerds, hershey’s nuggets(almond & cookies-n-cream), reese’s pieces, gummi worms (regular and sour), jelly beans, popcorn and for those of you who love amusement parks, funnel cakes. I’ll be making the funnel cakes in a sec.

Hugs to the fellas and ^5 to the ladies!

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

M it’s a tough job to hurt someones feelings. i’d rather run away. sad, but true. and i have. and WILL DO IT AGAIN! lol.

why is it that we/females can’t blow up a bathroom? what’s so bad about that? i don’t understand. lol.

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

Hi Beautiful and Leggs, Foots, flabredtaraised, Voice,…when we think about “communities” ther real neighborhoods, and the lease of blog communities there will always be the naysayers. And those that support and stand for/with and by someone is judged. ALWAYS!

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

oh boy, somebody is campaigning for a ban I see le sigh

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Gotcha ATL Guy, I’m not one of them (bitter that is), but I hear what you’re saying. Heck, I’m having fun…life is short. I’m down for the bumpy ride once in awhile. Eventually, it’s smooth sailing.

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

I hate to even address that comment but, ummm what person with half a brain even cares why/how/when other races laugh at them. I mean, really? seriously? I am shocked there are those who still expect that we yearn for acceptance from those that hate us. Good grief, narcissistic much? Get over yourselves! LOL ok, off my soapbox

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli, I got your back and I know what you tried to say, but that post was a hot mess (ROFL).

By Foots

June 20, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

Truth I know ol boy was rolling on the floor with you in there blowing the walls down. I’d of been hollering.

He probably was, I would have been too, but he was straight faced and working on his computer right by the dayum bathroom when I came out (the first time) and offered to rub my belly and get me some water. The second time, he carried me to the bathroom himself. It’s how I knew he was a little different than most.

ATLGuy Okay, so (sigh), who in here has given you the impression that they are bitter? And don’t say Staceye, she’s not bitter, just resolute.

Mo I’m low on Pineapple Now and Laters, you got some of those? And Orange too? I swear, those Orange N&Ls used to taste like crayons until I turned 12, they became good after that. Kinda like how school cafeteria rectangle pizza turned good after 6th grade…

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

No much like how that ice cream in between those white paper sleeves turned good after 8th grade…

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the candy snacks Mo.

anyone know of a way to get fine glitter off the skin?

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Foots its all the comments about how guys MADE women not trust etc etc. Whatever, play victim, cry a river. I see women with Loser A$$ guys and guess what…these females are part to blame for putting up with the abuse. Find something good, stop crying about how bad you’ve got it. Land of Opportunity right!?

sexyleggs haha much respect Always!

By Foots

June 20, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs And I don’t think I could stand an ice cream sandwich until I was about 15.

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

Leggs…k. why a hot mess? which post? not following…

By Steve

June 20, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

I don’t have a problem with this blog and i don’t hate anyone.

I would like to just once pick a blog that’s posted on the front page of AJC that looks like interesting reading or commenting on without the “blog club” taking it over.

Maybe that’s why the AJC is hurting so bad on circulation, they only have the opinion of 4 or 5 people to publish and leave everyone else out.

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

I see women with Loser A$$ guys and guess what…these females are part to blame for putting up with the abuse.

^5.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

What does ^5 mean?! Props!?

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 20, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Foots I have all flavors of NL’s so have at it chica!

Cemeeli You got it chica! Its Friday so I’m celebrating

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

Leggs i think you’re speaking about my 1:55 to Beautiful? She ventured to say how the b-community didn’t welcome newbie and kinda make fun of her.I was responding to her and the neighbor bloggers how the like of a community usually is. Every1 will not be supportive even of that ONE that is supporting someone else. just how it is

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

Perhaps it’s me, but re-read your 1:55.

By M.

June 20, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

@Beautiful

I agree with you about the feelings but what if a guy you were feeling did you the same way? It does suck though. My thing is I would rather you tell me up front, save the text messages, dinners, cell phone minutes, weekends and everything in between.

@Blog

If you stopped calling someone and you see them around town, how do you handle the situation? I saw the man hater sitting on the next row at my Church! Crazy…

By Foots

June 20, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

ATLGuy Sorry, dude, you’d have to be more specific. You may be talking about the women you hang around, and I don’t know them, so I can’t comment. But the vast majority of the ladies here aren’t the type to let their past experiences get them to the bitter point.

