By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 25, 2009 8:38 AM | Link to this

Wow, I’m first again. Woohoo, this is going to be a great day.

Sex is better in a relationship because of the things you can do without having to have all the negative thoughts (herpes/aids/stds). It’s especially rewarding if you have a woman with an appetite similiar to your own.

Casual dating is purely a physical function. No emotion, just smash ad grab.

If the chemistry is lacking in the bedroom, is that really a sign of incompatibility?

Sex in a relationship is like the unemployment rate to a nation. Sure, you can look at alot of indicators but if there’s no sex that tells you you have major problems, or incredibly low sex drives. LMAO If you can’t share a persons most intimate moments then what are you really doing?

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 8:51 AM | Link to this

crawling under the covers with Truth Morning! It’s nice in here.

For me, it’s all about psyche. Sex is much better me in a relationship. I’ve done casual relationships, and it’s not for me. If I’m not in a relationship, I’m often not getting any and that is a better stress reliver than calling up some maintenance man. Not worth it, to me.

By Dan

February 25, 2009 8:51 AM | Link to this

The FWB relationship is the acting of unspoken desires, whereas relationship require a conscious effort.

Depending on one’s “headspace” and emotional status/maturity there is really no difference.

Each is the expression of your feelings for another person.

FWB: lust

A relationship: maybe love

As far as “chemistry in the bedroom” not happening, I always considered that a myth.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 8:52 AM | Link to this

It’s especially rewarding if you have a woman with an appetite similiar to your own.

but if there’s no sex that tells you you have major problems, or incredibly low sex drives

yep…agreed

casual sex does not really benefit a man…it validates the women more, plus it gives her wiggle room to not fully invest in you as a man….a man is playing craps when he is just f*** around….i will take ONE DIME…to TWENTY Jumpoffs anyday!!!

PROTECT YOUR SEED

By DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 8:52 AM | Link to this

Morning C’mon, you know the difference between potential and inadequacy. If I’m interviewing someone for a job, a candidate might lack some of the skills I want, but I can tell from a resume and a conversation whether that person has 1) the capacity and 2) the determination to learn how to perform up to expectation. Same is true with sex. Capacity and determination have to be there.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 8:58 AM | Link to this

I know that men and women can view intimacy differently, but do you think that sex is better in a relationship?

I agree that sex is better in a realationship b/c there’s a trusting that allows you to be more explorative without thinking/wondering about all sorts of negative repercussions associated with “sleeping around”. You can let my hair all the way down when it comes to so many things that you may not want to share outside of a relationship. * think that many of us have found ourselves in the “friends with benefits” arrangement at some point. Some times you stumble into it, some times it’s premeditated.*

I’ve done this between relationships and it worked out grrreat…we went out, did things and had fun but we both kept it all in perspective and at the end of the day things were still good. There were established boundaries that were understood and weren’t crossed so it was a win win. It was like a relationship without the responsibility and that worked for me.

By NYCUTIE-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com

February 25, 2009 9:00 AM | Link to this

Morning All I will comment once I get to work.. ABC, two days in a row with this sex crap.. our bad! LMAO

By Kym

February 25, 2009 9:02 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

While sex maybe be better in a relationship it does depend on where you are emotional in the relationship. For whatever reason people seem to forget even long term relationships change and grow..how I felt about dude when this thing started may not be how I feel about him 3 months from now. IMPE that relationship hotness level varied, some it became predictable..that will cause me to lose interest..another it got hotter.. so it’s a toss up depends on the guy and the relationship. And yes if the bedroom intimacy is lacking then with all due respect I am looking for a way to push the hell on.

Sorry but sex is extremely important to me. I am willing to discuss, explain, provide visual aids, and a road map to explain what it takes to satisfy me as well as dude but after all that and dude is still lacking nawww let’s go ahead and call this one a wrap.

By Raqi

February 25, 2009 9:03 AM | Link to this

The only difference between “love making” and just sex is your state of mind.

In my present experience of this eight year relationship, the more seasoned the relation has gotten, the spicier the intimacy. Physical and emotional.

Love itself stands without physical intimacy. However physical intimacy can be and is for many a form of expression of love. IMO the attentiveness and will to please are greater expressions of love for your partner more so than the physical magic. Reality is that big bang is not promised with ever encounter. And for someone hold their mate on a lower scale of loving them because the bang is not present shows that they don’t love their partner much or at all.

Love is magic. Making love is actions. Love making is a state of mind.

By Mo (aka Moeisha - coming up for air)

February 25, 2009 9:04 AM | Link to this

Like ARed said, sex is better in the relationship. Overall you put more into a relationship and that comes thru in the sex as well.

Morning All, hope everyone is doing well

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 9:10 AM | Link to this

@Mo

Overall you put more into a relationship and that comes thru in the sex as well.

its not the relationship but moreso the emotional investment thats there…thats the key…the emotional investment….thats the point of the art of seduction…i can have relationships with multiply women and not be mentally invested in none…

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 9:12 AM | Link to this

I think that sex in a relationship is definitely better than the sex in a FWB situation. I’ve done both and I can say that in a relationship I have an intimate emotional connection that allows me to really let go and desire to please my partner in every way. Its the ability to be able to have sex, make love, and phuck all in the same session as opposed to FWB where its JUST STRAIGHT PHUCKIN! Also, for me the orgasms in a relationship cum much easier;) I think its a mental thing…

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 9:14 AM | Link to this

I think that sex in a relationship is definitely better than the sex in a FWB situation. I’ve done both and I can say that in a relationship I have an intimate emotional connection that allows me to really let go and desire to please my partner in every way. Its the ability to be able to have sex, make love, and phuck all in the same session as opposed to FWB where its JUST STRAIGHT PHUCKIN! Also, for me the orgasms in a relationship cum much easier;) I think its a mental thing…

By Dan

February 25, 2009 9:15 AM | Link to this

Honest Inquiry:

This theory of the sex being better during a relationship because of the investment in the relationship has always seemed like a causalty to me.

My question is how does “the investment” make it better? Is it the connection that you feel to the other person?

Someone HBO…

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 9:16 AM | Link to this

I think that sex in a relationship is definitely better than the sex in a FWB situation. I’ve done both and I can say that in a relationship I have an intimate emotional connection that allows me to really let go and desire to please my partner in every way. Its the ability to be able to have sex, make love, and phuck all in the same session as opposed to FWB where its JUST STRAIGHT PHUCKIN! Also, for me the orgasms in a relationship cum much easier;) I think its a mental thing…

By C tha 1

February 25, 2009 9:17 AM | Link to this

O.k. follow me for a moment…sex does not equal love…even good sex does not equal love. Sex in a relationship is fulfilling because hopefully two people decided to practice manogamy. Ahhh manogamy…I think that’s the word a number of people are forgetting in mentioning the greatness of sex in the confines of a relationship. I believe this is what adds to the strength of the relationship…that and not having to worry about whether or not your SO has an STD or an unclaimed KID that’s about 10 years old from his old college days.

At any rate good sex is good sex period. It doesn’t matter whether it is in the confines of a relationship. Why? Well, because there are a gang of dudes who step outside there relationship(s) for some strange that they seem to not be able to willingly let go of, and it’s not because sideline can bake the hell out of a cake. Conversely, there are plenty of women who step outside of there relationship(s) to satisfy an urge that her SO (who provides so much security) just can’t hit

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 9:18 AM | Link to this

There were established boundaries that were understood…like what Sassy?

let my hair all the way down …. comes to so many things that you may not want to share outside hmmmmm.U are a beast hah…i closed my eyes and there,saw ur nekkid body,u sitting on ma bed and im lying down and u tching me as u straddling on me,looking and looking at me as im laying dwn and i see ur head lowering down twrds me,like u about to explore my africa..now what u planning on doing..ur hair is way down.ur two twins on ur behind,wow,moist,hoisted,full with life,ugh,ugh,ugh,Sassy! Now,who is moist??

good morning!!

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 9:20 AM | Link to this

Sorry for the multiple posts…don’t really know what’s going on with that!

By Kym

February 25, 2009 9:21 AM | Link to this

Off-Topic

I was listening to This American Life and the show they did for Valentine’s Day. One of the guest made a comment that stuck with me..”Everyone ask couples how did you get together, how did you meet?…No one ever really ask how do you stay together?”

The comment stuck with me because its true everyone talks about how the stars plopped from the heavens and fell down the night they and their true love..blah blah. But they rarely talk about the night they had all bags packed, or how they broke apart for 6 months. One of the things I love about talking with the “older generation” is they will tell these stories..I know about my cheating, beating uncles, the girlfriends, the drama, that my parents had, the suspected children. The reality is you don’t get to 30+ or 40+ plus years and everything is all honky dorry. Now back to your regularly schedule blog already in progress

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 9:23 AM | Link to this

Sorry for the multiple posts…don’t really know what’s going on with that!

By FEE

February 25, 2009 9:24 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

Here is my thoughts

FWB is ok if you have that understanding up front. Many, many years ago, I had that understanding with a Male friend of mine… for 3 years, and we both knew what our connection was…. I didnt get upset when he didnt call. and we both knew what was up when one person called the other…

The problem comes in when you try to be deceitful, and dont let your intentions be known up front… Sex comes with emotion, and if you know the assinged emotion you can deal with the no phone calls, come by every now and then, issue in check…

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 9:25 AM | Link to this

Sorry for the multiple posts…don’t really know what’s going on with that!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 9:25 AM | Link to this

I agree that sex is better in a realationship b/c there’s a trusting that allows you to be more explorative without thinking/wondering about all sorts of negative repercussions associated with “sleeping around”.

Good point Sassy. Truth of the matter is that women give up the azz in certain levels. A lot of them want to save the freaky deeky stuff for the guy that’s trying to stick around long term.

Not to say that they’re aren’t women out there giving it their all and then some, but a lot of women aren’t gonna let go until they meet the one who is trying to put a ring on it.

My stripper pole is getting impatient. LOL

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 9:29 AM | Link to this

from vsb

men fear breaking a heart more than having their heartbroken. most of us are experts on facing and dealing with rejection…but complete b*tches when it comes to giving it.

@kym

But they rarely talk about the night they had all bags packed, or how they broke apart for 6 months. One of the things I love about talking with the “older generation” is they will tell these stories..I know about my cheating, beating uncles, the girlfriends, the drama, that my parents had, the suspected children. The reality is you don’t get to 30+ or 40+ plus years and everything is all honky dorry.

i am with you on this one kim…and i have said the same thing many times in the past…but everyone jumped on me for it…i mean when raqi on here spitting about how wonderful ish is…its not like that daily or even monthly..sometimes you dont like the one you with for no other the reason then they are there

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 9:31 AM | Link to this

Morning Folks!

I haven’t had a FWB relationship since college so I really can’t comment. I will say I love Raqi’s comment.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 9:34 AM | Link to this

One of the things I love about talking with the “older generation” is they will tell these stories..I know about my cheating, beating uncles, the girlfriends, the drama, that my parents had, the suspected children.

Kym, I agree. But fortunately, all my friends real friends who are married are just as open. The only different story they have from the older generations is stories of swinging. lol

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 9:37 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone!

NYCutie, when I read the topic, I too thought of abc.

LeSiren, no need to apologize for the triple posting. There’s nothing you can do. My stuttering problem lasted a few weeks. Tag, you’re it (lol).

Sex in a relationship is more fullfilling than mere knocking bones. Emotions, desire, respect heighten’s the sexual experience. I believe the desire to please your mate is not at the same level if you’re mere FWB.

By Dan

February 25, 2009 9:39 AM | Link to this

@ARed

Your 9:25 suggests that the creativity involved in sex is rationed out based on the “level of involvement”.

If the passion and creativity is within you from the beginning, stifling it until “that time” (or releasing it in small doses) would seem counterproductive to me.

I guess I’m asking is: in the time betwenn when the all the tumblers are aligned and the door is unlocked, what happens to prize (that is the ultimate expression of one’s sexual desires)?

Or more simply, where does the energy go “before the ring is on it”?

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 9:42 AM | Link to this

The reality is you don’t get to 30+ or 40+ plus years and everything is all honky dorry

good point Kym!! Thats why setting that bedroom on fire is one important element u need to keep what u got.Pple dont know that even missionary,gets boring and bland.It become ordinary,like drinking water! U gotta spicy it up in there. I now keep a shoe by my bedside,thanx to ur t** bits,lectures and tutorings.Coz the moment queen starts hollering,i dont want the kids to wake up,startled.I shove the shoe in her mouth…hash baby,let me do this thang! I got u……..

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 9:42 AM | Link to this

Well Goodmorning Blogsville!! Oh, the ancient talk of friends w/benefits. Well, it works as long as both parties needs are being met, as soon as one becomes disgruntled, too attached, jealous, etc. it is henceforth and forever more RUINED!!! Been there, done that..LOL

There is a potential for better sex to be had during the confines and cumfort (there I go..LOL) of a relationship b/c you are truly seeking not only to gratify yourself but to also please your mate. In a jump-off situation you are more than likely just trying to get yours and if he/she gets theres in the process then it’s a win-win (my word for the week…LOL)

abc what are your thoughts? Inquiring minds would like to know!

By Kym

February 25, 2009 9:44 AM | Link to this

Rell Bill Cosby talks about it in one of his video’s. He said one day your partner wakes up smiles at you and you think this fool just looks “stupid”..You sit there thinking why in the world am I with such a stupid person? Then they ask you what’s wrong with you? You look at them and say what’s wrong with me I think you need to ask what’s wrong with you? Stupid.

My aunt and uncle(rest his soul) had moments like this all the time. I thought it was the most real I had ever seen anyone’s relationship. They let those moments of look here sucker I don’t like you really show. It was funny and just pure.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 9:49 AM | Link to this

If the passion and creativity is within you from the beginning, stifling it until “that time” (or releasing it in small doses) would seem counterproductive to me.

Dan, so what?

The energy isn’t stiffled. No one is sitting there pent up or frustrated. There are certain things women aren’t gonna do until they are with their husbands. No one’s sitting around upset that they aren’t giving their all to someone who hasn’t proven worty enough to earn it.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 9:53 AM | Link to this

MELO

There were established boundaries that were understood…like what Sassy?

Now come on, I know you know the one main boundary in a FWB situation that’s always been the deal breaker don’t catch any feelings. When this hahppens it could get ugly and complicated tht the antithesis of what FWB represents in my book.

Now MELO as I straddle u ,while looking into your pretty brown eyes don’t get nervuos when I put my hand around your neck and squeeze juuust a little…I might even bite you if your ride is worthy and smack you on the azz later on as you dig in….how u luv that??? Get at me :0)

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 25, 2009 9:55 AM | Link to this

Dan that I’ll sex you real good after I get a ring is the oldest okie doke in the books. If a chick cares for you she’s not going to give you her B game then amp it up after the “BIG DAY”. If anything the chick is fugging for a ring anyway so its much more likely she’s going to drop off after she gets a ring, hence the large percentage of cheaters.

