By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 8:22 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

Wise I’m excited about this topic today to see what the menfolk have to say on this. ^5

Ladies, how do you handle the men who are too fast and frisky for your taste? Do you ignore it? Do you ask the guy to fall back a little bit until you feel ready to reciprocate?

When a guy says something a little off the wall I’ll politely tell him we just met or say something to let him know i didnt appreciate that. I recall meeting someone at Club Quick Trip and in the first conversation he was asking me to come spend the night because he didn’t want to sleep alone. That was a major turn off, MAJOR. Needless to say that didn’t last very long. Then i ended up seeing him at the carwash and of course he came to ask the dreaded question of why I didn’t call him anymore. I straight up told him I thought his behavior was inappropriate and he shrugged it off like he was just playing. He must’ve forgot how he was begging me to come over and that he wouldn’t do anything crazy blah blah blah. CREEPY

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 8:35 AM | Link to this

Moving too fast can definitely be a turn off. Even if I had already decided in my mind that I would like to see him born day nekkid, him pressing the issue too soon and too fast insured it never happens.

Guys take your lead from your woman of interest. She will let you know when the time is right.

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this

A general rule for me was do not make reference to any of my below the neck parts that I have not allowed you to touch yet.

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this

Well its always the question…when do you move in on a good thing?

I don’t know, depends on the girl I’m with. Some take it faster than others. Regardless, if you’re not forcing it and actually showing respect…can’t go wrong.

If you take it too slow, you’ll slide right into friend zone with some people…then again, sometimes the time will increase anticipation.

Again, all depends on the situation or the person…everyone is different, just have to feel it out

By Daisy

July 18, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone.

My scrambled eggs topped with feta cheese were so scrummy delicious this morning. Off to my morning run now.

Toody loo everyone. Stay true to yourself.

By DreamsMaterialize

July 18, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this

Hey Everyone Just popped in to holla at everyone real quick. I’ll just say that USUALLY, it’s pretty obvious when to make the move and when not to, but my Bat Senses have been tricked before. Aggressive/non-aggressive women both get love from me. I can appreciate both.

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

Another thing I dislike is when you’re out somewhere and a dude is attempting to engage in conversation with me….I hate when they try to put their hands around my waist. ARGGGGH! There is a certain thing such as intimate space, and if we ain’t cool like that, then keep your hands to yourself. When they do this, I normally twist in such a way as to get out of their grasp, walk away and leave them standing there with their arm still looking like they are putting their arm around an imaginary person. LOLOL!

In dating I know the guy will throw his rod out there to see if you bite on a particular comment or whatnot…but when the line comes back empty, is when i think the guy should fall back. Don’t keep trying to find other ways to infiltrate the lines of security to get into the fortress.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 8:47 AM | Link to this

ok folks are we serious…..if the man not giving you the warm fuzzies then you not feeling him period….if you over the age of 25 then this right here is a non issue…..everytime is the right time….lets get that out….now the process by which you get there is where the fun is….again women make that a focus upfront so men see that has a challenge…..make the challenge different…like your time….then he will stick all energy into getting more of your time versus your arse…its simple…men are

those two points alone are golden ladies….make the goal different…

By Wonder boy

July 18, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

Here’s an idea … why don’t you tell us what you want… if you haven’t figured it out yet — we are clueless. We’re just guessing out there ladies and a little help would be greatly appreciated.

By Wonder boy

July 18, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

Here’s an idea … why don’t you tell us what you want… if you haven’t figured it out yet — we are clueless. We’re just guessing out there ladies and a little help would be greatly appreciated.

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this

There was this one guy I met in the earlier part of the day and we spoke on the phone later that evening. The evening went so well he called the next day. But he totally lost out when he tried to convince me that I as a single mother was lonely. And how I needed a man in my bed to do this, that and the other.

His fierce attempt to make me say I was lonely when I wasn’t was the total turn off. You at that time he could have probably gotten somewhere because his “verbal” bedside manner was pretty slick. But he talked himself out of it.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this

Good morning Good People, Raqi and ATL Guy pretty much summed it up for me. I go with the flow of things. If I’m feeling him I react since it’s natural, if not then I decline. I’ve been called agressive a time or two but it’s only when I’m feeling naughty.LOL

By johnnyD

July 18, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Ladies, their is a direct correlation between how fast we can go and how big our checkbook is. The larger the checkbook the quicker things get going. The smaller the checkbook the harder you have to work. Fellas get your money right and you will skip to the front of the line if you know what I mean.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 9:01 AM | Link to this

@Wonder boy….dude dont even bother…half of what comes out there mouth is never what they end up with..this is just idle chatter…if appel to her sense of style(your dress)…body in some form of shape….smell…conversation…meaning you not focusing on her beauty..or assets then you good….all this i dont touch when i am in the club ish is nonsense….wonder boy blaze your own trail and let the ladies fall in line not the other way around..thats the problem now…stand up to pee my brother!!

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 9:01 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday All! WiseDiva great job on the topics this week.

DreamsMaterialize, good to see you pop in! Hope all is well.

By Cori

July 18, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

I have dated a women who was sexually aggressive, but she didn’t get that way until we saw each other everyday for 3 months. I wish I more women wanted that kind of togetherness. Ladies nowing what you want will send the guy a consistent message, but if he is a full himself and thats not your type just leave him alone. Believe it or not we men meet some ladies that don’t like either. I’ll holla!!

By The New Guy Here

July 18, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

In response to the question posed, yes, I think about the timing, and my usual response is to delay or defer it another month or two, beyond whatever time has already passed.

Perhaps I am wired odd, but, if i am seriously dating someone, not just a casual flirtation, I want to get to know the person for who they are; I want the emotional and mental stimulation, and moving too fast physically, can really screw that up.

Physical stimulation is easy as men are visual and i am no exception (women have aftermarket parts installed all the time to enhance the visual presentation). Finding a down to earth lady without plastic add ons, and with a intriguing pinch of “devil spice” has been my challenge. The number of women who can appreciate the efforts of an old school gentleman, and are willing to stimulate the imagination, over the long term, seems to be minimal in this city.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this

@johnnyd….cosign…only for american women…i have ran into a couple of foriegn women lately and there take on the black man/women in america is eye opening….they dont understand the whole of obession with having stuff….alot of things…it was just interesting to get and outsiders take on us….

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 9:08 AM | Link to this

FINESSE, TIMING, I’ll add WORDING… WD maybe you should add a link to dictionary.com for the lost souls, not that enough of ‘em know they’re lost.

Half of the super specific questions bout how u likey when u likey what u likey could be inferred when you converse enough as you build up to that anyway. Racier convo & textsex once on a certain level is much better r’cd- maybe even initiated. I have less respect and patience for the intentionally obtuse who “don’t know why ” I took offense then try to flip the script. Calm down.

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 9:08 AM | Link to this

I know this girl I’ve been friend’s with since High School. We don’t really hangout but when mutual friends come into Atlanta, we cross paths. She’s really flirty / touchy feely. I’m a guy saying it can be kind of too much or annoying. Females believe it or not, being TOO aggressive can kind of hurt you too.

I mean…I’ll be real, I like a bit of a challenge or chase. Really like a girl who’s so confident with herself where she doesn’t have to TRY that hard.

By Cori

July 18, 2008 9:08 AM | Link to this

I have dated a women who was sexually aggressive, but she didn’t get that way until we saw each other everyday for 3 months. I wish I more women wanted that kind of togetherness. Ladies nowing what you want will send the guy a consistent message, but if he is full himself and thats not your type just leave him alone. Believe it or not we men meet some ladies that don’t like either. I’ll holla!!

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 9:10 AM | Link to this

Then he sends me a text message referring to my lovely lips and how they would make a lollipop happy. Wisethat comment didn’t make you chuckle just a little bit? I’ve been out on dates with guys who send me messages, can’t say it was a turn on or a turn off but for the most part they did make me laugh or smile depending on the message.

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

Ladies, how do you handle the men who are too fast and frisky for your taste?

I usually just give em the “gas face.” LOL

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this

Welcome to Atlanta The New Guy Here

By QC

July 18, 2008 9:19 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers I hope you all have a great day/weekend!

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

ATL Guy Really like a girl who’s so confident with herself where she doesn’t have to TRY that hard. I’ve seen this first hand (cuz I like to ppl watch) and you’re right, Desperation or anything resembling desperation is not a good look.

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

The thing about human nature is we have a body language that is beyond our control. It automatically reacts in every thing that we do. Like when you see or hear something amusing and you try not to smile but it just seeps out. You can’t hold it back.

The same is true for male to female interactions. The body will respond to what it likes and dislikes. Whether it’s a raised brow grin combo in admiration or just a step backwards when someone invades your personal space. Most of the time we react before we have a chance to consciously think it.

Heck I have been with my husband for seven and his human nature let’s me know where he stands at the time.
When I am talking him up I know exactly when to move in for the kiss and that good stuff. The same the other way around.

With all the men that I have dated and/or been in a relationship with very few of them paid attention to the body language.

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

I’m back (for those who have been here long enough to remember) I can blog now since I am temporarily between jobs… LoL

But this is a no-win situation for us guys… It all depends upon the day of the week and the hour of the day. BUt really it depends who the guy is… there is some man who can say or do the right thing and a woman will be ready on day 1, and another man might take 2 weeks, and another man might take 2 months to get some action…

Aside from that, each lady is different some women lose interest and like someone said put dudes in the friend zone if we don’t make a move in a week or two, and other women will think we are a dog if we try to get them in bed after 2 months… women should have a disclaimer about when they wnat to have sex with each guy they date.. LoL and the disclaimer should be a legal document.. cause we all know women are good at saying things they don’t really mean.

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

I’m back (for those who have been here long enough to remember) I can blog now since I am temporarily between jobs… LoL

But this is a no-win situation for us guys… It all depends upon the day of the week and the hour of the day. BUt really it depends who the guy is… there is some man who can say or do the right thing and a woman will be ready on day 1, and another man might take 2 weeks, and another man might take 2 months to get some action…

Aside from that, each lady is different some women lose interest and like someone said put dudes in the friend zone if we don’t make a move in a week or two, and other women will think we are a dog if we try to get them in bed after 2 months… women should have a disclaimer about when they want to have sex with each guy they date.. LoL and the disclaimer should be a legal document.. cause we all know women are good at saying things they don’t really mean.

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this

SlimOne yeah I feel ya. I mean there is nothing sexier than a self confident female that can be themselves without having to force it. People Watching is kind of funny. Some are just so socially awkward, its ridiculous.

By John

July 18, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

Way back when (early ‘80’s) I mostly dated girls I already knew, so things went quick. Sometimes on the first date, usally on the second.

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

johnny Stop. Leading. With. Your. Checkbook! Then she won’t have it to follow. Dare to dangle a different carrot- wit? Charm? Whateva you’re workin with and she’ll follow that. But think first bout who you’d like to attract. Same goes for women on the scene w/ tatas & azz out. Can’t be too bitter bout the purely sexual advances tho we have a right to wear whateva we want. At some point you gotta reflect on how 2 + 2 = 4.

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

Raqi WHat about those times when a woman’s body language is saying “I want you” but her mouth is saying “slow down playa”???

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

July 18, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

TGIF!! Morning All!

Wassup DreamsMaterialize, hit me on email when you get a sec.

Hey Rell, how are you man.

SlimOne LMAO @ Club QuikTrip! I am starting to think that is the case for all QTs.

BRB…..gotta make a pepsi run

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this

I think guys like to test women to see how far they can go and what they can get away with. I try not to take them moving too fast to be offensive…at first. I’ll let you off with a warning.