But since you want others to stop crying about their circumstances, has ol’ girl that you’re trying to date with the boyfriend stopped making you crazy yet? You were on the edge yesterday with your crush issues…

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

…4 or 5 people to publish and leave everyone else out. That’s not true, if you post, you’ll get publish. I understand what you’re saying about the blog club. It wasn’t like that in the beginning (although I wasn’t part of the beginning LOL), but the diehards stayed around through all the tongue slashing and blog beatings to form the group in front of you. BTW, there’s are 22-25 regulars!

By kimmie

June 20, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

ATLguy - Were’nt you just on here the other day simpin’ about this chick you like that isn’t even feeling yo butt so she had to bring up an out-of-state boyfriend to keep you at arms-length? Now you got the nerve to be making comments about the ladies of THIS blog, the one you came to for ADVICE? Spare me and everybody else!

how you all are bitter at guys for bad dates etc. Sounds like many in this room are Single Moms or down for dating Bobby Brown Crackheads… Newsflash - The topic of the day is about BAD DATES! And what’s being a single mom have to do with anything? I’m not getting the Bobby Brown thing either.

I don’t usually join in stuff like this, but I just couldn’t keep still!LOL

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

June 20, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

Wow…I step away for a couple meetins and find out that I’ve been pounced on.

Rell, All people sin and that’s what makes us human. Preachers should be intentional in their walks because we are held to a level of accountability unlike others. Yes…I have and will continue to sin. However, I will keep walking upright with the responsibility of knowing that others are watching me. Stop painting all preachers with the same brush based on your preconceived notions as Diva stated. I’m not a super hero nor do I want to be :). I just want to be someone who can provide a sense of hope that not all preachers are the same, not all men are panty chasers and not all hope is lost for those seeking quality, healthy relationships.

Don’t worry about my credentials…just watch the fruit that is produced when you remain connected to the Word of God :).

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

Foots I love how Naive you are. Ignorance is Bliss mentality huh!? If you read these blogs daily and you don’t get that vibe, then I’m shocked. Nah those are definitely not the kind of females I hang with.

As for Ol’ girl…not on Edge sweetheart…getting a female opinion. Seeing her this weekend. No Worries

Did I hit a Nerve with you or Something!?!?

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

Hello Everybody!….whew!…folks working Mocha’s behind to death, like they haven’t been getting their money’s worth esp by me staying late most days this week!!!…(eyerollin’, with the neck action)…

@Agg Witty, Melo, and SimplyMe:

…LOL!!!…those were hilarious, but probably not so funny at the time, I know….

@2Can:

Sup, mayne….how was the reunion/ trip?…anything to “write home about”?…I’m sure there was something….

@ Cee:

Hey there, “cowgirl”….sup?!…that was some story!…pinecone air freshner, with a hint of?…talk about some aroma….LOL!!!

And thanks girl, for sharing your Ledisi CD w/ me….worked like a charm after I returned from my evening jog around the “Old Middleton” (7 times)!!!….a hot scolding shower and uninterrupted deep slumber, while attentively “watching the back of my eyelids”…LOL!!!….then woke up at approx 4:15 am and went for another jog to get me started this morning, and while on my way in to work, I just couldn’t wait to get that “first glimpse” of the ocean view…”she took it all in, and the petty ish just went out the window”….

So…what are you and Lil Cee getting into for the weekend?…I think I am up to taking the “Lil Mochas” to BG or Anna Maria beach…we’ll see…

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

sexy when we get bored, we should name them all. lol.

i miss 900, blank, and blank.

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

Alright, fair enough Steve, however.. what do you suggest we do? force them to shut up so people who maybe, kinda want to join in can feel better about posting comments? How much time do you spend on the internet? Does the term social media networking ring a bell? Communities like ours drive the forums, the interactiveness and sense of virtual community is appealing to people who WANT to join in. If you don’t, just don’t! I welcome everyone, but I will FIGHT you if you try to diss my blog community, LOL. Join in or take your marbles and go home :)

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Steve you have a point it can be clique-ish in here…”club” as in these are in, your out…hmmm when i wanted to comment, including my first cpl times i thought my opinion on topic was just as relative/help as the regulars. Up to you.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

Beautiful I gon’ get my movie one..I’m gon’ get my dance on and I’m gon’ get my studio on….all weekend long! LOL

Simply he called you collect? Oh hell nah! LOL

Wise girl I co-sign your 12:59. These fools come on here talking about those who post daily….last time I checked, no one holds a gun to anybody’s head to make them come to the blog! They are tha azzholes with no life…the blog makes my day go by a lot quicker. So all my regulars…blob on amd make me laugh…even when I am attacked!