Most of these chicks have done all the things they’ve fantasized about with Jock down the street but when they meet you its disrespectful to do that same thing, or they’d have you believe that. If we fall for that its our fault.

Any cat that marries a chick hoping she’s going to turn on the heat is a sucker at best, a total idiot at worst.

Dating is simply negotiating. You negotiate the terms, standards and roles you will later fill. Don’t let a chick dictate your standard, then your dating from the bottom. And any changes to established standards means a renotiation of terms and possible termination of the contract altogether.

Make that chick perform coming in the door. If she cant handle it thats what you need to know before you do anything with her.

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 9:56 AM | Link to this

Kym I love spending time with my aunt and uncle. I’ve actually seen them in their ‘I don’t like you’ modes and I know they’ve had their ups and downs over these past 30+ years. But what I love the most is when they sit me down, together, and give me relationship advice. It’s not that often but when they do, it’s priceless.

By Dan

February 25, 2009 10:01 AM | Link to this

@Red

I used stifled in the sense of the energy being there, waiting to be released, not dampened in any way.

What I read from what you’re saying is the deeper the committment, the more willingness there is for exploration?

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 10:01 AM | Link to this

Truth I think I ♥ you!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:03 AM | Link to this

that I’ll sex you real good after I get a ring is the oldest okie doke in the books.

Truth, any woman who explicitly states that is a fool. LOL.

You said it yourself, sex is better in a relationship because of less negative thoughts. The less negativity you have on your brain, the more trust, the more likely you are to just be able to relax and enjoy the person you’re with.

In marriage, there should be less reservations than any other arrangement out there for the very reasons you’ve stated yourself.

By mytwocents

February 25, 2009 10:08 AM | Link to this

Most experiences are ultimately more rewarding when I’ve put more work in. Used to be you gave me lackluster effort it’s likely IF you got a performance it was lackluster as well. Now I won’t even bother cuz I don’t want no half-azz rep. But often it takes more time to engage physically AND mentally (unless we just have that connection.) It definitely takes more of an effort but lots of folk are LAZY… the brain is really the biggest sex organ so it’s usually a better payoff. Dreams I totally agree and if ppl invested more in the ‘get to know you’ stage prior to the speeding along to the get inside you/let you in stage, they might notice the indicators.

‘72 Casual is a bigger benefit to whomever is in hotter pursuit of the casual-ness. It’s not validating to be a drive thru. But I do think lotsa women who claim this as their lane are doing so in a misguided attempt to protect their hearts. And lotsa men go that route in a misguided attempt to validate their prowess. Uhm some of y’all 40 if a day and still don’t know Quantity is not indicative of your Quality. That’s my PSA for this week.

Is Comfy back yet? I’m sure you will be so hey girl. And yeah, what Jamoca said I said… and Moca I done tol’ you I already know it can be subjective, just didn’t think it was the c-o-n-spiracy then. Shall we push past it?

By mytwocents

February 25, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this

Most experiences are ultimately more rewarding when I’ve put more work in. Used to be you gave me lackluster effort it’s likely IF you got a performance it was lackluster as well. Now I won’t even bother cuz I don’t want no half-azz rep. But often it takes more time to engage physically AND mentally (unless we just have that connection.) It definitely takes more of an effort but lots of folk are LAZY… the brain is really the biggest sex organ so it’s usually a better payoff. Dreams I totally agree and if ppl invested more in the ‘get to know you’ stage prior to the speeding along to the get inside you/let you in stage, they might notice the indicators.

‘72 Casual is a bigger benefit to whomever is in hotter pursuit of the casual-ness. It’s not validating to be a drive thru. But I do think lotsa women who claim this as their lane are doing so in a misguided attempt to protect their hearts. And lotsa men go that route in a misguided attempt to validate their prowess. Uhm some of y’all 40 if a day and still don’t know Quantity is not indicative of your Quality. That’s my PSA for this week.

Is Comfy back yet? I’m sure you will be so hey girl. And yeah, what Jamoca said I said… and Moca I done tol’ you I already know it can be subjective, just didn’t think it was the c-o-n-spiracy then. Shall we push past it?

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:10 AM | Link to this

What I read from what you’re saying is the deeper the committment, the more willingness there is for exploration?

Dan - Yes.

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 10:11 AM | Link to this

mytwocents yes I’m back up in this camp, slicked right past security….LOL

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 10:11 AM | Link to this

Truth

Any cat that marries a chick hoping she’s going to turn on the heat is a sucker at best, a total idiot at worst.

I totally agree! I have a cousin who I’ve had this conversation with. She thinks that she should save her “head game” for marriage…she thinks that will make it special, but she’s also expressed her lack of desire to perform oral at all! I told her that first of all, if she wants to make it to the alter sooner than later, then she better give that man what he wants (she’s in a committed relationship)! Second of all, being that she doesn’t even like doing it, it’s gonna take time to get used to and perfect her technique. THAT needs to be her present to her future husband…not some shy bride with a sour-puss look on her face as she approaches his love stick on her wedding night!

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 10:13 AM | Link to this

Make that chick perform coming in the door I secong that Truth.

That there are men and women who are married is beside the point.How many of those are happy?? The reason why men get unhappy is becoz in some if not most instances,they end up suckers,dwngraded to second tier becoz the woman does not give him any attn,once they are in the marriage set up.What fool will listen to that crap and say **yep,dont do me now,do me when we get married? LMAOF.If there is no compatibility in the bedroom becoz she is holding on to some stuff,get that cleared str8 away,no matter how much u like her.Otherwise u get duped.If its a committed relaship,there is no need for anybody to hold back.Lets do it now!

hold their mate on a lower scale of loving them because the bang is not present shows that they don’t love their partner much or at all

well,i had to defer to the queen of spice on this one.Cant say more..

Dan,Truth i dont think Ared is saying she dont wanna go all the way,even be4 marriage.She just dont wanna verbalize the admission.U dont read her by now.Shes the kind of chic u just turn on,take her hand and lead her where u wanan go.Then leave the rest to her training. Sassy i like u to bite my ear,tear it off….ugh,ugh.ugh..!

By Wise Diva

February 25, 2009 10:13 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

Kym, that is sort of what tomorrow’s topic will be, and I agree!

Shout out to VSB, those are my dudes! I love their website

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 10:14 AM | Link to this

Truth

Any cat that marries a chick hoping she’s going to turn on the heat is a sucker at best, a total idiot at worst.

I totally agree! I have a cousin who I’ve had this conversation with. She thinks that she should save her “head game” for marriage…she thinks that will make it special, but she’s also expressed her lack of desire to perform oral at all! I told her that first of all, if she wants to make it to the alter sooner than later, then she better give that man what he wants (she’s in a committed relationship)! Second of all, being that she doesn’t even like doing it, it’s gonna take time to get used to and perfect her technique. THAT needs to be her present to her future husband…not some shy bride with a sour-puss look on her face as she approaches his love stick on her wedding night!

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 10:15 AM | Link to this

There are certain things women aren’t gonna do until they are with their husbands. No one’s sitting around upset that they aren’t giving their all to someone who hasn’t proven worty enough to earn it.

COMMON line of thinking amougst women…and this line of thinking will lead to your man stepping out on you…any man for that matter…

women require a man let go during a relationship..but she holds hers until she gets a ring?….lol….a ss backwards thinking

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 10:15 AM | Link to this

Truth

Any cat that marries a chick hoping she’s going to turn on the heat is a sucker at best, a total idiot at worst.

I totally agree! I have a cousin who I’ve had this conversation with. She thinks that she should save her “head game” for marriage…she thinks that will make it special, but she’s also expressed her lack of desire to perform oral at all! I told her that first of all, if she wants to make it to the alter sooner than later, then she better give that man what he wants (she’s in a committed relationship)! Second of all, being that she doesn’t even like doing it, it’s gonna take time to get used to and perfect her technique. THAT needs to be her present to her future husband…not some shy bride with a sour-puss look on her face as she approaches his love stick on her wedding night!

By Dan

February 25, 2009 10:19 AM | Link to this

@Truth

I agree with your point. My question was why wait until marriage to let that loose? I was trying to understand the logic behind it.

Whether jumpoff or in love, with sex my goal is to perform at my best, and I take for granted that the woman has the same thought process.

I referenced it the other week, giving energy to what someone else thinks of you, says about you, strikes me as a juvenile tendency.

Who gives a fugg what some chick/dude thinks about your promiscuity? To my mind, you were there fuggin me to so you really can’t say much.

I’m just trying to get to the logic that says, I love this person enough to marry them (or like them enough to be intimate) but I’m restraining “this” and “that” for the sake of appearance.

By Mo (aka Moeisha - coming up for air)

February 25, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this

Rell your 9:10, I agree with totally.

LMAO @ Leggs 9:37.. Knocking bones?!? Hilarious

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this

and this line of thinking will lead to your man stepping out on you…any man for that matter…

Rell, men are stepping out these days because they had Special K for breakfast. So really, you aren’t scaring anyone with that.

Face it, there are plenty of men who are insecure where they’ve gotten good head from a woman and thought “dang, I wonder where she learned that from.”

An in addition to the pillow talk and all the chest bumping guys do anyway, it’s no wonder some women aren’t trying to get their Jenna Jamison on just because you took her rock climbing.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 25, 2009 10:23 AM | Link to this

Sassy Now MELO as I straddle u Melo’s employer would like to thank you for ruining his work day. Now he’s going to sit in his cubicle all day and stare at the ceiling with that wicked grin.

Cumfy I get that alot, but then I get I’d like to shoot you alot too. Anyway, thanks. LOL

Yesterday I spent a few hours with a married cat with 2 kids. Regular convo then he told me he’s at that point where he cant do anything to make her happy. I told him to stop trying. If effort was all that was needed to make a woman happy they’d all be. I told him how I do it and he busted out laughing. I told him to “do what he do” and if that makes her happy then cool, if not she was unhappy anyway. At least one of you should be happy.

I think some guys date women but dont study them. They have no idea what makes that woman tick.

Ared thats like me saying I’d spend more money on you if we were married than just dating. Wait a minute, I would. That didnt help my argument. LMAO Erase that.

With matters of the heart the whole thing is does this chick really think you’re the bomb diggity. If she does her heart is going to carry her body to you and EVERYTHING is tied into her heart. If that chick CAN hold out she does so because your Mr.Longterm vs Mr. McDreamy. The real question is will this guy accept your second best and does he even know its only your second best?

Siren my boy married a chick that for “religious” reasons didnt want to participate in sex. He honored that. Come to find out she just doesnt like sex and eventually had to confess it after weeks of getting poked inthe back. Thing is when she wanted a child she was bringing it. She picked the right one because she’d of either 1) been fugging 2) Found a replacement 3) Been replaced

Melo I understand that Ared wants to be in secure relationship before that freak monster kicks the doors down but when she meets “the guy” she wont be able to rationize so well. She’s gonna pack up that dance pole and take it to his house with drill and nails to do what she do. LOL

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 10:24 AM | Link to this

She thinks that she should save her “head game She needs to let him sample some Le Siren If she hasnt perfected the technique, a loving guy will understand and let her develop that technique.But she needs to quit her aprehension and perfect the craft.Let her know that the danger of not doing so is that the guy,once married,may end up getting a spicer version from the buford hwy and fulton industrial proffsnal crowd.She dont want that to happen.Why dont u tell her this??.What 2009 man will not want sme neck game?? Maybe anus too,everthing is on the table…LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 10:24 AM | Link to this

Truth Most of these chicks have done all the things they’ve fantasized about with Jock down the street but when they meet you its disrespectful to do that same thing, or they’d have you believe that. If we fall for that its our fault. You could’ve stopped right there bruh. Actually, we can go ‘head on and change the topic now. Why don’t you do the honors. It’s almost 11 anyway.

Oh, and ya’ll leave abc alone. He’s doing a sudoku puzzle, and he can’t concentrate with all this idle sex chatter.

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 10:25 AM | Link to this

men are stepping out these days because they had Special K for breakfast.

LOL and Amen to that ARed

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 10:28 AM | Link to this

Truth, your last paragraph was on target. Not just for ARed, but for most women.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:29 AM | Link to this

Ared thats like me saying I’d spend more money on you if we were married than just dating. Wait a minute, I would. That didnt help my argument. LMAO Erase that.

LOL! Naw Truth, it’s similar to guys who hold back emotionally. Cuz they will certainly try to act all hard like they aren’t trying to fall in love til they meet the one that have them acting like Darius Lovehall and ish. lol

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 10:30 AM | Link to this

* MELO* I’m sorry daddy ain’t no Mike Tyson goin on…I don’t break skin or draw blood. I might leave a welt or two that might sting once in a while but that’s it.

Second of all, being that she doesn’t even like doing it, it’s gonna take time to get used to and perfect her technique. THAT needs to be her present to her future husband…not some shy bride with a sour-puss look on her face as she approaches his love stick on her wedding night!

Okaaay? Cause there is a technique involved that may take some time for her to learn.(however there are those that are quick learners lol) That would be an awesome toe curling present that her new husband is sure to love…..that is if he doesn’t look down at her and say “where you learned that?”.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:34 AM | Link to this

but when she meets “the guy” she wont be able to rationize so well. She’s gonna pack up that dance pole and take it to his house with drill and nails to do what she do. LOL

Truth, I won’t have to rationalize it cuz he’ll be “the guy!” Duh! lol

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 10:35 AM | Link to this

DreamsM, that was funny…doing a sudoku puzzle. I was glad KP didn’t come on yesterday.

Perhaps it’s me, but to save it ALL for the wedding night is risky at best. You’ve been knocking boots all along, why is there a special prize for the wedding bed. If anything, that prize should be an increased skill level.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 10:39 AM | Link to this

* So really, you aren’t scaring anyone with that.*

there you go again…scare..its the truth…and trust men dont step out like that…it only starts when you feel as a women you have a right to talk down or use your monthly as an excuse…but lets say i get some “chris brown” or Ikey in me once a month..then lets see how your story changes….women in general are just more disrespectful now-a-days…but i dont blame them…i blame there bitter a zz moms who gave them these false teachings on how to be a “diva”….

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:40 AM | Link to this

Perhaps it’s me, but to save it ALL for the wedding night is risky at best.

Leggs, that can’t happen unless someone’s a virgin. And it’s not what I’m saying either.

It’s funny how the guys are balking at this theory when we all know that as long as they’re getting the nut, they don’t really even care! lol

By Dan

February 25, 2009 10:41 AM | Link to this

The first time I got hit with the “reverse cowgirl” I didn’t think about where she got it from because I honestly did not care. It felt great and I went with it.

This men hold back emotionally, women physically is a sign of emotionally immature people. Some people need to grow the fugg up.

