By Dan

January 30, 2009 8:33 AM | Link to this

Since there’s work Monday morning, I’ll be having a pregame party with some friends on Saturday night.

As for the “wanting it back”, that’s a punk move.

If you made an investment in a person (breastisis, jewlery, clothes, etc.) without a long term committment, chances are they’ve gotten what they needed from you and are out.

Can’t ask for it back because that’s the risk you took in giving it.

Sad but true.

“If I’mma spend $5G’s on something it’s gone be a different type D’s, know what saying…she ain’t pregnant but about to have twins…” — Kanye West “Throw some D’s” remix

By DreamsMaterialize

January 30, 2009 8:45 AM | Link to this

Never give anything you couldn’t stand to lose. Whatever I give you is yours.

Money does not equate to power in a relationship. The person with the most power is the one who has the most control over themselves.

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 30, 2009 9:02 AM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize

Never give anything you couldn’t stand to lose. Whatever I give you is yours.

I cosign 100%. My last relationship cost me some jewelry, and I could not care less about that. It is just money.

What did sort of p* me off is that I loaned her son the shirt, cuff links, and studs, that I wear with my tux. I thought I would get those back in the mail and they never showed up. Frustrating, because I need them for a party I am invited to next month. The shirt fit well and looked nice and is hard to replace. Dayum.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 30, 2009 9:09 AM | Link to this

RandyT Yeah it happens man. Chalk it up to the game.

Lots of times people don’t ask for stuff back because they really need it back, they just don’t want YOU to have. lol In the case of the tig-ol-bitties, ol boy was probably just mad that now other guys would be getting the benefits of something he paid for. lol

By az

January 30, 2009 9:12 AM | Link to this

Have you ever purchased a car, house, expensive jewelry for someone you have dated? Helll No. wtf! I have bought reasonably priced jewelry on a couple of occasions though. But, I can see how some old “sugar daddy” with a hot one might be tempted. But he should know by then how that game goes and not get upset when it happens.

By 6'1 & Luvin It (Its my Burfday)

January 30, 2009 9:20 AM | Link to this

I must agree. Never give something that you can’t part with. Sometimes throwing up the material things in a persons face all the time is just as bad as wanting it back. I was with a guy that always reminded me of what he had did. I always wanted to give him his sh!t back, much as he talked about it.

By Dan

January 30, 2009 9:22 AM | Link to this

@6’1

What’s up witcha? Good to see you back!

Question, though: if you wanted to give it all back as much as he talked about it, did you?

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 9:28 AM | Link to this

It makes you wonder don’t it. Why even bother giving a gift if you really don’t want the person to have it or they are only allowed to have it while with you? That’s crazy. However I am guilty of asking for something back after a break-up.

I bought the Nature Guy this really nice juicer for his birthday. I think I used it more than he did so when we parted ways I told him I wanted it back. Since he hardly ever used it. At first he said no but he brought it by my house one day.

Other than that once I spent the money and handed it off it was as good as gone. Especially if it’s something that I could not use.

What the guy going to do with breast implants? Regift them? I guess he didn’t want another man enjoying them at his expense.

By kimmie

January 30, 2009 9:34 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday & Morning Blog!

Dan - Cosign your first post. Why people give big-ticket items they normally could not easily afford with no commitment is beyond me. Then be looking crazy when things go sour. And asking for it back is the ultimate in tacky!

Super Bowl Plans - My SO is getting his basement finished, complete with home theatre. It was originally supposed to be completed today, but it’s looking more like Tuesday. So we will be going over to some good friends of mine(ours) house for a party. It’s an all-day affair, but we’ll probably leave after halftime because the kids have to go to school the next day. The hostess can cook her butt off and I am bringing a few things too. Her hubby & my SO are video game nerds so they’ll be doing that while the ladies are in the kitchen yaking and drinking wine! Should be fun!

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 9:37 AM | Link to this

Never give anything you couldn’t stand to lose. Whatever I give you is yours.

Dreams thats the way to think of that situation. Whatever I gave you you can keep. Enjoy. Ol boy is a straight up chump and quite stupid. She had prolly stopped letting him benefits from those falsies long before the breakup.

6’1 happy bday woman. Hope all is well with you. I was back over in your neighborhood in Nov and thought about you.

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 9:37 AM | Link to this

Never give anything you couldn’t stand to lose. Whatever I give you is yours.

Dreams thats the way to think of that situation. Whatever I gave you you can keep. Enjoy. Ol boy is a straight up chump and quite stupid. She had prolly stopped letting him benefits from those falsies long before the breakup.

6’1 happy bday woman. Hope all is well with you. I was back over in your neighborhood in Nov and thought about you.

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 9:44 AM | Link to this

Morning All!

Happy Birthday 6’1!

I’ve never given a big ticket item to a guy I was dating. An ex and I went on a trip one time and I booked it with the agreement that he was going to pay me back. He never did. I lost a lot of respect for him after that. I don’t hound him about it, but for a while when he would talk about taking me out my response was ‘you can’t take me out when you owe me $xxx’.

As far as gifts though - I don’t try to get those back.

As far as the Super Bowl, this is the first year in a long time that I don’t have any plans. I’m sure I’ll do something but no plans presently.

By kimmie

January 30, 2009 9:44 AM | Link to this

6’1 - Happy Birthday!!! Have a great one! It’s my SO’s birthday too, love you Aquarius folk, my mom was Aquarius too!

By abc

January 30, 2009 9:47 AM | Link to this

The only gift I’ve ever taken back was an engagement ring, and I didn’t consider that exactly a gift.

Conversely, whenever I’ve broken up with someone else, I’ve made it a point to get rid of any and every object that might remind me of them, certainly to include any gifts. If they want them, they can have them; else, back to the art gallery they came from, Goodwill, the trash, whatever, just so it’s all gone.

I’m going to ignore the Super Bowl, as always!

By Rell - dyck in da box

January 30, 2009 9:49 AM | Link to this

happy bday 6’1

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 30, 2009 9:52 AM | Link to this

I used to work with this guy who bought his wife a great pair of boobs then they got a divorce. She started dating a pilot and kept sending the ex emails about how her new boyfriend really liked those boobs. Used to really p* him off but I thought it was funny.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 30, 2009 9:54 AM | Link to this

Dan Funny how I never expect anything back, but I’m good for giving things back. You got one time to bring up something you’ve given me or done for me. If it’s something material, I’ll give it back. If it’s something you’ve done for me, I’ll return the favor, and then we’re done.

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 9:54 AM | Link to this

Randyt she was wrong for that!

By Dan

January 30, 2009 9:58 AM | Link to this

@6’1

Forgot to mention Happy C-Day!!!

@Randy

That’s OJ territory right thurrr!

By Dan

January 30, 2009 9:58 AM | Link to this

@6’1

Forgot to mention Happy C-Day!!!

@Randy

That’s OJ territory right thurrr!

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 30, 2009 10:00 AM | Link to this

Tazzee

My ex or the guy I worked with’s ex? I like money and hate wasting it as much as the next person, but I remember the old Simon and Garfunkel song “50 Ways to Leave your Lover” and just write it off as the cost of freedom. The cost of leaving is seldom as expensive as the cost of staying.

By kimmie

January 30, 2009 10:05 AM | Link to this

abc - I’m bout like you with the getting rid of stuff, especially in my younger days. The only thing I’ve kept is a pearl bracelet a guy gave me, but we broke up on very good terms so it does not bother me to keep it.

Dreams - I’m bout like you to, with the mentioning of stuff you’ve given or done for me. Please don’t throw anything up in my face, you will so get it thrown back!LOL!! Ooo, I can’t STAND that!

By 6'1 & Luvin It (Its my Burfday)

January 30, 2009 10:08 AM | Link to this

Thank you everyone for the b’day well wishes. Truthy, someone stole my yorkie Hercules in November!

By Stormy

January 30, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this

Well back in the day….I did ask for things back. Why? Not sure…just did it. Did I really want the items back?….No.

No one has really asked for any gifts back from me.

Superbowl…..we are having about 12 couples + kids over to watch the game. My friend is a caterer…so no cooking on my part. We will be entertaining in the “Man Cave” in the basement and the upstairs study/office will be the “Kids Cave.”

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 10:10 AM | Link to this

Actually a few times a year I like to give gifts or surprises to keep me from being a totally selfish b*******. Other than those few moments I am a selfish b******* though. Wouldn’t be a pair of breastisis.