Continuing to do it after I’ve expressed my discomfort is grounds to get a cuss out or a dial tone in your ear.

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

Believe it or not the timing of your move is not what gets you placed in the friend zone. However your move itself can get you there faster.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

@mo…very well lady…how are you

By Demi

July 18, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

I put your picture on my mirror, Start to blush when somebody say’s your name In my Stomach theirs a pain See you walking my direction I go the other way I start to stutter when i Speak Try to stand but my knee’s go weak What happening to me in the dark can you tell me what it means I lay my head on my pillow got me Staring out the window Wish on a star for a sign Its the Reason why

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

Raqi Well I have had personal experience with trying to be the “gentleman” and taking things slow and on 2 separate occasions I was told that the woman thought I was not sexually interested since I did not try to get at her in the first week or 2. This is no longer a problem… but it has happened and still for guys we have to either take a shot early and if it does not work back down, or run the risk of a woman thinking we don’t want to become sexual with them. My thing is that unless a woman tells us what she wants we can’t be faulted for trying (the first time)if the moment seems right.

By Bit-O-Hunny

July 18, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Folks…yes indeed, the age old question of when is too soon. Its been my experience that men that really, really like me and want a relationship will allow me to “lead” or take the “initiative” to advance sex b/c they don’t want to risk forcing the issue or just doing anything that will potentially turn me off.

Conversely there are the guys that are sexually aggressive and that usually turns me off completely.

I’m a total mind phuck, get me mentally and the rest will follow.

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

My ex always said that on our first date…we went out around 6pm…then I dropped her off at her place around 11pm. She said the fact that I dropped her off around 11pm and didn’t keep her out all night…she really respected that. I never even thought about it that way. We dated for 7 months but she said that set off a really good impression…so FYI, subtle things go a long way with chicks

I want to join the QT Club!!! Taquitos, Hot Dogs, 40oz brown paper bag Malt Beer! I’m club president baby! QT is the best gas station in the country, I don’t care what anyone says…

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

July 18, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Rell working hard and not getting paid enough!! LOL! Im good though man, sorry to have been incognegro.

Raqi I agree with your 9:37

By Jane

July 18, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this

East Point’s Own I agree that it’s possible to be put into the friend zone by a woman if it moves too slowly, but I always wonder why people think the friend zone is such a bad thing. Can’t that be reversed? I know plenty of couples that were friends for a really really long time before they finally got together, but that chemistry was always there, waiting for the right time. Anyway, that was a little off-topic but I felt like that perspective was important to note….

The New Guy Here Perhaps I am wired odd, but, if i am seriously dating someone, not just a casual flirtation, I want to get to know the person for who they are; I want the emotional and mental stimulation, and moving too fast physically, can really screw that up. I agree. Once you sleep with someone too quickly, there is that feeling like you think you should know everything about this other person that you just slept with, so you get all clingy and that fake-intimacy kicks in. A good rule of thumb is never do anything you’re even the slightest bit uncomfortable with.

And LMAO to this comment: Physical stimulation is easy as men are visual and i am no exception (women have aftermarket parts installed all the time to enhance the visual presentation). The last time I heard someone say “aftermarket parts” was when my dad was helping me with a car alarm…haahahaha

By Binford2K8

July 18, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

I’m notorious for being the polar opposite of a fast mover. In fact, I’ve had the aggressive woman who I’ve literally had to push off of me. That ruined any chance of a relationship right there.

When sex is offered so early by a woman, a man really has to consider why and how many times she has done it before.

At this stage in life, I want someone who wants me for me, and not just for something physical (oh, this so sounds like a chick). Depending how long it has been, I may take up the sex - but I know there won’t be a chance in hell for a relationship.

By johnnyD

July 18, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

How can you not lead with your checkbook when you date? You have to take a lady out to dinner, movie, show, club, trip or sporting event. I do not expect my date to pick up the tab when I take her out as I am a gentleman. I am too seasoned for a blockbuster night.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

fellas…ladies want the same thing we want…they want there pinkberry pushed often…so dont fall for the hype about it is too soon…..just dont focus on it and she will ask you what is up….women have been conditioned to think that they rule thru the pinkberry…..

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

johnny & My2 I never fully understood chicks giving up all the goodies to dudes with big $$ any faster than a dude with a free checking account and a coin jar made out of an old coffee can. I mean, just cuz a dude might be full of greenbacks, don’t mean if you give up the azz that you’re getting any of the money…UNLESS he went through some escort service to meet you. All you get to say to your friends is…

Golddigger: Hey girl! You won’t guess who i met last night.

Friend: Girl who? Is it somebody famous?

GD: Naw girl but he should be as much money he’s worth.

Friend: Oh really! I’m so jealous. So tell me what happened.

GD: Oohh I’m so embarassed but the question should be what DIDN’T I do. I gave it allll up girl!

Friend: WHAT? You did all that on the first night?

GD: Gurrrrl, I couldn’t help myself. He looked like money. Smelled like money…even flucked like money.

Friend: So now what?

GD: Um..well we really didn’t get a chance to talk much afterwards. He said he had a very important business meeting on Mars later on today, and he needed to rest up for his long flight, so I had to leave. Gurrrlll, I think this could be the one.

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

Welcome newbies.

On topic: Things don’t start popping until you let a woman know you want some azz. If you want it, let her know in no uncertain terms. Don’t consider her schedule. Say you want it. It let’s her know what you’re here for and if it’s not what she wants she’ll let you know and you can mosey down the road.

These chicks try to operate as if their booty is the prize. If you go by her schedule it is. Thing is some other cat rang her bell just because his package was more appealling so she’s running game. Plant the seed and if she bucks change her out when you change your underwear.

Sexually aggressive women can be a turn off. One chick came by the house and as soon as she got in the door I guess she felt this was somewhere she could get comfortable. She cut to the chase and flat out asked me if I wanted some azz. She was suspect based on previous conversations so I “opted out” and that didn’t go over well. The sad part was she asked about 10 times (literally). I’m like, naw, I’m going to watch my truck engine cool down. I’ll get with you later.

JohnnyD you ain’t kidding about the checkbook. It speeds the whole process up like Warp Speed. Just releases that inner hoe in em all. LOL

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

I’m like, naw, I’m going to watch my truck engine cool down. I’ll get with you later.

Ah HA HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

By lovelyliz

July 18, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

I am one of those women who is a bit of a prude, but not naïve, and I don’t tease. Teasing a man is so high school and something that any woman over the age of 20 should be embarrassed to do.

That said

I went on a date with a man recommended by someone at his church as a sweet, kind man. He wanted to meet me at a pizza buffet, which is not my ideal date place, but I was game. This guy was one of those decent, well-mannered people and things went well. The conversation was mostly about ordinary stuff, nothing racy or unusual. My date offered to drop me off at my apartment complex saving me the cab fare and I agreed. We pulled into the very public parking lot and before I could get my seat belt off, he had his hands all over parts of my body when he had been given no permission, directly or subliminally, to do so. I pushed him off and then he suggested that he come up to my place to check it out. I can only imagine what “it” was that he thought he would be checking on. I got out of that car fast and ran into my building. Luckily he didn’t know my apartment # and I got into the elevator before he could remove the dumbfounded look on his face and get out to follow me.

What is it with men described as good Christians ( or any other religion I suppose) who think that after 30 minutes of knowing you, they have permission, nay the right and invitation, to get so frisky?

Is frisky the new way of describing and easy lay?

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Jane Anything is possible, yes I am sure some man somewhere on Earth has come out of the friend zone, but it is not a frequent occurrence. Many women have this wall up where they don’t even see the good dating traits of their male friends. Many women just flat out don’t give their male friends a chance to date them. So more often than not once you are a friend you either have to accept that role and be happy knowing it will never be more, or you have to cut ties and move on with life. Being friends is cool if both parties agree to it, but 9 times out of ten the guy never wanted to be a friend like that so its not gonna work.

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

What up Blog…

Guys, do you ever think about the timing of making your move?

I’m studying the female because she’ll definitely let you know what’s up.

If you are interested in someone, do you try to make the dirty talk appropriate for how things are going?

The fun part is making dirty talk sound clean.

Have you ever dated a woman who was sexually aggressive?

Yeap.

Did she come on strong with the frisky behavior?

Not over the top, but yes.

Was it a turn-off or turn-on?

That was rhetorical, right?

QC What up. ;)

Where is Cee at?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

And LMAO @ the men who say to not pay attention to a woman’s schedule. It sounds like some of ya’ll are one offended chick away from catching a case!

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

Morning folks! hey MLL! You know the text was so utterly ill timed, I can’t even tell you. He went from calling me a selfish woman who wants men to kiss my azz to telling me I had lovely lips that would make a lollipop happy. So, admittedly, I had issues with him already, before the text, LOL, that just did not help matters, whatsoever.

RELL, you sound as if we should not rule our bodies. It is our body, we choose to share it when we want to, just as you do. Why would that be a problem for a guy unless that is all he wants in the first place?

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

The thing about this Friend Zone is some people were befriended for that purpose to be a friend.

The difference that I have noted between men and women is men usually will not befriend a woman that he will at least consider having sex with. Even if he never tries he have or will at sometime think about. There is always the possibility.

But we women are different. We will make friends with men that we only want to be friends with and have never and will never have the slightest sexual attraction too.

So while men see it as an offense it is what it is.

One of the biggest flaws that men have is assuming every woman that gives them the time of day do so initially wanting to bed him and them placing him in the zone. You were already there before you even met.

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

Truth I agree with you on the random chick you are just trying to bone, your method works great for them, but for a woman you want to try to have a relationship you can’t be quite so cold… this is where things get tricky…

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Johnny you should just take her to Phipps Plaza and have her pick out diamonds…that will speed things up even faster since leading with the checkbook is your only Game

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

Slim I ask the same question. Does a rich dizzle supposedly come with a little extra kick that an average dizzle don’t?

Unless you are an icon and the woman is aiming for the big CS payoff, how much money in your account does not matter if sex is all she is into you for.

So sorry to burst you bubbles guys. It ain’t your lack of finances that is getting the average dudes looked over for an equally average dude.

By What?

July 18, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

You date for two weeks, then get offended when he sends you a message about your lips? Hopefully this guy has moved on to a normal person.

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

Fellas get your money right and you will skip to the front of the line if you know what I mean.

Yeah…this also works if you are tall and extremely good looking too… :-|

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

…naw, going to watch my truck engine cool down. That’s funny.

Lovelyliz, your date was an IDIOT. However, a lot of men will try to see if they can score on the first date, third or fifth date. The date number doesn’t matter. What matters is if he gets in and he won’t know unless he tries. It’s up to the woman to either pimp slap his dumba$$ or very nicely put him in his place if she’s offended. It goes both ways. There are a lot of agressive women out there as well. In Truth’s case, I cannot imagine a woman asking a man 10x to sample her honeypot.

Hello Rell.

By M.

July 18, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

@SlimOne

You are crazy….I had to laugh at that LOL…Is that how it really goes?

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

hey East Point’s Own! It’s good to see/read you again :)

Welcome to our new commenters, too! New Guy Here, thanks for weighing in, keep it coming!

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

* Raqi* LOL I agree and I know full well that upon meeting a guy women for the most part have placed him in a particular bucket… but the problem is that most women recognize that men who approach them are trying to holla… I have much more respect for the women who after a date or during a date or while chatting on the phone let a guy know if she is not feeling anything even close to a relationship or even a romp in the sack. Some women don’t give a guy a clue that she is not feeling him until he makes his move to get her in bed or until she has to for one of many reasons. We should just be up front and not waste each other’s time. In the rare event that a man approaches a woman strickly to be a friend I am sure it will be made clear(if this has ever happened in the history of the world).