Foots * Yes, I do blow up the spot from time to time. And no, I come out looking like I just blew up the spot and I need to lay down to regroup for about 20-25 minutes.* OMG….LMAO girl that is too funny. That makes me think of Friday, “don’t go in the bathroom for 30-45 minutes”! Classic!

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

Jamoca uhm maam…worst date. You’re cool in Ledisi…she also has a great track on their JOY. Listen, it’s nice.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

M If you stopped calling someone and you see them around town, how do you handle the situation?

Funny you should mention that. I ran into an old friend a few weeks ago. I kinda just gave him dap and kept it moving. One time I saw somebody that I went out with only once many years ago and neither one of us remembered each other’s names enough to speak, but we did recognize each other. A quick hello in passing worked fine, the type of hello you’d give to any stranger who looks at you long enough.

ATLGuy No nerves hit here, but it looked like your nerves were affected with your rant, bringing up single moms and other emotional ish that made no sense. It’s hard to figure out where that came from.

But hey, glad you were able to get some advice about this girl that’s got you so caught up, confused and whose mixed signals you’re too green to figure out for yourself. Come back when you’re trying to figure out how to get her bra loose.

So, when’s her boyfriend coming to town? Are you going to be their chauffeur?

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

Mo now which flavor N&L’s did you give to Foots?

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

@ Kimmie:

Absolutely loved everyword of your 2:34, girl…most times it’s just to petty to “fashion” or let alone, pay any mind, but there will be times to whereas something has to be said…I concur with you on that, most definitely!

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

Oh and btw Steve, don’t take offense if you think you’ve said something witty or interesting and no one bites…that’s how the blog works. Some days you’re a leper and some days your the cat’s meow. Don’t take anything personal (not even the blog fights). But, if you drink all the Fanta and eat all the kettle corn and now and laters (spelled out for you just in case), it’s on and popping up in this camp!

By kimmie

June 20, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

Foots - As for Ol’ girl…not on Edge sweetheart…getting a female opinion. Seeing her this weekend. No Worries - yeah, you remember, the GROUP date, like high school!LOL

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

Okay I walk away and yet more trolls come out..To blog or not to blog that is your question..there are several blogs the ajc post that remain empty because no one comments on the topic and it becomes wasted cyberspace. I would think the ajc.com Would sponsor a forum for blogs like ours and Wooten..who have regulars who blog daily and share their views…hint..hint.

Anywhoo…What else did I miss?

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

FOOTS This Article should really be called “Dealing with Foots is a Colosal Waste of Time” , might be more appropriate.

You really do give Females a bad Image. Might want to work on that & do society a favor

By Steve

June 20, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

I was under the assumption that these blogs were for everyone to leave a comment on and read about others opinion and to hopefully take away an understanding of the way the rest of the world thinks about certain topics.

This to me looks and sounds like the chat rooms of AOL with a bunch of teenagers in it.

No disrespect intended but just my observation. I’ll just lurk and maybe there will be an intelligent blog posted at some point.

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

For Real Damn you..let me clarify it was not me and two other boys just playing hide and go get. It was all the kids(boys and girls) in the neighborhood.

Dang it Truth I let him get to me..instead of clarifying I should have just left it at “Is that so?”

I will be reading the book starting this weekend. Need a refresher.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

MLL Hey lady, I got the tickets for the Museum tonight. I’m excited, since this will be my first time going. I’ve been here 9 years and have never been.

Next up…the World of Coca-Cola and the Botanical Gardens. I might have to pretend to be a tourist this summer in order to see all the things I’ve missed as long as I’ve been here.

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

was under the assumption that these blogs were for everyone to leave a comment on and read about others opinion and to hopefully take away an understanding of the way the rest of the world thinks about certain topics.

not to take words out of wise’s fingertips, but you will be amazed at how much we learn from being off topic.

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

Steve ajc circulation is down because we can come here and get the news the second it occurs. It’s down because some choose not to read the slanted views of a biased media. It’s down because the only people that need that much paper are using it to wrap their dishes when they move. Feel free to join in and have a word or two. Warning, these folks aren’t for the thin skinned.

Flatbred more people are laughing at you than us. If you could cut bigger slits in that sheet you’d see that.

Foots reminds me of a chick I used to mess with in Marietta. We go out to eat and I get a case of poo poo tummy. To far to make it home so I go put in some work. I’m in there curling the paint on the walls and the chick walks in talking to me. I’m like, “are you oblivious to what’s going on around you”? She’s still talking while I’m delivering audio affects out of this world. Finally I had to tell her to shut up and leave so I could relax and do my thing. When I came out I wanted to put crime scene tape up because that room was no good for at least a day. LOL

Atl Guy watch out for Kimmie. She looks sweet but she’ll kick you in the balls in a New York minute. LOL

Steve if you’re waiting for an intelligent post you’ll be here awhile. We only allow one of those a week. This is strictly entertainment.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

ATLGuy That’s clever!!! And to think you came up with that topic yourself!! Looks like you have a lot of time on your hands to deal with me, since you’re not stressing like you were yesterday. Congrats on your group date! On Monday, how about letting us know if she lets you hold her hand or if she spends the whole date texting her man, okay?