Tazz I’m glad you blog regular again. You bring balance and serenity to this madhouse. Welcome back to the ATL. You’re a good counterbalance for some of our crazy azz female bloggers, no names though Staceye and Blow.

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

January 30, 2009 10:12 AM | Link to this

Wassup Party People! TGIF!

Happy B-day 6’1!

Super Bowl Plans: going to a party thrown by a friend.

On topic: keep it. If I gave it to you that means I wanted you to have it. Plus what am I supposed to do with it if you give it back! LOL

I have been lurking most of the week and you guys have been off the chain! But I can play a lil today….

By DreamsMaterialize

January 30, 2009 10:19 AM | Link to this

Kimme Exactly. That’s one of the fastest ways to ruin a friendship or relationship with me. As a matter of fact, I won’t even say anything when you throw it in my face. I’ll act like it’s all good, but you’ll never hear from me again.

By AmazonRed

January 30, 2009 10:20 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday everyone. Still on the road.

In the past, I used to use the “I have his stuff” or “he has my stuff” as an excuse to see him again after we broke up. It just didn’t matter.

Now, it’s garbage. If we’re done, everyone keeps what they’re left with. LOL

Super Bowl - I’m roving between 3 or so parties.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this

I loaned her son the shirt, cuff links, and studs, that I wear with my tux. I thought I would get those back in the mail and they never showed up Lesson learnt.Shld have let the baby daddy handle that!

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 10:22 AM | Link to this

Some days I feel like Bridget Fonda in the Single White Female. It gets kinda eerie sometimes.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 10:34 AM | Link to this

Why people give big-ticket items they normally could not easily afford with no commitment is beyond me the chics who accept expensive gifts they dont deserve and the guys who give them are all scrwed up! No wonder shootings from dropped, rejected and angry guys are up Kimmie Happy birth 6.2 Tazzee,if a guy starts scrambling for his wallet or stammering that u go ahead and pay for the trip and he will pay u later,hes not up to ur pay grade,drop him.Let these dudes stay in their lane.

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 10:36 AM | Link to this

Randyt your co-worker’s ex. Although I hate when I loan stuff and don’t get it back. Never happened with an ex-mate, but an ex friend of mine has one of my Pearl Cleage books. Then one time I let a stylist borrow a book - just when I thought I’d found a good one in H-town. Then on my next visit to the salon, she had quit - no forwarding info. I’ll just have to stop loaning books.

Truth thanks! I think

Raqi you crack me up!!!

Dreams I’m like, but I don’t let it destroy a friendship. One time a VERY good friend of mine mentioned that I owed her some money in front of some other folks. Now this wasn’t a ‘let me hold a few $$’ situation. I think we went to lunch and she picked up the bill. We do that all the time. Well, I kindly gave her the $7 and since then I never let her pick up the bill.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 30, 2009 10:37 AM | Link to this

6’1 Well the hell have you been woman? Oh..and Happy B-day! LOL

Truth Kiss My Azz! LOL Now..what do you know about Siberian Huskies. Although I am allergic to dogs..I love them so much. I go gaga when I see them. I stop and play with them. I saw a puppy and I wanted to take him. I got pictures of one all over my office.

On topic No backsies son! You gave it to me..it’s now mine. Trust I do not want what I got you back. But if you come trying to take a gift back…I would set it on fire before giving it back to you. I’m spiteful…I know!

By Michelle- www.atlantasfinest.yuku.com

January 30, 2009 10:38 AM | Link to this

@ Randy T, 9:52 post

That silly chick is lucky your homie didn’t kill her stupid azz.. * Dudes aren’t wrapped too tight nowadays!!*

Happy Friday Everyone!

By i'm swiss

January 30, 2009 10:40 AM | Link to this

I agree with several others that once I give you something, it’s yours. I’ve never asked nor wanted anything back. (Dude tried to re-po the boobies… Dayum. Just Dayum.)

And also like abc & some others, I clean house after a breakup. Don’t want any mementos lying around. (Besides, no chic has ever given me anything useful like a giant flat panel TV or anything. LOL)

I was a bit puzzled by my ex, though. She not only kept her engagement ring & wedding bands, but continues to wear them to this day. I always wonder how her live-in, lesbian GF feels about that…

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 30, 2009 10:42 AM | Link to this

@Melo Lesson learnt.Shld have let the baby daddy handle that!

Shyte!!! It just dawned on me from your post that since she is (I think) back with her ex, he is probably wearing them now…well fuggg me!!!

By MELO

January 30, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this

Im guilty of accepting gifts that I never used,liked nor wanted.Desperate moves by desperate chics,u can say.I took them back when they asked for them but otherwise no.

No superbowl party for me this year.I went to one wild one last year.I have been invited again and was advised to bring the family.I turned the guy down.I know the guy is a female magnet and them females will proly show up again sunday in droves.That wld have been like walking into a minefield coz queeen was gonna ask mewhat happened last year? My motto for 2009,PEACE AND HARMONY.So the party is at home with the fam.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 30, 2009 10:44 AM | Link to this

Tazzee I with you. It won’t destroy a friendship, but you have to admit that it does somewhat change the friendship after that. Now your friend can’t pick up the tab anymore. Your relationship has changed.

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 30, 2009 10:46 AM | Link to this

Michelle

That silly chick is lucky your homie didn’t kill her stupid azz.. * Dudes aren’t wrapped too tight nowadays!!

Ahhh he was kind of dyck anyway. That is why I thought it was funny (although it is funnier when it is someone else though, isn’t it, LOL).

By Michelle-www.atlantasfinest.yuku.com

January 30, 2009 10:51 AM | Link to this

Totally agree Randy!! LMAO

By Stormy

January 30, 2009 10:52 AM | Link to this

Tazzee

I stopped loaning books a long time ago too. People just don’t know how to return them. I can’t tell you how many books I have re-brought just cause I never got them back.

And now that I purchase the leather bond editions and emboss them with our family crest…now way.

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 10:58 AM | Link to this

staceye if you want a dog that

1) Never comes when you call it 2)Has alot of energy and will destroy your home 3) Will run away any time its off leash 4) At one time was the dog most likely to bite you 5)Has long hair that sheds

This is your dog

Personally I wont own a dog that wont come when I call it. I can deal with alot but bring your azz here when I call you.

Huskies are whats called northern dogs and that means they’re closer to their wolf heritage. They are harder to manage and train, though it can be done. I saw some at a dog show and that coat was beautiful and they’re good looking dogs but I’d never own one, unless I moved to alaska. Take a look at an akita. You can get a nice one but they’re more trainable. I saw as fine azz chick at Piedmont Park with a tight Akita. Looked good on her, plus they’ll tear someones azz out the frame.

Take a look at this pic of a pup.

http://www.gotpetsonline.com/pictures-gallery/dog-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/akita-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/pictures/akita-0076.jpg

6’1 someone stole my exes yorkie too. Maybe there’s a market for them.

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 11:01 AM | Link to this

melo It wasn’t like that - we had discussed the trip in depth. He was going to book it (or so he said) but he kept going back and forth between me and the agent about certain details. So I was just like ‘let me talk to the agent’ - and I booked the trip.

But that was years ago - and I learned my lesson from that one.

i’m swiss maybe she wears it to show she’s taken - by her live-in lesbian GF…I wonder if her GF wears a ring…

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this

Here’s a full grown one.

http://images.search.yahoo.com/images/view?back=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.yahoo.com%2Fsearch%3Fei%3DUTF-8%26p%3Dakita&w=360&h=318&imgurl=www.gotpetsonline.com%2Fpictures-gallery%2Fdog-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue%2Fakita-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue%2Fpictures%2Fakita-0076.jpg&size=39.9kB&name=akita-0076.jpg&rcurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.gotpetsonline.com%2Fpets-images%2Fakitas.shtml&rurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.gotpetsonline.com%2Fpets-images%2Fakitas.shtml&p=akita&type=jpeg&no=2&tt=360%2C904&oid=b82200f2ae4a362e&t**=akita-0076.jpg&sigr=11l817qkb&sigi=14aef22rl&sigb=11fk0hr6v

By abc

January 30, 2009 11:15 AM | Link to this

I think it gets too hot around here for an Akita. They’re a pretty high maintenance dog, too. While they’re superb animals, they’re far better suited to working conditions of guard and watch dog, and not so great for being a pet. I think the average person would wind up giving an Akita to the dog rescue.

A dog is a lifetime commitment, for the lifetime of the dog. If you can’t do that, don’t get a dog!

