By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 8:26 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

I haven’t dated a friends ex so I guess I’ll sit back and read everyone elses experiences.

I can’t wait till Saturday. Anybody else going to the UFC at Phillips this weekend?

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this

Well I would not care if one of my friends dated an ex of mine, but I would have to question his sanity if he wants a chick with known defects… LoL ( there is a good reason she is my ex )

By M'Karyl

September 4, 2008 8:48 AM | Link to this

@East P

I with you on that one…if the person is a designated “ex”, then there must be a very good reason…lol…only a fool would throw away gold…but pyrite can hit the trash…lol

By HoneyBun

September 4, 2008 8:48 AM | Link to this

Morning, i never dated a friend’s ex but i’ve had sex with an ex of 2 friends.

By China Doll

September 4, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this

My friends ex’s, sibling ex’s, relatives ex’s, etc. are NEVER an option for me in the dating/sex realm.

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 9:01 AM | Link to this

I can say that one time and one time only a very close friend hooked me up with his ex because he thought that she and I were better for each other, and it was clear that they broke up on good terms for a very specific reason. And it was not a negative reason per se.

By Sasha Two Pistols

September 4, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

I’ve never dated a friend’s ex, and I don’t think I will either. Me and my friends have different tastes when it comes to men, so I wouldn’t even be attracted to a guy that they like in the first place.

And about getting older, I know back in highschool times this was a stern no-no. And I think it still sticks, but you do find a lot of older people who tend to bend this rule. I know I met a couple who were in their 80s and got married just a few years ago. He was actually the brother of his new wife’s deceased husband, go figure! So I definitely think when you get older the rule becomes more relaxed.

By Sasha Two Pistols

September 4, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

I’ve never dated a friend’s ex, and I don’t think I will either. Me and my friends have different tastes when it comes to men, so I wouldn’t even be attracted to a guy that they like in the first place.

And about getting older, I know back in highschool times this was a stern no-no. And I think it still sticks, but you do find a lot of older people who tend to bend this rule. I know I met a couple who were in their 80s and got married just a few years ago. He was actually the brother of his new wife’s deceased husband, go figure! So I definitely think when you get older the rule becomes more relaxed.

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By Foots

September 4, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

I dated a friend’s ex in high school, 11th grade. Terrible experience and it nearly broke up our friendship. I did ask her if it was okay and she told me it was, I took her word for it, but she lied. It took us about three years to get back on track as friends.

Another friend dated a guy I used to date in college. She asked me how I felt about it when he asked her out and I honestly didn’t care. I was happy that she was happy. They lasted a good two years. I thought they would have ended up married.

There are a few exes of mine that are off limits and same for my friends. If I went out with a guy a few times and thought he might be better suited for my friend, I’ll try to hook it up. But men with whom we’ve had long-term relationships? No, those are off-limits. There’ll never be a shortage that would require me dating a friend’s long-term ex.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

September 4, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Good morning, I’ve never dated a friends ex, there are certian lines you just don’t cross.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

Date my boy’s ex?! Hayo Naah! LMAO We all know that our women have been hit by at least one other dude and have performed f****** on at least one other dude, we just don’t want to know that dude; at least me anyway. That’s how fights get started. Check these scenarios:

I’m at a cookout with my potna, my girl (which is his ex-girl), and some other peeps… I don’t want him thinking, “Yeah I used to hit that,” all with a snide grin on his face; ‘cause personally if the situation were reversed I might be thinking the same thing.

Conclusion: Dating your friend’s ex, big NO-GO!

By Dan

September 4, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

I’ve had friends that knocked my garbage bin.

But I don’t play that route (with actual girlfriends) now cut buddies are fair game.

But Man Law #73: the homeboy must be notified prior to the act (even if it’s immediately prior).

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Morning everyone. I enjoyed the RNC last night and Palin and Gulianni’s “yo mama” jokes. LOL

I’ve never dated a friend’s ex. Heck most of my non married friends have terrible taste in men.

I had a friend date my ex, wait, actually I was still dating him, so yeah, that one didn’t end well.

By ATL Guy

September 4, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

My first g/f when I was in 8th grade…seeing this girl and I played Select Soccer so would travel all the time for tournaments when I was younger. We broke up cause I was gone every weekend. My bestfriend starts seeing her, remember we’re like 13 at the time! We got in this fight over it. At that point, he’s like “I was wrong, you’re my boy, I ditched her…Bros before Hos”

Learned early, Man Law should never let you go after your Boyz ex. Too many women out there anyways!

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

HoneyBun Morning, i never dated a friend’s ex but i’ve had sex with an ex of 2 friends.

You ain’t the only female walking around with these credentials. LOL

Dan But Man Law #73: the homeboy must be notified prior to the act (even if it’s immediately prior).

Notice how far down the list that is? Long-term, short-term, sidepiece, booty-call, don’t matta… I don’t go behind dudes that I know.

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All I think this is going to be one of those topics that almost everyone is going to say it wasn’t me. I’m like everyone else so far. I’ve always gone by the you’re my girl’s ex and we tight so no rule. Every incident that I know of that it has happened, the trust from the friendship/relationship was diminished.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

September 4, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

BK It has to be an odd feeling smashing a female that your buddy used to smash, and what does that say about the lady?

By Dan

September 4, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

@BK

You trying to tell me that you’ve never had that one night, that one girl, with all the homies….

Plus, realistically, you’ve probably gone behind some dude you know anyway…The A ain’t that big…

By kimmie

September 4, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

Good morning Blog Fam

I would not WANT any of my friend’s exes! Yuck, they have TOTALLY different taste in men and yeah, they are EXES for a reason anyway! Goodness, when I think of some of them now I want to puke - so no! Would not do it anyway, and none of my friends have done it to me (that I know of).

Blue Kolla - You are hilarious, I was picturing in my head everything you wrote! Loved your post!

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 10:08 AM | Link to this

mood today giddy and all. ;-)

there’s a rule, no ex’s! i thought ev1 knew that.

MLL, atl lady, errbody … morning.

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Blue_K I’ve always heard that’s how it goes with dudes. I’m sure you know chicks can be real freak-a-lics, so having flashbacks of when the chick did a triple aixle off the balconey onto his dizzle is reason to fight…especially if ole dude start laughing to himself or saying shyt like, “Yeah me and ole girl definitely had some good times. She a wild girl.”

Dan Man Law #73: the homeboy must be notified prior to the act (even if it’s immediately prior).

Friends Ex Girl: Ohhh, I always wondered how endowed you were, even when me and yo boy was kickin it.

Dudes Friend: Dayum girl. You sexy as hayo…and that cat is lookin right and ready for me.

ExGirl: I can’t wait to just li, li, li, lick you like a lollipop.

Chick now proceeding to get on her knees

DF: I knew you was a freak. But I got something to do first tho. I gotta make this call.

ExGirl: you gotta make a call now?! well don’t mind me, I’ll jus be down here.

DF: mmmm…ohhhh Hello? Eh mayne.

ExBestFriend: What up dude?

DF:……

EBF: Hello? You aight ova there man?

DF: Oh, my bad dawg. Jus callin u cuz we go way back…ooohhh dayum girl

EBF: Yeah we do go way back. What’s this about and why it sound like you running water or something?

DF: mmmm shyt, you got the wetmouf girl! Oh, yeah. thats what i was callin u bout. You know that chick you were wit for about 3 years that had you all wide open?

EBF: Yeah?

DF: Well, since we cool like dat…aaaaahhhhh…Oh my bad. Um…well you over all dat right?

EBF: Yeah? Man whaddaflugg you tombout?

DF: I’m glad you finally ova dat shyt dawg. but um…..Sshhhh, girl you gonna make me buss fore I get a chance to get the ok….What was I sayin? Oh! Well I’m bout to get with ole girl. I see why you were so fugged up over her. Dis girl is da shyt! So we still cool, right?

EBF: Still cool?..You must got me fugged up dude

DF: aight baby, I’m bout to tear dat azz up… (DF just hears “still cool” and hangs up)

EBF: Hello? Hello?

ExGirl: So what he say?

DF: oh he said it was cool and to fugg you up good. Now were we?

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

so having flashbacks of when the chick did a triple aixle off the balconey onto his dizzle is reason to fight

I hate SlimOne with every fiber of my being. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

Dan You trying to tell me that you’ve never had that one night, that one girl, with all the homies….

Nope, ain’t neva been the kind of dude to be in on runnin’ no trains. I don’t like ho’s and I ain’t hardly tryin’ to see some other dudes dyck.

Plus, realistically, you’ve probably gone behind some dude you know anyway…

Now that’s a real possibility, however, a small one. First b/c I don’t keep a gang of friends; secondly, like I said I’m traveling for my broads. Most cats are lazy, they want the broad down the street.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

September 4, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

hey there iMISSu, what/who’s got you all giddy and all?

By jazzyone

September 4, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Dan All the women in ATL don’t lay up and fugg everything that walks with 3 leggs..stop it….not all of us have a million miles on us with contributions from you or ya boys. Seriously….

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Slim *so having flashbacks of when the chick did a triple aixle off the balconey onto his dizzle is reason to fight

See…? You know exactly what I’m talkin’ ‘bout; especially with this part right here ===> …especially if ole dude start laughing to himself or saying shyt like, “Yeah me and ole girl definitely had some good times. She a wild girl,” ‘cause you know that a clown is trying to be slick. LOL

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Morning imissu

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

Morning All!

Atl Lady…:)…wun me either. Not dating a friend’s ex. But for some reason i’ve had a few inappropriate passes made from a friend’s man, AND a really bad move/pass from my (ex) guy’s cousin. had to do some snapping that wasn’t nice.

Alot of my friends are 5-10 years older than i, 1-2 of them are 12 years older. Their husbands or SO remind me of my uncles…and i don’t want anything close to Uncle Frank’s age. Lol they would kill me if they saw my post.

mytwocents/Blue

Morning Observation:

As i was driving in this morning, the car in front of me windows had some written painted. On the back window it read: Andrew -n- Carol “JUST MARRIED”, and on the bottom part of the trunk was “MOTEL or HOTEL BOUND”. I got over to the side of the car, and her window written smaller than what was on back was “getting incar service NOW!!”.

hmmm…did Cee almost pass out when i finally figure out what that meant? LOL I called a gf to find out what it meant!!! I ain’t never seen it like that before.

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

slim that was your best right there gurllllll!!! too funny. lol.