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

Kimmie First, we went out one on one, not a group date. Second, I’m friend’s with her friend’s and we party in Midtown. How we met in the first place. Is that High School?! Really? LoL

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 20, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

Hey Yall, super speed reading, yall keep it coming!

Foots Will you be at the High tonight?

I think they call em Reverent for the rev’s who’s hanging out at the clubs LOL

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 20, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

That was fast!!! we musta been thinking bout each other at the same time…..Hope you enjoy yourself tonight Foots*

By Foots

June 20, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

MLL We must have posted at the same time. LOL! I’ll be there.

Truth When I came out I wanted to put crime scene tape up because that room was no good for at least a day.

Okay, now that’s a visual!! Curling paint??!! LMAO! Reminds me of what I told ol’ boy when he suggested that I just needed some time in the bathroom. I told him that it wouldn’t be a good idea because he might not get all of his security deposit back! LOL!

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Steve,u sure u werent looking for lil boys…..

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Foots funny you bring up the botanical garden. I went through the parking lot last sunday and they were having a concert or something in there. I went when I first got here but looks like alot has changed.

Atl Guy sorry dude but they’re right. Last week you came in here like you was receptive to penis and this week your chest is poked out like superman. We’ll stand behind you but you have to stay on one side of the fence.Flip flopping is looked at as weakness in this camp. Now get him girls. LMAO

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Sorry, but this was funny…more people are laughing at you than us. If you could cut bigger slits in that sheet you’d see that.

By Page1908

June 20, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Truth and Foots! It’s nice when you can get the bg’s and not feel embarassed. My friend calls the bathroom the “library” lol. Kinda reminds me of that Seinfeld episode where George gets a book from the bookstore and takes it in the bathroom then tries to return it lmao.

Mo lol @ Nerds! Man who knew that tiny little balls of sugar could be so yummy!

Staceye lol

By kimmie

June 20, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

ATLguy - Just don’t come in here snapping like that with some racist, stereotyping, no-sense-making rant, especially after you come to US for advice. I could really care less where you and ole girl went on your little date. Obviously it didn’t go that great if you have to come to a internet blog for advice! You can even figure out when a chick is feeling you yet, how’s that for High School?

Truth - You better tell him, my dear ex-blog husband!

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

@ Cee:

…” Jamoca uhm maam…worst date….”

Is that my signal to share a story?….I did, when it was Bella’s week, but it wasn’t my worst date…I don’t ever recall having a worst date (knowingly), most of my dates were a lot of fun actually, remembered esp for my sense of humor, love making a man LHAO!…but mostly I just chill and enjoy the moment….

…but what I shared regarding dates that could’ve been better, actually involved me embarrassing myself while on one….along with the scortchin’ @$$ scotch bonnet peppers, “spliced-up throat sensations”, watery eyes and a runny nose, as the pineapple soda made the feeling worse, while indulging in West Indian/Jamaican cuisines…ohhh and folks ROTF LTAO at me, while my date is trying to force/ telling me to “spit out deh dam’ peppar”…”dam’ gurl tryin’ to errrhhht ya’ sef” and fussin’ in Jamaican patois…….I think sums it up. LOL!!!

But we actually dated for a year (or little more than that), still run into each other from time to time and laugh about that moment in particular…

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

MLL I didnt say he hung out at the clubs..not the one I know but I am sure he knows where the club is.

KP I understand about the preception of holy..but the fact is you carry a title..that’s it a title..it makes you no closer or no further away from God than anyone else walking this earth..and I find it a bit insulting to think you some how feel you got a hotline to God simply because you are Minister KP on the mike. Any request I or Truth or anyone else who decides to call on God in pray, meditation, chant, whateva…it is heard. A sin is a sin Pastor..and no sin is greater than the other..the difference I think between the guy I mention and you and alot of other holy polies is that he is at least willing to admit that he has the odd and offten “Shawty Freak a Little something” moment.