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

Understand Wise that would be a turn off too! You know some men don’t know how to act and end up putting their foot in their mouth. LOL

By Rell

July 18, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

@lovlyliz….chrisitian men like poo see too…..lol…come on

ladies next time your friend wants to hook you up and she describes the man like this

a sweet, kind man

that means he is horny and looking to score….lol

run

@diva…you can rule your body…thats not my point….my point is change the focus….thats my point….and again women like sex just like men…so what is the point of hiding if you want something…like truth said let them know..

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

Ared what a dude needs to know is if a chick is naturally leaning his way or not. If she’s feeling you and you say something suggestive she’ll go along with it. If not you can continue to date her in hopes her feelings will change but isn’t that like buying azz. Like saying “I’ll just keep throwing my money at her till she realizes I’m cool”. That’s for losers.

Let her know what you want and she can decide if thats ok. If she balks stop calling her until she’s had time to reconsider her position and she calls you back.

If a chick puts you in the friend zone and you don’t want to be there and you stay you’re a bytch. We aren’t going to sit around and talk about your man when I want some azz. I told you up front what I was here for so if that’s not happening nothings happening.

2tatas dudes with money don’t have to lead with it. It’s the broke dude that has to. Rich cat can just be who he is and you’ll notice. A chick has a choice, hang with rich dude at his spot or hang with with joe blow over his apartment and watch his gold fish swim around in that little azz bowl. Money puts alot of women into “sport fugging” mode. That can override whatever else she may have going on. LOL

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

You’re telling me that if I take you to the drive thru Taco Bell … you’re going to bypass my winning personality!?!? I’ll keep my chalupa da.mnnit! You don’t get it Either!

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

Truth These chicks try to operate as if their booty is the prize. If you go by her schedule it is. We aren’t discussing if we think our Puddy is Gold/Platinum. We never denied wanting to get butt nekked and play cops-n-robbers around the house. The issue is WHEN is it appropriate to make an advancement or sexual comment to someone you’re just getting to know. Personally, I’d like to know if the value of the P goes down after a GRAY hair pops up??

Slim now placing hair foil on pub with a plastic shower cap over the CT trying to dye the infiltrator back to its original state

BlueK The fun part is making dirty talk sound clean LOLOL Good one, I likey likey.

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

The EPO is if a woman spends an substantial amount of time talking to a man he automatically assumes she is interested. Heck they can have just spent the last 30 minutes talking about war and genicide in third world countries. And for some weird blow of the wind he will walk away interpreting that there is a shortage of men and she must most definitely want him.

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

so what focus of MINE needs to be changed? I wasn’t focusing on it, HE was, so how is that ruling my sasha unreasonably?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

Let her know what you want and she can decide if thats ok. If she balks stop calling her until she’s had time to reconsider her position and she calls you back.

Truth - I have no problem with this.

By LisaK

July 18, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

But this is a no-win situation for us guys… It all depends upon the day of the week and the hour of the day. BUt really it depends who the guy is… there is some man who can say or do the right thing and a woman will be ready on day 1, and another man might take 2 weeks, and another man might take 2 months to get some action…

true, although many women will not admit it.

By lovelyliz

July 18, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this

By MLL(mammalongleggs) ladies next time your friend wants to hook you up and she describes the man like this

a sweet, kind man

that means he is horny and looking to score….lol

So true

By Tazzee

July 18, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Personally I’m turned off by a guy that gets to the sex talk too soon. But like ARed I’ll give him a warning the first time and usually a guy will turn it down.

So I guess what the fellas are saying is I should say something like this upon meeting a dude:

“I think you’re attractive enough to have sex, what you do from here on out will determine if that ever happens”

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Wise Diva Hello, its been a while but I have been reading almost daily… just could not reply at work…

Rich vs broke Its not about being rich but we all know that women for the most part want a man who can provide security. When many women see that a man appears to have money they equate that with security. I have dated several women who were tepid for weeks while we dated. I am the type of guy who wears designer clothes but you can’t tell because the designer’s name is not plastered all over the outside of the garments, I drive an American non luxury car, and I am a cool guy in general. So imagine that I date a woman for 2 weeks-3 weeks and I pick her up from her house, I have been all in her crib all around the bedroom, living room, etc… and nothing. But as soon as I take this same chick to my crib for the first time… why do the clothes drop? Is this not a type of “gold digger”? If a woman gives up the draws when she thinks she has found the security blanket why is this not at least passive gold digging?

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

* For every man seeking others only for sex there is a woman who does the same* @ Rell

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

M. Lol, I’m not exactly sure how it really goes but i guess it’s something along those lines.

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

johnny Nice to know you’re well sessoned! Three’s a differnce in spending a bit in attempting to be a gentleman and making it the focus, which some guys do. Your style is to not let her pick up the tab then you feel like a sponsor. Well you should cuz ya treating yourself like one. I’m just sayin give her some other stimuli to respond to so you’ll be more sure of what your draw is. Beyond your wallet. Otherwise many women get turned off cuz it seems like you’re tryna buy them and/or ya got nothing else. Now if monetary is the main support you care to offer, did u check out yesterday’s topic?

By LisaK

July 18, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

I’m going to watch my truck engine cool down. I’ll get with you later.

LOL! that’s a NO thank you in no uncertain terms.

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

These chicks try to operate as if their booty is the prize

LOL Slim listening to some of the comments from men who are obviously living in disdain leads us to believe they are the ones putting great value on it. It’s ours to give and ours to keep.

I mean listen to ‘em.

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

Raqi well that is a problem.. a dude like that has issues….LoL BUt its no different than a woman who thinks you are now practically engaged after 1 good night of horizontal fun.
Some folks just take any little positive sign and blow it out of proportion.

By M.

July 18, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

@SlimOne

That is crazy. I guess the guys go somewhat like that but I think they look for an escape once the deed is done. This dude I indirectly knew took this girl out on a date and I guess she started talking crazy, left her right at the table once the bill came…Dating is alot to handle

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this

Sorry bout that, it should’ve read women who does the same

By Raqi

July 18, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

Rich shmitch. Walk into your local Walmart and you will see a whole slue of average dudes with a woman by his side. Whether they are ultra attractive dwindling down to downright homely, I will bet you they are sexing it up just as much or more so than the Pinkett-Smiths and the Jolie-Pitts.

Get with who you belong with.

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

East Point When you invite a woman to your place, is it clean and/or well decorated? Do you make her feel at home? I think those qualities are what makes the panties drop. I have known some men that you can tell that they rarely clean or did just enough for you to sit down and maybe go to the bathroom. Your home is a reflection of who you are.

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

Raqi listening to some of the comments from men who are obviously living in disdain leads us to believe they are the ones putting great value on it I totally agree with you. I think i’m going to let this play on the big flat screen. Care to join me for some Smoothies and Chex Mix? lol

Anybody know how long I need to leave this dye on here? Its starting to burn a lil. lol

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

East Point but for a woman you want to try to have a relationship you can’t be quite so cold… this is where things get tricky… Not true. A woman that I want to have a long term relationship is going to have to perform too so lets establish this upfront. The fact that I care for her doesn’t give her Carte Blanche to dictate when things go down. She is going to perform because she expects me to perform. I think this is where alot of dudes wind up with women that don’t perform. They give them a pass because she’s “special”. She may be but I put my feelings aside and enforce the standard. If we have six kids and a great life but I can’t get some azz it’s time for problem solving mode. What’s going on? what can we do to remedy this? Nothing, ok I’m out. LOL This shyt’s a wrap. What I “feel” has nothing to do with her doing her job.

It’s so much easier to set your mark early and enforce it then try to wiggle in and then set a standard later. My .02

It really boils down to this. If a chick naturally leans toward you you can do damn near whatever you want. If she claims she needs time it’s because we aren’t the one and she needs time to adjust to how repulsive we are. LOL She’s trying to convince herself that you could be the one. five years down the road the chick that thought you was it will still think that and the chick that was trying to figure it out will still be doing that too.

By LisaK

July 18, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

*So I guess what the fellas are saying is I should say something like this upon meeting a dude:

“I think you’re attractive enough to have sex, what you do from here on out will determine if that ever happens”*

I’ve been told by a few men that women should know that when a man approaches her, it’s because he’s attracted to something about her physical appearance and if she’s not interested in pursuing anything on at least a physical level, she should not bother to exchange contact information with him.

By Atlanta Geek

July 18, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Funny when people describe chasing after rich dudes. Most of those guys have a negative net worth and loans/mortgages out the wazzoo. I could go decades without working based on my savings, but no one would know if they judged me by my car and house.

If my conservative nature means I don’t get laid as much, I can still sleep well at night.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

July 18, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Good morning bloggers…KP is lurking!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Good Lord Wise have you been living my life???

I have mentioned this on the blog quite often when I say I do not invite guys to my crib or go to theirs. For some reason being alone with a guy signals his little brain that you want to do him! A guy trying to make a move on me is the biggest turn off!!! I hate when they think after a few dates that now I want to receive d*ck pics and dirty texts! That is the sure fire way for me to curse you out and tell you never to contact me again. They rush to get the booty but stall to get into a relationship! That is very AZZ-Backwards! If I do go out with a guy..it is only in a public place. The closest you get to my crib is the property pools or gardens. It’s a shame that you have to go that route. It would be cool to chill at the house sometimes (Especially in the winter) but the horndogs can’t be trusted!

Rell if the man not giving you the warm fuzzies then you not feeling him period not true bruh! Warm fuzzies is all good! But it takes more than that for me have sex with a dude. Women…unlike men are not ruled by their sex organs! I need to at least know your last name and important info about you! Hey do you even take the time to find out somebody’s STD status? There is a rise in Herpes infections. There are people with it that are NOT in outbreak mode that are having sex with people and not letting them know. So you don’t even get to say yea or nay on whether you wnat to take that risk or not! I’m sorry…I do not want the “warm fuzzies” leading me to the “itchy crotch”!

JohnnyD not even woman can be bought! I’m not sleeping with your money..I’m sleeping with you. So if your money is pretty and you are not…sorry bruh! It’s not happening!

ARED Ladies, how do you handle the men who are too fast and frisky for your taste? I remind them of where I am from and how quickly they can get cut! They then start to wonder where I got my blade hidden and back off! LOL

Jane I agree! What is so bad abut being friends first? I think you will have a better turn out if you are. You already know the person so you will be more comfortable around them…then things will happen naturally. Not to mention getting to know the person takes the guessing out of it. When I am comfortable with a guy I am a different person. How many dudes jump to have sex and oops an accident happens and now you find out throght the pregancy that she is a crazy b*tch with no goals and now you just made sure she’d have a check coming in because you knocked her up? But had you taken the time to get to know her past her representative stage you would have found that out and spared yourself the crazy baby mama drama!

**Glad to have you back Binford! I’m sorry, I cheatd on you with ATL Guy!! LOL

Truth so what you’re saying is…if I do not want a guy to make a move on me I should offer him azz as soon as he gets my number? Heyyyy…I’ve been going about it all wrong! Thanks! LOL

Wise He went from calling me a selfish woman who wants men to kiss my azz to telling me I had lovely lips that would make a lollipop happy You met Bipolar Barbie’s twin brother….bipolar Bobby!