I can give a stranger my all, because that’s how I choose to live my life. I don’t care what the reprecussions are, because in that moment, during that time I was being me.

That doesn’t equate to unsafe sexual practices, but that does mean that there is a lack of a vail.

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 10:42 AM | Link to this

Truth, your last paragraph was on target. Not just for ARed, but for ALL women

I second that Leggs and edited the most to ALL.No need for u to LOL about it Truth coz its the truth.When a woman get hit right,even her mom and dad are secondary beings! U on fire with it this mornining Truth.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:46 AM | Link to this

*it only starts when you feel as a women you have a right to talk down or use your monthly as an excuse… i blame there bitter a zz moms who gave them these false teachings on how to be a “diva”…. *

Rell, cool, then I don’t have anything to worry about then. :-D

By Dan

February 25, 2009 10:48 AM | Link to this

@ARed

It’s funny how the guys are balking at this theory when we all know that as long as they’re getting the nut, they don’t really even care!

That’s not true for every male.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 25, 2009 10:49 AM | Link to this

Ared/Tazz you know what, I think I’m going to be faithful from this point forward. I think I’ve been arguing the cheaters thing just because it was what I DID and not what I’m doing. I had planned to knock off six old friends before leaving ( a 6 pack) but I can’t do it. I just dont have the heart anymore. I think Ive been “Scared Straight”. Maybe last gf cured me. LOL

I’m healed. I’m healed.

Dreams sudoku roflamo.

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 10:50 AM | Link to this

ARed, that comment was for Le Siren* who said their friend was saving head for the wedding night.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 10:51 AM | Link to this

@TRUTH

Sassy Now MELO as I straddle u Melo’s employer would like to thank you for ruining his work day. Now he’s going to sit in his cubicle all day and stare at the ceiling with that wicked grin.

Well, one of my favorite places to be is on op so MELO’s 9:18 surely got my attention. There’s nothing like feeling all of that power between you legs….I think I need tomake a phone call and set some things in motion for later……

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 10:51 AM | Link to this

“reverse cowgirl?? Now, school me on that one, coz im lostSassy.I will do practicals tonite,promise.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 10:51 AM | Link to this

@TRUTH

Sassy Now MELO as I straddle u Melo’s employer would like to thank you for ruining his work day. Now he’s going to sit in his cubicle all day and stare at the ceiling with that wicked grin.

Well, one of my favorite places to be is on top so MELO’s 9:18 surely got my attention. There’s nothing like feeling all of that power between your legs….I think I need to make a phone call and set some things in motion for later……

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this

That’s not true for every male.

Duh.

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this

Hey peeps…

Cee bustin’ in all hung-over from Jack Daniels…sauce that is.

Okay last-night’s Fat Tuesday’s celebration was with my people from the Creek! Lol when southwest atl. folks “get right”, they know they have me laughing! Folks just talking all loud. One dude ventured to say I’m still embarrassed from when he said this… *all in my personal space, He says about the lips - “Got dammit your lips good!… enough to have on my plate with my steak!” then —> “What flavor lipgloss that is gurl?*  See why I’on mess with ya’ll. That’s what I get for going out on a Tues. night.

FWB – ..mmm. If this is asked to a G…wait a minute lemme think.

Intimacy sharing your emotions is what’s up, then after you don’ brain sexed me, it’s on for real. What about the times when you and your old man don’t say naythin to each other and then “bam” you get that burst of “combustible” and go for broke!

It’s a “stick up” at that point.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this

@melo..are you joking about the reverse cow girl?….dude you stoopid…lol

By Raqi

February 25, 2009 10:55 AM | Link to this

IMO physical intimacy is very important in a relationship. It is not only a form of expression of love but it also creates a bond as well as fulfills that physical human need. It’s one of the things that you do for each other even when you yourself are not quite having that loving feeling at the moment. It is just as important as all other critical elements that make a relationship.

Other reasons I think it’s better within a committed relationship is that you are common and comfortable with your mate. A person that love and cares for you tend to be less judgmental which can open you up to being more experimental and free. You can laugh together afterwards when it don’t go so well. There is less fear of rejection also. You share lives. You share moments.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:00 AM | Link to this

A person that love and cares for you tend to be less judgmental which can open you up to being more experimental and free. You can laugh together afterwards when it don’t go so well. There is less fear of rejection also. You share lives. You share moments.

Amen Raqi

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:00 AM | Link to this

fone call to me or Truth?,ohh weeee Sassy! So my sexxiness is vibing with urs..hmmmmmmmm! Spicy and sizzling…

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:01 AM | Link to this

the terminology may be new Rell.Show me the visual…

By Raqi

February 25, 2009 11:02 AM | Link to this

Hey Tazzee. Have you had any luck with any of the new construction auctioned properties?

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 11:04 AM | Link to this

If the passion and creativity is within you from the beginning, stifling it until “that time” (or releasing it in small doses) would seem counterproductive to me.

Well, this once again goes back to a previous discussion. It’s all within her, just lying dormant so to speak and it takes the right one to tap into it. Which also goes back to my stating, “never say what you’ll never do.” The right circumstance combined with the right person and the rest is history.

Perfect example: I was just having this discussion last night and I mentioned that I had never experienced having an “O” until a couple months before my 21st birthday! So combine that with “the history we shared” meaning, the easy and rough times we both endured together…real love (not in love) came shortly after, along with admiration, and the respect for this person just grew and grew… it almost addictive, like tapping into your own personal stash, which made it harder to resist and walk away from in the end.

I believe the hard times really had shown the both of us what we were really made of and just to sit back and witness his determination and perseverance of roughing it out with me day in and day out (when necessary), turned me on more than anything. In so many ways, the man gave it his all, so in turn, I gave him mine and I made no apologies for it.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 11:06 AM | Link to this

@MELO

“reverse cowgirl?? Now, school me on that one, coz im lostSassy.I will do practicals tonite,promise.

There isn’t a whole lot to explain. I mean I like power and control and I like being on top b/c I can have both. For some reason several of the women I know just don’t like it but I’ve ridden off into the sunset on a few joyous occasions to both our pleasures. It’s even better when I’m up there with my back turned to you…so while your watching my jelly jiggle I’m looking back at all them ugly fk faces* you’re making. I like to do the Trading Places *Ursher style. The choking and biting goes along with it and I have yet to hear any objections…..did that do it for you *daddy?

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:06 AM | Link to this

melo, the reverse cowgirl is simply the woman on top with her backside facing you rather than the front. Nothing freaky.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:09 AM | Link to this

you know what, I think I’m going to be faithful from this point forward.

Ha! Truth, did lightning strike you after you said this? lol

What you’ve been doing has worked for you all these years, so why change now?

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 11:11 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Sounds like you had a lovely time last night, LOL!

Raqi I haven’t seen any auctions where I want to live…plus I want a two-car garage, most I’ve heard about are condos. I think I could change my locale for my two-car garage. But I did put an offer on another townhome this past weekend. We’ll see if they want to sell this one.

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 11:11 AM | Link to this

Melo — Reverse Cowgirl = you are the horse & she is riding in the saddle, only facing backwards.

By The Truth aka The Love Guru

February 25, 2009 11:11 AM | Link to this

Sassy you have no idea what your posts are doing to Melo. Queen is going to have to pay for your words tonight. LMAO

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:15 AM | Link to this

thanx Sassy,Ared,ofcourse i know that.Smetimes uall use these tasty wrds and im thinking is that smething from pluto?.I like u to control me and drive Sassy.U got the spirit. What do uall call the side hitting where i come in from behind u and u on ur side with one of ur leggs up? Im a jack rabbit on that one. Like Chris Mathews says on his sunday show,tell me smething i dont know.Everybody.!!… If i get fired today,its ur fault..

By Mr. Mc-DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 11:16 AM | Link to this

Sorry Truth, had to steal (adapt) that for quick sec.

See ladies, I’ve been THE ONE all along. Now gather ‘round and take turns giving me your ALL. No holding back now. I even have an assortment of props for those who need them for their routine.

By NYCUTIE-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com

February 25, 2009 11:16 AM | Link to this

Speaking about stripper poles.. The Cheetah Club has classes once a month in the art of stripping and lap dances.. It is a 2 hour class for $40.. I am considering taking the class :)

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:17 AM | Link to this

Today,queen and i are divorced.Hush that Truth,unless u want to start a fight.Fighting for pudsy ofcourse…

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 11:17 AM | Link to this

I have never understood the “saving the best for last” mentality. Who wants to learn on their wedding night that their husband is WHACK in bed? Not me.

I need to know what you’re working with before hand. Let’s put it all out on the table. You can know all about my credit and finances, but I can’t know if you dyck leans to the left or to the right until marriage? Uh, that’s a negative! Next!! LOL

By Dan

February 25, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this

@Jamo

I get that.

My problem lies in the thought process that says “he(she) has to earn” meme.

If you’re doing you (with the requiste confidence) and I’m doing me, if our energies are compatible it just happens.

For me, it’s about the womans openness to “me being me”. Without doubt, without examination, without that fear.

You speak of the “right” one being able to tap into it: that’s passive.

I want a woman that has tapped into that part of herself already and has the emotional confidence and discernment to know with whom to share it.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

The Cheetah Club has classes once a month in the art of stripping and lap dances

Comfortable, once a month? How cute. The g’s on here have done 40+ weeks of classes! ;-)

But good info for my girls who are scurred! lol

LOL @ your 11:17.

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:24 AM | Link to this

NYCUTIE

If you REALLY want to learn some pole skills, you need to take classes from Fiya Starta at Dance 411! She was the one who came to Sheree’s house to give a private lesson on Housewives of ATL…the girl is very talented. She taught me everything I know;) Cheetah is nice for a cute, sexy routine where you dance around the pole…but if you wanna be able to hang upside down from the pole and really freak it, you gotta play with the big girls:)

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 11:24 AM | Link to this

Tazzee Gurl we were at CampCreek lastn ight. Me and Ms. S., you know she a mess. And the guys sitting adjacent to out table were loud! fuuunny…

I saw your pic. on the “spot”. well the two. imma need a lil more. Like some of your neighbor there.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 11:25 AM | Link to this

Tazz what happened with the unit we spoke about? Did you bid on it?

Ared as I’ve said I retain the right to change when I deem it necessary. Its necessary. I just dont have that kind of heart anymore, and it does take heart in this marketplace. I’m going to meet some chick and pledge my fidleity, honesty and freaky azz ways. LOL

The upside just isnt as high anymore.

Melo Today,queen and i are divorced.Hush that Truth, my bad. You better take your mega men vitamins. Sassy sounds like she aint playin.

Cum lmao at back by popular demand.

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 11:26 AM | Link to this

AmazonRed I don’t follow?

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:26 AM | Link to this

NYCUTIE

If you REALLY want to learn some pole skills, you need to take classes from Fiya Starta at Dance 411! She was the one who came to Sheree’s house to give a private lesson on Housewives of ATL…the girl is very talented. She taught me everything I know;) Cheetah is nice for a cute, sexy routine where you dance around the pole…but if you wanna be able to hang upside down from the pole and really freak it, you gotta play with the big girls:)

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:26 AM | Link to this

you need to take classes from Fiya Starta at Dance 411! She was the one who came to Sheree’s house to give a private lesson on Housewives of ATL…the girl is very talented.

Siren, she was very good. But the women at PoleLaTeaz are better and don’t look like they just came off the ho stroll last night. lol

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 11:27 AM | Link to this

Tatas observance was all it was, you see I occasionally partake in the fiasco myself. Real life ain’t about sitting down indian-style, holding hands, while singin’ kumbaya all the time. Like my Uncle Lorenzo says ——> “if ya’ scared, go to chuch.” (lol) just sayin’

”I’m just trying to get to the logic that says, I love this person enough to marry them (or like them enough to be intimate) but I’m restraining “this” and “that” for the sake of appearance.”

Well, may be I miss understood where you were going regarding the previous discussion. But honestly, I could give a monkey’s a$$ what “things may seem” …heyal, I’ve come to realize a lot of things (people included) are not what they may seem to be. But what kind of public display are you ref’ing to it comes to the “sake of appearance” ? I may be confused with this one…hence a lot of men saying they want a lady in the light and a real freak-a-lic in the dark. She appears to be a respectable lady in person, but her bedroom talents are/must be anything but!!! This is not my “argument” either, so do not mistake it.

I’m simply saying Ebony nor Becky should be this liberal with everybody they’re involved with . For some folks, an act of gratitude such as this may take some time, but I will admit that the “right one” can get it off top.

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:28 AM | Link to this

NYCUTIE

If you REALLY want to learn some pole skills, you need to take classes from Fiya Starta at Dance 411! She was the one who came to Sheree’s house to give a private lesson on Housewives of ATL…the girl is very talented. She taught me everything I know;) Cheetah is nice for a cute, sexy routine where you dance around the pole…but if you wanna be able to hang upside down from the pole and really freak it, you gotta play with the big girls:)

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this

@ared..how do you feel when you work that pole??

do you have an inner slut that you like to bring out er now an then

and no i dont have a problem with pole workers or chicks that like to get there jazzerise on the pole…i am just wondering whats your thought process sliding down that pole….

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this

Comfortable

Basically, you aren’t gonna learn much from a once a month class at Cheetahs. Go to a real studio if you want to learn some real pole skills.

A two hour class will teach you enough to take some cute pics by a pole. lol

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this

I think if you want a relationship sex should be put on the back burner for few months. You need to have a clear mind & judgement to get to know that person. I am not talking that crap that men spew about the best way to get to know someone is sex. It’s a lie. I think once things become physical it is hard to really focus on the individual’s personality because it’s clouded by hormones. I once really liked a guy and I made the common woman mistake in giving sex within a few weeks more so because he wanted it. It was very frequent. You know women we give sex for love…men just give the love of sex! Anyway…although it was great I could have done without it. I was apparent to me that as long as I was giving him all the benefits of a relationship without the actually commited agreement…that it would never be. And why should he? He was getting all the benefits and I was unhappy. Try approaching a guy who is bascially free but has the girlfriend experience (without the GF) and saying now I want you to commit to me. He will look at you like you have 2 heads. Then give you some lame excuse as to why he doesn’t rush into relationships! Huh? You have no problem rushing to sex (which a preganancy or STDs) but somehtign as simple as a relationship (not marriage) you act as if I said to castrate you! So…I think that taking the time to get to know the person’s likes, dislikes, goals, etc…makes you see past the obvious physical attraction and you can develop something deeper than a great booty call. Good forbid somehtign happens to you and you can no longer sexually perform the way you used to…then what will you have to offer?

FWB does not work for me. I do not think I can relax because I am thinking…hmmm…if he is doing this with tonight…who was it with last night! That would throw a wrench in my bedroom performance! If a guy is my man I would be more into it and that is who gets the strip teases (complete with wigs, costume and role play)! But just a booty buddy…do me and get out!No talking…nada! BTW…I have never been a stripper no have I taken classes…but I won a pole dancing contest in Jamaica…and it was against a stripper from the US. Hot damn…I guess I got it naturally! LOL

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 11:33 AM | Link to this

What do uall call the side hitting where i come in from behind u and u on ur side with one of ur leggs up? Im a jack rabbit on that one.

