By Blanca

January 5, 2009 10:25 AM | Link to this

Hello world?

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 10:26 AM | Link to this

Good morning and Happy New Year everyone. I hope everyone had good holidays!

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 10:28 AM | Link to this

Blanca - When it’s over, it should be over. Tell him to cook his own damn chili! Or take me with you… =P

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:31 AM | Link to this

Good morning, Blanca. You’re about to raked over the coals (LOL).

Anyway, I think you should go w/Roland. You already know that this is an important day for him,and he wants to share it w/you. So what his ex will be there. Be the mature young lady that you are and stand by your man of 2 months side. This day doesn’t have to be a stressful day. It will be if YOU make it that way. I have more to say, but have to do some work.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 10:32 AM | Link to this

Now…on to you Blanca. LOL

1) Glad you and R-Boogie are still going strong!

2) He drove w/ you 10 hours to your parents house that’s love. Seriously. lol

3) Life will throw you uncomfortable situations. At least with this cookout, you have control over the situation and knowledge about what’s going on. He’s told you it’s important. So be there. He’s been there for you. She’s with someone else, he’s with you. It will be good for you to meet her and make your own assessments. If you and Roland make it last, you will see her at least once a year. So start getting used to the idea now. Start planning like this situation isn’t going away, cuz it isn’t.

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 10:34 AM | Link to this

Oooohhh.. I completely and totally misread this entire blog… I gotta rethink this situation….

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:36 AM | Link to this

Good morning, Blanca. You’re about to raked over the coals (LOL).

Anyway, I think you should go w/Roland. You already know that this is an important day for him,and he wants to share it w/you. So what his ex will be there. Be the mature young lady that you are and stand by your man of 2 months side. This day doesn’t have to be a stressful day. It will be if YOU make it that way. I have more to say, but have to do some work.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 10:38 AM | Link to this

This day doesn’t have to be a stressful day. It will be if YOU make it that way.

Leggs - Amen.

In addition, I would go Blanca, but I wouldn’t enter a chili recipe. The ex has won a few times, just let her win. I don’t think the little “new girl” competition is even necessary. I would just tell Roland you’d like to spend your time getting to know his crew better.

He “let it slip” huh? Well, at least you go the truth. And why is Roland’s crew litting Sarah’s man run around looking stupid and clueless?

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 10:39 AM | Link to this

After rethinking the situation, I think I would go.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:40 AM | Link to this

Glad you said that WTF, because I was thinking “what did she read that I didn’t?”

Blanca, when you guys are introduced be gracious and all smiling. Don’t steal glances in her direction as the day unwinds. She’s there w/her new man and you’re there w/Roland. Remember, they’re exes for a reason. A 10-hour drive is a long drive. Be there for your man and never let another woman stop you from experiencing new things w/YOUR MAN!

By The Truth

January 5, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year everyone.

Blanca what can be said about you that hasn’t already been said about cowards. You bowed down and kissed his parents azz now you’ve tucked your tail over his ex girlfriend. Who do you stand tall on?

Here’s your lesson for the 09 because its apparent you haven’t learned this yet. Fugg everyone. His ex is as uncomfortable about you as you are about her. Go, stand tall and let them all kiss your azz. You take a great opportunity to “man up” and squander it by bending over to kiss anyones azz that may have had a brief role in Wonderboy’s life.

The sad part is later on this week you’ll be pounding your chest about what a strong independant woman you are. SMDH

Romper Room is now in session.

Off Topic Gran Torino with Clint Eastwood is a great movie. Slow as hell but good.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this

LOL. Blanca didn’t even give us a day to check in with each other and see how our break was. She just came in swinging with a dating dilemma.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this

Glad you said that WTF, because I was thinking “what did she read that I didn’t?”

Blanca, when you guys are introduced be gracious and all smiling. Don’t steal glances in her direction as the day unwinds. She’s there w/her new man and you’re there w/Roland. Remember, they’re exes for a reason. A 10-hour drive is a long drive. Be there for your man and never let another woman stop you from experiencing new things w/YOUR MAN!

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 10:46 AM | Link to this

Leggs, I don’t know wtf I was reading at first. I get in the habit of speed reading through things & don’t catch stuff sometimes. LOL… Oh & BTW, I’m I guy. =P

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:52 AM | Link to this

Gran Torino is a very good movie. GET OFF MY LAWN! True Clint Eastwood.

By Blow Me

January 5, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this

The Truth You are such a fool….I have a love hate relationship for you…It’s a roll of a dice. But your so OUTLANDISH sometimes it’s gut busting funny…Today…You rolled a lucky 7’s! Let’s try not to crap out tomorrow.

Ared Same as you….lucky 7’s..You so stooopid….lmao swinging with a dating dilemma. Girl she gone off that dude for real. She can’t even think straight…Ladies dont’ you hate that! lol!

TO THE BLOG In some strange kind of way I actually miss the convos and point of views of you guys….Lets all have a BLOG HUG BLOW NOW TRYIN TO SEE WHAT TRUTH IS HOLDING LOL!

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL

This year I promise to be more positive and stop shooting from the hip as for as this blog is concern. I’ll give nothing but my honest unadulterated humbling opinion! That’s my blog new year resolution….lol

TO ALL

WHAT’S YOUR BLOG NEW YEAR RESOLUTION? IF ANY…

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this

Blanca just go. We tend to put more thought into and more needless burdens on ourselves than what is called for.

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this

I haven’t gotten to see Clint’s new movie yet however I did go to the Bodies Exhibition over the weekend & it was NUTS!!!! It is amazing to think of the work they put into it.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:57 AM | Link to this

Thanks for the clarification WTF

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 10:57 AM | Link to this

Gran Torino is a very good movie. GET OFF MY LAWN! True Clint Eastwood.

By Dan

January 5, 2009 10:59 AM | Link to this

My comment,

Go Blanca. Darn the other chick.

One proviso, though. Do you, but don’t be the “insecure holding his hand hugging all over him, marking your territory” chick. That behavior embarrasses everyone involved and gives ole girl all Hand. And likely, if this ^^ isn’t your normal behavior, it’ll PO ole boy off too.

Remember the old saying: [She’s] an “ex” for a reason.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 11:00 AM | Link to this

Blow, you know you love me. :-)

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

January 5, 2009 11:02 AM | Link to this

What’s up blog fam!

Blanca, This should be the year you break the concern about what others think about you! Go enjoy yourself and don’t give a second thought about his ex being there. You are now involved with Roland and your focus should be on learning about him. Everyone else can kick rocks.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:02 AM | Link to this

Thanks for the clarification WTF

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 11:02 AM | Link to this

Leggs, no problem honey.

My resolution, take less sh$t, get more money.

By SexyCool - UnCut

January 5, 2009 11:04 AM | Link to this

Go to the dayum party. Be your most fabulous (not to show her up but because you’re supposed to be up on your game anyways). Make the dayum chili. Ignore the ex or be polite to her (either one works for me). If you’re worried about asserting anything to anybody, you got some issues that you need to work on.

Tell ROLAND he could have kept all that extra information to his dayum self. Should have just told you that y’all were going and that she might be there. Don’t nobody wanna hear all that other ish.

By Stormy

January 5, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this

Thanks Everyone for the dinner suggestions….we ended up at Stoney River @ Cumberland and it was great!!!

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this

Blanca

If you’ve never met this chick, why are you giving her power over you? If you are willing to let this chick prevent you from spending quality time with your man, then you have to look in the mirror and not her.

Oh yeah, Happy New Year everyone.

By Dan

January 5, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this

@WTF

Kid, Biggie done told y’all Mo Money, Mo Prolems….and he wasn’t lying. Put on!

@KP

Look at you! Espousing the gospel of DGAF, I love it!

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 11:09 AM | Link to this

Dan One proviso, though. Do you, but don’t be the “insecure holding his hand hugging all over him, marking your territory” chick. Definite! That is so not my speed. My hands will be tied up in a cold beer and someone’s (hopefully) awesome chili. Maybe even mine. ;)

By DreamsMaterialize

January 5, 2009 11:12 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year Everyone Blanca No reason for you to sweat it if no one else is. Don’t put more on it than is there. Interact with your man and his crew the way you normally do.

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 11:13 AM | Link to this

I gotta stack some paper in preparation of the impending recession.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:14 AM | Link to this

Dan, your 10:59 was on point! Spotting that insecure chick at a function is laughable and disturbing at the same time.

PoppaG, hello. You’re absolutely right. The mere thought of someone I’ve never met having power over me and mentally messing w/my mind on whether I should attend a function with MY MAN is way beyond my comprehension.

By abc

January 5, 2009 11:18 AM | Link to this

First of all, it’s a Super Bowl Party, i.e. venue for drunken examples of arrested development. WTF with that?

1) You’re not wrong for not wanting to go. He’s more than a bit obtuse for resisting.

2) If you don’t want to go, for whatever reason, then don’t go.

3) He should absolutely have been more upfront. Leaving his ex’s new beau clueless is a poor reflection on his character and that of his friends.

4) If you have to attend a Super Bowl Party to assert your position in his life, what does that say about what your position really is, and what does it say about his life? That sort of thing appeals to you?

5) The end of long relationships costs one some friends, too. Even the friends themselves would prefer it to be that way.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:19 AM | Link to this

Dan, your 10:59 was on point! Spotting that insecure chick at a function is laughable and disturbing at the same time.

PoppaG, hello. You’re absolutely right. The mere thought of someone I’ve never met having power over me and mentally messing w/my mind on whether I should attend a function with MY MAN is way beyond my comprehension.

By Blow Me

January 5, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this

Ared You’re cool overall. I mean you sound like a homegirl I would hang out with. Witty and smart mouthed…and quick on your toes. But overall you’re a good person.

By Blow Me

January 5, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this

Ared You’re cool overall. I mean you sound like a homegirl I would hang out with. Witty and smart mouthed…and quick on your toes. But overall you’re a good person.

Where is BOOTIFUL? Where is her crazy a*..literally!!

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

Good points all. I have to say, maybe because I’ve lived in different cities or am not as frisky as The Truth may think, I’ve never been in the same room with two people with whom I’ve been intimate. To me, that is the Height of uncomfortable and just seems a little too communal. I’ve also been fortunate to never really have to interact with my previous boyfriends’ exes. I suppose I find something odd with knowing multiple people in one room have been sexually involved. A bit casual for my taste, but perhaps mine alone. ;)

By Dan

January 5, 2009 11:25 AM | Link to this

@Leggs

I was just about to say that!

There’s nothing better at any function than to see the “ex” putting on! Pure Comedy! And that person (guys do it too) is always ridiculed incessantly after.

Went to a wedding over the holiday where the respected ex’s of the couple were there (and boy could you tell!)

Got one coming up too that ought to be really fun to watch.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 11:26 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year E’rybody!!!

I am happier not knowing what she looks like, what she sounds like, etc., though I’m sure she is a perfectly nice person.

Blanca, go’ead to the party, ‘cause trust me, you’re at least as attractive as the ex-chick. No dude is bringing some new chick that’s 4 steps behind the old chick to a big throwdown like that.

I’d even go as far as to say that you’re way badder than the ex, and this might even be a little “see I can get a badder chick than you” jab at old girl.

Either way, keep it classy, always nice, above all the extra… and don’t fall into any cat holes.

Speaking of which…

‘Ey Leggs. You mentioned that you wanted a 3-piece with no biscuit last week. Can you clarify how you wanted that - 2 drumsticks and a breast or 2 breasts and a drumstick?

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 11:27 AM | Link to this

abc 4) If you have to attend a Super Bowl Party to assert your position in his life, what does that say about what your position really is, and what does it say about his life? That sort of thing appeals to you? I agree, that doesn’t appeal to me at all. I’d rather avoid what feels uncomfortable to me and let him have a fun day on his own. I’d be happy as a bug in rug doing my own thing and keeping my mental space clear. But alas, relationships have compromise…just have to determine what a fair compromise is.