MLL i received a e-mail last night. why they do that? dang.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Kimmie Hey sis.

imissu…giddy r u…Who’s getting a rose?

just sayin

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

Blue_K I’ve been a witness to a dude doing that…especially at a party or something where dudes getting their drank & schmoke on.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

Dan All the women in ATL don’t lay up and fugg everything that walks with 3 leggs..stop it….not all of us have a million miles on us with contributions from you or ya boys. Seriously….

LMAO. Good one, jazzyone.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

Kwame Kilpatrick pleads guity and resigns. Another leader falls due to inability to stop chasing skirts. Pity.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

Blue Nope, ain’t neva been the kind of dude to be in on runnin’ no trains.

Good for you! That has GOT to be the nastiest, low-class, no-budget thing folks can do.

Dan So you trying to tell us that you have?

By kimmie

September 4, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee!

But for some reason i’ve had a few inappropriate passes made from a friend’s man - I’ve had this happen too and it is totally disgusting! One guy tried it twice with me, even after I cussed him out AND told my friend. She like a fool forgave him, even after he had the nerve to try it with her SISTER too! Since she had such a flip attitude about it, I didn’t tell her about the 2nd time until years later after she finally dumped him. Here I was all concerned, almost crying because I was so offended by his advance! That nut almost cost us our friendship. The Christian in me forgave her, especially after SHE ended up apologizing to ME.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

@Jazzy

Say what you will be every woman on here has that one dude in her past that she wishes she could take back, doesn’t count, or chooses not to remember.

The difference between men and women is that the guys don’t have those regrets.

@BK

Whatever dude.

Whether she from your town or outside of it, same rule as above applies. She done got down with some dude, somewhere, and did something like when the chick did a triple aixle off the balconey onto his dizzle that with somebody.

Whether you know him or not.

As far as the TT, I was never the in the room with any other cat, and was never the last cat in the door neither. But you know, we all grew up differently.

Some us more exposed to it than others

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

Cee ^5 that one. Why do old a$$ men you’ve known all your life think they have a chance to get you in bed?? Do they not know my dad and some of my uncles pack specific heat for just those occassions???

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

Cee “getting incar service NOW!!”.

Ohhh dayum. LOL Hey, well at least they starting off right. That’s what I’m talkin’ ‘bout.

Slim I’ve been a witness…

Funny thing about the truth, ain’t nothing funnier, nothing stings as much, and it’s the best game in the world.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

@Foots

I learned a few things about women a long time ago:

You can’t get them to do anything that they don’t want to,

Each and every one has a freak in her, it just takes the right dude to get at it,

She gone do something nasty and blame it on the time, the alcohol, or the guy (even when it was full participation on her part).

So you can miss me with the judgement, dearheart, becuase the D apologizes not for consensual sex.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Say what you will be every woman on here has that one dude in her past that she wishes she could take back, doesn’t count, or chooses not to remember.

Dan, I don’t. Never have.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

September 4, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

imissu fill me in on the email.

Question: why do people say that they don’t have any expectations when they’re dating someone? Isn’t that the purpose of dating, expecting something to come out of it?

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Good day everyone! Glad you’re giddy today, cuz I’m sleepy!

I’ve never dated any of my friends ex’s.

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

On Trains And what happens if the first dude to go is Mandingo Dizzle, then here you come…just like trying to mix up bubble bath in a garden tub with a coffee stirrer. Just ain’t effective.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

Dan So you can miss me with the judgement, dearheart, becuase the D apologizes not for consensual sex.

Okay, then, how about you miss the ladies with your judgements also? They shouldn’t have to apologize for being freaks if that’s what they are, since it was consensual freakiness, right? And don’t matter what you say, trains are still gross.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

@ARed

Sorry you and Foots only had the first and the last.

My fault for forgetting your sainted status…

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Amazon Another leader falls due to inability to stop chasing skirts. Pity.

I always say, if you gon’ be dumb, don’t be stupid. When they asked him about it, he should’ve said what all the other smart, usually white criminals say, “I plead the 5th. Where’s my lawyer?” His only criminal offense is lying, the idiot.

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

getting incar service NOW!!”

well … what ya gurl say?

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

Ok, help me out here. I always thought “running a train” was in no way consensual. You mean to tell me young idiotic girls want this? Tell me it ain’t so! Any dude who participates in such a thing is scum!!!

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Dan, I don’t know what “only had the first and last” means. Please clarify.

And hardly “sainted status”, I guess on the flip you’re a w******* then? I’m not going for sainthood, I simply believe that sex shouldn’t be given freely and therefore always acted accordingly. How silly is it to criticize folks who just try to live their life right, in however way they deem “right” to be.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Dan And what does “what you learned about women” have anything to do with your own actions? You saying that because some women are freaks, it justifies the things you choose to do? Why not do it just because you want to, without looking for the justification because of what some woman did?

By the way, I’m no saint, never said I was. I’m going to need you to miss me with the sarcastic judgement. Trains are gross to me They are not to you…so what? I can’t have an opinion? Like you said, we might not have been exposed to that growing up. But as you know, there is PLENTY of distance between sainthood and that.

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Foots I thought the same thing. I have known that more than one girl was the resident hos for a particular fraternity. I have known girls to be targeted by frat boys only to be embarassed and outed immediately after the deed.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Oh some of these comments are funny…Dan and BK…lmao…garbage bin…uh-huh…lol..and BK… true, convo might be like that…ARed…so did the friend become an ex too…lol.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Ok, help me out here. I always thought “running a train” was in no way consensual. You mean to tell me young idiotic girls want this?

Leggs - A train is consentual, if not, it’s gang rape. “Want” is reletive. I’d suspect any girl that consented to a train has either been abused or lacking some kind of acceptance in their lives to want to participate in these things. The guys promise popularity or being “down” with them, and some girls may crave this.

I had one acquaintence admit she’d been run train on and that she wanted it. But I know she’s had a history of sexual abuse as well.

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Good Morning to all…

I have no sympathy for Kwame…it goes back to the power and money thing in politicians. He had both and didn’t think about the people that he was supposed to represent. He can take that long walk off a short pier….

On topic

No. I concur with BK’s post including hypos…I’ve actually seen a couple of those happen scenarios.

Remember the movie Soulfood, and how Bird’s ex treated Bird’s husband in the job thing.

By Chink

September 4, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Morning All

Dan

Say what you want but being a freak doesn’t mean to have the willingness to be have a train ran on you….

There is something wrong with that picture …no matter if you think its normal its not ..that girl needs help…. by playing your part you have just become part of the problem.

Because I bet we talking about kids “teenagers” cause I doubt you can get a grown adult to fall for a train theory…unless she getting paid for it.

Unbelievable to think that sort of behavior is ok!

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

Leggs Well I guess most guys walking around are scum by your book… LoL

And the girls… well there are a few types of trains: there is the drunken half passed out chick who gets down with a dude in a house full of dudes and after guy #1 leaves the room guy #2 enters.. and so on… she may on ocassion think that all the dudes were the same guy if she is drunk/high enough.

THen there is the freak who gets down with one dude, and asks for more.. if dude is done for the moment she will ask for his friends on the other room to come finish her off…

Then there is the chick who for whatever reason will do anything you ask her to do, so once guy #1 finishes he tells her to go do his friends and she does so.

Then there is the chick who might not be drunk or high but is just a freak and if its a room full of guys with nothing better to do she just goes to work.

Oh and lets not forget the chicks who have always secretly had a fantasy of being with multiple dudes at once,

And these are only the scenarios that don’t involve financial transactions… LoL

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

ummmm dan, you just got hit in both! you ok?

By ATL Guy

September 4, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

This Detroit Mayor is extremely stupid. I mean why jeapordize your career and everything you worked for!? He should have learned from Bill Clinton a thing or two about lying under oath. If clinton came forward straight away, he could have put it to rest. Also, Bill Campbell lying under oath as well and got nailed.

These people think they are above the system. I can’t understand how people can be stupid…

By jazzyone

September 4, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

Dan not being a tripe w******* or permiscuous (sp?) does not equate to saint hood, Its called values and being raised in a way that deters that type of behavior. Selecting someone and learning thaey may not be the one for you is not a regret for me it was and is a learning experience and a part of growth. Not w*******-ish-tripe t**-ish shyt.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

@Foots

I’ve never placed value judgements on anyones sexual decision, except when they decide to take that choice from someone else.

Must have me confused with someone else.

By Chink

September 4, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Leggs

Uh I have equated trains with rape ..because there is no way that sort of behavior is wanted as a “child”.

Don’t mistake consent with intimidation…

I am so against this stuff it hurts my heart …I know what its like to have no voice while I am being abused…

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

I’ve had this happen too and it is totally disgusting! One guy tried it twice with me, even after I cussed him out AND told my friend.

Kimmie you know what’s sadder is when you are leaving a gf home and your walking out of the garage and the guy rolls up and say sumthin ‘jacked up’ and here you’re thinking what made him think it is okay to approach and say such? A compliment is okay when said appropriatly and while ALL are in company. But if you rolling shiesty and fowl..imma call out your MESS!! never lost a friend over the foolishness.

Atl Lady gurl, my uncles friends have said how “nice” of a lady i’ve become, more inappropriate that just “good gurl”. Then when my uncle come around i’ll say: Booker T what you said ‘bout 3 minutes ago? yea, cause my uncle with they selves can bring alot of expression to a sentence by the time they finish cussin him out. When i was a teenager my aunt dated this guy after her divorce for years, i’ll never forget how he was so nice to us 3 amigos (me and my 2 cuzs that grew up like sisters) we are 1-2yrs apart in age. As teenagers we would babysit the lil cousins…when we would sit for this one paticular aunt, her bf was always extremely nice to us. After having just so happen convo…we found out our aunt’s bf was trying to hit on all of us. The oldest cuz, when she turned 17 he bought her alclhol (Wine Coolers and Boones Farm) for her, she had a sneaky party at their house. To make a long story short, he was a pervert and wanted to see t** from my cuz. Luckily i was here in Atl. and only visited them over summer breaks. I told them he made a pass twice. I told them once i told him a few words he go it right. the older cuz actually was about to fight him during one of the remarks he made.