That said, I’d have an Akita. They’re magnificent. I don’t think my greyhound would appreciate it very much though.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 11:15 AM | Link to this

Did any of u chics get a chance to watch Larry King live last nite.These mufakker preachers are getting away with murder, i tell u.

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

A dog is a lifetime commitment, for the lifetime of the dog. If you can’t do that, don’t get a dog!

abc as much as I want a dog, that is precisely why I don’t have one. But once I settle down and stop going so much I plan to get one.

By i'm swiss

January 30, 2009 11:25 AM | Link to this

@Tazzee — That’s a good point. That would explain why she wanted my band as well. Maybe the GF is the “boy” in the relationship… Oh well, good for them.

By Stormy

January 30, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

Truth

Thanks for sharing info. about the Huskies….my son wants one. We have been considering getting a dog for awhile…I want a rottweiler, I love them..but my husband says a rottweiler is too to stay inside…since our backyard space is limited.

By abc

January 30, 2009 11:43 AM | Link to this

A rotty is another example of an extremely poor candidate for a pet. Give the animal a break. Chances are extremely slim you’ll commit to such a dog for its lifetime.

Look into adopting a retired racing greyhound. They are optimal pets: low maintenance, almost entirely indoor animals requiring very little in the way of exercise, extremely affectionate and intelligent, and beautiful — quite a striking picture when walking through the park.

By Blow Me - I got a BIG EGO.....I can back it up!

January 30, 2009 11:45 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

Superbowl plans I am having a party…but the sad thing about it…my DIRECTV can not pick up a signal and the b******* won’t come out until MONDAY!! I wonder if you can hook a flat screen up to basic tv?? This will be a damn disaster if I can not get this fix!!

Truth What would honestly make you think I am crazy? I am so not…my though process is right in line.Lets just say you don’t agree with my opinion. Crazy..Beautiful is crazy. I am not. I just have a raw opinion.DOG TALK Also I have a little cousin who lives in a not so good area …Well he has this pitbull and I told him to let his dog walk around the property and p** and mark his territory…then I told him to wake up the dog in the morning and feed him a big piece of blood steak..to ward off ANY potential criminals!! I told him to do this periodically so they will be fully aware. His pitbull is a fuggin beast!! I am scared of that thing!! So is the bloody steak trick a good idea?? Get the dog use to tasting unknown blood so when someone tries something…he can tear they azzs off? What do you think?

ON TOPIC I don’t want anything back I give..and you will not get ish back you gave to me.

More Dog Talk

Also I was thinking a toy poodle, or a pooltese (maltese mix with poodle)..my brother seems to think I need a guard dog..I want a cute one!! Something I can put in a purse and put bows on and spoil with a “princess” dog bed. lol. But dogs are work and I do not want my house smelling like a dog..or my bed.

I want a dog without the commitment…Sort of like a man in a relationship…lol!!!

By Rell - dyck in da box

January 30, 2009 11:51 AM | Link to this

@abc…i agree…kita are guard dogs period…the japanese use them…..rotty’s had one for nine years…he was good until i had to leave him at home…back in va..my mother said he got unruly she gave him to a junk yard…since i have had two fur kids…or boxers..because they are like 5yrs old on speed…do not get that dog unless you have two acres for him/her to run all day…even a 45min walk will not sap there energy..they are high energy until around 3yrs old then they calm some..but cool dogs.

By i'm swiss

January 30, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this

@Blow Me — Yes, you can hook a flat panel to basic cable. But for a Super Bowl party, if you can’t get your DirectTV hooked up, I’d recommend getting an HD antenna (sort of like the old rabbit ears, but picks up over-the-air HD broadcast). Not sure of the cost, but you could hang on to the receipt & return it once your party’s over.

By Rell - dyck in da box

January 30, 2009 11:56 AM | Link to this

@blow..now that is come of the ghetto ish i have ever heard…you dont feed dogs meat like that…dogs are natural vegans…pits are already aggressive by nature..they dont need help…hell the terrier family period have it in them…even the small terrier well bark until your ears bleed….all that does is confuse the dog…depresses him and makes him want to lash out in the wrong way….thats why FOLKS dont need to handle animals like a pit..they inproperly care for them then get all bent out of shape when they maul someone innocent..look at how you train em…BAD ADVICE

By Blow Me - I got a BIG EGO.....I can back it up!

January 30, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this

I just got my new book by steve harvey.

Act like a LADY think like a MAN

So far it seems interesting.

By Rell - dyck in da box

January 30, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

Act like a LADY think like a MAN

lol….he setting ya ll up…you cant think like a man…you are wired different…lol..but good luck

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 12:12 PM | Link to this

I was at home from work one day and was watching some show, can’t remember which one, but the guy was trying to get visitation rights, or he joked about it, to see and whatever else the breast implants he had gotten for his girl.

That was hilarious. I can’t remember which show it was. Whether is was a court show, a comedy series or what, but I remember that because it was too funny.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 12:14 PM | Link to this

Hey Blow,if u want,i got a bro who can hot-wire u cable, on the low low.Dnt matter ur tv type,he got it!Which ghetto u live in? Lemme knw…LOL

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 12:20 PM | Link to this

*Rell actually a raw diet is the best thing for a dog. They would naturally eat rabbits and small animals if wild. Let 2 poodles go in the woods and come back in three days. They will kill some shyt. LOL

ABC a dog is aggressive because the owner allows it to get to that point. No dog is necessarily aggressive, unless his owner is weak at which point he takes the lead, and you dont want that.

Here’s the four rules to establish dominance from ANY dog.

1) I eat first

2) I go through the door first. I always lead, even when we walk

3) I sleep on the bed and you on the floor, likewise no couch sitting (The alpha always sits higher to survey the territory)

4) Don’t invade my personal space until I request you

Do these things consistently and your dog will look at you like “how did you know my language”?

The worst things about americans is we buy dogs without studying what they were bred to do. A husky wants to work, plain and simple.

staceye if you do get a dog go to a breeder. Do not go to the pet shop. Your dog will eat poop and all kind of sickeneing shyt. Pet stores buy their dogs from millers who just mass produce them and dont care for them. Also breeders are alot cheaper and take better care of their dogs, for the most part.

For a chick like you an Akita would be good. You can walk around the house butt azz naked with a dude in the house and aint jack happening. LOL The key for any dog is to train YOU. The dog will follow if you will lead. They dont care where they are in the pack but they do need to know their place.

I have a chick in my club with 3 dogs weighing a total of 300 pounds. She HANDLES those dogs to include off leash protection work. Its all technique and know how.

The flip side is a dog is going to MAKE you get outside. I walk/run mine for at least 45 minutes everday, sometimes over an hour. I’ve probably missed 30 days of walking in the last 6 years. And guess what, I haven’t got as much as a cold in the time.

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 12:21 PM | Link to this

I like to watch Judge Mathis, and a few of the other court shows if I’m home during the day. I would say 40% of the cases are instances where someone is either trying to someone to pay for something that was initially given as a gift in a relationship or someone trying to claim something as a gift that was loaned to them.

There was this one lady on one show that bought this guy some fancy wheels for his car. I think she paid like $4,000. The guy’s defense was she bought them because she was trying to get with him, but when he didn’t she wanted him to pay for the wheels. I think it was his father that let it slip that he is known for schmoozing the ladies to get gifts with no intentions of having a relationship with them. I think he lost.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 12:23 PM | Link to this

Happy B-day 6’1

I don’t believe in giving big ticket items when dating. If someone gave me a gift and asked for it back I would simply call him a punk and hang up the phone or close the door. BTW, I can’t believe that man is asking for his kidney back, yet I realize “hurt” will have a person doing some crazy stuff.

TV Watching = 20/20 The Secret of Seduction @ 10:00.

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 12:25 PM | Link to this

Melo Which ghetto u live in? ROFLMAO

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 12:28 PM | Link to this

Happy B-day 6’1

I don’t believe in giving big ticket items when dating. If someone gave me a gift and asked for it back I would simply call him a punk and hang up the phone or close the door. BTW, I can’t believe that man is asking for his kidney back, yet I realize “hurt” will have a person doing some crazy stuff.

TV Watching = 20/20 The Secret of Seduction @ 10:00.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 30, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this

Truth That sounds like a man! So Huskies are men? LMAO j/k Ooook…so no huskies! Gotcha! LOL Ooh but they are so cute…that Akita is cute too. they kind of look like a huskie.

Blow Me I want to read that book.