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 11:28 AM | Link to this

Blanca, try living in a small town…

By Stormy

January 5, 2009 11:28 AM | Link to this

Blanca

Poppa On point….as always!!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this

Blanca, sorry, but that really isn’t the height of comfortable. Well, maybe it is for you. As you live, you’ll find out there are far worse things than two exes who’ve slept together being in the same room.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 5, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year fellow Bloggers! I just got back from NYC and I froze my happy butt off in 17 degree weather. If I had chestnuts they would need to roasting on an open fire! I miss my home…but I can NOT live there anymore! Anyway….

On topic Blanca, it seems that you really like this guy so you should just take one for the team and go with him. But…make sure you look FABULOUS when doing so!You can make sporty look sexy without going overboard and looking like you are trying. The key to fabulous-ness is to make it look effortless. I swear when I pull my hair back in a ponytail or a bun is when I get the most compliments. I was told that the hair hides my face when I should show it more. If your hair looks more like a lonely-tail or an only-tail then you can buy a sensible ponytail. Find out who his favorite team is and get an outfit to showcase your support. But again..make sure it’s Fab and shows the body shape (ie: fitted baby tee- jeans, hot boots). Now while you are there, size of the ex without letting anybody know that you are doing that. Be friendly, but be on guard just in case somebody wnats to say some ole slick sht from their lips. In that case be sarcastic and make them have to try to figure out if you are insulting them or not.Be attentive to him without being clingy. Offer to get him a beer and a plate. For some reason men like that whole service witt a smile thing! LOL Now if his team wins…you should get some lessons from Foots and ARED and give him a dance while wearing a jersey, a cap and heels after you leave.(wink wink)* LOL

WHAT’S YOUR BLOG NEW YEAR RESOLUTION? IF ANY… Don’t make any more resolutions! That way I don’t feel like a failure for breaking them! I do same I will stop being so nice and I willnot do anything fro anybody anymore. My kindness has been mistaken for weakness and I do not get the same respect back! So nuts to that man! LOL

By Dan

January 5, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this

@Blanca

Regarding 11:22, it happens more often than people think.

The bulk of the “tension” is when one party hasn’t gotten over what happened, how it ended, or whatever.

It’s nothing to hang out with an ex, especially when there are mutual friends involved. Except for the thinking about the really freaky stuff

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 11:32 AM | Link to this

WTF??? Blanca, try living in a small town… LOL. You have no idea…I am from a town the size of a thumbnail, but at least there you expect to run into exes and exes and exes. People only have maybe 4 options!

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 11:33 AM | Link to this

I’ve never been in the same room with two people with whom I’ve been intimate.

Well, Blanca, unless you sleep with someone at the party, you still can say that.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

Stormy

I am glad that you liked Stoney River. It has never disappointed us.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

Blanca, sorry, but that really isn’t the height of comfortable. Well, maybe it is for you. As you live, you’ll find out there are far worse things than two exes who’ve slept together being in the same room.

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 11:36 AM | Link to this

Staceye Now if his team wins…you should get some lessons from Foots and ARED and give him a dance while wearing a jersey, a cap and heels after you leave.(wink wink) LOL* Foots, Ared, where do I sign up? Actually…homefry has that one downpat! ;)

By Kym aka Southern Girl (Gal)

January 5, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Blanca, first off this is a non-issue. I think Truth said it best he bit the bullet and drove 10 hours to visit your parents(people he didn’t know from adam’s tom kat) and you can’t spend 5 hours-watching the steelers whip up on the panthers.(see I snuck my superbowl predictions in there). Anywhoo..this is your insecurity showing. So what they dated for 3 years obviously it didnt work and they have each moved on. So you have to deal with.

As for being in the same room with two people who have been intimate..maybe your life was sheltered but I have actually had dinner with two guys I was intimate with..they didn’t know about each other and I don’t think it would have made a bit of difference if they did..(not to me anyway)

By Foots

January 5, 2009 11:38 AM | Link to this

Blanca I suppose I find something odd with knowing multiple people in one room have been sexually involved. A bit casual for my taste, but perhaps mine alone. ;)

Be sure not to date a man with children then. It’s guaranteed that you would interact with his ex on a fairly regular basis and the child would be obvious proof that they slept together.

On parties and exes, go if you feel like going, don’t go if you don’t feel like going. But don’t let this woman’s presence be your deterrent. The older you both get, the more apt you will be to run into people your ex has dated. Learn how to deal with uncomfortable feelings now.

By abc

January 5, 2009 11:40 AM | Link to this

I submit, Blanca, that compromise is a 2-way street, and if Super Bowl parties sound like a whole bunch of no fun, yet the SO is insistent upon your presence at such an event, the one who has failed to compromise is him. To coerce a girl into doing anything she doesn’t want to do or is uncomfortable with is unbecoming of a gentleman, to say the least.

Ain’t no way I’d show up at such a drunken and unruly brawl as a Super Bowl party! Puh-leeeze!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:41 AM | Link to this

Thanks for my hearty laugh this morning BlueK. I was talking w/a blogger last night about that very thing. My druthers is to have a drumstick and two breasts. Much more fun that way!

By Foots

January 5, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this

Blanca I suppose I find something odd with knowing multiple people in one room have been sexually involved. A bit casual for my taste, but perhaps mine alone. ;)

Be sure not to date a man with children then. It’s guaranteed that you would interact with his ex on a fairly regular basis and the child would be obvious proof that they slept together.

On parties and exes, go if you feel like going, don’t go if you don’t feel like going. But don’t let this woman’s presence be your deterrent. The older you both get, the more apt you will be to run into people your ex has dated. Learn how to deal with uncomfortable feelings now.

By Michelle

January 5, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this

Blanca - If you don’t go to the party, the old GF is going to think that you’re insecure. So, go; make your chili; be affable; and enjoy yourself!

The bottom line is - even if old GF’s chili wins, you’ve won the better prize!

By Richard Johnson

January 5, 2009 11:44 AM | Link to this

She’s brilliant and gorgeous … but what are you worried about?

By the way, you can’t really can’t call something that commemorates anything less than a year an anniversary. Maybe you could call it – based on past “relationships” chronicled here – an anomaly.

Cheers!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:46 AM | Link to this

Thanks for my hearty laugh this morning BlueK. I was talking w/a blogger last night about that very thing. My druthers is to have a drumstick and two breasts. Much more fun that way!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this

Staceye, continue to be nice simply for the endorphins your brain releases helping your soul remain peaceful. That was my zen moment!

Anyway, yes men loves for their women to get them a beer and a plate of food. And your also right, Now if his team wins…you should get some lessons from Foots and ARED and give him a dance while wearing a jersey, a cap and heels after you leave. Oh yeah!

By MELO

January 5, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY Phewwwww..the holidays had me spend!!

Stormy,glad u had good dinner in Atlanta.

Blanca, i got a question…..Whatchu scared of..?? another woman that got phucked by Roland be4 u.Whats scary about that??? U females are always sizing urselves as if u in competition with another.Staceye just validated my stetement.Be u.Dont dress to try impress another female as if to validate why he(Roland) chose u.Thats so ridicilously funny!!

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 11:51 AM | Link to this

ABC * To coerce a girl into doing anything she doesn’t want to do or is uncomfortable with is unbecoming of a gentleman, to say the least.*

Ain’t no way I’d show up at such a drunken and unruly brawl as a Super Bowl party! Puh-leeeze!

Come on man. It’s a brand new O-Nine. You remind me of the little old dude off of Gulliver’s Travels - “Weee’ll nev-ver maaaake it.”

Get the stick out’cha azz.

Leggs I might be able to help you out with that. ;)

By Catty Cathy

January 5, 2009 11:51 AM | Link to this

I’m very good friends with my BF’s ex…we share a common denominator…diabetes….not him!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 11:52 AM | Link to this

Staceye, continue to be nice simply for the endorphins your brain releases helping your soul remain peaceful. That was my zen moment!

Anyway, yes men loves for their women to get them a beer and a plate of food. And your also right, Now if his team wins…you should get some lessons from Foots and ARED and give him a dance while wearing a jersey, a cap and heels after you leave. Oh yeah!

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 11:57 AM | Link to this

Now if his team wins…you should get some lessons from Foots and ARED and give him a dance while wearing a jersey, a cap and heels after you leave

Ah…I’m so out of practice! But I’m sure it will come back to me pretty quickly. lol

By MELO

January 5, 2009 11:58 AM | Link to this

Im looking at these pics from our holiday party at work.Some of these females really need to re-size and adjust their BMI as their new year resolutions,be4 they do tackle anything else.I wld be ashamed to show off such phat leggs and thighs.

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 12:03 PM | Link to this

Happy New Year Blog Fam! Hope everyone had a safe and happy holiday season!

On Topic - Blanco, I with others here on the blog that say you’re giving ole girl TOO much power! You’re making a mountain out of a molehill. The man obviously cares for you because he spent the holidays with you and rode 10 hours. He invited you to the party. Get over the “uncomfortableness” of it all and go. I’m also with BK, I bet you look way better than ole girl, but that’s not important. It may seem petty, but naturally you want to show up looking your best, even if ole girl was not coming. Me personally, I’m not competitive about looks because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think I’m a decent looking person, but I may not be someone else’s taste. I’ve seen many dudes leave gorgeous women for less-attractive ones because of other factors. And yeah, don’t hang all over him either and act insecure. But put your foot in that chili you bring. That’s where I would be competitive, but I’m a foodie and the Iron Chef in me would surely come out!LOL!

By abc

January 5, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

I presume by such a rude comment, BK, that a Super Bowl party would be right up your alley. Good for you. Certainly, it’s not difficult for you to comprehend that Super Bowl parties would receive the same scrutiny from the likes of me that more worthwhile and less juvenile activities would receive from you.

To paraphrase your sentiment, it’s 2009, stop wasting your time on yet another excuse to sludge brain cells, ‘culling the herd’ as they say. There are so many more worthwhile things to do, the the herd is already so depleted!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

Now Melo, when you use “phat” it’s a compliment. When you use “fat” it is not!

My blog resolution is to have a flatter stomach by spring!!!!

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 12:12 PM | Link to this

abc

Ain’t no way I’d show up at such a drunken and unruly brawl as a Super Bowl party! Puh-leeeze!

Why are you assuming that all Super Bowl Parties are the same?

I’ve been some that had no alcohol because it was a function hosted by a church. Conversely, I’ve been to some that had more alcohol that is humanly possible to consume in one night.

So don’t assume that they are all unruly. Sometimes, it is just an excuse to break bread with friends and nothing more.

It isn’t cool to make sweeping generalization about any group. That would like us assuming that you were a coke-head because you are a musician. We know musicians like Keith Richards has only three brain cells due to drugs. But, I imagine that there are musicians that aren’t drugged out as well.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

Now Melo, when you use “phat” it’s a compliment. When you use “fat” it is not!

My blog resolution is to have a flatter stomach by spring!!!!

By Stormy

January 5, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

Ok…Leggs Cause you have a posting malfunction…only post once er’ hour. OK!!! LOL

That’s all,

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 12:14 PM | Link to this

To paraphrase your sentiment, it’s 2009, stop wasting your time on yet another excuse to sludge brain cells, ‘culling the herd’ as they say. There are so many more worthwhile things to do, the the herd is already so depleted!

I truly flatlined at this. LMAO.

Did you have a good holiday abc?

By MELO

January 5, 2009 12:14 PM | Link to this

Leggs, i know.i was using that tongue-in-chic..