I call that “OOOOOhhhh thank you LAWD”. Y’all got me typing looking over my shoulders. LOL

I like u to control me and drive Sassy.U got the spirit. So since I’m driving does that mean I get to go wherever I want?…….

TRUTH I just got off the phone with my S.O. and he doesn’t even much know what he’s in for later. I was trying to hold it after yesterday’s topic but today’s topic is the straw that broke the camel’s back…..hope I get mine blown out later :-)

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:34 AM | Link to this

Sassy sounds like she aint playin i can handle that.I doubt she has ever tasted an experienced and mature mandngo.W

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:34 AM | Link to this

Sassy sounds like she aint playin i can handle that.I doubt she has ever tasted an experienced and mature mandngo.When u get bit by a black mamba,u” notice it!

By Dan

February 25, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

@Jamo

Yeah, a “lady in street” yeah that has it’s place.

The “sake of appearance” (read: “I don’t want him to think I’mma ohe”).

I’m agreeing with you that any female (and male too) should be open. That’s what I’m attracted to in her in the first place. That “quiet confidence”.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

i am just wondering whats your thought process sliding down that pole….

Rell - It’s a fun workout and I feel empowered. You feel like you’re flying. This is when I just have on workout clothes.

When I have on the 6-inch heels and lingerie and dancing to music, I feel super sexy and feminine. It’s brought out more confidence in my everyday life to the point where other people have noticed. I was a lot more modest before, like never wearing super high heels in public. But now I do.

I really do recommend it for all women.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 11:36 AM | Link to this

@staceye…boy the next man that sticks those legs in a V is going to get 5 yrs of frustration but on him…gawd…thats going to be some amazing sex!!!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this

Sorry Comfort, I mixed you up with NYCutie

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:40 AM | Link to this

Amazon

she was very good. But the women at PoleLaTeaz are better and don’t look like they just came off the ho stroll last night. lol

Girl, don’t be talking bout my pole sisters! Those be fighting words! LOL Do we need to have a pole-off? Dance411 against PoleLeTeaz? Hmmm…:)

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this

Amazon

she was very good. But the women at PoleLaTeaz are better and don’t look like they just came off the ho stroll last night. lol

Girl, don’t be talking bout my pole sisters! Those be fighting words! LOL Do we need to have a pole-off? Dance411 against PoleLeTeaz? Hmmm…:)

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:44 AM | Link to this

Amazon

she was very good. But the women at PoleLaTeaz are better and don’t look like they just came off the ho stroll last night. lol

Girl, don’t be talking bout my pole sisters! Those be fighting words! LOL Do we need to have a pole-off? Dance411 against PoleLeTeaz? Hmmm…:)

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 11:44 AM | Link to this

Girl, don’t be talking bout my pole sisters! Those be fighting words! LOL

Siren, you’re right. I take it back! I would feel the same way if anyone talked about my pole sistas! lol

But a pole off would be fun!

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this

So since I’m driving does that mean I get to go wherever I want?……

YEP.I hate a woman with no iniative,esp in bed.I like to be literally enslaved by a freaky woman.Thats the bomb diggity.U do me,u in charge…But ofcourse i get my turn too,to turn u inside out.

I like to spread u out,u knw like ur’e cenre spread of a magazine,leggs wide open.Then i slip my tongue tip in der,and withdraw it and let u hips kinda extend forward, following me.Letting ur oozes cme out,drip,drip,drip and ur clit getting all blown up and literally gazing out of its labia..ughh weeee.That there sets off my johnson Big time! But ive never licked any other woman other than queen,that may be a problem!

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 11:50 AM | Link to this

@ared…thank you for you answer

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 11:51 AM | Link to this

The Truth yep, my agent is emailing me the bank’s response as I type. She has laryngitis, as impatient as I am, I could tell she was suffering trying to tell me over the phone.

Cemeeli I didn’t take any pics of my neighbors, LOL. I still haven’t uploaded them to a web hosting site and it’s too many to email. You need to join facebook, LOL. musta missed my invite to CampCreek last nite…

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:53 AM | Link to this

Amazon

It’s all good…afterall, the pole is all about sisterhood and empowering women all over the world! LOL

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this

Amazon

It’s all good…afterall, the pole is all about sisterhood and empowering women all over the world! LOL

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 11:56 AM | Link to this

Truth and Tazz ur house discussion is offside,its a blog foul,u get a red card for that!Ejection…popo needs to escort u out….

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 11:57 AM | Link to this

Amazon

It’s all good…afterall, the pole is all about sisterhood and empowering women all over the world! LOL

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 11:59 AM | Link to this

Rell Oh yougot jokes! LOL

ARED I have always worn super high heels in public! LOL I wear what I like and do not care what others think.

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 11:59 AM | Link to this

Sassy/Melo, please stop. Some of us aren’t as fortunate to “release” (with a mate that is). You guys are hysterical this morning.

ARed, It’s brought out more confidence in my everyday life to the point where other people have noticed. Amen, Amen, Amen. This is the main reason why ALL women should take exotic dance classes. It liberates you. Along with Dance411 or PoleLeTeaz, try www.artofexoticdancing.com I guarantee you will walk away refreshed, confident and a little feeling alot more sexier than when you walked in. For those w/self-esteem issues, it will get a major boost taking classes like these! Go at it!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this

Siren, I just watched one of Fiya Starter’s videos. She is amazing! I’m never gonna be that fearless. Broken necks are a real thing! lol

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 12:01 PM | Link to this

AmRed your 11:35 has me wanting to sign up for classes. I was supposed to go to the PoleLaTeaz anniversary workshop to celebrate a friend’s b-day, but that was the night before my trip. But that is on my ‘40 before 40’ list.

Staceye I understand exactly where you’re coming from (that first paragraph, not the contest, LOL)

Truth mail call.

By NYCUTIE-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com

February 25, 2009 12:02 PM | Link to this

I am not into hanging from a pole since my azz has vertigo.. LMAO

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 12:02 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Invite? Gurl, S and i do things impromtu. And i didn’t have that understanding with you, unless your ready. Now i know! So next time be ready for it. We were thinkin’ about going to “Two Urban Licks” i’ve never been there?

btw - Are you doing Lynt? Ash Wednesday

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 12:03 PM | Link to this

I want a woman that has tapped into that part of herself already and has the emotional confidence and discernment to know with whom to share it. Dan

My definition of the right one right there ^^^, man or WOman. Okay, understood.

The “sake of appearance” (read: “I don’t want him to think I’mma ohe”).

(LOl) Alrighty then. Well in that case, I’ll even venture to say regarding the right one, hmmmph!…he can think that too, if that’s what turns him on and there’s a phrase for that, it’s called role play. *I’ll be whatever he wants me to be…callin’ me everything but a child of gawwwd.” (lol) Like an army infantry, babygirl WILL be all that she CAN BE…and I’ll leave it up to him to decide if he’s gonna question it or being man or rather grown enough to enjoy and even take advantage of what HE HAS.

Though I find it quite interesting that some will refer to you as their woman/lady, but when ish goes sour, you were just anutha ho e that got knocked off. <—- Tatas, there goes ya’ lawduhmercy for the day.

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 12:04 PM | Link to this

abc, if you’re lurking, please go directly past Melo @11:49 and immediately collect your $200. Oh my!

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 12:04 PM | Link to this

@staceye..i am not joking..when you open that lotus flower again….mayne!!!…

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 12:04 PM | Link to this

I have always worn super high heels in public! LOL I wear what I like and do not care what others think.

Staceye, good for you. But remember a lot of little girls are raised to repress things like sexuality and to do things like dress modestly in public. It does need to be unleashed eventually though. Most girls accomplish that by wilding out during spring break. LOL. Call me a late bloomer then.

Leggs, thanks for providing the other link. You still taking classes?

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 12:09 PM | Link to this

Amazon

I just watched one of Fiya Starter’s videos. She is amazing! I’m never gonna be that fearless. Broken necks are a real thing! lol

Girl, believe me, I understand! I’ve been taking classes for 8 mos and I still stand back and watch her in amazement! lol

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

Amazon

I just watched one of Fiya Starter’s videos. She is amazing! I’m never gonna be that fearless. Broken necks are a real thing! lol

Girl, believe me, I understand! I’ve been taking classes for 8 mos and I still stand back and watch her in amazement! lol

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I’m just giving you a hard time. But yes, hit me up when you’re going to do something. Normally I’m headed to the gym after work, but I actually skipped the gym and did something spontaneous Monday night.

Lent - I said I was going to do something. You know last year I gave up popcorn and potatoes. Popcorn was harder, LOL. I haven’t decided yet - but I will soon.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 12:12 PM | Link to this

your 11:35 has me wanting to sign up for classes.

Tazzee, I’ll go with you whenever you are ready! They give free intros all the time.

PoleLaTeaz is cheaper than Dance 411. You get two extra weeks of instruction at PoleLaTeaz for the same price as Dance 411.

Jamoca, great call with the knock off post.

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

Amazon

I just watched one of Fiya Starter’s videos. She is amazing! I’m never gonna be that fearless. Broken necks are a real thing! lol

Girl, believe me, I understand! I’ve been taking classes for 8 mos and I still stand back and watch her in amazement! lol

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 12:14 PM | Link to this

Yes, last class is learning how to work the pole. I’m intrigued, but yikes. I loved the lap dance class with boas and props. Making sure I could lift my leg over the bag of the chair w/o knocking the chair down was easier than I thought. Much fun! Ladies, do yourself a favor and sign up for a class. YOU WILL NOT REGRET ONE PENNY SPENT!

Staceye turned me onto a belly dance class I could take w/my daughter. Sounded like so much fun, but track practice would get in the way so I haven’t signed up.

By Dan

February 25, 2009 12:17 PM | Link to this

@Jamo

Like minded seeks like minded.

I spent the time putting in the work to get here with mine and I want a woman that is there with me. thus my affinity for older women I didn’t become a teacher for a reason.

@Rell

Staceye gon be aight. She’s really a sweet person, this time is part of her growth as an artist and a woman.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 12:18 PM | Link to this

Ladies, I want to signup for pole classes. I promise to never be late and always pay attention to whoevers working that pole. Can I join?

Rell a cats gonna have to use sneak attack #87 on Staceye. She needs time to bond and whatnot. A cat shouldn’t even approach her about booty until she brings it to him. That may take a minute but when she does she’ll be calling EVERY night needing to get lit up. Staceye’s a long term project. LMAO

Melo dayumm tiger. Tell us all how its gonna go down. LOL

Tazz mail call.

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 12:20 PM | Link to this

ish goes sour, you were just anutha ho e that got knocked off Why u care for that Jamoca im a biatch to,to u,once we not on speak terms.

U and mytwo need to quit worrying about what could go wrong and hw i see u after that.Worry urself with what will come to fruition if we do this ish right.U pluck me,i phluck u. As far as I know,thats a DRAW..1-1 OR 2-2 WHATEVER SCORE U LIKE.Hoe is just abused wrd used in only war.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 12:22 PM | Link to this

But ive never licked any other woman other than queen,that may be a problem!

MELO I hear ya big daddy!!

I know you gone tear dat up toniiight :-) Kind of reminds me of a song by Jeezy (Tear dat Psy up).

Leggs Okay I quit(I think) LMAO

I feel tingly…..

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 12:23 PM | Link to this

Can I join?

Truth, no men allowed in class! But with all the women taking classes around Atlanta, I’m sure if pledge this new found fidelity to one, she’ll show you what’s she’s got. LOL

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 12:27 PM | Link to this

She’s really a sweet person, this time is part of her growth as an artist and a woman.

Rell a cats gonna have to use sneak attack #87 on Staceye. She needs time to bond and whatnot. A cat shouldn’t even approach her about booty until she brings it to him. That may take a minute but when she does she’ll be calling EVERY night needing to get lit up. Staceye’s a long term project. LMAO

Yea….i have been on to this for a minute…i have a not so secret kindergarden crush on her….lol….i dont give up even though she has told me NO for the last two years!!!

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this

Hell SassyMe, we all feel tingly right about now (rofl)!

By Dan

February 25, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this

I agree with Melo (12:20)

Worrying about the outcome of a “failed relationship” prevents you from having one (or participating in the one you’re in).

That too is what I meant, Jamo, about “what people think”. Breakups (and I’ve had my share) are relatively easy for me because I don’t waste the energy of being mad at the other person. I live in the moment and in the times I reflect I acknowledge the bad, but think most fondly about the good.

So, like Melo, I believe in living in the moment. Maybe not in all the ways he does…but you feel me

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 12:35 PM | Link to this

The men are funny. Most of y’all have admitted that you won’t even take a girl to a nice restaurant unless she is giving up the azz, passes ABC test or does XYZ first. And that’s JUST dinner!

And now y’all are all about being open and living in the moment?

Who are you fooling? Other than yourselves? lol

By Dan

February 25, 2009 12:44 PM | Link to this

@ARed

I’ll comment on that one at least for me.

No, I’m not a fan of “spending out” to date someone. In fact my preferred date is not a flashy, trendy spot, but somewhere quiet and “common’ even everyday-ish. So that we can take the time to get to know one another.

As far as sex, I’ve stated since day one that I like women that approach me. Why? Because she has the confidence of self, she owns her sexuality, and she can see the same in me and is adult enough to express that.

I see no dissonance at least outta me

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 12:47 PM | Link to this

And now y’all are all about being open and living in the moment?

I think we talking about 2 pple who are past the initiation stage of dinners etc.These 2 already knw each other,they may be committed to or not so committed but the phuck me-phuck me sexxual tension is already established. So we saying,if u wanna do it,show me whatchu got,i do too.Dont hold back coz that may cost u an upgrade. Remember Ared, as long as u not acting hoeish in public, for all to see,u str8.Act hoesish to me,in the secluded den! In public,u the queenest,sexxiest,well dressed lady I know.Thats my girl!!

By Beautiful

February 25, 2009 12:50 PM | Link to this

did things get hotter the closer you became in your relationships?

yes ma’am! when i became cumfortable with being nekkid in front of him, all of my whhorish ways came tubblin’ out. lol. it was fun.

Does “intimacy” have to be magical to be in love?

yep yep. well … lemme think on this one.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 12:54 PM | Link to this

Ared thats them. I’d simp for you. I’d even let you order from the dinner menu and not just appetizers. But thats just how I feel about you.

Btw, who likes Maggiano’s? I ate xmas dinner there and the food was delicious. Anyone else like that spot?