By 6'1 & Luvin It (Its my Burfday)

January 30, 2009 12:30 PM | Link to this

Truthy Duh, everybody and their momma was in love with Hercules. Yorkies are the cutest. I am getting one this weekend as a b’day gift and I wish a muthaflucka would try to take him back. I am going to be trying to get back all that azz I have gave, lol.

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

January 30, 2009 12:33 PM | Link to this

I’ve had a number of dogs and the best temperament dog I’ve ever had is my Sheltie. Beautiful, loves everybody, loyal, content, perfectly housebroken. Sheds a lot so not perfect, but she is great. There is a Sheltie rescue in Woodstock. I highly recommend taking a look.

By Miss QC

January 30, 2009 12:43 PM | Link to this

HAPPY BURFDAY 6’1

Super Bowl Plans attending a private party ;)

I would never ask for anything back i gave someone while in a relationship…i give excellent gifts and once i give it to U it’s yours to keep 4ever…have a great day/weekend bloggers.

GO ARIZONA…www.blackthen.com

By Demi

January 30, 2009 12:44 PM | Link to this

6’1 someone stole my exes yorkie too. Maybe there’s a market for them.

Yeah…folks over in asia are straving.

6’1 Happy B-day…what are you rockin to the club…don’t mind the hidden blog cams

Now let me see ya:

Get busy

Woman Get busy , Just shake that booty non-stop When the beat drops Just keep swinging it Get jiggy Get crunked up Percolate anything you want to call it Oscillate you hip and don’t take pity Me want fi see you get live ‘pon the riddim when me ride And me lyrics a provide electricity Gal nobody can tell you nuttin’ Can you done know your destiny

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 12:44 PM | Link to this

Raqi My roommate (landlord) likes to watch the court shows. She tapes them and I always get caught up watching them with her. Those folks crack me up.

By Blow Me - I got a BIG EGO.....I can back it up!

January 30, 2009 12:47 PM | Link to this

Melo & Truth Go suck balls…really. I don’t neeed a bootleg hook up. I have DirectTV. What I need is a tech to come and fix it!

I’m swiss Thanks for the advice..I will definitely be buying that atenna and returning it on Monday. Thanks you just saved my party!

6’1 Sorry azz is non refundable…

Rell Stop hating on the book. It just get women to think or understand at the very least a man’s physce.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 12:50 PM | Link to this

All this dog’s talk is messing Demi’s head up:

If you don’t know by know Doggy Dogg is a Freak, Freak, Freak I keep a bad bish with me Seven days out the Week, Week, Week And all that we ever do Is play in the Sheets, Sheets, Sheets Then smoke us a cigarette Then go back to Sleep, Sleep, Sleep

Sexual eruption Sexual eruption Whoa Sexual eruption Sexual eruption Whoa

By 6'1 & Luvin It (Its my Burfday)

January 30, 2009 12:51 PM | Link to this

Blow me Wow!!!!

By 6'1 & Luvin It (Its my Burfday)

January 30, 2009 12:53 PM | Link to this

Truthy How big was your Yorkie?

By MELO

January 30, 2009 12:55 PM | Link to this

Truth,so u said slumdog millionaire is a good movie? Hw about the movie that the Winnslet lady was nominated for,is it good?I want a phuckling good one so when we get home,im ready to tear her pants off!It promises to be cold today & tmrw,that wl make it even better.Lemme know Raqi & pple!

By Miss QC

January 30, 2009 12:55 PM | Link to this

Demi…what’s upppppppppppp

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 12:58 PM | Link to this

Hey ya’ll…

I wish a muthaflucka would try to take him back. I am going to be trying to get back all that azz I have gave, lol.

Bah hahahaaa!! I had to LOL at that, could no longer retain it! I knew that was coming… (Happy B-day, btw)…

Actually, I was thinking the same thing when someone posted Never give anything you couldn’t stand to lose. Whatever I give you is yours. Yeah right, excluding “The Dizzle” Thanks for clearing that one up. ;-D Because I’m almost certain it will definitely be “ballz to the wall” for any dude that’ll walk away without some of his manhood, just to become a eunuch. LMAO

On Topic: There was a time when I wanted something back from an ex…though I would not have called it a gift. It was more like memorabilia, keepsake…you know. I saw no need in him having my favorite pair, anymore. Never saw those again.

By i'm swiss

January 30, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

@Blow Me — No problem. I’m a nerd — techie issues are my specialty. FYI — here’s some possible HD antennas at Best Buy

By MELO

January 30, 2009 1:00 PM | Link to this

I got Direct Tv too Blow.Have had it since 1999.It hasnt been windy nor raining lately to warrant loss of reception.Either,them rats have bitten off some wiring or the bill aint paid. If u dont have girls to invite u over,u can come to my crib.

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this

Yeah Tazzee they are hilarious. This world is full of shysters and deadbeats.

By i'm swiss

January 30, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this

@Blow Me — No problem. I’m a nerd — techie issues are my specialty. FYI — here’s some possible HD antennas at Best Buy

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this

material things are not important to me. if a MAN wants his stuff back, he can have it. if a MAN wants his breast back, he can have ‘em. i’ll pay him in cash of course.

i was invited to a super bowl party that’s a family affair. there will be kids everywhere and adults doing their thang … having a good time. can’t wait.

demi blog hug.

By Demigod33

January 30, 2009 1:08 PM | Link to this

slumdog millionaire is a great movie…it’s up there with City of God(s)

QC hey sis, how are things on your end?

@Blow Me - I got a BIG EGO…..I can back it up!

Mayne…mayne…mayne…Demi wasn’t going to start ish on a friday

But, No one on the corner has swagger like us. Swagger like us Swagger-Swagger like us.

No one on the corner has swagger like us. Swagger like us Swagger-Swagger like us.

@6’1

No one on the corner has swagger like Moi Church? But I’m too clean for these Boi I require what I desire I got stripes, A-di-das Mami scream, “Papi no mas!” Run up in your shyt just me, no moss Runnin’ this shyt like I got four thighs No one has swagger like these four guys But when it comes to styles, I got several Sharper than a swagger dagger; all metal And my jew-els, blue and yellow The type of shyt that make ‘em call you Carmelo Rules as follow: Stay true to the ghetto Write your name on a bullet make you feel special Ha! What the f/k you boys talkin ‘bout? I know it’s us cause we the only thing we talkin’ ‘bout

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 1:14 PM | Link to this

melo I don’t know what movie you speak of. I have never seen it.

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 1:15 PM | Link to this

oh and i invited RW to join me. this should be interesting. i think he’ll enjoy it and at the same time meet ppl who are in my circle. where’s foots?

By MELO

January 30, 2009 1:15 PM | Link to this

Hey Demi,feeling better and on the job now? Who is starring in city of God? And which one will make my juices flow,if any?I think we will go to the movies, then i take queen back to the crib after,then i go solo to Harriston’s and let the cougars there rock me and prep me up for queen.Hwz that?

By MELO

January 30, 2009 1:18 PM | Link to this

swiss,if u talk antennas u make me think of africa.Who is watching tv with antenna in the developed wrld anymore??

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 1:21 PM | Link to this

Lost a dam post.

Pittsburg is gonna get that azz. Troy is a beast.

Melo Slumdog is a great movie but it takes a minute for the story to start coming together.

What you got planned for Queen this year? Its early so you can get in at least 6 vacations/getaways. A good close spot is Calloway Garden. Not alot to do but still nice. Me and this chick sat on a dock and watched turtle for an hour.

The Inner Harbor in Baltimore is nice too. Great food. Combo that with some sightseeing/Museums in DC and thats a good 4 day weekend.

Also this year you need to hit the Florida Keys. Sweet but take plenty of loot. What you got planned?

By Blow Me - I got a BIG EGO.....I can back it up!

January 30, 2009 1:26 PM | Link to this

Leggs It is already starting off pretty good.

Melo I was thinking it was my bill too..after I realized I just paid it last week. I am gonna do what swiss says and grab my antennas…and return them on monday. I hate DIRECTV…I can’t wait til my complex is able to get COMCAST!

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 1:27 PM | Link to this

Speaking of those court shows, Raqi, I remember a young couple on Judge M’s. The young lady wanted her ex to either return her belongings to her or reimburse her, since she assumed he had gotten rid of the personal belongings. The guy refused to give them back. Then turned around and stated how she would have to come by his home to retrieve the items herself, which she also refused to do.

In the end, it was obvious he wanted her back and it was obvious she was still hurt/upset over unresolved issurs they had during their relationship.

By the end of their session, they were both crying and holding one another. It was safe to assume that they decided to patch things up together and out of court. Talk about a waste of time.