By Been Thru It All

January 5, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this

He!! has just frozen over, did ABC just buck!?! Must gonna be a good year tater…

By abc

January 5, 2009 12:21 PM | Link to this

Unlike Keith Richards, I actually studied music, learned and understand it beyond 3 chord names on a guitar, and can make a claim to professionalism in the craft. He’s just a rock star, to which the term ‘musician’ rarely, if ever, applies. Not that he’d care about that; most folks would rather be a rock star than a musician. It’s understandable.

Beyond the drunken brawl that a Super Bowl party represents, it’s also a gathering to celebrate a bunch of jerks that these days people still call “The NFL”. I don’t see the point.

More sweeping generalizations? Sure, I suppose so. But the girl says flat out she’d rather not attend the fiasco. Why should she go? I mean, good reasons.

By Stormy

January 5, 2009 12:25 PM | Link to this

Poppa and Melo

We had (2)drinks,(1)app. (2)entrees and (1)dessert for $110.00, not bad.

By Kym aka Southern Girl (Gal)

January 5, 2009 12:26 PM | Link to this

Never been to a drunken brawl at a Superbowl party. Most that I attended were quiet home functions with all the food and drinks one would expect. I know that year the Fakecons went, many churches held Superbowl Parties and showed the game on the jumbo screens..(think there was some legal problems after that) they had food and drinks(no alcohol) and people came out to support the team.

By abc

January 5, 2009 12:28 PM | Link to this

AR, the holidays were fine, we travelled to warmer climes and a good time was had by all, thanks! Here’s hoping that you and all the bloggers here had a wonderful holiday season, and will have a joyful and prosperous new year!

As far as ‘buckin’, hey… it’s about discourse between opposing points of view, in a (hopefully) civil manner. I’d rather debate the topics than the participants.

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this

these females really need to re-size and adjust their BMI

melo I am going to say to you what my husband said to (about) Oprah Winfrey when he saw the preview of her wailing yet again about her weight issues.

“Damn woman, not all red blooded women were meant to be the next American Top Model. Get over it already.”

Then he went on to mock her for saying she doesn’t know how she got back there. He said every time she put something into her mouth that was laden with fat and calories she put herself on step closer to those extra 40 pounds. If it’s who you are it’s just who you are.

He meant that directly at her thru that television.

By WTF???

January 5, 2009 12:31 PM | Link to this

Foots - Whats good darlin?

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 12:36 PM | Link to this

abc

There is no problem is she doesn’t want to go to the party. However, there is a problem is she lets some chick deter her. She seems to have more of an issue with the ex being there. It even sound like she would attend with less hesitation if the ex-girl wasn’t going to be there.

That was the question in the post.

It was not whether the SuperBowl and celebrating the NFL was pointless. You just used it to give a sermon “celebrate” your morals and throw out prejudices.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 12:37 PM | Link to this

As far as ‘buckin’, hey… it’s about discourse between opposing points of view, in a (hopefully) civil manner. I’d rather debate the topics than the participants.

LOL. You know my take abc, everyone is entitled to their opinion.

I did however chuckle at the irony of you advising that they are sludging brain cells…while on this blog which accomplishes the same thing. LOL

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 12:42 PM | Link to this

ABC I presume by such a rude comment, BK, that a Super Bowl party would be right up your alley. Good for you. Certainly, it’s not difficult for you to comprehend that Super Bowl parties would receive the same scrutiny from the likes of me that more worthwhile and less juvenile activities would receive from you.

Look here Maslo, actually I don’t go to Super Bowl parties; but that’s neither here nor there. A SB party had nothing to do with the point that I was making, which was why do you turn your nose up at each and every subject that doesn’t involve the symphony or a night at that opera.

You’re cool and all but I’d bet that it’s hard for you to engage a person in entertaining conversation for more than 3 minutes.

You remind me of my pops always talking sh!t about his musical talents. But I’d also bet that if you were that muthafukkin bad, you have a lot worthier things to talk about besides, how Kenny G sounds like trash and that you can play circles around him and how this dude up here ^^^, is nothing but a Rock Star.

Man, Git Da Fugg Outta herrre!

By jimbo

January 5, 2009 12:48 PM | Link to this

Specifically, as to your dilemma, let it go. She might have been there first, but you’re the one who’s there now, so you won. Go, be nice, have fun.

Probably my most awkward “ex” moment came when my (now) wife and I were first dating. She has a daughter by a first marriage, and we needed to take her by to see grandma and grandpa (her ex husband’s parents).

We get there, it’s very rural, very redneck. Obviously, being the new guy, I’d rather wait in the car. About five minutes later, this mountain of a man comes ambling down the walk, and introduces himself. Says, “son, if you’re gonna be part of the family, you might as well come on in.”

I went in, we stayed two hours, had a great time, and I look forward to visiting them-my wife’s ex in-laws are two of the nicest people I’ve ever met.

Honestly though, my wife has a jealousy issue, and it sometimes drives me nuts. I’m with her because I WANT to be. Same thing with your guy, if he wanted to be with the ex, he’d be there.

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 5, 2009 12:49 PM | Link to this

@Bianca

I’ve never been in the same room with two people with whom I’ve been intimate.

I had been dating a lady for about three weeks when she asked me if I would escort her to the funeral of a guy in her past. Before the night was over I realized she had slept with four of the men there, including the dead guy (hopefully when he was still breathing). It was awkward but I got over it (did kind of wonder if the woman had ever heard of the word “no”…never a good idea for a lady to reveal too much of her past).

Oh well, my point is almost all of us have “pasts” and we cannot let that get in the way of today and tomorrow.

By The Truth

January 5, 2009 12:51 PM | Link to this

ABC sounds like your blogging with an ascot and smoking jacket on again. ANYTHING she chooses to do, no matter how high minded it may appear, is empty and useless in the grand scheme of things. what would you have her do instead of the party? Opera?

In an attempt to further our knowledge in the 09 I submit to you a great documentary. I’ve realized that trying to get y’all to read just isnt happening, outside of KYM. The show is the Ascent of Money and its on youtube. It’s broken down into 6 sections with each section having five 9 minutes parts. Here’s a link to section 01 1/5.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uyMZhkITPWE

It explains how alot of the financial standards we now follow came to be, including stocks, bonds, and insurance. It also explains the S&L scandal and Enron and the housing collapse.

Put down your porn for a just a few minutes to educate yourself on the current financial crisis, and hopefully how to avoid the next one.

P.S. Yes, I am a nerd.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 12:51 PM | Link to this

Stormy

I am glad that you liked them. I’ve always liked their service and their food.

$95.00 is the most that we have spent, but we did get our glasses of wine free and one dessert free. On that occasion, it was our anniversary.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 12:52 PM | Link to this

Stormy We had (2)drinks,(1)app. (2)entrees and (1)dessert for $110.00, not bad.

I’m just glad that some of my people can jump out there, throwdown a C on a meal for two, and it be “not bad”.

Do me a favor though. Give the bum on the corner a $5; that way when I roll by behind you he can wave me on by, talkin’ ‘bout, “Go’ead on Bruh, the chick in front of you gave me enough for the both of you.”

By abc

January 5, 2009 12:53 PM | Link to this

Well, that’s true enough, I do have a bias against the NFL, and pro sports in general, as far as that goes, but especially football. I’m happy to watch college games — anyone want to pick the Texas/Ohio State game tonight? — but once they go pro, I’m pretty much done watching them.

Even at that, though, I doubt I’d go to an Orange Bowl party.

Specific to exes, I’ve no interest in meeting hers nor introducing her to mine. My exes and I don’t share a circle of friends — I pretty much gave all the friends up. Even with 3 kids, there’s next to no opportunity for my exes to appear. I had to meet one of her exes once, it wasn’t a big deal.

If Blanca doesn’t want to deal with the exes, I don’t see why she should.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 5, 2009 12:54 PM | Link to this

Melo I do not dress for a man nor another woman..I dress for me! I feel good about me when I am dressed nice. I also love to express myself though my style. I got so many compliments on my skull tights and black mini dress…its my goth-chic look!

By no big deal

January 5, 2009 12:57 PM | Link to this

I hate drama queens. Just go to the party and whatever happens, happens.

The over analyzation is a turn off.

By abc

January 5, 2009 1:02 PM | Link to this

BK, I’m certain that your perspective on my ability to be an entertaining conversationalist would have everything to do with what you consider to be entertaining. I don’t see much point in going round and round about it on the blog.

As far as what she’d rather do, Blanca can offer that for herself. Maybe a chili cookoff and beerfest while sitting next to her SO and watching the Super Bowl on television sounds like fun, especially as a venue in which to meet a bunch of new people — maybe not, she’s already indicated as much.

By Jazz

January 5, 2009 1:03 PM | Link to this

Blanca did it occur to you Roland may want to show YOU off! Girl, go and make the best pot of Chili ever. Let the Ex be just that - THE EX. Learn all you can about football expecially the differences between College and the NFL. Hang out with the Guys and watch the game. This is your opportunity to shine. It sounds like you have something here, so do not stress over this, ENJOY it and wear the sexiest red outfit you can find!

By deidre_NC

January 5, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this

when my 1st love got married and insisted i go to his wedding i did—and cried the whole time..then his new wife (whom i had just met at wedding) called me and made a shopping date..we have been best friends now for 35 years…now my ex husbands girlfriend(s) and i are always friends because me and my ex are..i never let the ex thing stop me..if yor man wants yo there i think you should go…you dont have to do it again if its uncomfortable..but you should give it one shot…

By Dan

January 5, 2009 1:06 PM | Link to this

@abc

There is a difference in “dealing” with and ex, and “running into [them]” in social circles.

Dealing with an ex is like Footsy said “baby mama/daddy” drama. However, unless the person you’re dating is:

Not from the town you meet [her] in (red flag);

Still a virgin;

Or has been in an Ashram or on sabbatical until you two met;

Chances are you’re going to run into someone from the past of the person you dating (esp. in this small city).

More to the point, Blanca was describing (I think) that general awkwardness of having to socialize with an ex.

And, as has been stated, that should pose no anxiety for anyone, but it does/has/will happen again.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 1:06 PM | Link to this

Blue K

Do me a favor though. Give the bum on the corner a $5

I don’t give money to the guys on the street. However, I have bought food for them. That is when you see who really is hungry and who is scheming.

The last time that I gave money to that guy at the corner of Marietta Street and Northside Drive, he pulled out a wad of money and put my $5 dollar on the inside of a stack that had twenties and fifties.

A few weeks ago I bought Happy meals (I was light in the pocket myself), for a lady and her kids down at 5 points. I won’t give money anymore, but I buy food.

I even had one guy get greedy at the Popeye’s on Lee Street. He asking for three piece meal with all breasts (which costs more). I looked at him sideways and got him a three-piece but it wasn’t all breasts.

By Angela

January 5, 2009 1:06 PM | Link to this

First never go anywhere you are not comfortable, i don’t feel as if you are being immature only comfortable in your own skin.you know where you stand in his life, but as a new love you also need to be proud to be with him as much as he is proud to be with you. Forget about her, she is the past.

By Sugar

January 5, 2009 1:07 PM | Link to this

Go with Roland and have a good time. Who knows, you and his ex may hit it off.

Look at it as an opportunity to meet new friends. And go with an open mind. HE WANTS YOU THERE, so Go. Who cares about the ex girlfriend.

Did you ever stop to think maybe she is nervous about YOU??????

Ya’ll need to quit worrying about what other people think, and do what makes YOU Happy!!!!!

2009 is a NO STRESS YEAR….

By M'Karyl

January 5, 2009 1:12 PM | Link to this

@Blanca

I can empathize with your concerns regarding this type of social situation with your current beau’s, his ex and his friends…after all, the two of you have not been involved for a very long period of time…the relationship is still very new…and it seems that the holiday venture went well for the bothof you…so quite honestly, surviving that was a lot of territory to cover within the last two months…whew!!!!