Where as you have other folks walking around trying so hard to walk upright that they are confused, and afraid they are going to die and go to hell if they look at themselves naked in the mirror.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

Typical Females Blog Club jumping the one Guy in here for asking for an opinion. There’s *Melo siding with these little girls! That surprised me a bit. Ah Well.*

FooTs - I heard you’re easy…can I find you standing on the corner of Ponce de Leon around 3am tonight!? I don’t want to keep you from you job or anything…just want to see what you’re about in Person for some comic relief

By Barnardgurl

June 20, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

To be honest, I’m sick of hearing people comment that Michelle Obama is not pretty enough for Barack. Honestly, the comment infuriates me. Is Michelle not a catch? Are her accomplishments and education worthless? What about her worth as a woman? Is Barack supposed to have some model figure on his arm? A white woman maybe?

What concerns me most though is the general notion that black women do not deserve the best.

I can see both sides in that some black woman (women, people, period) are not realistic in their expectations, do not consider what they are bringing to the table as a package (personality, accomplishments, physical).

We complain about Becky and Yella Sally, but if you look at the expectations we have we’re self defeatist. We’ve bought into the same hype. We expect to be chosen last, we’re harsher on other BW than anyone else.

And of course other people do the same. An average looking white woman is decent or attractive, an average black woman is “torn up”. Jennifer Aniston is one of the most homely looking white celebs, but she is celebrated as an icon of beauty. Her whiteness made her beauty on par with Brad’s even though it’s not. Yet, Tameka (sp) and her average looks are sub par to Usher’s Curious George looking self.

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Jamoca first off i’m jealous about BG:) girls r gonna hv a blast. For me Friday nights are Jazz night @ The Tank, of course i’m working the cold water quest while my friends enjoy the environment. Saturday = 4th babyshower in 2 months…i think i know i can make a nice big beautiful baby gift bag with ALL goodies in .5 milliseconds in my sleep. Two more in July <—-babies everywhere…

kimmie are you eating candy too? must be the same flavor, lol..hey lady.

Kym would that be with a side of berry lemonade?

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

i honestly feel like u stumbled on this blog by accident, after trolling the net all day without success…i can sympathise with u Steve,the experience is just the same with what i used to feel when hunting for kudu,wilderbeast and other game back in africa..it can be frustrating spending the whole day without a catch. Try the disney channel instead, i think they have some cool boyz and girlzz chat sites over there.

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

Melo now see< You ALWAYS left with it. lil boys - oh my.

Lol @ Truth releasing the impala meat to the Cheetah’s.

By Foots

June 20, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

ATLGuy A little thin skinned are we? Buck the hellz up, mid-20s. So, where’d you find the ballz to ask ol’ dude’s girl out? Y’all had a good time?

You can find me at the High tonight. You’ll be the short dude, I figure?

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

Kimmie how was I ever racist!? I’m the most non-racist person you will meet. Its wild because I was telling people above not to sterotype black guys for being terrible to go out with. Calm Down

By aggressively witty

June 20, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

who said michelle obama doesnt look good enough for barack? Michelle is all kinds of fine.

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Cee I have had my blueberry lemonade for the week. But this is a long summer..many more lemonades to come

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

June 20, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Page1908 hey chica! I love Nerds! I have the strawberry/grape combo as well as the lemonade punch/watermelon combo. How are you?

Cemeeli Foots asked for some pineapple and orange flavors. You know I have a over abundance of pineapple though so we should be cool.

Okay I will enjoy my funnel cake now…powdered sugar, fork, tall glass of lemonade….ok so whose fighting now??

By The Truth

June 20, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

Page/Foots folks were talking about you’re not in a relationship until you have sex. They should add bubble guts to that. Those sweet partners create some pure bathroom terror. LMAO BTW, I have all sorts of reading material in my spot. Helps me stay up on current events while I kill a few minutes. LOL

Kimmie You better tell him, my dear ex-blog husband! I’m geting misty eyed. I thought you forgot about me since you left me for hi karate stud muffins. So what I couldn’t get my endurance over 3 minutes. I told you in the beginning you got me really excited.

By Amina

June 20, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

Atl Guy lol…. You remind me of a puppy or a little boy.

By kimmie

June 20, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

Cee - Hey girl, what’s up? As a matter of fact, eating some chocolate now, tearing it up!LOL It is going to be, as a friend of mine used to put it, Beautify Yourself weekend! Getting pedicure, hair color & cut! Does seem like everybody is having babies! My new little nephew is perfect, by the way! Fat and so observant! He just stares you down as you talk and move!

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

Barnardgur, wow that’s the first I’m hearing that she’s not pretty enough for him. As the saying goes, pretty is in the eye of the beholder and the tacky women saying this cannot be pretty themselves, and I mean this on the inside. Michelle Obama is gorgeous, inside and out! Her class, intelligence, strength, makes her DOWN RIGHT BEAUTIFUL.