For what he did to us and some other mess he did to our aunt. My uncles ended up beating him in the long run. i’ll never forget that fight

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

Chink Not true my friend I have beet witness to grown women (over the age of 25) having trains run on them without the use of money or drugs…Some women don’t even become freaks until they hit 30… LOL

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

Oh wow…so they finally jailed the mayor of Detroit…and he resigned…another one bites the dust…dayummm….I hope the nookie was good and such…since it was a very expensive piece and all…lol

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

poppa, from yesterday:

What is a man to do, if the woman has acted as if he is doing ok? Open up your mouf, and tell dude.

i believe i said that in my post to you.

she should step up today and say what needs to be said. don’t want her to wait until after the wedding to say what’s up.

as i was reading your comment last evening (catching up), i received an e-mail from J. I’ve missed you for a long time Angie. It seemed like you wanted to be distant from me. I had no choice but to comply.Kiss how weird is that that your reply to me goes with his e-mail. i went to him on many occasions and told him what I wanted and how i felt. and many times i would let him go so he may come back when he’s ready for a relationship. after all that back and forth, nothing. that’s why i stayed distant … no booty, no calls, no IM. i broke it off 100%. sometimes it’s hard for women to see that there is really nothing there even with all of the lovey dovey feelings movin’ thru the body. that’s why we wait. sharon 2 years, me 18 months, and there’s another blogger who’s been waiting for sometime too. it’s hard because men are the ones who say when we marry. so we wait.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

Poppa G

Do you know anything about Castle Domain Law in GA?? Someone I interact with on a website lives in Ambrose, GA and he is dealing with a situation where a man trepassed his property, the man was shot and the dude was arrested and charge with assault…but he mentioned something about the law and I did not know what it entailed…thanks.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

@Foots, Jazzy, and ARed

You all can think whatever you want, doesn’t bother me. Remember we are each adults living our own lives, some with experiences the others do not have.

By freak, I freaky. I’m not placing a moral value on anything anyone has done that is not my place to judge others.

But since today, you all want to say that anyone that doesn’t fit into your idea of sexual intimacy is somehow wrong. You go ahead and feel that way.

Live your lives ladies in the manner(s) you see fit, I wish that you are each as happy and santified in your decisions as you seem to be.

But for me, I have never taken anything that wasn’t offered, and I am comfortable with my decisions in life.

There is only One that can judge me…and it nobody on this board…

By big O

September 4, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Ex’s of friends are off limits for long-term dating that is..I mean I think its fair game to have sex with someone’s ex, especially if the chemistry was always there to begin with.

I would not flaunt my friend’s ex in her face and then expect her to be all cool with it. I have had sex with my friend’s ex and she knew about it, in fact, she endorsed it. She is one of those one-in-a-million type of friends. Nothing aint’ coming between us (pun intended). She’s been my girl since 3rd grade. Ain’t no dyck, old or new gonna put an end to that.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Funny…when I read BK’s post I thought about that scene from Soul Food also…cause it gets like that…and remember the scene in another flick when the sister told another chick that every time you kiss that man it’s my poonie you tasting…uh-huh…something to think about…one thing to not know the previous engagements, it’s another to be face to face with them.

By mytwocents

September 4, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Don’t think I’ve ever heard of the same circle seduction when it wasn’t an unfortunate & misguided attempt for a woman to ‘show him’, incite jealousy or bring to his senses. Always unsuccesful in achieving any of those goals. Me-I believe in six degrees of separation so let’s keep it as close to the sixth as possible.

Since I miss the word skeezer… What kind of accommplishment is it to get a skeez to open up shop for you when she’s open to doing business w/ everyone else? Cuz when you know she ain’t discriminating bout her clientele that speaks volumes bout you too.

Cemeeli, Convicted VOYEUR They had to beat uhh beat traffic some kinda way. And be careful who you ask explanations from… You’ll end up w/ a live demo!

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

imissu getting incar service NOW!!”

well … what ya gurl say?..Chantell said it meant somebody getting or giving some oral.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

@Angie

I got hit in what, and by whom?

I know better than to studin some “holier than everybody” people.

It’s whatever to me.

@Chink

No, mean NO. Always has.

So when the woman says “more” or “come here, Dan”. She’s given consent in my opinion.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

you all want to say that anyone that doesn’t fit into your idea of sexual intimacy is somehow wrong. You go ahead and feel that way.

Dan, I absolutely DON’T feel that way. How is me saying “hey, I don’t have any guys I regret sexing” imposing MY views on anyone else?

It’s only when you fixed YOUR keyboard to say that “sainthood” nonsense is where I compare you to being a “wh0re” in return? You dished it, now you can’t take it? You wanna talk about judging, look in the mirror and miss me with the “saint” talk. Loser.

Do what makes you happy. If running trains and bringing out the “freak” in the ladies does it for you, enjoy! Especially since I don’t ever have to have sex with you. Guess my weeding out process works as intended.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

not being a tripe wh)re or permiscuous (sp?) does not equate to saint hood, Its called values and being raised in a way that deters that type of behavior. Selecting someone and learning thaey may not be the one for you is not a regret for me it was and is a learning experience and a part of growth

And by the way, A-freakin-men, to this jazzyone.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

September 4, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

First of all..I don’t do sloppy seconds…why would I want to kiss or do a man that my frend has done? EWWWWW! It would be like doing her! No thanks! I have no desire to know what freaky things she did! How men have no problem going where his friend has been is beyond me!

Second, if a friend dated my ex…then she was and never will be a friend to me! She is cut from life! That is a deserate move. I know there is a lack of men…but is it worth destroying a real friendship over? My motto…bros over h0es! Menaing my true friends over a dude any day! Men come and go but real friends are until the grave.

Sasha the older couple you speak of have a different way of thinking. Back in the day during the war, buddies that were serving sometimes mad a pack with each other that if one of them did not make it home and the other was single that he is to marry the widow and take care of her. Plus at 80…trying toget to know someone new is more energy that they may have. And they only have a few more years of life anyway..why spend it alone. You’re old…I’m old…let’s see who dies first!

By Foots

September 4, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

Dan Regarding your whole 11:27

WOW! You really took offense to people saying that trains were gross, huh? Quite a well thought out and detailed response that clearly shows how comfortable you are in your decisions.

Also, thanks for the permission to have my own opinion about sexual matters and how I choose to live my life. But still, lay off the judgement. I see you threw another sanctified comment in there (Was that what you meant? I think you left out the c if it was).

Cee Not Boones Farm!!!! Boy, did I used to keep a bottle of that in the refrigerator my last two years of college! LOL!!

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Ok, ok! Forget about wanting it. Poor choice of words. Yes, I was of the closed mind that “running a train” meant being raped. Thanks so very much for clearing those cobwebs from my brain EastPoint. WOW!

Chink, it hurts my heart as well. Sorry for you went through. It hurts that females actually disrespect themselves and ask for this type of behavior. This isn’t even low self-esteem. It cuts deeper than that!

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

ARed…so did the friend become an ex too…lol.

M’Karyl - She certainly did. Not only that, but the guy only wanted her for recreation. She got rode hard and put away wet and in addition took a career hit. She was dipping in her work circle.

Messy trollop! LOL

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

Angie

so we wait.

You don’t have to wait. You move on to get what you want even if it means that you get it from someone else.

I’m not saying that it is easy, but many things life that are worth having aren’t easy to come by.

Life is too short to waste it waiting on somebody else.

Sharon has lost 2 year of her life that she will never get back waiting on dude to comply with request that even she isn’t reinforcing. She can’t control other people, but she should have control over her actions.

Time is the only thing in life that we cannot replenish. Tummy tucks, lift and such just hides things, but it doesn’t give you more time.

You can lose money and then earn more. Once time is gone, it is gone. Since none of us know our “check out” time, we need to make most of the time that we have. Life is meant for living.

I tried that in and out stuff once with an old flame (a long time ago). She blocked my number on the phone and my e-mail address. There was no doubting where she stood. She said what she meant, and meant what she said. I learnt a lesson from that one.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

@ARed

I refer to you as a saint, you call me a wh0re.

Maybe considering that I’ve had sex with more than 5 people…guess I am

@Foots

Really, you hitting my spelling way to obfuscate the point….deflection as a tactic…I love it

By Foots

September 4, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Dan I know better than to studin some “holier than everybody” people.

The judgements just keep coming from you. LOL!! And it’s funny how you never included Blue in your sainthood diatribe. Wasn’t it him who first gave the indication that he wasn’t the type of dude to run a train because he didn’t like w******* or like looking at other man’s privates, thereby implying that there was a type who did?? He doesn’t agree with them either. So why didn’t that make him a saint?

It’s whatever to me.

Yeah, hence your 11:27.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Dan Really, you hitting my spelling way to obfuscate the point….deflection as a tactic…I love it

Actually, I wasn’t. I wanted to make sure I understood what you meant. You so senstive. So you did mean to judge me as sanctified??

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

I refer to you as a saint, you call me a wh0re

Actually Dan, reading is fundamental! YOU refered to me as a saint and I ASKED if you were a wh0re in comparison then. See the difference? Since it seems to be a slow day for you today. Probably not.

I can make my argument without judgement. Did you? Who brought up the “sainthood” in the first place? (you). Who refuted it? (me).

Step away from the keyboard until you are ready to read and COMPREHEND today. Thanks.

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

OK, OK let’s take rape, past abuse, and teenagers out of the equation. If a grown woman wants to get her freak on with more than 2 guys in one night why must she have low self esteem, no morals, etc, etc. Can’t folks just be freaks no more? What about swingers or people who participate in orgies? I mean you don’t know who participates in these activities I gurantee that some of the people we love and respect personally or on TV or in Govt. participate in such activities. Why do go to the extreme of calling folks all sorts of names if they have a more colorful sexual history that we do? its just sex people.

There are more important character attributes that people have which might in fact affect you. For example this is why Bush in in office now cause he campaigned on an anti gay marriage position.. how on earth was that the most important issue in America back in 2004?

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

@ARed

I refer to you as a saint, you call me a wh0re.

Maybe considering that I’ve had sex with more than 5 people…guess I am

@Foots

Really, you hitting my spelling way to obfuscate the point….deflection as a tactic…I love it

By Chanel

September 4, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

I think this applies to a lot of people who get into shatty relationships cause they are thirsty/pressed for a man or a woman.

By mytwocents

September 4, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

Having known the women I know, it’s sad that bringing their dude’s antics to their attention has a 50/50 chance of backfiring, so in the couple of times a comment was a bit much, I just addressed it directly & limited contact.

Atl Lady Yeah, fam is real Squeeze 1st, ask questions last types so if a situation surpasses my realm of calm & reasoning, sorry for you…

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Mkaryl

Castle Doctrine…really revolves around self-defense in one’s own property.

“Self defense” being the most important part of it. You just mentioned a trespassing. Trespassing is a non-violence crime. Once you start talking about assault, battery, etc, then violence may be appropriate.