But it is also time to move forward with what is now, bor both him and for you…and while the situation may appear to be daunting, it is doable…and the determinant variable is not your beau or his ex…it is you…I would recommend that you go and enjoy yourself…if, and only if, you will allow yourself to feel comfortable enough in this social setting to be at ease with it…funny how most of what we fear or doubt exist more in our own heads instead of in external reality.

And, Happy New Year Bloggers…hope everyone had a good, safe and enjoyable holiday season, NYE and such…now let’s getting ready for 1/20/09….OBAMA!!!!!

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 1:12 PM | Link to this

Sugar Ya’ll need to quit worrying about what other people think, and do what makes YOU Happy!!!!! Ha! If that’s the case then I’m spending super bowl sunday shopping! =)

By abc

January 5, 2009 1:14 PM | Link to this

Dan, I’d say that having to attend a party with an ex in attendance, especially in a scenario where said ex’s new attachment knows nothing about the history and so one would have something to keep implicitly secret oneself, constitutes having to ‘deal with it’ rather than having a chance encounter or meeting.

As far as exes remaining friends and friends of friends and all that, it’s not my cup of tea. I’d rather not deal with it, and so I don’t. Ex-wives and girlfriends are ex, if we could have remained friends, we probably wouldn’t have split up.

By Kym aka Southern Girl (Gal)

January 5, 2009 1:15 PM | Link to this

PoppaG I have to go buy books on Wednesday. The torture begins again next week

By Dan

January 5, 2009 1:20 PM | Link to this

@abc

How the ex deals with her new man and the secrets she keeps has nothing whatsoever to do with Blanca. That’s extraneous information.

As far as dealing with ex, in a social circle that you may have formed or culled while together, often the “friends” have to choose who to be with post-breakup. It is rare indeed that all parties remain close.

So my question to you is, regarding the ending of your relationships: do you let the mutual friends go too? And, could you be civil (and eventually more) to an ex in the prescence of said mutual friends?

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 1:20 PM | Link to this

Since I had to spend my last 1 ˝ hour with the *”new year resolution folks”. Im’a come into 2009 with some sillyazness…

…Blanca he choosin’, so roll with it. When he drove your car 3000miles across the map to meet your folks, you officially became his new jitterbug.

As long as nuthin’ popoff with ole gurl, and you don’t see him sit back ‘n grinnin’ at it. You’ll be fine.

By Lurker09

January 5, 2009 1:24 PM | Link to this

BK Come on man. It’s a brand new O-Nine. You remind me of the little old dude off of Gulliver’s Travels - “Weee’ll nev-ver maaaake it.” Now that was funny…that’s old school

Blanca I with the minority, you don’t want to go, don’t go. While others feel maybe he wants to show you off or you’re a comeuppance for Roland, I tend to feel heck, what do you have to prove? But do you.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 1:28 PM | Link to this

Is my hour up?

deidre_NC…when my 1st love got married and insisted i go to his wedding i did—and cried the whole time.** I’m curious, why did you subject yourself to this? Did he know you loved him?

By Angela

January 5, 2009 1:29 PM | Link to this

Do not allow anyone to keep you from anything. IF you want ot go in support of your man then do so, if you really are against the whole thing then keep your distance. But it will only drive you crazy wondering what’s going on. And sweetie Super bowl parties can truly be fun, depends on the crowd. And you never know you and the ex just might hit it off, who cares that she is there, just know that YOU are there because your man wants you to be.Don’t sell yourself short, and honey never let another woman steal your joy.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 1:33 PM | Link to this

Is my hour up?

deidre_NC…when my 1st love got married and insisted i go to his wedding i did—and cried the whole time.** I’m curious, why did you subject yourself to this? Did he know you loved him?

By Kym aka Southern Girl (Gal)

January 5, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this

Leggs,

try this next time you post. Hit the post button once. Wait 5 seconds and then hit the refresh button in your browser. That should allow you to only post one time. If you let it run to the delay that causes the double and in your case triple posting.

By Lurker09

January 5, 2009 1:37 PM | Link to this

Loosen up folks, it’s 09 true enough but let a few sparks fly. It makes for great entertainment and to hurry my day along just that much faster. I mean, let’s not kill one anther but a good debate can sometimes be healthy.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 1:40 PM | Link to this

Ok, I’ll try that. Thanks!

By mytwocents

January 5, 2009 1:41 PM | Link to this

Him, her or both never thought he’d do better than Chili Chick. So if ya feel like lending a hand with the ego stroke… Plus I bet he’s felt one upped a time or two with her new dudes and now here you are fresh off the showroom floor — and just in time for the great cook off of 09.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 1:41 PM | Link to this

Kym

PoppaG I have to go buy books on Wednesday. The torture begins again next week

Have fun…I have year-long courses. So, no textbook cash rape for me.

BTW,I saw your Superbowl prediction. I had the same one until yesterday. Ravens will come out of the AFC. They have the defense to do it. Especially, if the rumors of Ben R. being a little gun shy after leaving the field on a stretcher in the Steelers last game. I also hear that he won’t get hit in practice either. Which means that he won’t get that scare out of him until one of the Chargers get to him. It is his second concussion (the other one was the motorcycle accident). I don’t know if you guys could make it with Byron Leftwich.

I still think that the Panthers will win the NFC with their smash and dash (which is what Titans call their running game too.). Carolina’s smash and dash will triumph the Giants Earth Wind and Fire. Who comes up with these stupid nicknames?

abc

Texas will win tonight. Texas has an experienced QB (Colt McCoy), but OSU has a true freshman QB. Terrelle Pryor is good but the Texas DC is a friend of mine (Will Muschamp played with UGA back in the 90s) and will have some things to confuse the young QB.

I am more of a college football fan as well than pro. However, I do understand that most of the pro players are hard working honest guys. And just like anything in life, the bad ones get the attention.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 1:45 PM | Link to this

Ok, I’ll try that. Thanks!

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 1:45 PM | Link to this

Truth sounds like your blogging with an ascot and smoking jacket on again.

hahahaha Throw in a little glass of scotch, and I got a visual on this. :D

Cee he choosin’, so roll with it. When he drove your car 3000miles across the map to meet your folks, you officially became his new jitterbug.

Yeap.

And let me clarify one thing… some’o yoll act like taking a ten-hour drive is puttin’ in work; when in actuality, that ain’t sh!t. So a broad gets no extra points because she accompanied me on a road trip.

As long as nuthin’ popoff with ole gurl, and you don’t see him sit back ‘n grinnin’ at it. You’ll be fine.

That’s woman behavior right there. ^^^. Broads want men fighting over them but a dude doesn’t want his potential scratched, scarred, or muffed up. Ya dig?

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 1:52 PM | Link to this

It didn’t work Kym!

Ok, Blanca, despite all you read here, where are you standing on terms of going or not going?

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 1:57 PM | Link to this

It didn’t work Kym!

Ok, Blanca, despite all you read here, where are you standing on terms of going or not going?

By C tha 1

January 5, 2009 1:57 PM | Link to this

Truth have you seen Zeitgeist II: Addendum yet? I remeber reading where you saw the original documentary, but this one is along the same lines as the one you mentioned earlier today.

By Born2win

January 5, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this

How old is this guy? Sounds like something people in high school do! If you really want to know where you stand with this guy, go. If you can cut the tension with a knife, once those two are in the same room, you have your answer: They have unfinished business. Looks like somebody needs to grow up. But you can’t do it for him — or her!

By MELO

January 5, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this

deidre_NC u luv punishment dont u??? do u enjoy sexx whilst i draw ur blood with a syringe??

Raqi, i saw Opprah and she dont look good.Looks like shes eating anything and everyting these days.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 2:03 PM | Link to this

some’o yoll act like taking a ten-hour drive is puttin’ in work;

BK, it is. I don’t drive 10 hours. And I don’t drive w/ anyone 10 hours. If it’s gonna take over 4 or 5 hours, I’ll book a flight and meet you there.

I truly hate long car trips.

By Born2win

January 5, 2009 2:05 PM | Link to this

How old is this guy? Sounds like something people in high school do! If you really want to know where you stand with this guy, go. If you can cut the tension with a knife, once those two are in the same room, you have your answer: They have unfinished business. Looks like somebody needs to grow up. But you can’t do it for him — or her!

By exquisite7

January 5, 2009 2:06 PM | Link to this

Ok Blanca, How old are you? If you are under 25yrs, I can see y we are discussing this. If you are over 25yrs then you need to see a HEAD doctor!!

Have a good week! :)

By Helo

January 5, 2009 2:06 PM | Link to this

When’s the best time to refinance my boat?

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 2:08 PM | Link to this

Ared And I don’t drive w/ anyone 10 hours. If it’s gonna take over 4 or 5 hours, I’ll book a flight and meet you there.

Sounds like you don’t do a lot of spontaneous travel.

By MELO

January 5, 2009 2:11 PM | Link to this

a HEAD doctor??? This afternoon is promising to be interesting afterall.,thanx exquisite7.I remember that name from strokkers…

Ared, u got an iphone right?? im hating these slide manouvres that u do on it.Looks like a juvenile thing to me.I hate Steve Jobs even more now.I think i wld luv a backberry storm better.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 2:14 PM | Link to this

no extra points because she accompanied me on a road trip.

Blue

Don’t/cain’t “bank” on the road trip get-a-ways when your rolling with me…i be hittin’ the state lines so much…alot times i just need somebody there to be on rotation.

…as far as lil tiffs if ole gurl “go there”…It is best to not even entertain that. That’s what you got your extra hot chili for. j/p

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 2:15 PM | Link to this

Sounds like you don’t do a lot of spontaneous travel.

Actually I do. They’re called plane trips.

For instance, my girl has a business trip to Paris next month. As soon as she gives me the dates, I’m booking a flight and meeting her there.

By Janice

January 5, 2009 2:15 PM | Link to this

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By The Truth

January 5, 2009 2:16 PM | Link to this

Ex7 I wondered how old she is also. I mean who cares about thiis kinda ish nowadays?

C that 1 havent heard about Zeitgist2. Going to look it up on youtube now. Thanks.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 2:17 PM | Link to this

Ared, u got an iphone right??

Hell no.

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 2:18 PM | Link to this

Amred - Cosign your 2:03. I’m spoiled from working for the airlines. I flew down to meet SO in Orlando, but I did ride back the 7.5 hours with him & the kids. We left early and they made the time go by fast. Any longer and I would have had to buy a roundtrip ticket!

Sister Cee! - What is up and how was you holiday? Mine was great. The trip was a load of fun & I got a birthstone bracelet, a robe and slippers and a diamond solitaire necklace. I also got an I LOVE YOU for the first time, after midnight NYE! :)

By abc

January 5, 2009 2:22 PM | Link to this

Of course I’d be civil, at minimum, Dan. At the same time, there’s no interaction on any level between me and exes. Cordial and light conversation, for a minute or 2, sure, but situations that would require that don’t happen anyway.

I let them have all the mutual friends. It’s not as if there were hundreds and hundreds of them, and I figured they’d need them more than I would. I am, after all, a guy. I would expect the guys’ wives and girlfriends to want them to stick with my exes and not with me, just because I’m a guy. I certainly don’t want to remain in social circles with any exes of mine. I just don’t!

I agree, PG, Texas should roll over them, I’m hoping for a good game though — there have been a couple of upsets. Ole Miss over Texas Tech was a bit of a surprise. Utah stomping Bama was unexpected.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 2:24 PM | Link to this

lol…

Ah, Truth are the dogs settled in their “new home”?

Melo That Storm is sumthin’ serious…My lil guy copped one = (playin like it was his) from my uncle and when dude was replaying a song from that phone. That sound/volume is VERY clear!!! check it out

By Dan

January 5, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this

@Melo

I have the iPhone, but I’ve tested the Storm, the gPhone, and I like the i the best.

The Storm is a i knockoff (to me) but had it come out first, it would’ve had the same impact though. The g is bulky and takes to much coordination to use.