What? You date for two weeks, then get offended when he sends you a message about your lips? Hopefully this guy has moved on to a normal person Going out with a girl for 2 weeks does not give you the right to speak sexually of her lips. you can compliment her by saying the are nice. But otherwise that is downright disrespectful! Would you want somebody to treat a female family member of yours like that? I hope you never have a daughter!

Truth the booty must be a prize because it seems that almost every dude is out to get it! So why try to act like its no big deal? If not then stop lying, cheating and scheming to get it! It’s so funny and so male typical to try to downplay something’s importance through their lips but in the mind it is the key focus!

By atltwen

July 18, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

How is the pot going to call the kettle black?

Women can be just as aggressive as men!

I went out with female 2 months ago who couldn’t keep her hands from up my jean shorts! She started that on only 2nd date and never stopped, even after I told her it made me uncomfortable.

You know what she did next? 2 weeks later, I visited her and she tells me she has “no panties on”. And she actually did not. Mind you, we both had verbal understanding we were just getting to know each.

How about an encore shall we. A week later she comes out of the bathroom naked after taking a shower and literally throws herself on me!

Please, women, at times, act no different than men!

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this

Crackin up at Bipolar Bobby!! Staceye, you are a mess, LOL

LisaK, (hey!), you are right many women don’t openly admit it. I don’t think I did when I was in the stick and move phase either, LOL. Only my girls knew about it.

You know, I have noticed though, that when the women even JOKE about it on this here blog? She is called all kinds of hoes/sluts. Not that their opinions matter that much since the women are not dating them (I don’t think?), just sayin’..wow, double standards are alive and kicking

By LisaK

July 18, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

*Wise Diva *

hey!

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

Staceye the booty isn’t a prize anymore, hell, most of you have given it away more times than you can count. I simply want you to know that I’m not here to be your girlfriend. I want to get inside you and thats why we’re having this conversation. Then again there are other things you’re gonna do and I let you know that too. I would be a coward to run the old end game and act like we’re cool and it’s ok if we don’t have sex. It’s not.

By anonymousella

July 18, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

Ladies, how do you handle the men who are too fast and frisky for your taste? Do you ignore it? Do you ask the guy to fall back a little bit until you feel ready to reciprocate?

dirty talk always sounds stupid and/or corny to me. corny talk = mandatory turn-off. if a dude i just met says some slick sh#t about us getting naked, i won’t be.

now if i know you and we have established some other kind of relationship, i might let your corny comment slide. but i much prefer doing it to talking about it.

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

Raqi It’s ours to give and ours to keep.

And when a dude lets a chick know that she can do just that, keep it, she falls right in line… well that’s if she was feeling him anyway.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Sheesh!

By Mr. Anderson

July 18, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

Daisy, why the eff do I care what you had for breakfast?

On topic, this guy sounds like he was putting out some feelers to see how receptive you were to his overt “moves.” You sound like a somewhat conservative girl, so it sounds like he messed up with that silly text. Now, he still may be compatible with you for later, when your comfort with intimacy with him is greater, you’ll be happier with his “moves”, for they show he’s attracted to you. But for now, he sounds like a guy that just wants a romp.

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Slim1G That skit is it. Cuz really after his world been rocked one time or 100, HIS loot is still comfy-cozy in HIS Swiss bank account where it should be. Which is why I really don’t have an issue with pre-nups in theory …

Truth, Sweet Pea not a one of y’all have to lead with $$. I believe it’s a bad choice made by those lacking either patience, confidence, common sense, or imagination.

The passive Gold digger? Seriously? So there’s really no way to give some of y’all azz w/o it being analyzed for getting in the pockets. And then when ladies indulge & try to backtrack it’s like Love Jones so why y’all confused again bout why we try to be sure we wanna do all that with you? With all this judgment we face, it better be worthwhile, d@mmit!

By Poppa Grande

July 18, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

the booty isn’t a prize anymore, hell, most of you have given it away more times than you can count. I simply want you to know that I’m not here to be your girlfriend.

That pretty much summed up my thoughts. It was not as much about the booty as it is letting my intentions known. There may be more tactful ways of going about it, but that is the real purpose. Let’s be real. I know some females that have a problem with tact, too.

WD As for double standards, no one said that life was fair. If they did, they lied to you.

In life, there are areas where the double standards tip in your favor…

For example… Really, what do you think that a cop would say if I tried to cry my way out of a ticket? Some females (not saying you do) are able to get away with that.

Double standards are alive and well, but they are alive and well in many areas of life not just in this area. Doesn’t mean they are right, but knowing that they exists provides a way to deal with them instead of being blindsighted by them.

By M.

July 18, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

@Wise Diva

LOL @ stick and move phase. You are crazy LOL…I almost fell out my chair when I heard that…Women have those too? When I was in college, man we had some go getters on the University of Minnesota campus…All types, snow bunnies, jersey chasers, etc…It just got so hard after college lol…dating wise.

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

What about those times when a woman’s body language is saying “I want you” but her mouth is saying “slow down playa”???

Just look at chick like she is chick and keep it moving…She is just playing games.

By BINFORD2K

July 18, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

Staceye!!!! How could you? I though we had something special!

See what happens when you go away for a short time people!

ATL Guy: She’s all yours chief!

Binford drowns in his sorrows with some booze and mindless music of TOT!

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

oh Papa, I have long since accepted the double standards of life, I just still point it out every chance I get, because it’s funny to do so, to me.

By johnnyD

July 18, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

I know what I want and I know what women want. Women love to be romanced and catered toward. What is wrong with that? I love an adventure and like fine dining, travel, sports cars and what better to do these things with than a beautiful woman. It is fun to go to the mountains or the beach for the weekend and I find that the women I date prefer this and get “frisky” quicker than other dating venues.

By The Real Truth

July 18, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

The less respect you give a woman, the more she gives you in return.

By BINFORD2K

July 18, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

TOT = TOTO

:)

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

East Point But as soon as I take this same chick to my crib for the first time… why do the clothes drop? I can only speak for myself..but in this instance I would feel more comfortable about the guy if I knew where he lives. A guy that wants just a jump off type thing with her should not let her know where he lives. Why…because you never know what she is like and if she may go psycho on you when you try to hit it and quit it! I know the only time I bring a guy to my crib…after spending enough public time with him is because I see a possibility with him. I would not just let any dude know where I live. Too many nuts out there. When you lay your head…your domain should not be visited by everyone you meet. So no it is not about his money. Also I am a neat freak so I want tosee how you keep your crib. I know that a guy may not be as neat as me…but trust me when I say you can meet a well dressed clean guy and you go to his crib and it is so nasty that is dmn near inhabitable. Would you want a woman that keeps a nasty crib? Would it not make you think she is dirty body-wise as well? I had a friend who was clean when she went out but her house was a shthole! I would never stay there. I felt like something was crawling on me. I told her that the men she dated and invited them to her crib all dipped because they thought she was nasty. You can’t invite somebody to your crib and say excuse the mess…while stepping over her knickers on the bathroom floor that she did not bother to pick up after her shower! Also…a dude that would have a luxury car and designer duds..but lives in the hood shows me where his priorities lie. Not on the same page! So that is a form of security I guess.

Truth * I want to get inside you and thats why we’re having this conversation* But the booty ain;t a prize? OMG…you spoke out of both sides of your mouth! Classic!

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

@AmazonRed, thanks chica, nice of you to say :)

@M, man I think we had all kind of terminology in college, also known as the good ole days LOL

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

Binford Sorry Man…Staceye is my Girl. We have that Magic … what can I say

Not to mention she’s all over me all the time! This isn’t an axe commercial, this is my life!

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 11:44 AM | Link to this

Truth said this ===> “the booty isn’t a prize anymore, hell, most of you have given it away more times than you can count,” dayumn near 30 minutes ago. No rebuttal on that one? I know there’s at least one virtuous chick in here. Dayum.

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Atl Lady Well you bring up a good point… I had a chick tell me she likes that my places does not smell like gym socks… So my question is how bad are most guys you ladies date livin? I can’t imagine walking into my crib and it not smelling fresh and clean. ( I usually keep fresh, cut fragrant flowers in a couple rooms to make sure the smell stays on point.. LoL ) I know if I go to a chick’s house and its dirtier than mine I know we won’t get too far. I thin my place it pretty clean, but also I just have nice stuff. I went years with no sofa and a 19 inch tv, I will do without until I can afford the nice things I really want.

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

Poppa G On the Michael Baisden show, they posed the question of “How can it be a double standard when men and women aren’t the same?”

In other words, If both sexes are wired differently, think different, etc you can’t expect a standard to be One-size-fits-all.

Dayum did i just open up them can of worms again?

By Poppa Grande

July 18, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Oh..ok. As you were…

I do the same thing about pointing out life isn’t fair. It is one of the first things that I teach my mentees/little brothers. Life isn’t fair and no one owes you anything.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Poppa I had an asthma attack out of a ticket! Ok I turned on the waterworks but that is normal with an asthma attack because you can’t breathe. LOL That had nothing to do with my sex! LOL

Binford I thought you had abandoned me! ATL Guy was my comforter and things just sort of happened! LOL Oh no…not TOTO..with booze too…what have I caused? LMAO

ATL Guy an AXE commercial? LMAO Too funny!

By Lena

July 18, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

The less respect you give a woman with psychological problems the more she gives you in return, so The Real Truth deals with women from prison?

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Poppa G On the Michael Baisden show, they posed the question of “How can it be a double standard when men and women aren’t the same?”

In other words, If both sexes are wired differently, think different, etc you can’t expect a standard to be One-size-fits-all.

Dayum did i just open up them can of worms again?

By M.

July 18, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

@Wise Diva

True that…Chicago, we call them runners, bussas, everything…Where did you go to school? In the South? North?

By M.

July 18, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

@Wise Diva

True that…Chicago, we call them runners, bussas, everything…The terms go for guys to…Where did you go to school? In the South? North?

By M.

July 18, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

@Wise Diva

True that…Chicago, we call them runners, bussas, everything…The terms go for guys to…Where did you go to school? In the South? North?

By Lena

July 18, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

Blue Kolla, that statement is coming from a dude who has had countless STD’s and whose johnson is probably barely attached, why would we care to rebuttal to that?

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Blue As a virtuous woman and someone who has blogged enough with Truth, you just know that you need not comment. It’s not going to change his views or who you are as a person.

The Real Truth First of all, I don’t appreciate you biting my fellow blogger’s name. Secondly, if disrespecting women is your MO, you deserve whatever she dishes out in the aftermath.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Women love to be romanced and catered toward. = thats the problem…..there is no accountablity when it comes to doing the same thing to there men…..women have to work at keeping the mans attention also

By Poppa Grande

July 18, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

Slim Pose that question to Wise and others that call it a double standard.

I actually agree with that statement. If you follow that sentiment all the way through, then there are no rules at all because everyone is wired differently. Every man doesn’t think or behave the same. I’ve been around enough females to know that you all aren’t the same either.

However, there has to be some general universal guidelines though.

By melo

July 18, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

A week later she comes out of the bathroom naked after taking a shower and literally throws herself on me! is that all…what happened after that,did urs recoil…? If you are interested in someone, do you try to make the dirty talk appropriate for how things are going? getting the dirty talk str8 from jump is the best approach becoz if u dnt,u are going to invest lots of time in a pushover that did not deserve ur time.A girl thats worth ur time can only say NO,and as u move forward,u get to see the real substance in her.Not establishing the dirty early on will put u in the lame/friend/slow zone.IF the wman is feeling u like that,she may not want to do the dirty yet,but she will let u know she aint ready,that way then,u can invest some more time in her.This is Atlanta guys,dnt waste ur time on a woman who just wants to use u as a filler while she weighs her options out there. I always expected to get azz on my 2nd to 3rd date,and getting the dirty talk on day one will lead to u getting that azz on day 2 or 3 coz u have set the standard from jump. And i had girls that wanted to come to my crib on 2nd or 3rd dates,literally demanding,because they wanted to see/check if what i was saying about myself and my living conditions etc was accurate.I always obliged,at a cost to them.