The main question will be revolve around who was the initial aggressor.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Quite a well thought out and detailed response that clearly shows how comfortable you are in your decisions.

The judgements just keep coming from you. LOL!!

Foot - Great points. Well stated and I agree.

Hypocricy abound today. smh

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

@ARed Can we say Classified Skank*…what is the saying about not crapping where you eat, so to speak…I have always preferred to keep my personal activities out of the work place…period…especially if it is, to quote Right Rev. James Brown…”can we just hit it and quit”…lol…ppl, like her, get a dose of self in their Karma cereal…and still be stupid enough to fill up another bowl and then finish the box…lol

By Dan

September 4, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

@Foots

Considering that you judge everyone’s sexual life experiences that differ from your own as somehow less than. Then yeah, you’re extremely judgemental and sanctimonious.

You don’t see that?

Wow? Tells me a little more about you…

By jazzyone

September 4, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

Dan not judging you just speaking from the voice of a woman who yes Im a freak with my man, not anyone elses or all of ATL, dayum right. But im not loose a sleazy or tripe.

Since we were speaking of w******* and skeezah’s (yes the meories of that term) i wanted to stand up and raise my hand and speak from the non skeezah’ pleaser section thats all. Do you i don’t hate on your techniques with the chicks, your observations of trains or anything like that do you..just responding to your post becasue this is a BLOG.

AMRED we are <> I2I

By Foots

September 4, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

E. Pernt In the same vein, why do people go to the extreme of calling folks all sorts of heavenly names if they have a less colorful sexual history than they do?

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Poppa G

Thanks…I know that this is the defense he is using…but he did not make it clear whether or not he had been threatened by the man who trepassed his property…thanks, that helps me to better understand how it works…so if he was the agressor then he may well not have a case…got it.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

@ARed

I’m sorry, but when the topic turns to sex and you post I do kinda gloss over yours….

I mean really, how many ways can you say “not me”?

Why should I read them?

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Foots Don’t try to bring me into this.. LoL We all know that in our society anybody who does anything different sexually than we are accustomed to are labeled as something “negative” until we try it and see how great it is.. then its ok… but you just can’t tell nobody about that, it was just that one time in Jamaica… LoL

By Foots

September 4, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Dan You don’t know ish about me, so don’t claim that you do. You got all sensitive early this morning cause Blue pulled your card. When some stated their opinion, as is their right to do so, you started throwing out judgements of your own right and left to the women, while saying that you’d never do such a thing. Stating for the record, I could care less what you think of me. Your desire to explain yourself and your behaviors in your 11:27 shows that you feel the exact opposite way about us.

And with that, I’m done.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Why should I read them?

Dan - You shouldn’t, then! Hooray! Is that all it takes?

But then PLEASE don’t fix your keyboard to type a RESPONSE to me if you haven’t read the post! Just say, I’m ignorant and I want to demonstrate just how silly I can look to the entire blog and call it a day! Please save your sanctified judgements, hypocritical assesments and erroneous conclusions for posts you actually READ then!

I guess common sense ain’t so common. LOL

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

If you take those factors away then yes, a woman can get her freak on anyway she deems fit. What bothered me is: never mind. I’m done w/commenting on “trains.”

By Chink

September 4, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

East

I am dropping it after this..but on the outside looking in this could very well be addictive behavior (if we are talking about grown adults) alot of people go seek help for these very issues.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

E. Pernt Don’t try to bring me into this.. LoL

You brought yourself into it!! Don’t blame me! LOL!!

You’re right. There are plenty of people that believe that “missionary style” or monogamy is insanely boring and they wouldn’t even be bothered to slow down if that was all that’s offered to them. They are free to have their opinion too. Goes both ways like that.

Big Poppa Great post to Angie. That’s one for the wall.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

@Foots

Blue ain’t pulled nothing…nada. He was raised in a different environment than I, so to him I guess the TT is “gross”. Cool.

But really? You don’t ish about me… Who’s salty now..I know that I don’t know anything about you and likewise you don’t know me. But hasn’t that point been made ad naseum?..

That said, I’m stating my opinion on the slant and tenor of most of your posts, and while that’s how they read to me, again I don’t know you so why even respond? Just say that’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it.

Here, I’ll show you how…

@ARed

Ignorant? Moi?

I raise my points to share my life’s perspective concerning different topics. When they apply I post, when they don’t, I’m usually silent.

Again, like Foots, I don’t know you as a person, these are my opinions concerning your posts…that’s all.

Take ‘em or not, I don’t really care..

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

That is understandable, but if we are talking about adults again its our choice to decide that our actions/ addictions need to be treated. And again there are some people who just like that lifestyle. Unless you get to really know a person you will never know if they are just a freak or if they have under lying issues that need to be treated. But everyone who is into freaky stuff was not mistreated, abused, or otherwise harmed. Basically all that was said to say that we should not rush to label and or judge folks if we don’t know the whole story (which we often never will).

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

Dan - Gosh, you really are slow today. Now you’ve forgotten what ignorance means? I’ll get a few community service points today and help you out.

ignorance: displaying lack of education or knowledge.

When attempted to respond to a post you haven’t read, you are ignorant on the subject matter. Common sense would dictate that you’d read the post and then respond, therefore not being ignorant on the posted subject, but I guess that be too much like right.

In addition, if you ever fix your keyboard to state something that every woman does, like you know every woman (and you don’t) that’s also ignorance. Next time you speak on something every woman does, don’t. Stick to the women you know cuz clearly you only deal with certain types with low standards.

So keep doing ignorant thinks and yes, you could be ignorant.

Capiche?

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

Dan - Gosh, you really are slow today. Now you’ve forgotten what ignorance means? I’ll get a few community service points today and help you out.

ignorance: displaying lack of education or knowledge.

When attempted to respond to a post you haven’t read, you are ignorant on the subject matter. Common sense would dictate that you’d read the post and then respond, therefore not being ignorant on the posted subject, but I guess that be too much like right.

In addition, if you ever fix your keyboard to state something that every woman does, like you know every woman (and you don’t) that’s also ignorance. Next time you speak on something every woman does, don’t. Stick to the women you know cuz clearly you only deal with certain types with low standards.

So keep doing ignorant things and yes, you could be ignorant.

Capiche?

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Dan …Whether you know him or not.

That’s exactly what I said with the caveat being that I don’t want to know him.

As far as the TT, I was never the in the room with any other cat, and was never the last cat in the door neither. But you know, we all grew up differently.

I’m an ace on the mound Joe, which means that I start and pitch a complete game… or I don’t play. I ain’t neva comin’ in to relieve no other dude. And you’re right about that growing up thing, diff’rent time, diff’rent place, and diff’rent people.

Foots And it’s funny how you never included Blue in your sainthood diatribe.

That’s ‘cause Blue for (1) aint’ no saint and (2) ain’t said jack about Dan-0’s personal exploits. I just commented on me and what I do/don’t do.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

@EPO

Yeah, we didn’t know that the “‘hoods rat” had problems at home including all manner of abuse. When it started coming out, yeah, you felt bad for her.

And while, later in life, you start hearing the stories and seeing the signs you leave the issue alone and try and get the person to get help.

But like you said that’s stuff you don’t know until you talk to the person. Which, if I recall correctly, is part of growing up.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

@BK

See what I be talking about…

You do you, I do me. That’s how adults can disagree and still get along without resorting to childish insults.

@ARed

Whatever..internet tough girl!

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

I ain’t said jack about Dan-0’s personal exploits. I just commented on me and what I do/don’t do.

That’s funny BK, cuz that’s exactly what I did today shrugs

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

Whatever..internet tough girl!

Translation: Game, set, match to AmazonRed.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Blue I ain’t said jack about Dan-0’s personal exploits.

I just commented on me and what I do/don’t do.

Shoot, I just said what I thought and asked him a question about his personal exploits, the same question he asked you matter of fact. shrugging also

By Dan

September 4, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

@ARed

Translation: I bored and tired of talking about it, but you take your victories in life.

You may need them more than I.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Amazon In addition, if you ever fix your keyboard to state something that every woman does, like you know every woman (and you don’t)

And quit acting like we’re in some math class. Just because Dan/Me/Other Dudes don’t explicitly omit you from set doesn’t mean that you’re included in the set. That’s being petty and suspect.

Otherwise, whatever the comment, if it didn’t pertain to you, wouldn’t/shouldn’t affect you; move along. YOLL, meaning dayum near every one of yoll females on here, always want to jump off the cliff with that BS right there.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

Continued: And yeah Jamoca, that means you too! …wheneva you get your late self in here.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

@BK (regarding the 12:44)

Ain’t it funny that the favorite phrase is “a hit dog will holla”?

But hey, I’m the hypocrite

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

Dan - The reality is that you were wrong and you know you were wrong. Remember, all I said was “I never have” that had nothing to do with YOU or anything that you do.

If your so tired of talking about it, you’ll take your lumps like a man, and not respond.

BK, if any man of you fix your keyboard to say EVERY woman does anything, ANY woman who doesn’t has the right to respond. If you can’t deal with that simple rule, keep your assessments to my gender to the females that you deal with.

It’s petty and suspect to say EVERY woman and then say it doesn’t apply to you. That doesn’t even make sense dude! Are you for real with that argument? LOL.

By East Point's Own

September 4, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

Dan Yeah that’s why I had to exclude teenagers, teens do dumb stuff because they saw it on tv or they don’t understand the effects of their actions, but as an adult we are responsible for everything we do all the time. If you need help as an adult its up to you to get it… Now I am not stone cold, if I see that somebody should seek help I will suggest it or maybe eve try to work with them to get it but if a guy just met you and you are down for whatever type of freaky isht that in in style at the moment most of us don’t ask too many questions.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

be careful who you ask explanations from… You’ll end up w/ a live demo!

mytwo…ah, whas dat ma? Gonna get me in trouble….sigh…

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

@BK (regarding the 12:44)

Ain’t it funny that the favorite phrase is “a hit dog will holla”?

But hey, I’m the hypocrite

Well, Dan, the proof is in the pudding.

If somoene got on here and said every man has a 2-inch johnson, we would hear your diatribe about you and the penis that you’ve gone as far to name.

But yeah, I guess “every” man wouldn’t apply to you if maybe you’re not really a man or something.

Sorry, I’m still a little fuzzy on the logic that “every” something is exclusionary. LOL!!!

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

So glad you said “dayum near”!