But the Storm is an upgrade from the original blackberry (from what I’m told).

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this

I’m spoiled from working for the airlines.

kimmie, I wouldn’t call it spoiled. Just grown. Airfares have hardly kept up with inflation. 12 years ago, I could have bought a cross country ticket to Cali for $200. In 2009 I can buy one for $215.

If I want to get up and go somewhere on a whim, weekend specials come up every week. I have never felt the need to spend 10 hours in a car! Especially if I’m not even going to see my loved ones. Egads!

So yeah, I’d give someone points for making that sacrifice for me.

By Kym aka Southern Girl (Gal)

January 5, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this

PoppaG

I worry about Big Ben too. There was no way he should have been in that last game(menfolks-thinking they are superheros). If he is not taking hits in practice then I hope Leftwhich is warming up. I don’t hold much hope in Leftwhich but when he is on..he is on..he has a candy a* though in terms of injury. Either way as a Steeler fan I have to go with my guys. But if we had to lose the AFC then I def want the Ravens to win it all. I believe they will be the best representative of the AFC (next to the Steelers of course.) Now as for Carolina..two words..Steve Smith. Once he has the ball..count it. They are going to have to do something about that defense..they seem to shut down from time to time. Offense scores point..it is Defense that wins games Congrats to James Harrison on winning Defensive Player of the Year..Steel Curtain baby!!

Falcons fans for the record..Mike Smith robbed Tony Sparano for the Coach of the Year honors..I know it was only one vote but still that honor should have gone to Sparano. Taking a team from 1-15 to the playoffs this year and as a rookie head coach…naw dude was robbed.

By For Real

January 5, 2009 2:27 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!

Blanca I hope you don’t make every decision in your out to be a life decision. Life is not that deep which means neither are you. Do you want to go? Yes or No!

At home with the ABC’s…….

Chick: Sweatums when are you going to come out of that room?

abc: Oh Pumpernickel I’m practicing my music.

Chick: But Hazel Nut you been practicing for hours and I’m in need of maintenance.

abc: Awwwww my Truffle, give me five more minutes of practice and I will come straight away and thrash you.

Chick: Oh my such abc naughty language sets my fissure aflame!!!

abc: Oh my Piquant dish the news of your fissure has given me a taut one.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this

The trip was a load of fun & I got a birthstone bracelet, a robe and slippers and a diamond solitaire necklace. I also got an I LOVE YOU for the first time, after midnight NYE!

Kimmie Now that’s what i like to hear! :)…glad your sweetie “got down” for you.

PoppaG Did the MRs. enjoy her boots & purse and such? Was she surprised?

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 2:31 PM | Link to this

ARed, you are the 3rd person I know to use egads!.

BlueK, when I’m ready and the other person doesn’t chicken out, your application will be taken from the top! U cool w/that?

By The Truth

January 5, 2009 2:31 PM | Link to this

Ared Paris is nice. Hit the louvre, Eiffel Tower of course, Notre Dam, the flea market and ride the train. I bet someone steals something from you. LOL There’s an artist district to visit too but I forgot the name of it.

kimmie you work for the airlines? I want to reverse our divorce. I was wrong about everything. Its all my fault. How soon can you get me on your approved list? Btw, I promise never to cheat in america.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 2:32 PM | Link to this

Ared I wouldn’t call it spoiled. Just grown.

And being single with NO kids helps a lot as well.

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January 5, 2009 2:33 PM | Link to this

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By Reluctant

January 5, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this

I am friends with several of my husband’s ex-girlfriends. My BFF and the matron of honor at our wedding is one of his ex’s. It just doesn’t bother me. I know where his heart is now and that’s all that matters to me. I say go and have a good time. And go with an open mind - not a “he’s mind; stay away” attitude (that just shows how insecure you are about it). Who knows, you may end up liking her.

By Kym aka Southern Girl (Gal)

January 5, 2009 2:35 PM | Link to this

Okay for the new year I decided to try eharmony(they had a free weekend) I can’t say I was really impressed..I think it is for those who are serious..which is fine..but I don’t know I got kind of weird vibe from it. I did communicate with a fellows so we will see how it goes.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this

ARed, you are the 3rd person I know to use egads!.

BlueK, when I’m ready and the other person doesn’t chicken out, your application will be taken from the top! U cool w/that?

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 2:37 PM | Link to this

Leggs U cool w/that?

Last I checked, I was the one behind the desk, not in front of it. Now are you cool w/ that?

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 2:39 PM | Link to this

And being single with NO kids helps a lot as well.

BK, now that is a good point.

Truth, I have always wanted to go to Paris. My dream since I was little. I wanted to be a ballerina and model there, because Europe is more favorable to black people. LOL! My mother made me learn spanish in school, cuz I’m from L.A. LOL

Don’t be wishing theivery on me! But let me know if you do get to Dubai. I have enough SkyMiles to get me there too! My brother in law is still over there. Got me pearls for Christmas.

By For Real

January 5, 2009 2:39 PM | Link to this

Kym taking a team that it’s coach quit with 3 games left, new offensive system, a new left tackle, a new running back, and a rookie qb is worthy of coach of the year.

Oh and Big Ben is done. I want Tenn and Philly in the super bowl. I want Philly to win and then I MacNabb to leave Philly.

abc/PG I agree Texas should roll tonight. What do the two of you think about FL vs OK?

Truth With all of this info coming out about this country’s financial institutions we still haven’t found out which banks are behind the Federal Reserve.

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 2:40 PM | Link to this

Actually Amazon I feel that car rides are good for spending alone time. You can talk, listen to music, or just enjoy the different sceneries with that special person. While it takes longer to get where you are going, like I said it good alone time. And it is somewhat of a test to see if the two of you are cut out to be in close quarters for an extended period of time.

I like road trips. The most time I have spent in a car alone with a special someone is 6 hours. But I believe 10 would not be a problem.

Yeah planes are quicker, but car rides are a bit more personal. IMO

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 2:41 PM | Link to this

Kym I think it is for those who are serious..

Your slip is hanging.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 2:42 PM | Link to this

What is up and how was you holiday?

Kimmie My holiday treat/gift will happen in 2 weeks today. I will be in Washington D.C. with my son on a tour bus, and such, taking him on his first Nation’s Capitol visit. And he (along with his club mem.) are tentative to be seated at the Inauguration. i couldn’t have never planned this year.

By Foots

January 5, 2009 2:43 PM | Link to this

WTF Hey there! Just looking forward to what the new year holds. How are you?

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 2:44 PM | Link to this

Truth - I was part time in Delta reservation sales for a few years while I was in grad school, so I only had the flight benefits while I worked there. Our divorce still stands. Your feet can’t keep running in and out of my life!LOL!!

By M'Karyl

January 5, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this

Ahhhh…the blog is up and running at near full speed…go Blanca…get them rolling early in the New Year…lol!!!!

Instead of New Year’s Resolutions, I prefer to do “New Life ReSOULutions”…a continual renewal of my committment to my spiritual quest, humanity and myself…this is not bound to a chronological frame of reference…and it is all about evolving the infinite immortality of my SOUL…and there are no oops, I dropped the ball and broke the resolution…it is daily living with self and others…it is about finding a way each day to convey to the Divine Universe that I care about the stewardship of my time here with others…it is about helping an elderly woman put a case of water into her car (even when I am limited by how much I can lift, but still more than she)…it is about interacting with community…at the store, walking down the street, wherever…it is about remembering that the only thing that counters the negative energy of destructive forces is by asserting a more positive life force…even in the midst of my own struggles…and then I have accomplished my “New Life ReSOULutions”.

By MELO

January 5, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this

copped one eh Cee, where u learn all this hoodnglish..in tha hood.If u got a hoodnglish dictionary, if i can borrow it plz. Now if u were to ask me 1st what that means, i wld have guessed u talking about cupping a woman’s breastess…silly me. Hw waz ur kwanzaa…meaning umoja,jamula,ndambinda,jambanja etc.LMAO im told thats supposed to mean something in africa.Last time i checked,no country in africa has lingos that place meanings on those silly words…LMAO!!

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S!

January 5, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this

ARED & MELO

HAS A OLD A$$ CELL PHONE CIRCA 1989…

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this

You can be behind the other person’s desk. I’m cool w/that (LOL)!

Truth, are you saying the pick pocketers are smooth in Paris, or are you saying they’re plentiful?

By Kym

January 5, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this

Truth I thought about you over the holidays. Not saying you would do anything like this..but I did think alot about some of the stuff you have said here. Did you hear about the guy who killed the 8 people and set the house on fire on Christmas eve. Apparently he was upset over his divorce he owed the wife about 10,000 either way dude killed the wife, her parents..and took 5 other folks out before he set the house ablaze and left. He killed himself in his brother’s driveway.

It got me thinking in these days and times maybe divorced people or those going through hard times(can’t get along with baby daddy or mama) may want to work together and look for reasonable solutions. While this was extreme I could easily see this happening regularly as this recession worsens.

By abc

January 5, 2009 2:48 PM | Link to this

I think Florida/Oklahoma will be a high scoring game, but Oklahoma will score a lot more points.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 2:51 PM | Link to this

You can be behind the other person’s desk. I’m cool w/that (LOL)!

Truth, are you saying the pick pocketers are smooth in Paris, or are you saying they’re plentiful?

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 2:53 PM | Link to this

abc

Utah stomping Bama was unexpected.

I wasn’t surprised. I was surprised at the ease in which it was done, but I had my bet on Utah. It was hard to pick against the SEC, but Utah talked and acted as if they had something to prove. Alabama talked as if the Sugar Bowl was a just their consolation prize after losing to Florida. Even Saban said, they Utah wasn’t from a “Real BCS conference”. I knew that Utah didn’t have a gimmick offense like Hawaii did last year. I expected the Utah to win (especially after Alabama’s star offensive lineman was suspended for contact with an agent), but I didn’t expect them to pretty much control the game though.

Kym

There was no way he should have been in that last game(menfolks-thinking they are superheros).

It was not about being a superhero. It was about keeping continuity. It would not have been good for him to have the last game off and then the bye. I agree with playing him. However, that is the risk that is taken by playing him. The wild card team (Chargers) have played every week and have that playoff mentality since they were 4-8. History shows that the teams with byes usually get off to slow starts on offense. It is a darn if you do, darn if you don’t proposition.

Cee

PoppaG Did the MRs. enjoy her boots & purse and such? Was she surprised?

She really did like them. She was surprised. I liked them, too. A pair of 119.00 boots for 39.99. Thanks Macy’s and the one day sale!!

I thank my mother-in-law for having a child with small feet. (Size 6 foot).

By Kym

January 5, 2009 2:53 PM | Link to this

Blue What in the world are you talking about?

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 2:54 PM | Link to this

Kym did you hear about the guy that killed his two year old son. He said he would kill him before he paid child support.

It’s amazingly scary that a man loves his money more than his own flesh and blood offspring. What a drastic permanent solution for a problem that would have ended in 16 years. Now he has a much larger problem to deal with.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 2:54 PM | Link to this

I feel that car rides are good for spending alone time.

Raqi - I agree. I just personally like to limit that interaction to 4 hours. A round trip is 8 hours.

Besides, the person driving is also focused on the road, so I’d prefer undivided attention anyway.

My sisters and I all met up in Houston for New Years. My sister and her husband drove the 12 hours and half the time the non-driver was asleep so that the other could take the next leg.

I flew. LOL

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

Hw waz ur kwanzaa…meaning umoja,jamula,ndambinda,jambanja etc. im told thats supposed to mean something in africa. Last time i checked,no country in africa has lingos that place meanings on those silly words*

Melo I actually celebrated ( jus a little) Kwanzaa with friends on New Years Day. And they added some Louisiana Creole flavor to it. It was quite nice & entertaining.

btw - no slang dictionary needed… “copped” is a word. Lol…

Copped - To come into possession of something; to get something desirable, to obtain somebody or something…

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 2:58 PM | Link to this

Sister Cee - Sounds like you & the lil one are getting the best present of all! Quite a few of my father’s side live in the DC area & I have spent summers there. You best believe their homes are packed for inaug day!