Melo if I weren’t a freak I’d be offended by your posts. But since I am they dont bother me. Keep posting bruh. LOL

Beautiful yep yep. well … lemme think on this one Ok thats gonna take a minute. We’ll talk to you next week. LMAO

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 12:55 PM | Link to this

Ok I just watched a Fiya Stater Video on You Tube…that girl is badd! Where does she teach…I will be going there! That will be a great work out!!

Truth LOL I’m a long term project? You funny man!

Leggs Well when you get the chance..I know you and lil’ leggs will love the mommy and me belly dance class. When I first started Belly Dancing at 15…I took my mami to a class and we had fun together. She hasn’t done one in years…so when she comes for a visit we are going to leave my dad at my crib and go. She is still amazed at my sword and veil work. I did it when I was home for Christmas.

Thanks Dan!

Rell did you just throw a note into my office that says, “will you be my girlfriend”…and check the yes or no box? LOL

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 12:58 PM | Link to this

Tazzee okay. I gotcha.

melo I wonder too. The shoes…the shoes…lol.

What u and Queen doing this w/e?

Swissie when u met swiss miss family did the eyeballs roll? And when u come back in, make a nother sound track…I’m tied of Wild Cherry!!

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 1:03 PM | Link to this

Worrying about the outcome of a “failed relationship” prevents you from having one (or participating in the one you’re in).

Dan alright now, we were on the same page for a minute, but you’ve ventured elsewhere with this. Who said anything about worrying? I simply pointed it out.

Why u care for that Jamoca im a biatch to,to u,once we not on speak terms.

Melo I’ll admit I’m not a saint either, when it comes down to particular scenarios and I’ve brushed my shoulders off plenty of times.

Simply observing and therefore shedding a little light on the situation, does not equate worrying (IMB).

Like I stated before, worrying about what the man thinks after the fact would not be a concern of mine and therefore out of my control. It just amazes me that some can do a complete 360, when things do not pan out the way he wanted and/or expected.

However, I have also come to realize that when a person becomes this ill and bitter …and just straigt gutta, regarding a relationship going south with someone with whom they were once deeply on accord with – established even…To me, it really speaks volumes of how much the person ACTUALLY gave a damn. Why else would they give such an unfortunate situation so much weight? This may not hold true for all, but it is often that I’ve observed this.

Regarding what could go wrong, him seeing me as a ho e simply because my desire was for him at that time and the fact that I was not shy about letting this be known??? <——- the very least of my worries but it does not mean that I cannot bring it up in discussion either.

Ain’t nobody worryin’…

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this

Ared thats them. I’d simp for you. I’d even let you order from the dinner menu and not just appetizers. But thats just how I feel about you.

LMAO Truth, you were excluded from that. But my point being we ALL have our hang ups, yes even you Dan and melo. And those without daughters don’t know anything about a woman’s psyche as her sexual identity revolves thru the years.

And for the ones who do have daughters, it’s evident that even though you expect your WOMAN to be sexually free, who’s gonna teach her that…cuz you sure aren’t as her daddy.

So really, as long as your needs are getting met and she’s happy, you don’t need to worry about what she may or may not have in store for you down the line unless you’re walking that walk with her anyway.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:07 PM | Link to this

By the way Truth, I LOVE Maggiano’s. Got taken there on a date once too. lol

Dang, now I need you to take me to get their stuffed mushrooms. I might let you touch a boob for it. lol

By Beautiful

February 25, 2009 1:08 PM | Link to this

Does “intimacy” have to be magical to be in love?

i can’t remember wrestling with my lover and it NOT being magical.

did anyone else answer this? i’ll have to read the above later. gotta run

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this

Melo if I weren’t a freak I’d be offended by your posts there are more female freaks in da blog than they care to admit. On a side note, I was in a sexx shop on friday last,right there by monroe and piedmont,cheshire bridge area.The gadgetry they have in there for women esp,i was kinda blown away.Like the dyckks and electrical rabbits..they look so real and huge.Even tho lyfeless,a starved woman will get a good kick from that thing.The dwnside is that she wont feel no fire,no blood warmth and no sperm spit,unlike the real thing.That there is the reason why todays independent woman tends to get ignited in anger, once somebody sets them off.Coz the inability to release that tension is the mufgga. So ladies, i see u 1/2 stepping thanx to some clever enterpeneurs,but u getting short changed. A magical FWB arrangement aint bad coz it soothes ur nerves!Untill that time u get the real thing.Keep hope alive.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this

Melo

I concur with that 12:20.

I am lucky. The wife simply stated early on that society is so messed why should she look to it as a guidepost of how she should act in the privacy of her own home. In public, she is much more cautious.

However, I understand that if you are taught something as a kid (i.e. good girls don’t do certain things) , it can be hard to get out of the mind. Especially, if you hear it repeated at home, at church, and other places.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this

For anyone that needs another movie channel try

http://www.fastpasstv.com/

Enjoy

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:14 PM | Link to this

The wife simply stated early on that society is so messed why should she look to it as a guidepost of how she should act in the privacy of her own home. In public, she is much more cautious.

PG, you’ve also admitted that your wife has told you there are things she wanted to try with her husband. She knows how it works. lol

It’s really all about comfort. Dan sat up here and preached how he’s not a “fan” of spending out with someone. And that’s okay. So it’s EQUALLY okay if a woman is not a “fan” on releasing her inner porn star to a guy whose only in it for the short term.

I see that okay as well…but apparently, it’s a “problem.”

By Kym

February 25, 2009 1:14 PM | Link to this

I wouldnt mind take a nice salsa class. Maybe that will be my spring activity..see if I can’t convince some other folks to come along.

By Leggs

February 25, 2009 1:15 PM | Link to this

Cemelli, I’ve heard some great things about Two Urban Licks. Some friends of mine when and gave me some matches from the establishment…no doggy bag just a little book of matches.

You guys enjoy the rest of this sexually charged discussion.

I will be leaving shortly…first high school track meet today. She and I are both excited!

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 1:16 PM | Link to this

The Truth Maggiano’s is good - I try to limit my visits there though.

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:16 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Looks like we’re going to AA part 2 in Carolina. I’m still getting Valentines gifts. lovely

Have you ever heard of a “modded” XBox or Wii?

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 1:17 PM | Link to this

Truth

I have had hit or miss with Maggiano’s.

When they’ve hit, they were great. When they missed, I got sick (from a seafood dish).

I’ve had much better experiences with the family style dinners (like parties in the reserved room) than the regular entrees.

Overall though, they’ve been pretty good to me.

By Elijah makes it Happen!

February 25, 2009 1:18 PM | Link to this

What’s up Blog family?

I see Melo once again has brought the sex position topic straight to the for Front!

To Sassy,sassy,

Ride um cowgirl, I luvs the woman that luvs to ride Cowgirl Style!

Oops what is the topic? I cannot concentrate Sassy is speaking my language!LMAO :)

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 1:20 PM | Link to this

Tazz why the limits?

Similac a modded console means modified to alter the machine. Hacks go in and redo the machine to their needs.

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 1:21 PM | Link to this

Melo I’ll admit I’m not a saint either u my girl then,hash anything else!

who’s gonna teach her that…cuz you sure aren’t as her daddy not me but if she gets everything else i taught her,shes gonna choose right and the man and her will teach each other! U good with me ared,keep doing what u doing and dont tell nobody ure’ a hoe,coz u not untill that door is fully shut and the noise mufflers are in place!! And btw,ive always fed my women,sex or no sex.Like Truth,I aint cheap!

CEE what shoes?? im in soccer training every sunday,african tournament cming in may,memorial wkend… Truth LOL I’m a long term project? Truth is right.u need a special guy,maybe a senegalese french speaking one,gentle,patient and mature.They are smooth,im told.I’ll hook u up.That boogoo,beggeie,french will lite u up at some point,u know them french pple,they dont play! U need to come to our trnament in May.Wait,Im calling Leggs right now for the hook up!

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:22 PM | Link to this

@ Kym -May i join i’m totally into dance. Salsa is good for the core.

@ Go Lil Leggs!

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 1:24 PM | Link to this

@Cee — I haven’t met swiss miss’s family in person yet, only spoken on the phone. But they’ve seen pictures & know I’m a whiteboy. :-) It’s not a big deal for them — swiss miss’s dad is white, actually. She’s met my family — well, at least my immediate family. I have some cousins (yeah, those “cousins”) who I’m sure would disapprove, but I don’t with those losers anyway.

Now, whatchu want me to play, Cee? You expecting Coldplay or something? LOL (and yes, I do like them, dammit — I can’t help it, it’s genetic)

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:28 PM | Link to this

Truth I am thinking about getting the shortboy one. Now, if i was “schooled” correctly it’ll save us on breaking the original disc when we buy games. So imma grab that.

Melo The shoes you were when the relationship is going the speed it should.

hol’ up my lunch order is back.

By Kym

February 25, 2009 1:30 PM | Link to this

Cee Of course you can..I am going to ask one of my teammembers where he took classes..if not I will search around..I am not trying to sign a contract just one of those pay as you go classes to start. I found a place up in Roswell that has classes for 12.00 a lesson and another place that is like near Briarcliff at 20.00 a lesson.

Why is there is no place on the southside?

By Elijah makes it Happen!

February 25, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this

The heavens are moving!

Truth is going mono! Diva make sure you save this post! LOL

Love is magic and when you have love it is the best feeling in the world because it last everyday unlike sex which lasts for that hour or two.

Their are some very interesting ladies on this blog!

Thank you lord for making the SISTAS! Can’t get enough!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this

U good with me ared,keep doing what u doing and dont tell nobody ure’ a hoe,coz u not untill that door is fully shut and the noise mufflers are in place!!

LMAO Thanks melo, I think. lol

And no, you’re not one of the cheapies on the blog either.

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this

Melo I’m just messin’ with ya too. I aint getting none of that physical, yet. Lol…

the peg is so off!

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this

Staceye

She teaches at Dance411:) I’ve been taking classes there for almost a year and a half and I LOVE it! Check out the go-go stiletto classes too, they’re great!

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 1:33 PM | Link to this

Nice layout in that 1:04 ARed.

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 1:33 PM | Link to this

Most of y�all have admitted that you won�t even take a girl to a nice restaurant unless she is giving up the azz, passes ABC test or does XYZ first. And that�s JUST dinner

actually i dont care about taking a women out or meeting her out…i hate when it is expected…thats what i dont like….learn the differenc

and why is TRUTH excluded..he wants to just like the rest of us

@staceye….maybe i did…go on and check a box…lol

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 1:34 PM | Link to this

Staceye

She teaches at Dance411:) I’ve been taking classes there for almost a year and a half and I LOVE it! Check out the go-go stiletto classes too, they’re great!

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this

@ Kym - I’m with you, no contracts! Those prices are cheap. You know i’m signing lil Cee up for the Tai classes again after the spring though. your fault —> Mo money…mo money. It’ll be good.

By Le Siren

February 25, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this

Staceye

She teaches at Dance411:) I’ve been taking classes there for almost a year and a half and I LOVE it! Check out the go-go stiletto classes too, they’re great!

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 1:39 PM | Link to this

Cee

Have you ever heard of a “modded” XBox or Wii?

Somewhat, I believe that is a an xbox or wii that has modified software or hardware.

AR

PG, you’ve also admitted that your wife has told you there are things she wanted to try with her husband. She knows how it works. lol

duh!!

Seriously though, through conversation it seems that she her main issue was health though. Not wanting any STDs was at the top of the list. What other’s thought came way down the line. What she thought of herself was higher on the list than what other “sinners” -her word- thought. it was just another area in which we agreed.

Plastic wrap, diaphragms, condoms, etc only protect so much. Can’t let a moment of lust give you a lifetime of physical issues.

By Blow Me

February 25, 2009 1:40 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon

Great topic..but you guys summed it all up.

Truth & Ared smashing together @ Maggiano’s for the stuffed mushrooms? No way!!! Everyone knows I have a blog crush on Truth…lol.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:41 PM | Link to this

i hate when it is expected…thats what i dont like

Rell, thanks for posting further proof that we all have our HANG UPs.

Get over that ish already, damn. lol.

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:43 PM | Link to this

Swissie You two are cute enough! So she’s seen the family, and they have a picture of you putting your “swag on”? Lol…cool. Now whiteboy don’t forget when i come to the ceremony i’ll be sitting on the bride’s side. Sounds like she’s more musically inclined to what “Tina” would like! well

I like 2-3 ColdPlay tracks myself.

By Dan

February 25, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

@ARed

I’ll admit to having said that I wasn’t the one for LTR, but (as has been stated) that changes with time and the right person.

I’ve also said that I “end up” in relationships, in part by me walking my walk and finding her there with me.

I’ll state it publicly, I am in search of an LTR. But like Truth, what you see (read) is what you get.

@Jamo

I was piggybacking Melo’s comment to you and My2.

But I don’t really hold truck with the theory that post breakup “I hate you now so much because I loved you so much then”.

True love is wanting the best for someone (whether they’re with you or not). I hold no grudges about how my relationships ended and the women typically don’t either. 1) Because whether we got down on the first date or the 5th, it was mutual respect and friendship and; 2) If I truly loved them, how I can I not wish for them to find happiness. <—that would actually mean that I didn’t love them

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

Ared/Tazz/Poppa the one restaraunt I always wanted to try but didnt was The Imperial Fez. Have one of you tried that place?

Ared if I had a daughter the only thing I’d do is give her the gift of high self esteem. She’ll have to come to terms with her own libido.

And thanks for the boobie grab. LOL

Melo if a cat plays Staceye right he’s gonna have a hellcat on his hands. All that pent up tension’s gonna rush out and she’ll be on the blog talking bout how wonderful men are. LOL

Rell thanks for busting me out. LOL Really, I dont trip about eating out. Some of the women I know are great company and its fun hanging with them. I’m going to always have money or at least a way to make some so I dont trip off that. Loot is a part of my birthright so if a chick is fun to be with and I want to head out I’ll ask if she wants to go. Dont do that with chickenheads though. What I dont do is tie that into booty because thats lame to me. We go out, chill and break bread and if thats something we want to do its possible but not mandatory. Like money I’ve always had a woman so once again its my birthright. I dont sweat whats destined for me.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

duh!!

PG, nicely done. I wish I had a visual of your 6’8” azz saying that. lol

Yeah, I was just remembering you telling us the cat suit story. Something I would definitely do, but wouldn’t do for just anyone.

Blow, he can only touch a boob, but Truth is smooth enough that I’d probably give in. LOL.

You can’t have him though. lol

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 1:49 PM | Link to this

@ared

Get over that ish already, damn. lol.

why?!?!?!?….when there are women out here like you that would not appriaciate a cat doing something like that for you…its expected….if he not wining and dining then he not doing it for you….i just view dinner dates without some type of shared experiences - FLUCKING BORING….check it..say we have been dating..meaning doing other things then dinner/movies…we have sex or take a trip or whatever the hell…..i say hey i want to try this new spot…i will pick you up…then we go have a great time talking about all we have doen and what more we can do…not the first date or second date…feeling out getting ot know you dates….BORING BORING BORING….maybe your BORING

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 1:49 PM | Link to this

Dang step away for an hour or so and all the freaks come out. So I guess you guys get live and in effect around lunchtime right? LOL

You know I love it. Speaking of pole classes Le Siren said it, it is indeed a sisterhood. So much fun!!!