Speaking of time (passing)…any news yet? Are those morning ills letting up yet? Little Masonlita still rejecting those signature shakes? LOL That’s actually a good thing. Helps curve the craving and watch your sugar intake. ;-)

By Dan

January 30, 2009 1:27 PM | Link to this

@Jamo

You leave ‘em, he keeps ‘em.

It’s only fair

By i'm swiss

January 30, 2009 1:28 PM | Link to this

Melo — I’m with you, but it’ll get Blow HD viewing for the game, so you gotta do what you gotta do.

Man, where I grew up, we couldn’t even get cable — too far out in the country. We had the big outdoor antenna & when we wanted to change the channel, we had to go outside & turn the d@mn antenna. LOL

By MELO

January 30, 2009 1:33 PM | Link to this

Now that u remind me,i think im gonna reserve my refund for that DC and Baltimore trip.But i will research further.I was thinking of Amelia island,i dnt know.But i havnt been to DC nor Baltimore so that shld be fun too.Because i will be in H.head in august,it may be a good idea to choose an inland spot for october.If u think of some more places,lemme knw. U think the houses have bottomed yet?I need a 5 bedrm on the low low this yr.Rates are great! I just found out my edu loan went from 8 to 3 %.Thats sweet.

By Demigod33

January 30, 2009 1:35 PM | Link to this

B how are you doing today?

if a MAN wants his breast back, he can have ‘em. i’ll pay him in cash of course

WTF!?!

B, you are now in blog time out…no more typing for you sweetie, LOL

Melo I am well…no more shaving with razors for me. The ‘city of God’ and ‘slum’ shows their cities off with blindfolds removed.

for juice flowing moments…check out midget f/kin

By SlimOne aka Auntie K

January 30, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this

How’s it going folks?

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 1:42 PM | Link to this

I don’t care too much for football, but I’m crashing somebody’s party, even if I have to drive up and down the street looking for a house w/a bunch of cars in the driveway!!! (not even laughing)!

By Demigod33

January 30, 2009 1:43 PM | Link to this

You leave ‘em, he keeps ‘em

Dan hellz you thinking, now these bishes are going to be leaving bloody tampons’n’ish at a brotha house.

yeen right!!

Demi now stares at jamocha with dreamy eyes’n’ish

Ummmmmm…hey lady, LOL

By Kym-aka Proud Member of the Steeler Nation

January 30, 2009 1:45 PM | Link to this

Kym enters waving her yellow Terrible Towel..HERE WE GO STEELERS!!!

Good Afternoon All,

My auntie always said if you do things out of the kindness of your heart you should never expect anything in return. If you do it to get brownie points or laid then charge that to the game and keep it moving when it all goes south.

As for Super Bowl plans…trying to decided if I want to go to Twisted Taco with my fellow Steeler nation members..or if I want to yell and scream my lungs out at home?? We always have super bowl party food and watch the game..might be cool to change it up. This year is special because the STEEL CURTAIN II IS GOING TO SLAMMED DOWN ON THOSE PIGEONS** I was watching NFL network and they replaced the 1979 Superbowl. So I am officially hyped!!!

Here We Go Steelers!!!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 1:47 PM | Link to this

I don’t care too much for football, but I’m crashing somebody’s party, even if I have to drive up and down the street looking for a house w/a bunch of cars in the driveway!!! (not even laughing)!

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 1:50 PM | Link to this

Darren Sproles needs to retake the interviewing class…

By Kym-aka Proud Member of the Steeler Nation

January 30, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this

not replaced—replayed.

By Dan

January 30, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this

@Demi

Stop playing…

They leave read:hide stuff all the time: a box of tampons, hair spray/gel/shampoo.

Even found a section dedicated to one chicks draws after the third visit….quickly returned

Don’t even get me started on the “presents” that mark territory…

That’s why I joined the Hilton Honors (c)

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this

Demi, grab a hold of his pole. Your behind needs to be reeled back in!

By Al (not Demi)

January 30, 2009 1:54 PM | Link to this

Oh I almost forgot, I want my dayum Teddy Ruxpin back from Al!!!

Bish you ain’t getting ish back!!!

Slim, caught in a violent flashback of her darkest memories…Slim calmly beat Al (not Demi) within inches of his life

Slim sorry Demi, I thought you were Al!

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 1:57 PM | Link to this

demi alvin how else will the harassment end? by givin’ him his shiit right? giving a man money is like givin’ my boys the controls to the wii to shut them up!

i have a yorkie. now that i have chewy, i like him. but if i knew what i know now, i would have never spent big money on his bad azz. i’m sick of the burping too! lol.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 1:58 PM | Link to this

Demi, grab a hold of his pole. Your behind needs to be reeled back in!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 2:00 PM | Link to this

That’s funny, Dan, and I heard of women who do this, marking/leaving items behind. I have always found that immature and insecure at best. No, I have never intentionally left or forgot something. If I comb my hair and hair falls in the sink, I’ll wash that out too. Not trying to leave DNA anywhere (lol). Seriously, women who intentionally do relish confrontation.

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 2:03 PM | Link to this

Melo the only other spots I’m looking at now are New Orleans and Vegas. I plan on hitting Egypt when I head overseas.

The market hasnt bottomed out yet. A home just sold in my s/d for 150k. It was a small ranch that sold for 240k a few years ago. How low can low get? With unemployment rising and whatnot this one may last awhile.

Whats suprising is I’ve got a few neighbors that are dressing up their homes. Expanded driveways, renovated kitchens, sprucing up the back yard. They are either strapping in for the long haul or haven’t watched the news in the last year. LOL

It should be easy to find a 5 bedroon home on the lolo. If its bank owned make a ridiculous offer and ask for all closing costs to be paid too. You plan on starting a boarding home or medical/disabled home?

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 2:03 PM | Link to this

I just sitting here thinking how sometimes we tie emotions to gifts and every time use or wear the gift it makes you think of the one that gave it to you. Eventhough you are over that person and no longer with them, the items still brings back the memory. What if that gift becomes a favorite wear? Like a t-shirt or sweater? And then you get with someone else. I wander how hard it would be to not think of the ex while wearing the item with the current? Like cuddled on the couch reading the paper. Prior to getting with the new, wearing that item became part of like a tradition.

I have a favorite pair of lounging pants. If I am just lounging around the house I wear these pants. I wander would I be so comfortable doing so now, if they had been a gift from a former.

hmmmm

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this

Let me rephrase that…they relish unnecessary drama!

By SlimOne aka Auntie K

January 30, 2009 2:05 PM | Link to this

Slim now giving Demi some Pop Rocks candy as a peace offering for mistakenly beating his arse.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 2:06 PM | Link to this

That’s funny, Dan, and I heard of women who do this, marking/leaving items behind. I have always found that immature and insecure at best. No, I have never intentionally left or forgot something. If I comb my hair and hair falls in the sink, I’ll wash that out too. Not trying to leave DNA anywhere (lol). Seriously, women who intentionally do relish confrontation.

By Al (not Demi)

January 30, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this

Dan check this out. When I shave, I clean up after myself. Now tell me why this one chick thought it was ok to leave hair AAAAAAAAAAAAALL OOOVER the freaking bathroom!!

And the bish was bald!!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this

Let me rephrase that…they relish unnecessary drama!

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this

chewy is perfect for my 9yr old though. they both have a lot of energy and can play all day long. i regret not having him trained. he doesn’t obey very well outside of the yard. it’s so frustrating. and he doesn’t know how to act around new ppl. he’s cage trained, so that helps. if he knows he did something bad, he’ll hide in the cage.

last night i gave him a beef rib bone which still had meat on it. an hour later he threw up. he thought he did something wrong so he went to the cage thinking she gon beat my azz. lol.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 2:12 PM | Link to this

Beautiful you got a boob job? let me see

Leggs sure, now were would you like for me to set the pole up at?

Demi is now getting his blog dollars together

Slim LOL…thats soooooooo, 90’s!!!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 30, 2009 2:15 PM | Link to this

Slim You are a true fool! LMAO Girl I got a list like that too though!

Kym Speaking of Twisted Taco..they are having the Grand Opening for the new one tonight over here on Ashfood Dunwoody Road(formerly Eat-Zi’s) and it’s free food and drinks from 7-9. Hey if it’s free…it’s for me! LOL

By SlimOne aka Auntie K

January 30, 2009 2:16 PM | Link to this

Dan & Leggs One time I took a whole bunch of photos of me and my bf at the time and placed them all around his house…in drawers, cabinets, on top of other photos he had up in a frame, on top of his stash of condoms…everywhere LMAOOOOOO!!! muuuuaahhhhhaaaaaa

I purposely brush my hair all into the sink, bed, tub, driveway, mailbox, yard and microwave. And the last time I was there I had my whole bedroom set left in his front yard.