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

Ared It’s petty and suspect to say EVERY woman and then say it doesn’t apply to you. That doesn’t even make sense dude! Are you for real with that argument? LOL.

Yeah I’m for real. This is general conversation with specifics thrown in from time to time. Now are you always so exacting in your speech? I didn’t realize that we had to be so formal.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

Dudes don’t explicitly omit you from set doesn’t mean that you’re included in the set.

@ Blue - WTH???…now you know, well i know….Nevermind darnit, jus do me a favor?

Deplane!

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

Where are the lurkers with the funny questions?

someonoe had me cracking up yesturday….oh, Raqi where are you?

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

Dan,Ared,Foots I need for ya’ll to slow ya roll. Peace, love, and hair grease on this blog. We’ve been fighting too much lately. (Atl Lady now waving a white flag and giving out church hugs and glasses of Hennessy) :-)

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

Dan Don’t sweat it dude. Take a lunch and when you come back in, address the women as Tender Foot, Amazon Red Rose, Silky Slim, and One JazzyOne and they’ll forget all about how they were trying to rip ya nutz out. Hayo, they might even try to feed you cyber-grapes. LOL

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

2CPTG ah, Holiday is over sweetie!

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Awright now…in the right corner we have Dan and Blue Kolla…and in the left we have ARed and Foots…like the Killa in Manilla…this a the Flog on the Blog…lol…male testy vs. female esty…and it is on like a chicken bone…DING!!!

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Atl Lady…i’m sorry ma…speak in the mic, sugah.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Well, BK, let me refresh your memory since I do actually READ posts I chose to respond to.

Dan said every woman on here and went so far as to italicize the word every. I’d say there aren’t that many women with that stament to begin with. I personally did not fit in his assesment, so I responded. I thought that was the purpose of the blog.

Had he not wanted responses, then maybe he shouldn’t have said it or maybe he should have made a more realistic statement. Either way, after I made my response which was all of a “I haven’t. Never have” he came back with the “childish insult” (making him a hypocrite)

But with the blinders on, I guess folks like you and Dan missed that.

So I’m here to clarify. :-)

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

@ATL Lady

LMAO…Peace, love and hair grease…aw shyte…not the hair grease…it might make my hair stick…lol

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

“2CPTG ah, Holiday is over sweetie!”

ummmm, I’m “workin”……just ain’t got nuttin to say; some things just go without saying…

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

lol..m’karyl is it homegrown that’s in the cup? You’ve got me over here laughing.

By mytwocents

September 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

Lawd, is this let’s be contrary day?

Cee How you gon turn a caution on future actions into propelling you into danger zone. Coulda sworn I was tryna keep you out! Gonna reserve my right to remain silent & maybe a crazy azz question from the lounge will come thru & diffuse…

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

poppa thanks! it seems like he hasn’t moved on. i’m way in CA. i can’t do anything for him now. the only thing i know is he may be regretting not giving us a chance … a see how it goes. i’m curious myself. he had the whole package too. dang!

what is a lady to do? lol.

hey qc! i c u.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

“maybe a crazy azz question from the lounge will come thru & diffuse…”

you mean some’n like this: What if you aren’t from Atlanta (like most of y’all aren’t), but rather a small country town….where the pickings are slim, you cain’t tell me the probability of you and ya girls, or dudes, having shared some kitty, or, dykky ain’t high as hell…..shiiid, I’m willing to bet somma y’all moved away, simply for reasons like that….

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

just ain’t got nuttin to say; some things just go without saying…

2C i know…right. Just thought some folks could bring their thoughts to the “table”.

…playing ‘Spades’ is hard for us that don’t know how to, at all!

How you gon turn a caution on future actions into propelling you into danger zone.

mytwo are you telling me what my aunt says? “Throw caution to the wind”.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

@ARed-Rose

When the ladies make generalizations my aim is to, as a man, try to acknowledge that there are only a fraction of guys that “do this or that”.

What I don’t do, is shoot insults at people the disagree with me. I try and have reasoned conversations with adults. Even my “deese” comments are done in jest.

But you start throwing around personal attacks and snarky remarks when your opinion (based on your own admitted lack of experience)is challenged.

But it’s all good. We okay.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

matta fact, here’s how you spot ‘em…..

a chic with 3 or 4 kids in tow, first place they go when moving to the city - the section 8 office.

you in line at the grocery store, behind the same chic, and she asks the clerk, “y’all take outta state EBT cards”/

You meet a chic out somewhere, ask her how many kids she has, and she says 3; ask her what part of town she lives in, and she says, “right now I’m stayin’ wit my cousin in Decatur, but I’m bout to get own place soon”

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this

What I don’t do, is shoot insults at people the disagree with me

But you start throwing around personal attacks and snarky remarks when your opinion (based on your own admitted lack of experience)is challenged.

Dan, please admit that you are delusional and call it a day. Because your 11:01 this morning falls into one of the two camps I’ve just highlighted above.

I didn’t attack you, I didn’t judge you until you fixed your keyboard to me at 11:01 am. Yes, you started it.

So which is it, because the delusional view you have of yourself is becoming an increasing problem on here. You never insult, you never judge and you never make snarky comments? Then you are a liar.

So if your “deese” and other “snarky” and “insulting” comments are all in jest, then apply the same rationale to anything you deem the same from me.

Be a man and admit your mistakes. Seriously.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

@ARed- Rose

You’re right, I made a mistake as an apology I offer:

Deese

should have done that hours ago…sorry everybody…

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Leggs So glad you said “dayum near”!

Me too. Daggg… Forgetting a disclaimer around this camp is like running out the house and forgetting to lock the door.

Cee Deplane!

LOL You stupid. You know you be killin’ me sometime. hahahaha

Ared But with the blinders on, I guess folks like you and Dan missed that.

Pump ya brakes slick.

Mills Lane…? I mean Mkaryl What about the low-blow warning and having a nice clean fight? LOL

2 And on that country town thing, you are dead on. Got a gang of peeps from the country and me and another cousin from up top were jokin’ them talkin’ ‘bout how they were gonna have to start walking around with their pedigree in their pocket - so that they’d could compare with all prospects to make sure that they didn’t have the same family. LMAO

By The Real Lurker

September 4, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli

If I am mistakenly taken for a white women over da phone, is that a compliment?

Is it possible to be in love with more than one man?

Guys, which females on this blog are marriage material?

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

Dan - Guess you are unable. Pity. I’d like some cheese on my “deese” then. (Damn shame what they did to that dog, tho)

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

should have done that hours ago…sorry everybody… sorry, had to laugh.

Is it possible to be in love with more than one man? a big YES!

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

Blue_K I haven’t been in here since this morning…why my name get called with the DanTrainers vs FootAredSanctifiers?? I am silky slim tho….(now spraying activator on my CT bush)

By mytwocents

September 4, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this

2C Now that would make me question the merry mixers a lil less who don’t care if s/he was hittin their cuzzo off last month. Then again that’s sorta how it was goin to a small college… Way too much overlap, plus .02’s philosophy that boyfriends bring babies helped pass on those pickins.

Cee Reading Is Fundamental. But since ya wanna… Throw Caution To the Wind woulda been, “Girl I don’t think you can trust what (friend’s name) said. Double check w/ that dude you half crazy bout. If he says the same thing then tell him you cain’t understand the logistics & could he maybe show you? Since you feelin him anyway…

But because you be tryna act all cautious for caution’s sake, I said DON’T ask a cat like that if you have another question like that cuz he probably know you’d prefer a live demo but scared to ask. Tryna avoid accoubtability n such… Heavy Sigh Been told that chick don’t bother me! Back to my moments of silence.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

“Guys, which females on this blog are marriage material?”

in no particular order…..

Cee - that innocent schoolgirl thang she got going on just seems so enticing.

Raqi - I’on know, she just comes across as havin’ that fye!

Slim - In addition to havin’ a monster CT, she’d have you crackin up!

Foots - Already act wifely; with the constant debating, and the ability to pull up shyt from years past to make her point.

QC - some’n just tells me she can cook like ya gram’ma.

MK - she inhales; ‘nuff said.

Diva - smart, sexy, and gotta slick mouf!!!

Leggs - every man wants a woman who ages gracefully.

Angie - you can tell her anything, and she’ll believe it…perfect accomodations!

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

first place they go when moving to the city - the section 8 office.

2C this one I know about. I went down to the AHA office to find out if I qualify when I was stay-at-home mom. And was surprised when the caseworker sized me up to say b/c I was getting income from maternity leave pay with one child I did not qualify. Yep, I went back a second time showing her my lease, car note, insurance, a utility bill the chic was rude and nasty at one point I requested to see her supervisor. Then supervisor explained in more detail some things I needed had been getting TANF or EBT Stamps. Surely my lil maternity leave pay was not enough for me and lil man to make it…but we did, by grace and here we are still making it.

Sitting/waiting in the office i would look around and see folks get straight gangsta on caseworkers. The men too!

of course Tanica from ‘round the corner tol me how to hook it and get it anyway, but of course i’m like…girl naw, if i lie today imma have to keep lying. so i stayed broke.

Some folks need to take a visit to the Section 8 or DFACS office…oh yea, Social Security too.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

@BK

Low blow is fair…put your not cup on sugah…it is flying in here like weave in a cat fight…lol

By Jazzyone

September 4, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

Blue I wasn’t trying to rip his nuts out I could care less about them. I posted a comment from where I stand becasue thats what we are here for. SO stop it..Im not the one for the madness..it was a response…those ar lady lumps..not some frickin heated debate and we getting paid it ain’t that serious..specially not for me…Personally you all can be standing on your heads sucking dyk from the chadallier and I would care…I can only speak for me and Im not all ya…we all have a voice don’t try to squelch mine if it isn’t what you want to hear/read…

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

Yep, gotta have disclaimers! You know dang well we keep the shelves full of vaseline just waiting to pounce!!!!

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this

Dan You’re right, I made a mistake as an apology I offer:

Deese

ohhh sh!t! LMAO

Real Lurker If I am mistakenly taken for a white women over da phone, is that a compliment?

No, just that you sound as if you’ve been educated to some degree of success.

Is it possible to be in love with more than one man?

If you’re a man, no, you’re a f@g. If you’re a woman, no, you’re a hoh.

Guys, which females on this blog are marriage material?

Oooooh no ya don’t. Wait til we get home.

By Jamoca

September 4, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Say Blue ….really this ain’t the smutha phunuckin’ day, for that… fo’ real. SMDH

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

I can only speak for me and Im not all ya…we all have a voice don’t try to squelch mine if it isn’t what you want to hear/read…

Exactly. Great point, jazzyone

By Jazzyone

September 4, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

The Real Lurker…yeah now we talking bout some-in.