Melo you should write Erotica, I think you’d be good at it. You could compete with Zane and write from a male perspective…let me know if you need a publisher.

Truth Maggiano’s is good, haven’t been in a while, but I’m never disappointed when I go.

Now, about that reverse cowgirl…who needed a visual? LOL

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:51 PM | Link to this

But like Truth, what you see (read) is what you get.

Dan, I don’t believe you tho. Besides, what you get is you and your mama. Didn’t you state she was gonna come first or at least tie? LOL

Truth, I haven’t tried Imperial Fez, but I’ll put it on my watch list.

And the high self esteem part is key…but it will make sure the girl doesn’t do just anything with anyone. Which is kind of my point. lol

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 1:52 PM | Link to this

The Truth My metabolism doesn’t allow me to go to Maggiano’s as often as I’d like. Sweet Tomatoes - now I can go there as often as I like ;-)

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 1:52 PM | Link to this

Cee

Have you ever heard of a “modded” XBox or Wii?

Somewhat, I believe that is a an xbox or wii that has modified software or hardware.

AR

PG, you’ve also admitted that your wife has told you there are things she wanted to try with her husband. She knows how it works. lol

duh!!

Seriously though, through conversation it seems that she her main issue was health though. Not wanting any STDs was at the top of the list. What other’s thought came way down the line. What she thought of herself was higher on the list than what other “sinners” -her word- thought. it was just another area in which we agreed.

Plastic wrap, diaphragms, condoms, etc only protect so much. Can’t let a moment of lust give you a lifetime of physical issues.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this

Cee

Have you ever heard of a “modded” XBox or Wii?

Somewhat, I believe that is a an xbox or wii that has modified software or hardware.

AR

PG, you’ve also admitted that your wife has told you there are things she wanted to try with her husband. She knows how it works. lol

duh!!

Seriously though, through conversation it seems that she her main issue was health though. Not wanting any STDs was at the top of the list. What other’s thought came way down the line. What she thought of herself was higher on the list than what other “sinners” -her word- thought. it was just another area in which we agreed.

Plastic wrap, diaphragms, condoms, etc only protect so much. Can’t let a moment of lust give you a lifetime of physical issues.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this

when there are women out here like you that would not appriaciate a cat doing something like that for you…

Rell, like me nothing. I always appreciate the nice things people do for me, dating or otherwise. So you just missed me with all of that.

Folks have expectations out of life. You have expectations out of your family, job, relationships. You expect to get paid on pay day, don’t you? So yeah, get over it. Really.

By Blow Me

February 25, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this

Like money I’ve always had a woman so once again its my birthright. I dont sweat whats destined for me.

Truth I must say that was pretty gangsta and a bit cocky. lol!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this

she’ll be on the blog talking bout how wonderful men are Truth Um hellz no! LOL

But of course I love Imperial Fez!

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 1:58 PM | Link to this

PoppaG

Plastic Wrap??…naw! Hahahaha

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 2:00 PM | Link to this

Cee — I’ll keep a lookout for you, Tina. BTW, you’ll be relieved to know that I’ve been forbidden to go anywhere near the DJ’s playlist for the reception. Swiss Miss says we don’t want a mass suicide on the dance floor. LOL

I can’t lie, though — if you saw my iPod, you’d really wonder how anybody this white actually landed a smoking hot sistah (and she even has better credit than me — so the Chris Rock theory doesn’t apply here). LOL There’s actually a band that I like called “The Whitest Boy Alive” — that pretty much sums it up. LOL

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 2:01 PM | Link to this

Truth

the one restaraunt I always wanted to try but didnt was The Imperial Fez. Have one of you tried that place?

I took my wife there for one of her birthdays. It was good. Not cheap at all. Two people costs over $100. You get your food in courses (I think four or five),and I hope that you like cous cous.

The ambiance, though, is what you pay for. Belly dancers will dance for an additional price. Also, you sit on the floor.

By Blow Me

February 25, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this

Ared Girl you are funny. I have a love/hate blogship with you. Some weeks you are funny as hell. The others well…ya know. lol!

But at any rate: Besides, what you get is you and your mama. Didn’t you state she was gonna come first or at least tie? LOL

WOWZERS! I think I am gonna bring the saying OOOOOOOOOH SNAPPPPPPPPP!! back. You could have taking it a bit easy on him though. You know Dan is a bit special. lol!

By Dan

February 25, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this

@Truth

Point of order: it was women that tied the cost/location of food/dates to the azz, not men.

No gender battling, but there was a point in time (in our lifetimes) where sharing a meal or time out with someone became more about the “where” than the “who”. A time when a good meal(s) became the keys to the puddy. Guys played their positions, as usual to get the ladies.

Other than my inherent cheapness, this is the reason I don’t like “spending out”, not that I don’t have it (I really don’t long-run), but I don’t know if you’re at restaurant to be with me or if you’re with me because we’re at the restaurant.

And to add: I agree that spending time with an awesome chick is worth whatever money you put into it, but would you agree that those type of women are few and far between?

So let’s split the difference (IMO), you get fed, I get to get a sense of you (and vice versa)- the location shouldn’t matter.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 2:05 PM | Link to this

Cee

Plastic Wrap??…naw! Hahahaha

Don’t you remember Tommy Davidson nearly sufffocating himself in that movie Booty Call?…lol

Seriously, she has two cousins and three girlfriends that are HIV positive. Even though, a few of them got it through ways other than sex. It really was on her mind.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this

ARed You get a citation for using “daughters”, “psyche”, and “sexuality” in the same sentence.

Staceye Are you a ghost writer for Jazmine Sullivan?

“bust the windows out ya carrrr…”

“I’m not scared of lions, & tigers, & bears, but I’m scare of (lovin uuuuu). Not scared to perform at a sold-out affair, but I’m scared of (lovin’ uuuu)”

Those have Staceye written all over it. If she talks about Ireland in her next single, then we know it’s you. lol

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this

if a chick is fun to be with and I want to head out I’ll ask if she wants to go. Dont do that with chickenheads though. What I dont do is tie that into booty because thats lame to me. We go out, chill and break bread and if thats something we want to do its possible but not mandatory.

THIS IS WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY…but you said it better

@ared….miss you…cool…

By Dan

February 25, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this

@ARed

Yepper. She’d get me and my momma for the long haul, and I’d get her and her family too.

She’d also inherit my insatiable sexual appetite;

My flakiness;

My joy and my pain;

And I get whatever else she’s bringing with her into the relationship. Because that what we’re each signing up for…the good and the bad

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 2:12 PM | Link to this

Never been to Imperial Fez - I’ve heard good things about it though.

By Cumfortable-back by popular demand

February 25, 2009 2:13 PM | Link to this

Uhhh can be fallback on the disease sex talk and focus more on the feel good, peace-on-earth, goodwill towards men aspect? I mean we all know the consequences of irresponsibility in the arena of the get-down…I’m just saying…LOL

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 2:18 PM | Link to this

ah Swissie You is all white! I said that outloud as i typed it. So you know!!!

You’re my boy though!

By SlimOne aka Call da Po Po Ho

February 25, 2009 2:19 PM | Link to this

Wuzzzzzzuuuup! Too much ish on here to read right now. Where they hiding all the good D these dayz?

By M'Karyl

February 25, 2009 2:20 PM | Link to this

Popping in to say hey peeps!!!…reading through the blog…check y’all out manana!!!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 2:20 PM | Link to this

if a chick is fun to be with and I want to head out I’ll ask if she wants to go. Dont do that with chickenheads though.

Thank you Truth for breaking it down to where the men will understand. Which was my point…we ALL seem to have a methodiology where some folks are “deserving” of types of behaviors and activities than others.

Yeah, chickenheads don’t get options with you fellas. And for some women, the cut buddy can’t get the full monty. Seems logical to me!

Dan, she also gets Captain Obvious. Will he, you, your mama and her all fit in the bed? LOL

By Dan

February 25, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this

@ARed

Nope.

If all goes according to plan, we’ll each occupy our own wings in the home.

My ego and her shoes will have to share space though.

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 2:26 PM | Link to this

Dan the point of my example was that folks who are deeply involved where realness was concerned on many levels, (whether or not they try to convince themselves of this or not) are likely to feel some bitterness and may be even some disappointment (initially), while holding grudges are more long term. <—— which wasn’t my point.

Like trying to uproot a giant oak tree, there’s a struggle and obviously the shyt ain’t that easy to pull out….ish is deep. And this goes for an established and extremely deep relationship as well. If one can pull out so easily, then they weren’t really that into it…and the same may hold true on the outlook/perspective(s) of your SO. I wasn’t ref’ing folks on the street, friends, family, church folks, etc….but some you can not tell me that you actually would not take into account what your SO thought about you….even shortly after the fact.

After all, this thing is/was about you and her. Remember, we’re human first.

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S

February 25, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this

DAN YOU’RE SUCH AN ATTENTION WHOR3 . WELCOME TO THE ARENA MY CHILD.

WILL SHE HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR DIAPERS TOO AND DEAL WITH YOUR PEEING IN THE BED AS WELL?

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this

Everyone knows I have a blog crush on Truth…lol u better come out then,expilitly and claim him.Dont be busting in and trying to scuttle whats festering…..u in with Truth or not.If u are,give him the digits coz other females need to know….if not,move this way>>>

Melo you should write Erotica, I think you’d be good at it thanx baby.Ill have to read the zane 1st so i see what my competetion is like..appreciate it.BTW,im better in person,in case u wanna try dis…

Imperial Fez me not there either,all i hear is its moroccan dishes.Smeone with the inside?

* I’d do is give her the gift of high self esteem. She’ll have to come to terms with her own libido* well said!

August 29,the date is etched in my medula Swiss.I be there as the other cousin,cme hail,cme wind,cme thunder.Fam will be there at that hotel enjoying breakfast and I be peeping to check the bridal chics and popping in and out of sight.

I feel Rell tho on the chcis that take ur money as entiltement.I hit OSS solo this weekend.I dance with this chic and i complement her on her designer ta tas.Hw about shes asking me to take her outside so we can talk.What in fact shes doing is angling for me to buy her a drink,may be talk too,i dont know!I said NOPE,i aint done with dazzling my skills on this floor yet,so just go on,i will see u later. Who wants to be stuck with a girl in ther when every time u turn and dont check ur hands properly,u land them on some ta tas or booty or both?? But i buy strange women drinks every time i go out and i always come outa pocket 40/60$$ smetimes.Nothing beats good company,nice discourse and sme sexxy lady flirting with u all nite and then me dismissing her later and saying,hugg..eeghh,eegh,see u later sweetie Priceless!!

Whatchu doing memorial CEE,Staceye??

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 2:31 PM | Link to this

Dan understood. I’m not talking about some chick I just met that had an apple bottom and I want to hit it. I’m talking about chicks that have great convo and I know already. The good thing about being a dude is we can ALWAYS meet chicks that want to up their game, want to do something with their lives. They dont have a problem learning from you if you can teach them.

Ex: When I was at RE/MAX it was the sista’s pushing the envelope trying to earn more and learn more. The bruh’s wound up dropping off because they couldnt keep up. Sure there’s always busted chicks out there but its my job to avoid those at all costs. If I get bamboozled its on me.

Also, a chick wants you to take her out to show that you’re interested. If you are you go, if not then dont. What I wont do is ask a chick out then wonder if I’ve simped or slipped or whatever happened. If she beats me for a meal I hope she enjoyed it but I’m not less the man for it. Ish happens and we all have setbacks. For me its over as soon as I pay for the tab.

If me and Ared were talking on the phone and Imperial Fez came up and we both mentioned we’d wanted to go I’d set it up. No booty attached but lets go eat this food and enjoy the ambiance and each others company. Thats the joy of being grown, $50 doesnt make or break me.

Sometimes when you’re contemplating if you should or shouldnt do something based on cost think of how much it will cost you if you dont do it. When you’re old and grey you can look back at all your achievements and your mess ups. Smile at both.

UPDATE Poppa Two people costs over $100. For $100 someones giving up azz. Dont know who but someone is. LMAO

By Mo (aka Moeisha) - waiting to hit NC for the weekend

February 25, 2009 2:32 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli/Kym I want to try salsa as well so please keep a sistah posted on that!

Cemeeli loved Two Urban Licks, you should enjoy. I’ve gone before concerts mostly (no particular reason) but I like it

Truth I LOVE Maggianos! And Lil Mo likes the leftovers cause I always have some!

Wassup SlimOne! How’s it going?

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this

…and I will now say that I officially have a headache and it’s not even from paying my dues…

Anybody got an Alieve at their desk?

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 2:35 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Soflty i’m crying. Mrs. G has it closer to home. I had a cousin that died from it. IT was not confirmed but my paternal family members think it was from that.

Slim…Ah, the strip club still open sis? What’s up?

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this

Cee — Well, not all white… There are a couple of areas where I, um, differ from the average whiteboy. I mean, swiss miss is marrying me, after all. ;-) LOL

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 2:37 PM | Link to this

Hw about shes asking me to take her outside so we can talk.What in fact shes doing is angling for me to buy her a drink,may be talk too,i dont know!

melo, you don’t know. And what is the big deal. If she was expecting a drink (which I doubt) and you didn’t provide one, trust me…she’ll live.

By Dan

February 25, 2009 2:38 PM | Link to this

@Jamo

I don’t think I would.

In the end what she thinks is irrelevant to the rest of my life, esp. now that she disengaged from it.

I don’t give a fugg (for me) means just that.

I don’t give a fugg.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 2:38 PM | Link to this

AR

I think that those smut books…I mean “romance” novels give her ideas as well. Although I am not a fan of Zane, the wife will read one of those books every blue moon.

Also, we have watched pornos together and said let’s try it. Somethings work and somethings don’t. You laugh about it, scratch it off the list, and move on about your day.

She knows that I like creative things like role play. It helps make the old kitty seem like new kitty. The same old same ole isn’t fun. Along with the catsuit, she has nurses uniform, cops uniform, etc. She knows what I like. I think it goes somewhat to what Kym posted earlier. It is one of the things we do to stay together. This May makes 10 years of marriage.

FWIW, for her, it is about places. The possibility of getting caught drives her crazy.(According to her,it goes back to her feelings about not caring what society thinks.)