By MELO

January 5, 2009 2:58 PM | Link to this

I also got an I LOVE YOU for the first time, after midnight NYE! now thats kinda weird and sad at the same time.U telling me all the halleluas u been singing about this guy and all the stuff u done for him and u being with him and close to him for so long,he had never uttered the wrd??????? Are u that desperate?

By M'Karyl

January 5, 2009 2:59 PM | Link to this

@Melo

That is your last name…have a reason for axing…lol

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 2:59 PM | Link to this

Thanks Macy’s and the one day sale!

Poppa for some strange reason I have had no desire to shop since I finished at Christmas. My friends are always telling me what they saw on sale somewhere and I just kinda shrug it off and quickly dismiss the thought. That’s really odd for me.

Seeing Macy’s did not arouse my shopping urge. hmmmm

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 3:00 PM | Link to this

Cee And he (along with his club mem.) are tentative to be seated at the Inauguration.

I hope you make it in… but if you don’t, you can hang out with me and Little Blue on The Mall.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 3:00 PM | Link to this

PoppaG I thank my mother-in-law for having a child with small feet. (Size 6 foot).

I bet you and her can find shoes all day, every day for her small feet. That Day Sale was on the money…

By MELO

January 5, 2009 3:01 PM | Link to this

I am friends with several of my husband’s ex-girlfriends that means uall are in rotation..u the only one blind in that situation.Trust me.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this

Melo knows what that word means, his blog persona is always trying to “cop a feel”, or “cop a lay”!

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 3:06 PM | Link to this

Kym What in the world are you talking about?

It was your post. I just didn’t cut/paste the whole paragraph, just that incredible reality (concerning eHarmony) that you came up with.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 3:06 PM | Link to this

For Real

I agree Texas should roll tonight. What do the two of you think about FL vs OK?

I am a former USC Gamecock player and I really hate Florida. However, I think that their defense is better than people give them credit, especially Brandon Spikes. Bradford will have to get rid of the ball quicker than he did against Big 12. Texas had the highest ranked Big 12 defense, and the rest of the Big 12 ranked no better than 46. He lost to Texas.

As far as offenses go, Urban Meyer recruits speed for that spread option that the Gaytors (spelled the way on purpose) run. Percy Harvin will probably be the fastest guy on that field in Miami. Let’s not forget, that Florida is playing in Florida. It would be easier to find Florida fans in Florida. Even though, Gainesville is a long way from Miami, it is closer than Normal Oklahoma is to Miami.

I really hate to say it, but I think Florida will win.

Bradford better look out for Brandon Spikes because he is a beast and can disrupt the Sooner gameplan almost singlehandedly.

By Dan

January 5, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this

@PG

The ESPN football pregame had a segment about hurt vs. injured.

They talked about Youngblood (a tackle for the Rams, LA I think) playing 4 weeks with a broken leg. Even Deacon Jones said “he showed me some toughness”.

Man, please.

Call me a punk, whatever, but the day the Kid would’ve thought about playing with a strained groin at RB or broken anything is the day they need to cart me off.

Now I played a few games with a lacerated kidney (with an Emory Doctor’s clearance) but that wasn’t pain, and I was 18.

But, how many cats end up regretting “playing through it”? I know a few at 40+ that out and out said that “[it] wasn’t worth it”

By Blanca

January 5, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this

For Real Blanca I hope you don’t make every decision in your out to be a life decision. Life is not that deep which means neither are you. Do you want to go? Yes or No! Come on now, I do need to draw from life for blog topics after all. Gimme a break!

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 3:08 PM | Link to this

Melo knows what that word means, his blog persona is always trying to “cop a feel”, or “cop a lay”!

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 3:08 PM | Link to this

Melo - How about I pull a Barack Obama on you and not even dignify you with a response? Because you would not even begin to understand the behavior of a grown, real man, in love with his woman.

Ain’t a da— thing sad or desperate about it!!!

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 3:11 PM | Link to this

Cee

I bet you and her can find shoes all day, every day for her small feet.

Pretty much, but it makes up for me & my size 18 shoes. Bennie knows me well.

By SexyCool - UnCut

January 5, 2009 3:12 PM | Link to this

blanca…i respect the fact that you use current life experiences to blog about…it reminds me of mia and the mailman and that other dude (can’t remember his name)…

it can be a little difficult to serve yourself up on a regular basis, all while trying to figure this out…it’s hard enough doing your own second guessing without having a blog full of folks analyzing you so…

with that said…i will get back to OVER analyzing you…lol…

By MELO

January 5, 2009 3:13 PM | Link to this

Besides, the person driving is also focused on the road, so I’d prefer undivided attention anyway u may not have as many tricks as Raqi but she may want to tell u how u can actually pay him attn whilst he drives.And always try putting on a skirt(pref with a slit),rather than pants when 2 of u are in the car.Raqi is on point.And if he drives stick,even better!! After a gear shift,u know where his right hand is headed…… Car trips are the best if u want to give a girl attention and also the best for her to show case her head game.

By Kym

January 5, 2009 3:13 PM | Link to this

Raqi I did not hear about that. Horrible. It is why I am teaching my son to not focus so much on stuff and money. NO I don’t want my son to grow up to be a broke hippie..but at the same time I am not trying to raise a selfish SOB.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 3:16 PM | Link to this

Blue…oh I already know i probably won’t have a seat at the most popular Inauguration EVER! :)

I’ll be back at the hotel, using all amenities, paintin’ nails, or eatin popcone and watching it on TV, prolly. i ain’t figured that out yet

By M'Karyl

January 5, 2009 3:17 PM | Link to this

BTW, I moved from the place where I was living…just was time to go…ole boy had told me that he was going to tell ole girl that they were no longer a couple…lol…two weeks before she even knew and 3 weeks before I moved…I knew before she did…so, after I moved…I sent her a letter laying down the whole nine yards of ishes she did not get…hey, sumbody needed to tell her the truth…as it will set you free…she seemed to think that he was seeing someone else…naw, he just was not into her…it was actually somewhat comical…I ask her how she was doing…just a general comment about her day…then she told me about her conversation with him about ending the relationship…and she said “Well, I know he has been seeing someone else for a while”…I was like WTF…he is here everyday by himself…nobody wants him…lol…I just was like, ok, and I let it go…but 6 months of watching that shyte was too much to hold in…I feel that she deserved to know what he was too coward to tell her 15 years ago…I just watched too much humiliation at her expense…well, at least I can live with it…whatch think?

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this

Melo now thats kinda weird and sad at the same time.U telling me all the halleluas u been singing about this guy and all the stuff u done for him and u being with him and close to him for so long,he had never uttered the wrd??????? Are u that desperate?

LOL Was that a card-pull?

By MELO

January 5, 2009 3:20 PM | Link to this

to understand the behavior of a grown, real man, in love with his woman ure right!!!Luv is very funny indeed.It makes u believe what u want to believe.Thats the strange and good thing about it.But it dont take 365,let alone 730 days to utter those 3 lil words.Grown man or not! Iam dumbfounded…..esp and considering ur revelations about ur relationship on this blog.I hope its real and it leads in the right direction and wish u nothing but the very best.

By The Truth

January 5, 2009 3:21 PM | Link to this

Ared/Leggs me and wify missed the trip to the ET so being adventurous we hopped the train. I either lost my watch or it was stolen. Me and the ex are leaing to the latter. Still we had a ball. Oh yeah. I saw the BIGGEST rat I’ve ever seen near the ET. That thing was huge. It didn’t even run but walked away lookin like “What?”. You’re going to be amazed at how small Mona Lisa is.

Kym I think some cat killed his sister today. Its going to get much rougher because as WTF alluded to earlier this aint over by a long shot. If these unemployment numbers keep growing this things gonna fall like dominoes. If a cats having probls on the job and at home he’s starting to look at ol girl like sheep at slaughter. You always hurt the ones that are closest to you.

Kimmie so you’re not working there anymore? I’ve rethought this thing and maybe its not going to work after all. You’ve hurt me to bad. It’s all your fault. I’ll have my attorney contact you to make sure everything is final.

Cee i still have the dogs until I get a travel date. How are ya?

For Real seems that China is becoming our bank of choice. They’re the ones bailing us out, for now.

Leggs I’ve been wearing that movie channel out. I saw Eagle Eye which was a great movie also.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 3:22 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Bennies in Buckhead Crossings plaza? There’s a Marshall’s and Office Depot over their that usually has some good markdowns.

You wear a size 18? Get out! Okay if you remember- What size was yo’ feet in 4th grade? Where you already in the last big kids/small mens sizes?

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli got a guy? Go Cemeeli!

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 3:25 PM | Link to this

Amazon don’t mind the foolery that melo is talking. Road trips are a good time to talk.

And driving while engaging in meaningful conversation is not that distracting. All the road trips that I have taken we start out early in the morning. That way we are awake and attentive. And talking keeps the mind active helping you not fall off to sleep if you decide to travel at night.

By Kym

January 5, 2009 3:26 PM | Link to this

Blue I still have no clue what the hell your comment means. Maybe for the new year you can practice saying whateva it is you have to say as oppose to coming up with little phrases or stories to get your point across that way no one has to guess what you are driving at. If you have a comment to make about my opinion of eharmony or about me then the direct approach works best.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 3:26 PM | Link to this

Dan

Youngblood was a Gator. I’ve heard about him playing with a broken leg. That was also during a time when the union wasn’t powerful either. You could get cut back then for not being able to play. “You can’t make the club in the Tub” is something that I used to hear. It was one of the reasons for the strike in the 80s.

They way he and others from that era have been treated since they retired has soured me against the NFL. I recently saw Earl Campbell. Watching him walk made my knees hurt. The NFL doesn’t want to provide medical expenses for those who paved the way for the riches that they now enjoy. I know many that say that it wasn’t worth it.

Yeah, I played hurt many times. However, never had an injury to the head like a concussion. I’ve played with cast on my arm (I was DL) and many a strained groin and hamstring.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this

Raqi, like I said, 4 hours is my limit.

As BK pointed out, I’m single, with no kids. Same for my guy. We can lay around for hours on a weekend and just talk without having to worry about a tv, road or my short skirt glaring at melo

By Kym

January 5, 2009 3:34 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Dude you are not helping me transition into manhood with my son at all. My son is about 5’6 could be 5’7 now and wears a man size 12. Yes I said man’s 12 and he is 12. sigh the doctor told him that based on his growth chart(he has never in his life been on that chart anywhere..he could possible be about 6’3 or 6’4.

This is punishment for me..because I wore a women’s size 11 starting in I guess 8th grade..which means when I stopped growing I was at a solid 12. I hated shoe shopping. Shoes is not something I have a love of at all.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 3:34 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl You, and she FREED youself of that there. Cool.

I saw the BIGGEST rat I’ve ever seen near the ET. That thing was huge. It didn’t even run but walked away lookin like “What?”.

Truth You silly as heck! Lol…

I’ve been well.

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 3:34 PM | Link to this

Melo - I’m not trying to explain it to you Melo, but best believe, there is nothing to be dumbfounded about in this situation. Seems like you’re the only one that sees a problem where there is none.

By Dan

January 5, 2009 3:35 PM | Link to this

@PG

Post Gene Upshaw and with Ditka’s soapbox, the NFLPA are considering donating a part of their salaries to the Legends Foundation (Ditka’s organization).

But I feel you, on them cold, cold days, my favorite line is “walking like OJ”.