To be honest, I made a comment about her arched eyebrows and was quickly told that if that’s all I found wrong w/her others too will find little things wrong that in totality, makes almost everything wrong about her. Therefore, I now see NADA wrong w/her!

Steve yes, this usually terms into a chatroom discussion of friends discussing days events, children’s accomplishments, our accomplishment and what’s on the agenda for the weekend. It’s the nature of the beast when we live in Blog Peyton Place!

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

Foots you miss the whole point sweetheart. You might be slow…I get it.

You’ll be at the High Tonight!? I’m not short, don’t worry about that. I could probably pick you out though…thing is you won’t be able to keep your hands off me

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

LMAO!!!…not Curious George!! (although, I can not say that I don’t see the resemblance)…now picturing “the man in the yellow hat”…HA!

By Foots

June 20, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

Mo I was fighting, but I’ve just been sprung from this camp!! My director said we could go early, so I think I’m going to go hang out in Dillards and see kind of swimsuits they have.

I’ll pass it to melo/Truth, cause I think ATLGuy said something about their mamas at 3:17. LOL!!

Truth Now that’s the truth!! You never know how much you like somebody until they set off your smoke detectors from having BG. LMAO!!

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

AtlGuy hw old did u say u are? i bet u didnt even notice sme girl hollered at u…….

By Foots

June 20, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

Oh shoot, I can just hand it to Amina, she always comes in busting down the door with steel-toed boots! Get em girl!

Y’all have a beautiful weekend. KP, pray for some rain, okay?

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

kimmie i’ll take your “Beautify Yourself” with my “Prettiful Life”. YOU KNOW i’m partial to babyboys. That’s so sweet auntie you make sure he gets an early lesson on Kwon Doe now.

My collegue (shower’s tomorrow) is having a girl…she wanted a boy soooo bad. We just had a talk about this…Be happy with a healthy baby.

By Page1908

June 20, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Mo LOL. I’m doing awesome, thanks for asking.

Truth So the saying should be changed to say “you are not in a relationship until you can have Bubble Guts with said dude/lady in the house”. LOLOL. barf

By kimmie

June 20, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

Truth - You know I’ll always have a special place in my heart for you:). Yes, I don’t always agree with you, but you know you my dog! I know you say a lot of things for shock value! Your endurance was never a problem for me either. Some people enter your life for a season, and your time as my blog husband was up. But we’ll always be blog buddies. I may have to back-track from time-to-time, you never know!

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

Ok, I don’t have any plans tonight…I’m goin to the High to pick up ATL Guy!

By Dushawn

June 20, 2008 3:45 PM | Link to this

JAMOCA gwan ATL”SHORT”GUY ‘e mout’ all box-up!

By Amina

June 20, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

have good weekend Foots :)

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs know it!

Oh, its my bestfriend Amina again…haha…never making sense as usual

Foots you need to stop texting me for those booty calls…I mean some of the stuff you want me to do is just illegal in Asia! WoW….

By Shiphrah

June 20, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

How would you feel if your ex boyfriend starts dating a week after you break up?

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

AtlGuy, after all the advice i gave u yesterday about u and ole girl, i hope u wont dissappoint by bringing in a light packaged suitcase.U need to make sure when u make a move on girl, she leaves ur place so dizzy she wont even remember outa town guy’s name….thats hw u make a mark.Even if it dont work out, u can count on girl to be the 1st to spot u and come over to greet u on the street, even when she got sme other dude….lemme holla at my cousin 4 a sec meaning u…that always feels good…..

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

June 20, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

Kym I nowhere did I mention your name in my commet.

Have a good weekend!

Foots don’t drink too much, and watch out for that pasty nakkid man showing his dingaling magunum fo sho LOL

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

Sup, Dushawn….

Why you startin’ more ish,mayne…LOL!!!…(in my best voice of Sophia…”he ain’ wuf’ if”)…you must’ve caught a lil’ bit of that “pilot” yesterday….LOL!!!

It takes a helluva lot mo’ than that to get me off…

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Much Respect Melo

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

Shiphrah I would a few ways:

1) He never loved you as much as he claimed.

2) He lives by the saying: Time waits for no man…why should I?

3)He is on the prowl for the rebound chick! Spsssst…It won’t last!

4) He just wants to make you jealous!

Take your pick honey…one has to be right!