Yes it is possible to love more than one at a time.

I get mistaken for a white woman all the time, it doesn’t linger on my mind long. lets get to the point of my call and if it doesn’t impede that ..no problems..no sudden movements..ya know the rest…

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

The Real Lurker

If I am mistakenly taken for a white women over da phone, is that a compliment? If you talking to Caleb, then yes. If your speaking with Quinten, hayo no. Actually Quint gon’ tell you: Tamika, pls stop with that w/g shhh.

Is it possible to be in love with more than one man? from what I hear, yes – See missu. me personally, never have.

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 2:20 PM | Link to this

2c thanks … i guess. keep in mind that i know how to play the game too. wink.

bk it’s like loving two sons.

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

September 4, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

• you cain’t tell me the probability of you and ya girls, or dudes, having shared some kitty, or, dykky ain’t high as hell…..shiiid, I’m willing to bet somma y’all moved away, simply for reasons like that….* 2CPTG that’s when you start dating yo cousins. LOL

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

Very interesting perspectives you got going there. Had to laugh!

By Jazzyone

September 4, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

I wouldn’t say that if you love more than one man that you are a w******* sporty slut. Personally it takes more than just sex for me to fall in love with him, so for me W******* doesn’t even come in to play with such a serious matter of the heart. Not throwin love term or action around loosely to mayjah’.

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

flippin’ it

honey material: poppa, bigd, bk, truth and 2c w/o the thugism.

By Jazzyone

September 4, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

I also think that shay, tanika ‘nem don’t have a monoploy on the sterotypes…we can add..the Beckys of the world with a added take on Miss Perez and here sister Rosalinda, lets spread it around shall we??…LOL…

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

From what mytwo say i need to be learnt some logistics.…maybe not somuch marriage material until i get a few lessons.

…’til then i’m hanging w/ ChurchLady. :)

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Mkaryl …it is flying in here like weave in a cat fight…lol

She’eent bull-`S**-in. said like Richard Pryor.

Cee And was surprised when the caseworker sized me up to say b/c I was getting income from maternity leave pay with one child I did not qualify.

That’s the system. No help for the truly needy. They only help those with absolutely nothing or those willing to lie (which since they’ll eventually catch up to you anyway), so that they can keep you in that bear trap.

2 Foots - Already act wifely; with the constant debating, and the ability to pull up shyt from years past to make her point.

Yeah that was some funny shyt she pulled on yo azz the ova day. LMAO

Jazzy I posted a comment from where I stand becasue thats what we are here for. SO stop it.. blah blah

Now I know you ain’t trying to get salty off that joke comment. Come on now…

Jamoca ….really this ain’t the smutha phunuckin’ day, for that… fo’ real. SMDH

Now that’s the last minutha finuckin strinaw!!

Blog Females: Is this cycle week or what? Cuz yoll… some’a yoll are trippin’ for real.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

it’s like loving two sons.

missu STOP THAT!!! lol…youamess.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

@Lurker

To truly love someone you have to be willing you give a very special part of yourself to that person.

And, in that sense, you can’t share that with 2 people. So no, I don’t think you can be in love with 2 people at once.

You may want to consider examining your feelings for each of these men independently. One may the love, the other familiarity. Just my guess, tho.

By Jazzyone

September 4, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

IMUssu If you don’t know that that is such a small facet of 2CAN not even really his core being. Um…er…hate to tell you this no shade..but um..then he’s throwing you pebbles..you got along way to go baybeh’…sowy…

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

BlueK* Blog Females: Is this cycle week or what? Cuz yoll… some’a yoll are trippin’ for real Only rags I have are in my trunk that I used to clean my tires.

Slim now using Armour All wipes on the CT to add more wifey-material appeal

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

MK - she inhales; ‘nuff said.

Naw sugah…I imbibe in the fellowship of organic communion…lol

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Somewhat with today’s topic: A person I thought was a friend stopped speaking with me cuz I did a 3-way conf. call when her husband called me out of the blue and started hitting on me. Wanted her to hear this crap for herself. That was in ‘92. Haven’t heard from her since (damn shame). Some women just don’t want to know!

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

cee what? how hard is it to love two men at the same time? it’s very simple. keep in mind that there’s different types of love.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

Angie….thugism works wonders for pent up, backed up, stress…..may wanna try it sometime….you’ll be strollin’ in here tombout, “Mood - I got that “I got-some” glow, going on….”

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

Is this cycle week or what? Cuz yoll… some’a yoll are trippin’ for real.

So BK, what’s the excuse for the men that are trippin?

By Blanca

September 4, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

Leggs To you 2:40 post…what did your former friend say? She was OK with this? And had you told her about her husband’s shameful ways prior to getting them both on the phone? Do tell!

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

so that they can keep you in that bear trap.

If that aint what i told Tanica bout staying on the system. I said the same thing to her. she would do my hair and we’d talk at those times. She is one of those Fly Doing Hair at the Crib/ Kitchen Sink stylist. came through jus right when i was a stay at home

Jus thinkin’ that boy of mine been in a bubble all his life has not a clue what it is to really scuffle.

By IslandGirl

September 4, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

Slim

I had to come out of lurksville to say, you are a daym fool…lol…using Amour All wipes….now that is something the guys can relate too…don’t forget to spray some Brute or Old Spice on your under arms…lol

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

imbibe in the fellowship of organic communion

m’karyl and you looking at the screen as paisley colored too?

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

leggsDang!! Have you tried calling her??? Has she expressed to you that she wasn’t speaking to you ever again??? I would think that if you guys were really friends, one of ya’ll would make the first move. I have someone I associate with that I do that to a lot. We’ll stop talking for a few months then I’ll call her as if nothing ever happened.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

Ared So BK, what’s the excuse for the men that are trippin?

…

You here dem crickets?

By Jazzyone

September 4, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

* Fuh-Real* Hair flick..AR

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

Slim just a mess. I don’t think the Amour All’s are good for t.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

BK, nope don’t hear them. I understand you can’t go against the “brotherhood.” LMAO.

By MELO

September 4, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

Nope, ain’t neva been the kind of dude to be in on runnin’ no trains what that means BK??

what did uall talk about yesterday….? So Dan is saying he fluck dudes’ girlz and possibly ared and foots coz Atl aint that big and ared and foots are saying NO!, Dan is confused,is that the argument? **DAN,do u have a pic of the girlz u flucked in the A? Did u meet the girlz on metropolitan…?

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

melo - Don’t help! LOL.

And no, there is no “possibly” in your statement. Didn’t happen and don’t put that out there in the universe!

LOL @ metropolitan tho.

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Melo LOL I need for you to hush up!! lololol Let Dan tell it, he has a collage.

By justsayin

September 4, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Why is Jazzy always c** blocking for 2Can? I thought you had man? DAYNUM!!!

Betta yet, why he let her??

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

Melo So Dan is saying he fluck dudes’ girlz and possibly ared and foots coz Atl aint that big…

Leave it to melo to come in throwing sticks at the hornets nest. LMAO

train - sexual escapades involving two or more males and one female

By Dan

September 4, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

Okay so I’m bored enough to respond to Melo of all people..,

I have been the strip club right off metropolitan and the after hours spot too.

Kinda fun actually, though it was sad leaving the club passing people on their way to church, though.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

@Cemeeli

Come to the park and play with us, there aren’t any rules in Paisley Park…lol

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

justsaying - 2Can did diss Angie tho. It was nice to see someone stick up for the girl. A good clap back was in order. Didn’t get one tho. LOL

By Dan

September 4, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

@ATL Lady

Yes, my sexual background is diverse as are my friendships in life.

The differences in all the world (and the people in it) are to be celebrated, I believe.

By Foots

September 4, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Yeah, melo, PLEASE don’t help! LOL!!

2C You funny, AND you right. Next time your cell phone bill look jacked up or the mortgage company don’t pay your taxes out of escrow on time, let me call em.

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

We came to ATL together after graduating from LaGuardia back home. We even became roommates our first 6 mos in the ATL. It was her that got us evicted from The Howell House for stealing furniture for a loud houseparty we were giving. Anyway, yes, we were good friends. Yes, I had informed her that he had hit on me before. She didn’t believe me saying that he’s always playing around. Now, she knows me well, and she knows I shoot straight from the hip. I don’t lie about these things. The first time was when he came over to help hook up my VCR. She came w/him and tried to sneak a kiss while she was using the facilities. I immediately told her and they immediately left. Hooked the thing up my damn self. So, when the fool calls months down the road I ask him to hang on and I patch her in. I tell her what’s going on but for her to remain silent (don’t care if you deem this entrapment). Anyway, he goes on and on about how he would like to take me out sometime as friends. Told him I was friends w/his wife not him. He said “he just couldn’t let sleeping dogs stay sleeping he was interested in me.” Never, ever will I forget that because that’s when she pounced on the both of us. She called me all types of biatches, a slut, and in no unspoken terms said she never wanted to speak to me again. B4 letting her off the phone I asked if she was serious. Asked did you hear what I just heard? Told her I never came on to her foul mouth smelling husband. Her feelings were so hurt that I guess she couldn’t see straight. Hell no, I haven’t contacted her. You just have to tell me once you never want to speak to me again. Figured if you changed your mind you would contact me. Losing this person as a friend wasn’t a big loss to me. She had a very, very serious problem w/lying and shoplifting. I really didn’t mind letting her go. As they say people are in your life for a reason or for a season…

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

justsayin Why is Jazzy always c* blocking for 2Can? I thought you had man? DAYNUM!!!*

I don’t think it’s CB’in’, but I was gon’ ask if she was his sister. LMAO

…now checkin’ my calendar. I could’a swore it was Thursday; mofo’s in hear clownin’ and it ain’t even Friday yet. Good lawd…

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Just Sayin’, I’ll answer that….cause I know her in real life; and as she said, I’m really not a thug, but I have thug tendencies; and she can also attest that my words, and actions, do indeed align with each other…..

And how do you consider that kock blocking? what, you wanna holla, lil mama? Post under your usual moniker, and say so!

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

Yikes…sorry for the long post!