It’s a shame that all those cats from the 70s and 80s get treated like that. While Plaxico is amassing an arsenal for percieved threats to his coonery.

It’s a shame really

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 3:35 PM | Link to this

Cee

PoppaG Bennies in Buckhead Crossings plaza?

I’ve been there and the one near Indian Trial in Gwinnett.

Where you already in the last big kids/small mens sizes?

In fourth grade, I was probably in small mens since I was about 5’5” in 4th grade.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 5, 2009 3:37 PM | Link to this

Deidre Girl…you are a glutton for punushment too huh? I have done things that killed me inside..but I put on my best pokerface. I look back and now I want to kick my own azz! LOL No mas!

Reluctant my best friend is an ex of a guy dated. They remained friends and I met her and we clicked instantly. And that was years ago.

Leggs I guess I am one of those 3…I use egads a lot. I blame my family in London for it. I have picked up a lot of slang from them.

Raqi are you serious?? Dude killed his kid to not pay child support. His diznick should be chopped off to prevent him from making babies and even enjoying what it takes to make babies for that! Oh he will be the b*tch of many inmates for that. He loved his money that much that he did not learn from Ray Caruth’s dumb azz? now if he lives in there he will earn about $.30 a day. Ok buddy how’s that working out for ya? What a wanker!

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 3:38 PM | Link to this

ARed - what chu’ talkin about?

By Dan

January 5, 2009 3:40 PM | Link to this

For the political minded:

In Ann Coulter’s new book she attempts to mock Michelle Obama about her style and makes other snide comments.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/01/03/ann-coulter-slams-michelln154947.html

I’ll say this….Michelle grew up on the southside of the Chi, Ms. Coulter better watch datazz, cause MO will git her. (If not send somebody too)

By MELO

January 5, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this

Kimmie,okay, i drop it.U answered me in a grown and friendly way,i appreciate that.If u had given me a long azz post in rebuttal, i wld have said there are rats under there…LOL

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 3:44 PM | Link to this

Kym Maybe for the new year you can practice saying whateva it is you have to say as oppose to coming up with little phrases or stories to get your point across that way no one has to guess what you are driving at.

Okkkk… well, your comment, “I think it is for those who are serious..,” sounded quite incredulous to me. Afterall, isn’t that the main point that the good doctor tries to make on the commercials? So to me, your epiphany was no brainstorm.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 3:44 PM | Link to this

Truth, I saw Eagle Eye yesterday. I’m still amazed you can watch these movies mostly for free. You are funny with your on again, off again divorce. No perks, no need to be married. I’m with you on that!

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 3:46 PM | Link to this

Kym and Staceye here’s the article.

He didn’t even know how much he had to pay yet. He just didn’t want to pay. I hope he gets the death penalty and get his arse packed every single day while waiting for his trial.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 3:50 PM | Link to this

Truth, I saw Eagle Eye yesterday. I’m still amazed you can watch these movies mostly for free. You are funny with your on again, off again divorce. No perks, no need to be married. I’m with you on that!

By SexyCool - UnCut

January 5, 2009 3:51 PM | Link to this

i thought the mother was remiss in letting the child go with the nutcase for the first time EVER unsupervised…not saying that she knew he would kill him…

but still…

By aldga2009

January 5, 2009 3:51 PM | Link to this

Why do you have to ASSERT yourself as the new woman in his life. You are THE woman in his life, are you not? Be the woman that God intended you to be. Pettiness has no place there.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this

Melo …i appreciate that.If u had given me a long azz post in rebuttal,…

That would be a tactical move, often executed by the female psyche, in an effort to lullaby a guy to sleep - so to speak - in an effort to minimize their “fuggedupness” (<=== You like that Cee?). Ask Jamoca about it. She may be more familiar with the term filibuster. LMAO

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this

Dan I purchased lil Cee that biography of Michelle. And that sister is a true sistah! You hear meh?!?

For those that want a budget-friendly Michelle Obama bio: See Barnes&Nobles with it for $7.99.

By Raqi

January 5, 2009 3:57 PM | Link to this

Yeah. Although he was granted visitation he never went to see or pick up the child before. Then he shows up one day and takes him off… HA. Hell to Nah.

She had to know that he had a problem with paying. I truly doubt if he hadn’t already expressed his displeasure to do so outwardly before picking up the little boy.

Just truly sad.

By The Truth

January 5, 2009 4:00 PM | Link to this

Leggs a buddy of minejust called me asking that same thing about the perks of being married. He’s been with a chick for 2 years and is trying to justify his exit. I said there aren’t any and he agreed. Me thinketh his mate about to get a pinketh slippeth.

Btw, there will be a pop quiz on the “Ascent of Money” material on friday. Any woman that fails goes over my knee for 20 swats. Any guy that fails needs to go over the material again but this time with more attention. Staceye you’ve already failed so you go first. See you at 7.

By Dan

January 5, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

@BK

That 3:52 was to say the least insightful.

By Kym

January 5, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

Blue Maybe I should have clarified my statement and said…The site had people who take themselves wayyy to serious or it could have been those were the matches selected for me. While I understand the purpose of the good doctor’s site it is not for me.

For those interested eharmony will start a site in March to include matching service for Men seeking Men and Women seeking Women they settled their lawsuit end of last year.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 4:03 PM | Link to this

in an effort to minimize their “fuggedupness”

Blue…lol…not better than “si’dine”.

By MELO

January 5, 2009 4:04 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta,yeah, yeah.she may be fuggedup in silence right now.u neva know.But a long azz post wld have solicited so much in my arsenal,to support my oblangato logic. Now to u bro and Truth too..how many did u bang these holidays??Queen let me out this sat and i was invited all the way to a sports bar in Duluth(barnicles) by my azzhole/philandere male friend.I picked one phine sister to come to the dance floor..long,phine and very country and dazzed-like in demeanaor.She didnt look like she was from these parts.She asked for my 2-way and i gave it.Boy waz i right? As soon as i hit the pleasntdale rd,heading to Ronald Reagan,heading to my homely warmth,she hits me on the 2 way,whats ur name by the way,i forgot??.And she kept me on the 4ne for another 2 minutes as i navigated the thick mist on that night. These broads!!

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 4:05 PM | Link to this

Raqi

I have no desire to shop….ever. It is a necessary evil in my book. Try being 6’8” and people looking everywhere you go. Most stores don’t have my size anyways. What is the point of going to Old Navy when all I can really buy is a hat that says “Old Navy”? Their long sleeves are still too short.

Jos A. Bank had a buy 1 get 2 free sale on Christmas Eve. I can’t get anything there either. My brothers-in-law hit the jackpot.

When I shop I just go to Casual Male XL, J.C. Penney’s actually has a good selection. Dillards Atlantic Station is also good. I usually just end up ordering much of my clothing. I hate the mall aka Hades.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 4:08 PM | Link to this

In fourth grade, I was probably in small mens since I was about 5’5” in 4th grade.

PoppaG - I guess my young one will be getting use to scratching for a little ‘extra change’ for those “nice ones” he likes/want, when his shoe size switches over to men sizes. Which will be NOW. He’s already a size 7.

By MELO

January 5, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this

did i say thick mist, i meant thick fog my american friends.Its the british in me……

By M'Karyl

January 5, 2009 4:11 PM | Link to this

@Cee

Me done got free…was not bad, just a little nuts and all…he freed me from paying back the remaining loan for the jewelry line and the laptop…go figure…but she is still there…go figure…hey-ale, at least I got something out of it…let him fight with his good vs evil…she ain’t got jack…period…and she is too ashamed to tell her family the truth…30 years of her life with men who have always cheated on her…go figure…and even if she got the house, he has remortgaged the house so much that she would be paying for his stuff…WTF…IMO, love is too precious to abuse and mistreat…and if the other does not know it…I do…see ya…btw, I may be back in the ATL in 6 months…the VA is cool…I needed the vacation…but, I miss my party life…and all…me be so funny…but do I have stories to tell…NYE in Chic Beach and how that happened was so “M”…lol…did not know anyone at the house party…met a chick on Sunday…invited us to the party…and they are still talking about the “M” and her party spirit…love me some good times.

By Dan

January 5, 2009 4:13 PM | Link to this

@PG

There’s a spot on Peachtree Street (on the right past Wendy’s near Chops) that cater’s to Big & Tall -Rochester’s.

Prollem is, as always, if you want anything resembling style, it costs an arm and a leg. My patna put me on a couple years ago, but they keep some nice stuff.

By AARON

January 5, 2009 4:14 PM | Link to this

I’d say you must be hotter than the ex, or else there is no way he would invite you. So go show your fine a* off!

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 4:19 PM | Link to this

Dan - I saw that mess that anorexic skeleton wrote about Michelle. She’s a washed-up skank with no man. Funny, she tried to say that Michelle stole her look from Jackie-O(the sleeveless dresses, pearls, turned-under hair), but what is she wearing in HER picture - a sleeveless dress w/pearls! She just had to say something nasty to sell her book!

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 4:22 PM | Link to this

Kym

.Mike Smith robbed Tony Sparano for the Coach of the Year honors

I disagree. I actually think Mike Smith had to do it on his own with a team that was just down in the dumps period and not just about losses. They lost their franchise QB and their cowardly coach ran back to college with his tail between his legs. (Petrino left those guys a letter in their locker saying that he was leaving; he didn’t even have the twig and berries to talk to them as a team.) Smith had to change the team in one season. Alge (who was probably the best incumbent player that Atlanta had) and traded their best corner in DeAngelo Hall. He had the presence of mind to have a veteran player being the leader in each position. So, the vets mentored the young’uns. With this turnover, he made them into a team. He convinced people like Lawyer Milloy to stay when they could have said that I am an old azz man and can’t wait for the Falcons to turn it around. He got everyone to buy in. In only one year. There was no Tuna to help him. He had a rookie GM as well with Dimitroff. (Ask Cleveland how their young GM workedout…oh yeah they just fired him) What the Falcons did was indeed quite impressive.

Tony Sparano had Bill Parcells in his corner to help him. You can’t tell me that Parcells didn’t have a say in personnel aka Chad Pennington. I’m sure that Parcells gave Sparano some words of advice along the way.

I’m willing to give more props to Jim Harbaugh than Sparano.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 4:25 PM | Link to this

*t is a necessary evil in my book. ost stores don’t have my size anyways.

Alright alright PoppaG. Say out loud! man…hahaha

Lil dude will be a big ‘un as well. I don’t even like talking about it, ‘cuase as is my folks were telling me Christmas; it’s good i’m trying to stay active/fit cause while i’m still the ring leader in “rearing” lil dude, I have only few years with a ‘whippin’ that’ll make it fye, before the licks wont even hurt him anymore.

Blue Uncle Frank said: When that boy hear you coming, he ack like the warden is in the building! made unc proud of his neice! hahaha

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 4:29 PM | Link to this

Dan

Thanks, but I know about them. You are right. They are expensive. I have bought items from them, though.

I just don’t like shopping. It ain’t my thing. Its like asking Raqi to enjoy the stunts of the defensive line in a football game. It just ain’t her cup of tea.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

NYE in Chic Beach and how that happened was so “M”…lol…did not know anyone at the house party.

M’Karyl That shindig sound like you had a lot of fun. Ms. Life of the Party.

Your friend/ex-roomate; Pray for her.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 4:31 PM | Link to this

Oh my, she’s about to get the pink slip! Well, I tell you this. If he has to sit, ponder and ask others the benefits of marriage, he’s not ready. Point blank! He really shouldn’t have many, if any, cons to his pros. If you’re not excited about getting married, then don’t do it!

Me, I should have taken my crying walking down the aisle as a testament that I didn’t know WTF I was getting into!

By Kym

January 5, 2009 4:32 PM | Link to this

Truth I am slowly(real slow) seeing part of your point of view. Now dude that killed the kid..yeah he gets death. Thats just crazy…I mean good grief..either pay, or hide, but seriously this killing stuff has to stop.