By Hippo

June 20, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this

Moca

Are you a female? I get confused sometimes. The way you post is so hood.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this

It depends on the breakup. Some breakups you’re happy to get out of so “more power to him.” If I’m hurting, then I would hurt a little more, but recognize it is what it is…he’s not hurting as badly as I am….w/in due time I’ll be able to say NEXT! Seems like one party is always able to keep it moving quicker than the other.

By Blue Kolla

June 20, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

Well well well… looks like the gang’s all here. What up yoll…

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

Shiphrah it dont matter,he was never into u anyway,so why bother…..

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

Blue Hey. You LATE dude…how’s that? Friday and all.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

So it appears Melo!

By Atl Lady

June 20, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

Barnardgurl ^5 on the post. I remember being totally outraged when a brother who was working for BET asked Barack why Michelle? Barack being as cool as can be asked right back, Have you seen my wife? She’s fine! Let’s not get too deep about it. It started out as simple as that.

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

i luv the sound of a light moan…….

By Beautiful

June 20, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

mo i’ll take sum gummy worms. thx! yum, my fav … rainbow.

bye ev1! life is good. ;-)

By Blue Kolla

June 20, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

Sittin’ up callin’ all over town for a little azz rubber o-ring that’s standing in the way of major progress (It’s a shame when something that small is a special order item)… and waiting on Wise to answer dude on what she’d say if he called up to cancel talking about he wasn’t really feelin’ like being a good date that night.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

Most men do…you’re not saying anything.

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

@ Hippo:

…”Are you a female? I get confused sometimes. The way you post is so hood….”

I’m going to give the benefit of the doubt and take it that you weren’t being sarcastic with your post….when I think of the word “Jamoca” nothing about the name is masculine (IMO)….I’ve never heard of a dude wanting to be called “Jamoca”….however, thanks to “TRUTH-esticles” (wink)…he has some referring to me as “Jamo” which could be mistaken as a guy…but since he knows what he knows…that can’t be so….

…there are times when I know to put the “hood dialect” to the wayside and when it’s okay to bring it out, relax and let my hair down a bit….may be it comes from hanging around my uncles and older male cousins so much when growing up…at least that’s how we do (most times)…is this possibly your first time lurking…I ask b/c via my previous posts, clearly signifies…I’M ALL FEMALE.

By ATL Guy

June 20, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

Leggs whats goin on at the High tonight? Besides you and me of course!

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

Sup, Baybeh Blue!

By Blue Kolla

June 20, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

Michelle Obama = Total Package (at least from all outward appearances…)

By Alvin

June 20, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

Barnardgurl while I am too dark to date chocolate women…I feel Michelle has a mean a$$ SWAG (yes this word is over used)

By Poppa Grande

June 20, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

I’ve only had one bad date, but I got my money’s worth out of it.

I won’t go into major details, but it ended with a Strange’-like (from the movie Boomerang) “I was gonna give you some of this ‘Honeypot’! But you f’ed it up, ‘N-word’!!!” said in the middle of Lee’s Golden Buddha on Roswell Road.

The date was a favor. It was a double-date with a friend that was interested in my date’s friend. They both were from the Dominican Republic. (My date was just a few fries short of a happy meal.) They both claimed to be from Bocachica D.R.

BTW, she didn’t say “honeypot” she used the p-word.

Needless to say, I didn’t double date anymore.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

Heard some fellow bloggers talking about Friday nights are Jazz nights @ The High!

By aggressively witty

June 20, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

BK, you know you need that disclaimer cause every woman who looks like the TP to some dude is the worst mate ever.

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

Blue…did you found it??? well at least you don’t have to stay late on a FRIDAY i know you’ll be spinnin’ shortly. I gotta wait late to leave today.

ATL Lady hey sis! You know imma Obama Mama…he is one of the quiet confident ones. Now my friend thinks he’s sexy…I bet she didn’t know he said THAT about Michelle like that! hahaha.

By Kym aka Contessa of Rapturous Delights

June 20, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

Okay between Poppa G getting cussed out, Big Wille D getting put in the headlock..I dont think my tail of almost being arrested while half-naked will measure up. Another story for another time

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

@ Cee:

…”Jamoca first off i’m jealous about BG:) girls r gonna hv a blast. For me Friday nights are Jazz night @ The Tank, of course i’m working the cold water quest while my friends enjoy the environment. Saturday = 4th babyshower in 2 months…i think i know i can make a nice big beautiful baby gift bag with ALL goodies in .5 milliseconds in my sleep. Two more in July <—-babies everywhere…”

Don’t be that, sis….”Jealousy is a sickness, it’s a sickness….just let it go and walk away”…LOL!!!…I’ll give you a week’s supply of the pineapple N&L’s if you can guess what movie that line came from?…LOL!!!