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Slim Uhm if you ain’t take it off by now the po thang done fell out already. Problem solved… RIP Hair follicle

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Staceye since you’re my girl and all … where are you taking me this weekend? Fogo de Chow … Chops ???

:D

By Poppa Grande

July 18, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

Staceye

I had an asthma attack out of a ticket! Ok I turned on the waterworks but that is normal with an asthma attack because you can’t breathe. LOL That had nothing to do with my sex! LOL

OK you get a pass. I have lived with a number of asthmatics. My mom, dad, wife, and nephew suffer from asthma. So, I can emphathize.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

TheRealTruth, you are absolutely right. That’s why there’s a book out with that title. Staceye, help me out here. Bytches something, something :-(!

SlimOne, that skit depicts real silly girls and $$ hungry women (LOL).

By LisaK

July 18, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Just look at chick like she is chick and keep it moving…She is just playing games.

Doesn’t necessary mean she’s playing games; chick could genuinely feel like/lust for dude, but simply not be ready to take things to that level … for whatever reason.

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

The Real Truth I call that the “EVE and the SNAKE” theory.

Most women on this blog has neva neva eva eva dealt with a snakey dude, LOL

So you better go some where else with that BS, LOL.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

ATL Guy That is alot of meat at Fogo de Chao! I was sick afterwards. I have to really force myself to eat meat. So where are you taking me? LOL

Poppa It freaked me out so bad it started with hyperventalating…then wham…a full blown asthma attack! Scared me to death…almost! LOL

By Rell

July 18, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

Women love to be romanced and catered toward. = thats the problem…..there is no accountablity when it comes to doing the same thing to there men…..women have to work at keeping the mans attention also

By Poppa Grande

July 18, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Staceye

At least you laugh about it.

I’ve seen some serious attacks. I thought that we’d lose my mom one time. Luckily, we did not.

My dad hasn’t had an attack in about 8 years.

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

East Point A lot of us have seen the worst it can get. I remember a friend of mine whose bf was a shade tree mechanic. I needed something minor done to my car b/c my ends were low. He asked me to come over to his apt and he’d hook me up. It smelled as soon as he opened the door. There were beer cans and other paraphenelia all over the coffee tables and floors. The roaches had taken over and was crawling over everything. I didn’t even sit down. He fixed my car as I sat outside on the stoop, I paid homey, and I left. The next day I asked her how in the F did she sleep with him??? She was actually offended that I would comment.

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

A week later she comes out of the bathroom naked after taking a shower and literally throws herself on me!

Melo is that all…what happened after that…

Come on dude… You know what happened after that. Not a dayumed thing! Otherwise that whole post would’ve been for nothing. See, dudes post should’ve went like this:

Yeah blog, I was dating this chick that liked to reach under my shorts to grab the johnson and come around wearing no pan-teez. Now I was trying to be cool, but when she came out of the shower butt-azzed nekkit, I told her that was the last straw… and laid that azz over the back of my couch, threw the ankles around my neck, and beat that from the stand-up!

By Tazzee

July 18, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

Lisa K I agree totally, that is some good advice - I don’t exchange information with a guy that I’m not attracted to anymore.

But my attraction to a guy doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m going to have sex with him. And the fact that I think he’s ‘sexable’ doesn’t mean that I’m going to have sex with him. I was responding to the notion the guys have that women want it just as much as they do and we’re lying to ourselves. Just because I may want it, doesn’t mean I’m going to do it. Therefore until I’m ready to get down with the get down - there’s no need to talk about it.

If I engage in all that sex talk, dude is most certainly going to think that he’s going to get some and then when I tell him ‘oh no, we were just talking about what I want, not what I’m going to do’ then I’d be a tease.

I guess I’m of the ‘don’t start nothing I can’t finish’ crew. Until I know dude is going to get some, I’m not going to engage in the talk about getting some.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

Rell I want a guy to treat me the way he wants to be treated. If you give me attention…I’ll give it back. You give me BS I’ll give you hell! (I’m good at that…and all the while playing dumb about it)! * You mean you did not want me to do my trainer? I’m shocked because I know you’re doing your co-worker! I humbly apologize!* LMAO

By Binford2K8

July 18, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Rell

Women love to be romanced and catered toward. = thats the problem…..there is no accountablity when it comes to doing the same thing to there men…..women have to work at keeping the mans attention also

I’ve seen a lot of this in my time, but I think we’re in an “in-between” point in time where the newer generations understand that. Our generation is stuck in transition.

That’s why I try to hang out with 18 years old girls - they understand ;p

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

LisaK maybe maybe not, I don’t stick around to find out any how…I just delete her number and keep it moving. Keep in mind I am one of those dude who is patient when it comes to sex…But I peep game.

On leading with your wallet…That is only reserve for dudes who just want puddy…a lot of puddies per year.

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Rell sometime showing a woman a little bit of attention is like rolling for a lucky seven…A hit and miss thingy, LOL

By QC

July 18, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this

Hey EPO good to see you pop in today!

Too many comments to even think about catching up, i’ll start at the bottom and work my way up

Hey BK ;) smooches

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

QC Hello there.. its been a while, but I have been lurking for the last year or so… just so happen that on most days I could blog, the topics sucked so I refrained.. LoL

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Thanks Lena not exactly my thinking, but there was no need for a rebuttal. Atl Lady, you got it!

Staceye did I read you wrong. I thought you faked an asthma attack to get out of a ticket???

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

MY2 RIP Hair follicle ROTFLMAO…I almost came up with a skit for my Gray hair funeral..but that just seemed a lil wrong.

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

BlueK I told her that was the last straw… and laid that azz over the back of my couch, threw the ankles around my neck, and beat that from the stand-up! ha ha ha that’s the same thing i was thinking. Dude walking away tombout “I taught her azz a good lesson”. lol

Mytwo By the way, its still there. I might have to use one of those insect bombs to get rid of it before it invites its other Gray-haired friends. lol

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Tatas not a one of y’all have to lead with $$ I have a married friend that’s been knocking this chick off for years. When he finishes he ALWAYS throws money on the nightstand and tells her to get her hair done or something. He says when she stops taking the money he has to leave because she’s catching feelings. LOL Leading with money isn’t always a bad thing.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

Discomfort Lesson #1 = TMI

I have on a sundress w/a strapless bra (due to work). Never again! Bra not staying up properly w/o the straps (phooey)!

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

Staceye OMG…you spoke out of both sides of your mouth! Classic! i’m simply negotiating my cut up front. If a chick says no I know to keep it moving. Bottom line is your fugging, but will you fugg ME? LOL

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

TruthI’m going to play dumb and ask this question. Is the chick he’s been knocking off the mistress? (Assuming the answer is YES) That’s her understood role in the relationship. She’s the Ho and she’s fine with it. I think that’s a touch (not much) different. :-)

By atltwen

July 18, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this

Melo, Blue Kolla is correct, if you must know, I did not have sex with her. And I still have not, several weeks later, even though she asks me to 2 or 3 times a week. Sometimes begs for it!

She even told her best friend, while I was sitting next to her, “that she wasn’t getting the *ick”! Imagine how that made me feel!

This is not first, nor second time, a female I’ve gone out has lost her freakin’ mind because sex wasn’t getting any, though we been going out for only 2 months.

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

Did you all read the ajc story about the mistress trying to get her earnings from a will, according to a sex contract her and her lover had?

http://www.ajc.com/metro/content/metro/cobb/stories/2008/07/17/cobbmistress.html?cxntlid=homepagetab_newstab

By Jamoca

July 18, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

@ Blue:

…”See, dudes post should’ve went like this:

Yeah blog, I was dating this chick that liked to reach under my shorts to grab the johnson and come around wearing no pan-teez. Now I was trying to be cool, but when she came out of the shower butt-azzed nekkit, I told her that was the last straw… and laid that azz over the back of my couch, threw the ankles around my neck, and beat that from the stand-up!…”

ROTFLMAOFFF!!!!…yo’ silly azz, just had to bring me “out of the cocoon” with that one!…LOL!LOL!…what in the heyal imma’ do with you?!

On Topic:

I am much more turned on with a man who is consistent, period…all of that back n’ forth, is just too embarrassing to witness…I actually appreciate a guy who lets me know from the get-go, what to expect as far as his intentions…just don’t be surprised at my reply tho’; b/c depending on the nature of our relationship, you may find yourself in some dayum good company. Now does this mean he’s automatically gettin’ some, heyal naw!!…(esp when you’ve simply done what you were supposed to do).

Of course, there would be several key factors that would determine how comfortable I am with him and when to express this, which btw does not include a timeline with me (b/c making the man wait for 6 months, does not guarantee a thing, though it is still wise to put some good thought on the issue as well…

But bottom-line, if he can penetrate my mental, everything else is a given, period…

Oh, and hello to everybody!!!

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

Did you all read the ajc story about the mistress trying to get her earnings from a will, according to a sex contract her and her lover had?

http://www.ajc.com/metro/content/metro/cobb/stories/2008/07/17/cobbmistress.html?cxntlid=homepagetab_newstab

By East Point's Own

July 18, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

aiight folks I’m out… nice to see ya’ll agian

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

Staceye If you give me attention…I’ll give it back. You give me BS I’ll give you hell! (I’m good at that…

That sounds like my program - I’ma do you how you do me, and then some. But before I get real funky, I just get gone. I done put too much negative in the air though; that karma is a mugg.

Demi sometime showing a woman a little bit of attention is like rolling for a lucky seven…

Senario 1: Slow Play

Dating Game: Ok baby, that’ll work. I’ll pick you up at 7. Dice Game: “Next shooter.”

Dating Game: Reviewing receipts. Dice Game: Snake eyes. Bet back and keep shootin’.

Dating Game: After setting up date #3. Dice Game: Point is “6”. …Side bet 6/8

Datiang Game: Good vibe from last phone call. Prospects are good. Dice Game: “8”, pick up your bet.

Dating Game: Sorry dude but I don’t go to guy’s houses. Dice Game: Box cars. Bet back.

Dating Game: Feeling her up on her couch. She’s game. Dice Game: “4”, “9”, “9”, “8” (pick up and bet back), “3” (bet back), “5”, “9”, “10” He’s shootin’ his azz off, but dancing all around that “6” though.

Dating Game: Chick to dude, “I’m feeling you, but I’m just not ready to go to that other level.” Dice Game: “7”! Now watching as the Pit Man rakes in all them bets. Ain’t that a b!tch?! :/

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

Atl Lady all I konw is he knocks her off and goes home to his wife and 3 kids. I don’t think she’s mistress. She’s just a woman he can unload on. LOL

Lena if you thought that hurt my feelings it didn’t. Actually that remark resembled me. LOL

slim I read about that yesterday. Wild. That’s alot of money for booty so he must have thought it was good. Sounds like she started off as a nut and upgraded to love.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 18, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

too funny BK

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

atitwen Melo, Blue Kolla is correct, if you must know, I did not have sex with her. And I still have not, several weeks later, even though she asks me to 2 or 3 times a week. Sometimes begs for it!