But ladies there are some women out there that are doing some serious dirty in the name of a dollar. That has to stop. If you know the man is unemployed and short on funds..cut him a break on the payments. Unemployed benefits can be deducted for child support..so you will only get a small percentage. Talk it out Don’t try to take dude to the cleaners when he is down. I can truly see all of this getting so far out there..this is just unreal.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 4:34 PM | Link to this

Cee

the licks wont even hurt him anymore.

Remember this, sometimes it will hurt the “heart” more than it hurts the azz. Many guys won’t want to disappoint mom. The disappointing mom may hurt more than any physical thing would.

By kimmie

January 5, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this

Amred - Have you still been watching OC Housewives? I have been hitting or missing, but Jo & Slade popped up on one show. I have to catch the repeat of that one.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this

Dan See a female, on the average, goes about verbal expression with much more zeal than a man does, so that’s often the weapon of choice. My response is to at the end of the word bombardment, immediately counter with, “What did you say?” LOL

Melo See you got that European thing goin’. I might have to have you point me towards some spots. LOL

Kym Maybe I should have clarified my statement and said…The site had people who take themselves wayyy to serious.

Sounds like some of the peeps on this blog ha?

Afternoon Observations:

Old ladies with limps get strong legs quick when they want to get in front of you at the post office.

Hadn’t really seen Oprah lately, but looking at her in this white blouse, she looks to have some big azz, nice t!tties. LOL

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 4:36 PM | Link to this

Oh my, she’s about to get the pink slip! Well, I tell you this. If he has to sit, ponder and ask others the benefits of marriage, he’s not ready. Point blank! He really shouldn’t have many, if any, cons to his pros. If you’re not excited about getting married, then don’t do it!

Me, I should have taken my crying walking down the aisle as a testament that I didn’t know WTF I was getting into!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 5, 2009 4:38 PM | Link to this

Raqi nobody ever thinks that the deadbeat dad would kill his child. As conspiracy theory as I am I would never think that. Well now I will. When I say anybody is capable of anything…..I really mean it.

Example, yesterday my dad could not take me to the airport so my mami called a towncar service. Well this driver shows up with another guy in the front seat. I did not see the person until we had already left my neigborhood. Now this is a reputable company but I was still thinking these men could take me somewhere and rape and kill me. So I text my mami to call the service and they called him and said he is not supposed to have anyone else in the car. He tells me the guy is his 15 year old son…the son (who was holding tissues to his face and changing them made me think he was sick or something)said he was 17. Either way..I am in a car with 2 males I do not know! That was the most uncomfortable ride to Newark Airport. Trust me I will complain. But you see where my mind went. But a father killing his kid…that is beyond me. So I guess every mother should be careful of the a reluctant father and not try to force him to spend time with the kid. It may save their lives! Wow!

Truth You are a hot mess! LOL

Poppawhen I got home I saw that my 13 year old brother wears a 13 shoe and is 5’9 1/2. WTF? He has me by an inch and half. UGH!

Kym there are websites for size 11 shoes. If you want I can find them for you. I have seen them.

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By Stefanie

January 5, 2009 4:39 PM | Link to this

Blanca, tell him to F’Off.

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 4:41 PM | Link to this

Cee & Kym

Just wait and see. Kids are funny. Growth spurts are what really makes the difference. I had one in 3rd grade. As a first grader, I wasn’t exceptionally tall. I had another in 7th grade. Then, I had another in 10th grade. That one was huge and strange. It seems like in 3 months I went through countless amounts of clothes and shoes. There was one pair of shoes that I only wore once.

Just wait and see. You kids may have their spurts now, but may not have them during high school.

By Jamoca

January 5, 2009 4:42 PM | Link to this

Blue Tha Big S** Hmph, hmph, hmph… just combine ya’ little sporadic post to my long @$$ fillabusta …and some folks will still have me beat! Heyal, I don’t have ALL DAY! With the amount of time you have to frolick, seems to me (esp in these times) folks would at least try to manage theirs more wisely. It’s the tale of the worker ant versus the grasshopper. HA!!

I tell ya’ today, yousa messy one ain’t cha? …shootin’ straight from a chicken’s @$$ <— but don’t dare turn around to feed ButtaCup’s Big Shiittin’ Bowaay what he spits?!! Cain’t tell his stankin’ @$$ from his shiittey mouf…

Looks like the jury has decided to revoke ya’ ROD tag and replace it with a temporary DA sticker.

She got jokes too… ;-)

…and uh, Happy New Year’s people.

By M'Karyl

January 5, 2009 4:42 PM | Link to this

@Cee

Chirl…we did the Monkey, Mash Potato, the Cool Jerk, the Swim, the Horse, the Twist, the Pony…lol…oh yeah, it was the “Land of 1,000 Dances” in the house…Mz. M leading the line…lol

By Stefanie

January 5, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this

Blanca, tell him to F’Off.

By Jamoca

January 5, 2009 4:44 PM | Link to this

Blue Tha Big Shiitta Hmph, hmph, hmph… just combine ya’ little sporadic post to my long @$$ fillabusta …and some folks will still have me beat! Heyal, I don’t have ALL DAY! With the amount of time you have to frolick, seems to me (esp in these times) folks would at least try to manage theirs more wisely. It’s the tale of the worker ant versus the grasshopper. HA!!

I tell ya’ today, yousa messy one ain’t cha? …shootin’ straight from a chicken’s @$$ <— but don’t dare turn around to feed ButtaCup’s Big Shiittin’ Bowaay what he spits?!! Cain’t tell his stankin’ @$$ from his shiittey mouf…

Looks like the jury has decided to revoke ya’ ROD tag and replace it with a temporary DA sticker.

She got jokes too… ;-)

…and uh, Happy New Year’s people.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 4:44 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Thanks.

Last night i had to “lay the law” verbally about how liberal he thought he was/ & could ‘leave’ = more like “give” his cousin-inlaw, mind you, one of his game disc/cartridge that i got him, for Christmas lstwk. When i told him how “hard” it was to get his stuff and how i felt he was being thoughtless in not getting the approval with me about that. He apologized, and went to bed @ 7:22. I’m most positive he’ll be tryin’ to get it back, asap.

Yea, he detected my disstatisfy of that move.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 4:44 PM | Link to this

Pop There was no Tuna to help him.

I don’t even like Atlanta and I have to agree that Mike deserves the award. Also, many were looking sideways when Atlanta drafted Ryan at #3.

Kym If you know the man is unemployed and short on funds..cut him a break on the payments.

I’m gon’ commend you for that but you know that in reality, ain’t hap’nin’. Those payments are in the budget that pays for phat azz cable, 1000 minute cell phones, nice rides, hair, nails, $1500 mortgage, etc. And ain’t no chick, well very few, are giving up their lifestyles, just to give some baby-daddy a break.

By Jamoca

January 5, 2009 4:45 PM | Link to this

Blue Tha Big Shiittah Hmph, hmph, hmph… just combine ya’ little sporadic post to my long @$$ fillabusta …and some folks will still have me beat! Heyal, I don’t have ALL DAY! With the amount of time you have to frolick, seems to me (esp in these times) folks would at least try to manage theirs more wisely. It’s the tale of the worker ant versus the grasshopper. HA!!

I tell ya’ today, yousa messy one ain’t cha? …shootin’ straight from a chicken’s @$$ <— but don’t dare turn around to feed ButtaCup’s Big Shiittin’ Bowaay what he spits?!! Cain’t tell his stankin’ @$$ from his shiittey mouf…

Looks like the jury has decided to revoke ya’ ROD tag and replace it with a temporary DA sticker.

She got jokes too… ;-)

…and uh, Happy New Year’s people.

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 4:48 PM | Link to this

kimmie - I have been watching. I’m all caught up.

A crop of shows fire off new episodes this week.

And “The Secret Life of the American Teenager” is back! Whoo hoo.

By Short Yellow Bus

January 5, 2009 4:49 PM | Link to this

Is it me or does Jamoca’s post need an interpeter? I can rarely understand what she’s stating. Some of the others as well and I’d love to enjoy but usually have to bypass because it’s foreign to me.

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 4:51 PM | Link to this

Some Baby-diddy’s get a HUGE break! Ask somma these moms on the blog.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 4:52 PM | Link to this

Staceye That was the most uncomfortable ride to Newark Airport. Trust me I will complain.

So now I’m wondering… The guy was sent from the agency. You and your parents saw his face. Was shordy sick? If dude gets fired was it worth it? But I guess you can never be too safe?

By Poppa Grande

January 5, 2009 4:54 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla

I am not the biggest Atlanta fan, either. But, I do understand that they had a Rookie General Manager (Baltimore still has Ozzie Newsome picking), They had a Rookie Head Coach, They had a Rookie QB.

Getting Chad Pennington is a Tuna move. When was the last time that Parcells used a rookie QB? Phil Simms may be the youngest one that he used. Parcells is the guy that called Vinny Testaverde like 50 times. He is the NFL’s version of Larry Brown. He hates young QBs. So what does he do in Miami….drafts Chad Henne from Michigan, but gets Chad Pennington.

By MELO

January 5, 2009 4:54 PM | Link to this

I can rarely understand what she’s stating coz she not talking to u…..

By AmazonRed

January 5, 2009 4:56 PM | Link to this

Is it me or does Jamoca’s post need an interpeter?

Short Bus, I have also felt the same way. It got easier with time.

By Blue_Kolla The Big Hitta

January 5, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this

Short Bus Is it me or does Jamoca’s post need an interpeter? I can rarely understand what she’s stating.

She sometimes reminds me of I think it was Eddie Murphy talking about Maseo and another James Brown band member talking during a show.

James B: Movin. Het. Grovin. Het. Kin I getta blah blah. HET.

Maseo: What he say?

Other Dude: Hayo if I know. We gettin’ paid, keep playin’.

By Short Yellow Bus

January 5, 2009 4:59 PM | Link to this

Okay thanks. Just making sure nothing is wrong with me…LOL

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone.

Let’s “pay it forward” in 2009. Lend a helping hand to someone truly in need of help.

Peace!

By Cemeeli

January 5, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this

Queen let me out this sat and i was invited all the way to a sports bar…

Melo She had a good Christmas. u too.

PoppaG So what chu sayin’? I might have a grown man walking before he hits Middle/High school? OW! That’s gonna hurt!

By The Truth

January 5, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this

Kym beware of a cat at the bottom of his life. He’s dangerous. I don’t feel sorry for these chicks getting cut to the bone. They went for blood in their way and he went in his. A dude with fight in him isn’t rolling over to take dizznick from some chick.

This is getting to be about who wants it the most, and it seems like the fellas are making their power move.

By Jamoca

January 5, 2009 5:02 PM | Link to this

Is it me or does Jamoca’s post need an interpeter? I can rarely understand what she’s stating. Some of the others as well and I’d love to enjoy but usually have to bypass because it’s foreign to me.

…exactly. My post was directed to The Big Shiitah, not folks who take rides on Short Yellow Buses…but it’s interesting, through your own confirmation, it seems you should have NO PROBLEM interpreting my post.

It may be a new year, but my post shall remain the same…however, I find it amusing how folks still feel the need to post under dummy monikers to simply state an Opinion.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 5, 2009 5:02 PM | Link to this

Blue If he gets fired..its his own fault. He should know better. When you pay for a taxi it is supposed to be you and the driver. That is it. If he wanetd to show his son the airport then he should do it on his own time. Not what I paid $80 for! For all I know this dude could have killed me. Only I saw his face…well my 2 girls saw him. My mami didn’t want to see me leave. Either way…these days anything can happen.

By Leggs

January 5, 2009 5:06 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone.

Let’s “pay it forward” in 2009. Lend a helping hand to someone truly in need of help.

Peace!