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 2:17 PM | Link to this

Angie never give a dog a bone thats been cooked. They splinter and can choke the dog. Also, never give them raisins, chocolate, or onions. Raw, uncooked bones are ok because they’re soft.

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 2:17 PM | Link to this

Dan According to the topic, we’re discussing gifts, not personal belongings or lingerie for that matter.

Technically, I did not GIVE those to him, he moreso “Deebo-ed” them from me. True, at the time of the relationship, I did not make it a big deal, since I would still occasionally wear them around his place. But when the relationship came to an end, I merely saw it as packing my belongings and those were MINE…although he felt entitled to them. Though it’s funny dude wasn’t sweating me about my leaving behind my toothbrush. While both items can be replaced, the principle of the matter was simply that I did not give them those to him to keep. It was just obvious he turned my favorite pair into some symbolic object.

Taking notice of your previous post, supports my stance…which is why I don’t see your point. Intentionally leaving those behind, would be the type of slick shyt some silly chick would pull. Looks to me, he’d be askin’ for it. No?

Sup there Demi ? Glad you’re back up to speed, it shows. ;-)

Leggs Speaking of SB parties, the ex co-worker I was telling you about, just sent me a text, informing me of the birthday cake that her sisters are getting her for her birthday. A Dizzle cake! Complete with all detail and fully erect….including the….let’s say, “molten lava” erupting from the volcano!

I’ve seen pictures of those before from some women I went to school with . They were all sitting around it with their tongues out! Saying Aaaaaaahhhh….!!! LOL

I think that they use a long piece of Cuban bread or something. LMAO

She’s making up from a 10 year drought she says. Her b-day is on the 6th. I wonder if she’s getting it made at Olympia Bakery. I know they make those as well.

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 2:20 PM | Link to this

demi not alvin nope and nope! lol.

2CPTG i mees u man!!! lol. when i type your name i have to say out loud two can play that game. lol.

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 2:29 PM | Link to this

truth there is this mom and pop grocery store in douglasville i went to sometimes. by the meat dept in the back they sold big dinosaur lookin’ bones. have you seen them? their huge! anyhoo, i bought one for chewy when he was a baby. lol. you should have seen him stand next to it. it was bigger than him. lol. we laughed about it for days. what was i thinking buying him that thing. he almost hurt himself.

By Dan

January 30, 2009 2:30 PM | Link to this

@Jamo

He may have framed them..with candles and the whole nine…a shrine to the one that “got away”

Which is why all my stuff comes in and goes in the bag I bring, anything left without permission is considered trash and disposed of appropriately.

Point is, if it’s left posession is 9/10 of the law and the item belongs to the party of the second part

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 2:30 PM | Link to this

And to add to that, I simply wanted my things back, because they no longer belonged at his place. Of course, I still would have gotten rid of them myself, but not by leaving them at his place. WHY? That’s just petty.

LMAO. Demi don’t tell me you were (in your words) Dwarf smuckin’ a bawl head bish!! Can we say Grace Jones? LOL j/p

By Demi

January 30, 2009 2:32 PM | Link to this

B cool…me don’t do fake boobies

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 2:37 PM | Link to this

demi 4play is my favorite part and having fake boobs would ruin it. i’ll pass too.

By Raqi

January 30, 2009 2:37 PM | Link to this

Hey Jamoca I just saw your comment. We are doing okay. I have crazy heartburn right now. We had the old standby dinner last night. Spaghetti and Salad. It’s still taking its toll. When Mase walked in and saw I was making spaghetti said ‘where did you find spaghetti? I hope I’m having ‘raqi’ a la mode for dessert after this meal’. Nope just spaghetti. In the three years we’ve been married last night was my second time making spaghetti. I had a headache when I got home so I made something easy. He did help me out and make the salad.

And no more shakes for me.

By DasV

January 30, 2009 2:40 PM | Link to this

beautiful you know i had to come out of lurkesville to second that: i mees me some TouCan too…. where is he?!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 2:42 PM | Link to this

Jamoca, I can see it now. As a matter of fact, I have chocolate dizzle fudge pops in my freezer. I forgot who made them, but man are they tasty (ROFLMAO).

SlimOne, picturing your furniture reminded me of Juno setting up her armchair and table and lamp in her boyfriend’s front yard when letting him know she’s pregnant. You are crazy!

By MELO

January 30, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this

She’s making up from a 10 year drought she says thats a shame Jamoca,tell her we can service her at no charge.By the way,get a pic of that cake and send it to me.

You plan on starting a boarding home or medical/disabled home? NO.Zulu nation is big. One boy 2 girls,each will have own bedroms as they get older.Me and queen in seperate or we leave one for the guests when we have them. I am the 1st born,when my pple are around(mum%dad) everybody is at my house and some take long vactions.So i gotta represent and take care of them.

Vegas wld be nice.I hear lots of nice stuff over there.I wld rather go there with my boys 1st be4 i take queen.I gotta see the corruption by myself first! Charles Barkley was there lately and by most accounts,had a fabulous time! Demi speaking of * female draws*,this bro i went to undergrad with had 2 sacks with draws for various chics.Thing is,the guy messed around with the herb stuff,so each time he hit a chic,she got a real azz thrashing,5 to 8 merry gos in no time at all.Most of them wld pretend going to the bathroom and just hit the road,fleeing.His dykk was a real rumble in the jungle!So he ended up with a good collection of draw souvenirs!! Thats a nice way to treat those chics who call themselves baddest chics

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 2:48 PM | Link to this

Jamoca, I can see it now. As a matter of fact, I have chocolate dizzle fudge pops in my freezer. I forgot who made them, but man are they tasty (ROFLMAO).

SlimOne, picturing your furniture reminded me of Juno setting up her armchair and table and lamp in her boyfriend’s front yard when letting him know she’s pregnant. You are crazy!

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 2:48 PM | Link to this

Check this out. I know we all have problems in life but after seeing this yours will be a little smaller. I’m checking for dry eyes. LOL

http://www.4marks.com/videos/details.html?video_id=723

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 2:49 PM | Link to this

He may have framed them..with *candles and the whole nine…a shrine to the one that “got away”

Just out of curiousity, have you done this before? Really? Or for that matter, has anybody ever really done this? Seriously askin’?…

Which is why all my stuff comes in and goes in the bag I bring, anything left without permission is considered trash and disposed of appropriately.

So there lies the misunderstanding. I did not leave those behind, again, that was an extra toothbrush, I kept at his place. Not my favs. I was at his place, while he was there and I was simply packing my things. I knew where he kept them. So as I went to put back his boxers, I also went lookin’ for mine. They were not there. I turned to him and asked where they were and that I’d like to have them back. He simply and firmly replied, “Sweetie, I can’t help you with that one…those will stay here.” Yes, there was some back and forth, so I just shrugged it off after awhile and simply replying, “fine”.

It was pretty childish to me, but ironically, I was putting as much weight on the issue as he was. But like I said, it was the principle. Not necessarily about the item itself…well not entirely. Like a favorite dress shirt or pair of slacks to a man. I may like the way he looks in them, however, they DO BELONG TO HIM.

So, give the man back his shyt. You see?

By Stormy

January 30, 2009 2:51 PM | Link to this

Mmmmmmm Excuse Me!!! What’s wrong with getting breast implants?

By Dan

January 30, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

@Jamo

Naw, I don’t build shrines, or know anyone that does. That’s more than slightly psychotic

I was refferring to a movie… and joking

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:01 PM | Link to this

Jamoca, LOL @ him saying “Sweetie, I can’t help you with that one…those will stay here.” Not sure if he was operating on 9/10 of the law principle. Sounds more like he was acting out on the “sniffing concept”. He’s free to sniff when you’re not around. I’m sorry that it may sound crude, but this is what some men do. I’ll never forget the first time a dude asked me to take mine off so he can go in the bathroom to do that very thing. He offered to buy me a new pair. I was shocked, and

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:06 PM | Link to this

Sorry, accidentally hit post button.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:06 PM | Link to this

Jamoca, LOL @ him saying “Sweetie, I can’t help you with that one…those will stay here.” Not sure if he was operating on 9/10 of the law principle. Sounds more like he was acting out on the “sniffing concept”. He’s free to sniff when you’re not around. I’m sorry that it may sound crude, but this is what some men do. I’ll never forget the first time a dude asked me to take mine off so he can go in the bathroom to do that very thing. He offered to buy me a new pair. I was shocked, and

By MELO

January 30, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this

a dude asked me to take mine(nikkers?) off so he can go in the bathroom to do that very thing what thing leggs??