I hope you enjoy your wkend though….all those little babies, huh?…yep, the medical field is definitely inflation proof….as quick as the babies keep comin’, folks are fallin’ off just a quickly….

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

Why can’t you date a chocolate coated woman??? What am I missing? Two dark-skinneded (I know this is not a word) individuals shouldn’t get together?

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

oh Steve, don’t lurk for too long. I would love to see you contribute to the discussions, LOL. I get overprotective of the blog, but I do love new readers - especially when they aren’t posting baiting comments to insult us :)

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

Sup, Demi!…Happy Friday!!!

By Alvin

June 20, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

Jamoca gurrrl just poke your chest out so Harpo will take notice…

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

why is that when a girl is getting none,she hates on others getting theirs……

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

June 20, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Alvin while I am too dark to date chocolate women why do you say that? And I do not remmeber you being that dark.

Poppa don’t let that make you think bad of all Dominican women! LOL

By Alvin

June 20, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

Jamoca gurrrl just poke your chest out so Harpo will take notice…

By Cemeeli

June 20, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

PoppaG i’m here late today. You’re Golden Buddah date how that is next to a bleep moment. Uhm…she was giving IT up like just on the strength? Then she got mad @ you b/c you did “sumthin” to the left.

Something = ???

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

I don’t think he had a problem with me rescheduling, he seemed to be annoyed that he got my message late. I attempted to contact him earlier in the day, and I sent a text message.

but I actually don’t have a problem with a dude asking to postpone a date if he wasn’t feeling well, was in a bad mood, or wasn’t up to company., but yeah thanks for asking said sarcastically

By Alvin

June 20, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Staceye/Sexy meaning I rarely make any efforts…be now and then I one will cross my path and I be like…* she is mines!!!*…and put in the effort…my strike out record ain’t to hot with chocolate women. But worth my time.

By Blue Kolla

June 20, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

BTW Willie D Why won’t’cha boi answer when you call his number?

Coach Willie D: Yo Lester Hayes, get in there.

Rell: intentionally looking away across the field and thinking That ain’t MY muthafuggin’ name! He ain’t talkin’ to me. Fugg that!

Coach Willie D: Hayes!!

LMAO Yoll stay up and be safe out here. Cops gotta make up for the drop in speeding tickets!!!

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

@ Demi:

..”Jamoca gurrrl just poke your chest out so Harpo will take notice… “

…what about, Busta (from the CP)? that’s what I’m talkin’ bout…LOL!

BTW…I love ‘em dark as well…reminds me of rich velvety expresso, no such thing as being too dark (IMO).comparison to Djimon Hounsou, absolutely love his complexion, it almost glows…just as long as he has a healthy complexion…NO dusty two-tones!…one or the other…LOL!!!

By The Melo

June 20, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

ok,layers and off-layers,have a nice weekend……….keep it summer,sexxy and cleavagy…

By Poppa Grande

June 20, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Staceye

I don’t make broad generalizations of a group based on one person. Besides, I’ve been to D.R. and loved it. The women are gorgeous. The place rated right up there with Rio. Also, she wasn’t the only D.R. woman that I have encountered. So no problems.

Cee I just think that she was the Dominican Sybil. She was gorgeous with long black hair and a the skin complexion of a worther’s Original (butterscotch). She just was a little off her rocker. She was really strange. I didn’t say much on the date. My only guess is that I looked disinterested and she liked attention. No worries, though. Its a good thing that it is really had to embarrass me. I really just laughed and it made her angrier.

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone!

Don’t complain that you are not getting what you want, just be glad you are not getting what some think you deserve!

Have a great weekend and stay on your tippy toes!

By AtlmLady

June 20, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Cemee What’s up baby girl?! I’m feeling a Ledisi, Chrisette, Amel Larrieux kind of a Friday myself. It’s going to be a top down, shades and sundress weekend.

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Have a Great Weekend everyone and be safe!

By Alvin

June 20, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

Home run record with dark/mocha ain’t great too great

My bad…

By Jamoca

June 20, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

BTW…Truth:

…you know I was only kidding…LOL!!!…love a good “brow raiser” every now and then…night ya’ll!….

By SexyLeggs

June 20, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone!

Don’t complain that you are not getting what you want, just be glad you are not getting what some think you deserve!

Have a great weekend and stay on your tippy toes!

By Wise Diva

June 20, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

Everyone have a wonderful, safe weekend.

Hugs and kisses to everyone, lurkers, haters, and regulars. Good night and good luck :)

Diva out

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