See… what you need is a stunt c0ck on your set, kinda like a stunt man in Hollywood. Man you are killin’ me. LMAO

I bet this is one of the regular females in disguise. :D

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

Don’t know when to give up:

“A 59-year-old woman said she broke up with her boyfriend in late May. She said the day her ex-boyfriend went back to jail, she relocated to get away from him and said she doesn’t want to be bothered with him anymore. When her ex-boyfriend got out of jail in June, he searched for her. According to the police report, he asked around for her and passed out handwritten fliers offering a reward for the location of his “lost love.” Apparently, this worked. The woman said her ex-boyfriend showed up at her new home and she kept him talking until police arrived. The ex-boyfriend, age 45, was arrested for trespassing”

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

Yo Jamo what’s up :)

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Truth said this ===> “the booty isn’t a prize anymore, hell, most of you have given it away more times than you can count,” dayumn near 30 minutes ago. No rebuttal on that one? I know there’s at least one virtuous chick in here. Dayum.

BK, first of all, no need to argue as this statement is played on here.

Secondly, he said “most” so most of us just know it didn’t apply to us personally! LOL

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

This is not first, nor second time, a female I’ve gone out has lost her freakin’ mind because sex wasn’t getting any, though we been going out for only 2 months.

atltwen - Good for you. Hold strong. Let her play herself trying to rush the sex!

By atltwen

July 18, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla, how you gonna call me a “regular female in disguise”!

You must one of those guys who puts the “*ussy on a pedestal”! Not me!

Seriously, some men are searching for love and a relationship that can lead towards marriage, and if a “dating associate” is trying a have sex a such a early stage - it turns me in the opposite direction.

All this sex stuff is fine and dandy for those who want it.

Love with someone I adore is my holy grail and I stop until I find it, or it finds me.

Sex = short term pleasure. Love transcends sex into another realm you sex fiends aren’t at yet.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

@staceye…you are funny….t** for tat huh….how does that work when you say that you love someone…love is not t** for tat hun….come on now….i know you better than that…remember some of use can see thru that tough act….you big softy…now come give me a hug…lol

@bin/demi…..i feel you both…i just get sick of the princess mentality when some of them are straight trash..both inside and out

By For Real

July 18, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!! Dayumm I smell Magic Shave?

I’m up front with mines. Women are too irrational for me to wait on. Hell it took you 2hrs decide on what you were going to wear for the date and you want me to somehow figure out an appropriate time???? What if she just read a book that said God wants you to wait 27 yrs before having sex or she is in the middle of a book entitled The 13,000 Steps you should take before having sex. Naw I’m with Truth:

For Real: I don’t want to get married, I’m too old to be a chick’s boyfriend, I ain’t having no kids, and starring at your cleavage had made the African American Dolphin hard enough to cut diamonds. Pass the salt please.

Slim: Well dayumm I don’t know who you think you are but let me tell you….

For Real: Oh and I forgot to mention that am the inventor of the earmuffintectomy procedures.

Slim passes the fugg out with an erect CT.

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

Guys Have we gotten any real answers on this yet? LOL

Guys, do you ever think about the timing of making your move? If you are interested in someone, do you try to make the dirty talk appropriate for how things are going?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

Love with someone I adore is my holy grail and I stop until I find it, or it finds me.

Sex = short term pleasure. Love transcends sex into another realm you sex fiends aren’t at yet

Aw…atltwen, that is awesome to read. Tell me, how tall are you? LOL

By atlwen

July 18, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the complement AmazonRed; I’m glad someone out here feels me!

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

Guys Have we gotten any real answers on this yet? LOL

Guys, do you ever think about the timing of making your move? If you are interested in someone, do you try to make the dirty talk appropriate for how things are going?

By melo

July 18, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

because sex wasn’t getting any, though we been going out for only 2 months. damn,2 months dude is a long time to wait for pudsy..whats ur standard,5 yrs? At ur standards,u cannot even date the catholic nuns coz they get jiggy wit it,they will turn u dwn. And i saw this late,* And I still have not, several weeks later, even though she asks me to 2 or 3 times a week. Sometimes begs for it* can i plz have her email and # and promise u will introduce me to her.Wow,my friday is about to get nice!! And hey atltwen, i wanted to tell you something really nice,but i will hold off after i get that hook up.Trust me, after i meet ur friend,she wont have to bother u no more with those ridiculous requests,trust me!!

By For Real

July 18, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

If you give me attention…I’ll give it back.

The African American Dolphin is now saluting 2E’s. Tag 2E’s your it.

For Real now penetrating Jamo’s mental with a song. Doing the butt, heyyyyy sexy, sexy!

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

damn,2 months dude is a long time to wait for pudsy

Wow…sigh

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

For Real I hope you know how Magic Cream Shave smells….EWWWWW I wouldnt dare put that on my precious CT no matter if a whole family of gray hairs moved in…that’s just plan wrong. lol

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this

Staceye haha didn’t think you would mind a lot of meat! I’ll take you to a Promotion Party in Midtown … you can work that runway girl

By For Real

July 18, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Dirty talking…….

Chick: baby I want you to talk dirty to me.

Dude: Okay baby…. tracking mud on a clean flo

Chick: Huh?

Dude: Grape juice a white blouse…

Chick: That’s not…

Dude: Cleaning out the Hurbie Curbbie

Chick: Ewwwww

Dude: An 18 month old pamper after they eat oatmeal, drink some Orange Juice, eat a granny smith apple, in the summertime

Chick: Awwwww Dayummm stop!

Dude: Giving a women a hand job with dirty finger nails

Chick: OMG!!!! No more please!!!

Dude: Tongue kissing you after a night out drinking, smoking, and eat Krystal burgers with onion

By Hotlanta

July 18, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Truth men act as if their little weiners are the prize as well. Womena lways have the upper hand. That is why when I met a man for the first time I never put myself out there. If they ask me am I seeing someone. I don’t say that I am not if I don’t have anyone because they have this perception that you are not doing anything but WAITING on them to come into your life so t hey try tie up all of oyur time. TRUTH a lot of my girlfriends are quitting yall because yall can’t HANG in the bedroom. I remember one told me he had nver had any complaints before. I said baby they LIED to you. They were only looking for a quickie. He was looking like DUH I can’t believe she told me that. You might make one woman SCREAM but you will give the next one a YAWN.

By Hotlanta

July 18, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Truth men act as if their little weiners are the prize as well. Womena lways have the upper hand. That is why when I met a man for the first time I never put myself out there. If they ask me am I seeing someone. I don’t say that I am not if I don’t have anyone because they have this perception that you are not doing anything but WAITING on them to come into your life so t hey try tie up all of oyur time. TRUTH a lot of my girlfriends are quitting yall because yall can’t HANG in the bedroom. I remember one told me he had nver had any complaints before. I said baby they LIED to you. They were only looking for a quickie. He was looking like DUH I can’t believe she told me that. You might make one woman SCREAM but you will give the next one a YAWN.

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

Atlwen Love transcends sex into another realm you sex fiends aren’t at yet Awww, that’s so sweet. problem is the chick you’ll fall in love with tomorrow is fuggin like its 1999 today. On top of that she’s going to try and convince you she’s all new. You may want to believe that but when you massage her scalp and see all the dickprints in her head you’re gonna gasp. My booboo was out hoing. LMAO

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 2:20 PM | Link to this

2 months is not a long time.

By m'karyl

July 18, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

Yeah, I done turned into a blog lurker…why hold out and wait to see if it is what you want to deal with b4 you panty peel?!?!?!?!?!? AIDS!!!!!!

By melo

July 18, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

Anybody planning on watching British open golf tmrw morning.Its not exciting to me,with TW being absent. Truth, i negotiated to get leather in my truck,i got that fixed yesterday,the baby is looking smooth and nice inside…i was thinking of getting sme random chic from the blog for a swirl round twn tonite,hpefully this chic that has been denied sme for 2 mths wil be willing to hop in…cant imagine a dude punishing a chic like that,our youngsters nowadways lack bite and have absolutely no respect for the wmen folk!!

By Rell

July 18, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

atltwen….i see you have studied the game and now you come in here on the simpin comments….dude i am not buying it..but i see the resident hopeless romantic is…..smdh…..dude you want fluck just like the rest of us…all that babyface from the 90’s dialogue you posting….2months and you have not or attempted to smash…yrb……lmao…the fu ckery amazes me daily…lol

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

LMAO. Shut your face Truth. You know he can still catch one that hasn’t slung azz all her life!

By melo

July 18, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

yall because yall can’t HANG in the bedroom PROVE IT,thats all i can say,see melo above…where yall girlz at?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

i was thinking of getting sme random chic from the blog for a swirl round twn tonite

Ah ha ha ha!!!

By The Truth

July 18, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

hot men never had to give up on women because the smart ones always had spare on the side anyway. LOl

By For Real

July 18, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Love transcends sex into another realm you sex fiends aren’t at yet

Dude you sound like your great aunt the one with mustach took some from you and now no matter how much you wash you can’t get the snuff smell off your skin.

MK If someone has AIDS and they don’t tell how does holding out and waiting protect you?

Hotlanta Anything more than 50 strokes is just showing off.

By melo

July 18, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

2 months is not a long time. hey sexxy one,when are we having another meet and greet? We got sme new recruits on the blog…

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

For Real(Taken from Chris Rock) They’re waiting on their AIDS to ack up on ‘em. lolololol

By atlwen

July 18, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the complement AmazonRed; I’m glad someone out here feels me!

By Rell

July 18, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

@melo…..i say we do it today and lets see what all the fuss is about….yea lets all meet up have a drank and see what it is

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

If someone has AIDS and they don’t tell how does holding out and waiting protect you?

I know I know…how about recent test results…really getting to know that person…make sure he goes to church…has good career and money in the bank…looks clean and smells good, LOL

There is really no way to tell…but you can do what you can to protect yourself well before the act…and folks need to stop walking around with blind folds on…I’ve seen a lot of fine ladies and what pass for good looking gents in them AIDS wards.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

That’s why I try to hang out with 18 years old girls - they understand So Binford you cheat on me with a high schooler? UGH!

Sexyleggs did I read you wrong. I thought you faked an asthma attack to get out of a ticket I have! LOl That one I spoke of was real.

Rell I am no softy! No hugs for you…you just want to feel my booty! LOL

damn,2 months dude is a long time to wait for pudsy Would you think 2 months is long enough to date before making her your girl?

ATL Guy haha didn’t think you would mind a lot of meat! Oh that can be taken in so many ways! LOL But I’m no toothpick. I’m still in the single digits in clothes. Oh and I do eat.

Hotlanta I remember one told me he had nver had any complaints before Girl I had that happen. I told dude just because they did not complain to yur face does not mean all her friends don’t know you got a millimeter peter and you are king of the Rhythmless Nation….your stroke is broke…etc…

**

By Beautiful

July 18, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

i have new dating rules, and one of them is no sex for at least six months. if i trip and fall on the dyck before time … i’m grown!

dirty talk before intimacy kills my buzz. most of the time i no longer want to know anymore about you. there was one time though where i went along with it because it came from the right person.

happy friday! i’m going to a free Spinners concert tonight. i can’t not go … it’s free!

back to lurksville

By m'karyl

July 18, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

@For Real

It is about reducing the numbers of partners in in a period of time…

By Jamoca

July 18, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

@ For Real:

LOL!!! at your 2:08!…and your 2:18!…Fah’ Real…you stooopid.