Yeah, there were somethings that she did after the marriage that I didn’t experience before. I just think that it wasn’t the act and what that made her hold back, I think that it was the person and the trust of that person. With just about all people, trust is something that has to be earned. Once I earned it, she let loose more.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 2:44 PM | Link to this

Poppa I feel her. My past is pretty checkered but I’ve lucked out without anything major. I dont want to push my luck anymore. It’s overwhelming to think of the the stuff thats out there. I’ve got great memories but the party is over, someone turn out the lights.

Cum shaking my finger at you. You have to include the std talk nowadays. I know it kills the mood but its better than not having it.

Mo you from NC? I love NC women. Now I understand my attraction to you. LOL I’m heading that way tomorrow. Going to Virginia to drop the dogs off.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 2:44 PM | Link to this

Truth

That price was the price in 2002. I don’t know the current price. For that price, I’d rather go to Fogo de Chao. Fogo is a place for true carnivores. Don’t that a salad and water female there. You will be upset. The salad bar is nice at Fogo but not $50 worth of salad good.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this

If me and Ared were talking on the phone and Imperial Fez came up and we both mentioned we’d wanted to go I’d set it up. No booty attached but lets go eat this food and enjoy the ambiance and each others company. Thats the joy of being grown, $50 doesnt make or break me

Truth, exactly. But some of these dudes act like you’re asking for their left nut. LOL

By Dan

February 25, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this

@Truth

Simpin is a concern for the unenlightened. Remember Bronx Tales?

“So what he owes you $5, if that’s all it cost to get him out of your life, you spent the $5 well”.

I’m not tripping on the price of the meal, I’m not even tripping on the drinks, what I’m getting at to all that…for what? I’mma have the same conversation with her whether we eating shrimp and sipping Pina Coooolotta’s or a kickin with a two piece in the boof at KFC.

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this

There are a couple of areas where I, um, differ from the average whiteboy. I mean, swiss miss is marrying me, after all.

Swiss now that’s ^^^^ some real, right there! Boy you crazy!

Hey Mo!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this

I just think that it wasn’t the act and what that made her hold back, I think that it was the person and the trust of that person. With just about all people, trust is something that has to be earned. Once I earned it, she let loose more.

PG, this was my point from the beginning. If you read otherwise, you were mistaken.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this

• Whew….just got back from the gym burning off some the “energy” I got from MELO’s and TRUTH’s posts.* Glad to see y’all still going at it.

Two people costs over $100. For $100 someones giving up azz. Dont know who but someone is. LMFAO

You must be used to me spendin’… and all this sweet winin’ and dinin’, well I’m phukin you tonight.

There are a couple of areas where I, um, differ from the average whiteboy. Ooooh what that mean?…

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this

Poppa like your wife…I fear STD’s! So folks just having casual sex got my balls than I do.

Dreams You never know man…I write plenty of songs!

Aw Swizzie….it’s ok boo! I love Rock & Alternative music too!LOL

Um…Melo will be at your wedding singing….”She your queeeeen to-oo beeee. A vision of perfection”….LOL

Melo I usually go to Miami Memorial weekend. Why…what’s up?

**

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 2:48 PM | Link to this

$50 doesnt make or break me.

-FEZ IS MORE THAN THAT….LOL

and truth i do the same thing..but come on dawg the chicks that will chirp in after you guys are going good like…so when are you taking me out…or what are we doing this weekend…like did i ask you out….i am busy….thats what i mean…

By Dan

February 25, 2009 2:49 PM | Link to this

@PG

Congrats on the 10 years!

By SlimOne aka Call da Po Po Ho

February 25, 2009 2:50 PM | Link to this

Mo Howdy!

Cee skrip club probably not open now. lol It was cool in there Friday but a buddy of one of the dudes I went with was getting dances he couldn’t pay for. One minute he was there, the next he was gone. lololol

Slim wondering how the hayo you take a lap dance back for not being fresh?

On topic As far as FWB, I’ve been there done that and it was some of the best D i’ve ever had. However, due to the circumstances emotions was not supposed to be a part of the equation. FWB sucks when you are SOOOO attracted to the person and have such an explosive chemisty that you soon start wanting to connect on an emotional level because it seems it can only be a benefit of giving you more of a 1-up to the endorphins you’re already getting. You’re chasing that high and looking for a way to sustain that awesome feeling longer…women do this with allowing feelings to develop. I guess men’s equivalent would be to just ask you to come over and jump jump on the D more often. lol So IMO to have that wild hot bukket nekkid sex and have the element of an emotional connection can only make things better.

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

Cee — I may be a whiteboy, but I keeps it real. ;-) LOL

Melo — You know, there are several of the bridesmaids who are on the prowl. Your odds are good. BTW… the more I think about it, the more a blog bachelor party sounds like the best possible idea. Who’s gonna hook brother(in-law) up? I know between you, Truth & some others, the MLB could send me off in style. LOL

Staceye — I bet you could rock some black lipstick & nail polish. LOL

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this

melo,you don’t know I dnt mind buying a woman im talking to a drink Ared,infact i do it willingly most times.There are times when u get the wrong vibe and this was it.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this

Dan

Thanks.

Like Kym posted, it hasn’t been all biscuits and gravy. But, it hasn’t been horrible either.

The thing is when we were so cordial to each other or experiencing rocky times, it seems that life has a way of making the rubber meet the road. One time, we were really not getting along well & almost down right nasty to each other. Then her grandma died, being there for her during that time matter more than anything. Also, as a result of the rocky times, we appreciate the good times even more.

Truth

I wasn’t telling you the price of Imperial of deter you. I wanted you to be prepared so you were shocked when you see the bill. I know you, in particular, are watching this economy so you know what credit did to it. So you know to be prepared.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 2:59 PM | Link to this

Rell/Dan I understand what both of you are saying and agree, to a point. The thing is at our age we know going in the door whats out there. We know when a chick is playing us. Its all about choices. Now Dan, I like eating at nice spots too so if I’m feeling a chick then thats what we’re gonna do. However, if I’m driving by Ms Winners to pick something up she better order before I roll up the window or that opportunity is lost. LOL

Swiss your a wild dude. LMAO

poppa congrats on the 10.

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

February 25, 2009 2:59 PM | Link to this

Truth Sorry I am a native GA girl , scrait from the Dec! Going to NC for the CIAA tournament and to hang with the chicas! C’mon and admit it, you just like my 5-footed-ness. ;0)

Cemeeli wassup chica, how are ya?

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 3:02 PM | Link to this

Swiss …have you ever tried that Jack Daneils sauce on Swiss Miss? Lol…i had a dish last night that’ll make you think like that.

One minute he was there, the next he was gone.

Slim How folks get a dance/show with no singles?

By Dan

February 25, 2009 3:02 PM | Link to this

Slim got strung out….hahaha

Wassupper chick?

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 3:04 PM | Link to this

The Truth love your 2:31 - some days I want to kick you for your comments, but not that one ;-)

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:06 PM | Link to this

PG, congrats to you and my Sorors on 10 years. What a blessing.

And it’s also good to know that birth control can work for the long term. Yeesssss!!! lol

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this

Poppa money doesn’t concern me. Melo let me borrow a hundred bucks til my stimulus check gets in. Ared what you doing around 8 this evening? LOL

Dreams btw what are you and Ared gonna do? This should be in the works. Let us kow if you need to pass the plate around.

Mo you know I loves me some vertically challenged Mo Mo. Hmmm Hmmm Hmmm

By Dan

February 25, 2009 3:08 PM | Link to this

@Truth

Agreed on all points.

Look at you gettin all tender and committal…right before you break out!!!

I love it

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 3:10 PM | Link to this

Mo Tryna produce on this her’ slave row of mine. :) How are you gurl?

PoppaG Happy 10th Anniversary! Am i to getr some aluminum foil and wrap it up all nicey?

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 3:10 PM | Link to this

I’mma have the same conversation with her whether we eating shrimp and sipping Pina Coooolotta’s or a kickin with a two piece in the boof at KFC

I dont know about that Dan.So ambience,setting,service,all that dont set off ur mental in some form, shape or fashion.And u with a good,good girl? Ofcourse,everyting depends on how u set the stage be4 u agreed to hit the nice spot once,twice or thrice.U also have to mix the play a lil and not follow the same play all the time.And a female thats feeling u to the point of wanting to get hit will fill u in.U may miss the clues if u lame.There may not need be a 2nd visit to the 5 star be4 u hit.She may even say,Oh Dan,I wanna cme to ur spot and chill this sat.What u gonna say?? Oh,lets hit that 5 star again???? U wld be lame for that.

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 3:10 PM | Link to this

“…have you ever tried that Jack Daneils sauce on Swiss Miss?”

Cee — Jack Daniels sauce, eh? Well, I like Jack Daniels. And I love p-dussy. So I can’t imagine why I wouldn’t enjoy Jack Daniels sauce on Swiss Miss’s p-dussy. LOL

Now where did I put my Kroger Plus card?

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 3:14 PM | Link to this

AR

PG, this was my point from the beginning. If you read otherwise, you were mistaken.

I understood. Just trying to make it clearer.

As for the visual, think of Elton Brand saying “Duh”…lol. I’ve actually been mistaken for him a couple of times. I think that he is taller than me though.

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 3:15 PM | Link to this

For $100 someones giving up azz. Dont know who but someone is was this in ur 2.31 Truth?? ..Tazz says she likes it,i can hook u up with her add…lol

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 3:18 PM | Link to this

Tazz love your 2:31 - some days I want to kick you for your comments, but not that one ;-) Dam. I thought we had a love/love relationship. didnt know it was love hate. I’ll temper my comments or just putt up my Tazzy block for the offensive ones. LOL

Dan lmao. Thats not it bruh. Just times are a changing. Gotta stay ahead of the curve.

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this

melo I should have known you were going to say something! Right after I hit post I wanted a do-over to exclude that part - with your nasty tail in mind, LOL.

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this

Melo I usually go to Miami Memorial weekend. Why…what’s up

I was thinking u cld hang around and do sme different.United nations in the A that weekend.!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:20 PM | Link to this

Dreams btw what are you and Ared gonna do? This should be in the works. Let us kow if you need to pass the plate around.

Truth, what are you my pimp?! LOL.

Yeah, I’ll see you at dinner, bub. I’ll be the one ordering the whole right side of the menu. lol

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 3:22 PM | Link to this

Sh-a-zayum!

Swissie You silly mayne! I had the suace for dinner and i think you just might try it; so here.

1 tsp onion powder 1 tblspn tabasco sauce 2 tblspn rd wine vinegar Jack Daniel’s (1/4 cup) 2 cups brownsugar 2 beef bouillon cubes 2 tblspns Worcestershire sauce

Now i had to hook-uo the waiter for that one. So use it! I am.

By Sassy Me

February 25, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this

Dang MELO you ain’t pimpin’ ole girl out is you? LOL

The Jack Daniels sauce is da bomb. Actually I have a brother who is a chef and I gave him a bbq sauce box set and it had that in it. He cooked for us and we all loved it. I got the set from Walmart for $10 and thought it was a good deal b/c there were two other types of sauces (jabanero and something else) as well as a really nice brush.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 3:26 PM | Link to this

Ar

And it’s also good to know that birth control can work for the long term. Yeesssss!!! lol

lol….yes it can. Both people have to agree to it.

Lately, if my wife starts the baby talk, I just volunteer us to babysit my brother-in-law’s (her brother) 18 month old twin girls. One evening of that is birth control, too. They sweet as molasses but now that they walk, it is a whole new ballgame. ..lol.

By Beautiful

February 25, 2009 3:27 PM | Link to this

happy anniversary poppa bear!

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

Melo let me borrow a hundred bucks,..Truth, im investing my tax refund to educational training,starting this saturday,for the next 6 weeks.My plan is to be ready be4 and by the time companies ramp up their capital budgets to deploy additional software tools,when this thing turns around. If im not making $150.00 to $500.00 by the hour by xmas time next year,u can all call me for being a failure. But im getting started.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

Melo you know Tazzy aint no $100 buck kinda chick. You gotta bring the full monty to hang with her. LOL

Ared whats wrong with me coordinating a little love fest. Y’all will realize I have those guru skillz when you see my work.

Poppa/Ared mysterious thing those birth control pills. Seems they work alot better when you actually take them. SMH

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this

Sassy I know. I was dreaming about that sauce girl. I’m not gon’ tell it was for real! in the dream too!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this

Truth, now you know melo ain’t trickin off cash unless you’re a cute girl on hard times. Or at least have a hard times story. LOL.

melo, what ever happened to that single mom you were sponsoring? LOL

PG, it’s my uterus, all I have to do is agree to it. LOL

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this

2 Urban Licks is pretty good. I recommend the Lamb Lollipops. Rachel Ray ate there for her “$40 dollars a day” show her in the ATL.

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this

I don’t think I would.

I don’t give a fugg (for me) means just that. I don’t give a fugg. <—-an attitude like this one going in, does not look like one who’d be seriously considering taking on any contract that reads —> “til death”. Not a bad thing either when deciding to roll solo.

In the end what she thinks is irrelevant to the rest of my life, esp. now that she disengaged from it. <—- Point missed and therefore dropped. I’m done riding the merry go round on this one. I think I’mma need an extra shot of Kahlua Especial in my dbl shot of buttery nipples. Ju-Ju you’re treatin’ right?

By i'm swiss

February 25, 2009 3:36 PM | Link to this

Cee — Oh, you didn’t literally mean on her. My bad. ;-)

That does sound tasty though — I’ll have to try that next time I cook for us. I may have to add a little habanero, though. Swiss Miss likes it when I bring the heat. Island chica, and all.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:37 PM | Link to this

whats wrong with me coordinating a little love fest. Y’all will realize I have those guru skillz when you see my work.

Truth, so I guess this means you’re not in the running? :-D

What makes you think Dreams’ pimp game ain’t strong? LOL

By Raqi

February 25, 2009 3:39 PM | Link to this

“Soon to be Poppa” when they start walking is when the fun really starts. LOL

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 3:39 PM | Link to this

Truth

*mysterious thing those birth control pills. *

True…but since June 2007, the wife has worn that patch thingy.

AR

LOL..You know what I mean. Make sure that he wants it, too.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:41 PM | Link to this

I’m done riding the merry go round on this one.

Jamoca, girl, props to you for riding that one as long as you did. LOL

By Tazzee

February 25, 2009 3:44 PM | Link to this

PoppaG for some reason I didn’t enjoy Two Urban Licks when I went. It could have been the company because everyone else seems to like it.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:45 PM | Link to this

PG, that’s yet another thing I’m saving for a husband. Kids. Cuz won’t even consider one otherwise. LOL.

Glad that patch worked for the wife. One of my friends said she’d wake up and it be stuck to her boyfriend. That can’t be good. LOL

By For Real

February 25, 2009 3:46 PM | Link to this

What up blog fam! Let me see what’s happen in here:

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this

Swiss I bet you could rock some black lipstick & nail polish! Sure could…and I do sometimes.