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

Leggs That’s what I call a God like intervention. She was foul anyway, but you were trying to hang onto the friendship HE showed you why you had to let ole gurl go. She was a season.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

@BK

now checkin’ my calendar. I could’a swore it was Thursday; mofo’s in hear clownin’ and it ain’t even Friday yet. Good lawd…

See what happen when you give bbq eating mofo’s aday off during the week and such…gets all off clock and thangs…lol

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Come to the park and play with us, there aren’t any rules in Paisley Park…

Now m’karyl sugah, if i get anymore past my natural lift visiting you at Paisley some would prolly call me more den a schoolgirl.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

A Red, I was being quite facetious! I know absolutely nothing about Angie, or any of you other ladies, for that matter; Angie is just funny as hell to me. You, yourself, have stated as much. I guess it’s my “rough around the edges” type posting, that don’t quite sit so well with somma y’all…..

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

Slim now parading around in suede hills and a purple cat suit singing, making eyes at Dan-trainrunner..

I knew a blogger named Danny. I guess you could say he was a sx fiend. I met him in blogsville lobby maskerbating in magazines. (insert lip lick here)

He said howd u like 2 waste some time, and I could not resist when I saw little danny grind.

(Insert high pitched scream here….skerrttttt)

He took me 2 his castle, And I just couldnt believe my eyes. He had so many devices, Everything that money could buy….

He said sign your name on the dotted line.

The lights went out And danny started 2 grind!

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

Dan You know I was just kidding. Didn’t we have the church hug and Hennessy earlier? Want another glass?

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

“I was gon’ ask if she was his sister.”

well, my kids do call her Auntie.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Dag, eh tu Slim?

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

Had to laugh at “suede hills”. This Paisley Park has you seeing hills instead of putting on your heels. Whew!

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

I was being quite facetious!

2CPTG, I don’t doubt you were. But it was still a diss!!!

And maybe even a fair assessment if you go by what she’s posted on here previously.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

Whooo Leggs, those stems are a curse ain’t they? ;-)

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

Atl Lady, yes I too believed he intervened on that one. It was a long season, high school and first 2 years of college. The other 2 friends (it was 4 of us that hit the ATL HARD) would give me the heads up whenever they threw a party and invited her. I told them I was fine cuz I did nothing wrong. She never showed up and we gave lots of house parties in the 80’s late 90’s. What’s more amazing to me is that she’s still here in the ATL and I haven’t run into her not one time.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli

Aw now sug…we be qute discreet and such in the Park…but if it make you feel better…come on down after dark…eh, eh, eh…when nothing but our teeth shine…lol

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

Dan I could not resist…LMAO! Ya’ll shole do need to lighten up.

Lugg’s My bad, I’m starting to see spaceships on Bankhead so my vowel placement is a lil off.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

And maybe even a fair assessment if you go by what she’s posted on here previously.

Stop pickin’ on that chick Red, dayum.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

ok; Angie, if you feel that I was dissing you, I sincerely apologize…..

Geesh!……MK, you got some good left over from the weekend? Cause I’mma need some here in a few…..and is it just me, but have you noticed, the sacks gettin’ real skimpy lately; I’m tombout gas affectin’ damn near everythang…you either pay more, or get less….I remember when you could smoke all week off a dub!

By justsayin

September 4, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

Oh I see….Inquiring minds wanted to know!!

By kimmie

September 4, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

Leggs - See, that’s what I was talking about right there! That’s the worst feeling in the world, and you were trying to be a straight-up friend to her. Yes, it was a blessing she’s out of your life - would have just TRIED to bring you down to the gutter along with her & her thug. In my situation, my friend was nice to me, but behind my back I found out she was ragging about me to a mutual friend - saying stuff like “I don’t know why Kimmie was so upset, he don’t want her! He’s just trying to make me jealous!” Little did she know, the mere thought of him made me want to vomit. By the way, this is the mother I told you about that brings the crazy dudes around her lovely 12-yr old!

M’karyl - it is flying in here like weave in a cat fight…lol I give you the award for funniest blog line of the day!LMAO!!!

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Dang girl…the “u” isn’t even next to the “e” on the keyboard. You’re on cloud nine for sure!

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

Awright blog I gots a question…really done already made up my mind…just thought I see what y’all got to say…lol…my FO (fomer other as opposed to SO)and I are still good friends…a few years ago we did some tasteful nudes of me…quite nice for an almost 45 y/o…anyway, I told him that I wanted these boots for my b-day in two weeks…cost a buck fifty…anyway, he said that he would buy me the boots if I updated his photo archives with some current front and back nudes…lol…and I said it was on like a chicken bone…ya’ know…these boots are made for walking…lol

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

Ok, I remember the mother and the 12-year old. Hope you’re still in contact with her. If not, call her up and say “hi” (the child that is).

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

@ 2CPTG

Up here in the VA it is a hit or miss pending on who…ya’ know…but I am a ’70s child…so I like to reminisce about the gold old…I good old days…lol…but at the moment my mothership connection is tight…can see the moon and the stars on a clear night…lol

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

Stop pickin’ on that chick Red, dayum.

BK Stop picking on me, dayum.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

come on down after dark…eh, eh, eh…when nothing but our teeth shine

m’karyl rotflol…chile, i hearing Rick James - Fire It Up play when you posted that.

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

It ain’t tricking as they always say on here…use what you got while you got it! Two consenting adults. Next!

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl As a shoe fanatic, I condone dang near anything for a good pair of shoes. However, I don’t know about this one. Does he have an SO in his life right now?? What does he plan on doing with these pics?

By LorDemi

September 4, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

Mayne, I am so hating on lil’Demi right now…The convo:

lil’Demi’s mom: It’s bath time, go on up stairs and get your sleeping clothes and meet me in the bathroom, so I can clean you up and put you to bed.

lil’Demi Naw BISH!!

SMACK!!!

Needless to say, lil’Demi was sent flying across the room

I was laughing my a$$ off…in my head

Those who have seen his pic, can imagine him saying some ish like that, LOL…

Good Day to All!!!

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

MK, I ain’t even mad at you!!! get them Boots, gal….

even if I don’t personally agree with something, I got mad respect for folks who are true to themselves.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

@Cemeeli

Uh-huh…the Right Deacon Rick James…dayuuummmit…lol

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Why can’t a brother go over to Boneheads and get a shrimp and fish softtaco without any drama unfolding.

PG referring to the police chase that ended at Atlantic Station today.

On top of that, I never got the softtacos.

So, I had to wait until after class to eat lunch, which meant that i ate lunch at 3:30 pm. I could have bitten the azz out of Raggedy Ann & Andy!!

I haven’t read all of the posts that I missed.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

really done already made up my mind…just thought I see what y’all got to say.

kimmie ^^ now this is a chic that let if fly any way left or right off the keyboard.

lookit m’karyl sayin’ it dont EVEN matta, cause i’m down! 3:44 is that “come on outta here”…really.

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl, if you have to do something in exchange for those shoes than it’s a pretty rotten bday gift, isn’t it. LOL

If you weren’t already feeling like “hmm, I need to update my nude pics” then you didn’t really want to do it anyway. And especially don’t do it for some shoes you can afford.

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

You know chicks always trying to find ways to keep the man interested…everything from putting on his tool belt and steel toe boots and a hard hat…to throwing up a tent pole and trying to dance in the livin room w/o breaking your neck, to laying on the kitchen table nekked with only fried chicken wangs on your body…BUT WHAT DO THE FELLAS DO?

Dude: baby, I got a treat for you tonight.

Chick: For real boo. I’m so excited. I can’t wait, what is it?

Dude: You know how you said I should try to spice it up?

Chick: Uh-huh (nodding head yes in excitedment)

Dude: Well, you ready?

Chick: I’m Soooo ready baby!

Dude: look…

Chick: blank stare

Dude: What you think?

Chick: Um..baby, I don’t see nothing different.

Dude: Look closely babes. It took me a whole hard 60 seconds do this.

Chick: blank stare

Dude: babes! I washed my hands with soap today. Don’t they look so clean? I shole can’t wait to rub em all over your boooooddddy.

Chick takes dudes hand and makes him slap himself the f/k out

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

September 4, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Slim girl yos crazy!!! LOL

By kimmie

September 4, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Leggs - Yeah, I am still in contact for sure, we actually remained friends due to my Christian forgiveness!LOL She came to me after they broke up and was very remorseful. I talk to her about twice a week and her daughter is getting ready for her leadership conference in DC next month! In fact, I am on the lookout for a few professional-looking pieces for a very slim, tall 12-yr old!

Mom is trying her best not to show it but she’s really kinda jealous whenever I talk about my wonderful SO! I just hear the change in the tone of voice whenever I mention him, ya know?

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

@ATL Lady

It is all cool…he is a good egg…just likes to take pix and such…nothing vulgar or porno…good, adult pixs of the human body in its natural beauty…lol…he has the ones we did back in ‘05 and he just sent them to me…so there is no concern about what he will do…and he does not have a SO…just a few friends and such…he is just missing his Brown Sugar…lol.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Man I just saw a chick with some MAjor gappage; looked like somebody cut through her pelvis to her waist wit’ a chainsaw. Yuck

Slim If your CT is that wide, I hope you wear baggy pants.

Mkaryl For a buck fitty, go’ead on and get them boots knocked… I mean get them boots. LOL but chu know I’m gon’ talk about you.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

m’karyl i tell you what, you have some of the same qualities as my lil man’s paternal grandma. surprisingly she was a naturalist, vegiterian and homemade/grown femme too. The deck and all them wild @ flowers in her studio/apt. was her “sanctuary”…bless her heart.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

ARed

Not really, hey-alle that is more than I could get him to spend when we were hooked up..lol…and to be honest…if at this close to fifty he still finds my 38-28-38 an eyeful of pleasure…hey now…I liked the last ones we did very much…impressed me with myself…soft black and whites…I still think I am getting the better part of the deal…I get the boots…he gets a pix, not the coke…i.e the real thing…lol

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

Slim now see dude said i washed my hands boo. NAW!! rotflol

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

@BK

Shyte mayne…you gonna holla like mad at me anyhoo…I least I will have some arse kicking boots for a good stomp…lol

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

A Red……you funny too, you know that….

I woulda mentioned too as wifey material, but from your posts, yo shyt is boring as hell! seems like everything has to be “by the book.” Ain’t no room for deviance….have you ever just said fvck it, and had a good time?

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

which females on this blog are marriage material?

How am I supposed to make a determination based on a blog life?

For example, I would imagine that Staceye isn’t quite cutthroat (at least until you cross her) as she sounds on this blog. Which means she lets loose on this blog a little more than in reality. How can you make a determination based on a blog.

I will say though that Foots has the wifey routine down with that “bringin’ up ol’ stuff” technique that she uses.