Now as I notice that you constantly refer to your “other head” as The Black Dolphin (now thinkin’ of Flipper)…smh(lol), but please do not tell me that based on how dolphin’s are shaped, “ya man” closely resembles an “ant eattah” or may be an aardvark, perhaps?! Dayummm!…now LMAO!!!

LOL!!! @ Truth’s (2:19) “…You may want to believe that but when you massage her scalp and see all the dickprints in her head you’re gonna gasp. My booboo was out hoing…”

…you may even be partially responsible for those dents!..LOL!!!

@ Blue:

Why am I still thinking/laughing at your 12:17?!…LOL!!!…somehow I’m picturing you with them big ole’ white thick azz tube socks on, with your boxers ‘round ya’ ankles…Oh my dayum!!!LOL! Hahahahaha!!!

Sup MyTwo…girl we def have to coordinate somethin’ real soon!…got anything in particular on your agenda for the wkend?

Demi, sup mayne!

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

can i plz have her email and # and promise u will introduce me to her.Wow,my friday is about to get nice!! And hey atltwen, i wanted to tell you something really nice,but i will hold off after i get that hook up.Trust me, after i meet ur friend,she wont have to bother u no more with those ridiculous requests,trust me!!

LOL @ Melo putting in for the stunt c0ck position. :D

Hold up For Real you forgot the last line of that skit:

Chick: F******* you! You wasn’t sayin’ that when I… No, NO, just f******* you dude! And get the f******* out. This my house!

By Blanca

July 18, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this

Hey everyone! Getting ready for next weeks blog session and testing out my hopefully red name. Have a great weekend!

By melo

July 18, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

if i trip and fall on the dyck before time … i’m grown! ,Hey ANGIE good afternoon/mrning.That right there has to be dating rule #1,then #2 shld be the 6 months rule…if in dbt refer to#1.At 40 sme,u need to give urself sme comfortable breathing rm..6 months is for virgins,u knw girlz who have never tasted jake.Where in Cali do u live,never been over there b4,can u host me if/when i plan a visit?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

Hey Blanca. You’re red! You might want them to make one slight change for you tho…

By atltwen

July 18, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

Rell and Melo, your right, I know “the game”. See, I was always one of those guys who sat back listened to “you guys” talk about what they would if they dated a stripper and all that stuff. All the while, me, the quite one, was the only a see the thong of a “dancer” (don’t call them strippers, they don’t like that) outside the strip club without paying for it!

AmazonRed, two months is not a long time for me. I’ve gone almost a decade without before! Age 21 - 26. By the way, I’m 6ft tall.

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

Moca You know that mental seduction requires effort, ma. And givin off that ‘yeah, I’m worth it’ scent. But he listen to the boys spout off bout the game longer than he stuck around to catch a whiff. Off to meet Easy Rider at the club…

SlimGrayG Clearly others are not as concerned about your pube as they should be. Maybe you should put a yellow barrette on it, snap a pic and start an email campaign to raise awareness?

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Staceye when you say you’re not a toothpick & you like to eat…that makes me worried about my g/f!

You are still Runway Fresh Right!? Thats how I roll

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Meet and greet at Dugan’s Flat Shoals @ 7:00 for those who aren’t scared! Rell the regulars were scared to meet, doubt the newbies want to meet. They may not get the gist of everyone’s personality just yet!

Ok, my bad Staceye. Didn’t make light of your attack so thought to myself damn she’s good at acting and drove away ticketless.

By John

July 18, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

I prefer sex with prostitutes. We both get what we want in a clean business transaction.

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

Would you think 2 months is long enough to date before making her your girl? i wld never string a girl along for 2months if her azz is jaked up…i dnt like the pudsy too big,neither do i like wmen who ooze too much juice dwn there,it makes the whole exercise messy.I like smebody with the right quantities(amounts) of liquid,a certain tightness and smebody with the right moans and groans.If ur groans and moans dont sound right,im offended.(u knw there are sme wmen who,when they moan,u gota believe they got sme issue in their tube that u rubbing against,the moan is actually a disguise,its a wail!!)But if u with me for 2 months and the sexx is great,im prepared to work with u.I aint hard.It dont make sense to me to wait 2..3..6mths to lay a girl,u got feelings already and then discover the pudsy aint right,u stuck and ur tripping over with sleepless nights coz u gonna hurt smebody if u walk.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

@atltwen…i have dated dancers in asia, california, nevada, and atlanta…they are women…being a dancer does not make them harder or easier….simp son….feel me….and you can save your spit for these chicks player i am not responding to your post….fish for poo see and everything will go smooth..do what you came here to do and that is score….why you focus on what i say…ared just sent you your first qualifying question…when are you going to respond and start qualifying her…simp!!!!!

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

Meet and greet at Dugan’s Flat Shoals @ 7:00 for those who aren’t scared!

SexyLeggs - Come on now, us social butterflies and daters actually have plans. It’s 3 pm on a Friday, chica!

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

atltwen u 4got to pass on ur friend’s email dude…..c’mon u killing me!!!

By Beautiful

July 18, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

melo can u host me if/when i plan a visit?

sure, i would love to meet your wife.

hi Blanca! red looks good on you. ;-)

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:15 PM | Link to this

Sexxy why u alwayz doing stuff on the south side..me and staceye got do a lot of driving,why not switch that from time to time?..AND if we get southside girls cming norht,some of them might want to do the layover up there…make this thing even nd easy pleeze.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

@ared….what do you mean it is 3pm on a friday?..i had plans last time i came out…and i bought company just so i could say hi on the way to my plans….lol…folks are funny

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

MY2 I think i’ll slap some gel on it and give it a fanga wave. lol

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

LOL…I forget that part ARed about you social butterflies. I will try to remember that. I didn’t even think of a meet and greet until melo suggested.

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

**Yeah…get together in Midtown…thats where its at anyways!”

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

atitwen By the way, I’m 6ft tall.

That ain’t tall enough for your girl. LOL

Which as a matter of fact, I was in this spot earlier this week and I really took notice. There weren’t more than 10 mofos up in that joint better than 6’2/6’3.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

melo what would you suggest…i mean with gas prices and all…..lol….i dont care where it is we just having a drank…..lol…there is one downtown you also have the mexican spot downtown…downtown is the middle ground

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Happy birthday to MADIBA..

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

atltwen Bless your lil heart! He said show some respect, you brutes :)

Angie You might find one to fall on tonite! Maybe fall onto it a month early cuz it’ll be Christmas…

melo More incorrigible by the day yo silly self.

Jamo Nada. We gonna make it happen tho.

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

sure, i would love to meet your wife.

LMAO. Good one, Angie.

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

I dnt have a wife beautiful,thats just blog talk,to reduce the leeches that i wld have to ward off on a daily basis.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

Yes, you’re right. It can’t always be on my side of town for my own convenience (LOL). Okay melo, you pick the spot for the next meet and greet. Don’t know if anyone wants to meet today. Isn’t a poll usually taken to see if anyone wants to meet. I may stop in Dugan’s for a drink b4 heading home. Let you social butterflies and avid daters do your thang!

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

Truth Thought this might interest yah.

http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/07/18/russia.prostitution/index.html

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

melo what would you suggest,Dugan on memorial/Mtn Industrial is 50/50.What u think?

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

ATLTwin By the way, I’m 6ft tall. How you doin’? LOL

ATL Guy I am runway fresh baby! I’m saying you can’t see my heart beat through my ribs because I’m so skinny! I’m a size 8…working on getting to a 4…but the booty won’t let me! LOL Well…at least its not saggy and sloppy!

Sexyleggs I drove away ticketless both times. LOL I would come to Dugan’s but I have plans. But I may stop by! You know I’m never scared! I met some folks already. What’s up For Real, Melo, Alvin and my girl Sexyleggs!

Melo you did not answer the question? I aske is 2 months 2 not long enough to make her your girl? Not how you like the puddy! LOL

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

mytwocents are u cming to the next meet?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

i had plans last time i came out…and i bought company just so i could say hi on the way to my plans….lol…folks are funny

Rell - And? So what? Some folks my not have that option. Especially if Dugans is no where near where you need to be.

Yes, folks certainly are funny.

BK - 6 feet is not a deal breaker. As long as you’re a good one.

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

Mamba. 2 is good if the pudsy tastes right.Its conditional..i can only make her my girl if evrything sounds good right there in 2,no prblem.Because that establishes the fact that we connect on some higher level..we vibe,as uall are prone to say…

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

Jamo I am good, gotta do some work now peace!!

There is a spot called Seasons, off Lavita that has good food and 1/2 off drinks…naw, spot far from ghetto.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

Yay Blanca is in Red.

*Blanca y rojo = rosado! (LOL)

By Jamoca

July 18, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

@ MyTwo:

I would think, if it’s mental seduction that one is after, the work was already halfway done, cuz brutha man had to get a quick wiff from ole’ guh in order to take that route ITFP, see?…unfortunately, she should expect that he’ll not be able to “sprint” all the way, b/c even that arrangement will def run out of steam….

Mental penetration I think is the one you spoke of in your previous post, and does require much attention to detail,(b/c for me)w/ it comes much respect and admiration…to whereas “the performance” would be expected norm or betta (anything less, they’d both know would be unexceptable)… however I try to be “leary” of those who’ve perfected “the art” without much effort at all…can be a bit tough to discern at times, I’ll admit.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

Hey b4 the day gets away Truth enjoy your b-day and your time w/your dogs.

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

There weren’t more than 10 mofos up in that joint better than 6’2/6’3.

BK - Welcome to my world. However, I can work with 8 or 9 tall guys in a spot. Trust that sometimes I’m out and there are no more than 1 maybe two!

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

Also Melo, I pick Dugan’s on Flat Shoals because it’s close to my house and I’m not very familiar with other drinking spots. I usually don’t drink out!

By Beautiful

July 18, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

singing

a freak in the morning, a freak in the evenin’, just call me up and i’ll be there when you need me

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:45 PM | Link to this

Beautiful, WTH you singing that for???

Meant to say I don’t drink much out!

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

For Everyone that said YaY to Blanca’s name being in Red

You are all way easily amused huh!?!? So its in Red, did I miss the importance, haha…!?

Staceye I’ve got a running group in Atlanta tomorrow at 7am … come out and run 10+ miles with me … you’ll trim down that bootay!

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

I usually don’t drink out! dnt worry about that,Alvin wil get u home…

By Rell

July 18, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

@amazonred…how tall are you?

@demi…seasons is a cool after work spot….

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

Atl Guy, lighten up…it’s a running joke!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

Blue * There weren’t more than 10 mofos up in that joint better than 6’2/6’3* There are a lot of short men in ATL. Heck when I see a tall one I am ready to tap dance….heck backflip if he’s cute too! LOL

Melo Because that establishes the fact that we connect on some higher level.. How is that? Is two fools can have sex. But really taking the time to get to know a person b4 running off to bed actually shows you can connect on a deeper level.

ATL GUY I have been running all my life…its genetic. I got a big booty muscles! LOL

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

Rell - I’m 5’11”

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

oh the email ad is takpat78@gmail.com

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs WTF I was Playin! You thought I was Serious!?

Where’s your Drink for the Weekend??? Get it out of the Brown Paper bag and turn it up! LoL

By Beautiful

July 18, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

sexy the chick next to me has her radio on and now it’s stuck in my head. lol.

and y’all makin’ me sick with this meet and greet crap! i missed the last one because i wasn’t prepared for it. it was planned at like 4:00. give a sistah at least a day in advance. i could have met a handful of ppl. i was pyssed. oh well … have fun and be safe. :-(

atl guy i see you don’t pay attention. what are we gonna do with yo azz?!?