Um Jack Daniels near my chocha….OUCH! The mere thought of that hurts! LOL

Aw Mo is tiny! LOL

Melo If I am here for Memorial weekend you know I do the Caribbean parade and all di parties!

PG I feel you bruh…anytime I think I may want a kid…I babysit or go out and hear screaming kids and that btchslaps me back to reality real quick! LOL Yes..the cuteness is gone when they start walking and geting and getting into sht!

By Elijah makes it Happen!

February 25, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this

Hello Sassy!

Welcome back with your saucy vibrant talk! You had a lot of men excited with the luv of the cowgirl maneuver! LOL

Truth: I see the change grasshopper! Addition from those all out gang bang in the service has finally worn off!

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 3:48 PM | Link to this

Ared you’ve already excluded me due to my “advanced years”. Plus I’m leaving the spot. I know Dreams has a tight game, one of the tightest in blogsville for sure. He’ll take good care of you. Hey, did you just try to play me for some Imperial Fez? LMAO

By Dan

February 25, 2009 3:51 PM | Link to this

@Jamo

It’s too late in the day anyway..hopefully I can explain myself better at another time.

By NYCUTIE-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com

February 25, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this

I didn’t enjoy Two Urban Licks when I went there as well.. They don’t clean their shrimps and that drives me BANANANNNAAAASSS!!!

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this

Tazzee

If you don’t like your company, it could affect it.

When you go seems to matter with them, too.

We have gone on Mondays and a Fridays. I think that it just much better on Monday. They aren’t as crowded and aren’t in a rush.

Raqi

* when they start walking is when the fun really starts. LOL*

LOL..no, we liked it better when we put them on the bed for a nap and they stay there. Now, we have to watch them. Those girls are some fast ones, I tell ya.

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 3:53 PM | Link to this

what ever happened to that single mom you were sponsoring? LOL shes around.She celebrated her birthday on satrday.Shes my friend Ared.Just like u are too altho i aint spend mney on u yet…

Dang MELO you ain’t pimpin’ ole girl out is you? LOL i keep pretty good company of eligible bachelors in ma circle.Lemme know if anybody out there is really hard up.Buit for me to speak authoritatively about ur neck game,u gotta give me a demo…all i ask.. Congrats on the 10 Poppa.Ten years on the pill aint happening in african circles,esp in southern africa.Six months in the marriage,they wl be asking,is she showing anything yet,no bulge?? One year,2 years..10 yrs? u kidding,the Big Aunties will be saying,cousin Tyrone or lil bro Ray Ray shld go in Big Poppa house and hit the shytt outa Miss Poppa’s yams,when Big Poppa goes to DC to do that legal case And ur miss will be well schooled on the low low about what to say when u find out shes prego.That shytt runs deep in my fam.We cant have designer marriages like that…we marry to procreate and keep the tradtiton alive. One of our cousins once said to my grand daddy,oh,that boy/son of urs looks like ur big bro So and So And the grand daddy replied,a’int SO and SO a Zulu*.That killed the discussion.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 3:58 PM | Link to this

Ared you’ve already excluded me due to my “advanced years”.

Truth, you were hot enough to get a pass on that one. Older guys are good with me. I had to let you go cuz you said you’d never marry me. sniff

Dreams will ease the pain. LMAO.

Shes my friend Ared.Just like u are too altho i aint spend mney on u yet

melo, I love how you used the word “yet.” You haven’t gotten any azz from her either? Woooow. lol

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 4:01 PM | Link to this

Ared One of my friends said she’d wake up and it be stuck to her boyfriend. That can’t be good. LMAO

Elijah yep, time to hang up the boots and get me a little Miss Missy before I wind up with something that cant be medicated. LOL

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:01 PM | Link to this

the Big Aunties will be saying,cousin Tyrone or lil bro Ray Ray shld go in Big Poppa house and hit the shytt outa Miss Poppa’s yams,when Big Poppa goes to DC to do that legal case

melo, your stories are freakin HILARIOUS!!!

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

Swiss/Stac Ah, the Jack Daniel sauce is for anything BUT down there.

PoppaG My gf said TUL has a nice ambeience (sp). I’ll go. She mentioned the protions too. More like beautiful food verses alot of food.

By mytwocents

February 25, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

Scuse me… he rejected the idea of the act from a loved one.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

Truth can I borrow that hunnet that you just borrowed from Melo? Hey ARed you wanna go to Imperial Fez? Damn, how we go from El Pollo Loco to Imperial Fez? Inflation at its best. What’s your schedule looking like ARed? Hit me dreamsmaterialize@yahoo.com

By mytwocents

February 25, 2009 4:03 PM | Link to this

Scuse me… he rejected the idea of the act from a loved one.

By Raqi

February 25, 2009 4:04 PM | Link to this

It could have been the company

Tazzee that statement is so true in so many ways. A bad companion, giving off a bad vibe can ruin any day.

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 4:04 PM | Link to this

Ared Dreams will ease the pain. Way to make me feel secure in our relationship. ROFLMAO

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this

Way to make me feel secure in our relationship. ROFLMAO

Truth Well, you know I’m only in in for a ring!!! You killed that dream. LOL

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 4:08 PM | Link to this

Melo

Trust me.. we heard the “where are the babies?” talk at least during the first 5 years. But, they don’t mention it much now. They realized that we will do what we want. That is the good thing about America., freedom to do as you please.

Hell, we were asked about kids at the wedding reception. So, we’ve been hounded about it. My mom recently gave me a package with my baby booties in it. Hint/hint.

If they were to come, we wanna put the kids and us in the best situation possible. We’d like to be able to both spend time and have money to support them. We aren’t like the Octomom. We know that kids have needs and they aren’t cheap.

Some kids have parental support but little financial support. Others get financial support, but very rarely see the parents because the parents are always working. There has to be a balance and we aren’t at a point where we could balance it the way that we’d like.

So we do talk about it, and I love that about her. She never once assumed that I wanted a kid just because I was with her. We discuss it first. We know what causes kids.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this

Hey ARed you wanna go to Imperial Fez?

Dreams, well since YOU just offered…sure why not? Ha!

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 4:15 PM | Link to this

Dreams Truth can I borrow that hunnet that you just borrowed from Melo? Yeah, here’s the rocks Melo gave me. Said they were zulu money. SMH

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 4:15 PM | Link to this

You haven’t gotten any azz from her either? Woooow. lol

A vulture is a very patient bird, Ared.Thats a James Hardly Chase classic title and I follow the rules of the masters whove gone be4 me.

Hit me dreamsmaterialize@yahoo.com ive seen that post to her 2wice now Dreams.Be smooth wit it,no loud dressing and hollaering.When it happens,it happens…

I do the Caribbean parade and all di parties! wrk with me if u can.

Two Urban Licks where,what they paly there??

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 4:16 PM | Link to this

Jamoca, girl, props to you for riding that one as long as you did. LOL

ARed I was thinking the same thing. Rough rider rides ‘em rough, but unfortunately was getting no where fast. I’m a little dizzy myself. lol

Dan Knowing this “place” the opportunity to further discuss this will present itself once again. Today just wasn’t it.

PoppaGrande I see Staceye’s voodoo spell is taking it’s toll on you and the Mrs. Btw, I’ve been told sweet potatoes/yams have been linked to increasing fertility in women. lol ….and Happy Aniversary

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:19 PM | Link to this

Yeah, here’s the rocks Melo gave me. Said they were zulu money. SMH

Truth LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

melo, get all the azz you want from your queen. Leave that poor girl alone. You’re helping her out, despite your motives. So just leave it at that! lol

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 4:21 PM | Link to this

AR

One of my friends said she’d wake up and it be stuck to her boyfriend. That can’t be good.

No…female birth control pills (commly contain a lot of progestogen ) can make a man sterile. It tells the brain to not make sperm and it kills a man’s sex drive.Not saying that it will but it can. But she would get the same desired result….no children. I know that there are different types of bc, though. It just depends.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:22 PM | Link to this

ive seen that post to her 2wice now Dreams.Be smooth wit it,no loud dressing and hollaering.When it happens,it happens…

melo, the El Pollo Loco plan moved slower than the Imperial Fez plan. A sista will get on the good foot for that. LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this

ARed My offer is contingent on the $100 that I will get from Truth, which is contingent on him getting it from Melo, which is contingent on how much he spent at Strokers for his bday last week.

Otherwise, we can sit on the floor at your pole class and have Staceye belly dance while we eat some El Pollo Loco.

By Blow Me

February 25, 2009 4:25 PM | Link to this

2 URBAN LICKS That’s my spot. I haven’t been there in a while. Nice ambience and a decent price. They have fresh beer on tap and a nice wine selection. It’s amazing what you can find in the cut in midtown and virginia highlands..its another world out there.

By SlimOne aka Call da Po Po Ho

February 25, 2009 4:26 PM | Link to this

I was at Two Urban Licks last Friday.

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 4:29 PM | Link to this

Jam

The wife hates sweet potatoes. I love them. It apparently doesn’t make me more fertile.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

Dreams, you should have stated the contengencies before I accepted. Too late. Break bread fool! lol

By For Real

February 25, 2009 4:33 PM | Link to this

Zippppppppp Who Said Two Urban Licks?

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 4:37 PM | Link to this

@melo…dude you a simp fa real…have not spent money yet…on some chick you neva meet…she could be the worst eva!!!

@for real…i spend dude…i just do it wisely…and i dont mind spending on a lady…have done that in the past and will continue…i just dont jump at the chance to throw cash at a problem…lol…you get nouns, verbs, and adjectives with me….period dot…

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 4:39 PM | Link to this

For Real You are a complete fool! LMAO

Dreams How you gonna have me dancing at the Crazy Chicken? LOL Hey…as long as you tip me well with $20’s and up!

By Rell - Since 1972

February 25, 2009 4:42 PM | Link to this

@dreams….good luck homie on your ared pursuit…set it up and lets us now how ms mouth of the south acts in public….lol

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 4:44 PM | Link to this

there were somethings that she did after the marriage that I didn’t experience before. I just think that it wasn’t the act and what that made her hold back, I think that it was the person and the trust of that person. With just about all people, trust is something that has to be earned. Once I earned it, she let loose more.

this was good. and i’m reminded.

PoppaG I can understand your wife’s point in “role play” verses “get caught”. I’m not afraid to try, or scary of heights. THat Six Flags ‘Sky Bucket’ one day is goning to have Cee’s prints left on it one day. Lol along some other spots i’ve file awasy I like doing “we’ll get caught places”. Let’s see what happens.

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:44 PM | Link to this

Rell, lighten up. He’s not gonna be giving anyone money he’s never met.

Besides, you’ve seen simping days before. Let folks do them. lol

By The Truth aka Faithful til the End

February 25, 2009 4:46 PM | Link to this

Dreams Dreams, you should have stated the contengencies before I accepted. Too late. Break bread fool! lol Legally she’s right. An oral contract is legally binding until reduced to writing. Sorry we got you in this mess dude but dont look for any bailout money from Melo. He blew his wad at lunch on some chick with 12 kids that needed her lights turned on. You’re on your own with this one. BTW, I hear Ared eats a helluvalot.

Ared Break bread fool! LMAO

By THE MELO

February 25, 2009 4:48 PM | Link to this

she could be the worst eva nah,u just saying that coz in ur gut of guts,i see u angling for her too.If u talk nice with me, ill let u hit.U the one in da dry spot currently.And with this chill,cant be golfing in da bed for long,gotta burn some azz.

Thre is no playa here on earth,that dont burn currency,neva! U wanna hit,u gotta play and then hit.I dnt like hitting a tense lady,thats cruel and painful to my dyckk too.Let her untense Rell.Makes the slope slide much more pleasurable. Good nite yall !!!

By Jamoca

February 25, 2009 4:48 PM | Link to this

PoppaGrande That’s why I made it a point to say —-> * I’ve been told* sweet potatoes/yams have been linked to increasing fertility in women. lol We’ll sounds like she’s out of the clear, for now…and you men don’t count. It’s not like you all need any help, especially being that on average you all (well a normal male at least) release at approximately 50 million or better from one ejaculation at that.

And to think, you’re considered subfertile if it’s 20 million or less that is released. Doesn’t sound like ya’ll need ANY help at all. LMAO

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:49 PM | Link to this

set it up and lets us now how ms mouth of the south acts in public….lol

Rell, still looking for a recap. pisces08 gave you some intel. What you need more people? lol

By DreamsMaterialize

February 25, 2009 4:49 PM | Link to this

ARed Too late. Break bread fool! Did you just get Cali Crip on me? Thought you was from the other side of Crenshaw. lol

Staceye Dammit I’m tryna keep this thing cheap! Do a brotha a favor. lol

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 4:50 PM | Link to this

Oh -

I’on wanna see ya’ll line up at the Sky Bucket at Six Flags now!

haha…I said that is Cee’s spot! Cain’t be waiting in line. NO one goes to the ride much anymore. So now!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:54 PM | Link to this

If u talk nice with me, ill let u hit.

needle scratches, uh melo, excuse me? Now I know a lot of us get confused about what you mean, so please clarify before I cut ya.

Dreams, I did get a little Cali Crip for a second, but I thought you fellas liked a woman who could adapt to all situations. LOL.

back to valley girl lol

By Poppa Grande

February 25, 2009 4:55 PM | Link to this

Cee

The only problem though is that she isn’t a 6’8” easily identifiable dude. If we ever got caught they definitely would remember me. She is 5’2”. There are plenty of chicks with that height.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 25, 2009 4:56 PM | Link to this

Dreams Sorry bruh…gotta pay to play! LOL These hips (ok I don’t have much…I’m all booty) ain’t free!

By AmazonRed

February 25, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this

Legally she’s right. An oral contract is legally binding until reduced to writing.

Dreams, Truth is saying he’ll break your legs if I don’t get my way. LOL. Yeah, I’ma bring him some rolls.

By Cemeeli

February 25, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Lol That’s true. But trust me - do it- You wont get caught.

By abc

February 25, 2009 5:07 PM | Link to this

Busy day, just now taking a look at the blog.

Intimacy is not sex; sex is not intimacy. Intimacy has to do more with trust, understanding your partner’s feelings, hopes, dreams, thoughts, and caring about them; the rather clinical portrayals of sex such as often appear here are self-descriptive enough, and rather pointedly disregard such things.

Sex with intimacy is obviously much more satisfying than without it. Without intimacy, sex is nothing more than its own reward. Maybe that’s enough for some people. Sometimes it’s all one wants. People are better served to resist simple carnal desire, and hold out for intimacy instead.

By For Real

February 25, 2009 5:08 PM | Link to this

PG isn Mrs. PG getting their swerve on in public…

MPG: Ohhh Left Foot I been dreaming about this!

PG: Me too Pinky Toe.

Meanwhile a bystander squinting his eyes at the two.

Bystander: HEY LOOK AT THAT GROWN AZZ MAN MOLESTING THAT LIL GIRL!!!