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:11 PM | Link to this

Sorry, accidentally hit post button.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:14 PM | Link to this

Sniff. What part of that post didn’t you understand (LOL).

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this

Sniff. What part of that post didn’t you understand (LOL).

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:20 PM | Link to this

Truth, nice video. Loved his attitude. There’s always a silver lining in life. Some are harder to recognize than others, but it’s there. I teared up only after seeing the students tear up.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:26 PM | Link to this

Truth, nice video. Loved his attitude. There’s always a silver lining in life. Some are harder to recognize than others, but it’s there. I teared up only after seeing the students tear up.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 3:27 PM | Link to this

well leggs,im thinking u saying the guy masterbates on ur panties.Thats phucked up,if it is.And this dude wanted to do it in ur presence,whilst ur stuff was out there,getting oiled but with no action?? Maybe thats an american thing,cant get it tho! smh

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

Justin Tuck is a cutie!

By SlimOne aka Auntie K

January 30, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this

ohhhhhhhhhhoooooooooooohuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhh

oops, i accidentally hit the kli-to-ris button.

By Kym-aka Proud Member of the Steeler Nation

January 30, 2009 3:40 PM | Link to this

Truth When you get to the other side if you see a dude looking shell-shocked or always asking can someone buy him a dinner. Be nice. It could be this dude who’s wife had the octuplets this week. He is a contractor somewhere over there and they already have six children. Bless her heart..he is gone and she is there with 14 children…wow Octuplets

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:40 PM | Link to this

Melo, Melo, Melo, what is wrong with you> No one said anything about masturbating. No one said anything about in my presence. Goodness gracious. I spoke on a particular fetish a person has and you, as usual, flip it!! Yet, I’m not surprised. Why do you think men keep women underwear? Why don’t they just discard those that are left behine? You think they open the drawer just to look at them. I doubt it!

By Demi

January 30, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this

Mmmmmmm Excuse Me!!! What’s wrong with getting breast implants?

It makes you look like a porn star…that why I don’t enjoy white flicks

Bish be skinny as hell, but have these big bitties for no dayum reason.

Also, it is a sign of low self-esteem. I am like, God has made you, so work with what you got.

By Tazzee

January 30, 2009 3:43 PM | Link to this

SlimOne I can’t even comment on your 3:33 - LOL just doesn’t suffice.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:45 PM | Link to this

Melo, Melo, Melo, what is wrong with you> No one said anything about masturbating. No one said anything about in my presence. Goodness gracious. I spoke on a particular fetish a person has and you, as usual, flip it!! Yet, I’m not surprised. Why do you think men keep women underwear? Why don’t they just discard those that are left behine? You think they open the drawer just to look at them. I doubt it!

By MELO

January 30, 2009 3:46 PM | Link to this

on a particular fetish a person has thats why i asked.A man ask, and u dont answer,so i run with it!! what fetish was that????Everybody proly understands,but this dumb a* melo dont,so tell me…hehehe!!

By Demi

January 30, 2009 3:48 PM | Link to this

SlimOne girl stop, you know Demi’s midget flick turned you on, LOL.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 30, 2009 3:53 PM | Link to this

Demi So breast implants are a sign of low self esteem? How about a reduction (breast or booty) is that one too? LOL

Granted I hate to see skinny chicks with soccer balls on their chest, for example…Pam Anderson looks a hot mess with size D cups with no azz! I have 2 friends that have implants and one was a size 0 and she got some to a mid B cup and they looked real. I hadn’t seen her since she moved to Vegas so when she came to visit I thought she had on a great water bra…and then she told me. The other was like my body type just shorter with natural B cups…and she got a D cups too balance her out! So if you get tehm to match…and they put them under teh pectoral muscle then they look more natural.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:54 PM | Link to this

I believed I answered when saying no one was talking about masturbating nor jacking off on the panties in my presence. I originally stated that Slim’s friend kept the panites possibly to “SNIFF” when she wasn’t around. Some men like this.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this

Demi,the picture is cming together now,real clear.Stormy is hubby’s eye candy! The breastess are fully paid for..lol That man has an elevator in his home,so he needs some nice accessories to go with it.

By SlimOne aka Auntie K

January 30, 2009 3:56 PM | Link to this

Demi I’ve seen some crazy flicks, men with chickens, chicks with dogs & horses, a man and a cow….but i’ve never, never , never seen a midget flick. Although I did get a little turned on seeing you step out of your F15000, fully equipped with automatic step stool, smoke machine, and strobe lights.

said in the voice of Grandma Klump…”that was the only showt man ever made me moist”

Speaking of the way God make chick boobs, I wonder why he always makes one boobie bigger than the other or one ball bigger than the other. Things that make you go Hmmmm.

slim now having nightmare vision of being picked on as a child….Nah nanny boo boo You so skinny your ipples touch!

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 3:58 PM | Link to this

Leggs Not crude at all. I thought about that too. Could’ve been, though I’ve never seen him take the time to sit n’ sniff. Especially not when the real thing is plopped right in his face.

Speaking of fudgesicles, I love those. Haven’t had them in awhile though….I’m way past due in that area myself, but she’s got me beat. She’s a hoot. I just may drop in on her SB/Pre-BDay Bash. The girls will be over to their grandmother’s, per her request. Man, it’s pretty outside. And here I thought my mood was brought on by some other type of deprivation, just need some sun. That’s all.

Melo HA! Maybe not the dizzle cake, but they also have ones especially for hetero men. LOL I’m sure somewhere in the “A” they have bakeries that specialize in Adult cake decorating. Don’t think any of them would be fit for the Queen, tho Regarding my ex co-worker, she and her sisters are making it their business to get her Laid Out for her birthday. So I think they’ve got that one covered. I’ll let her know, you’ve volunteered to be her fallback. Hope she’s careful though.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 3:59 PM | Link to this

I believed I answered when saying no one was talking about masturbating nor jacking off on the panties in my presence. I originally stated that Slim’s friend kept the panites possibly to “SNIFF” when she wasn’t around. Some men like this.

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 4:00 PM | Link to this

Kym that dude may never come back. Wow. Do they offer government assistance for that many kids?

Implants are for losers. I’d prefer a chick have no t** than some implants. I could be sucking on that thing and get a mouth full of silicon or salien solution. Yuck. Work what you got. SMH

Slim* roflmao.

By MELO

January 30, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

Staceye, ur 3.53 prose,tho long enough, wld wrk well with a visual.Hook me up with some nice pics.

Some men like this,SNIFF**??!! weird! Sniff stuff thats long gone and that another man is proly banging…i give up.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:04 PM | Link to this

Didn’t mean to turn down the street to “quietsville.” Let me back up. I don’t know of anyone who sniffs in the presence of a woman. Wanted the panties to sniff when he’s alone.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this

Jamocha she was a white goth chick…fine as hell, but craza den a muthafugg…I dump bey after she showed me a tape of her and her dog going at it, LOL…EWWWWWW!!!

How about a reduction (breast or booty) is that one too?

Staceye nope, there is a such thing as too much booty in the pants or too many D’s on that bish.

I speaking more about women on those reality shows.

I am not into fake beauty…bish turn 40 and looking 80.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 30, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this

Melo You freak! LOL I will not send you pictures of my friends!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this

Didn’t mean to turn down the street to “quietsville.” Let me back up. I don’t know of anyone who sniffs in the presence of a woman. Wanted the panties to sniff when he’s alone.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:11 PM | Link to this

Melo, I don’t understant it either, just know some men do it.

Personally, I never understood implants, but to each their own.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:11 PM | Link to this

MELO you read the stormy lady well!!!

Slim you know you want a Demi to take home, LOL

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 4:14 PM | Link to this

So, Dan, other than the jokey joke, we may not agree, but in that instance, it’s a pretty valid point…

LOL @ Slim’s 3:56 Very true, but it’s usual us women who seem to take notice at these little things. The men usually don’t notice nor do they really care…if he’s really into her, that is.

Besides, he really doesn’t have time to voice such imperfections with his mouth full. LOL

That was a touching story there, Truth. How ya going? Time’s nearing for you to get the heyal on, huh?

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:16 PM | Link to this

Melo, I don’t understant it either, just know some men do it.