But as a whole, it just isn’t plausible. Unless, you just want a random made up list of who is and who ain’t.

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

Dude: babes! I washed my hands with soap today. Don’t they look so clean? I shole can’t wait to rub em all over your boooooddddy.

Shuddup Slim LMAO

Ared If you weren’t already feeling like “hmm, I need to update my nude pics” then you didn’t really want to do it anyway. And especially don’t do it for some shoes you can afford.

Cee i tell you what, you have some of the same qualities as my lil man’s paternal grandma. surprisingly she was a naturalist, vegiterian and homemade/grown femme too.

I see you WLB members are pretty loyal, and tactful too.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

38-28-38????? at 44?

I saw some Jimmy Chews for a lot less, you wanna see what they look like?

By Foots

September 4, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

kimmie Mom is trying her best not to show it but she’s really kinda jealous whenever I talk about my wonderful SO!

Don’t talk about him too much to her. Ol’ girl sound kinda shady, talking bout you behind your back and stuff. Just give her the lite version… LOL!

Slim!! You been on point with the skits lately! LMAO!

ATL Lady What does he plan on doing with these pics?

I promised that I wouldn’t get too graphic the other day, but let’s just say that what he plans to do involves his dominant hand and some K-Y Silk. The one with the tingle to it. ;-)

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

I woulda mentioned too as wifey material

Uhh…2CPTG, am I supposed to care? I don’t care how my life comes across to you on the blog. And I certainly don’t care if you think I’m wifey material. Pligga neeze.

I have a good time every moment of my life tho. I go out, will be the only chick grooving on stage, crack one liners, dance on poles, I flirt with boys and make them do things! ;-)

You don’t have to be “bad” or break rules to have fun. Well, maybe you do.

I wanna know how you think you come across. Cuz I don’t ever recall you mentioning ANYTHING when I ask for a weekend roundup. I’d rather have fun live in real life, then to be the life of the party on a blog. LMAO!

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

BlueK If your CT is that wide, I hope you wear baggy pants

I actually cut the knee’s out of all my jeans. lol

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

@2C

Actually, this is my 48 coming up in two weeks…and yes…38-28-38…knocking on 50’s door…lol…Jimmy’s is cool, but not my step…now Carlos Santana…hey, somebody call Playboy…lol

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

@Cemeeli

Yeah, but I am really such a mixture of textures from 50’s beatnik, 60’s mod and 70’s flower power…lol…then throw in the other stuff…an poof…but I is a what you see is what you get kinda gal…lol.

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

I see you WLB members are pretty loyal, and tactful too.

Blue what chu tryna say?

PoppaG imma need for you to not be so serus. which females on this blog are marriage material? dang, jus answer it Sherlock…

How am I supposed to make a determination based on a blog life? …nevermind slick, your judgement is clouded with Boneheads extra spiced shrimp and fish softtaco.

coming in all late and misreprsenting…thought better of you.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

@Foots

Actually he is a photographer as a hobby…and he does nudes for others as well…he does not need to stimulate himself sexually…he has plenty of female companionship for that…he just does not have me anymore…he is still in GA…and I am in the VA.

By m'karyl

September 4, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

manana crew…for round two in the ring…tko and such..ciao

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

A Red, see look, I wasn’t even trynna dig at you, but I see that’s how you took it;

Niqqa Please, is that what you wanted to say……too funny! No ma’am, I don’t have to be “bad” to have a good time; shyt, what is “bad”? It’s relative, right? But I was making that commment based on your reply to MK, and her boot situation…and as far as being the life of the party on a blog…..ummmm, that’s where we agree, cause I could care less….shoot, I’ve been lurking and glancing all week, but only posted today….so, does that look like one who craves attention? I think not….

shoot, I got mad props for you too;

By Cemeeli

September 4, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

m’karyl will ya slow down long enough for Cee to catch up? guud gawd

:) Ya’ll be easy.

Duece.

By LorDemi

September 4, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

38-28-38

Sounds like some dangerous numbers

By SlimOne

September 4, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Slim now taking a bow in the middle of blogsville…but when she bends down, her fake CT falls out the knee hole of her jeans.

SHE’S A DAYUM IMPOSTER!!

I’m outta dis bish ya’ll be EZ!

By Foots

September 4, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

Big Poppa The blog has a long, archived memory. Plus, I have a full indexed and catalogued auditory memory bank on who said what (when and where), along with a nearly photographic memory, 20-15 vision, and a penchant for making a point. You’re right, I should have been a lawyer. Maybe in my fourth career. It’s just the Engineer/Finance Pro in me, can’t stand when somebody tries to tell me that 1+1=18.

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

Had to cover my mouth on his one —> I actually cut the knee’s out of all my jeans.

By mytwocents

September 4, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

I’m off timeout now. So the brawls are over and now y’all bartering services for goods? This GOT to be the most dysfunctional group…

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

m’karyl ^5! Keep it tight and keep it compact! Go claim them boots gal!

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

But I was making that commment based on your reply to MK, and her boot situation

So you made a judgement about my entire life because I wouldn’t pose nude for some boots?

That was dumb. LMAO!

By Foots

September 4, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

m’karyl he does not need to stimulate himself sexually…

Okay….. Unless he’s dead down there, naked pictures of a woman he used to be involved with should be stimulating. Even a gynecologist gets excited about looking at his own woman, even though he looks at strange itties and CTs all day.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

In a pitch perfect move

Barack Obama will be on Bill O’Rielly’s talk show tonite as John McCain is delivering his acceptance speech.

For those that care to know…

By Atl Lady

September 4, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

Dan Say it ain’t so!!! Barack on O’Reily???? WTF???

By LorDemi

September 4, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

he has the ones we did back in ‘05 and he just sent them to me

Maynnnnne, I use to wonder how all those pics of olda dimes ended up on the net…Now I know:

Gggggg I Jooooooe!!

By Dan

September 4, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

@MK

38-28-38 and 40ish

Looking to get married anytime soon?

Dan with the blog crush of the year…..

By Blue_Kolla

September 4, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

cEE Only that yoll go way easy on your own kind… females that is. ;)

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Nooooo, A Red,not at all…..but based on your posts…..you just seem very “defined,” if you wanna put it in terms….I even look a your posts when we get on “ghetto” topics; it’s like you have no inkling of the “other” side, and your view comes across like, if you haven’t lived it, it’s not “real.” And that’s not a dig on you, or at you…..Like I said, I respect everybody, cause everybody has there own story, so to speak…….

By kimmie

September 4, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Foots - Don’t talk about him too much to her. Ol’ girl sound kinda shady, talking bout you behind your back and stuff. Just give her the lite version… LOL! Girl, I’m way ahead of ya! But just mentioning something in passing I get the jealous umph response. You are so right!

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

By the way M’Karyl, I’ve gots to give your props too on them measurements, Miss Coke Bottle.

I hope I can keep mine up. I gotta get me a rack first! LOL

By Dan

September 4, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

@ATL Lady

Yeah, he’ll be on there (and Fox will have a ratings bonaza), but you know he pulled a gang of concessions for his appearance.

I think it’s great political theater, McCain muted his speech with news of Palin; so BO mutes his speech with an interview.

I love it

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Boneheads extra spiced shrimp and fish softtaco.

I never got ‘em. Some dummys did a smash and grab robbery at Lenox (Bloomingdales) and were chase to Atlantic Station. Everything got locked down at that point. Cops blocked the bridge and the buildings got locked down. There were gunshots and everything. It happened right around noon maybe later.

Well off the top of my mind..

Foots since she already knows how to bring up old Stuff and use it against you. she has graduated to the advanced course and gathers evidence like CSI or something.

Leggs seems to want to please and be pleased, most notably through cooking. It comes across very blantantly. Unfortunately, she has the TRUTH disease aka marriage ain’t shyt.

Cee has a innocent act goin’ on, but likes to instigate stuff. However, she probaby has a leopard print babydoll or something. She, too, seems to like to please with food. Probably some dolphins over the bed, too. We know that she has a thing for nature.

ARed seems to like to live life and get out there. Heck, she’d give her man a shoe show since she has her own pole. She has an issue with being tactful, though.

Angie seems to have a patience of a saint. You know willing to wait for people and all.

Raqi is obvious because she is one. *Her husband probably could sing Dwele’s song “I’m cheating on my woman with my woman.”

Slim keeps a brotha laughing and would keep a good outlook. Just keep baby powder away from her. It will bring back flashbacks of the babypowder bandit.

MK is creative and stuff. So she could do some MacGyver type stuff. All she would need was a bubble wrapper and some water and its on…

By AmazonRed

September 4, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

but based on your posts…..you just seem very “defined.”

2CPTG - Again…so?

I don’t take it as a dig, but please tell me why I should care?

And again, how do you come across on here? Really? And what do you do?

By LorDemi

September 4, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Unless he’s dead down there, naked pictures of a woman he used to be involved with should be stimulating

Nah…Maybe the dudes you’ve been with.

By Leggs

September 4, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone!

Growth is not easy. It comes from fully experiencing each situation and mastering it with understanding.

These boots are made for walking, one of these days these boots are gonna walk right over YOU!

Keep those antennas up!!!!

By Poppa Grande

September 4, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

Foots

It’s just the Engineer/Finance Pro in me, can’t stand when somebody tries to tell me that 1+1=18.

You said engineer?! IP attorneys make made loot, and don’t work the hours that most attorneys work. Most have engineering degrees.

It is an area that is always hiring. Take a look in the AJC you will always see IP (Intellectual Property) attorney ads in there. Many require a background in engineering. That way you know about the technical stuff that you are defending.

They start at about $160K a year out of law school. Even in this economy, IP is still a need.

Disclaimer: It is a lot of work to get there though. IP has to take 2 bar exams, one more than other attorneys.

By Dan

September 4, 2008 5:05 PM | Link to this

Fellas

I just left it alone…

Past and present there may be 2,3 on here that actually “get it” enough to matter…

By iMISSu

September 4, 2008 5:11 PM | Link to this

hi jazzy! i know enough about 2c to put him on my hubby list. that’s most important.

2c you got me smilin’ and wonderin’ … stop! lol.

By 2CPTG

September 4, 2008 5:20 PM | Link to this

How do I come across - you’d have to ask others…..haters, and fans alike, to get an accurate depiction….for some, I’m an azzhole…for others…a realist….so it all depends on whom you ask…..

but umm, you have a good evening….

By Olin

November 5, 2008 10:03 PM | Link to this

Interestingly was, but there is someone who does not quite agree with the author?