By melo

July 18, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

last week friday we went to Sambuca on piedmont,across fogo de chao,it was awesome….

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

melo, not gentlemanly offering another man’s services all willy nilly!!!

Seasons is a good after work spot.

By Rell

July 18, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

amazonred..can you dunk a basketball?..lol

5’11 is cool you tall but not that tall

@staceye how tall are you

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Ared Welcome to my world. However, I can work with 8 or 9 tall guys in a spot. Trust that sometimes I’m out and there are no more than 1 maybe two!

That’s what I’m saying. I was trippin’ and taking notice. Once upon a time 6’ was how high the stick went. Now broads are talking 6’3 and better. And I’m thinking, of all the dudes out here, what percentage is hitting 6’4?

Women are funny like that, limiting their pool of eligibles; because your average dude’s gonna deal with a broad from 6’fo to fo’fo if she’s got a decent look and some personality.

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

5’11 is cool you tall but not that tall

Uh..the point is I’m tall. I don’t have to be “that tall” to be tall. I’m certainly taller than the average man and I’m probably taller than you!

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Beautiful as I said before, I was Playin … so what you can do with my azz is kiss it

I’m waiting baby…My G/f Staceye might get jealous though, look twice before kissing it, k?

By For Real

July 18, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

If yall meet downtown count me in. There is a Taco Mac near the corner of Peachtree St and 10th street.

Ared 5’11”??? You want to rassle?

By Demigod33

July 18, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

Rell yeah it is. I mostly hit that spot on Friday and afterwards I head to this spot called “ENCORE” in G-NETTED County

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

Yes, I thought you were playing. I didn’t come to you sideways. I just said lighten up. Why do you guys get rattled so quickly and want to attack? BTW, I don’t drink from brown paper sack. Next!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

Rell 5’8…in my stilletos I am 6ft! LOL

By melo

July 18, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

But really taking the time to get to know a person b4 running off to bed actually shows you can connect on a deeper level u will end up married to a girl/boy but dread going to bed every night coz she/he cant perform.Thats the old church rule..recipe for headache and divorce..get the tension off early,establish the sexxual connect early and then mental connection and u good.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Meant to say yes, I thought you were SERIOUS!

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

BK - I know it seems limiting, but it’s not. As long as you are receptive to a cool dude, you’ll go for the best match.

Most short guys have an issue with dating tall women anyway. Plenty of short guys approach, but usually let their insecurities show the minute they ask you if you always wear heels.

I haven’t dated a guy under 6’2” since I’ve been here just because it breaks out that way. But the decent look and personality probably helps that too. LOL

By Atl Lady

July 18, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

Blue We wouldn’t necessarily do so if the short brothers didn’t come with the Napolean complex. I’m with Ared you have to be 6’ to ride this ride. :-)

By For Real

July 18, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

Ared rasslin is not your thing, do you want to practice some cheerleading moves?

Demi You drive to Net County. With the price of gas?

By Rell

July 18, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

ARED - I AM 6’2….you lose….

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 4:18 PM | Link to this

ATL Lady, let’s hear it! LOL. Hey, all I’m asking is to be an inch or two taller than me. I don’t want anything I can’t offer!

For Real - LMAO

Rell - Whoop de do.

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

AtlGuy Staceye I’ve got a running group in Atlanta tomorrow at 7am … come out and run 10+ miles with me … you’ll trim down that bootay!

Staceye Don’t listen to that. That’s whats wrong with some of yoll now, too much propaganda talkin’ ‘bout yoll need to cut the booty off. Don’t do it!

There are a lot of short men in ATL.

And there are a helluva lot of tall azz women too. I saw this chick earlier this week, tall big and shaped up. I’m 5’11 and that big azz was dayum near up to my chest!

Used to mess with a big azz girl like that one time, and I ain’t gon’ lie, shyt felt a little awkward sometimes when we were out clubbing. I know the slow dance must’ve looked funnier then a muhfugga. LMAO

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

melo If it’s convenient, know in advance & opps for road rage are at a minimum. Will drive into traffic for very few.

Absolutely, Moca but that’s where lazy comes in. Either too lazy to peep her out & then select method of advancement (uses cookie cutter) or peeps it out but gives just enough so she wanna continue conversation later. 2nd contact picks up playbook and resumes from cookie cutter formula cuz he already got her attention.

For me, the depth of the connection will be a greater factor than the time it takes to reach that level. When that part of the work is put in everything else eases into place ever so nicely. Never a time when the increased mental didn’t increase the physical…but there has been the tragic physicality seems right theoretically but lack of mental causes disconnect. Wanna be like just Shhh!

By Rell

July 18, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

staceye you just my size i like them 5’8 and up…ccept oooo sour mouth red…lol

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs You just say Next!? LoL! Awwww, I’ll share my 40oz with you…its all good baby!

By SlimOne

July 18, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

Don’t yall hate when folks voicemail is 20 dayum minutes long? WTF!!! Its a voicemail, not something you’re going to put in a time capsule. Geesh!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

melo I am not saying wait until marraige…I’m just saying don’t rush! Get to know the person first! Its not always about the sex. God forbid one part of a couple get’s hurt ad can’t perfom in bed….if it is all about the sex…then yes the other will bounce. But if there is more there…then they will stay!

ATL Lady I’m with Ared you have to be 6’ to ride this ride. :-) I Co-sign. I will let 5’11 slide if he is really cute (face, body and personality)! LOL

By Beautiful

July 18, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

singing

when ever you want me you can come and see me, cuz you know just what to do, you give me the business, shawty give me the business, if you know exactly what I wanna do, then imma give the business to you

happy birthday Truth!

atl guy muah

By melo

July 18, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

Never a time when the increased mental didn’t increase the physical u never express urself in a direct way…do u alwayz make it hard to get to that azz……i get a diff vibe from u tho,never mind that facade..u seem like a real cool chic…..hw old are u..

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

And there are a helluva lot of tall azz women too. I saw this chick earlier this week, tall big and shaped up. I’m 5’11 and that big azz was dayum near up to my chest!

LOL BK, I hear that a lot too. Some tall guys don’t date tall girls because they think they’re all built like German lumberjacks. LOL

Not a problem for your girl tho! LOL

By melo

July 18, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

I’m just saying don’t rush! Get to know the person first okay..next time u cme to the blog meet,bring a friend,dnt move solo like u did last time,u depress the numbers……

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Hope that 40oz is a Budwieser!

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

But, Staceye you Rushed right into with me…I mean 5 mins ago you wanted to have my child…now you’re telling Melo not to rush!?!?!?

What is going on!? Are we not having a baby!?

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

staceye you just my size i like them 5’8 and up…ccept oooo sour mouth red…lol

Thank you, Jesus.

By abc

July 18, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

Maybe it’s because I’m not much of one to be led around by my own hard-on, or maybe when I was younger women didn’t have much compunction in doing whatever I wanted, or maybe equal parts of those along with other things, but I never have found it to be much of an issue as regards to women who thought I was too aggressive in that manner. A few times I’ve been told they weren’t ready to come to my house, or for this or for that. No problem with me; that wasn’t the reaction they’d expected though, I think, as they’d initiate whatever it was themselves within a few days.

Anyway, the topic is kind of a moot point for me, it’s never been an issue.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Blue You are too funny! LOL

Rell ccept oooo sour mouth red HUH? LOL

Melo How did I depress the numbers? LOL

ATL Guy If I have your baby that means a bigger booty! LOL

By Blue Kolla

July 18, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Ared Some tall guys don’t date tall girls because they think they’re all built like German lumberjacks.

Sheeit, that don’t bother me. I walked up in that spot late as hell and buzzin’ like a bee, and as soon as I saw slim, I walked straight up to her and was like let’s hit the dancefloor. And the shyt was poppin’ from there.

Funny thing though, my sister is tall, always been tall, but has always dated short azz 5’6/5’7 dudes. And she was wearing heels when tall chicks really didn’t wear heels. I always gave her props for being bold like that; another sagittarius. ;)

By the way Red, we’ve had a good week, but have your work gear on Monday. ‘Cause it’s gon’ be back to fuggin’ normal. :D

By CommunistAJC

July 18, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

Blanco, You’re dating a dude named Knight Rider? No wonder no one takes you serious. Maybe you should just become a lesbian.

By SexyLeggs

July 18, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

Must say good night now, everyone. Enjoy the weekend.

Are you in it for love Are you in it for money If I lost everything would you be there in the morning

Ay mama, you’re my sweet mamacita You’ve gonne to my head, like too many margaritas You say that you sing, that you’re some kind of dancer But the stars in your eyes, never reveal the answer One fine day, you’ll be walking out that door I hope you find, just what you’re looking for

[Chorus] Are you in it for love Are you in it for money If I lost everything would you be there in the morning Are you in it for kicks Private jets and Armani When the ride’s over, would you even bother to call me Ay mama, you’re my sweet senorita But if I should fall in love, will of your sweetness turn bitter You swear that you’ll stay, that you love me forever But that’s what you’ll say to the next fool who’s handsome or clever One fine day, when your name is up in light You will know what I am asking you tonight

[Chorus]

Are you in it for money cause to much is never enough Are you in it for you, Are you in it for me Are you in it for love.

Are you in it for you, Are you in it for me

[Chorus (Various times)]

Stay in tune to your surroundings and those surrounding YOU!

By melo

July 18, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

short dudes,esp in the club or sme such crowded place,have a hard time accessing the rich pickings.Us tall dudes always seem to command that eye respect and attention,even when we aint saying a thang….

By mytwocents

July 18, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Melo LOL I’m told I’m one of the most direct. Ever. Just have no desire to be super crass on blog so maybe more subtle than you’d like. You know even just from bloggin w/ folks how to come at them. When you got somebody live in front of you, there’s the added benefit of body language. It says all that you guys need to know about how receptive we are to how you move. Much harder to get my mind than anything else and not always a prerequisite. But in my 32 yrs I’ve learned he’ll just feel much better to me if it goes in that order. Clearer?

Have a lovely weekend

By ATL Guy

July 18, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Remember … I own this Blog … so pls donate your pay check to my “I Need Your Money Now Fund”

I appreciate you enjoying my Blog

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

Blanca didn’t write today’s post, I did. His name is actually NOT Knight Rider (duh?), and I am thankfully NOT dating him. That is all. LOL

By AmazonRed

July 18, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

BK - I’m a lover not a fighter!

Yeah, my sister is tall too 6’3” and her fiance is 5’10.” I bought her some cute heels only to tell me she doesn’t wear them much anymore because of her man.

Like hell! LOL

By QC - gone 4 the day

July 18, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

HOLLA……BLOGGERS

hey Beautiful, Staceye

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 18, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Blue You are right…Sags are very bold, for example, myself, Sexyleggs and ARED!

ARED I bought her some cute heels only to tell me she doesn’t wear them much anymore because of her man. Girl no way in hell! I am still wearing my heels! LOL

By Beautiful

July 18, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

i prefer my guy anywhere between 5’10 and 6’2ish. what i can’t deal with is dude being skinny like me. ouch. i like ‘em thick.

By melo

July 18, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

good weekend,get ur groove on guys,plnty of sweet juices out there….see yaall!

By Wise Diva

July 18, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

Hey Blanca, welcome to the wild/red side smile

Well, thanks everyone! Great week of discussions :) I can’t wait to see what adventures Blanca has to share next week!

Have a fantastic weekend! Diva out

By melo

July 18, 2008 5:04 PM | Link to this

i prefer my guy anywhere between 5’10 and 6’2ish u real deep…