Personally, I never understood implants, but to each their own.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this

Slim/Jam most men do…I say just put some whippa cream or chocolate on them things…it’ll be alright

LOL

By SlimOne aka Auntie K

January 30, 2009 4:21 PM | Link to this

Demi Depending on the outcome of my case, I might just put you on the list for conjucal visits. LOL!

Jamoca Yeah you’re right. Anything more than a mouthful is just leftovers. lol

Peace! I got to go wash my training bra’s in a cereal bowl. Ya’ll have a good weekend

By MELO

January 30, 2009 4:22 PM | Link to this

one qstion staceye,when u tch and feel those breasts,do they squish like khaki paper or they feel real, feel like human flesh? we may need to side bar about those kinky friends of yrs.Lemme knw when they in town.

By Blow Me - I got a BIG EGO.....I can back it up!

January 30, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this

Truth Why cant you give them raisins, onions or chocolate? I mean of course I would not but why?

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 4:24 PM | Link to this

Raqi Sounds like you may have to go Anglo-style with the meals being prepared after awhile, or simply plan on enduring those symptoms for the majority of the pregnancy.

Regarding headaches, Tylenol was a complete joke for me. So I chose to endure that most of the time.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:24 PM | Link to this

Buuuuuuut, if they find a way to make my wang 12 to 14 inches…I may break down and sign up for that experiment.

LOL….If not, oh well.

By Stormy

January 30, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

Melo

How did you figure it out? A little eye/arm candy neva hurt anyone. Plus it’s not fattening. LOL

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:31 PM | Link to this

MELO i will say this…fake boobies D’s don’t slap back and forth when beating the goods, like real D’s.

By Beautiful

January 30, 2009 4:31 PM | Link to this

venus i don’t know. i bet rell knows. :-)

have a good evening kids! the next time your man walks by … pinch that booty. lol. he’ll like that.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:32 PM | Link to this

SlimOne you crazy!!! lol

By The Truth

January 30, 2009 4:33 PM | Link to this

Blow it backs up their system and shuts down their kidneys. A dog just died from eating to many raisins. Had to putthe fella to sleep. Some things they just cant process.

Jam whats up woman? Your in the hotspot this weekend. You hitting the party spots?

By MELO

January 30, 2009 4:33 PM | Link to this

Jamoca,tell ur friends i said Enjoy.But it hurts to know that i was passed over on that easy contract!.Ur are not a good blog friend!!.But im honred to be on stand by.I be at Harristons tonite,just in case.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this

Blow Me cause animal rights will be on your a$$ like mike vick…feed them that mess if you like, lol

By Poppa Grande

January 30, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this

Blow

Why cant you give them raisins, onions or chocolate? I mean of course I would not but why?

They aren’t good for dogs. Chocolate is one of the worst things for canines. They is why you usually see carob chip cookies for dogs instead of chocolate chip cookies.

Here is a link to others.

http://petdoc.com/story/toxic-foods-your-dog

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:39 PM | Link to this

Who would want to give onions to a dog??? Or even raisins…hell, even chocolate. Never owned a dog, but who would even think of this?

By MELO

January 30, 2009 4:40 PM | Link to this

fake boobies D’s don’t slap back and forth when beating the goods

Demi, i think the women u phlucking dude have 4 to 6 kids and the kids have suckled on them dry,making them boobs real ropy! Hw can boobs slap like that when solid.U crushing on boobs that shld be retired,let alone the owners…

By Poppa Grande

January 30, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this

BTW good afternoon to all, and have good weekend.

I’ve lurked most of the day, but wasn’t gonna get mixed up in sexually charged talk today. From fake boobies, panty fetishes, dizzle cakes, etc., a newcomer would really trip out.

Btw, the story of my former teammates who had a foot/shoe fetish would have seemed tame. The darn fool was caught in his ex-girl’s house laying naked on her couch with her shoes all over him.

I was reminded of him the other night when I watch a rerun of this show called Half & Half (Rachel True…mmm)where there was a similar incident.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:44 PM | Link to this

…U crushing on boobs that shld be retired,let alone the owners… Thanks for my mid-afternoon laugh…that was very funny!

By Wise Diva

January 30, 2009 4:46 PM | Link to this

some of ya’ll are a bunch of LOONS, LOL sniffing REALLY?

. am looking forward to the big game, the commercials, and Jennifer Hudson and Faith Hill performing, oh and Bruce Springsteen too, right?

I hope everyone has a fantastic weekend!

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:48 PM | Link to this

MELO If the girl I am working with has any thing larger than 34c…you best to believe Demi is going to get them things slapping, LOL.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:50 PM | Link to this

…U crushing on boobs that shld be retired,let alone the owners… Thanks for my mid-afternoon laugh…that was very funny!

By Poppa Grande

January 30, 2009 4:51 PM | Link to this

Leggs

Some people take that treat a dog like a member of the family too far.

I know people that give their dog Cheetohs and Tostitos. (Salt is bad for dogs, too.)

So, they treat the dog like its human. It is not.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 4:52 PM | Link to this

Poppa Grande WOW

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 4:53 PM | Link to this

Wanted the panties to sniff when he’s alone.

Leggs I can understand that and I’m not going to put on as if I don’t see that happening. Actually, I see nothing wrong with it. If it brings back a memory or that little something to remember me by… if we are together. AND if they were given to him.

This was no longer the case, so after the fact would be a little coo-koo.

Now honestly, Demi I actually like a man with a little dawg in ‘em…but doing dogs…uhhh, naawww! But the collar would be good for role play. LOL

Shoes???!!! Okay, that’s strange.

Truth Well a lot of the partying is in Ybor, and things get pretty wild in those parts as it is. A lot of people just trying to be seen…with plenty to go around. I may check it out. I really don’t want to get caught up in the crowd a whole lot. We’ll see.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:54 PM | Link to this

And they deserve the vet bills for doing something so crazy..treating a dog like a human. Crazy!!! Letting dogs sleep and eat and lick face and lips…uughh!!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

January 30, 2009 4:55 PM | Link to this

demi What you got against Goth girls? LOL

Melo I did not grab my friend’s boobs! LOL However whens he came to visit and we all knes she got them so she showed them to us! We were curious to know what $10k boobs look like versus the bad boob jobs we see on TV.

Poppa I saw that Half & Half episode. It a dude that Lil Dee Dee was dating and he had a foot fetish. Dude was laid out on her couch with her Jimmy Choo’s all over him! He always wanted to give foot massages and stuff! FREAK! LOL

By MELO

January 30, 2009 4:56 PM | Link to this

No problem Leggs. When u specialise,u bound to know some thangs

Good weekend everybody,good football too!!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:56 PM | Link to this

Good evening!

Don’t let your worries get the best of you. Remember, Moses started out as a basket case. (LOL).

Before you wake Monday, go out of your way to say a kind way to someone you don’t know!

Peace!

By Poppa Grande

January 30, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this

Jamoca

Have fun in Freaknic South aka Ybor City…

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this

Thanks Jamoca, I’m wondering what is wrong w/this camp acting like they don’t know what the heck “sniffing” is…LOL.

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 4:59 PM | Link to this

And they deserve the vet bills for doing something so crazy..treating a dog like a human. Crazy!!! Letting dogs sleep and eat and lick face and lips…uughh!!

By Demi

January 30, 2009 5:00 PM | Link to this

Staceye nothing, some supa freak…just no animals

Jamoca ummmmm…i’ll think about it, LOL

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 5:02 PM | Link to this

Good evening!

Don’t let your worries get the best of you. Remember, Moses started out as a basket case. (LOL).

Before you wake Monday, go out of your way to say a kind way to someone you don’t know!

Peace!

By Leggs

January 30, 2009 5:03 PM | Link to this

Thanks Jamoca, I’m wondering what is wrong w/this camp acting like they don’t know what the heck “sniffing” is…LOL.

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 5:04 PM | Link to this

Poppa Grande LOL. Yeah, yeah, yeah…real funny man.

Leggs It’s no surprise in here, folks “put on ” like they don’t know week to week. If I’m familiar, I MAY share or contribute to the convo. But I realize this is just a blog, actors/actresses belong on a stage.

You all have a good one.

By Demi

January 30, 2009 5:06 PM | Link to this

jam call me

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 5:07 PM | Link to this

Demi Think about what???!!! A collar can be bought! LOL Crazy self…nah, BYE! ;-D

By Jamoca

January 30, 2009 5:10 PM | Link to this

See… there goes one right there at 5:06.